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Offline ShAivI

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Three things in a relationship!
« on: June 09, 2011, 01:14:26 AM »
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  • Three things in a relationship!
    By Sri Sri Ravi Shankar

    Three things are essential in any relationship:

    - Right perception
    - Right observation
    and
    - Right expression.

    What is the secret of a relationship? How does a relationship develop? First is the attraction. You are attracted
    to a person. But if you get what you are attracted to very easily, the charm disappears quickly and  it dies out
    very fast. But if it is just a little bit difficult to have what you are attracted to, then you develop a love for it.
    Have you experienced this...?

    You fall in love, after that what happens? After a while, the soap opera begins. Because you love someone;
    you give yourself completely to that relationship; you start putting demands on that relationship. The moment
    this starts, the love diminishes. All the thrill, joy, everything just seems to fade away. Then you say,
     "Oh! I have made a mistake." Now there's a struggle and pain to get out of the relationship. And after you
    have got out of it, you get into another, and another...The same story is repeated.

    Everybody wants to know how to make a relationship long lasting. Do you want to know the secret about
    relationships? Three things are essential in any relationship: right perception, right observation and right
    expression. Often, people say that nobody understands them. Instead of saying, "No one understands me,
    " you can say that you have not expressed yourself properly. If you speak Russian to a Spaniard, he will
    definitely not understand you. To express yourself properly, you need the right perception. Right perception
    can happen when you see yourself by getting into the shoes of the other person.

    But right perception alone is not enough; you also need right observation. The way you react when you
    perceive something is important. How do you feel inside? Observing your own mind is essential. This observation
    within you: observation of sensation, observation of tendencies and observation of patterns form the second
    aspect of relationship. After you observe yourself and perceive the other, it is the right expression. Expressing
    ourselves in the right manner is important. The whole of life is a lesson in just these three things: perception,
    observation, and expression. Every mistake you make is really not a mistake; it's a learning process of the
    three vital aspects of life. Love is essential in relationships and  it's not about attraction alone. In attraction,
    there's aggressiveness; in love, there is submission. Though attraction forms the first step you cannot stand
    on the first step for too long. You have to move on to the next pedestal. That is love.

    When you're centered, and when you let go of your feverishness, then your charm is long lasting. The nearer
    a person comes to you, the more charm there will be in the relationship.

    Be blessed!
    Love & Light!
    Om Sai Ram! :)

    If you are sad n in pain, Be as the ocean, and release. The ocean tides don't pause and hold in anything, they ebb...and then they flow. Only briefly holding on top of a wave for a moment. If something from your past bubbles up, simply take a deep breath, and let it go. More love!
       :-* :-* :-*

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    Re: Three things in a relationship!
    « Reply #1 on: June 09, 2011, 01:20:48 AM »
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    @Shaivi thankyu so much for this wonderful post ....seems to be for me in some aspects ,coz i can't express properly ....hmmmmmm

    Baba ji bless yu always !!

    Sai Samarth.........Shardha Saburi
    "नानक नाम चढदी कला, तेरे पहाणे सर्वद दा भला "

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    Re: Three things in a relationship!
    « Reply #2 on: June 09, 2011, 06:46:27 AM »
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    Thankyu Shaivi ji , is realy gud to get this title on Baba's day as i feel blessed , bt i am not able to get such title , Even had requested to Ravi ji to take it back , i m jst a simple devotee of Baba ji ....

    Its such a big thing that baba ji bless me on their day...but there are so much helping and experienced devotees except me....

    Sai samarth.........Shardha saburi
    Thank you Piyagolu!
    and i have just saw your name  "piyagolu" flashing in green as "Dwarkamai Helper Member" "CONGRATULATIONS;).
    Keep up the good work!

    Be blessed!
    Love & Light!
    Om Sai Ram!  :)
    Omsairam

    @Shaivi thankyu so much for this wonderful post ....seems to be for me in some aspects ,coz i can't express properly ....hmmmmmm

    Baba ji bless yu always !!

    Sai Samarth.........Shardha Saburi
    "नानक नाम चढदी कला, तेरे पहाणे सर्वद दा भला "

     


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