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Baba wat did i do in my past life. Before marriage i had a hell of a life and even after i got married im still going thru the turmoil. U gave signs that my husband is my life partner but y did u made him my husband. Its been 4 months but in these 4 months u know wat i been thru.I can count my happy moments on my finger tips. I dont know wat i got into and wat i need to do. He always abuse me with rude and harsh words and makes me feel very stipud to myself. He always compare me with his friends then y did he marry me if im not like his friends. He got so much pride and ego and thinks that he knows everything. He gives value to money but not to relationships. U know wat the hell im going thru.
He doesn't give respect to my parents bez we dont have money and he thinks that my father is useless. Y life is like this baba. Am i very going to be happy with my marriage life and famiy life. Tell me dont i deserve to me happy baba. Please dont act like as if u dont know wats going on and wats going to happen. How can u watch so camly and silently when one of ur child is going thru probs. How can u just leave me in the middle baba. I dont wanna die bez i know its not going to solve my problems and i do know u r watchin over me but i dont know y u r takin so my time to help me with my marriage life babaji.
Baba pls come to help baba. i beggin you.
Waiting for ur answer :'( :'(
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jai sai ram
4 ur blessing
plz dont lose hope..keep hanging onto baba..u urslef said that u knw he is watchin on u..he is just teating us..have shardha n saburi he wil coem to help u out soon..baba plz help her.plz help her get all the happiness she desires n deserves..
take cre n keep praying..
jai sai ram
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Om sai ram...I dont know your name but let me tell you I can understand how difficult it can be for you but sister all I could say is dont blame or just get disheartened by the problems..Love & faith can create miracles..don't panic..Talk to your husband..try and see what changes or adjustment you can make and if possible do it and dont expect him to change overnight..let him say and vent out his frustration he might have his own reasons behind this..I had kind of similar nature but I used to compare my love with others out of insecurity or just to provoke her to give her the best and be the best..I realized my approach was wrong and she left me for the fears which you are going through and today I have changed in last 2 months..all my ego is broken and I understand you should love the person for whatever he is and should believe in your love that he will change if its required without you asking for a change...make yourself strong..smalll things make lot of differences..I will pray for you in shirdi as I am leaving tonight..Aapki dukh dekh kar mujhe yeh ehsaas hua ki shayad anjaane mein maine apne pyar ko kitni takleef di par mere haalat kharab they but I want to give her all my love and respect today.
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Dear friend
om sai ram
i agree with what saicharanji told.u have to keep ur faith on baba .u know baba test faith of their devotee.if ur faith loses from baba thn it will be nt good,agar baba kuch kar rahe hai woh ache k lia kar rahe hai,baba kabhi kisika bura nahi chahte par wo ye bhi kehte hai ki insaaan ko uske karmo ki saza ya fhal milte hi hai,isme sai bhi kuch nahi kar sakte ye brahmaan ka ek rule hai jo is dharti pe aata hai use ache bure karmo ki saza yahi bhukatani hoti hai ,aap baba ki sharan me apne apko puri tarah samarpan kar de,baba apki taklif kam karege.om sai ram ,shradhha aur sburi rakhe sai pe
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Dear 4ur blessings... Please... Get a job and excel in it!
Om Sai Ram
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dear friend
om sai ram,
i can understand your situation it is very difficult to bear all this. its my personal experience. i was also in the same situation. my husband always abused me and my parents, he always shouted at me without any reasons. it was like hell for me. but when i came in baba's sharan, i totally surrender myself to baba. one day when i was depressed, i pray to baba whole heartedly. i had tears in my eyes and i prayed BABA IF I AM WRONG THEN GIVE ME THIS PUNISHMENT BUT I AM NOT WRONG THEN WHY ALL THIS HAPPENS TO ME PLEASE BABA. u know what, a miracle happened, be4 this pray, woh mujhse kafi dino tak baat nahi karte the, per us din just 1 hour after i prayed to baba. woh so chuke the. he suddenly woke up and felt sorry for wt happened and said this will not happened again please forgive me. from that day unme kafi change aa gaya. he was trying to control his anger.
so dear friend please have faith, full faith, surrender yourself fully to HIM, HE is great . please keep on chanting HIS holy name all the time. HE will definately listen your prayers.
SO KEEP FAITH AND HAVE SABURI. MAY SAI BLESS YOU
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om sai ram
If you trust baba then y r u worried. No fear when baba is there,
my dear friend you won't believe i was also in the same situation , but i don't want to disclose it here, but my advice to you is please don't interfere, let him free, where he goes, to whom he talks on phone, don't care, dont ask even. bas apna karm kari raho, aur naam jaap karti raho. baba will help you, don't feel cheated or deceived.
TRUST BABA ONLY NOT ANY ONE ELSE.
we all pray for you. our best wishes and blessings r with you always.
May sai bless you with all happiness in life.
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My dear friend... one request. If you love your husband... please trust him. And at this stage of life please do not communicate too much about your life to your best friend. And resolve not to be influenced by friends.
This is between you and your partner. Let not a third party be an influence. God bless...
Om Sai Ram
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om sai ram
talk to baba ..he is ur best freind ..he will guide u for sure.share ur problem to him
talk to ur hubby and then everything will be alright om sai ram ....baba bless her and guide her and be with her in every step of her life
read sai charitra ... atleast dailiy 1 ch , you will get all ur answers by urself
om sai ram
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]"kast or sanshaya ki isthiti aant mein drund vishwas me parineet hoti hai, jaisi bhi ho pariksha to hogi hi" par jo guru par vishwaaas rakh kar, sad marg par chalega, uddhaar usi ka hoga.. Sai said this, thru Hemandpant in shri saisatcharitra.
Pls do not worry, dont try to take refuge any where, u have bramhaandnayak as ur care taker. Why u fear, when malik is here?.
Pls go thru charitra, you will feel happy and santripta.
Reham naza karo ab more sai..!
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Dear 4rblessings,
I am so sorry to hear about your plight.tell me if your is an arranged marriage or love marriage?? See no matter what situation the person is going through,one must never lose his/her self respect.See if you are confident that he had been in touch with any of these escort services,trust such people only promise to change,but it takes life time for them to change.You wiegh pros and cons with this husband of yours.No sane person who is married and wants to be committed to his wife can never do such things.
Even for me Baba gave me clear indication to get married to this person.Even before we got married we had huge rows just out of his insecurity,arrogance and pride and to an extent his upbringing.Many people form his side suggested me to get divorced but I felt as if I am a hindu nari and its my sole responsiblity to modify his habits and change him in to a better person.Trust me dear,no one can change our future but for God.One year after the other he has been having some insecurities,if he over came one,next year another one would pop up.So far I never had any peace of mind.My parents wanted me to compromise but at the same time they wanted me to work right from the begininng but I never took their words seriously.Later I gave birth to a boy,.Slowly I got myself stuck up in this marriage.There will be change over the time but not in them change will be in us.We get used to their accusations and insecurities and treat them as if its our responsibility.where as they think just feeding wife and kid is their only job and that they are doing it.
Dear,i am not advising you to break up with this person.But just weigh pros and cons as to living with this person.They always promise that they will change.may be sometimes they really feel bad but they can never stick to their words as they are victims to their menatal instabilities.
I always thought I loved my husband,.Mine was an arranged marriage but I felt as if he was the right one for me.SOmetimes,I feel may be we force BABA to accept our desires,so HE had no choice but to accept them.Its us who have to bear the brunt.
SO I would say,donot think about him or his misdeeds.Just go ahead and complete your education or take up a job and be independent.Dress up well.Be active.Be happy.Just be as if you dont care about what he does where he goes.
Stop talkin about horoscopes.Astrologers said we would have very good compatibility.LOL.we never did.
So...stop blaming yourselves...stop blaming BABA.
Just concentrate on your career however difficult it might be.
PLease talk to your parents,donot directly tell them abt escort services..and you please take utmost care in your physcial proximity with him lest you contract any diseases from him.
Please take care of your physical and mental health.DONOT ever allow any kind of phyical torture no matter what.Tell him that you will call police if he even dares to do that.
I hope I dint cross my line. I just want you to be smart and intelligent to take better step forward,
We as Indian women think in terms of Sita,Savitri even when husbands are not like Sri Rama.
So I hope I made my point clear.Become independent.
Such people hardly change.PLease Please please trust me.They promise to change but they cannot.
Leave it to BABA.
Please take care of yourselves.
Sairam
Sandhya
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omsairam,
Every person faces many challenging tasks in life. It fluctuates up and down. Without this fluctuation, there is no meaning to life.
When we have problems, we remember god and want him to save us i.e. our devotion also fluctuates as per our lifestyle.
In my opinion Sai would help his devotees if he feels his intervention is necessary otherwise he guides his devotees to take correct path.
Look at the portrait of saibaba. Mere look at Sai should generate love. Sai's love is unconditional.
Recently I came across a learned man who said "There are billions of people waiting in queue to get their desires & wishes answered from God (remember god is one though we call him by different names). God is ready to shower his love on his devotees but there is no one in that queue."
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My dear friend. Step one - please keep your best friend out of this completely.
Step two - Please be strong and independant. Turn youself into the kind of person every man would dream of having as his partner for life. Independant, wise, strong, happy, bubbly, beautiful within that shows... every quality a woman could have. Focus on building urself. Choose to be happy. Trust me, once you do that... even if ur husband has the slightest brains, he'll leave all else and stick to you for life!
Step 3 - Pray & leave all else to God. If He wants it to work, the power of the new stronger, better you will drag ur husband back to you & keep him with you with love for life... or if your husband is innocent, Baba will show you the light and open your eyes proving your friend wrong. If He doesn't want it to work, He'll show you the way out too.
In anycase once you've built the new stronger you, you'll be better prepared for both situations.
Om Sai Ram
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There you go.... read ur post again. Got the message??? Om Sai Ram
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Listen buddy... we all have best friends. We love them (as friends). We need them. But sometimes... unfortunately if a situation like this crops up... as in a problem with a relationship as strong as marriage... the last person you want to trust blindly is someone who is interested in your relationship break-down & instead of helping u find a solution, tells you... buddy... ur partner is this and that & I'm better and ready to be there for you (since I already love you & regret not being with you and would love it to have you in my life even if your heart, marriage and life goes into the dumps!)
Its great to have friends. But trusting them beyond a limit when life is at such a delicate stage... NOPE!
Ok. Lets assume your husband is guilty. What is it that this friend of yours do to help? Can he bring in your husband's loyalty? Can he get you his commitment for life? Can he change him? If your answer is no... then ask yourself why ure talking to him.
With regards to your husband... asking him questions is not going to help. Keep your eyes and ears open and try and figure out whats happening. For all you know he may not be guilty. Well if he is... try and talk to him and ask him why? You may end up having a fight... but maybe at the end of it you'll know what you can do to save the marriage or whether you wish to save it or not. For all you know, an open conversation might also sort things out...
Work on urself, ur relationship... & ur connection with God. I pray ur husband turns out to be innocent. And even if not... turns around, aplogizes, realizes ur worth and commits to you for life.
Om Sai Ram
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Om Sai Ram.
I hope u are fine. Didn't mean to hurt you. I hope God blesses you with loads of love... from your husband for life. God bless you.... Om Sai Ram
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DEAR SAI BHAKTH.
KEEP ON YOUR FAITH IN BABA BY NOT DOING ANYTHING THAT BABA MAY NOT LIKE. HAVE 101% TRUST AND FAITH ON HIM, HE TAKES OUR EXAMS AND WHOSOEVER CLEARS THE EXAMS ENJOYS A LIFE WHICH HE WOULD HAVE NEVER THOUGHT OF. SOMETIMES HIS EXAMS ARE VERY TOUGH AND LENGHTY BUT WE ALL HAVE TO CLEAR THEM , THATS WHY SHRADDHA AND SABURI ARE SOOOO IMPORTANT. I AM SURE YOU WILL DEFINITELY WIN . BELEIVE ME , YOUR BAD DAYS ARE ABOUT TO END VERY VERY SOON.
JAI SAI NATH.
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Hi ,
Hope you are doing good my friend. I read your whole story and i can really make out what would be the things you might have undergone. Shall i tell u one thing frankly. The person whom i love loves me very much, infact we both love each other too much but somehow destiny is not allowing, i am still with him, do u know why? trust, belief and patience. I trust my love, i believe my god and i am still waiting patiently for a miracle to happen since we both have tried our level best to convince people, now its left to him. Dear i know life is too difficult, but never doubt your husband. the more u think negative, things turn the same way. Be strong, dont cross check his work, trust God, he wil never let u down. Never Pray to god please, he always likes people who have belief in them and their work. Dont worry much. Follow Sai Nav Guruwar Vratha. I am very sure he wil rescue u within 9 weeks. all details are in this forum. Take care. keep posting :)
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Jai Sai ram!!!!!!!!!!!!!
"Dheeraj rakh woh rahmat ki barkha barsa bhi dega
Jis Sai ne dard diya hai wahi dawa bhi dega "
Na jane ye aapke kon se janm ke dushkarm ka karan hoga, but is janm jo aapko sai sharan mili hai toh, in dukho ka ant jald hi nishichit,
aisa nahi hai kiii baba aapko is tarah dekh kar chup chap baithe honge,, unhone iske baare me pahle se hi soch rakha hoga..
Aap bas sai ka naam lete lete aage badiye , baaki sab unhi par chhod dijiye.
"Tu naam unka toh le jara
Phir dekh woh karta hai kya"
Qki jisne problem di hoti hai, unke paas solution bhi hota hai,,
Yeh life 1 book ki tarah hai, jisme alag alag chapters hai , jise pad kar hum apni manjil ki taraf jaate hai, aur sai hamare Teacher hai
ab chahe chapter achcha laga ya bura padna toh padega naaa
agar nh padenge toh apni manjil yaani ( Sai Baba) tak nh pahuch payenge,,,,
If u luv Sai Baba den i think aap yeh baat samajh gayo hongi kiii mai kya kahna chahti hoon.
Thank You
Jai Sai Ram
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Dear 4rurblessings,
How are you??? Go through wellwisher ji's post.I totally agree aith her.Just concentrate on your career,I know its really really difficult to concentrate on anything else when your mind is always occupied.But please make an effort and just keep yourselves busy.Dont heed to any of his words which hurt you.You grow above all that.Pity him that he can only think in such a way.You think like a better person.But you keep your eyes open.Keep praying to BABA no matter what.If you a book called Tapovanam,sacred life story of satya saibaba,please do one week parayanam..I really benefitted a lot.Please if you can,do that.
May Baba bless you.
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When you are lost & confused, use power of praying and communication.
NEVER use power of Thoughts & Imagination. Our thoughts & imagination run in such a wild way which in reality may not be correct.
From your posts, it is a fact that you are using power of praying and communication. You are praying to Baba to help you. You are communicating with this forum members for advise and ideas and it appears you are getting a good help.
But, you are NOT communicating with the correct person, which in your opinion, the problem lies.
Why not talk to him and discuss all your concerns? Open out. Talk to him or send him a letter.
List all your problems. After completing, go through the list and you may strike out many of them as they are not real concern or a problem. Talk with each other and also listen to his concerns. Don't criticize or blame him for your thoughts and imagination. As i said, thoughts and imagination run wild. You can weave numerous conspiracy theories by thoughts and imagination.
If he is good, he would listen and would definitely correct his way. It may not happen overnight but would definitely happen.
In case he is a person with ego problems, he would over react but he would still remember your concerns and thoughts. He would try to correct himself while still showing off ego. He may think that you are trying to change him.
You must also remember his background, how he was brought up in his family etc.
You should also remember the way you were brought up in your family.
The way you both were brought up in your families might be completely opposite. You are expecting things the way you have seen in your family and would like the same to be continued whereas he is also trying to do the same.
I am giving a scenario where a person with loving brothers and sisters would have a different personality then a person with brothers, sisters who do not communicate or have ego problems.
My final advise is don't do things which he does not like.
I have gone through a turmoil i.e. from a failed love relationship to an arranged marriage. With my personal experience, i would recommend you to use power of praying and communication.
Happier relationships are made by concerned individuals. They are not inherited.
omsairam.
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4urblessingsji... ur name is so beautiful. God will surely bless you. Do not worry at all. Why fear when God is here.... :) Always remember, whenever we feel lost... its only cause we don't listen to the voice of God within. Why do you ask and believe strangers and feel lost... when God is there within you to guide you? We are not weak 4urblessingsji. No one is. We just fail to recognize the power of God, the light of God thats already there within us. All thats needed for the most successful happy married life is already within you. Then how can anything go wrong? Acknowledge the power of God within. Tell yourself... Thank You God, You're within. Thank You for being here this very moment, holding me, giving me Your strength, power, courage and wisdom. Allow me to feel Your power God. Give me the power of Your unconditional love that can move mountains. I know You're talking to me. And I'm waiting and ready to listen this time. I will listen to none, but You...and only You. I trust You. I have faith in You. I will do as You say. Guide me, love me, heal me... be with me... my strength... YOUR strength within me. Let the love flow, let the light flow thru me...
Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram,
Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram
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I must admit you are in the right path.
From the scenarios you have presented, it appears your hubby has ego problems. I am sorry if it hurts.
A study has indicated that most of the Indians have ego problems. A recent example is of Dr. Abdul Kalam. I admire him for his honesty, humbleness etc. He too has ego problems just because he was frisked by security guards.
Ego is not a disease and does not require any drastic actions from your side.
Your faith and patience would definitely pay off. He would change. He would realise his mistakes and correct himself. (I cite my own case where i changed & adjusted to lead a healthy family life. I did not change overnight. It's a slow process).
Continue to use the power of praying and communication.
If you have free time do read, daily, chapter 11 and 15 of sri sai satcharitra.
omsairam
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Dear 4urblessings,
I feel so sad reading your posts and I completely understand the pain you have been going through.
I belong to a family where we have seen variety of problems and most of these problems still exist. But, despite all, I hope for a great future for me, my family and those who will become part of it later. This hope is there because I know Sai is always fair with his children. I know this because Sai wants me to just follow the path of Shraddha and Saburi.
Sister, I know that after facing so many problems in life, you feel discouraged facing more of them in marriage. But it is the phase of life Sai would want you be most determined and strong. I completely agree with Wellwisher; "Turn youself into the kind of person every man would dream of having as his partner for life". Your husband is married to you, but he has probably not been able to fall in love with you. This may be the reason he is being rude to you. Make him fall in love with you and you'll notice him change!
Just an analogy; if you are always rude with someone and that person still keeps calm and assures that he/she is not bothered as he/she loves you the most. How would you react? You may continue to be rude but in the end you will have to surrender to that love and affection.
Call it gandhigiri or anything, but it surely works!
Second, please do not confide into your friend who has been (probably) deliberately trying to advice against your marriage (probably for his own vested interests). It is advisable to let that friend know that you love only your husband. It is not wrong to sternly advice him of keeping friendship to limits.
Baba, please help her.....please help her solve her problems..........bless her with happiness she deserves. She and her family have faced so many problems......plz plz bless them with love, prosperity and happiness.
Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram
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जय सांई राम।।।
जिन्दगी की हर सुबह जरुरी नहीं के रोशनी के साथ हो, कभी कभी बादल किरणों को रोक लेते हैं पर रोशनी का होना तय है चाहे वो बादलो के बरसनें के बाद ही आये।
इससे आगे कि मै इस टापिक में अपने विचार लिखूं कृप्या पहले टापिक के शीर्षक को बदलें। "You cheated me Baba'' हम में से किसी को भी न तो ये हक है और ना ही हमे यह शोभा देता है कि बाबा के दरबार में आकर बाबा को ही अपने हर कर्म का दोषी ठहरायें। कृप्या मेरी बात को अन्यथा ना ले।
अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई
ॐ सांई राम।।।
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4urblessingsji... Do japa. Stop thinking. Keep praying. Ask Baba to transmit your love to him... Love has a lot of power. Trust me. So does faith. Try it. Test it... n u will see...
Om Sai Ram... Bless her Baba, show her the light.
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Sairam ma,
hope so ur feeling better from all the wishes u got from sais childens and with their prayers.Plz dont feel baba has cheated u or something like that.baba sits in dwarkamai and sorts out our past karmas so that we become pure and be humble to recive his grace and merge in his feet.baba always said to have SHRADDA and SABURI plz dont loose it and do regular parayan.
It is only thro struggle a human succeeds not our true mantel comes to count.Why do u fear or worry when our baba is here.can ur husband or u escape babas eye?just think ma relax dont get worried and pray more harder ur hardtimes will end very soon.
Saibakthi hi shakthi hai :)
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Jai sai ram,
Mere Masoom chere se bhi gum mera chupaya na gaya,
Jala hun aag me samundar me dobaya mujhe gaya,
guloon ke darmiyan kante saja ke de diye mujheko,
aur keh ke zindagi ise behlaya hume gaya.
Dear Friend,
what ever i have read and understood from all the words written by you in here , is that problem is there , you know the solution but you dont dare to go for it,
just remember the statement "Fortune favours the Brave", so just DO it
what i can suggest is these things
(1) just Set your Husband Free, dont even ask him what he does and what how donot.
(2) try to help your father get a new job, and for this i am offering my assitence by the orders of BABA je just send me his resume /CV , to my email address.
(3) Just Think of Abhimanu in mahabharata, he never knew how to get out of a chakravuh but still he did what he knew i.e he went ahed and fought the battle, same here is expected from you , you said u are smart , confident, and educated so go get a JOB for yourself!!!! and if you also need assitence for this please send me your resume too on my email id,
i assure you i will do my level best to help you by the blessings of BABA!!!
Jai sai ram!!
bharatsharma24@gmail.com
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>>He also said that Im the most important one in this life. I believed it but i dont know y but sometimes whenever i think bout that calls, it makes me cry and deceived. I always share my probs with one of my best friend. He said that my hubby is cheating me and he is lying to me and my hubby wants me to call off the relationship. I dont know whom to believe. My best friend is the person who loved me so much ( he just been a friend and i told him that i dont have any felings towards him). He thought of marrying me. I really dont know whom to trust.<<
DO'NT YOU THINK THAT U R BELEIVING IN A GOOD FRIEND WHO HAS HIS OWN DESIGNS. IS IT OK??
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>>We as Indian women think in terms of Sita,Savitri even when husbands are not like Sri Rama.
SORRY SANDHYA JI, WOMEN ARE NO SATI SAVITRIS, THESE ARE BUT IDEALS. They are very much the terrible slave traders who think that once married the slave shud be at the slave of them and their parents, while leaving their parents.
The statistics says that 82% of violence is perperated by the women while the husband is punished 98% of the time falsely. It is worldwide women are same, no Bhartiya Nari or all. Good news is that now atleast men have started fighting back. In US recently two wives called the Police for Blackmail. However, The men fought back with their own guns before dying killed a few Police. AND SORRY IN MY JOB I'AM HAVE MORE EXPERIENCE OF ALL WHAT IS HAPPENING
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OM SAI RAM 4UR BLESSINGJI
AAP JARA SOCHIYE KYA BABA CHAHE GE KI KOI BHI UNKE BACHE AISA KOI KADDAM UTHAYE JISKA AAP SCH RAHI HAI,LIFE TOH HUMEIN GOD GIFT HAI USE AISE HUM NHI KHO SAKTE HAI NA.
SAMAJH SAKTI HU KYA PROBLEMS SE AAP GUJAR RAHI HAIPAR SHAYAD IN SAB K PICHE BHI KUCH ACHAI HOGI,BABA NE KUCH SOCHA HOGA AAPKE LIA ISLIYE AAPKO ABHI TAKLIF MIL RAHI HAI KYU KI BAHOT JALD APKO KHUSI MILNE WALI HAI,RAAT K BAAD SAVERA JARURU AAT HAI AAPKI LIFE MEIN BHI AAYEGA,AAP FAITH RAKHIYE SAI PE,AUR HIMMAT SE KAAM LE.'
OM SAI RAM
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4urblessingsji... Please calm down and think.
What is it that I am doing to help myself? Baba can only give us the strength to fight our battles. We have to work towards them.
What is it that I can improve in myself as a human being? Can I make any changes in me to be a better, more compassionate, loving person? What is it that my partner seeks? Can I make any attempts in giving him for now rather than expecting from him and life? Can I just focus on giving for now rather than asking? I have much more & am much happier compared to millions & millions of women.
Am I creating problems or adding to them because of a selfish friend who wants to spend his life with me... (NOT LOVE) cause if he loved me, he would have never tried to break my marriage.
My husband may be under the influence of someone else or may be wrong. Completely wrong. But am I not equally under the influence of a friend who is trying to create problems?
Will what I am doing currently help me in anyway? Doubting and confronting and nurturing negativity, hatred and dissatisfaction never helped anyone. Am I doing anything to get it out of my system and focussing on being a better person?
Why have I forgotten myself? In the past few months have I done anything to feel better for myself, be a more interesting, more developed person?
I am not throwing questions at you to add to your pain or prove anything at all. N you don't need to answer any of it at this forum... But you need to think and do a self assessment of yourself.
STEP ONE :
When theres already a major financial problem, do not add to it & do not allow people who add to it by stressing you with all sorts of talks about your marriage. Sort your financial problem. Get a job. Learn something new that would add value to your personality so that whatever happens next you're in a better position to face the world. I have learnt from my mistakes the hard way & if I were you, I would have kept the friend out of my life forever & seen to it that no other friend crosses the line of his or her limits enough to create problems in my family by sorry to use the word... poisoning me against them.
STEP TWO :
Ok. Fact accepted. Hubby doesnt love me, not happy with this marriage as it is now. WHAT NEXT? Am I just going to waste time crying over it and expecting a miracle to fall into my lap or am I going to stand up, get strong... tell myself I have the courage to face this and emerge a winner out of this with or without anyone's support? If I'm going to tell Baba - Baba, I am standing up to fight this out, to sort this out lovingly, with confidence and loads of hard work... just be with me... WHAT IS IT THAT I PLAN TO DO??? Can I do a course? Can I take tuitions or do a small job and gather the money to build myself, my personality? What is it that I can add to my personality to turn myself into the kind of woman every man wakes up dreaming of having as his partner? How will I be able to do all it takes to be that? Love, marriage and every relationship takes a lot of hard work... Am I willing to give and put in that much? HOW? Where do I start? When do I start?
I feel if you keep the fact that your husband isn't interested aside and just work on building yourself into a better, better, even better individual with complete faith in God... only two things can happen - Either your husband comes back to you realizing your true worth & sticks to you for life or you get someone even better.
Forget the situation, the society & what men or women do or have done since millions of centuries or will do for decades to come. All this philosophy & thinking is NOT going to help you in anyway. It just helps you sink deeper into self-pity when you should be getting up, getting stronger to do a self-evaluation & rise above this.
I'm sorry to be so blunt about this.... n trust me this is genuinely out of pure intent to help you out as a lil sister. I do not wish to give you pity & gentle words that help you get into more of self-pity.
Please understand, if you really want to have the kind of happy life you want... you cant be wasting your time stressing & worrying over this. Even a 1000 friends sympathising with you - its not going to help! Baba wants you to get stronger. Ure an intelligent girl. Come on... get up and fight it out. We are all with you. & we'll all be with you thru this... all thru... Baba has already given you a backing and strong support of so many people who understand your pain, help you with tips & make you feel good. Baba has already blessed you with a strong family here which will stand by you thru this and keep giving you the strength & support you desire.
NOW ITS YOUR TURN TO ACT!
Be strong girl. Find yourself a job or do a course. Be independant first. Rest all can happen later.
God bless you with all the strength. I hope, I really really hope you do not take this message negatively as something thats harsh & rude. I really really hope you keep that friend of yours out of your life at least for now & stand up & fight this out with conviction & strength. Learn new stuff & build yourself strong enough for your husband to never be able to ignore. To be that woman... ur husband & every other man would seek... Rise above this. Build urself into that... which none can ignore.
Om Sai Ram
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My friend... Don't give up! Ure a fighter! Get up & fight life's problems till the very end until you've finished them. Recognize the power with & bounce back stronger! Work on yourself. Set goals... both personal & professional. For the next 6months just live for those goals.
We all need a reason to live. If you don't have one... BUILD ONE! & live your life to the fullest for that one purpose... whatever be it...
God bless you with all the strength, power, faith, conviction to defeat the situation or problem and let the God within you win!
Om Sai Ram
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WWji thanks a lot for the detailed and matured answer.
Now 4urblessing ji, please quiten ur mind and think clearly. There maybe more to what is visible. There is one thing called Black Magic, (Black Tantra, Maili Vidya etc.). It is one thing which is normally done by jealous and other people who want to break relationships for their own evil ends. Belive it or not IT IS DONE VERY FREQUENTLY AND IS VERY EFFECTIvE FOR A PERIOD OF TIME. There is one particular part of it called UCCHATAN VIDYA (, which is used to create friction, betwen loving couples or close friends or even parents and children), and it creates a lot of distrust and very effective revulsion between people. Two people cannot stand each other AND DO NOT KNOW WHY??? Thye wud fight without reason, stop speaking with each other, have unknown tension between each other.
And since as u have indicated that ur friend was interested in u. There is a reason also for that. These negetive thoughts will always cross ur mind. Just cooly check that does it happen. Does it happen that very suddenly the fight starts? Very suddenly you r at each other throats.
Another method is to give milk to dogs. Do they drink it the first time u give them or avoid u reject it. If latter happens than it is a definate indication of the same.
Also note did u ever found, ash, flowers, garlic, bone etc. at you hoses which u do not recollect having thrown, evil eye is another reason which wreaks HAVOC. Do u suddenly feel pungent odour like garlic, frying onions or pleasent odours like rose, etc in ur house WITHOUT ANY REASON
sO PLEASE 4urblessing-ji before thinking of any drastic action cooly go to basis of it.
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Very true... Anupamji is right. You might want to check that too.
4urblessingsji... for all you know, an external party is trying to create trouble amongst the two of you... ever thought of that? Do not give up. Keep praying. Fight with strength within... :) Fight every problem against your relationship, your family, your loved ones...
May God bless you with all the strength!
Om Sai Ram
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>>I'm this kind of a gal whose is always in problems in every part of my life. Infact problems became my friend. im in such a situation where i just hopeless.<<
4urblessingji, this is what all the ULTRAMODERN ULTRAWESTERNISED females say. They do as they will, with the blind support of their mothers, and when the karmas come the question is always "WHY ME". People drink liquor during marriage ceremonies, take non veg and go for the ceremony. People do not follow the proper tradition, even to the extent of behaving badly in pavitra places like SHIRDI in name of "MODERNITY AS DEFINED BY THE WHITES OR THEIR SLAVES WEARING TIES AND BIKINIS IN MEDIA AND BOLLYWOOD".
It seems that either you have not read my previous post, as you are not too interested except blaming ur husband, in which case ur marriage is only 4 months old and u have the option to leave and stay at ur parents home which ironically u wud have been aware u r leaving before marriage itself.
In case u can cooly think and sort out then please please please get ur position checked. Please do the needful as indicated. It is not only UCCHATAN, ur husband MAY also be in the grip of somebody. It is called "MIND CONTROL, MESMERISM, MASONRY" for ULTRAWESTERNISED, called "MOHAN TANTRA" in Indian languages. HAD BABA LEFT YOU, YOU WUD NOT HAVE HIT THIS PARTICULAR SITE. NOTHING HAPPENS BY COINCIDENCE. "HE IS THERE THAT'S WHY U CAME HERE".
MAAM my kind request, just a request PLEASE PLEASE to you is to analyse the situation cooly without getting overly worked up and showing the feminine tantrums. SOMETHING MAY HAVE BEEN DONE. Only u can answer that. Rather use this forum to pray to SAI, people like SAIBji, WWji and others are there who are extermely effective. and they are praying for u. U WILL GET THE ANSWERS IN DUE COURSE.
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4urblessingsji... Stop thinking of past, present, future, what men do, what women do, what people did to you, why they do it, whos innocent, whos not & all that. None of it is ever, ever, ever goin to help you. The more you pity yourself and ask God why me... the more you will face problems. Ure still stuck with them cause ure not stopping the why-me-self-pity question. Believe me, I did it for almost 4years. IT DOESNT WORK. After some time you will even stop getting sympathy... people will forget all about you and if you continue being in that frame of mind for longer, trust me no one will be able to help you.
If u need to be, want to be happy U MUST SAY IT OUT LOUD & WORK TOWARDS IT! Get out of the self-pity trap. U are trapped, wrapped in self pity as I was 2 years back. Stop sinking into it now... Now is the time for you to act. Get up, analyse yourself and work on making yourself perfect... close to perfect. If u keep wondering why... n dont learn the lessons God has sent for you u will be stuck with situation after situation that would try and force you to learn them. If u still choose to ignore the universe's hint and not learn & keep wondering whats happening n why... i can assure u it can go on for life & u will never get out of this!
Think for once... Do u want to get out this negativity-self-pity trap or not? Do u want to get up, gather courage & say I choose to be happy or not? Or do you want to let your life get wasted... in the literal terms I will use the word I used for myself two years back "rot". If u choose to enjoy this phase, asking the why question and wondering whats happening... trust me nothings ever going to change.
God brings us across problems so that we learn to fight them and learn lessons from them, make changes in our lives and our personalities. Unless to choose to learn n change ure going to be stuck with them. Look at your life & analyse... introspect. Don't u think ure stuck with certain negativity patterns? If yes... then when do you plan to take the step to break them n rise above them???
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Break the pattern. Snap out of it girl. Now...
Trust me we are all with you... will stick to you through this. Please do not consider my words harsh. Its all with pure intent to help you out of this. There are things u really need to sit & think about. Am just throwing questions at you so that u can come out with solutions to them. The solutions lie within you. You have to answer these questions and find it. N I hope you do. I really wish I could come wherever you are n shake you up... wake up girl! Letting problems come and pass is not goin to help. Work on yourself. The sooner the better. I'm telling you... cause I know for sure, working on yourself is the only way to get out of a negativity & self-pity trap... n problem patterns. So I suggest you start today.
Jot down all ur strengths, weaknesses, desires, dreams... goals in life... what are the goals u need to have in order to get where you want to & what is it that u want in reality...
Om
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:) Thats like it girl. Come on & show the world who you are... show them the power within! Let ur husband & the world see the power, the strength, the capability in you... stop sulking... BE AN ACHIEVER.... BE THE WINNER U ALREADY ARE!!!
Get up & get working!
N may Baba always be with you thru this and all that life has to offer you. As a lil sis, I'm always there too... :) Can count on me buddy...
Om Sai Ram
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Anupamji wat allu mentioned like black magic n all which could be disastorous at times can u please tell me d ways to get rid of this........it is important to know that please tel me....
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PRAGYAJI can u describe the problem in a bit detail
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hello 4urblessing ji,
Thats the true spirit of a gal. u deserve to be happy. Do things in such a way that make your family realize your true value and u gain the lost self-respect. You are a very ambitious gal, U very well deserve to be happy. Dont worry , Baba is just testing you. He will stand by you all the time. We , all forum members are with you, Fight for your life, dont give up till the end. Victory is only yours. Take care
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Anupamji can u plz gv me ur mail id........so as i can write the things to u.....i have seen that u r really a great soul always ready to help....
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4urblessings ji, I just can make out that u must be having a long pointed nose.Ur tantrums are typically Feminine traits, who have suspicion for all. IT IS BY THE WHO WHO HAS A GOOD FRIEND. instead of praying you are using the space to air UR unfounded suspicions, AND U R CONVERTING IT TO HELL. DO U FEMALES EXPECT THAT HUSBANDS SHUD TAKE EVERYTHING LYING DOWN??
Sorry I do not mean to be harsh, but kindly look inside urself, first before blaming BABA and SAARI KAYNAAT. Did u know that even Internet Booked Taxi services are also called "ESCORT SERVICES"
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Should he inform you all what is happening in office, even when he has meeting when he is typing do u think that?? Its ur EGO MAAM. NOT BABA do not blame. If u think LEAVE HIM and GO TO UR PARENTS HOUSE. SORRY U R CONVERTING UR HOUSE TO HELL
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4urblessingsji... I can totally understand what ure going thru. Do not worry. From your posts I can sense whats going on. We can say he certainly doesn't love you... as of now. I can understand your frustration. I know where you're coming from. It really hurts being compared to another.
Anupamji we do not know whats exactly happening at her place. Agreed all men are not the same. But he may be very well cheating on her too.
4urblessingsji, you also must understand... there may be a possibility that he's not cheating and genuinely under pressure to hide things for other reasons. Please stop scanning his mobile phone & other stuff. It wont help. Will only make things worse for the relationship & both of u.
I understand how much it hurts. But I suggest all you should be focussing on right now is building on urself... ur abilities. Please ignore him. Give him his space for some time. Men need space. Even if he's cheating on you, your questioning him is not going to help in any way. I understand ur anger... but my dear friend... if u really want to save this relationship... kindly dump ur anger & focus on urself. Once ure the best, he wont ever go anywhere...
& I hope it happens soon. Om Sai Ram
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jai sai ram sister plz dont lose heart have faith in baba, like you said he knows everything,he knows what is going on with you but Only if it is possible for you just go to shirdi and if not ask baba to come to your house and i am 100% sure he will bless you with loads of happiness that you cant ever imagine...sharadha saburi just 2 words but very strong and pious.
Sister keep reciting Baba's name and baba will take away ALL your sorrows and make you happy forever but do not forget him.........the day is coming close to you.
BABA PLZ BLESS HER AND HELP HER
OM SAI NATH !
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Om sai ram didi,
Dont lose ur heart. Baba can never cheat their beloved ones. He is giving u so much pain keeping in mind ur threshold, just to know whether u would still believe him even in this difficult situation. Completely trust him. Trust ur husband but dont have blind faith. Be aware of every possible situation. In this yuga, money talks a lot, there is no value for relationships in front of money. God has given u a chance to prove ur husband that whatever happens in life, u shall always stand beside him, trust him ,help him . Do it and then u yourself will realize the truth and see Baba's miracles. take care.
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>>But he may be very well cheating on her too. <<
WWji point taken. Now tell me has our sister, informed her husband abt the good friend and the family matters that are being going to him???
There is a saying which is very easy to follow and works wonders "A FAMILY THAT PRAYS TOGETHER STAYS TOGETHER". However it is the city bred ultrawesternised, egoistic mother and Govt pampered females who discard it for some TV serials.
WWji the brutal fact IS that males and females are two parallel lines never destined to meet. The institution called marriage (the greatest misfortune ever befalling mankind) tries to build bridges but what is impossible is impossible.
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:) Anupamji... its ok. Men will always be men & women, women. Right now we are here to help each other, understand each other's pain. I agree you may have seen a really bad side of women. Completely understand that. But not all men are the same nor are all women. We all make mistakes in life, have wrong attitudes. Its ok. Its ok to be imperfect. God made us the way He made us cause He feels this is how He wants us to be. I suggest we forget the male-female outlook and look at each other as just humans... just as souls.
4urblessingsji... my suggestion, you first keep this friend of yours out of your life... at least until ur marriage. This friend is not and cannot help you in anyway. He can only make things worse for you. Stop thinking of all else & keep working on yourself. Do ur prayers, yoga, read Sai Satcharitra, do japa if possible. Learn some new stuff... do a couple of courses. Focus on building urself and enjoying ur life. Even if he is cheating, once he sees the true potential in you am sure he will come back. But remember... for that instead of cursing men or society or feeling helpless you need to constantly work on yourself. Work very hard. Read a lot of books. Aquire knowledge. Be smart, be informed. Get a good job. Be completely independent... n by that I mean both independent financially & emotionally (ie. your happiness should not be dependent on ur hubby or anyone).
Just keep focussing on that. All else will eventually fall in place. Just do not pay attention to what he's doing. He'll realize in time and come back to you a changed man. Be that... which he could never even dare to dream of having... :) Then how will he ever cheat on you???
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4urblessingsji... I really with a true heart wish to help you. Please trust me. & trust me I'll be with you thru this... ok? I know what u feel, what ure going thru. It really hurts to know the one you love & consider your best friend for life doesnt care about you. But 4urblessingsji... thats why we call that person our best friend for life right? So that we stick to each other thru thick & thin, learn together, share experiences...
4urblessingsji... we very rarely get an opportunity to love selflessly & just give, give, give, give...
This one is yours. God has given you this situation so that you learn to forgive your best friend lovingly... stand by him... give him his space & be his best friend. Your chance to do all it takes to keep him smiling and happy. Many times we realize this when its too late. But I wish to share it with you now so that you don't let it be too late.
Its ok na... he's behaving this way. LET HIM. For some time, let him. Don't say a word. Just let him be. Work on yourself. Your inner qualities... wisdom... your capabilities, personality. Be his best friend. Try and smile. Where there is true unconditional love, he surely has to respond back to it 4urblessingsji. Trust me, it works. Don't say a word. Don't even think about all this for now. Let him be what he is. You do your duty. Give him love... loads of it. Love is when you want to see the opposite person smile. Its not easy to love... cause love is giving, giving, giving, giving... Love is acceptance. Pray for him. Not that God get him back... (of course you can pray for that too) but... just pray for him. His happiness, his peace.
Do ur thing. God will do His. & have faith. All will be good.
Om Sai Ram
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Well Wisher ji... I have a similar situation. God bless you for such kind words. I try to be like what you said but then crash again one day. I keep asking him why does he not love me and he says when i come and ask it pushes him away even more. I dont know what to do some days. I sit down to pray and I have all these thoughts in my mind. I dont know how to snp out of it. But I am taking it day by day. Your words today helped me gain a little bit of confidence on myself. I have to remind myself constantly to remember what you said. Om sai ram.
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Preetiji... If love is destined to flow your way from him it will. If not, it won't. But if you keep asking him & expecting him to love you back... ur expectations are blocking the flow of true love.
True love is to give right... :) Give him love, give him space. If you've given him love & space or what he desires... ur love is truly successful. Give love... & leave d rest to God. Work on urself. Make urself a better person. Love will flow back automatically... & in abundance...
Keep praying. Keep the faith strong.
4urblessingsji... have faith. Its a tough phase I know. But this too shall pass. You have to win over frustration, depression & anger right? Your opportunity to give love... don't loose it! & just see how love flows back to you. Just ignore all he does and keep giving love. Just keep doing it... for as long as forever... Love has tremendous power. Am sure it will make miracles happen in your life too. Keep giving him your love, service and compassion. Support him. Give him his space. Am sure eventually his heart will melt too. Remember... you have to be that which no mans heart can ever resist... pure love... even his heart won't resist it. Am sure.
Om Sai Ram
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OM SAIRAM
As i have felt we are responsible for our failure.God is always showering his blessings only we are not seeking that much what GOD can offer us.If you have that much will i can assure you in a day you will get the result.If you want help tell me I God will show you the result in a day in 24 hrs.
OM SAI RAM
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>>Well Wisher ji... I have a similar situation. God bless you for such kind words. I try to be like what you said but then crash again one day. I keep asking him why does he not love me and he says when i come and ask it pushes him away even more. I dont know what to do some days. I sit down to pray and I have all these thoughts in my mind. I dont know how to snp out of it. But I am taking it day by day. Your words today helped me gain a little bit of confidence on myself.<<
PREETJI IT CAN BE "PITRUDOSH" Kindly get both of ur horoscopes checked
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Baba mere sai..meri behan ki madad kar..Bless his entire family...OM SAI NATHAY NAMAH
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जय सांई राम।।।
First change the title of Topic and see the miracle....I have requested you earlier also in my hindi language now again I am telling you in english....Its not the way to deal with MY BABA SAI...On the one hand you are alleging him to be cheater and on the other hand begging for HIS Mercy...I know I am little harsh...but If you want change in your life...just do what I am telling u...I thought of not replying to any of your post....but I am telling you from my experience....first stop negative thinking and thoughts...You are only feeding energy to all your negativity...
हम खुशी की चाह में हर खुशी से दूर हो गये
हम खुशी की चाह में हर खुशी से दूर हो गये
ढूढने चले थे ढूढने चले थे ज़िन्दगी
ज़िन्दगी से दूर हो गये। ज़िन्दगी से दूर हो गये।
अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई
ॐ सांई राम।।।
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ramesh ji mujhe apki baat bahut achhi lagi
bcoz i too believe ki hamare dukh se hamse jada baba paesan ho jate he
vo to hamesha hume khush dekhna chahte he na
sach me hamare sai pyaare sai he
hum khush rahege to vo khush rahege
thanks for ur sach a nice advise
may sai bless all of us
om sai nath
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Have faith my friend. All will be fine. You do your bit & leave the rest to God. Am sure He will come to your rescue. He always does. Thoda faith & patience. Please... Om Sai Ram
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जय सांई राम।।।
Nice to see change in Title...Now wait and see HIS Real Mercy....
दूसरे की औषधि तुम्हारे लिए ज़हर भी हो सकती है। तुम्हारी औषधि भी दूसरे के लिए ज़हर हो सकती है। न तो कोई औषधि औषधि है, न कोई ज़हर ज़हर है। जो ज़हर तालमेल खा जाए, औषधि बन जाता है; जो औषधि तालमेल न खाए, ज़हर हो जाती है। सदा अपने भीतर तौलते रहना। यही जीवन को जीने का राज़ है।
अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई
ॐ सांई राम।।।
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Baba please help her and her family, om sai ram
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Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram
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Vinit Ji however, if it is some Love or something, I'am zero at it as I do not have beleive in this particular irrationality, so cannot be of any value to you
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Baba be with all ur devotees like this..show them right direction....Om sai nathay namah.
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:)
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its gud.........keep faith..............
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Link for you.... Read it
http://www.lifepositive.com/Mind/Positive_Thinking/The_Good_Word52005.asp
Om Sai Ram
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om sai ram
Dear Ramesh Ramnaniji wat u said was very true. After i changed the title i dint except that some miracle is going to happen. But i was wrong. It was two days back one evenin me and my hubby were sittin in the patio talking in general and suddenly i asked him every doubt i have and infact that was the first time i was very open and it was the first time that he answered very camly without gettin mad at me. Then i realized infact it was the miracle by changing the title.
He also told an incident i.e. when i went to my parents place last week, him and his friends planned to go to that kind of a club. So he got home but he said that something stopped him and told him to not to go. So tats y he stayed at home that day. When i heard that i was like its baba who made him to not to go.
Babaji i knew u r followin me everytime but y cant to help my dad find a job babaji
Omsairam
Ramesh bhai's posts r really motivating.u can go thru it.
Sister i'll tell u give ur husband unconditional love .it works,works,works!!!
Just love n trust him ...he'll change..change for the Better!
That dosent mean u lost ur identity,individuality ....u can talk,discuss things in a peaceful way..
slowly ,he'll understand the value of this holy relationship..
just sometime....pray to Sai..
May baba bless n guide u ...
Jai jai Sai ram!!
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Dear Sister, Dont loose hope...Dont give up...Right now if you can find a job and work..please do that..giving him some space to understand...when you give little distance maybe he will realize your value..dont even think of death..there are lot of beautiful things waiting for you after this phase..don't loose hope...OM SAI NATHAY NAMAH
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Sister, Can you mail me on m.bajaj@tcs.com and let me understand this little better
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OM SAI RAM PLZ HELP HER
OM SAI RAM
OM SAI RAM
OM SAI RAM
OM SAI RAM
OM SAI RAM
OM SAI RAM
OM SAI RAM
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जय सांई राम।।।
THE LAW OF THE SEED
Take a look at an apple tree. There might be five hundred apples on the Tree, each with ten seeds. That's a lot of seeds!
We might ask, "Why would you need so many seeds to grow just a few more Trees?"
Nature has something to teach us here. It's telling us: "Most seeds never Grow. So if you really want to make something happen, you better try More than once."
This might mean:
You'll attend twenty interviews to get one job.
You'll interview forty people to find one good employee.
You'll talk to fifty people to sell one house, car, vacuum Cleaner, insurance policy, idea...
And you might meet a hundred acquaintances to find one special friend.
When we understand the "Law of the Seed", we don't get so disappointed.
We stop feeling like victims. Laws of nature are not things to take personally.
We just need to understand them - and work with them.
अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई
ॐ सांई राम।।।
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Om Sai ram
Baba plzz help her , she needs you. plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz baba come to her help..
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Please serve your husband without expecting a single thing 4urblessingsji. Maybe he's feeling chocked in this marriage. Give him time. Its your expectations from him that are pushing him away. Please do not expect & just serve him. Accept this as a fact of life at least until things are automatically better. Marriage has just begun. Theres a long way to go. Do ur bit without expecting even the least humanity for some time. Please... please... just for some more time... maybe a year or two... am sure once he sees your never-ending love, compromise & sacrifice he will come back to you. Am sure. but you need to GIVE HIM THAT SPACE WITHOUT EXPECTING HIM TO LOVE U BACK AT ALL... at least till he realizes. Please.... for heavens sake... its not a deal. Love does nt mean getting love back. It means giving. Do ur giving bit. & all will fall in place. If u start expecting even before trying to self-lessly give without expectations... its nt a bargain & doesnt work like that. I understand ur pain. But thats the only way things can get better. please... as a lil sis its my advise. Serve him selflessly, love him & gv him ample of space with love ( not anger ) & save ur marriage. Please...
Baba give her strength... please stop testing noble souls Baba... please... please be with her & make her stop expecting in return... please help her Baba... & please knock some sense into her husband too Baba. Make him realise her worth Baba. Please... Om Sai Ram
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sai baba please help me..
i m very confused abt my career.. saibaba please help me to get admission for mba in a good college..
baba u knw better wat is gud for me n dats y i m waiting for ur answers..
guys please tell me how will he indicate me dat dis is baba's decision for my life..
once sai baba came to my dream n he promised me dat he ll help me for my career bt till now i m nt getting admission anywer.. n my life is also messed up..
sai baba please tell me wat u want from me..
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:) Kamraji... keep trying, study hard, do loads & loads of test papers, mark your time... try & figure out your strong points & how to identify the easy questions... keep timing yourself, read a lot of stuff, listen to news in english, observe the way people talk at panel discussions. Watch CNBC or NDTV profit or any news channel for at least 15-20 mins a day. Am sure you will score well. My wishes & prayers are always with you. Take care... if not this year, next year you surely will... keep doing loads & loads & loads of papers... am sure you will succeed. Everything will fall in place. Do not worry at all. Loads of ppl to help you & guide you here.... ok??? :):):) Now smile & go back & study lots... Baba is with you.
Om Sai Ram
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om sai ram
please help every one baba please show mercy baba please.
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om sai nath
baba plz help her
om sai nathaya namah
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Sister...please control urself..this is the time when u need to be strong and support your family..if you breakdown than all your loved ones will be in further trouble...ask for strength from god...every night has a morning..this will end sister...dont panic...I understand its easy to say..but we all are there for you..praying for you...OM SAI NATHAY NAMAH.
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ॐ सांई राम।।।
मैं बहुत ज़्यादा कुछ कह नही सकता क्योंकि मेरा कहना अभी इस हालत में तुम कुछ समझ नही पाओगी। थोड़ा शांत होकर श्रदा-सबूरी के साथ बाबा के सम्पर्क में रहो। परीक्षा की घड़ी है। विश्वास रखो। बाबा का अपना तरीका है समस्याओं को सुलझाने का।
आस्था रखो
आस्था रखो हवा पर
बहती अभी चाहे निराशा की हो,
अन्ततः आशा भी तो
इसी हवा पर
हो के सवार आएगी |
आस्था रखो धूप पर
क्यो न हो चाहे अभी
दुख की चिलचिलाती धूप,
अन्ततः उदासी के ठंडे दिनो मे
सुख यही धूप ही तो
लेकर आएगी |
आस्था रखो छाया पर
ग़म की काली छाया ही क्यो न हो,
अन्ततः चिलचिलाती दुख की धूप मे
झुलसती तुम्हारी आत्मा
खुशी के साये मे ही ठंडक पाएगी |
आस्था रखो मौसम पर
मौसम हो चाहे बुरे वक्त का,
अन्ततः बदलती रुत
अच्छा मौसम भी तो लाएगी |
आस्था रखो बस आस्था
अनास्था से
मानव जाति कब जी पायी है, जी पाएगी।
अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई
ॐ सांई राम।।।