Frustating with my relation

[srividhya012]

Saima , I am really confused ma. i feel really nervous and feel very sad for the action i have done . I am very sorry baba. You know right ma, Amma brought chitti to gound floor flat just because we wanted to help him in-spite of her financial and mental problems. I know baba, how a person with both financial and mental problem will suffer ( I have faced this @ my early part of my life ) "Illayamil kodumai Varumai". Thats why even many of them told us not to get the Ground floor flat ( Because of her attitude),, we just got it for her to help and support her.

You know right ma, From the beginning , almost most of the days , she used to fight with amma, me etc.. As far as my knowledge i have supported in almost all the ways. I do not know baba , whats the problem with her > why is she spoiling my character every where ...  She 's Talking too many things which cant be tolerated .. I do not know ma , what to do ... I have tolerated this kind of incidents 4 times just for the sake of my mother . Last week , i got so triggered that i used bad words to her and their family ( If she speaks 10 things against me , i am forced to speak atleast few ). I do not know whether its wrong or right ?

But i am feeling for this baba .. I feel that i should not have spoken anything and left as it is as i left before .. But this time , I do not know some thing forced me to speak against her.

Sorry baba, i am really frustrated and i am sorry about this ... Please forgive me baba for my mistakes and please do not punish me .

and please next time onwards , i should not open my mouth even if she speaks bad about me and you take care of her. Because , i am loosing my control, if i start opening my mouth. What is the Point now ma, whatever good things we did to her before , everything got vanished and still she had not stopped yelling @ us...

Anyways,, Please give me good health ( Both physical & Mental ).. She is now awaiting for the time for me to fell down so that my entire family will get shattered .. Do not know baba ,,, what is going to happen ... My entire family is in heavy metal pressure about my chitti ( We have started loosing all relatives because of her telling to them bad about us )..

Please help us to come away from this bad situation and please give me good health and mental peace forever and shower your blessings to me.

[SS91]

SaiRam,

Baba blessings.

"Let anybody speak hundreds of things against you, do not resent by giving any bitter reply. If you always tolerate such things, you will certainly be happy" (Ch. 19, P. 101-102) and in addition to make sure that they did follow His advice, used to say :

"He who carps and cavils at others, pierces Me in the heart and injures Me, but he that suffers and endures, pleases Me most." (Ch. 44, P. 237)


REPEATING GOD'S NAME
In speech, Sai Baba's most important advice was about repeating God's name. He Himself used to repeat  Allah Malik (God is Lord) constantly. He was fond of making others sing God's name continuously by day and night for a whole week. This is known as Nama-saptaha. Hemadpant also adds in Ch.27 :

"The efficacy of God's name is well-known. It saves us from all sins and bad tendencies, frees us from the cycle of births and deaths. There is no easier sadhana than this. It is the best purifier of our mind. It requires no paraphernalia and no restrictions. It is so easy and effective." (P. 145)

SUMMARY

In short, Sai Baba's advice on speech was as under:

(a) Not to speak cuttingly to anyone, so as to hurt-him to the quick. On the contrary one should bear the other person's outburst calmly!

(b) Avoid argumentation and disputation!

(c) Never indulge in slander-mongering or ridiculing others!

(d) Speak the truth always!

(e) Speak soft and sweet words!

(f) Keep your promise!

(g) Talk less and observe silence frequently!

(h) Repeat God’s name as often as possible!

JaiSaiRam

[marioban29]

Perhaps this mantra will free you from obstacles.

Here it is:


Powerful Mantra for Obstacles


This is a very powerful Shaabri Mantra dedicated to Guru Gorakhnath, which is recited to remove all kind of obstacles.Guru Gorakhnath had composed this mantra along with the numerous mantras for the benefit of the masses.  This is a mantra which has to be recited only one, while one is reciting this mantra one has to keep the image of Guru Gorakhnath in your mind and dedicate this mantra to him. This mantra is said to remove all obstacles in your path, and make your progress smooth and friction free.
This mantra is in the old Marathi script which I have tried to translate as best as I could.
Obstacles Removing Mantra
English Translation
Om namo adesh l Guruji ko adesh l
Pahila gan ganpati l chauda viddnche sarthi l
Jati sati kailaspati l balbhim maruti l
Aale vidhne nivari l Sai goraknath ki dwahi l
Guru ki shakti meri bhakti l Chale mantra ishwari vaacha l
Pind kaccha guru gorakshnath ka shabd saccha l

विध्न नाशक मंत्र
ॐ नामों आदेश l  गुरूजी को आदेश l
 पहिला गण गणपति l चौदा विधांच सारथी l
जती सती कैलासपती l बलभीम मारुती l
 आले विध्न निवारी l साईं गोरखनाथ की द्वाही l
 गुरुकी शक्ति मेरी भक्ति l चले मंत्र ईश्वरी वाचा l
 पिंड कच्चा, गुरु गोरक्षनाथ  का शब्द सच्चा l

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