Does sai baba support love marriage

[SaiRangdaughter]

Om sai ma

Dear Keerthidi ,,

Thanks for sharing this..

I know that whtever will be happened its for the best,,,

But One thing is tht ,, tht whn three & half years back I have started this relation ,, before starting even this relation I went to BABA 's tmeple & said,, baba now this matter is urs,, U need to take care of it.. still this is happening so I am little hurt..

But Now I dnt have any desire ,, tht is I think best thing,,,,

No any other word,, just needs ur blessings Keerthidi ,, Pls ever include me in ur daily prayers,,,

I cant stop myself to enter in this forum again because of u all dears,,,

Om sai ma

  :)SAIRANG DAUGHTER ji, OM SAI RAM  i read your post at the forum
  :)take it this way  that BABA has showed you his true colors and saved u before marrige
  :)What is best for his children BABA only knows
 :)May be he feels that the boy you have choosen is not the right choice for you
  :)So dont say you will move out of this family, we will not let you go
  :)May be you will not understand BABA's ideas now  in the long rum you will come to realise why BABA
                          did not allow the love marriage with this happen
Then you will surely come back to KEERTHI DIDI and say yes this what i have relaised BABA is always right and he has saved my life from that boy whom i loved till y'day. i am confident that you will come back with this note of mine
Waiting to hear fm you soon KEERTHI SISITER OM SAI RAM
BUZZ!!!
BUZZ!!!

 

[SaiRangdaughter]

Om sai ma

Dear Ramajaya ,,,

I was also thinking like u are thinking right now,,,

But I felt now like I have cheated ,, and once u loose tht respect of ur said hubby ,, thn I think thr is no relation ...

I dnt have any respect for him now,, WO meri nazar mein se hi uttar gaya hai aab...

Chahe jo bhi pressure ho parents ka,, par agar uske parents ke samne me kuch bhi nahi uske liye thn ,, forget about tht poor boy....

anyways

Shayad baba bhi yehi chahte hai,,,

I have decided to marry wth baba's choiced person ASAP.

so now I am also wth my parents & baba pls jaldi meri shaadi karvado as per ur choice boy .. Mujhe wo accha laage ya naa laage baba ko aacha lagta hai meri liye thn its ok for me..

Om sai ma

See. I can understand your feelings very well; but would like to tell everybody one thing.

Our love doesn't go just because our love has left us.
Let us prove them that though we are ignored, our love is true and our hearts will always think of them.
Let us set goals in our professional life and achieve them and earn good names to our parents.

And remember, this power of love will bring our love towards us.

Just leave it to Saibaba. Just say "Swami will take care of everything. I have given it to Him", then see the miracle.

With this consolation only Iam waiting for my Anjan..
My love for him will always long and wait and iam sure this love will bring my anjan back to me.
Swamis grace can be showered unexpectedly on us, provided we have unflinching faith in Him

And yours also
So Sairangdaughter please come to this forum and give your suggestions, solutions and comfort to others like how i do...

You will find your happiness getting doubled by this action.

Come on dear..Life has many best things instore for you..


Sairam
Jaya Anjan (ramajaya)

[SaiRangdaughter]

Om sai ma

Suhani dera,,,

thanks a lott for sharing this very good thought,, & experience of baba,,

Suhani mera baba par se vishwas na kabhi dagmagaya hai na kabhi dagmagayega,,,,

Par tumhare vishwas aur mere vishwas mein thoda difference hai,,,

Mein baba ke upaar aeae vishwas karti hoon ki Wo aant mein jo bhi karenge wo thik hi karenge,,

Aur tumhara yeh vishwas hai ki baba aant mein hamari wish poori karenge,,

Dono aapni jagah sahi hai ,, aur dono ko aapni tarah se vishwas hai....

so I am waiting now for wedding wth baba's choice of groom soon..

Aur mere chahne se kuch nahi hoga ,, sab kuch baba ki marzi se hi hoga,,,so not worrying abt it..
now no desire frm my side...

Tumko pata hai suhan,, kaal mere ek frn ne kaha ,, mujhe to laagta hai ,, tum tumhare Love se jyaada I think BABA Ko jyaada chahti ho.. nd I think its true also .. I cannot live wthout BABA ..

Suhani tumhari shadi mein jaroor bulane mujhe,,ok

Om sai ma

om sia ram

very wel said jaya......
this is the only way to set things ryt..
to surrender everything.....
and do our duty.....it also helps in divertin our mind....

sai rang.....

dear its tough ...
but remember that baba will not give us more than we can handle...
even ur parents are lookin for some bridegroom for u ryt?

u know just a few days back i ws upset as well.....
i asked baba for a miracle that helped some marrg purpose....
and th very next day i received one.......

it ws....
In 1924, a marriage agreement was made between G.G Shirian, an ardent devotee of Sri Sai Baba and his friend. It was purely a gentleman’s agreement. The gentleman’s son should wed Shirian’s daughter after completing his education.

The boy completed his education. His market value went up. More and more people began to offer their daughters to him, with Varadakshina. Shri Shirian was poor by their standards, but he had faith in Sri Sai Baba. He gave vent to his feelings before Sri Sai Baba’s photo, who appearing in his dream that night, assured him that He would give the same boy in marriage to his daughter in two year’s time.

In the mean time, the boy’s parents were busy with negotiations and proposals. But each of the proposals fell through for some reason or the other. At the end of two years, the boy himself felt ashamed and told his parents, that all these things were happening because they broke the agreement. Realising their mistake, the friend repented and the marriage
took place in two year’s time as fixed by Sri Sai Baba.

whatever he said will surely come true....

in our case also a promise ws made whch is broken but we have to wait..........
wait coz baba is there to help us....he is there to do us justice.......
when we have told him our problem.....
all we need to do is NOTHIN......but read bout him do ur work
and when thots bout ur loved one disturbs,,,,,,remember baba,,,tell him ur condition and ask him y he made tht thot to come to u........

everything will b alryt.....

om sia ma
love
suhani

[saisan]

Om sai ram
Hi Sairang...how r u? y'day by reading ur post felt very bad and i know how its painfull as even i have gone through......and how much i sufferred. and in this we can't blame god as when our love is not true to us whom we can blame.....I went to baba temple y'day, and i don't know i remembered u and prayed for u that ur pain shud be reduced and please aisa rulaye mat.....
see ur sentence say
But One thing is tht ,, tht whn three & half years back I have started this relation ,, before starting even this relation I went to BABA 's tmeple & said,, baba now this matter is urs,, U need to take care of it.. still this is happening so I am little hurt..
when u carried this relation by baba's wish then y u hurt its his way of solving problem....
just wait n see and leave to baba
Om sai ram Baba please bless her .remove her pain

[SaiRangdaughter]

Om sai ma

Thanks saisang a lott for truely praying for me....

Only one more thing to share wth u ,,I had read one post in this Does Saibaba supports luv marriage ,,,

Tht girl's parents are against her.. she used to choose chit in front of BABA..

this is well known method.. It has its own pros n cons,, as I had a word wth Suhani regarding methos & its true also tht this method most of the time give u false answer due to our less concentration n devotion..

But still jab mein bahoot confuse hoti hu ,, ki aakhir baba chahte kya hai ?? tab mein unko yaad karke chit utha ti hu... or belive me I had done this i think 200 times in this 2 years.. in 190 times it comes negative tht baba doesnt want me to go wth my love...

Previously i used to ignore it... but later on i tried to belive it .. n even I now know tht with whom baba wants me to marry .. tht Guy's surname is Mehta ...I know baba wants me to get marry wth him only .. many many indication he had given me....

I thought baba mere sath aesa kaise kar sakte hai .. and tht GUy has done CA Inter ....

If I want to now choice the guy ,,thn I wusd like to choice more educated than me,,, but in this case I need to compromize....

ABB CHAHE BABA MERI WISH POORI KARE YA NA KARE ,, MEIN BABA KI WISH ZAROOR POORI KARKE RAHOONGI......FIR CHAHE MUJHKO KITNA BHI INITIALLY SAHEN KARNA PADE.....

om sai ma

Om sai ram
Hi Sairang...how r u? y'day by reading ur post felt very bad and i know how its painfull as even i have gone through......and how much i sufferred. and in this we can't blame god as when our love is not true to us whom we can blame.....I went to baba temple y'day, and i don't know i remembered u and prayed for u that ur pain shud be reduced and please aisa rulaye mat.....
see ur sentence say
But One thing is tht ,, tht whn three & half years back I have started this relation ,, before starting even this relation I went to BABA 's tmeple & said,, baba now this matter is urs,, U need to take care of it.. still this is happening so I am little hurt..
when u carried this relation by baba's wish then y u hurt its his way of solving problem....
just wait n see and leave to baba
Om sai ram Baba please bless her .remove her pain

[saikrupakaro]

om shri sai

dear sairang, felt bad to se your post,what i can say is just go with the wind, be quite be with us let things go...................

i m  happy to see suhani  motivational  post.

Keerthi akka , u r back glad to eee that, akka i want you to help sairang , as you r the most loved child of baba, plzz see  in your prayers whether baba wants her to wait or proceed.

i can understand this is really difdfucult time for all of us.

dreams and trust are virtual things which when be broken the pain is immense.

sai rang dont leave us all.

we were frends ans family we still be ogether.

sai baba has put all to gether , we share not only same dream but we all share many a things.

so be with us.

you will feel good i m sure.

sai baba plzz help us all
om shri sai

[saikrupakaro]

Sadguru - God Saibaba!

Agnaani mein janmon se Sayee.... Eswar ko naheen jaan paatha
Tere karuna ki ek jhalak se... Khudaa ko mein ne pahli baar dekhaa

"Being ignorant since many births, Oh Sai, I haven't known God!
By the flash of your mercy, I see God for the first time!"

What is the most important thing one could get from Sadguru Sainath? He Himself said that although He is willing to give from His open coffers, most are not inclined to seek it. After every desire is answered and the truce between needs and wants established, Sadguru begins His work on the chosen ones. The most competent Sainath has innumerable ways that he chooses according to the nature of the devotee.

God vision, the realization of the supreme, the purpose to any quest, realization of the self, knowledge of the absolute, these are some of the descriptors of the dormant quest one might have in the spiritual path. The satsang with Sadguru is never passive! It is not a choice!

Is Saibaba a mere Guru or God himself? This is a stale question as any reader of books on Saibaba can say that Baba appears to those in whatever form they chose. Stories abound where Saibaba appeared as Vitthal, Shiva, Dattatreya, Jesus and other forms of divinity. In spite of this, is there a question whether Saibaba is just a siddha purusha, someone who acquired supernatural powers due to saadhana or He the absolute beyond all siddhis? Is He the God? What is God? What are God's attributes? None is able to describe this. Hence, even the question whether Baba is God or not, is not completely legitimate and at the best can only be a relative rhetoric! To make this simple, if one would choose any form of God within one's confine, describe the attributes of such a form, Rama, Shiva, Jesus, Krishna, Vishnu, Allah or Buddha, all those attributes can be found in the perfect master of Shirdi. If God is defined as an object of faith, the faith will reveal God's form.

[saikrupakaro]

Miracles!

Miracles happen in every one's life on a periodic basis. Some notice it while others do not. Miracles come in various shapes, forms and the effect it has on the person who experiences or witnesses it. Miracles need to be differentiated from a magician's trick. For most people when they experience something out of the ordinary, it appears as a miracle, especially more so if that is tied to some religious or spiritual topic or subject.

For some, a life saved in the most adverse situations is a miracle! For some, things materializing out of nowhere are a miracle! In the early 1960s, western scientists performed controlled experiments on some Mediums (in this context, a medium is a person who can communicate with souls from other worlds using their clairvoyant skills) and noticed that a medium could call on external forces and have the furniture around them moved about or hang in mid air. (One can go on the Internet and read about the experiences of many such great Mediums.)

Witnessing something that seems impossible or out of the ordinary alone should not be labeled as a Miracle. The effect that the said miracle has on both the object and subject are equally important. Nature has in its fold many hidden attributes, properties and laws that we are not aware of. Human beings stumble upon these hidden aspect of nature periodically, discover and later apply them to use. These discoveries have been happening since time immemorial. What seems common like a cell phone or ipod today would be a miracle for someone from the earlier centuries!

Miracles that tend to have materialistic aspects such as materializing objects or things are more geared towards satisfying the ego of a person who craves for influencing, seeing or observing something. It is either help from the other side as a medium or direct knowledge of the hidden laws of nature that are used to perform such miracles. Scientists agree that this universe comprises of atoms and sub atoms that are in constant motion. The whole universe is in constant motion! It is further said that single unbroken particles are rotating around their vortex. According to some Meta physicists, it is the speed at which particles are rotating around its vortex that makes it visible or not. For instance, take a table or mountain, it appears as a solid to the naked eye but deep within each particle is rotating on its vortex but at a very slow speed. On the other hand, consider gas or air, it is also composed of particles that are rotating at a very fast speed around its vortex. By slowing the speed of the vortex of particles one can make the particles appear to the naked eye.

When one embarks on a spiritual journey and constantly practices meditation, one gains knowledge of lot of hidden treasures of Nature. A truly spiritual advanced soul will not use this knowledge for any personal gain. They may use these to aid in healing the sick and needy as the great Reiki masters do. On the other hand, Perfect Masters such as our Sadguru Shri Sai do not need to perform any miracles. They are in such a high state of consciousness that their mere wish becomes the command for Nature! Their mere glance satisfies and nourishes the hungry soul. Cheap miracles are not their calling cards! The biggest miracle Shri Sai performs is to change the nature of the person whom he attracts inside out and continue with it in life after life so that it attains perfection to the same state that He is in!

(Contributed by MR)

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EXPERIENCE OF DEVOTEES:

Swati
Saibaba, thank you for helping my son become calm and understanding. Everyone was telling us it is his age that makes him behave like the way he does. One day my friend told me that she was reading Sai Satcharita for her son's help and immediately I thought to do so. (Before marriage I used to go to Saibaba temple every Thursday for the evening Arati and it used to make me feel good, however after coming to the US I thought of Baba on and off but did not find out about continuing my devotion here). When I heard my friend was doing so, it felt like Baba was saying He would help me and He has not forgotten me. The day I started reading the book was the first day I saw a change in my son. By the time I finished the book he was a different child. Baba gave me strength to talk to him and somehow made changes in him that he listened to what I was telling him. (The same thing we had been saying for the last 2 years) I told him that I was reading Sai Satcharita to help him go through this difficult phase in life where his body was going through changes and making him behave bad. I asked him if he would like for me to read it loud out to him, he declined. When I started reading, he would take a book and read in the same room as me (he always resisted reading before) and would ask me everyday, what did you learn about Baba's life today. All this is a miracle for me. Thank you for blessing him, I know now You will be with him for the rest of his life and help him through his difficult times. I pray that You accept him as a devotee.

Venkata
I am from Bangalore, presently in USA. I had a great desire to visit USA. One of my friends told me to visit the Baba temple every Thursday continuously for seven weeks. This happened in the year 2000. I think I did seven weeks, but not continuously. So the wish did not happen. I was discussing about this to my colleague last month (October 2007). He asked me to visit the Baba temple in Bangalore. First I went to the temple at JP Nagar and later that week I went to the temple in Ulsoor. After that, I was doing my work as ever before. No possibility of visiting USA was in site. Suddenly one fine day, my manager said, I have been selected for a project in USA and I need to be there as soon as possible. Everything happened like magic. Within 14 days of my manager's announcement, I reached US. I am now in US. I still don't believe how it all happened. My heartfelt thanks to Baba. I am feeling the miracle and enjoying it. Thanks to my friend too. He is a devotee to the core. I wish and pray to Baba, to shower His blessings to all those who seek it.

Sitapati
I was suffering from heartburn for a while. I was too scared to go to doctor and ignoring it for some time. Everyday I used to pray Baba to cure me and relieve my symptoms. One fine day with Baba's blessings my condition got better and since then my symptoms are gone. I have done endoscopy also and everything came normal. Baba is always there for us and you just have to have the patience. Sraddha and Saburi are the two things we should have and Baba is always there for us. May Baba shower His blessings on all his devotees.

[saikrupakaro]

QUOTATION OF THE WEEK:

"Fortunate are those who keep My name on their tongue."-Shri Sai Baba

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[saikrupakaro]

om shri sai

dear all,
can anybody tell the live darshan of shirdi is not coming with some technical reason , i mean its happening  with everyone.

Om shri sai

[saikrupakaro]

  HEY SAI BABA PLEASE HUM SAB PAR APANI KRUPA KARO

[saikrupakaro]

Baba has promised, “I shall be active and vigorous even from the tomb,” and it is perhaps in the Mandir that we can most fully experience the phenomenon of Sai Baba and the remarkable way he has touched the hearts and lives of millions of people from all over the globe.   Baba’s omniscient presence is felt when one has Baba’s glance, when one sits at Baba’s feet .

[saikrupakaro]

  To the devotees of Sai Baba, Dwarkamai is one of the treasures of Shirdi. The spirit of tolerance, acceptance and welcome for all is very much alive. Baba has said that merely going inside the mosque will confer blessings, and the experiences of devotees confirm this. Sai Baba respected all religions and creeds, and all had free access to the mosque. It is typically unique of Sai Baba that he regarded a place of worship – the mosque – as a mother.

[saikrupakaro]

Many years ago in a small village,


A farmer had the misfortune Of owing a large sum of money to a village moneylender.


The Moneylender , who was old and ugly, fancied the farmer's beautiful Daughter. So he proposed a bargain.


He said he would forgo the farmer's debt if he could marry his Daughter. Both the farmer and his daughter were horrified by the Proposal.



So the cunning money-lender suggested that they let Providence decide the matter.


He told them that he would put a black Pebble and a white pebble into an empty money bag. Then the girl would Have to pick one pebble from the bag.


1) If she picked the black pebble, she would become his wife and her father's debt would be forgiven.


2) If she picked the white pebble she need not marry him and her father's debt would still be forgiven.


3) But if she refused to pick a pebble, her father would be thrown into Jail.


They were standing on a pebble strewn path in the farmer's field. As They talked, the moneylender bent over to pick up two pebbles. As he Picked them up, the sharp-eyed girl noticed that he had picked up two Black pebbles and put  them into the bag.


He then asked the girl to pick A pebble from the bag.



Now, imagine that you were standing in the field. What would you have Done if you were the girl? If you had to advise her, what would you Have told her?



Careful analysis would produce three possibilities:

1. The girl should refuse to take a pebble.


2. The girl should show that there were two black pebbles in the bag And expose the money-lender as a cheat.


3. The girl should pick a black pebble and sacrifice herself in order To save her father from his debt and imprisonment.


Take a moment to ponder over the story. The above story is used with The hope that it will make us appreciate the difference between lateral And logical thinking.


The girl's dilemma cannot be solved with Traditional logical thinking. Think of the consequences if she chooses


The above logical answers.


What would you recommend to the Girl to do?


Well, here is what she did ....


The girl put her hand into the moneybag and drew out a pebble. Without Looking at it, she fumbled and let it fall onto the pebble-strewn path Where it immediately became lost among all the other pebbles.


"Oh, how clumsy of me," she said. "But never mind, if you look into the Bag for the one that is left, you will be able to tell which pebble I Picked."


Since the remaining pebble is black, it must be assumed that she had Picked the white one. And since the money-lender dared not admit his Dishonesty, the girl changed what seemed an impossible situation into An extremely advantageous one.


MORAL OF THE STORY:

Most complex problems do have a solution. It is only that we don't Attempt to think.

 

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