Dont Trust God

[saib]

Dear Vina,

Baba never favour fasting ………………..!

Suppose if your boss (father in case not in employment) is happy with you, and give his luxury car to You for some time. What you will do with that:

1. Do nothing, let it stand and after two days return to your Boss.
2. Drive So much on the roads without knowing where to Go.
3. Drive to beautiful places and enjoy the ride.

or

4. Just push the car, Draw scratches on the body of Car, break glasses ………….. damage car in any manner?

You will think hundred times for point no. 4, because it is not your Car, Given by your Boss and you have to return this to your Boss after a period of time.

In the same way, Dear, Our body is the vehicle presented to us in reward of our Karmas to perform the journey of life.  and at end we have to return this body to mother nature, No matter how we use, We are not the body.

Fasting is OK if you are in process of purifying your spirit or performing very special rituals. But just for convincing God to grant our wish, no way acceptable, It is a sort of emotional black mailing. God does not please with such tricks, If one thinks he can control The God by  powers, then who is more powerful than God, If by Tricks then God thyself is the source of all knowledge.

God don’t like if We torture our self for any reason.

If you want to know, How God is pleased or to reduce impact of Karmas, Just a few ways, I came to know through experiences or reading various scriptures:

Control the senses:
1. Eat only when required, Not be slave of taste. If possible share the food, Donation of food to NEEDY is biggest donation.
2. Rise Early, Meditate on Lord’s Name.
3. Listen only divine things, Don’t get in worthless Gossips, even have to listen, don’t let the same stay in mind.
4. Speak, only sweet words, Less Speaking is always Good.
5. Think Positive and Good.
6. Help others, if you will take care of others, God will take care of You.

In nutshell Serve others and Devotion (Seva and Sumiran) are the two path that leads to God, On this path one does not Go to God, But God thyself come to such a devotee to take him in his own world.

If fulfillment of worldly desires would be reason of a happy life, then rich people never feel any pain, but still lots of millionaires and billionaires are going through painful phases of their life. This is Maya, Granting of one wish generates another and this cycle keep on running. There is no end.

So, one should do best in Karmas, but in expectations always keep in mind:

“Jis Hal Mai rakhe Sai
Soi Hal hame soi”

This is what I think, not asking you to think same or change your believes immediately, but just have a thought, what you are doing, Is it right ?? Because if you just see around there are so many people who are performing various rituals for long specially fasting, but no change in their situation ………………

If We Pray before a statue, Statue is not God, God is everywhere, Without God nothing exist, It is only to connect us to God who is in our heart.

There is a difference between performing Rituals and devotion, God do not want any ritual without emotion, Doing anything for God but with a heart full of Love for God ………… is enough!

May Baba Bless You and All!

om sri sai ram!

i already promise to baba that ill b in fasting for 1 month....
we must keep prms rite.....

[PiyaSoni]

Omsairam

@ Saib ji - vry nice post with lots of knowledge ,,Vina ji Saib ji is rite baba is never in favour of fasting even always want their devotees to have food even baba cooked by his own hands for their bhakts , then hw cn baba see yu hungry and having pain , if yu want to do smething give love to baba show yur faith & patience to baba (Shardha Saburi ) two coins ..which baba wants from yu......

If yu r able to offer this to baba , then Baba himself will take care of yu with giving ten fold love ...

Jis Haal Mein Rakhe Sai
Uss Haal Mein Rehte Jao
Tufaano se Kya Ghabrana
Tufaano Mein Behte Jao

Om Shri Sai Nathaya Namah....

[Devbani]

Baba the grace of baba today I have the answer of Sujitha. We all attended the classes and here are different kind of students we see there. Some are always breaking the rules but teacher never said them anything and just ignore their acts. So can U say these were special for teachers, " NO"
Actually they are fully spoiled in the eye of teacher, they are hopeless students for them. And those who are always punished by teacher only for his single mistake, they are hopeful students for the teachers.
Exactly same is here on earth, if some are enjoying with their sins/misdeeds it doesn't mean that God is cruel. Actually they are hopeless & people like us , are doing struggle are really hopeful in the eyes of God.
I want to be always his Good and hopeful student & I wish that the person who hurt me a lot in the veil of friendship Jesu dickson, he would be a Good & hopeful student too......amen

[Well-wisher]

Om Sai Ram

[vina]

i know i did mistake..im realz.coz of me 1 of my friend get upset with me..its going to be 1 month,i msg him call him..applze to him but theys no respon at all/everyday i beg... to him..but i dont know why he still dwn to forgive me..
he knows tht im very2 sensitif.....person,,,,but why he stil do like tht...

[SaiSevak!9]

@Devbani sis,

dat was really cute!

[aquafish]

Dear Vina,

This is my train of thought. First u accept ur mistake right, so forgive urself. we are human, we make mistakes. Then ask Baba for forgiveness and then just live ur life...Each person has his own inhibitions. Some forgive sooner some dont. U apologised and that is that. u cant control others emotions right? So wait for your friend, to get over it and come to you. if u push him more, he might get more irritated. Be rational.

take care and dont beat yourself up too much about it.

BTW this weekend I had the opportunity to attend a sai bhajan. I was helping to decorate and everything, so I got to make maalas for baba, light the diya, offer food and serve him and even arranged the whole setting. Felt good. And I prayed for everyone...

Om sai ram

[vina]

thanks yar for ur advice....if  just a friend i can wait...but he is my boy friend.working at same place...every time when i try to talk to him...he will ignore me...treat me like a enemy....i already send him more then 100 msg &call him no reply at all...i hurt his close friend...coz his frnd  keep on send my msg to my bf....if normal msg im ok...msg tht any girl also cannot   take it..i told my bf.to keep distance frm her....but he dowan to listen to me.........

i feel want to resign my job...coz i cannot take it..every time he pass by my plc,,,he make dont know..and show face to me..going to be 1 month im on fasting,,,with hope he will forgive me and realize why i did such think...but everyday end up with dissptd

[aquafish]

Vina,

if its BF, its more apt what I said...Just ignore him too...If u keep chasing him, he will run..Just stay sane and let him figure it out..and frankly u cant control his emotions...and even with his buddies, let him decide...controlling can bug anyone..and u realized ur mistake..let him assess it now...So if u message him more n more, it doe not give him time to analyse and forgive..so take a step back...u did ur work, now let him figure it out..

I am going thru the same thing and trust me when i say it works...Just back off and live ur life..if he is urs, he will come back...dont push him away by being aggressive in ur messaging and all..let him miss u, etc etc...

take care
om sai ram

[saib]

Dear Vina,

Aquafish has advised rightly. For time being ignore everything. Have focus on your career. If possible start a course short-term or long term if have any career plan, also if can change your Job. It will help in long run.

om sai ram ! 

[vina]

thanks saib for ur advs.

actualy im working and the same time  im doing my further studies......im scared n wrrd wther i can focus on my studies or not..........

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[Devbani]

Do how much U can but expect nothing to anyone.........focus on Ur self........om sai ram

[saib]

Dear Vina,

Why Not! It is only in your hands. I only can advise, if you restore your strength, gain confidence and give a mission to your life, It will help you. Don’t know much about your IQ or EQ, But if you have interest study about thinking techniques like six hat techniques, Swami shivananda’s view and great article on power of thoughts, then you realize how mind is being effected and how our thoughts are governed by environment. For study it needs concentration, Fix time and adhere to timings, study books on fast reading skills, use time boxing techniques for study, developing these two techniques no course you will find difficult to finish. Raise your life.

Just to say, Even you don’t chose to change your life, always remember,, We are mortal, We have to die one day. When we return to that world and Lord simply ask, I bless you with human life, what did you do on earth, What reply you would give, I spent months or years just to convince a guy that I love him and finally He accepted and I spent my life as his partner or in worst case He was not convinced, I lived with this burden. A life full of tears and pain.

What do you think, Baba Lord would be happy on this reply?

or you would like to say, I did so many things for my parents, I grow plants, I helped poor kids in their study, I donate to feed hungry, I did whatsoever I could do for your world to make it more beautiful…………….!

Just think. What type of life you want to live. Know everything in life is temporary, No one can be unhappy for entire life or same no worldly happiness stay forever. This is only a cycle. So, it is better to stop chasing the shadows. Each moment of life is precious, So, always think what are you doing, is it really important, Is it worth. Remember to remain happy or unhappy, it is only in our hands.  Think about life, set priorities just thinking you have to get it approved by Baba, Just try (even it is difficult, still try), trust me, if you get on this path once wholeheartedly, Then Baba will never let you down, He will always remain with you just like a shadow!

May Baba Bless all of us!

om sri sai ram!

thanks saib for ur advs.

actualy im working and the same time  im doing my further studies......im scared n wrrd wther i can focus on my studies or not..........

l