Pari, a beautiful name. For kids in the fantasy it is a beautiful divine mother who takes care when no one is along.
Why worry, There is no end of discussions, There will be hundreds of questions, then thousands of replies, again lakhs of question on replies, then again millions of replies....................!
Do what your heart says. Life is risk in itself. There might be accident. Serious illness. Nervous breakdown................!
If can live seperate it is great, But with family you have to face all these things you have mentioned. Alone you can take care of each other, raise kids as per own standards, but in family, Have to follow many instructions.
God has nothing to do, You read Gita, Bible or Quran. At end only your Karmas will count. We count numbers Muslims, Hindus, Sikh, Christians, Jains...........! God never created any religion. He is above all these. He never set any ritual.
We are not easy on our planet, it is our problem. God created this beautiful earth and Send us here. There will be millions of such earth, some just like hell.
This is your life, you have to decide, take all opinions, But time is limited, If in your destiny there is all happiness you will get a wonderful life, but if sufferings and pains again you have to face. Remember life will be a curse then. You will be alone.
Do what your heart says if you are ready to take risk. Risk of not only your life, Reputation of your family (in society for some time they will be target of all gossips, comments and become a tamasha).
and never think if one marriage of some known is successful, all will be or vise-versa.
All live their destiny. You have to your.
May Sai Bless You and help you to take a right decision so in future you have not to repent.
om sri sai ram!