Does sai baba support love marriage

[my_sai]

dost ,
sai ma ki leela to sai hi jaaney .
we will pray for your happiness.
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[Dipika]

OMSAIRAM!Dear Sai devotee our Sai baba can light diyas with water...that is POSITIVITY...MIRACLE...

Ek Andhera Lakh Sitare

yek andheraa laakh sitaare, yek niraashaa laakh sahaare
sabase badee saugaat hain jeewan naadaan hain jo jeewan se haare

duniyaa kee ye bagiyaa ayesee jitane kaante, fool bhee utane
daaman mein khud aa jaayenge, jinakee taraf too haath pasaare

beete huye kal kee khaatir, too aanewaalaa kal mat khonaa
jaane kaun kahaa se aa kar, raahe teree fir se sawaare

dukh se agar pahachaan n ho to kaisaa sukh kaisee khushiyaan
tufaano se ladakar hee to lagate hain saahil itane pyaare...


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
 

[Dipika]

OMSAIRAM!WE ALL DEVOTEES OF SAI BABA KNOW THAT BABA CAN LIGHT LAMPS WITH WATER...


 


TRUST IN YOUR GURU FULLY,THAT IS THE ONLY SADHANA...


                                        POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE

What would u choose..   ++++++++ OR - - - - - - -

choice is your's                       


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

[shreesh]

Dear Jaya Ji

Om Sai Ram

I have just joined this forum few days back.... I was going on through your comment and your story is not only inspirational but also tells us what wonders faith can do. Baba who had given you so much strength to bear, will also give you your guy. Baba Please listen to her.

I had been in love with a girl since last one and a half year with a girl names Swati who is a Sai Bhakt too.... initially there was some misunderstanding between us and I made some wrong assumptions, which really pissed her off. The problem lied when soon I realised my mistake and asked her to pardon me she did not. in fact she over exaggerated the situation. I remember when I sue to see her daily in office and tried to talk to her she showed me least interest. At  that time there was no hope for me apart from Baba, I had some thing in me which said that she is going to come back. And I stopped worrying her with my phone calls and emails and my self personally. The only thing which I did was cry in and cry in front of Baba.

 And one day similar thing happened as your case and she called me up and in a few days she realised her  mistake that she takes things too far. She was with me and this time it was much stronger.... Everything was very fine and then I got a job in Australia and had to leave her geographically. but before that we told each others parents about our love and wish to marry. Since she is a bengali and I am a brahmin form north India, I thought my parents might be having some problem. But due to Baba's grace my parents agreed. her parents did  not say a clear cut NO but they were kind of delaying things and showed as if they are not interested.

Finally they said that as I'll settle down in Australia we can marry.....but at that time it was clear that They are putting all such demands and points which an delay the marriage or may give them time to brainwash their daughter. I had faith in Baba and was very strong on the point that if Baba had made me met her after so much then He is going to help us be together.

I got a leave in coming Christmas and told Swati and her parents that I can come and get registered marriage done so that I can start with her VISA processing and later when we get married according to all customs I'll take here with me. Up til now I didn't know what was being cooked over there. Her father said to my father that he will not marry her for one year without any reason. Her father didn't receive my calls.

Later I could see change in Swati's behavior and was not able to understand that.  She told me two days back that her parents have told her two months backaccording to one of astrologer: we both can't live happily. Also she told me that her parents are not that much willing for an inter cast marriage.

I tried to persuade her that your family is not very happy with our marriage but they will agree with what you say and you just keep your mind stable. She agreed to this but said that how can she keep her mind stable if she is not going to be happy with me and I am not going to be ahppy with her. She quoted all our past small quarrels to testimony that. She told me that she loves me and wants to mary me and is very confused.

I tried hard to persuade her and tried to show the positive things ratehr than negative. I told here the "cut the Rope" story too..... but she would be normal for few days and again start behaving awkwardly.....its too hard for me to convince her over telephone from here. I feel terribly tired an don't know what to do.... i asked her if we were not meant to be together then why did Baba unite us? why we have together seen so many miracles of Baba saying that we should live together?? to which she said that she has got no answer and she wants to end everything and loves me a lot.

I had been doing the saptah parayan followed by daily parayan of Sai satcharitra.... i even consulted astrologers who told that the prophecy told be her mother is wrong.  I consulted Sai Baba question answer book which told me that my wish will be fulfilled. Peopel think that I am having a good job and a good earning, but I think that I have lost what i found after so much difficulties. I always cry alone and there is nothing which I can do and feel so helpless. I have been tired of crying and crying. I am again on the same place from where I started but this time it hurts more because my parents are also worried about me and her and its mroe painful to again lose the ting which u got after losing rather than not to get it at all.

I wish to marry her and not to lose her again...... Baba please help me please help me!!!


Dear Sai bhaktas

Om Sai Ram

Please pray for me if you have time in your daily schedule. I might get a big thing in my life because of your small prayer.

Om Sai Ram

[jyothikakr]

Dear Brother,
i read through your letter. But see god has decided and we are just puppets in the hands of God. We can't overrule the word of God . If God wishes that u be united - it will happen even if any one goes against it. So wait and pray to God .God will do only what is good for you. Believe it. You can't force anyone to love you and be yours. It has to come from within .Then only life will be successful and flow smoothly otherwise in between and for all small things the difference of opinions will start and shatter the small beautiful and little time which we have on earth. For life and in life, there should be understanding, love ,respect and unity then only one's family life will succeed. Money will not bring everything  but money also you need.
I am praying to sai baba that let him shower you only what is good for you.

[shreesh]

Dear jyothikakr Ji

Om Sai Ram

Thanks a lot for your kind consideration. May Baba shower HIs blessings on you.

I would have been less troubled if I would not have been getting the positive hints from Baba and from Swati. The only solution to this problem is that Swati should be strong and maintain her decision. As far as I know her parents, they will agree to her will. But the problem is that she is emotionally very unstable person and sometimes becomes too pessimist.

May Baba give her strength and courage!!!


Om Sai Ram

[apkibeti]

hey sai..
Yaha bhi wahi haal hai..mere jaisa.....sai inki madad karo...
dear frenz..its really the same story everywhere..even in my case my love's family is against our being together....i have been paraying hard...and i will pray fr u..because i understand what is the pain of separation.......with all the negativity around ,the probs have crept in between us.....dbts have set in......hey sai nath..sab pyar karne walo ko mila do..sabko...
daya karo..aapke ghar me to sab milta hai..koi khali haath nhi jata..mila do baba.....daya karo!!

[adwaita]

Dear Shreesh,

om sai ram

First of all welcome to this online mandir. Thank you for sharing what's in your heart and being a part of this family. The girl who will get you must be a lucky girl. These days I've come across so many situations like yours. Mostly related to astrology and horoscopes. If any of the partner's parents didn't like the match they are using these horoscopes as a silly reason to make it not happen. One of my friends got rejected only because of this reason but when we checked separately the horoscopes were matching perfectly. Later we came to know that they didn't even consider taking them for matching.

Please do not cry all the time. You are baba's child and he will cry along with you if you cry. Also nothing will happen if you cry. Think in the other way. Astrology, horoscopes may be true as they are all made by god. But what we need now a days is a very good astrologer who is very rare in this kalyug. It is better to consider horoscopes for arranged marriages only as we don't know that much about the guy/girl. Also the main thing is, for love marriages it doesn't need any horoscope consultations. As 'love' is what the main thing in a marriage, it over takes all the other qualities. So be strong. Baba is there with you. Everything will go fine. We are here to pray for you. Baba bless you with the best. om sai ram.

[shreesh]

Dear Gayatri

Om Sai Ram

Thanks a lot for your wonderful words and support. I am very thankful to all the people and you who have shown the gesture of praying for me.

I will try to gather as much courage as possible. but you can understand when you are so far from your family with nobody along with you, you tend to go a bit weak. atleast shedding tears give you opportunity to subside your pain though momentarily.

Om Sai Ram

Shreesh

[Ramajaya]

Dear Sai brother Shreesh,
 
Sairam.
 
Firstly , let me thank you for your wishes. I am hoping that Baba will help me get married to my love Anjan very soon.
 
I can see how intense your love with Swathi is. She is really gifted to have a person like you and same with you to have such a loving girl except for she is very emotional and unstable. Let me tell you onething, if your love is true and if you are confident that you will take care of her very well till the end, iam sure you both will get united in the bonds of marriage. Nothing can stop you.
 
See, I would like to narrate one of my personal incidents in life.
When i was separated from Anjan, one of my friends took me to an astrologer. She knew that i dont believe in astrology and horoscopes. But still i went.
The astrologer called me a Stupid for having fallen in love with Anjan. She said that our signs dont match. I was disappointed because Anjans family will very strongly believe in horoscopes. Later i felt like it was not the astrologer who called me "stupid" but it is Saibaba who had called me like that.
When i knew that Baba can do anything and grant the wish if it is genuine irrespective of any obstacles, i did a mistake of meeting an astrologer when i knew that Swami only can help me in getting married to Anjan.
I dont say anything negative about astrology and if i have done so, iam sorry.
But what i feel is when i surrender completely to Sai, i should not think of any other source for my rescue. He will do the best for us.
 
Why dont you meet Swati and her parents, if you can? I understand that you both are communicating only through phone. Go to a Sai temple near by and pray to Him and surrender completely (I know you are) and then go to Swatis house;  meet up with her parents and Swati. Take Sais photo with you, tell them very clearly that you will take care of Swati so well with love and care that they need not worry about their daughters future. But before that take a resolution that you will keep up your words at any cost. Make them understand; Baba will guide you in doing this. If possible take your parents too if they are willing. Be bold and strong in what you want and what you demand, because Sai is with you.
 
I am sure He will do the rest for you.
See,  God has all the powers and He can do anything.
As brother Adwaitha said, please dont cry(I know it is not possible, even i cry when i think of Anjan and our separation). I somehow feel you will get married to Swati very soon.
Sai can do anything and everything.
Please dont loose hope and get frustrated. We are all in Sais Kingdom and He will never let us down.
 
My prayers are there for you.
 
(I know to preach is easy but to do is difficult, but iam trying to be calm with some faith)
 
Your wish is genuine and be stable and believe in Sai come what may, He will give you what you want.
 
With this hope only i am waiting for Anjan.
 
Sairam.
 
Take care.
 
Regards
Jaya.
 
 
 

[Ramajaya]

Dear Saisan,

Thank you dear for your wishes-I could very well fee that they come straight from your heart.
I am waiting for that day to come when Anjan will marry me with the consent of both our families.

I am sure you will have a wonderful and loverly future. Your life will be only filled with happiness, love and affection by the grace of God and iam serious in these. Infact you are so strong inspite of all hurdles and struggle, you are still able to encourage someone who is feeling low. Babas grace is on you for sure.

Take care.

Sairam.

Regards
Jaya.

[Ramajaya]

Dear Saisan,

I know. See, again iam telling you surrender completely at the feet of our Swami. You will get what you want; iam sure.
Why dont you try to meet him and his parents about this along with you parents(if they are supportive)?

Give everything to Sai and request Him to do for you.

Regards
Jaya.

[shreesh]

Dear Jaya Behan

how come u r so confident that I'll get married to Swati?? I am so afraid as I have been thinking that the joys are not for me. I cant go and meet her. As I am in australia and she is in Kolkata... dsitance between us is also acting as an odd against us....

I m helpless...please do something i dont think i am as strong as u Jaya behan..... i m about to break.....life is so impossible!!!

i really dont want to kill myself


baba please help me...forgive me for my sins.

Om Sai Ram

[Ramajaya]

Dear Shreesh,

I dont know how i am confident. But all i can tell you is i have come across tough times like this and i may face tough times like this in future too if that is what is kept instore for me, but iam sure the net result of this struggle and suffering will definitely be fruitful-obviously getting married to Anjan. You know why because Sai is with me. He is with all His devotees.

"Distance between us is also acting as an odd against us..." But Saibaba is beyond distance and is beyond everything.
Be calm and surrender completely at the Lotus feet of Sai.
In my case Anjan came and met me and told that he still loves me but he does not have any commitments. But I told Anjan that he need not commit to me anything, when Sai has already decided that we (I and Anjan) will get married to each other.

You know onething, i am crying in silence and everymoment i am reminded of Anjan. He is there in every single thought of mine. But i still feel that Swamis decision is going to be the final one and He will not let us down.

His delays are not His denials.

Just sit and pray to Saibaba. He will show you the way.
Even in darkness light dawns for those who believe. Let's believe.

I know it is very painful and difficult-i am also in the same stage but nothing has gone away from our hands till we loose hope. Saibaba can change anything at the last moment also.

You know iam seriously groaning in the pain of separation but Swami is there to guide.
He will not let His devotees down.

With this hope only I am waiting for Anjan.

I am sorry if anything that I said is wrong.

Sairam.

Take Care

Regards
Jaya.

[shreesh]

om sai ram
U r very true...
God bless u jaya behan

Om Sai Ram