Jai sai ram to everyone,
Everyone must be thinking that i keep vanishing from this forum and return back with some or the other problem.This time the problem is the extension of the same old problem...i.e in laws (mother in law, father in law and sis in law).My in laws have been staying with me for the past six months in our house.My husband keeps travelling and comes home once in 15 days.My relationship with my in laws was never good but this time it has become worse as they kept their habit of complaing about me to my husband even when he comes home for two days.We beared this for few months but now their habit of controlling my life has become unberable.Even in my house i am expected to dress like they desire,cook as per their wish and to top it all leave my daughter with them more often (they don't like my daughter spending time with me).I beared it for five long years...now it is unbearable............they even went to the extent of telling my husband that he did a mistake by marrying me as i was never their choice (btw ours is an arranged marriage).They even called up my dad and complained.Recently i learnt driving and i drive to work in a car given by my father.And my in laws don't like me drving that car as my father in law likes that car.......I am fed up with their demands and expectations.My mother in law uses foul languge, which i just cannot stand.In a fit of rage they even said that they are looking for a house for themselves (sis in law and father in law both are working)but even after 8 days they have not moved out neither have they stopped complaing about me.Inspite of saying and doing so much they still expect me to serve them food like before and ask their permission for everything.Each min that i spend in this house is watched over and then they complain to my husband who is already very busy working on a project in delhi.
Unable to bear all this my husband has told me to leave my job take my daughter and go along with him to his place of work.But i don't want to leave my dear house, my job , my car and spoil my daughetrs education by moving to that place for 2-3 months.This will infact fulfill my in laws wishes as they don't seem to leave our luxurious appartment.I don't know what to do.
I want everyone to pray for me and just wish that my in laws find a place for themselves and move out of this house in next two days.My in laws ahd already spoiled my marriage anniversary in jan and now they will spoil my birthday which is on 29TH sept (MONDAY).
PLS SAI MA HELP ME................
let my in laws move out of the house coz if they stayed any longer i will not be able live.
om sai namo namh
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Topic: its unbearable....pls help me sai ma (Read 3279 times)