Does sai baba support love marriage

[saisan]

Om sai ram,
Thanks a lot Devaki ji,
For me its a very big thing that u prayed to baba for me.I am thankful to u thru out my life.
If any of ur wish i will pray for u.baba listen to her and let our faith on u grow.
Even i want to prove him that baba is great.
Hey but why u donating one month salary for me and going shirdi for me... plz....don't do like that .....baba plz take care of this.
sure i will keep chanting his name ....

Om sai ram,
Baba please be with her through out her life.protect her in each step of her life and guide her....om sai ram ...

om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai

[Devaki]

Come on Saisan, Its a way of showing gratitude to baba if he fulfills your wish!
Nothing great in it. Everything is given by him...With his grace I earn a lot.
and also no thanks for me till we are successful in getting his blessings!You are the first one in this
forum who addressed your grief to me.Feel Am your good friend..So dont be formal on anything!

Baba pls bless.. We are waiting...

[saisan]

om sai ram
Dear Devaki, so sweet of u
Ya i know ....its way of showing gratitude to baba to fulfill our wishes.
I know nothing happens beyond his wishes... so i said baba to take care of ur wishes abt salary n other things
I am thankful to baba to make me meet u as a freind ..thanks baba.
Baba plz bless me now ....om sai ram.ya lets pray..im doing chanting his name at office.

[shreesh]

Om Sai Ram

Yesterday was a hard day for me.....Since morning I was having some bad feelings which actually happened in the evening..... The only thing I know now is that I am now without any hopes, and everything ended yesterday.... I was saying "Om Sai Ram" when I was happy and I am saying "Om Sai Ram" when I am crying.... I dont want to think about it anymore as my thots go to the direction where I think that Baba has done this bad to me (which I dont want to think) So I just cry and say nothing...... I wish good luck  to u all frends..... I hv killed my hopes myself after seeing what all is happening around me and I think tht was the only way which could have prevented me from committing suicide.... The incident which happened has left a blot on my faith and my mind..... not only my faith but the faith of those who prayed with me and for me.....

But still Sai is the supreme master I surrender myself to Him as it is His kingdom and I am too small to question Him....the master be cruel or gentle is the master afterall...... I would like to add that I dont have faith, patience and bhakti in my heart... It is Sai's grace by which I am able to take His name.......

I ask Baba to forgive me for all sins I have committed and I'll not ask Him for anything except this... I dont have any desire any wish.... Let the Master know that we mortal human beings, we feeble, tiny creatures don't have the right to wish.....Everything is governed by past Karma and you have to suffer for it....Then possibly there is no need for God..... Since I dont know the life beyond this life and have no curiosity or desire to get salvation, i really dont care what and how my fate is governed.....thus with all due respect to the King and my apologies if I said something wrong...... I again say "Victory to Sai"

I'll try to cope up with life as long as I can......Only one desire and only one wish....want to go back to my country and see my mother before I die....I dont even wish for that as if I am going to have some desire my bad luck will prevent it to happen........

Om Sai Ram

[Devaki]

Dear Saisan

Good Morning..You are in the right path.Chant only his name..I think we need to climb the mountain
to get the wish. hope we are half way through. Saibaba pls bless and accept our prayers as early as possible
pls pls baba...

Shreesh...
What is this man?? Accepted the failure, when your victory was near!.
No man dont do this..Have faith..it might not be sudden answer,But you
will be blessed.Sure I gurantee you..Dont think about suicide also..if it is not possible to
chant dont chant.. Almighty is seeing evrything..

Saibaba,

Pls baba dont be so unkind.. Forgive whatever the bad or past karma done by Shreesh.
Why punish for any past karma's when he doesnt remember it...If he had memory of it he would have rectified it.dont make him to pay his wish for any past karma.Pls baba bless with that one wish, this is not a big thing for you..Pls pls pls..


om sai ram om sai ram om sai ram om sai ram om sai ram om sai ram om sai ram om sai ram om sai ram

[saisan]

om sai ram shreesh,
I don't know what problem u have faced,but don't loose hopes.even baba must be suffering with u.
baba knows eevrything and every pain we suffer...until our bad karmas vanish he can't bless us.
and only praying him we can over come bad karmas.....suffer now don't postpone it.
I am also suffering but in one way im happy that coming days will be good for me as i have suffered my bad days.
just keep chanting baba's name ...it will decrease ur pain...pray without expecting anything ..just pray and pray ..he will bless u soon...this is testing time ...it will pass in no time ....keep praying hope baba bless u soon.
om sai

[shreesh]

dear devaki ji

Om Sai Ram

What can I do? i cant force somebody to do something... I feel helpless uptil now it was Swati's parents and now even she is saying the same thing.....She says that she is confused......but she also says that she can't be happy with me....suddenly she has changed so much....what hope should I live with... I feel sorry that I consulted Sai Baba question answer book for it said something else.......I feel sorry that I had asked Baba for this as it is hard to beleive that He refuses me for anything.... All I feel is sorry... I feel sorry for everything!

Om Sai Ram

[shreesh]

Om Sai Ram

Sai San

That is what I am trying to do.... not expecting anything just giving my pranams to Baba... and trying to remember Him with disturbed mind........

Om Sai Ram

[Devaki]

Dear Saisan

Very good..Chant not to lessen the pain, but to get your wish.Thats our mission..now.Yes I think baba listens to me.. He need to prove it now

Baba, Today already 4th day, I cant wait long as saisan did. I want you to do the things faster .. pls baba pls...Earlier it was 2 hands now 4 hands are praying you.. So dont delay pls pls

Shreesh
Sai ram!Dont worry.. everything will be alright..You lost hope on baba bcos Swati is confused and told you something.Swathi is a humanbeing.But sai is god..Did Sai told you anywhere that you wont get the wish.You only said that sai gave you positive hint through an answer..You are acting foolish as if the judgement was from Sai.. and stopped whatever faith you had..Is this is called faith...Just what sai might have felt at that time you wrote " you had no faith on him"and thought about your confusion..He must have felt the same way what you went through after Swati's episode..

Your prayer should be strong enough that makes sai to come and help you.So pray sincerely..Sai will bring swati to you.. 100%...Look at Saisan, waiting since 3 years.. still praying.. Now she is chanting every min of the day.. With that even I am praying for her.. To get sai's blessing for you your prayers should be more than us.. otherwise Sai will surely bless us fast as we are calling him sincerely..

So dont lose faith and hope.. Its competition... ..Prayer harder. ..It works..

If you any doubt in this.. Just check this forum..Within a month Saisan will post that her long cherished dream has been fulfilled by Baba.. Am sure of it..Then onwards you start praying.. until I think you can wait and watch..

Saisan..Bye for today..Holiday for me going home...We will meet tomm.. Keep on chanting. Will go to sai mandir today.. Now we both need to pray intensely...

Om sai ram om sai ram om sai ram om sai ram om sai ram om sai ram om sai ram om sai ram

[shreesh]

Dear Devaki Ji

I dont say that I dont have faith on Baba...Its the condition which have made me to lose all hopes... I am saying that I will not pray to Baba with the wish in mind...I'll just ask His pardon.....I can pray for Saisan, and other fellow members of the forum.... but what/ how should I pray for myself...when I am not able to see any ray of hope......

Om Sai Ram

[saisan]

om sai shreesh
Its not over.... still she is not married to others.
until u pray how will get hope.... read other posts in this forum ... u will know how things chnaged for ramajaya ..n all
this is what we have to prove ..baba can do anything om sai

[Ramajaya]

Dear Shreesh,

Sairam.

I can understand your pain but it is only you who can feel the pain.
But there is one who looks from a different angle altogether and it is only because of Him all these things happen. You would obviously know all these things; it is your situation that is making you feel like this. I have also crossed this situation.

When are you coming to India? Can you come to India on an emergency basis and meet up with Swatis parents and solve these issues, if possible.

If not, leave to Baba. I am sure He will not let any of His devotees down.
You will have a bright future. This is just a passing cloud.

You know, Anjan is not willing to talk to his parents now; something prevents him from talking about our wedding. I clearly told him not to talk.
I know Sai will make Anjan talk to his parents oneday. That day is not too far.
Anjan will  marry me by the grace of Sai.

As Saisan said Swati has not got married to anybody.
You have time. For Swami Saibaba anything is possible.

I am  a devotee of Sathya Saibaba also -In one of the books I read that we need to feel as though Sai is holding our hands and walking with us. Keep your prayers on. Imagine as though Sai is holding your hands and guiding you. He will not make you fall into the pit.

It is painfulto meet Anjan without any concrete relationship. I am scared to talk to him on anything because he has come back after a long time. It was not like this  for me before. I was very outspoken and i tell him everything i feel like.

Dont worry, we are destined to travel this way. I am sure the outcome or the result of this tiresome journey is going to be very good and fruitful because of Sai.

Just believe in Him.
He will not let His devotees down.

With this hope only I am waiting for Anjan to marry me.

Sairam.

Take care

Regards
Jaya.

[rekha.prasad]

Sai ram Shreesh,

I guess it was Swami's will to reach you. So He has already reached you through Jaya before I could post my reply .

In one of Swami's speeches way back in the 80's, He has quoted the following:

"Once Krishna and Arjuna were going together along the open road. Seeing a bird in the sky, Krishna asked Arjuna, "Is that a dove?" He replied, "Yes, it is a dove." He asked Arjuna, "Is it an eagle?' Arjuna   replied promptly, "Yes, it is an eagle." "No, Arjuna, it looks like a crow to Me. Is it not a crow?" asked Krishna. Arjuna replied, "I am sorry, it is a crow beyond doubt."

Krishna laughed and chided him for his agreeing to whatever suggestion was given. But Arjuna said,  For me, your Words are far more weighty than the evidence of my eyes; you can make it a crow, a  dove or an eagle and when you say it is a crow, it must be one." Implicit faith is the secret of spiritual  success.

The Lord loves, not the Bhaktha (devotee) but his Bhakthi, remember. The Lord's Grace is like rain,  pure water, falling equally everywhere; but its taste gets changed according to the soil through which it flows. So also the Lord's words are sweet to some, bitter to others. The Lord's ways are mysterious; He blessed Vidhura with the words, "Be destroyed" and Dhusshaasana with the words, "Live for a thousand years;" He meant that Vidhura's 'I' will be destroyed and that the wicked Dhusshaasana will have to suffer the ills and tribulations of this world for ten centuries. You do not know the real reasons behind the actions of the Lord."

Shreesh, you have been a source of positivity and faith for all of us in this forum. I know that the situations and circumstances make us weak, especially our loved ones and the way they respond to crisis. But all I can say is please don't lose heart.

Jaya keeps telling me, "Don't tell SAI how big your problems are, tell your problems how big your SAI is."

I think the only common thing that connects us all here is our invincible faith in Baba that He is there to carry our burdens. For me, things aren't any different than the other members here. But now that I have completely surrendered, Baba is going to do the needful to make my stay here a worthy one.

God gives us problems so we can learn our lessons from them. He is at work to perfect our soul. And man can never understand the mysterious ways of God. So during troubled times, just be.

I try to keep my mind centred on Baba and not cry or feel bad. He is my father and He would never have meant to make me cry. So I trust that He has a plan and I believe He is doing it for my own good. Baba always keeps His promises, so I continue to believe that He is working towards giving me my heart's desire. Things might not be going my way now, but His Kingdom is not limited by time, space, people and decisions. It's only His Will that is the ultimate truth. We are His chosen children simply because we have known Him so closely in this lifetime.

Baba appeared to me in my dream after Vijayadashami and told me that He is as real as our faith in Him and we get only so much as our faith in Him is. Long ago, when things were not going my way and I was in deep rut, I had similar thoughts as you. At that point, I could not bear any longer and surrendered to Sai and told Him that this life belongs to Him and it is for Him to give me a fulfilling life. And then I promised Baba that no matter what He gives me or not, I'm not going to stop believing Him or worshipping Him. Nothing has changed in the outer world from then, but I now have this strong and silent faith that everything will be fine since Baba is in-charge now.

And most of the times, it's our simple silent faith that creates miracles. Please read this when you find time.

http://forum.spiritualindia.org/does-sai-baba-support-love-marriage-t17021.0.html;msg195182#msg195182


Lastly, I'm very sorry for the long long post. Please forgive me if I have bored anybody, especially Shreesh. Shreesh, when I saw your post, I knew how I was in a similar situation myself, not wanting to live but cannot give up my responsibilities. Sai brought me through it and I'm sure he will bring you through it too.

I felt that sharing my experience would help in some way. Please forgive me if I have taken too much liberty.

Take care.

Regards,
Rekha

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[shreesh]

Om Sai Ram

@Saisan, Jaya, Rekha

Thanks a lot, but I think that if I am going to keep hopes then again I'll be shattered.....and even if I keep any hope I am not going to associate any of my hopes with my faith.... the way master wants let things happen that way.. I have a desire and have told it to master.. but what I mean to say is that I am not anything lessen my faith and after reading Rekha's post I just got the feeling that I am thinking on right direction.......

Its is not possible for me to go to India and even if it would have been possible what I would have done (when Swati herself is not sure and willing) talking to her parents?

Yeah she is not married to anybody else...but that doesn't matter me as long as she is not married to me. I wish her good luck and happiness with whom so ever she marries.. I asked her why have you done this? when u were so weak why did you took such steps, she has no answers for these questions. She has just one thing in her mind firmly and that is "she is not going to be happy with me as we are not compatible" Yes I agree we had fights quite often on petty issues.....as both are short tempered.... I am trying to overcome my shortcomings and hope the same for her too.....but she is not ready to buy this.....

Rekha

Thanks for such a wonderful thought.....May Baba bless u and shower His grace on you...thanks for understanding my situation.....and giving me the support....No it was not at all a boring post, rather was an inspiring one.......Keep the morale and tempo of the forum high with such posts....

Om Sai Ram

Shreesh