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Punishment of Unsuccessful Love.........Sorry Sai for being a selfish Devotee, Couldn’t respect your decision!Just Sharing Ganesh Ji’s message:
For all of you out there head over heels in love with a "he" or a "she". what little i can decipher from following your posts is that you are not willing to let go of your love no matter what. it is like a child who has got hold of a toy and wont let go even if it is not his. there are some hard facts that you should understand my friends . you cannot force anybody into a relationship and it is not useful to waste your life over spilt milk. you can come to sai and pray , sai i want my love back 100,000 times and sulk, cut your relationships with family or friends but these are not going to bring back your love to you. also the more you do this , the more the chances are that when you finally wake up from this , you will find out that you had made a big mess of your life and you have alienated everybody who was close to you and who cared for you. is this what you want ? . i presume you believe in sai which is why u are here . but how much do you believe in him ? have you thought that maybe your love affair could in the future have ended up as a disaster which is why he is giving you what you want ?. some philosopher once said "beware of what you ask for from god. bcos you may just get it" . sai can see the future, and if he has brought you together he will keep you together , if he has seperated you then that too is for your good. with time people change , their stars and destiny change . so when sai brought you together maybe it was right at that time but with time , things being different maybe it is no more good for you so he is changing your situation. my young friends , i am not saying dont love again , and go for arranged marriage or anything but please please also look at the practical aspects of life. you are wasting your time over something which is not entirely in your hands and these are precious years which wont come back . so think , please think and the strength you show in not letting go of your love, show some of it in not crying over him/her and "live" your life .
Love is like a seesaw if both of you are on it and suddely one person gets off it , you will end up hitting the ground with great force which will cause pain.
another thing i would like to add here is that if both of you feel you are made for each other and you can live together without help from your families. then talk to them and tell them we are adults , we do not need your permission by law to wed but we want to see you happy. but if you are not willing to sacrifice your ego or your worry for the society and not willing to give us your blessings then we can always do a court marriage . but when you say this , you must be prepared to do it and look around you 360 degrees that it
doesnt bomb on you. i do not recommend this for one and all but only in specific cases.
may sai bless you all with all the happiness in this world. om shri sainathaya namaha.
ps: as a footnote , those of you who think , what does he know ? he must never have loved anybody the way i do, yes once i was also head over heels in love with somebody .
and i prayed "god give her to me at all costs" not "god give her to me if it is good for me " and guess what ? we married , had a child and divorced. it was a total disaster and
my only regret is i spoiled my childs life with this divorce.(not to mention other "side effects")
Mai Sai Bless All! Heal All!om sri sai ram!
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om sai ram!
Anant Koti Brahmand Nayak Raja Dhi Raj Yogi Raj, Para Brahma Shri Sachidanand Satguru Sri Sai Nath Maharaj !
Budhihin Tanu Janike, Sumiro Pavan Kumar, Bal Budhi Vidhya Dehu Mohe, Harahu Kalesa Vikar !
........................ बाकी सब तो सपने है, बस साईं ही तेरे अपने है, साईं ही तेरे अपने है, साईं ही तेरे अपने है !!
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