JAI SAI RAM!!!
Sullabha dear I will say First lose yourself so that you can gain.
First sin so that you can become a saint. If you are from the very beginning, your sainthood will not be of much value.
I am not against sin; I am not against anything. I say: Use everything, go into it. God has made this whole world available to you for a certain purpose: the purpose is learning. Sin is a lesson, is a must. If a child is a saint from the very childhood, is forced to be saint, he will not have any spine. Let him first know what sin is. Let him himself become aware, and let him drop it on his own accord. Don't force him, don't discipline him. Give him freedom to move so one day he can see with his own eyes, feel with his own heart.
And he can realize that Buddha is right, that Kabir is right, that Christ is right, BABA SAI is right.
But this has to come from your own understanding -- otherwise it is borrowed. And God never wants anybody second-hand. Be first-hand. Let your experience be original.
OM SAI RAM!!!