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Offline samyuktha

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Re: is marrying a person who is not settled in his job is wrong'a?
« Reply #1 on: November 16, 2007, 08:51:09 AM »
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  • jai ho sai baba ki!!!!!
    marrying isn't wnong and would never be.
    doing some job is better than doing nothing.
    with his divine grace he will settle soon.
    to earn your living if thats not enough.
    "WHY DON'T YOU DO A JOB???"

    GOD HELPS THOSE WHO HELP THEMSELVES.
    sainatha ki jai !

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    Re: is marrying a person who is not settled in his job is wrong'a?
    « Reply #2 on: November 18, 2007, 04:28:48 PM »
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  • dear samyuktha,

     marrying a person who is not settled yet is not wrong....but one needs to be careful because there can be several problems once you get married.... you will have to deal with lot of  issues-----make a checklist and as you can see from this forum  only we  all have so many problems - first inlaws, will a husband who is not settled be able to give you good  support? but if your would- be inalws are nice then its a different thing, second,  will the financial issues cause a problem  between you? third,  what if due to bad stars he continues to be like this for a couple of years,  or he may be more demanding emotionally and psychologically, what will  be its effect on your relationship?.... see its a matter of choice which you have to make....you need to weigh all the pros and cons very carefully.....

    finally, the most important, if you  believe that  this person is interested in making his own life through his own hard labour .... just to be sure that he does not  turn out to be a person who likes to rest on his wife's  shoulders/ money.... excuse  me if you do not like some of the things i have written... but i just wished to give you some points or ideas to think about....


    i hope in your case all the answers are positive and guide you to marry your love... MAY SAI BLESS YOU ALWAYS AND FULFIL YOUR DESIRES........

    Vandana
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    jab tune chintan maa ka kiya
    jab charon mein sir dhar hi diya
    jab us pe bharosa kar hi liya
     jab sab kuch us pe chhod diya

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    Re: is marrying a person who is not settled in his job is wrong'a?
    « Reply #3 on: November 18, 2007, 04:38:58 PM »
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    Re: is marrying a person who is not settled in his job is wrong'a?
    « Reply #4 on: November 18, 2007, 08:59:06 PM »
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  • Om Sai Ram~~~

    DON'T THINK EMOTIONALLY~~~~BE PRACTICAL~~~~


    Jai Sai Ram~~~
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    Aum ShantiH ShantiH ShantiH"~~~

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    May none suffer from grief or sorrow. May peace be to all~~~

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    Re: is marrying a person who is not settled in his job is wrong'a?
    « Reply #5 on: December 03, 2007, 03:37:00 PM »
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  • dear Samyuktha,
    Look at the divine grace in his eyes, see what really is there and You will find Shiva in our SaiNaath.
    And Shiva can even give you, which is not in there in your destiny.
    All we should know is how to ask. He has 100 thousand ways of showering his blessings. Trust in Gurudeva's feet and you will be blessed.

    Om Sai Ram
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    गुरुः साक्षात्परब्रम्ह तस्मै श्रीगुरवे नमः ||

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    Re: is marrying a person who is not settled in his job is wrong'a?
    « Reply #6 on: December 04, 2007, 03:40:37 AM »
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    Offline samyuktha

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    Re: is marrying a person who is not settled in his job is wrong'a?
    « Reply #7 on: December 12, 2007, 10:13:56 PM »
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  • thanks to all  for praying , om sai ram , ur prayers are our greatest strength , thank u to all sai devotees
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    Re: is marrying a person who is not settled in his job is wrong'a?
    « Reply #8 on: December 13, 2007, 02:47:13 AM »
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  • Dear Samyukta,

    Its' not wrong in marrying a person who is not settled in his job. But u have to think practically rather emotionally. U can wait for some time till he settles down. Believe in ur Sai and our prayers are wid u. He'll soon be blessed with a good job.

    Om Shri Sai Yash:kaya Shirdiwasine Namah
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    Baba mujh Dasi ko apne Charankamalon ki Sheetal Chaaya me Sthan de do.

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    Re: is marrying a person who is not settled in his job is wrong'a?
    « Reply #9 on: December 13, 2007, 05:02:58 AM »
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  • om sai ram

    u wanna marry a person who is may b not so well setteled in life.....
    but u r thinkin over th social aspect......and thts y may b u r a bit confused as to if its ryt or not.....
    our society is as such only....
    here happiness(actully status/in othr words ego/etc etc) is built upon a good job,overflowin salaries,good lukin life partners and all......

    but real contentment and peace is beyond all these .........at least not only these............
    as baba said there is no derth of nythin in my devotee's house,these things do not mattr for baba ..... and thn he is thr to take care of each one of us.

    ask him and follow his instructions.....
    he will take care of th rest

    om sai ram
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    Re: is marrying a person who is not settled in his job is wrong'a?
    « Reply #10 on: December 13, 2007, 01:36:50 PM »
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    om sai ram

    u wanna marry a person who is may b not so well setteled in life.....
    but u r thinkin over th social aspect......and thts y may b u r a bit confused as to if its ryt or not.....
    our society is as such only....
    here happiness(actully status/in othr words ego/etc etc) is built upon a good job,overflowin salaries,good lukin life partners and all......

    but real contentment and peace is beyond all these .........at least not only these............
    as baba said there is no derth of nythin in my devotee's house,these things do not mattr for baba ..... and thn he is thr to take care of each one of us.

    ask him and follow his instructions.....
    he will take care of th rest

    om sai ram

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    Re: is marrying a person who is not settled in his job is wrong'a?
    « Reply #11 on: January 06, 2008, 07:20:41 AM »
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    Re: is marrying a person who is not settled in his job is wrong'a?
    « Reply #12 on: January 06, 2008, 07:12:10 PM »
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    Re: is marrying a person who is not settled in his job is wrong'a?
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    Re: is marrying a person who is not settled in his job is wrong'a?
    « Reply #14 on: January 10, 2008, 01:22:20 PM »
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