baba plz bless me and my husband a happy married life and my marraige

[jubs]

sai rehem nazar karana baccho ka palana karana,
baba rehem nazar karana

om sai ram..........baba what i will tell u or ask u .u know everything and u very well know baba blindly i beleive u by having faith on u patiently m waiting for ur blessing in my married life which is not a married life.i have lots of qestion can ny1 answear  question?if any1 will listen my strory tears will automatically comes.with saburi m waiting sincealong time ...baba is there for me but he is testing my patience alot.without my fault m sufferinglike anything.

after  1 and 1/2 years m posting here my problems and my request to all sai devoti to pray for me.i need all ur prayers.in short m posting my casehere and slowly i will post it on regular basis.this forum gives lots of streanth to face the difficult sition in life.

[jubs]

om sai ram........

first of all i say a big thanx to u all that u all r doing a selfless divine work to help distress people to help them to solve there problem in life by giving them advice and praying foe them...

I got married in the month of this jan and after my marriage from the day one i m suffering mentally because of my husband’s rude behavior towards me.even we have not yet involved in physical relation as a normal husband and wife since last 8 months of our marriage.as I belive shiridi sai baba so by keeping faith on sai patiently m have been waiting tht baba will change him and bless me a happy married life soon.when he shout on me I don’t raise my voice and tolerate everything scilently by keeping faith on baba as I don’t want to break my marriage.i spent 4 and 1/2 months with him and in the month of june he misbehaved me in such a way tht can’t be acceptable for a woman and for a wife also so I called my brother at night and came to my parents place.i just want he should realize his fault and say sorry to me and come to pick me up..and it happned recently and realised his fault.but sab addha adhura which m unabel to understnad wt is baba's plan.....patiently i was controlling my my anger whatevr he said but tht it was unbearable and i don't knw how and why i shouted on him for the 1st time and called my brother to take me.since last 3months m in my parents palce waiting for him to reakize his fault.

He drinks almost all day.when he drinks and in good mood thn he talk to me very sweetly and tht moment became very good for me but no physical relation yet which is required in a married life.silently i m adjusting with the sitution by keeping faith on sai...

my mom have consulted a dr about his problem why he he is not getting sex urge satying in same room with me.he is having high diabetics ,thyroid,cholostrol and drinking habbit.dr said bcoz of all this he has become impotant and he needs treatment.but I can’t do ny treantment of his as we don’t have any social or emotional relation also. we even don't know whetehr he is imptant or not..this is that till now h has not having any sexual usge for me and We just stay in a home and room together.

he talks to my sasu maa very nicely and as if im a stranger ther.i do all the houshold work and doing all the resposibilty of a wife and bohu but they don’t even understand my values.By seeing my condition my families is not willing to continiue with this relation anymore but its me who  don’t want to break my marriage though we don’t have ny relation and he has told he got married for his mom’s happiness...i still don't know why baba did this with me.coz all say baba knows wht is good for his devotee.m not complaining baba coz its my past karma.but baba can do impossbel to possbel and i knw he will make my husband good for me to lead a happy married couple like other couple.

Hope u all can understand my inner sorrow being a newly married girl.i had dcided this time until and unless my husband won’t realize his fault tht he has misbehaved with me  will not go to his home.and it was baba's wish i think

What I will do  please sugesst me to solve my problem.whtevr u will say im ready to do by keeping faith on sai...I just want a happy married life like other couple. my eyes filled with tears always  because i don't know wht will happen to me.my sasu is also main probelm .beacause of her only he s doing like that i feel so....she knows evrything but pretend as  she don't knw nything...she is always good to me but she never feels that we both r satying very strange life together as husband and wife.for her our relation is very noraml which is not noraml anyways.

plz help me to save my marraige.but my families is not happy with him .he has hurt my families also.why god did this to me i really don't understand yet,without my fault m suffering.i have beeen parying sai since a long time but  baba is also not solving my problem soon.but beacause of baba m alive .im having hpoe that he will cahnge and come back to me but when i don't know.it can be posbel thru miracle.plz pary for me.

my marraige is baba's blessings which i will tell lain next post.baba wa present in my wediing day.baba meresath hone kebaad bhi m suffering mentally.my husband hadcalledme on 15th sept and about this also i will write in next post.om sai ram....

[NeelDilan]

Jubs,
I am sorry to say but I don't think you should be praying to be with him. You should leave him. That is not a marriage. With my situation, it was different. My husband is a very honest and nice man. I know I made mistakes in my marriage and eventually Baba blessed us but I don't think you should be asking Baba to save your marriage. What kind of marriage are you going to have if you don't have marriae relations, if he drinks and if he only did it for his mom. You deserve better. Don't sell yourself short for someone who doesn't love you. There is someone out there who will love you for you. Please don't make the mistake of staying with someone just for the sake of marriage. Maybe you have to go through this to find the right person to be with.

[jubs]

neel ji........i love my husband and i have spent 4 and 1/2 months time with him in room .i told u na we had some ggod time when he ws in good mood with drink.any girl kud have left him from the day one instead of me.i want to save my marraige bcoz its given by baba only which i will tell u in detail in my neext post.i have strong faith on sai tht he will make everything in my life.baba is testing my patience and i will pass his test.im a hindu laddy i belive i ahve born once and i have one husband  to whome i ahve maried with sai's blessings.baba will solve my probelm.i can't marry ny1 once again in my life infact now m loosing to live a life.but i can't do suicideas its bad as paer baba's sayin.just pary for me.

after 3months my husband called me in this saturday and said sorrry but along with tht this monday again he  called and said soamy things which can't be accepted ina marraige life.now m silent.let se wht baba is doing now with me.

[chawlavaibhav1]

Jai Sai Ram Jubs Behan!
I can imagine how much hard time you are going through.
Like everyone, I think you are also suffering the effect of your past karmas. Sister, Baba is always with you.  Baba said that one has to suffer the effect of one’s past karmas and there is no use crying about it. Accordingly, I feel Baba is giving you strength to face the effect of your past karmas so that your previous sins are washed away as early as possible.
We are all the children of Baba who is the creator of this universe, but he is also bounded by the laws he made to run this universe. Baba is ocean of mercy. He may already be there to reduce some of the ill effects of your past karmas and some part of it you have to suffer.
Pray to Baba for his mercy and always thank Baba as he is always there with you.
Never ever doubt Baba’s intentions as he cares for our welfare more than we care for ourselves.
In the meanwhile, please read Sai Charitra daily and try to meditate/concentrate on Baba’s picture. Also, visit Sai temple near you house and keep praying.
These all activities will help your gain peace at heart. Direct all your wishes to Baba and leave the tensions and rest of the work to him.
Always try to act as per baba’s instructions.
I pray to baba to always take care of you and keep you close to him.
May your desires come true and may you live a happy married life in the near future.
I pray to Baba to transform your husband to a loving and caring person who will take care of you.
Om Sai Ram!
 

[jubs]

dear chawlavaibhav1.....om sai ram....m glad to see ur mesg and happy to know u appreciate me for my belive on sai i mean patiently m waiting for baba's blessings and m sure baba will make my husband a loving and caring man and he will return back to me when right time will come.

kahan se suru karun i really don't know but mere zindegi main jo kuch ho raha hai ya jo beet chuka hai its all baba's wish tht i belive.after breaking all my marraige proposal in fanal stage baba fixed this marraige i thut its baba's wish again  but i have never thut tht i will suffer like this from the day one of my marraige.but jab tak main wahan thi i was just praying sai and bcoz of sai i was thre safely.mujhe bahut kast ho rahi hai.main bass baba ko pakad ke rakhi hun so m surviing till now.sometime feell ike to go away from this world.baba plz solve my problem as soon as passbel.

if u all will listen thn u won't belive also  ki baba ne aisa kyun kiya aur agur baba ko pata tha ki meri shadi yahn thik nehi hai thn baba kud hav broke iit before which he he has broken my previous marriage proposal before i got married finaaly....before this marraige last year nov my marraige was fix and it was also arranged marraige and after 11months it got broke i mean just b4 2months of final marraige date which was on nov 27th.i was in real pain tht time .but baba ke shiva aur koi rasta nehi thai dukh bhi unhone diya,tears bhi  baba ne diya hai he wiped it out tht time and again gave tears in my eyes...,

but m not feeling well.what to do i don't knw.i knw jo bhi hua mere sath ya ho raha hai acche ke lye hua hoga ya ho raha hi but itnee late main kyun jab ki main baba ki hee bacchi hun and baba jante hain to wht extent i do puja for baba,do sai sachrtitra parayan,guru charitra parayn.

meer sath aisa kyun.i just wasking baba jaise jaise baba bolte hain maine waise hee kiya aur aaj mera shadi toot ne haal main hai jo kuch mere husband mere sath kar rahe hain ,last proposal tutne ke baad with a hope ki abb baba muje ek accha life partner diye honge but yeh sab kya hai aur baba ka  kya plan hai i don't understnd.

m nt blaming baba.only for baba m alive today.mujhe pura biswas hai baba mere zindegi main sab thik kardenge.im a hindu lady i hv born once and i belive i hv married once and i m having only 1 husband with whome baba got me married in this jan....ingact baba was present  in my husbands finger in the form of a gold ring....my husband is not a sai devotee but he wore a  gold sai ring and came for marraige...

hamare yahan shadi ke time pe hastha bandhan hota hain mandap main i mean kanya daan.jab mere hath ke uper mere husband ka hath rakha gaya tab baba khud wahan present the ring main and its not a small thig.when gift opened in my perents place 1st gift was a  marbel sai murti given by one of my  femalef riend .its clear baba was present in my marraige...mere sasural ke ghar ke samne jo ghar hai unke front door main ek sai baba ka pic hai.yeh sab padh ke aap logoan lagega ki baba is the with me in all time phir bhi m suffering and crying.sometimes we feel impatience but baba sab thik kareinge bolke muje pura biswas hai and muje mere husband k pass jaldi hee bhejegne.

plz pary for me happy married lfe....om sai ram

[jubs]

hey sai baba..........i have started 3guruvar vrat with full faith on u so plzz baba fullfll my wishes or i will be no where.om sai ram om sai ram......being my husbands ardhagini since last 4months m applying bibhuti on my body by thikng that m applying on my husband's body to remove his all negetive thuts and negetive thigs from his mind and body.patiently i have been waiting since very long time....don't take my more test baba/plz chnage my husbands mind for me and make him realize tht m his legally weded wife and he has some responsibility for me and send him soon to take me to his home.october month started baba i don't know how will passed this month.my marraige got completed 8months and till now i kud not get a maried life happiness being a married lady.........plz baba forgive my past sin whisch i have done in my  last birth and bless me a happy married life with my husband.om sai ram.

[sis]

Jubs ji faith on sai baba, i m also waiting
For baba ji blessing, maybe abhi kuch baki hai
Baba sath jaroor denge, i knw baba sabke sath hai
Aage jo hoga kismat main baba ne hi to likhi
Hai kismat, jai sai ram!