Om Sai Ram,
Dear Adwaita,
No ,,u should not to be sorry..u r absoluetly right..,,,,,....
I was also thinking in sometimes before tht ,,girls are suffering more than boys belive me..But the reason tht ,, y I hv changed my this thoughts,, just read my ths experience..
As I had told u all before tht,, I had prayed on 12th November,2005 at Shirdi ,before me & my love tell to our parents abt our love & abt marriage.. & my beloved had told to his parents on 29th November,2005..their parents had deniend due to the caste problem only...
Now,, at tht time My final years exams were going on.... so he hadnt told me abt this.. he told me abt ths on 15th december,2005.. Now at tht time he also toled me tht ,, forget all ths things,, he cant go against his parents,, at those days I was so shocked & also thought tht,,boys are like ths only......
Now ,, I had stopped talking wth him.. but after every 4 days he just ask me thru SMS ,,just
H R U??? & i just replied,,, my beloved has one younger cousin brother,,his this cousin is also some how ,,in touch wth me.. & my beloved share his each & every things wth him...ths cousin had started to forward some SMS to me at this time..
now in june ,,when my bday in 2006 ,, came I have got his cousin's messgae at morning 6:00 Am..but not my loved one's ..so I was quite disappointed.. than I had called my belove on my bday . n say tht,, just wish me..its my bday...he told me OH SORRY I HAVE FORGOTTEN,,WHCH HURTS ME A LOT.........THEN MMANY DAYS PASSED..
Now ,, with me ths beloved 's cousin ,, to whom I am in little contact.. we hadnt met before,,I had called him ,,to just meet me..
He met me,, first he had nt said me anything abt my beloved,, but after seeing my innocent face,, he said ok,, I am sharing all the things wth u,, but U pls dnt tell his cousin (my beloved) abt this,,,,,I said ok ,, I am promissing u..
then wht he had started made me to cryyyyyyyy.. He told,, tht My beloved had informed his family tht,,,He wont marry wth anyone through out the life,, He is suffering from severe headache all the time,, he also met to many doctors but,, still its nt cure,,,
thn I argue tht,, I dnt think so..even he had forgotten my birth day,, then his cousin said,,who said to u ths,, even last night of ur bday,, he told me (to his cousin) tht please wish her tommorrow,, its her bday!!!!!!!! See how he had done drama,,,,
His cousin said,, his father had told him,, tht he has to choose between them or me..
his cousin said,, he loved u a lot..and every time talks abt u only,, but his father is more aggressive abt ths matter.. and ,, also his family is depended on him only right now..
Now just think,, How they are feeling?? just think frm their point of view only.. he is trying his best,, but his father is not getting agree..in this case ,, So he said to his parents,, ok I neither I will marry to my love nor I will marry to anyone else.......
thts y I m praying SAIBABA ,, tht now only SAIBABA Can help us.........Only he can.........
JAY SAI RAM
Dear sairang,
of course no girl wants her husband/lover to leave his parents right away or without any reason, although she comes to him leaving her home. also its injustce to leave them who hv been with him fr mre than 20 yrs but also one thing is, isnt he going to spend the remaining life with his wife which is more than sme 50 yrs. so equal imprtnce shuld be given irspctve of the person being a blood relation. all the girls who pray here n who r waiting fr their luv desprtly doesnt mean tht they do not luv their parnts or value them. even the girls luv their parents like the guy. but y do we see only girls cming to all the forums all the time. may b the guys r nt tht sentimntl, bt its evidnt tht girls suffer mre. pls forgive me if my wrds r offendng. baba bless all n be with them always. om sai ram.
Om Sai Ram,,
Dear All,
Just read ur past two days discussions.. Well I want to add in this,,,
As u had told that,, ALL BOYS ARE WITH THEIR MOM ,,THEY R NOT SUPPORTING US...SAI BABA PLS GIVE THEN SADBUDDHI..
BUT,,i AM FEELING THT,, I FEEL LUCKY WHN MY LOVE GIVE MORE IMPORTANCE TO HIS PARENTS RATHER THAN ME OR TO ANYONE.....
SEE,,IF OUR LOVE CAN LEAVE HIS PARENTS (WHO HAD SERVED HIM FOR 23 YRS??) THN HE CAN ALSO LEAVE US(WE HAVE SERVED HIM FOR ,,IN MY CASE 3YEARS) FOR ANYONE ELSE ONE DAY!!!!!!!
SO HE HAS VALUE FOR THOSE WHO HAD SERVED HIM FOR 23 YRS?? SO HE ALSO HAS VALUE FOR US THEN..
Tht is another thing tht he has to try to convince to his parents for us.. tht is I guess All our love boys are doing in any way......
But If my love had left their parents for me,, thn I will also leave him.. I only respect the MAN who respects his parents....
Anyways Saikrupa Karo ji,,,
Read all ur inspiration messages ,, thanks for boosting,,but just pray for me tht,,
I will never loose my trust on BABA....
JAI SAI RAM