Sairam! Saibaba has once said, "If somebody hurts others by their talk or behavior, it pierces my heart. If somebody is able to remain calm without retaliation to their talk, it pleases me very much.People in general are excited when somebody point out the shortcomings or mistakes. They do not take it in the right sense. If somebody points out our mistakes, let us calmly examine whether the allegation is correct or not. If the other man is simply finding fault without any reason, we may simply ignore it thinking about God. Nothing will hurt us unless we take it in. Simply ignore or remain indifferent. If there is a definite fault in our character, let us repent not to repeat the same. If we are able to remain at peace with the world, then our spiritual progress will become rapid. Sairam, Sayipriya.