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Offline sss

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I want happiness at the cost of others
« on: January 29, 2006, 11:58:33 PM »
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  • Sai Nath,

    You know what I want.. Maybe what I want will hurt others.. But I am just an ordinary human being.. All the world most people are selfish.. I just end up thinking why should I be any different.. Why should I think of behaving ideally when most people are not put in that situation..

    But still again I am only able to think of my discomfort and unhappiness.. Baba show me the way not to hurt others and still be happy.. Please bless my family and help all of us to see each others point of view instead of just being selfish and expecting a lot of the other person.

    I feel it is easier to commit sins and ask for forgiveness than not comitting sins at all..

    Sunita.
    « Last Edit: January 30, 2006, 12:01:22 AM by sss »
     

    Offline Ramesh Ramnani

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    Re: I want happiness at the cost of others
    « Reply #1 on: January 30, 2006, 01:50:27 AM »
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  • JAI SAI RAM!!!

    Sunita dear if you think it is easier to commit sins and then ask for forgiveness then I will suggest you to try and adopt that way as everyone has been given free will. BABA SAI will not ask you when and where did you commit any wrong doing and what was your motive behind that because HE has given us free reign.

    And if you succeed in that then please let me also know I too will give it a try and follow you that easy way.

    My dear sister I see your frustration which makes you think that way.  I will only suggest you to follow your conscience.  

    My dear Sunita I will again suggest that discharg your duties in a righteous and diligent manner and rest leave unto HIM.  And don't look at others what they are doing.  Once you start doing your job honestly MY BABA SAI will inspires you to do more good and warns you against the bad. Listen to HIS voice. Obey that voice and you will not come to any harm nor any ill thoughts will arise in you for committing sins/bad deeds.

    OM SAI RAM!!!
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    Re: I want happiness at the cost of others
    « Reply #2 on: January 30, 2006, 04:25:13 AM »
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  • Sai Ram,

    Poeple around us may talk against us, they will make us to feel uncomfort, uneasy, they talk ill, .............. Dont listen to them .. you wont loose your own qualities because of whatever happens ... end of the day "THE WINNER WAS DEAF !!!!"

    "THE WINNER WAS DEAF !!!!"

    There once was a bunch of tiny frogs,..... who arranged a running competition. The goal was to reach the top of a very high tower. A big crowd had gathered around the tower to see the race and cheer on the contestants...
    The race began...

    Honestly: No one in crowd really believed that the tiny frogs would reach the top of the tower.
    You heard statements such as: "Oh, WAY too difficult!!", "They will NEVER make it to the top." Or, "Not a chance that they will succeed. The tower is too high!"
    The tiny frogs began collapsing. One by one....
    ... Except for those, who in a fresh tempo, were climbing higher and higher...The crowd continued to yell, "It is too difficult!!! No one will make it!"

    More tiny frogs got tired and gave up...But ONE continued higher and higher and higher...This one wouldn't give up!
    At the end everyone else had given up climbing the tower. Except for the one tiny frog who, after a big effort, was the only one who reached the top! THEN all of the other tiny frogs naturally wanted to know how this one frog managed to do it? A contestant asked the tiny frog how he had found the strength to succeed and reach the goal?

    It turned out...That the winner was DEAF!!!!

    The wisdom of this story is: Never listen to other people's tendencies to be negative or pessimistic...because they take your most wonderful dreams and wishes away from you -- the ones you have in your heart!
    Always think of the power words have. Because everything you hear and read will affect your actions!
            And above all: Be DEAF when people tell YOU that
             you cannot fulfill your dreams!


    Sai Ram.
     

    Offline Shammi

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    Re: I want happiness at the cost of others
    « Reply #3 on: January 30, 2006, 05:19:46 AM »
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  • Sairam

    This  story of 3 frogs ........... yes i recollect was sent to me by one of my friend ...may be say around 4 years back while i was in distress.... and just nowhere ..  and this story  brought solace to my mind and  became a part of the dream which came ultimately  came true

    Dear Sunita being different and being  just what you are makes a  lot of difference .. It does make !!

    You are you and you cant be some one else
    Let the whole world be selfish - Why follow the world when you can easily follow your conscience
    follow your heart where baba resides - that way we follow babas teachings and  he always remains with  you
    no matter what

    Some times  timely stories /snippets too can give you much wisdom.... its for each one of us to pick up and learn from that !!

    May baba bless you and keep you happy always  ..

    Om Sai Sri Sai Jaya Jaya Sai

    Sairam


    Bow to Sri Sai - Raksha Karo Deva !!!
    Bow to Sri Sai - Raksha Karo Deva !!!

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    Re: I want happiness at the cost of others
    « Reply #4 on: January 30, 2006, 05:28:03 AM »
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  • Dearest sister Sunitha,

    As all have wonderfully put,maybe you should decide first what you want to be.Once when you have decided what you want to be,then there is no question of any comparison.

    We all sincerely pray our Dearest Babaji to bless you with enough strength to lead your life with principles and ethics and live a life of significance.

    Raj

    OM SAI SREE SAI JAYA JAYA SAI
    OM SAI SREE SAI JAYA JAYA SAI
    OM SAI SREE SAI JAYA JAYA SAI
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    OM SAI SREE SAI JAYA JAYA SAI
    OM SAI SREE SAI JAYA JAYA SAI
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    Re: I want happiness at the cost of others
    « Reply #5 on: January 31, 2006, 12:42:00 AM »
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  • Thank you dear brothers and sisters for praying for me.. Baba will surely show me how to behave well.. Baba please bless all of us and show us how to face our challenges in life..

    Sunita
     

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    Re: I want happiness at the cost of others
    « Reply #6 on: March 03, 2006, 02:01:42 AM »
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  • sai ram,
    this is my first message in this site. I was touched by the story of three frogs. How true it is we rarely realise it.
    I always am influenced by wht people say and hence most of the time i edn up agitated.
     Sai Ram
     

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    Re: I want happiness at the cost of others
    « Reply #7 on: May 08, 2006, 02:50:50 PM »
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  • the story of frogs and suggestions by other members who to me are sai itself, beacuse we can't write even single word without his will, really makes my restless mind, happy.

    it beeen i yer i had abotrion due to cruelty of some people. i request all the mebers to pray for me so that i get blessed with child. pls baba give me courage to conceibe again. past really worries me. pls baba give me strength
    om sri sai ram gurudeva datta
     

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    Re: I want happiness at the cost of others
    « Reply #8 on: May 11, 2006, 05:41:45 PM »
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  • snatarajan ji,

    That was a wonderful story and very inspiring.
    Thank you very much. I'm very happy to join this group which gives you strength to the needy.

    Usha
     

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    Re: I want happiness at the cost of others
    « Reply #9 on: October 26, 2006, 01:08:59 AM »
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  • dear sai baba....

                          mujhe itni shakti do ki main har musibat ak samna has ke kar sakun......maine aapki sharan li ahin ab aap hi mera sahara ho...aapke ilawa ab mera aur koi nahin hain.

    miss u baab ..
    plz always remain wth me
    kavita[:)]
     

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    Re: I want happiness at the cost of others
    « Reply #10 on: October 26, 2006, 04:11:49 PM »
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  • DEAR SUNITA,
    DONT GIVE UP HOPE.IAM ALSO FACING THE SAME PROBLEM BUT A BIT BIGGER.
    YOUR DREAMS ARE YOURS ONLY AND BABA WILL HELP YOU.
    OM SAI RAM

    Om Sai Ram
    Om Sai Ram
    ---Sai's Child sudhendra

     


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