Dear Sai Daas ji,
I am relatively new to this forum, but couldnt stop myself from writing to you. About 3 years ago I lost love of my life because of the same old caste/religion problem. The pain of that loss still remains but I know it is no where close of what you feel. I can only assume your pain and agony.
Said that, this is the time you should be stronger and have faith. Remember, you have not lost her…she has been distanced from you. So you should always be hopeful of getting back with her. Sai would want you to be hopeful.
Now, I have read most of your posts here and I am certain you have tried almost everything to get her back. Still below are only few suggestion which might help:
1) Contact administration/karyakartas of Aryasamaj Mandir. Ask them if they maintain records of marriages and if a certficate can be obtained now. Also, collect all things that can corrroborate for evidence of your marriage, like photographs, passport, joint accounts, insurance policies,etc. You may not have all of them, but I’ve just enlisted…just in case..
2) Take legal advice. Please get in touch with any/all lawyers you know and ask them how this situation could be dealt.
3) Is she allowed to meet any friends? Do you know someone from her friends who could visit her and your in-laws would not doubt this friend?
Remember, when Sita was abducted and captivated by Ravana, Lord Ram sent Hanumanji to know how Sita was doing. Hanumanji also asked Sita to have faith and assured her that she would soon be reunited with Lord Ram.
You both will be able to send each other messages this way. Also, you would come to know of whats happening at her end.
I know that I being on this end of the screen can only write this and I can only assume of your pain. But I pray from my heart that you are reunited with your wife soon.
Sai Baba….please please unite this couple…..please bless them..
Om Sai Ram