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Destiny, Really is there any destiny? is it fixed? Can’t we Change it?
There are lots of people who suffer. Most of them believe that this is due to their Destiny. But, Really this is so. 90% or more suffer only due to their belief system and myths they develop in their subconscious mind, only 10% or even less becomes the victim of their circumstances.
e.g. If Your parents don’t take care of you, they are happy in their life leaving you on maid or Aya’s etc at small age and then on Toys and video games, TV etc. Can You Do anything, No, But what you learn from life will shape your destiny.
Now come to your friends, Your friend is not loyal to you, Don’t respect your feelings, Holds your friendship only to use your resources and you are bearing all this, is this your destiny? No, Then What you are waiting for? Just Move on. But Can’t move, because you belief if you too do so, It will be not fair and keep on bearing just for your believes. Who is topping you, Is it God No, anyone else, No, But only You!
We Indian have a very bad habit, for all miseries, all pains there is single reply, We are suffering because this is as per our destiny. We must have done something Bad with those who are making us suffer in previous births so now we are repaying etc etc. A standard Reply. Isn’t it. It is true for some cases, but we use it as an excuse for everything happened with us.
Also there are lots of people who believe everything Happens only upon wish of God. But really it is so. God only Give us life for certain time, Rest we have to do.
This is same if you buy a mobile set. It will be with standard features/configuration like wallpaper, ringtone, screen saver. Now it is upon you, you accept those features or start configuring as per your own choice. Downloading advance contents, Internet, Mails, Songs, Movies, Games, caller tunes ………etc. Sometimes it would not be so easy, You might have to take help of manufacturer by calling their customer care centre, visiting their service centre, downloading support and configuration files from internet………………Same is our Life.
Lord Krishna has beautifully explained this, He said Human are given eyes, ears, tongue etc, But what they See, listen or Speak, It is not decided by God, No interference by GOD But Human himself and that’s Karma. You See the divine idol of Lord or dirty pictures, Listen useless songs or praise or Lord, Chant divine name of Lord or waste time in Gossips.
Our efforts and believes makes us what we are, If you start thinking Big, Gradually You will start behaving like that. Like if you dream to be CEO of a company and commit to it, now you are only an executive, If you are honest for your target, Your Sub conscious mind will start moving in that direction, You will see your focus getting changed from minor things to big decisions, Your taking style, dress code everything will be changing, Interaction with people will be different, You will get into courses like MBA and your thoughts start shaping your destiny.
Just some days ago there was a news a guy qualified to be IAS, a rank holder, who belongs to a slum family, father a four grade worker. He touched the heights, Was it his destiny, No he created his destiny. Just think why this happens children of educated parents get good education, but uneducated parents, if child gets higher education, It appears as exceptional case. Is’nt it due to our belief system.
and one more thing, If you are honest, all obstacles gets removed to achieve your target for your career or any object (not human)in life. as Sai said if you surrender completely Your all karmas will be reduced to ashes, and you will be free from all liabilities. What a mercy of Sai. But most difficult to accept, Because of our EGO, It is very difficult to surrender own identity, even to Sai. We get so much attached to it, that we want to hold it forever, no matter how big reward is against that, then question comes, if there would be no “I”, then for whom reward will be. So, That is what I think, This is not our destiny cannot be changed, Sai is Ready, But We don’t get ourselves ready. Words and false emotions stands nowhere in the world of Sai. No one can cheat even to worldly doctor, even a patient who is being admitted for an operation, claims his sugar and BP is under control, would doctor rely, no he will conduct test, just before operation and then decide his further step, if matter is not so critical. Same way Sai knows even what is in our inner mind. In our all life we kept on wearing mask to show our different faces, But Sai know what is underneath the mask, what is our real face, He can see all hidden desires and thoughts.
So, Destiny is not fixed or so small, you can’t take the feature of very advance handset into a basic model, But, still option of up gradation is always available whether it is your Mobile Set or Life! It offers many choices for life, But question is what we choose. There is overall limit but not lower limit, A play in which you have to perform, It is all how seriously you take your role, even if a two minute role, you give whatsoever best you can, You will surely gain bigger role in next play (or life), new story, new characters. If you succeed to impress director through your performance, even if there is a contract for that role, It will get renewed making you free from all clauses. You need not to do anything, Your Director will do everything for you. So, If you just try to perform well in the play of your life, Director of your life, If you Accept Sai, will do anything for you to take you on new heights, But only if you trust him blindly, ready to get prepare for new giant role. Also it is not achievement always, but honest attempts too matter.
Just to explain, Important is what is your vision for your life. Want to go for MBA, IAS, CA or M.Tech. Want to be CEO, COO or CFO or an entrepreneur, You can achieve what so ever you dream for. Many Times you will find lots of hurdles, Path might not be easy, there would be many tests, But if you are committed with a do or die attitude, Trust me, Sai will be there for your help, even you don’t call him, still he will help you. That’s is Glory of Sai. The Most Graceful Master.
Still you believe there is no way out, You are happy in present state, Conditioned to enjoy your sufferings and pains looking for sympathy of others in the name of destiny, No one can help you even not GOD, But the day you think even once, Yes I can change my Destiny. Remember:
"खुदी को कर बुलंद इतना कि हर तदबीर से पहले खुदा बंदे से खुद पूछे, बता तेरी रजा क्या है"
It is interested, Dattaswami Ji’s today’s post also explain it.
http://forum.spiritualindia.org/free-will-t35450.0.html
May Sai Bless All to live a Graceful Life granting eternal peace and strength!
Jai Sai Ram!om sri sai ram!

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