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Offline saisan

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Re: I HAVE LOST
« Reply #30 on: July 20, 2009, 11:50:06 PM »
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  • om sai ram
    i am ok, left with only 2 options waiting and praying

    please don't worry ..baba will guide you and now ur done ur part rest leave to baba.
    don't stop going to temple........instead go to temple ..it is the place where u get some peace.stop worrying
    baba will bless u soon
    ॐ साई ॐ साई ॐ साई

    Offline saicharandhool

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    Re: I HAVE LOST
    « Reply #31 on: July 20, 2009, 11:55:04 PM »
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  • I am feeling ashamed on my deeds..I dont feel I have the purity to enter an holy place.

    Offline saisan

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    Re: I HAVE LOST
    « Reply #32 on: July 21, 2009, 12:01:07 AM »
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  • don't feel like that........... baba will give u answers to what ever questions ur getting in mur mind.......so don't stop
    tell him to guide u he will do ........
    ॐ साई ॐ साई ॐ साई

    Offline saicharandhool

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    Re: I HAVE LOST
    « Reply #33 on: July 21, 2009, 12:09:05 AM »
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  • Trust me I dont want any answers..I have realized my mistakes and after doing so many bad deeds i dont want baba to bless me..I hope he punishes me but in a way that my family doesnt get hurt as these are my bad deeds.

    Offline saisan

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    Re: I HAVE LOST
    « Reply #34 on: July 21, 2009, 12:15:06 AM »
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  • bcoz of karmas we wil do good or bad deeds........ sai baba ke nazar me koi acha ya bura nahin hota
    he is like mother ....u can tell anything to ur mother
    see now past is past look for the future..........u have realized that itself is that ur good at heart.
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    Re: I HAVE LOST
    « Reply #35 on: July 21, 2009, 12:39:53 AM »
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  • Hi...All i can say is after a point in time, u just cannot pursue things...just learn to let go. If it comes back, it was yours, if it doesn't, then it was never meant to be.
    Dont beat yourself or dont put her on a pedestal. Just take a step back and see where are u going. Look where you want to be in the next 5-10 years...things will fall in place. Sometimes we get so much engrossed in our issues that we do not step back and look at the bigger picture. Do that...it will help u see things from a different perspective. It helped me...and i'm sure it'll help u.

    Baba is there to take care of you...Om Sai Ram
    Faith in Baba and self - these will help you overcome any obstacles.

    Offline saicharandhool

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    Re: I HAVE LOST
    « Reply #36 on: July 21, 2009, 12:54:27 AM »
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  • oM Sai ram..Vidyarpji thanks a ton for your kind words

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    Re: I HAVE LOST
    « Reply #37 on: July 21, 2009, 03:25:56 AM »
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  • Om Sai Ram

    Offline chweetujaanu

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    Re: I HAVE LOST
    « Reply #38 on: July 21, 2009, 12:30:53 PM »
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  • saicharan ji how are you?

    its been long speaking to u

    i wanna tell u a thing i donno whether ia m correect or not.. u have realised ur mistakes u wanna rectify them its true that she will not be willing to commit but just think she loves you its only ur acts that made her heart pain so much...

    its not that u r begging her its a way of rectifying ur mistakes i know its very painful but dont let it go away from ur hands just think with a calm mind and haeart filled with love not pain..

    baba show charanji a right way of thinking about things..

    omsairam

    Offline saicharandhool

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    Re: I HAVE LOST
    « Reply #39 on: July 21, 2009, 11:10:52 PM »
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  • Hi Cheetuji...I am doing fine it seems like my emotions have died since last sunday when I spoke to her..I still love her a lot but since I have realized all the more my mistakes and the pain which she has gone through b'coz of that I decided not to disturb her anymore..I dont want to hurt her..I send her one sms a day showing that I am around..Yesterday I didnt send one then she smsd in the night asking how am I and goodnight..I could see she was helpless and if I would have behaved little better things wouldnt have gone out of the hands but my anger..I never realized whatever I said to her will hurt her so much and one day eventually when I hear my words I will feel ashamed..I love her a lot but now I dont expect anything..I just want her happiness and if its without me its fine with me..How r things with you?

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    Re: I HAVE LOST
    « Reply #40 on: July 21, 2009, 11:16:59 PM »
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  • charanji , she loves u for sure....plz just bcz ur emotions hav died don't loose her.
    if she is not worried for u she wud have smsd u and asked abt ur well being...plz baba is helping u plz don't loose patience.
    just some more days see by aug month all things will improve and u will be happy......... life me aisa mat karna ki afterwards regret karna pade.plzzzzzzzzzzzz think abt it.
    baba bless u soon ......... om sai ram
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    Re: I HAVE LOST
    « Reply #41 on: July 21, 2009, 11:50:24 PM »
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  • Saisanji..even I dont want to loose her and I know she loves me but what should I do when I talk to her I get confused as for me she is my life partner so I start expecting, telling her things and sometimes she doesnt want it that way.. I dont know whatever I say in someway or the other hurts her..I feel after what I have done to her its better that she gets much better person.

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    Re: I HAVE LOST
    « Reply #42 on: July 21, 2009, 11:56:55 PM »
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  • charanji ur best person for her otherwise baba wud have not helped in getting in contact with her.
    u can keep her happy give this confidence slowly ........she will come back to u don't worry
    baba wil bring her to u .....now ur suffering after this u will only hapiness trust me..
    change urself as the way she wants u to be ....better just talk to her in less words which will not hurt her unknowingly
    baba will guide u tell baba to guide and help u .om sai ram
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    Re: I HAVE LOST
    « Reply #43 on: July 22, 2009, 01:50:46 AM »
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  • Saicharandhoolji, Manishji, I'am not entitled and do not want to interfere in ur personal life. Take it as a friendly thing. However, if you want to beg her that's ur call, remember the following
    "Bin Maange Moti milaen, Maange milae naa bheekh"
    There is a true story which happened to Nehru in 1957, he went on a visit to a hospital. There is saw a person neatly dressed, just having a Photo in his hand and talking to himself, blabbering incoherently. Nehru asked the Dr about his problem and the Dr replied that the photo is of his LOVE whom he could not marry, so he lost his balance. In the adjacent room there was another man shabbily dressed, photo in his hand who was blabering angrily, Nehru again asked the Dr about this person, and the reply he got shocked Nehru. HE TOLD THAT THIS IS THE PERSON WHO "MARRIED" THE FORMER'S "LOVE"
    How much are you loosingon ur job, career, troubling ur family with this so called Heartbreak. V2birit ji is right.
    Another thing which Baba said always. Baba's Bhaktas cannot be given life partners, who do not match each other in Bhakti, frequency, etc. as they wud be wasting life time just adjusting to each other

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    Re: I HAVE LOST
    « Reply #44 on: July 22, 2009, 02:00:55 AM »
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  • Dear Anupamji, You are not interfering but we have a different view on things..I understand you might be having your own experiences but I might have different ones..From my point of view when you hurt somebody very badly then no matter how many times I apologize..a hurt takes time to heal..when love is true it can be felt..a person who loves you can only be harsh to you..I am not begging for anything as love is much bigger than these things..If she is not destined for me then she would not be with me but now I have taken myself on such a level where I love her and respect her without any expectations..Marriage is something which cannot be guaranteed be it love or arranged..regarding matching frequency if inspite of so many problems if we are able to speak to each other that says something about the feelings on both ends but sometimes circumstances take toll on emotions..anywz..I have changed as person and I believe whatever has to happen will happen and I just wish she should be happy and I will find out a way very soon.

     


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