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Offline Ramesh Ramnani

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~~~NINE THINGS BABA SAI WON'T ASK~~~
« on: January 23, 2006, 06:30:04 AM »
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  • JAI SAI RAM!!!

    Twenty years ago, I drove a cab for a living. When I arrived at 2:30 a.m.,the building was dark except for a single light in a ground floor window.

    Under these circumstances, many drivers would just honk once or twice,wait a minute, then drive away. But, I had seen too many Impoverished people who depended on taxis as their only means of transportation.

    Unless a situation smelled of danger, I always went to the door.

    This passenger might be someone who needs my assistance, I reasoned to myself. So I walked to the door and knocked. "Just a minute", answered a frail, elderly voice. I could hear something being dragged across the floor.

    After a long pause, the door opened. A small woman in her 80's stood before me. She was wearing a print dress and a pillbox hat with a veil pinned on it, like somebody out of a 1940s movie. By her side was a small nylon suitcase.

    The apartment looked as if no one had lived in it for years. All the furniture was covered with sheets. There were no clocks on the walls, No knickknacks or utensils on the counters. In the corner was a cardboard box filled with photos and glassware.

    "Would you carry my bag out to the car?" she said. I took the suitcase to the cab, then returned to assist the woman. She took my arm and we walked slowly toward the curb. She kept thanking me for my kindness.

    "It's nothing", I told her. "I just try to treat my passengers the way I would want my mother treated". "Oh, you're such a good boy", she  said.

    When we got in the cab, she gave me an address, then asked, "Could you drive through downtown?" "It's not the shortest way," I answered quickly.

    "Oh, I don't mind," she said. "I'm in no hurry. I'm on my way to a hospital".

    I looked in the rear-view mirror. Her eyes were glistening. "I don't have any family left," she continued. "The doctor says I don't have very long."

    I quietly reached over and shut off the meter.

    "What route would you like me to take?" I asked.

    For the next two hours, we drove through the city. She showed me the building where she had once worked as an elevator operator. We drove through the neighborhood where she and her husband had lived when they were newlyweds. She had me pull up in front of a furniture warehouse that had once been a ballroom where she had gone dancing as a girl. Sometimes she'd ask me to slow in front of a particular building or corner and would sit staring into the darkness, saying nothing.

    As the first hint of sun was creasing the horizon, she suddenly said,"I'm tired. Let's go now."

    We drove in silence to the address she had given me. It was a low building, like a small convalescent home, with a driveway that passed under a portico.

    Two orderlies came out to the cab as soon as we pulled up.

    They were solicitous and intent, watching her every move. They must have been expecting her. I opened the trunk and took the small suitcase to the door. The woman was already seated in a wheelchair.

    "How much do I owe you?" she asked, reaching into her purse.

    "Nothing," I said.

    "You have to make a living," she answered.

    "There are other passengers," I responded.

    Almost without thinking, I bent and gave her a hug. She held onto me tightly.

    "You gave an old woman a little moment of joy," she said. "Thank you."

    I squeezed her hand, then walked into the dim morning light. Behind me,a door shut. It was the sound of the closing of a life.

    I didn't pick up any more passengers that shift. I drove aimlessly lost in thought.

    For the rest of that day, I could hardly talk. What if that woman had gotten an angry driver, or one who was impatient to end his shift? What if I had refused to take the run, or had honked once, then driven away?

    On a quick review, I don't think that I have done anything more important in my life. We're conditioned to think that our lives revolve around great moments. But great moments often catch us unaware beautifully wrapped in what others may consider a small one.

    NINE THINGS BABA WON'T ASK:

    1...BABA SAI won't ask what kind of car you drove; He'll ask how many people you drove who didn't have transportation.

    2...BABA SAI won't ask the square footage of your house, He'll ask how many people you welcomed into your home.

    3...BABA SAI won't ask about the clothes you had in your closet, He'll Ask how many you helped to clothe.

    4...BABA SAI won't ask what your highest salary was, He'll ask if you compromised your character to obtain it.

    5...BABA SAI won't ask what your job title was, He'll ask if you performed your job to the best of your ability.

    6...BABA SAI won't ask how many friends you had, He'll ask how many People to whom you were a friend.

    7...BABA SAI won't ask in what neighborhood you lived, He'll ask how you treated your neighbors.

    8...BABA SAI won't ask about the color of your skin, He'll ask about the content of your character.

    9...BABA SAI won't ask why it took you so long to seek Salvation, He'll lovingly take you to your mansion in heaven, and not to the gates of Hell.

    OM SAI RAM!!!
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    Re: ~~~NINE THINGS BABA SAI WON'T ASK~~~
    « Reply #1 on: January 27, 2006, 04:46:38 PM »
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    Ramesh ji its a heart touching. :)

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    Re: ~~~NINE THINGS BABA SAI WON'T ASK~~~
    « Reply #2 on: January 27, 2006, 11:11:28 PM »
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  • His Mom only had one eye.

    "I hated her... she was such an embarressment..My Mom ran a small shop at a flea market. She collected little weeds and such to sell...anything for the money we needed she was such an embarressment.

    There was this one day during elementary school..It was field day, and my mom came. I was so embarressed. How could she do this to me?  Threw her a hateful  look and ran out.

    The next day at school...

    "Your mom only has one eye?!?!" ..and they taunted me.

    I wished that my mom would just dissappear from this world so I said to my  mom, "mom.. why dont you have the other eye?! If you're only gonna make me  a laughingstock, why dont you just die?!!!" My mom did not respond.. I  guess I felt a little bad, but at the same time, it felt good to think  that i had said what i'd wanted to say all this time..

    Maybe it was  because my Mom hadnt punished me, but i didnt think that i had hurt her  feelings very badly.

    that night...

    I woke up, and went to the kitchen to get a glass of water.  My mom was crying there, so quietly, as if she was afraid that she might wake me. I took a look at her, then turned away because of the thing I had said to her earlier, there was something pinching at me in the corner of my heart. Even so, I hated my mother who was crying out of her one eye. So I told myself that I would grow up and become successful.

    Then I studied real hard.

    I left my mother and came to Seoul and studied, and got accepted in the  Seoul niversity with all the confidence I had. then, I got married.

    I bought a house of my own. then I had kids, too..now I'm living happily as a successful man.

    I like it here because it's a place that doesnt remind me of my mom.this happiness was getting bigger and bigger, when..

    What?!

    Who's this?!

    ...it was my mother...

    ..still with her one eye. it felt as if the whole sky was falling apart on me.My little girl ran away, scared of my mom's eye. And i asked her, "Who are you?!" "I dont know you!!!" as if trying to make that real. I screamed at her,"  How dare you come to my house and scare my daughter!"

    "GET OUT OF HERE! NOW!!!"

    And to this, my mother quietly answered, "Oh, i'm so sorry. I may have gotten the wrong address," and she dissappeared out of sight. Thank good ness... She doesnt recognize me..
    I was quite relieved.

    I told myself that I wasnt going to care, or think about this for the rest of my life. then a wave of relief came upon me...

    One day, a letter regarding a school reunion came to my house. So, lying to my wife that I was going on a business trip, I went. After the reunion,  I went down to the old Shack, that I used to call a house...just out of  curiosity

    There, I found my mother fallen on the cold ground.

    But i did not shed a single tear. She had a piece of paper in her hand.... it was a letter to me.

    My son...

    I think my life has been long enough now.. and... I wont visit Seoul anymore...but would it be too much to ask if i wanted you to come visit me once in a  while? I miss you so much.. and I was so glad when I heard you were coming  for the reunion. But i decided not to go to the school. ...for you... and i'm sorry that I only have one eye,and I was an embarressment for you.

    You see, when you were very little, you got into an accident, and lost your eye. as a mom, I couldnt stand watching you having to grow up with  only one eye... So I gave you mine... I was so proud of my son that was  seeing a whole new world for me, in my place, with that eye. I was never  upset at you for anything you did.. the couple of times that you were angry with me,.. I thought to myself, 'it's because he loves me..'

    My son... oh, my son...

    I dont want you to cry for me, because of my death. please dont cry...my son, I love you so much

    So My Dear Brothers and Sisters don't be ashamed of your Moms..pass this on to any Moms, Daughters and Sons that you know. I just did...

    Have a blessed day everyone..."

    Remember:

    People will forget what you said....
    People will forget what you did ...
    But people will never forget how you made them feel .....



    OM SAI RAM!!!
    अपना साँई प्यारा साँई सबसे न्यारा अपना साँई - रमेश रमनानी

     


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