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Baba, please help me overcome my troubles
« on: April 01, 2016, 06:55:35 AM »
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  • I have been a devotee of baba for the past 20 years. I got married very late, at the age of 32, it was an arranged marriage. After almost 4 years of marriage, I was blessed with a baby girl on 13th Feb 2016. The entire family was extremely happy with the new arrival. My parents had a plan of leaving me at my house in the 3rd month after delivery, and stay with me for few months to take care of the baby. Once I get back to work, they wanted to take a house near mine, so that I can leave the baby with them every morning and bring her back in the evening. My house is far away from my parents house, whereas my sister stays within 5 min walking distance.
    My husband and in-laws have always been supportive. They are good people. But they never communicate directly with my parents for any discussion - every thing comes from my husband to me, and then I discuss it with my parents. And they are always very particular that we should follow their paddhatis for every thing.
    After the baby was born, their insistence on this has increased tremendously. I have been with my parents for the past 2 months as I came to their house for my delivery. And suddenly a big tragedy struck our family - my father passed away all of a sudden due to a cardiac arrest. This was on the 25th day after the baby was born. He was 69 years old. He never had any health problem, he was not diabetic, no high cholesterol. At 10:30 in the night, as the baby was crying, he came to the bedroom, put her on his lap, sang for her, and then he went to sleep at 10:40. Within 5 min, we heard some kind of a sound, when we ran to see him he was gasping and within 5 min he closed his eyes. For me, my elder sister and my mother, this was very shocking. We are still not able to come to terms with it.
    As it was within a month of my delivery, I had to still take care of my health so that I can nurse the baby properly. But due to the emotional trauma I am highly affected. I have requested my husband to shift our house to the area of my parents, so that my mother can take care of the baby. This will distract her a little bit and she can overcome the trauma in a better way. But he has refused as he says he cannot travel a distance of 30 km everyday, he will get severe back pain! Infact, he need not drive, he will get a cab from the company. But he is not willing to do this. He says that my mother should come and stay with us - she is not ready to do this as she doesn't want to move out of their house for at least 1 year. Otherwise people around will comment. As a next alternative, my husband says he will bring my in-laws to stay with us permanently. My in-laws do not keep good health, they themselves need some one to take care of them. How can they take care of my daughter? When I asked this, he says he will employ a maid. But I feel it is too early for me to leave a 3 month old baby with a maid. How much ever I request my husband to shift to this area, he is refusing.
    In the meantime, because they keep insisting on their paddhatis, there were small issues between my sister and my husband because of which they stopped talking to each other. After this, they came up with a date for naming ceremony which is not suitable for my sister as her son has his PUC entrance exam on that day. But my husband shouted at me when I asked them to check for another date - he says we cannot change the date for the sake of my sister.
    I feel completely lost now. I am in a very good position with an MNC, earning very well. I am ready to quit my job for few months to be with my mother and baby. But there is absolutely no support from my husband now. I feel that he is trying to take me away from my mother and sister's family. For everything, he says that I should follow their family tradition as I am married into their family.
    My father's death has been like a big punishment for me. It was so untimely. If he were there we would not have had any problems like this. I wish he had lived for at least another 10 years, but I cannot bring him back now.
    I am praying to baba everyday to resolve these issues, but the issues seem to increase day by day. Right now, my husband and I are not even in talking terms. I do not know where we are headed to.
    Please pray to baba for resolving my issues. I was in a happy family, suddenly everything turned topsy turvy and I am not able to handle it.
    Sai ram please help me overcome these troubles and provide a solution that is suitable to us.

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    Re: Baba, please help me overcome my troubles
    « Reply #1 on: April 22, 2016, 06:56:23 AM »
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  • Baba plz help her to resolve her family issue.....

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    Don't worry ,have faith in baba , he will take care of everything...
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    Re: Baba, please help me overcome my troubles
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    Re: Baba, please help me overcome my troubles
    « Reply #7 on: June 11, 2016, 12:52:03 AM »
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    Re: Baba, please help me overcome my troubles
    « Reply #8 on: June 23, 2016, 02:14:50 AM »
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  • om sai nadaya namaha
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    baba plz bless everyone who are in troubles
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