OM SAI RAM
Dear Shruti,
From what I understand, you just have a feeling, that he is engaged.
When we love, some one from heart and they are away, these thoughts do creep in. It is very difficult for the heart to be empty of love for them. It is difficult to forget them. But look at the brighter side of things. Baba has given you the answer for your question. Whether to your liking or not, he has not kept you in mid air. By doing this he has said, "Beta, I have already chosen some one for you. And I know he is right for you.Please let go of this, so that I can bring the other person in your life."
Often when the heart breaks, people are so focussing on the heart break, that they lose grip on what's happening around them.
Everyone tells us forget him and move on. But how to do that? how to eliminate a person, whom we are breathing every moment.
To forget him, we have to Unlove him. Hating is not enough. We should be able to say "I dont Love him". How to do that??
It is difficult.Extremely difficult. But the key is knowing yourself. We become like the "Zakhmi Sher" who likes to keep licking his wounds.
Stop doing that. If you want to remove some one, throw him out of your heart, just like some insect on your skin.
This is the time for you to decide, whether you want to keep sulking in your sorrows and be consumed by life's problems, OR you want to tell ife, bring it all on and face them. Become Arjun, and do your karma, let Baba be the cahrioteer and guide you thru. And then see how you win all your wars.
P.S.: When my father died, I didnt know anything about Sai Baba, but always imagined Dad sitting at Shree Krishna's feet and that he need not take any more births, cause he's got moksh. Whenever I saw Baba's pic, I always felt that he is exactly like my Dad. Today, I owe my life to Baba. Yes I still have waivering faith, but then Baba knows me, and my faith, cause he is the on who created me.
Start building your relation with Baba, your Dad and see how he transforms your life. It will not happen over night, but over a period of 1 year you will realize how he has changed you.
Till then...Keep Praying!!!
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