please read and give suggetions becoz its my life

[bhuvana]

I am the only daughter to my parents no sisters and brothers we have more than 1 crore .I completed my B.E.3 months i.e.., 9th April i got married. my dad did this in a very manner.he did his m.tech in IIT. My husband had one sister who already married,As my father was a principal in a college he gave importance to the studies of my husband.he doesn't have any properties he had only 30 lakhs property due to words of near by people we came to know that my mother-in-law & father-in-law are not at all good,but the person whom i married was good.
        Due these words we believed that he is good and i got married.before marriage they didnot inform there debts.as my husband was preparing for some high posts we both stayed for two months in our house only.when ever i went to my mother-in-laws house she use to say all bad things(against me)to my husband and make me cry.
        Recently 10 days we put new family in Chennai where my husband is working.my parents came with me they buyed all the important things and they the next day.Then my life was started in horrible,he use to dought on me that i am doing bad things due to his dought ful things some times he stopped going to office and sit in front of me,daily he use to say me that i am fit for nothing,he use to scold me and my parents all the time.he use to listen all his mom words.Many times he use to come slowly from office and use to watch me from windows 2 or 3 times i got fear.one day he went to office,but middle of his walk to office he came back and told me that i am getting dought on you and saying that until i stay with you i have no possible but when i leave you i am getting dought.
         My husband will be fat with 5'11 height.{he use  to say me as i am unable to do proper sex with you so you will choose other person who will be hand some and good so i am getting dought on you}he use to listen all his mothers words.One day i sat in my home and watching movie by opening the main door.he came at that time and shouted on me for opening the door that day slowly it became big quarrel due to all his debts and every things that he even beat me hard.i told him they cheated us and my life was spoiled due to him. i was very open before you untill now they is nothing had happened bettween us.
          2 days later one day at nite he started crying loudly and saying i will die,he use run kitchen for knife.and he use to beat his head with his hands hardly.he use to that i spoiled your life by cheating you,that night i was very frightened,and i want to run to my parents.now i am in my parents house.
         they are crying a lot for my life. what to do now please i request you all to give your valuable suggestion. i don't have much time please help me.

[SAUMYA]

Hi Bhuvana,
felt so bad hearing your pain...I m not sure but generally these kind of men, get controlled by emotional handelling......the more we argue they will speak  more nonsense.Let your parents show some more love for both of you at a time,so that he will feel regret for his deeds.Find out what is the exact root cause of his doubtful mind?since only it is 2 months of your marraige......doubting at you for any reason is just nonsense.handel him as a child with more love and affection,so may be you will compsychiatrist e to know what exactly his problem is.Taking his trust go to a psychiatrist, or a marraige councillor.Now mother-in law,once she will get the fear of police and the sections...........she will be alright by herself.Have faith in BABA.he will do the best for you.

sairam

[GaneshHariharan]

Dear Bhuvana, I am truly sorry to hear about your situation. having said that , i have a strong feeling that he has a psychological problem (no pun intended).
I never ever advise this to anybody , but i think a seperation here is what i would advise if i were in your parents position. also as a footnote about the money part
money comes, money goes so that is not the most important thing. Please think that if this guy has a psychological problem and tom you conceive , then it will be
extremely difficult to part ways . so better think twice now and act than later. May Sai show you the right path in this difficult situation. Om Sairam.

[gunj]

om sai ram bhuvana ji

Trust baba,baba will do the best for u.
i know this kind of men as i hd same kind of man in my life too.he make my life a hell but sai help me out and i hve broke up with him before its too late for me,baba will come  to help u.
I try out what saisan ji told me but this kind of person cannot be treated withou doctor help.he used to tortue me,beat me.blackmail me that he will going to die if i leave him,always doubting on me,not even allow me to wear western clothes,not evn allow me to go out with my frnds(girls only),agar kisi boy se baat karli maine toh us din wo khub jagdta tha aur marta tha mujhe. aise phsyco person life ko hell bana dete hai,i hve suffer it par meri shadi nahi hui thi toh main ne brk off kar dia,apko ko samjhge kaam lena hoga,pehle try kare unhe samjhane ki fir bhi nahi kuch asar hota hai toh its gud that u get separated from him.
As u r leaving with ur parents he will going to to tell u all nonsense thing so that u go back to him,u have to be strong enough

om sai ram

[bhuvana]

thanks to saumya,ganesh,and saib brother for your valuable suggestion,tomorrow he is coming to my native from chennai and we are going to hospital,tests will be done and i have to wait for final result,so,brothers and sisters tomorrow i will give you result.


    I thought baba left me,forgot me but by your words i came to know that he was with me.

            please pray for me.
                 
                     om sairam
                     om sairam
                     om sairam 

[bhuvana]

gunj ji

     om sai ram
 
               what ever you told is correct,now i am with my parents,he is insisting me to come back,but my parents and myself are frightened to go.let me see what baba is going to do in my life thanks for your reply.

        om saibaba

[sagarika]

omsairam..

bhuvana ji... its really very painful situation... aap kisa bear kar raha ho itna dard ko.. cannot suggest anything.. but can pray our baba to show you a right way..

take care...

baba please help bhuvana ji.... hamasha unki raksha karna..plz plz..

omsairam

[chweetujaanu]

bhuvana ji...

the only thing is not fear you have to show more and more love towards your husband. he fears that he may lose you coz he feels for his physical looks and so on may be some words of his mom and all have changed his behaviour please go to him and tell him that he means a lot for you and tell him to understand and clear all your misunderstandings..

bhuvana ji you have a chance to speak and keep up your life please dont lose the opportunity that god have given you please i know the pain you are suffering but please do this.. baba will surely bless you..

baba please please baba takecare of bhuvana ji please help her husband and family and make her life happier...

omsairam