DEAR SARALA, SAI RAM,
FIRST OF ALL I WOULD LIKE TO TELL YOU THAT I AM WRITING IN THIS FORUM AFTER A VERY LONG TIME, BUT HAVE BEEN READING AND PRAYING FOR THE PROBLEMS OF ALL SAI DEVOTEES IN THIS FORUM.....QUITE A FEW PEOPLE WILL SURELY REMEMBER ME IF THEY SEE THIS MESSAGE......BUT TODAY SOMETHING MADE ME REPLY TO YOUR POST AND I ALWAYS BELIEVE THAT IT IS SAI WHO DOES EVERYTHING......
I COMPLETELY UNDERSTAND THE LOVE YOU HAVE FOR THE GUY, BUT THAT SAME LOVE IS MAKING YOU BLIND FROM SEEING SO MANY THINGS AROUND YOU......
MY FIRST QUESTION TO YOU IS, DO YOU UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU ARE DOING?? I REALLY FEEL LIKE TELLING YOU SO MANY THINGS FOR WHICH THIS DAY OR THIS FORUM WOULD NOT BE ENOUGH......SO LET ME TELL YOU VERY FEW IMPORTANT POINTS.......
BEFORE YOU TAKE A DECISION TO CONTINUE THIS RELATIONSHIP, PLEASE PUT YOURSELF IN THE PLACE OF YOUR GUY'S WIFE AND IMAGINE HOW WILL YOU FEEL IF YOUR HUSBAND IS GOING TO HAVE AN AFTER MARITAL AFFAIR AND ALSO GET MARRIED TO THAT GIRL BY DIVORCING YOU AND THAT TO FOR NO MISTAKE OF YOUR......WILL YOU FEEL CHEATED OR NOT??......OR WILL YOU UNDERSTAND YOUR HUSBAND'S LOVE FOR THAT GIRL AND ALLOW THEM TO MARRY??...
ALSO THINK ABOUT THE FUTURE OF THAT CHILDREN, HOW WILL THEY FEEL AND WHAT WILL THEY DO IF THEY COME TO UNDERSTAND THAT THEIR FATHER HAS A SECOND WIFE......WILL YOU AS A CHILD OF A FATHER, BE HAPPY TO KNOW THAT YOUR DAD HAS A SECOND WIFE??
THINK ABOUT THE SITUATION OF YOUR GUY'S INLAWS, WON'T THEY FEEL THAT THEIR DAUGHTER HAS BEEN CHEATED?? WILL YOUR PARENTS BE HAPPY IN SUCH A SITUATION??
DON'T YOU THINK YOU ARE SPOILING THE LIFE OF ANOTHER GIRL JUST TO SATISFY YOUR DREAM OF MARRYING THAT GUY?? WILL YOU AS A WIFE OF THAT GUY ACCEPT THIS TO BE RIGHT??
TRUE LOVE OR SUCCESS IN LOVE NEVER MEANS THAT YOU HAVE TO MARRY THE SAME PERSON......TO SEE THAT PERSON LIVING HAPPILY AND FEELING HAPPY ABOUT IT IS ALSO TRUE LOVE.....
WHATEVER I TOLD YOU ABOVE IS NOT ANY LEGAL POINT AS YOU KNOW, ITS CONCERNED WITH PEOPLE'S FEELINGS......AND I AM NOT HERE TO HURT YOU OR TO SIMPLY POINT OUT YOUR MISTAKES, BUT DEFINITELY TO MAKE YOU THINK WHETHER YOU KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING AND WHETHER YOU KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING RIGHT OR WRONG......
I DO NOT KNOW YOUR AGE, BUT I AM TELLING YOU ALL THIS WITH ONLY ONE THOUGHT, THAT YOU ARE NOT KNOWING WHAT YOU ARE DOING AND YOU NEED TO THINK IN A BROADER PERSPECTIVE, RATHER THAN JUST THINKING ABOUT YOUR LOVE FOR THAT GUY AND ABOUT YOUR DREAMS.....
YOU ALSO SAID THAT IF YOU MARRY SOME OTHER GUY OF YOUR CASTE YOU WILL NOT BE ABLE TO FULFILL YOUR DREAMS.....HOWEVER I CANNOT ASSURE YOU ABOUT THAT BUT AT THE SAME TIME YOU CANNOT BLINDLY SAY THAT THE GUY WON'T ACCEPT YOU WISHES, WITHOUT EVEN KNOWING WHO HE IS......AND IF BABA HAS DECIDED TO FULFILL YOUR DREAMS OF A SOFTWARE COMPANY AND ORPHANAGE, THATS HIS PLANS AND HE KNOWS HOW TO DO IT THROUGH YOU, SO YOU DON'T HAVE TO WORRY......
ABOVE ALL, ITS ALL BABA'S LEELAS.....HE GIVES US TROUBLES IN LIFE AND GIVES US SITUATIONS TO MAKE MISTAKES AND TEACHES US SOMETHING THROUGH IT......IN THAT WAY WE NOT ONLY LEARN BUT OUR LEARNING THROUGH THAT MISTAKE ALWAYS REMAINS IN OUR MIND FOREVER, SO THAT WE ARE CAREFUL IN FUTURE......
IN ONE WAY BY GIVING US TROUBLES HE BRINGS US MORE CLOSE TO HIM AND ALSO FULFILLS OUR WISH FINALLY, WHICH NOT NECESSARILY BE WHAT WE ACTUALLY THOUGHT......
MY HUMBLE SUGGESTION IS FROM NOW ON, WHATEVER YOU DO REMEMBER SAI AND INVOKE HIS BLESSINGS BY PRAYING TO HIM AND ASKING HIM TO INTERFERE IN YOUR DECISION AND MAKE SURE YOU TAKE THE RIGHT DECISION......
FINALLY, IF MY WORDS HAD HURT YOU IN ANY WAY, I SINCERELY APOLOGIZE AND ALSO PRAY TO SAI TO BE WITH YOU GUIDE YOU AND GIVE YOU A PEACEFUL LIFE......OM SAI RAM!!!!!!