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« on: July 03, 2012, 09:35:07 PM » |
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Dear sai devotees
Am I really gone get what I want?
Because it's been long time and I can't get job. And also I can't get girl i want. I really like her. I been looking fir answer long time. No answer and no clue.I feel like in doing something bad and I'm bad person. Everyday I just live to live. I been suffering all my life
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« Reply #1 on: July 03, 2012, 09:56:54 PM » |
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Om Sai Ram 3val4india
Nobody is good or bad in this world ..this is our act which make us good or bad ...
If you are feeling that you are doing something bad... then change it right now..better late than never
And always remember ..
"Nothing is Impossible in this World "
Om Sai Ram
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« Reply #2 on: July 03, 2012, 11:11:37 PM » |
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I dont think I'm doing anything bad. I always ask god that if im doing something bad I don't do it. And give ne strength. Like when I have to go to interview I always think positive but when I got there I just get nervous.
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« Reply #3 on: July 06, 2012, 09:13:16 PM » |
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3val4India ji
Why do you ask to God ( if you are doing something wrong ) when you yourself are repling that you didn't do anything wrong ..and not doing
All i can say is this ..if any action is not getting good result ..then there must be something wrong in our action ..
Anyway i don't wanna be judgemental.. Sai is everywhere ..And he himself watch us closely... our each and every moment ...
He may show you right path
Om Sai Ram
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« Reply #4 on: July 07, 2012, 12:00:52 AM » |
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That's what I'm wondering if I'm getting sexual thoughts, something wrong I'm doing in reading chalisa, aarti, slok. I always ask for forgiveness.
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« Reply #5 on: July 09, 2012, 11:52:10 PM » |
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Om Sai Ram
<<<<That's what I'm wondering if I'm getting sexual thoughts, something wrong I'm doing in reading chalisa, aarti, slok. I always ask for forgiveness>>>>>>
I guess this is the second time when I am giving reply of your this question ..but this time I want to
make you understand by giving you a example from SST –Chapter 49 ..
"NanaSaheb Chandokar ( who was one of the dear devotee of Sai ) was sitting in the Masjid ( Dwarka mai )with
Mahlsapati , Shama and others..
A Mohammeden gentleman came with his family to see Baba..ladies was in veil
Nanasaheb , who was sitting there , wanted to go away on seeing veiled ladies , But babaji prevented him from
doing so..
The ladies came and took the darshan of baba..when one of the ladies removed her veil for for saluting baba’s feet …
Nana sahib who had a glimpse of her face ..was so much smitten with her beauty ..and he wished to see her face
again..
Soon baba knew Nana sahib’ s thought and restlessmind ..when the lady left , Baba spoke to Nana sahib … “Nana
why you are getting agitated in vain ? Let the sense do their work ..we should not meddle with their work. God had
created this beautiful world, and it is our duty to appreciate its beauty..the mind will get steady and clam slowly and
gradually . When the heart is pure , there is no difficulty, whatsoever. Why should one be afraid of anyone, if there
be no evil thought in us ? The Eye may do their work , why should you feel shy and tottering??”
The Conclusion of this story is …
In duration of day and night , there are many kind of thoughts which comes across in our mind , some may be good,
some may be bad or worst too..and we can’t stop them to penetrate into our mind ..but in some extent we can
control on them ..it is in our hand to which thought you wanna give space in your mind , and which is not ..
Our Mind is fickle by nature , it should not be allowed to get wild ..The sense may get restless , the body, however ,
should be held in check, and not allowed to be impatient.
Senses always run after objects of desire …..but we should not follow them and crave for them..
By slow and gradual practice , restlessness can be conquered.
We should not be swayed by senses, though they can not be completely controlled..but we should curb them , rightly
and properly according to the need of occasion.
So..all you need is just practice to conquer over your thoughts ..
May Sai Show you right path
Om Sai Ram
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« Reply #6 on: July 10, 2012, 06:51:35 AM » |
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Am I gone get this girl I like. I really like her. And u know u don't always get what u want. But I really want her.
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« Reply #7 on: July 11, 2012, 10:35:49 PM » |
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I have the understanding that the genuine intent of people to reply and help should not be misused by people. There is no sincerity behind the questions asked by the person. No one can pull any one out of ditch ; not even God, unless the person is willing and making efforts. Without efforts, actually without sincere efforts and real intent nothing is attained. And efforts yield results in time and one has to be patient.
While using public forum, it is important to observe some set of rules regarding the language used. Forum is visited by people of all ages, so observe some intelligence while you ask your questions.
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OM SHRI SAI NATHAYA NAMAHA
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« Reply #8 on: July 12, 2012, 12:22:39 PM » |
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SaiRam Ashok,
Baba blessings Well said! I like the way you have put it! Thank you.
JaiSaiRam
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« Reply #9 on: July 13, 2012, 08:12:49 PM » |
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<<While using public forum, it is important to observe some set of rules regarding the language used. Forum is visited by people of all ages, so observe some intelligence while you ask your questions. >>
I see nothing Offensive here, if somebody is facing a genuine problem and asks for a solution, why there is pointer to somebody's intelligence??? Or intelligence is also a TM of some BB's like "BABA's Blessings".
Atleast some people's Posts are not being removed and no politics is being played behind the scenes, no name calling is being done, by some CUT PASTE SUPPOSED BABA Bhakts---- WITH INACTION FROM ALL SIDES
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« Reply #10 on: July 14, 2012, 08:22:16 AM » |
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That's all I'm asking anupam. Is help
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« Reply #11 on: July 14, 2012, 09:16:01 PM » |
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If someone has any issue with moderation, with working of this forum, contact Ravi and i am sure there is nothing being played here as someone said it. I am not going to delve much into what the person wrote here. From his reply it is evident that he is frustrated because of something and is looking at every opportunity to vent out that. I reiterate if someone want solutions to his concerns, use the right approach and that is to contact Ravi. Using unrelated threads to voice your opinion is definitely not the right way and not going to help you or forum and would not provide solutions to your problems.
And 3val4india, what help do you need here? Please state that clearly. And you never really replied to people's detailed replies which were meant to help/guide you. So, what kind of help are you seeking here? If you are not comfortable in english, you may use hindi to communicate.
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« Reply #12 on: July 14, 2012, 09:29:59 PM » |
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Pray for me. I'm just so stress of life that things are going bad. Not getting job. And girl I like
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« Reply #13 on: July 14, 2012, 09:55:04 PM » |
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Dear 3val4india,
Your Problem no one can solve except one - that is You ! No matter how many advices you get, Your mind won't allow to understand and accept that. You are longing for only a body made by mortal structures.
Don't think it is Love. It is only infatuation because Love is strongest and purest Feeling and only Medium that Connect Spirit to God !
If Possible still your mind. You are living as a slave of your mind, why don't live as Master of Your Mind !
Give Your Life a Purpose ! Set Priority in terms of Career ! Life itself will get changed !
Read Hanuman Chalisa Daily ! See into eyes of Hanuman Ji ! Chant Name of Sai whenever Possible !
Nothing is Impossible - But only if You Try ! At Least You Try Once ! Take First Step ! Think to Live just for Yourself or Your Family !
Remember - God too help those First, Who Try to help themselves !
May Sai Bless You !
om sri sai ram !
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om sai ram!
Anant Koti Brahmand Nayak Raja Dhi Raj Yogi Raj, Para Brahma Shri Sachidanand Satguru Sri Sai Nath Maharaj !
Budhihin Tanu Janike, Sumiro Pavan Kumar, Bal Budhi Vidhya Dehu Mohe, Harahu Kalesa Vikar !
........................ बाकी सब तो सपने है, बस साईं ही तेरे अपने है, साईं ही तेरे अपने है, साईं ही तेरे अपने है !!
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« Reply #14 on: July 14, 2012, 10:29:03 PM » |
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< i am sure there is nothing being played here as someone said it. I am not going to delve much into what the person wrote here. From his reply it is evident that he is frustrated because of something and is looking at every opportunity to vent out that.>>
HOW does somebody with mere 14 posts and few weeks maybne IS "SO SURE", and you point to frustrations and then to somebody's sincerity of questions and even somebody's English and Hindi.
It seems that few people feel they are the Greatest REMOTE Judges ALSO, so I feel no need to answer to some "self important's" harangue,
If you clearly understood what I stated is that if somebody puts his genuine question some self imporatant people have no right to FORCE THEIR SELF IMPORTANT Views
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