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Offline deepa84ind

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Always used and left alone
« on: April 12, 2011, 05:56:21 AM »
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    • I am a very simple girl educated and working with a corporate from day one even in school till date i had many friends but all come in my life make use of me and go away .

    I don't mistake them at all but today i am asking myself why in the end i am left alone? My love left me cause his parents didn't want him to marry intercaste he is happily married today though my relation started in shirdi i met my life for the first time there and even then my relation didn't work out, now even after 4 years of break up i still find myself single and waiting for my partner my parents are worried and due to which tension. In the end of all this i have lost trust in humanity.

    I don't want to be like this i want to be cheerful and bubbly and help full though i have 101 problems. Baba please bless me.
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    Offline ritesh

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    Re: Always used and left alone
    « Reply #1 on: April 12, 2011, 06:05:34 AM »
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    • om sai ram deepa ji ...

    u know it always happens with me as well....everyone leaves me after there work is done ....even i am fed up with this kind of life....

    we always pray for there happiness and none realizes when we need them .... or would go away when they find something better in their life....

    i have always heard from baba that u should help people....i did exactly this....went out of the way to help someone ....but all i got is miseries in the end....

    u remind me of my angel....her name was deepa munshani.....she was gifted by baba but he took away my angel from me in 2008....she was just 23 when she died ......

    i dont know why do baba give us all these misiries ....v never think bad for others but still it is finally people like us who losse out....
    m just not enjoyong ma life too......hope he listens soon to both of us ......
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    Offline deepa84ind

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    Re: Always used and left alone
    « Reply #2 on: April 12, 2011, 06:14:23 AM »
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    • Thank You for the quick reply!!!!

    I dont know if they use or that is the only purpose for me in life.. I forget day and night nad be there for them ...

    I have done everyting possible coz i have blind faith..people make fun of my faith at times and there beliefs turn true coz they dont pray theu dont fast and i pray and  fast so all laugh and still they say see your prayers are not answered.

    I dont know if my prayers will be answered ever  or not but i want god to give me the strength to face all this and not let me break down
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    Offline deepa84ind

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    Re: Always used and left alone
    « Reply #3 on: April 12, 2011, 06:15:42 AM »
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    • I am sure with the blessing of our lord your angel will be leading a happier life.. om sai ram
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    Offline ritesh

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    Re: Always used and left alone
    « Reply #4 on: April 12, 2011, 06:21:54 AM »
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    • he will deepa ji because he is the creator of all.

    i have always kept faith in him too.... its just that baba is asking for lot of patience....

    dont know when will he look at people like us  and say all your bad days our over and you will lead a happy life from here on...

    what is the need for such kind of people in our life if they just want to use us .... y is baba so rude with all of us who persue this policy of helping others without any self interest..........?


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    Offline Pearl India

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    Re: Always used and left alone
    « Reply #5 on: April 12, 2011, 06:38:11 AM »
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    • om sai ram

    i dont knw,but one thing, this world has a tendency to use others to get their tasks done.i have many around me and hv also felt the same...but i cudnt allow myself being used after a stage n then started putting barriers of defense around myself.
    there are many people who need others' help,th orphans n th aged etc, but not those who are capable of their own n still want others to furnish their tasks.helping friends and others out of sweet gesture is another thing.
    evn baba through his parables warned us of such people.he warns us of selfish n clever people.he is not happy if his children are fooled coz they are his children...no mother likes that fr sure.

    in my life i realise no one stronger around me.so when i need support i have baba and just baba.he says u are a pillar of strength to others and those othrs are not strong enuf to support me.so at times we his children atract people to us as well because of baba's power around us.

    as for th other thing,i'd suggest please put a barrier around urself ,help others but dnt allow others to fool n make use of you.do not attack but defend urself.do this to boost ur inner self which wud b in turmoil if being used this way...

    i dnt knw hw far m helpful to u,
    b i'v tried my bit.

    jai sai ram
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    Re: Always used and left alone
    « Reply #6 on: April 12, 2011, 06:54:03 AM »
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    Re: Always used and left alone
    « Reply #7 on: April 12, 2011, 11:22:49 AM »
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    • om sia ram

    thank u fr ur gud wishes,

    indeed it ws th best ramnavmi evr.

    thnks baba.
    luv u lots n u knw tht.

    om sai ma
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    Offline SaiSevak!9

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    Re: Always used and left alone
    « Reply #8 on: April 13, 2011, 02:20:55 AM »
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    • ^^

    Best Ramnavmi ever:-/

    Please share ur experience
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    When we help others in pain n help the needy, baba adds it to our account in his 'Bank of Blessings'.If we add our good karmas this way,we are actually helping Sai to use it and at the time of need - Quote from Star Sai

    Before Asking Sai That What He's Doing To Keep Us Happy,Ask Yourself That What You Are Doing To Keep Sai Happy?!

    Lastly,
    You Are The Cutest Sai!! :D

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    Re: Always used and left alone
    « Reply #9 on: April 13, 2011, 07:38:23 AM »
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    • Om Sri Sai Nathaaya Namaha

    Dear Deepa, sometimes we dont have answers to all the 'whys' in our life.. I can understand how you feel.. Having said that, most of our lives are defined by our karma in this life and from our past lives, that is why it is hard to understand why things happen..
    You have been very strong in all this, Baba will surely bless you soon, please carry on keeping Shraddha and Saburi in him :) Please also read Sri Sai Satcharitra everyday with love and devotion, it will give you a lot of peace.

    May Baba bestow his loving blessings on you.

    Jai Sai Ram
     

    Quote from: deepa84ind on April 12, 2011, 05:56:21 AM
    I am a very simple girl educated and working with a corporate from day one even in school till date i had many friends but all come in my life make use of me and go away .

    I don't mistake them at all but today i am asking myself why in the end i am left alone? My love left me cause his parents didn't want him to marry intercaste he is happily married today though my relation started in shirdi i met my life for the first time there and even then my relation didn't work out, now even after 4 years of break up i still find myself single and waiting for my partner my parents are worried and due to which tension. In the end of all this i have lost trust in humanity.

    I don't want to be like this i want to be cheerful and bubbly and help full though i have 101 problems. Baba please bless me.
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    Offline saisai83

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    Re: Always used and left alone
    « Reply #10 on: April 13, 2011, 07:41:17 AM »
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    • Om Sri Sai Nathaaya Namaha

    Dear Ritesh,

    I am very sorry for your loss brother. She is with Baba now and he is taking care of her.. I cant imagine how you feel..
    Baba does not give us miseries or happiness, we create our own destiny with our present and past life karmas brother. If anything Baba helps us through this journey with some easy.. Just imagine, if Baba was not there during such difficulties then life would seem 100 times worse..
    Please carry on with Shraddha and Saburi and read Sri Sai Satcharitra, you will find your inner peace and strength brother :)

    May Baba bestow his loving blessings on you always

    Jai Sai Ram

    Quote from: ritesh on April 12, 2011, 06:05:34 AM
    om sai ram deepa ji ...

    u know it always happens with me as well....everyone leaves me after there work is done ....even i am fed up with this kind of life....

    we always pray for there happiness and none realizes when we need them .... or would go away when they find something better in their life....

    i have always heard from baba that u should help people....i did exactly this....went out of the way to help someone ....but all i got is miseries in the end....

    u remind me of my angel....her name was deepa munshani.....she was gifted by baba but he took away my angel from me in 2008....she was just 23 when she died ......

    i dont know why do baba give us all these misiries ....v never think bad for others but still it is finally people like us who losse out....
    m just not enjoyong ma life too......hope he listens soon to both of us ......
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    Offline saisai83

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    Re: Always used and left alone
    « Reply #11 on: April 13, 2011, 07:44:32 AM »
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    • Om Sri Sai Nathaaya Namaha

    Dear Kirti ji, I agree with your advice 100%, however I think you have misunderstood Ritesh's post. He said she passed away, not that she isnt talking to him. Please be compassionate and sympathetic to his loss. I cannot imagine the pain being in that situation, I am sure you wouldnt be able to either. It is one thing to be away from the one you love and it is a whole different pain to live with knowing that person is no more.

    Jai Sai Ram


    Quote from: Kirti1 on April 13, 2011, 06:32:26 AM

    As for the romantic side of your lives....hmmm.
    Ritesh- Okay so she is not talking to you. Does it make you any lesser human being? Does it make you any lesser, handsome, or intelligent??
    What is love for you its not the same for her. What can you do about that? To each his own. If she cant see love then that's how smart she is ever going to get. Go to the gym, swimming anything. Tire yourself out. Find some other girl and make her one of your close friends. Only FRIEND.
    And share only happy moments with  her. Nothing else.

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    Re: Always used and left alone
    « Reply #12 on: April 13, 2011, 09:52:54 AM »
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    • OM SAI RAM
    In this day and age where instant gratification is the norm than the exception, we forget Baba's teachings which is nobody can make us happy, only ourselves. Even if you are in a room full of people but your heart is hollow, you might as well be alone. But if your heart is full and the love is the unconditional love for Sai Baba, I believe you will never feel alone or sad even if the burden of daily life weighs heavy on you. Human love is not eternal. It is as fleeting as the passing cloud but God's love is eternal and never changing. As for  "friends" who use and abuse you, remember a story in Sai Satcharita, Baba said even if a beggar comes to you and you are not incline to give any monies etc, just decline politely no need to be vulgar and rude! So, if you know a friend has a history of using you than forgetting you after that, politely decline to help with a smile. They can't back stab you as you were not rude. See there is so much we can learn form Sai Baba...even his teachings is applicable in modern life now.
    Jai Sai Ram
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    Re: Always used and left alone
    « Reply #13 on: April 13, 2011, 11:53:53 AM »
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    • om sai ram

    i dint plan to ,but just to share it wd u,or on ur motivation i'v put it in th experiences segment.
    had to respect ths topic n th author n it wsnt th ryt place..

    jai sai ram

    Quote from: SaiSevak!9 on April 13, 2011, 02:20:55 AM
    ^^

    Best Ramnavmi ever:-/

    Please share ur experience
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