Pari,
Main nahi bhoola, Par yaad hai last time maine kaha tha Pari Bahan Mature ho rahi hai. Ab accha balki uncha bhi sochti hai or likhti hai. Main to khush tha. Par jab bhi lage meri jaroorat hai, mere kisi bhi shuru kiye thread me post kar dena, I'll surely reply.
Bharti,
Thanks, Jo tume post accha laga, Par mein isliye nahi likta, ki kuch accha lage, balki isliye ki meri wajh se kisi ka dard kam ho sake to yeh mere sobhagya hoga, par yeh bhi sachai hai, jo hona hota hai woh waqt or karmoan ke anusar hi hota hai. Tumara Patience dekh kar mujhe khushi hai. Bahut kam log is bhavna ke sath age bad pate hain. I pray soon you get what is best for you, a great life!
SV,
Kuch nahi badla. Badalna itna asan nahi hota, par bar bar koshish karne se hi insan badal pata hai. Maine saaloan dard me bhitayen hai, isliye samajhta hoan, is frustration or pain ko, par yakin mano kisi ka bura chahne se apna kabhio accha nahi hota, agar kisi ko hamara hona hota hai, to woh ek nazar mein hi jindgi bhar ke liye hamara ho jata hai or agar nahi to apna sir kat kar bhi uske kadmoan me rakh do to bhi use koi asar nahi hota, balki mufat mein ek tamasha dekhne ko milta hai.(jise shayd woh dusaroan ke sath bhi share kare).
Tum kahti ho baba par vishwas hai, To phir nyay ki mang kyoan, Kya baba bhi kisi ka bhura karte hain, kabhi nahi. Jindgi badalne ke liye khud ko badlo, Badle ki bhavna man se nikalo, Use maaf karo aur uske hall par chod do. Baki baba ko sambhalne do. Is sabh se nikalne ke liye tume apni soch badalni padegi. Apna dhyan badlo, Agar padai kar Sako to koi nai degree ke liye enroll Karo, Bachoan ko padao, Bagwani par dhyan do, kuch bhi karo, jo accha lage, dance, music, bhajan, painting.............! Jab tak uske bare mein sochna band nahi karogi, is darg se chutkara nahi milega, Chahe badle ki bhavna hi kyon na ho. (Sach to yeh hai pyar kabhi kisi ka bhura nahi chahta, woh apna sir to kata sakta hai, par kisi dusre ka bura nahi kar sakta, or yadi uske sath sachmuch bura hua, to sabse pahle tumari ankoan me hi ansu honge).
Isliye, man ko shant karne ki koshish karo, Dheere Dheere, Agar Delhi mein ho to Maa Jhande Wali ke Mandir me darshan karo. Maa ke darshoan se ho sakta hai man ko nakaratmak vicharoan or urja se mukti mil jaye, Aur age ka marg sugam ho jaye.
At last, only this don't live with any expectation in mind. Might be it is test by your destiny, and you regain whatsoever you have lost in new form, with more love and respect for you, who knows. Just, trust your destiny. (When
divine name of baba can make some one recover from the edge of death, then to solve your problem is not a big task for Baba, But what is required only Faith and patience).
So, My Sister, Just Have Faith and Patience!
It won't say, It is be easy, It will be painful but after all this, perhaps a few days to months, You will find some one new in you, totally change in life style and personality, more intelligent, more mature.
Believe me, These are not bookish things, But experience of some one!
May Sai Bless You!
om sri sai ram!