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Title: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on March 27, 2009, 01:15:17 PM
baba we both love each other so much and we both love u, twice u gave us the chance to come to dwarkamai together then why are we not getting married? what is it that is stopping it from  happening....baba only your one ishara can solve all the problem..i have no idea whether  its his family or business which is the problem only u know the problem and can solve it..i am totally dependent on u...baba i know it was you who i met last year infront of my house then why this delay? its very difficult for me to accept someone else in my life now..baba please get me married to him baba please help me...help me sai nath help me everyday is becoming more difficult..there is so much pressure i will breakdown baba please help me

sai ram sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: SS91 on March 27, 2009, 01:30:31 PM
SaiRam.

Sai bless you soon.
March directly to that wire-puller who is moving these toys of fleshy human bodies, who is keeping up this big show. In Him only you will find lasting happiness and perennial joy. Merge in Him by practicing daily meditation and japa.OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on March 27, 2009, 02:52:53 PM
Bhavna,

Just give it time..sometimes baba works in ways we dont understand but in the end its for own good. Bless u and hope baba listnes to u soon..Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: smg on March 28, 2009, 02:24:33 AM
Om sai Ram,

baba please help bhavna and solve her problems. Show her your one ishara which she's been asking for and let her get married to him.

OM SHRI SAI NATHAY NAMAH
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on March 28, 2009, 03:01:47 AM
dear bhavna,

maybe baba is testing your true love for each other and ascertaining whether this is not just an infatuation. maybe the time has not come yet to marry.
have patience and full faith in baba and he will show you the reason and also solve your problem for the better. om sairam.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: gitesh on March 28, 2009, 04:53:30 AM
Faith ||Om Sai Ram|| Serenity
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: gajanan bhakt on March 28, 2009, 10:33:36 PM
sai baba. please dont prove to the world that LOVE does not exist. please bless all those who are craving for LOVE in their lives. please dont ignore the prayers god.

is it necessary that all those who truly love , have to face so many difficulties. then y do u make 2 people meet. y do 2 persons belonging to different cities, religions , creed come together . y do they fall in love and y do u show us such beatiful dreams when u know that the dreams are going to shatter.
 baba u r like a mother to all of us. then how can a mother be so ignorant knowing that her child or her children need her the most.

please answer our prayers god. please bless us all

jai sai ram
jai gajanan
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on March 29, 2009, 03:32:26 AM
DEAR GAJANAN BHAKT,
YOUR PRAYERS ARE NOT IGNORED . AS YOU KNOW SAI HAS NOT ONE DEVOTEE BUT MILLIONS , YOU ARE IN QUEUE AND YOUR TIME WILL COME SOON.
PLS DONT LOSE FAITH. OM SAIRAM, JAI SAIRAM, JAI JAI SAIRAM.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rr_sai_bhakt on March 29, 2009, 04:37:31 AM
On the point of millions of devotees of Sai Baba, and every one being in the queue .... here is an interesting incident to note.

It is narrated by Damodar Savalram Rasane, also knows as Damu Anna, who was a great devotee of Sai Baba while Baba graced Shirdi ...

This is what he has said (also mentioned in the Sai SatCharitra, chapter 25) ...

"  "Once when I sat at His Feet along with many others, I had two questions in my mind and He gave answers to both.

(1)   There are so many crowding to Sai Baba. Do they all get benefit from Him?

To this, He replied orally - "Look at the mango tree in blossom. If all the flowers brought fruit, what a splendid crop it would be. But do they? Most fall off (either as flowers or as unripe fruits) by wind etc. Very few remain".   "

The implication of Sai Baba's words is very clear ... if you are not a steadfast devotee of Sai Baba ... if your faith in Baba swings up and down with every small incident that happens ... then your branch will become weak and you will fall of the tree of grace and blessings that has been sprouted by Sai Baba ...

Try to be a strong devotee of Sai Baba ... and attach yourself strongly to the tree ... seek the nourishment that Sai provides ... and soon your devotion will bear fruit too ....

Also do not worry that there are millions of devotees .... all are looked after equally ... Sai has more than enough power to make sure all the devotees' prayers bear equally strong fruit ...

All he asks of us is Shraddha and Saburi ... Faith and Patience ... that is all ...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on March 29, 2009, 05:06:27 AM
dear sir, excellent post. thank you.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Amar_akshu on March 29, 2009, 09:19:34 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!!!! JAI SAI RAM!!!!!!!!! EVerything will be fine !!!!!!!!!!!! Keep your faith
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on March 29, 2009, 11:01:28 AM
thanks for giving me so much support...i will never ever leave the feet of my beloved sadguru sai ...if i have to be unhappy at the cost of other peoples happiness i will bear it no matter what...i am at the mercy of sai maharaj now...whatever he does will be for my best..if i have to marry some1 else no matter how unhappy it makes me i  will bear it maybe that is how i have to pay for my past bad karma....but there is only one person i love and want to be with him for the rest of my life..if sai wants it to happen i will be happy...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: shilpi_vjs on March 29, 2009, 09:02:29 PM
Hey I too faced the same situation...but got married to the person whom I loved the most after 5 long years....now we r happy with a child...you will also get the best from sai...

My suggestion is please find answer to ur question from Baba's Q&A book. Do as you get in the answer. Here I would like to quote my experience...

When I was in my Graduation Final year, I wanted to go for MCA in Campus. Then I asked the same to baba and opened a page in baba's Q&A book. There baba asked me to do baba parayanam 7times. I had exactly 7 months time to my Entrance exam for MCA. Without fail I completed parayanam 1ce per month. I got seat in campus and I am into an MNC right now.

so please get ur answer from baba and proceed....
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on March 30, 2009, 02:57:17 AM
hi shilpi thanks for this big favour..i will get this q n a book this thursday itself from the sai temple near my house
 i will follow it to the word ...
thank u once again
sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: smg on March 30, 2009, 09:03:42 AM
Om Sai Ram bhavna,

If you want to buy a book go ahead, but you can also visit the following website in case you dont know about it, it will also help you out.

"http://www.yoursaibaba.com/". Its amazing and you will get ur ans 4m it 100%. I ask all my que here and get ali the ans. Try it if it helps you.

OM SHRI SAI NATHAY NAMAH
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rinki_sai on March 30, 2009, 09:26:39 PM
Jai Sai Ram,
I have gone through the worst situation in my life. Its not once but many times. I have never got what I wanted and m crossing the marriageble age. Next week I am going to Shirdi & will pray for all the bhakat who r in problems. If Baba have not heard my prayers but atleast he should hear yours. Leave your favourite dish to him & ask him that u will eat that thing only if he does your work. This is being mention in Saichritra where a thief took away money of some person & he left rice. Within 15 days he got his money back. So do it and see. One of my friends did & now she is getting married to that same guy. She left sweets. Rest Allah Mallik. I will pray for you. God Bless
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: gitesh on March 30, 2009, 09:48:44 PM
Faith ||Om Sai Ram|| Serenity..
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on March 31, 2009, 12:16:53 AM
ya i have read sai satcharita and read it everyday too...i just completed my third chaliya where i left drinking tea and coffee
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: pallavi123 on April 01, 2009, 10:08:54 PM
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baba please help and bless all the true lovers for the success the ture love.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 02, 2009, 10:47:30 AM
hmm...thanks for telling tht..i will leave Coffee and Tea...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: saibhaktakm47 on April 02, 2009, 11:41:20 AM
om sai ram please help everyone.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 02, 2009, 09:11:54 PM
hi aquafish
yes it works wonders last yr i had kept sai,s chaliya i left hot tea and coffee during winter months as it s the most difficult thing to do at that time i had broken up with my love and not only did he come back saicame and met me too he came to my house asking me to give him rs 5 so that he could have tea it was sakshat sai looked just like him and after 2 months both me and him went to shirdi now i am praying to get married to this guy i love and today my navratras ka vrat got over so from monday onwards i will leave eating non veg food as its my fav food . sai i am sure will bless all of us whenever i now go to sai temple after meeting all of u i pray to sai that all of us should get what we want..sai has promised this to us in his eleven sayings dont worry :) :) :)

ANANTKOTI BRHAMANNAYAK RAJADHIRAJA YOGIRAJ PARBRAHAMA SHRI SACHITANAND SADGURU SA NATH KI JAI
OM SAI RAM
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: binny on April 03, 2009, 12:30:47 AM
as i hav read u guys experience after leaving ur fav.food/i'm so inspired by u guys dat now i too is going to leave my fav.dish dat is maggie..
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: binny on April 03, 2009, 12:35:09 AM
Jai Sai Ram,
I have gone through the worst situation in my life. Its not once but many times. I have never got what I wanted and m crossing the marriageble age. Next week I am going to Shirdi & will pray for all the bhakat who r in problems. If Baba have not heard my prayers but atleast he should hear yours. Leave your favourite dish to him & ask him that u will eat that thing only if he does your work. This is being mention in Saichritra where a thief took


away money of some person & he left rice. Within 15 days he got his money back. So do it


and see. One of my friends did & now she is getting married to that same guy. She left









sweets. Rest Allah Mallik. I will pray for you. God Bless




may saibaba fulfil ur wish too.//i'm exactly going thrugh same thg dat u r going thrugh..
can u tell me wats de proces of leaving fav.fod//
i mean do i hav to tell saibaba dat i'm leaving dis fav. fod and in return plz fulfill my wish"
is dis de procedding
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: saisan on April 03, 2009, 01:19:15 AM
om sai ram
Yes, sit in  front of baba and pray him and tell ur wish and until ur wish is fulfilled you wil not eat that good.
i have left ice cream in June 2006 and i haven't eaten it till today :(...it was a truely my fav food.
lets see when baba will let me make eat ice-cream.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 03, 2009, 10:20:19 AM
om sai ram
may sai bless us all
sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 03, 2009, 10:23:04 AM
Bhavna,

thank for ur prayers and cocnern!! I am praying for u too...Yeah tea and coffee is soemthing i cant live without...and definitely will leave them...Hope all our prayers are answered...I dont want to be without my love anymore...I hope w eget married soon...Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 03, 2009, 10:31:39 AM
sai ram aquafish
yes we will get married soon
hum sai ko mana lenge
i read this book everyday which says " aur rat din baba baba, baba hi hi tu rata karega toh baba koh are vivash ho , sudhi teri leni hi hogi" and another one ahich says " tere ek ishare se baat ban jaye.. joh kismat mein nahi woh mil jaye"
i know baba will bless us very soon
sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 03, 2009, 10:58:56 AM
he better do that...I had a vision yday about me vsiiting shirdi and crying at his feet with happines..so maybe its his way of savying, dont doubt me , things will happen..lets see...

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 03, 2009, 09:02:38 PM
om sai ram
yes we should not doubt baba at all
last year i was praying to baba to let me come to shirdi so dat i could pray to get married to this guy and he did call me and not alone we both went together
baba will fulfill all our wishes but we jus need to keep up shradha and saburi and i am sure baba will bless us
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Amar_akshu on April 04, 2009, 04:16:40 PM
Everything will be fine!!!! BABA heals everything..He will take care of everything!!! pl keep faith in him
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 05, 2009, 01:11:34 PM
om sai ram everyone
 i attended the sai ki palki today
it was awesome..just how it is described in sai satcharita ..uhh i could i actually picture it  ;D ;D ;D
it had all the paraphinalia there was band music elephants horses it was just beautiful
i prayed for all my frens here
i am sure sai will soon fulfilll all our wishes
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 06, 2009, 09:39:05 AM
Thanks bhavna and i pray that baba listens to ur plea...Bless u..
Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Starter on April 06, 2009, 11:00:05 AM
saibalaji saibalaji saibalaji
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 06, 2009, 11:07:58 AM
om sai ram
baba please fill our lives with joy and love
let us always bow at ur lotus feet and rememebr ur name
baba please fullfill all our wishes
there are so many of us praying to get married to our love if u thing dat person is not right for us den only thing required is ur blessing that one ishara to make everything alright
sai plz fulfill our wishes..show us that u are dre for us..increase our faith and devotion..let us always be at ur feet just do it sai for us dis tym..beggin u sai..bless ur children
shri sadguru sai nath maharaj ki jai
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 07, 2009, 12:02:31 AM
feeling very low today sai
feeling very depressed and alone
 bless me now sai please bless me
at work also dey keep conspiring but i dont worry cause i know i am good at my job and u will atke care of everything
but please give me one happiness i have been longing foe
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 08, 2009, 10:24:19 AM
hello aquafish, abhishek,geetanjali and gajananbhakt
 om sai ram to all of u
hope u ppl are doin fine
 i am feelin very low dese days my last thursday was really bad i  had a huge fite wid sai i din even donate food as i was so low
 but this thursday i will change things i will go spend as much tym in the temple before leavin for work
will pray for all of us that we are able to share some good news
at my side things are becoming so frustrating this guy doesnt even let go of me all he keeps sayin is he loves me but cant be wid me i have tried to find out if dre is someone else in his life but have come up wid nothing he doesnt even go ahead wid anyone his parents c for him only sai knows wats in his mind.. i am really keepin very low because of asll this
i jus cry at nite..hope sai gives me strength
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 08, 2009, 11:26:10 AM
Hi bhavna,

how is it going now. tell me one thing do you really want him to move on and see girl that his parents are asking him to see.
just do what your heart says nothing else.


Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 08, 2009, 01:13:06 PM
hi rajiv
om sai ram
no..i just love him a lot and want to marry him i cant c him wid anyone else..even he cant.....he stays even wen i get married he still will be around lookin after me..
its funny he cant live without me and just says he cant get married to me...but an year bak he spoke at his house even his chachi spoke to me..but nothing..he never says anything to me..except i should move on...its very tugh..we do c each other still but we call it a breakup cause we have reduced our meetings and out outings i hav estopped goin to his house though his family still knows he takls to me
i dont know wats in his mind i dont even want to know..i jus pray to sai, baba  blessed us last year wen he initially backed off by callin us to shirdi i had kept a 40 day chaliya...he even met me in person askin for rs 5 den y disdelay...y is he not gettin us married....i jus want to pray to sai
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 08, 2009, 02:23:34 PM
Bhavna,

dont worry things will be fine..the same thing is happenign to me..he doesnt talk about the situation at his home..he says i shud forget him and marry someone else..which is impossible..dont worry hope baba listens to us..have faith tats what we can do...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 08, 2009, 09:32:33 PM
hi aquafish
thanks yes i am just prayin
and i am feeling very low
he also fot wid me yestyerday so much jus cause i had gone out wid my frens but den he doesnt take me wid him wat can i do
hope things work out soon else my parents will marry me off
its so difficult work is also a problem it seems the world just hates me such a bad person i must be
:( :( :(
went to sai temple todau feelin a lil better but work also gives me constant tension i am doin my post grad and my boss it seems just cant stand me
 i am so alone its not funny
:( :( :(
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 09, 2009, 09:25:02 AM
hi bhavna
how is it going
did you keep a fast today
its thursday

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 09, 2009, 09:43:20 AM
Bhavna,

Dont worry...yeah the fights are part of this life now...dont worry about work...maybe u need to relax it out... will pray for u..baba will help us...

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 09, 2009, 12:04:59 PM
hi rajiv
om sai ram
 yes i fasted today it was my 10th thursday i jus want to marry dis guy nothing else i will do anything for it
hi aquafish
om sairam
thanks a lot
yes i will continue to pray for all of us we will fite no matter wat and pray to sai beg to him to bless us
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 10, 2009, 02:39:38 AM
help me sai help me please
now work is also becoming a problem...how much are u going to test me baba ab toh kuch acchhaaa kar de meri zindagi mein..kuch kar de mere bhagwan
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: preeti_raghunath on April 10, 2009, 08:47:54 AM
GOD BLESS!!! OM SAI RAM
OM SAI RAM
OM SAI RAM
OM SAI RAM
OM SAI RAM
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 10, 2009, 09:54:01 AM
Bhavna,

dont worry dear friend! everything is a matter of time!!try not to think too much on it...i wud say live each day as it comes and eb thankfull to little things and u will feel better...dont think what will happen tomorrow..i know its silly but for soem time be that way..do ur work and come home..dont interact and try not to be affected by ur boss or colleagues...enjoy..ur life...as it is...for now and baba will grant u ur wishes soon..

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: gajanan bhakt on April 10, 2009, 11:19:22 AM
jai sai ram.
 may god bless all.
please help ur bhakts god. please show ur divine presence

jai sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 10, 2009, 10:23:18 PM
hi aquafish, gajananbhakt, geetanjali, abhishek
how are things going with u ppl?
i am praying and i am trying to keep my depression at bay..trying to take each day as it comes and jus waiting for sai to shower his blessings on us..
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 11, 2009, 11:28:03 PM
help me sai
now even tym is runnin out once he steps out of this country everything will end evrything
just one month left sai
please bless me sai..let me feel dat u exist...let me once again feel ur presence sai...like last tym u gave me darshan and removed my doubts let things work out this tym also..please sai...get me married please...i beg u ...all ur chidren here are beggin u forgive all of us and fulfill our wishes..please sai
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Starter on April 12, 2009, 06:47:54 AM
baba, please fulfill bhavana's wishes.
saibalali saibalaji saibalaji
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: gajanan bhakt on April 12, 2009, 09:24:44 AM
jai sai ram.

i got a reply in my post from rr sai bhakt. if possible please read that incident. its really important to surrender completely to baba.

i m telling my own experience. baba may not always fulfill our wish . we feel bad that he is not listening but in REALITY baba is trying to make something more better for our life. its only when we surrender to him keeping our ego aside, that we realise that baba is always with us. he is always trying to improve our life. but because of our ego we r not acccepting wat he is giving us.

he knows wat is better.

god bless

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on April 12, 2009, 09:29:39 AM
DEAR BHAVNA, DONT AGONIZE YOURSELF OVER THIS AGAIN AND AGAIN. I KNOW IT IS EASY TO SAY . BUT IN THE NAME OF SAI , PLEASE TRY TO LEAD A NORMAL DAILY LIFE. SAI WILL DO HIS LEELA WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECT IT. OM SAIRAM, JAI SAIRAM, JAI JAI SAIRAM.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 12, 2009, 09:50:54 AM
hello ganesh and gjanan bhakt
i know wat ur sayin
but i realized i interfere a lot in sais work
sai has already approved of both of us
wen we first broke up 2 yrs bak i kept sais chaliya and left tea read sat charita for the first tym sai blessed me in person this guy came bak to me within 2 weeks and after 3 months sai blessed both of us by callin us to shirdi. do u think it was a mere coincidence or my mind jus reading it in my favour i mean i want to c is as sais approval.
i think sai wants me to realize something important before we marry..and offlate i did realize i keep interfering in sais work though i have known it for a 2-3 months now i am unable to improve upon it  :(
i often use to go to shirdi from my college as it was very close but never really prayed to sai though i always had faith and i always told sai will come to u one day with the right man and first tym i went to shirdi was with this guy only....and den again wid him wen i begged sai t bless us by callin us dre as i have told u above??? can u please help me inderstand these signs??
i have complete faith in sai and noe i will try level best not to interfere
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on April 12, 2009, 11:01:47 AM
DEAR BHAVNA, PLEASE GIVE IT A LITTLE TIME. THE CLOUDS WILL PART AND YOU WILL GET YOUR ANSWER FROM SAI. OM SAIRAM, JAI SAIRAM, JAI JAI SAIRAM.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Amar_akshu on April 12, 2009, 11:25:13 AM
all problems will be solved by your grace...Jai Sri Ram !!!!!!!!!!!!
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 13, 2009, 06:19:10 AM
om sai ram
sai please give me some clear hint as to if this marriage is meant to be or should i just move on and give me courage and strength to accept whatever u decide for me
the only thing i can say is i love him a lot aned would want to be with him for the rest of my life


ANANTKOTI BRAHMANNAYAK RAJADHIRAJ YOGIRAJ PARBRAHAM SHRI SACHITANAND SADGURU SAINATH MAHARAJ KI JAI
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 13, 2009, 09:33:31 AM
Bhavna, akansha , geetanjali, gajanan ,

How r u all? I have been a bit busy with work so cudnt msg soon eough...Well all i can say is do what ur heart says...I know ppeople say we have to be practical..but being in love is so emotional..and u shud do what u want to do but just keep a stable mind...dont let it to get to u..

Bhavna u r so nice...so please dont be depressed...just think, baba will do it for me and i shudnt worry everytime u feel lik u r getting depressed..i am doing that..sometimes it works sometimes it doesnt....but continue doing it...

take care everyone,
Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 13, 2009, 11:17:50 AM
OM SAI RAM
thanks aquafish i will always remember wat u said
i will have fill faith and devotion in sai without any interference and den wat ever sai will decide i will accept it with courage
 sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Starter on April 13, 2009, 09:43:52 PM
saibalaji saibalaji saibalaji
Accept BABA'S wishes
HE KNOWS BEST
SAIBALAJI
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 14, 2009, 05:55:10 AM
om sai ram
 give me lots of courage baba help me be reall strong
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 14, 2009, 09:53:27 AM
Bhavna,

U r strong!! baba is behind u 100%...dont worry..things will work out!!! Love u
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 14, 2009, 10:54:41 AM
thank u aquafish
but just now i want to know if we are never supposed to get married then i shud get some clear cut hint ealrier i kept believing babas hints as his approval but if baba wants it to de other way then i want some clue
and to accept that i need lot of strength
i really love him a lot he also loves me but something is a problem
i wan t baba to help me
i pray everyday for all of us
and shradddha and saburi we all need
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 14, 2009, 10:55:55 AM
auqafish
ur a huge inspiration for me
 i really look fwd to ur messages
thyank u so much
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 14, 2009, 10:56:24 AM
bhavna,

I know what u mean...I am asking baba for signs too..but decided to forget all this for soemtime and see what baba does....i dont feel like doing anything at all..i need a sign soon...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 14, 2009, 10:57:52 AM
Bhavna,

i feel the same about u, akansha and geetanjali..each has their own problems and depressed abt it but when one of us needs some assurance u dont hesitate to give it...I am glad i found u girls on this forum..thanks for being there...gud things happen to gud people..u alla re and baba will definietly make it all better for u...
Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 14, 2009, 11:02:46 AM
om sai ram
pata hai
i dont know y i just end up sunaoin him or fitin wid this guy for doing this to me
i keep interfering in babas work
today i stopped talkin to this guy just replied to his sms
i dont know if its right but i need to stop interfering in sais work
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 15, 2009, 09:59:49 AM
Bhavna,

Dont give up!!! i think best method is to live our life and not mess it up and leave the relationship part to baba...hehe very easily said na..lekin karna mushkil hai...mujh darr bhi lagtha hai ki woh apne parents ko hurt nahi dekh saktha aur mujhe chod dega...i know heloves me but i still ahve that fear in my heart...baba pleas make me stronger and please get us married soon....Om sai ram!!!
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 15, 2009, 11:10:18 AM
hi aquafish
yeah i know we shud jus leave the relationship part to baba
now even i pray to sai that gimme that one happiness that i have been so longing for
tomo is thursday.lets hope for a miracle..:) :) :)
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 15, 2009, 11:24:41 AM
Bhavna,

I have had some miracles inlife becoz of baba...andi hope there is a amiracle in this aspect of my life too...Om sai ram...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: SaiKaKaran on April 15, 2009, 12:55:10 PM
baba don't get lovers separted from each other...shower your blessing on all true lovers baba....

om sai shree sai jaya jaya sai
om sai shree sai jaya jaya sai
om sai shree sai jaya jaya sai
om sai shree sai jaya jaya sai
om sai shree sai jaya jaya sai
om sai shree sai jaya jaya sai
om sai shree sai jaya jaya sai
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 15, 2009, 12:55:54 PM
Thank u saikakaran,

hope baba listens to u....Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 15, 2009, 01:02:47 PM
Hi Bhavna,

Have you done sai satcharitra, I read today that if you do this miracle happens, I hope you read my message before its too late, Tomorrow is thursday and I am starting it from tomorrow. It should be done in a week so i will start it from tomorrow and finish it next thursday. I just hope there is a miracle.

Om Sai Ram.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 16, 2009, 01:41:36 AM
hi rajeev
om sai ram
yes i have done a saptah of sai sat charita alot of times
jus finished one a month back also
i have kept chaliya also for sai
now i have left my fav food till sai gets me married to this guy
now i am just praying for all of us
and waiting wid shraddha and saburi for a miracle to happen
now i read sat charita almost veryday one chaptter
 om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rr_sai_bhakt on April 16, 2009, 01:58:03 AM
Hi Bhavna,

can you please let me know what chaliya is?

Om Sai Ram...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 16, 2009, 04:34:51 AM
Hi sai bhakt, bhavna

Chaliya is kept for 40 days. we go to temple and pray for 40 days.
Please correct me if i am worng.

om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 16, 2009, 09:09:58 AM
om sai ram
hello rajiv and rr_sai_bakht
yes chaliya is kept for 40 days are u leave ur most fav food and go to temple everyday and pray and den on 40th day u distribute food to poor
i have kept 3 of them till now twicw i left tea and coffee and oce non veg
but dis tym i have just left my fav food dat is non veg as per de advice in sai sat charita
i am jus waitin for that one miracle to happen in my life and only sai can do it for me
i beg u sai please forgive us for our sins in past and present please have mercy on us children
we will always bow to ur lotus feet please grant our wishes sai
tody is a thursday sai all ur bhakts wait with hope on dis day for u to bless dem and fulfill dre wishes
help us sai alll of us here need u very badly
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 16, 2009, 09:34:09 AM
Bhavna,

Today i want to start the sai charitha parayanam for 7 days. Lets see wht happens..I have left eevrything to baba now...I have no hopes left
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 16, 2009, 09:50:41 AM
Hi aquafish.

Even i have started it today only, I kept a fast today as well and will only eat after 12, i wouldnt eat anything today and i did not since yeasterday 12 in the night. I am desperation and can do anything in this desperation n ow

Om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 16, 2009, 10:09:44 AM
Rajiv,

Baba doesnt like people who fast. Trust me when u fast, u feel more desprate..COntinue eating as u normally do and with full concentration read the charitha and take baba's name...Fasting only makes it worse. This is the way I see it... and this is what my grandmother tells me too about baba...Om sai ram...Please dont be so desperate..Baba willt ake care of u....OM sai ram!!! Please Baba have mercy on everyone here and solve their problems...

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 16, 2009, 02:29:43 PM
Hi aquafish,

i ate coz u said baba does not like people who fast but i am fearing the worst, i am in the same situation as bhavna and she is not picking up her phone its been 15 days we spoke and i just dont know what to do and where to get any help from. I started sai charitra today but i am feeling even more helpless. I love her a lot and cant live without her.

Please help me sai ram you know how much i love her, i made her wear the ring in the engagement finger in front of u and prayed that we just get married very soon.one year now actually more and this is what you have done to us. what wrong did i do that you are punising me like this. We have come so many times to u with so many hopes please baba help me, i am dying each and every minute without her.

Jai sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 16, 2009, 05:33:50 PM
Rajiv,

Dont lose hope..she will come if its meant to be..dont feel helpless.calm down...eat well..dont spoil ur health..read chairtha when u want to...take baba's name whenever u r agitated...cool down and everything fall into place..

I am in same situation and i know its easy to tell people..but i myself get upset...just dont expect her call and think of sai and she will call u one day...take each day as it come....baba loves u and he will do the right thing!!!

Om sai ram...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 16, 2009, 06:07:08 PM
Hi aquafish

i am just dying for the day to come i cant even tell you how much we mean to each other but she is being pressurised too much by her family and the only reason they said no to me was coz of my religion. they tried everything in there strength to part us by talking crap about me but she loves and trusts me so much that she managed to talk everyone out of it but in the end they said no only on the basis of religion, though i must have gone to the gurudwara more than even her own family. I have kept about 15 chaliyas and did everything i could but i am and will keep trying my best. I got a paralytic attack coz of so much stress and i still walked 20 km to the gurudwara to pray for our togetherness on sticks. from next week i am going to walk about a mile away to gurudwara everyday another chaliya that ends on her birthday and i will go bare feet. This is the extent of my desperation but still nothing in front of the amount of love i have in me for her, i am just going crazy and trying everything i can even think of for our togetherness.

I beg you please pray for me. I have always believed in making my own destiny my way and worked more than hard to achieve anything and everything in life. I just hope sai baba helps me soon so that i can be with her as my wife for the rest of my life.

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rr_sai_bhakt on April 16, 2009, 07:41:32 PM
Rajiv ji,

Your love is really admirable ..... May Sai bless you always ... I am sure Sai Baba will unite both of you ... and you both will spend your life happily together .... Please continue your strong faith in Sai ... You have waited so long .... So please have some more patience .... I am sure Sai Baba will answer your prayers soon .... In the mean time please take care of your health too .... That is also very important ...

With hard work, true devotion to Sai and with Sai's blessings your destiny will be really wonderful ...

May Sai shower his blessings on both of you ...

Om Sai Nath ...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 17, 2009, 04:39:51 AM
hello everyone
i think we all are in the same situtaion
even i completed my sat charita saptah the 4th time dis tym last month wen i comcluded my 3rd chaliya
i guess we just have to have shraddha and saburi
we all have tried various ways to please sai but we just now need to give these 2 things sai always asked for
lets jus leave all to our sai nath
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 17, 2009, 09:38:34 AM
Everyone...I cudnt start my saptah...I have to start next week....I felt bad but cant help it...

Rajiv...u wills urely get the gal..Ur devotion and love will win u trhu..wish i cud say the same about myself...the pressure has started from my parents too and its making me go crazy...cant blame them, cant blame him and i am sandwiched in between..I dont know when baba will hear my pleas....

I will pray for u rajiv, i am praying for everyone....Baba will do everything for us!!! Hope, faith and patience is all we have,,
Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 17, 2009, 09:53:39 AM
Hi aquafish,

no problems start it from next week. we are supposed to keep patience i dont know for how long though, he just sits upstairs and watch us crying helplessly i just hope he listens as i am literally dying each day without her.

I have to do start my path now.

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 17, 2009, 10:32:10 AM
Rajiv,

thanks...dont worry...things will be fine..take care of ur health and dont stress out..atleast try...Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 17, 2009, 12:16:58 PM
om sai ram
help us now sai help us
how much more are we going to suffer bless us now
prove that ur just not a pathar ki moorti sittin over dre have mercy on us children
u gave me sakshat darshan last yr y r u sittin over dre all quiet wen we all here are so troubled
sai give me darshan again and dis tym i will not let go of ur feet till u bless all of us
grant jus one wish sai..i am sure that one blessin will c us thru this life....
i again promise will never stop chanting ur name and will always help the poor and the needy
will assimilate sai satcharita in our lives and follow it to the best of our ability
sai deliver us from our sins now sai
please grant our wishes ur children need u so very badly sai
om sai ram
ANANTKOTI BRAHAMAN NAYAK RAJADHIRAJA YOGIRAJ PARBRAHAM SHRI SACHITANAND SADGURU SAI NATH MAHARAJ KI JAI
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 18, 2009, 01:40:58 AM
hi all

i wanted to know that i want to keep a sai chiliya, i am also keeping a chiliya for gurudwara, can i keep it both together. Also where i stay i do not have any sai mandir here, is there a way i could still do the chiliya. I have a small murti of sai ram that she only gave to me as we believe a lot in him.

Also on a website there was a pattern written that how and what all chapters to do of sai charitra on what days for 7 days, is it necessary to follow that as i think i am ahead of what they had asked for in that website.

I am finishing my chiliya today.

Please advise

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 18, 2009, 01:47:44 AM
Hi

i found it
Day 1 Ch 1-6
Day 2 Ch 7-13
Day 3 Ch 14-22
Day 4 Ch 23-28
Day 5 Ch 29-35
Day 6 Ch 36-42
Day 7 Ch 43-51

But it was my second day yestrday and i did 14th chapter as well :-(
I will try to follow it from today
Aquafish i wish you all the best for next week
may sai bless us all and make our dreams come true

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 18, 2009, 06:49:40 AM
hi rajeev and hi aquafish
 all the best to both of u as u both of ur doin a saptah
 i am sure u will be able to start next week aquafish
and its more important to read sat charita with full devotion even if u manage only one chapter in a day just remember to finish it in 7 days
da counting of 1-6 etc is just made for our convenience the esence is to read the whole thing in a week
 dont worry always remember
" man mein rakhna dridh vishwas, kare samadhi poori aas"
OM SAI RAM

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Amar_akshu on April 18, 2009, 10:31:25 PM
BABA will bless and everything will be solved!!!!!!!!!!! OM SAI RAM!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: shova on April 19, 2009, 12:38:06 AM
SAI REHAM NAJAR KARANA APNE BACHON KA PALAN KARANA
JAI SAI RAM
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 19, 2009, 03:59:22 AM
om sai namo namah
shri sai namo namah
jai jai sai namo namah
sadguru sai namo namah
jus keep remembering shre sai and all will happen as desired
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 19, 2009, 08:58:34 AM
hi all
can you please tell how can i do sai chaliya, i do not have any sai temple here where i stay

om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 19, 2009, 12:53:47 PM
hi rajeev
all u have to do is sit infront of sai's foto and tell him dat ur starting a chaliya in ur name and u will leave one fav food of urs in that mean tym
u can go to any temple for dese forty days sai always said all gods are one and da same so u will find sai in every temple some in form of ram some in form of hanuman dey all are sai only
so jus start now ur chaliya and dont think abt anything else
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 20, 2009, 09:19:49 AM
Hi all,

Tell me one thing we all are asking sai for something or the other and it is the most important thing of our life,  if sai does not give it what do we do.

om sai ram


Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 20, 2009, 09:38:54 AM
Rajiv,

Tats a valid question but i dont think we want to think about that painful time now..lets just hope sai blesses us with the positive answer but if we ahve to have the other way then i think sai himself will give us the strength for that too..But i hope from the bottom of my heart that no one has to take that path..Baba please bless each one of ur children and give us the happiness we desire with the ones we love..please hear us!!
rajiv whatever u do, finish in 1 week tats all, its ok if u read 1 page on a day but just finish it in 7 days...I will start this thursday and hopefully can finish it ....

Bhavna how r u? Bless u...u r such a nice soul..hope everything gud happens to u...

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 20, 2009, 09:54:26 AM
Hi aquafish,

I am actually quite ahead of what was given in sai baba's website which i had sent to you earlier. I will finish it quite early inside 7 days, there is nothing at all to do except work and pray now. all weekend that is all i did so lets see. also starting a chaliya in a day or two, its quite cold where i am but still planning to go bare feet for those 40 days for about a mile and give it my best with complete devotion, although she does not even talk to me and i dont even know how is she as there is no way to find out and she does not answer my phone i dont even know how is she nothing at all but i still love her. I am just in a dark room with i hope sai holding my hands and either he will leave me in hell or heaven i dont know. just keeping on my faith.

om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 20, 2009, 10:05:01 AM
Rajiv,

Dont give up...well take cae of ur health..u dont want to hurt urself in the process...have faith and keep praying but take care of urself too..Om sai ram..u will get ur love with baba's grace....
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 20, 2009, 11:09:20 AM
Hi aquafish

I dont know i feel very scared at times but dont have much of an option than just pray. this would be if not less then may be 16th or 17th chaliya in lss than two years, i do one and start the next one straight after, its been almost same time that i left non veg and now my most favourite thing but nothing seems to be working, i told u no that i am just in a tunnel holding baba's hand its upto him where he wants to push me to hell or heaven but after doing all this if i still end up in hell i wouldnt be able to trust in god ever again i feel it very strongly coz never ever in my life have i prayed so much but i have been regular though, lets see i am just waiting for a miracle and the day it happens you guys will be the first one to know or if it is a disaster then too coz i have no one else to share anything now except you all.

I hope you start your sai charitra this week, i will remind you on wednesday if i remember too coz my mind does not work too well now a days.

Om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Persis on April 20, 2009, 11:16:50 AM
Om Sai Ram

Im not sure what problem I have, becos my life is at crossroads and I dont know where to turn.
I was married for 12 yrs, me being a parsi and him a sindhi(hindu).
Our marriage did not last and I was divorced in Jul'08.
I was staying that time in Dubai.
After I got divorced, I had no place to stay, so I had to come to my parents who are in Canada.
Now the problem is that since im still a visitor I cannot work here in Canada legally.
I have to wait 2yrs for my permanent residence status.
Im worried how will I survive with whatever savings I had?
Secondly will I ever re-marry. I got one proposal from India, and I did like it, but I cannot exit Canada for 2yrs.
What am I doing wih my life?  I feel so guilty at times.
Please help me go through this uncertainty feeling in my heart and mind.
Persis.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 20, 2009, 01:12:55 PM
hi persis
dont worry tk name of sai and he will do everything right
i really dont know the reason for the divorce but i am sorry to hear that


hi aquafish,bhavna

dont you tink god plays it in a very win win situation if he does not do what we ask for we think that oh god must have something better in his mind for us or may be something like oh what he has done is right he  cant do wrong and if he does what we want then we say that oh we did the prayers and got what we wanted.

om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 20, 2009, 01:58:07 PM
well rajiv,

tats how it is...we try to think whatever happens to us happens for good otherwise we cant go on..tats why people commit suicides becoz they cannot accept a situation and turn it to positive...thats how the human race survives by making the situation work out...so yes god has a win win situation...lol...we are so stupid!!!!

Om Sai Ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 20, 2009, 04:27:18 PM
hi aquafish

we really are indeed very stupid
we put our complete trust in him waiting for him to act
whether it is positive or negative we have to accept it
i am quite ahead of my schedule to complete sai charitra
can anyone please tell me how to go about on thursday
i will keep a fast
when do i have to do the arti in the morning or evening or both the times
and what all do i have to do
i have a small murti of sai baba
please advise

om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 20, 2009, 05:16:20 PM
u can do arti whenever u want..just do that arti during that time..tat is do morning arti in morning...u know what i mean...again u can eat fruits and milk instead of one meal but dont starve urself..whats the point in praying to baba with no energy and thinking abt food...health is imp which is god's gift and we need to maintain that..

well i just wish our stupidity gets us what we desire...i dont think i can ever beleive in baba if he doesnt make my love successful..all i can do is pray and hope..
Hope baba listens to all of us...

Om sai ram!!
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: kedar on April 21, 2009, 12:32:58 AM
relax bhavna....don worry at all...wateva it is atleast u hav ur love support wit u...den y worry...juz sit back relax n leave it upon sai baba...he noes how much d love of our life is imp 2 us...he has 2 help u...don worry...be happy...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: sagarika on April 21, 2009, 06:31:32 AM
OMSAIRAM...

Baba please help Bhavna... please solve her problem..


OMSAIRAM
OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Starter on April 21, 2009, 06:32:47 AM
saibalaji saibalaji saibalaji
if u r strong in your love, no one can force u
just bleive in sai and be firm
saibalaji
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 21, 2009, 05:15:53 PM
hi bhavna, aquafish
how are you
aquafish just reminding you that you have to start ur sai charitra this thursday
i dont know as per your time zone but its wednesday already here
i am going fine with the sai charitra
actually ahead but i was missing her so much today that i was just listening to songs i used to sing for her
then got very disturbed and started the paath
went to mandir too as i was feeling very low and cried a lot there today
it has been a month that she has called me
i dont even know if she loves me anymore or not
anyways i am just waiting for sai to get me married to her or atleast give me mukti coz i am sick and tired of this life now
i have seen a lot at a very young age already and he knows it all
now dont have the patience to take anything anymore
i hope you are doing good
9 is such an important number in sai charitra and both of us are number 9 in numerology :)
but nothing works
anyways lets just wait and wait, till when i dont know

om sai ram
jai sai ram
jai jai sai ram
sai sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 22, 2009, 09:37:15 AM
Rajiv,

thanks for the reminder..yeah i remember..tday is wednesday...will start tomorrow..hope i do it successfully!!! u know some one said in the vidhaan, we shud offer some money every day to baba for 7 days and on thursday give all this money in temple..maybe i overanalysed it or its a sign...i never have single notes with me or any cash..but yday i paid a toll and i got 6 single notes in change and i have 1 note in my purse so total 7 singles for each day....i am taking it as a sign from Baba and going ahead with the saptaah...I will mention all your names in my prayers and hopefully everything works out for us..dont give up rajiv, keep having faitha nd atake care of ur health too...

Bhavna, akansha(where r u) , geetanjali, gajanan and sagaraika...how r u? hope u r still haning on and please dont get depressed everyoe..it makes u and only u worse..so cheer up and pray to baba to make us happy with our loves..
Om sai ram!!!
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 22, 2009, 11:09:23 AM
ho aquafish

i actually plan to donate 9 coins tomorrow in mandir of the same amount i finish it tomorrow but i did a lot of the path on the weekend so quite ahead. i am just slowing it now coz i want to do one chapter tomorrow and then aarti. u know i read a discussion today only where the guy had written that y do parents oppose and all and you also wrote something there so i replied there too. I dint know that we should donate everyday but today while i was coming back home i saw a lady and she was collecting money for poor and disabled children and i gave all the coins i had in her bucket and she looked up and said to me god bless you i just said to her i really need his blessings. yesterday when i went to the temple i cried a lot and kept asking sai baba for a hint. lets see i am finishing my saptah tomorrow and i also started a chaliya today so going bare feet. it was very cold today in the morning but i will do it no matter what.
all the best for your saptah aquafish and how are u bhavna anything good
tomorrow is thursday so u might have ur fast too

om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 22, 2009, 11:12:35 AM
No fast for me...I love food too much...lol...juss kdding..i fall sick soon when i fast...so just saptah..yeah we shud give soemtimes...


I read that discussion too about parents...wake up parents!! dont do this to us..we have enough problems as it is...hopefully they listen..and they are baba devotees too..i dont know why they dont get it...Baba has to do something about this!!!
Good luck on ur chaliya...take care of ur health....
God bless u...
Om sai ram...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 22, 2009, 11:50:27 AM
hello all
aquafish, rajiv, geetanjali. abhishek, akansha starter
jus have been feeling very depressed offlate
there is problem in every sphere of my life be it wid dis guy or work
sometimes i just feel like running away from this life
i am feeling really awful...baba is jus so indifferent such amazing problems have arisen at work and i cant even quit cause its my post grad course dat i am into..such politics
and dis guy had a fite yesterday wid him i he screamed at me very badly and it was actually a very small thing and jus blew out of proportion but wen i said now u don call or sms he bacame normal he suddenly gets scared of losing me den y cant he jus marry me????
y baba y....i have done every possible thing...prayed to u how ever i cud watever i heard i did...now wat more do u want from me wen will all dese miseries end?
my last fast tomo.....for sometym i am not goin to do any more chaliyas or saptahs will jus pray to sai...saburi i will keep..if sai will not fullfil our desires will never step into dwarkamai again......den he is just another pathar ki murti...will forget dat he ever blessed me in da fom of that old beggar or called me and dis guy to shirdi together twice wen i begged him to call us and bless us to be married....i take dose as positive hints from sai regarding me nad dis guy...but if it does not happen then there is no sai...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 22, 2009, 12:09:18 PM
Hi Bhavna.

Believe me even i dont know if he really exists or not coz the amounbt of prays i have done in the last two years i have not done this much all my life may be it gurudwara mandir masjid or church but i am still clinging on to some hope i really dont know what

this is for sure i will go mad very soon if things dont start falling in place soon as i dont know but people around me do tell me this that u start talking to urself without realising you are. I just go into some sort of trans mode and forget everything, i have spoiled my health and life too much that i dont think i will ever be able to come out of it

i just hope i get married to her soon.

atleast you guys talk, i have not even spoken to her since a month and if i call her she does not pick up the phone also, no replies anywhere nothing

i just keep praying that she is fine and second that i get married to her as soon as possible now
yesterday i was feeling so low that i did not even do the sai charitra for long. i keep doing it but keep thinking about her all the time

i really dont know what to do and what not
is there anyone who can tell me something
is there no way life could just finish
rather than seeing so many troubles its not worth living
and till life goes on problems will keep coming
i am slowly but surely giving up badly
i just hope she comes back to me i am dying everyday without her
i love her a lot and dont know what to do to convince her parents
anyone any ideas that if i plan to talk to them what do i talk to them about
i am just going crazy day by day
baba please help us i beg u on behalf of everyone please please please help us baba
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 22, 2009, 01:16:23 PM
hi  rajiv
i dont know wat to say to u
sai is all we have though my days are goiin from bad to worse- as soon as it seems things are improvin between me and dis guy and he mite commit qll things jus come crashin down
even work is posing such problems sometimes i feel like leavin all of it and running away to someplace far
i think i have a very buri kismat i will pass the rest of my life like dis only crying and praying in the hope that this pathar ki murti mite show some mercy on me and give me happiness
sai kar de na ab ek ishaara....y cant u give us dis one happiness don give us anythin else jus dis jus dis sai plzzzz
aaj toh thursday hai.....ab to reham kar de malik
OM SAI RAM
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 22, 2009, 01:27:21 PM
Bhavna and Rajiv,

COme on u guys!!! U r the ones who have so much faith in him..I cant even do half the things u guys do or did...Just trust him some more time..he will get thru all this..he will make it up to u for all the bad times...dont give up!!! baba will help us, he should and he will...take care of ur health!!! get out, go for a walk....listen to some music....got to a movie with friends...do something for urself..something only for u..be selfish for once...and then see how ur mood feels...once we start livning for others we hurt ourselves...live life for a moment just for u and then go back to ur thoughts about the ones u love...i know sounds silly but helps...do a little bit for urself and baba will whelp u...I just hope he hears us....

I dont even know if i can move on either if this doesnt work out...but till that doesnt happen, lets not thing abt tata..think positively and move ahead.Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 22, 2009, 01:37:45 PM
hi aquafish
yes will do that wat u jus said...
am jus feeling awful rt now
jus waitin for it to be mornin so that i can go to sai temple
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 22, 2009, 02:17:22 PM
hi aquafish and bhavna

i agree with what you ssay aquafish but its really difficult specially when after doing so much u see nothing at all from anywhere
if baba wants us to keep faith in him he has to do something for us
my friend just came from india and i got to have prasad from shirdi as he went there
i asked him to keep my favourite food dont know if he did it or not but i still left it
i wouldnt have it now
dont know till when i but really cant survive without it
she knows it and if she comes to know she would have scolded me a lot
i already left non veg since about a year n a half now
just doing everything
i dont know what else to do
everyday when i do sai charitra i beg sai baba for her only nothing else
i just love her so much even he knows
he also says god help them who helps themselves
i am ready to do anything he asks me to as long as it does not hurt her in anyway
but he is not telling me anything
what do i do i dont know
i am just going crazy
can you please tell me what should i do i finish my saptah kal
i have finished all the chapters of charitra but left aarti and one more thing for tomorrow
all he helped me after keeping this saptah was that tomorrow my car is getting crushed for not paying taxes :D
but i dont care about anything for now i am just thinking about her
u are saying go for movies i have not been to a hall since i last went with her
read book i hate it all i do is read sai charitra
go out for walk i have left myself handicapped and walk on sticks now
i still go bare feet for a mile just to beg god to get me married to her
what else can i do
i just want god to say do this and i will
commuting to and back from work has become hell
i heard some music yesterday and it made me even more depressed
anyone i see i start thinking she has hair like her she used to wear this and all
what
what do i do i dont know
and sai baba has literally got us himself on the verge of loosing the love of my life
i love her more than anyone i was even ready to get settled in india back again if her parents want me to
everything
and bhavna even i am suffering a lot at work but all u have to do is keep a smiling face
plastic smile only but u dont have an option
i never let anybody know i am sad or suffering
even my family back in india does not know anything coz i dont have any right to give them any tensions
thats all i can suggest u
keep a PLASTIC smiling face
keep reminders as i forget almost everything now a days
anything else u need help with let me know
i will try my best to help you out
and keep faith in him
one day he has to listen

om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 22, 2009, 02:45:34 PM
http://www.saibabaofindia.com/download_mp3_audio_of__the_sri_sai_satCharita.htm
this has the complete sai charitra
u could get it on ur ipod or something if u like
should be helpful

om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 22, 2009, 02:52:50 PM
Rajiv,

Please get a hold on urself..This is not gud for u!!! baba will help u and u shud help urself too...Esp when u r in a diff country i know how it can be..I am in the same situation but please do something to get u out of this please..u need to be healthy and ready for whatever baba will give to u..u r killing urself in this way...baba doesnt want u to do that...faith is important but losing ur health is not what is needed..i know how it is being reminded of everything when u see stuff or people...but u have to stay strong for her  to come back to u...Baba will help u rajiv, he will definitely help u..i dont know why but i have that feeling...all i am asking u as a fellow sai devotee...we are all family here...please take care of ur health...

Bhavna work is crappy...u shudnt let it be affected by our life..coz if that happens work ishell too...as rajiv said plastic smile..tats what we can do and pray but dont do only tat...

All i am asking u is that when finally baba comes to us we shudnt be in a position where we cannot receive...please think positively and ask baba to bless us!!!

Bless  u all..Stay healthy!!! Be happy for urself for now and baba will give us happiness thru others...My sincere prayers are with u all...baba please take care of them!!!

Om sai ram...
Title: baba when you solve our problems.
Post by: priya03ss on April 22, 2009, 04:50:35 PM
Baba!

You know that we are believing you a alot!Every week we come together and pray you in the temple.Even we came to shiridi twice.why u're creating problems like this.when my husband and myself will get jobs.From past one year we are suffering with out jobs and we are facing so many difficulties.when u solve our problems.what is the reason of  making us to suffer like this...you're the one who can solve our problems..you know everything..you can do anything ...what  is making you to stop of solving our problems ...please reply me and answer to my question.

please help me baba!we pray you for ever.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 23, 2009, 07:25:31 AM
hi all
aquafish did u start the saptah today
bhavna did u go to temple today
i am i dont know feeling very scared from within
did not sleep at all
how was your day
om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 23, 2009, 09:33:32 AM
Rajiv,

Its morning for me and got to work..will start in the evening!! will include u gys in the prayers..dont worry..one of those days..take a deep breath....have a glass of water and chant his name!! bless u
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 24, 2009, 02:09:27 AM
hi aquafish,bhavna

how are you
did you manage to start your path now
bhavna, no post from you since long now
any progress on work

om sai ram
 
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 24, 2009, 06:12:15 AM
hi aquafish, rajeev akansha, geetanjali, gajananbhakt
work toh chal hi raha hai
but i am beginin to give up hope wre dis guy is concerned
pata nahi i cant even leave him i jus love him so much
i am ready to do anything to be with him for the rest of my life
but sai it seems is angry wid me he did not even give me darshan dis thursday somethin jus kept comin up and i couldnt even go to da temple
he calls and talks to me all da tym but earlier we use to meet everyday and have dinner together but now its only on weekends everything jus kills me i jus want to be with him....
plz baba ur our only hope plz forgive our sins and bless us baba dont be cruel only u can do dis for us,,plz baba plz
help now help
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 24, 2009, 09:45:57 AM
Bhavna and rajiv,

I successfully completed the 1st day of my saptah...My book has only 21 chapters so i am going to read 3 at a time!!! I felt peaceful when i finished it...and hope to finish it on time...My bf said he wud come to the temple with me after i am done...I am asking baba for some sign regarding my marriage to him...I have been to shirdi only once in my life and i hope to go again after marriage to my guy...hpe baba does that..

bhavna dont give up..baba will listen to u..live ur life, well go to temple today...u can see baba anytime!!!

rajiv, take care of ur health...

om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 24, 2009, 10:07:48 AM
Hi aquafish,

I think there are 51 chapters. Please check properly so that it is not left incomplete.
If you want i can mail you the whole sai charitra i have it downloaded
else i posted a link the other day where you could download it as audio file and listen
i dont know may be i am wrong
but please do check

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 24, 2009, 10:22:10 AM
Rajiv,

I have a book about sai by bharadwaja...tahts the one i always read so i will finish that book...i like this book and dont want to start any other book...its about baba so i think i shud be fine!!! and once i am done with this maybe i will start guru charitha too..that one i have to be more disciplined with what i eat , etc...lets see...thanks anyways..
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 24, 2009, 10:24:04 AM
hi aquafish

well ya could be as i just did it for the first time so whatever i found on the website i just downloaded it and did that.
I hope you finish it on time.
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 24, 2009, 01:53:20 PM
hi aquafish,bhavna
i am feeling too low now i dont think i can live such a life anymore believe me this is worse than death
she does not even talk to me i dont know what to do and how to even talk to her
leave aside meeting her
anything you can think of i can do to talk to her
i am going mad
sai baba is also not helping in anyway
i am feeling very scared
please help sai baba
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rr_sai_bhakt on April 24, 2009, 02:07:01 PM
Dear Rajiv,

Please take care of yourself ... the more you think about your current situation the more you will feel bad ....
Please try to involve yourself in some activity that takes your mind away from all these things ....

Is there any charity organization near where you live where you can go and volunteer?

Please try it and see the difference it brings to your attitude and your approach to life .... and it will also bring Sai Baba's blessings on you ...

Dont worry so much ... Everything will become allright at the right time ...

May Sai bless you ...

Om Sai Ram ...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 24, 2009, 02:12:31 PM
raaaajiiiiiivvvvvvv
dont give up hope..baba is there na now jus keep shraddha and saburi
c wen i  am low u and aquafish helped me out we all will always be there for each other dont worry jus keep rememberin him in any way u like,,,fite with baba if u want to but don give up

hello aquafish
 tell me somethin i went to shirdi with dis guy once.... after a few months we broke up wen i prayed to sai he brought him bak and den we both went to shirdi together i had told sai to call us only if he wants us together forvever...we did end up goin...is this a positive sign from baba???? but this was an year bak and dre are no signs of us gettin married after some initial talk at his house which was also an yr bak...y?y?i have been to shirdi many times and i always told baba will come with the right guy to u definately went wid him still we both are faaaaar from being married...
help na sai..all of us ...plz....waitin for ur answer baba......
give a sign to anyone of us plz..any of my frens here plz baba......
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 24, 2009, 02:15:14 PM
bhavna
this feeling kills
atleast u have ur family with u
i dont even have them
what do i do
i called her she does not even pick the phone
wat do i do
i love her so much
has she forgotten everything

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 24, 2009, 02:16:36 PM
he atleast has to make us feel his presence
i keep begging him that if i slp tonight i need u to come and tell me something
nothing
he does not have a heart
he is not bothered about anyone
i dont know what to do
i feel helpless
even he is not helping me

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 24, 2009, 02:19:09 PM
bhavna,

I understand what ur going thru..mine is the same thing...he talked to his parents an year ago and they said no and he doesnt wanna talk abt it and my parents r putting pressure on me..its killing me...well take it positive as baba doesnt do anything without a reason..hang in there as i am....i know its hard and u feel like u r hurting ur parents for being so patient and cant get angry at the guy for doing nothing abt it and when u share it with someone they say leave the guy..etc etc..but he is thinking abt his parents too...only baba can give us the answer so lets hope for the best and do waht is inour control tat is waiting...baba please bless us...baba never gives me a sign..but yday after i read the cahritha, i called him and he spoke nicely..is that a sign? i dont know..maybe we shud stop looking for signs and just have faith and keep praying and he will grant us the wish...

take care and be safe my friend...Om sai ram!! just hang in there

Rajiv,

I am living alone too..no family and relatives dont start..its become a joke for eveyone to see me waiting for him..and i dont talk to them anymore as i cant handle ppl talkign bad abt it...only i understand what he is going thru too..well as i said..dont look for a sign just pray and wait...keep ur health....

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 24, 2009, 02:22:42 PM
hi rajeev
i know i have gone thru this once wid him jus earnestly pray all will happen as desired sai will test dats y don give up,,,jus whenever  feel anything...love, anger hatred joy jus remember sai all will be okay
dont worry we all are there for u
and keep callin her plus find out from common sources as to what exactly is she upto
dont worry
am always dre for u
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 24, 2009, 02:25:06 PM
i dont have any common sources at all
i dont knw anything about her
how is she
what is she doing
nothing

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 24, 2009, 02:26:41 PM
we just keep waiting praying to him
i am doing it since last 2 years like a crazy dog
he does nothing
i dont know what to do
i am feeling very restless

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 24, 2009, 03:04:41 PM
dont be restless...we are all there for u...baba will never leave u..he will take care of u..email to her and ask her just to say she is fine...email is better than calling....and keep praying!!! baba will hear u soon!!!

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: saikripa.dimple on April 25, 2009, 01:30:55 AM
Om sai ram
thank u smg www.yoursaibaba.com web site batane ke liye
really it's nice
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 25, 2009, 09:27:02 AM
hi aquafish hi rajiv
plz plz help me really
my mum showed my patri to a pandit he said that was this yog for me to get married to this guy but now it wont happen he will not marry me
is dat a sign from sai??? sai in sat charita pg 146 of english version has so clearly said that do not believe in astrologers jus have faith in my words
i am very scared.... baba its u i have put my trust in u who i love...plz tell me wre i am goin rong,,y are u not answering my prayer help me sai plz help me be there sai
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on April 25, 2009, 11:12:15 AM
DEAR BHAVNA, let me give you an example of astrology. according to not one but atleast 100 astrologers i was supposed to be living like a king  according to one, at a ministerial level according to another , and not survive the age of 18 according to yet another one. needless to say none of this came true.
if an astrologer can predict everything , then why does god exist and the world will turn upside down if everybody knows their future. so dont worry . keep faith in sai , he and only he knows your future . DO NOT LOSE FAITH IN SAI. HE WILL NOT LET YOU DOWN. HE WILL DO WHAT IS GOOD FOR YOU. god bless. OM SAIRAM, JAI SAIRAM , JAI JAI SAIRAM.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 25, 2009, 11:26:35 AM
hi bhavna
dont believe in all this astrology please they will say anything at any time, i am sorry for such a late reply but please tell me just one thing what exactly did he say as its not very clear but in the end these people are not god so please dont worry
om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 26, 2009, 05:10:14 AM
hi bhavna aquafish

how are you doing
anything new
i am loosing all my hopes now
u wouldnt see me here for too long now
i am just loosing it
i cant keep my faith in him anymore coz he has to do something to make me have some faith in him
if there is some one and he knows that i am praying with so much heart and faith to him for just one thing he should atleast once tell me or guide me
i am just going around and dont know where

i dont think he will bless me or not but i will try and pray for you guys coz i dont know how long i will pray but i dont think it will be too long now

my still have faith but i dont have patience anymore really loosing it and quick now

may sai bless you

om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 26, 2009, 05:45:30 AM
hi rajeev
dont give up plz
even i am feelin very low i am actually sittin n cryin rt now but kya kare sai hi toh ek hai jo kuch kar sakta hai
iske bina kahan jayenge hum
pata nahi baba kitni aur pariksha lenge.....
me toh feels ki ab i shud jus die mera kuch bhi karne ka dil nahi karta kuch aaccha nahi lagta
sai man jao na..itne kathor kyon ho
hamara koi nahi hai madad karo sai madad karo
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 26, 2009, 06:00:01 AM
bhavna

i told you i am just giving it a few more days to this i will finish my chaliya and after that i dont think i will be able to trust god love anything from then he really has to convince us of his presence 2 years i have waited but i am giving up now
i dont know what to do or say but ya if you can then keep praying i will just finish my chaliya and after that i dont know what will i do problem is i dont say anything to anyone but if i am upset i do something to myself so many times out of frustration i have banged my head on walls when i go crazy i am one crazy dog but this time i have really lost it completely and no hopes from sai is only deteriorating everything further so lets see come june my chaliya finishes after that i dont know what wil happen

i will keep fasts and everything still go to temple in such a bloody cold weather bare feet and still nothing at all wht more can i do now i dont know

sai if you are there please make us all feel your presence else we are loosing all our hopes

om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: manmeet on April 26, 2009, 06:57:05 AM
rajiv ji
om sai ram
                    please have faith on baba and surrender yourself fully to him. i think baba knows better what is good for us.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 26, 2009, 07:16:14 AM
hi rajiv and hi manmeet
aquafish wre are u???
i know wat u mean manmeet dat sai will do best for us
but we all turned to sai cuase sai said man mein rkhna dridh vishwas kare samadhi poori aas
agar wohi hona hai ji hona hai fir itna sab karne ki kya zaroorat ham bhi aur logon ki tarah selfish ho ke rahen ge
hey sai tu ek pathar ki murti hi hai kay? we all are prayin so much to u...doing everything possible dat we can afford to do
agar hum koi galti kar rahen hai kuch kami hai toh hume bata do na sai but plz don be angry we dont have neone except u
sai ab hume khushi de do baba aur kitna rona hoga aur kitna baba saburi toh rakhi hai na hum ne
tere dwarkamai mein hi i came wid my love and begged u to marry us ab apne tere gyarah vachan ke bharose hi i am waitin sai
humari madad karo baba
rajiv auqafish manmeet gitanjali abhishek lets jus pray without thinkin
i know we all get depressed but lets jus pray and not give up
sai and hope dat sai will bless us is keeping us alive
om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 26, 2009, 07:50:06 AM
if things just have to happen on there own then y do we have to pray and beg our wits out in front of sai
then we should just not pray for anything and have no wishes to keep in front of him coz anyways whatever he wants to do he will do
if we dont get it we say oh  it must have been for our good else we say oh he gave it to us
to keep trust in him i feel its high time that he should help us somehow isnt it
tell me manmeet how is he helping us
2 years he wants us to pray more
till when
till we see our own partners with some one else
then everyone here will start saying oh may be sai has something better in his mind for you
so where do we go

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on April 26, 2009, 08:25:37 AM
dear rajiv, i am taking the liberty of replying to your post. if i have interfered in something i am sorry. i apologize. as regards your question of
"why should we pray when what is going to happen is going to happen ?" - well .  when you are born or reborn , there is a life ordained for you . but you have the power to change it 50% through your own efforts and 50% by praying to god. but gods 50% is worth much more than our 50% bcos he can change our bad karma and make our life more bearable. if you have misunderstood , that by praying to sai you will get a solution within 24/48 hours , you are greatly mistaken my friend. but by praying to him  , what may have otherwise taken 8 years , will be reduced to say 2 years.

as to your  question "it is 2 years and he still wants us to pray more ..." - he has not asked anybody to pray to him. people come to him at the 11th minute when they are in trouble and pray for overnight solutions. you pray if you feel it in your heart, if not you should not .bcos without faith prayer will not bring any results.  and none of us know how much "bad karma" we have do we ? so to continue praying is the only way. until one fine morning sai blesses you.

as to "when we see our own partners with someone else ...." it is quite possible. i am sure you have heard the saying "dane dane par hota hai khane wale ka naam" similarly , if it is ordained that your association with the person you so badly want is going to bring disaster in your life , then sai may try and give you signs by delaying, etc but in the end you want her at all cost then he will give the person to you in most cases. but then dont complain later , bcos you asked for it at all costs.

sum and substance, my humble request to you is , in your frustration please dont leave praying to sai with faith. to be honest a few years ago i asked the same question to my mother , why pray when what is going to happen , is going to happen ? .at that time i was on top of the world from all points of view.
then a fall came in which i lost everything. not so long back i found sai again and he is helping me manage my life. god bless. OM SAINATHAYA NAMAHA.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: manmeet on April 26, 2009, 09:14:39 AM
dear bhavna and rajiv
om sai ram
what is yours nobody can take away from you, and what is not, you can bend heaven,you will never retain it for long. That is the law of universe. God is just and God is merciful and God has given each and every creation of His, HIS very breath. God loves all but my dear, He is't blind.
          So don't ask for worldly things, pray for peace of mind. pray for streanth and wisdom. pray BABA to be with us always thats all.
BABA knows better what is good for us. surrender yourself and let the things happen. please try to understand what i mean.
                   
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on April 26, 2009, 09:59:46 AM
dear manmeet, like rr_ji you are like a breath of fresh air to this forum. keep up the good work. god bless. OM SAIRAM.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 26, 2009, 10:43:35 AM
hi ganesh and manmeet
i have prayed all my life i did not go to him in the last minute and started asking him for what i need
but yes in the last two years i have done the same with much more faith and devotion thinking that i will get the result, 2 years i am still praying without any mercy from him, and i am still doing it and will keep doing it but lets see how long for as i am giving up slowly, if he is there then he is responsible as well to make sure we do not loose any faith in him, he came in her dreams and said that you pray me and i will give you what you want and i am still doing it with full faith, i just hope he does something to keep it up

om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: manmeet on April 26, 2009, 10:48:07 AM
dear rajiv
             om sai ram
                                   MAY BABA BLESS YOU
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on April 26, 2009, 10:59:42 AM
DEAR RAJIV, HE WILL. I ASSURE YOU. OM SAIRAM.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: manmeet on April 26, 2009, 10:24:20 PM
om sai ram
FOR THOSE WHO ARE IN LOVE, BHAVNA RAJIV AND..................ALL
                   your sadness and frustrations are of your own doing. If you go deep within yourself,you will realize that you have created your own sorrows. You possess everything but enjoy nothing, you are surrounded by the people all the time but are terribly lonely.
                   please please please yahan computer per bethne se mails karne se frustrations ziada barenge. please do somthing creative. Baba ki teachings ko follow karo. bhukhon ko kHana kHilao. needy logon ki help karo kuchh karo un logo ke liye kuchh karo jinhe tumhari zaroorat he. tum sirf apne hi bare me sochte ho, are you selfish? no, you are BABA's devotee, please help the poor. hamesha mangte ho baba se baba meri shadi kara do, baba please mera pyar dila do baba,  aur kuchh nahi he duniya me utho yahan se aur help karo aur logon ki jinhe rtumhari zaroorat he. AND PLEASE KEEP ON PRAYING CHANT HIS NAME WITH FULL DEVOTION. MAY BABA BLESS YOU WHAT YOU WANT
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: manmeet on April 26, 2009, 10:27:04 PM
THANK YOU GANESH JI,
   
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: manmeet on April 26, 2009, 10:37:06 PM
om sai ram THANK YOU GANESH JI,
                                    All with HIS blessings, But you are the true devotee of SAI BABA, i always see you online devoting too much time for this noble cause. your all posts are really appriciable. every word of your post is heart touching.
i only want to help those who are after worldy things, i know we all are human beings agar kuchh hamare hath me nahi he to hum apne bhagwan se he mangege, but ganesh ji i think why WE  don't understand this thing "KHUDI KO KAR BULAND ITNA KI KHUDA BANDE SE PUCHHE BATA TERI RAZA KAYA HE"
   
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: vs0831 on April 27, 2009, 01:46:22 AM
SATYA SAI RAM

BABA everyone has surrender their life at your feet. Please look into our prayers and shower your blessings

BABA please be with all of us and please give us the best and positive results.

JAI SAI RAM
JAI SAI RAM
JAI SAI RAM
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 27, 2009, 01:52:07 AM
Manmeet,
I have myself done everything i can, in the country i am in i dont have poors here to give food to and all but i have done sewa in all the forms i can helped old aged people, pets who are disowned by there owners, even trying to adopt a pet but i know i wouldnt be able to care as i am at work all day and dont have maids and stuff like we have in india and i stay alone here, did sewa in gurudwara, everything but when your mind is disturbed so badly then nothing pacifies it, i will be honest even when i used to do sai charitra i used to be very restless from within, what you are saying is right but when atleast with me it is like that if my mind and heart is not at peace nothing interests me, nothing at all.

om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: manmeet on April 27, 2009, 02:10:45 AM
dear rajiv
           om sai ram
                                i understand your feelings, please try to understand what i mean, i think i am elder and mature enough to advice you. please consider it as your elder sisters advice. i am not against love marriages  i also had love marriage experience. do one thing keep on praying like this "I HAVE FAITH YOU WILL TAKE CARE OF ME AND WILL NOT LET ME DOWN. I HAVE FULL FAITH IN YOU AND WHATEVER HAPPENS YOU KNOWS BEST AND IT IS HAPPENING WITH YOUR PERMMISSION AND APPROVAL AND AS IT IS HAPPENING WITH YOUR BLESSING THEN NOTHING COULD BE BETTER FOR ME THAN THIS"                      The most important thing is that whatever takes place is accepted gracefully and with positive surrender as the will of BABA. The consequences are accepted calmly and greacefully. MAY BABA BLESS U WHAT YOU WANT.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: manmeet on April 27, 2009, 02:15:11 AM
 DEAR RAJIV
MAY BABA BLESS YOU PEACE OF MIND. I WILL PRAY FOR YOU WITH 
100% DEVOTION
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 27, 2009, 02:47:59 AM
Thanks manmeet ji
i hope you get everything that you wish for in life as when you see your dreams shattering right in front of you it really hurts badly.
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: manmeet on April 27, 2009, 03:01:25 AM
dear rajiv
try to under stand what i mean, no, u are wrong here, no body is here in this world who get every thing in life what he or she want. i am also one of those people, my love marriage is not so successful. its only a compromise, because  before marriage a  person is u love looking to be very much different than he or she exactally is. please understand. i am not going to teach you any more, because u don't want to come out of ur frustrations.   KABHI SAI BABA KA THANKS BHI KIA HE, UN SAB CHEEZO KE LIYE JO TUMHE LIFE ME MILI HE UNKI KIRPA SE,  YA HAMESHA MANGTE HE HO. ok it's not the right time to teach u. i will pray for you to get every thing life what u want.  take care. every thing will be fine very soon.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 27, 2009, 06:18:17 AM
manmeet
i have been helping the poor and the needy ever since i took to sais worship
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 27, 2009, 06:30:10 AM
manmeet ji
om sai ram
i tjink ur words are really true
yes i have helped everyone and still help to my best ability
if its not right i know i will not end up with this guy but i have hope and dat arises from sais prayer
last yr wen i and dis guy seperated due to some reason and i took to sais worship my only prayer was to bring this guy bak only if he is rt for me trust me manmeet ji not only did he come bak within weeks not even months sai gave me sakshat darshan and even called both of us to shirdi and blessed us. i c dese as positive hints from sai.....its been an yr since den...and i am waiting to get married but dre is no development on that side
so i am jus continuing to pray and do my bit and waiting for sai to do his bit and show me the rt path
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: manmeet on April 27, 2009, 06:44:50 AM
om sai ram
                 u r really lucky, please wait and watch. SAI will bless u soon.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 27, 2009, 07:09:33 AM
Hi Manmeet, bhavna

I am just waiting i dont know till when should i wait. She is a sikh her parents liked me too but only religion came in between. Manmeet you are a sikh please advise me something, i beg you, i did not cut my hair since last almost 2 years did not shave nothing kept chiliyas for gurudwara and still keeping it i go to gurudwara everyday its about a mile away from my house and its very cold here but i still go, i was bleeding today and got to know only when someone told me coz its so cold i cant feel anything, went to gurudwara walking 4 times walking which was about 20 km away from where i was at that time what else should i do, i dont know if her family knows about it or not but i have done a lot, she has done a lot, we have prayed a lot what else do we do, i am still doing this chiliya with full faith please tell me manmeet u r also a sikh what else can i do, i have if not less kept 15 chiliyas of 41 days as you know it is for 41 days in sikh religion, did everything what else can i do manmeet. I cant be a proper sikh coz i was not one from my childhood but since i have loved her and i know this problem would come i have tried everything to be a sikh coz i love her so much, i have not seen anything be it in terms of religion love anything, went to meet her so many times from so far just to see a smile on her face, what else can i do manmeet, and i am still praying.

SAI PLEASE HELP US

om sai ram


Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on April 27, 2009, 08:59:05 AM
DEAR RAJIV, I PRESUME YOU AND HER ARE BOTH ADULTS. I HAVE A QUESTION , DO YOUR PARENTS ACCEPT HER ?. IF YES THEN I SUGGEST TALK TO HER AND IF SHE LOVES YOU AS MUCH AS YOU LOVE HER THEN SHE WILL AGREE TO THE FOLLOWING. GO TO HER HOUSE , MEET HER FATHER AND TELL HIM MAN TO MAN. LOOK SIR, I HAVE TRIED EVERYTHING IN THIS WORLD TO TRY AND WIN YOU OVER. I LOVE YOUR DAUGHTER MORE THAN ANYTHING ELSE IN THIS WORLD AND YOUR DAUGHTER DOES TOO . NOW THERE ARE 2 OPTIONS, EITHER YOU GIVE US OUR BLESSINGS AND I WILL KEEP YOUR DAUGHTER HAPPY OR WE ARE BOTH ADULTS AND WE WILL MARRY WITHOUT YOUR PERMISSION. THIS IS THE ONLY WAY AS I SEE IT . BUT ... DO NOT DO THIS IF :-

A. YOUR PARENTS ALSO DO NOT ACCEPT HER.
B. YOU ARE NOT WORKING OR ARE NOT STABLE TO SUPPORT HER
C. SHE SAYS SHE WILL NOT GO AGAINST HER PARENTS WISHES.

IF ANY OF A , B OR C IS TRUE THEN YOU CAN GROW YOUR HAIR FROM INDIA TO THE U.S. AND NOT SHAVE . BUT OTHER THAN THE FACT THAT YOU WILL LOOK LIKE SOMEONE WHO RAN AWAY FROM A MENTAL ASYLUM (JUT A JOKE , SORRY COULDNT HELP IT) IT WILL NOT HELP ONE BIT IN CHANGING HER PARENTS MINDS. KEEP FAITH IN SAI AND TAKE A FRIM DECISION RATHER THAN AGONIZING FOR ANOTHER 2 YEARS. GOD BLESS YOU. OM SHRI SAINATHAYA NAMAHA.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 27, 2009, 09:19:20 AM
Hi,

I am stable enough her family knows it they liked me too but only coz of religion issues they are not ready to accept me, i have met them and my parents have already said yes long time back when i spoke to them for the very first time.
Her family has no issues except religion, they initially for some time said yes but when i met them they said we will meet you again in the place you stay as i do not stay in india and when i left hoping they would come and meet me they just backed off saying that they cant do it for religion issues, i felt backstabbed and not just once this was the second time, first time they said yes but then they did not even meet me after she said she wanted to go ahead with me, initially they said yes but then they backed off. infact her mom said to her that no matter what religion he is from this time we will get you married where you want and then later on she backed off on the name of religion only. I dont know how important religion is to anyone and second reason was there social circle which is too big and she is too concerned about what the society will say.


Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on April 27, 2009, 09:28:54 AM
dear rajiv, here you are in a situation from where you have to control things by "remote control" . this is not possible in all cases . yours as i see it is one of those.  why doesnt your lady love convince her parents ? she is with them and only she is in a position to exert some pressure on them. i think there must be some other reason , not just religion , bcos intercase marriages even in high socities have become quite common in india as i hear. (i am also not based in india). a lot of questions rise in my mind , but it is no use pricking  u at a time like this. but my friend i can tell you without seeing them that this is not a religion issue only, there is something in the background which they dont want to tell you or cant tell you. for eg: maybe they are millionaires and you are not (just an example . i am not supposing anything here).i am lost for further suggestions. รณ sai , please solve this confusing case . the young man is in a great dilemma . om sainathaya namaha.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 27, 2009, 09:36:09 AM
she has also tried a lot to talk to them in regards to this
i dont see any other reason except religion, class i dont think is an issue here i really dont know i am just  p raying day in and day out to sai to every god for our togetherness thats all i know
i am sure i will go mad very soon as i am getting into that phase slowly but surely.
i cant even talk to her family as i dont have any details for them but my parents can there in india
is there anything you could suggest
i dont want to do anything that would hurt her even if she is not with me
coz i love her too much to hurt her in any ways

om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on April 27, 2009, 09:41:29 AM
dear rajiv, if your parents are willing , i think they can pay a visit to her parents and ask for happiness of the children. both of you. this has to be done face to face. otherwise this will just linger and fizzle out and her parents will get her married elsewhere like in a lot of cases. look , dont get me wrong but the person who goes to her place must be strong and a good talker. is your father or mother any of these. sorry my intention is not to hurt your parents but i want to acess the situation. (for instance my father is not much of a speaker). rajiv do you have an msn id ? it is much better on chat than doing it here . para by para.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 27, 2009, 09:45:19 AM
bhavna, rajiv,

I am sorry guys!! i was away for the weekend and cudnt reply to ur posts..am really sorry ...well please dont lsoe faith..rajiv...dont stop praying and beleiving for ur own sake...leep ur health and baba will give what we deserve..thats what i have reached..lets not expect anything at all..do what we can do whats in our hands..tats what i wud say...take care of urself..as ganesh ji and manmeet ji said, try from ur side the options u have and leave the rest to god....

I have finished 4 days of saptah succesfully...3 more days and then i will go to baba temple here...will donate soem clothes and money to goodwill...tats the most i can do here..and i am already sponsoring a child in india...lets see what baba has in store for us...

tats all i can say...pray, love and live and dont expect anything and be surprise by the miracles baba will show us!!!

Bhavna,
how r u feeling? sorry cudnt reply soon..please dont cry...it makes us feel worse....i am thinking i will start the guru charitha saptah for us after the baba saptah...i hve to look up the method for it as i shud eat a specific food and stuff and will do it for all of us...u, geetanjali, akansha,abhishek, sagarika, rajiv, ganesh ji, manmeet, gajanan, smg, VS, kumar, kavitha and eveyrone i have met here..

May baba bless u all....om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on April 27, 2009, 09:50:13 AM
aquafish is right guys, you do your 50% and the balance 50% leave to sai. but where is the fire in you guys ? come on , it is not over until it is over ! come out of self pity and hit the problem on the head. om sairam , jai sairam, jai jai sairam.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 27, 2009, 10:49:43 AM
hi aquafish, rajiv manmeet, ganesh
OM SAI RAM
i think i agree with all of u instead of feeling low and bogged down we shud jus do our bit and leave the rest to baba
wenevr we feel low or despondent instead of enveloping ourselves in self pity we shud turn to sai and do more for him and help dose in need it will make us surely c better
SAI IS DRE AND HE WILL SURELY SHOW US THE RIGHT PATH HE WILL LEAD US DRE HIMSELF HOLDING OUR HAND
we jus need to have shradha and saburi

ANANTKOTI BRAHAMAN NAYAK RAJADHIRAJA YOGIRAJ PARBRAHAM SHRI SACHITANAND SADGURU SAINATH MAHARAJ KI JAI
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: manmeet on April 27, 2009, 10:59:45 AM
dear rajiv
om sai ram
                read ganesh ji's posts carefully u will be able to take right decision.
u know rajiv i belong to a hindu family my name is meenu. but after marriage i have changed my name for my husband's sake.
my parents were also not agreed i was also very upset at that time. but once we got married. then every thing was ok. now my parents are happy to see me happy, there are so many problems in our life now but not so big issues. i am happy otherwise.
         PLEASE DON'T MIND BUT, I DON'T UNDERSTAND UR RELATIONS RAJIV IF U LOVE HER SHE LOVES U THEN WHAT IS THE PROBLEM. U BOTH ARE ADULTS. GO AHEAD, ONCE U GET MARRIED. THEN EVERY THING WILL BE FINE. JUST PRAYING TO GOD IS NOT ENOUGH U HAVE TO DO SOMETHING FOR U. SAI WILL HELP YOU
WE ALL PRAY FOR U



Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 27, 2009, 11:21:09 AM
manmeet ji please tell me what should i do
i am ready to talk to her family but what do i talk to her about
i can only ask my parents to give a visit to her house as we dont stay quite far away and my dad and me went to her house once for a formal meeting so he knows where they stay and all that is all i can do i have no way to get in touch with her and if i call she does not pick the phone anymore, she accepts the fact that i have loved her even more than her family did but i dont know what will make them understand that religion is not the only thing that is needed in relationship, more important is the understanding between two people and how well they know each other. atleast with love marriages you know what the other person is upto and what not, you know each other's liking's disliking's small and big things and we are not kids anymore that we would take an immature decision in haste we took 1 year to decide whether we should talk to our parents or not even though we started liking each other after a few months only, and even her family in the begining said that religion now is not an issue so we will get you married as long as you find the guy to be good enough, and after these words from her mom we got into it else we might have backed off even before we had actually stepped into the relationship, is god not seeing what her family has done to us in this way, what will they get by hurting me or her, how fair have they been to me or her i really never got any answer from anyone never.

I am just left with one thing and that is pray till i can till when i dont know really.

But somewhere deep within my heart i will always have one thing in my heart that i was backstabbed twice by her family, even when i met her complete family they said in front of everyone including my dad that some one will come and meet you there as a lot of our relatives stay there and the very next day i left india her mom said they cant do it with no reason to give except yes that of religion, even i know i have so many friends who have got into love marriage against the wishes of there parents but after seeing there son or daughter happy they are happy but they are ready to see her in any situation as long as there SOCIETY is happy, no one cares about her happiness but just society manmeet. please suggest me what can i do except praying. I think day in and day out about it what and how to talk to them and convince them but nothing comes to my mind as its blocked completely may be some one of you could help me with it you are elder than me more experienced may be you can suggest something.

om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: manmeet on April 27, 2009, 11:28:27 AM
 rajiv
i already suggest u something. go ahead rajiv. otherwise u may be late. her parents got her married anywhere else and u......  tum pray karte reh jaoge. remember GOD HELP THOSE WHO HELP THEMSELVES
GO AHEAD AND TALK TO HER ONLY NOT HER PARENTS. ALL THE BEST
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on April 27, 2009, 11:30:13 AM
rajiv, you can take the horse to the water , but you cannot make the horse drink it . THIS ADVISE IS FOR YOU. ALSO ASK YOURSELF A QUESTION , YOU ARE MADLY IN LOVE WITH HER , BUT IS SHE ? AND IF YES , DOES A PERSON WHO LOVES YOU SO MUCH NOT PICK UP THE PHONE WHEN YOU CALL ?. I AM SORRY FOR THE EXCESSIVE ADVISE I HAVE PROVIDED. SORRY , SOMETIMES I GET CARRIED AWAY.OM SAIRAM
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: manmeet on April 27, 2009, 11:33:04 AM
WELL SAID GANESH JI THIS BOY IS REALLY IMPOSSIBLE. HE ONLY WANTS TO PRAY NOTHING ELSE. HOW CAN WE HELP HIM.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on April 27, 2009, 11:35:10 AM
MANMEETJI, I HAVE A FEELING HE IS SUFFERING FROM ACUTE DEPRESSION. HE IS SHOWING ALL THE SYMPTOMS. IF THE PATIENT DOESNT WANT TO BE CURED , THERE IS NOTHING THE DOCTOR CAN DO . MAY SAI GUIDE HIM. OM SAIRAM.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 27, 2009, 12:01:06 PM
om sai ram manmeet ji and ganesh ji
i fully agree with u he might be suffering from depression or maybe bipolar illness but lets not be harsh with him lets pray to sai for him for sai to bless him and show the right path
OM SAI RAM
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rr_sai_bhakt on April 27, 2009, 12:34:55 PM
Dear Rajiv ji,

If you feel that praying so intensely will help you reach your goal, please go ahead ... anything that you do with full faith and devotion always pays its dividends ...

But please remember Rajiv ji, the best way to he happy in any relationship ... or to enjoy any object ... or infact to have a happy life in general - the secret of happiness always lies in moderation ... and not in extremities ...

Be moderate in your attachment to any person ... an extreme form of attachment will not do good for any relationship ...

The other secret to be happy is to have a control on the negative questioning that we get into. Its always a vicious circle .. a whirlpool which will drag you into another round of questioning, and then another and the next and so on .... like, why did her mother do this to us, is this fair, why cant they understand, is religion so important, how can they back stab me, cant they see how much i love her, is society so important, why is god not listening to me, what more can i do etc etc etc ...


You will ask yourself all these questions a number of times ... and you will never find answers to these ...
So you will keep questioning yourself over and over again and keep drowning yourself into this whirlpool ... and thats when you begin to feel that you are losing control.

So the first step is - just stop questioning all these past incidents .... just tell yourself whats happened has happened ... And just try to take a step out of this whirlpool of negative questioning ....

Please do not get too upset with what others have done to you ... if her mother has gone back on her words, its extremely unfortunate ... but stop telling yourself over and over again that you have been back stabbed ....

Try to get out of this self-pity mode .... and the best way to do this is to have a strong sense of self-esteem and self-confidence.
If you learn to respect yourself as an individual and truly like yourself, you will not get so upset with the way her family has behaved.

All of us feel bad when others dont treat us well ... but then after the initial round of disappointment, we try to pick ourselves up..

So if you really want to be happy in life with this girl after marriage, please first learn to be happy in life without this girl. Trust me.
If you can be happy just by yourself only then can you genuinely contribute to the happiness in any relationship.

Rajiv, I dont want to end up giving too much "theoretical gyan" here .... and try to portray some ideal kind of person that you need to become ....
We all have our drawbacks definitely .. infact a lot of us are here because we lost out in our love.. we couldnt handle our relationships well .. and then found it very difficult to cope with it ...

But then you have been putting yourself under so much stress .. that it has become important for all of us to chip in here and ask you to take care of yourself ...

Rajiv, if you truly respect Sai Baba, Guru Nanak ji and Guru Gobind ji and if you want them to bless you ... then please get your hair cut and get yourself back to the same old person you were before ...
Please do not walk barefoot to the Gurudwara in extreme cold conditions and punish yourself so much.... No God will appreciate it ... least of all Sai Baba ... So please try to understand that when Sai Baba did not even like his devotees fasting for Him, which is such a simple thing really .... then why would he like to see one of his truest devotees harming himself physically so much?

Remember Rajiv, only the right means get the right results ...

The way to go about solving your situation is not to lead the kind of life that you are leading right now ...

Instead it is to take charge of your situation, get a hold on yourself, control your thought process, try to find a way to talk to your girl, try to find a way to talk to her parents and then take the appropriate next step ... That next step could be anything, hopefully marriage ... but till then, till you can find a way to talk to your girl or her parents, i would request you to please change your current way of thinking ... try to be more positive in life ....

I heard this sentence some time back and i really believe in it - The greatest disability in life is a bad attitude.

How true it is ... isnt it ..

The corollary, is of course, have a positive attitude and you can overcome any challenges that you face.

I am sure you will be able to find a way to speak to this girl or her parents ... do not worry ...

Om Sai Ram ...

May Sai bless you and may your wishes be fulfilled .....

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: manmeet on April 28, 2009, 12:48:02 AM
dear rr ji
               om sai ram
                                 very good post rr ji. i hope this will help rajiv. thax
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on April 28, 2009, 07:07:01 AM
rajiv, sorry i just saw your mail this morning. so it was too late to come to msn. if you are online in the evening european time , send me a mail and i will come online. sorry i missed it. om sainathaya namaha.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on April 28, 2009, 07:13:10 AM
i am there
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 28, 2009, 09:17:34 AM
Bhavna and rajiv,

how r u? 2more days of saptah left...am glad i did it..not for anything but for my satisfaction....hope u r staying put and keeping gud health..
take care
Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 28, 2009, 09:24:23 AM
om sai ram aquafish
yes i am doin good  i am trying to assimilate all the advice that i get on this forum and i am prayin for all of us here
i am sure sai will bless us
om sai ram ganeshji, manmeet rajiv, akansha
how have all of u been
its so great tro have frens like u here who help u thru ur worst times its nothing but babas leela to make us help each other in dis way
lets continue to pray to our beloved sai the love incarnate
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on April 28, 2009, 10:13:02 AM
dear bhavna, i am fine . tk you for your concern. god bless. OM SAIRAM.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 28, 2009, 10:16:30 AM
Does anyone know the procedure for guru charitha saptah..i want to start it next week after i finish my baba saptah this week..

thank you,
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on April 28, 2009, 10:29:42 AM
DEAR MANMEETJI, AN UPDATE ON OUR DEAR FRIEND RAJIV. I CHATTED WITH HIM TODAY A LONG TIME AND TRIED TO PUT SOME SENSE INTO HIM. THE POOR THING IS REALLY IN DEEP DEPRESSION. I MADE HIM PROMISE THAT HE WILL LEAVE THIS WHOLE THING AND START LIFE AFRESH. HE SAID "YA" . LETS HOPE HE MEANT IT. OM SAINATHAYA NAMAHA.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 28, 2009, 10:41:58 AM
thank u ganesh ji for talking to him..wish we had more people like u....u r an inspiration ...and well wisher and manmeet ji, u do a wonderufl job of putting sense into us..lol...

Hope rajiv feels better and moves on with his life.!!!
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: manmeet on April 28, 2009, 11:18:52 AM
thank you ganesh ji, we need a person like u. u are a gift of sai for us. sai send u here for us thank you. May sai bless u.
may God bless rajiv. please keep in touch with him
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 28, 2009, 06:42:34 PM
Bhavna,

I dont know why but suddenly ia m filled with joy...dont know the reason but suddenly feel like i am brimming over with happiness...wierd ha...i am so used to being miserable that this feeling is like a surprise..I think its baba's way of shwing me he is there for us...Makes me want to pray more...God bless everyone!!! Wellwisher, this maybe some of optimism rubbing off on me:)...thanks to everyone!!! Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: manmeet on April 29, 2009, 02:24:27 AM
dear aquafish
 om sai ram,
                          i m very happy to see u happy. be happy always. MAY SAI BLESS YOU.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on April 29, 2009, 07:43:44 AM
Rajiv...

PLEASE BREATHE!

I'm sorry but I have to ask you a few questions and share a few things with you.

I DO NOT WANT YOU TO ANSWER ANY OF THESE AT THIS FORUM. JUST PLEASE FOR OUR SAKE LEND YOUR HEART AND MIND TO THESE QUESTIONS & THINK. JUST THINK


1. Do you really love her? What is your definition of love?

2. Does her happiness lie in you? From all thats being projected... do you feel she'd feel ecstatic if she saw you right now and you ask her to get married and spend her entire life with you?

3. Does she really love you? Getting emotional, compassionate and being passionate in mature love are two different things Rajiv. My question to you is does she love you?

4. If you were in her place and she in yours and if your culture demanded a woman to go bald, would she shave her head and stay with you that way for life?


You know what I feel like doing Rajeev? I feel like coming wherever you are and shaking you up!

PLEASE OPEN YOUR EYES AND SEE WHATS HAPPENING IN YOUR LIFE.

PLEASE READ RRji's mail at least 10 times. Do it as a ritual... day after day...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: manmeet on April 29, 2009, 08:05:52 AM
DEAR RAJIV
OM SAI RAM
WHERE R U, I M WORRIED ABOUT YOU, R U THERE PLEASE KEEP IN TOUCH.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on April 29, 2009, 08:49:37 AM
Ganeshji, please keep in touch with him. I know your presence will make all the difference.
Rajiv, if you've thought about my questions and have your views or feelings to share, your most welcome.
You seek the love of one woman. There are so many out here who love you.

Besides, if I were in her place, and this is what you did, it wouldn't work my friend.

You are sitting somewhere far off and hoping she comes and falls in your lap, growing your hair...
not cutting hair doesnt get love Rajiv... wake up...

I'm sure when she loved you she loved a man who was positive, charming, no long hair, someone who made her laugh...

When you met her, you had certain qualities. YOU WERE WITH HER.

You're sitting somewhere far off and expecting a girl to fight the battle all alone? Where is your support. Jaap and prayers are great! But that doesn't make her fall into your lap automatically.

Come down to India and win her back again. But for that you would need to be the person she loved, the man she fell for.

Even after all you efforts if she doesn't agree I'm sorry my friend but I'd have to use the words she LOVED you. Or maybe she does love you, but you're not her priority. Her parents are. And if that is so, you can only give love, you cannot force someone to love you back with equal intensity.

Lets understand one thing here.

I'm growing my hair long & I wish to marry you and I did this or that or I can do this or that for you IS NOT EQUAL TO - love me back equally...

I'm sorry for sounding harsh my friends, but it never works that way.

If you love, please love for the sake of love. The moment we start doing things to prove love, it starts looking like a guilt trap to the opposite person.

You want her to be with you NOT CAUSE SHE FEELS SORRY FOR YOU. You want her LOVE.

If you keep winning her pity, my friend... SHE'LL NEVER ATTEMPT TO LOVE YOU!

How do I know?

1. I'm a girl myself. And forget girl / guy... any human would hate to be pushed that way. Esp when the person is not even there to face the problem with you. She must be going through tremendous emotional trauma and not sharing it with you for all you know. If she really matters please come down to whereever she is and stand by her.

2. I've been there and done all that you're doing. My friend... I did that for 2yrs. And one day realised - If I continue with this attitude even if I cut myself to pieces and serve it to him, he will never come back! So is the case with you my friend.

You need to be her support & win her back. Win her love by being the person she fell in love with.

Its very important YOUR PARTNER LOVES YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE - & NOT WHO YOU CAN BE...

Be the kind of guy women would die to have. Work on yourself, your attitude, your dreams, your positivity...
This is what will draw her and better people towards you in life...

Don waste time in sulking. It never helped. It never will...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 29, 2009, 09:34:46 AM
Well wisher..
thank u...i think eevryone who is in love shoyld read ur post..if we can look into ourselves, then we can work it out about others...I really agree with u...too much of anything is not good..
rajiv,

Dont think people are judging u or criticising u...we r not perfect but when we see a dear friend literally messing his health, personality and life, we cant sit and watch....please taek care of urself so baba can help u.....

ganesh ji u r ebing there for him on a personal level..please let us know how he is doign...rajiv we r worried about u so atleast leave a one line message...

manmeet...i like ur spirit...u are a joy to the forum..dont get depressed...

Bhavna,

How r u...please take care

today is the last day of my saptah and thursday will go to the temple...may baba bless everyone..
Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on April 29, 2009, 10:04:10 AM
DEAR FRIENDS, I HAVE SENT A MESSAGE TO RAJIV'S HOTMAIL ACCOUNT. REQUESTING HIM FOR A POST. I AM SURE HE WILL REPLY. OM SAINATHAYA NAMAHA. I HAVE TOLD HIM THAT I AM HIS ELDER BROTHER AND HE CAN COUNT ON ME WHENEVER HE NEEDS HELP.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 29, 2009, 10:07:32 AM
gud to know that..u r really awesome ganesh ji..may baba bless u....I am happy to know u...

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: alaknanda on April 29, 2009, 10:34:45 AM
Bhavna chill Sainath will help you.You know Sai Bhagwan is very clever he can do miracles untold.....may be it is not the right time for you both to get married.Unfortunately even I get restless when he delays in answering my prayer...but later on connecting the dots I come to know his leelas.He knows everything what is right and wrong ...so trust me and leave it to him.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on April 29, 2009, 11:40:07 AM
om sai ram everyone
aquafish, rajiv, ganeshji, manmeet, well wisher, alaknanda ji
aquafish i am waiting for ur saptah to conclude with alomost the same eager as u its as if i kept the saptah :)
 i think we all need to support rajiv he cannot continue like dis he will end up harming himself
i think ganeshjis efforts are remarkable
have not been able to go to the temple will probably miss it toomo also as i am overloaded with work have to go at 5 am ist but i keep bumping into sai all the tym in various forms and dat lifts my spirits
things are improvin a jot between me and him but dre are no signs of us gettin married so i am jus being patient
sai plz bless all of us sai plz help rajiv
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 29, 2009, 12:05:19 PM
be patient thats all..tomorrow i am going to temple..my bf said he wud come..lets see and will donate the money and will offer prasad for all of u here..thanks for the feeling bhavna...and i am encouraged to start reading baba charitha everydya now..lets see and i want to do the guru charitha in3 days for vinesh...hope he gets well soon..

take care bhavna...i havent been to temple in ages..will go tomorrow..
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on April 30, 2009, 05:13:15 AM
Aquafish... what you're doing out here is an amazing thing. Its not my optimism, but your positivity thats attracting more positivity and more positive events in your life.

You know Aquafish, there was a period of 10 long years where I could say I was seldom sad. As in lil things here and there are ok... but never sad in life. You know why... cause I always was detached and had the go with the flow, what to do next attitude. Cause I lived in the moment and always focussed on the - what to do this very moment question. It was simple... I'm feeling happy - what to do next... call the world n announce and share it with my friends. I'm feeling sad - what to do next...somethin that would life my spirits - dance. I'm feeling angry what to do next... dance or exercise till I either drop dead on the floor n doze off or m feeling good. Feeling irritated... to hell with the world... am going out for a movie!

Never did I give myself time to sulk or pity myself. And you knw what this positivity never let any negative event affect me. I was drawing positivity and happiness towards me... unconsciously but surely as a school or college kid... i was making a conscious choice to be happy and positive.

The day I started trying to resist what was happening in my life, more and more and more negative events started happening. In between whenever there were phases when I choose happiness and went with the flow, things would start to get better. But the moment they would, being the person I am, I would start expecting more and more... I'm a complete dreamer... I have dreamt of winning the world in everything I could... :-) he he... I just love dreaming! But expecting is different. And the moment my expectations would break... if I went with the flow and focussed on step to things would be fine, stagnate or get better. But I didnt do that. For the past 2 years I chose negativity.

I kept sulking. I sulked and cried to a level where professional psychologists said I'd end up in an asylum or I'd die that way. I ruined everything in my negativity... all that I was blessed with - health, beauty, talent, education, a rocking career... offers from every top advertising and media agency in India... and lots more. I ruined everything!

My Reiki master cum counsellor has worked a lot on me. A whole team of good people - her students. She's a gem of a person and those are the people I will never forget in life. From a situation where i hardly spoke to anyone for 2years to now they have struggeled endlessly with me. But you know what she told me ? She asked me one question time and again.

ARE YOU GOING TO HELP ME HELP YOU OR DO YOU WANT TO ROT AND DIE?

Do you want to kill your mother with your pain? You don't care for anyone. You don't. You're ruthless... Do you want to see your mother in an asylum? She will go mad watching you in so much pain.

ONLY IF YOU'RE WILLING TO WORK ON YOURSELF WILL YOU COME HERE. IF YOU ARE NOT GOING TO HELP ME HELP YOU... NO ONE CAN.


She almost expected a no from me... but a really scared and tensed me said from within... Yes aunty... I will HELP YOU, HELP ME.

She dragged me out of it. But how was it possible? I HELPED HER HELP ME.

She brought me back to what I am today. Not completly fine, but yes... I have learnt to smile. It was so strange... 2 days back a friend of mine actually complimented... OMG I can't believe it - you're actually smiling. Is he back?

The answer is not in the is he back. The answer is... NO, its just that I'm learning to accept... maybe not completely. But am learning to accept. God is bigger than him. More imp. If I'd craved so much for God, maybe I could have even seen HIM.

I'm learning to accept and go with the flow of life again. Very slowly... but surely... :-) this time consciously. I'm learning to keep the positive attitude in life and draw positivity towads me. This time not by chance, but consciously.

When I logged onto this site I'd come sulking, searching for material to read on spirituality...in search for keeping up my positivity... Why? I'd promised my Reiki teacher that everyday I'm going to read something inspirational and positive. And look... what a beautiful things happened. In my search for positivity, I'm actually sharing with you guys all that aunty's shared with me...

She was right. She always told me. Look beyond yourself. When you help others, it is only then that God will help you. If you focus on recieving only, the universe will not grant it to you. The day you naturally start loving and giving, it will flow back to you multi-fold.

For 6 months my body and mind was not receptive to Reiki. I'd just blocked it. I still dont feel the flow of energy when I do channel Reiki to myslef. The whole world can feel it but I dont. But now i've just started feeling it. Why? What happened suddenly? Aunty made me channel Reiki to others. The first time I channeled Reiki the numbness within me was thawed. The second day I did it, I got an offer from that very ailing lady that she would channel Reiki to me and complete my 21day healing so that a few of the blockages I had would reduced. And it did. Cause those 21days I also channeled Reiki to her and a few others.

When you start giving, your body & mind automatically becomes receptive to love and healing or whatever you give. :-)

See, the way I look at it is simple. My not giving love to others or not focussing on other good deeds is not going to get the one I love back anyway. It doesnt help anyway. So why not do good deeds, stay positive and help others do that???

Sulking and negativity never gets someone you like back. It gets us pity. Only pity.

Tell me one thing all you guys.... everyone whos is love waiting...

If a stranger or anyone you knew came to you crying, begging and cribbing, complaining and making you feel guilty... would you fall in love with him or her???

Think... please think... I did...

Would anyone be attracted to someone whos all so negative in life and sending across all the nagative vibes... :-)

Rajiv... think about it... :-) n all of you too...

Chalo, now me goin.

Bhavna, all will be well in  your life. Relax, breathe... and have faith.

God didnt send us here so torture our souls. He'll make us all smile soon. The way I am, while concluding this mail.

If you cant smile, fake it... :-) one day it'll automatically happen!


Ganeshji... God bless you... And as you asked us all to praise Sai instead of you...
Thank you Baba... Thank you God... and thanks to each one out here holding the other...

Thanks to the God within...

Feel special everyone... Why? Cause we have God within... :-)
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 30, 2009, 09:40:21 AM
Well wisher...u made my day...I had a little tiff with mom last nite and spoek to my bf and it amde it worse..lol..i should remember never to crib to men esp ur partner...hahaha...girls wud agree with me..anyways..i went to the gym all upset that i wasnt losing weight, wasnt getting married ( my so called friends make sure i get that everymoment they talk to me ..) and then i just kicked myself mentally and was like they dont lead my life..its me...and i shud think abt myself right now..and baba will handle the rest...so i had a good workout and came to work all perked up...and saw ur mail...made my day!!!

yeah i am trying hard to get rid of the negativity within me and stop over analysing or comparing with others..I have a very good life , i shudnt crib but be happy that i am alive, have a job and have so many good friends here and outside...i love this forum,..even thoughe evrtyone has problems no one forgets to make the others smile...tahts baba's miracle...

Take care u guys....

Bhavna how r u?

FInished my saptah yday...today evening will go to temple and donate some money,,,..he said he wud come with me...tats a gud thing....monday will do guru charitha...want tot ry finishing in a day...or 3 days..depends on how i feel about it...

Everyone stay happy....Wellwisher once again...u r a joy!!Hope baba fulfils all ur wishes and u get all the happiness u deserve...

God bless everyone..
Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on April 30, 2009, 12:16:25 PM
RAJIV, PLEASE POST HERE HOW ARE YOU , WE ARE ALL WORRIED FOR YOU . PLEASE ..... OM SAIRAM
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on April 30, 2009, 12:19:05 PM
DEAR FRIENDS , I HAVE SENT MULTIPLE MESSAGES TO RAJIV'S HOTMAIL ACCOUNT BUT HE HAS NOT REPLIED. BUT I CAN SEE HE IS ONLINE. BUT NOT POSTING. I DONT KNOW IF I HURT HIM YESTERDAY WHEN CHATTING WITH HIM. I HAVE APOLOGIZED TO HIM ALSO IF YES , I DONT KNOW WHAT IS WRONG
WITH THIS BOY , HONESTLY .... OM SAIRAM
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on April 30, 2009, 03:04:17 PM
Rajiv,

Buddy...are u there? Come on..We care for u and dont want to see u hurt..please send a message to us ...please we r really worried....we wont criticize u or anything, wejust want good things for u..please respond to our messages...Please ,..

Om sai ram..
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: manmeet on April 30, 2009, 09:31:28 PM
om sai ram
                 dear rajiv
                                we did't  want to hurt u. every one is worried about u rajiv. we just want to see u happy. please reply please rajiv. u are our family member. we care for you and want to help u please understand.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 01, 2009, 07:34:36 AM
hello everyone
plz let me know anything abt rajiv cause i may not be able to come here too regularly but i am prayin in my mind
not been able to go to the sai temple also have been loaded wid work i am doin 24 hr sifts at work and will probably do it for next 15 days i hardly come home for abt 2-3 hrs everyday
dre is some serious trble and i have to solve it
things are not too happy wid this guy he is jus not ready to marry me maybe i too shud move on y hold on too somethin like dis
he says he loves me he is not movin on himself too but he cant be wid me ,,,,, he will marry one day he says but never says to me
i think i have understood that i shud move on
all those things abt sai givin me a visit and callin both of us to the shirdi to bless us wre mere coincidences and i jus saw dem as positive signs from sai cause i wanted to c it dat way.
sai i think waas jus testing me pata nahi if i passes d or failed but i did not end up wid dis man i love
now who ever sai gets me married to i will accept it...max i will crib n cry for a few yrs dat i did not end up wid da man i love so wat baad mein all will be da same
i will come to ur temple sai will pray but will never ask u for anything never u will give me wat u have planned anyway
u will not answer this prayer i know its k
ur the god u know best not everyone gets wat dey want
some ppl like me get nothing but i guess dey r jus my bad karma and i will pay for dem
next life mein plz give me happiness even if u make me a small ant.
OM SAI RAM

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 01, 2009, 09:45:17 AM
hi bhavna,

Dpnt be depressed or take any hasty decisions..just let go..i am doing that..if u dnt want to do something dont do it...dont compromise anymore coz in the end its u thats important to u...when they can be selfish and let us suffer, we shudnt give in all the time...not negativity here but just saying, let them miss us..let them realise how much pain we r going thru for them by going against our parents, society and taking all the cr** for them and all tehy do is NOTHING!!!!   

I dont know if this is the right thing to say in this forum...but i dont think baba listens to me anynmore..anyways i wills till continue to pray and see what happens...I am just tired of listening to people talk about my life..i need some good news in life..thats all i ask...i just need someone to say they care for me...not just allegations....

wow..my mail is really depressing..but trust me I have made a major improvement over the time after being in this forum and talking to u all....

Bhavna...be happy..enjoy work, life and forget the rest and lets see if it comes back to u...even i ams tuck in limbo with him ...i am not saying give up..but just stand back and observe...u have done ur part...now its his turn...ok take care...

How r u ganesh ji , manmeet and well wisher...hope u have a nice day and may baba bless u...

Rajiv,
How r u? Please respond to us...u have us all worried..

Om sai ram..
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: alaknanda on May 01, 2009, 10:24:07 AM
Hmmn Bhavna I can understand all that waiting,hope,positive thinking and everything possible you would have done..to keep yourself going.At times Bhavna we should not hold on to things for too long.You should stop pondering...what will happen will happen.
Well try to hold some dry sand in your hand for some time ....it just slips away...doesn't it.At times it is better to give oneself some time and do not take drastic decisions....Bhavna be happy yaar.
JAI SAINATH
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: umbertino on May 01, 2009, 11:19:12 AM
I wish you the Best and I know Baba will help you. Be blessed. Sai Ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 01, 2009, 11:27:04 AM
dear aquafish, how can you even think that baba does not listen to the prayers of an exceptionally good hearted devotee like you. dont get depressed , he is listening . i dont want to give you sermons. but what advise you have given to bhavna , do some of it yourself. god bless . om sairam.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 01, 2009, 12:09:14 PM
heeh i know ganeshji...when it comes to me i am a mess...lol..i guess thats human nature...thanks for being there...Hope he is listening and i hear some good news soon...
howz the weather in Budapest? for us summer will start soon...

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 01, 2009, 12:16:06 PM
I KNOW IT IS THE SAME WITH A LOT OF US. :). BUT YOU TAKE CARE , YOU HEAR ? .THE WEATHER IS QUITE GOOD. 20+. AND SUNNY. (WHERE ARE U BASED ?) OM SAIRAM.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 01, 2009, 01:01:27 PM
Ganesh ji,

I am in california...near hollywood..lol...havent seen any stars yet...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 01, 2009, 01:08:18 PM
wow ! good for you girl ! may sai bless you with lots of happiness and give you everything in life ! OM SHRI SAINATHAYA NAMAHA.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 01, 2009, 01:28:11 PM
thank u ganesh ji..hope that happens soon:)...take care now...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on May 02, 2009, 09:02:11 AM
Aquafish... :-) You're givin good news and looking for it at the same time??? You're in pain and you're giving inspiration to others. Isn't that spiritual growth in itself.

I think the first para of your post was inspiring enough!

I don't know about moving on. But am sure we can move a lil ahead in life. :-) Come on... we're not loosers in life. Lets start afresh... All of us. Its difficult I know.

:-) Would you believe it.... I did my MBA. When my college friends were busy looking for placements... I skipped a whole month of campus placements. You know what I was doin then? I was doing my SPONSORED training for instructorship and participation at he INTERNATIONAL SALSA COMPETITION... the dream I couldnt even dare to dream of. One year of practise and I'd be ready for it. Offers from 2 of the top advertsing agencies, offer from TOI... my specialization being media. :-)

Can you believe I'm the same person? I can't.

Today when I sit in front of my counsellor, my Reiki master and she asks me - Whats your hobby? Whats you fav color... I say pink. She says - not what he likes you in. Whats YOUR fav color. Do you have a choice. :-) I do not remember any. I'm struggling to recollect.

Today, am doing an admin job in a finance company... the one subject I'd hated the most all my life. :-)

Lost identity. Completely.

I don't mean to crib. Jus that I want you to know I understand how difficult it is to start afresh. BUT WE HAVE TO. THERE IS NO CHOICE.

THERE IS NO OTHER CHOICE WE CAN MAKE IN LIFE BUT TO CHOOSE LIFE... EVEN IF IT MEANS FORGETTING ALL THE BLISS OF THE PAST AND STARTING AFRESH AS A BEGINNER... FEELING GREATFUL EVEN FOR BASICS....

I still believe I have a lot to be grateful for... A lot...

I came here in search of hope... and look... writing all this to you has made me stronger... :-)

I donno how and where but I know I have to start somewhere... and soon...

And by now maybe both of you too... :-)

Knowing we need to start... that knowledge itself is good news!

Thank you God... Lets celebrate!
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 02, 2009, 01:22:36 PM
hello everyone
i have lost dis battle
i have called it off with this guy
i am jus gonna go ahead with any random person my parents pik for me it doesnt matte it will feel bad for some tym den it will all be da same
i will be here with u ppl prayin for u dat all of u get as a desired
but its over for me
have closed this chapter of my life for good
baba i don think u gonna listen but still out of hope dat ur dre i pray to u to give me lots  and lots of courage to face id situtaion and comke out of it
if ur dre and if u exist let me pay for my karmas in dis lifetym i think i took dis birth for this to pay in my next lifetym plz bless me wid some happiness plz
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on May 02, 2009, 02:39:25 PM
Bhavna,

May God bless you with all the happiness, love, life, peace, growth and success in life! May He bless you with all thats BEST FOR YOU.

We have not seen tomorrow. Neither you, nor me. If we're not expecting something spectacular to happen, why expect worse? God did promise you pain for all of your life. How do you know what happens next? For all you know the man who marries you or you love next may be someone who respects and appreciates you a lot more. At least at that moment, that man would be the one standing by you and vowing in front of the entire world to stay WITH YOU through thick and thin. Don't you feel you deserve that kind of respect and commitment. May be you don't love him. But what if he loves you? What if he showers you and your family with so much of love that you love him back automatically?
Thats also possible right?

We can never force someone to love us or commit to us right? But we can at least respect another's comitment towards us...right ? And you never know what happens next? You might jus love your life partner for standing by you. Even if its not great romantic love, at least you have that respect? We're at the beginning of the mountain. The mountain is too huge for us to be able to predict what the journey is going to be like.

So if we dont feel too positive about it, lets try and not feel too pesimistic either. Its difficult, I know... but lets try... just to be neutral... just to be in the NOW.

You know what I do when I feel really low? I start praying... I start praying loudly. It can be a simple thing like - help me God, help me God, help me God... or my fav prayer that gives me strength. It doesnt make me feel bad, but its repitition brings me back to neutral. Its ok to cry... and admit...maybe, maybe God theres something else you wanted me to do. Maybe I chose the wrong man. Maybe a wonderful person, but wrong for me... for the job Gods planned for my soul... that maybe could be a possibility na? That God sent you here for something bigger and better?

And u know something? When we do something good, we always get the reward in this life itself. When you pray for us, dont you get an inner sense of peace? Sometimes we get this peace while doing good so easily and instantly, that we forget... there are so many multi-millionaires and the whoz  who of the world who are craving for it. That inner feeling of happiness and peace, half the world is reading self-help books so desperately to find it!

And God is not mean. His motto is not to give us pain. He didnt make this world to give us pain. He made it to teach us to love. But maybe theres someone who needs your love much more than this person. You're such a beautiful person. Maybe Gods kept someone aside who needs your love much more than this person, would appreciate and value it much more and love and respect you much more... ???

Life has not ended. But one thing u said is right. Lets pay for our past karmas, focus on our present karmas and prepare ourselves for our future karmas. Lets just do good for the sake of doing good and cleansing our lives. :-) like you've already been doing all this time...

You're such a loving, compassionate, beautiful person Bhavna, you have no clue. Do not judge yourself by this one event in life. In my eyes, you're a hero. Someone who deserves all the love on earth...all thats available and much more... and Bhavna, theres never shortage of love. We just dont express it. Love is abundant in this universe.  Just allow it to flow.... both ways... BOTH WAYS...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 02, 2009, 04:03:08 PM
Hello wellwisher and Bhavna..god bless u...

was readin ur posts just now...Having a bad day...i dont know why but i am hurting a lot inside....my mom is going into depression thinking abt me and marriage stuff...i am feeling helpless..I dont know what to do....Wish i had the strength like u Bhavna..I am feeling weak inside...I dont wnat to..I have been trying to have positive thoughts but seems so hard...have been crying in front of  baba...asking him, pleading, praying what not...screaming too (not that it helps except i get tired and sleep away some time..haha)...dont know where this is all leading to...

thanks for ur kind words well wisher...I still havent gone to the temple ...i dont feel like ....I just dont...i dont want to i guess...I have a bad feeling abt my relationship...u know sometimes u get that feeling....well just one of those days i guess...anyways....just wanted to share all this..

take care
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 02, 2009, 11:14:57 PM
mera vishwas toot chuka hai
mein bhi poori tarah se toot chuki hoon
i read sai sat charita everyday will do so now also
i give food to the needy on thursday will do dat also
but now i wont pray to sai
don even feel like goin to his temple for now
u did not bless me baba but hope u will forgive me
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 03, 2009, 09:39:56 AM
DEAR BHAVNA, although i can understand what you are going through. please dont lose your trust . i know sometimes sai tests you to the limits of your endurance but i also know that in the end he brings things to a happy ending. as as they say all is well that ends well. so please do not lose faith or stop praying to him. he will get you out of your troubles. it is his guarantee on his mahasamadhi. please accept my humble plea bhavna and keep doing your deeds .
om shri sainathaya namaha.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on May 03, 2009, 09:58:09 AM
KEEP THE FAITH BHAVNA...

JUST KEEP THE FAITH. ALL WILL BE FINE. KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK. IT WILL GIVE U STRENGTH. THIS TOO SHALL PASS.

Aquafish... I understand wht u feeling...
Just take Sai Baba's photo / murti... in your hands...very close to your heart...  Open the window... Look at the sky... and talk to Him. Ask Him to give u strength... His love, His strength, His wisdom. Ask Him to wrap you in HIS LOVE.

And promise Him and yourself... that with or without the one you love... YOU CHOOSE HAPPINESS.... YOU CHOOSE LIFE... N YOU CHOOSE LOVE...

God bless u... loads of ppl praying for both of u...

N don worry - all the good guys r not gone... :-) there r many more better ppl on earth who can and will make u feel much more special.
And it should start from u...

Humble request to both of u... If ever any of my posts have made any sense to u... please make it your goal for the next 3 months to without fail do something to impress YOU! To pamper YOU! To make YOU feel special.

U cant take breaks in this. No matter how miserable u feel... Just do it... Enough of waiting and sulking now. Stand up for your happiness.

Not askin u to do somethin impossible. Not askin u to give up or move or do anythin wid regards to ur relationship. Its nt running away. Let the situation stay.

3 months... just love, pamper n impress yourself. Dress the best, eat the best, do the best, say the best... like ure out to impress the most eligible bachelor on earth...

Do all it takes to keep u smile... all the time... Remember - one thing new everyday... 90 things in 3 months! Thats ur goal.

N do post wht u did if its nt a secret. It will inspire me too...
I hope you choose this goal. I hope you choose life... Tc, God bless...

My love and prayers always wid u...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 03, 2009, 10:01:52 AM
om sai ram ganesh ji
yes i understand wat u mean jus for a moment i end up losing my vision i jus get very restless
yesterday i fot and fot and fot with baba i even told him dat ur jus a pathar ki murti and all ur eleven sayings are a lie
but today i apologised was jus reading sai sat charita
yesterday i said dat i will eat non veg today only as i have left it in ur name and i have a habbit of opening a random page of sat charita and reading it wen i am so agonized and guess wat it was dat same page wre baba advices to leave ur fav food
babas leelas are amazing
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 03, 2009, 10:04:08 AM
good bhavna dear. thats the spirit. dont give up. god bless. OM SHRI SAINATHAYA NAMAHA.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 03, 2009, 10:05:21 AM
thank u well wisher ji
i will sure do it one good thing for me every day even if its sleeping to my hearts content...ghode bech ke :) :)
have been workin for 24 hrs for almost 5 days now guess it will continue for another week but i will keep up my spirits
thank u so much
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 03, 2009, 10:07:34 AM
om sai ram
wen all u ppl are dre to guide me... ganesh ji..aquafish..well wisher ji, manmeet, den i am sure i willl not lose track
how is rajiv any news abt him?
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 03, 2009, 10:12:01 AM
unfortunately no news from rajiv, i feel personal responsibility for this mishap . i really dont know what happend as we parted on a good note. then he just vanished. i am cursing myself for this but i dont even know what i did wrong . anyways may sai open his eyes . om shri sainathaya namaha.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 03, 2009, 09:12:03 PM
hello all,

Bhavna dont ever give ip..we r here...and trust me u will be happy...

wellwisher...ok here it is...i started studying for a certification exam and had my personal saturday...tuk a walk...drove around..just with myself with some loud music...lol....ya we need " me time" ...and u know what he came on saturday and said he can never leave me but to give him time to figure out marriage with his parents!!!

Will share more as it comes....I put some goals for myself..lose some wweight in 3 months..going to gym for myself and for me to feelg ood and not becoz some one said it but for me..and once i lose the first 10lbs, will go to the spa....pamper myself in the true sense...

ganesh ji..dont blame urself...sometimes self help is the best help...u did ur part...rajiv needs to heal on his own and then he will respond to us..baba will take care of him...lets hope for the best and continue to pray for him...

rajiv,

if u r readin this, please reply to us...we just want to here that ur fine...take care...

OM sai ram~~~
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on May 04, 2009, 12:24:44 AM
Bhavna, Aquafish... u guys rock!
Aquafish... don ever feel weak or depressed. You are an inspiration for all of us. U keep our spirits high with every attempt u make... U teach us all with every bit of progess u make. For me every bit of effort put in is progress... So for me both of u are already winners, already strong and already happy... why? Coz I know you choose happiness and life over rotting to death!

Thank you and Thank you God... for this attempt.

Ganeshji... As you once said in one of ur posts... u can take a horse towards water, cant make him drink it. You can only do so much for someone... and u did your best. I feel you really need to pat urself on ur back for bringing forth the harsh reality which most of us cant even dare to. Maybe he's away from us. But even when he's away if one lil thing u said flashes in his mind for one moment, I feel you've done much more than what most of us do.

Most people prolong their pain enjoying their self-pity, self-sympathy and that of others. Not coz they enjoy it. Cause they start getting used to the situation. Cause they've learnt to handle that sympathy. They have learnt to find comfort in it. But the moment there is a different reaction from the opposite person, we don't know how to deal with it and it hits our ego. We are not willing to get out of our comfort zone and face it. It happens to all of us. We are scared of change. Esp when passing thru a tough phase of life.

Eventually when we learn to accept reality we realize that the thing we resist changing the most, is the thing we need to change the most. And then we do.

So I think you've done a great job of setting him up for that trigger phase... I hope he's feeling angry, frustrated and irritated with his situation thinking of the harsh reality... cause thats the first step to recognizing - enough is enough and I need to get out of this.

Its cool. Maybe he needs some 'Me time' as Aquafish says. :-) Lets let him be. We all love him and will pray for him. Lets keep sending him e-mails... all those who have his mail id... and flood him with care and love... and hope he thinks for the better and picks himself up to begin a new fulfilling life.

We can only do so much... and we'll do the best. We'll be there for him always. And hope he just lets us hold him and be with him for now. Leave the rest to God.

Rajiv, if u ever read this post... please know... what Ganeshji said may sound harsh... but is good for you. A person who just sympathises with u cares lil. A person who gathers the courage to hold you, tell u all that u dont want to hear, shake you up, slap u and tell u ure burning ur finger and u'll burn out completely if u continue the same... this person who is harsh, may look cruel and heart-less to u at that moment when ure in pain... IN REALITY HE / SHE IS THE ONE WHO CARES THE MOST! RESPECT SUCH PPL IN LIFE ALWAYS AND NEVER LET GO OF THEM. THEY ARE THE ONES WHO REALLY MATTER... THEY ARE THE ONES WHO REALLY CARE AND WILL NEVER LET YOU FALL. THEY ARE THE ONES HOLDING YOU AND FIGHTING FOR "U" IN THE BATTLE BETWEEN PAIN AND YOUR HAPPINESS.

LET THEM FIGHT FOR "U" in this battle... YOU NEED TO WIN. Not the situation. And we all say all this cause we want YOU to win irrespective of what happens or who comes and goes in life. Ganeshji really cares... There can be nothing better anyone else can do for u my friend. And I respect him for that.

Know the ones who really care... and let them hold you... PLEASE... for heavens sake... TRUST!

Ganeshji, we can never blame and never be responsible for anyone else's situation. We all face a result of our own choices and karma. And I hope Rajiv makes the right choice of never letting go of you. Its not about u. Its about his choices now. You did your best.

Btw... after my post I havent seen any post from Sai_Ramji too. Maybe it was a bit too harsh. She's been thru a lot and am worried for her. Is there a way to contact her??? I hope she knows we meant no harm.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: abhishobi on May 04, 2009, 12:55:49 AM
When the going gets tough the tough gets going....Be tough....Baba will then set you going....He knows what is best for you and accept His decision as final verdict....You will soon realize the reason for delay too....Have patience and implicit faith.....
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 04, 2009, 06:01:53 AM
OM SAI RAM
jus want to share dis with u ppl my family here at dwarkamai
yestetday i din speak to dis guy at all i jus kept my self busy at home wid presentations n all and it din feel bad at all i din miss him all dat much
but tdy was my off and he was home too so we jus spent da day together it jus feels so natural to be wid him we din even talk much jus sat dre wid each oder watchin a movie and it so felt like home it seemed the silence seemed to say dat dats how we r suppose to be together
but the bottom line remains the same dat he will not marry me :'(  :'(.. with no explanations offered wat so ever
i do realize dat no matter how much we love each oder we cant go on like dis forever we either need to part ways or get married
so i jus pray to sai to decide watever is rt for me either to get us married or let him go away for the sake of my family who r so waitin for me to get married and give me loads of streninue to pray togth to accept it either ways
i will jus continue to pray to sai for all of us to bless us n give us happiness

OM SAI SHRI SAI JAI JAI SAI
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 04, 2009, 06:05:13 AM
WELL WISHER JI
dis is to tell u dat jus like i spent my day yesterday occupied with all da presentations tdy also i will spend my day formyself sleepin  ;D  ;D den later part will spend wid my mum n granmum
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 04, 2009, 06:20:39 AM
dear bhavna, i saw your post and it seems you are well off together. see keeping apart the post which i have put in before. living together is not a crime. but it depends on what society you are living in (india or outside),
will your family accept this etc. and if i am not being indiscreet , has he been married and divorced once ?
if yes that maybe the reason he doesnt want to jump into another marriage. my belief is that marriage apart from the registration papaer gives you nothing more. so if you are happy living together with this guy and circumstances permit then why not ? . i myself am divorced once and the second time i did not marry but for all practical purposes she is my wife, i treat her as  one and all that is mine is hers. the first divorce was awful for me despite the fact that i left everything (flat, car etc etc) to my ex-wife and came away with just one suitcase of my own clothes. and started again. this is possible in western socities and my parents were understanding but you have to see what circumstances permit and can you live like this without feeling insecure. believe me in todays world marriage does not guarantee a thing except costs for the girls family. om shri sainathaya namaha.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on May 04, 2009, 07:43:56 AM
Bhavna, that was so adorable... too cute... the way u keep us all posted... It did bring a BIG SMILE ON MY FACE... the minute I saw ur post.

Pl pl pl treat urself extra on my behalf ... whatever lil u doing... :)

Aquafish... how have u been doing? How was ur day?

N in appreciation to the way u guys have been keeping me posted I too am going to keep you guys updated with regards to what I'm doing... and am sure Ganeshji, RRji, Smgji, Manmeet and all others out here will happily guide us or join us too...

I just joined a yoga class recently... he he... wanted to learn kick-boxing... but for now mum's finally agreed to come along with me out of the house for yoga and am like really, really, really happy about it. Its a one month course and mom and me are learning something for the first time together. So its kind of fun. This one month I'll be doing something new everyday at class...
Plus I watch a lot of movies at home, channel Reiki, read stuff, post at this forum... go out for lunch with my office friends, spend time fooling around with my lil bro... have my fav cheese... enjoy the rising sun in the morning, fresh breeze, etc etc etc...

If u come down to Bombay u guys are welcome to join me anytime...
N yes, theres lots I wish to learn... so step by step...
Bt todays day I really didnt even need to do anything spl... just ur posts... just seing the effort u guys r putting in... trust me U GUYS MADE MY DAY...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 04, 2009, 08:37:54 AM
OM SAI RAM
thank u well wisher ji
ur sure an inspiration..:) :)
OM SAI RAM ganeshji
nahi ganeshji livin is not an option for both of us neither of our families will accept it nor us....i can never understand dis aspect of him he always says i shud settle down get married den he will c for himself i dont understand at all...but an yr bak he spoke at home ab us gettin married but dis was told to me by his sis never did he mention anything at all dis was after we came bak from shirdi i have no idea wat stops him..jus he wants to be wid me.. i think it cud be his family...yes regarding a terrible marriage situtation his brother is goin thru it..his wife has left him cause he was wid another woman she too had some1 and dre was lot of trble at his house as the whole world knew abt it...plus his wife has started to misbehave and all he himself has never been married though
bur ganeshji the thing is he says he will marry but not me he says his marriage will be jus for da heck of it and he will still continue to take care of me forever but both of us know wen dat happens dat is our respective marriages we will never even look at each oder
 its a lil difficult to understand
so i guess now i shud be rather practical i am not goin out of the way to avoid him i be wid him and all and goin with the flow at the same tym i am prayin to sai that if its not meant to be den he shud go away from my life
watever sai decides i will accept it
i am sure sai if decides to seperate us for good he will load me with lots of strength to accept dat decision
OM SAI RAM
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 04, 2009, 08:48:09 AM
dear bhavna, you have answered your own question in your post. may sai bless you with lots of happiness and a loving and caring partner. om shri sainathaya namaha.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 04, 2009, 09:37:11 AM
hahaha...we r a fun forum now..I am glad eevryone thru our prblems we r like old friends, joking and helping each other out...sunday was pleasant..its raining here so made some pakodas.and chai..man wish mom was here..but thats ok, my cooking skills r getting better..lol...well i live alone so its me time all the time, wellwisher....lol...had a long talk with thim yday...and he gets what i am saying...lets see how everything goes..

ganesh ji wellwisher is right, u did what u had to do and rest is upto rajiv..as long as he is happy....

I maybe stuck at work tonight so will try today or definietly tomorrow to read the guru charitha for vinesh...I think its easier for me to pray for others than for myself...

Bhavna...enjoy ur sleep..wish i cud take a nap too...haha...I know wat u mean about spending time like that..I just hope whatever u decide , its for the best and u find happiness in it...i cudnt go to the temple at all..will try to go this thursday...Take care

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 04, 2009, 10:01:49 AM
hi aquafish
he he it feels so good to hear from u
jus told my situation at length
will have to take dis deciscion of movin on no matter how much we love each other and how much it hurts
if he is meant tyo be wid me i am sure baba will bless me and get us married
i hope it does happen though  :) :)   it will be like getting the happiness of a lifetym
 tell me how r u???
how is eveything wid u ???? ne progress???
i am so glad at least ur guy talks abt it
dis one toh will do anything to run away from dis topic... somehow have a feelin his family has him by his throat  :( :(
da entire business and work is a joint venture n all
hmmmm..baba bas tera hi sahara hai
ho sake toh hamari bhi sun le
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 04, 2009, 10:32:06 AM
bhavna,

trust me he doesnt talk..i am the kind of person who is yapping away 24/7 but he ill never say a word,..and keep it all inside...yday all morning i begged pleaded etc etc to ask him, if he wants to leave me or be with me etc etc..finally in the evening he blurted everything out about how he casnt leave me , how he needs me etc etc...but what irks me is that still he cant convince his parents..i need all the patience in this world..but i know this guy is right for me..like he balances me ...i am very hyper...i am impatient ..stubborn and he is stubborn too but very stable....lol..makes me sound like a crazy person..maybe i am..i  wear my heart on my sleeve...i am affectionate and he is too but just not as open about it as  i am...
now i have decided to try to patient and not irritate himw ith my insecurities and see f he works it out...and also he is young...so he wants to marry but needs time and also we dont want to marry by going agaisnt parents..so if he wants to marry me either he convinces them or he shud be the one to say " hey lets get married here" my parents have no problem with that , my dad even jokes syaing tat if u marry in US, we can save money...lol...

Now i get it why ur guy is scared of marriage...he needs time to realise its not that marriage sucks for everyone..he will get over it...its just matter of time..there comes a situation where they feelt he crunch...itsjust tat gals feel it more than guys...and also guy firends dont pressurise guys to get amrried...but gals its a diff case...it gets on my nerves when stupid gals who just come abroad after marriage with no life but chatting all day at home keep bugging u abt marriage...heheh..happens to me everyday..but i have started taking it differenly...they r just jealous that we have a life and they dont...hehehe...well POSITIVE THOUGHTS! right wellwisher n ganesh ji?

hang in there bhavna,...it will be fine!!! just fine!! baba is there to guide us..and lets have fun!!! thatsall..

wellwisher..kickboxing is a fun class...yoga with mom sounds good...why dont u and she have some icecream with lots of fudge...maybe she will like it..next sunday is mother;s day..surprise her, take her out for lunch and a movie..just the 2 of u...what say? get her to wear some fun clothes...go shopping..go crazy....do that for her on mothers day...take care girl!!! mom will be just fine...

Ganesh ji, howz budapest? i always wanted to visit that place...i read abut it in a novel and i want to come there sometime...lets see...
Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on May 05, 2009, 03:31:53 AM
Aquafish and Bhavna, really happy for you!
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 05, 2009, 06:36:31 AM
om sai ram aquafish, wellwisher, ganesh ji, akansha, manmeet
wellwisher ji
i am sure u will have lots of fun with ur mom...have done kick boxing its fun and very tiring too :) :)
ganesh ji
how are things wid u?? next tym plz plz include me in any prayer rounds dat happen..plz...
auqafish
i am so happy for u yes jus hang in dre
but u know even i know we r made for each oder we both gel like anything
earlier he use to say dat we will get married but since last 1.5 yrs its been like i cant marry u he doesnt let a word out of him as to y and if i crib n cry to much he is like tere ghar jane ka tym ho gaya :(  :( theek hai will jus keep shraddha and saburi
no fear wen SAI is near
 ;D ;D ;D ;D
OM SAI RAM
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 05, 2009, 08:32:15 AM
dear aquafish, BUDAPEST is a beautiful place , it is actually made up of buda and pest divided by the river danube. 2 mil population.in the city but not crowded.
people are ok. many of them have started learning engligh too . especially the younger generation.
dear bhavana, thank you for enquiring , very well thank you. if there are prayer rounds next time, i will drop you a line in the forum.
god bless you kids. om shri sainathaya namaha.
 
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 05, 2009, 09:52:30 AM
Hi everyone,

How was yoga wellwisher? Convey my regards to ur mom and I will pray for her too...today have to do guru charitha after work...ganesh ji will try to visit budapest atlest once in my lifetime..its like a dream destination for me...

Bhavna,

Dont worry ...things will happen as they shud ...so have faith and have fun...thankls wellwiisher for that...Came to work...its raining outside..really pleasant...

Take care everypne and keep us posted....Om sai ram!!!
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 05, 2009, 10:08:58 AM
Ganesh ji,

I hope Vinesh gets better...I dont know why but I have tears in my eyes thingking abt him...I am really praying hard for this child...No child or parent shud suffer this pain...I hope Baba does a miracle....

Om sai ram..
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 05, 2009, 11:45:43 AM
dear aquafish, we are all praying and hoping. now it is in sai's hands. lets wait and see ....om shri sainathaya namaha.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on May 06, 2009, 03:00:06 AM
:) Aquafish, most welcome. Yoga was good. Today was just breathing exercises early in the morning. He he... was feeling so sleepy all thru... I almost woke up in the end while we were doing the final few Omkars.

:) Its all new to me. So am gald... something new everyday for both mom n me. Enjoying the peace... plus all my back ache has disappeared :)

Bhavna, hows u... and Ganeshji??? I hope u guys having a good time too...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 06, 2009, 09:39:43 AM
Bhavna,

Kaisi ho? hope ur getting some me time;-)

yday had a fallout with mom..everyday I talk to her, she sounds depressedd...i knwo the reasont oo..she is worried abt my marriage..I feel so horrible for making them wait but we dont wnat to mary without his parents consent...I dont mind getting married here in a temple but I cant suggest tat as its his parents...i am like stuck in between..Hope baba gives me a soulution soon....

Ganesh ji..How r u?
wellwisher i am glad to know ur having some time with ur mom....Yoga is boring unless u have someone along..hehe..I tried it and man I had a nice nap...And i am not that flexible....hahaha

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 06, 2009, 09:56:13 AM
aquafish, all ok . thank you for asking. have some workload thanks to sai. so a little busier than usual. how are things with you ? i also sometimes am hard on my mother. but then after an hour call her up and make peace. u do the same. mother is the most important of all , even great saints have said that the
heirarchy is mother, father , guru and god. god bless. om shri sainathaya namaha. (every mother is worried about their daughters marriage , it is part her genuine concern and part unfortunately we live in such a socitey) . when i was not married , many people used to come to my house enquiring about why i am not getting married ? i for the love of god cant understand why it disturbs others if i am unmarried ? . )
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 06, 2009, 10:18:10 AM
om sai ram ganesh ji, aquafish, well wisher ji
i am exhausted have been continuously workin for almost 1.5 weeks now dying to take a break but cant c it comin as of now
how are u aquafish
 i know its not rt to marry against ur parents wishes but den wat can u do if dey are so stubborn... is ur guyy ready to go ahead with it without their consent...mine is not he is so sure dat he " cant marry me"  at least dats wat he says to me god knows wat he says at his place...its a very difficult situation...talk to him tomo is thursday c wat he says will pray for u..if i can c a ring on ur finger( da picture which u must mail to me wen it happens :) :) ) i will surely feel as if my prayers have been answered...
om sai ram ganesh ji
are u too busy wid work
are we doin anything dis thursday any round of prayers or anything else???
i was thinking as i dont know how to cook and i dont want to trble any1 at home will pick up dese packets of buscuits and distribute to disabled ppl at sai temple in vinesh's name if ur not okay with it can u plz suggest aything else i will be really glad if u cud help me wid dis
 hello and om sai ram well wisher ji
it seems u are having a nice tym... and u and ur mom are enjoying ur yoga.. ;D ;D ;D...
hope u dont snore too loudly though during ur session he he he ..lol jus kidding
it must be so refreshing and rejuvenating
how is ur mom feeling now??
keep goin at it
waiting to hear from u soon
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 06, 2009, 10:26:25 AM
DEAR BHAVNA, TAKE CARE . DONT OVEREXHAUST YOURSELF. THIS THURSDAY DO WHATEVER IS POSSIBLE FOR VINESH . WHAT YOU HAVE MENTIONED IS FINE. AS RR_JI SAID , IT IS THE INTENTION THAT MATTERS . OM SHRI SAINATHAYA NAMAHA.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 06, 2009, 10:39:48 AM
hey all,

yeah I spoke to him abt it..he is not ready t go against their wishes:(...and my mom wotn stop talking abt it to me.I am tired of it all..thanks Bhavna I am hoping that for both of us!! lets see..tomorrow he said he will come to temple but dnt know as yet if it will happen..lets see...

I am just too tired and worried abt this issue...Ganesh ji  i talk to her abt it..but nothing will calm her down except me getting married to this guy...i just hope his parents agree or he gets so irritated with them that he marries me here..all I can do is pray...This issue is depressing...I dont feel like doing anything and cant stop thinking abt it either...:=-(
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 06, 2009, 10:43:28 AM
aquafish, 2 questions , you have a first name or is it a secret like well-wishers ?
second - how long has this been going on (the affair) ? om sairam
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 06, 2009, 10:47:31 AM
I just dont want to give my first name if thats ok..sorry abt tat...well its been 5 years...but just 2 years since we both have jobs and are settled in life..
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 06, 2009, 11:08:04 AM
aquafish , re-the name. no problem. 5 years .... no wonder your mother is worried . om sainathaya namaha.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 06, 2009, 11:12:39 AM
I know...and the thing is his parents r sick all the time so we dont want to cause any issues by eloping...I am glad about one thing is that he loves me and i love him..we will wait for each other but my parents are worried as i am not getting any younger..u know the case..So i am just tensed abt them...even though i love my parents i am not that selfless tat i can forget him and someone else (ofcourse my parents dont want tat either)...they feel as they dnt know him so well tat atleast getting engaged wud be an assurance...well it comes down to that ganesh ji...:)...

tats why I just hope and pray tat his parents give their consent...:(...Hope baba makes it happen..my bf is trying to talk to them but they r so adamant....Please baba do soemthign

Om sai ram!!!
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: akansha on May 07, 2009, 01:38:04 AM
jai sai ram
bhavna ji
sometimes wen u have a mount of probs before u n just cant help it just leave all on baba sit back n see..trust him blindly..im sure he wil come to help u soon..leave all in his hands,il pray for u today..
baba plz help her plz get her maried to her bf..baba i knw u can see us all crying n wreathing in pain..plz baba help her...
jai sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on May 07, 2009, 02:25:14 AM
Hi everybody,

i am so sorry i was not able to post anything for some time as i have been too depressed to do anything, loosing on career and health both, but i read a lot of posts today, particularly interested in vinesh's recovery, I do not know where in london he is based but if there is anything i could do for him i would be more than happy to do it. As manmeet ji said in one post that just try to help others, this is all i will do now, i have had major changes in the past few days in me and a lot has changed in my life but i would be glad to help anyone if i can please let me know if i can do anything for him, ganeshji you are a gem of a person i have seen your mails and i will reply to you soon, thank you ever so much for caring about me being even absent from here, i am really gratefull and i cant even believe that i could get so much love, thanks sai baba, i dont know how she is and how not but thanks for blessing me with such nice friends here.

How are you bhavna, aquafish and everybody.

om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 07, 2009, 03:05:37 AM
friends, i am sure all of us are glad that rajiv is back. lets all help him get his life on track. manmeetji , i hope u read this post also , you were also deeply concerned for him. om shri sainathaya namaha.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 07, 2009, 06:55:57 AM
hi rajiv i am so glad dat ur bak
thank u sai for getting rajiv bak
c i told u na miracles happen on thursdays ;D ;D
 as for my problem is concerned its goin from bad to worse
dont think can carry on wid dis guy anymore i cant its killing me everyday....
i am broken
tdy even my mom said dat dey will settle down my sis first and marry her i agreed guess its jus a starting of agonizing tym for me and here i am praying to sai to give me happiness
one thing for sure i know sai will never give me dis happiness...its k sai it doesnt take too long for human brain to acclamitize..i will learn to be widout him be without a lot of things
but plz have lil merci on me at dis point in tym i am totally alone sai...i have no one to turn to......i dont know y u cant help me..i must be really a rotten person
now only a miracle can do anything for me..but sai it seems doesnt want dat
i am good.i k
tdy after reading rajivs post it made my day
thanks sai
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 07, 2009, 07:00:38 AM
dear bhavna, you are not alone, atleast not here in dwarkamai. i dont want to give you lip service, but we all do care for you and wish you will. which is more than can be said for the harsh world outside. i know life is tough , but you have the strength in you to tackle it . so chin up. god bless. om shri sainathaya namaha.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on May 07, 2009, 07:04:56 AM
bhavna,

i think your and my life are quite parallel i also made my younger brother agree to get married as i need time now, i used to talk to her for 7 to 8 hours and now its been more than a month i have not spoken to her i dont even know how she is and how not, earlier if we did not talk for an hour we used to feel restless so well days are very tough but thats wat sai wants, i go to mandir every thursday and tuesday and my friend comes with me, he has said that we will not go there anymore coz i just see  you crying all the time in there but i will still go i dont know with what hopes but i still will, if nothing i just wish my prayers get her a lot of happiness if nothing else coz i care for her so much i do not want anything out of the prayers i have done for us but if my prayers just keep her happy wherever she is its more than enough for me but honestly speaking i dont feel god has any heart i just replied to saibakht a few mins back on the same, i have seen a lot and i dont know when i will give up completely, and i still pray she is happy

way to go bhavna just chill and enjoy
i dont know how as i am myself not doing it at all i think day in and day out but still one day happiness will come in some way or other

om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 07, 2009, 07:12:51 AM
om sai ram rajiv and ganeshji
 thanks for being so nice
but i think i have lost hope sai is testing a bit too much...i am tired and i feel really low
sai if u cant marry me to him if u cant change the situtaion in my favour den at least give me strength to be away from him take him away from me
main raha loon gi akele kya farak padta hai
sai i have a better option at least dat shudnt be too tugh
dre are so many who die on the road do one thing save one life and take mine instead i think dat way at least some family u will save
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on May 07, 2009, 07:18:50 AM
i have started having a feeling that we think alike too, i was reading newspaper in the morning and there was news about bomb attack somewhere i dont know and so many people died, i was just saying to sai please take my life and save someone's who wants to live, i dont know you know about it or not but when i read about jade goody i used to pray the same coz she wanted to live and i did not but she went and i am still here  :P

atleast atleast he can do this much for me na bhavna ji

I dont know i thought of it today in the morning that i wish to donate some blood, do something good for the society, i got myself enrolled for organ donations after my death, so i am trying to do as much good as i can before i die :-)))))

om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 07, 2009, 08:54:57 AM
rajiv ji
plz plz plz donate blood if u can its saves so many lives
u can donate blood every 3 months plz plz do dis
i will be really grateful to u
i am goin thru a very wierd phase as of now
don know wat to do...but as well wisher ji suggested i do try n do something to make me feel good in a day
sometimes it helps sometimes it doesnt
i will try my level best to forget dis guy
i will pray to sai also
but will never go to dwarkamai again cause dats wre all dis false hope came from
 om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 07, 2009, 09:17:55 AM
bhavna, what has happend , now you also want to leave dwarkamai ? om sairam.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 07, 2009, 09:22:19 AM
RajiV...U cant imagine how happy i am to see ur messages...I am glad u r safe!! Pleas etake care of urself...

Bhavna...Dont be depressed..I can understand ur pain..but please dont do anything u dont want to do but try to stay happy...u dont have to go to temple if u dont want to...once u start beleiving in him u will never let go..juts have the faith..tats all...I may go to temple today...I know i have been trying to go every thursday btu apparently baba doesnt want me right now...well will try still...

Wellwisher..how r u...hope ur yoga classes are going well..I tuk a break from gym this week..dont know why but got super lazy...and now i feel horrible..well there is always next week..

Bhavna, akansha, rajiv, well wisher, geetanjali..dont worry please..u will get thru this!!1I am praying for u guys!!

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 07, 2009, 09:38:32 AM
manmeetji, where are you ? are you allright ? om sairam.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: manmeet on May 07, 2009, 09:04:04 PM
ganesh ji
            om sai ram
  thank u, i m allright but busy in office and houseold jobs. i read some post today by rajiv and smg. i m very happy for both of them. baba ne hamari sun li. pata he me roz apne aapko blame karti thi. THANKS BABA
rajiv smg
please don't do it again,
u r our family members, agar yahan se koi bhi chala jata he na naraz hoke to har koi apne aap ko blame karne lagta he please esa kabhi mat karna. koi kisi ki feelings ko hurt nahi karna chahta. bus hum sab ek dusre ki help karna chahte he.  smg please agar kisi baat ka bura laga ho to maaf kar dena, rajiv tum bhi, ok take care
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on May 07, 2009, 11:57:46 PM
OMG... Waaoo... this is good news...
So many posts all of a sudden... but feels good!

Rajiv...:) :) :) I know you don't know me. I'm extremely sorry if any of my posts have caused any pain to you in anyway. That was never my intention. Our intention was only not to let you sink into the deep pit of depression. I personally would never want anyone to go through anything similar to what I've been thru. We are all facing some problem or the other. Thats exactly why we are here. But it is here that we realize we're not the one with the biggest problem. We start loving, caring, sharing and being there for each other. Thats what we call living right. We are all here to live and learn to live better, be better people with the help of each other.

We have here so many people who care, who inspire, who share our agony, at least lets trust the fact that we have found tons of people who really do understand us, our situation and how we feel. We are here to help each other live in hope and be patient for that one extra moment, that one extra day that it takes to get where we wish to be, rather to be able to survive or sail thru whatever and wherever God wants us to be.

All this that you spoke, many of us have felt many a times before including me. But you knw friends, when I later calm down and sit to think of it and see those who are more unfortunate and so much in pain, I realize how lucky I am. We are all luckier and happier than more than 3/4ths of this world believe me friends. Lets be each others strength and try and be an inspiration for each other.

Please Rajiv, be an inspiration for me... just for today... be an inspiration for all of us by doing one thing really beautiful that makes you smile and one thing really beautiful that makes someone else smile. The fact that you're here... we're all already smiling. :)

Lets give each other hope and love to survive and fight thru that one extra day...
Lets not let life situations take over. Lets not loose to depressing thoughts and situations. Lets make an effort to let the God within win. Lets make an effort to let our goodness and love within win. Lets make that lil effort to reduce pain on earth. What we're into we cannot do much about. But we can surely help someone else with what we have. Theres tons of things my friends we have in life that most people do not possess. Lets at least reduce someone elses pain. Lets fight PAIN and not OURSELVES... and lets do it together as ONE TEAM...with just ONE MISSION... to spread love and goodness...

Rajiv, Bhavna, Aquafish, maybe we cant help someone thru this same problem. But we can surely help someone with no eyes cross the road, someone with one leg hop to a seat, someone with no hands eat food. Lets try and focus on goodness. Negativity and sorrow will disappear on its own. Its very painful at times. Trust me, I dont think I've been able to even cry for the past 3 months (:) my counsellor struggling with it) Its not that its easy... :) can say at least for girls... we can cry buckets-full, till theres actually chest pain and yet not be done with it. But that doesnt help.

Being here seing all you people has given me strength... strength to just BE... for that one extra day. Strength to just do something good for that one extra day.

When I go up, I wish to be able to face God, I wish to be able to tell Him.

Maybe I didnt learn all you sent me to, maybe I couldnt show enough gratitude for so much that you've given me. Maybe I couldnt be a fraction of the person you wanted me to be. Maybe I didnt grow enough to be able to even understand what U sent me here for... But God, I did try. I didnt let situations break me down. I didnt waste all of my life... maybe I didnt succeed. But am glad God ... I TRIED!

And I know each of us will end up doing this. I'm sure each of us has the strength to try... Lets do it guys... for the sake of God... and each other...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 08, 2009, 12:09:55 AM
om sai ram ganeshji
nahi nahi i am not leaving this dwarkamai and neither am i going to stop praying to sai ever
 went to the temple yesterday and donated buscuits in vinesh's name felt real good
wat i meant was dwarkamai in shirdi.. both me and dis guy went dre after getting bak together last yr and i had asked sai to call us only if he wants us to end up together..pata nahi somehow i feel deceived..though its too early to say anything we both are still together no matter how much we decide to stay away bfrom each oder...but nothing nothing at all happenin on marriage front
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on May 08, 2009, 12:53:26 AM
Bhavnaji... Please have faith. I have a feeling things will be fine. Just pray to God to give the two of you and your relationship strength. If its meant to happen, nothing in this universe can ever stop it. And just keep the faith strong and believe its meant to be!
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: smg on May 08, 2009, 02:52:25 AM
om sai ram,

dear manmeet,  i am so happy you know y??...coz its bcoz of u ppl only, baba made me cum back on this forum.....I feel so gud, that baba gave me a chance to cum on this forum and meet so many new and lovely people like you....

warna koi kisi ke liye itna ni karta....but ours family is the best family in this world coz the head of our family is sai baba. aur wo is family ko kabi bi tutne nai denge chahe koi kitna marzi naraz ho jaye.....wo mana hi lenege humsabko.....

god bless alll.....

om shri sai nathay namah.....
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: manmeet on May 08, 2009, 04:20:10 AM
dear smg
                 om sai ram
                                   chalo aaj sabhi promise karte he kabhi bhi is family ko chhorkar nahi jayenge. agar koi mazboori ho to sabko bata ke, baat karke he jaeynge, ok everyone.
sabko bahoot tension ho jaati he sach me.
OK SAY PROMISE  "GOD PROMISE"
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 08, 2009, 09:56:31 AM
Hi all.

how r u? well thursday was a miracle to me..I think i said too soon that my miracles happen on weekends..lagtha hai baba wnated to prove me wrong..kal raat ko mere bf ne apne aap call karke, ghar aake mujhe temple le ke gaya...we were in time for arti and hum done ne saat me baba ko arti diya..I was so happy about that and thought wud share it with u...yeah we r together but shaadi ke baare me patha nahi...bhavna same thing!!! but lets just hope ki baba will continue his miracles to reach us...This was the sign i needed from baba tat he still cares for me and remembers me....

Been really busy at work but will try to do another saptah soon...lets see...I will try to go to temple again too...Bhavna please dont lose hope...wellwisher i am happy to know u...I love the way u turn everything into a positive..U r a higher being definetly esp at ur age..I mean I am 25 and still feel i am very immature and restless...May baba grant u everything u desire...

Ganesh ji, manmeet ji how  r u? we missed u manmeet ji...ur messages are respected and much awaited...

Rajiv, how r u?
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 08, 2009, 10:06:49 AM
hi aquafish
i am so happy for u yes i know things like dese give u positive hope :) :)
jus continue to pray even i will try n do a saptah but i mite have an upcoming exam so only after dat :( :(ng dis
pata nahi i really don know wat to expect anymore
will be meeting dis other guy dis sunday cause my parents want me to they are like he is very nice n all so if he is okay u say a yes
pata nahi i don even think abt it
lets c wat happens
om sai shri sai jai jai sai
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 08, 2009, 10:16:43 AM
Hmm..Dont worry too much..just meet him and then decide what ur heart says...I know its hard but maybe a scare wud make ur guy realise...lol...Not tat I want u to play with his feelings but sometimes the thot of losing someone makes them realise!!!

I will pray u sweetie..dont worry..Things will be just fine!! Gud luck for ur exam..I am trying to prepare for a certification but i dont know if i can give it this year...I hope I do...

take care
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 09, 2009, 11:21:25 AM
baba plz help
dont make me do it plz...plz
i don know wats goin to happen
i am so scared baba
help sainath
save me from this calamity
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on May 10, 2009, 01:36:36 AM
hi everybody

bhavna ji i can understand what you must be going through exactly, its not easy to meet someone when your mind and heart is in a completely different place all together.  I just hope sai guides you in a perfect direction, sai baba please taras kha lo ab to aur kitna pareshaan karoge sai nath, believe me sai we all trust you with our eyes closed please make us believe and feel your presence, i beg you sai baba please do this for all of us.

we all love you a lot sai baba please help us, itni pareshani mein dekh kar to paraye log bhi madad karne lagte hain baba aap to humare sab kuchh hai ma baap bhai behen sab aap hi hain sai please madad kariye humari

hum se koi galti ho gayee ho to maaf kar dijiye, bachho se galti hoti hai to maan baap ka farz hota hai na k woh maaf kar de humein, sai ram please maaf kar do, thoda taras khao bhagwan please ab to taras kha lo

om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 10, 2009, 03:07:08 AM
DEAR BHAVNA, baba called you to dwarkamai for a reason which only he knows. so never think he is playing around with your feelings. as regards this guy.
i am lost for suggestions to give, so i just want to say may sai give you the wisdom to make the right decision. god bless. om sairam, jai sairam, jai jai sairam.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: akansha on May 10, 2009, 05:17:56 AM
jai sai ram
bhavna ji i knw wat all u must be goin thru..i knw its easire said than done but move on...love is the most beatiful feeling god has created n other the other side gives the worst pain too..plz dont thiink much n do things that make u happy..
keep praying baba wil listen soon..
baba plz help her

rajiv ji
same goes for u too..just rely on baba..we all are in the same boat..al we can do is leave all on baba ..baba plz help rajiv ji give him good health career n give him back his love..

jai sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 10, 2009, 08:05:16 AM
dear rajiv, i have a humble request , if manmeetji has not hurt you in any way, please put it down here in black and white. the poor thing is agonizing herself that she has hurt you and smg. which i dont think is true. it will not cost you anything but it will set a blessed soul's mind at peace.which is one of the great deeds according to sai also. please i request you.
om sairam, jai sairam, jai jai sairam.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 10, 2009, 08:45:55 AM
om sai ram everyone
rajiv, ganeshji, akansha, aquafish thanks for dese kind words
but i am totally broken all i wanna do is sit n cry in a corner
now dre in no hope also, will jus have to accept my destiny....
i spoke to dis guy and asked him y he doesnt wanna marry me he has no explanation he jus asks me to rest my head
he said tdy ki his parents r lookin for a girl for him jus like my parents are for me
i kept crying and he kept getting irritated,,dese days he is jus irritated wid me..he doesnt meet me he is jus always irritated
den i coulnt take it anymore..so i jus cancelled his call went to sai mandir cried my heart out begged n pleaded to sai
but nothing i came bak and cried a lot more
guess will have to get use to it :( :( :(
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 10, 2009, 08:50:59 AM
dear bhavna, you did the right thing by crying your heart out. sometimes it is the only way to take out your woes and frustrations. having said that your emotional situation is quite fragile now. so please do not take any rash decisions for some days . please think before you act or take a decision. best is sleep over it. i dont want to agonize you by repeating the same thing again and again. but what sai does he does for the best. so dont end your prayers to him.
he will bring you through this obstacle race and make you a winner. keep a little patience till then. god bless you with all happiness in this world. om sairam, jai sairam, jai jai sairam.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 10, 2009, 09:05:17 AM
thank u ganeshji
i will try n keep my cool, i am totally broken,,,will take some tym to get out of dis pata nahi wen sai will hear my cries for help
also i want to pray for dis fren of mine i accidently came accross at the hospital yesterday he suddenly got fits one day and was den finally diagnosed with brain tumour which is malignant..low grade though...plz pray for him his name is divij mehta

sai sun le ab aur kitna rona padega sai aur kitna..i am devastated
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 10, 2009, 09:12:52 AM
dear bhavna, if you feel like sharing something with someone and you cannot put it in this forum , you can send me a mail directly. i will reply to you directly also and not thru this post. i can only imagine your state of mind now. but keep two things in your mind firmly, one sai is there with you always (despite what has happend) and two we are also here for you anytime . that is more than many people in this world can say for themselves. may sai give you the mental strength to go through this difficult phase in your life. god bless. om sairam, jai sairam, jai jai sairam.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 10, 2009, 09:24:05 AM
om sai ram ganeshji and thank u loads
i dont mind sharing anything on dis forum sai se  kya chupha hai
but ganeshji ab kisi cheez pe vishwas nahi hota....sai kahan hai tu.....
pata nahi i jus wanna run away
am sad and depressed
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 10, 2009, 09:29:34 AM
bhavna beta , depression is a state of mind. and in your case it would be a wonder if you are not depressed. but you have to overcome this for not just your sake but for the sake of a lot of people , your parents , your friends in dwarkamai etc etc. and only you can help yourself. sai can guide you , but he cannot act on your behalf always. i would like to suggest a way , which will make you feel a little better. keep a goal of doing one good deed everyday . this can range from
feeding an animal to giving up your seat for an elderly or pregnant woman. dont rest until your good deed for that day is achieved. believe me you will start looking at life from a different point of view in a weeks time. om sairam,jai sairam, jai jai sairam.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 10, 2009, 09:48:52 AM
okay ganeshji
i will do dat
will do one good deed everyday
i dont wanna marry anyone else....and i will have to marry for my parents sake...now toh marriage to anyone is goin to be like a punishment
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 10, 2009, 09:52:25 AM
BHAVNA, IF YOU CAN PLEASE PRINT "FOR PARENTS " (I DONT REMEMBER THE COMPLETE TITLE) POST WHICH I HAD POSTED IN THIS FORUM AND SHOW IT TO YOUR MOTHER AND LET US SEE HER REACTION . OM SAIRAM.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 10, 2009, 10:02:08 AM
okay will do dat
u know wat ganeshji my mother doesnt want me to be with this guy..de oder day she said i know u jus pray so much to sai to get dis guy back...sai will never listen to u,,my mother jus things on a very diff tangent..tell me is it rong to pray to sai for dis guy..abhi bhi i know watever mite have been said between me and him he will call me he always says ki jus u get very restless and i distance myself so dat dre are no arguments n fites he has no explananation for anything..i am in middle of such a thing i really don know wat to do?????
i amso helpless and dre is jus one person who can help me..sainath
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 10, 2009, 10:08:00 AM
BHAVNA , JO AAPKE TAKHDEER MEIN LIKHA HAIN WO HI AAPKO MILEGA. AAPKE TAKHDEER MAIN KISI KA NAAM NAHIN LIKHA HUA HAI LEKIN YES ZARROR KI KIS TARAH KA PATI MILEGA AAPKO. JAISE AAPNE KAHA , SAI HI AB AAPKA BEDA PAAR KAREN. OM SAIRAM, JAI SAIRAM, JAI JAI SAIRAM.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 10, 2009, 12:00:28 PM
om sai ram
wre are u aquafish???? missing u
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 10, 2009, 12:10:15 PM
om sai ram
just read sai sat charita
and came across this bit wre after babas mahasamadhi they take out lots to decide whether to accept dhotar or not
have read it before also and i too took out lots tdy 2 chits wre one i put his name and on de oder jus rote some1 else and den i kept dem at baba s feet and picked up a chit at random he he his name came out
felt happy i know its momentory but jus feklt happyom sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: SaiKaKaran on May 10, 2009, 01:26:08 PM
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Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 10, 2009, 09:39:48 PM
Bhavna,

Good for u..Lets hope things work out ur way..I am scared to even try that..Dont want get scared or anything more than what I already feel..Dont worry baba will hear u...he will give u the strength to face anything...

Well i didnt message all this time as my net was down..sorry abt tat...Hang in there bhavna and akansha....Everything will be fine...Take care

ganeshji, rajiv, manmeet ji and wellwisher how r u?take care

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on May 11, 2009, 07:12:18 AM
Hi... sorry everyone. Dont carry my laptop at home on weekends. Hence was out of touch.

Bhavna, I have just one lil thing to say... as a friend, as a sister. If you're not ready for marriage, don't do it... A broken or troubled marriage can be much worse than not being married at all. You're not in a state of mind to take huge decisions right now. Please give yourself time. In case you're planning to move on too... please completely cut off from your guy and give yourself at least some time to get back to your normal self.

I understand how parents can be. :) Mine can and do act very difficult too. My mother can give up her life to keep us apart just cause she has certain misconceptions. But thats not reason enough for anyone to jump into something that could affect 2 entire families in the long run. Its not just about 4 lives. Its ultimately 4 families affected... which is something maybe parents may or may not see for now. Its you who has to spend the remaining 40-50yrs of ur life with that person. Hence, please don't make any decisions in haste.

And in case you decide to move on, please cut off completely from this guy at least for sometime. Give relationships a break... even if it means a month.
I'll still pray with all my heart you get the most fulfilling life with the one you love... Trust me, we're all with you. Be strong. I know you're a strong girl. And with such a huge family out here, you ought to be and stay strong!
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 11, 2009, 07:14:25 AM
very well said kiddo. i second your opinion ! om sairam, jai sairam, jai jai sairam.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 11, 2009, 08:34:02 AM
om msai ram everyone
i have a confession to make i dont think till now i had 100% faith in baba though i do pray a lot. read sai satcharita have done loads of saptah and chaliyas but i realize i never gave baba a chance to do anything just because i lack dis thing called " saburi"
saburi especially in this relationship to an extent dat i ahve managed to irritate dis guy out of his wits dat he ended up shouting at me telling me to keep the fone dwn this happened 2-3 times in last 2 weeks... all dis happens cause i lack saburi....i purposely try to poke him at places wre i know he will react da way he did....the end result is we have started to keep away from each oder he says he finds ways to keep himself busy..something like dat happened on sat den again on sunday but in the end again the first thing dat he does is wake up in the mornin and sms me good morning.
i dont know if i shud totally cut off from him or not..ppl tell me dis ways u will never move on or get married u cant hang on to him like dis forever
we were very close to getting married last yr..i jus love him and want to be with him
now i am not going to do anything neither ignore him nor fite him nor go out of my way to be wid him i will leave it all on sai
i know sai will carry me thru dis situtaion cause he loves me and will definately bless me
den which ever direction sai guides me will go dre
i dont think i shud even let thots like if i keep in tuch wid him i will never move on etc which ppl around me put in my head
if now sai is the one who will carry me den y worry
I WILL KEEP SABURI
I WILL LET SAI CARRY ME THRU THIS
I WILL HAVE 100% FAITH DAT NO MATTER WHAT MY FUTURE WILL BE FULL OF HAPPINESS BY BLESSINGS OF SHRI SAINATH

ANANTKOTI BRAHAMAN NAYAK RAJADHIRAJ YOGIRAJ PARABRAHAM SHRI SACHITANAND SAMARTH SADGURU SAINATH MAHARAJ KI JAI
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 11, 2009, 08:39:11 AM
bhavna,

I will tell u one thing...IF u really really love this guy, keep the patience..I know its hard but DO IT...or just move on...No limbo state..we all will pray for u but u have to be mentally strong...if what u said bugged him then dont message on ur own...give him some space to ponder..dont keep calling or messaging for a few days...reply to his messages but dont do it on ur own...

Be firm with urself first...I used to do that too..no patience, call him cry etc etc...i still do sometimes but trust me, u r the one who gets hurt in the end coz guys think different...they need time away from the problem unlike us , who want to talk it out...trust me when i say this..
think to urself if u get panicky...its not a big deal...i will talk to him again but later when he wants to talk too...not now when he is in a bad mood...will u do that for me pleasE? atleast u will have peace of mind..

as wellwisher said dont get married or all tat stuff....right now u dont need it..u need some TIME OFF from everything....

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on May 11, 2009, 08:57:43 AM
Hi bhavnaji,

I think aquafish and well wisher are right, take some time out for your self and give some space for some time, try it for 15 days if not more and see how it works then but in this frame of mind dont get married,  it will not only make you feel uncomfortable but even the other person, i will tell you honestly my dad asked me to get married after all this has happened but i told him very clearly i wouldnt for as long as i want as i am not in a frame of mind and he understood. I infact pushed my younger brother into marriage so that even he is happy that one son of mine has got married and we are already looking for good proposals, i dont know what i did by taking this decision but i thought if not me atleast my family will feel happy about this.

Just wanted to share my personal experience with you bhavna ji.

May sai bless you with all the happiness.

Om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 11, 2009, 09:00:28 AM
Rajiv,

U r right!!1 I am happt for u and see that u are taking things in their stride.!!baba will soon hear u and do good to all of us...I am praying for us!!!

Om sai ram!!
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on May 11, 2009, 09:10:09 AM
Hi aquafish,

Good to see your reply instantly means you are online, Well i am just trying to take an easy way only as i dont have to rush for anything, and bhavna ji when i initially joined the forum i was i think almost in the same situation as you are but now i am trying it has been more than a  month we spoke but i do pray to sai everyday, atleast things are not looking good for you you say na, bhavna ji mujhe to pata bhi nahin hai how things are at her place and all but i have made up my mind for one thing, manmeet ji said i think in one post that if some one is meant for some one nothing in universe can stop it happening, so i am just waiting,
kal mangalvaar hai will go to temple and pray for you all, and bhavna ji aapne bola tha na k blood dena is very good i did but thoda sa hi aaya then it stopped probably i turned and the needle came out so i am still allowed to give more, i plan to go this week sometime as it takes some time to heal but i am thinking of going with m y right hand this time i just want to coz i have thought about it and i will do it now

I hope you are fine and believe me ganesh ji is a class apart, had he and rr_saibakht not spoken to me personally on messenger and e mails i would have gone mad, hats off to you sir, may be this was the way of sai baba to help me, and i have just accepted it.

Love you all and love you sai

will keep praying to you till my last breath now no matter what happens

Om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 11, 2009, 09:25:53 AM
hello everyone and om sai ram
aquafish and rajiv
thanks a lot
i am jus doi dat i will have to keep saburi no matter wat i pray to sai and still forget the basic that is saburi
yes i am doin dat answering his calls and replyin to his sms
nothing more
i will not worry abt my future its sai headache not mine
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 11, 2009, 09:38:43 AM
Bhavna and rajiv,

gud job...keep doing what ur doing and soon baba will help us out...all I can do is pray for all of us and work this out..as u said, its baba's headache...his parents are baba devotees and they go to shirdi every year while i went to shirdi once in all...So they shud know what baba preached about love and religion and caste...I hope baba makes them see the truth!I just wish that they agree to our marriage , then my parents can have peace of mind too...

U guys take care and continue having saburi..

Om sai ram..
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 11, 2009, 10:05:29 AM
aquafish
i have a small request for u
please for heavens sake dont vanish like u did for the last 2 days
i really like talkin to all of u everyday
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 11, 2009, 10:09:46 AM
heehe sorry Bhavna...My internet was down and sometimes weekends I dont have time to check my messages..but really try hard to message regularly...sorry abt tat..I am here for u if u want to talk...take care...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 11, 2009, 10:11:53 AM
I randomly asked a question " will i marry him?" on the q and A section and it said dotn worry baba is here and read 4th chapter in bhagvad gita..so i just found the chapter 4 online and read it..tuk me 5minutes...it was gud read...

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: alaknanda on May 11, 2009, 10:13:24 AM
Faith is not something that you get overnight Bhavna ji ....I do not know very exactly how you might be feeling now.But at times even I had some doubts regarding babas leelas...but now suddenly I have faith in him and I know that because I have faith on myself.
You know most importantly you must love yourself and have faith in yourself and let yourself free for Baba to take action.But I feel you have preconceived notions and certain demands .Just pray to Baba without any demand and conditions give him a chance to come near you.Let the invisible barrier vanish.
Jai Sainath
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 11, 2009, 12:07:17 PM
om sai ram alaknanda ji
yes i agree faith u get within seconds same thing happened with me also though i had been going to shirdi off and on soince i was a kid but my faith came wen dis guy left me before that also i use to mpray but to some other god..and sai says sabka malik ek....
i think faith is something which grows and becomes stronger day by day
sai has always asked for 2 things shraddha and saburi and i realized yesterday that tough i was praying so much there was no saburi
i think it was sai s leela to have made me come within his orbit..else i never wud have had dis situtaion not arisen
tdy also i went to sai temple and promised that i will give him his second pice that he always asks for that is SABURI
OM SAI RAM
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Amar_akshu on May 11, 2009, 12:57:27 PM
OM SAI RAM..!!!!!!!!! shower your blessings
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 11, 2009, 01:06:44 PM
om sai ram
i will start another chaliya from 13.05.09
dis tym it will be for my family here at dwarka mai
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 11, 2009, 01:35:41 PM
tats sweet of u bhavna..I need to do another saptah soon...But been so busy with work and stuff..need to start again...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on May 11, 2009, 11:35:12 PM
Bhavna, its not that we dont have faith. Sometimes circumstances just make it fall weak... when we are too afraid to expect anything from life for the fear of being hurt when it doesn't happen. I'm in the same boat. I've stopped expecting things from life. But I've also surrendered. I'm going to live in my NOW... however it is, and leave the rest to God. I somewhere dont have the faith that he'll come back and my life will be on track again and even a single dream of mine will come true. But I have faith that whatever happens, I'm going to be fine. Even if none of my dreams ever come true or I never find back my normal self and get to know who I am today... I know God will give me the strength to be fine.

And as far as happiness is concerned, I know where I get my happiness from. Its my responsibility on a daily basis. So, I dont leave that or expect that from God. But I know... He's just going to let me be fine, strong and hold me thru all of this and more... I know someday He'll drag me out of this and whatever the outcome, I'll be fine.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 12, 2009, 08:47:11 AM
om sai ram well wisher ji
yes i know it was after reading one of ur posts only wen i realized that y am i so worried and y am i haggling this guy for no reason all dats happenin is him getting more n more irritated
sai will carry me no matter wat so i am bound to be happy however things turn out to be and i also realized thst i have no saburi an the only two things sai has ever asked of us are shraddha and saburi :) :) :)
now every time i wanna sms dis guy or sunao him for anything i jus remember sai and repeat the words thar i have to offer sai my second pice of saburi
and den i feel all good
om sai ram and thanks a lot to all of u aquafish, well wisher, ganeshji, rajiv, manmeet for helping me thru dis

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 12, 2009, 09:02:41 AM
Bhavna,

we are always here for u..dont worry...well saburi is something we need to have..coz nothing goes our way all the time at our own pace..it depends on the other person too....
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 12, 2009, 09:07:50 AM
hi aquafish
om sai ram
 i know wat u mean and i think that guys jus think on a very diff note..wre as we wud want to talk talk and talk abt one thing all da tym dey wud rather jus not talk abt dis at all...
how have u been?????
how are things at ur end?????
another thursday is approaching hoping to hear abt anoder miracle from u :)
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 12, 2009, 09:29:36 AM
haha lets hope so bhavna...

well the only miracle I want now is either marrying him in a temple here or his parents agreeing to us...the thing is guys dont want to talk abt it..they will do something abt it and if its not in their hands they get frustrated and show it on the person they think wont feel bad which is us but we r already so bugged that we make it worse..hahaha...nice way to put in na...

well lets see what happens..I am trying to be positive yaar...Trying not to overanalyse it and just waiting for baba to do somethinf...Praying and praying his parents agree and i get marrie dsoon to him....

how r u? Hope u r not working late hours again...eat on time..just coz u r upset dont let tat effect ur eating habits...take rest , eat well...om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 13, 2009, 09:29:34 AM
hello everyone
om sai ram
aquafish, akansha, well wisher, rajiv, ganeshji, manmeet,starter, smg, nipul and our lil vinesh
jus wanned to tell all of u that i started my chaliya tdy for all of us
and from all of us i am jus goin to offer sai 2 things dis tym shraddha and saburi
i have already left eating non veg and i have made a pledge to sai too( cant disclose wat)
i am sure each one of us will carrry on praying to our beloved sai to forgive our sins, and bless uswith love
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 13, 2009, 09:37:15 AM
Bhavna,
hope ur doing good..>may baba bless u always...thanks for doing the chaliya for us...take care

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 13, 2009, 10:26:19 AM
hi aquafish
how u doin?
all okay at ur end...how is ur gymmin goin?????
u know wat i met dis guy at a gym and later found out that he is one of the partners in da gym :) :)
uhhh even i went to da gym  tdy after a long break of 15 days but aahhhh i end up losinn wt wen i stop gymmin and gain wen i start :) :)
did u speak to ur guy abt gettin married at a temple dre?????
thursday tomo yipppeeee jus wait a miracle will sure happen
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 13, 2009, 10:31:14 AM
i jus jus got to know abt vinesh
sai plz shower ur mercy sai
plz be with nipul ji
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 14, 2009, 09:26:16 AM
Bhavna..how r u? Hope u r doing gud

everyone...I am angry at baba...I am tired of praying to him...I see such young kids, babies suffering and baba doing nothing..I cant take it anymore..Why this injustice...what does he gain by all this?..so many of us r praying for his mercy....

I dnt know..I am really sad and upset abt what happened in the past 2 days...and now I hear another child suffering...why??why??? They r so young baba...why them...

Sorry if i offended anyone by saying I am angry at baba but thats how I feel, I consider him as my best friend and If my friend does something I dont like, I lash out and thats what I am doing now...U r not doing the right thing baba!!1 I am sorry but thats how I feel...Dont do anything for me...but please show me u exist  for us by doing good for that little girl!!!

Om sai ram!!!
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 14, 2009, 09:40:43 AM
dear aquafish, i truly understand your sincere feelings and i was also completely down yesterday . but what they say in the grantha's must be true that you cannot live one moment on this earth than what is allotted to you. all we can pray for is that his soul is with sai and sai is taking care of him up there.
i feel guilty saying this , but at the stage vinesh was in , in incredible pain , maybe it is baba's way of relieving him of his pain. om sairam, jai sairam, jai jai sairam.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 14, 2009, 09:44:12 AM
I know ganesh ji but it just hurts so much...There is so much pain around...I have been depressed abt my situation too yday so it just doubled everything....Yeah u r right!! But it still sucks!!!

Lets hope we hear some good soon...some miracle of baba happening to our dear friends in this dwarakmai.

om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on May 14, 2009, 10:09:53 AM
lets share it all here
whatever it is
good
or bad
nothing good with me today
thursday
keeping fast too
but

om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 14, 2009, 10:11:57 AM
WELL SAID RAJIV. GOD BLESS. OM SAIRAM.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 14, 2009, 10:15:17 AM
thanks rajiv,

I know we share everything here...But I am saying its time baba gave us some good news!!! Good going u r fasting..I cant do that..I get more hungry..maybe i dont have that much patience..I wll go home and light a diya today!!

om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on May 14, 2009, 10:17:36 AM
ya
i just read ganeshji's post he has just started one
what he has said is very true
but ganesh ji i told you in my e mail that i have tried more than i can at times do myself just to put a smile or help some one
this is i think second time i came to baba and asked something
first time i did not get it
so praying for the second time now all over again
 om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on May 14, 2009, 10:22:14 AM
I wish we could all come together and bring about a miracle in at least one persons life... :)
I soooo wish at least the job thingy works. Health is not something we can help but finding each other find jobs... maybe we can...
Or maybe just collectively resolve to feed "x" number of people.
At least we'll feel good about that as a family... maybe that would be some good news to some of us... ???
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 14, 2009, 10:35:53 AM
there is this christian children's fund organisation. Being in the US, I cant find beggars or go to welfare places so easily..Living alone makes it unsafe too...So I sponsor an indian child in that organisation. Its around $24 per month which is not bad ..So right now I am sponsoring a 4yr old girl in India...This money is used for expenses and her family too...

But I want to go to a old age home and volunteer some help too...Will try to do it soon..

Om sairam
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on May 14, 2009, 10:49:42 AM
hi aquafish,

This is exactly what i am trying to do go to old age home
but problem is that i am on sticks and they wouldnt let me volunteer
but lets see i am still trying to get through if i can
but there is none near my house
and i work for almost 14 hrs in a day that excludes 2 n a half hour of commuting
finding it hard to do but really wish to
yahan par bhi its very difficult to find beggars so sometime i just take loads of stuff and give it in gurudwara
thats all i can do here
good job aquafish
may sai bless you

Om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 14, 2009, 11:06:05 AM
Rajiv,

take rest..>Charity begins at home..take it literally..lol..first improve ur health, take care of it, maybe u can initially sponsor some money to some organisation online...if u have salvation army in london or goodwill, donate some old clothes..in churches u have soup kitchens, we cud volunteer there...but mera prob hai, ladki hoon so everyone is like no dont go alone and once i depend on others, its like i am forcing them to do it, so I cant do it...lets see...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 14, 2009, 11:12:26 AM
sorry to butt in friends, but i dont believe in charity to organizations . not naming any , i would simply like to say many of these have become like organizations
and it is a question mark whether all the money we donate finds its way to the right place. i would opt for directly helping those in need. om sairam, jai sairam, jai jai sairam.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 14, 2009, 11:18:49 AM
Yeah tats true ganesh ji but tats something i can do for sure from here and need to start volunteering too...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rr_sai_bhakt on May 14, 2009, 11:35:20 AM
If you would wish to contribute, and do not mind an online contribution... here is an organization i can prob. vouch for ... try contributing here as and when i can ...

Mathru School for the Blind, Bangalore

(Its been started by a lady who suffered a personal tragedy, an accident that left her partly disabled, just as she was about to get married. Unfortunately the marriage broke down and her father passed away from grief ... however, Mukta did not bow down to these challenges that life threw at her ... she studied law .. is a practicing lawyer today ...  and she also started this school for the blind children ... and has been running it quite well since quite a few years.. quite a neatly kept place)

http://www.mathrublindschool.org/
http://www.mathrublindschool.org/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=27&Itemid=26

Some details on how you can donate -

http://www.mathrublindschool.org/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=33:donation&catid=32:donation&Itemid=32



Om Sai Ram ...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 14, 2009, 11:39:12 AM
dear rr_ji, many tks. as usual your posts are well researched ,thought provoking and inspirational. om shri sainathaya namaha.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: SS91 on May 14, 2009, 11:50:43 AM
SaiRam,

thanks for throwing  some light about this website. Sai bless you. Really feel like doing something for the blind kids.Baba bless them all.

jaisairam


If you would wish to contribute, and do not mind an online contribution... here is an organization i can prob. vouch for ... try contributing here as and when i can ...

Mathru School for the Blind, Bangalore

(Its been started by a lady who suffered a personal tragedy, an accident that left her partly disabled, just as she was about to get married. Unfortunately the marriage broke down and her father passed away from grief ... however, Mukta did not bow down to these challenges that life threw at her ... she studied law .. is a practicing lawyer today ...  and she also started this school for the blind children ... and has been running it quite well since quite a few years.. quite a neatly kept place)

http://www.mathrublindschool.org/
http://www.mathrublindschool.org/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=27&Itemid=26

Some details on how you can donate -

http://www.mathrublindschool.org/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=33:donation&catid=32:donation&Itemid=32



Om Sai Ram ...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 14, 2009, 11:07:01 PM
OM SAI RAM everyone
aquafish its justified for u to be angry but we have to c it all in a broader prospective
i work at a hoapital wre i c stuff like dis everyday sometimes i feel i nhave become insensitive to pain
i think it best to help some1 in need like u all said i dont really ama part of an organisations but wat i do is feed all the poor outside da temple on a thursady da day i cant do it on a thursday i go on a sunday or wenever i am off
lets jus keep doin our bit and let sai take care of evertthing else

aquafish i know how u must be feeling some bit of helplessness does seep in
dont worry darl...jus pray without thinkin...saburi i am offering to sai from all of us
u know wat yesterday only i was thinkin dat i wait for a thursday for a miracle but trust me every thursday of mine is jus more agonising and full of tears
den wen i am crying and feeling really low i remember my promise to sai and dat really helps
dont worry...hugggggg
we all will pray together
we will sure get it
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 15, 2009, 02:18:01 AM
dear friends, a lot of people are going through bad times now. when you feel low, think what nipulji must be going through and then we will come to the conclusion that we are indeed fortunate that sai saved us from such sorrow. everything is relative , some are more fortunate than us and many are less fortunate than us .
this is karma and in gods world you have to take the good with the bad. even a rose has thorns ....
god bless you all with happiness. om sairam, jai sairam, jai jai sairam.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: manmeet on May 15, 2009, 02:37:14 AM
om sai ram
              good post ganeh ji God bless you.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 15, 2009, 02:41:07 AM
THANK YOU MANMEETJI, HOW ARE YOU ,ANY NEWS ON THE PROMOTION..... OM SAIRAM.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: manmeet on May 15, 2009, 02:52:17 AM
 om sai ram
               ganesh ji i m quite well,  with baba's blessings we hear some good news soon. i need your best wishes
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 15, 2009, 02:54:45 AM
manmeetji, my sincere best wishes to you , may sai bless you with what you desire. om sairam, jai sairam, jai jai sairam.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: manmeet on May 15, 2009, 02:58:51 AM
om, sai ram
thank you ganesh ji
i always pray baba  please give me what i deserve and not what i desire, so let's hope for the best and positive results. how is your buisness ganesh ji, your buisness problems ??
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 15, 2009, 03:02:15 AM
pretty bad, but i have let everything to sai. situation is prety bad let him see what he can do for me . om sairam.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: manmeet on May 15, 2009, 03:10:24 AM
om sai ram
               BABA  will bless u soon ganesh ji, every thing will be allright. it is very difficult to find a person like u. you r a GEM.  u r as your name ganesh ji, aapne apne naam ko sarthak kar dia he saakshat bhagwan ka naam. koi insaan doosron ke liye itna kese kar sakta he aap apni problems ke hote hue doosro ki problems ko solve karte rehte ho. YOU R GREAT GANESH JI. MAY SAI BLESS YOU.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 15, 2009, 03:12:46 AM
:)
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 15, 2009, 10:00:10 AM
Hey all,

yeah what u all said is true..ganesh ji u r an amazing person, so baba will sort out everything for u dont worry..

Manmeet ji u r truly an inspiration with ur one liners and quotes...gud luck ont hat promotion..

Bhavna...Maybe u feel worse on thursdays because u expect something to happen...so dont..take it as any other day!!!

My thursdy was ok..euneventful..I am not feeling well..Kind of like some flu or something!! But have to work today..very tired and my boss i being nasty...:(...

Well My feelings have numbed now...I dont have any expectations for myself anymore...becoz, my bf feels i am becoming bitter...come on I am human too, I see girls younger than me being married and happy and I am supposed to be fine..Well Maybe tats why he loves me, as I was stronger before coming to US...I have to cover all my feelings when I speak to mom otherwise she starts to worry...

So I have to create a wall over everything....hmm...I dnt expect anything from baba either..sorry guys i am such a damper today...i think I am just low with being sick too...

Well I will be fine in a day or two ...

U guys take care and god bless u...Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 15, 2009, 11:00:01 AM
om sai ram everyone
feels jus so good to read all u r posts it it jus so lifts my spirits
ganeshji i am sure ur business probs will soon resolve ur such an inspiration for all of us and u keep helping all of us all da tym
aquafish... get well soon... :-* ..yes i will stop expecting from thursdays i am sure dat will hurt me less
manmeet ji..hearing from u afta a real long tym..how have u been???? how is everything faring wid u?
 may sai bless all of us and esp be wid nipul ji's family
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 15, 2009, 11:23:01 AM
aqua, bhavna, tks kids. god bless. om sairam, jai sairam, jai jai sairam.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 15, 2009, 05:25:33 PM
Bhavna,

i may not be online this weekend..Please take care of urself..I willt ry to post some messages when I can but just letting u know, if i cant..

take care..
have a nice weekend everyone

om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 15, 2009, 09:46:18 PM
om sai ram aquafish
no worries, jus take care of urself..get well soon will miss u
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 15, 2009, 09:57:51 PM
Hey...I am online...lol...cudnt sleep...and aaj he didnt come home...apparently he needs a guys nite out so teek hai...

Just feeling low...Will eat something and sleep soon...kaisi ho bhavna...how r things at ur end? weekend bhi kaam hai or r u off?
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 16, 2009, 10:48:39 AM
om sai ram aquafish
feels good to hear from u
things okay at my end i have stopped meeting him its been 2 weeks now i think we both needed a break, now we jus talk on da fone and look at each oder at da gym...i don know wats goin on between us :'( :'(
i don even say anything as i have promised saburi na to sai
donated platelets tdy its a lil more elaborate dan blood donation but feels nice :)
u temme???? any more talks abt marriage wid him?????
sai now plz listen to all of us and pls let me help dat lil girl with ewings...pls sai let her parents contact me will help dem to da best of my ability
sai plz be mercy incarnate ..we all really need u sai really need ur blessings
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 16, 2009, 11:17:49 AM
om sai ram well wisher ji
how have u been????
havnt heard from u since long??
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Amar_akshu on May 16, 2009, 07:05:53 PM
OM SAI RAM !!!!!!!!!! BABA shower your blessings..Remove misery and bring joy to all
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 16, 2009, 09:35:14 PM
Bhavna,

well wisher said she wont be online till monday...

well no i havent met him this weekend..I called him but he sounded irritated so i am maintaining saburi too...he said he will call me back tonight..lets see..u usually never does...my parents r forcing me to ask him to let them talk to his parents..but he gets bugged everytime i bring it up...so i told my parents not to ask me either...I am in limbo state yaar...I dnt have any hopes anymore...I am sorry to hear ur side too..but we will pray and hope for the best...

I dnt want to cry too anymore....I am tired and it makes me feel worse..I dnt wnat pity or feel self pity...It sucks and I just wish baba makes him realise how much i am going thru..I want him so bad....He is with me but not with me...U know what i mean na...i guess saburi is what we have with us...Hope baba sees that...

take care Bhavna..will try to keep messaging...

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on May 16, 2009, 11:51:23 PM
hi bhavna, aquafish,

just wanted to ask you one thing, i left yogurt for chiliya but by chance i had mint sauce which had curd in it, is it fine, i said sorry to baba already, i did not intend to eat it but i dont know how i did.
bhavna ji, in regards to donation you really did something nice, i donated blood and have got leaflets for platelet donation too but i dont know if i can do it now or do i have to wait for sometime before i can do it, as i just gave blood a few days back only, i have to check from there.
weekends i feel are more disturbing and depressing as there is nothing to do at all
whats new going 
hi well wisher ji how are you.
please stay in touch and keep updating

om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 17, 2009, 12:37:40 AM
om sai ram aquafish
dont worry darl yes saburi is wat we will keep
i know wat u mean cause its da same wid me also.he is dre and he is not dre and dre is nothing we can do abt it
i jus keep my self happy with happy thots i think abt the future and picture myself wid him makes me feel a lil happy
but in reality its not like dat..
but we have na sai wid usi am sure he will take care of it all
hugggeeee
will pray harder for us
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 17, 2009, 12:42:11 AM
hi rajeev
nice to hear from u
hey dats great dat u donated blood
now u can donate platelets or blood only after 9-12 weeks depending on ur local govt. policy in UK
and wat else is up????
how have u been
even i have started my chaliya, have left non veg alreaady and am offering sai saburi from all of us :) :)
na mint chutni is not eating yogurt so don wory at all...sai will bless us all i am very sure of day
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on May 17, 2009, 03:12:41 AM
thanks for the guidance bhavnaji
well i know here you can not donate again for 16 weeks so will have to wait then
i will take half day that day coz it takes about 2 hours here
but the care they take of you is amazing
i gave blood once to my mom and know how it is all done there
its not even a week and i dont have any spot on my arm :-)
well bhavna ji it has been 2 years that i left non veg and in my fav food left yogurt
i eat it everyday its like a dessert for me just plain yogurt after i have my food
but coz i dont eat that often i dont miss it either so i used to just eat that but stopped that too
i really dont know what to do even i am keeping patience
what do u do over the weekend
i am just heading towards gurudwara now its so cold not getting any warmer here i dont know y
its just pouring here today
good time to have pakodas i guess with t :-)
anything new on ur end

om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 17, 2009, 03:23:50 AM
om sai ram rajiv
hmmmm my mouth is waterin at the mention of pakoras :) :)
i was really use to spendin my weekends with this guy but its not the same nemore..havnt met him in person in almost 2 weeks now we jus talk on da fone and exchange glances at the gym
earlier it was very difficult i din know wat to do den i use to sit in the sai temple all day long on my off days
tdy is sunday n i am wrkin so tomo will be my off will jus stay at home will either study or make my presentation lets c
to be very honest i am dying to meet him have actually been praying to sai to let me spend at least 10 mins wid him if not more jus feel like holding his hand and sitting next to him  :'( :'(
but i have promised saburi to sai so will jus wait patiently
u temme?
wat u upto?
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 17, 2009, 10:41:07 AM
Hey Bhavna and Rajiv,

Gud going with ur chaliya..I dnt want to do anything yaar...mann nahi kar raha hai kuch karne ka...kal poora din kaam pe guzar gaya..had an emergency weekend call...so was working...raat ko i met him with his friends for an hour..we didnt talk directly ...usually woh weekend ko mere saath hitha hai....lekin is baar its sunday already and i didnt spend any time with him....kal bhi uske doston ke wajah se mile the...i dnt know what happened tat he is not talking to me..maine message me poocha tha lekin mujhe kuch reply nahi aaya..so maine bhi pehle ki tarah phir se call ya msg nahi kiya..I am waiting..I cried a lot last nite and asked baba to do something....it was my own personal hell...

subah mom ne call kiya...she spoke very well and talked abt everything else than this topic so it was gud...abhi patah nahi what i will do with this sunday...mayb read a book or something....I cant donate blood here..kuch tho immigrants blah blah....

its so wierd I never see beggars here but I saw 2 beggars on the road yday...gave them some money....


Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 17, 2009, 11:36:49 AM
aqua , respect and love are things one has to earn and not take for granted. i dont know what is wrong with guys of today. they dont have goals in life, they dont want to get committed , want 3-4 girlfriends by the side.... etc (this ofcourse does not apply to all , but a lot out there). agar who apne aap ko president samajhta hai to bhaad mein jaaye . wo aadmi aapke layak nahin jo aapka dil dukhaye. agar usko problems hai to aapko bhi to problems hain. aur problems sabko hai. iska matlab ye to nahin  ki baat nahin karoon aur odd behave karoon. kuch dino keliye , ab app usko dikhayiye ki aapse wo kisibhi tarah behave nahin kar sakta. ek do baar phone nahin uthayiye, agar poocha toh koi excuse dijiye, ek do baar agar woh weekend keliye bulata hai , tell him sorry i am committed etc  yah to raaste pe aajayega ya phir sahi baat nikal aayegi ki woh aapse pyaar karta hain ya nahin. is tarah roh rohkar apni tabhiyat kharaab karne se aapke friends ko aur aapke mummy ko dukh hoga . woh to apni zindagi khushi se jiyega . aapka kya hoga ? come on dear you are capable of doing it . god bless. om sairam, jai sairam, jai jai sairam.

and about giving to beggars "not all beggars are needy ". if you feel from your heart then do it. dont do it just bcos it is a beggar.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 17, 2009, 11:43:28 AM
dear bhavna , rajiv, aqua , listen friends you guys have to get your mind in order and then start giving blood , donating etc. i am not saying what you are doing is wrong but if your mind is in turmoil , you wont be able to do whatever deeds you do in the right frame of mind. you guys have the capability to do it . you are young, you have the strength to do it. dont waste your lives please . i feel like comig over , taking you by your hands and making you do it physically .
i dont know why but i cant wait by the sidelines and see you guys ruin your lives. there is potential in each and every one of you to do something great in life
why are you wasting god given talents ???. god bless. om sairam, jai sairam, jai jai sairam.

also if i may suggest something, if you are feeling down, go doen to a river or sea or some water near you. and sit there for some time , it really has a calming affect on your mind.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 17, 2009, 11:50:24 AM
well-wisher , kiddo ! where are you ???
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 17, 2009, 11:50:50 AM
thank u ganesh ji for that kick...lol..I needed that...its not been like this before...aajkal aisi situations arahi hai..I am done with all this...I just want to be by myself..dont want anybody...the only ppl i talk to is in this forum and 2 friends of mine....i think i want to move on from all this..slow but baby steps towards self improvement...lets see...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 17, 2009, 11:51:11 AM
wellwisher doesnt have net till monday...she left tat message on thursday
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 17, 2009, 11:52:19 AM
ok tks for the info.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 17, 2009, 11:56:48 AM
dear aqua, dont think that this guy is the end of your life. you will with baba's blessings get the best in life. this is a promise. and dont sulk . socialize as much as you can. bcos the moment you are alone  as they say "an idle mind is a devils workshop", negative thoughts will enter your mind. anytime you are feeling down and need to talk . send me a message or you can call me on my cell or send an sms on 00-36-30-3696652. i wil call you back. life is full of surprises
u never now , a few months from now you maybe sitting with somebody and laughing your head off on this whole incident. om sairam.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 17, 2009, 12:08:45 PM
thanks ganesh ji,

I am fine..work keeps me busy all the time...i was a loner from the beginning...I dotn have much friends in the US anyways....thanks for the promise:)...Yeah hopefully tat happens...I am not giving in...I have lot of expectations from life....


well heading to work now...sunday was off but some thing came up..ok take care

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 18, 2009, 12:11:37 AM
om sai ram every1
ganeshji u r right its not worth it to waste our life i think we shud jus not think abt dis aspect and jus leave it all on sai with 100% faith and saburi den watever we will get whether its dis guy or some1 else will be for our best
actually i work at a hospital and i am doing my post grad in transfusion medicine so wenever dre is a requirement for blood or any noder component i donate irrespective...dis tym also it was an emergency need so i volunteered

aquafish hugeeeee...darl don do anything if u don feel like it...jus remember sai in ur heart nothing more is required...plus u agree na dat we all are a family..and i and rajiv are already doin a chaliya for all of us den y do u worry...wen one person in da family does it benefits all...
and uhhh da way ur bf is behavin is perfectly natural don forget we all need tym away from each oder...doesnt mean he doesnt love u jus let him be for sometym
exactly wat i am doin i jus answer his calls and reply to his smses now he realizes all dis and makes an effort to call and sms more frequently...trust me i din meet him for 2 whole weeks...and i jus din say nethin abt it jus kept repeating in my mind dat sai i have promised u saburi so watvever will come will be quiet abt it...dat doesnt mean  dat i cant share wat i want wid sai..yesterday was missin him loads...mentioned dat to rajiv also..i jus prayed to sai to let me spend jus 10 mins wid him..and out of da blue i get an sms sayin wanna go out for dinner????
den i met him for dinner..and thanked sai for it..wat more proof do we need of sai helping us
we jus need to be patient and develop 100% faith and confidence in our sai
if u want somethin as minute as an sma from him jus ask sai for it and den wait pateintly u will c things fall into place
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on May 18, 2009, 01:13:44 AM
Bhavna, that was inspirational.

Thank you, thank you so much everyone for asking about me. Really sorry for not being in touch. I'm just going thru posts like crazy trying to understand whats been happenin in d past 4 days. No connectivity... and lil that I had, I had my boss starring at me in my face.

Well, for updates... Friday was Bad! Had a horrible flight... bothways... a terrible headache, just 2 hours of sleep. Actually got caught dozing in the middle of the meeting thrice...till I finally had to excuse myself and go wash my face. Things not so great on the job front. But ok... its fine. Happens.

Thurday was ok... got a wonderful surprise. Hadnt been in touch with anyone at all for the past 2 yrs, changed my mail ids, phone no thrice, etc. But just 6 months back had mailed a friend to appologize for disconnecting abruptly for no fault of his. We were supposed to see each other for marriage 3yrs back. But then I'd told him about my bf and we'd become friends since then. Thursday suddenly got a mail that he was in India. We spoke for 2-3mins. I met him this Sunday. It felt so awkward... for the first time in 2 yrs I was ever meeting someone, talkin to someone in person. Didnt know what to speak... felt like I was so cut off from the world and so much had changed. But then I'd decided... no matter what I feel I'm going to break this barrier. He was there when I needed him. The day I got a msg from my bf that he's married... which I guess was a lie then... I msgd this guy at his US number. I crashed completely. He knew how much I've loved him. I'd always talk all day about my guy. He actually called me up at 1am... despite my sudden disappearnce and rude behaviour. The least I could do is meet him. Didnt gel too well as the best of buddies... but he's a genuinely nice person. I know now for sure, I can trust and learn to trust more.

As for so many posts that I've read just one thing I wish to say... TRUST GOD!

I wish I could talk to you guys in person. Gimme a bit... let me sort all these mails. Will msg in some time. Pls read and re-read Ganeshji's post. And I've just posted something for Nancy some time back. Request you to read it and slowly...pls... for my sake.

N pls pls pls someone get her...drag her out of her guilt. Dont let her sink into it. Its a trap where d person just keeps sinking and sinking once its started. Please get her out of the self-blame-game. Shes just 20 and it'll just ruin the rest of her life.

Bhavna, Aquafish, Rajiv... Please please please love yourself and open the doors for love to flow in... for peace to enter your life and calm you down. Come on guys... ure not the most horrid or unwanted ppl on earth! You are young, gorgeous, educated, independant guys... with beauty, brains, intelligence, wisdom, love, compassion, loyalty, faith, patience, truth, dedication, hard-work and devotion! Dont insult yourself like this for heavens sake. I wouldnt let anyone insult my friends like that even if its you yourselves doing it to yourselves!

I can bet each of you is much better than 99% of the men and women on earth! You're part of the unique one percent God has created with this beautiful combination. Come on ya... give yourself some credit for that. Pat yourself on your back for being the rocking combination of substance, love and wisdom that you are and MOVE AHEAD IN  LIFE.

Am not saying move on... But buddy... Move ahead in life. Dont let yourself stagnate in life. Its the most foolish and rotten thing to do to oneself. Get on and move ahead... learn more. Dont let immature ppl around you and situations stop your growth and love for life.
When they mature to the level you are at and understand, they will come around too... or maybe someone much, much better! And well, if they dont... and choose to be immature, confused, spineless and indifferent... too bad for them buddy... just too bad for them. Then all I can say is somewhere you're too good for them.

Just pick yourselves up and do something fun ya... Service is great! Love of God and prayers... awesome... but part of service and love is also service and love you yourself and respect for the beautiful life God has given you. Gods made such a beautiful, unique you... which is much better than 99% of the world. Dont direspect it by stagnating and sulking nights out. Count it as direspect to God and His decision of choosing to make you such a wonderful, wise person.

You'll get many, many, many better people around... and even if you dont get someone whos in that sense better as per your definition... at least you'd definitely get someone who respects you in life. And respect is the base of a relationship.

Even if you get the most eligible bachelor or woman in your life and the person doesnt respect you or is not sure of wanting to be with you buddy... just a simple person with less than half the qualities, who respects you and happily, lovingly wishes with all his or her heart to spend his / her entire life with you... I feel, in my opinion... the one who respects you is a much, much superior person in every aspect. How can one claim to love if one cannot respect? Let them sort their confusions themselves. And once its sorted, then they can gather the guts to actually say they Love... 
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 18, 2009, 08:42:21 AM
thanks for the messages guys!!

well Bhavna...what u said is right...he loves me and just needs time..i tell u tat all the time, but when it came to me I crashed completely...I called him last nite and he was like yeah I was busy so didnt respond..i was like what the....

then he said he will call back and never did and i texted him twice...tats a record for me..I usually call n call n call....

then my mom called and said some things and i just didnt know what to say and then she hung up....i called and she didnt pick up so i jsut let it go...I have decided i wont call him ...just reply to his messages or calls...I have asked and asked baba for something but he never gives it to me...he just hates me...


bhavna..I am glad to see u had dinner wiht him...gud for u...

well wisher....yeah it feels gd to hang out with a friend after a long time...all my friends r in india or in another state in the US..the ones closer to my place are hopeless lol..so i make up all kinds of bahaanas not to meet them...lol...they r the ones who always question me abt my marriage etc etc and then discuss behind my back...well not tat i care...

well tats from me..

Rajiv and ganesh ji kaise hai? hope u guys r doing good..take care..

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on May 18, 2009, 09:13:46 AM
bhavnaji
om sai ram
congrats on having dinner with him
it feels really nice i am just missing my days the time i used to spend with her
its just like i try not to think but end up doing that only
but atleast u know u have the opportunity to meet him or go out for dinner with him i cant even think of it but this is for sure i will get the shock of my life the day i see her here wanting to go out for dinner or lunch or whatever well just say dreaming :-)
not good to do this specially when you are in the office :-)
waiting for this thursday again as i am sure you would be
nothing new at all otherwise just same usual stuff
aquafish ji ur friends are in india or other states, i never had any in india or here
in india i just have one and we are together since about 25 years now and when i spoke to him aaj after like i dont even know how long may be 3 or 4 months all he talked about was that get settled and i had no other option that to literally shout at him and tell him that marriage is not the only thing in one's life yaar
then we were talking about our school days and the way we never studied
infact i have repeated 8th :-) i failed :-)))))
so he was also telling i was given a novel to read and was told to give back in a week but they took it earlier as dust started ssettling on it
i was thinking kaash padh liye hote to kuchh ban jate
i just said padhai ki lakeer ko to shayad hum bachpan mein hi churan ke saath chaat gaye
now have nothing to do
what else is going please keep posted
om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 18, 2009, 09:30:32 AM
haha Rajiv,,,ur friend is funny...well tats what my friends say too..mere sab girl friends ke shaadi ho gaye. bache bhi hai..unki zindagi me shaadi ek accomplishment hai...and here i am with a MS degree and working and they r like settle ho jaao...padayi kisne ki rajiv...

I breezed thru school..aish kiya...khana khaaya moti ho gayi...haha..phir patli hone ki koshish , phir moti ho gayi...hahaha...school was fun..mere bhi engineering me dost bane...ab unse bhi itni baatein nahi hothi...they r married and have nothing else to talk abt except their kids, inlaws (hot topic) and say how jealous they r of me..which i find amusing..so timepass ke liye baat karthi hoon..

U know my best friend in college and here, is the guy whom I love...so if i lsoe him, its a double loss...kya patha kya hoga..as bhavna said i am trying to accept the situation and have saburi...

Take care

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on May 18, 2009, 09:42:44 AM
ya well luckily i dont have friends i mean not a lot of them who really are married and a few who are have just got married in the last year and a half and most of them are just alone staying nuclear and best part i dont talk to anyone's wife's so dont get to know that masaledaar bit at all about all that.
u r in cali right
go to ny for a few days and chill
i want to go but cant as i am on sticks still but i really want to go somewhere i dont know may be a beach anything sandy or pebble would do but luckily uk has beautiful beaches and i have been to many may be me being a piscean, i love water and beachces so just want to go somewhere but dont have anyone to come along as everyone is either working on weekends or keep cribbing about expenses involved :-(((

bhavna ji kahan hai aap aaj online nahin aaye

om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 18, 2009, 09:48:25 AM
rajiv,

i am a piscean too...:))...ur the first guy piscean i know..well have fun..taek care of ur health too...

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 18, 2009, 11:09:38 AM
om sai ram aquafish and rajiv
rajiv i wish i cud come to the UK my entire family is travellin to london and afew more places later dis yr but i wont be able to make it as i have limited holidays and i am savin all for my wedding :) :) he he dats called optimistic thinkin :)
how is ur chaliya goin???? mine is doin fine...and u know wat my frens too are all gettin married dey all look at me and say i am wasting my tym wid dis guy but trust me dey dont know dat i have dat one person who can give me all...my sai nath

aquafish...hugeeee
babes keep saburi and along wid dat have positive thinkin also jus let him be for a bit...he will be fine trust me on dis i am jus doin dat..da person who really loves u cant stay away from u for long...dre is no change in thinkin wid dis guy yesterday also it was jus da same..but i din feel bad..cause yesterday was a proof dat sai is dre helping all of us out,,,jus saburi....jus saburi is wat we need...watever u want jus communicate it to sai..he will take care of it
 om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 18, 2009, 12:25:50 PM
Bhavna,

thanks for the hug!1 U really keep me going....well yeah I didnt message him now..he is online...i cant understand how u can shut down on one person like that...well tats him i guess..I can never do that..I have to talk n talk n talk...hehehe girls!!!

well dont owrry u will visit UK soon with him...There is nothing wrong in being positive abt tat..I am praying that u get married to him soon..take care...love ya..

Om sai ram!!!
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on May 18, 2009, 12:55:46 PM
hello bhavnaji

good to know your family is coming over to uk ask them to visit scotland and highlands please its beautiful, at places there are no roads so sheeps literally pass your car and you have to drive very slow, blue water everywhere, if you are lucky u will even see water evaporating slowly forming clouds its beautifull i have seen it myself, i went to shetland islands but they have to have a car to go there preferably, so if you know some of your relatives who could drive up north nothing better than that.

if you need to know anything about uk let me know i might be able to help you

om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 18, 2009, 01:57:11 PM
hello everyone,

I maybe hurting some people by doing this..but i dnt want to talk abt my relationship to anybody anymore...maybe my root cause for discomfort is this sharing with people...

I dnt want to talk abt it anymore...I am fine and will be finme...dont think tat by not messaging to u all i will do something drastic to myself...no i wont..I am strong and i will be fine...

take care and sorry again...thanks for everything but i dnt believe it anymore...Baba wont help me anymore..I know tat , i can feel it...

Take care everyone...bhavna hope u get married to him soon...Rajiv take care of ur health..

ganesh ji u will find ur business back in track no time soon..ur an amazing person...

Wellwisher u rock and u will get thru this...

take care and thank u

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rr_sai_bhakt on May 18, 2009, 07:14:11 PM
Dear aquafish,

Please take care ... things will be fine soon ... you are a strong person ...

You are of course in all our prayers and we believe Baba will grant you what you prayed for ....

However, dont stop  believing in this, aquafish, instead i wud say stop expecting things to happen ... Its a very simple difference - belief vs expectations ... that most of us overlook .. most of our stress comes from our expectations and those expectations not being fulfilled ...

And thats why thinking about relationships continuously can get a bit taxing bcos we are continuously expecting things to happen ... That should not mean that you stop believing in something that you cherished so truly from deep within....

Things will happen when they happen ... and i remember you saying gud things happen to gud people. So believe in that very strongly.

In the mean time just take some time out for yourself .... relax ... spend time at your work, gym, a weekend getaway etc ...

Hopefully you will return to the forum soon .... and more hopefully, with a happier news to share ...

Rgds.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on May 19, 2009, 03:51:05 AM
Aquafish,

Three things :

1. You're one of the few really loving and compssionate ppl I have met. We have all seen you at this forum and this forum needs you much more than you can ever imagine. Do not share your pain out here, but please... maybe just be there for others... or read the spiritual / inspirational section or the naam jaap section.

2. As RRji said, lets stop expecting. Thats wht m doing myself. Complete faith that all will be fine. But may definitely not be the way I want it to be fine. Letting God handle it.
Heres a link for you...

http://forum.spiritualindia.org/for-all-who-seek-t30616.0.html#new

3. We all love you and will keep praying for you irrespective of what you choose to do in life. And I have faith, whatever happens next... whether he comes back or not... YOU'LL BE FINE. All is going to be fine in your world. All is good, all will be perfect. 'A perfect world for a perfect you...' its both my wish / prayer and faith in God. God Bless...

:) Hoping to see you around... whenever you feel like it...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 19, 2009, 11:32:01 AM
HI EVERYBODY , I AM HERE . sorry but the past few days , i have been in deep depression. still am . even the drugs are not helping. enough said about me.
how are you guys, bhavna, kiddo, aquafish, smg (i know about rajiv so i wont ask). aqua , i understand you are a loner but sharing takes a load of stuff off your mind and it give you some relief. i am telling from experience. but dont share with somebody more suicidal than you :) otherwise it will be like the blind leading the blind. have fun guys , wish i can jump into a time machine and make myself a few years younger (and ofcourse mess up my life same as the first time :)
no jokes apart, really , these times wont come back. so live your lives !. may god bless you all with happiness, happiness and happiness always. om shri sainathaya namaha.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on May 20, 2009, 03:01:38 AM
Ganeshji... Please keep faith. You're being tested cause you're close to God. God wants you to be closer to him. I don't know what business you do, but am sure you make an excellent counsellor, healer, a friend and guide. You know something Ganeshji... even if all material possession is taken away from you... you will still be able to survive and emerge a winner, much stronger and better than before.

Theres certain things the universe can never take away from you. Your compassion, your wisdom and your goodness. You are an inspiration to so many Ganeshji... you have no clue. So many people wake up hoping to find your post, your wisdom and the solution you would offer them with complete faith in it every morning. God has blessed you with something so beautiful and made you into someone so priceless and special...hardly a few can even imagine being that way. I dont know what Gods trying to tell you... but maybe He's really got some higher plan for you... whether it is breaking through this and thus being the guiding light for others out of first hand experience or whether its a new field He wants you to look at. No clue.

But whatever it is... I knw... for a person like you... it will be very special and the very best plan God could ever make for anyone. I wish and pray that you prosper in everyway... and that the day comes soon...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 20, 2009, 03:05:38 AM
kiddo, thanks for the consoling words. felt good reading it. god bless. om sairam.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on May 20, 2009, 03:23:24 AM
:) Most welcome Ganeshji... I really mean it and I know everyone will agree to what I just said.

I don't know why when I think of you I always feel you'll either end up writting a book or doing something so special and unique... like having a holistic healing center. Its a thought thats just been there ever since I joined this forum and read your posts. Would have never shared it otherwise but... donno wht makes me say it today. I don't know what you do already. But you'd make a wonderful healer, guide and counsellor. It must be sounding so strange. I know nothing about you... but keep getting this feeling. I dont see you as anyone apart from a healer / guide. Like the kinds who can actually help people save and transform their lives... maybe at a later stage write a book. Its not that I don't see what you're doing working out. Wish you get the best of prosperity and that your business florishes. But just so...so.. cant imagine you not connected to healing.

Am really sorry... pl pl pl... by any of this I dont mean to discourage you or upset u. Wish that all your dreams come true.... always... Just that I needed to share so badly!
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on May 20, 2009, 03:26:05 AM
Ganeshji... you deserve to be blessed with the best of the best in life...
Please dont loose hope. May God shower you with tons and tons and tons of blessings...and always be with you...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 20, 2009, 03:32:21 AM
KIDDO, I AM A TEXTILE FABRIC IMPORTER. I HAVE BEEN IN THIS LINE FOR THE PAST 19 YEARS AND HENCE WAS BY DEFAULT OR FATE DROPPED IN THIS LINE. BUT THE CURRENT RECESSION COUPLED WITH MY BAD LUCK IS MAKING IT VERY VERY DIFFICULT. I AM NO MORE INTO MATERIAL THINGS. BUT I HAVE LOANS WHICH I HAVE TO REPAY AND THIS IS MY BIGGEST WORRY. OM SAIRAM, JAI SAIRAM, JAI JAI SAIRAM.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: manmeet on May 20, 2009, 03:41:13 AM
om sai ram
                ganesh ji ganesh ji ganesh ji pleeeeeeeese. you r great inspiration for all of us. please take care of yourself. you  can be a good doctor of yourself. every thing will be all right. JUST HAVE "SHRADHA AND SABURI"  u r very special for us we all love u very much. please take care.
 "BEAUTIFUL PICTURES R DEVELOPED FROM NEGATIVES IN DARK ROOM. SO IF ANY TIME U SEE DARKNESS IN YOUR LIFE IT MEANS GOD IS DEVELOPING A BEAUTIFUL FUTURE FOR U.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on May 20, 2009, 03:43:12 AM
Waaooo... Fabric... :) the weakness of every woman...
Am sure things will get better...

Manmeetji... very well said. And I know this will be more than true for Ganeshji. How are you doing? Your problem at work-place solved?
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 20, 2009, 03:45:40 AM
thank you for your kind words manmeetji. god bless. om sairam. - i dont know how many rolls he is developing :)  cos it is taking so much time ...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rr_sai_bhakt on May 20, 2009, 03:52:19 AM
Ganesh ji,

Once these troubles tide over, and am sure they will ... please change your business from being an Importer to an Exporter - an Exporter of good-will, kindness, mercy, well-being and spirituality.
Of this you have an unmeasurable inventory ....  no recession can every affect this business ... the share index of this commodity is always on the rise ... the risk-upside is always negative .... no dearth of people willing to purchase this ... no dearth of people willing to invest in this ... you will never have to take a loan in this business .... on the contrary you will only be lending to others ....

Om Sai Ram ... Sai will always bless you ...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 20, 2009, 03:58:40 AM
THANK YOU RR_JI. I AM LOST FOR WORDS. THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR YOUR MORAL SUPPORT SIR. OM SHRI SAINATHAYA NAMAHA.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: sairam79 on May 20, 2009, 04:08:03 AM
ganeshi ji,
u are a really a saibaba bhakt.
such soothing words come from u as saibaba is only telling us.
may u be blessed with everything in life.
om sairam om sairam
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 20, 2009, 04:09:04 AM
THANK YOU SAIRAM79 JI. GOD BLESS. OM SAIRAM.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rr_sai_bhakt on May 20, 2009, 04:10:31 AM
Ok,

I must confess one thing Ganesh ji, Well-wisher, manmeet ji, smg ji...

I am not a very "senior" person .... i have turned 30 only a few days back ...

I feel very embarrassed when i am referred to as 'sir' ...

Ganesh ji ... i am very sorry to you specifically bcos you are elder to me and you continued to refer me as 'sir' many times ...

But my initial purpose of coming to this forum was to find a space for myself ... some personal solitude .... so initially  i was not sure if my personal details made any difference on this forum .. but now that some of our relationships are no more on a very formal basis and more in a personal realm, i feel as if i am not being truthful to you all ....

A humble apology if you feel i should have revealed this earlier ....

(Some of you may argue that 30 isnt particularly young and qualifies as being a 'senior' ... no problems ... just that it hurts a bit  :) )

Om Sai Ram ...
 
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 20, 2009, 04:15:32 AM
 ;D rr_ji , nevertheless my respect for you remains. om sairam. if age were a measure of wisdom , i should be the wisest person on this forum , which i am not so...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: manmeet on May 20, 2009, 04:17:52 AM
dear rr-ji
              om sai ram,
surprised to hear  u r only 30
u r young by age but spiritually u are very senior, hum sab aapke aage natmastak he rr-ji aapko bahoot  gayan he.
we din't mean to hurt your feelings.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: smg on May 20, 2009, 04:45:26 AM
om sai ram,

hi every1(ganeshji, manmeetji, well wisherji,rajiv ji), hope u all dng gud...

ganeshji, as we all know that your are facing alot of problems in your professional life and you are trying really hard to  get out of it.

If you want i can suggest you some feng shui tips which would be helpful in improving your financial conditions..do lemme know if you want to try it..i feel der is no harm trying it as well....everything is upto you...neways ganesh ji dont lose hope plz plz...easy to say but still have faith and patience....everything will be fine soon....you know why god is taking so much of time coz he is really busy thinking the best for you.. :-)....coz the best for the best....right?

rrji, it doesnt matter how old are you, what matters is that we all can learn alot from you....i respect you alot...

manmeet ji,  well wisher ji n rajiv ji i wish the best for you all.

I am sure that aqua will come back to dwarkamai again....baba will bring her back 2 (like me n rajivji)....may god bless her with all the luv, happiness n success in this world..

May god bless all...

om shri sai nathay namah...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 20, 2009, 04:55:19 AM
dear smg, i am willing to do feng shui, you can either post it here or send it to my email (it is public). many tks. god bless. om sairam, jai sairam, jai jai sairam.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: smg on May 20, 2009, 05:11:58 AM
om sai ram,

forgot to wish rrji, belated happy birthday....(i have turned 30 only a few days back ) that's y....

may god give you all the happiness, luv, success, health, wealth in this world. May you have gods best in everything.

one party due.....yippieeeee......just joking ;-)

ganesh ji, its my humble request if you please post ur email id again.....and thanks for giving me a chance to help you...i can send you few tips by tommorow only...i hope you wont mind...

jai sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 20, 2009, 05:16:57 AM
ganeshhariharan@hotmail.com. tks.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rr_sai_bhakt on May 20, 2009, 05:43:07 AM
thank you so much smg ji !!

God bless you too !!

And the party is always on ...  :)
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on May 21, 2009, 02:12:34 PM
hi aquafish
how are u
long time nothing from you
hi bhavna what are you upto
om sai ram ganesh ji rr ji smg ji
om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on May 22, 2009, 01:15:29 AM
Hi everyone... Hows everyone doing... suddenly I see so many posts... :)
RRji... belated birthday wishes... wherez the party??? :)
Ganeshji, how are you doing today?
Aquafish & Bhavna, missing you guys... Bhavna... you there??? Hope you guys are fine.
Smgji...Manmeetji... hows the two of you. All problems at work-place solved I hope.
Rajiv... hows ur each day help one concept going? Am gald ure doing what ure doing.

Am doing good. Hoping to get my leave application sanctioned. Hope my boss doesnt reject it. After 2yrs am getting an opportunity to be by myself... the way I used to before. Am getting an opportunity to go to Mauritius for 3days...of course with some office collegues who know dad very well. Its not about Mauritius... its just that am getting an opportunity to be myself, spend time with myself... "Me time" as Bhavna puts it. :) N guess what this good news also came yesterday... Baba's day...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on May 22, 2009, 01:24:52 AM
hi well wisher ji
i dont know both bhavna and aquafish have been absconding :-)))
dont have any e mail address for aquafish
if you do please try to mail her
the last post she sent she was sounding very depressed
mauritius way to go
its beautiful i have heard
never been there
thinking of going to a beach alone
but i want a very quiet one but cant fine any specially with weather being nice and sunny
its like a treat to see sunshine here in london and its going to be sunny over the weekend but its still very cold outside
lets see
hope you enjoy and get some tan :-))
please see if you can get in touch with aquafish and bhavna ji somehow
ganesh ji please see if you have an access to there e mails then please ask them to post something

om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on May 22, 2009, 01:38:06 AM
I would be going there for the first time too... just hoping my leave gets approved.
I'm equally worried about both Bhavna and Aquafish. I hope they are fine. Maybe they just need time by themselves... Just hoping and praying they are fine. No clue about their mail ids... Ganeshji would you have any clue? Possible to send them a PM???
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on May 22, 2009, 01:50:45 AM
dont worry leaves will be approved
i made a fool out of my office people all year last year to be with her
took almost 4 months off and got paid too but only coz i have been working here since very long and never ever took any leave
this year again no leaves yet :-)) coz no need for them
i go crazy sitting at home even for a day
even weekends are hard to go by
please try to get in touch with them as i just have this option here in dwarkamai to get in touch with them
i just pray that they are perfectly fine
om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rr_sai_bhakt on May 22, 2009, 02:13:57 AM
Well-wisher ..

Thank you for the wishes .... the party's on at Mauritius ...  :) ... neway do not worry ... ur leave will get approved ...

Have a great time ... enjoy with ur friends ... take some time off to be by urself ... standing by the sea itself is such a calming experience ... and add solitude to that and its pure and simple peace ...

Have great trip !

Rgds.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rr_sai_bhakt on May 22, 2009, 02:21:52 AM
Hmmm .. hopefully Bhavna and Aquafish return soon to the forum ... and with some good news to share ..

I had a feel that sometimes when you are always writing and thinking about things not working out, then that just adds to the stress ... so i felt maybe if they took a break ... and just focused on something else for some time ... then that would be a lot better .. just helps clear your mind and maybe begin looking at things from a fresh perspective ...

However ... if anyone has their mail ids ... would be good to just send a mail and check and see if they are doing fine ...

Om Sai Ram ..
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: sainetras on May 22, 2009, 06:57:55 AM
Mere pyare bachhe RR,
janamdin ki bahut bahut shubh aasish aur an-ginat pyar.
tumhara jeevan sadaa safal rahe sukhi rahe aur sabki achhi duva hamesha milati rahe.
Mere saibaba ne tumhe tej dimag aur achhi soch dekar ek aadarsh insaan banaaya hai.
Unke iss aashirwaad ko unhi ke seva me lagaakar aur bhi MAHAAN bano.
SAIBABA ISS MERE BETE KO KHUSH RAKHNA AUR HAMESHA USKI  RAKSHA KARANA.
om shri saibabaya namaha.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: child_of_sai on May 22, 2009, 07:31:37 AM
RR ji, wish you a happy birthday...may baba bless you with a long and happy life....

you have an undying fan in sainetras ji....she writes mostly to praise you  ;D....wonder if you two are not related in some way.....wish i could flatter someone like she does...hehehe...anyway, it is nice to read her posts that glorify you ;)...

Sai Ram..
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on May 22, 2009, 07:38:38 AM
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rr_sai_bhakt on May 22, 2009, 08:11:31 AM
Dear Child_of_Sai ...

Thank you for your wishes ...

Well Sainetras ji and I now share a mother and son relationship !

Sainetras ji and I interact regularly over emails and that way we have built a strong bond.

I get both, embarrassed and emotional, when ever I read her posts ....  :) ...

I know for a fact that i do not even deserve 0.0001 % of what she writes about me ... and thats why i never have the heart to reply and acknowledge her posts ... But in my heart and mind, i cannot thank her enough for what she writes .... and i actually make pranaams both mentally and physically when i read her messages ...  and there is nothing more I value now than Sainetras ji's blessings ... it really means quite a lot to me .. i never knew I could meet someone on a forum and get so many blessings ... for me its Sai Baba's way of washing away all my past karmas with these priceless blessings...

May Sai bless you dear child_of_sai ... u actually provided me an opportunity to thank Sainetras ji for her message ...

Om Sai Ram ...

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: child_of_sai on May 22, 2009, 08:33:27 AM
rr ji, it is great to know about your loving bond with sainetras ji....it is just that i was amused by her posts....hope she won't mind my comments ;D....

Sai Ram.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: manmeet on May 22, 2009, 08:37:20 AM
om sai ram
dear rr-ji belated happy birthday.
GOD BLESS YOU WITH ALL HAPPINESS IN LIFE
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 22, 2009, 10:28:13 AM
dear friends, aquafish wrote to me on my personal email . she is well. she thanks you all for your concerns. rajiv she is not suicidal or anything (this is her msg)
she is just taking a short break from all the sorrow and problems we see here everyday and i think it will do her good. sometimes it can be really overwhleming.
as regards bhavna, no news yet. guess she is busy with the hospital (wishful thinking). om sairam, jai sairam, jai jai sairam.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: sainetras on May 22, 2009, 02:11:14 PM
dear child of sai,
hum aapke vichaar par bilkul naaraaz nahi hai. Jaise RR bete ne likha hai, Hamara naata maa- bete ke mamata se juda huva hai. Aaj tak naa humne usko dekha hai naahi usne humko ...phir bhi mujhe hamesha uske prati mere khud ke bete jaise hi lagaav mehsus hota hai. Shaayad pichale janam ka koi Rinaanubandh hoga ya phir saibaba ki marji hogi.
Iska matlab baaki saare logonse pyar nahi aaisa bilkul nahi hai.
Ek MAA ke liye saare bachhe pyare hi hote hai magar jo bachha apne hoshiyaari se,
apne kartabgaari se, apne suvichaar se, sabki madat karte huve, Maa ke sikhaaye huve sanskaaronka sahi paalan karke, sabhi ka dill jeet  leta hai, Tab..Apne sapnoko iss tarah saakaar hote dekh kar,, Aaise bachhe par Maa ko GARV hona swabhavik hai naa?
Bhale hi maine RR bete ko nahi dekha ho shaayad iss janam me dekh bhi naa paavu.
Lekin,, Jo uske soch vichaar...swabhaav uske likhe huve post se maalum hote hai..
Ussii se ye rishta itana geharaa huva hai.
Samajlo ki woh mere hi feelings ko sunder bhasha me likh kar mere man ko sukuun deta hai. Isiliye taarif ya duva apne aap nikalti hai.
Mr ganesh ji, beti well wisher. rohitb8, manmeet aaise kahi bachhe bhi iss forum me dill lagaakar doosaronko saantwana dene ka kaam bahut hi achhi tarah nibha rahe hai.
Mujhe unn sabhi ke prati bhi bahut abhimaan hota hai.
SAIBABA AAP SABHI KA KALYAAN KARE....OM SHRI SAIBABAYA NAMAHA.


Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: child_of_sai on May 22, 2009, 03:54:31 PM
pyaari sainetras ji... aap ke vichaar padh kar achha laga.....sach to yeh hai ki rinaanubandh se hee hum log iss forum main judhay huay hain.....baba ne kaha hai ki hummay sab par 'Samata' rakhni chahiye 'Mamata' nahi.....bachha achha ho ya burra, hoshiyaar ho ya na ho...Maa ka farz hai ki har bachhay par ek jaisi nazar rakhay....phir bhi agar aap kucch bhaktoan se zyaada pyaar karti hain to iss main bhi Baba ki hee marzi hogi.  ;D...Sai sab ki Maa hain aur sab bhaktoan par ek jaisi nazar rakhtay hain...Baba sab ka bhala karain...

Sai Ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: manmeet on May 23, 2009, 03:24:38 AM
om sai ram
                MAY GOD BLESS OUR FAMILY
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 23, 2009, 12:24:54 PM
om sai ram everyone
sorry am for absconding for so long had an exam tdy in the morning so was studying plus was not keeping well also
jus read all the posts and i consider myself so lucky to be a part of this family
i am continuing wid my chaliya for all of us and keeping loads of saburi....
and i wud like to share wid all of u that things are improving between me and my fren
and miraculously it started to mhappen the day i realized that i need to have saburi no matter what..once again i got proof of babas presence in our life on wednesday it actually felt as if babas is somewre very close had dis peculiar feeling did not see him though but it was like i cud feel him :) :)
ganeshji, well wisher, rajiv, manmeet, rr_sai_bhakt ji, akansha..i missed u all loads
i am sure aquawish wii come bak to be wid all of us soon
lets jus pray to our sai
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rr_sai_bhakt on May 23, 2009, 12:32:01 PM
great to hear that Bhavna !

Keep up that spirit !

The other day ... i saw a car with the name 'Sai Bhavna' written on its rear windshield ... and i was just thinking that hopefully Sai is blessing Bhavna !

Take care ... and all the best for ur exam results too...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: sainetras on May 23, 2009, 01:27:59 PM
pyare bete, (Child_of _sai,)
Hum sabhi yaha Rinaanubandh se hi juday huve hai ye baat such hai. Aur sabhi ke saath MAA ko samata rakhni hoti hai ye baat bhi sahi hai ..Magar mamata nahi aaisa aapne likha uska matlab samaj naa saki.
Mere khayaal se, Agar kisii bhi Rishtye me MAMATA ( Affection ) Naa ho toh..uss rishtye ka matlab hi naa rahega aaisa mera vishwaas hai. Jaise bina khushbu ka fhul ya to kagaj ka hota hai ya phir plastic ka...jo dikhta toh sunder par usme jaan hi nahi hoti.
Issliye Maa ko samata aur mamata donoka dhyan rakhna jaruri hai ...iss baat se mujhe inkaar nahi hai.
Phir bhi,, maanlo...agar uske 20-30 bachhe ho toh samata aur mamata door ki baat hai sirf nazar rakhna bhi mushkil hai. padhne me shaayad ye baat thik naa lagati ho par utni hi suchhi baat hai ye aap bhi jhutlaa nahi sakate hai naa?
Uss mahaanata paaneke liye kahi janam lene honge. har stri ( woman ) maa toh ho sakati hai lekin MOTHER TERESA ho nahi sakati. SAIMAA ke charan dhooli ka ek kan hone ka bhi kaabiliyat aa jaaye toh bhi iss maa ka jeevan safal ho jaayega.
Mere saideva, sabhi par Aapki krupa banaaye rakhna.
Om shri saibabaya namaha.

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 23, 2009, 02:26:39 PM
thanks for the post bhavna. all the very best for your exams. i had a mail from aqua , she is just taking some time off from the forum and will be back soon.
god bless. om shri sainathaya namaha.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 23, 2009, 02:32:45 PM
dear sainetras ji, your words are so soothing and so true. padke bahut achcha laga man ko. om shri sainathaya namaha.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: child_of_sai on May 23, 2009, 04:26:44 PM
pyaari sainetras ji,  aap ne bahut achha likha hai...dhanyawaad....baba ne mamata yaani 'lagaav' (attachment) ke baaray main kaha tha......affection ko 'prem' kahna laazmi hoga....prem sab se ho sakta hai, lagaav kucch ek se....phir bhi, kyonki aap Maa hain isliye aap ko mujh se zyaada tajruba hai....aap sahi kahti hain Mother Teresa ke baaray main...asliyat main unhay sab se prem tha, lagaav nahi....maine yeh sab kyon likha mujhe bhi maaloom nahi....shayad baba mujhe maadhyam bana kar keh rahain ho...;D...

Sai Ram.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: sainetras on May 24, 2009, 06:52:40 AM
Om shri saibabaya namaha.
Jaise tumne likha hai ...shaayad saibaba aapke jariye mujhe samajhana chah rahe hai.
BAHUT BAHUT SHUKRIYA MERE PYARE BACHHE.
Aapne (affection-aur-attachment) pyar aur lagaav ka sahi arth bataaya hai dhanyawaad bete.
Hum maa hai ..tumse bade bhi hai.. shaayad tajurba bhi hai.. par gyaan ki kami hai. usko paane ki kwayish hai.  gyan sikhane ke liye koi umar badi nahi hoti hai naa ?
Yahi wajah se , yani..(achhi achhi gyan ki baate jabse padhne ko milne lage ) tabhi se hume,,--- RR ji,, ganeshji, wellwisherji, manmeetji  shubhsrini ji, dipika ji,  adwaitaji,   aur jo koi iss forum me achhe achhe lekh likh rahe hai aur apna kiimati waqt bhale kaam ke liye upyog kar rahe hai Unn sabhi se hume PREM HUVA HAI.. LAGAAV BHI HO GAYA HAI. (abse aap bhi uss me shaamil hai.)
kyon ki agar hum iss site per unke naam nahi dekhte toh bahut miss karte hai..Unke bare me sochte hai SAI-se duva maangte hai ki woh sahi -salaamat rahe..Ye sabhi rishtye pehale prem se hi banate hai phir uske saath lagaav apne aap jud jaata hai.
When you feel affection towards someone, or so many ..attachment will develop along with it.
Lekin jaruri nahi ki,aap jiss kisii per prem kare...lagaav bhi mehsus kare ...Unse badle me kuch paane ki aasha rakhe.
Mere pyare bachhe, PREM ME LAGAAV HONA BAHUT JAROORI HOTA HAI. MAGAR AASHA YA HUQ KE BINA USKO JATAANA SIKHNA HOGA.. SIRF PYAR KE BADALE ME PYAR MILE YAHI MERI ICHHA RAHI HAI AUR HAMESHA RAHEGI.
Agar mere vichaar galat lage toh, "be-jijak " use sudharne ka pura adhikaar aap sabhi padhne walonko hai.
Umar se bada hone ka matlab ye nahi ho sakta ki,,subkuch sahi jaante ho..
Issliye ye meri binti hai ki,aap sabhi ka sahyog mujhe milata  rahe.
MERE DEVA,,,MUJHE ITNA ACHHA SAI-PARIWAAR DENE KE LIYE JI-JAAN SE SHUKRIYA.
MERE PYARE PYARE BACHHONKO HAMESHA KHUSH RAKHANA...UNKI RAKSHA KARNA..MERE SAI.
om shri saibabaya namaha.

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 24, 2009, 09:28:12 AM
dear sainetras ji, my respects. aap to gyaan ka mandir hai. kahan thi aap ab tak ? khair jaise kehte hai der aaye lkin durust aaye. we are fortunate to have you among us. om shri sainathaya namaha.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 24, 2009, 10:01:34 AM
om sai ram everyone
sorry have not beek keeping too well so cudnt cum online earlier..guess its jus da heat in delhi which is gettin to me
rr_sai_bhakt ji thanks a lot  yes sai is blessing me and not only me he is blessing al of us...sai is love incarnate
rajiv....wre are u?????
ganesh ji i think aqua needs dis break guess she was a lil upset abt watever was happenin wid her....lets jus pray to sai t bless her and give her lots of courage
exactly dis use to happen to me also and i jus use to sit n cry fite wid sai n him but since i have started to offer saburi instead things have started to change in my environment and wid him..now wenever i feel restless i jus remember sai and saburi
well wisher, manmeet, akansha wre are u ppl?
om sai shri sai jai jai sai
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 24, 2009, 10:05:32 AM
dear bhavna, thank you for your post. glad to note you have started thinking spiritually and started controlling your mind. as regards aqua , yes i got her mail
and i also think she needs this break. sometimes the pain and suffering we see or hear here can be overwhelming. rajiv is alright , he called me y/day and we spoke to 1.5 hours. kiddo  ,  i dont know, manmeet ji is keeping busy at work but otherwise ok. god bless you with all happiness in life. om sairam, jai sairam, jai jai sairam.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rr_sai_bhakt on May 24, 2009, 10:18:23 AM
Kiddo might be in mauritius !
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 24, 2009, 12:02:14 PM
mauritius ? wow ! great place.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on May 25, 2009, 01:40:35 AM
Hey... Bhavna... great to see you after a long time. Ganeshji, Mauritius maybe next weekend. If I get my leave approved that is... I hope I do...
In case that happens, will leave Friday night & be back by 3rd evening.

Was feeling a bit low during the week, but am fine now. :-)
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 25, 2009, 02:40:02 AM
GLAD TO HAVE YOU BACK KIDDO !. MAY SAI BLESS YOU WITH ALL HAPPINESS IN LIFE. OM SAIRAM, JAI SAIRAM, JAI JAI SAIRAM.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on May 25, 2009, 06:25:28 AM
May Sai Bless every single person out here and all their loved ones with His choicest blessings... Please Baba, be with us...especially when we fall weak.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 25, 2009, 08:35:11 AM
om sai ram
well wisher wre were u all dis while.....thanks i am jus trying to think beyond relationships now....and its workin...though i do pray to be wid him its all seen in a different perspective...things are actully improvin between us!!!!
but its k watever sai wants will happen and will be for the best
jus goin to the temple will pray for us all
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on May 26, 2009, 03:42:17 AM
:) Great... Really happy for you... Am in exactly the same state of mind as you. Left it all to Him. I am very much here. Its only weekends when I do not carry my laptop at home. I do not access mails or calls nothing. :) Mom keeps getting worried and thinking about whats happening in my life all the time. So why simply create stress and doubt?

Thats why I just keep all the gadgets aside and re-connect with all my friends every Monday :) When I talk to anyone mom tends to get worried. So simply avoid it when home.

Btw everyone... my trip to Mauritius is confirmed. Maybe dad realized I need some me time :) Am so glad it happened... This too happened on a Thursday! I'll be leaving on Friday early morning 4:00 am and back by 3rd June 2009. I'll miss everyone... but pray and channel Reiki from there. God bless everyone out here...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 26, 2009, 08:54:27 AM
have a whale of a time kiddo !. may sai bless you with all happiness in life. om shri sainathaya namaha.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 26, 2009, 10:35:14 AM
om sai ram everyone
any idea wre rajeev is??????
rajjiiiivvvvvv....wre are u????
how is ur chaliya goin???????
u kow wat its alomost the 3rd tym dat i nearly missed goin to the temple but thanks to sai jus made as the temple was shuttin...dis tym sai will c me thru no matter wat :))))))
om sai shri sai jai jai sai
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 26, 2009, 10:45:36 AM
hi bhavna, yes  i am in touch with rajiv. his chaliya is coming to an end on the 1st . he is ok. i am in constant touch with him. good to see you in spirits.
may sai bless you all the best in life. om shri sainathaya namaha.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on May 27, 2009, 01:55:10 AM
Hi bhavnaji
i am fine, good to see sai helping you. believe me bhavnaji i read everything evryday and read your posts too and i dont know but i was so happy for you that yesterday only i was thinking ke aap ke saath achha ho raha hai and may sai bless you with him very soon, my chiliya finishes on 1st and hoping for a miracle again tomorrow dont know it does not happen that easily in my life i guess. I am speaking to ganeshji when i can, sorry ganeshji same problem battery went out, everytime i talk to u this is how it ends :-)))
i charged it and then forgot to call you back

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 27, 2009, 10:20:37 AM
Hey all,

how r u doing? tat was  well deserved break and now i am back with a lot of positive energy for all of us..lol..juss joking..I missed everyone too much to stay back...esp after reading abt eve, I got bugged...Baba is a friend who is always there for u so I think we cud say anything...I am not taking any names but whoever emailed her is pathetic...Hope she is not gonna stop messaging here or anything...hpe she is fine..

So how have u been/ thanks ganesh ji for the mail..Sorry to worry u guys but I needed some time out...My life is status quo but atleast i am being patient and I think i am seeing results...We talked it out...and praying that things work out...I realised he cares too much to let go...lets see...

Ganesh ji kaise hai? wellwisher have a gud trip...and come back feeling refreshed...bless u...rajiv dont worry , the chaliya is for ur mental good..I beleive good things happent o good people...u r back on track and enjoying ur life...tat counts..baba will see u thru..

Bhavna...Sweets how r u? I am thinking of starting a chaliya too...but willw ait for soemtime, work has been super crazy this week and hoefully 2 more days and I can get some time off this weekend but i may have to work this weekend...

Rr_sai thanks for understanding my plight ...smg I am back as u said...

more than me, I think i want to just be there for someone, even if it makes one person feel better, my day is made...:-)...

waiting for ur messages..

Om sai ram..
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 27, 2009, 10:22:36 AM
thank u ganeshji
ur such an inspiration
and raaaajjjiiivvv u will c dis ym things change wen u complete ur chaliya
mine ends on 22nd of june
and as aqua said i wont expect anything from this thursday
tomo lets jus pray for aquafish to be all okay and come bak to all of real fast :)  :)
how have u been doin well wisher all set to got to mauritious?????
am plannin to go for a week to singapore as my granparents have shifted dre, lets  wen i can manage the leave
 om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 27, 2009, 10:24:50 AM
Bhavna,

I am here...lol...tat was fast haan:P
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 27, 2009, 10:26:37 AM
oh my god wat a miracle
aqua ur bak i was tellin rajiv dat we will pray day u will come bak to us as soon as possible
 ;D ;D ;D
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 27, 2009, 10:30:13 AM
yeah unexpectedly fast
am glad ur bak
:) u cant stay away from us for too long
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 27, 2009, 10:32:16 AM
I am sorry...Just tat I was so upset....i needed time off....sorry abt tat....

U know what last thursday i went to the indian store and found baba's idol there...I have never found one there in the past 2 years...my baba idol tat my dad got me in shirdi broke( my nephew lil kid threw it down) and i was so upset and i never cud get another one and suddenly I found it and I had to buy it...i was like yay...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 27, 2009, 10:34:15 AM
hey aqua , welcome back. good to have to here . god bless. om shri sainathaya namaha.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on May 27, 2009, 10:39:48 AM
hey aqua
welcome back
bhavna ji i hope they do
i finish it on 1st
how are you ganesh ji, aquafish ji and bhavna ji
manmeet ji aap bahut dino se kuchh nahin bole
om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 27, 2009, 10:46:48 AM
hi rajiv, ia m ok thank you. how are things with you ?. anything happening ? om shri sainathaya namaha.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rr_sai_bhakt on May 27, 2009, 10:55:14 AM
welcome back aqua....
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: smg on May 28, 2009, 02:22:22 AM
om sai ram dear aquafish,

welcome back...iam so happy 4 you dear....i knew it that you will cum back soon by baba's grace n that 2 with a positive change.

God bless you dear...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 28, 2009, 09:27:57 AM
Thanks smg...its all ur love that I craved and came back..Some times I feel tat only the ppl in this forum truly understand my pain or are there for me...

Anyways..aaj thursday hai..bhavna just pray ok..dont expect miracles...:)...I usually light a diya everyday but on thursday I make a diya made of rice powder..Someone told me baba likes that...So i made it and will light it tonight....

Kal mom ka call aaya tha , she wants to talk to his parents and she hung up...mere bf ko bataaya tho he panicked and said he will call later which he wont, everybody wants peace of min in their own way...what abt mine so I decided i wont talk to both for some time..iste asy with my bf as he will be happier i dnt call but then my mom is another situation..lets see..I am not letting them get me down..Things will happen when baba wants it to happen..and i want my happiness..I am done with living for others....

Wellwished must have left for mauritius..gud going....

bhavna...how r things?

rajiv...kaise ho...hope ur chaliya is going gud...

ganesh ji..how r u? we always expect so much positive energy from u...but i want to really know how u r...baba will take care of u soon...please stay strong...


Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on May 28, 2009, 09:44:07 AM
hi aquafish
things are just fine
as you said same things different days
nothing more than that
my chiliya finishes on 1st
i have forgotten the counting also now of how many have i kept in 2 years
but as long as i do remember never left it for even one day
the day that finishes i start the next one again
so lost track of it completely
doing fast today as well
just waiting for some more time to pass by n then will go home and make khichdi :-)))))
how is everything else on your end
i know with the way you said here not really good but saburi is all we can keep
kab tak dont know
well wisher must have left yeah
enjoying Mauritius
its cold here jjust got a bit warm today only so enjoying it
hey bhavnaji how are you
how was ur thursday
om sai ram


Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 28, 2009, 09:59:53 AM
Hey rajiv,

Yeah as u said same stuff...I ama ctually fine as long as ppl dont mess with me...i have2 extremes in my life...one my mom who wants things to settle soon and my bf who is still panicky abt marriage and stuff ( the commitment issue types, he loves me but marriage scares him)....all i want is peace...stop questioning me eevryday...the more my mom asks, the more i break down before him and the more upset he gets...so finally i am the one in soup..so i told them i needed a break from them....lol...

so for now i am fine..single and lving my life..work is killing and makes the days run!!!

Lets see what baba is doing with me...and what he has decided for me:)...coz whatever i do, fate is gonna be what i have in store and not something i want or crave..its gonna happen the way its supposed to happen...
anyways too much philosophy....have fun and enjoy the little sun..here summer has started and its hottttt.....i miss the cold...

om sairam
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 28, 2009, 11:51:17 AM
om sai ram everyone
 aqua i ahve a solution to ur prob ( so i think ;D) wenever ur mom talks to u abt dis marriage thing anything to do wid it instead of sayin anything to ur bf jus say watever  u wanna say to sai he shud know cause ultimately sai only has to decide and do everything..he is the great wire puller na :)
jus keep saburi..it works wonders

raaajiivv i am very excited abt ur chaliya ending..so wat do u have in mind for the samarpan????

well wisher have a blast in maurituus....

and jus to tell u guys again yesterday i felt babas presence..it was as if baba is somewre arnd...we all shud not give up...baba is dre....we jus need to keep saburi and hang in dre....jus have faith in baba....100% faith

OM SAI SHREE SAI JAI JAI SAI
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 28, 2009, 11:55:56 AM
BHAVNA , COULD YOU TAKE A LOOK AT THE ASP POST PLEASE .... TKS. OM SHRI SAINATHAYA NAMAHA.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 28, 2009, 12:04:55 PM
Bhavna.

I decided i shud do that..I texted my bf tat " i shudnt have said anything to u" and then sat in front of sai baba and talked to him and then went to sleep..I have some inner peace from then....
lets see how far tat goes...I am trying to turn veggie for a few days..not keep a strict chaliya but try ..

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 28, 2009, 05:18:54 PM
hey Bhavna,

feeling restless...i think heart of hearts i am tired of waiting..i wish things wud settle or work out soon,.. i dont think I have the ebergy to fight this out anymore..Hope baba sees me thru this soon..I am still waiting..just saying tat I am tired...I feel so tired nowadays and so overstressed...Thursday is almost over and even though i tell u i dnt expect miracles , i am upset..dont know why...lets see tomorrow is a new day!!

baba please listen to us..please gimme a sign..just one sign....I need some assurance..
om sai ram

PS: ganesh ji, i like the pic in ur ID..very soothing:-)
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Parul.aradhana on May 28, 2009, 06:52:48 PM
Om Sai Shri Sai Jaya Jaya Sai
When you have so much faith on Baba than nothing can break you. Don't worry Bhavna ji. Me and my husband waited 9 long years to get married. I can understand your pain but all I can say is to have some patience. Baba sabki sunte hain aapki bhi sunenge.


Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 28, 2009, 09:16:01 PM
U know aaj ghar aayi office se feeling low and unloved...and logged in and kal ke baad mujhe laga woh message nahi karega mujhe kuch din ke liye and suddenly he messages me and asks me how i am and chats for a few minutes and he went home from work so he said he will chat from home...

thanks for the little joy baba...please keep shwing ur presence to us even in little ways...thank u...
just wanted to share this positive feeling too..u must be tired of seeing depressing posts from me....will message tomorrow...

om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rr_sai_bhakt on May 28, 2009, 09:46:31 PM
we wish that this positive feeling continues for ever, aqua ... and no post is depressing ... please keep posting whenever and whatever you feel ...

Thats what everyone here is for ...

Om Sai Ram ...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 28, 2009, 10:26:27 PM
thanks RR...yeah hope so too..even if its not, I will remain positive and have saburi:)


Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on May 29, 2009, 12:52:23 AM
hi bhavnaji

i dont know what will i do to finish it
any suggestions on how to complete it
i dont do anything special
dont even offer anything to sai baba except myself
please let me know help me what should i do

om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: nitin04J on May 29, 2009, 01:35:45 AM
baba mai aap se lagatar last 5 month se prayer kar raha hun ki aap meri job lagva dijiye per aap meri prayer per dhyan hi nahi de rahe hai baba agar mujhse koi galti ho gai ho to mujhe maf kar dijiye per ab meri halat bahut kharab hai ek pisa nahi hai meri ichsa sakti bhi jabab de rahi hai ab bas man yehi karta hai ki apni jaan de du baba mujhe aap ke upar pura faith hai per ager kisi ke pass last 5 month se job na ho aur ek bhi paisa ghar me na aata ho to o gher kaise chalayega aap hi bataiye baba please kuch karo nahi to mai pata nahi kya karunga  please baba

om sai ram meri prathana sun lo baba meri naukri jaldi lagwa do baba please
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: smg on May 29, 2009, 02:45:10 AM
dear nitin ji, app please apni himat banaye rakhiye....hum sab apki halat bahut ache se samajh sakte hain lekin apni zindagi khatam karne se to iska solution nahi niklega na.....is time par bahut sare aise log hain jinke pas job ni hai n as u know ki recession bi chal ra hai to plz thoda sabar banaye rakhiye jald hi sab kuch theek ho jayega......n plz think about your family 2...ap hi to unki 1 umeed hai

please hum sab apke sath hain....umeed mat chodiye bas...baba sab dekh re hain aur jante hain ki kaun kis halat mein hain n he will definately do sumthing about it soon...

baba please please app is dwarkamai ke bhakton par koi bi prob na ane de...plz....

om shri sai nathay namah....

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 29, 2009, 03:15:10 AM
dear friends,

a very interesting link to the spiritual section ...
http://forum.spiritualindia.org/love-is-blind-t30689.0.html (http://forum.spiritualindia.org/love-is-blind-t30689.0.html)

om shri sainathaya namaha
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on May 29, 2009, 04:42:23 AM
beautiful post
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 29, 2009, 09:30:32 AM
tat was nice post..I remember reading the story but the next half is nice...

Nitin,..DOnt lose hope...I was in same situation last year...this shall pass too..Baba is waiting for the right job and once u get it , u will be very happy...Trust me baba is there for us...u just need to have a little more patience...dont think abt taking ur life and stuff, not worth it..think abt ur family and everyone who cares for u....stay strng and baba will definitely give u a job..Waiting to hear frm u soon tat u got an awesome job..Good luck and prepare well...I think ganesh j and a few others were helping out by floating resumes, maybe u cud talk to them and see if ur profile matches some companies..

My company has a freeze so they r not hiring...take care


Bhavna how r u...weekend is finally here,..hopefully can relax...rajiv,..hope ur doing good...rr ji, smg,....god Bless..
Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on May 29, 2009, 09:45:55 AM
hi aquafish
i am doing good yeah
its getin hotter here about 20
and weekend is going to be about 25 so looking forward to it
though have nothing to do
so as soon as friday night will come i am sure i will start waiting for monday morning
sat n sun are very very boring
chiliya finishes on monday
how should i finish it
i asked bhavna but i think she has been busy till now
ganeshji aap hi suggest kar diliye
kal i kept a rose in front of sai ram
thursday ka present :-) from me to baba
anything new on anyone's end
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 29, 2009, 09:54:48 AM
Rajiv,

Why dont u go to temple and donate some money...or if u have the time, u will find lots of soup kitchens at churches on weekends..if u can , u cud volunteer to serve the food or just donate some old clothes or money to a good will center....I try to do this...there is a homeless guy near my street, i give him some money and sometimes i drop him off at the shelter (but he always come back)..but atleast he gets food for a day or 2...this is what i do...see what u can do without physically tormenting urself..as u said u r on crutches now...take care

om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 29, 2009, 11:24:34 AM
om sai ram every1
 rajiv plz plz do take care of urself and offer anything to sai wid love it will be accepted i am off on 1st i will also go to the temple on ur samarpan and pray for u  ;D

aqua darl hugeeeee
 and wen u say dat u feel tired and things need to work out for u soon dats the exact tym wen u need to offer complete saburi to sai...i have exactly gone thru the same thing..the restlessness, the helplessness but den i realized that though i have offered shraddha dre is no saburi...jus do dis much plzz..plz do dis....aqua dont make the mistakes i made ....plz dont think abt dis at all jus let sai decide ur every move and u jus follow it blindly.....


nitin ji
read sai sat charita
its written dre dat who believe in sai wid full faith and devotion
dre is never any dirth of food and clothings in dre hse
dont worry jus have faith...all will work out for u

om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 29, 2009, 11:32:56 AM
Bhavna,

as usual with ur message u made my day..yeah whenever i get restless i think of u and saburi...i am trying to let it all go and live life as it comes..baba is doing something, i can sense it..little things are happening..i can see my bf making an effort to talk, call , chat or text..and it feels nice...he is like lets start afresh..lets see how far this goes but i will ahve saburi and no one will take it from me...u didnt do any mistake bhavna...Baba will make everything fine for u...u r an awesome friend and baba will see u thru...love ya...thanks for everything..

god bless...om sai ram...

Rajiv...I will try to go to temple and offer something from ur side too:)...we have a nice baba temple here...feels like i am visiting the one in my hometown..I have been to shirdi only once and I wish baba wud bring me and my bf there after our marriage..My bf beleives in baba a lot and says he will take care of everything and if we get married, he wants us to go to shirdi...Hope sai blesses all of us soon...

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 30, 2009, 11:36:30 PM
om sai ram
 aqua i am so happy for u
u will c a great change in ur situtation very soon...marriage thing mite not immediately get solved but we will continue to offer saburi to sai and let him decide and do things at his own pace...
 hugeeeeee

rajjiiivvvvvvvvvv
tomo ur chaliya is ending :) :) :)
i will offer sweets/ banana/buscuits to poor near the sai temple in ur name
jus pick whatever u have in mind out of these or anything else u wanna donate will donate dat from ur side
jus plz let me know
and u offer saburi to sai from ur side
that u will accept sais decision and let him work things out for u without u troublin ur self physically or in any oder way
sai plz plz bless rajiv dis tym and fullfill his hearts desire
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 30, 2009, 11:41:49 PM
Bhavna,

How r u? thanks for doing chaliya...u r nice!:)...well My situation is fine...he needs 6 months to do everything..lets see ,.i waited this long, i think i can wiat some more...i just have to wait..I have done some mistakes and i think this is the result of that...hopefully thinks fall into place...

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 31, 2009, 05:23:22 AM
dear friends, got  a mail from kiddo today. she is relaxing in mauritius and was asking me if alls well in dwarkamai :)  needless to say i answered in the affirmative.
she was feeling a little low but she is ok now.

also thanks to baba, your prayers, my parents prayers, and valuable tips from smg , since last week i have started seeing some positive development in my business. it seems the ship is slowly but surely turning in the right direction. dont want to yell out loud but will keep you posted. my sincere thanks from the heart to you all especially rr_ji who kept the fire kindling in me . thank you. om sairam, jai sairam, jai jai sairam.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on May 31, 2009, 11:33:45 AM
om sai ram ganesh ji aquafish ji bhavna ji
ganesh ji first of all really nice to hear that things are starting to fall in place
and we need to celebrate so we will do this by you coming to london we will meet and celebrate
what say

aquafish ji great going just be patient and things will fall in place as bhavna ji say just offer saburi to sai he will make things work for you i am sure it will

bhavna ji thanks a lot aapka jo bhi man kare shradha se aap de dijiye
i will try to give something as well in mandir or gurudwara
i will have to see if someone is free then they can carry the stuff for me as i cant take anything in hand
but no worries i have a bag that i take to office everyday i will put whatever i can in that and then go to temple
majboori hai nahin to zyada bhi kar sakta tha but i hope god will understand thoda to
but jitna kar sakoonga karoonga

ganesh ji so when do i see you here now then
come with  your family london is not so bad after all
and best part is its very sunny and hot here right now

speak to you soon

om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 31, 2009, 11:37:18 AM
om sai ram ganeshji
dts such great news dat things have started improvin at ur end :) we will continue to pray to sai and keep saburi

aqua i don think u will have to wait for 6 months u will end up wid him much sooner...not predicting anything....jus have a feeling its gonna be like dat

and rajjiiivv u havnt come online tdy
if only u can cme online and decide for me plz else i will be all confused in the mornin
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 31, 2009, 11:54:43 AM
DEAR RAJIV, I SAID THINGS ARE TAKING A TURN FOR THE BETTER, NOT THAT I WON A LOTTERY  ;D  ANYWAYS WITH GODS GRACE I WOULD ALSO LIKE TO MEET YOU . LETS SEE. OM SAIRAM.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 31, 2009, 12:21:30 PM
Hello all,

Ganeshji, Gud going..I am happy for u...soon it will be all better:)....thanks baba...

Bhavna and Rajiv...Howz it going? Well rajiv, baba knows ur condition so he will understand...baba doesnt desire anything...just ur prayers...

Bhavna,..thanks for the confidence...he needs time to be ready for marriage..he says he needs 6months before the next step..apparently his parents r ok with us..I am just hoping against hope , it works out...Having saburi...

Rajiv,...I may come to London for a project in november:)....

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 31, 2009, 12:24:26 PM
thanks to all of you my friends, i wish we could all meet somewhere , some time, me , rajiv, kiddo , rr_ji, bhavna, smg, aquafish , manmeet ji, lets see . god willing. anything is possible. om sairam.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on May 31, 2009, 01:08:27 PM
rajjjiiivvv
plz don stress ur self out tomo dat is wat u need to offer sai
even if u cant carry anything its okay jus go to sai temple or pray to sai from  home
we are dre na for u we will donate somethin from ur side to sai
u get well first.....den u can go and do whatever u wanna do at sai temple
but first of all get 100% fine dat is wat sai also wants from u sai always said dat u cant give me 100% devotion if ur not healthy...so ur first duty towards sai and also for all of us here ur family at dwarkamai is is to get absolutely fit and fine
 hugeeeee
first thing in the morning apply udi to ur forehead
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 31, 2009, 03:16:43 PM
rajiv, i second what bhavna has said. om sairam
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on May 31, 2009, 03:17:18 PM
bhavnaji i applied udi today
kal k liye bahut saare plans banaye hain but depends a lot on if i can leave early from work
i dont think i will be able to but still lets see
ganesh ji i swear on sai baba even i was thinking this only that i wish we allllllll could meet once
but lets see sai will if he wants us to
but aap aa rahe hain yahan and i promise i will take care of you as much as i can
and dont worry i know cooking so i will not make u sit in a stupid restaurant i will cook it on my own

bhavna ji, aquafish ji ganesh ji i am believe me honestly i wouldnt lie i am so happy that things are getting better
nothing at all is goin right for me but when i see all this happening i feel shayad kabhi baba meri bhi sunenge
i get very positive listening to anything positive from anyone
and apni family ko khush dekhne se achhi feeling to aur koi ho nahin sakti na
may baba bless you all

om sai ram
jai sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 31, 2009, 03:24:19 PM
rajiv, very kind of you. be as you are always . dont change. god bless you. om shri sainathaya namaha.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on May 31, 2009, 08:00:18 PM
Rajiv,

Very sweet of u..as ganesh ji said keep up the spirit..Eveyrhting will work out fine:)....thanks for calling us family...Even I look froward to all ur messages more than anything in lmy life...thank i for being there for me guys!!!

I just had a quiet weekend..will be busy from tomorrow again...i wish december wud come soon so i can go to india and also it will be a decider for me....lets hope things will be fne:)...I have a couple here who r gud friends of mine and are huge baba devotees...Unke ghar pe they gave me udi today...I keep it in my purse now...

Bhavna...kaisi ho?

ganesh ji i want to plan and read guru charitha also for the kids....Hope baba takes care of them ...and cures them...

Rr ji, smg ji how r u? manmeet ji busy at work? take care

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rr_sai_bhakt on May 31, 2009, 08:26:21 PM
Friends ...

reading so many positive messages here ! .. a terrific way to beat the monday morning blues ...  :)

Well, ganesh ji ... really really nice to know that things are beginning to improve ... please keep your faith and your good work going strong ... things will not only be back to the earlier state ... but better than that !

Bhavna, Rajeev .... baba is definitely going to bless the both of you with your wishes very soon ....

Aqua, i am fine, thank you .... with Baba's grace i am sure in December we will get that marriage invitation from u...  :)

Smg ji, Manmeet ji ... hopefully you are all doing really well ... aapke messages thode reduce ho gaye hain aaj kal...

Well-wisher, have a great time in Mauritius !

Om Sai Ram ....

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: manmeet on May 31, 2009, 11:04:46 PM
Friends............
om sai ram
                     i m very happy for you ganesh ji, aapki shradha aur saburi ka phal he ye sab ganesh ji,  baba hum sab ke saath he, all the best for all of you.
baba bless you all.
rr ji office ke kaam me kuchh busy hu,  aur weekend pe out of station thi isliye.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on June 01, 2009, 01:21:20 AM
dear manmeet ji , thank you for your kind words. all credit goes to baba. may he be with me always to guide me. om shri sainathaya namaha.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: smg on June 01, 2009, 01:53:01 AM
om sai ram,

hey ganesh ji its good to know that things are improving by baba's grace.....m sooooooooooo happy for you.........

aqua ji n rr ji, am dng fine thanks....aur app log kaise ho? have exams till 26th of june, so preparing for it....

well wisher ji, rajiv ji n bhavna ji how r u guyzzz? iam really praying for all of you....aqua ji i'll be waiting 2 hear gud news 4m ur side in dec...:-) rajiv ji baba apki bi bahut jaldi hi sunege....my best wishes are with you...

ganesh ji, we all will definately meet 1day....aqua ji is cmng 2 india in dec, so y dnt u n rajiv cum 2 india in dec n i guess rr ji,well wisher ji, manmeet ji n bhavna ji are in india only...plz guyz if possible think abt it...

well wisher ji have a great time in mauritious.....:-)

hello manmeet ji, kaise ho app?

may baba bless all......

om shri sai nathay namah....
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on June 01, 2009, 02:12:59 AM
om sai ram everyone
its so hot here
jus feeling a lil low dunno y...but jus...so have dicided to jus spend da entire day wid sai

how u doin aqua
and rajiiiv do tell us abt ur day
and i think if all of us cud meet in dec dat wud be  great
hopefully by dat tym sai will hear me out too and get me married to dis guy :)

om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on June 01, 2009, 02:23:15 AM
om si ram  smg ji
thank u so much for ur support
it so much easier with all of u around to carry on and keep a positive attitude
may sai bless all of us and fulfill our wishes
 
om sai shree sai jai jai sai
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on June 01, 2009, 02:23:53 AM
om sai ram
well said yes we might come down to india
lets try and meet up in december
a family which will meet made by the grace of baba
it will be such a blessed family
this in itself will show baba's blessings on us
hey aqua good news is just round the corner this means
if you come down in november ask ur bf to come with you and we could meet here
but in november its damn cold :-(((( and its night before 3 in the afternoon
lets see
bhavna ji dont worry things will be fine
its her birthday today i called her when i was in gurudwara at 12 her time but she dint pick the phone
but then i had no option i left 27 petals of rose in front of sai applied udi left a flower with sai did all this went to gurudwara
i made a cake too last night
i am not with her but i did all i could to make her day nice without even her knowing it :-)
last year though we were together all day
i still hope that her day just goes fine and she is smiling
coz she told me once that for some or the other reason she ends up crying every year on her bday and only now since i have been with her she does not
all i asked sai for in the morning also was her happiness thats it
and also said to him that please dont make her cry
in the evening i plan to call a friend i will give a cake in the gurudwara
since i dont go inside i will call a friend and ask him to do so and then will go to mandir and then home
day will be over by then i think
but i just still hope she is very happy
feeling low about everything specially when last year comes to mind but hey :-))) this is me trying to smile all the time :-D
may sai bless you all
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: shova on June 01, 2009, 03:31:13 AM
PLZ DEVA HELP BHAVANA JEE N HELP HER PROBLEM
SAI REHAM NAJAR KARANA APNE BACHON KA PALAN KARANA
JAI SAI RAM
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: manmeet on June 01, 2009, 04:36:17 AM
om sai ram to all of you,
 smg baba ki blessings se me theek hu, tum kesi ho, kese ho rahe he exams all the best.  kitna achha ho na hum sab mile ek din, i hope baba ki blessing se woh din zaroor aayega.

   
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on June 01, 2009, 08:29:59 AM
smg and manmeet gud to see ur messages....Gud luck for exams smg...do well....

ganesh ji kaise hai? hope everything is going fine...

rajiv...tat was very sweet of u...baba will listen to u soon..keep smiling always....we r all here for u...>:D<..tat was a big hug...u know I am coming on an official trip "( 80% pakka)....so may not bring him along..and he has this funda..no long trips before marriage...he says we shud keep some stuff for after marriage...anyways..lets hope i can come over and we shd meet...

I like the Idea of everyone meeting in India..if eveyrthing goes as planned...we cud meet in dec or even before (bhavna's wedding is possible too:))...it will happen bhavna...I know baba wont disappoint us....

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on June 01, 2009, 09:20:06 AM
THANKS FOR ASKING AQUA . I AM GOOD. IN SAI'S HANDS. OM SHRI SAINATHAYA NAMAHA.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on June 01, 2009, 09:21:42 AM
hi aquafish
no worries if he is not there then we will try and meet up
its getting more and more hot here
i just went to a church
there is one next door to me
u know i was just going somewhere and i saw an old guy playing voilon and he was blind
i see him there many times
and he had a small container in front of him for coins
he checked and it was completely empty
i saw him doing this and felt really bad
i had crossed him already but then i checked my pockets and i had a lot of change
i just took out everything i had emptied myself and put in his container
since he was blind he dint know anything much except that there were too many coins going into his container
he was so happy and i was so happy seeing him happy
then i was coming back and i saw him again doing the same thing
i was coming from post office and again had change with me so i gave it again
i dont know i was thinking how to give something to a needy person but i did somehow
moreoever on the weekend i had a guy working a labourer i gave him food and extra money too
i was literally thinking yahan kaise i can donate but i got opportunities and i did that
felt happy
bhavna ji when is ur chiliya finishing
i dont know y but i am  having a very very strong feeling that things will work out very soon for u aquafish and ganesh ji
i just hope it does
all the best
god bless you
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on June 01, 2009, 09:29:35 AM
Thanks rajiv,

thats a nice thing u did...even I have problems thinking of donations and stuff and as u said I find someone like that...U did a gud thing...Baba will surely bless u...U know if u cannot go to mandir, just light a candle in the church..I used to do tat in india...

Lets all hope for the best and pray to our hearts content...I am trying to be positive but not expecting too much either coz I have had enough disappointments in life to think everything will be very good...Just hope and faith and as bhavna says lots of saburi...I know thats one thing I need a lot...

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: monabhardwaj on June 01, 2009, 06:26:34 PM
feeling gud to read all these post........may sai bless u all.

shri satchidanand sadguru sai nath maharaj ji ki jai
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Reet on June 02, 2009, 02:46:34 AM
Really Sai help her........never do bad with her give her love back.....i can understand the pain of love plz give her love back...........om sai nath........plz read Sai charitra daily.......and pray to sai all the time
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on June 02, 2009, 07:45:20 AM
om sai ram everyone
sorry am jus feeling a lil low but i keep repeating jus one word in my mind saburi
sai we are all ur children and everyday we live wid u as our only refuge  plz bless all of us

aqua dont worry jus remember saburi u will soon c things change for u
rajiv i am so glad u were not down in the drain yesterday i know its very difficult..am proud of u
my chaliya finishes on sunday the 21st
yesterday i donated bananas for u at the sai temple near my hse
ganesh ji i am sure ur work prob will also sort out real soon
and we all will meet in dec who knows we all mite end up goin to shirdi together
as far as things wid dis guy are concerned there is no talk of our marriage on the horizon
i am again meeting a few guys for marriage in teh coming month....lets c how that goes...i am very sad abt this bit...really....if only it cud work out between me and him...am meeting him for dinner tdy
but i am sure dre will be nothing more to it dan usual.....no talk abt our marriage....which rt now is as impossible as ever
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on June 02, 2009, 08:46:46 AM
Bhavna,

Big hug!! Dont worry...baba will do something...enjoy ur moments with ur guy...he will marry u..there will come a time when he will realise that...its always like that..dont feel low..we r here for u to talk too..Baba wont let u down...he will see u thru..take care now....love ya....

Rajiv,
how r u today...ganesh ji....howz everything going...smg howz ur prep for exams...rr ji whats happening at ur end?

PLease take care evryone...Wellwisher will be back ina day i think....

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on June 02, 2009, 09:39:16 AM
hi bhavna ji
thanks a lot for doing this for me i will not forget it all my life

aquafish i am fine how are you
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on June 02, 2009, 09:50:40 AM
i am doing gud..trying to stay positive..patience and trying to do some things for myself..6months ke liye Iwill do that...getting into a fitness routine too..have neglected a lot of things by stressing out....

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on June 02, 2009, 10:06:04 AM
ya stay fit atleast if nothing else
the weather is getin worse here almost 27 :-(
bhavna ji i drowned yesterday mailed ganesh ji everything :-) so no need to be proud on me
baaki sab is going
saburi saburi saburi
dont know till when
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on June 02, 2009, 10:09:42 AM
Rajiv,

Its ok...sometimes these things happen...well atleast u vented otherwise it cud get worse...sometimes keeping it in is not good...U will be fine!!:)....Baba is there for us..sometimes he is late but usually he does a gud job..lol...tats why Saburi...take care and be happy..thanks ganesh ji for hearing him out..u r our ROCk!! always supportive and there for us!!

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on June 02, 2009, 10:17:16 AM
i did vent out everything
but dint really help
might talk to ganesh ji in the night
not sure
feeling too low to do anything
today is tuesday so have to go to mandir also
i dont know i got 3 pounds today on the road since morning
actually more than that but dint pick all of them :-)
so plan to leave it in mandir
that blind guy i dint see him today
actually dint go that side either
so will put that in mandir
om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on June 02, 2009, 10:37:34 AM
rajiv,

No worries...Done feel low..I knowhow it is..but u have to be ur own joy...baba will guide u and u have friends but u have to take urself out of the FUNK...tats what my friends say...Dont be in a "funk" and get up and get going...do u have a park nearby..just sit there and breathe in fresh air...Hopefully there is some in London...here all i can breathe is smoke and fumes...

Do u watch movies..Maybe catch a movie..I sometimes go for a movie alone...people find it wierd but its fun..no one to grab ur popcorn , no one buzzing around..u can have fun.....take care ok...

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on June 02, 2009, 11:01:24 AM
i have a huge park next to my office and house but when i sit there i start thinking even more
movies i hate them
i try to see some sports as thats all i like
but wen u r feeling low nothing in the world excites you
atleast me i am like this
parks to bahut hain yahan par luckily
got to leave from work now its 6 will try and catch aarti at 7 on tuesdays
but dont think i will be able to make it as its quite late already
om sai ram
will come online from home now

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on June 02, 2009, 11:18:39 AM
kids, take a look at this ...

http://forum.spiritualindia.org/love-is-blind-t30689.0.html (http://forum.spiritualindia.org/love-is-blind-t30689.0.html)

om sairam
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on June 02, 2009, 11:30:49 AM
ya ganesh ji..saw this article..aisa pyar aaj kal nahi hotha..hehe just joking..Hopefully we all come out of this funk soon...Baba please help us...

om sai ram..

Rajiv...French Open chal raha hai..i dnt have time but can watch it now..and lemme know how it went..see if safina can win...pray she wins..I love her technique...Hate serena and venus..they always win and tat gets boring..Nadal was out in the 4th round:(,,,
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Nasi on June 02, 2009, 11:53:49 AM
Dear Sai Baba,

Please help my husband to be free and be able to come to his family. His children need him so much. Thanks!
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on June 02, 2009, 12:11:35 PM
Dont worry Nasi...Baba is there for u..eevrything will be fine..Please read baba charitha and have faith in baba...

om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on June 02, 2009, 03:24:09 PM
hi aquafish
well following all that quite closely
i see football f1 cricket tennis almost all the games
football season is almost over here and f1 is goin looking forward to gp this weeken
cricket t20 is about to start
one of my friend went to oval today to see a match dint even ask
i think they must be thinking that meri wajah se they might get late and all coz i am slow
they only take me to places where they know they can avoid queuing coz of my sticks
even my office people keep sending me here n there coz they know work will be done so much quicker
sometimes i feel bad but now slowly getin used to it
tennis federer all the way
not too known about womens but ya i know safin was playing today
murray the brit crashed out today though i dont support him much
bhavna ji kaise ho aap
any plans for u coming to uk
ganesh ji when are u planning to come
aap to paas mein hi hain
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on June 02, 2009, 05:40:06 PM
hmm sounds like fun rajiv...I have a friend who is a die hard fan of manchester utd...he keeps telling me everything..he doesnt care tat i dont understand but sometimes i watch the matches with himm..this time I wnat to go to NY for the US open..I so wanna see it..I went to indianapolis for the car races ..it was fun...

Feeling low..Missing him very badly...I just wish this time passes and we work these things out in 6months..I find this so testing that i have to wait 6months...Seems so long..he is away fro me to work things out and be ready for marriage..I dont know why this pareeksha from baba...Baba please make this time pass quickly and make him come back 100%..please..

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on June 03, 2009, 01:20:14 AM
hi aquafish
man u is good but i support chelsea more as man u has arrogant people in them. pride takes over them so, US open i dont know when it is but india's matches in t20 are in nottingham and one of  my very good friend's sis stays there only i was planning to go but she and her husband are working and dont think they will be able to take a day off from the off moreo ver tickets are like 300 pounds not worth it watchin a 2020 game for that much money

whenever you miss him too much just think about the nice time spent with him, it will get a smile back on your face, you know i told you i will go to mandir, i went and one of my friend left a bit early as he does a paath which takes time so when i reached he was already there, i also did my sai ka path and jus kept my head down and started crying, since my head was down i dint realise him sitting next to me and when he saw me he said kyun yaar, har baari i come to mandir i see u crying either u dont come here or you come alone i really cant see you like this everytime i come, it was embarissing i really dint know and i really dont want anyone's sympathy either but just cant help crying either whenever i am in the mandir, it happens and then on my way back home i started talking to him about the nice time we spent and it got a smile back on my face, so try this it will help and do it when you are with someone whome you are open with and can share everything and who knows about u and him, believe me it will help. it helps me so i thought may be it will help you too.

about waiting, please aquafish ji just keep patience, some more time and you will be together forever, i really hope to see  you together, and you never know may be by the time you come here on project in uk he gives you a surprise visit just to see you how you are doing and then i can meet both of you together :-)))  I love surprises, i gave my gf so many that they were no longer surprises for her anymore, i used to go to india all the way from here just to surprise her, and then more there in india but the most difficult part was when i was coming back, she never let me go and i had to leave, so many times i had left for airport and came back half way and then when she used to come and meet me she used to say see i told you that you wouldnt be able to leave, so till the plane actually took off she just stayed in the hope that i might turn back, i dont know how far he stays away from you but if u can then do this make a getaway from the office on thursday as tickets are cheaper on thursday than friday night spend time with him over the weekend and come back on sunday, its amazing believe me i have done this so many times just that my flight was about 9 hours :-(( but u both in US will not take more than 2 to 3 hours.

om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on June 03, 2009, 07:53:29 AM
i love football an i am a diehard fan of man u aswell
:) :) :)
feeling a lil low but keeping saburi as usual
so lets c how it all works out
thanks for the support
sometimes i feel so helpless
sai wre are u????????????????????
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on June 03, 2009, 07:55:55 AM
he is always around you bhavna, you just dont see him. om sairam.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on June 03, 2009, 08:01:47 AM
Rajiv,

Thanks for the support buddy!! yeah I just thot abt all the happy stuff and went to sleep..went to the gym and came back...destressing helps....well He lives 10miles away..but he doesnt want to meet for 6months..tats the deal and then we will get married i think...only 3 days have passed, feels like eternity..he may meet me some times but it wont be the same..lets hope for the best..saburi is all I have...Take care of urself Rajiv...Wow u used to go to india on weekends...she is so lucky..hope she realises tat..dont worry...u r an awesome person and soon u will get what u desire..baba wont keep everything from u for long..he is just giving u some time off...and then u will get the best surprise of ur life..so buck up and get well soon and take care of ur health and soon..things will turn out the way they r supposed to...in the positive....

US open is in september...

Bhavna,

DOnt feel low..I was low all day yday and it makes the days go slow...just hang in there and be happy..things will work out..baba is right here smiling down at us and soon he will bless us...Baba please do it a bit quicker..

Om sai ram!!!
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on June 03, 2009, 09:43:01 AM
Wellwisher..wanted to give u a hug..so this message..A big hug coming ur way:)..

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on June 03, 2009, 05:09:23 PM
Hey... thanks! :) Waao... so many posts... so much to follow up. Just back...so sort of smashed wid work. :)

Aqua... really happy to know about you. Sending a huge huggie to all of you!

Bhavna... things will work out for you as well... I have faith... alls gonna be fine. Rajiv... ure a wonderful person. Its ok to cry or feel low at times. Just also always remember what a wonderful person God has made you into. Automatically you'll forget all your worries and feel grateful to God. Ure such a wonderful person... if not anything else you shld be feeling awesome about being "U'!

Smgji, Manmeetji... am back... no news? Hows you? Sorry, actually its me who hasnt been able to follow up on posts. Maybe in a day or two I'd be able to. How are you guys anyways? Manmeetji... hows your job going? I'm in touch with Eve. She's ok. And I pray shes better soon. Smgji... Akansha how are you? Akalnanda? I'm very happy to know about the positive development Nancy has shown. And hoping its still the same. :)
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on June 03, 2009, 09:11:43 PM
Wellwisher..I know the feeling..when i left and came back it tuk me a while to get all the messages together....Lost been happening.!!!

Ganesh ji, its still wed for me..will do the charitha on thursday evening US time...

Rajiv, how r u?...Hope u r feeling better now..its thursday our day!! take care of urself..

Bhavna...Thursday...baba is very much here and I have a feeling he will make u feel his presence today...just a feeling!!Bhavna loves u and will always be with u...

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: smg on June 04, 2009, 01:24:56 AM
hi well wisher ji, welcome bak dear.....h r u n hwzz ur lif gng??....must be felin fresh now after tkng much neded brek...well iam dng gud n hv xams till 26th so busy with it and also dng sum translation work....

hey WW(well wisher ji), plz share sum pics with us if u dont mind...:-)

hi aqua ji, h r u?? nw m fully preprd 4 ma xams...n thnx 4 ur best wishes.. :-)

may god bless you all....
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on June 04, 2009, 01:58:26 AM
om sai ram everyone
bhavna ji kahan hai aap bahut dino se koi message nahin kiya aapne
aquafish ji i dot tickets to india vs pak match yesterday at oval, it was packed even with it being just a warm up match but atmosphere was amazing, took a hour off early to be on time but my friend got late so missed the toss but not anything else
this was the first time in my life i saw it live n now planning to go to lords this weeken, mecca of cricket as they say, i have been there on a tour before with my dad but never seen a match in it.
ganesh ji how are u
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on June 04, 2009, 07:39:02 AM
om sai ram
i am all okay rajiv
trying to keep saburi but dunno jus a lil restless
pata nahi y

went to the temple tdy in da mornin and prayed for those 2 kids as ganesh ji had asked us felt good
had a small fite wid my bf but made up quick
lil bit i like fitin wid him else it gets borin :(((


well wisher welcome bak hope ur trip rocked do tellk us all abt it

aqua a big huggeeeeee
and thanks a lot i am sure i will feel babas presence tdy :)
and tell me u wont meet ur bf at all for 6 months ??


ganesh ji how was ur day tdy?
how is everything going wid u?
i prayed for kids and kept flowers at babas feet as u had asked
any news of dem?

om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on June 04, 2009, 08:47:31 AM
Hey all,

How r u doing? Happy thursday..I know its almost over for u..for me it juststarted..made my rice powder diya..will light it tonite and read the chapters I need to finish...Baba please bless the little ones...

Ganesh ji how r u? I dont see lot of messages from u....

SMG..do well on ur exams...

Wellwisher...take care and enjoy ur weekend..esp aftre all tat work load...

Rajiv...please tc during those mtaches, can be pretty rowdy...have fun:)..


Bhavna....dont worry baba will solve everything...Yeah tats the deal tat I wont meet him for 6months...lets see..Maybe i will....
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on June 04, 2009, 09:12:32 AM
Hi aquafish
well luckily here they take very good care of people who are handicapped
i was just sent it via a different gate completely where there was no rush at all what so ever
and i was escorted to my seat too which was not amongst a lot of crowd
I was given a seat that is normally reserved only for members of the ground and even given one guy to get me anything or guide me to go anywhere if needed be so it was nice
dint pay so much to get so much
and then the match in itself was nice
but still at the back of my mind same things were going on
i thought i will get some ME time as you say but naah my mind was just preoccupied
well lets see
even i have to do from chapters 26 to 35 and have not even started
was very busy all day at work still have an hour to go from work so thinking of starting it now
your day has just started mine is almost half way through
lukily i dont sleep too much so i will manage easily
lets see
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on June 04, 2009, 09:31:03 AM
Yeah I get up at 5am to work out..and then work and gets busy..and night I can peacefully read it and not be rushed....

Well mind is a crazy thing..it has layers and multitasking...Jsut have to tune urself...hehe..

well 6months is a long time but I am trying to tune myself to complete some tasks by then...

I have some stuff tat needs to be done by then, so concentrating on that...it hurts and its been only 4 days and i miss him but I know tat he must be feeling that way too..but i dnt want us to be together without giving it 100%...we want to do this whole heartedly , even if it means 6months of pain and then a lifetime of happiness , then I think i will do it..and I have learnt to accept that whatever baba does for me or gives me is what is correct for me...baba bless eveyrone and give us the strength to face our lives...each and every moment..


Bhavna take care..dont worry..sab teekhoga...

ganesh ji...u seem to be busy...hopefully in a gud way...I am glad ur business is picking up.!! take care

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on June 04, 2009, 10:19:17 AM
Sorry guys, was facing acute depression for no reason past 2 days. but am ok now. thanks for your concerns. Om Shri Sainathaya Namaha.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on June 04, 2009, 10:23:39 AM
ganesh ji...no..please take care of ur health!! As I said before..u r an amazing person...and u shud never be down...baba will take care of forever...a hug for u!!! take care...keep smiling...

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: ravindra ahire on June 04, 2009, 10:37:59 AM
baba ilove ashwini very much please help me to    meet my love
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on June 04, 2009, 10:40:47 AM
Ravindra,

U have come to dwarakamai, baba will take care of u..have faith and stay strong..

om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on June 04, 2009, 05:31:32 PM
hey all...just a random thought!!

Today when i was driving to work..i heard this song...." maine apne liye kuch na kiya, tere yaadon me phursat kahan, jeena nahi tere bin"...its a nice song but suddenly after listening to it for 2 years, this line jumps at me...so it inspired me...definitely when we love someone we plan eevrything around them and without our knowledge , when we have arguments, the bitterness creeps up and the first thing we think of" maine itna kuch kiya iske liye and this is what i get"...i think tats becausewe dont do anything for ourselves...
So i think sometimes we shud do something for us...maybe just reading a book for ur pleasure...watching a show u like rather than watching what they like all the time...or even thinking abt some stuff for us...just a thought..hope i am not saying anything wrong...

Give it a thought:)...

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on June 05, 2009, 12:05:23 AM
hey aquafish
best thing to do is not listen to hindi songs :-))))
well a few of english ones also i cant listen but try linkin park
it will blow ur ears and mind off if you hear it on full volume certainly on ipod coz else rest will come in n break the system away from where ever the sound is coming
listen to IN THE END and SOMEWHERE I BELONG
they are mind and ear blowing
what you said is true we just think and keep doing for the one we love n loose ourself in all the process
aquafish ji 6 months and all this wait is over then
there is a light at the end of the tunnel, just keep looking at it and chase it down as if you have nothing to loose
take it as a jyoti from the diya that you light every thursday
6 months will go in a matter of 6 seconds
give it everything you can, just think one thing its my life and i will live it the way i want to
atleast thats wat i think :-(
i dont let anyone rule over me for anything so just go for it
i hope to meet u n him very soon
if you dont come i will come there :-)
god bless you both
if you like reading books there is one i will ask my friend for the name of it
its about positive thinking and all that he gave it to me and i never even read a page of it and he then just took it back coz it had a lot of dust on it by then, i cant read, i hate reading books, infact the moment we used to go to a bookshop i used to start yawning like anything and she said i will give you a book to read atleast you will slp, i never got any though :-))))))
bhavna ji kaise hai aap
thank you so much for doin what u did for me
i will never forget it
ganesh ji i am still looking forward to see u in london else i will come there
i feel so relaxed after reading sai satcharitra
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on June 05, 2009, 01:39:18 AM
Ganeshji... cheer up! Things are going to be fine. MIRACLES DO HAPPEN.

Aqua, Rajiv, Smgji, Bhavna... gosh so much to catch up on... so many posts. He he... to be honest...sort of lost.

Rajiv, glad to know you enjoyed the match. If you don't like reading huge books, heres a suggestion for you. Online...daily, just hunt for one good inspiring article and post it for us at this forum. An article that would inspire and give us all hope for that one extra day, one extra moment. Can even be a one para thing. Also reading one page the book "Secret" daily would be good. :)

Smgji... All the best for your exams & results.... My trip was good. Enjoyed. Calm and peaceful. Whatever lil it was, was a nice refreshing change.

Bhavna... where are you? Any good news?

Akansha... no post for a long time.

Manmeetji where are you? All well? Hope everythings fine at your work-place.

No news of Kellyji... Is anyone in touch with him?

Eve is ok and Nancy I guess is much better than before.. Thank You Baba... Thank You God!

Ravindraji... welcome to Dwarkamai. We will all pray that you surely meet your love and get married to her soon. Also, you may like to do Naam Jaap for yourself and all others facing the same problem (trust me there are many out here) in the Akhanda Naam Jaap section. This you may like to do whenever you feel really low and frustrated. Pray for yourslef and others. Also you may like to do one good deed per day towards others and one good thing that would make you feel loved and pampered yourself. Loving oneself is equally important. And when you do one good deed a day, you're automatically becoming a better person with every passing day... in the eyes of Baba, in your own eyes and maybe this would also help you cleanse or better your karma and reflect in your relationships with all your loved ones including your love.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rr_sai_bhakt on June 05, 2009, 02:11:41 AM
Aqua,

very well put ... what you have said isnt wrong .. in fact thats the best way to guarantee a happy and satisfying relationship..

I remember this phrase from some time back - "rishton ko bhi saans lene ki zaroorat hoti hai" ...

And it is so right .. A relationship is not an inanimate thing .. its very alive .. it needs to be nurtured and thats how it grows ... and thats how you have a happy relationship with mutual respect and love ...

So, since a relationship is something thats very alive .... it needs space to breathe ... so there has to be the right amount of space between the two people in a relationship .. and this "space" is nothing but each one having his own individual time for himself or herself for his individual activities .. only when you are able to spare quality time for yourself in a relationship can you spare time in a very quality manner for your partner ..

I am not sure if you read Kahlil Gibran ... a great philosopher poet ... i am posting his thoughts on Marriage below ... Some of his phrases on marriage have become iconic, like  -

...let there be spaces in your togetherness
...Love one another, but make not a bond of love
...And stand together, yet not too near together, For the pillars of the temple stand apart,

anyway ... am posting the whole poem here ..

The Prophet on Marriage
by Khalil Gibran



Then Almitra spoke again and said...
"And what of Marriage, master?"
And he answered saying:

You were born together,
and together you shall be forevermore.

You shall be together when the white wings
of death scatter your days.

Aye, you shall be together even in the
silent memory of God.

But let there be spaces in your togetherness,
And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.

Love one another, but make not a bond of love.
Let it rather be a moving sea between
the shores of your souls.

Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup.
Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf.

Sing and dance together and be joyous,
but let each of you be alone,

Even as the strings of a lute are alone
though they quiver with the same music.

Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping.
For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.

And stand together, yet not too near together.
For the pillars of the temple stand apart,

And the oak tree and the cypress
grow not in each other's shadow.

....................................................

Om Sai Ram ...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rr_sai_bhakt on June 05, 2009, 02:19:20 AM
Or we could just simplify the entire poem... and simply say that every marriage needs some "Me Time" ... which is essentially what the poem is trying to say  ..  :)
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on June 05, 2009, 07:57:11 AM
haha rrr ji...too good..Yeah I have read a few poems before but never really read with full heart into it..


Rajiv...LInking park is amazing..I love their songs....too good..well I have a sound proof apt so I listen to them all the time...my dad used to scream at me when I used to listen at home ...lol...its a best shut down band, dont have to think..u can listen when sad, happy or just like that...lol..

Well Friday is here...can get some sleep over the weekend..planning to go hiking but the weather has become rainy all of a sudden...wierd...next weekend going out of town to visit a friend..shud be fun...just a me time kind of trip....

I read a lot rajiv..sorry i am one of those " gimme a book and I am lost in them forever" kinds...But I dont like self help books..I feel that its not that we dont know whats in there..its just that we dont implement whats being said, so nopoint in reading abt it or someone telling us....right now I am reading 3 books simultaneously..I love weekends coz I can stay up all nite finish the whole book at one go...:)...

Wellwisher take ur time and keep us posted...lol..so starting yoga from next week again..how r ur parents? r u having some mom n me time?....hae fun and dont doze off in yoga too much....:P..

Ganesh ji....what else is happening at ur end? keep us posted...dont like it when u dont message frequently...

Bhavna my dear...kaisi ho? u dnt message so much either...cheer up girlie...everything will be fine...trust me..

yday I had a little miracle like thing...I lit the diya and it kept on burning out...finally i told baba, come on, this is for the kids...i am not even asking for myself...and u know it stay lit till 2am..I had got up for some water adnd it ws still aglow....and I went back to sleep looking at it....

Baba we know u r here with us, but please protect the little ones....om sai ram...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: akansha on June 05, 2009, 08:23:00 AM
jai sai ram
hi bhavana how are u?
its been long since i saw ur last msg?
hows all ur side??plz let me knw hows all.
baba plz help out bhavna plz baba.
dont wonrry bhavna leave all upto him n belive me all wil be fine soon
jai sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on June 05, 2009, 10:35:30 AM
Dear friends, I am back . sorry for the low key activity the past 3 days. I was going through a bout of depression but am ok now. Thank you all for your concerns.
Om Shri Sainathaya Namaha.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on June 06, 2009, 12:38:32 PM
om sai ram

akansha i am so glad to hear from u
how wre ur exams darlin i am sure dey went well
was jus a lil low since past few days so din message much but i did miss all of u loads

aqua hugeeeee
how are u
trust me its not gonna take 6 months it gonna happen much sooner he will come bak to u much before that
dont forget saburi
guess wat dis tym and dat too on thursday i just forgot wat saburi is and fot and fot and fot wid him :):):) but dats k sai plz forgive dis one day dat i broke my promise
i am so sorry for dis
pata nahi till now he is adamant abt not getting married..if its not at all or not marrying me i don know
sometimes i feel it wont work out at all  :(  :(
his cousin is getting married and i had prayed to sai dat i so wanna attend dis weddiing but din happen so maybe i was subconsciously feeling very low abt it

ganesh ji
plz don worry i have read dis line somewre " winter always turns into spring" have u ever seen winter turn into autumn????
things will work out ur such an inspiration for all of us..i toh look fwd to ur messages everyday

rajiv plz don thank me
instead get well very soon
and den we all will look fwd to meeting up in dec

well wisher
how was ur trip
do fill us in :)
really missed u a lot...

smg ji
do let us know abt ur exams
wen will da result be out??

manmeet ji
how have u been
long tym din hear from u

om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on June 07, 2009, 01:58:14 AM
hi bhavna ji nice to hear frm u after so long
hi aquafish ji how is goin with u
manmeet ji kahan hai aap
ganesh ji sorry main jab bhi baat karna start karta hoon aap se end mein koi problem ho hi jati hai :-)
but looking forward to hear from you soon
and haan please mail that to me again
om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on June 07, 2009, 03:24:10 AM
hi rajiiiv how are u
am feeling very low
jus spoke to him
u know wat earlier we i use to fite wid him he use to get all angry and jus keep da fone or ignore but dis tym he actually tried to pacify me and actually did somethin i din even ask him to do
jus shows he doesnt want me to go den y cant we get married?????
feeling awful really awful

how have u been any improvemnt on ur side??????
baba pata nahi kya chahate hain..sumtimes i feel will spend da rest of my life in agony only
u know wat i actually prayed to babA that dis girl smses u or calls,,,,,anything dat will give u lots of happiness
baba plz hear us out and help us
plz help us baba
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on June 07, 2009, 10:36:07 AM
Hye guys,
How r u? Iam doing ok...whole of saturday i was spending time with a friend...so i dont sitat hme and miss him,...sunday lets see what happens....

rajiv and ganeshji how r u doing?....manmeet ji howz everything at worj? Smg how did ur exams go?

wellwisher whats up with u?

Bhavna,

Just take everything positively please...whatevere happens happens for our gud...so just stay strong..dont feel low..just think...uhave a gud job , gud life....and he is there when u need him...and baba is always there for u...just takes time...


Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on June 07, 2009, 10:55:58 AM
dear aqua, thank you for caring. i am fine thank you. hope alls well with you too . may sai bless you with peace of mind and tons of happiness !. om sairam, jai sairam, jai jai sairam.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on June 07, 2009, 11:03:05 AM
om sai ram ganeshji
last week i got a mail from ASP i replied and also gave my fone no. but there has been no communication at all
is dre a way i can contact dem any foen no. or anything????
 om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on June 07, 2009, 11:04:56 AM
Dear Bhavna, I dont have it . But nipul ji is in touch with them , i presume he has all the details. Om Shri Sainathaya Namaha.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on June 07, 2009, 11:11:09 AM
ganeshji
can u plz ask nipul ji to mail me da fone no. u have my email address tdy i sent u my oder e mail also ,,,plzzzz i alreday have spoken to a few doctors abt it..it wud be great if we cud meet the doctors personally wid the lil one

ASP ji told me they are doing some ayurvedic/homeo traetment but to be very honest it not advisable to waste tym in on all dat the sooner the treatment starts the better it is
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on June 07, 2009, 11:17:15 AM
ok bhavna, i will message nipul ji. thank you for your efforts. Om Sairam.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on June 07, 2009, 11:25:58 AM
thank u ganesh ji
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on June 07, 2009, 12:30:08 PM
bhavna, take a look at the post by ASP , he has just returned from shirdi. (shivam's father). Om Sairam.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on June 07, 2009, 12:32:58 PM
Dear all , Kiddo sends her regards to all of you. She is travelling and hence not able to come here. Om Sairam.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on June 08, 2009, 07:54:08 AM
om sai ram ganeshji
 its amazing the way these kids have been blessed by baba
shud we do the prayer like we did last thursday again for dese kids????
and to thank baba for letting ASP ji come to shirdi and blessing both the lil ones
 om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on June 08, 2009, 08:31:30 AM
Hey all,

how r u doing? its really a miracle...I am glad ASP ji went to shirdi..lets do some thign this thursday...I was thinking of guru charitha.,,in case u have anything else planned, let us know...

Rajiv, how r u? One weekend down 23 left to go...then dec will be here..it was tough yday but i went thru it....:)..lets hope for the best...

Bhavna..dont lose hope..and no feeling low..take care...

ganesh ji ...kaise hai?

wellwisher..howz it going?
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on June 08, 2009, 10:58:26 AM
om sai ram aqua

i knw it must be real tugh for u...but atleast in de end u know u gonna be wid him..wat more can u ask for
c somewre we know baba is listening to us.....he is around and blessing us
 trust me being together doesnt make ne diff...we both speak to each oder all da tym meet up also once or twice a week.... bu dre is nothing about we ending up together..jus he now makes amends to be wid me unlike last few months wen all he was doin was lashing bak at me for everything...but dre is not even slightest hint dat we mite ever get married..its as if finalized dat sooner or later we will marry some1 else...but still we are jus clinging on to each oder...so u dont worry abt being away from him...remember...absence makes the heart grow fonder.. ;D  ;D
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on June 08, 2009, 12:43:16 PM
Hey guys... me at Hyderabad. Alls good. Smashed wid work. Jus abt to crash. Take care :) God Bless... gn
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on June 08, 2009, 01:59:53 PM
hey wellwisher i am from hyd:)...nice place..enjoy the heat..lol

bhavna,
dont worry..there is some reason behind the fact tat he wants to be with u///baba will make a miracle happen..it will happen soon..dont worry..hugs and kisses

om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on June 09, 2009, 07:59:18 AM
om sai ram
 my whole world has crashed
 i am tired of fiting and jus fiting against dis life
 my own mother asks me almost every week to leave her hse..i jus have to supress it all and carry on as it is cause i know i can sustain myself,,i am jus still studying

sai wre will i go...? how will i live all alone??? how??

have mercy sai..plz have mercy...guess i am nearing a breakdown....if my situtaion doesnt turn around soon i will end up in an asylum
 
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on June 09, 2009, 08:01:35 AM
Bhavna,

Calm down...dont worry..baba will handle everything..dont over think it..mom must be just upset abt ur marriage and stuff and she vents out by telling u to leave...its just another day..tomorrow will be a different day...stay strong ...baba bess u

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on June 09, 2009, 08:14:55 AM
om sai ram aqua
 no its nothing to do wid my marriage
its something totally else
i have grown up wid dis feeling and now i am totally wounded
i jus cant carry on anymore its very difficult

pata nahi sometimes it feels dat i shud jus leavr everything and go away some wre far...wre no one knows me ..

i wanna give up on everything
i jus wanna go now

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on June 09, 2009, 08:28:20 AM
hi bhavna ji
u r not alone even i feel at times like this
my mom passed away on my bday and since then i have been carrying that burden on my chest
everytime it comes i curse myself
things just come in front of me exactly as they were but i still go on
nothing else but just take myself now as a money making machine but there are things that you can run away from but still not hide no matter where you go
i dont want to say that dont worry baba will take care of it coz he got us into it and this is something we will never be able to come out of coz if he did not want us to get into it he wouldnt have pushed us in it
all i want to say is face it and let them come as they are coming to u now and dont knw till when
i really dont know what it is but i just hope that you have the courage to face it
i have been doing it since last 7 years now and i still do it and have to do it every year no matter what
just face it bhavnaji i know it sounds tough but true
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on June 09, 2009, 10:13:39 AM
thanks aqua and rajiv
 i know i will have to very strong and face it
but i am jus very scared to live the rest of my life all alone....
jus the thot of it makes me wanna cry...but cant do anything abt it...maybe dats wat ordained for me in life

will ahve to live thru it no matter wat...
i think i am some1 who jus gives negative vibes to ppl....jus everyone jus goes away from me sooner or later..frens or family
wat do i do ti incur such wrath always..i don know

om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on June 09, 2009, 10:30:43 AM
Bhavna,

Dont talk like that..u dont give negative vibes..u r the most selfless person i have ever seen..ur guys knows everything, he has to fight his own battles sometime..give him time...dont bring it up or give him much bhaav..let hm figure it out...give it all time!!u r the one who was so positive abt my life...and everyone else...u do so much for eveyrone, in ur career and personal life..baba wont do anything bad..just some bad phase...tats it..
stay strong..here is a big hug coming ur way....

Rajiv...U r not alone..we r here for u..please take care of urself!1how have u been? baba only guides us and we make our own mistakes or decisions...so sometimes its ok to let it all go and wait for the tide to turn...dont ever think he wudnt do something for us..he will..lets give it time!1i know its hard...when u r not sure of anything but hey tats life!!

So please everyone cheer up...trust me we r very lucky to be what we are..some people dont even have enough to be thankful...so just hang on..

Om sai ram

PS: ganesh ji..r u ok? i havent seen ur messages from along time..i mean i can feel u r not feeling that gud..take care of urself plz
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on June 09, 2009, 10:36:04 AM
aqua, i am in and out. going thru a very bad phase. but dont want to cry here. Om sairam.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: smg on June 09, 2009, 10:54:32 AM
dear bhavna, h r u? aqua is 100% right....u dnt giv -ve vibes at all....we n baba r always der 4 u, so der is no point living alone all ur life dear...u r strong, dnt lose hope, evrythin will b fine...

remember dis thin always.....

Within each of us is a hidden store of energy. Energy we can release to compete in the marathon of life.
Within each of us is a hidden store of courage. Courage to give us the strength to face any challenge.
Within each of us is a hidden store of determination. Determination to keep us in the race when all seems lost.

so cheer up girl....be +ve...god bless u.....

n hwz evr1 doin (RR ji, Ganesh ji, Manmeet ji, WW ji, Aqua ji, Rajiv ji.....)

may baba bless all......

om sai ram
 
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: ravindra ahire on June 09, 2009, 02:13:01 PM
baba mai ashwini ko bahut pyar karta hoon woh mera pyar kab swikar kargi
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on June 09, 2009, 02:29:21 PM
om sai ram

i am broken
he will never change his mind abt marrying me
 it doesnt feel so bad that things have turned out like dis between us but that sai betrayed me
i got false hopes at every step all of dose 11 sayings have turned out to be jus false in my case
i have never prayed to sai before and i jus asked for one thing which he so royally refused.
 i dont think i can believe in him again
if u claim to be god then u must prove so too
 om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on June 09, 2009, 03:30:41 PM
bhavnaji
i understand how you are feeling right now
just think of the nice times that you spent with each other
may be that will make you feel better
thats all i do
even i have lost all hopes but still hoping against hopes coz of sai baba only
aap hi bolte ho na bhavnaji keep saburi
please keep it
u dont see anything positive happening
i dont see anything at all
i dont even know how she is but still hoping that she will come back one day
please dont loose it
just ask him one question from my side that if he thought he could not do it y did he get into it and dragged you as well
its like hum to doobenge sanam saath mein tumhe bhi le doobenge
please ask him this once
see what he says
second ask him y he can not commit if he has got into this relation now
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on June 09, 2009, 03:47:46 PM
dear bhavna,
unfortunately all of us go through such phase or phases in our lifetimes. and it would be easy for me to say , have patience. during these times  the only thing that helps is a pragmatic look at your situation and cry your heart out as well as fight with baba. after this you will feel better. see bhavna, who do we have apart from god (Sai) . so if we relinquish our faith in him also , then arent we alone in this world. humans can only talk sweet or bitter but god can help and help he will.when ? i dont know or how ? likewise i dont know. but sooner or later he will take pity on us and help us. in this i have extreme belief.

with regard to your relationship , when you started the relationship with this guy , did he promise to marry you at any point of time ? or it was wishful thinking from your side ?. see bhavna , you cant force love or marriage on a person if he or she is not willing. either it will not succeed or even if it succeeds , it is a sure
recipe for disaster. so live your life , give a time frame for this relationship ,after which decide which way you want to go . together with him or without him.

may sai bless you with all you desire in life.

om shri sainathaya namaha.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: chweetujaanu on June 09, 2009, 11:36:36 PM
ravindra ji donot worry keep loving her with a true heart she will one day or the other come to know ur love and care for her and accept ur love... baba is with all of us he keeps testing us by his late replies or miracles keep faith in him...

om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: akansha on June 10, 2009, 08:08:04 AM
jai sai ram
bhavna..plz plz dont lose hope..im sure ul soon get to mary ur love..if not then there must be some good behind it..
i knw how it feels to losse it all..i can understand very well..love u bhavna plz dont ruin urself over it..read sai kasht nivaran if u cann..tel baba..jab tak ye bhramaand rahega sai tera naam rahega,
chaand sitaare tumhe pukarenge,
janmo janam hum rasta niharnge,
aatma badlegi chole hazar,
hum milte rahenge har baar,
apke kadmo me baithe rahenge,
dukhde dil k lehte rahenge,
apki marzi hai do ya na do,
hum to kahenege daaman hi bhardo,
tum ho daata,hum hain bikhari,
sunte nhi kyo arz humari,
ACHA CHALO EK BAAT BATA DO,
KYA NAHI TUMHARE PAAS BATA DO,??
jo nhi dena hia inkaar kardo,
khatam ye apas ki takrar kardo,
laut k wapis chala jaungi
fir bhi gun tere gaungi....

just trust him he wil surely help u out soon..
we are all with u..

jai sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on June 10, 2009, 09:40:42 AM
Hey...

Rajiv kaise ho? hope the weather is better there...

Ganesh ji..kaise hai...tomorrow is thursday ppl..have a nice day...

Bhavna...cheer up hon!1 everything will be fine...just hang on...I know its hard but please get a grip and if u feel low, u stay low so shake it off...please...taek care

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on June 10, 2009, 11:22:48 AM
om sai ram aquafish ji
i am fine feeling very low but just hanging on
got into a fight today with a very good friend
just logged off on him and said to him leave me alone
dint even go back online
feeling a bit bad but he will understand i hope
my family plans to visit me very soon here in london but i m asking them not to as i feel like staying alone only and this was the point we fought on lets see
weather is no where near nice here, it was good last week but this week it has hardly even touched 17s in the max
i hope its something better next week atleast
what are you upto
tomorow yeah its thursday yet again
i will pray and fast
what are you going to do
bhavna ji how are you feeling now
please cheer up kal thursday hai na aapke liye kuchh achha lekar aayega
om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on June 10, 2009, 11:41:25 AM
thank u akansha
i do read kasht nivarani everyday and lite agarbati in front of sai
 rajiv and aqua
thanks a lot guys yes saburi i totally forgot over the past week so will try n get bak to offering sai saburi
if i do have to forget dis guy and marry someone else i cud have done it much before wen we forst broke up and before that we both wre lookin fwd to getting married after the business thing sorted out..wat role has sai played in my life den...except giving me false hopes by calling both of us to shirdi together...he did speak to his family after dat but all dis i got to know rom his sis in law not him
i dont know wat sai wants
sai all i will say to u is i want him at all costs i dont know his is  problem cause he never tells me all he says is cant marry u
only u can change dis aspect..u only changed his mind overnite na last tym abt not marrying me do it again

cause if i have to forget him i will forget u too
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on June 10, 2009, 11:57:45 AM
bhavna..chill..take care of urself...everything will be fine..

rajiv...kya low...not everyone is lucky to see their family being so far away...I miss my parents so much..let them come...thode din guzar jaayenge..acha rahega even though u wanna be alone..trust wallowing in sorrow alone is not gud all the time..let them visit u for  sometime..they care an dlove u...

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on June 11, 2009, 01:22:01 AM
Bhavna, take care. Sorry for not being there all these days. Have been travelling. I know its tough. But if He's brought us to this, He will bring us through this. This Thursday do something special for Sai and tell Baba - whether you reward me or not I continue to love you and follow your path. And the same goes for your love. Whether he is with you or not, no one can ever stop you from loving him. Sometimes love doesn't necessarily culminate into marriage. But love is still love, pure and strong. We do not know what happens why. But if it did happen, there surely is a reason to it.

Nothing is a coincidence in life. And goodness is always rewarded with goodness... So have faith... keep the faith strong. Whatever happens in your life next... will only be the very best for you. Yehi faith rakh ke chalo. You know why most dreams never realize Bhavna...??? Lack of faith. Just keep the faith strong. And work on yourself. May be very difficult to move on... but no harm in moving ahead in life.

Learn to love yourself, talk to yourself. Spend time with yourself. Sometimes when we sit and start talking with ourselves we realize a lot of things we can change and should change in our life... focus on that right now. You may not get the time to do it later... :)
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Post by: pragnyaraut on June 11, 2009, 06:59:35 AM
baba, please help my sister bhavna get a job asap. She has been waiting since March and is feeling very low these days. i dont know what else to do except pray to you and ask you
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Post by: Well-wisher on June 11, 2009, 07:03:03 AM
Bhavna, Aqua, Akansha, Rajiv, Smgji, how are you?

Dear Pragnyaraut,

Welcome to Dwarkamai. May Baba bless you and your family with the very best. There is a separate post here for those who seek jobs. You may wish to submit your sister's CV there or mail it to Ganeshji.
Om Sai Ram
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Post by: pragnyaraut on June 11, 2009, 07:11:32 AM
Thank you well wisher for your advise. 
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Post by: aquafish on June 11, 2009, 09:56:46 AM
hey guys,

how r u? i am doing fine..swamped with work and personal stuff too...no time for a breather too..well wisher how  ru? hope u r back and getting some rest time...

bhavna...hope u r doing fine...thursday...yay...i just came to work and thot wud go to temple but didnt have time and i don think i can go in the evening either..will try though...

rajiv kaise ho? smg ji how did ur exams go?...rr sai and ganesh ji..not many messages from u..howz everything...
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Post by: Well-wisher on June 12, 2009, 04:49:18 AM
He he... Aqua... no time for rest. But yes, I am getting time. Just trying to go through all the posts I missed... :)

Relax Aqua... ur efforts will not go in vain. May you be blessed with the very best.
Bhavna... move ahead in life... with or without him. Learn to love yourself first... and be open to the abundant flow of love coming your way. Leave the rest to Sai. God bless you...

Expectations often reduce happiness... :) So lets jus pray and leave the rest to Sai...

Om Sai Ram
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Post by: GaneshHariharan on June 12, 2009, 11:38:53 AM
hi everybody, hope alls well with you guys. as you tell me , hang in there . baba is there with you and looking after you. sooner than later the puzzle that is our life will fall into place. god bless all of you with all hapiness in life. om sairam, jai sairam, jai jai sairam.
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Post by: aquafish on June 12, 2009, 12:01:58 PM
thanks ganesh ji...

Hope, faith and patience is all we need...baba will do the rest..hope ur doing good..

howz everyone? my company is in the middle of getting an imp customer..hope by baba's grace we get it otherwise we will be in a bad position and if we get it, i may get a much needed raise and promotion...Baba please guide me to finish my work well for this project..

Om sai ram
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Post by: GaneshHariharan on June 12, 2009, 12:04:03 PM
aqua , you are working "behind the scenes" to do good for others. these deeds are not going unnoticed by Sai. dont worry , have faith to him, Chant his name and
he shall bless you. om sairam, jai sairam, jai jai sairam.
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Post by: bhavna on June 12, 2009, 12:16:38 PM
om sai ram
ganeshji, aqua , well wisher, rajiv manmeet, rrji, sm ji
how are all of u
guess wat since wed last i ahve been fortunate enough to catch da nite aarti at the sai temple
have been feeling very good since den
sais name is all we need to chant and keep shraddha and saburi
om sai ram
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Post by: GaneshHariharan on June 12, 2009, 12:21:16 PM
good for you bhavna ! god bless. Om Sairam.
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Post by: aquafish on June 12, 2009, 12:28:50 PM
thanks ganesh hi...gud for u Bhavna...be happy..

om sai ram
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Post by: Well-wisher on June 14, 2009, 08:57:17 AM
:) Happy for you Bhava. Aqua, all the best. Rajiv...where are you? All ok? Ganeshji.. how are you today?
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Post by: GaneshHariharan on June 14, 2009, 10:13:18 AM
thank you kiddo. doing fine. Om Sairam.
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Post by: bhavna on June 14, 2009, 01:08:16 PM
hello evryone
om sai ram
celebrated the world blood donor tdy
it was really good
om sai ram
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Post by: Well-wisher on June 15, 2009, 12:08:07 AM
:) Bhavna, am happy for you. Can see you growing... and thats what all of us wish to do right? So whatever happens next, time to celebrate for now... for a better, newer, stronger you... :)

Aqua... how are you...??? Working hard? All the best! Hope you get the client / customer...

Rajiv... no news....

Ganeshji, hope alls fine.
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Post by: rajiv800 on June 15, 2009, 02:12:09 AM
om sai ram well wisher ji
i am fine thanks
how are you
bhavna ji good to see u happy
aquafish ji few more days left
ganesh ji kaise hain aap
om sai ram
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Post by: Well-wisher on June 15, 2009, 02:13:50 AM
Rajivji... great to hear from you after a long time. Hope alls good
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Post by: bhavna on June 15, 2009, 07:24:08 AM
om sai ram every1
the only reason i am happy and growing strong is because of all of u...aquafish, ganeshji, rajiv, well wisher, manmeet, smgji. rrji  its because of ur guidance and love
and ofcourse shraddha and saburi
ufff jus keep forgetting saburi pata nahi y
bur ganesh ji told to me to make a fresh start and am keeping loads of saburi
my chaliya finishes dis sunday :):)

sai plz be wid all of us and bless us soon
om sai ram
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Post by: Well-wisher on June 15, 2009, 08:15:33 AM
Bhavna, you're doing an amazing thing... Keep this spirit and attitude going... always... at least as long as you can in life. Unfortunately I don't end up praying that much.
God bless you with all the happiness, love, light, success and peace...
Om Sai Ram
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Post by: GaneshHariharan on June 15, 2009, 09:26:31 AM
Kiddo, it is not the quantity of your prayers that matters but the quality. even one utterance of the word "Sai" is enough for him to bless you. These are his words
in the Sai Satcharitra. God Bless. Om Sairam, Jai Sairam, Jai Jai Sairam.
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Post by: aquafish on June 15, 2009, 09:56:20 AM
Hey all,

How r u doing? rajiv gud to see ur message after long time!! Monday...work again...this weekend was relaxing..I was at home and enjoying myself..watched some gud movies ..

Bhavna...gud going on ur chaliya...ganesh ji kaise hai..well wisher even i dont pray tat much....the thought counts too..:)...baba will bless all..

Om sai ram
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Post by: Well-wisher on June 16, 2009, 03:33:28 AM
:) Thank you Ganeshji. I've been totally away from prayers for so many years. And japa has really helped me calm down and made a huge difference to my life in terms of healing, cleansing and calming my mind.

More importantly. I've got pending japas previously intended to be done. Some in thanks for fulfilment of my wish that he at least come back once and be a friend... which he did and I did get more than what I'd asked for in those few months. And some I had just intended to complete. And mom always says, once you promise something to God, you must never break that promise. :) Thats why...
:)
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Post by: aquafish on June 16, 2009, 10:44:17 AM
hey all,

Patha hai when i came online this morning..mera mood itna kharab tha,..but after seeing the posts in the forum on how ppl need help and how some are making them feel better, i felt my pain is nothing compared to some here...

kaash baba jaldi se sab ki prarthana sunthe hai...

hope everyone is doing good..rajiv kaise ho? how r ur legs healing? zyada strain mat dena..
bhavna kaisi ho..havent heard from u for  along time..take care...

ganesh ji..kaise hai? wellwisher..how r u doing/ still going for yoga? lol

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Post by: bhavna on June 16, 2009, 11:13:08 AM
om sai ram
aqua dont feel low...jus consider this tym as an opportunity to understand ur relationship wid ur bf wen ur too close to something u cant c that thing properly....hugeeeee darling..soon things will work out and fall in place

well wisher.....dont worry about u not praying...in sai sat charita sai says na jus remembering of my name as sai sai is more than enough...cause dat u do all the tym...den y worry,..plus ur such an awesome person...

ganesh ji how have u been...how is the work thing sorting out?

rajiv....very soon i wanna c a fotograph of u playin football...so plz plz jaldi se get well :) :). and wat have u been upto all dis while..u hardly come here now? how is work goin for u?

now news of manmeet ji,,rr ji and smg ji???

om sai ram
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Post by: rajiv800 on June 16, 2009, 02:48:15 PM
om sai ram everyone
aquafish ji that is the best way to actually feel better when you are feeling low
i come to the forum read everything but dont leave any comments or anything
dont know just dont feel like it
hope all is well on your end
i know i read your messages too and you are feeling very low
but ill be honest main kisi ki kya help karoon when i myself am feeling so low
i just hope you get what you wish for
om sai ram

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Post by: aquafish on June 16, 2009, 05:19:32 PM
rajiv,

lagtha hai u slept late today...anyways must have got the time wrong anyways..dont feel low yaar...baba hai na..sab teek karenge...u just take care of health, khana khao, baba ka naam lo and sab kuch teek hoga...u know we shud thank baba that we have a job, we have a home and our health is fine too..we  r only suffering from mental and emotional loss...i have realised tat and everytime i feel low, i think i shud be grateful for a lot of things i have...

anyways bahut philosophy ho gaya..moral of the story...live this moment..and have faith and for sure everyone wll be blessed by baba..u r all amazing people..life me itni problems rehke bhi u dont hesitate to help others..rajiv, the thought counts tat u wanted to make me feel better even though u urself r down...thanks buddy!!

i am glad i came here...everyone take care and will pray to baba for all of us...baba please make us get thru all this..

om sai ram
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Post by: Well-wisher on June 16, 2009, 11:51:02 PM
:) Aqua... unfortunately yoga stopped completely. Planning to start it again. Just feeling a bit too lazy to wake up early now-a-days since theres no class or compulsion to do so. Hows life otherwise? These six months are your only time exclusively for yourself. Hope you making the best out of it.

Thank you Bhavna, for sharing this beautiful insight with me.

Rajiv, please get well soon. Its ok to read all posts and not reply. But its not true that when one is feeling low he or she cannot lift the spirits of others. In fact its these times when we are most compassionate and can feel and understand the others pain and comfort the person too. And when we do that, it automatically lifts our spirits too... :) next time try that.

Aqua, you said a very beautiful thing about gratitude. Had you been here, I would have gifted you a gratitude stone. :) my Reiki master gifted it to me the other day. :) Its not about the stone. It can be a marble, a stone, a pen or anything you can carry daily in your pocket or is always in your sight. And everytime you look at it or touch it... just say 5 things you're thankful to God about. Just do that and see what it does to you, your mood, your attitude... and the entire day...
:) am sure these 6 months will pass soon and there will be more of love, more of bonding and more of commitment and support.

God bless you all... Ganeshji.. where are you? Hope all good.

Om Sai Ram
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Post by: akansha on June 17, 2009, 12:51:56 AM
jai sai ram
hi bhavna,its gr8 to knw ur handling ur emotions well finaly..its realy very very gr8 to hear that..take cre n keep trying nd as faar as shradha n saaburi are concerned if ure realy having it im sure baba wil help u out soon..just keep faith..we all are with u..
wellwisher its gr8 to knw abt that stone..its realy good..
rajiv ji at happned to ur heath??get well soon il pray for u..
aquafish how are u??
take cre bhavna ji..baba wil help..
love u all n baba..
jai sai ram
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Post by: rajiv800 on June 17, 2009, 02:34:51 AM
om sai ram everybody
aquafish ji i dont anyways sleep anytime before 3 to 4 london time so its just usual and i am in the office by 6 or 7 max
eating, i am trying to now a days i am forcing my self into it now as my weight has gone down by 2 more kilos in 3 weeks and prob is that if it drops below 50 i will have to get admitted and get some blood and more treatment on the bed only
that is a reason i even asked my family not to come right now
i dont want them to see me going through all this
so lets see what happens as docs are very concerned about me loosing weight at this rate
tomorrow is Thursday so looking forward to it now
though its wednesday morning only still here
days are just passing like dont know
it starts and ends and all day i dont know what i do and what not
yesterday in the night i woke up in the middle of night and i was just doing sai baba ka paath only
shayad sote waqt bhi i keep doing that
dont know
but atleast i know one thing that i think about sai baba too apart from her :-)
nothing new and no developments on my end
om sai ram
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Post by: rr_sai_bhakt on June 17, 2009, 03:17:35 AM
Dear bhavna,

Am stuck with a lot of work ... loads of it ... deadlines etc the usual .... so its basically a work-home routine currently ....

Since i end up spending quite some time on the forum at office, i usually have to go back home and complete my office work ...  :)

How r things with you? Hope your chiliya is coming along good ... and hope your saburi is holding up strong....

Aqua, rajiv, W-w, manmeet ji, smg ji, ganesh ji .... how r u all? hope u guys r doing good... please take care .... keep ur faith going strong ... the good times will be upon all of us very soon ....

W-w, i always think that the sincerity with what u do counts more than just the number of times u do something ... so even if you do not pray much thats ok ... but whenever u pray if that comes from the heart, then that shud be ok ... even i hardly pray in the "prayer" sense of the term .... not that i always pray with sincerity when i do pray ... so i am also just learning from everyone here how all this works .... this forum has been an amazing input in my life .....

Many times i think even if i do my work really well ... maybe thats equivalent to a prayer too ... sometimes u get so engrossed with ur work and r so much in the "zone" that u r just oblivious to everything around ... thats such a peaceful and calming state to be in ... but unfortunately it lasts for a very short time ... before ur boss comes in throws a new deadline on you ...  :) .. welcome back to terra-firma sir ...  :)

Anyway .. its equivalent to the passion thing u were explaining in another post ... if u r passionate abt something and involve urself completely into it .... i feel thats equivalent to a prayer too .... bcos God chose you for a particular talent ... so in essence you are only honouring what God has given you by involving urself in ur passion ...  these r just my thoughts though ...

Om Sai Ram ...
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Post by: Well-wisher on June 17, 2009, 03:26:01 AM
Thank you RRji for the wonderful insight... Its strange but now a days whether I do japa, talk to God or say a lil prayer, all I feel is blankness within. I'm speaking words but feeling and thinking of nothing. Absolutely no thought. What would you call that? I don't understand what this blankness is about
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Post by: aquafish on June 17, 2009, 10:21:36 AM
W-w, I have stopped praying completely..as u mentioned i feel blankness..maybe sometimes u need a break and then start praying again...maybe i sound wierd but tats how i felt...lol...well to each his own...

Rajiv...seriously eat...u r dropping weight is not gud..wish I had tat tendency..I love food too much.lol...seriously though take care...if i was nearby iw ud have force fed u...khaane pe mat dikhaoon yaar...if u dnt eat, u wont have energy to pray or do anything else..so eat up and become healthy..u never know whats waiting at the turn in ur life:)....take care

RR ji...take care , i know sometimes how tat too much work feeling can be...

Bhavna..kaisi ho? take care of urself...

Ganesh ji..kaise hai?
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Post by: Well-wisher on June 18, 2009, 06:51:08 AM
:) I have drastically reduced praying. Since I didn't feel like sitting and praying I did japa in the japa section out here.

Ganeshji, Rajiv, Bhavna, RRji, Smgji... hows everyone?
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Post by: aquafish on June 18, 2009, 10:06:21 AM
hey wellwisher..
same feeling..aaj feeling wierd..wednesday I woke up at 4am sweating and with tears on my pillow..dont know what the dream was about..but it was pretty bad...I just hope eveyrthing turns out fine...I felt very scared..I almost called him but didnt...It just sucks..lets see what baba has in store for me..I am just too stressed about everything:-(


Bhavna..kaisi ho...did u manage to go to temple? I dont feel like it...will light my diya bas...aur nahi karna...baba give me some sign...I am feeling very weak today...

Ganesh ji..rajib, rr ji, manmeet ji and smg ji how r u doing today?...sorry been having too many low days...trying to be strong but...anyways...have a nice dya...

Om sai ram
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Post by: bhavna on June 18, 2009, 11:38:40 AM
om sai ram everyone
how was everyones thursday
 aqua hugeee sweets plz dont feel so low...same for u rajiv...my last week like dat..was feeling very low as if its de end of everything but then baba comes and lifts our spirits..plz both of u jus hang in dre...we n u feel really down and out...try somethin which will give u peace like i use to go sit in da sai temple for hours...i know wat u must be goin thru...and its true at dis point in tym kuch samajh bhi nahi aata

nothing happenin on my front too we all are totally dependent on sai plz plz listen to us baba... bless all of us soon

hello rr ji
great to hear from u..:) :)
hope all goes well wid u

ganesh ji..wre art thou?
how are things wid u

well wisher
i jus have 1 thing to say to u....ur awesome

om sai ram
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Post by: GaneshHariharan on June 18, 2009, 11:46:54 AM
Hi all , i am fine. just looking for a structure tall enough for me to jump from :)  om sairam
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Post by: aquafish on June 18, 2009, 12:06:30 PM
ganesh ji,

we r very unlucky when it comes to jumping of strctures...trust me added pain and medical bills..lol..stay strong...keep smiling!!! U have someone worth living for!!! convey my love to the little one...

baba please give us some peace..arent u tired of hearing us complain and crib all the time..give us a break!! U r our best friend..best buds dont do this...

Om sai ram
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Post by: GaneshHariharan on June 18, 2009, 12:45:28 PM
dear aqua, true . i should surf the web for sureshot techniques :) Jump in front of a TGV perhaps ? :) at 350kmph wow wont even feel it. plotch :)
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Post by: aquafish on June 18, 2009, 12:48:50 PM
ganeshji..aap bhi na...dont think like that...sleep well...and have a nice day tomorrow

Om sai ram
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Post by: Well-wisher on June 19, 2009, 01:05:15 AM
:) Thanks Bhavna... God bless you....

Aqua, Rajiv... how can there be a low phase when there are so many happening people at this forum? Comon guys... we all have it in us to have a blast even during the worst phase of life! There are so many fun things in life. Its not that bad. This situation is there. We're all there in it and its going to be there for as long as Gods decided its going to be there. So...??? What next? At least we have buddies who're sailing in the same boat. And everyone out here is a rocking unique personality. Even if we just spend time getting to know and learning from each other, we can actually spend this entire lifetime doing so. Each of us is such an interesting person and has so much knowledge, talent and wisdom. Kya hai ye low phase... low phase... Cheer up guys! Life is meant to be lived... enjoyed. Gods given us the permission to enjoy life. Then why not?
Pls pls pls push yourself out of this "I'm feeling low" mode and into the "I choose to be happy and have a rocking life with or without anyone around, irrespective of who thinks what" mode. Its just one life. Live it to the fullest! Only you can give yourself that initial push. And thats the ONLY OPTION. So why waste time feeling miserable. Sooner or later you have to do it. So why not NOW?

Geneshji... this ones for you....


A little girl went to her bedroom and pulled a glass jelly jar from its hiding place in the closet.

She poured the change out on the floor and counted it carefully. Three times, even. The total had to be exactly perfect. No chance here for mistakes.

Carefully placing the coins back in the jar and twisting on the cap, she slipped out the back door and made her way 6 blocks to Rexall's Drug Store with the big red Indian Chief sign above the door.

She waited patiently for the pharmacist to give her some attention, but he was too busy at this moment. Tess twisted her feet to make a scuffing noise. Nothing. She cleared her throat with the most disgusting sound she could muster. No good. Finally she took a quarter from her jar and banged it on the glass counter. That did it!

"And what do you want?" the pharmacist asked in an annoyed tone of voice. I'm talking to my brother from Chicago whom I haven't seen in ages," he said without waiting for a reply to his question....

"Well, I want to talk to you about my brother," Tess answered back in the same annoyed tone. "He's really, really sick..and I want to buy a miracle."

"I beg your pardon?" said the pharmacist.

"His name is Andrew and he has something bad growing inside his head and my Daddy says only a miracle can save him now. So how much does a miracle cost?"

"We don't sell miracles here, little girl. I'm sorry but I can't help you," the pharmacist said, softening a little

"Listen, I have the money to pay for it. If it isn't enough, I will get the rest. Just tell me how much it costs."

The pharmacist's brother was a well dressed man. He stooped down and asked the little girl, "What kind of a miracle does your brother need?"

" I don't know," Tess replied with her eyes welling up. I just know he's really sick and Mommy says he needs an operation. But my Daddy can't pay for it, so I want to use my money."

"How much do you have?" asked the man from Chicago

"One dollar and eleven cents," Tess answered barely audibly.

"And it's all the money I have, but I can get some more if I need to."

"Well, what a coincidence," smiled the man. "A dollar and eleven cents---the exact price of a miracle for little brothers. "

He took her money in one hand and with the other hand he grasped her mitten and said "Take me to where you live. I want to see your brother and meet your parents. Let's see if I have the miracle you need."

That well dressed man was Dr. Carlton Armstrong, a surgeon, specializing in neuro-surgery. The operation was completed free of charge and it wasn't long until Andrew was home again and doing well.

Mom and Dad were happily talking about the chain of events that had led them to this place.

"That surgery," her Mom whispered. "was a real miracle. I wonder how much it would have cost?"

Tess smiled. She knew exactly how much a miracle cost...one dollar and eleven cents....plus the faith of a little child.

In our lives, we never know how many miracles we will need.

A miracle is not the suspension of natural law, but the operation of a higher law.
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Post by: rr_sai_bhakt on June 19, 2009, 02:50:15 AM
You are a rock-star W-w ... keep rocking ....

Yup, you are absolutely right  .. its just one life .... and its ours ... either we take charge of it now and enjoy it ... or we miss the entire idea of life and miss all the fun ...

And each of us can define whats fun and enjoyment in our manner ...

Om Sai Ram ...
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Post by: Well-wisher on June 19, 2009, 03:03:11 AM
Very true RRji... :) Thank you for the compliment.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: akansha on June 19, 2009, 08:26:34 AM
jai sai ram
wellwisher seriously hats off..a simple story n so much to learn frm it..ur just..dont have any words..keep giving ur priceless advises to all of ur.lucky to have u here..well wisher u live ur name..big hug for u..

bhavna..how are u??wats up with ur guy??hope alls fine...
dont worry..all wil be fine soonn.realy..all wil be fine..
he is watching u..im sure he wil surely come to help soon..
baba plz help bhavna get maried to love of her life..
take care bhavna
jai sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on June 19, 2009, 08:58:01 AM
Dear Akansha, these are not my thoughts. The articles and stories I post are all articles from the internet or from my friends and collegues. None of my words are my words. Absolutely none. They're stuff that I've read or learnt from others. I just do the job of a postman...sharing pieces of information from one place to another. None is my own.

Bhavna, Aqua, how are you? How are you feeling today Akansha?
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on June 19, 2009, 09:46:53 AM
Hey guys,

well said...went home yday and lit my diya...and sat in front of baba for sometime...felt better...another day today but thank god its friday...ghar jaake will sleep..havent had much of it this last week..

Hope everyone is doing fine..

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on June 19, 2009, 11:12:02 AM
om sai ram
well wisher that was jus such a nice story
 aqua..sleep sleep sleep
u must catch up on it...and den wake up all refreshed....this sunday will complete my chaliya...mum is plannin a havan at home....i had kept dis one esp for all of us...uhhh lil bit i did deviate from saburi :P  :P but i am sure dre was lots of improvemnt from how i was earlier

we all will do it ...sai will see us thru ...ganesh ji no jumpin shumpin....jus hang in dre :) :)

akansha
 it always feels so good to hesr from u
the result of the exams' out?
how is everything else
how is the boy??? any news of the oder girl?
tell me does dis oder girl know abt u and him?
do u think instead of talki to ur guy u cud speak to dis girl?


om sai ram

 
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on June 21, 2009, 03:38:09 AM
om sai ram everyone??
no ones around dese days??
rajiv havnt heard from u in ages...wre are u?? all okay?
ganesh ji? well wisher?manmeet?
wre is everyone
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on June 21, 2009, 03:43:53 AM
Hi Bhavna, i sent you a PM asking you the same abt 1-2 days back. manmeet ji has vanished. i sent her messages no reply. Rajiv , i spoke to him last week - surviving.
Kiddo - she was here last week. maybe for the weekend didnt take the laptop home. How are u , havnt seen you for quite some time ? Om Sairam.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on June 21, 2009, 04:18:17 AM
om sai ram everyone
i come to the forum everyday infact i am on it all day but i dont leave anything i read and thats it
mind is not working to suggest anyone anything or even help anyone out
i am in touch with ganeshji so i am survining :D
nothing great happening
how are you all
i really feel like going to sai baba mandir but there is none here near my house
om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on June 21, 2009, 10:14:55 AM
hey guys,

yday with no plan i suddenly went ot baba temple with a friend..felt good..sat for sometime in the mandir..prayed for all of us..Rajiv...dont worry, i went in ur place:)...

Take care all o fu..
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on June 21, 2009, 10:17:11 AM
I think soon all of us can establish a math (ashram) , give up wordly things and wear orange clothes and just pray, pray , pray. save the world etc etc . something like green peace , maybe SAIpeace  :) . But first we need a real GURU to lead us .i was banking on RR_ji but he broke my bubble by revealing his actual age (i presumed him to be a wise old man of atleast 60 )  ;D  . we have to find a volunteer who will be willing to lead this ragtag band . so all of you start looking !
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on June 21, 2009, 10:26:53 AM
naa..i am not the math kind...lol...i like us the way we are...lol...ganesh ji wanna chat ?? at gmail??
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: sagarika on June 21, 2009, 11:55:55 PM
omsairam..

Always remember to forget
the things that made you sad

but never forget to remember
the things that made you glad

always remember to forget
the friends that proved untrue

but dont forget to remember
those that have stuck by you

always remember to forget
the troubles that have passed away

but never forget to remember
the blessings that come each day

Have a nice day to all :)

omsairam

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on June 22, 2009, 12:33:17 AM
he he... Ganeshji, I quite like the idea!
Bhavna, I do not touch my laptop on weekends. My parents start wondering what am doing. Am definitely not the work-work-work types. And not connected to anyone also via mail. So the minute I go online my mum starts wondering what am upto and stuff. Simply for no reason don't wish to create issues at home. :) Maybe in sometime when moms much better I will. And anyway, I spend 5hrs a day commuting, then 9-10hrs at office. After that, no one has the energy to go back home and switch on the laptop. Lol... Plus when I log in theres an automatic tendency of checking official mails... and then end up working over the weekend too. So I simply avoid touching my laptop unless theres some urgency.

Rajiv... its ok. Sometimes our lil brains need rest. Let it be. The fact that you're surviving is great! I was feeling a lil low this weekend, but back to work again. Was father's day yesterday. We were all out for dinner and the hotel guys had to play every single song he ever dedicated to me. It was like... really frustrating. Really missed him, prayed a bit... actually not much. But am fine today. Well, so long as I wake up alive every morning, I guess I have a reason to thank God and rejoice! So :) am happy... Thank You God...

Aqua, how are you? Ganeshji... keep the faith strong. Btw, abt the math... lol... I dont mind joining you. Guess with all of us included, that should be a fun thing too... a unique one.. the first of its kind... :)
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: stalin on June 22, 2009, 01:13:01 AM
please help me baba prmote topay scale my salare iam facing reach to pay scale
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on June 22, 2009, 01:52:28 AM
Dear Stalin,

Welcome to Dwarkamai. May Sai fulfil all your wishes. Om Sai Ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rr_sai_bhakt on June 22, 2009, 02:11:09 AM
Hmmm ... interesting idea about the Math .... lets see how we can evolve this idea.

For the name of the math - lets start with an anagram of "Dwarkamai" as "Mai ka Dwar" ... Mai, as in Mother and Dwar, as in Door ... Now since we have Sai at the core of this math and we know that many ppl refer to dear Sai as Sai-ma i.e as their mother... so we can use the term "Sai-mai" too as it means the same... 

So we then make the complete name of the math as "Sai-mai ka Dwar Math" - so its a Door that opens into the house of our dear Sai and opens into a world of peace, comfort and bliss ...

Since we want ppl to not concentrate only on the scientific way of looking at things around us ... and we want them to move on into spirituality as preached by dear Sai ...

So one tag line for the math could be - "Sai-mai ka Dwar - Evolve from the Scientific to the Sai-ntific" ...

Hmmm ... and the Math already has global scale with representatives in NA, UK and Continental Europe and of course India.

Well ... so a sort of a draft framework for this idea ....

 :)

Om Sai Ram ...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on June 22, 2009, 03:07:02 AM
:) Good one RRji...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: smg on June 22, 2009, 06:27:52 AM
om sai ram to everyone.

hwz evry1?? RR ji, Ganesh ji, WW ji, Aqua, Bhavna, n i hope Manmeet ji is fine too...she repld back to my post...

Ok guyzz i need your help...you have to ans 1 simple que....

whatz d diffrence b/w 'luv' n 'liking'.....how can 1 make out whether its just a liking or luv?

I'm asking dis que here, coz i think you all can give the best answer.

om sai ram



Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on June 22, 2009, 09:15:05 AM
Liking is when the opposite person makes you feel special and wonderful and you're on top of the world when you're with that person.

Love is when you're prepared to even jump off the cliff or into the deepest valley just to see the opposite person smile, feel special and out and away from every form of pain. In love you feel the pain of the other much more than your own and are willing to even let go of the opposite person if your being with him or her could be the cause of his or her pain.

Liking is when you pray to God that the opposite persons problems are solved. Love is when you do everything in your capacity to see to it that the opposite person does not come across any problem.

Liking is when you always want that person to be around, maybe even for life. Love is when you wish that... that person gets the one he or she wishes to be around for the rest of his or her life.

Liking is compassion, kindness, goodness towards the other. Love is along with all of that selfless willing acceptance, sacrifice, compromise and change for the happiness of the other.
 
When you feel you wish you could just pray to God and take away all of the opposite persons problems and pain onto yourself so that he or she is always happy... that for sure is love! Thats what our parents feel for us right? That for sure is love.

Thats how I can best describe love.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on June 22, 2009, 09:17:54 AM
Smgji, if you're in love, God bless you with his or her love for life.
:) If you like someone, may God make you love only the one thats made for you n bless you with his or her love forever.
God bless you with abundant flow of love Smgji...
Om Sai Ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on June 22, 2009, 09:45:32 AM
hey all,

sounds like fun..count me in..as long as fun is the word, i am there...

well the week has started again and i am tired....wierd ha..monday has just started and i feel like where is friday..lol...aur? hope everyone is doing good.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on June 22, 2009, 10:47:13 AM
i am in for this math thing
:) :) :)
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: akansha on June 23, 2009, 01:22:31 AM
jai sai ram
hi bhavna how are u??

jai sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rani on June 23, 2009, 01:39:52 AM
babaji please help me. do some miracle. shoba ko apne ghar me rehe jaisa karo. sainath. bachon ki khatir sainath. please
i beg u baba. i am feeling guilty for that sainath. muje nahin pata main kya karoon. main apne bachon ko unke pita ke saat dekhna chahthi thi buss. sainath please help me out. shoba ko ghar bula lo.

omsairam
omsairam
omsairam
omsairam
omsairam
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: smg on June 23, 2009, 01:51:20 AM
hey WW, thanx 4 d beautiful explanation....n no luv-shuv for me...i'm completely out of this life....n i even dont want 2 get into such kind of life...i'm happy the way i'm now....

I asked dis que on behalf of my freind.....dat's it.... :)

om sai ram



Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: smg on June 23, 2009, 01:54:03 AM
sai plz help rani ji....

om sai ram
om sai ram
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on June 23, 2009, 02:46:37 AM
Raniji, be strong. Keep the faith strong. Its just a bad patch. Hold on. Things will be fine soon.
Om Sai Ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on June 23, 2009, 12:48:37 PM
Rajiv,

have u heard " new divide" by linkin park? Its awesome and also listen to "three days grace"..its a band and they rock!! i will listen to Akon...heard abt him but never paid attentin to his songs:)..yeah tats what the best way...pass away the time...I have solitaire on my phone and i play tat all the time:)..
take care and thanks again for being there friends!!

om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on June 23, 2009, 11:52:54 PM
Aqua, Rajiv, cheer up... you're both awesome people. Life has loads of love to offer you. We're all there always...
God bless...
Om Sai Ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on June 24, 2009, 12:20:17 AM
om sai ram well wisher ji
i try my best but i know deep within i am weakening day by day
just dont let it come on the face so that others around are not hurt seeing me like this
it took me two years to actually accept that my mom is no longer with me
i tend to bottle up things in within me a lot and dont talk about it to anyone at all
aquafish ji u r in us right, you must have seen russell peters shows they are funny, u can laugh till you start crying listening to them
give me your mail address i will send you a link from where you can download it if you dont mind
i have finished watching all the seasons of two and a half men too, it comes in US as well i guess, see that its really funny
ww ji aap bhi dijiye, ill send you as well
my mail id is rajivcool80@hotmail.co.uk
bhavna ji aap bhi ek test mail daal dijiye, i watch funny and crazy things like these or worlds most amazing videos types crazy things
ganesh ji bahut din hue aap se baaat nahi hui may be i will call u in the night
i will make sure my phone is charged and i have balance too coz our talk always finish when one of these two things happen :D
om sai ram everybody
and hey tomorrow is thursday so yippeee

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on June 24, 2009, 12:54:54 AM
am feeling awful
really low tdy
thinhs at home goin from bad to worse
mu mum too jus hates dis guy :(
the only hope in my heart now is my trip to shirdi
baba plz let it happen asap
plz
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on June 24, 2009, 05:37:33 AM
Rajiv, Bhavna... this ones for you.

Rajiv, I really feel you have not yet healed completely. I wish I could help. I cannot send my mail id since its my official and only mail id. I do not have access to any of these other sites unfortunately at office and you know I do not go online much on weekends when home. I suggest you get Reiki healing done for you Rajiv. You're a wonderful person. Mother's love cannot be replaced but please try and make a fresh start with all else in life. May I suggest you to learn and practise Reiki and EFT. Please do it. You owe it to yourself, your mum and those who love you. I know you don't like to read but just want to ask you to read one book - just one. I must admit I havent read it myself, but I know its on my todo list. Its - "You can heal Your Life" - Lousie Hay. Bhava, Aqua and everyone out here can read it too. Please do.

Bhavna, I understand what you're going through. Been thru the emotional mess it creates. I guess the key is to first decide amongst yourselves. Parents will come around eventually. You focus on your relationship with both your mom and him seperately. Dont add two n two to make it 5! Once you start seperating the two... and working on them bit by bit, things may look easier. Eg. My goal for today is to make mom smile and not have any argument with her. My goal for today is to make my guy feel good about himself and add to his happiness n peace. Maybe that should help.

Aqua... hows u? U have to be strong.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on June 24, 2009, 07:11:52 AM
om sai ram WWji
no problems at all, and about healing naah now i dont want anything, and the book you spoke about is one that we both went to buy but the moment i used to enter the library i used to start yawning very badly almost about to slp you can say i could have died out of yawning only and i used to feel embarrassed standing in the library as all i was doing was yawning there nothing else. we used to go to this bookshop and she liked reading and i hated it so she used to buy some novels and i used to go into the cooking books section and try and sneak a recipe or two from there, make it and get it for her to eat.
i m missing her very badly. well all i hope is that she is fine and happy
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on June 24, 2009, 08:40:56 AM
HEy all,

Well I have been busy at work and evenings are depressing but tats ok..I am just thinking..its a day , a week , a month...lol...this shall pass too...

Well RUssell peters I have seenit all.He is funny..i think he toured india too but wahan ppl didnt like him..lol...Try watching chris rock stand up show  too..he is hilarious....

Rajiv...Take care and hang in there..sab teek hoga....

Bhavna...U wil go to shirdi and baba will bless u..everything will be fine...

Om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bhavna on June 24, 2009, 10:06:59 PM
om sai ram
yesterday baba made me sleep hungry
so tdy is thursday..i have vowed not to eat no matter how hungry i am or even if i drop dead on da floor....will jus fill my stomach up wid water...baba tdy show me ur presence..else i am jus not goin to eat,,if u cant do it no one else can..will consider it a closed chapter of my life
have booked my tickets, 2 months later am goin to shirdi if baba wills it..

unfortuntely tdy i am very hugry :(, but maybe its k...din carry food from hme and also gave my breakfast away to a rickshaw puller

dekhte hain if baba really really cares abt me......though to be very honest tdy i am very low....don have much hope in my heart also..dat anything will happen but they say bhagwan toh bhagwan hai

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: bharti123 on June 25, 2009, 12:57:05 AM
dear bhavna.
dont get disoppointed and have faith in sai nath
whatever he do is just for our betterment
we will pray for you to get your love
bcoz i also love someone and going through similar kind of pain
but still i believe sai is doing everything just for making me happy.
trust me he is there,just inside you,knowing all pain happening to you
he dont want to make us sad,he just want to make us bold to face all problems of life,so take it as a lesson from him
at the end everything will be all right

om sai nath
plz help bhavna
and give her all happiness of life
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on June 25, 2009, 05:12:36 AM
Bhavna, please rest.

Rajivji... am sorry. Didn't want to remind you about her. So sorry about that. Btw, personally I'm not the kinds who reads too much too. But have just started. Its not about reading. Its curiosity and the need to learn now.
 You like cooking, do u? Well, the kitchen is one zone... I have never entered to be honest. :) So you can cook someday for all of us... in case we ever meet...

Aqua, chill... me too feeling low. But its ok. Today is Thursday and am just going to take my personal time out and pray and spend some time reading articles.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: akansha on June 25, 2009, 07:20:50 AM
jai sai ram
bhavna plz take care,baba wil help u for sure,baba plz help her plz baba give her love back to her,bhavna wich part of delhi u live in??north,south east or west?just lemme knw..if uve sent me ur fone no on my gmail id il give u a call soon..wil check it today..take cre bhavna..we all are with u.
jai sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rr_sai_bhakt on June 25, 2009, 07:23:18 AM
Dear Bhavna,

please take care of yourself ...

Om Sai Ram ...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on June 25, 2009, 07:36:06 AM
Baba, please help everyone out here. Please just be with us always... ALWAYS...
Bhavna, please, please, please rest. All will be fine. He will show you the way. I wish I could talk with your guy and convince him.
Om Sai Ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on June 25, 2009, 09:41:31 AM
Bhavna,

Please take care of urself..dont spoil ur health..baba will help u buddy...Khaana kha lo..and u work such hectic hours...take care

om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on June 25, 2009, 01:50:21 PM
bhavna ji
i hope u ate something
please dont do like this
u know it baba does not like fasting
if u want to keep fast please do it but dont just do this that u dont eat anything all day
you are lucky that you can atleast go to shirdi i cant even do that but if baba calls me i will definately go there once
aquafish ji how are u
wwji nothing like that but the moment u said bout that beek believe me everything came right in front of me like she is standing there only with me
the way i used to go n meet her the way we used to talk everything
i dont know but its just coming back in front of me again and again literally
my bro is coming to london next week
i called him on thursday only
somehow managed to convince my dad
went to my friends house yesterday and met his dad and mom
his dad has seen me since childhood and my dad and he are schooltime friends
he had tears in his eyes i dont know how will i meet my bro in this condition
feeling very scared and not at all excited, i really wish i could take him out and make him see everything i want him to
pata nahin kya hoga
om sai ram

Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on June 25, 2009, 02:05:44 PM
hey rajiv,

i am doing gud..taking each day as it comes...

DOnt wrry u will have fun...its ur brther, he will understand...

God bless u
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on June 26, 2009, 03:18:38 AM
:) Everything connected to the one you know you have to divert your mind from coming in front of you all the time. Trust me I know what it feels... same is the case with me. Every song connected, the numeric part of his car no, birthdate flashing in front of my eyes all the time. What to do... not much can be done unfortunately...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on June 26, 2009, 09:28:31 AM
yeah happens...well the trick is make urself numb for some days..am in that stage right now...Just feel nothing, think nothing..do ur thing!! easier said than done...well weekend is here finally..this week had been hectic...sneed my sleep..

Bhavna...how r u today? take care
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on June 26, 2009, 10:14:35 AM
Jidhar dekhoon , teri tasveer nazar aati hai .......To all you devdas and devdasini's. Get up , shake yourself and go out there and live your lives. This is too much.
We can fill the atlantic ocean out of tears from here ..... GUYS, WAKE UP.
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on June 26, 2009, 10:30:40 AM
hehe thanks ganesh ji...I dnt think we r devdas and devadasinis...he was weak....and didnt have faith in himself either...frankly useless character...

We r strong just having some low time...is baar sab ek baar hi weak hai...lol...

But yeah we shud wake up..bahut ho gaya....yay weekend ishere....will go for my first yoga class tomorrow..any tips WW?

Bhavna....will call u sometime tomm...bol dena kab..

Rajiv...u wanna talk, i cud call u too...will say hello:)...
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: akansha on June 26, 2009, 10:58:53 AM
jai sai ram
tc bhavna..send me ur fone no on my mail..baba wil help u out soon.
jai sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: rajiv800 on June 26, 2009, 02:20:33 PM
om sai ram bhavnaji
how are you feeling
ww ji bahut mushkil mein pad gaya hoon i dont know wat to do
aquafish ji mail me ur number i will call u
but i am a biiiiig talker ask ganesh ji if i start i just keep going :-)
i talk a lot so better ask ganeshji for advise first :-)
or mail me something i will mail you my number
i dont have anybody's e mail address
bhavnaji ww ji aap bhi mujhe mail kar dijiye if u dont mind
either i will send u my number or u send me urs
main bahut bolta hoon to kabhi bahut zyada low feel karo to call karlo i will try my best that i can get a smile on ur face
my mail is rajivcool80@hotmail.co.uk or rajivcool80@rediffmail.com
ganesh ji aapse baat karna due hai
i will call you sometime on the weekend
auqafish ji ur williams sisters are again ruining the whole thing
there is just wimbeldon i can see over the weekend
om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on June 26, 2009, 02:23:35 PM
I amw aiting for weekend too so i can watch roddick in action...nadal is out..useless...william sisters suck...move over for better players....i mailed u rajiv btw to ur hotmail..lemme email to rediff too..

I think its cheaper for me to call or vice versa..not an issue...lets talk...

om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: GaneshHariharan on June 26, 2009, 02:25:51 PM
aqua can u come on chat ?
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: Well-wisher on June 29, 2009, 02:16:14 AM
Rajiv... whats the prob buddy?

Tips for YOGA: Sleep well before class... Don't doze off ! Lol... nah... seriously, its a beautiful experience, trust me.

Aqua, Bhavna... hows u? Akansha???
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: gunj on June 29, 2009, 04:32:50 AM
thank u smg for posting the link .i wud like to buy that book.
Bhavanaji believe in  baba he will do the gud things for u,and pls check out the post by ganeshji  topic is why we god?
Check out that post u will come to know some answer to ur question.
Me too face the same problem but i believe in baba and i told baba ab jo bhi sahi hai mere lia wo aap karege ,jo sahi hoga baba karge ,humein dukh milta hai uske piche bhi koi wajah hoti hai kuch achai hoti hai par hum use samajh nahi pate hai ki baba kya kehna chahte hai us jariye se,may baba bless u,Believe in sai ,Have shraddha and saburi

om sai ram
Title: Re: baba please bless me and solve this problem of my life
Post by: aquafish on June 29, 2009, 09:24:15 AM
hey all,

i am good..howz everyone doin? i had an absoutely boring weekend..did nothing ...worked for some time...got bugged by friends too hot to go anywhere...so sat at home , read a book, watched wimbledon...hope everyone is doing fine...this week is short for us only till thursday at work as we have independence day vacation...one more day to sit at home and do nothing...lol..no complains..i cn sleep late....
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Post by: rajiv800 on June 30, 2009, 01:49:20 AM
om sai ram
bhavna ji how are you
long time no msg
WWji how are u
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Post by: Starter on June 30, 2009, 07:48:35 AM
saibalaji saibalaji saibalaji
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Post by: Well-wisher on July 01, 2009, 12:43:36 AM
Am good Rajiv... whats the problem?
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Post by: rajiv800 on July 01, 2009, 04:46:35 AM
nothing just asked how are you
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Post by: Well-wisher on July 02, 2009, 02:41:48 AM
:) Am good Rajiv. I asked cause one of your previous posts said "ww ji bahut mushkil mein pad gaya hoon i dont know wat to do".

Bhavna, Aqua... how are you guys? Hows it going?
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Post by: gunj on July 02, 2009, 03:27:43 AM
BABA BLESS US ALL WITH UR GRACE
OM SAI RAM
SOLVE EVERY ONE PROBLEM HERE BABA PLS
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Post by: Well-wisher on July 03, 2009, 01:01:16 AM
Bhavna, Aqua, Rajiv, Smg, everyone out here... How are you?

Found a nice article. Request each one to read and post comments.

http://www.lifepositive.com/Mind/Personal_Growth/Thy_will_be_done.asp
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Post by: akansha on July 03, 2009, 09:02:22 AM
jai sai ram
 hi bhavna how are u??hows all??
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Post by: bhavna on July 16, 2009, 05:25:40 AM
om sai ram
sai plz don leave me in da middle of it all and go
i really need u at dis tym
plz show me ur presence
i need some in dat direction
plz sai plz i beg u for forgiveness
om sai ram
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Post by: Well-wisher on July 16, 2009, 06:05:20 AM
Bhavna, after so long... how are you? Whats happening? Any updates? Keep the faith strong. Sai is not leaving you alone. We are all with you. Have faith. This is a testing time.

THIS TOO SHALL PASS!
THIS TOO SHALL PASS!
THIS TOO SHALL PASS!

Om Sai Ram
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Post by: chweetujaanu on July 16, 2009, 07:53:46 AM
bhavna ji

how are you?

watz gng on any changes?

takecare baba is with all of us..

omsairam
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Post by: Well-wisher on July 18, 2009, 02:34:42 AM
Bhavna... Sai is with you. Maybe u can't see Him. But HE IS RIGHT WITHIN YOU, HOLDING YOU THRU THE TOUGHEST PHASE OF UR LIFE.

This too shall pass...
This too shall pass...
This too shall pass...

With or without him I AM FINE
With or without him I AM PERFECT
With or without him THE WORLD IS BEAUTIFUL
With or without him MY LIFE IS PERFECT
With or without him I AM AT PEACE
With or without him I AM GOING TO BE HAPPY
With or without him I AM LOVEABLE
With or without him I HAVE ALL THE LOVE ON EARTH
With or without him I GIVE & GET LOADS OF LOVE
With or without him I WILL ALWAYS FEEL GOOD
With or without him I AM HAPPY WITHIN!

God loves me. He is within me.
God loves me. He is within me.
God loves me. He is within me.
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Post by: sainetras on July 18, 2009, 12:47:54 PM
om shri saibabaya namaha.
Mere pyare  pyare bachho,... kahi...dino se mujhe bahut hi bechaini ( uneasyness) mehsus ho rahi hai. jiss ladki ne mere bete ka dill toda uski shyadi fix ho rahi hai. Iss baat se mai bilkul naaraaz nahi hu..uss ladaki ko achhi jindagi mile aur hamesha khush rahe yahi meri duva hai aur rahegi. Lekin mere bete ka jeevan aur kitane dinotak yuhi suna suna rahega? Deva Aap sab achha hi karoge iss baat ka koi sandeh nahi par uss din ka kabtak intajaar karanaa padega ?
daya karo deva abtoh krupa karo.
om shri saibabaya namaha.
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Post by: Well-wisher on July 18, 2009, 03:01:22 PM
Wo din jaldi aayega. Zaroor aayega. Give him time. Time heals everything. And God is always with you... and him. :) Om Sai Ram
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Post by: sainetras on July 19, 2009, 01:17:31 PM
meri ladali Ww,
Saibaba tumhari duva kabul kare aur sabhi ko achha jeevan-saathi dilaade. jo bhi koi achhe  aur sachhe dill se USKE sharanme kabse apni aashaaye lekar khade hai un sabhi ki mano kaamnaaye puri kare.
Humne apni jindagi bhalehii..rukhi-sukhi kaati ho par hamaare bachhonke jeevan me kabhi bhi pyar ki kami naa rahe.
Buss...! MERE DEVA, YAHI EK MANNAT AAPSE HAMESHA MAANGTE RAHE HAI AUR MAANGTE HI RAHENGE.
Beti, Iss maa se, dhanyawaad aur aashirwaad.
om shri saibabaya namaha.
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Post by: @pari@ on July 20, 2009, 12:37:31 AM
plz sai baba, help bhawna as she have faith on you baba, plz baba, uski madad karo, wo apke paas aai hain baba, uski jholi mei uska pyar bhar do baba, uske sir par apna hath rakh do baba..

om sai shirdi sai jay jay sai
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Post by: Well-wisher on July 20, 2009, 01:10:38 AM
:) Thank you Sainetrasji. When I read this message, my eyes are filled with tears. Thank you for your prayers and blessings. They are the most valuable. Prayers, blessings, love... thats all we need the most. Rest all comes and goes. These are the true source of happiness and the best gift one can ever recieve. I just love it when someone blesses me and others around. Thank you Sainetrasji... its the best gift of the day!

God bless you with all the happiness too... Om Sai Ram
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Post by: Well-wisher on July 20, 2009, 01:13:27 AM
Bhavna... Pari aur Sainetrasji ki dua bohot dil se nikali hai. Have faith. All will be good. Miracles do happen. Baba please ab bas... please stop testing her. Show her the light. Please bless Bhavna with her love. She has learnt her lessons. She is willing to learn more. And she will continue to be the best she can be. Please hold her, bless her... be with her. Please get them together Baba. And all those struggling to unite with their love.

Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram
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Post by: bhavna on October 04, 2009, 07:59:09 AM
om sai ram everyone
jus thot wud drop in and say a thank you to all of u
things have not changed at all at my end
but faith in baba jus keeps geeting stronger
baba jus keep blesssing us
thank u for being dre
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Post by: aquafish on October 04, 2009, 12:39:15 PM
Bhavna,,,,all i can say is hang in there...and i am glad u havent left sai  baba....he will definitely work things out for u....i am also doing the same....

om sai ram
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Post by: Well-wisher on October 09, 2009, 01:08:52 AM
Bhavna... Maybe God has other plans to make your world beautiful and you are not willing to have a look at it.
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Post by: bhavna on December 21, 2009, 04:36:47 AM
om sai ram
 we both again went to shirdi together
and baba blessed us both
its got really bad at my end though
with his family not ready to yield at all and so he is also of the opinion now dat nothing can be done so we shud move on
u cant leave me in da middle of it sai
u will have to c me thru this u promised sai so many times but everything jus kept getting worse inspite of u promising
baba if u keep making it harder for me dont worry my prayers will keep getting stronger..but u will have to bless me
i will hold ur feet stronger dan ever before..fir kahan jao ge mujhe ignore kar ke baba

ab aa jao sai..main wait kar rahin hoon

om sai ram
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Post by: poojay on December 15, 2011, 03:51:34 AM
Om Sai Ram...
Dear Bhavna, Aquafish, Rajeev n all the members of this post..
yesterday i was serching for Chaliya process thn gt this post. i read all the post of you guys.
i dont knw weather i am going to receive any response on this post or not but wanted to write....
i read each & every conversation of you guys.. the last reply of this post was 21 Dec 2009 nd today after 2 years i am writing here..
i want to know how are you all.....
if any of you still here in this blog pls reply here, i want to know abt your experience.
hows your life now.....
hope will listen soon from you..
om sai ram....
baba kripa kijiye.....
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Post by: aquafish on December 15, 2011, 12:13:09 PM
Poojay,

I recently got married not to the same guy but found this amazing guy who knows my past and understands me and keeps me happy.

I agree its hard to let go of someone u truly love and want to be with forever...but sometimes letting go is hard but once u do it, u realize what u have been doing...I was in denial and was stubborn...We dont see for signs when good happens but when bad happens, we see signs everywhere..so its our human mentality that is our downfall sometimes...I realized this and then let it go..not easy but what can u do, u cant keep fighting and wanting something when the other person does not make an effort ...He wasnt a bad guy but he just didnt want the same thing like me...
So when I let go and told Sai to find me someone who can love me for what i am and try not to change me, He gave me happiness...So it might not be the thing U want but Baba will give u what u deserve and need.

I am blessed with Baba in my life and hope that i dont suffer more in the future..and if I do it will be my own doing..so hopefully baba makes me realize that again and not let me ruin my own life...

Take care and be happy
om sai ram
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Post by: poojay on December 15, 2011, 12:18:38 PM
om sai ram....
may baba bless you always.... :D :D
take care..
om sai ram....
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Post by: saikripa.dimple on December 20, 2011, 05:19:40 AM
it might not be the thing U want but Baba will give u what u deserve and need........

Trust Sai , Love SAi

SAi in my heart
Thanksssssss babaji 4 everything.........................
Love u alotttttttttttttt
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Post by: mohua on December 20, 2011, 05:42:41 AM
Sai baba i want to know that will i get a permanent job in the company i am presently working at by the beginning of the next year??
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Post by: anita anjali on December 21, 2011, 10:35:54 AM
om sai ram

sai bless you dear

jai sai ram
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Post by: babadaughter on December 21, 2011, 08:48:37 PM
om sai ram
om sai ram
om sai ram
om sai ram
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Post by: saikripa.dimple on March 08, 2018, 10:31:52 PM
Om Sai Ram

I'm tired now. bahut koshish ki kii sab ko khush rakh saku par mere karan sabko problem ho hi jati hai.
aaj fir se apne MaPa ka dil dukha mere karan. you were always by my side but ab kyun nahi baba.. I really feel gulity kii i can't help my parents. they are worry for my marriage.. what should i do. i cant go to abroad unhe chhod k and they are not happy with this decision. kya sirf ladki ki shadi hona is the only thing which makes parents happy aur agr haan toh de do ye khushi mere Mapa.. please don't break their trust on you. Please help me babaji kii mai is situation se nikal pau. I dnt mind to get marry but q aap late kara rahe ho. i cant see my parents like this. please please help me baba.
agr mujhse kuch galat hua hai tih please unhe saza mat do... i cant live aise.
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Post by: Starter on April 26, 2018, 10:19:50 PM
Sai sai saibalaji
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Post by: Starter on May 02, 2018, 09:23:34 PM
Sai sai saibalaji
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Post by: Starter on May 03, 2018, 09:26:03 PM
Sai sai saibalaji
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Post by: Starter on November 22, 2018, 10:15:28 PM
Sai sai saibalaji saibalaji