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Prayers Section => Sai Baba Help Me => Confession Box => Topic started by: KaushikN on October 26, 2011, 07:47:11 AM
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Dear Sai,
I have been suffering from this Bad Habit for the past 13 years. No matter however hard i try i am unable to overcome it. I do not know what i have to do. I feel tempted even at the slightest thought. I have no faith any more despite the million times You and the Lord warning me. Some times i wish that i never had this habit at all. If i don' t over come it then a soul will fall down. To so many devotees you are a beacon of Hope and Faith. I never really asked you for anything materialistic, but my only desire was to overcome this monster that lives within me, but i failed not once but a million times. All of Divinity will be angry at me for what i have done. I don't see any future for me like this. It has ruined my health and now it is about to take over my life as well. My only last hope is you. I want to be your devotee in whatever way possible. Just guide me out. I see no other help from any one. If told to Doctors, they say that i have a mental problem including my parents.. My last hope is You, Sai. Help me. Guide me. I really feel jealous to see all those devotees who throng you with devotion in their hearts. My Heart yearns for you Love. Without it i am nothing. I want to be devoted to you Baba for ever and there is nothing else that i need. Sometimes i wish i was born when you were alive so that i could have lived serving you. Help me....
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Dear Kaushik,
I can understand your problem as well pain. You have trying to overcome your habit for years but of no use. You know habits cannot be removed from life, but yes they can be replaced. Evil by Divine. Bad by Good, Negative by Positive. There are two types of Bad Habits One where you cause Loss or Pain to others like stealing money, Second where you hurt yourself as smoking or drinking (Even indirectly have an impact on your family).
A small technique yet effective sharing with you. E.g. One has a bad habit to waste time in useless TV Programs, they can replace this with habit of reading good books. No overnight miracles. First shut TV in breaks instead of changing channels then slowly reducing time and increasing reading time. Same way if I want to reduce number of cups of coffee I drink per day. E.g. 4 Cups, I replace 2 cups with Tea, Then further reducing one cup of coffee and one cup of tea with warm water. And this way changed habits from 4 cup of coffee to 1 cup of coffee per day.
All habits are not bad, like rising early in the morning, Walking etc. But what is bad must be replaced. It sounds easy and simple but in fact not so, as it required lots of patience and determination.
Taking to physical or Mental status, Know there is always difference in disease or habit. There is nothing permanent. Even our body is also a type of machine. It consumes fuel through what We eat or drink. Keep on charging. Like you can change configuration of your PC, Hard drive, RAM, ROM, Operating Systems etc, Same with physical body and mind. Change in weight, thinking patterns, emotions by training and discipline of your mind in certain limits.
Further You can search on Google on various techniques to make change in habits and apply what you feel most effective with positive mind and complete faith on Baba Sai. Success will be gained.
May Baba Bless You!
om sri sai ram!
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KaushikN jee ur problem is in fact easy if I'am correct. Breathe normally but while exhaling just breathe out totally pull the stomach inwards do it 10-`15 times u will get out of this habit
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Thank you, both. Thank you for your kind words and inspiration. I'll definitely will try to over this habit by BABA's grace. Let BABA's will be done and not mine
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OM SAI RAM KAUSHIK JI
sai ram
aapki habit dheere dheere jayegi...aap regular every thursday sai baba temple jayiye or vaha koi sai devotee se thodi baat kijiye,,apne view exchange kijiye ,,aapko bohot sukun milega,, baba blees u and ur family
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Gauri21 jee Kaushik Sahab kee problem sukun kee nahin hai,