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Offline Well-wisher

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Re: You Cheated Me Baba
« Reply #15 on: July 24, 2009, 07:51:46 AM »
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  • Om Sai Ram.

    I hope u are fine. Didn't mean to hurt you. I hope God blesses you with loads of love... from your husband for life. God bless you.... Om Sai Ram

    Offline chikubomb

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    Re: You Cheated Me Baba
    « Reply #16 on: July 24, 2009, 09:42:17 AM »
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  • DEAR SAI BHAKTH.

    KEEP ON YOUR FAITH IN BABA BY NOT DOING ANYTHING THAT BABA MAY NOT LIKE. HAVE 101% TRUST AND FAITH ON HIM, HE TAKES OUR EXAMS AND WHOSOEVER CLEARS THE EXAMS ENJOYS A LIFE WHICH HE WOULD HAVE NEVER THOUGHT OF. SOMETIMES HIS EXAMS ARE VERY TOUGH AND LENGHTY BUT WE ALL HAVE TO CLEAR THEM , THATS WHY SHRADDHA AND SABURI ARE SOOOO IMPORTANT. I AM SURE YOU  WILL DEFINITELY WIN  . BELEIVE ME  ,   YOUR BAD DAYS ARE ABOUT TO END VERY VERY SOON.
    JAI SAI NATH.

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    Re: You Cheated Me Baba
    « Reply #17 on: July 24, 2009, 10:01:49 AM »
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  • Hi ,
         Hope you are doing good my friend. I read your whole story and i can really make out what would be the things you might have undergone. Shall i tell u one thing frankly. The person whom i love loves me very much, infact we both love each other too much but somehow destiny is not allowing, i am still with him, do u know why? trust, belief and patience. I trust my love, i believe my god and i am still waiting patiently for a miracle to happen since we both have tried our level best to convince people, now its left to him. Dear i know life is too difficult, but never doubt your husband. the more u think negative, things turn the same way. Be strong, dont cross check his work, trust God, he wil never let u down. Never Pray to god please, he always likes people who have belief in them and their work. Dont worry much. Follow Sai Nav Guruwar Vratha. I am very sure he wil rescue u within 9 weeks. all details are in this forum. Take care. keep posting :)

    Offline saikripa.dimple

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    Re: You Cheated Me Baba
    « Reply #18 on: July 24, 2009, 11:05:48 PM »
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  • Jai Sai ram!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    "Dheeraj rakh woh rahmat ki barkha barsa bhi dega
    Jis Sai ne dard diya hai wahi dawa bhi dega "

    Na jane ye aapke kon se janm ke dushkarm ka karan hoga, but is janm jo aapko sai sharan mili hai toh, in dukho ka ant jald hi nishichit,
    aisa nahi hai kiii baba aapko is tarah dekh kar chup chap baithe honge,, unhone iske baare me pahle se hi soch rakha hoga..
    Aap bas sai ka naam lete lete aage badiye , baaki sab unhi par chhod dijiye.

    "Tu naam unka toh le jara
    Phir dekh woh karta hai kya"

    Qki jisne problem di hoti hai, unke paas solution bhi hota hai,,
    Yeh life  1 book ki tarah hai, jisme alag alag chapters hai , jise pad kar hum apni manjil ki taraf jaate hai, aur sai hamare Teacher hai
    ab chahe chapter achcha laga ya bura padna toh padega naaa
    agar nh padenge toh apni manjil yaani ( Sai Baba) tak nh pahuch payenge,,,,
    If u luv Sai Baba den i think aap yeh baat samajh gayo hongi kiii mai kya kahna chahti hoon.
    Thank You
    Jai Sai Ram
    Jai Sai Ram
    Sai teri "Kami" bhi hai, tera "Ehsaas" bhi hai....

    Sai tu "Door" bhi hai mujhse par "Paas" bhi hai......

    Khuda ne yun nwaza hai teri "Bhakti" se mujhko.....

    Kii.............

    Khuda ka "Shukr" bhi hai aur khud pe "Naaz" bhi hai..

    Offline sandhyasrikanth

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    Re: You Cheated Me Baba
    « Reply #19 on: July 25, 2009, 06:01:54 AM »
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  • Dear 4rurblessings,
    How are you??? Go through wellwisher ji's post.I totally agree aith her.Just concentrate on your career,I know its really really difficult to concentrate on anything else when your mind is always occupied.But please make an effort and just keep yourselves busy.Dont heed to any of his words which hurt you.You grow above all that.Pity him that he can only think in such a way.You think like a better person.But you keep your eyes open.Keep praying to BABA no matter what.If you a book called Tapovanam,sacred life story of satya saibaba,please do one week parayanam..I really benefitted a lot.Please if you can,do that.
    May Baba bless you.

    Offline ykamesh

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    Re: You Cheated Me Baba
    « Reply #20 on: July 25, 2009, 08:34:51 AM »
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  • When you are lost & confused, use power of praying and communication.
    NEVER use power of Thoughts & Imagination. Our thoughts & imagination run in such a wild way which in reality may not be correct.
    From your posts, it is a fact that you are using power of praying and communication. You are praying to Baba to help you. You are communicating with this forum members for advise and ideas and it appears you are getting a good help.
    But, you are NOT communicating with the correct person, which in your opinion, the problem lies.
    Why not talk to him and discuss all your concerns? Open out. Talk to him or send him a letter.
    List all your problems. After completing, go through the list and you may strike out many of them as they are not real concern or a problem.  Talk with each other and also listen to his concerns. Don't criticize or blame him for your thoughts and imagination. As i said, thoughts and imagination run wild. You can weave numerous conspiracy theories by thoughts and imagination.
    If he is good, he would listen and would definitely correct his way. It may not happen overnight but would definitely happen.
    In case he is a person with ego problems, he would over react but he would still remember your concerns and thoughts. He would try to correct himself while still showing off ego. He may think that you are trying to change him.
    You must also remember his background, how he was brought up in his family etc. 
    You should also remember the way you were brought up in your family.
    The way you both were brought up in your families might be completely opposite. You are expecting things the way you have seen in your family and would like the same to be continued whereas he is also trying to do the same.
    I am giving a scenario where a person with loving brothers and sisters would have a different personality then a person with brothers, sisters who do not communicate or have ego problems.
    My final advise is don't do things which he does not like.
    I have gone through a turmoil i.e. from a failed love relationship to an arranged marriage. With my personal experience, i would recommend you to use power of praying and communication.
    Happier relationships are made by concerned individuals. They are not inherited.
    omsairam.

    Offline Well-wisher

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    Re: You Cheated Me Baba
    « Reply #21 on: July 25, 2009, 04:08:21 PM »
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  • 4urblessingsji... ur name is so beautiful. God will surely bless you. Do not worry at all. Why fear when God is here.... :) Always remember, whenever we feel lost... its only cause we don't listen to the voice of God within. Why do you ask and believe strangers and feel lost... when God is there within you to guide you? We are not weak 4urblessingsji. No one is. We just fail to recognize the power of God, the light of God thats already there within us. All thats needed for the most successful happy married life is already within you. Then how can anything go wrong? Acknowledge the power of God within. Tell yourself... Thank You God, You're within. Thank You for being here this very moment, holding me, giving me Your strength, power, courage and wisdom. Allow me to feel Your power God. Give me the power of Your unconditional love that can move mountains. I know You're talking to me. And I'm waiting and ready to listen this time. I will listen to none, but You...and only You. I trust You. I have faith in You. I will do as You say. Guide me, love me, heal me... be with me... my strength... YOUR strength within me. Let the love flow, let the light flow thru me...

    Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram,
    Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram

    Offline ykamesh

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    Re: You Cheated Me Baba
    « Reply #22 on: July 26, 2009, 08:21:31 AM »
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  • I must admit you are in the right path.
    From the scenarios you  have presented, it appears your hubby has ego problems. I am sorry if it hurts.
    A study has indicated that most of the Indians have ego problems. A recent example is of Dr. Abdul Kalam. I admire him for his honesty, humbleness etc. He too has ego problems just because he was frisked by security guards.
    Ego is not a disease and does not require any drastic actions from your side.
    Your faith and patience would definitely pay off. He would change. He would realise his mistakes and correct himself. (I cite my own case where i changed & adjusted to lead a healthy family life. I did not change overnight. It's a slow process).
    Continue to use the power of praying and communication.
    If you have free time do read, daily, chapter 11 and 15 of sri sai satcharitra.
    omsairam

    Offline r_ahul

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    Re: You Cheated Me Baba
    « Reply #23 on: July 27, 2009, 08:57:30 AM »
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  • Dear 4urblessings,

    I feel so sad reading your posts and I completely understand the pain you have been going through.

    I belong to a family where we have seen variety of problems and most of these problems still exist. But, despite all, I hope for a great future for me, my family and those who will become part of it later. This hope is there because I know Sai is always fair with his children. I know this because Sai wants me to just follow the path of Shraddha and Saburi.

    Sister, I know that after facing so many problems in life, you feel discouraged facing more of them in marriage. But it is the phase of life Sai would want you be most determined and strong. I completely agree with Wellwisher; "Turn youself into the kind of person every man would dream of having as his partner for life". Your husband is married to you, but he has probably not been able to fall in love with you. This may be the reason he is being rude to you. Make him fall in love with you and you'll notice him change!

    Just an analogy; if you are always rude with someone and that person still keeps calm and assures that he/she is not bothered as he/she loves you the most. How would you react? You may continue to be rude but in the end you will have to surrender to that love and affection.
    Call it gandhigiri or anything, but it surely works!

    Second, please do not confide into your friend who has been (probably) deliberately trying to advice against your marriage (probably for his own vested interests). It is advisable to let that friend know that you love only your husband. It is not wrong to sternly advice him of keeping friendship to limits. 

    Baba, please help her.....please help her solve her problems..........bless her with happiness she deserves. She and her family have faced so many problems......plz plz bless them with love, prosperity and happiness.

    Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram



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    Re: You Cheated Me Baba
    « Reply #24 on: July 27, 2009, 09:57:54 AM »
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  • जय सांई राम।।।
     
    जिन्दगी की हर सुबह जरुरी नहीं के रोशनी के साथ हो,  कभी कभी बादल किरणों को रोक लेते हैं पर रोशनी का होना तय है चाहे वो बादलो के बरसनें के बाद ही आये।

    इससे आगे कि मै इस टापिक में अपने विचार लिखूं कृप्या पहले टापिक के शीर्षक को बदलें। "You cheated me Baba'' हम में से किसी को भी न तो ये हक है और ना ही हमे यह शोभा देता है कि बाबा के दरबार में आकर बाबा को ही अपने हर कर्म का दोषी ठहरायें। कृप्या मेरी बात को अन्यथा ना ले।

    अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई

    ॐ सांई राम।।।
    अपना साँई प्यारा साँई सबसे न्यारा अपना साँई - रमेश रमनानी

    Offline Well-wisher

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    Re: You Cheated Me Baba
    « Reply #25 on: July 27, 2009, 10:19:15 AM »
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  • 4urblessingsji... Do japa. Stop thinking. Keep praying. Ask Baba to transmit your love to him... Love has a lot of power. Trust me. So does faith. Try it. Test it... n u will see...

    Om Sai Ram... Bless her Baba, show her the light.

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    Re: You Cheated Me Baba
    « Reply #26 on: July 27, 2009, 10:34:06 AM »
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  • Sairam ma,
                 hope so ur feeling better from all the wishes u got from sais childens and with their prayers.Plz dont feel baba has cheated u or something like that.baba sits in dwarkamai and sorts out our past karmas so that we become pure and be humble to recive his grace and merge in his feet.baba always said to have SHRADDA and SABURI plz dont loose it and do regular parayan.
                 It is only thro struggle a human succeeds not our true mantel comes to count.Why do u fear or worry when our baba is here.can ur husband or u escape babas eye?just think ma relax dont get worried and pray more harder ur hardtimes will end very soon.

                                 Saibakthi hi shakthi hai :)
    SHRADDA-----SAIREHAM-------SABURI

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    Re: You Cheated Me Baba
    « Reply #27 on: July 27, 2009, 02:46:33 PM »
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  • Jai sai ram,

    Mere Masoom chere se bhi gum mera chupaya na gaya,
    Jala hun aag me samundar me dobaya mujhe gaya,
    guloon ke darmiyan kante saja ke de diye mujheko,
    aur keh ke zindagi ise behlaya hume gaya.

    Dear Friend,
    what ever i have read and understood from all the words written by you in here , is that problem is there , you know the solution but you dont dare to go for it,
    just remember the statement "Fortune favours the Brave", so just DO it
    what i can suggest is these things

    (1) just Set your Husband Free, dont even ask him what he does and what how donot.

    (2) try to help your father get a new job, and for this i am offering my assitence by the orders of BABA je just send me his resume /CV , to my email address.

    (3) Just Think of Abhimanu in mahabharata, he never knew how to get out of a chakravuh but still he did what he knew i.e he went ahed and fought the battle, same here is expected from you , you said u are smart , confident, and educated so go get a JOB for yourself!!!! and if you also need assitence for this please send me your resume too on my email id,

    i assure you i will do my level best to help you by the blessings of BABA!!!

    Jai sai ram!!

    bharatsharma24@gmail.com

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    Re: You Cheated Me Baba
    « Reply #28 on: July 28, 2009, 08:31:12 AM »
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  • >>He also said that Im the most important one in this life. I believed it but i dont know y but sometimes whenever i think bout that calls, it makes me cry and deceived. I always share my probs with one of my best friend. He said that my hubby is cheating me and he is lying to me and my hubby wants me to call off the relationship. I dont know whom to believe. My best friend is the person who loved me so much ( he just been a friend and i told him that i dont have any felings towards him). He thought of marrying me. I really dont know whom to trust.<<

    DO'NT YOU THINK THAT U R BELEIVING IN A GOOD FRIEND WHO HAS HIS OWN DESIGNS. IS IT OK??

    Offline Anupam

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    Re: You Cheated Me Baba
    « Reply #29 on: July 28, 2009, 08:40:42 AM »
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  • >>We as Indian women think in terms of Sita,Savitri even when husbands are not like Sri Rama.

    SORRY SANDHYA JI, WOMEN ARE NO SATI SAVITRIS, THESE ARE BUT IDEALS. They are very much the terrible slave traders who think that once married the slave shud be at the slave of them and their parents, while leaving their parents.
    The statistics says that 82% of violence is perperated by the women while the husband is punished 98% of the time falsely. It is worldwide women are same, no Bhartiya Nari or all. Good news is that now atleast men have started fighting back. In US recently two wives called the Police for Blackmail. However, The men fought back with their own guns before dying killed a few Police. AND SORRY IN MY JOB I'AM HAVE MORE EXPERIENCE OF ALL WHAT IS HAPPENING

     


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