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Prayers Section => Sai Baba Help Me => Topic started by: Well-wisher on May 02, 2009, 10:30:23 AM
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Please forgive me for my complete ignorance. I entered a question here and have been asked to read the Rama Vijaya for 14 days. And also to worship Akklot Swami... I think I got the name also wrong. Please foirgive me for my ignorace. But would anyone know how I could do both of these...
Please help...
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http://www.archive.org/details/RamaVijaya
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Dear well wisher beti,
Aapne jo swamiji ka naam likha hai woh AKKALKOT SWAMIJI kehalaate hai.
Unke baare me achha sa aur savistaar post Mr Rr ji ne kahi din pehale saibaba spiritual and discussion room vibhag me post kiya huva hai. Use jaroor pad lena.
Mai ne Abhitak ke aapke her post pade hai .Itni choti si umar me hi...sirf ek ghehari chot ki wajah se agar aap iss kadar gyani ban sakate ho...life ka sahi uddesh jaan sakte ho..toh Shri SAIBABA ji ka lakh lakh shukriya karo ki Unonhe aap ko yah mauka dekar AAP, Rr ji, Ganeshji, jaise MARGDARSHAK banaaye hai. Aap logonke gyan aur meethe margdarshan se shaayad bahot logonka kalyaan karneka BABa ne socha hoga.
Hamesha Sabka bhala socho aur Saibaba ki iss wardaan jo tumko mila hai..uss gyan se iss sai ki family me khushiya failao. khud bhi khush raho.
Tum jaisi pyari beti se kaun maa baap kabtak naaraaj reh sakenge ? jaldi hi sabkuch thik ho jaayega.
om shri saibabaya namaha.
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Thanks a ton Tanu... :-) God Bless You...
Thank you aunty... margdarshak nahi aunty... only sharing what I feel. Jo mere saath hua, kabhi nahi chahoongi kabhi kisi aur ke saath ho... bas, itna hi. Mom-dad mujhse naaraaz nahi hain aunty. Udaas hain. Rishtey kamzor pad chuke hain. Mom's into severe depression. And we are not equipped to deal with it. She gets hyper every two minutes for every little thing. Actually, ghar ka mahaul hi kuch aisa ban gaya hain... jaise kisiko smile nahi karna hai... :-) My parents believe I hate them. Moms seen a lot in life. I can understand why she is in this state. Par... I'm not a psychiatrist na aunty. None of us know how to deal with it. She refuses to want to heal. She refuses to see the doc, to take her sleeping pills on time. Doesn't remember things, doesnt understand things... and this helplessness and inability to do and understand things normally the way she used to.... it gets her more and more into depression. She screams... Pata nahi kya karu... I have a bad temper too. I say a lot of things I dont really mean. I'm working on that.
I'm already working on myself to come to a level where I can say I'm strong. I am, but at times... we all feel that way. I channel Reiki to my parents everyday. They do not even know I know Karuna Reiki. But mom is so not receptive to it. Theres so much of internal blockages, she doesnt recieve Reiki. :-) I'm still trying. I promised my Reiki master I'm not going to give up. So till the time mom subconsciously becomes receptive to healing and feels like wanting to heal I'll continue channeling Reiki. And after that, I'm going to hold her hand and take her along with me to the Reiki center and get a complete 21 day healing done for her from my Reiki master.
I'm hoping n praying that happens soon... :-) n guess what... for the first time she agreed to join a one month yoga class with me. This is my first and only ray of hope. And I'm not going to let this go. I'm going to use this one month to build all positivity around her...
Wish me luck... Thanks again...
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Dear Well wisher, we all love our mother. So i am giving u some tips for ur mother it will help her to move out from the depression. I think she need a change from all her daily routine. 1st change everything around her and create a new atmosphere at home. Like change her bed room's interior by changing her bed's direction. Change her bed cover remember onething colors play an important role and selection of it is also imp so use light color for curtons, bed sheet etc place some refreshing flowers near her. Burn sainted sticks which smell good to her. Bring dvds cds of comedy movies n show her let her laugh. Give her fav. Food.. Make her read some good articles, story books, jokes.. Take her to nearby garden or zoo let her see beautiful flowers green grass blue sky birds etc. Let her breath good refreshing air. Talk to her as much u can n remind her those beautiful n happy moments of her past that she lived.. Unke ander kuch bhi hai jisme wo kafi samay se ghut rahi hai wo bahar ana jaruri hai. She will soon come out of it. Rest is up to u n Baba.
Om Sai Jai Sai Jai Jai Sai, Shree Sai Jai Sai Jai Jai Sai
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:-) Thank you Tanu... Will try all of this right away... :-) Thanks a ton!
Nothing makes her smile... she's been thru a lot in life. And somewhere I know I have been a major cause of it. This is my time to stand by her and change things in her life.
:-) Guess what? I've never picked up even a glass of water at home... forget entering the kitchen to make food. But I guess I'm gonna dump all my hatred for the kitchen, all my fasle ego and get to work. Food is difficult right now... can start with making nimbu paani and chai... :-) Thanks... may be that will make her smile...
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hello well wisher,
on reading ur post i feel like ur mother is having what is called a bipolar disorder. good thing about it is that medicines work well for it.
i would suggest you to meet a psychiatrist urself. tell them the details . and i m sure they'll be able to prescribe medicines which will work nicely. u dont exactly need to take ur mother to the doctor. all you have to do is make sure she takes the medicines.
dear well wisher. please dont feel that u dont need to see a psychiatrist. u know what. a psychiatrist is the best person to see if u have any problems and are leading u into stress.
besides giving medicines the counselling that they give is worth it. sometimes its better to think about our problems from a different point of view. it really helps.
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and about swami akkalkot--
swami akkalkot maharaj is also known as shri swami samarth maharaj of akkalkot. he is said to be an incarnation of lord dattatrya. and if u have read sai satcharitra- it says that swami samartha and sai natha maharaj are one and the same. u can get a lot of info on swami samartha on google. i have a biography of shri swami samartha. i can mail it to u if u wish to.
may god bless all
jai sai ram
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Well-wisher,
i had posted a few messages on Akkalkot Swami Samarth Maharaj some time back ... here is the link ...
http://forum.spiritualindia.org/shirdi-sai-baba-akkalkot-swami-samarth-and-gajanan-maharaj-of-shegaon-t30054.0.html
Om Sai Ram ...
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Thank you RR ji & Gajanan ji.
:-) I am going through my counselling and Reiki sessions already. Thats the reason I'm better. As far as moms concerned, shes not willing to take anti-depressants already prescribed by the doctor also.
I discussed mom with my counsellor...gradually working towards it. She's just agreed to do yoga. I have to tell her mom, I want to heal. Will you stand by me and accompany me. Its too early in the morning and i dont want to take a rick alone. So now she's agreed to come along. Maybe I'll meet a psychiatrist and see what he / she has to say.
RRji, thank you... thank you... thank u soooo much!
One more question... please forgive my ignorance as I've never prayed this way. So I dont understand a lot of things.
Reading the Sai Satcharitra - is it like a prayer? How is it supposed to be done? Its like a story right? Is there any particular number of times / particular chapters? How do u do it? Can a girl read it at all times or is it a prayer?
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Dear Well-wisher,
The reason i have always adored Sai Baba is because He never believed in rituals merely for the sake of rituals ... His main consideration was the faith and sincerity with which any task is done ... thats what i have always valued about Sai Baba ... so i will speak here for myself ... i am sure other devotees will have the right answers to the various ways in which the Sai Satcharita can be read ..
One of the ways that i know of is the "Saptah" .. in which you read the entire Sai Satcharita in 7 days ..
I have never been able to do a Saptah properly till now because of my work schedule .. ... though I have read the Sai Satcharita once completely .. now off and on i read random chapters from the Sai Satcharita ...
I open the book randomly and read the chapter it opens to ... sometimes the "coincidence" with the chapter that opens up is simply amazing ... its as if thats the answer Sai Baba wanted to give me for the particular doubt in my mind at that point in time ...
So whatever Chapter opens up i try to assimilate its core teachings ...
The book indeed has stories ... and the stories are supposed to convey lessons to us, about the greatness of Sai Baba ...and how we could lead a much fuller life if we imbibe them ...
The reading of this book and the various stories in it are in fact a prayer to Sai Baba Himself since he Himself blessed the writing of this book ... So I guess when you read this book with full faith and devotion you are in essence praying to Sai Baba ...
I am sure there are devotees here who can tell you the various prescribed methods of reading the Sai Satcharita ..
Om Sai Ram ...
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:) thank u RRji... will just read for now and wait for further inputs
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i did the saptahs a couple of time. though nothing positive happened but atleast it gives peace of mind.
now i read just as many lines possible everyday.
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Well-wisher,
I agree with rr,..I love sai baba for that..he doesnt say oh if u read it like this or like that iw ill be angry etc etc...just get the book, read a chapter a day if u like or read the whole thing like a novel..as long as u understand and cherish the words , u can read it anyways...they have the cd version of it too..rajiv posted it someitme back in his posts...u can hear it on ur computer while working etc etc..
Om sai ram
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sai ram,
do the needful
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dear well wisher.
u have chosen ur username very appropriately. u r indeed a well wisher. thanks a million for ur valuable words.
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:-) Most welcome. God Bless...
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I'm sorry but I need to ask this question. Can a lady read it all the 30days of the month. Is it a pooja? I have seen the chapters but knowing this is important. I have heard that people read it with a lot of faith and its miraculous. So just want to make sure whether I can read it all times or not.
Please... enlighten me... I'm clueless about it.
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Well-wisher,
Frankly, I come from a family where everyone reads a lot of holy books and do saptahs all the time..My grandma and mom say that it depends on faith and sincerity...So , u shudnt really worry abt that at all..Read it with ur full devotion anytime.
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:) thank you... I will. I read 2 chapters yesterday. All the chapters completed in a week is called a saptah right?
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Wow tanu dear, very well suggested. What a wonderful thought. So much positiveness in your post :).
Don't worry well-wisher, everything will be alright. Since so many days I wanted to ask your name. Can you let me know your name, if you don't mind. Of course you are our well wisher without any doubt but when we pray for our fellow devotees with their name then we can feel that belongingness. Baba bless you and fill all the happiness in your family. om sai ram.
Dear Well wisher, we all love our mother. So i am giving u some tips for ur mother it will help her to move out from the depression. I think she need a change from all her daily routine. 1st change everything around her and create a new atmosphere at home. Like change her bed room's interior by changing her bed's direction. Change her bed cover remember onething colors play an important role and selection of it is also imp so use light color for curtons, bed sheet etc place some refreshing flowers near her. Burn sainted sticks which smell good to her. Bring dvds cds of comedy movies n show her let her laugh. Give her fav. Food.. Make her read some good articles, story books, jokes.. Take her to nearby garden or zoo let her see beautiful flowers green grass blue sky birds etc. Let her breath good refreshing air. Talk to her as much u can n remind her those beautiful n happy moments of her past that she lived.. Unke ander kuch bhi hai jisme wo kafi samay se ghut rahi hai wo bahar ana jaruri hai. She will soon come out of it. Rest is up to u n Baba.
Om Sai Jai Sai Jai Jai Sai, Shree Sai Jai Sai Jai Jai Sai
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:-) You can call me Del while praying. Kiddo or Well-wisher is a better option... I logged in with that name... and would love to be called that cause it reminds me of my life goal. Kiddo is fun... cause I love being called and treated like one... :-)
But the choice is left to you... you can call me Del, well-wisher, kiddo or give me a totally different name all together. What matters is the love I constantly recieve from you guys... Thats what matters the most!
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i personally believe that god knows everthing and that if every prayer is done with a pure heart god wont mind it. no matter when. even the spiritual books say that gods name can be taken anytime. no matter what.
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:) thank u sooooo much everyone for the guidance. Now I can read anytime. :)
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Hi,
Everyone OM SAI RAM to everyone. Today by BABA's grace I have passed my mba exam and I am very happy about it because after 5 years of hardship as I was nearly about to give up I have completed my exam finally but somewhere deep down within I am very very sad and depressed I feel that I am a coward in life I am not able to do anything as in I want to live happily and be joyful , I want to help my family members and loved ones and I want to be healthy.
To start my story , I am a 32 year old if girl I may say and I am jobless at the moment I have worked in about 4-5 companies for 6 years now but I am not able to be stable anywhere and right now I am without a job for 8-9 months, I dont have a father, my mom is old and I have a brother who is 37 yrs old and not yet married and is jobless too and a elder sister suffering from cancer. We are very tensed due to my brother for past 12-13 years as he doest earn and is suffering from depression and wants to marry a girl whom he cannot and the whole family is disturbed about it, my eldest sister who is suffering from cancer is also very sad and unhappy in life due to us brother and sister who do not work and our whole family is in depression too.
I am in love with a guy who has been with us for past 12 years but we both cannot marry I just want both of us to be loving , happy, together as freinds and lovers for life and I want him to be happy and peaceful and have good work always. Basically i pray all my family members to be blessed with love , prosperity, peace and happiness for our entire life so that we may serve the society and needy and spread the same to others MAY there be peace and love light and good health in everyone's lives may we have no enemies in life and may we be enemy to none may we hurt noone and love everyone and wish all good health peace happiness love and prosperity in life THANK U SAI BABA PLEASE BLESS US ALL WITH UR LOVE AND LIGHT ALWAYS AMEN
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:) Dear Alkaji,
Looks like you're trapped in an emotional pattern cycle. You need to break it. And we're going to help you do that. If only you have faith in God and carefully understand what am trying to say.
First things first, even before understanding anything... I'd suggest you do is japa. 11,000 times... 51,000 times... 1 lac times... whatever best you can. & ask your brother & sister to also do the same. Let there be loads of positive vibrations in your house. I can sense so much negativity. How can anything positive happen. Clear the clutter, clean up your room... decide on a tiny corner for prayer and keep it clean.
While sitting, standing, eating, walking... keep God's name in your mind. Mentally keep doing japa. Do this for a week.
We'll take the next step later. Have faith... please have faith... Baba will help you.
God bless... Om Sai Ram