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Prayers Section => Sai Baba Help Me => Topic started by: rahinancy on April 29, 2009, 09:51:13 AM
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plz baba mein rahi se bahot pyar karti hun unke bina nai reh sakti plzzzz baba.....rahi wapis dedo....wohi mera sab kuch hai...ap humesha meri aur sabki madat karte hoo meri bhi kardo baba plzzzzz mera pyar lotado baba....mein unse pyar karti hun plzz lotado baba....plz mein apke chamatkar ka intazar karungi om sai ram
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DEAR RAHINANCY, IF I AM NOT BEING INDISCREET, MAY I KNOW AAPKA PYAAR KAISE TOOTA, YA AAPSE DOOR CHAL BASA ? OM SAINATHAYA NAMAHA.
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meine ek ph rakha unse chupake.... par woh sirf isliye taki humare rishtey mein jhagda na hoo par woh galat samjh bethein plzz app bhi baba se pray kijiye ki woh mere pass wapis ajaein mein unse bahot pyar karti hun
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sorry but ph kya hai ? om sairam .
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om sai ram dear rahinancy,
pyar mein sabse badi cheez bharosa hi hoti hai, agar wo na ho to pyar adhura hota hai. iam sorry agar mere words thode harsh lage ho but its the fact.
leki apki koshish yehi thi ki app logon mein jhagda na ho lekin kahi na kahin ap dono mein misunderstanding ho gayi. app baba ji ka sache man se naam lekar unko apni prob batao, baba ji apko kisi na kisi roop mein rasta zaroor dikhayenge. aur ek baar app rahi ke sath beth kar unko sari bat samjhao ki apne aisa kyun kiya agar wo apse pyar kartein hai aur apko samajhte hai to wo apki baat zaror sunege aur samjhenge bi. I hope and pray ki apki prob jaldi se jaldi solve ho jaye lekin uske liye apko initiative lena padega.
meri shubhkamnaye apke sath hai.
may baba bless you dear.
om shri sai nathay namah...
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GOD BLESS U N GIVE U CLARITY OF MIND, TO UNDERSTAND UR PRIORITIES.
OM SAI RAM
OM SAI RAM
OM SAI RAM
OM SAI RAM
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thank u evry one bus woh wapis ajean mujhe aur kuch nai chahiyen....wohi sab kuch hai
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ph means phone
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DEAR NANCY, AAP BABA KA NAAM LEKAR AAPKE PYAAR SE MAAFI MAANG LIJIYE . AAPKA PYAAR AAPKO MAAF KARDEGA . SAI ISKA INTEZAAM KAR CHUKE HAI. SAI PAR DHRID VISHWAS RAKH KAR JAIYE AUR AAPKE PYAAR SE BAITHKAR BAAT KIJIYE SAB KUCH THEEKH HO JAYEGA. OM SAIRAM, JAI SAIRAM, JAI JAI SAIRAM.
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om sai ram
jus hold on to sais feet and pray for his chamatkaar
if sai is dre with us he soon will sure bless us
om sai ram
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i will do evrything said plzz app sab bhi prayer kijey......woh bhagwan ke naam pe bhi maaf nai kar rae mujhe baba par vishwas hai thnk u ...ab bhi baba se prayer kijiye woh milne ko taiyar nai hai meine unhe message kardiya hai baba ke liye shayad woh haan ka reply karde
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yaar hadd kar di, ek telephone keliye itna drama ? yeh to hindi film ho gayi ! is it just this or are you hiding something ? . please understand, aap doctor ko poori bimari nahin batayengi to doctor aapko sahi salaah nahin de payeenge !. om sairam.
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nancyji
Agar aap nirdosh ho to apko kisi ko safai dene ki jarurat nahi hai.. or next time be careful aap jinse pyar kate hai unse koi bat chupana nahi chahiye nahi to misunderstanding create ho jati hai.. keep urself pure...
take care
Om Sai Jai Sai Jai Jai Sai, Shree Sai Jai Sai Jai Jai Sai
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thnk u pata nai i cleard evrythin.. ab sab kuch baba par hai...
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:-) I'm sure he'll understand. Jo pyar karte hain, vo zaroor samajhte hain. You may have hurt him. Thoda waqt do unhe. Let him calm down. Please dont push it. Unhe thoda waqt dijiye apko aur is rishte ko samjhne ke liye.
Also, agar aapne kisi baat ke dar se koi baat chupayi... to its never too late unhe samjhaiye ki aapne kis dar se ye baat chupayi. Unhe kho dene ke daar se... jo bhi vajah ho... whatever the reason...
Explain to him that you love him, needed him... out of fear aapse galati ho gayi. Us waqt aap tension me sahi galat soch nahi paye. Apne rishte ko bachane ke liye aapko jo pehela raasta dikha aapne vo apnaya. Par ab aap samajhte ho aapne galat kiya. Aage aisa nahi hoga. You trust him, the relationship and have faith in your love. And the faith is strong enough ki aage kuch bhi ho, aap unse kuch nahi chupaoge...
:-) All the Best... God, please bless her... misunderstandings sabki life me hoti hain God. Inki door kar do. Please... give her a chance Baba... Aapka pyaar, aur aapki shakti do... aur aapki buddhi jisse inhe raasta mile...
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Hi Nancy
kya hua? mane apko wo? ya abhi tak gussa dikha rahe hai? mujhe to lag raha hai tumhe sata rahe honge shayad qki tum bar-bar sorry keh rahi ho na isliye... gussa shant hoga to mann jayenge yaar jayenge kahan dont worry
khush raho rona nahi
or jab mann jaye to hume jarur batana ok
Om Sai Jai Sai Jai Jai Sai, Shree Sai Jai Sai Jai Sai
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:-) Chill... all will be fine. Do something he'd always wanted u to do. He'll calm down on his own. Relax
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woh nahi mann rae unhone apni family ko bhi saaf saaf mana kardiya hai, woh enjy kar rae hai mujhe yaad bhi nai karte aj 11 din hogae par mein unse pyar kari hun nai reh paa rahi ab toh shyd unke papa ne bhi mujhe galat samjh liya hai ab baba hi chamatkar dikhayenge.. ill sms him tdy for lst tym....aur woh kabhi bhi mujhe reply nai kar te aj 1 din hogae still i trust sai nath...i feel sab thek hoga i relly luv him
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My dear, people who love can wait and keep the faith for years...
2 months is too short a time to give up. Keep the faith. If u have hurt him, its natural he'll be angry. Give him time. If it still doesnt make a difference... do what ur heart feels best!
All I can say is... agar humari galati hai... to saza ke liye bhi ready rehena chahiye...
If u keep calling and msging him he will get all the more irritated. Please stop it n give him time to heal. Aap ise saza na samjhe. Vo waqt samjhe jo vo heal hone ke liye aapse maang rahe hain. Give him that time... Please...
Sometimes relationships need a lot of patience.
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Faith ||Om Sai Ram|| Serenity.. have faith.. everything will be fine.. :-)
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hmmm aj meine chaliyan shuru kiya hai 41 days tak baba ke agge diya jalaungi..ya baba mujhe rahi wapis dede yaan woh mujhse meri zindagi lele mein unse pyar karti hun ab har umeed tuti nazar arahi hai.......mein unke bina nai reh paa rai..plzzzzzzzzzz sai baba madad kijiye,,,,ayein baba plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
om sai ram
om sai ram
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rahi ka ph aya unhone kaha i love u bt sorry no chance u cheated me...sach mein baba meine kuch nai kiya mein apke aagge bhekh mangti hun ki rahi ko lotado meri jholi mein
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Baba please bless her... please...
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mein unse kese maffi mangun..ek baar unhone bhi ese galti ki thi paar meine unhe maaf kardiyan tha ....par mein unke ghar bhi koi sorry ke cards ya ballons nai bhej sakti kyu ki unhone mana kardiyan hai ki koi kuch bhi accept na karen..par unhone ne mujhe manaya tha mein toh mangai thi baba par kya karun kese manaun unhe
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om sai ram rahinancy ji
DONT WORRY JUS KEEP FAITH IN OUR SAI
WILL PRAY FOR U
OM SAI RAM
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Nancyji... CHILL please...
All will be fine. Please give him time. Getting hyper and pushing it will just spoil it all. When one is angry... he's not exactly in a state of mind to want to understand.
Anger n forgiveness do not go hand in hand. Give time to let the anger subside. Forgiveness apne aap aa jayegi
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hmmmm i relly love himm il wait baba plz ap aona .................
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what i really fail to understand is (pardon me for my stupidity) if he loves you so much, he broke his relationship with you just because of a simple phone ????
moreover you have said that he has also done mistakes in the past, and you have forgiven him. nancy , is it just the phone ya doosra hi koi chakkar hai, like another girl ? bcos if you love somebody this incident is on the top list of stupid reasons given by a person as a reason to breakup a relationship. i dont understand, nancy, have some self respect , love is a two way street , we are not living in the stone age where the man can do anything and the lady has to forgive him , but one mistake by the lady and he leaves her ????. trust me daal mein kuch kaala hain. ye telephone ka chakkar nahin hai . om shri sainathaya namaha.
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pata nai mujhe unhone kaha u had phone wch was not in my known den u must be having an affair ...ur phone has kild my feeling for u and u cheated me...humara rishta 3 yrs ka hai....he lvd me alot bt kisi ne unhe miss guide kiya hai baba sab thek karenge i relly luv him cant live widout him plzzzz pray baba madad kije om sai ram
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Nancy, my dear friend... its a stupid reason to break a 3yr connection. He's feeling insecure and maybe someones poisoned him or he's plain and simple possessive.
But my question to you is - why on earth did u hide the phone? I mean how would it matter? If theres some reason behind you doing it, please tell him and clear it out. He's thinking maybe you did it to decieve it, which is a natural first thought. I'm sorry to say that but its natural for someone deeply involved to wonder why his or her partner would have hidden the existance of something as silly as a communication device. Its natural for the thought process to go that way.
But I'm sure you can clear doubts, explain to him why you did it calmly and win back his trust. I'm sure if he loves you he'll understand maybe its just an immautre mistake you made. We all make mistakes in life and love. Its natural and normal. Nobody is perfect. So is it for you. And I hope he is mature enough to understand that.
All the best!
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kiddo, i am sorry i disagree with you on this one. 3 years of relationship thrown away in a moment just for a foolish phone and she has to beg ?
no love is worth it yaar . not even if he is brad pitt. om sairam
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i have cleared evrything from my side now its on him...but i say baba plzzz cme and help
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jai sai ram
baba pleezzz help her..plz get her love back to her life..plz show a miracle baba...
jai sai ram
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DEAR NANCY, AAPNE AAPKI TARAF SE SAB KUCH KIYA HAI. AB UNKI BAARI HAI. BABA KA NAAM JAPTE RAHIYE, AGAR WO SACH MUCH AAPKE LAAYAK HAI TO SAI UNKO AAPKE PAAS VAAPAS LAUTA DENGE.
OM SHRI SAINATHAYA NAMAHA.
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MUJHE BABA KE CHAMTKAR KA INTAZAR HAI...WOH TOH KHUSHSI KHUSHI APNI FAMILY KE SATH GHUM RAE HAI..........MEIN KHUSH HUN PAR UNHE KYU MERI YAAD NAI ARAHI.......PLZ BABA MEIN BHEKH MAGTI HU AJIYE BABA
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OM SAI RAM OM SAI RAM OM SAI RAM OM SAI RAM OM SAI RAM OM SAI RAM OM SAI RAM OM SAI RAM OM SAI RAM OM SAI RAM OM SAI RAM OM SAI RAM OM SAI RAM OM SAI RAM OM SAI RAM OM SAI RAM OM SAI RAM OM SAI RAM
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om sai ram,
dear rahinancy, apko pura vishwas hai ki wo apse sacha pyar karte hain kyunki pyar mein koi bi itna tadapte hue nai dekh sakta ek dusre ko. aur app to kitna pray kar ri hain...unko nai dikhta ye sab kya?????
pyar karna mushkil baat ni hai lekin usko nibhana bahut mushkil hota hai aur iske liye dono ko ek dusre ka sath dena padta hai..lekin apki case mein to app hi sirf koshish kar ri hain aur wo itna bi pain ni le re hai ki wo apko samjhe...aur maaf kar dein......
baki main sai baba se pray karungi ki apko sahee rasta jald se jald dikhaye wo.
om shri sai nathay namah.....
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mujhe bhi thoda ajeeb lag raha hai ki ek phone ki wajeh se relationship todne ka kya matlab hai....okay thoda sa gussa karna shayad okay hai, kyon ki aapne phone waali baat chuppai....but is wajeh se 3 years ka relationship tod dena....??? i just can't get that...
if his love is true...he will definitely come back...
om sai ram shree sai ram
om sai ram shree sai ram
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mein janti hun woh pyar karte hai issliye baba se keh rae hun ke woh bhatak gae hai unhe sai rah dikhae plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz ap sab ka dil se thank u ab sab prayer kariyen mein baba se wada kart hun jis din sab thek hoga us din baba ko nai dress aur flowers gift karungi...love u baba plzzzzzzzz help me
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dear rani
om sai ram
BABA ko nai dress aur flowers ka promise kar dia per baba ke un bandon k kuchh nahi dogi jo gareeb he jinke paas sufficient kapre nahi he khane ko roti nahi he. please also promise to donate something to poor. BABA bless u soon.we all pray for you
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Nancy,
Ganeshji, Smg and Sai ka karan ji are right. I have a feeling theres something fishy. Sometimes one may just get the wrong set of people around who could poison one against a loved one. Sometimes its just over-possessiveness or an anger problem (which if it is BLINK BLINK BLINK... its a very strong signal from Baba...) Sometimes its just immature behaviour where one starts enjoying the attention one gets when the opposite person is willing to fall to his or her feet.
Whatever it is... I feel, if as you believe and he genuinely loves you... if you leave him alone and stop pampering his false anger and ego he'll come back to you having forgiven you gracefully and forgotten the topic forever. In this case theres no problem.
And if he doesn't my friend... either theres something fishy... (you should find out what exactly) OR my friend.... he doesnt deserve you.
Sometimes we all love people who we know deep within do not deserve us. Its not about one or two mistakes in a relationship Nancy. The world is not a perfect place. People make mistakes in relationships... BLUNDERS! We all do. And is perfectly all right so long as we forgive and forget each others mistakes, learn from ours and work towards tomorrow.
I'm not saying one person can keep making mistakes and hurting the other. But if both have made mistakes, one should be willing to forgive and forget situations and events in life. If one expects forgiveness he / she should also be willing to give the same.
And if his anger, doubt or ego is too big to surrender to LOVE... too bad for him girl. Too bad... too bad for him as a person living in an imperfect society and too bad for his soul. I do not intend to be harsh or point fingers at anyone out here my friend. Please dont get me wrong. I do not even know him and the real situation. So am nobody to comment. But claiming to love and saying things emotionally is different from being there with your love. And if one cant be there, theres no point of all the "love uzzzz"
Where there is love we do not let anger or ego take over. Love automatically takes over. I don't know what it is tht makes him doubt you my friend or feel insecure or angry. Cause I do not know much about your relationship and what happened / did not happen before that makes him think like that. Nor do I know about him as a person... about his anger / ego / nature etc. So wont comment on him or the relationship or u as a person.
But all I can say is - Give him time and do not pamper his ego and anger. If he genuinely loves you he WILL n HAS TO COME BACK. Else... U DESERVE BETTER IN LIFE.
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thank u so much my friend...ill do tht ill donate to needy people promise....and U ALL WILL BE SHOCK TO KNW THT AJ BABA NE MUJHE DARSHAN DIYE.....THNK U BABA N RAHI NE BHI KAHA I LOVE U I M THINIKIN GIVE ME SME TYM..UR PRAYERS R WORKING BUS BABA KE ASHIRWAD SE SAB THEK HOJAE....OM SAI RAM OM SAI RAM OM SAI RAM OM SAI RAM
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DEAR NANCY, MAY SAI BLESS YOU WITH HAPPINESS AND BRING YOU AND RAHI TOGETHER. OM SAIRAM, JAI SAIRAM, JAI JAI SAIRAM.
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hmmm i wish tht too....par sab kehte hai itni diffrences agae hai sab normal kese hoga mujhe kuch samjh nai araha ab woh phir mukar gaye hai......plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz baba help me i relly luv him
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baba kitni pariksha lete hai plzz tell me...baba agr aj hum ek sath hotein toh humein 3 sall 2 months hote plzzzzz baba rahi ho bhejdo wapis
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NANCY... just one word... PATIENCE!
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NANCY JI, PRAY AS USUAL AND PLEASE KEEP FAITH ALSO HAVE SOME PATIENCE. IF YOU LOVE HIM ,
GIVE HIM SOME TIME, IF HE COMES BACK HE IS YOURS , IF HE DOESNT HE NEVER WAS !. GOD BLESS.
OM SAIRAM, JAI SAIRAM, JAI JAI SAIRAM.
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Nancy ji,
you know what ganesh ji is here ask him how desperate i was when i joined this forum, may be even said bad words about everyone, thought so much of doing so many things to get through to her and her family, but then i realised one thing, that if she really loves me she will come back and i am just waiting, if he has to be yours no one can ever stop it happening, I will tell you a real life incident, a friend of mine met a girl for marirage, they could not even though it was arranged, 2 years later, they met again at a party and just clicked and got married in a month's time, so keep patience, if he is destined for you no matter what happens he will come back and you know what, one more thing he should know how to forgive, you are so close to him if he is not able to forgive you then its not nice on his part.
Dont worry, just pray and keep patience.
Om sai ram
Shri sai ram
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hmmmm...bt living widout him is just like body widout soul i relly beg to baba to give my breath back will wait as long as i can .............relly love him and miss him alot.......thnk u ganesh ji and rajiv ji...........but plzzz aap log bhi mere sath prayer karte rahhiye ga,.,
om sai ram om sai ram om sai ram
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Nancyji, please give him time. If he truely loves you am sure it would be the same for him. Have faith in God, yourself and your love. Am sure this is no reason to be upset for a long time. Once he calms down, he'll come back himself. Stop giving it too much attension and calling or messaging him. He'll soon realize the truth in your words and come back.
We are all praying for everyone out here. Be assured, loads of ppl praying for you. Be happy and stay happy... Always...
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thank u very much...his parents are also wid him now they think tht i m wrong...i accepted tht i did mistake bt my love was true for him........alwys ab baba hee sari kadwahat dur kar sakte hai ................my all hopes r on baba.......
om sai ram om sai ram
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Keep the faith strong
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nancy ji, if he truly loves you atleast half of how much you love him, he would have forgiven you and this matter would have been closed long time ago. aag mein tel daalne wale to bahut hotein hain. lekin rahi ko bhi
apna decision lena chahiye . woh bachche to nahi hain . yahan to bas aap rozana roti hain unke pyaar mein aur apni health kaharaab kar rahin hai. nancy ji, thodi si duniya meine bhi dekhi hai , aapne apne taraf se sab kuch kiya hai , phir bhi wo maan nahin rahe ? sif "i love you" kahna bahut aasan hai. isse kaam to nahin na banta. aap thoda apna dhyaan kisi aur acitvity mein lagane ki koshish kijiye, zindagi kisikeliye nahin rukhti, agar aap sab kuch chod ke rahi ka hi naam japte rahegi aur wo aapki pukar nahin sunte
to wo to majhe se jeeyenge aur aap apne zindagi ke sone jaise din kho jayengi. please listen to me
and for a little while let this topic rest. uske baad sai will decide if he is yours or not. hum sab chaahte hain
ki aapka rahi aapko mil jaaye par unko bhi to sochna chahiye na ? zabardasti pyaar nahin kiya jaata .
agar itnisi chotisi baat ke liye unhone aapke saath rishta toda , woh bhi 3 saal ka , to aap sochiye , aapko khud hi uska answer mil jayega. god bless. om sairam, jai sairam, jai jai sairam.
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Nancy, if you dont mind...may I know your age? Its ok if you dont wish to share.
Par itna keh sakti hoon.
Ye life me ek bohot choti si baat hai nancyji. Jo insaan aapka saath itni choti si baat me nahi de sakta, jise aap pe bharosa nahi... kya aapko yakeen hai vo zindagi bhar aapka saath dega??? Life ki badi mushkilon me bhi... without doubting you or bringing the past back.
I am no one to comment. Not even experienced. Par itna keh sakti hoon... jo insaan aapko shaadi ke pehele nahi trust karsakta, vo shaadi ke baad... doubtful buddy... ye main sirf apne personal experience se keh rahi hoon. Though its my strong gut feel that if you stop giving attention to this behaviour and these tantrums of his, he'll come back to you. Ye meri gut feel hai. Rest is upto you.
We all wish you get back your love...and everyone of us out here get back our love. Just that we hope he truely loves you and wish he stands by you in the worst phases of life... not to just stand and say - I love you... but to hold you and tell you... dont worry, am there to hold you, with you through all this and much more in life!
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hmm ap sab sahi ho..meine bhi office join kiya hai meri intership ke liye.....so tht i b busy,,,,i m 20 yr old...bt i relly miss him evn he;s immature he's 22 but i rely love m n ill b patient and will wait for my love as baba know evrything..bcoz certain curcumstances and all society knows ki rishta hogya hai .... i cant live without him....only prayers can help thank u evryone may sai bless u all..il do ignore the situation now so tht he miss me n cme bck....thnk u ganesh ji,,,shayd app logo ke sath ki vajah se mein btr feel karti hun..kyu ki yaha sai ke ghar mein mein sab battein share kar sakti hun....i know sai will help me..love u baba...plz return my love.....om sai shri sai jai jai sai...om sai ram om sai ram om sai ram om sai ram
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DEAR NANCY, YOU ARE A KID NOW , HE IS ALSO. YOU HAVE YOUR WHOLE LIFE IN FRONT OF YOU, ENJOY IT WHILE YOU CAN . AS YOU GROW OLDER YOU WILL REGRET THESE TIMES IF YOU MISS THEM. THERE IS AMPLE TIME TO GET MARRIED AND SETTLE DOWN. HAVE PATIENCE AND ENJOY LIFE.MAY SAI BLESS YOU WITH ALL GOOD THINGS IN LIFE. OM SAIRAM, JAI SAIRAM, JAI JAI SAIRAM.
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i know u r rite .....but again my old repeated line...om sai ram om sai ram....i want my love back ........plzzzz baba dedo...............
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dear rahinancy,
main apke liye itna hi kehna chati hun ki baba apki jald se jald sune....apko unse mila de taki app bahut sari aur achi achi cheezo par dhyan de sake :-) abi to app bahut chote ho, abi to apki studies bi hongi, job bi aur bahut kuch...isliye baba ji plz apk iski madad karo...
om sai ram
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plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz baba give my love bck...ap apne bacho ko kabhi nai rulate kyu baba ...kyu.....mujhe maaf kardo mera pyar dedo
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:-) Nancy... may God bless you with all thats best for u...
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baba mujhe kuch samjh nai araha hai.....situation bigad gai hai........rahi mujhe bhul gaye par mere sath jo un hone kiya aap sab jante ho....mein kisi aur ko nai apna sakti......galtiya meine bhi ki hai...ek samay tha jab meine unhe maaf kiya tha ..............aj mujhe kyu nai maafi mil rai.....apko pata hai sabse badi galti humne 22 mrch ko ki thi.......woh toh bhul gae aur apni family ko bhi mana kardiya........par mein kese bhulu.....baba plzzzzzzzzzzz forgivr my sins and give my love bck ..plzzzzzzzzzzz rahi ko wapis bhej do baba i m begging u ....roz apke paer chuke roti hun mandir mein...........ya ek aur cheez jo apke hath mein hai...mujhe maut dedo baba......rahi dedo ya maut dedo.baba soch soch ke mein mar rai hun baba.............maut dedo i m a shame to my family.......plzzz baba maut dedo.............ya mera pyar lotado apna chamtkar dikhado...manna ki mein apki nai bhakt hun par madad karo baba mein puree sache dil se apko yaad kar rooo rai hun.....maut ya rahi apna chamtkar dikhao baba........apko meri kasam apke bhakt kee kasam hai baba mera pyar lotado..
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Nancy... one thing - Faith!
Second thing - Aapne unhe maaf kiya, ye aapki acchayi thi. Zaroori nahi ki har insaan aapke jitna hi accha ho, aur uski bhi mental, emotional aur spiritual growth aapke jitni hi hui ho. I understand we always wish for goodness in return for goodness. Aur vo goodness humein milti bhi hai. But not necessarily from the same person that we've given to.
Fortunately or unfortunately this is a fact of life -
EVERY PERSON WHO ENTERS OUR LIFE, EITHER ENTERS FOR :
A REASON : Hume kuch sikhane ke liye, ya to give us strength or to lead us to something God has planned for us. Once this reason or work gets accomplished... the person may just separate from us in any expected or unexpected way. Jaise kabhi kabhi strangers bhi kisi ki life baccha lete hain ya usme koi turning point la dete hain aur phir kaam ho jane par us insaan ki life se completely nikal jate hain. Haven't you ever noticed? Sometimes some people make so much of a difference in our lifes and one day just vanish?
A SEASON : For a particular limited phase of life... jitne humari unke saath karmic dues baaki ho, ya at a particular period of time when we need that particular person or soul for further growth or lessons or tests in life. Once this season or phase is over and the path is cleared and our soul prepared for a new journey... agar unki vahi journey nahi hoti jo aapke liye destined hai, these too would end up parting ways the same way as soon as the time for being together is over.
A LIFETIME : Ye vo log hain jo aap chahe kuch bhi karo, humesha humare saath jude rahenge. Always... whether you like them or not. Whether they treat us well or not, whether we wish they stay with us or not. N no matter how much we wish it were someone else in their place, they are the ones assigned to us for life and for life they will stay. Isme hum aur aap kuch nahi kar sakte. Sometimes we get really wonderful people who love so much, care so much and help us grow. Sometimes we get people who can even torture us or make our life difficult. We donno what or whom we get for how long. And unfortunately whether we like it or not this is a fact we all need to accept as a bitter medicine and a life lesson.
Now whether we accept this postively with an open mind or with grief is upto us. Sometimes acceptance in itself is the biggest challenge... jise hum sabhi face kar rahe hain... But Nancy, my friend... faith and trust in God ka matlab yahi hota hai, ki hum is challenge se cope karne ki try karen...with the help of ALL THOSE WHO OFFER HELP, ALL THOSE WHO SUPPORT US.
Sabki help lo Nancy... everyone out here... Ganeshji, RRji, Manmeetji, Aquafish, Bhavna, Rajiv, Saibji, Sai Netraji... everyone... every single person you can think of... including all those I may have missed out and all those you know. BUT...
DONT GIVE UP ON LIFE. DONT STOP LIVING. DONT STOP WANTING TO LIVE.
Aapko lagta hai aapne koi galati kari hai...
1. God forgives all sins. Manmeetji, RRji, Ganeshji, Saibji, Aquafish, Bhavna... everyone will agree and give you more inputs on that and how to gain forgiveness from God. And how important it is to forgive oneself first. Am sure they will be able to explain that much better.
2. Agar aap apne aapko maaf nahi kar pa rahe ho, to death ke liye wish karke aapko kya milega? Death se aapki guilt ya greif to door nahi ho sakti na? Nor can it balance your karma? We all have limited time to do good deeds. Us limited time ko bhi hum already kitna waste karte hain, then as humans we sin also... Agar jo time aapko good deeds karne ko mila hai God se, aap us limited time ko bhi waste karoge to how will you be closer to God?
Nancy, you're 20. You have a long time to go. And see, God has made you realize so many things and put you amongst so many spiritually mature and helpful ppl at such a young age. Ye coincidence nahi hai Nancy. Open your eyes and see where you are. Aap yahan kisi purpose ke liye aaye ho. You and me dont know what it is. And I dont know what will happen next in your life - whether your guy is in your life for a lifetime or whether it was for a reason or a season. For that matter we don know that until we loose touch completely form the person. Kabhi kabhi we do realize, but later. Not now.
Whatever it is you will realize in sometime. So patience.
For now, focus on good deeds. Negative thoughts ko bahar nikalo. We are all humans. We all make mistakes. And there is forgiveness where there is repentance. And Manmeetji, RRji, Ganeshji and Saibji will give you many more valuable inputs on how you can ask for forgiveness from God.
Nancy, all summed up in two words... TRUST GOD!
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om sai ram
dear well wisher tum hi hum sab ke liye bahoot bari inspiration ho. me kaya hu tumhare saame.
dear nancy
nancy my dear tum abhi bahooot choti ho, jab thori bari ho jaogi to tumhe ehaas hoga ki tum kaya karti thi, khud pe hasi aayegi tumhe. tumhari age me esa hi hota he.
please trust me
agar rahi tumhara he to woh zaroor wapis aayega.
sai pe sab kuchh chhor do, wohi tumhara bhala bura jante he
ek baat kahoo, surrender yourself fully to sai baba. kuchh mat socho rahi rahi japna chhor ke sai sai japna shuru karo.
you will find positive results.
rahi rahi chhor ke
sai sai bol.
beta nancy hum sab tumhara bhala chahte he. woh zaroor vapis aayega agar sai use tumhare liye achha samjhenge. sai humse ziada hamare achhe ke baare me sochte he. please trust.
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Wellwisher...aapne sab bol diya...but i have a personal experience which i will share with Nancy.
Nancy,
I will tell u something....I am in a relationship from the past 6 years...I am 25 now...I used to be away from him for 3 years due to my work and studies etc etc...we used to meet every 3 months...I had a friend who used to be very clsoe to me...I used to share everything with him, relationship problems etc etc...my bf came to know this and confronted me abt it..and I denied it coz I knew he wud be mad and things wud get worse...but u know what...he trusted me and accepted my answer...but how long cud i stay like that knowing i lied to him...so i told him the truth...He was glad I came out witrh it but he was also angry coz i lied to him..he felt that i gave tat guy more importance than to my bf even though all i talked to tat guy was how wonderful my bf is...
It tuk my bf 2 months to talk to me...I went thru hell....But even after my bf came back and everything was fine...my guilt (my lack of forgiving myself) didnt make our realtionship better because eveyrtime we had a fight or argument, i wud bring up tat incident and made things worse...not he but me...so then we had a huge talk and I started the process of forgiving myself...u know its ahrder to forgive ourselves than others forgiving us..its our guilt or lack of forgiving oneself tat makes it worse...so move ahead,,,stop blaming ur self and forgive urself...and trust me tats more than anyone forgiving u..
as for baba...nancy ur best friend forever is Baba..He is the ultimate friend u can have...he is ur soulmate and every one else comes next even ur parents..so when u appreciate urself, u will find baba with u....share with him...as bhavna my friend here always tells me..talk to baba, confess in him...tell him u want this and patiently wait for it and u will get results..
so...u lied, u did something wrong..but the minute u regret and u confess and mean u r sorry then ur part is done and now its Rahi's turn to frogive and forget and coem back to u...and trust me if he understands u and loves u he will come back...nothing and no one can stop tat train of thought except himself...
Give him time and space and have some saburi...
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mein ap sab ki baat manti hun....aur ap sabki respect karti hun....thank u very much for helpin plzzzzzzzzzzzz baba se app bhi mere sath prayyer kijey mein din din mar rai hun rahi ke liya par unhe koi pharak nai padta.......plzzzz i relly love him baba plzzz rahi dedo om sai ram
om sai ram om sai ram om sai ram om sai ram om sai ram om sai ram om sai ram
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Nancy,
Keep praying...I am here for u ..we all are..U r in my prayers hon!!! Dont worry..please keep praying but dont get panicky and call him or something..time do...bas...here is a big hug...please giv it time sweets..it takes time!!!please hang in there but ont lose out on life!!!
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Manmeetji, we all inspire and support each other at difficult times. None is perfect, none is wise. We are all inter-dependant. There is so much to learn from all of you... :) Thats why Baba got me here. To learn and be with all you inspiring ppl.
Nancy, Manmeetji and Aquafish are right. We wish the best for you. Prayers sabhi kar rahe hain, be assured. We are all here so that we can pray for each other and ourselves. Jo sirf God ke control me hai use God pe chod do. Aur jo aapke control me hai, take charge of that and work on it. :) All the best!
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dear nancy, the number of times you wrote , baba mujhe rahi de do here , you could have written a book and who knows maybe become another j.k.rowling :)
i have said all i wanted to say in this topic numerous times. now its time you start thinking .... god bless. om sairam.
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Om Sai Nath!
Aapne galat kiya chupa kar khuch bhi ...jis se saccha pyaar karte hain us se khuch chupate nahi...main jaanti hoon ki is samay aapka dukh bahut bada hai aapke liye...par vishwas kijiye is baat ko agar aaj samjh liya to aage fir aapko apne pyaar ko khone ka derr aur gum dono hi nahi honge...sacche dil se mafi mangiye unse kyonki pyaar bhi bhagwaan ka ek roop hota hai...aapne aisa karke kahin na kahin bhagwan ko bhi dukh diya hai....main aapke liye pray karoongi ki aapko aapka pyaar wapas mil jaye aur fir kabhi aisa na ho.
Om Sai Nath!
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thank u evry one..ganesh ji ....i forgot one point..wen rahi hurted me ma dad was hurt n angry so unhone uski mummy ko kai baatein kahu..ke unki beti nai hai isliye unhe beti ka dard nai malum...kahin na kahin yeh baat uski mummy ko hurt hogai.....one mre mistake is tht i tried to commit sucide tht tym...wen his mother came to c me...my dad was angry n he was scolding my mom..his mother felt bad and left d hospital cryin....i understand jab kisi ki maa roti hai toh dukh hota hai...par mere maa baap ko bhi rahi ki inn baton se dukh pahuncha tha...par meine apni galti mani par unlogo ne mere charachter pe point kiya sarra past uthaya...jab ki rahi se meine apne past ke baree mein sab kuch batarakha hai aur unhone mujhe, meine toh haar baar unhe maaf kiya hai, par ab woh apni ego mein aur bilkul stiff hokee kehte hai ki ur mistake n my mom cried isliye mein tujhe kabhi nai apnaunga ill nt cme bck...par humare bech ke kuch esee rishtey ko mein nai bhul sakti i love him............i said sorry hundereds of tym...phir pehle jab unhone galti ki thi baba ne mujhse maafi kyu unhe maaf karaya tha.......plzzzzzzzzzzz baba rahi ki ego ko kill kardo aap toh sab ego marte hoo...mein apse bhekh mangti hun ki aap mujhe maaf kardo aur mera pyar lotado sab kuuch thek kardo....shayad mein kisi ko kuch batein nai bata sakti par ap toh sab jante hooo....plz meri izzat bachalo baba mujhe maaf kar mera rishta bachalo.........om sai ram om sai ram om sai ram om sai ram
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Hi Nancy.I can see that you love your husband a lot and there are some misunderstanding going between you.Please sit with him and his parents.Talk to them about what happened and accept your mistake in front of them and feel sorry.Every sensible person would be ready to forgive his or her partner.Shaadi mein ladai jhagde hote rehte hain.Aap unhe aaram se samjhao ki galti ho gayi and pichli baatein lekar bethne se kisi ka bhala ni hoga.
But remember one thing.Jitna is relationship se aapko farak padta hai utna hi aapke husband ko padta hai.Marriage is a mutual relationship.Accept your mistake and apologize but with self respect and dignity.
Ye aapki shaadi hai koi mazak ni hai ki kisi baat ko lekar toot jaye.bahut time ho gaya aapko ye bolte ki meri madad karo and rahi mujhe aacept kar le.Take a stand.Talk to him. If he is ready to listen then its fine else give him and yourself couple of days to think peacefully what you want from your lives.
ye roz roz ka natak khatam karo.Ek baar dhange se baat karo and uske baad use time do vapis aane ke liye.
Shaadi usne bhi ki hai aapne akele nahi ki.galtiyan sabse hoti hain.Agar vo banda abhi aapki kadar nahi kar raha and aapko lagta hai ki aap uske pairon mein girkar kisi tarah is baar mana lengi to sab theek ho jayega to aisa kuch nahi hone vala.
Araam se baat kariye unse and phir time dijiye use sochne ka ki vo kya kar raha hai.
Hope you understand what i want to say to you.
Om sai ram
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WELL SAID ANKURJI, BUT I AM NOT SURE THEY ARE MARRIED .... OM SAIRAM
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DEAR NANCY JI, MY SUGGESTION TO YOU WILL BE TO MEET HIS PARENTS AND APOLOGIZE TO THEM. AND THEN SIT AND TALK TO HIM. TRUST ME THIS SHOULD BE ENOUGH TO SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS. MAY SAI HELP YOU IN THIS ENDEAVOUR. OM SAIRAM, JAI SAIRAM, JAI JAI SAIRAM.
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Ganeshji is right. If its his parents who are hurt, please gather the guts to meet them, own up your mistake...whatever it may be, stay humble, appologize and work on building trust again. And go with a mind set that whether you ever get together or not 'maafi dil se ek baar unke parents se toh mangni hi hai'.
Do not go with the hope and expectation that you go say sorry and they will instantly forgive. They may react negatively initially out of anger and grief... thats usually the first reaction someone gives. But eventually when they think of it, they will calm down or at least feel better. If they do come around, thats great. If not, at least you did your part by genuinely appologizing. Do your part and leave the rest to God... like most of us out here have done.
All the best :)
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ankur ji...i m not married to him...3 yrs pehle humara rishta hua tha...and koi public ceremony bhi nai hui.....and i apologized to evry1 his parents n rahi bt unki mom ne bhi mujhse bahot rudely baat ki n rahi toh bother hee nai karte ki i m dead or alive...........bus kuch samasya ese hai ki ladko koi pharak nai padta bt excetions r der, bt ladki ki lyyf kharab ho jati hai....illl wait whole lyf coz due to sme circumstances i cnt even think of marrying ne 1........plzz baba ap hee help karo hum sab apse prayer kar rae hai...aj meine sai satcharita bhi finish kari hhai plzzz baba madad......i love him unka mind wash kardiya kissi ne aur ab woh iss tarah naraz hai ki meri shakal bhi nai dekhna chahte, unke parents ne bhi hath khade kardiye hai now i m just waitin for baba's chamatkar........
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DEAR NANCY, unko aapka koi khayal nahi hai. aap kehti hai aur mein maanta hoon ki aapne apni taraf se sab kuch kiya hai. meri baat maniye , thode din aap unse koi contact mat rakhiye. haalat mein koi sudhaar to nahi hogi lekin aap in dino mein sochengi ki aap kya sahi raste par ja rahi hai ? aur iska uttar apko zaroor milega . sai denge aapko iska uttar. jo aapne kiya hai , mein nahin poori duniya kehti hai ki koi badi baat nahin. mujhe to aisa lagta hai ki rahi ko aise ya vaise aapko chhodna tha , bas yeh ek mauka mil gaya . arre pyaar mein yeh bhi koi reason hai rishta todneka ?. aur aap hai ki unke liye apni zindagi barbaad karne par tuli hui hai. nancy aapke saamne apni poori zindagi padi hai , yeh aapke zindagi ka ant nahin hai. pls apni aankhen kholiye aur sach ko dekhiye aur phir sochiye ki aapko kya karna hai. pyaar aadmi ko andha bana deta hai. lekin agar koi bol raha hai aapko ki dekho aage khadda hai , phirbi aap uspar koodna chahti hai , to sai hi bachaye aapko. om sairam, jai sairam, jai jai sairam.
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Nancy... Ganeshji is right. I understand ur circumstances. I know its difficult. Sounds and feels like impossible. But its HAPPENED. Ho chuka hai... whatever had to happen. Accept it.
NOW WHAT?
I don't know what your concept of love is. But will tell you my concept & a general concept of love. When you love someone truely... it gives you the power to accept the opposite person WITH EVERY FLAW, DESPITE EVERY MISTAKE. Love in itself IS THE POWER TO FORGIVE!
Where one cannot respect, forgive and stand by you... its not love buddy. Agreed you truly love him and have the power to forgive. But I dont think its the same with him.
And the mistake you are talking about... trust me the one who genuinely loves you with accept you even with a million mistakes of the past. You're a nice person. You do not deserve a man who doesnt love you, who doesnt care.
MOVE AHEAD IN LIFE. START AFRESH!
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Start a fresh new life Nancy... without him. If he's truly meant for you, he'll come around. If not... you still have a fresh new life.
A woman doesnt come with an "I am supposed to be perfect" label. Everyone makes mistakes. We're human, not God. And those who love forgive. God forgives. And God doesn't prioritise between men and women. Its our society that does that. You decide whats more important to you... being forgiven in Gods eyes and putting to use the precious life He has gifted you with for His purpose... or just wasting time hoping for immature and indifferent ppl to forgive you.
Get out of the guilt trap Nancy... and move ahead! Not saying move on... but at least move ahead in life. Tell yourself... with or without Rahi... I'm perfect, I'm loved, I'm fine and everythings fine in my life... cause Gods with me.
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dear nancy,
AUR BHI GUM HE ZAMANE ME MOHABAT KE SIVA,
please nancy well wisher and ganeshji are right. tumne itna bara paap nahi kia he ki tumhe koi maaf na kar sake, tumhare liye bab ne bahoot achh future banya he, agar rahi se tumhari shaadi ho jati aur baad me woh tumhari kisi galti ke liye tumhe maaf nahi karta to fir kaya hota, isliye tumhare liye yahee achha he use bhool kar nahi zindgi ki shuruaat karo, tumhare saamne bahoot sunder zindgi tumhare liye bahe felye khari he. bas tum use dekh nahi pa rahi ho.
tum bahoot payari ho baar baar mafi mang kar apne aap ko girao mat tumne bahoot maafi mang le.
GOD BLESS YOU MY DEAR.
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baba mujhe maar do....mein duniya ki taunts toh sunlungi...jab apni mumy taunt marengi tab kya karu...........plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz maadad
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dear nancy ji, mujhe ehsaas hai ki aap kis haalaton se guzarti hongi. aur aapka man kitna tadap raha hoga. lekin yeh hai wo samay jab aapko , thoda thoda karke apne man ko manana hai ki log kuch bhi bole, aap usko ignore kijiye. jaise unhone kuch bola hi nahin ho. kuch samay mai hi logon ka mooh apne aap chup ho jaayega. log tab tak taana dete hai jab tak saamnewala koi unko sune ya jawab de. jab koi sunhe hi nahi aur jawab bhi na de to unko usme koi maza nahin aata aur wo doosre kisi baat ke peeche chale jayenge. baba aapke man ko shaanti de aur is kathinayiso se bhare samay ko kaatneki shakti de. om sairam, jai sairam, jai jai sairam.
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dear nancy mummy kabhi apne bacho ko taunt nahi marti, woh bhi aapko samjhana chahti he please nancy itne log tumhe samjha rahe he,
tum samjho sai baba ke forum pe sai baba ki aawaz ko pehchano. itne logo ke through wohi tumhe samjha rahe he
take care
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thnk u evry1 ...i knw ap sab mujhe sahi samjha rae hai...i m tryin to become strong par har bar kuch esa hota hai ki mein tut jati hun..... mein bus baba se yehi kehna chahti hun...agar woh mera imtihaan le rahe hai toh mein dungi....par unhe khud mera rahi mujhe wapis dena hoga i trust him n i trust my love...baba apne bhakt ka vishwas nai todenge...mein yeh janti hun purre dil se unki puja karungi roz mandir jarai hun aur jaungi dekhti hun baba kab meri khushi mera pyar wapis denge......baba om sai ram om sai ram ...mujhe apke chamatkar ka intazar rahe ga..il only marry rahi as according to me i was his wife....baba ap sab jante hai om sai ram, love u baba and thank u evry1 plzz b wid me n pray wid me tc
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DEAR RANI
OM SAI RAM
MAY SAI BLESS YOU WITH ALL HAPPINESS IN LIFE
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may sai bless u nancyji
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Nancy... Just realize... Its difficult, its tough, its painful...
But Gods put you through this to gain the strength and courage to sail through this. We are all with you. Make that de oncision and tell yourself... you're not going to let selfish, immature and insensitive ppl and comments affect you and your family negatively.
Make a choice to rise above this and become so strong internally that no one can ever hurt you to this extent. Thats being a wonner... N God will always be with you if you take the first step.
Respect yourself first Nancy. If you dont respect yourself, the world wont.
We're not born to be perfect. Everyone sins. Everyone makes mistakes and every one is imperfect. Its ok to be that way. Its normal and God understands that.
Be kind to yourself Nancy. Whatever happened, its ok. Its past. Cannot be changed. But now, theres a new life ahead... a whole new life waiting for you... with new people, with new experiences... and a wiser you. And even in this new life you're going to meet loads of loving, caring, compassionate people... who are going to be nice to you. Once you take the first step, you'll realize its not that bad. The universe will support you in every way. You can only work on whats in your control. Getting him back is not. But working on a new life is. Start working on a better you. When he sees you happy and successful... maybe he'll realize what he's missed in life. And maybe he'll come back.
If you keep sulking... he'll never miss you. It will only give rise to pity. And pity is not love!
Its sad but true, people always want to be around confident, positive, happy and successful people. You keep sulking... he may sympathize with you. But that can never transform into love and desire to be with someone. Make yourself so good by working on yourself... that one day when he wakes up he realizes that he cant even dare to dream of having you. Thats what will make him realize what he's lost. Not sulking.
SULKING AND WAITING WILL NEVER GET HIM BACK NANCY! WORKING ON YOURSELF AND STAYING HAPPY MIGHT. AND WHEN YOU'RE THAT MUCH BETTER PERSON NANCY... FOR ALL YOU KNOW YOU MAY NOT EVEN NEED HIM.
Yesterday was good...
Today is better...
& Tomorrow will be even better...
We just don see it. Have faith! God Bless you with loads of happiness and TRUE LOVE!
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well-wisher ji ....ur just an mazing person ....may god bless u...u think person situation so correctly and their state of mind so accurately and then advice ...u are soooooooooooooo good ... may baba keep u like this forever
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Thank you Saisanji. I'm gratified. I don't advise. Just share what comes to my heart. Going through a similar situation myself. :) Trying to sort my own life and in the process share whatever little I do. God Bless you all for helping me through this phase. Its this forum that has helped me heal. Only Baba and all you beautiful people out here. Thank you so much...
Nancy, little miracles do happen all the time. This forum is one such miracle for me. And I hope it turns out to be the same for you too... Trust me we're all with you in this new beginning. God bless you...
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ya well-wisher ....atleast ur taking such pain to understand others problems and trying to convince them.its good
when your in pain what we need the most is some one to listen and hear healing words.though baba is the doer for everything.we are bound here through the beautiful thread called "Baba".and people hear give uncondtional love and even i have recieved the same..
I know person who has gone thru all this will only will know its pain and how the situation will be.don't worry just give ur problem to baba and surrender and just wait ...for him to give you ..what is the best for u. let him decide ...whom to give you ..it may be even ur guy or some one worth.... until bad karmas are vanished baba can't help it...so just pray and hold his feet.don't think about the problem..when ever u feel depressed just chant more vigoursily his holy name "Sai"
baba bless your kids with love and happiness and beautiful life..
om sai ram
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:) Thank you Saisanji... will do that surely. The last line you wrote is too cute... aprreciate your concerns... :) but I'm only 25 and not married yet. But will surely save your blessings for the right time later. Thank you...
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thank u... well wisher...i understood n i promise evry1 i will n i m trying to change my self..i knw its 3 yrs long period but i m working on it...but really a very big thanks to all the good souls here u, saisan ji,ganesh ji, manmeet ji , rajeev ji,,, n evry one who helped..its just wen my heart feels full n choked i cme in this forum n burst out...as i dnt hve any 1 to share except baba....coz i made a mistake but also regreted it and felt sorry from my heart.....now its on baba....i believe agar tumhara pyar sacha hai toh wapis ayega... i will live my life perform my duties...n will think positive tht rahi ayenge....and ii knw may be mere past karma ki vajah se yeh ho raha hai..n baba is waiting ke yeh tym khatam ho aur woh phirse mere pyar se meri jholi haari bharri karde...i relly respect trust n love baba....
once again thank u but keep in touch...
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hey well-wisher u have mistaken kids meant baba's kids ...i prayed baba that bless ur kids means we all his devotees:-)
same here even im not married.....waiting for his mercy
Rahinancy - remember one line "A leaf also can't move without his consent"
baba bless u soon
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thank u saisan ji...this line has made me strong wch is wrote in the end of ur message...
JAMANE MEIN KAHA TUTI HUI TASVEER BANTI HAI...TERE DWAR AKE TUTI HUI TAKDEER BANTI HAI, OM SAI RAM
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:) Nancy... God bless you with all the love... and true love. Am glad you promised to work on yourself. On bettering yourself in every avenue of life. And that includes building confidence and loving yourself. You cannot expect someone else to shower you with love and respect if you dont love yourself. So along with this also promise to do one thing daily to make yourself feel loved... anything to pamper yourself. Dress well, eat your fav stuff, go out with your friends, watch your fav movie... learn at least one thing new at any given point of time. Learning new stuff not only helps us become better, also makes us feel better.
And along with that - one good deed per day... as simple as talking sweetly to your parents or helping / smiling at a stranger, or visiting an old age home or talking to an old lady with no one to talk to in your society, helping someone cross the road, donating food...anything... :)
Itna roz karogi, you'll automatically feel better and rise above this. Trust me. God is watching you and is blessing you with the very best for you. Have faith and do your deed. And leave the rest to Sai Baba.
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Saisanji... thank you soooo much...
Sorry, misunderstood that statement. God bless you too with a very loving, caring and supportive partner - someone who truely loves, appreciates and respects you.
Om Sai Ram
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oki wellwisher ji...vese i do these things coz i love to help people...even i never leave my dadi maa alone as she cant walk.....om sai ram....baba sabka bhala karee......
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thanks well-wisher
ya even i like that line "jamane me ........
thanks for the wishes too ...may baba bless u soon with happiness and what u want
om sai ram
baba hamara sath kabhi nahin chodna........BE with us all the time and guide us
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:) thanks Nancy for showing this positive shift. God Bless you with all the happiness on earth! Ure a strong girl, I know that. Get a grip of your life and make Sai Baba proud of you. We are all with you... and Him too...
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hiii frnds....will keep this post active jab tak mera pyar nai lot ta....jese jese din badte ja rae hai....i m being strong but unke wapis aneki umeed bhi strong ho rai hai...
baba ki leela baba hee janne....
om sai ram..
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god bless you dear with all d happiness.....i wish you d best of everything...
om sai ram
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Nancy,
how r u? take care of urself..Dont lose faith in baba and in urself...regret is the biggest way to forgive oneself..Once u forgive urself, u dnt need anybody to do that...Trust in sai and move ahead...Just do ur part and leave the rest to Sai...take care ok...baba will guide u..
om sai ram
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Aqua, Bhavna, Nancy... Smgji... am back... Hows everyone been? I hope all good. Nancy, hope you keeping the spirits high and being our ideal inspiration!
:-) God bless...
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hiii...evry one i m fi9....just workin as a trainee in hindustan hindi.... and ab khush rehti hun aur baba par vishwas hai ki woh wapiis ayenge.......and mein khush rehti hun ...agar udas hoti hun toh baba ke sath roh leti hun....
om sai ram..
ap sab kesse hooo
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god bless u
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OM SAIRAM...
DEAR WELL-WISHER JI...
IT ALWAYS FEELS GUD WENEVR I READ UR POST IN ANY OF THE COLUMN...U R REALLY A GREAT HUMAN BEING...ALWAYS TEACH PPL TO STAY POSITIVE IN THE BEST OF WORDS...
SERIOUSLY SAYING...U R DOIN A COMMENDABE JOB...
IF U DNT MIND CAN I HAVE UR E-ID?
MAY SAI BLESS U LOADS..
OM SAIRAM
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please help me baba please,
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sai ram manmeet ji,,,,,may baba give u all the happiness of this world,,,but wats the matter wth u.......plz share here......
shri satchidanand sadguru sai nath maharaj ki jai........
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baba plz forgive me for my mistakes plzz help me out in my relation baba let it not break my life as become painfull baba plzz help me come to my rescue baba plzzz
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mujhe rotee ek mahina se zada hogya..baba ne kuch nai kiya..pata nai kaha kami thi meri puja mein...still mujhe vishwas hai ki mera pyar ayega
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Nancy,
Dont count the days..dont expect but pray to baba with full faith...and u will see miracles..
Bless u
Om sai ram
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Om Sai Shri Sai Jaya Jaya Sai
Finding true love is not so easy. But one can get it by walking on the path of trust, patience and truth. If you want him back in your life so keep praying to God and have some patience, I am sure very soon you will find him on your side. I am praying to Baba that all your wishes come true.
Sai Baba Aapki Madad karein.
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hii nancy i hope n pray that baba will send ur rahi back to u even im suffering from 2months with the same pain but have faith that baba vil bring back my love to me
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please even pray for my love to come back i have no other hope than sai baba
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dont worry...shayad humare past deeds ki vajah se hum suffer kar rae hai...par mujhe baba par pura vishwas hai..ki jese hee yeh bura samay jaega baba humara pyar wapis lotadenge....
till den keep praying..
om sai ram
om sai ram
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chweetujaanu,
Dont worry..just pray with a true heart and full faith...baba will help u...everything will be fine...Nancy dont worry abt past deeds..we have enough in the present to worry abt:)...just keep praying and stay strong...
Om sai ram
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:) Nancy... hope u doing good.
chweetujaanu... take care of urself
Om Sai Ram
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hii.. i m doing oki....miss rahi alot...and ap sab ki vajah se string hokar pray karti hun...thank u..how r u doin....
om sai ram
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muje apse kuch puchna tha...ki 8 may ko mein bahot roo kar aur baba ko yaad karte karte soi thi ki mera rahi wapis kardo... aur ek dam se ghabra kar uthi aur idhar udhar dekha toh baba ki parchai jatee hue dikhi..... iska kya matlab hua..........
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kya pyar bhulana itna mushkil hota hai ...aur jisse itna pyar karo woh pal mein bhul jata hai.......
om sai ram ans me baba jab apko thek lage luv u
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he will Nancy...just hang in there...
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aquafish,
i'm praying baba to forgive me for my pastdeeds and give back my love to me i hope baba is listening to my prayer and comes to my rescue.. i recently gained faith on baba before i never used to pray much to god may be baba is angry on me for it. baba i am sorry please forgive me give back my love baba.
om sai ram
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nancy ji i wish that baba will give back ur rahi to u as soon as possible takecare of urself.
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give oeace to everyone sai....we need u baba..
love u baba
shri satchidanand sadguru sai nath maharaj ki jai
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hi aqua fish...ap ko lagta hai ke rahi wapis ayenge?
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hi chweetu... thank i wish same for u....swety..dnt wry baba pe chod do...woh sab thek karenge.. i m in d same boat waitin for baba's miracle
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Nancy,
I am not god but everything happens for a reason..I have done my share of bad stuff in my life...I am not that a gud person...but all we can do is repent and surender to god but in the way not lose ourselves...live our life and move ahead...
agar Rahi aaya tho acha hai nancy..agar tumhare naseeb me koi aur likha hai jo tumhe chaahe (just the way u r) then it is good too..I am not saying accept ur fate and stop trying but just dont blindly obssess abt someone who doesnt want u..
agar usko tumse sacha pyar hai Nancy waapis aayega...is waqt nahi par kabhi na kabhi aayega..agar nahi hai tho , usne tum jaisi pyaari ladki ko khoya hai...tats all i can say hon!!
Stay strong and forgive urself first and dont expect anything...Saburi saburi...tats it...we cant do anything else na..kisiko zabardasti ek rishthe me nahi rak sakhthe hai na...
apna khayal rakhna Nancy...remember "I" comes first then eevryone else...take care of urself and have the faith...and things will fall into place...
Take care
Om sai ram
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nancy ji your rahi will come back to u baba will listen to our prayers if not today he will listen it tommorow baba is testing us if we keep firm faith in baba dont leave baba's legs or remembering baba he will surely one day send your rahi to u and your bharat to me.
take care
om sai ram
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Chweetu,
keep up the spirit..yes saburi is what we all need...dont worry..just have faith..
Om sai ram
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i'll keep faith and wait aqua ji but that fear isnt leaving me i fear that though i repented baba will show his anger in this relation of mine i am not able to come out of that fear..
om sai ram
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dnt worry chweetu ji apka bharat zarur ayega....
thank u aqua ji....
i m keepin patience ..rona ata hai toh baba se baat aur kabhi kabhi ladai bhi karleti hun... kal thursday hai na mein bhi ganesh ji ka sath dene ki koshish kar rai hun.. kal meine sirf liquids ka fast rakha hai..... taki sabk pyar wapis ajae aur mera rahi bhi....
dnt wry baba jaldi miracle karenge
om sai ram
om sai ram
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ur doing a gud deed nancy..dont worry..
Chweetu..darna mat..baba kisi pe gussa nahi hothe and definitely wont give us a bad lifeforver..baba all his children..just keep praying...
Om sai ram
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thanks alot all of you... i have only hope thatz baba hope he shows his divine power by blessing us with our loved ones...
i am starting a new post where we all shall pray baba to give back our loved ones to us...
om sai ram
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chweetujanuji... we already have one post under the japa section for this same purpose. Request everyone to go pray there with all their heart
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hii evryone i felt very nice by keeping fast... i prayed 4 evry 1 aj baba ka mandir meine hum sab ki taraf se 51 diyo se sajaya... needy and hungry ko methe chawal batein... aur sab ke liye manat mangi.... i have clicked pics kash ap sab ko dikha pati... aj mera vishwas atut hogya hai ki rahi zarur ayenge.. mein pure mann se puja ki...rahi ke dada ji bhi milee.... bus baba hum sab par apni kripa banaye..... om sai ram....
rahi will cme bck soon i trust u baba love u...
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tats nice to know Nancy...Have the faith
Om sai ram
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thanks nancy for praying for all of us...
hope baba listens to our prayers....
baba i am sorry for the mistakes i have done i want my bharat back baba if you dont listen who will listen to our grief baba plsss shower your grace on all of us baba plsss show ur divine power and give us what we are longing for baba plssssssssssssssss.......
om sai ram
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:-) God Bless you Nancy... with the very best... God willing, Rahi will come back soon.
Chweetuji... patience... thats all we need.
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situation is worsenin day by day well wisher ji i am breakin into pieces.. baba is not even showing me a way that increases my hope..
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How long has it been? One year ? Two years?
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my relation was 2years.. n it started becoming bad from 2months
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Two months is a very short time. If the person is upset with you, you need to give him time. The more you push it, the worse it will get. Just ignore him for a month or two. If he really loves you he will call. If he doesnt call even after 2 months... you've got the hint and the answer buddy!
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baba in sab bichhde dilo par daya karo......give them their love back plzzz.
shri satchidanand sadguru sai nath maharaj ki jai)))))))))))))))))))))
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hi chweetjanuji... dnt say thanks... sab theek hoga.. mera toh rishtay hogya tha... 3 saal... aur aj 2 months se zada hogya unse baat kare hue... but jab se mein yaha i hun sab ne meri bahot help ki .... ganesh ji well wisher ji qua fish ji.... mona ji... many.... one word patience mujhe dekyen mein kitni negitive thi... aj wait kar rai hun baba ke chamtakar ka....aur sabar.... dnt wry sab thek hoga... u can ask abt my situation frm well wisher ji.... but dnt wry sab thek hoga.. b positive
om sai ram
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Nancy,
Its ncie to see such change in u...u have become positive and trust me atleast u will be at peace with this..sab teek ho...never give up on faith and patience...Chweetu everything will be fine...baba hai na:)...sab acha karenge..whenever u feel low or want to vent out, just message in this forum and...everyone is here to support each other...keep having faith..
om sai ram
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hmmm hi aqua ji how are u? but dnt knw tdy feelin very bad missing rahi badly...... feel like cryin on top of my voice but i knw tht he will nt be able to hear it but baba sunenge....plzzz baba aj bahot yaad arahe hai.... mera pyar lotado baba....om sai ram om sai ram om sai ram
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baba plz bless nancy with her love......
shri satchidanand sadguru sai nath maharaj ki jai
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everything has gone out of my hands i dont know whatz the reason for him to do like this he says he lost interest on love i dont know whether its on love or on me ... but i can never live without him baba plzzz i know i would have done mistakes so you have punished me but baba i am repenting and suffering more than what i have done baba plzzzzzzzz your sight for a moment is enough to change bharat's mindset or to solve his problem baba plzzzzzzzz you are my only hope sainatha plzzzz mujhe bharat ka pyaar vaapas dedo...
im begging you baba plzzzzzzzz omsairam
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baba plz daya karo chweetu ji par........
shri satchidanand sadguru sai nath maharaj ki jai
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thank you mona ji..
i wish baba listens to my cry for his grace..
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dnt worry..be patient.. i knw its tuff but i can feel d same pain.... yaha apab se baat kar sakti ho.... aur apnadil halka karsakti ho..dil tu raha hai. ganeshji wel wisherji, aqua ji.... mujhe samajh nai araha kya kar...baba pr pura bharosa hai... par mein harti ja rai hun.. aj mera chaliya pura huah hai gurudware aur baba ke mandir ka.. parjab tak rahi wapis nai ate mein baba ke mandir jana nai chodungi.. roz diya jala rai hun aur jalati rahungi, par rahi ki bahot yaad ati hai...laagta hai jese unse baat karee huee zamane gujar gae.....just sharing wid u all... baba madad plzzz baba mera pati lotado plzzzzz
om sai ram
om sai ram
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God bless each one with their love...
Om Sai Ram
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pl ans my post above wellwisher ji' s post
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sai ram rahi ji...........aap unse baat kyo nahi kar leti hai...........if u can go his home,,den u shud go...unse maafi maang kr dekho,,,,,,,,,,,yaar its heights..
itni bhi kya narazgi ho gayi hai..... is he happy widout talking 2 u??? ask him ths question......
baba se achha koi nahi janata ki kya humare liye achha hai.......dont loose hope.......
shri satchidanad sadguru sai nath mahraj ki jai
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mona ji.. they make us cry and live tension free and without any pain but the love and care they have shown in the past can never be forgotten i dont know when they will understand our love and care for them... its only baba who can change their mindset and behaviour and get them back to us...
baba im sorry for all my sins i want you with me baba plzz help me out by showing me a way to get back bharat's love plzzz baba
omsairam
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Chweetuji... Nancyji...
One thing I have realized the hard way.
One CAN NEVER CHANGE ANOTHER'S MINDSET / ATTITUDE TOWARDS LIFE / PRIORITIES. CHANGING YOURS WILL BE FASTER AND BETTER.
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chweetu ji and rahi ji............
u both peole are really very tensed thats y i m praying to baba that he shud return back to u your love...........but in reality i dont understand y people never cry for the love of sai,,,,,.............all people in ths world are fake............the ultimate reallity is only our sai............agar ye baaat hum samjh jaye to ,,,hum ko specially love matters mein kabhi bhi problems ho hi nahi.......
frst u shud need to change ur mindset/ attitude.......then u ll see d true picture .....
maaf krna agar aapko kuch bura laga ho to plz..
shri satchidanand sadguru sai nath maharaj ki jai
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Give to others what you seek yourself. If u seek love, give love...
We are all here to learn life lessons. Mayb God wants us to look beyond ourselves and learn to serve others too. God gave us a beautiful life and the liberty to enjoy it with those we love. But in all where are we living for the work He actually sent us to do? He surely didn't send us here to enjoy and spend time with those we love. Lets work for God's purpose... serve others, love others, help others and learn and spread the knowledge to others. Once His purpose is even partly accomplished am sure He'll bless us with not just love, prosperity, success, etc... but a lot more you and me cannot even dream of.
If you do not trust me at this... try it for a few days. Just submit and surrender to Him and GIVE. Just GIVE to the universe all that you have. Believe me when you start you'll realize you have so much to give, so much that Gods blessed you with and so much more you can give that you'll stop seeking any more. And sometimes when we stop seeking... God showers us with abundance... much more than we mortals can even dream of.
All the best...
Love & Light,
Om Sai Ram
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well said well wisher and mOna ji...
Nancy..just keep praying to sai...and just have faith...things will happen the way they r supposed to be...baba wud want us to be happy in the end..so just have the hope and patience and will to move ahead..and baba will take care of tje rest...
Chweetu..dont cry please...just sit in front of sai and close ur eyes and chant his name...stay calm..panic and tears can only make us feel worse...everything will be fine..
Om sai ram
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hi evry one... from three four days i m feelin vry bad i share evrything here wid sai..but i m runnin from my self.... thak gai hun... ladte ladte.. man nai karta mandir jane ka...par bhagwan ke elava koi madad nai kar sakta meri....
madad sai. give me power to fight for my love... to get rahi back... madad sai....... sai.. sai... sai...sai.. sai.. lotad rahi wapis.. madad sai.... om sai ram
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nancy baba is listening to us he will surely get them back to us but its taking time we are getting tired fighting for our love. donot worry baba will surely came to us with your rahi and my bharat
omsairam
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Nancy dear,
kaisi ho? stay strong hon!! everything will be just fine!!
om sai ram
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Hiiii aqua.. kese ho...mein thek hu thanks sweety... i dnt knw loosin heart and hopes...thts y asking baba to gimme power... bahot yaad ati hai...rahi ki.... i love sai and he knws evrything....sorry baba... maaf kardo ..lotado mera rahi...
thanks may chweetuji...may sai give u ur bharat bck....
om sai ram
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what are u saying dear........has this life given u for this purpose only??????????????
we people are very selfish......we dont want to be hurt in any manner ,,always demands for the best...but we never hesitate in hurting SAI maa....
You dont even realize that how did baba feel after reading ur post like this...........
may be u r in pain but u cant give pain to sai by asking him death for ur self...........
PLEASE TRY TO UNDERSTAND THE WORTH OF YOUR LIFE ............
I am strongly suggesting u to read BHAGVAD GEETA for ur mental peace.......
Be calm dear...........
hey sai baba apne bachho par daya karo deva........
shri satchidannad sadguru sai nath maharaj ji ki jai
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Nancy,
Come one Yaar..u have to be strong..U have to show baba how strong u r..u cant just end ur life...tats not the reason..baba knows what u have dne..we r human, we make mistakes...never ever think that baba will make ur life miserable coz of some past things...U regret and repent everyday before baba so dont fear..sab teek hoga...please stay calm and take baba's name...Rahi will come back or bba will give u the strength to face all this...Come on have faith in baba...he is not gonna let u down...
Om sai ram
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nancy what happened suddenly you were strong and be strong pray to baba or else start parayan from today and complete it in seven days and see what baba does trust him we can only do that now please takecare of urself even i asked baba many times to kill i even tried to end up my life but dont know at that moment it happened like baba stopped me from it and started giving me hope from that very day that bharat will come back the same way he will provide all of us the strength to stick to him till he gives us our result...
baba plsss help nancy baba please tell rahi to come back to her please baba
omsairam
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hiii i knw mona ji i m hurtin baba..par mein uss cheez ko nai bhul sakti...meinkabhi sapne mein bhi baba ko hurt nai karsakti par..woh ek galti mujhe kabhi agge badnenai degi....mein sirf baba se bhekh mangsakti hun..om sai ram
hii aqua ji i knw i was i m strong but mujhe koi umeed nai dikh rai...kyu ki woh galti rahi kese bhul gaye baba ko mujhe rahi hee lotana hoga mein kissi ko apna nai sakti.....baba madad karo..
thnk u chweetu ji par kabhi kabhi mann tut jata hai...baba madad..what is parayan?????? plllzzzz baba madad...i knw i m goin in depression and at tyms i talk senseless but madad deva....maaf kardo mujhe plzzz rahi lotado....
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DEATH IS NEVER AN ESCAPE FROM PAIN.
NO ONE CAN ESCAPE HURT AND PAIN NANCY. WE CAN CHOOSE TO STOP HURTING OURSELVES AND MOVE ON.
No mistake in life is so huge that God doesn't forgive. What you repent for, God may have already forgiven you for it long back Nancy. And it would be equally Rahi's fault.
Killing oneself is not even an escape. Its the biggest sin. To save yourself from the current pain and guilt you want to commit a bigger sin? Think about what you're thinking Nancy.
I understand your pain my friend. Completely. We all go through it... this phase, these thoughts. But thats not the solution. There is only one solution. To focus on yourself and make yourself better and better and better, stronger and stronger - mentally and emotionally. So strong and good that Rahi looks up to you as an inspiration.
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FORGIVE YOURSELF NANCY. THE MINUTE YOU REPENT, GOD FORGIVES YOU. DO NOT PUNISH YOURSELF WHEN GOD IS SO MERCIFUL.
FORGIVE... FORGIVE... FORGIVE... FORGIVE...
"Even though I have made a mistake, I choose to DEEPLY & COMPLETELY LOVE & ACCEPT MYSELF."
"Even though I feel miserable about my past, I choose to DEEPLY & COMPLETELY LOVE & ACCEPT MYSELF."
"Even though I feel terribly guilty, I choose to DEEPLY & COMPLETELY LOVE & ACCEPT MYSELF."
"Even though I'm choosing not to forget my past, I choose to DEEPLY & COMPLETELY LOVE & ACCEPT MYSELF."
"Even though I'm clinging on to guilt for something which God has already for, I choose to DEEPLY & COMPLETELY LOVE & ACCEPT MYSELF."
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Nancy,
Dont mess up ur life..u have a wonderful relationship with baba...go sit in fromt of baba and close ur eyes and chant his name..talk to baba..if possible visit his temple..sit in the temple for some time..try to forget everything else just think of baba....Parayan is reading baba's charitha for 7 days..end of 7 days u go to temple and offer some food or money to poor people...try reading charitha atleast 1 chapter every day...if u cant..just sit calmly in front of sai...
Stay strong..THIS IS YOUR LIFE!! NO ONE BUT U HAS A RIGHT TO LIVE IT...forget everybody for sometime and live ur life...baba forgives those who repent Nancy...pleas etake care of urself...go out , breathe some fresh air, go for a walk...just do this for urself...please baba will do everything..
Om sai ram
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i go temple evryday.. keepin fast evry thrsdy.... im sorry evry1...ill be strong...just at tyms i loose my heart... SORRY BABA.... love u all...thanks alot...
om sai ram
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May baba give u the strength.
sorry if u dont mind,,,ek baat kehni thi ki......"pyar ke alawa or bhi gum hai is duniya mein dear".....
Live ur life to its fullest sweety.
Shri satchidanand sadguru sai nath maharaj ji ki jai
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Nancy, please do yourself and all of us a favor and all of us too - Please FORGIVE YOURSELF FIRST! No one elses opinion matters. YOURS DOES. So change that first!
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Nancy,
take care sweety!! what wellwisher said is true..as long we dont forgive ourselves, we cannot move ahead...just keep on it!! be happy and live ur life first...baba wishes, rahi will be with u soon or baba will make u strong for anything..
om sai ram
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nancy,
how r u? takecare of urself rahi will come back any reply from his side?
baba will bring him back dont worry.
omsairam
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hiiiii everyone...how r u???
no reply from his side and his mom keeps calling m n say der is no god and rahi will never come back..pata nai woh yeh sab kyu kehti hai ur taraf kehti hai ki she miss me n loves me.....
I KNOW MY SAI IS DER AND MY LOVE WILL WIN OVER EVRYTHING.....ILL BE POSITIVE AND WILL PRAY FROM TRUE HEART...
i m much better now by baba's grace n ur prayers...i m praying to baba for evry1.... baba sabki madad karenge... i m trying hard to forgive my self well wisherji.... thank u mona ji, aqua ji, chweetuji..... for being der... om sai ram....
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hi member,
I have been visiting this place on and off.....and have seen so many prayers similar to yours.......i know what you are feeling...cause i have been there, done that
If Baba has not answered your prayers....trust me he is testing your patience(Shraddha n Saburi)
I know the anxiety you feel when there is no reply from him.....but believe me he knows what he is doing....he doesnt need us to tell him what to do...i can lecture on and on
But coming back to your anxiety......I may not know your cause of separation.....but I knw if you have come to him he will test you, ......his tests will be painful and depressing and more.....so 1st stop begging and start praying, praising him, thanking him, and then ask him....i am sure he will give you
Try this if you want, it worked for me...to cool myself down and make me realize I can do nothing and have to depend on Him
Anytime in the day....when there is absolute silence all around......it can be late night or early morning.....do a written namah jaap........pick any notebook 100 pg, 200 pg whatever you like.....
on the very first page on the right hand side write "fruits of this namah jaap I dedicate to the welfare of _____"
Then turn page and start writing "Om Shree Sainathay Namah" Only once on each line
but write with patience and utter the same as you write
Keep only 1 Discipline, 2 pages in a day then that is it....you decide how many pages....to Baba it doesnt matter is you sit at 9 pm or 9 am
But, he really likes it when you sit with him and talk to him...ask him 'how are you today', did you eat lunch' it is not easy but then life never is
Once you finish the book, go to a Sai temple and surrender it on his feet......and if possible feed any hungry person
This may or may not bring you your love....but it will definitely increase your faith in him and cool you down and slowly and gradually show you your path
We as human beings we always keep asking from God very rarely we give him anything....but in such helpless times make the most and give him all the time and see the change yourself
and lastly......1 of my favorites....
"Ye ishq nahi aasan bus itna samajh lijiye.....aag ka dariya hai aur doob ke jaana hai"
Om Sai Ram
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hi kriti thanks alot fortellin tis to me....thank u vry much.........ut i dint undrstood this......ki wat to write in the blank..
on the very first page on the right hand side write "fruits of this namah jaap I dedicate to the welfare of _____" and can we write mre dan 2pages and
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Hi dear
well actually there's no rules........it's your wish......or as i say....baba will write .....you will just be a medium........do what your heart says at that precise moment what i suggested is guidelines.....write what your heart says
what i did is....the first page on right hand side I dedicated the namah jaap to someone or the other
then from the 2nd page onwards I started writing....OM Shri Sainathay Namah.......you can write as many pages as you want and as many books you want
there are no rules as to how to worship Baba, that's the beauty, worship him as and when you wish
just remember whenever your mind is taken over by the thoughts of beloved start chanting Sai's name
always remind yourself "I have to be patient and have faith, I cannot distrust Baba"
I am sure Baba is already helping you, but he is waiting for you to overcome your mental struggles, so that you can see what he is doing. Spend time with Baba, and you will feel the difference
Hope this helps
Om Sai Ram
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Nancy kaisi ho
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nancy how are u no c from a few days... takecare of urself...
omsairam
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Nancy... keep the faith strong. Work on yourself. Only one goal in mind - I need to get better, better, better. Remember - one good deed per day for someone else, one for yourself. Don't gv up on ur growth. Everything else will fall in place.
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hiii everyone.sry my net was not working....
missed u all...
but my mood is gettin down day by day....praying evry day... goin to mandir... reading sai satcharita... just waitng for baba's forgiveness...n his miracle.... feel like ruinin my life...but mum dad ki vajah se ruk jati hun.....kya karu... i m performin all my duties... sai leela sunke lagta hai mera rahi bhi ayega chamatkar hoga...nai samajh parai kch...
....how r u all?
om sai ram
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baba plz bless nancy ji.......
shri satchidanand sadguru sai nath mahraj ji ki jai.
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Nancy , i still did not get your mail ! Om Sairam.
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hiii sry....
my net was not workin i was supposed to mail d above post
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How are you Nancy?
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hii...how r u... i m nt tht good stilll........living..
wats happenin....
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:) To living thoda happily bolona...
Nothings happening. :) Nancy is on a path of self-discovery and growth. She's nice and strong and getting better with every passing day. All she needs to do is stop worrying. Cause worry only brings its best friends sadness n fear along with it. Not happiness n love. If Nancy wants happiness and love she needs to give happiness and love, BE happiness and Love... and the moment she starts, she's going to discover how beutiful and easy it is.
Om Sai Ram... God bless you Nancy...
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hhiii nancy,
how are u?
omsairam
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hii well wisher ji thank u very much....for so much faithi in me...but.. i m loosein hopes.... very tensed dese no contact from him....prayin from pure heart...exams r der...mann nai karta padne ka...ab toh unki awaz sunne bhi mahina hogya...lagta hai ab woh naui ayenge
om sai ram
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dont lose hope nancy u may lose trust in him but baba is there how rude they behave doesnt matter baba is with us we are praying him with pure heart and repenting for our mistakes baba will bring them back telling you na 100% baba will bring rahi back to youi...
dont worry just study for your exams... baba please look towards us and help us baba plss...
omsairam
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Nancy... Chweetu... we can only do whats in our hands right? We've done our bit. Now its time to just wait and watch what future has to unfold. If you feel tensed, both of you could do naam jaap. It helps. It will help you calm down your mind and bring to you whats best for you. It will give you the strength to hold on for one more day. I understand how difficult it is. I've been in the state you're in for 2years now. I can understand exactly what you feel. Surrender Nancy. Chweetu... you too...
Did you read the article I sent? The link?
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i m loosing my pateince..just feeling like killing my self..Honestly...i m sorry baba.... but after 2 mnths 14 days rahi called me and said that dnt sms him..it irritates him...and he will never cme bck...y baba...ap iss se kya batana chahte ho... par apki bhakt hun... aur har thursday fast karungi...apke pareeo mein girr kar bhekh mangungi...jab tak app rahi nai lotate...ladungi apne pyaar ke lliye..
app toh sab kuch jante hoo baba ke mujhe konsi baat kha rai hai... baba meine sab kuch kho diya app hee sahara hoo...i have left my favourite thing to eat non- veg til rahi comes back..baba mein rahi issliye nai mang rai ki mere liye pyar sab kuch hai.. sab rishtey hai mere liye app ho par kyu mein rahi wapis mang rai hun app jante ho madad baba....om sai ram himat do baba...
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Nancy... have faith. Maybe life has something better in store for you. I understand you. Par bohot se log bohot kuch relationships me khokar bhi unki relationships materialize nahi hoti. Unfortunately we can't say because I put in this much or this happened... love me back. I wish it worked that way my friend, but it doesn't. Two months, 14days... there are people who wait for years... and still whats not in destiny doesnt happen. I completely understand what ure going thru. But theres not much one can do about it but work on oneself. Its very difficult Nancy. But u have to try.
God bless... Om Sai Ram
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Dear Rahinancy i prayed for you and my inner confidance says he will come back to you please donn loose your heart and let not imotion come over your clear thinking because it is a mere misunderstanding, i felt your depth of love i am sure no one can leave such lover ever, be with your true feelings with him and try to make him undersatnd the truth don't say sorry again and again to him it shows your guilt so don't admit it if you are not. please give him true reasoning and take help of rationality, be balanced by your mind and handle the matter with care, show him how much you love him and what all have you done for him and please don't be impatient give some time to let him come down love never goes away its yours and will bw yours always.
Om sai namo namah, shri sai namoh nama, jai jai sai namo nama, Satguru sai namoh namah. Jai sai ram
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nancy even bharat told the same to me i was broken but baba gave me the confidence that he will bring back bharat to me i am sinking day by day but the faith that baba will surely bring bharat back to me is raising me from the ditch please dont do harm to urself ..
nancy baba ko fasting karna acha nahi lagta try to read some books like gurucharitra and pray to baba do naam jap..baba rahi ko wapas laayenge..
sairam please bless nacy with rahi babaaplease
omsairam
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Nancy, Chweetu... come on be strong girls. I understand we feel really weak at times, but we're all praying... all will be good ok. Keep the faith strong.
Om Sai Ram
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plz pray for me also :-((((((((((((((
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hii evry one... thnk u so mch saidaas ji and wellwisher ji.. n chweetu ji...thank u soooooo muchh forr ur love n support... i trust sai baba completely i pray n cry in his feet only... wen i feel low.. visit his temple for peace...thnks for being.. der i try to b strong but kabhi kabhi tut jati hun...mera pyar sacha hai aur rahi aega.... thnks alot i m prayin for all of us dnt wry saisanji v all r praying. 4 each other
om sai ram
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om sai ram
thanks Rahi, i will also pray for u all
Baba plz bless Nancy, Chweetu, well wisher that they are united with thier loved once soon
om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai
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Saisanji... we're all praying for you too. Lets all just keep praying endlessly. Baba will surely bless us.
Om Sai Ram
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thanks well-wisher ji
baba bless you too soon .....keep praying and he will bless for sure what we want
om sai ram om sai ram om sai ram om sai ram
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nancy how are you?
be strong dont leave baba's even when baba is with us even our fate cant do any harm to us baba even changes our destiny...
rahi will come back to you but dont give him gap though he gets iritated u call him try to convince him dont beg him but just speak to him through messages about ur feelings and all what u wanna tell him.. then he will surely start thinking about you let it be anger or love but he will start thinking..
takecare baba is with all of us..
omsairam
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Nancy how are you. Chweetu, Nancy... be strong, stay strong. Remember you deserve the best and the best is wht u'll get. Not a bit less. Hv faith.
Om Sai Ram
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nancy where are you?
how are you?
omsairam
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hiii evry one... i m oki. rahi called me last monday..he said he loves me but will not marry me....v tokd for 3 days as frnds.... my joy knew no bounds.. but again he vanished sayin that should not talk and his ego wil never let him back... this is baba's leela.... baba will kill his ego now its baba's work.... he will bring him back again and this tym forever.... plzzzzz pray that his ego vanishes and love for me is back....plzzzzzzzzzzz
om sai shree sai jai jai sai
om sai ram......
thank u baba love u
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:) Am glad to know he loves you and appreciates you. Maybe Baba & your love for him will teach him to gulp his ego and come back to you. But Nancy you need to make sure you communicate to him... that for every relationship... faith is the basic criteria. Faith to the extent that even when we discover the opposite person has lied to us... at least we have faith in the opposite person's love, character and behaviour.
Thank You Baba for this much... please always be with Nancy the way You've been until this date.
Om Sai Ram
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om sai ram
its good news indeed, now keep praying more and he will bless u for sure...baba will remove his ego and fill his heart with love much more than before.... om sai ram ....... be at his feet
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nancy i am really happy for u he loves you that is the ray of hope baba has given you rahi will soon comeback to u keep praying baba will not let ur faith down we all are praying for u ...
baba please fill rahi's heart with love towards nancy vanish his ego and bring him back to her baba please...
this news of urz bought more hope to me nancy ..
takecare of urself keep praying..
omsairam
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Om Sai Ram
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nancy how are you?
any new from rahi.. keep praying everything will be fine..
omsairam
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hiii no rahi is nt talkin to me..but i leave sms for my love... i trust baba..he will come back and i pray baba kills his ego completely and send him back for ever...thanks evry 1 for prayin.. ne suggestions wat should i do....
ganesh ji dint replied nethin on this....
om sai ram
baba plzz bless us all like this
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Nancy, do Sai Naam japa. It will keep you calm & in the best state of mind when Rahi retuns. Om Sai Ram
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nancy how are you? any response from rahi..
takecare be strong stick to baba's feet pray more baba has heard your prayers so you came to know that rahi loves you.. baba will bless you soon..
baba please change rahi's behaviour make him ego less and bring him back to nancy baba please..
omsairam
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hmmmm tryin my level best... but now its again no communication at al..
plzz baba helpppppppppppppppp
om sai nathaya namah
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Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram
Baba please continue blessing... non-stop...We all need it.
All will be good. Do not worry. Have faith. Keep the faith strong. Om Sai Ram
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TRY AND TRY TILL U SUCCEED BABA IS WITH U..
BABA PLEASE BLESS HER SOON BABA PLEASE..
OMSAIRAM
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kahaa hooooooooooooooo baba app plzz ,mein thak gai hun ab bhagte bhagte... mein magal hojaungi plzzzzz mujhe maut dedo ab mujhse aur nai saha jata... plzzzzz madad karo baba plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz mujhe mardooo
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nancy wat appened?
watz n on ur side dnt wory baba is wit u please keep prayin
omsairam
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kuch nai kar rae baba... mere papa ko itna bimar kardiya apne.... kyu baba kyu.. kya kar rae ho.... plzzz ajo... i m doin evrythin.. har cheez but kuch nai mil pa raha... kya karu.. sadness all around.. plzz baba helpppppppppppppppppp me...... ajao baba plzzzzzzzz
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Please Nancy have faith in Saibaba.He will do something good soon.Please dont lose hope.Om Sai Ram
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Nancy,
kaisi ho? rahi aayega u r true ....u know he came home yday...lekin i had messed up everything so he is angry with me but still said he loves me...but i dnt know if he wants to be with me though,.,,i have to show him tat i can change and be there....om sai ram
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om sai ram
how are you feeling now aqua, all of a sudden you stopped the mail, i tried mailing you so many times yesterday.
may sai bless you
om sai ram
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Rahinancyji,
Ap apne pyar ko zaroor prapt karengi baba par bharosa rakhiye, main to nahi janta ki ap ka pyar aap se kaise bichhda par milna aur bichhadna zindagi ke do rang hai aap bas dherya rakiye. Mera ek dost woh bhi deepthi naam ki ladki se dilo jaan se pyar karta hai woh ladki use chod ke bidesh chaligai hai par woh baba par bharosa rak kar intizaar kar raha hai. Baba ki krupa se Kal unka phone aaya tha. Ap bas sai ram ka jaap karte rahiye...............
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nahi rajiv..I decided i wnt keep those email ids and stuff..i am just ruining my relationship more and more..I dnt need emails right...is forum me i want to help others..do prayers for them....but i am done cribbing and moaning for my life to be set right!!!i dnt deserve tat life....
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all the best aqua, and take care of your health, hope you are feeling fine now.
may sai bless you
om sai ram
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Thanks Rajiv...take care and keep in touch trhu forum!!! sorry but i am just going thru this horrible phase in life and i dnt want to make it any worse...hopeu understand...
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Nancy ji,
How r u ?Dont worry. Leave all your worries to baba, he will take care of it. Please Baba bless her soon. Baba will definitely listen to all of us. Lets pray together for everyone. Lets start the chain of group prayer. Take care.
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Rajiv
how r u yaar? sorry to do this...take care...btw i started the thursday fast from today....praying for u too...please take care of ur health...
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Aqua, Rajiv... gald to see you back! :) :) :) am like all smiles....
Thank You Baba... bless them, bless all...
Om Sai Ram
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hey wellwisher...
how have u been? whats happening at ur end? howz ur mom doing? blessu
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hi aqua
om sai ram
i am fine just want to say all the best thats it
om sai ram
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Hi wellwisher
om sai ram
i am following the forum regularly
just dont post anything
i talk to many people on e mails from the forum and try to help
thats all
i hope you ar doing fine
all the best
may sai bless you
om sai ram
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rajiv,
how r u?
take care of urself!!
om sai ram
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nancy how are u? howz everything on ur side...
baba please bless her saii..
omsairam
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Nancy ..how r u? please take care baccha..sab teek hoga..
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om sai ram aqua
i am fine
how are you and how is bhavna
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i am fine rajiv...surviving bas....khana khaya? bhavna has stopped emailing or msging and phone bhi nahi uttathi...patha nahi what happened...i left a msg..lets see...how was ur thursday? dnt work too hard bhai...time pe khana khaana..being healthy is important...
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kya hua bhavna ko is she ok
aapne apna mail band kar diya to wo kahan se karegi
thursday as usual was crap but theek hai
khana peena to same hi hai khaya nahin khaya kuchh bhi chalta hai
how are you
om sai ram
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Om sai ram nancy ji,
Kaise ho aap ? How are things at ur end ?? Baba plzz help her, dont test her more. baba plzz bless Anamika,Ankur, Akanksha,Aquafish, bharti ,chweetu, gunj, Nancy, Pragya, Ramajaya, Saisan, Suhani, Saicharandhool ji, Vinit ji, well-wisher, javeedji, saikrupakaro ji, suchi ji, binod ji & myself.. we all need ur help & mercy