Dear Pari,
Aisa nahi hai ki jo filmi duniya me hota hai, haqiqat mai kabhi nahi hota. When I was in Martial Arts, In Demos Our Master Jumped 10 to 12 Feet, Could break 12 big tiles or many Ice Bricks with forehead……….When I used to saw those things in movies, I always thought there must be some trick behind all such actions, But in real life. there was much more.
But this did not happen in love stories, you know why, In Martial Arts you have everything in control, Just discipline your mind and body and can achieve anything……..but in love, you can control yourself, but not others. You can’t make other one to think what you want. Many times I noticed if Boy is committed, Girl just use the guy as a stand by, chalo koi aur accha mil gaya to thik hai, verna yeh to hai hi. Aur aise mai agar who ladka hawa mai udta fire, to kya kaha ja sakta hai. Jab ladki ko koi aur accha paise wala ya smart ladka mil jata hai to who second mai bye bye kar deti hai aur who ladka bechara tute dil ke sath idar udhar bhatkta rahta hai, ek umid ke sath ki shayad us ladki ke man mai kuch daya aa jaye aur who iske bare mai kuch soche. Par isme sirf us ladhi ki hi galti nahi.
Kai bar mai sochta huan, Sai ke dar par jab koi dukhi aata hai, To Sai second mai hi uski problem solve kar dete hai, par yahan to kai log mahino aur saaloan se fariyad kare ja rahe hai……..sai kyun nahi sunte inki. To lagta hai many of these people are selfish (with some exceptions), agar inka sathi (Jo yeh sochte hai) alag rah kar kush hai, to yeh kyun uski khushi bardasth nahi kar pate, kuyn chahte hai ki who jabardasti humse pyar kare, Jise yeh pyar kahte hai, who sirf ek aakarshan hai aur kuch nahi. Kai log salon tak behte rahte hai, rote rahte hai, khud bhi dukhi hote hai aur apne maa baap ko bhi dukhi rakhte hai……….aur yeh sab pyar ke naam par?

Pyar jindgi main sirf khushiyan lata hai, jise hum (saccha) pyar kare, who hame mile ya nahi, par indgi mai kabhi udasi ya tadap nahi paida hoti.
Aur ek baat, Kai baar Dono Log ek dusre ko bahut pyar karte hai, Fir bhi nahi mil pate, Hum sirf aaj dekh sakte hai…….Future Nahi……You say jise tum pyar karte ho, who bhi tume utna hi pyar karte hai, but are you sure uske ghar wale tume aur tumae ghar wale bhi use utna hi pyar karenge?? Just think.
So, it is always good to be practical in life. I know in life we call such practical people SELFISH (For many years, I was too used to, But truth realized when Sai blessed) but they are good, if they want to live freely, without being got attached with any one just to satisfy ego of others, Just apne kaam se kaam rakhne wale log, jinke liye umka kaam hi unki puja or pyar hai.
.....Lagta hai kuch jaida likh diya, samajh aye to badiya, Na aye to, Tension mat lena, Waqt se bada koi teacher hani, Samay ane par sab samazh jaogi.
May Sai Bless You Always!
om sri sai ram!
baba,
aisa bahut baar hota hai jab humari baatein hamare apne nai samjh pate, unhe uski piche ki feelings, umeed, pyar kuch nai dikhta, aisa kyu hota hai? kya sach mei aisa pyar jaisa filmo mei hota hai, wo real life mei possible nai hai? agar hai to kya wo meri kismat mei nai hai............. kal hamri thodi ladai hui but kal na to maine gussa kia, na roi or na kuch ulta bola, jo kaha usne kaha...... or raat mei jab maine use call karke ye samjhaya ki........."main nai chahti ki agar 2mhari galati nai hai to bhi 2m mujhse aa kar sorry bolo, main nai chahti ki 2m mujhse sorry bolo, bus itna chahti hun ki agar kabhi hamari ladai ho to 2m kabhi khud se pahle aa kar bus itna kah dia karo ki chal chod baat ko jo hua so hua, baat khatam kar yahin"....... mera ye kahna use filmi dialouge kaise lag gya baba.......usne kaha tera aise samjhana mujhe lfilmi dialouge jaisa lagta hai......mujhe irritation si hone lagti hai.........
mujhe itna sunte hi rona aa gaya...... mera dil toota tha baba............. main usse4 aaj k baad aisa kuch nai kahungi, koi pyar ki baat nai karungi usse warna use ye sab filmi dialouge hi lagengi.......... meri kismat mei shayad aisa pyar hai hi nai baba jaisa mere sapno mei tha......... haqiqat shayad filmi duniya se bahar hi pata chalti hai......... magar is tarah se ye nai pata tha...........