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Prayers Section => Sai Baba Help Me => Topic started by: Moumita on July 10, 2012, 09:23:41 AM
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Sai Baba,
i write this to you with a broken heart, My husband has stopped loving me. He says he does not love me any more and wants a divorce, He has looked for a separate house for himself and is going to live there alone. He does not love me baba and it hurts so much that i want to die. I love and dont want this marriage to end. i have started your vrat also and i will come to your feet in Sirdi on 19th July. Baba, you are my only hope. Please please save my marriage. I cannot live without my husband, God Please make him love me again. Sai baba please do a miracle.
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Baba, please help her. I am also in the same position. My husband is also looking for a separate house. Please help us both. Baba, bless your children.
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SaiRam ji,
Baba’s blessings. I am reminded of Baba's word as stated in Sai Charitra, where Baba says "It is my special characteristic to free any person, who surrenders completely to Me, and who does worship Me faithfully, and who remembers Me, and meditates on Me constantly." It is always the test of Bhakta to hold on steadily to the holy feet of His guru no matter what the situation is, when this is realized by Bhakta the Lord reveals Himself and carry His bhakta in His own arm across the world afflictions.
I sincerely pray Baba that you both are blessed by our SaiBaba soon. Have firm faith and devotion. He will do the best.
I'll offer special prayers and pooja at the temple. Let’s think positive.
JaiSaiRam
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Dear friends...Baba is simply testing your faith. Put all your worries on his shoulders and pray to him with full faith and devotion.
Om sai ram
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Dear Friends,
i have a lot of faith in baba, that's why i have not lost hope. But the pain is unbearable , and i cannot stop crying even for a minute. He is my religiously, socially, legally married husband. I love him more than myself. He has left me and does not even miss me. He once begged me for my love and marriage, i said yes and was a very good wife. i loved him unconditionally with all my heart and today he hates me ? why? what's my fault? Even my husband does not have answers to these questions. I love him so so much and i i want to save my marriage. Please baba, plese baba help me . Please do a miracle. please make my husband fall madly in love with me again. I promise to be an even better wife. Return my love, my husband to me baba. Please bless me!!
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I need all you Sai baba bhakt's prayers. Please pray for a wife who madly loves her husband and wants to save her marriage. I Know if you all pray on my behalf baba will definitely listen and do a chamatkar. i love my husband and i beg you all to help me in getting my husband and marriage back.
with lots of hope and love
a heartbroken sister.
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Moumita,
I am in the exact same situation. I believe Baba will help me but I cannot stop crying. I have two little boys too. Last year he begged me never to leave him and now he is leaving me. I love him and my boys with all my heart. My boys will be heartbroken if their Papa leaves. He used to love me so much. Everyone used to tell me I was lucky to have a husband who loves me so much. Everyone please pray for me too! I don't think I will survive if he leaves me. My two innocent boys should not suffer for my bad deeds. Please bring back my love Baba!
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sister,
do one thing if you can. buy a Rose quartz crystal. its not very expensive. keep it on Sai Baba's feet and ask for his blessings. kep the quartz always with yourself and if possible under/around your husbands pillow at night. As i said when i visit Sirdi next week, i'll offer prayers on your behalf too.
Keep faith.
Love will win in the end
Om Sai Ram!
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Just purchased one. I will try it and will try to keep faith. Thank you for saying prayer for me in Shirdi next week. I will keep on praying for you too. Hopefully Baba will help us soon. I am scared that my divorce will go through fast. I don't have much time.
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Baba,
It has been four days that i have not seen my husband's face. I have not heard my husband's voice. He does not miss me baba. It hurts too much and the pain is excruciating and unbearable. I'm ready to give up my life in exchange of my husbands love. You know everything, you know that i have been a very good and honest wife then why is this happening with me. Baba, please show me the way. Please, please make my husband desperately fal in love with me again. Please do a miracle.
dear brother's and sisters,
If you are reading this prayer/ appeal of mine, please pray for me. Just send one pray up to Sai Baba to save my marriage. I'm sure with so many good sould praying for my marriage, Sai Baba will definitely listen. i need you help, support and prayers. Please save my marriage!
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Moumita ji,
Sai ram will help u..dont get vexed. Praying to sairam will strengthen you.Try talking to yr hubby with open heart. Try to make him feel how much u miss him. If he doesn't understand, don't worry... Sai ram is there to save u in evry situation.He will sooth u coz, he's d one who created u ,yr hubby... He was d one who gifted u this problem..
Ji, just dont loose yr heart...Be happy feeling tat sai ram is yr mother..Take things sportively.. Have faith.Sai ma is with u.
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Baba,
i'm going to meet my husband today. Please do a miracle and give my love, my life and my husband back to me.
Baba, please re-instill my faith in you. please do not send m away empty handed. I'll tell everyone in Shirdi about your mercy. Please baba, listen to me today!!
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Dont worry ji,, sai ram is always with u.. He'll help you by holing yr hand..Have faith...
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Dear brothers and sisters,
thank you so much for the kind words and your prayers. i have total faith in Sai Baba. I have started reading Sai Satcharitra and it has given me immense peace.
Please continue praying for my marriage. i have firm faith Sai Baba will listen to a married woman's prayers to save her marriage and get her husbands love.
please pray for me!
Om Sai Ram!
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Moumita,
How was your meeting with your husband? I hope everything went well. Praying for you!
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Hi Neel,
My husband has already paid advance rent for the next three-four months and his decision to separate has not changed.
Neither has my decision to save my marriage has changed. I have been a good wife Neel, and i have firm faith in Sai baba. He will not return me empty handed. If sai baba allows me, i'll be in Shirdi tomorrow at his feet, begging for his mercy. As promised, i'll offer prayers and prasad from your side too. please reply back with your full name. Shall connect with you and tell you about my experience. This time is very difficult Neel, but it will pass. I completed sai satcharitra yesterday. Its amazing. try it, if you have not read it yet. Sai baba will listen to us, i have firm faith and emmense hope.
Om Sai Ram!!
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I sent you email with my full name. Hoping our prayers are listened to quick.
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Thinking about you! Hoping things are getting better for you!
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I paid a visit to Shirdi, prayed with my whole heart and soul. i came back and gave him baba's udi also. Have completed two Sai-satcharitra parayans also. But so far my husband has not come back to me. Nor does he show any signs of being in love with me. Sai baba knows that i have always been a good wife. i have done all the duties of a good wife. it kills me to think that the person who loved me so much, who asked for my hand in marriage from my father hs stopped loving me like this, for no apparent mistake of mine. he himself says that. He says you are a very good wife and a very good person, the problem is that i have stopped loving you and don't feel attracted to you atall. Now i have left everything on Sai baba. i wont event try to talk and convince my husband. i have done a lot of that in the last two months. i'm tired now. Now whatever has to be done, my Sai baba will do.
i'm staring my third three-day parayan tomorrow. Could anyone please tell me the vidhi to do it. i have done parayans before, but maybe i did some mistake, that's why nothing positive is happening.
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Dear NeelDilan,
did you get my last mail? i wrote to you about baba's udi in that.
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Hi Moumita,
I did get your email but didn't get a chance to reply. You and I are going through the exact same thing. The man that used to love me so much has stopped. I thought I had gotten a sign from Baba that everything would be alright but instead my husband and I got into a fight. He just said he doesn't love me and wants out. My heart is breaking.
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Om Sai Ram,
By Sai Baba's blessings my husband came back on his own on Tuesday evening. He said he felt lonely and bad without me, and wanted my permission to come back to our house. i was too happy to say no to him. Although he has not apologized for his behaviour nor has he said that he loves me, but he said he was lonely without me. By Sai baba's grace my husband returned, i'm very hopeful that by baba's grace his love will return too.
I'll soon share howbaba saved my marriage.
Warm Regards
Moumita
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Moumita,
I am so happy for you! I just hope Baba blesses me too with the return of my husband.
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BABA PLEASE NEEL KI MADAD KIJIYE.........OM SAI RAM
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SaiRam,
Baba bless you and your husband always. I'm so happy to read your message. Be blessed.
JaiSaiRam
Om Sai Ram,
By Sai Baba's blessings my husband came back on his own on Tuesday evening. He said he felt lonely and bad without me, and wanted my permission to come back to our house. i was too happy to say no to him. Although he has not apologized for his behaviour nor has he said that he loves me, but he said he was lonely without me. By Sai baba's grace my husband returned, i'm very hopeful that by baba's grace his love will return too.
I'll soon share howbaba saved my marriage.
Warm Regards
Moumita
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Moumita's husband has come back. Not mine :(
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SaiRam,
I'm sure even your husband will come back and you are going to share the news with us. Baba Sai bless you soon for all your plead and unite both of you soon. He will His leelas are amazing..
JaisaiRam
Moumita's husband has come back. Not mine :(
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Thank you so much. I am hoping he comes back soon!
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He will. i am positive. Keep faith.. i continuously praying for you!!
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SaiRam ji,
I join with you and request Baba to unite Neeldhil ji with her husband and her boys soon. Please Baba Sai what ever be the situation let the family be united always. Only your blessings can make things chage for good.
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI
He will. i am positive. Keep faith.. i continuously praying for you!!
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Om Sai Ram!
Dear friends,
i started Sai vrat a few weeks back. In the vrat book it was written that you can do the vrat for 5, 7, or 9 weeks. i promised to do the udhyapan on the 7th Thursday. After starting the vrat i got to know about the 9 Thursday vrat. Now i am confused what to do. to continue with the vrat and do the udhyapan on the 9th Thursday? or should i do the udhyapan on the 7th Thursday and start a 9 Thurs vrat again? Please advise.
Warm Regards
Moumita
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SaiRam,
Baba blessings. If you have done 7 thursdays I would continue to do 2 more thursdays and do the udhyapan. But as we all know Baba needs our devotion and faith. Goodluck in all you do.
JaiSaiRam
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Moumita,
I didn't read this until now. I am praying you are right that he will come back. Right now, my heart is broken. I am having a hard time functioning in daily life and I need to for my little boys. I pray Baba hears my prayers soon.
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Sai baba...please help me,please do some miracle.I am waiting for you since April and same for my husband.Please do some miracle and chnage my husband's views.Let him come back soon.Please save my family.
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Atleast give me some justice...I loved him unconditionally,maintained integrity with him,lost my all career for him,prayed for his success,been with him from the moment he has no money till he is rich,inspired him to be big in his career...and he when he got everything ditched me.I still wait for him a lot.....not because i need his help,but because i love him a lot.Please baba...atleast i expect some justice from you...SAI RAM
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BABA PLEASE PLEASE LISTEN DEEPTI.............BLESS HER BABA.OM SAI NAMO NAMAH.....
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Sai baba plese help me,do some miracle.My mind is not stable.Please do something soon.My parents are too old to handle all this stress.They prayed you since their childhood.Please atleast give justice to them.Baba..i trust you,but my patience are ending now.If i was alone i would have waited..but my parents tensions making me restless a lot.Baba please forgive me once..and please bring back my husband.BABA please its urgent...
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Dear Friends,
My life has taken another turn. My husband came back a few days back. In the meanwhile i had not kept any contact with him. He tried to contact me a few times, but i did not take his calls or meet him. A few days back, it was a Tuesday, he came back home. He said he behaved stupidly and said he felt very lonely and that he wants to come back home. At that moment i became very weak. i love him so much, he's my husband. i allowed him to come back home. That very day he shifted back, and brought all his belongings in the next few days. About 15 days have passed, my husband behaves nicely and gently with me, but not for once has he said that he loves me. He is still hell-bent on going to those salsa parties. I also saw his call records, and found that he called one his ex-girlfriends. my heart broke , and i clearly asked him about it. He said, he called her only to say that he does not want to keep in touch with her any more. I donot know if he is telling the truth. Later i saw that he has deleted those girls name from his phone and facebook friend list. He has not apologized for his behavior neither has he said even once that he loves me. I'm in a huge dilemma. Did i do a mistake by allowing him back in my life? I'm unable to understand why he came back. Should i give it some more time? How much time will be enough? How should i behave, should i be the loving , caring wife that i always was, or should i distant myself from him for a few days? i do not want to go through those painful experiences again in my life, that'll totally shatter me. What should i do, so that my marriage becomes wonderful again..
please advise me, help me and pray for us!!
Om Sai Ram!!
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OM JAI SAI RAM
SAI PLEASE I REQUEST YOU TO PLEASE HELP ME .
I AM IN GREAT TROUBLE
I JUST DON'T KNOW WHEN MY MARRIAGE IS AHEADING TO ...
ME AND MY PARENTS ARE VERY WORRIED AND ARE IN A SHOCK
MY FUTURE HUSBAND WANTS TO LEAVE ME AND MY INLAWS ARE AGREEING WITH ME
I DO A BIG MISTAKES, YOU KNOW THAT WHAT I DID & WHY I DID?
I ALREADY GET ENGAGED WITH MY HUSBAND ON 28/01/2012.
NOW HE DO WANT ME READY, BECAUS EI LIE TO HIM THAT I HAVE CANCER, SINCE IT'S COME TO KNOW, HE DOWANT ME, I DID & ASK FOR FORGIVENESS BUT HE DOWANT TO FORGIVE ME, I DID THIS BECAUSE I LOVE HIM, I DOWANT TO LOSE HIM IN MY LIFE, BECAUSE I LOSE MY VIRGINITY TO HIM, AND NO ONE KNOW OF IT, BUT BABA YOU WATHCH EVERTHING, YOU SEE EVERYTHING.
PLEASE BABA, I AM IN CRITICAL SITUATION, MY HUSBAND DO WANT TO COME & TALK TO MY PARENTS ATH HOUSE ALSO, JUST INFORMED BY PHONE.
I TRUST HIM, AND I GIVE HIM MY VIRGINITY, NOW HE ASK ME BACK BECAUSE I SLEEP WITH YOU, I WANT TO SACRIFIED MY LIFE?
SO MANY PEOPLE ALREADY KNOW ABOUT THIS, SAI PLEASE MAKE MY HUSBAND TO UNDERSTAND NOT TO DO ALL THIS.
I AM SCARED THAT MY PARENTS SHOULD NOT FALL SICK OR ANY THING SHOULD NOT GO
WRONG WITH THEM AS THEY ARE OLD.
SAI PLEASE SAVE MY MARRIAGE FROM BREAKING UP .I DON'T WANT IT TO BREAK .I WANT MY PARENTS ,HUSBAND & INLAWS TO BE HAPPY AND NOT FIGHT .AS MY INLAWS AND MY HUSBAND ARE BLAMING ME ALL THE TIME FOR NO FAULT OF MINE .
SAI YOU KNOW THE TRUTH. YOU KNOW WHO IS RIGHT AND WHO IS WRONG .
DO A MIRACLE .
I NEED YOU TO HELP ME GOD PLEASE
lord make my husband understand i am suffering in pain and tears i can't take it any more.he is not meet me not talking to me .make him understand i love him a lot .i want to have a happy married life . iwant to have a kid .make him understand not to break the marriage .sai save my marriage from breaking please help me
SISTERS BROTHERS PLEASE PRAY FOR ME .
MAKE MY HUSBAND UNDERSTAND NOT TO BREAK THE MARRIAGE . PLEASE
MY FUTURE HUSBAND NAME: SENTHIL NATHAN
MY NAME : SANGEETHA
WE ARE FROM MALAYSIA.
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Hi Moumita,
I just read his. I thought things had gotten better between you two. You gave me this advice and I am going to give it back to you, if he is going to come back, he has to come back giving you respect and treat you with love. I know how hard it is to be without the one you love but at the same time, you need to let him know that you are not taking him back unless he loves and respects you. Going to salsa clubs is not what a loving, married husband does. Do not treat him with kindness. Please tell him that if he is back, that you expect him to be working on your marriage otherwise he can leave. You deserve better than that!
Dear Friends,
My life has taken another turn. My husband came back a few days back. In the meanwhile i had not kept any contact with him. He tried to contact me a few times, but i did not take his calls or meet him. A few days back, it was a Tuesday, he came back home. He said he behaved stupidly and said he felt very lonely and that he wants to come back home. At that moment i became very weak. i love him so much, he's my husband. i allowed him to come back home. That very day he shifted back, and brought all his belongings in the next few days. About 15 days have passed, my husband behaves nicely and gently with me, but not for once has he said that he loves me. He is still hell-bent on going to those salsa parties. I also saw his call records, and found that he called one his ex-girlfriends. my heart broke , and i clearly asked him about it. He said, he called her only to say that he does not want to keep in touch with her any more. I donot know if he is telling the truth. Later i saw that he has deleted those girls name from his phone and facebook friend list. He has not apologized for his behavior neither has he said even once that he loves me. I'm in a huge dilemma. Did i do a mistake by allowing him back in my life? I'm unable to understand why he came back. Should i give it some more time? How much time will be enough? How should i behave, should i be the loving , caring wife that i always was, or should i distant myself from him for a few days? i do not want to go through those painful experiences again in my life, that'll totally shatter me. What should i do, so that my marriage becomes wonderful again..
please advise me, help me and pray for us!!
Om Sai Ram!!
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Lost all hopes...dont even wish to go to any temple.I may sound blunt,mean or selfish..but after long period i feel nothing works accept acceptance to realities.Since my 3 years of age i am a Sai bhakt,i am most religious as compared to my friends and sisters...even in my worst failures in my gradutaion or in life i never left HOPES and kept on praying gpd and asking forgiveness for all small sins a normal human does.Still am here today...Man of my life has gone too far away in his life,he dont even calls me,remembers me or feel bad about break up of marriage.I just want to ask Sai "if u never wanted us to be together forever,why u made me marry him"? kuch to indication diya hota...For a girl,a marriage is big thing.I dont know if God really exists!!!Still my habit telll me to say "SAI SAI SAI SAI SAI"..through out my day...even if am i talking or typing..naam jaap is going on..going on..going on...Thanks a lot to all memebrs here.I have lost hopes and quitting.No miracles will happen..Just accept facts and move ahead..sorry..but i dont mean to hurt anyone.Before saying anything to me,please keep in mind I AM AND STILL WILL BE THE BHAKT OF SAI...bye.Thanks Moumita,NeelDilan and Chhabra....May sai help u all in your wishes and make u all strong.SAI
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Moumita ji, Sai baba knows it all and he will do all the very best for you. Don't worry and leave it up on Baba to decide what's best for you. I am a big believer of Baba and i know that what he does is the best for his bhaktas.
Om sai ram
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Om sai ram Moumita
After reading your post ,I deduced, the way you are thinking, whether you did mistake allow him back in
your life , is wrong, He might be thinking in the same way , because of your behaviour .
Just think , what life you faced ,when he left you ?
Are you ready to going through the same phase again ? If you are not , then forget about this option to make distance few more days , it will not help you ,it may be increase your problem.
I am sorry but, I don’t agree with NeedDilenJi’s words that’s << Do not treat him with kindness >>
My opinion is just opposite , Men always need love ,affection and care for them, no matter what are
their ages. And your husband now needs you and your love more than before .
Moumita what you think, you have only gone through this pain?? He has not?
He must have faced the same pain , but males are little different from we females , they don’t express
their emotions easily , like we do.
If he didn’t say that he loves you till yet ,doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love you , And why do you
wanna listen this in word ? Can’t you feel him and his love ?
Think !! why he would be come back to you, if he didn’t love you .
You are expecting apologies ,but Men doesn’t accept their mistakes so easily , though in the inner
heart they feel guilt about their mistakes , but still they can’t accept in words, just because of male ego
, it becomes very big thing for them , so pls don’t expect apologies from him .
Moumita “It is very easy to break the relation but later it leads life hard …and hard to maintain the
same relation but later it leads life easy”
So, bury your all past things and start your new life with new chapter , If he is trying, than you should
also try to forget his past .Give him some time to reset him and help him in that way, tell him, how
much he is important in your life, make him realize that his decision was right, to coming back to you,
by showing your love and care to him .
Rest leave all things upon Sai, he will take care of your relation.
All the best for your happy marriage life :)
Om sai ram
Dear Friends,
My life has taken another turn. My husband came back a few days back. In the meanwhile i had not kept any contact with him. He tried to contact me a few times, but i did not take his calls or meet him. A few days back, it was a Tuesday, he came back home. He said he behaved stupidly and said he felt very lonely and that he wants to come back home. At that moment i became very weak. i love him so much, he's my husband. i allowed him to come back home. That very day he shifted back, and brought all his belongings in the next few days. About 15 days have passed, my husband behaves nicely and gently with me, but not for once has he said that he loves me. He is still hell-bent on going to those salsa parties. I also saw his call records, and found that he called one his ex-girlfriends. my heart broke , and i clearly asked him about it. He said, he called her only to say that he does not want to keep in touch with her any more. I donot know if he is telling the truth. Later i saw that he has deleted those girls name from his phone and facebook friend list. He has not apologized for his behavior neither has he said even once that he loves me. I'm in a huge dilemma. Did i do a mistake by allowing him back in my life? I'm unable to understand why he came back. Should i give it some more time? How much time will be enough? How should i behave, should i be the loving , caring wife that i always was, or should i distant myself from him for a few days? i do not want to go through those painful experiences again in my life, that'll totally shatter me. What should i do, so that my marriage becomes wonderful again..
please advise me, help me and pray for us!!
Om Sai Ram!!
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Om Sai Ram NeelDilan
Neel did you ever think, what made him lonely?? Nobody can make you lonely until he/she is close to
your heart. And fact is, without love nobody can be closed to your heart.
Sometime when we live together we can’t feel, how much someone is important in our life and we used
to become careless towards him/her. And when they left us all of sudden than we realize their
impotence in our life.
<<Treating him with kindness just only means that she is willing to be disrespected.>>
Treating someone with kindness doesn’t mean being disrespect .
And Moumita never mentioned that his husband had ever misbehaved with her . if she ever mentioned
it, I would not suggested her to be kind or go back to him.
I agreed, respect is must be in any relation and it is applicable for both, without respect love and
relationship can’t be sustain long .
<< If he is not saying he loves her and he used to say it all the time, means that there is something
missing.>>
Don’t make “I love you” as a standard of love. There are many males, who use this words millions of
times to millions of girls ,in their life without feeling real value of it .
And suppose his husband said “I love you” to her, who will decide that whether he is saying , is coming
from his heart or not.
That’s why I asked her to give him some time to reset himself.
They are husband and wife, not lovers, who can get angry or get separate, just because one of them
didn’t say I love you or didn’t give flower to other .Married life is beyond this.
Neel at this time when she is already in dilemma, she needs supports that whatever she did was right..
“Doormat” kind of rebellious statement only will put her again in the same dilemma and it might be
leads to separation .
And I am sure nobody want this ,not even you …
Om sai ram
Sorry Saialwayshere but her husband coming back doesn't mean that he loves her. He came back because he was lonely. Treating him with kindness just only means that she is willing to be disrespected. If he is not saying he loves her and he used to say it all the time, means that there is something missing. He needs to be willing to work on the marriage. She is an equal in marriage! Not a doormat. He left her not vice versa.
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Om sai ram
Whatever I said that was fully based on Moumita’s post over here in DM , I was not aware about any
other inner matter , She asked for advice here , and I found her innocent and true sai devotee , so I
advised her as per my experience .
I am an extremely emotional person , who always put relation and other’s respect ahead of my ego ..
The way you revealed her personal matter over here ,even without her permission, was unfortunate .
And that made me hurt deeply . Though I am able to reply your each word , but it may be leads more hidden
things out ,So from my side this topic is closed now .
Babaji pls forgive me and bless Moumitas and Neel with happily married life .
Om sai ram
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OM SAI RAM
Dear Saialwayshere
Baba bless you for the last post. I really liked it.
Dont call your self emotional, you are considerate. You like giving the other person benefit of the doubt, and that's how it should be. Bullet for bullet is no answer to any problem.
We need to give love and time chance to heal, therein lies our character.
It is so easy to blame the other person for everything. But we forget to understand there is no smoke without fire.
We fail to see OR just dont want to see our faults.
Baba bless all.
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Saialwayshere,
I never said don't be emotional and don't give your opinion. There are always two sides of the coin. Just don't attack my opinion. We all have opinions on this forum that are different from each other. Calling me out in your post upset me. Also, i never revealed anything that Moumita hadn't already put in DM. They are all in her posts. The only thing that wasn't there was her advice to ME about being treated with respect. I am not saying don't give love and don't be emotional. I am speaking from my experience to her. I desperately wanted my husband back and prayed everyday here on this forum to Baba. I cried everyday for him to return. When he did come back, I asked to make sure that he treated me with respect. You cannot repair a marriage unless we talk about what happened and make sure it doesn't get repeated. By him not talking doesn't solve the solution in my opinion. It only covers it and makes us see what we want to see. Again, this is my opinion to her. My relationship with my husband is so much better now that we are talking about what was really wrong in our marriage and we are working on it together. I am not saying not to love one another but it has to be both ways. This my last post on the topic as well.
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sai sai sai sia sai sia sia sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sia sai sia sia sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sia sai sai
sai sai sai sai sai sai sia sia sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sia sia sia sia sia sai sai sia sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sia sai sai
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om sai namo namah
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Sai ram sai ram sai ram sai ram sai ram sai ram sai ram sai ram sai ram sai ram sai ram sai ram sai ram sai ram sai ram sairam sairam sairam sai ram sai ram sai ram sai ram sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai
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Om Sai Ram!!!!
Plz Bless them a happy and blissful married life!!!
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Om Sai Ram!!!
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Baba....today am meeting my husband after almost 7 months.He got ready to meet after lot of efforts.I dont now whats is in his mind,but i know he has moved up far distant.But baba i know he is doing the hing which he never wanted to do in his life..i.e heading towards divorce.Baba i need some miracle today.Yes am asking you..dont take this as demand but a genuine request.Today is last say of my hope.Please make him think that marriages are made in heaven and by god' approvals.I still very rightly from heart repent my all mistakes and wish to keep him happy.Other than my love and my emotional attachment with him,i have no other bad motive in reconcilation.Baba please support me,help me.I tried all ways to get him back...but all unsuccessful.I am sorry for that.I believe in you,though sometimes i feel no miracles happens...Please BABA i need you today...please give me my life,my husband.Sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai..Baba please
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Plz help ur devotee to save their marriage. Om Sai Ram!!!
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Sai ram..please bring my love back..please save my marriage..i am still looking for you
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Baba Please Save your child life
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Daya kar mere Sai!!!
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Sai..Baba did nothing for me.I always knew marriages rae made in heaven,and if they arent they will not occur.I relied on Saibaba for some miracle.I want to tell baba,i am not so strong to bear all miseries and take this breakup.I have emotins in every celebration of marriage and evry day i loved him.I have seen you as my biggest and last hope.I know you might be planning much better for me in future.But to be frank..i wont be happy in future.Because i still feel marriages are never done to divorce.I have stopped visiting you and dont feel any god exists.Am sorry for this,but its too much of everything.Justice is required and expected atleast from GOD.Sai Sai sai
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OM sAI RAM
Dear Deepti,
What is "JUstice" ? How do you define it?
Is Justice only whent hings are in your favour? Only when life goes ony the way You want??
If the anser is yes, then you need to re-think and re-define.
We ae all emoitonal and sentimental in the core. Some express it easilyand others dont.
Is your love for Baba absed on things he does/gives? Is your love so conditional?
Dont you love him for the mere fact that he is with you whether you remember him or not??
All along he was showing where this was leading. Is it his fault if you were not able to understand his ways?
Yes it is an extremely difficult situation in your life right now. But nothing in this world remains the same. Everyhting changes. BUt if you decide to sulk in this thing, then no one can help. Not even Baba.
Adversities are a part of everyone's life. You/your life is defined by how you react, act and use them in your life.
Yes you have lot of compassion, love for your husband, then use it in positive manner. You could start by helping the destitue women, or those who's husband has thrown her out for varied reasons.
When you will see how they struggle to stay alive every single day, with daily wars in finanacial, emotional, etc. matters, then you will realize where you are and how lucky you are.
You are now free to see the beauty of world, of life, which you would not have other wise.
Deepti, you maybe angry with Baba right now, but remeber, he knows how to pull his devotess to him. Willing or Unwilling.
You have a very bright future in front of you.
Dont waste it. And don't leave Baba. It's ok to fight with him, be cross with him. but dont leave him.
Deepti, you are beautiful, strong and talented. there is more to life than marriage, children, etc. Look beyond, and realize your trueself.
Please ponder over this, after reading.
Rest Baba Bless.