aapne jeena sikha dia baba..........

[@pari@]

om sai raam....
hi tanu dee....... main apko dee to kah sakti hun na? aap jo kuch kah rahi hain i admire dat from my heart..... hum 2 sisters hain.... main choti hun n meri badi sis 24 ki hai but meri usse nai banti bz she always have compition wid me n wo adil ko pasand nai karti bz he is muslim n she thinks dat he will ditch me........

main apne parents se bht pyar karti hun bz bhale hi main ghar mei sabse choti hun but ghar k sare kaam main hi karti aai hun.... chahe bill jama karna ho.. aata piswane jana ho..... mumy ko hospital le kar jana ho ya mumy ko emotionaly support karna ho........

main umar to shayd abi zyada badi nai hui but maine ab tak apni zndgi mei jo kuch dekha hai, saha hai main usse bahut badi ho gayi hun..... main itni jaldi badi nai hona chahti thi magar halato ne mujhe bada kar dia. tanu dee mere or adil k rishte ko mere parents kabi accept nai karenge n agr maine usse shadi kar li to mujhe apni zndgi se b shayd alag kar denge....... mere dada n dadi se hum logo ka kabi dil se rishta nai jud saka bz mere ma n papa ne 2 betiyan paida kari........ but dee main pyar kar chuki hun sachha pyar....... kis ko chunu kya karu mujhe khud nai pata....... 5 saal se hum sath hain n main adil lo chod kar kisi or k bare mei soch b nai sakti........

aaj tak kabi ye nai laga dee ki mera bhai nai magar aaj lagta hai ki aaj agr mera bhai hota to mere ma papa ko ek sahara hota..... main jab ye baat adil ko batati hun to wo mujhe bus yahi kahta hai ki  main unka beta banunga..... but dee main chahe kuch b ban jau mere parents kabi nai manenge..........

mujhe kuch samjh nai aa raha ki kya karu..... main use nai chod sakti dee........ roz man mei tufan uthte hain mere....... sawal to itne hain ki ek sawal ka jwb milte hi dusra sawal khada ho jata hai...........

[@pari@]

om sai ram navrati g......

usne mujhe waise hi accept kia hai jaisi main hun......... wo mere sath ek baar mandir b aaya tha..... usne mujhse khud kaha ki wo mere sath ek din shirdi b chalega..... main jantti hun n wo b mujhe kah chuka hai ki mujhe kabi convertion k liye nai kahega...... n rai baat uske parenta k approvel ki to wo to mujhe kabi accept hi nai karenge n usk abba to police mei ja kar ye application de aenge ki adil mera beta nai n mera usse koi rishta nai....

ye baat to wo khud kahta ki islam mei puja mana hai but wo fir b mera sath dega n mujh par kabikoi bandish nai lagaega......... wo mujhse bahut pyar karta hai

[tanu_12]

hi pari
tum mujhe bilkul apni didi keh sakti ho. tumhari situation main achi tarah samajh sakti hun. tum jab chahe apni is dwarkamai me apne dil ki baat dil kholkar keh sakti to. yahan hum sab milkar tumhe support karenge or tumhe problems ka solution dene ki koshish karenge.
ye to bahut achi baat hai ki tum abhi se itani responsible ho or main samajh sakti hun ki tum apni family se bahut pyar karti ho tabhi to tumne apne pyar k liye ye kaha ki tumhara usse koi rishta nai hai.
acha ek baat batao ki kya tumne kabhi Sai Satcharitra padha hai? kya tumhare pas hai? agar tum Satcharitra roz padhogi thoda thoda to tumko man ki shanti bhi milegi or sari prob k solution bhi milne lagenge..
tumhe ek baat or batau meri ek junior hai usne ek din aakar mujhse kaha ki usne shadi kar li hai ek muslim ladke se or usne ye bhi kaha ki usne Sai Baba ka nav guruwar vrat rakha tha or mannt mangi thi ki ye vrat khatam hote hi uski shadi us ladke se ho gaye to wo uske sath Shirdi jarur ayegi. or kya ho gai uski shadi sach me us ladke se or wo uske saath Shirdi bhi ho kar aa gayi..
to main ye kehna chahti hun ki tumhari bhi koshish karo shayad jo kuch bhi problems tuhare riste me aa rahi hai shayad Baba ki kripa se wo dur ho jaye. jo karo par ful devotion k sath karna.
tumhe pata hai patience bahut achi cheez hai qki jitana tum time doge utana hi acha result bhi tumhe milega. or ye jo kharab time tum dekh rahi ho na usse tumhe koi na koi sikh jarur milegi jo age tumhe kam ayegi.
koshish karo jo situation abhi bigad gayi hai use sambhalne ki or wo tum shant dimag se kar sakti ho. isliye jyada soacho mat. ye fact hai ki positive sochogi to positive hoga bas ye lines din bhar bola karo fir dekho tumme bahut confidence aa jayega or difficult situation se kaise nikalna hai ye samajh ayega. or haan Baba ka naam jaap kiya karo.
acha tumne is site me jo question answer wala page me Baba se question kiya hai kar k dekho Baba ekdam sahi answer dete hai..

farz karo ki tum ek nav me akeli baithi ho or bich raste me tufan aya or tum darr gayi or dar kar idhar udhar dolne lagi jisse tumhari naav hilne lagi to kya hoga? tum tufan se baad me dubogi pehle tum khud k karan dubogi qki tumhare hilne dulne ki wajah se naav dagmaga kar dub jayegi. or agar tum chup chap baithogi Baba ka naam yaad karke to Baba tumhe kinare tak yun hi pahucha denge. bas tum ankh band kar k baith jao jaise jo kuch ho raha hai tumhe kuch nai malum...
khud ko puri tarah surrender kar do Baba ko yane ab jo kuch bhi hoga Sab Baba k haath me hai.
tension mat lo...

[navrati]

dear pari. just because he says he doesnt want u to convert what about your chilldren. In islam there is only one god called allah. you think ure kids would be accepted? u send them to madrassa or mosque where they learn about their book. do u think the religious teacher would want them talking about how they pray  to ram, krishna or shiva?? idolatry is wrong in islam.  you think the muslim community would accept this. If you have any male children, would you be willing t get them circumcised? If you take this any furthur think about some of these points. Hindus have believed in the equality of all religions, which is what shirdi sai nath did. we have no problems being respectful to other religions, but with a lot of muslims they think this is wrong. anyway hope this helps you think of the future

[@pari@]

om sai ram tanu dee.......

dee wat shud i response to navrati g....... im just getting afraid of all this wat ever she is saying to me........
navrati g aap jo kuch b kah rahi hain aisa nai hai ki maine kabi socha nai.... but iska jwb nai mila aaj tak muhhe..... kabi kabi lagta hai i shud sacrifise for my family n kabi lagta hai ki how shud i? i cant...........

[@pari@]

g dee mere pas sai satcharitra hai...... main uska ek baar paath kar chuki hun n ab fir se shuru kar chuki hun....... aapne sai kaha sai ki siksha se hi hamari bahut c prob ka solution mil jata hai......

[smg]

Om Sai Ram

May Sai bless you with all the happiness in the world.

Om Sai Ram
Om Sai Ram
Om Sai Ram

[tanu_12]

HI PARI

AAJ TUM BAHUT RELAX LAG RAHI HO. KOSHISH KARO AISE HI REHNE KI. OR HAAN BABA KI BOOK PADHNA BHULNA NAHI KABHI NAHI. TUMHE PATA HAI JAB BHI MUJHE KOI PROB HOTI HAI, KOI BAAT BAR-BAR DIMAG ME GHUMTI HAI TAB UN SAB PROB KA SOLUTION USI CHAPTER ME HOTA HAI JO MAIN US DIN PADHTI HUN JAISE BABA KO PEHLE HI PATA HAI KI MUJHE AAJ KAUN SI BAAT PARESHAN KARNE WALI HAI.
BABA SE ACHA FRIEND IS DUNIYA ME KOI NAI HAI JAB BHI TUM KHUD KO AKELA SAMJHO, JAB BHI TUMHE LAGE KI TMHE KUCH SAMAJH NAI AA RAHA TO BAS AKELE BABA KE SATH BAITH JAO OR UNHE APNE DIL KI SARI BATEIN BATAO SARI CHOTI-CHOTI BATEIN BATAO. TUMHE HALKA LAGEGA OR FIR PATA HAI KYA BABA TUMKO RESPOND KARENGE. REALLY MAIN KHUD AISA KARTI HUN ROZ ROZ BABA KE KAAN KHATI HUN OR WO MUJHE RESPOND KARTE HAI.. SACH BATAUN TO PARI EK TIME THA JAB MAIN KHUD YAHI SOCHTI THI KI MAIN KYUN JEE RAHI HUN MUJHE MAR JANA CHAHIYE MAGAR JAB BHI AISA SOCHTI US DIN USI CHAPTER (CHAPTER 26)  KI BARI HOTI JISME "GOPAL AMBEDKAR JI SUICIDE KARNA CHAHTE HAI PAR BABA UNKI RAKSHA KARTE HAI" BAS FIR MOOD CHANGE HO JATA THA. FIR EK DIN PATA HAI KYA HUA MAINE BLADE SE MERE LEFT HAND KI VEIN KATNE KI KOSHISH ME THI KI MERE MANN SE BABA KI AWAZ AAYI KI "KYA TUM APNE SAI SE PREM NAI KARTI? FIR KYUN AISA KAR RAHI HO?" OR MAINE WO IDEA DROP KAR DIYA. 2ND TIME FIR KOSHISH KARI THI BUT DIFFERENT TAIKE SE BUT BABA NE BACHA LIYA, AAJ AGAR MAIN JINDA HUN TO SIRF UNKI WAJAH SE OR FIR DIMAG TIKANE AYA KI NAI BABA KI SUNNI CHAHIYE WO JO KUCH KEHTE HAI SACH KEHTE HAI FIR CHAHE WO TUMHARE DIL ME BAITH KAR HI KYUN NA BOLE. BABA KI BAAT MANN KAR MAIN KAFI SAMBHAL GAYI HUN.
TUMHARA TOPIC DEKHA TO PATA NAI KYUN DIL KIYA KI TUMHE REPLY KARU, SAMJHAUN OR DEKHO MERA WO BAD EXPERIENCE AB KITANA KAAM AA RAHA HAI KISI KI HELP KARNE ME, USE US SITUATION SE BAHAR NIKALNE ME.
AAJ MAIN ITANI NORMAL HUN KI KYA BATAUN AB SAB KUCH ACHA LAGTA HAI AB TO KABHI MARNA NAI CHAHTI MATLAB BUDHAPE ME JARUR NATURALLY...
IN SAB BATON SE EK BAT SAMJH AYI KI YE JO LIFE HAI NA REALLY WONDERFUL HAI OR USE BEHTARIN BANANA APNE HAATH ME. OR BHAGWAN NE YE JIVAN SIRF APNE KHUD K JINE K LIYE NAI DIYA HAI BALKI DUSRO K LIYE BHI KABHI KABHI JINA PADTA HAI...
SACRIFICE KARNE SE BABA BAHUT KUSH HOTE HAI OR MAINE WAHI KIYA JISKI WAJAH SE MAIN AAJ BAHUT FREE HUN NO TESION NO WORRIES... BCOZ I M IN LOVE WITH BABA. HE IS THE MASTER OF THE WORLD...
UNHONE MUJHE SAMBHALA HAI, TUMHE BHI WAHI SAMBHALENGE OR GUIDE BHI KARENGE...
SHURU ME THODI PROBLEM HOTI HAI UN BATAYE RASTE PAR CHALNE ME PAR DHIRE DHIRE WO KHUD HELP KARNE LAGTE HAI...
BABA EK BAAT OR EKDAM SAHI KAHI HAI KI "JO MERI BAAT MANEGA PARAM SUKHI HOGA LEKIN JO NAI MANEGA OR MUJHE CHODKAR CHALA JAYEGA USE KAST SEHNE PADENGE"....
TUMHE PATA HAI KAFI DINO SE IS DWARKAMAI KI MEMBER HUN PAR AAJ TAK YE BAATEIN KISI SE SHARE NAI KI PAR SIRF TUMSE KI HAI PATA NAI KYUN SHAYAD BABA CHAHTE HO...
OR EK BAAT BABA KI BAAT MANNE SE JIN BHI LOGO SE TUMHE PROBLEM HAI NA WO AUTOMATICALLY CHANGE HO JAYENGE OR UNSE TUMHARI ACHI PATANE LAGEGI. HAAN! OR WO LOG TUMHARI CARE BHI KARNE LAGENGE SACH ME...
MAIN TO AAJ KI DATE ME BAHUT KUSH HUN OR KHUD KO BADALNA SABSE PEHLE JARURI HOTA HAI AGAR AAP US SITUATION SE BAHAR NIKALNA CHAHTE HO TO...
OR JAB MERA BAD TIME CHAL RAHA THA NA TO BABA NE MERE DREAM ME AAKAR MUJHE KAHA THA KI "TUM SATCHARITRA KA PATH ROZ KARO MAIN SAB THIK KAR DUNGA" TAB SE LEKAR AAJ TAK MAINE USE PADHNA NAI CHODA OR KABHI BHUL GAYI TO WAPAS TENSION AA JATA HAI.. MAIN JAB 9TH ME THI TAB MAINE BABA KI YE BOOK YUN HI PADHI THI FIR MAIN USKE 25TH CHAPTER ME JO PRAYER HAI ROZ RAAT KO PADH KAR SO JATI THI... FIR KAFI TIME HUA MAIN US BOOK K BARE ME BHUL GAI OR JAB ME BAD TIME AYA TO MUJHE ACHANAK LAGA KI PUJA ROOM ME WO BOOK HAI USE PADHNA CHAHIYE OR PADHNE LAGI FIR WO DREAM DEKHA.
JAB MAIN MAIN IS FORUM ME AAYI TO EKDAM SHOCKED THI KI MAIN WO BOOK KOI AKELE NAI PADHTI HUN SARI DUNIYA ME LOG PADHTE HAI OR NET PAR BHI AVAILABLE HAI TAB MUJHE SAMJH AYA US BOOK OR BABA KI LEELA KA...
TO TUMHE KYA KARNA HAI TUM SAMAJH GAYI NAA? KAFI BADE BADE RPLY KARNE LAGI HUN MAIN AAJKAL TUMHE, PEHLE NAI KARTI THI AISE...
TUMHARI EMAIL ID DENA MUJHE IF POSSIBLE
TAKE CARE

OM SAI RAAM
 

[@pari@]

om sai ram dee.........
ap bilkul sai kah rahi hain n main usse puri tarah agree b hun..... in dauran jo kuch maine dekha mera b bahut baar man hua ki sab khatam akr lun but pata nai kaise har 10min man bada; jata tha........

apko mere jiwan mei kasam se sai ne hi bheja hai taki mujhe wo rata dikha sake n waise b baba jab b apne bhakt ko kuch batana chate hain to wo koi n koi zariya to nikal hi lete hain apni baat kahne ka....... jaise us chapter mei jab baba ne da ganu ko nana g k yahan bheja tha us naukrani k pas.........

mujhe apne sai rah dikhai hai warna mai toot gayi hoti.. n shayd shraddha n saburi mei hi sabse badi taqat hai......... apko jan kar khushi hogi ki ghar mei sab shant sa ho gaya hai

[tanu_12]

:-) apne Baba aise hi hai, bade ache se! ache Baba
mujhe bahut khushi hui jaan kar, tum bahut samjhdar ho bas aise hi rehna hamesha
thanks to Baba
bus unki ungali tham lo or ankhen band kar lo fir dekhna tum easily apne destination tak pahuch jaogi..... :-)
sab thik ho jayega
oh Baba i love u
haan par is par bhi ek baat ka dhayan rakhna ki Baba kabhi kabhi bahut strict priksha lete hai or mujhe to tab pata chalta hai jab main usme fail ho jati hun :-(
lekin us par bhi main Baba se bolti hun ki "le lo pariksha main fail ho jaungi par jarur kuch na kuch sikhungi apki is pariksha se" fir pata hai Baba kya bolte hai ? kuch nai as usual smile karte hai... :-)
ok take care!

[child_of_sai]

...tanu ji and pari ji, very nice exchange.....makes baba happy...

Sai Ram.

[@pari@]

om sai ram dee....

jab b main kisi prob mei hoti hun to baba se gusa karti hun ki apko main hi milti hun kya test lele k liye?..... magar baad mei pata chalta hai hai jo baatein hum nai soch pa rahe. nai dekh pa rae baba aisi situation paida kar dete hain ki mamei sab saaf saaf nazar aa jata hai.....

kal hi meri adil se baat hui maine usse pucha ki adil tum hi kahte hi jab kuch hamre khilaf hota hai to usmei hamara hi kuch na kuch acha chipa hota hai to jo kuch hamare sath hua usmei hamara acha kya tha......... to usne kaha ki isse hamei thoda andaza ho gaya ki hamei aage kitni badi prob ko hal karna hai n ye b pata chal gaya hoga 2mhe ki main 2mhara kitna sath dunga........ usne kaha ki main janta hun ki 2mhare man mei bahut sawal honge n jab main lautung to hum baith kar baat karenge

[@pari@]

om sai ram gunj j..........

kaise hain aap?

[gunj]

OM SAI RAM PARIJI

I M FINE.HOW R U,ANE PROGRESS AT UR HOME,SAB SHANT HUA KI NAHI.AND ADIL IS FINE NA,

[tanu_12]

You are a blessed person with an important role to play in life and Baba is watching over you with love and concern. Be the best can be for Babas glory.

If someday you’ll find your self thirsting for comfort coz your in deep pain and frustrating just remember Baba could always be your refuge when everyone doesn’t hear you cries.

Om Sai Raam