Prayers Section => Sai Baba Help Me => Topic started by: akansha on March 06, 2009, 12:11:27 AM
Title: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on March 06, 2009, 12:11:27 AM
plz help me baba.ive loved this guy for almost five years now..he loves me too madly,but now he is with some other gal,he says he loves me n that gal is not permanent n he wil leave her n wil marry me only..i knw he loves me lot,he needs time to leave her,she loves him too since past some months..kya mera itne saalo ka pyaar bhul gaya vo?he says achanak chodunga to vo kuch kar legi apne aap ko..kya mujhe nahi dekh pata kita roti hun me jab fone busy hota hai uska kya beeti hi mere dil par..so nhi pati,kha nahi paati..health kahrab si lagti hai..rona bhi nahi ata,kuch karne ka dil nahi karta,baba i knw he cant live without me par jitna kam time lage use chodne me utna acha hai na kyoki me har din har min toot rahi hun soch soch kar k usne mere sath aisa kyo kiya..boht dukh hota hai baba,vo kyo kar raha hai mere sath aisa kyo use mere aansu or dukh samajh nhi ate??..mere sath koi nhi hai baba..aap tp ho na?plz meri madad karo boht dukhi hun..na jee paa rahi hun na mar pa rahi hun..zindagi khatam si ho gayi hai...me wait kar rahi hun baba plz jaldi koi chamatkaar dikhao.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Amar_akshu on March 08, 2009, 08:44:06 PM
BABA, We trust in You..You can solve all the problems..pl take care of everything !!!!!!!!!!!!
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on March 10, 2009, 12:45:22 AM
jai sai ram baba meri help karo pleez..aap tp sab jante hai na kya beet rahi hai mujhpe..jispe itna trust kiya usi ne dhokha diya..or kaha k use chod do to thoda time chahiye taaki vo ladki dukhi na ho zada.baba mer ron nhi dikha kya use,almost 5 saal paaglo ki tarah pyaar kiya mene use,uske age sab bhul gayi,sab choda,kya nahi kiya,he knws im very very upset,but is her happiness n comfort more important than mine??baba sab aap par chod diya hai,me bas chup chap dekh rahi hun ab tak k kya ho raha hai,ho sakta hai vo mujhe fir kuch jhooth bole,shayad mujhe pata bhi na lage,par baba aapko to pata lagega na??..plz baba sab sambhaal lo,sab apke haatho me hai,mein toot chuki hun... ALL THE PEOPLE READING THIS..PLZ BABA SE MERE LIYE DUA KARO,PLZ BABA KO AAP BHI KARO MERI HELP KAREIN,PLZ PRAY FOR ME. jai sai ram jai sai ram i love u baba n i knw u love me too
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on March 10, 2009, 11:29:51 AM
Hey akansha,
Dont worry...Baba will surely find a way for u...even i am not trying to think about it...I am just praying to him...I have 5 thursdays to go and i am including u in my prayers...take care...
Here's a big hug...cheer up..Things will be allright!!!
Just hang inthere!! baba Please help her find happiness...
Om sai ram!!
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Starter on March 10, 2009, 06:23:34 PM
BABA PLEASE HELP AKANSHA TO KNOW WHAT IS GOOD FOR HER SAIBALAJI SAIBALAJI SAIBALAJI
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on March 10, 2009, 09:56:25 PM
jai sai ram thanx starter n thanx aquafish thankyou so much,i dont knw u ppl but u still seem to care for a stranger,but he(my bf) does not care at all..it feels good to knw that baba n some ppl are still there who want my good.thanx a lot both of u,baba plz help starter n aquafish wateevr problems they are facing in life..i beg u baba hum sabke dukh door kardo..we love u baba n we wil always hold on to u no matter wat. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on March 11, 2009, 08:45:28 AM
Akansha,
I knw how u feel...that feeling of betrayal sucks big time!!! But as u said, Baba knows what to do and lets see where he takes us...i know its easy to say all this but try thinking this way, atleast gives u peace of mind..I used to hate baba and lash out at him but i dont know if that makes u feel any better..
Just stay calm and have faith and he will come back to u...I maybe a stranger but in the house of Baba we are all family...
take care and remember I am there if u want to talk...
Om sai ram!
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on March 12, 2009, 12:21:50 AM
jai sai ram thank you so much aquafish may baba bless u i just went to temple n prayed for u2.. i talked to him yesterday..he said he is not able to leav her coz he too has feelings for her..its realy hurting..all i did he forgot..anyways i have faith on baba..he wil hepl us to get thru these bad times. jai sai ram baba we trust u
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: sagarika on March 12, 2009, 12:45:42 AM
OMSAIRAM..
Baba, your child is waiting for your response... please dont make them cry so much for the beloved ones... You are our GURU and you know wht is right and wrong... Please show Akansha ji right way...
OM SAI RAM OM SAI RAM
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on March 12, 2009, 01:02:03 AM
thanku so much sagarika may baba bless u jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: pooja-pawan on March 12, 2009, 04:39:58 AM
SAI help her & plz do whtever is best for her as you c she is in big problem
akansha:- pls take care of your health without health you cant achive anything pls its a gift of god pls take care of it rest remain to BABA he always love his kids nerve C you hurted
SAI RAM
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on March 12, 2009, 09:33:15 AM
Akansha,
thank you..today when i started my 5th thursday, i thought of u ...u all r in my prayers everyday!!! take care and leave it to Baba
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on March 14, 2009, 08:56:59 AM
baba plz help me..vo kyo nhi kehta hai k vo use chod dega..kyo kehta hai jaise chal raha hai chalne do..baba i need u..he needs u too..plz help us baba..humare purane din hume lauta do baba..plz baba im waiting for u. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: gajanan bhakt on March 15, 2009, 02:49:55 AM
hello akansha.
i read ur posts.i can understand wat u r going thru right now because i m going thru the same. i know that watever anyone says wont console u right now but still i will say afew words try to do this. i know its tough but do try
fisrtly- jus try NOT to contact that guy(whom u loved) in any way. dont call msg or meet him for a few days. i know its hard but plz try this . jus try to ignore that person. show him that u r doing good without him. i know u must have tried a lot to convince him to come back but right now nothing u say can make any change. so its better u jsu leave this completely
let some time pass by when u show him that u dont need him anymore that will hurt his ego. abd when that happens he might realize his mistake . until that happens - no matter how hard u try things wont change.
it is as if u r standing on quicksand. the harder u try to come out the deeper u sink.
so jus stand still. look . believe me god is giving u a chance to look inside ur self. when we love someone we jus neglect ourself and our own happiness. i did that for 4 yrss. and now that my gf has left me i realise that there is so much more to this world . but i never tried to look beyond her.
there r many things in life which can giv u happiness. even small things make u happy when u try to be happy. jus leave him for now. if he loves u he will come back . if he doesnt then u shud be happy. y should u lead ur life with someone who has betrayed u once. he can do it again. so be happy with ur situation. try to be happy. u deserve much more than wat u got. god will take care of it.
just leave it to GOD.
i will pray for u too . god bless u
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on March 15, 2009, 04:34:04 AM
hi gajnan
thankx a lot for praying for me..its lik he is very much with me..all is the same..we talk a lot..meet regularly n he loves me madly n wants to marry..as he says im most imp for him in this world the problem is not between usthe problem is the other gal..he says he needs time n im reday to giv but wat hurts me is y does he need time..im crying here n he thinking abt her happiness.if i ignore or leave him he takes a toll on me....says pyaar k liye itna bhi sacrifice nhi kar sakte??log kya kya karte hain..his fone is busy many times but i cannot say anything just coz he needs time..i want to end my life..thank u so much for ur advice n realy thankfull...maygod bless u n ur all ur problems get solved il pray for u too. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: SaiKaKaran on March 15, 2009, 08:33:11 AM
dear akansha ji....
you said that this guy loves you madly....do you really think so??? if he would have loved you, he would never have got affair with some other girl...if this is called love then i never wan't to be loved by some one...sorry if i said something wrong....
what gajanan_bhakt said is very true. You should stop contacting that guy and you have to show him that you can also live happy without him....this is the only way you can get him back....
may baba shows you the right path and does the best for you....
om sai ram!
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Amar_akshu on March 15, 2009, 10:58:45 AM
may baba bless u..Everything will be fine.. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on March 16, 2009, 02:07:10 AM
jai sai ram amar ji n saika karan ji thanx a lot i knw all that gajanan ji n u both said is very true i knw..but he tells me if u show alltitude ul lose me compeletly..he kind of balckmails me that u knw na i got some other gal too..abhi to me wapis aa jaunga if u wait other wise i wont come back... me haar chuki hun i knw very much all that im doin is wrong n i shud take a strong step but emotionally im very weak..n he is making me even more weaker. i try to think all bad abt him so that i can take my mind off him but the moment i feel better he does something to make me falll in love with him all over again..cries for me,says sorry,says i need u plz mera sath do.. im just stuck,im helpless only ur blessings n baba can get me through all this thanx a lot all of u realy thank u so much may god bless u baba plz help us all help me n him i want to be with him forvevr plz help me baba i need u baba
jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: omsairamsapnaprashant on March 16, 2009, 07:37:45 AM
OM SAIRAM
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on March 17, 2009, 08:43:54 AM
akansha,
Keep praying!!! Atleast peace of mind miltha hai..yeah ppl tell me dont talk..etc etc but i know how it feels....so try to calm urself...I write baba's name in a book and light a diya at night...I dont know what is happening..he says he needs time to decide..i dont know whats to decide after 7 years...lets see....All we can do is pray..we did our part na... dont give up...and take care of urself...
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on March 17, 2009, 08:57:03 AM
jai sai ram aquafish
thanx a lot for ur reply i can very much understand ur situtation,7 years is too long,dont worry please,this is a part of life,there are many ppl in world all have some or the other problem in life.i knw anything i tell u wont make any difference but just dont try to think n leave all ur baba .wen i go to temple to baba i pray for u n gajanan bhakt too..just keep patience as i am keeping,baba will set all right,n yes im with u,dont feel alone..baba is too with u,its just a phase wich came n wil go soon,baba plz help her plz baba... if u want to share something u can contact me on s.mal33@yahoo.com
jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on March 17, 2009, 01:50:45 PM
Akansha,
U really are a strong person..Just hang on there!!1 yeah I pray for a lot of ppl I have met on this website...I think about all of us more than about anybody else!!!
Om sai ram!! My prayers are always with all of u..
Gajanan,
Dont give up...I am praying for u also!!! Baba Has to showus the way...
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on March 18, 2009, 05:44:02 AM
jai sai ram
thankyou aquafish im tired now im nto able to bear all this..he told me he is sleeping but i called his sis for something she told he not at home.he went to meet him...kya karu,y he doing this to me? baba kya aap nahi dekh rahe?plz help karo baba aap hi sahara ho..aap tp jante ho na mere dil pe kya beet rahi hai.baba aapki boht zarurat hai..jab aap baithe hain kyo apke bhakt itna rote hain apke hote hue bhi? baba plz use realise karwao kitna galat kar raha hai vo...please baba i cannot rely on anyone other than u..aap dekh rahe ho na mujhe?kyo muskuraate ja rahe ho?kyo nahi aa rahe...please help me baba or il go mad..only u knw how alone i am n how much depprresd i am..baba sab ne sath chod diya,aap to dedo mera sath.im waiting for u to come,take me in ur arms n get thru all this. baba plz help gajanan bhakt n aquafish too...plz help them get their love..they both realy need u baba unki help karo. plz help all ur bhakts u are calling u to help them..plz baba sabki help karo..baba apni jholi failati hun or mangti hun sabke dukh dooor karo. jai sai ram
ur child
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Starter on March 18, 2009, 06:33:45 AM
Dear Akansha,
Please dont get carried away by emotions. If someone is asking for time then you cannot trust him completely. Baba, has been graceful to let you know everything before marriage. Please be strong and avoid him till he cuts off from the other person..
You have to be sure that he wont go back, so please be strong and dont go just with heart but think and use your mind too. Pray to baba to choose the right way.
saibalaji
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: ykamesh on March 18, 2009, 09:56:48 AM
Hi Akansha, I am really sorry as to what is happening in your life. Twenty years back, I too faced the same problem. The woman I loved and wanted to get married moved over to a already married man. It was a double shock for me as this already married man was a close friend of mine. To my surprise these two persons who betrayed me, never got married. I prayed to sai and was reminded of sai words: 'Allah Mallik, Allah Acha Karega'. I moved on with my life and think whatever happened was for my good. regards
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on March 19, 2009, 11:10:06 AM
Akansha,
Give it time ...Baba is there..things happen for a reason...its not giving up but accepting that whats happening is for our own good...go to a calm place and close ur eyes and think of baba and then look at everything with a calm perspective wiht ur mind...this works for me and there is no point in losing yourself over something which will go the way it shud and which we have no control..do this and see what baba does for u..thats all i can say...
Dont lose heart and and have faith..take care...i am here for u...Om sai ram...
Kamesh i am sorry to hear what happened and i am glad baba gave a u a good life and the strength to face evrything..
gajanan, u sound like a good person and trust me Baba will shower his blessings on u.. taek care
Om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on March 21, 2009, 01:00:24 AM
jai sai ram thanx a lot aquafish n kamesh,may god bless u both..since 2-3 days im a bit calm n takin it as its coming,i do get very sad at times but ive left all on baba n totally rely on him. may god bless u aquafish kamesh gajanan bhakt n starter,may baba help u in every problem. aquafish dont u worry,im sure baba wil make all things fall into place,baba loves us n can never see us in so much pain,maybe he is just testing us,i just hope all gets fine soon,may baba always be us. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: ykamesh on March 21, 2009, 10:14:20 AM
Hi Akansha, omsairam, Strange are the ways saibaba answers his devotee wishes. In my opinion, sai fulfills devotees wishes in following ways 1. Devotee wishes are fulfilled immediately 2. Devotees are given 'hints' to solve the problems on their own. 3. Devotees are tested before wishes are fulfilled directly or indirectly. In order to save his devotees, saibaba also tests all individuals involved in the problem. In your case, sai tested everyone and gave a hint to your problem which in your own words is 'betrayal'. So, you must decide if there is solution to 'betrayal' which you are facing. If not, you have a choose a new way of life. Please pardon me if i have hurt you in anyway by this message. regards
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Post by: Amar_akshu on March 21, 2009, 06:46:56 PM
Have Faith in Sai..He will solve everything..Om Sai Ram !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Post by: pallvi on March 22, 2009, 03:11:38 AM
sai nath loves all his children..if something wrong has hapend in 1 way or the other baba will help you understand why and take care of you and your relation..i shall pray to sai nath to help you overcomme this phase of life which has broken you and help you become strong and make the other person understand his rong deeds and help him too to understand your love n your relation..om sai nath
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on March 23, 2009, 04:55:59 AM
jai sai ram thanx a lot amar akshu n pallvi baba plz help them n get them thru all the pain they are goin thru,plz be with them baba. baba boht bure dino se guzar rahi hun me,kuch samajh nahi ata,usse ache se bat karti hun,even though i knw he ha somone else in life n has told me to wait,i dont show any alltitude,boht dukhi hun baba,plz help karo,aap jante ho na mera dard,jise itna pyaar kiya usi ne itna bada dhikha diya,baba uski life me bhi boht probs hain ,plz help him baba .all the ppl redaing this plz wish him luck n happiness n health,baba plz help us,we want to be together but there are many hurdles,plz baba mere papa ko manalo shadi k liye, he has given me a second chance i dont want to lose that,he wants me to dada to my dada but i knw he wont agree until i finish my studies n get into a good job,baba baba he wont wait that much,plz show me a path baba,plz i beg u baba sab theek kardo,bas aap hi sahar ho.sab apke bharose hai baba ji. jai sai ram.
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Post by: aquafish on March 23, 2009, 08:53:14 AM
Akansha,
Kaisi ho? bahut din ho gaye maine message nahi kiya...mera mood itna kharab tha ki mann nahi kar raha tha ki baba ko kuch poochoon...mujhme aur himmat nahi hai yaar...I am breaking inside...kaash things works out...
I will pray for ur love..he will get everything and will be happy and I hope its with u...stay strong...I am just having one of those days when u feel the world is ending for u..i am tired of waiting for everythin..Wish i cud get some happiness..
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on March 23, 2009, 10:29:03 AM
jai sai ram hi aquafish,thanx a lot for all that u said...i knw wat u been goin thru..plz dont worry,its just a matter of bad timee,it wil go away soon as baba is with us all,he is just testing us.i knw all that im tellin u wont help u anyways but i just want you to have hope in ur heart..im sure baba wil come soon to help u. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on March 24, 2009, 08:39:27 AM
Akansha,
kaise ho? Mera bura din gaya kal...mom se baat hui aur woh poochne lage ki woh shaadi kab akrega and styuff...i was so upset and tried talking to him but woh kaam pe busy tha and he never called back..i was up all night crying...patha nahi how long i can take this...i feel like giving up sometimes....Baba please help us all...
Pray that his parents agree to us....
U take care akansha...I am praying for u....
OM sai ram
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Post by: akansha on March 24, 2009, 09:40:58 AM
jai sai ram thanx aquafish plz dont worry,il pray for u 2..baba is with us im sure. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: gajanan bhakt on March 25, 2009, 02:34:28 AM
hi akansha and aquafish i jus want to say that we all share our problems here. but if anything good happens in any of our lives we must tell here. that will give increase the faith on sai
all negative thoughts surround me these days. 2 days back i had a dream early morning that everything was fine. i dont know if it makes anysense.
i m really losing hopes now.
baba please show us a miracle. please show that LOVE is supreme.
please bless us all
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: ykamesh on March 25, 2009, 07:09:04 AM
Hi Gajagan, omsairam, Have faith and stay devoted to Saibaba. Stand in front of sai photo and talk to him directly and discuss your problems, Sing in front of him, Dance in front of him (per satcharitra, Saibaba liked dancing, singing). Do what ever activity Saibaba likes. Once you start doing this, you will feel the love developing in your heart. That's true love. Once you experience this love, you would be in a position to differentiate true and artificial love. Once you are able to differentiate this, you may feel whatever is happening is for your good. regards
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on March 25, 2009, 08:38:01 AM
Akansha,
Dont worry..be strong..i am rpaying for u dear friend...things will be fine...whenever u feel down u can message me...take care of urself please...i did some stupid things when i was upset and no one shud do that..its not worth the pain...take care..Baba is there...
I am learning to accept my fate..yday as kamesh said, i sat in front of baba picture and cried my heart out and felt drained but atleast i cud get some sleep...I dont know what to do...My parents dont understand the strain...yday i had aan rgument with them and then they later called me and were nice...but in the meanwhile, my love didnt get me..all i wanted was some nice words and i got a huge list of complaints on me and why we shudnt be together...i dont know if i can take it anymore...I have a feeling he will leave me...but i am not able to let it all go...
Gajanan,
Maybe baba has some thing good in store for u thats why u r dreaming happy thughts...u will be fine....
Baba please help us....
I am glad about one thign, in this times of economic crisis,my job is intact...i am thankful to baba for that...Atleast i dont ahve to go through that...
Om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on March 26, 2009, 08:51:30 AM
jai sai ram thanx aquafish n y kamesh plz dnt worry aquafish,im sure things wil be fine soon,im realy thankfull to u for ur prayers n the fact that u are with me in these times,aquafish i too pray for u n u can msg me too if u feel down or alone,baba is just taking our parishka,have faith on him n try reading sai kasht nivarn mantra n say it lik as if u aquatlly tellin it to baba...he wil surely take away all yr kasht. gajanan bhakt im praying for u2,n all the bhakt who have prob in thier life,plz have faith on baba. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on March 26, 2009, 10:00:23 AM
akansha,
thanks for being there...Sometimes i think i am facing all this becoz i dont deserve him..i dont know..i am so tired...baba please help me....Om sai ram..
Akansha,,,,take care of urself...
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: gitesh on March 26, 2009, 10:17:36 PM
Faith || Om Sai Ram || Serenity..
Hi Akansha..
have faith on Sai Baba, I pray to Baba to solve all your problems and bless you to have your love with you always. There is nothing more then Love, So Baba must help you, Baba is with you. Don't Worry.
|| Om Sai Ram ||
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on March 28, 2009, 05:23:44 AM
jai sai ram baba plz help me...baba kabhi lagta hai sab theek ho raha hai fir sab kharaab ho jata hai,plz baba man ko shanti do n itni himmat do k me ye san handle kar pau,baba im waiting for u,kab aaoge,im totally helpless,u knw na wat all he does to me n how badly he hutrs me,baba plz im not bale to bear this plz help us baba,itna dukh nahi dekha jata .plz baba sab theek kardo,help me baba,ive left all on u..nobody else can help me,im all alone baba,its only u i rely upon,hepl me baba plz,im waiting. thanx a lot gitesh ji n aquafish..may baba take away all ur sorrows n grant u with all the happiness in the world.. baba plz hepl them both n bless them thank u baba for eveything. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: GaneshHariharan on March 28, 2009, 11:56:53 AM
dear akansha, what you have said in your post , exactly the same happend to someone very close to me. this guy kept fooling two naive girls into thinking that he loves them both. both of them fell for it . and then after enjoying his life , one fine morning he told this person close to me that he cannot breakup with the other person so they have to end the relationship and be freinds. this person close to me was devastated bcos this was the first true love in her life and she was crazy for him. even this persons mother begged this guy not to leave her. she did not eat, sleep and had no will to leave. thanks to sai , she could come out of this calamity once she truly sat down and though about this guy. so please dont spoil your life over false promises of someone who is a born artist in these things. i am saying this bcos i have seen this personally with my own eyes. my humble suggesition to you is , let him go for some time, if he comes back without any nonsense then he is yours , if he doesnt , then he was just playing around with your feelings and a spineless ......... om sairam , jai sairam jai jai sairam
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: gajanan bhakt on March 28, 2009, 10:25:13 PM
hi akansha. i guess wat ganeshhariharan says is right and that wat u need to do. as long as u r attached to him u wont be happy. just leave everything and try to engage ur self in some other activities. talk to friends and all. but not about him. try not to talk about him or think about him. i do the same and atleast i remain happy till the memories get too much to avoid. and i break down then. but atleast that keeps me happy till i dont think of her.
god bless
jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on March 28, 2009, 11:40:54 PM
jai sai ram thanx a lot ganehshaiharan ji n gajnan bhakt ji my prob is that situtaion is not lik that so i can avoid it..its lik we talk normally and as he thinks things are quite normal n lik before for him...he has told me to keep paitence n wait n on the name of baba ive been waiting ...but sometims this pain becomes unbearable..if i tel im in anger that i may leave him..he says pyaar k liye log kya kya kurbaniyaan dete hain..tum thoda ruk bhi nahi sakte..that gal too knws abt u but she keeps mum n is scarificing..im stuck in between..he hast left me n says i never will..wen i tel him il go far away frm him he becomes weak n cries..says i cant live without u..asks me to wait so i surrender before his tears just for his sake...we talk many times a day meet up regulrly lik every couple does but this very thot of other gal makes me restless... it hurts wen u have less n lose it but im my case i had EVERYTHING by babas grace but have lost all..only the thing thats alive is love i our hearts wich is still there n i knw he loves me too.. he has done a lot for me all these years so says just be with me if u think i ever loved u..n i have to do it for the sake of love n him n his happiness. baba plz help me.this is all i can ask u for..im totally broken up. plz help gajnan bhakt aquafish n ganeshhariharan with all the probs in thier life.. aqufish n gajanan bhakt ji u just dont worry..just keep holdin on to baba as i am doin n im sure he wil come soon n wil get things back to place. may baba bless all n help all his bhakts.
jai sai ram akansha
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: GaneshHariharan on March 29, 2009, 03:57:06 AM
DEAR AKANSHA, do you seriously think it is normal for a person to keep 2 girlfriends at the same time ?. if you were to keep 2 boyfriends would he tolerate it ? the answer is no. i am not trying to move your feelings against him , bcos i dont even know you or him . but i have seen these things happen and if i put you on the right process then i think i have achieved my goal. "words are useless without acts " and "there has to be a time frame for everything" you cant keep doing this for your entire life can you ? you will not only ruin your life but alienate yourself from half the people around you who love you and truly care for you. please for a moment keep "love" aside akansha and think logically and sai will give you the answer . om sairam, jai sairam, jai jai sairam
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Amar_akshu on March 29, 2009, 09:21:29 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!!!! JAI SAI RAM!!!!!!!!! EVerything will be fine !!!!!!!!!!!! Keep your faith
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: sagarika on March 30, 2009, 05:01:22 AM
OMSAIRAM..
Dear Akanksha & aquafish ji,
I can understand your pain.. but please dont think somuch about him and dont give trouble to yourself.. this bad clouds will pass away.... trust SAI... whenever you feel disturbed na.. listen sai aratis and some songs of baba it will give peace to your mind.. i do the same thing.. i will pray baba to give you strength.
SAI will help you to choose the right path..
OMSAIRAM OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on March 30, 2009, 08:46:21 AM
Sagarika,
tahnk u for the kind words!!1 I spoke to him and i decided to give him the time to talk to get this straight and by baba's grace his parents shud agree and we will get married...its the pressure that unnerves him and me and i thuink i shud handle it better...coz every time i dont, it means i dont beleive in sai...which only makes it worse...
Akansha,
I know its hard but what everyone is saying here is true...i know u feel like we r judging him but we also care as ur wellwishers...just act detached for some time and trust me he will realise ur value...Just do ur thing for some days...have some " my time" ...trust me it helps...and I know baba will listen to u soon... take care...Om sai ram...
Once again I appreciate everyone's concern ...
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: rinki_sai on March 30, 2009, 09:50:21 PM
Jai Sai Ram, Whatever is gud for you, u will get that. I know u won't like this at tis point of time but believe me, gud will happen to you. Baba doesn't do things according to our wish. He does what is right for us. Read Sai articals and concentrate of his pic or statue. Try to find out the answers from him. U will not be able to concentrate now but try yr level best and ask for yr gud. U r just a soul and yr body is pinjara, whcih will remain here only and will burn into ashes. So surrender yrself. m sure u will get the best. God bless
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on April 01, 2009, 05:48:42 AM
jai sai ram all my well wishers thanx a lot for praying for me..im just helpless n it feels realy good to see so many ppl showing concern..may baba bless u all. baba plz help me thanx baba for ur support jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: rinki_sai on April 01, 2009, 09:15:13 PM
Jai Sai Ram, I totally agree with ganeshhariharan view point. If he reallly loves u, he wouldn't have being going around with the other girl. Be practical & think. don't just waste yr time. Ask Baba. Go to yoursaibaba.com. Its a gud website & ask Baba but whatever He will say u hv to accept it without any ifs & buts. I am telling u this becoz I have faced alot of problems in my life & m still facing. U surrender completely to Him & let Him do what he wants. He can't do bad to u, this much u know. Om Sai Ram. May Baba gives u strength.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on April 03, 2009, 05:11:26 AM
jai sai ram thanx a lot rinki sai thanx u everybody for having so much concern may baba be with u always n grant u all ur wishes.. baba plz help me,aap jante ho na wat am i goin thru,boht sochti hun ignore kary ya baat na karu zada but i cant help it,plz baba help me to deal with this in the best way possible,baba plz mujhe mera sab wapis dedo,i knw that is possible n all is in ur hands now,plz show me the right path baba,i love him very much n u knw how much it hurts to knw he is talkn to some other gal at 12 am..kal bhi usne mujhse ladai ki raat ko n called her up,baba i creid a lot,mein to akeli hun apke ilawa kon hain mera??uske paas to koi aur hai,i rmbr those days wen i was the only one for him,has he frgotten all??baba im dying inside,ive left all on u,plz help me baba pleeeeeeeeezzzzz help,n baba he too has many probs in life plz solve all his probs n plz be with him. im waiting for u baba. plz help gajanan ji n aquafish too im with u both n i pray for u two,dont worry all will be fine soon. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: rinki_sai on April 03, 2009, 05:34:58 AM
Akansha,
Grow up & start taking things practically. I have gone through these kind of situations many a times but I never got what I wanted. Whatever Baba has thought for u, u will get that only. I will pray Baba to give u strength. waise bhi Baba se badkar koi nahin. How can u luv that guy more than BABA. He is yr parent. If small child go & try to put his fingers in the electrical switch or touches anything hot, will u alllow him to do that. V immedially stop him. So how Baba will do wrong to u. Try to read Sai articals. U have along life ahead. We just think of present but Baba think for future. He knows what is best for u. After reading what u wrote, I can just say that try to control yrself else u will go mad. These situations happened with me too. Doing spoil yr today. Try to live life. Its beautiful. Try to go out with yr frineds. Enjoy yrself.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on April 03, 2009, 08:36:32 AM
Akansha,
hang in there...be strong!! baba will show u the way!!1 I know this is hard but as rinki-sai said please spend time with ur friends...go watch a movie or read some nice book...keep urself occupied and not let ur thought stray to him..talk to him only when he calls u or something and absolutely dont bring up the topic..try to show him u dont give a damn....Ignore him and if he really loves u he will come back to u..thats all i can say...rest leave to baba...
I finished another thursday....Felt good...My situation is the same...but its ok..its not worse na...i am trying to have fun without thinking abt it..its not easy but u shud try it Akansha...My prayers are always with u, gajanan....and Baba please help them....take care... Om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on April 04, 2009, 10:01:22 PM
jai sai ram
thanx a lot rinki sai and aquafish may god bless u both,i knw aal that u tell me n all say is right but im not able to implement it,dont knw wat shud i do, im badly stuck,if i ignore him,he gets mad on me..or just cries,cnt see him crying,im badly broken. aquafish and gajanan ji,i pray for u both regularly,i wish all ur sorrows go away.
jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: bhavna on April 04, 2009, 10:21:46 PM
hi akansha we all are going thru a similiar situation with troubled love its been more than an year now and i have been begging baba to marry me to dis guy though some developments did take place now things are at there worst with my parents madly looking for a guy to marry me off but i still jus want to get married to dis one guy and have surrendered everything at sais feet today dre is dis sai ki palki at the sai temple near my place i will pray for all of us u aquafish abhishek myself...dont worry jus have faith in iur sai things will be fine even this guy cant live without me but he says he jus cant marry me he even says u jus marry some1 but u will always be mine its very difficult for me at present but i wont give up from tomo i wil leave my fav foodt till dis guy commits have faith akansha things will be fine am always dre for u and will pray for u om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: rr_sai_bhakt on April 04, 2009, 10:43:45 PM
May Sai bless all of you ...
Its really nice to see all of u stand by each other - bhavna, aquafish, akansha, gajanan and abhishek ... and pray for each other ...
I am sure Sai will listen to each one of your's prayers and fulfill them .... I am sure he is observing all the sacrifices you have all undertaken to win back ur love .... May Sai unite each one of u with your respective love and may he give u all a very very happy and fulfilling life ....
Please keep ur faith and patience going strong ...
All our prayers are with you ...
hey Sai ... apne bacchon ke prayers ko suno Sai ... unke dukh dard mitado ab .... please shower your blessings on them and fulfill their wishes deva ...
Om Sai Ram ...
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: bhavna on April 04, 2009, 11:09:47 PM
hi rr_sai_bakht ur not isolated i am dre for u too am praying for u too i am very excited today am looking forward to this palki will pray pray n pray today om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: rr_sai_bhakt on April 04, 2009, 11:13:11 PM
Dear bhavna ...
Thank you very much ... Please do let us know abt more abt this palki experience of yours later ...
Om Sai ....
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: bhavna on April 04, 2009, 11:25:52 PM
i have utmost faith in our sai i have always been visiting sai temple at shirdi since i was a kid but never really prayed to sai i use to believe in japanese buddhism den i met dis guy and one day he just left me saying he cant marry me because of problems den i took to sais worship within weeks this guy was back saying he cant live without me but stil he says he cant marry me in the mean tym sai came to my house in person and i saw him ;D ;D ;D and baba also called both of us to dwarkamai and i prayed for both of us to get married. i alwats told sai call us to shirdi only if u want us to marry this was exactly 365 days back though tdy things are not too good was cause i kept interfering in sai work using my srategies now i have stopped doing dat have left everything to him so now i am jus goinh to keep shraddha and saburi sai has already told me wat he wants last yr i have found all u great freinds here so i am going to pray for all of us and ask sai to bless us om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: geeeetanjali on April 05, 2009, 09:23:58 AM
I am going through exactly the same situation akansha ji.........my boyfriend who loved me soo much just few days back now tell me that his parents want to get him married to some other gal and he cant keep the relationship with me...!!! he talks to this girl at night and it just kills me to see him actually dumping me for a new girl.. He didnt even once convince his parents about me and now though he isnt getting married to her but he still tells me that he is with her and cant be with me....Im totally devastated!! life seems to have became unbearable.....he didnt tell me anything about all this initially but i noticed some change in his behaviour like not calling me up, not meeting etc...however whenever we met he used to be always nice..but on 6 march 2009 he came back from vaishno devi temple and told me that his parents are after him to get him married off though he dosent want to get married to anyone right now and he is still attached to me. However what hurts me is if he wasnt interested in this gal why did he keep talking to her and distanced himself from me...atleast he shoul;d have taken me ion confidence abt the situation at home....lately he even stooped taking my calls but after i met him one bychance he has now atleast started talking to me over the phone....but quite little.....but by baba's grace thats more than enough for me at this time......my world just changed in 3 months .......i love him baba pls make him the same guy again that used to love me...............plssssssssssssssssss.................i will try to be a better human being just give me my love back........its so difficult to live without him.....i have been to every temple and prayed ......i dont know what will happen......i have been praying to sai baba lately since a week and is believing that bab awill answer my prayers.......PLS ALL OF U PRAY FOR ME AND THE REST OF SAI BHAKTS GREIVING IN LOVE.....om SAI NATHAY NAMAH...
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: geeeetanjali on April 05, 2009, 09:33:05 AM
My life has changed for worse so quickly.................i was so happy but today it seems that i'm the most unluckiest gal.....its so tough to see one you love talking to someone else and not talking to you when he was always there for u earlier on....!!!!! baba i truly love him.....it would really transform my life personality and belief if i get him back....but things seems to be not working.....ur my only solace at this time of agony and distress.......baba my love for him is genuine then y all this is happening ......pls help me baba i'm at the verge of breaking down.......i have never been to shirdi but i will definately come once i come out of all this pain and my life becomes normal......OM SAI NATHAY NAMAH!!!!
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on April 06, 2009, 09:34:17 AM
Akansha, bhavna and geetanjali,
all i can say is stay strong and keep praying and baba will guide us through..coz i am going thru the same thing every moment and i just hope baba listens to us... om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: bhavna on April 06, 2009, 10:44:24 AM
hello everyone, om sai ram all i wanna say is lets jus leave everything to sai and do our work dat is keep shraddha and saburi and spend all out tym in remembering sainath. trust me things will automatically fall in place i offlate actually minimized my interaction with dis guy and just remembered sai if i wanted to meet him i spoke to sai abt it and not him and things did happen now things are improvin though not as before but better still :) just keep faith sai will do everything om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: geeeetanjali on April 06, 2009, 10:48:45 AM
thanks aquafish..... i would like to say the same to rest of my frens going through the same bad phase that if we keep faith in baba and our love is true we will definitely get it back because baba himself was the epitome of love and asked us to love others unconditionally.....i know there are times when it feels like evrything is going wrong ....kuch bhi theek nahi ho raha at that time u feel that baba is not listening but trust me its just a matter of patience...if u keep faith till end i believe u get ur love back.....dhoop chhaya....dhoop chayya .....kabhi aisa lagta hai sab theek par phir lagta hai sab wapis galat ho gaya ....but this is the way things will eventually become alright because baba will also not give us some magic wand to get our love back ...he will do it slowly so that we do not get carried away and believe that we dont have to work for anything just ask god and he will give it.....remember god helps those who helps themselves so just be a good human being...follow baba's teachings and think he is with u always listening to whatever thought comes into ur mind.....i'm sure baba will reward our prayers.......iske liye poori tarah se baba pe dori chor do ye kehkar ki baba pls mujhe mera pyar lauta do ab sab apke haath mein hai .....let him work on your behalf and get your love bak......!! trust me it works bcuz my relationship was so bad that he had stopped talking to me and taking my calls but only because i kept thinking that now only god can get him back he now atleast calls me and talks to me though very little but still things are improving ....by baba's grace ......and everytime i cry in front of baba from my heart saying baba why this is happening to me....y am i so unfortunate ....dont u love me .....baba gives me a signal , a hope like he calls me .....and my faith in baba becomes more stronger though at times even i break down asking baba that i cant bear it anymore .........i just talk to baba believing that whatever thought comes into my mind is sent by him this way i get an assurance he is with me......love you sai baba pls help me and all my frens who need your blessings ...........pls baba .............ur our only hope.....i will pray for all of u.......im sure true love will never go waste..................OM sai nathay namah.......reham nazar karo ab more sai.......tum bin nahin mujhe maa ....baaa.....bhai...........jai sai ram!!!
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: bhavna on April 06, 2009, 10:59:50 AM
hello geetanjali yes thats how we will wil like baba is an epitome of love we will become epitome of shraddha and saburi i have left my fav food from tdy..non veg and i will now eat it only wen he gives me a ring... wen i first started to pray to sai in 2007 december sai met me in person and sen he called both of us to shirdi though we both did go dre earlier also but dis tym it was like sai tellin me come let me bless u both though after that lots of ups n downs have happened sai will c us thru i have been to shirdi many times but never really prayed to sai now i am not alone i am praying for all of us here..things will be fine just fine we just need to hang in dre dont worry om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: jarraa on April 06, 2009, 07:58:58 PM
AAP SERIOUSLY APNE KO IS PROBLEM SE KHUD BAHAR NIKALO...YE PROBLEM TO KUCH BHI NAHI HAI...DUNIYA MEIN LOGO KI TAKLEEFE HAI ...KUCH SAMAY BAAD AAP SOCHOGE KI YE TO KUCH BHI NAHI HAI...JINDGI MEIN IN CHOTI BAATON KE LAIYE THODA SAMAY HI RAKHO..JO AAPKO CHOD JAYE VO AAPKA HAI HI NHI...JO AAPKO MILNA HAI VAHI MILEGA...MILNA ISWAR PAR CHOD DO...AGAR UDASI AATI HAI TO KUCH CHARITY KA KAAM HI KAR LIJIYE....MAI APKO RUDE LAG UNGI BUT MAI JINDGI KI SACHAI BTA RAHI HUN...OM SAI RAM
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: gajanan bhakt on April 06, 2009, 10:44:41 PM
jai sairam everyone here-
it seems we all r sailing in the same boat. we all have been dumped by our partners. the only difference being that u all have been dumped by guys and i have been dumped by my girlfriend. i feel i am a fool. i should be like all other guys. i have been literally begging sai baba and all other gods since last 5 months for showing me atleast some ray of hope but it seems all gods r making fun of me. i visit temple everyday since last 5 months. previously i did that with some expectation . but now i have none. i jus visit cos i get some peace of mind there. atleast for some time of the day.
sai baba,
i feel like hell. my life was going on fine for last 4 yrs and in just a matter of days u devastated everything. i have been devastated. i had to take help of a psychiatrist for i could not manange the stress alone. i lost 9 kg weight. i have lost interest in everything god.
i have taken a step to try to normalise things. i dont really expect any miracles now as i m tired of expecting . but atleast dont give me more tears god. please dont disappoint me more. i cant take it anymore. please be with me god. i need you please show your presence god. i beg u
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: gajanan bhakt on April 06, 2009, 11:00:03 PM
sairram bhavna ji and geetanjali ji. i believe wat ever u ppl say is true. but baba fails to show even a ray of hope to me. i have already left my fav food months ago. i pray everyday. i hav never done any wrong deed in my life . still baba seems to be too busy to even look at my problem.
sai ram jarra ji
i know wat u say is true. the world is full of problems and there r ppl who r a lot more unfortunate than us . its just a matter of time and we may laugh at our prob. this is practical thinking. but when u expereince it its really hard to think like that. we all here r emotional fools. god made us humans. and it is natuaral for humans to be together. emotions r human arent they. if god had to separate us y did he bring us close. y did he show us dreams. its easy to say but difficult to do jaarra ji. although i try to think like u have said but its very difficult.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on April 07, 2009, 10:33:52 AM
akansha,
how r u? havent seen ur msgs in a long time....please stay strong and have faith,,
bhavna and geetanjali hope u r doing good...gajanan take care of ur health plz...
Jarra ji i know what u said is true but as gajanan said we r human..emotions and the crazy thing call "hope" makes us do all this..but frankly u have to experience all this to understand..i mean if i look at this from a very practical and cold perspective i wud give everything up but the whole point of love is emotions...and when u have faith in baba we let these emotions run free and I still HOPE everything will be fine and we shud have faith in baba to work it out for us..
My only frustration is that its not in my control..i just wish his parents wud consent to our marriage and he stays stronger...Om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: geeeetanjali on April 07, 2009, 11:16:28 PM
hello all my frens suffering in love........
Seriously...we all know that its not easy to forget one you love by just thinking he was a wrong person ...had it been that easy we all wouldn't have been crying in pain day and night.. we all are ready to accept the same person back who betrayed us ....just because everything seems so sad without him/ her.........!!! baba pls pls either unite us with our love or atleast stop this pain incase he/ she isnt coming bak......if u love your children then how can u see them in pain..???? if we have done something wrong pls forgive us par yeh saza mat do humein......!!! pls baba bachche agar apne ma baap se nahi mange toh kis se maange?? aur waise bhi poore sansar mein apke siwa yeh kisi ke haath mein nahi .....aapke ek ishaare se hamari zindagi mein phir se khushi aa jayegi baba .......AUR WAISE BHI HUM TOH WOHI MAANG RAHEIN HAIN JISKE BINA HAMARA JEENA MUSHKIL HAI.....KOI LOTTERY, PAISA , JOB YA KOI AISI CHEEZ NAHI JISKE BINA HUMARA GUZARA CHAL SAKTA HAI.... AUR AAP TOH SABKE DIL KA HAAL JAANEWAALE HO PHIR KYUN DEKH RAHE HO HAMEIN ITNE DUKH MEIN BABA.....aapke 11 wachan toh kehte hain ki aap bhakt ke liye bhaage chale aoge......shareer chod dene par bhi aap sada yahin ho..humare paas phir kyun nahi sunte baba.....!!! baba pls atleast give a ray of hope.......
pls frens once again though even i'm losing hope but still i'd say miracles wont be exactly miracles if we had already not lost all hope and then we get our prayers answered......only then we will realize our promises to baba and be a better human beings......if baba answers our prayers without all these troubles we might not realise the intensity of our hardships and might forget our promise to baba, his love and how to live by his teachings .....therfore keep faith in baba and i'm sure now if we all get our love back we all will be changed human beings .....!!! we will not be the same .........we will truly be sai bhakts...and will never hurt anyone.....maybe god is preparing us for that .....by giving us this pain so that we in future do not hurt or give pain to anyone....I have also given up non veg..........Gajanan ji, akansha, bhawna, aquafish pls keep faith in baba.....feel he is talking to you.....though i even fight with baba sometimes saying why my boyfren is so happy when he did so wrong with me and i am dying when i love him???? i have been praying to all gods and i'm sure if our love is true and genuine and we r not harming anyone by asking for our love ....we will get it bak.......WHENEVER U FEEL SAD JUST TALK TO BABA IM SURE THE THOUGTS THAT COME TO YOUR MIND ARE ANSWERS THAT BABA IS GIVING....BABA WILL LISTEN BUT AT THE SAME TIME MAKE SURE YOU DONT HURT ANYONE, HELP ANYONE IF U CAN, DONT SAY BAD ABOUT ANYONE, NEVER HAVE EGO....( nutshell follow baba's principles) ..... and promise to do that forever.....only then can we plaese baba and get what we want not just literaly praying !!!! remember geeta saar... karm kar phal ki chinta mat kar.......kyuni phir wo apne aap milega.....!!! so just keep having faith..............frens ...i will pray for all of you .......!!!!!
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: sagarika on April 08, 2009, 03:20:09 AM
OMSAIRAM...
Hi All,
ur right... nothing is in ours hands... only thing we can do is sharadha and saburi... If not today one day baba will listen to our prayers and bless us.. hopefully...
we will keep praying :) iam sure one day we all will rock..
OMSAIRAM OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: a.thangaraj on April 08, 2009, 04:39:48 AM
O Sainath please help my daughter in getting her PG Medical seat at the earliest.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: preeti_raghunath on April 08, 2009, 09:08:53 AM
OM SAI RAM OM SAI RAM OM SAI RAM OM SAI RAM OM SAI RAM OM SAI RAM OM SAI RAM
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on April 08, 2009, 09:37:40 AM
Geetanjali..what u said is true....Hope is what is leading us all..I am happy with the guy i love...But how long is baba testing me...I need a long term answer...I dont mind if we dont get married right now..just wish his parents wud agree and officially we r a couple so that my parents can have peace of mind...
i dont know what to do...Baba is more like a friend to me than a god..I cry , i complain, i crib and i even vent out to him but all i am getting is nothing..I just wish he wud give me some sign, some good news regarding my relationship..feels like i am stuck in a rut....dont know baba..why ur doing this? please forgive me if i have wronged but please help me...i am sorry if i have sinned...and please help all these good people here who r suffering w/o their love..please help them...
Om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: gajanan bhakt on April 08, 2009, 12:13:12 PM
sairam everyone,
i have decided not to think about that girl who dumped me. the reason being-
- if she really loved me she wud not make me suffer so much - the one who is making us cry, does she/ he ever deserve so much of our attention, our tears, our energy?
the world is full of better ppl. but unlesss we come out this shell that we have created around us how can we know what we r missing
interact with new ppl. make new friends. try to know new ppl. i m sure we all deserve better than those ppl who dumped us all. we all have a right to be happy.
but unless we try it wont happen i m trying the same and i fell better.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on April 09, 2009, 07:16:50 AM
jai sai ram
baba plz help everybody wreathing in pain given by love...geetantanjali ji,gajanan hi,aquafish,plz dont think much..im trying to do the same..nd sometimes i feel better too.. he says he loves me..but wen i do some wrong says here she is better than u.thats y i fell for her..it hurts badly,,has he forgotten all i did..baba aap to jante ho na mene apne se pehle uska socha hai..kitna pyar kiya hai?..plz baba help me....n plz help everybody jo ye pain me hain..
im all alone baba..all i have is u..n some well wishers over here..i wait for his call at nite..he is out with frnds..comes at 2 n sleeps ..i keep sitting and waiting trying not to sleep..or his fone goes busy at nite..it kills me baba..uski ek awaz pe bhagi bhagi jati hun..n u knw na how much he hurts me by his words baba??..he says if u want to leave me to chod do..but how can i do that baba..i love him a lot..baba ab rona bhi nahi ata..plz help him baba n make him realise how wrong is he doing with me. im waiting for u baba
plz baba help all ur bhakts to get thru thier pains.. gajanan ji all i can say for u is there is lot of good instore for u in future so maybe thats the reason baba is keeping u in pain..just keep sharadha n saburi..
aquafish il pray for u n gajanan n all of u..im sure all will get in to place..just leave all on baba..
geetanjali just try n keep urslef busy n leav eall on baba n keep praying..
jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on April 09, 2009, 09:48:04 AM
Akansha,
I like ur attitude....never give up as long as u can....baba will listen, he better...i am so tired of this silence baba...please listen to everyone's plea...
Please help us...
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: geeeetanjali on April 09, 2009, 10:41:25 PM
jai sai ram
I know dera frens what are we going through rite now but sai baba would not rest our beyong our capacity.......faith can move mountains so just think that baba will make everything rite at the end......if we doubt him then we dont trust him......!!!! I visit sai baba's temple almost evryday....i didnt do that with so decotion when i was happy with him.......we are also selfish but still baba loves us ....lets love baba not just pray to him........!!!!!! i'm sure baba will never fail our love for baba and him/ her.....
dear akansha though i really dont know ur situation rite now but it seems very much similar to mine because he also dosent call me and his phone used to be busy all time.....now i have stopped calling him at night.....i how it kills u when u listen to the call waiting msg.....but what i think is just pray to baba and stop calling him for few days .... let baba sort things out......if he dosent come back to u completely .....still it might happen that things become a lil better......try it out....just keep a firm faith...!!!! u know he had initially stopped calling me and even taking my calls.....but with baba's grace he now atleast calls me up though not frequently......om sai ram!!!!!
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Post by: geeeetanjali on April 09, 2009, 10:57:20 PM
jai sai ram........
gajanan ji......i know sometimes we think he/she dosent deserve our love we should stop thinking bout that person but true love is loving the other person without thinking what he has given us.....if are love is true to that extent.....only then can we get it bak..i know that when ur so miserable u feel like either forgrtting that person or getting him back completely cuz u cant bear this pain anymore....!!!! But if u really need her,at any cost u cant live without her ...i'm sure baba anyhow will give her back to u....because now its not a desire but a need....!!!! just bear it a lil more and completely surrender to baba......thats the only way....if we keep our doubts things will fall apart!! Keep atleast 70%sraddha and saburi..things that couldnt work out for past 5 months might comeout happy in few days.......thats what miracles are!!!!!
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: geeeetanjali on April 09, 2009, 11:07:26 PM
May be gajanan ji ,sai baba has only given u this strength whereby u are now not trying to think about that gal and are feeling better and have now the courage to live without her........u see noone can understand sai baba's leela's ......watever he does for our good....!!!!!!She might come bak to u still....but atleast u can now go on with life till the time she isnt there Baba will never test us beyond our capacity... He is always there with his bhakts..........jai sai ram!!!
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on April 10, 2009, 09:59:30 AM
Geetanjali...u r so right..i really appreciate ur thoughts and encouraging everyone like that...gajanam do what makes u happy... but remember baba has starnge ways of making us see things for ourselves but he is always with us...and will alwys will be even when we say we dont beleieve in him ...atleast i think so...Baba never leaves us , he just tests us....i am sure u will find happiness soon and u will have the best life...
akansha..what geetanjali said is true..dont call him for some days...whenever u feel like calling him...just think of soemthing else..engage urself in some thing else...have some " me time"...trust me u will enjoy that...I am in the US all alone..my family is in india..initially i used to call him and crib and worry and ghe used to get angry..but now whenever i feel like caling, i just dial a friend or watch some tv to distract myself...and trust me he will call...if he really lioves u , he will call maybe not immediately but eventually....i have seen people get back together after 1-2 years, get married and be happy forever...so dont lose hope..Baba will take care of everyone...
Hope is baba and baba is hope!!!!!
Om sai ram!!!
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: gajanan bhakt on April 10, 2009, 11:10:21 AM
jai sai ram, aquafish , akanasha, bhavna, geetanjali ji
i dont know if god listens to my prayers. my prayers for myself dont work but i feel if we pray whole heartedly for someone else it works. i pray for all of you.
may god either get u all ur love back or may god make you all realise that the guys for whom u all r waiting dont really deserve u all.
all of u r knidhearted. instead of spending life with people whom u love , its better to love someone who loves u- - TRULY.
if ur guys really loved you they wud not have made ur life hell like this..
i knw i m sounding very rude to u all. but this is true. and after a few years u will realise this urself.
please forget them. make new friends. meet new ppl. do regular exercises.
working out and exercising is a very useful way of relieving stress. do try it. u might be surprised but i m myself a doctor. so i m advising this..
may god bless you all.
if mhy words have hurt you please forgive me for that
jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: geeeetanjali on April 14, 2009, 09:55:38 AM
hi
bhavna, aquafish, akansha, gajanan......
Trust me i had started to lose hope ...cry, crib and fight with baba as to why he isnt listening ......but i know baba loves us all and he has shown me some positive signs!!1......all i'm going to do is let baba guide me through and i'll stop using my brain.......only if we surrender to baba with complete faith will things fall in place......the guy who had stopped taking my calls now has started calling me himself......things are improving and they would but we need to be patient and cant expect god to get me married to him in one day..........................i'm writing this so that u all dont lose hope and do believe that baba will listen......!!! pls post ur experiences with baba or any progress over here so that we all are inspired by them......i'll pray for u all ... jai sai ram.......
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on April 14, 2009, 09:59:00 AM
geetanjali...i dont think baba is listening to me anymore...i dont see any signs from him..i dont want to continue this life...sometimes that what i feel...the guytalks abt eevrything but our life..everyone around is slowly working things out and getting amrried...and i am happy for them but i am human too..i dont know how long i can take all this...
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on April 14, 2009, 10:05:56 AM
jai sai ram thanx everybody out here whos been praying for me..baba plz help all ur bhakts to overcome the sorrows in their life baba thanx a lot for some improvement in life..i havent got my all back but im feelin much better now..i dont think abt him much or call him much..he has got off my mind a bit n on the other hand he has started callin me more often n has kind off realised wat has he done to me..loos at me n cries..says sorry but im undetterd..i judt dont feel anything..my emotions have been blocked n i thank baba for it..baba plz help aquafish n gajanan ji to get off thier pain..aquafish dont u worry ul surely get ur love..n gajanan ji i wish the best for u in life n baba wil assure that..plz help all ur kids baba.help him too to rise in life n get the best n all that he wants..plz help me baba with all my work that has been stuck..i rely totally on u.. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: geeeetanjali on April 14, 2009, 10:31:28 AM
aquafish.... what i believe is baba hepls you when u least expect and have lost all hopes......i had a fight with my bf cuz his phone was busy all night and he was talking to the new gal in his life.....next day i called him he didnt take my calls whole day....i had thought that probabaly ecrything is over he will never take my calls again...because he has already been doing that for a week before .....i casually looked at sai baba's picture...it had this written "" if u look to me i look to u"" when i read this i just said in my mind baba u dont look at me....its all false....and i was sitting depressed within mins my bf called me and talked to me for long though he did not say he is coming bak but he at atleast he started talking to me nicely when he had stopped altogether.....i'm just waiting for him to come bak completely one day......so u see aquafish baba will listen to u just keep ur faith alive...its all shraddha and saburi ....... atleast your bf has no other gal in his life look at me .my boyfrens parents are after his life to get him married off to some gal .................pls baba bless us all.......
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on April 14, 2009, 10:54:58 AM
HMM...geetanjali if u put it in that way...it sounds ok..but how much compromise can we bear...i know he lves me but he is not able to be with me ..i get so frustrated with that..i dont know what to do...it just aches to see my parents like that..i know my bf is struggling too with this...and i am in between but his parents r like we dont care if u dont get married at all but wont let u marry her.and they r devotees of baba too..i dont know where this is taking em but i am so emotionally drained that i dont see anything straight anymore...
i am overreacting to everything he says or doesnt say...i dont know..i am a mess..maybe u r right, i shud just leave eevrything to baba and see what happens...thanks for those words....i am praying for all of u and i hope u get what u want...
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: bhavna on April 14, 2009, 10:59:28 AM
om sai ram lets just leave all to baba even i am doin dat let dat wire puller do his work om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on April 14, 2009, 02:31:32 PM
jai sai ram baba all i want to say is help all ur kids who are in pain and are waiting for u. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: gajanan bhakt on April 15, 2009, 12:57:20 AM
may god bless all sai nathay namah
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on April 15, 2009, 08:00:53 AM
jai sai ram hi gajanan how are u?..its been long time since i heard from u ..n aqufish..wat abt u?...babaplz help us baba..we all need u.. jai sai ram ur kid
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on April 15, 2009, 09:51:49 AM
Akansha,
I am here alright..Same story nothing changes...I am just writing sai koti everyday and when possible chanting his name...and left everything to him..my mom is not well as she is worried about my marriage..i dont know what to do...I hope baba listens to everyone soon...Please baba help everyone...please take away this pain and let us be happy with the one we love... Om sai ram!!!
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: bhavna on April 15, 2009, 11:12:50 AM
om sia ram akansha hope everything all right at ur end lets just continue to pray to sai and leave everything to him om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: gajanan bhakt on April 16, 2009, 02:26:02 AM
hi akansha. i m fine. nothing new. things got worse in case of her. but now i have actually explained myself that i dont have to think of her.
anyways. hope everything is fine on ur end.
god bless
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: manmeet on April 16, 2009, 02:38:07 AM
om sai ram sai is always with his devotees, keep on chanting his name have faith and patience every thing will be all right. om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on April 16, 2009, 09:37:14 AM
thnaks manmeet for ur words...hope u find all ur probs solved with baba's blessings...
gajanan, akansha, bhavna and geetanjali how r u today? Today i am starting the 7 day parayanam...Hope baba listens to us. I am including all of u in my prayers and hopefully atleast one of us finds what we wnat...Om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: bhavna on April 17, 2009, 04:42:11 AM
thank u aquafish om sai ram we all willbe blessed not jus one of us sai ram :) :) :)
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: sagarika on April 17, 2009, 04:58:12 AM
OMSAIRAM...
SAI please help your children to solve their problems.. please deva you are our sole refugee.. if you also doesnt support us where shall we go... aap hi hamara sahara ho sirf aap pah hi barosa hai.. please dont test so much... rahem karo malik
OMSAIRAM..
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on April 18, 2009, 09:59:44 AM
jai sai ram baba plz help jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: bhavna on April 18, 2009, 11:21:44 AM
hello everyone akansha, gajanan bhakt, aquafish, rajeev, manmeet lets not give up faith lets jus pray to sai....things may get worse but soon things will turn de other way round too, wen things get real worse dats the tym wen sai tests us severly testing our devotion even i get carried away i end up fitin wid sai and wid dis guy but den i see it all as sai's leela to provoke me i jus keep remebering sai's gyarah vachan if sai has promised he will fullfil all our wishes....sai loves us all....
ANANTKOTI BRAHAMAN NAYAK RAJADHIRAJA YOGIRAJA PARBRAHAMA SHRI SACHITANAND SADGURU SAINATH MAHARAJ KI JAI
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: geeeetanjali on April 19, 2009, 11:44:22 PM
THANKS AQUAFISH FOR PRAYING FOR US ALL
I dont know but sometimes i really feel does baba really listen...??? I hv never done so bad with anyone to get all this in my life....I see people who hurt others, do all kinds of bad things but still they are so happy..god never punishes them!! I hv asked god to forgive me incase i made any mistake i am even trying to follow sai baba's principles in day to day life .....but it seems sai baba dosent love me or care for me!!! i cry everyday....i'm almost at the verge of breaking down but sai baba shows no mercy!!! He is not ther anywhere around to comfort me........baba kya apko har din mujhe tadapte dekh kar kuch bhi fark nai padta....??? wahan pe mera bf is going to discotheques, parties enjoying life to the fullest ...and i'm dying everyday.....!!! is this your justice god??? is this the reward for loving him??? aapke 11 wachan kahan gaye baba?? kya jis tarah usne mujhe chhor diya aapne bhi mujhe yun hi chhor diya??? what do i do god ..... its unbearable .....pls pls pls pls pls god mera vishwas mat tootne do....pleaseaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaase i stil love you baba but my pain is killing me...!!
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: bhavna on April 20, 2009, 01:33:07 AM
hello geetanjali i know wat u mean even i ask these questions to sai and even i am going thru a very similiar situtaion but all we can do is pray to sai and keep shraddha and saburi and watch as things happen in our life dont give up will pray for all of please sai be mercy incarnate bless us all om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: GaneshHariharan on April 20, 2009, 02:51:01 AM
DEAR GEETANJALI, AAP NAHIN TODENGI VISHWAS SAI PAR TO WO TOOTEGA NAHIN. KEEP CHANTING HIS NAME. SAI'S SOMETIMES TESTS PEOPLE TO THE LIMITS BUT IN THE END WHEN YOU ARE ALMOST AT CLIFF'S END , HE WILL PULL YOU BACK AND TAKE YOU INTO HIS FOLD. HAVE FAITH IN SAI. OM SAIRAM, JAI SAIRAM, JAI JAI SAIRAM.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: gajanan bhakt on April 20, 2009, 06:19:36 AM
jai sai ram.
sai baba please guide me through my difficult times. please help me in knowing whats right and whats wrong..
sai baba please bless all
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on April 20, 2009, 09:47:01 AM
gajanan, bhavna, akansh, geetanjali..
have fzith...keep hoping againt hope..baba is there...frget everything..leave it to him,....he will guide us...i am thinking this way otherwise i will be depressed and dotn want to go there,....been there and trust me it makes u feel worse but doesnt make things better...trust in sai and he will do the rest
Om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: rajiv800 on April 20, 2009, 04:38:55 PM
hi akanksha
i wanted to say one thing to you you say that if you talk to him sternly he talks about sacrifices and all and on top of that he blackmails you that you will loose me if you do this and that i know its hard to explain but dont you think that by doing this he is using you he emotionally blackmails you and at the same time he is going around with someone else if he is not committed now what is the gaurantee he will be once he is married to you he might again say after marriage the same thing as he is saying now i know what i am saying right now you would not agree but if i was in ur situation i would have never ever trusted that person just get him in ur shoes start talking to that person he hates the most and let him feel what you are going through he might realise and then come back to you if he still does not i dont think he loves you i have been in relationship for two years now and believe me though she has almost left me now i still cant see beyond her no matter who comes in front of me i still feel that she is everything to me you dont knw as much as aquafish or bhavna would know about it i am also just keeping faith in sai and waiting for her to come back ours is a religion issue she is sikh and me a hindu and i even went against my family to keep beard and hair and have not cut it since almost 2 years now she has left me and still not done anything i have done everything possible a human can do but still have not got her still if i dont i am sure that i will never ever trust god or love anyone i wouldnt be able to love anyone just try to think a but practically and i would say make him realise what he has done is not right and the best way to make him realise this is do exactly what he is and has been doing to you
take care
om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: sagarika on April 21, 2009, 04:40:21 AM
Baba, Rahem karo malik...It hurts a lot when someone really special is not with us... rahem karo..
OMSAIRAM OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: savitric on April 21, 2009, 04:50:48 AM
BABA please help me difficult stiuation of mine iam tensed very much about of my my son studdies please om sai nathaya namah
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on April 22, 2009, 11:13:17 AM
jai sai ram rajiv ji i dont knw wat to tel u..all i can say is just hold onto baba..if he is doing all this there must be some good behindthis..im sure he will get things fall into place soon...im also goin thru vry bad times wen he fights to me or gets mad at me he tell me look here she is better that u..wen i dont al he says ok il better cal her up....but now i have som epeace of mind by babas grace..i think he is happy with her but he wants me too..dont get this at all..now ive become feelingless tears dont come out that easily...baba is helping me out now..aquafish..gajanan just dont think much baba is with u for sure n gitantanjali u2 plz keep faith on baba.. im sure baba is listening to us all..jai sai ram jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: bhavna on April 22, 2009, 12:01:34 PM
hi akansha i am sure just that thot of ur guy being with another girl must be so painful sometimes wen i read ur posts i feel like shaking ur guy and telling him are u blind or wat cant u c how much this girl loves u..i can so understand this feeling..tell me cant u now ask this guy to get married to u? i know i cant in my situation cause dis guy always says he cant marry me. but is it possible for u...to put him in a situtaion wre he has to make a choice...den at least u wud know if he is ready to get rid of that other girl? tomo is thursday every thursday i jus wait for a miracle from sai....to hear that one good news which i so long for tomo will again pray for all of us for u , me , aquafish..rajiv, getanjali abhishek all of us om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on April 25, 2009, 11:17:42 AM
jai sai ram aquafish thank u so much...baba is helping me..though he is still with me the pain has got less for time being..ive become hard dont cry..dont feel anything..im just fine now..he calls me n fites n asks me to cal more often..wants to meet up but i dont feel anything now..though i knw this felin is temproaray coz i love him madly but still for now im fine..ive left all upto my bf..if he is happy with that gal..i wil let him go..maybe she loves him more than me so he forgot me..i feel sad but feel good for him..i just dont expct anything out of anybody now expect for baba..n i realy thanku aquafish for replying in such a warm way..i wish baba comes to u soon..baba plz help aquafish..gajanan,rajev ji..geetanjli..il pray for all of u.. aquafish..i kn wat ar eu goin thru...just dont leave hope n keep holding on to baba he just watching all of us wreathing in pain n wil come soon.. jaus keep sharadha n saburi baba help us all plz baba apki hi aas hai jai sai ram
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Post by: akansha on April 25, 2009, 11:19:52 AM
jai sai ram bhavna the above msg i wrote to u but wrote to aquafish..this was for u..n same goes to aquafish too.im sure baba wil help u soon..take care aquafish n bhavna baba loves u jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on April 27, 2009, 04:00:25 AM
Akansha...
We all go through this phase once in life. But I can tell you one thing as a sister...
A MAN WHO DOES NOT RESPECT THE RELATIONSHIP DOES NOT RESPECT YOU.
A MAN WHO IS SEEING ANOTHER GIRL AND TELLING YOU HE WILL SEE SOMEONE ELSE AND WANTS YOU TOO IS NOT WORTH IT.
YOUR LIFE IS PRECIOUS. VERY PRECIOUS. GOD SENT YOU HERE TO DO SOMETHING ON EARTH. WORK ON UR KARMA.
Mark my words my dear friend :
A man who doesn't respect you today... before marriage, will never respect you and your family in future.
And someone who cannot respect you, can certainly NOT LOVE YOU.
I'm sorry girl, I may sound very harsh at this moment but this is only for your good.
OPEN YOUR EYES AKANSHA. THE MAN IS PLAYING WITH YOU. YOUR TRUST, YOUR FAITH, YOUR LOVE!
You are giving up your life for a man who doesn't even respect you? For a man who doesn't even understand the basics of love?
Open your eyes & SEE. It may hurt, but I think if Sai Baba is out of his will seperating you from a man who does not deserve the beautiful, dedicated & loyal person that you are.... I'm sorry it may hurt but I think thats the best thing to happen to anyone.
Sometimes Akansha, in love we do not want to see the harm a relationship is doing to us. We do not want to admit the one we gave our entire life to and so many years... doesn't care at all about us.
Sometimes God has His own ways of saving us.
An emotionally abusive relationship is going to ruin you completely in the long run.
Look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself a million times - I AM MUCH BETTER THAN HIM! I DESERVE BETTER!
And you do - Cause you understand love, you understand dedication, you understand commitment...
STOP CALLING HIM FOR HEAVENS SAKE!
You are letting him enjoy the attention of 2 women.
Don't call him OR take his calls.
Tell him ure not there for a person who plays with the emotions of 2 women. You do not respect such behaviour and certainly wont entertain that.
Once he starts missing the dual attention and if he genuinely loves you, he will understand his mistake & come back to you begging for your true love.
And if he doesn't miss you, my dear... he doesn't love you anymore... DON'T LET HIM PLAY WITH YOUR EMOTIONS.
I'm sure you're capable of picking yourself up and doing something so good in life that a million guys would wake up dreaming of having a partner like you every morning.
Take up something & excell in that.
OUR HAPPINESS LIES WITHIN US... OUR ACTIONS... WHAT WE DO WITH LIFE.
Don't let your life be wasted waiting for someone who doesn't deserve you. In my opinion you and anyone out here dererves much more than a two timer.
Sorry if I've been harsh my friends. I've been through this phase and much more. Do not want anyone else to go thru it.
Its ok to have misjudged people in life. Request all of you who are thinking of ending your lives for someone who does or doesn't deserve it (in my opionion no one apart from God does) : Please dump your individual mind-blocks and egos, accept maybe you made the wrong choice, pick yourself up and work on yourself to make yourself that one man / woman every man or woman would dream of.
We all deserve to work on ourselves - to be the best and be with the best.
PS: Guys, totally understand your pain. Am going thru the same. But instead of sulking in pain anymore, I choose to pick myself up and take responsibility for a better future. Its very difficult for me from where I am right now in life. But I promise you and myself am not going to give up! NO WAY...
WHAT DO YOU CHOOSE?
MAKE YOURSELF AND ALL OF US THAT PROMISE TODAY. EVERY ONE ON THIS FORUM LOVES YOU. WE ALL PRAY FOR EVERYONE WHOS HEART BROKEN.
THERE ARE SO MANY PPL WHO LOVE YOU. Come on... YOU OWE THIS ATTEPT AND THIS PROMISE TO THEM.
PICK YOURSELF UP - NOW! NOW IS THE TIME. THIS VERY MOMENT. FOR ALL OF US & FOR SAI BABA. Lets all do it together and be there to help each other do that.
Start a new hobby. I leave this forum open to people and invite everyone whos heart broken to come up and make a promise and tell us HOW they are going to pick themselves up.
I'll tell you what I did. I learnt REIKI. And framed a goal. This year, I want to channel REIKI and give free service to as many ppl as possible.
How am I working on it???? I have included all on this forum in my REIKI LIST.
What you choose determines your karma - todays karma on which your tomorrow is dependant. Wasting ur today = a painful tomorrow. Life is too short. I could die in an accident 5 mins frm now. Get up & do something...
& Baba will bless you with the best...
My prayers and best wishes for all those who are heart - broken!
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on April 27, 2009, 04:36:05 AM
Sent this msg to kedar. I feel I should share it with you too....
Message for all those feeling miserable due to loss of love:
I know what it feels to love someone, have that person with you... and loose your world, your family, tons and tons of your friends, your career, your dreams, your only passion in life thats more important to you than the breath you take...
But you know what... after two years of sulking for 4 hours every night... and controlling my tears for the entire day smiling at work, I have realized a few things which I feel I should share with you... so that you don't waste any more time over this. May sound harsh... no matter how harsh it sounds this is what I keep telling myself every morning.
This is what my counsellor and Reiki master took 6 months to drill into my head & am glad she succeeded:
I wasted 2 years of my life pampering my pain and my self-pity. I could have used it to give happiness and bring peace in the lives of my loved ones instead of reacting the way I did.
A person who doesn't realize how much you love him and cannot feel it... HE / SHE is not to be blamed. He or she just doesn't love you. He/she may have loved you like crazy at one point of time but in TODAY ure not there! ACCEPT IT.
More than gaining love, its easier to give love... trust me, just try it.
God sent you and me for some work on earth. Lets focus on that. We wasted so many years of our life just enjoying and cribbing over our own pain. LIFE IS TOO SHORT. If tomorrow I die in an accident, what would I have to tell God? God you sent me there with so much love, you gave me the best life, the best parents, the best education, the best scholarships but what did I do? Sorry God, I ruined it all. Why? You know God, I did this cause I did not get one person's love. You know that person was very important to me. So I couldnt see all those for whom I was their world. I didn't care about you also. You tried to protect me and pick me up so many times. But I didnt value my life also. I destroyed everything you blessed me with, did not use it for either myself or for the purpose you sent me here for.
Tomorrow if I die, I DON'T WANT TO SAY THAT. I DONT
Do u????
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: gajanan bhakt on April 27, 2009, 07:00:08 AM
well wisher . u r indeed a well wisher of all those who have been hurt in love.
ur words are really worth thinking about. thanks a lot
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on April 27, 2009, 09:48:35 AM
akansha,
how r u? hope u r doing ok...thanks for the words well wisher...Om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: bhavna on April 27, 2009, 11:02:07 AM
hello everyone lets jus pray to baba and not think abt anything lets jus sigle mindedly channelize our energies in doing good for the others den watever baba will bless us with will be the best OM SAI RAM
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on April 27, 2009, 11:14:14 AM
:-) Thank you all for giving me this opportunity to share with you. We're all here to help each other, be there for each other. By all means, all that I say is in good intent. I may sound very harsh at times. But sometimes when we're in the middle of pain it becomes difficult to judge. I'm not too good with communication. I know I've been harsh when it comes to certain statements. But trust me, its all in good faith. :-)
God bless you all... and everyone on this forum. Lets be there for each other, pray to Baba and celebrate the lil things in life including a smile from someone... including our togetherness at this moment!
God bless everyone out here with loads and loads and loads of happiness, love, life, peace... and success in all that we do. And may God bless us all with... THAT WHICH IS BEST FOR US.
:-)
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on April 28, 2009, 06:35:38 AM
jai sai ram wellwisher i realy thank u from the core of my heart for such warm n thoughtfull words..il surely thnk abt it..aquafish,things are same my side but the pain in my heart has got less by babas grace, whats up ur side aquafish? i pray for u bhavna ji,gajanan ji,rakesh,geetanjaliji,im sure baba wil help us soon take care.. thanx a ton wellwisher may baba bless us all jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on April 28, 2009, 07:15:30 AM
:-) Anytime. Lets start a new thing today. I don't know how many of you think its a good idea. But everytime we feel low lets post a postive affirmation
eg. Instead of saying I'm miserable, nothings improving lets say :
* I am a radiant being filled with light and love. * I love and accept myself exactly as I am. * I now express love to all those I meet. * I am a radiating center of divine love. * Divine love is working through me now. * I bathe in the unconditional love of my Creator * Love radiates from me at all times. * I love myself completely. * Love comes to me easily and effortlessly. * I give and receive love easily and joyfully. * Others love me easily and joyfully. * I now feel loved and appreciated by my parents, my friends. * I express love freely * As I give love, I am instantly supplied with more. * I radiate love to all persons and places and things. * People are just waiting to love me, and I allow them. * I breathe in universal love. * I attract loving, beautiful people into my life. * I always deserve love. * I am attracting loving relationships into my life. * I project love to everyone I meet. * I love and approve of myself
I haven't done this yet, to be honest... but this is what we all can start doing.
You can make your own affirmations. It can be anything that makes you feel good. It has to be in the present and start with "I"
Or you can start with ...
With or without him / her I'm the best! With or without him / her I feel loved! With or without him / her all is perfect in my life God is paving a new path for me... doors are opening, doors are closing. I free myself from all past, choose the ignore the closing doors... choose to embrase love in all forms... I am the most loveable and give love to others in abundance...
Anything that makes you feel good. Everytime you feel low, do it just for the fun of it. Lets be creative and share our affirmations along with a short prayer...
My dear friends, not asking anyone to move on. But surely we can all talk about our lives a little more positively, say a little prayer that our loved ones understand us, pray for each other....
Sai Baba will know we're helping Him, ourselves and each other by keeping the faith strong and smiling all along!
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on April 28, 2009, 09:15:28 AM
akansha,
how r u? hmm its gud to hear that ur making an effort...me too am tryin not to think abt the future or "what ifs"...i am hapy at this moment with job, life in general..in this economy crisis, we have jobs, thats gud na..and we have loving parents and a life worth living...wellwisher U ROCK!!! u have a gud way of saying the right things..wish i had that knack..anyways...thanks again!!!
Take care Om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on April 28, 2009, 09:36:09 AM
Oh God... I can't believe this. I feel so blessed!
Thank you... thank you... thank you God... Just thank you soooooooooooooooo much for doing this to me. Thank you so much for giving me the opportunity to have so many loving, caring and compassionate people around me... so many genuine good friends...
Just plain and simple thank you... A big thank you to God, all of you and my Reiki master - Aarti aunty. Thank you sooooo much! I am thankful God for every moment of this day. Everyday and this day I know is a blessing. You're always with me, sometimes testing me to make me stronger and teach me, sometimes loving and rewarding me, sometimes just letting me enjoy my peace and have fun... Thank you God for always being there. For sending all the right people at the right time. For at any point of time when I could feel low, sending at least one person to either cheer me up or make me realize how lucky I am to have this life.
I cribbed so much with regards to every situation in life. But aunty was right. She and all the painful stuff today has taught me today so much of love, so much of gratitude I would have never learnt in the next 50 years of my life also, had all that not happened.
This gratitude I feel towards you, aunty, all those who stood by me and all my friends out here God is the most beautiful feeling I could have ever come across in life. I do not have the one who is my world to me. But I have the strength to love him, pray for him, his loved ones and mine unconditionally. When I miss him, I do not have his shoulder to cry on. But I have so much to do and many people who never let me cry. I did not get his love. But he and this break off taught me how to love and gracefully accept love. Isn't that what you sent me here for God?
Thank you God, thank you so much! For all the love, all the life, all the pain that made me strong, all the pain that made me weak and helpless enough to know what it feels to be strong later, for all those who despite me shutting them out of my life did not give up on me until I decided to pick myself up again. For all those strangers who could have never cared but came across and gave me a new life everytime I collapsed.
Thank you God... & sorry too... for not believing in YOU. During times when I lost faith in YOU and life... YOU WERE actually the only one holding me tight... never letting me slip, never letting me fall... picking me up all through. I was angry with you and look what a beautiful thing you were doing in my life all along through this phase. I'm sorry God for being blind. I have no right to complain or feel depressed.
I am happy God. Very happy. I have faith in you... whatever form, whatever religion.
Don't need anything else.... apart from the feeling that you're always with me.
There are many, many unfortunate people God who need much more of your attention. Yesterday I saw a few starving kids... the kid kept tugging at me and saying - ek packet aur aunty, ek packet aur. Mera bhai bhi hai. Use bhookh lagi hai. Give food to them God. They may not even know what romantic love or loss of job or money is. Give them what they need the most.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on May 01, 2009, 07:25:48 AM
jai sai ram aquafish,im allrite..nthing has changed much yet..that gal is still in his life,his fone goes busy,n then he tells me that he was talkin to her,it hurts n it pains but all i can do is sit n cry n wait for him to come back,yes one thing has changed for sure that by babas grace i dont feel that unbearable pain i used to..though at times i do feel sick but thats just for a minute or two,ive left all on baba ..my bf has also realised that im goin away frm him so he too is trying his hard to keep me with him,all he tels me is wait,n here i am waiting for him,he is realising my worth now n tels me plz dont leave me il not be anle to live without to thats makes me feel better...thankyou baba. wht abt u aquafish??how are things ur side??his parents agreed?? im sure il get a positve answer frm u soon,i pray for u,gajanan ji,rajeev ji,geeantanjli ji,bhavan ji and welwisher.im sure baba wil come to help us all soon. wellwisher i must say u are amazing,thankx a lot for u healing words,it realy feels good to see such good words before u wen u are totally blank in head n asking numerous quetions frm ownslef.. thanx a lot wellwisher may got bless u baba i love u jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: bhavna on May 01, 2009, 07:41:03 AM
hi akansha feels good to hear from u i am not really able to pray pray dese days doin continuous 24 hrs shifts for few dats i jus come home for 2-3 hrs but i do keep all of u in mind wen i think of baba even if dats for a second keep holdin on to baba his leelas are amazin i am beginin to give up hope at my end though this guy jus always says he cant marry me and never tells me y dre is no one else in his life but he says he will move on once i am settled and married pata nahi y never gives me a reason so i am plannin to bak out y shud i spend tym wid some1 who wont marry me i can jus pray to baba for all of us dats wat i am doin even if anyone of us shows victory i will believe sai is listening to us OM SAI RAM
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on May 01, 2009, 09:38:28 AM
Bhavna and akansha,
Hang in there guys!!! Well i finsihed the saptah right, but cudnt go to temple yday..he wasnt in the mood or whatever..i dont care anymore..will see if he will coem today otherwise will go saturday morning alone..lets see...i am just tired of everything...my mom is nagging me too abotu marriage...so tried to take a step back from everything and thinka bt myself for a minute...thats what i am doing...I am done with prayers for sometime...will read guru charitha on monday for vinesh and thats it...dont want to pray extensively anymore...just remember his name thats all and lets see what he says..
thanks akansha for having more confidence about my marriage than i have ....I dont see it happening but i wont stress about it right now..lets see what happens..for now i am content with my job, weekends with him or my friends...and going to gym every day..it keeps me less stressed...
Om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on May 01, 2009, 09:46:55 AM
Bhavna, all of us will see victory. God is always with us. Its tough, very tough... but we will emerge out of this and much better n stronger than ourselves.
Akansha, who said u cant do a bit apart frm waiting - Be all that in life that he could never be... and much more. Be all that in life he could have never dreamt of. Am sure he'll realize your worth. Please dont call him or take his calls if he's treating you like dirt. RESPECT AND VALUE YOURSELF FIRST.
If you cant respect and value yourself, no one in the world will. I'm with you. We are all with you and you are worth all the respect and much more my friend.
WE TEACH OTHERS HOW TO TREAT US MY FRIEND. WE ALWAYS DO.
Think about these words for as long as you can and look at everytime he hurt you.
He hurts you and treats you like dirt cause you let him. You don't walk out. You dont snap back. You dont ignore his calls. You dont draw the line. You just sit back and listen and cry by his side like a lil doll.
Why on earth would he ever realize your value and respect you. U've given him confidence like you're his fixed deposit! Anytime he feels like, he can come back and you'll be waiting with arms open!
Why on earth would he think twice before hurting you? tell me, wouldnt you take a person like tht for granted????
Dont let him do tht. Love him, show him you love him. But politely and firmly tell him - this is not tolerable. TEACH HIM TO RESPECT YOU BY RESPECTING YOURSELF.
This is something I never did. Could never do myself. I realized and understood a lot of things when it was already too late. Its not too late for you. Thats the reason I'm sharing all this with you.
Please do not consider my words harsh. Think about them.
Not asking u to do anything. Just sit back and reflect on them for some time. :-)
God bless all you guys... May everyone find their love... :-) including me...
Been missing him like crazy today... no clue whr he'd be, wht he'd be doing... Just hope he's fine :-)
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on May 01, 2009, 09:49:39 AM
Aquafish, enjoy wht u have with him today and leave the rest to God. Don waste time stressing urself. Just enjoy the moments you have. So many ppl praying, all will be fine.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on May 01, 2009, 10:24:43 AM
well wisher...U will get thru this..we all will...Om sai ram..thanks for ur words...ur too kind...take care of urself!!!
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 01, 2009, 12:24:02 PM
akansha, can you not see he is playing you like a fiddle ? and you want this person no matter what ?. think dear think ! no relationship is worth that much if the love equation is not 1:1. if the other person does not respect and love you the same way as you do him. let him go to hell. dont spoil your life crying over something which is not worth crying for . pick yourself up and lead a fresh life for god's sakes. god bless. om sairam, jai sairam, jai jai sairam.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: gajanan bhakt on May 02, 2009, 03:22:48 AM
hello friends. hope things r fine with all of u. well wisher -- i dont know who u r but i know one thing. u deserve much better than wat u have been thru. i really appreciate ur words and thoughts.
god please bless us all.
jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on May 02, 2009, 09:34:28 AM
jai sai ram ganeshhariharan ji i just dont knw wat to do ...im just relying on baba,just sitting back n watching..today too he gave me too much of painfull words but now im in a habit of being in pain..n the main thing is he loves me..nobody wud be able to undrestand wat kind off love is this even i find it confusing at times but belive me he loves me more than i do..but dont knw y is he behaving this way..well wisher may baba bless u n may u have love of ur life..aqufish i hope the best for u too,gajanan ji hows all ur side??i hope ur fine...bhavana ji dont lose hope..baba wil come to help us all soon. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on May 02, 2009, 09:49:13 AM
Akansha, NO...please don't do this to yourself. Please... I can totally connect to what you're feeling right now. But let me tell you one thing - where there is love strong enough to wish to be together.... a person can go to the extent of burning the world to protect his love! Trust me... your getting used to this pain is not helping.
How can you say he loves you when he's confused himself?
Am sorry to be harsh but you know what he's doing right now? He's testing u, himself and the other woman at the same time. He's subconsciously... or I may sound rude enough to say consciously looking for a convenient option.
When you love someone... you cannot look beyond that person. That one person is your world and your definition for perfection. There is no question of confusion and comparison. NO QUESTION!
And if he's still confused, unless you stop taking crap and he sorts out his confusion he's gonna remain confused all his life! He's enjoying the confusion and attention from 2 women. Why would he want to sort it? He'll wait and marry the most convenient option... could be you, could be her, could be none of you. You can bear all the pain in hope that it could be you. But let me one thing... just one... WHERES THE LOVE IN THAT?
I'm sorry... I'm not the best at communication. But I've been thru this and have a feeling - unless you sort it and stop scope for confusion, this man is likely to remain confused for all of his life. He's thoroughly enjoying the attention, the confusion and all the love from both of you that comes along with it. And I dont think any of it is pleasure to either you or that other woman. Dont do injustice to both of you...
He has nothing to loose if he doesnt love you....
And if he loves you, he'll find a way to sort all the confusion in a fraction of a second once you make things clear to him...
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 02, 2009, 09:57:07 AM
DEAR AKANSHA, I AGREEE WITH WELL-WISHER, YOU ARE SPOILING YOUR LIFE BETA. THINK A LITTLE. TELL ME ONE INSTANCE OR REASON BECAUSE OF WHICH YOU FEEL THAT HE IS DEEPLY IN LOVE WITH YOU. BECAUSE HE GIVES YOU "LIP SERVICE". GROW UP DEAR . I AM EXHAUSTED FOR ADVISE TO GIVE YOU. BUT LET ME TELL YOU THIS. MY MOTHER USED TO SAY "YOU CAN TAKE A HORSE TO THE RIVER, BUT YOU CANT MAKE THE HORSE DRINK FROM IT" YOUR CASE IS SOMEWHAT SIMILAR. WHEN WE GIVE YOU ADVISE , WE HAVE YOUR GOODNESS IN OUR HEART. BUT WE CAN ONLY DO SO MUCH. IF YOU STILL INSIST ON SUFFERING , THERE IS NOTHING WE CAN DO !. EVEN BABA CAN ONLY SHOW YOU THE WAY , HE CANNOT DO THINGS ON YOUR BEHALF. YOU HAVE TO TAKE THE DECISION AND DO THE DEED YOURSELF. OM SHRI SAINATHAYA NAMAHA.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on May 04, 2009, 09:54:09 AM
Akansha,
How r u dear? Its been long since i saw ur msgs...Please take care of urself...We mean good when we say all this...I know it sounds harsh but we care for u and know what u r doing to urself...please dont just stay like that..its poisoning u...get out and live ur life..if he really loves u...he will be with u and only u...i know u r very forgiving but not when ur a 3rd wheel...dont do this to urself..i am sorry if my words hurt u...but thats the truth....
Be firm with him, dont be emotionally blackmailed..just let him know, its me or her...i know its hard to think, what if he leaves me..but that doesnt justify u being with him when he is also seeing another gal...dont.....a relationship is between 2 hearts...there is no room for a 3rd..if he says he needs time breaking off with her , then tell him not to be with u that time..he cant have both ...u cant shar this kind of love sweetie...please be nice to urself...Love u...i am saying all this coz i really really care for u...u r an awesome person , remember that...please please be nice to urself...
Om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: shalabh on May 04, 2009, 10:46:23 PM
IMPROVE YOUR THOUGHTS FOR THE CONCERNS ALSO FOR 1 DAY ATLEAST WITHOUT THINKING ABOUT YOURSELF,TRY IT & THEN WRIGHT
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on May 05, 2009, 03:41:54 AM
jai sai ram thankyou so much aquafish...im realy really thankfil to u for caring so much..all he tells me is that he wil leav eher soon n ultimately he needs me..just asks me to wait..dont knw how long wil i have to wait more..im just broken..at times i forget all n become happy go out with frnds have funn but wen im alone the very thot of him with another gal haunts me...i do tel him that if he is happy with another gal leave me n have her..but he deos not let me go too..he wats me to hang by his side..y is he not realising how badly he is breaking me day by day..??? baba plz get things fine soon.. aquafish i dont knw u personally but all i cn make out is that u are a wondreful human being..y bad things happen o good ppl lik u i wonder..plz take care n let m eknw wats up ur side..plz keep urlsef busy n leave all upto baba im sure sharadha n saburi wil surely lead u me gajanan ji,bhavna ji,wellwisher n all wreathing in pain to a batter level..i to realy care for u n pray for u too..may baba bless u. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on May 05, 2009, 10:00:15 AM
Akansha,
Well i have done my share of unkind things too...haha...trust no one is good or bad in the eyes of baba..These are just testing times...all i can say is go out more with friends, lead a happy life and be firm with him,..I know its easy to say but try...and dont let him know u r weak for him..once he realises that u can be without him, he will never leave u or betray u...as u say he loves u...thats all i can say..I dont know the details or I wont judge him but just make him feel what ur feeling thats all..
when we show our weakness in our love to them, they take u for granted...U r a strong independent woman, show him u dont need him in parts...show him u can be just fine without his help and then see what hapens...Atleast u will be happy with u life...DOnt be depressed yaar...We all r here for u to support u emotionally... Take care.. Om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 05, 2009, 12:42:04 PM
dear akansha, i second what aquafish has said. have some selfrespect. show him , if you dont love me from today, i dont love you from yesterday. its time these ....... (unprintable) romeos got a taste of their own medicine. om shri sainathaya namaha.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on May 06, 2009, 01:57:00 AM
OMG.... Aquafish, Ganeshji... why didnt I meet you 2yrs back... ??? Maybe he'd be with me now... :-) But its ok so long as he's happy... And I'm growing... :)
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on May 06, 2009, 09:34:23 AM
Well-wisher,
Trust me its harder to do it coz u r scared tat he will leave u...but in reality if someone loves us truly even if they hurt us, they always are with us...My bf says if i didnt care or love u why wud i be with u..just coz my parents didnt agree i am not able to marry, if i didnt love u i cud have left u and married whom ever my parents chose...thats how it is..Lol...life is wierd..but we have to live it....
Akansha...how r u? Please dont wait now...he will come back if he loves u...tats all i can say..he needs a wakeup call to realise he is being stupid...tats all he needs..No one will ever wnt to let u go..u r a gem!! U are a sweet child of baba and baba will make everything allirght!!!
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: bhavna on May 06, 2009, 10:46:36 AM
om sai ram akansha wre are u ?plz let us know wats happenin with u???? we are praying for u always dont worry jus keep up faith...shraddha and saburi...
akansha,, wellwisher,, aquafish,, manmeet,, rajiv,,sai bhakth tomo is thursday ( in india..its jus a few hrs away)))) :) :) :) so lets jus pray to our beloved sai with all our might every day thursday i jus pray and wait for a miracle to happen for all of us sai aap sun rahe ho na...abhi so jao thodi der mein thursday ho jayega..fir poore din koi bhi aapko sone nahi dega... bless us sai waiting for ur response sai om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on May 06, 2009, 11:39:09 PM
:) I know how difficult it is. Me too in the same boat. But thats what we need to do. Me too waiting, but trying not to focus all my energies on that. If it happens, nothing like it... I'll thank God with every breath of my life! But if it doesn't... am not going to let it affect me and my family negatively any further. Will just accept it as God's will... :) after all thats wht best we can do. Right?
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on May 07, 2009, 01:28:56 AM
jai sai ram today is thrusday il pray for u all gajanan ji,aquafish,wellwisher,bhavna ji,rajiv ji,..im sure baba is looking at us n just testing us... yesterday was last day of my colg..n its not just end of my colg but many sweet memories attached to it...last nite i just rembred how i went to meet him frm colg n all..n creid a lot..all is gone now,frnds colg,he is no more mine..i had everything few years back,had all the happiness in the world,studies wer goin well,we loved each other madly,frnds,just everthying happiess that one can think off..but its seems lik suddnly my world came crashing down...now it feels so alone..i sit alone in my room n wonder i had too much n lost all...baba u knw na i never did so wrong to anyone thats happening to me...never commited such a sin that im geting such a big punishment..its just baba n few frnds lik u all that i have to rely on..otherwise..im just ALONE...whereever i go,watever i do,reminds me of him..just cant forget him..seems lik life is finished... did so much for him,loved him madly but he forgot all...though he tells me i havent forgoten thats y im stil with u but i knw wats the reality..i was with him in al the bad times but in my bad time he left me all alone... i stil rmbr wen i got to knw he had some1 else in life i was crying lik hell n i said wil u leave her??...he said "no not now now it wil take sometime..she has lots of probs in life n only hapiness in her life is that im with her"...did he fforgot what was the only happiness in my life??wasnt it him??...but now i just cant do anything wenevr he is angry he tels me look here she is beter than u..she is better than u in every aspect..i feel lik dying...it good if he has found some1 bettr than me...may he live happy always n may god bless him..but i still love hm n wil always do... baba plz help...plz baba ... jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: bhavna on May 07, 2009, 07:05:16 AM
hey akansha don remember the past sweets jus keep up faith tdy is thursday and no miracle happened for me jus lots of shocking and bad news for me i dont think i am going to talk to dis guy...he behaved so cold with me tdy and his prob is he thikns i cant leave him so i wont talk to him a for a few days or maybe forever sai aap kuch nahi kar rahe hamare liye aap sirf test karte ho or end mein humein fail karte ho om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on May 07, 2009, 09:26:12 AM
Akansha,
How r u? Dont worry..u will go into a different atmosphere soon and love it so much!!right now live for urself...dont take Crap from anyone...its ur life...if he wants to be a part of it...he has to come on his knees..let him know that...i know its harsh but its for ur own good...take cre of urself ..
Bhavna, Its ok..its just one thursday..My thursdays are usually normal...lol what with work and being a workday..my miracles r based more on saturdays..lol...dont worry too much..it will be fine..,maybe he is in a bad mood abt soemthing..he will be fine tomorrow..just let it go...
Love u guys and will always pray for u...take care Om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on May 08, 2009, 01:40:37 AM
Akansha, PLEASE RESPECT WHAT YOU FEEL FOR HIM. PLEASE RESPECT YOURSELF AND YOUR LOVE FOR HIM.
Do not fall at his feet. He is not God. If you did so much for God, GOD WOULD HAVE APPEARED IN FRONT OF YOUR EYES HIMSELF!
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on May 08, 2009, 09:58:57 AM
akansha,
kaisi ho? I went to temple thursday ko..was able to give arti to baba personally..i prayed for all of us...take care of urself... om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on May 10, 2009, 05:07:03 AM
jai sai ram hi aquafish..i dont knw im fine or not..today he called me up n was sounding very upset i asked him wat happned??he said that gal is goin to some other city...n thats coz he is not leaving me..she cant take it anymore..he was crying badly..n i was trying to console him plz dont cry she wont go belive me..she wil not leave u alone here..cant tell u how it felt that my guy is crying before me for some other gal n im consoling him n tell him not to worry she wil not go away...im in gr8 pain baba..plz take this pain away..n plz help him too..take away his sorrows n plz help him in his carrier too..baba plz help. maybe baba has helped me by takin that gal away from him but i wanted him to come back to m eon his own not lik this..i asked him do u love her...he said cant say..i got my answer..i knw he realy loves her..im not able to see all this..baba aap dekh rahe ho na??plz help baba.. how are u aquafish??how are things ur side..i hope al is fine n his parents agree soon.. baba plz help aqufish get married to her bf soon.. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on May 10, 2009, 05:21:53 AM
jai sai ram baba plz make me heartless,feelingless,emotionless...plz take away this pain..more i feel the more it pains..plz baba.. baba aap to jnate hain na mene kitna pyar kiya us se..kaha kami chori..he forgot all..left me all alone.. baba i need u jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 10, 2009, 07:54:50 AM
akansha, agar sai ye sab nikaal de to aap robot ban jayengi. kya sach much aap yeh chahti hain? aaj aapke dil mein yeh lagta hain lekin aapka dukh door hokar jab aap itminaan se sochengi to aapko apne aap sab batein samajh mein aajayengi. sochiye zara , agar shaadi ke baat yeh hota to ? . ek koi aapke feelings se khel raha hai to it is not the end of the world. pick up yourself, dust yourself and start a new life. god bless. om sairam, jai sairam, jai jai sairam.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: bhavna on May 10, 2009, 10:08:04 AM
sai ram akansha i am not in avery good position to say anything but all i can sai is lets jus keep holdin on to sais feet...kets jus beg n cry to sai to solve our problems and fullfil our wishes ab sab sai ke hath mein hi hai om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on May 10, 2009, 09:43:20 PM
akansha,
cudnt message as my net was down....I am sorry to hear what happened...Please be strong and take care...a big hug for u!!! I am doing ok,same thing nothing changed and i think it wont...I am just living....I dnt want to do anything...I stopped saying my prayers, i dnt know if i want to anymore....I think baba hates me...I dnt know what ....
U take care of urself..I will message when i feel better,..just having a low day!!
Om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on May 11, 2009, 12:48:16 AM
:-) Aquafish... Akansha, please calm down. Its a phase we're all going through. This too shall pass. Please be strong.
Lets not do anything for sometime. Lets just be and go with the flow. Look, we tried right... we went against the flow for such a long time. Nothing happend. Lets try going with the flow... one day at a time, one moment at a time. :-) Dont think its all so easy for me to say.... I'm a million times more scared and worried than what am sounding to be out here. In the same boat as you guys. Its just that I've realized, as humans... theres only so much we can do. The rest has to be left to God. The more we try to push it, the more we're hurting ourselves with false expectations. So just trying my best to live in the moment...one day at a time, one moment at a time. Thats the best I can do for myself and the best I can share with you guys.
We did all that we could right? Ab bas na..? I mean... we know right, we cant do more than this? Thats why we're all here having God as our last hope. We know right... God is the only hope? Then lets just be and let Him control what we cant control. Let Him decide. Let Him help us pass thru this.
Lets not resist Him. And do the best we can to better ourselves. Personal experience... when I do something good, I feel good...my day is good and it gives me strength to just be... for that one extra day.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on May 11, 2009, 08:42:43 AM
Hey Wellwisher..
thanks...eah i feel better today...lol...Went to the gym...am on fruits today...Just want to cleanse the system..ate lot of junk over the weekend..lol.. yeah what u said is true, its all we can do...
take care
Om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on May 11, 2009, 11:15:50 PM
Hey goo fun ya... me doing good with yoga. Was feeling a lil low n depressed in the morning. But now m fine. :)
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on May 12, 2009, 07:49:48 AM
jai sai ram hi auafish things are same my saide..wat abt u?? thanx lot well wisher u actually mean ur name..thanx to all who go thru all this n leave so nice msgs..im feelin lik cyring since morning but not able to cry..tears dont come..but im better now.. aquafish i realy thank u for caring so much ..u are a sweetheart..may god bless u..wellwisher i realy respect u for ur thots..may god bless all here u are in paing given by love. baba plz help all.. aquafish let me knw wats up ur side.. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: bhavna on May 12, 2009, 08:50:32 AM
om sai ram akansha how have u been???? and wat are u doin dese days???? will start another chaliya either from wed or thursday....dis tym it will be for all of us...for us to be united with our love :) :) :) lets jus trust baba i am sure whatever will be the outcome we all will be happy in the end OM SAI SHRI SAI JAI JAI SAI
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on May 12, 2009, 09:00:53 AM
hey Akansha,
How r u? well dont think u want to cry or u cant cry...just think i dnt want to cry....tats it....well I am doing ok..been busy at work and evenings i am trying to keep myself busy...I cant fast at all, tats why i like sai baba...hehe..juss kidding..I love him no matter what...tats why I think I hate him too....I have to read his book again but I am very restless nowadays so I want to wait....
Take care guys...wellwisher dont be depressed...everytime I go to the gym and see the yoga class, it reminds me of u...I even tried to go for it but trust me I dozed off even before it started...lol....chalo have a nice time
Om sai ram!!!
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on May 13, 2009, 02:28:10 AM
He he... I know. Yoga can cause you to dose off. :) But thats the reason we all do it actually. We all wanna relax, destress and let the world go to hell for that one hour and just enjoy the bliss we find in the peace we get. Skipped my yoga class today. Was too sleepy and tired to even move a limb.
:) Akansha, my suggestion is a bit different. Don't know whether it would help. But... you can try. If you feel like crying, cry out loud. Tell yourself, today I'm going to let all the pain this guy and this relationship has given me flow out through my tears. If you dance or exercise, do it till you drop down tired and feel you cannot move a limb anymore. And just tell yourself, this relationship and this man doesnt control me. I do not give him / the relationship situation / daily happenings to control my emotions and drain me and my family out.
I TAKE COMMAND OF MY LIFE. TODAY WITH MY TEARS AND EVERY BIT OF THIS EXERCISE, I'M GOING TO FLUSH OUT EVERY BIT OF PAIN I HAVE RECEIVED... WITH EVERY DROP OF TEAR & SWEAT! I TAKE BACK EVERY RIGHT OVER MY LIFE, MY EMOTIONS AND MY HAPPINESS FROM THIS MAN. If God blesses me with happiness in this relationship, I welcome it gracefully with gratitude. But if things go otherwise, I AM FINE. I AM STRONG. I AM LOVED & WORTHY OF ABUNDANT LOVE. And this abundace of love is waiting to flow to me... through my friends, relatives, aquaintances, strangers...and every bit of life I come across. I welcome it with grace. I see Gods love for me in all his creations, including the sun shining bright at me to make my day brighter. I believe in HIM and in myself.
I am fine. All is perfect and thats how its going to be...cause GOD made a perfect me, blessed me with a perfect life... exactly the way He wanted it to be.
Guys, pl pl pl dont give me so much of respect. Am just someone like you... in the same boat. Just sharing what I learn and get from those who help me in disguise. We all learn from and teach each other at all times. I gain inspiration from all you beautiful people. Please be the same and lets praise God for all thats happening around.
Thurs-Fri-Sat-Sun, I may not have any access to the internet. :) So hoping to get some positive news or developments in at least one of our lives...
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on May 13, 2009, 04:54:29 AM
jai sai ram thanx bhavna im fine..just busy with xamz nowdays..wat abt u??things between u nad ur bf fine or not?? aquafish it feels nice to c ur keeping urslef busy..keep it up..im realy happy for u.. welwisher ur are such an angel..thanx a lot i think aap sare jo itne ache msgs bhejte hain baba ka hi roop hain.. i thank al of u n bhavna ,wellwisher,aquafish,gajanan ji,ganeshhariharan ji,rajiv ji..il pray for u all..may got bless u all. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on May 13, 2009, 05:16:29 AM
Bhavna, you ok? Hope alls fine.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on May 13, 2009, 05:19:12 AM
jai sai ram id like to share a nice experience i had today..it was a "chamatkar" that happend....i had my final xam today,i was alrdy late i had to start at 10 am n no entry after 10.30,n the place frm where i had strated off was atlest 35 mins away..so while on the way car punctured..one of my frnds got his car n by the time he got more time had passed..it was almost 10 wen we left..the route we take has looooots of red lights n jams n its impossibe to find clear road..xam had alreday started n we wer still 35 mins away..all i wer tensed...i closed my eyes n said baba sab apke hatho me hain ,now u have to see that we get no jams no red lights n bas aap hi time pe pohcha sakte ho..but stil i knew in heart its impossible to reach on time n i was dead sure that gates wil get closed by the time we'l reach..but i just chanted baba baba baba...n it was a miracle to see..all red lights getting green as soon we reached..jams getting cleared wen we reached there...came across numerous red lights but as we reached traffic moved on..jam cleared..i was very happy n knew baba was getting roads cleared..i just smiled n looked around while all my frnds wer surpised to see all this happening..we reached in 15 mins n my xam went well..i realy thank baba for helping me out wen i get into thse petty probs..he may get us into probs but he himslef gets us out of them.. baba plz always keep helping me all ur bhakts lik this.. i have many probs in life but im sure there must be some good behind all this..i trust u baba n i realy love u. thanx again baba.. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on May 13, 2009, 08:55:25 AM
Akansha,
thats good...I am glad ur exam went well...and Its a sign baba is with us every step we take....
what else is happening...yay exams over ...u can have fun....hehehe I miss those college days when after the final exam, we wud go watch a movie, any movie....but we had to go....
I am doing ok..I went to the gym and ran and ran..I need to do it for myself and lose weight!!!hahaha.... lets see how long that lasts... Keep faith and pray and baba will make us all happy.. om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: bhavna on May 13, 2009, 10:37:57 AM
om sai ram akansha its great news to hear abt ur exam it feels so good to read these chamatkarsof baba they are so inspiring how are things oderwise wid u???? u doin k???? om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on May 14, 2009, 09:22:14 AM
Hi akansha,
kais ho? i am doing ok...Hope u take care of urself..today is thursday...baba will bless u...om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on May 14, 2009, 09:36:51 AM
Aquafish, Bhavna... Baba will bless you too... I just started reading chapter 11 of the Sai Satcharitra as Ganeshji has asked a lot of us to do. I donno whether I can complete the Saptah. But at least this one chapter a day I can definitely read for 41 days. So beginning with just that. :-) Hope u guys are good.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on May 14, 2009, 09:46:58 AM
Wellwisher...how r u? Yeah gud for u...I just light a lamp made with rice powder and water on thursday...I am not reading anything for some time..
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on May 14, 2009, 10:12:03 AM
hmmm... for me even thats a lil difficult. My parents don believe in Baba. They dont believe in following any other religion apart from ours. :) And I'm different. I never used to, but i want to start reading the Sai Satcharitra. At least once I wish to do the Saptah. It feels really nice to light a diya na?
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on May 14, 2009, 10:13:51 AM
Yeah , I used to light one everyday but nowadays just thursdays...It feels peaceful and comforting
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on May 16, 2009, 04:16:28 AM
Aquafish, Bhavna, Akansha... how have you guys been? Hope everyones doing fine?
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on May 16, 2009, 04:17:45 AM
Aquafish, Bhavna, Akansha... how have you guys been? Hope everyones doing fine.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: rr_sai_bhakt on May 16, 2009, 05:50:46 AM
Well-wisher,
Absolutely no issues if you cannot light a diya in front of Baba's photo ... the best thing about Baba is that he doesnt really belong to any particular religion ... the signature line associated with Baba is "Sabka malik ek" .... He who lived in a mosque and whose favourite phrase was "Allah Malik" and yet gave a discourse on the Gita and knew Sanskrit cannot really belong to any religion right ...
So speaking for myself, here is what i do or used to do ... I used to go off and on to the Infant Jesus church near my place ... and light a candle there and pray in my mind saying - "Baba, when i am praying to Jesus... I am praying to you" ... to me that was equivalent to lighting a diya in front of Baba ... 'cos i even brought a candle from the church and placed it before Baba's photo and lit it ... i used to frequent a Gurudwara too and in the same vein I would pray "Guru Nanak ji, when ever i pray to Baba i am praying to you" ... i travelled to a few dargahs too and thats what i would pray there too ... Whenever i would visit the temple of other deities, i would pray the same thing ...
To me Baba embodies the universal Supreme Being ...
Infact, if you read the Sai Satcharita you will see instances where Baba has reinforced the faith that people had in their own gurus and deities by giving them visions of their deities .. or reminding them of their gurus through his omniscience ....
So Baba himself encouraged people to strongly follow what ever faith or guru they believed in ... the caveat being simple - sincere faith and devotion .....
So thats the coolest thing about Baba's path ... " do your own thing, just do it with full faith ... even if you just think of me with sincere devotion thats equivalent to praying to me and more than enough for me" ..
These are my personal views though ....
May Sai Bless you with all the happiness and love ....
Om Sai Ram ...
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 17, 2009, 12:27:20 PM
rr_ji, thank you. another gem of wisdom. om shri sainathaya namaha.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on May 17, 2009, 11:40:27 PM
Thank you, thank you, thank you RRji...
Feeling so much better! Even if I can do nothing I'm sure I can pray in my heart... whatever I feel like wherever I feel like. Even if I think of Baba or just talk to Him... talk to God... I'll consider that as my form of prayer... and that I can do all day whenever I wish to irrespective of circumstances. Thank you soooo much! :)
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on May 19, 2009, 06:02:50 AM
jai sai ram how are u all welwisher,bhavna ji,aquafish,gajanan ji,rajiv ji...i went to temple yesteray n paryed for u all may god bless u all. baba plz be with me always i love u baba plz help me get thru all my xamz my whole year is on stake im sure ul help me jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: SIMPLE KACHROO on May 19, 2009, 06:04:45 AM
AKANSHA
GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS. N REALLY HATS OFF T UR LOVE FOR THAT GUY.
BEC IF IT WUD HAVE BEEN ME I CANNOT TAKE IT.
SO SAI ERAM JI WILL SURELY HELP U...................
JAI SAI RAM
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on May 19, 2009, 06:20:14 AM
Akansha... that was really sweet of you. You're a wonderful person. And am sure Sai Baba will bless you and everyone out here with the best of the best in life!
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: bhavna on May 24, 2009, 10:42:23 AM
om sai ram akansha how have u been darl havnt heard from u in a very long tym busy wid examzzz???? u doin okay???? do get in tuch...waiting for u.. om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on May 24, 2009, 10:57:21 AM
jai sai ram hi everybody.hi well wisher n bhavana..im fine..just busy with xamz..wat abt u ?? how are u bhavn an well wisher??all fine ur side? n aquafish were are u??hiw are things ur end...i hope al is fine..it ought to be as baba is with al of us.. i love u baba plz be with me n all ur bhakts jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: bhavna on May 24, 2009, 11:32:26 AM
hi akansha i am glad u replied yes sweets alls well at my end.....i am jus keeping saburi and watever is hapenin in my life i am jus accepting it wid happiness u tell me how is everything wid ur bf???? any change in situtaion????? i have kept a chaliya for all of us by the end of it i hope we all will emerge stronger om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on May 25, 2009, 01:47:58 AM
:) Akansha, Bhavna... great to see you back! How are you doing now Bhavna... better? Hows ur health? Please take care...
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on May 27, 2009, 10:21:46 AM
Akansha
where r u? I was off this forum for a few days...just needed a break...Hope u r doing fine..hw did ur exams go...
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: adwaita on May 27, 2009, 04:12:58 PM
Baba bless Akansha always. om sai ram.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on May 28, 2009, 12:56:07 AM
OMG Aquafish... ure back...!!! :) :) :) Sooooooooooooooo happy to see you back! Just what I needed this Thursday... :) Hope alls fine... I'm like all smiles to see you back... How have you been? Wassup? Better?
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on May 28, 2009, 05:55:25 AM
jai sai ram thanx adwita..may baba bless u too..hey aquafish im fine..just dealing with xamz n all.things are stil not back to track anyways how about you??how u been doin??all fine better beteewn u nd ur bf?? hi well wisher how are u?doin fine? hv my last xam tom n its realy imp for m to get thru it plz pray for me.. il go to temple today n wil pray for all of us.. may baba bless u all jai sai ram jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on May 28, 2009, 05:59:58 AM
jai sai ram baba help me plz plz get me thru thse bad times..its only u who can help me out plz baba im stil hanging on to u n wil always do til my miseries are over n even aftre that.. plz plz baba come soon i can feel u near me baba plz help me out i totaly rely on u baba nd i love u jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on May 28, 2009, 09:23:12 AM
akansha,
Gud luck for ur exam..Hope u prepared well and leave rest to baba...Well Dont worry Hon, things will be better soon..have saburi...I am doing fine ..same stuff diff day...tats all..nothing changes,,,its either my mom or my bf...I am the one in the middle of it...lol...well i love him so i have to face the music... anyways I will pray for u too..aaj thursday hai...
Om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 28, 2009, 10:15:26 AM
dear aqua, kiddo has left for mauritious today. but she wrote to me , to request you to keep your spirits up till she returns. god bless. om shri sainathaya namaha.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on May 28, 2009, 10:18:01 AM
thanks ganesh ji....i saw wellwisher's message just now..missed it here as it was before akansha's response...Yeah hope she is rejuvenated after her trip...thanks for the concern guys.. Om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: bhavna on May 28, 2009, 11:40:13 AM
om sai ram akansha we all pray for u everyday jus dont worry keep saburi and have 100% faith in sai and i am so happy that aqua is bak and jus dont worry darlin we all are in it together i am sure sai will bless all of us soon om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: GaneshHariharan on May 28, 2009, 11:47:23 AM
dear akansha, please keep at your prayers and have undeterred faith in sai and bless you with happiness he will. om shri sainathaya namaha.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on June 01, 2009, 09:30:49 AM
Akansha,
Kais ho? how did ur exams go? ahvent seen ur messages for a long time..take care and everything will be fine...
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on June 03, 2009, 03:20:14 AM
jai sai ram hi aqua im fine..wat abt u??wats up ur side?? how are u wellwisher n bhavna??i pray for all of u wen i go to temple i hope baba wil help us out soon. well,things are no bettr my side all is the same but ive got used to it so i no longer crib n cry but at times wen im alone the very thot of him with another gal breaks me down badly.. baba im just waiting for u to show me the right path n i knw watever is happening has some hidden good for me. i love u baba n thanku for being with me in al the bad times baba plz help aqua.welwisher,bhavna,ganeshhariharan,gajanan ji,rinki sai rajiv ji all ur bhakta who are in pain. we love u baba :) jai sai ram.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on June 03, 2009, 03:40:32 AM
Akansha... ure such a beautiful person that am sure Gods done this cause He wants to bless you with the very best. My deepest wishes from the bottom of my heart that either he comes back to you a changed man... who values you, loves you... for whom ure his world or you get someone who is a million times better than him... someone who truely makes you feel loved every single moment of the next 40-50 years of your life.
God bless you with the best. Am back from Mauritius. It was nice. Peaceful. This Thursday am also going to pray for all those who need their loved ones back. I missed him a lot out there. But its ok. Am fine now. I hope he's happy wherever he is. :) God bless you...
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on June 03, 2009, 09:41:28 AM
Akansha,
thanks for ur wishes for everyone..U r such a selfless person..I am sure baba will tke care of u..DOnt owrry...always remember we r here fr u...always!Bless u..
Well there is a little development on my side and some negative too...His parents r willing to talk to my parents and maybe (hopefully) they may have us married in dec this yr...But again, he is not ready for this 100% and said he needs 6 months to get back to me..he wants to go away and come back to me with ful faith and everything to be with me ...I dnt know, i dnt understand it but whatever baba has in store I will face it..its not like u said he wont be with me but, he needs some time off..Hope he is missing me the way I am missing him..Anyways..tats what is happening..So I am having " me time" for 6months...lol...
U take care hon!! Be good to urself..if u need to vent , u know we r here..baba please bless akansha...Om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on June 03, 2009, 04:42:05 PM
:) Aqua, really happy to know developments at your end. Was worried for you. Now alls fine. Thank you Baba. See, my Thursday started with this good news. I hope the rest of the day is also fine Baba. My brothers CA entrance exams today and I have tons of work to complete. Just be with me, my family and my family at Dwarkamai Baba... just for now, this moment, this day, this week, this month... and ever after...
Om Sai Ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on June 03, 2009, 05:01:06 PM
Hey well wisher...gud luck to ur brother for his exams...and dont work too hard urself..take care..baba is there always...bless u
Om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on June 03, 2009, 05:12:08 PM
he he... back after a 5day break... sort of smashed wid work. Actually something jus came up all of a sudden last evening. Is it Thursday now? Can I start my naam jaap for Thursday or should I wait for it to be 6am here?
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on June 03, 2009, 09:13:04 PM
wow u r up early..it must be 5am..well i will do it US time in the evening..so wud be friday morning in India..but I cant do it earlier...
Om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on June 04, 2009, 12:29:14 AM
:)
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on June 04, 2009, 09:33:23 AM
akansha,
kaisi ho? aajkal zyaada online nahi hothi..missing u sweets...do post in Bhavna's message...u will be fine dear..I know so.baba will never do anything bad for us...
Om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on June 05, 2009, 01:40:27 AM
Akansha??? All ok??? Where have you been? How were your exams?
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on June 05, 2009, 08:14:15 AM
jai sai ram hi aquafish nd wellwisher,thankyou so much for paying so much heed to me n my probs..may baba realy bless u both n all other bhakts who are in pain.. things are not getting any better or worse sometimes i just dont feel anything or just feel lik crying my heart out,im tired now,n i cant tel wat i feel wen he discusses another gal with me,tels me abt her,few days back he told me that she wil be moving to another city,but today got to knw he plan got cancelled..felt happy for him but then its was the only way the wud had got away frm her..dont knw y is he punishing me this way,what bad did i do to him..all he tells me is that u never did anything for me but belive me i talked abt him to my dad wen i was 18 n now im just 20 n he thinks im at fault that i wasnt able to get my parents agree for marrige..so here im getting punished for it.. he tells me..WHAT GOES AROUND COMES BACK AROUND..but hey..wat bad did i do to him.even if i did mistakes wer they a reason for giving me ths pain..is this love??what kindoff love is dis..or wat kinda excuse is this to hide or cover the wrong he did..how can he tell me u deserved even worse than this.. well i knw baba is lookin at all that is happening. baba plz help him out with his career n plz get him out of this bad phase of his life as he is depressed too.plz bless him baba.
aquafish im realy happy see improvements in ur case n im sure all wil be fine soon..il definately pray for u n pleez keep all of us updated of any new improvemnts. wellwisher how are u??hows life treating u?? u both are realy realy so sweet if i dont come online for few days it feels so god to see that u both are here waiting to knw how am i n how are things with me..i dont knw u guys personally but i see baba in u n i knw in form of u ppl he keeps a note of me..love u both n by heart i wish u get all the happiness in life. baba plz help i love u baba jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on June 05, 2009, 08:25:27 AM
Akansha,
Can I say one thing, As i care for u..enough is enough sweety...please take care of urself..can u stop talking to him fr some days..coz he is venting to u and playing the blame game...what if u didnt do anything for him, u loved him..what did he do for u? he left u for another gal and u r here still praying for and loving him...please sweets stop it for a few days..dont let him emotionally blackmail him..u r 20, and u were brave to face ur father at 18..please dont do this to urself...
For some days, dont talk to him, if he calls u tell him, unless u leave here, dont talk to me..gimme time...see if he does that..u cant be with someone who is playing u and using u as a scratch post...Please please this is not healthy..I know u may get angry at or offended but i will still say it..stop letting him play u...please akansha...leave it for a few days, tats all i can say...
Om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on June 06, 2009, 01:29:57 AM
jai sai ram aquafish i knw all that u are saying is the only way out..but if i behave that way he says ok dont show ur attitude n dont talk to me knw n never do..he hits me emotionally as he knws im emotionaly weak..but yes il try doin that u said wont call him or behave that norrmal im sure it wil hit him.thanku aquafish for caring so much.love u. TODAY 6 JUNE..WE COMPLETED 5 YEARS..THS DAY 5YEARS BACK WE TALKED FOR THE FIRST TIME... i stil wish him to be with me life long..cant stop loving him,i wish i cud.. baba plz help me..im broken now tears dont come..baba plz aajao im here waiting for u ..baba u knw na how bad is he doin is it still not high time?? take cre aquafish n letme knw wats ur ur side? wellwisher n bhavna how are u guys??all's fine?? plz keep me updated may god bless u all thanx a lot all of u.. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on June 06, 2009, 12:25:24 PM
Akansha,
Love u too buddy!! u know what if he says , dont talk to em and stuff...tell him gud thats what i am doing..and dont talk...then if he really cares, he will come back w/o that extra baggage of that gal..I wont say leave him forver..but sometimes u cant let him take u for granted....u cant and tats the truth...so just let him go for sometime..and if he really really wants u in his life, he will come alone..ok..get tat? I know how it is...
Just give it some time off....just stay strong..and u beleive so much in Baba so dont fear to let go...he will be back if he was urs in the 1st place..dont cling to a little part of him as u will end up hurt...so let all go and see if he comes back all the way and the complete person...u cant let him suck ur energy....
Love u AKansha and I want this to work for u, thats why all the above....take care
Om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on June 08, 2009, 01:13:31 PM
Akansha... 2 things
If u allow him to enjoy the love n attention of 2 women at a time, he'll never come back. He doesn't need to. Cause he isn't away from u anyway. he isn't missing a thing in life. He knows one cry of his and here you are ready to fall at his feet... think of urself in his position Akansha.. would this situation cause love? Pity - yes, for the kind hearted. But never love.
My question is - what is it tht u crave for - him or his love? If its his love... ure definitely not getting it buddy by continuing this way. Draw the line. If he cannot respect you... he will never love you. Stop being and object of his pity and ego kicks! Please... for your sake. Sad and bitter but true it is. And the sooner you realize the faster you will recover and maybe even have him back begging for your true love after learning to value it. If you continue this way... I hate to say this... but even if u get married to the man you wont be happy. Remember Aku... we need love... not familiar faces to live with. Harsh as it may sound, please think. For your own sake, pls think.
Second - If after disconnecting from him completely also he doesnt value you a bit... maybe Sai Baba has done this to you cause he's not worth you. So trust Him. He'll do good for you. We all wish you get pure, genuine love Aku... true love for all of ur life and more. Ure worth true love Aku. Do not under-estimate ur worth. Love him. But every time its nt necessary that every form of love culminates into marriage. But do not let one disrespect ur love either. Not evn the guy u love. Thats the least you could do in the name of love. Let him have all his share of peace n happiness. I know its really tough... bt we're all with you in your new journey. Me particularly.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on June 08, 2009, 02:01:48 PM
well put wellwisher...yeah i wanted to say that too:)...just cudnt put it in a right way..akansha..just do this and see if its really for u..
Om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: PreetiSai1 on June 08, 2009, 05:10:55 PM
Hi Akansha,
Baba made me read this post today. I am new to this forum. I will pray for you. Please dont lose hope. I know to stay away from him and not to expect anything is the most dificult thing to do. I am going tru the same situation. But if you talk to him more and keep arguing with him more not only will he not realize but all the good memories you have will get erased. I know you care for him a lot. Baba knows too. He knows too. so stop showing your feelings to him like you do. keep them in your heart. meet him and dont react the way he want you to reaact. see if this helps. I will pray for you. you are so young to be in so much pain. you have this whole beautiful life before you. Please have faith and try this. Do not react the way he expects you to. I hope this helpps you. Om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Parul.aradhana on June 08, 2009, 05:18:45 PM
Om Sai Nath Dear I would like to remind you that don't give up your self respect for such person. I agree that you love him a lot but I don't feel the same for your partner. Why are you wasting your life for him. Stop telling yourself that you are emotionally week. Get up and face the situation. Your life is precious. So what you spent 5 important years in such relationship. Stop running behind a person who does not care about you and your feelings. That simply indicates that he even does not love you. I know after 5 years it would be very hard to for you to accept the truth, but believe me once you come out of this relationship you will feel more relaxed. May be even by the grace of Baba you came to know his reality. Jo Pyaar karte hain wo dukh nahi dete is treh. Me and my husband got married after 9 years. We faced a number of problems and a number of time we argued with each other but we never threaten each other like this. you won't believe but ek time aisa bhi aaya jab hum 3 saal tak ek doosre se nahi mile sirf emails se contact raha...coz our parents were so furious about our relationship. I met with a number of boys during that period and so my husband with so many girls but we remained loyal for other. If today he involved in relationship with some other girl than are you sure he won't do it again in future life. May Baba show you the right path. Om Sai Nath
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: chweetujaanu on June 09, 2009, 04:20:27 AM
akansha baba will surely help you out even i am facing through the same problem my bf loves me alot cares me alot suddenly he stopped talking to me and he says he doesnt love me and he lost interest i lost interest on my life he has changed his behaviour in just 2days i dnt even know the reason y he isnt talking to me its 2 almost 2months now but i have only hope that is baba he will surely bring back my love you plz keep faith in baba your love will come back to you keep reading sai charitra daily that will increase your faith on baba....
takecare of yourself...
we all will pray for you..... you too pray for me so that my love will come back to me i feel he's facing some problem with his parents hope he understands my pain...
Om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on June 09, 2009, 05:28:59 AM
jai sai ram thanx a loooooooott..aquafish,welwisher,preetisai,parul aradhana,chweetujau..il realy think abt all that u guys said..thats realy so sweet of u to care sooo much..love u all
aquafish n wellwisher wats up ur side??how are things in ur life? chweetu janu n preetisai..dont worry all wil be fine i hope..keep praying to baba thats all that can be done.. baba plz help them all love u aquafish n wellwisher wil pray for all of u yesterday my bf called me to tell me that some frnd of his had goen to shirdi n gave him prasaad..so he kept for me as he knws i belive a lot in baba..il go to take it today..feelin so happy to have it frm him..maybe baba is giving a signal that all wil be well soon..
6th june i went to meet him..it was our anniversary..we completed 5 years..i made a card..wrote everything i feel for him..al things he must rmbr..all cute memories..n in the end i wrote that i dont want u by hook or crook thats not love to have ur love either ways all i want is u to be happy no matter where evr u are.. he cried a lot after reading it..said plz dont go faar frm me..i knw u goin far..plz dnt leave i need u..dont worry that gal wil leave me soon.. y does he have to wait for that gal to leave him??if im so imp 4 him..am i not a reason enuf to leave her..?? he tells me wat kinda love do u do u cant sacrifice n be happy watever way things are..dont knw wat to tel him..when wil he understand my pain..baba help me plz..i love u baba
jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on June 09, 2009, 08:04:52 AM
Akansha,
I am glad u a had time but seriously what the heck is she will leave me...what is he waiting for? dont let him fool u by his crocodile tears...tell him clearly tat even though he loves u, this kind of love cannot be shared...its another gal ...seriously u have to let go for some time..u urself know the answers...ask him the questions, u asked us...or wrote here....if he is still waiting for her to dump him, then u shud dump him now and tell him to come back to u when he can let her go...not when she leaves him and he wil use u as hi emotional sponge...NOWAY!! ENoughj seriously...
take care
Om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: bhavna on June 09, 2009, 08:07:30 AM
om sai ram akansha be strong baby more the hardships better are the results...dont worry..we all are dre for u praying for u baba will bless u real soon om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: chweetujaanu on June 09, 2009, 09:08:16 AM
akansha,
if you dont mind i will tell you something...when he loves you so much y did he have a relation with another gal can you trust him later on in your life...? he says he loves you he must be saying the same to the other gal i am sorry if i have spoken anything wrong but this is not the correct thing rite? takecare of yourself if hez done that in some bad condition in which therez no wrong of his then surely baba will give back your love to you making him very ver very chweeettttttt towards you..
takecare of yourself keep faith in baba om sai ram baba please listen to her prayer...
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Parul.aradhana on June 09, 2009, 10:22:04 AM
Om Sai Nath. Hey don't worry he is only confused and he will surely coming back to you...keep praying to Baba...I liked the way you celebrated your anniversary and made him realized what wrong he is doing...and may be he is feeling guilt about having a relationship with some other girl and don't want to hurt her emotions by breaking up suddenly...Baba is helping you...so Keep patience for some more time... May Baba keep both of you always with your love. Om Sai Nath
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: chweetujaanu on June 09, 2009, 11:39:46 PM
baba will bring his love back to you... om sai ram
baba plzz bless akansha vith her love
om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on June 10, 2009, 07:04:15 AM
Akansha... am glad you did what you did. Why don't you sit and talk to him and tell him.
"I love you and will continue to love you from wherever I am. But also cannot let there be disrespect to my love by hanging onto someone who loves someone else enough not to be able to choose between her and me. Eventually you will have to separate from one of us. If its so difficult for you to choose, let me make it easy for you. Lets stay apart. The day you choose to spend your entire life with me and all is sorted with that girl and if its not too late, I will welcome you into my life. However, I don't think its right for us to be together when you need someone else. Also, its not fair to the other girl either. So, let me make the choice easy for you"
Just tell him that and see what he has to say. Basically, its high time you need to ask him to make a clear choice. He cannot have 2 women in his life! Trust me if he has to come back to you... no matter what he will... If he doesnt, today or tomorrow he will leave you when the time comes to make a final decision.
My point is - why do u have to prolong that period by letting him enjoy the love and attention of 2 women for all the time he wants and cause both pain in the process? It only means more memories, more pain. U may think its very easy for me to say all this. Trust me its not. Its something I realize today I should have done long back in my life... DRAWING THE LINE!
My post may sound very harsh buddy... but think about it. And pray with complete faith. Faith, not that he will come back. Faith that He will bless you with the one who loves you the most. Not a confused soul - TRUE LOVE.
TRUE LOVE thats rare to find and takes time to find too. Have that faith Aku... I have faith He'll bless you, Aqua, Bhavna, HSR, Chweetu... and everyone longing for their love to come back including me... with loads of true love and more.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on June 10, 2009, 07:29:31 AM
jai sai ram thanx aquafish,wellwisher,chweetujanu,parularadhna,bhawna..love u all.. wellwisher dont knw who u are but im sure ur another roop of baba.. aquafish love u loads..wats up ur side..how are u??keep praying im sure soon ul get married to him.. chweetujanu n parularadhana may baba bless u both.. bhawna how are u??all is fine??
all that u guys said was very true..i do tell him that if ur realy confused between both of us il make it easier n il let u have her..or if ur seeing who is better who loves more who does wat..if somekinda competion is goin over here il get back again.. he says cant u sacrifice for me??y being so selfish??learn to sacrifice for love..but nthing more than my life is left to sacrifice for him..wat more can i do??al he tels me is that he needs me..wen he cries before me.i forget all..baba plz help..plz help us both. wil pray for u all out there craving for ur love..love u all...love u baba.
jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on June 10, 2009, 07:41:49 AM
What is the definition of sacrifice ? He wants you to leave him? Or does sacrifice means allowing someone two use two people at a time and have a gala time.
Sorry to put it across so harshly but I guess your man has got his concepts all wrong!
Sacrifice is about leting go. Not ruining 3 lives. Am sorry to ask but whats the sacrifice he's made in all of this? Ask yourself... do you want to be with a man who claims to love 2 people at a time and doesnt even remotely understand the concept of love, loyalty, commitment, honesty or sacrifice?
Open your eyes Akansha! What are you doing to yourself... ur life and the lives of others around you?
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on June 10, 2009, 07:49:54 AM
Akansha... today I just pray for you to be able to see whats happening in your life. Please do not let the man insult the word love itself. It really hurts to see you go through this...especially cause I understand exactly where you're coming from. Believe me, I may sound really harsh at this time but this is one of the types who'd really not care.
I'd never had done this to anyone otherwise. But trust me I really care. And hence having to tell this to you in that many number of words.
The man is looking for a convinient option in life - not love. Ure not a book in a book shop that he can flip through a few pages as long as he wants, check out other books at the same time too, get tempted to buy two and crack a good deal out of negotiation!
Sorry Aku... really didnt wanna be harsh. But ure just not opening ur eyes and seeing. I feel like coming there and shaking you up right now. Don't do this to yourself buddy. If only you manage to pull through this pain, trust me we're all praying and at this very forum you'll come back with the good news that you've found someone who is truely loving and caring and knows what real, genuine love is!
U DESERVE BETTER. N PLEASE DO LET HIM KNOW THAT!
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on June 10, 2009, 09:38:54 AM
Akansha,
Love u too babes..as wellwisher said u have to wake up and see...how can he want u to sacrifice when he is not...this is not reality anymore..what he is doing is ridiculous...Trust me u dnt wnat to be the 3rd wheel..if he cared , loved he wudnt be with her ...as for crying..i dnt believe it..I have a very weak opinion on men who cry..Men dont cry taht often!!its a known fact...i am sorry to say but he uis playing u up and its time u tuk a stand...he cries and u melt, but when u cry who is there for u...dont mess up ur life..
Been telling u a million times kiddo..u r only 20...u dnt need this kind of stuff in ur life...sometimes u have to take a decision and not leave everything on baba...believe me tats true...please let it all go...for some time...live ur life..tll him not to talk to u or meet u till he leaves her or leave u forever...please do this..if he cries tell him i dnt trust u as u cry...its a big drama and u dnt need drama in ur life.....
DO u think u can be with him even aftre all this..think abt it Hon!! and take care
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Parul.aradhana on June 10, 2009, 10:33:06 AM
Om Sai Nath Think rationally all I can say because these matters are very sensitive and sometimes we cannot understand what is right or wrong...May baba show you the right path. Om Sai Nath
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: chweetujaanu on June 10, 2009, 10:47:17 AM
akansha hope baba shows us the way to get our love back who ever is longing for their love here.... we all will pray together for all of us.. baba will surely listen to us
om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on June 11, 2009, 12:47:12 AM
I hope he comes back realizing the worth of your love...
Om Sai Ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on June 11, 2009, 07:38:27 AM
Akansha, how are u? I hope you are fine. I did not by any means intend to hurt you. Its just that we all hope you get the very best in life.
TRUE LOVE IS WHAT WE WISH FOR YOU. & TRUE LOVE YOU WILL GET.
Just be strong. Its a phase. You have to, have to come out of this strong...whatever the outcome may be. With or without him you are going to have a great life! With or without him you are strong & wise. With or without him you freely give and recieve love.
With or without thim YOU'RE ALWAYS WRAPPED IN LOVE... TRUE LOVE... ABUNDANT LOVE THAT THE UNIVERSE HAS TO OFFER YOU...
And all of this abundant love is going to keep flowing into your life through various mediums. All you need to do is open your arms and lovingly accept it. Its a never-ending supply of love thats going to bring you loads and loads and loads of happiness and peace...
Open your arms and accept the love thats flowing into your life Akansha... leave the rest to Sai... and when you start this process of giving and recieving love... you never know... might just flow back to you exactly the way you wanted it to. But for now... just 'BE'.
God Bless you... Love & Light, Om Sai Ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on June 11, 2009, 09:53:32 AM
Akansha,
how r u doing? take care sweets
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on June 12, 2009, 05:02:01 AM
Akansha, I hope you're fine. Didn't mean to hurt you in anyway. My humble and sincere appologies if any of my words did. Am really sorry. Please do not disconnect. Please stay in touch and stay strong...
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on June 13, 2009, 12:54:29 AM
jai sai ram i thank you all for such warm words..aqua im fine..things are still the same,wat abt u??do tel me for sure wats up ur side? wellwisher thankuuuuuuuuuu soooooooooo much for wishing the best for me,plz dont say sorry plz plz plz dont..just write n tel me watever u wish to hardly matters its sweet or rude coz i knw the purpose behind it is just as good as can be..wellwisher n aquafish realy love u both n plz keep advising me..i feel realy better reading ur posts..so wellwisher plz never say sorry again nd if u want u can even just scold me or throw ur anger anytime n always.. thanx cheeweetujanu,parul aradhna,bhawna..may god bless u. how are u bhawna??hows all in ur life?? may god bless u all..
jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: chweetujaanu on June 13, 2009, 04:06:31 AM
how are you akansha? hope baba clears all our problems as soon as possible.. takecare of yourself..
omsairam
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Parul.aradhana on June 13, 2009, 09:07:34 PM
Om Sai Nath May Baba bless you with all the happiness..don't worry keep praying to Baba... Om Sai Nath
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on June 15, 2009, 02:07:36 AM
:) Thanks Akansha for not misunderstanding. God bless you with all the happiness, love, light, peace and success on earth... Keep praying, do your share of good deeds and leave the rest to God with the faith and confidence that whatever happens next will be for the best! Please love and accept yourself. You're a wonderful person. Pls tell yourself whenever you feel low...
"Even though I have this fear of loosing him completely, I choose to deeply and completely love and accept myself" "Even though I have this fear of being lonely without him, I choose to deeply and completely love and accept myself" "Even though I have this pain of him decieving and hurting me, I choose to deeply and completely love and accept myself" "Even know I fear what my life would be without him, I choose to deeply and completely love and accept myself" "Even though I feel horrible about him not treating me right, I choose to deeply and completely love and accept myself" "I am the best... and the best I will always be... cause I can feel the love and acceptance of the God within me"
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Post by: akansha on June 15, 2009, 09:59:01 AM
jai sai ram thanx a lot parul aradhan,chweetujanu,may god bless u both.. wellwisher each and every word u write here means a lot to me..u realy make my day..may god bless u with al the happines n love in this world..wat up ur side wellwisher..do let me knw.. how are u bhavna n aqua??hows all?? take care all of u..may baba bless u all jai sai ram
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Post by: aquafish on June 15, 2009, 10:03:51 AM
Hey Akansha,
kaisi ho? well same stry at my end..ghar office...bas aur kya...and praying that my days go faster...u take care
Om sai ram
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Post by: chweetujaanu on June 15, 2009, 10:23:28 PM
how r u akansha? howz life gng on? any reply from his side?
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Post by: Well-wisher on June 16, 2009, 12:44:32 AM
Thank you Akansha. I must say these are not my words, but what I learnt from my Reiki master. Am just doing the job of a postman, sharing all the information I recieve from everywhere... wherever I can. :) So, thank you Aarti aunty, all the articles, etc.
All good here. Office & Home for now. :) Planning to read a couple of books for now. Not really happening. The list just keeps increasing and am not specifically the types who loves to read. But theres a lot I need to do. Actually just taking some sort of a break for now...chilling... Yoga too has stopped. :( Not good to be so lazy... but I guess, I'm gonna chill for some time and start my yoga and japa again. Right now the thought of the piles and piles and piles of books and stuff on my pending list is making me wonder how am going to do it.
Akansha, let me share with you something. Its not that I do not miss him. Its not that it does not hurt. But thankfully with the help of my Reiki master and guide I'm trying to make a new start... a new start in the sense - learning new stuff, getting to know myself, trying to talk to myself... and believe me, at times talking to oneself HONESTLY becomes sooo difficult... getting to know oneself is a long journey...at least seems so in the beginning. I haven't started yet, but am preparing myself for it.
Akansha, Aqua... Bhavna... Rajiv... jus want to share a thought. I wouldn't know how to explain. Its kind of... am not getting the right words.
Its sometimes really necessary for one to have personal goals in life. Passion... passion is really necessary. Its my personal experience that... a lot of times when one gets into a relationship, one puts all else behind. Passions, life goals... they all take a back seat. Everyone needs some passion to live for. Relationships are there to support us achieve our life goals and help us gain pleasure or learn from our passion. But its mainly the passion that keeps us alive. And everyone has one such thing in life he / she deep within can live for... which could be so important or precious to the person that the person can survive without all else and still be reasonably at peace knowing this one thing will always be there.
For some it could be the love of prayer, the love of God, the assurance that Gods there, helping others, sports, gardening, books, art, music, cooking, cleaning... could be anything. For me it was dance. One may not necessarily be very good at it. But the "feel good factor" and the extent one could go to for nuturing it (whatever the goal / passion may be) defines this passion.
Some may have it. Some may have to discover it. And some may be at a different phase of life where they'd need to discover a new one. Its ok... whatever stage we are at. But I guess... its my personal opinion... that this is now the stage at which we must, we should... rather we could discover, re-discover or give time to this passion to lift our spirits.
Akansha... I know its very difficult to even think of it...the stage you're at right now. But if possible... try it. All the best... God bless...
Love & Light... Om Sai Ram
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Post by: akansha on June 16, 2009, 01:27:21 AM
jaisairam hi chweetu..all is the same my side..wat abt u??any change in him?? wellwisher thanx a lot..i love the way u see urslef n life.. he is behiving nicely these days..loves me loooot i knw n is not ready to leave me feels so good..i foregt everything wen he behaves so nicely but wen im alone i again rmbr that its not just me..he loves some1 else too..it breaks me.dont knw i shud be happy that he is with me or shud think abt that other gal coz as far as our relationship is concerned he talks to me meets me..n we dont talk abt other gal..wat shud i do?? jai sai ram
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Post by: chweetujaanu on June 16, 2009, 01:33:56 AM
i am breaking day by day akansha no change in him. its only baba who can bring change in anyone. ia m waiting and will wait for him..
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Post by: Well-wisher on June 16, 2009, 04:06:07 AM
What does your heart say Akansha? Did u ask him to choose? Whats his response like?
Chweetu... Baba does what He thinks is best for us. One can never change another! One can only change ones own attitude towards life and situations to try and not let them break us down. Life is not instant coffee my friend. We cannot sit and think did he change today, tomorrow or ten days from now? One - give him time Two - after a considerable amount of time, do try speaking with him and telling him your part of the truth Three - You cannot change him. Change yourself first. Make yourself stronger my friend
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Post by: aquafish on June 16, 2009, 10:16:53 AM
Hey Akansha...Please take care...when u say he loves u, he shud love u only yaar..ye pyar doosre pyar se alag hai..sirf 2 log ke beech me hona chahiye..did u even talk to him abt it? this is not healthy ...temperory happiness ke liye tum apni poori zindagi barbaad kar rahi ho, tats my feeling..i know the feeling of clinging on just for a few moments of togetherness but trust me it only makes u feel worse later...please socho...
Chweetu dont worry...as well wisher said make urself stronger...and talk it out if he wants to...but again dont call him or message him continuously..tat only makes things worse whn it comes to men...just email him what u feel and ask him atleast the reason for all this...take care u ppl..
Om sai ram
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Post by: akansha on June 17, 2009, 01:09:47 AM
jai sai ram thank you all a lot.. wellwisher and aqua wen i caught him about 4 months back i did ask him..whom do u want in ur life ultimately n whom do u choose..he took my name chose me..but said if u realy love me truley just be my side n wait for me..n that if he lives her immedatly she wil do something she is emotionaly n physicaly sick..n he din wanted to let her go too... so i felt bad for that gal n was lik ok u take ur time il be here...but it seems he is not making nay effort to leave her..he loves us both n feels bad for her loves her..me too..but it hurts a lot.. i was ready to wait n am stil waiting for his n that gal's happiness sake for i thot i shud not be selfish as he told me..if that gals realy needs him its fine il wait..wat more cud i do..but all's just stuck..if i tel him im very sad or upset today he says do u think its only u in the world who got probs??he means to say that gal too has probs in life..once weni was crying he asked wat happend,i said just that gal n u..dukh to hota hia na..he said..she too has dukh in life..i felt baaaaaaddd..wen i told abt my pain he rmbrd her pain..he has realy been my side all these years n has loved me madly..al he tel me is if u realy feel i did something for u all those years..just do this for me..just be my side.. dont knw weather am doing the rite thing n in the right way..im just confused..am i wrong in waiting for him?? ??? ???
jai sai ram
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Post by: rajiv800 on June 17, 2009, 02:20:45 AM
akanksha ji om sai ram i just want to say one thing a person who himself is so confused, do u really think he can guide you in the right direction to be honest and if i see it from a guys point of view if i was in his place and i was doing this to you i would have had 2 things in my mind 1 is that i might be thinking that its better to have two in hand than none just in case things dont turn up well on one side second he says to you that she has probs and he cant say no to her may be he is saying and thinking the same thing about u that he can not say no to you and he might be saying this to the other girl too and akanksha ji please think about this today you are not married so you can back off later on in life if he again does this after marriage what will you do with the way it looks like i dont think he himself came upto u and told you about this second girl if he was just trying to help her come o ut of some problems he would have told you about it first and in that case it would have looked more practical you would have understood too that ok he is trying to help if i was in his position and i would have not told my gf that i am talking to another girl she first would have thought that my intentions were wrong but on the other hand had i told her that i am talking to this girl and trying to help her out she would have thought that i am trying to help her i dont know but if he tends to spend more time with her than you then i am sure he is just going towards her he might not be avoiding you either as he might have somewhere at the back of his mind that if i say that i dont want to be with you then you will be shattered and he might not want to see you in that situation either
all this that i have written is after i see it from a guys point of view please forgive me if you find anything bad or if i hurt u by any way or you can do this, that rather than talking to him talk to any of his friend in a way that he wouldnt even know or something akanksha ji by waiting for him you are not doing anything wrong but what he is doing to you is not justified either om sai ram
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Post by: Well-wisher on June 17, 2009, 03:38:59 AM
Akansha... the fact that you asked the question is the answer to it. I do not wish to be harsh to you. Ure like a lil sis to me. My only suggestion is... its ok to love... but if theres anything thats making you expect things from him... please DON'T. Being there for someone can be done as a team. That is both you and him can be there and take care of the girl both physically and emotionally. If this were the only intent, you'd have been taking care of her as a couple.
Either he's fooling you bigtime... or is genuinely confused between the two options. In either case its not love. Does your absence from his life impact him? Does the thought of loosing you permanently scare him to death? If you leave him, will he sacrifice his love for you and be there for that woman taking care of her out of sympathy? When you answer these questions you'll need no further answers or explaination.
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Post by: aquafish on June 17, 2009, 10:26:56 AM
Akansha,
sweets!! U have to make a choice yaar...i completely agree with rajiv and wellwisher..it may hurt and sound harsh but tats the truth!! whats this sharing ? I still dont get it...He cant do this to u...cud u do one thing...if he is confused, there is one thing u cud do to help him decide..tell him to back off for 2 months..tell him u will talk to him after 2 months and then ask him what he feels...if he wants u or her...if u love him and he loves u back, u guys will do this and decide ...this is my feeling..
take care and whatever happens we r here for u..
om sai ram
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Post by: chweetujaanu on June 17, 2009, 11:12:13 AM
akansha one thing is correct yar if he loves you truly he would ave told that al before and that hez wih you and can never leave you and would have come back to you with all the love and care and even you could have accepted him with trust... takecare i think and hope that he clears everything for you i can understand the pain when you feel him with other gal... doo clear it as early as possible... baba is with you dont worry....
omsairam
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Post by: ssubhapradha on June 17, 2009, 11:58:25 PM
hi akansha,
sai is always there with you.. may he wants you to know more truth abt ur guy before u enter into marriage.. at times sai gives a whole lot of bad expereiences which we really cant bear..but all these things happen just to make us strong... dont worry..leave everything to him. just tell him that u r not goin to worry abt anything and all is dependent on him. if that guy really deserves you. he will realize his mistake and come back to u.. what incase if he had done this after your marriage.. be thankful that u knew abt him b4...
i can feel your pain... everything will be alright akansha... u will be happy soon..
all of us are here for u... stay calm.
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Post by: Well-wisher on June 18, 2009, 06:57:41 AM
Ssubhapradhaji, welcome to Dwarkamai. Akansha... how are you? Ssubhapradhaji is right. This is not the time for hoping, expecting or getting frustrated Akansha. This is just the time of waiting and watching. Watching whether he loves you or not. If he does, may the two of you stay together for life with stronger bonds of love. If not, may God bless you with a man who showers you with so much of love that the word pain feels like its permanantly deleted from your life.
Whatever the result Akansha, all I want you to do is CHOOSE HAPPINESS OVER SORROW. BE BOLD AND MAKE THAT CHOICE AKANSHA. HAPPINESS OVER PAIN & DISRESPECT! JUST CHOOSE TO RESPECT YOURSELF AND YOUR LOVE FOR HIM. IF YOU START RESPECTING, INITIALLY HE MAY THROW A MILLION EMOTIONAL TANTRUMS, BUT EVENTUALLY WHETHER HE LOVES YOU OR NOT... WHETHER HE COMES BACK OR NOT... HE WILL LEARN RESPECT YOU!
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Post by: akansha on June 18, 2009, 09:52:46 AM
jai sai ram thanx Ssubhapradhaji,wellwisher.. il certainly think abt wat u said..thanx a lot..im feelin very good today i mean just happy.. i went to temple..today is thrusday..prayed for all of us..i feel so good that so many ppl are here with me.love u aqua n wellshire..thanx for callin me ur younger sis..may god bless u.. i love u baba..pzl alaways be with me.. jai sai ram
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Post by: aquafish on June 18, 2009, 10:07:07 AM
Akansha,
take care...I am glad u r at peace..just stay the same sweet girl u r...baba will definitely work everything out...
Om sai ram
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Post by: Well-wisher on June 19, 2009, 12:37:14 AM
:) Very happy for you Akansha... What are your hobbies?
Om Sai Ram
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Post by: akansha on June 19, 2009, 02:55:09 AM
jai sai ram
thanx aqua how are u??how are things ur side.. wellwisher im free nowdays no work to do n stay home..its hot outside soo..get bored all the time just pass my time chatting n listening to music..like reading books,coking too... wat abt u wellwisher n aqua??where are u both frm??
jai sai ram
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Post by: Well-wisher on June 19, 2009, 03:15:16 AM
Am from Bombay. :) Currently you can consider 'learning Reiki, yoga, meditation,' etc as my priority, dance used to be my passion, listenin to music and watching television my hobby and reading on my to-do list.
Since you have some free time why don't you join some classes... somethin interesting and exciting? Must always try doing new things in life. Theres so much you've never tried in life. Ure lucky you have time right now. Dump all the sulking and thinking aside and do some good whacko stuff... :)
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Post by: gajanan bhakt on June 19, 2009, 04:12:51 AM
hello everyone.
i hope everyone is fine. i have logged in after a long time. may god bless all.
jai sai ram
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Post by: Well-wisher on June 19, 2009, 07:41:41 AM
Fine indeed. Hope you're fine too... :)
Om Sai Ram
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Post by: akansha on June 19, 2009, 08:13:35 AM
jai sai ram oki nice..im frm delhi..im coming to bombay next month :)..with a frnd..ive got soo bored at home so just decided to c bombay..hehe.. hi gajanan..how are u??u came after soo long..hows all ur side?? baba love u..help us all.. jai sai ram
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Post by: Well-wisher on June 19, 2009, 08:59:07 AM
Good Akansha, happy for you...
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Post by: aquafish on June 19, 2009, 09:41:15 AM
akansha,
kaisi ho? i am from hyderabad and working in los angeles, california...same old same old...its friday atleast can relax and stay up late..lol
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Post by: chweetujaanu on June 22, 2009, 12:05:59 AM
akansha h r u?
come online we have added you..
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Post by: akansha on June 22, 2009, 02:46:48 AM
jai sai ram thanx chweetu n aqua for adding me.. how are u chweetu??anything changed??n how abt u aqua n wellwisher?? today had a fite with him..he said dont wana keep u in dark im not leaving any of u both..if u wana leave u can leave but if u want to be with me ul have to live with it for life time that the other gal wil always be with me. i was waiting since 4 months ..all got wasted..seems lik life is finished..i want to die ..or need sleeping pills so that i cud sleep whole day..how can anyone be so rude so feelin less..loved so much now cant leave that gal for me??i was happy to wait..but now no hope is left..baba u can see na??wat wrong have i done??boht galtiyaan ki hongi but itna bura kabhi nhi kiya k ye saza mil rahi hai..but baba im stil here waiting..will keep hanging onto u..wen wil this nightmare end??its hurts to see him with other gal..plz give me strenghth to leave him..baba plz help me.. baba he is bit deppressed too.plz help him get out of his sorrows n help him in his carrer..bless him baba..i love u baba n him too..dont want to live..either take these sorrows away or take my life..he was all i ever had..every happiness evry sorrow every thing started n ended with him.now my all is gone..plz make mefeeling less..im badly hurted..plz take my pain away. n baba bless all eher who are craving for thier love chweetu dont worry all wil be fine..auqa just keep praying n tel me hows all..
love u baba il wait for u jai sai ram
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Post by: Well-wisher on June 22, 2009, 03:01:29 AM
Akansha, I truely understand what you're going through. I'll pray that you find peace. I suggest you go to sleep for some time. Sleeping over problems helps at times. Listen buddy, he is not depressed. Its your love thats choosing to shut your eyes and not see reality. He cannot have two women and enjoy all his life. If you respect yourself and what you feel for him... you know what you have to do. He cannot do this to you. You're giving him the right to enjoy attension from 2 women. He's made his choice very clear in a very nasty manner. Trust me, you deserve much better and you can go tell him that! Please take care of yourself. He may have loved you if you say so. Its my personal opinion Akansha - I maybe wrong and I hope I'm wrong but in todays date, unfortunately I do not think its true. I don't want to hurt you Akansha. But its very important for you to understand whats happening around and NOT LET ANYONE RUIN ANY MORE MOMENTS OF YOUR LIFE! He is simply not worth the pain you're going through.
Please pray to God. He will bless you with loads of love in various forms. He Himself will come down and love you Akansha. Be open to Gods love. He loves you and so do all of us out here
Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram
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Post by: aquafish on June 22, 2009, 09:54:53 AM
Akansha,
Big hug coming ur way...u know in a way i am happy for u..now u can take the decision which u shud have taken long back....enough is nough...now u know his answer so forget it..I know it will hurt but please think abt it...u cant let this happen anymor ewhen u know he is not gonna leave her ...so move ahead....u can chat or mail me if u wanna talk...I hope baba gives u the strength to move on..take care dear..
om sai ram
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Post by: bhavna on June 22, 2009, 10:55:02 AM
akanksha wre in delhi are u??? i also am from delhi? can we plz talk? my email id is unplugged81@gmail.com? lets meet up if u want...for how long u gonna be in bombay???? if u mail me will send u my fone no. hugee darl dont worry jus have faith in baba plz
om sai ram
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Post by: akansha on June 22, 2009, 10:35:28 PM
jai sai ram hey bhavna good to knw ur frm delhi too..my mail id is s.mal33@yahoo.com..wud love to talk to u..u may send ur fone no here..by the way wats up with u bhavna??how are things ur side..??
yesterday i asked him to choose one out of us both,i guess he did this in anger but he chose her..not me..im shatterd..i told him that il be out of ur life very soon..wil leave u n he was fine with it..he forgot all i guess..baba but i stil have faith in u..help me baba..im broken..baba i need u..n him too.plz make him realise my worth plz give me my love back..plz baba plzzzz..wat mistake have i commited??if ever i have done something wrong plz forgive me for my sins but plz dont do this..im unable to bear all this..baba i beg u for mercy..daya karo..
il wait for u baba jai sai ram
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Post by: akansha on June 23, 2009, 01:31:27 AM
jai sai ram baba im feelin very rest less..i gues he has gone to meet the other gal,plz baba help me i cant bear this..its paining baba..help me plz..plz give me enuf strength so that i stop callin him n show him i can be fine without him..plz make him realise wat wrong is he doin with me..help me baba plz..baba apki boht zarurat hai..plz baba apki wait kar rahi hun me or kartu rahungi..i knw baba at times i become casual with my prayers..wen things are goin fine dont rmbr u that much n wen im ina deep mess i start askin u for help strat crying before u n all,i knw im wrong on this baba but we are all human beings..plz forgive me for this..its only u i come crying to wen im in problem..i totaly realy on u baba i knw ul surely help me out.i need u baba..aap hi to kehte ho k dil se baar pukaro tumhare paas bhaga chala aunga..im calin u frm heart baba plz listen to me..babaaaa baaaabaaaa..plz come help me baba..
im waiting for u baba jai sai ram
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Post by: Well-wisher on June 23, 2009, 01:53:21 AM
HE WILL NEVER REALIZE YOUR WORTH TILL HE HAS YOU!
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Post by: chweetujaanu on June 23, 2009, 03:25:28 AM
akansha pls takecare of urself e will surely understand tat wat ez dn is wron and come to u e will know ur wort plss dont cry i know te pain u r barin..but keep hope and move on...
omsairam
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Post by: rajiv800 on June 23, 2009, 03:44:30 AM
akanksha ji,
just want to say one thing that stop trying to know about him, what he is doing, where he is and all this info please. All you will get is pain which will not help you, please please please aap uske baare mein pata karna hi chhod dijiye to dukh bhi nahin hoga. if at all you feel the need to talk to her, call up some friend, u know i dont even have friends all i do is call my family, if they are also busy i try play a game on blackberry - brickbreaker, try that it just gets all your concentration in that. listen to music, i dont know what you like exactly but please dont listen to the hindi music, when i am feeling very low i do hear it but try listen anything in english, something that will probably rock ur ears, my ipod is full of akon and linkin park, try listening to that.
about him, all i can say is i will be very honest to you and i am telling you from a guys point of view, at this time if he likes that other girl, he will not care a shit about what you are going through and all this, if you are from delhi, go to shopping malls- movies- do some activity like yoga, swimming, meditation these things are so damn cheap in india here i cant even afford them, i dont think there are old age homes in india as i have been out of there since some time now but if there are try and go there. it really helps, personally this is one thing i love doing, and since i use crutches to walk all i can do is sit next to an old person make him laugh share his thoughts listen to him whatever, i just try and do all this only. i love cooking and if i dont have anything i cook all weekend, try new dishes, try something new. so akanksha ji all depends on where your interest lies. I gave you options of what all you can do i feel but i will be very honest, it may not seem very nice to hear but please try to divert your mind, i am not saying dont think about him coz you cant stop doing that for sure, i dont know how long you two were together but all i want to say is justdivert your mind, i have been rtying and still trying.
may sai bless you.
om sai ram
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Post by: akansha on June 23, 2009, 07:55:33 AM
jai sai ram thanx wellwisher n rajiv ji wellwisher that u said was short n very meaning full,rajiv ji thank u so much,il certainly try to divert my mind.thank u so much. i told him that il leave u soon,wont be with u, he was still throwing around his anger n attitude,but just few mins back he called up n said plz dont go away i love u..plz dont u love me??he was bit mad abt me goin faar frm him wasnt able to digest... ;D so was lik i said that in anger,wat if i even said seriously is are relationship the kinds that can be broken that easily??he breaks me emotionaly..but stil one thing that all here were telling me to do to stop callin or msgn ..simply leaving him..i took a step n he got so restless.hope all gets fine soon. thanx baba n thankyou all who have been supprting me since soo long.love u all,love u baba may baba bless u.
im waiting for u baba jai sai ram
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Post by: Well-wisher on June 23, 2009, 08:27:07 AM
Take care Akansha. Be strong
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Post by: chweetujaanu on June 23, 2009, 11:01:18 AM
akansha, be strong hope he comes back to you as soon as possible.. baba is with u dont worry.. dont try to show more importance in him he would try taking it as an advantage... try to be busy in your work he will surely know the pain and understand ur worth...takecare we all are here to pray for u....
baba plss takecare of her...
omsairam
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on June 27, 2009, 10:18:36 AM
jai sai ram hi aqua,wellwisher bhavna chweetujau how are u all?? rajiv ji how are u?? im leavin for haridwar...wil cya all on tuesday.take cre..may baba bless u all.. sai baba plz always be with us all. jai sai ram
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Post by: Well-wisher on June 29, 2009, 02:03:45 AM
God Bless you Akansha...
Om Sai Ram
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Post by: omsaishrisai on June 29, 2009, 03:02:31 PM
I think Akansha you should leave him. If he has betrayed you now he won't be faithful in future either. Baba will show you the right path. Good luck.
SAI RAM
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Post by: Akash100 on June 29, 2009, 10:59:02 PM
Gajanan u r very right.
Akansha dont be so emotional. i can understand ur pain. mere bi sath aisa ho chuka hai.kitna dukh milta hai.batana muskil hota hai.aur bhulna to sayad namumkin.
but be strong.Avoid him.Do something great and oneday he'll realise and he'll come back to u..Dont run behind him.leave him.I'm sure u'll get a better one..
us samay ka entejar karo.Akansha mene kisi ke piche bahut kuch khoya hai.kya mila muje kuch nahi aur upar se muje kewal dukh hi dukh mila hai. Akansha be strong.believe in urself. Never listen emotional songs and all.never think about him.keep urself busy.Always do good.Read good books.Have a firm faith in BABA. And then u see the result.
Take it as a challenge.tum usake bina kyo nahi rah sakti ho.nothing is impossible. Usko apni kamjori mat banao. Usko dikhao tumhare bina me kya nahi kar sakti hu. Usako realize karao ki mene kuch nahi khoya hai.khoya hai to tumne muje khoya hai.
Always think good.Always do good. Very soon u’ll get good result. Don’t live alone. Mingle with people.Play with Kids.Give love to everyone and very soon u’ll forget him
Ye mera personal experience hai.
Always Remember BABA.
Jai Sai Ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: saisan on June 29, 2009, 11:08:25 PM
om sai ram Hello Akansha,I read some of ur posts. simple thing u can tell ur self 1.when he can live without u .........why can't u .......this as simple as that. suppose u remember him ....ask urself this qs "is he remembering u"...he may be enjoying or doing something ...then why u burn with his memories. 2.Ask baba t oovercome this pain and pray him love him.he will take care of u.
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Post by: Well-wisher on June 30, 2009, 01:47:10 AM
Akashji... that was simple but to the point. A beautiful way of expressing what all of us here are trying to say. Akansha, I hope you're fine. Take care. Love & Light, Om Sai Ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on July 01, 2009, 08:46:08 AM
jai sai ram thanx a lot akash ji ,omsai ji,saisan ji..wellwisher..thanxa lot..om just confused..n saisan ji he tells me he cnt live without me so doesnt let m eleave..wenever i try to go away he pleads me to be back..he hs got me stuck..the more i try to go away the more good he becomes..all is just fine between us too his love for me is stil the sam ebut its realy weird to think he loves some1 else too..dont knw wats goin on in his head..ove left al on baba n keeping saburi..lets c wen he gets all into place..baba plz help me..im waiting for u..love u.. how are u aqua n wellwisher..?? take cre jais sai ram
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Post by: saisan on July 01, 2009, 10:50:38 PM
om sai ram akansha ji, even i was in similar situation , he was not ready to leave me ...they will do like that, i had only one statement "u can get me only if u marry me". he also begged me cried etc .... he use to keep calling me ..i never picked ..now im away from him and im in peace. but still im waiting for me to come back and marry me if baba wishes.these things are waste when they can't marry simple ..see love means he shud be able to leven eave even his parents ......freind tho kuch bhi nahin.ur ready to do anything for him then why not him ........tell him leave me alone for some time and i will call u back ..don't pick his call .....avoid him for sometime...then he will realize .ur value .... don't show that he is weakness for u ...
i also show my guy that im happy and i don't remember him and happy without him ..he feels jealous .
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Post by: chweetujaanu on July 01, 2009, 11:32:31 PM
hii akansha
how are you? how was your trip?
omsairam
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on July 02, 2009, 01:27:48 AM
jai sai ram hi chweetu the trip was realy good..enjoyed lot..how are y chweetu long sice heard frm u.. im feelin low today,today is thrusday,baba plz show some miracle,plz help me baba..baba i need u. jai sai ram
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Post by: Well-wisher on July 02, 2009, 02:26:18 AM
Am good Akansha, stay strong!
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Post by: chweetujaanu on July 02, 2009, 04:18:17 AM
i am sinking day by day akansha i too am waiting for baba's miracle he will some day show it in our lives and give us back what we are longing for.... any change r reply from ur guy....?
omsairam
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on July 02, 2009, 04:19:02 PM
jai sai ram cheetu just hang on there to baba..dont leave his feet..he is just testing your patience n watevere he wil do wil do for ur good...dont worry..baba is with u il pray for u wellwisher hows life?? jai sai ram
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Post by: Well-wisher on July 03, 2009, 12:57:28 AM
Chweetu & Akansha...
This article is for you. Do share what you think about it.
Om Sai Ram
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Post by: rr_sai_bhakt on July 03, 2009, 01:07:38 AM
(I am assuming this is the link you wanted to post here, Well-wisher)
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Post by: Well-wisher on July 03, 2009, 03:20:37 AM
Thank you RRji. :)
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on July 03, 2009, 08:50:27 AM
jai sai ram sure wellwisher,wil eard it n let u knw..thanx a lot.. im feelin better today..wen i came to knw abt other gal i gave him his ring back that he gave me ..i told him to return wen all is fine or wen he feels lik..that gal is stil there bbut he returned that back to me..im feelin happy,realy happy,he told me to always keep it with me..thanx baba,maybe this is a positive sign..take care of ur children baba..
jai sai ram
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Post by: chweetujaanu on July 03, 2009, 11:43:30 AM
akansha,
its nice to listen from you dont worry everything will come to normal very soon..takecare of yourself.. baba will takecare of all things...
omsairam
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on July 05, 2009, 10:39:51 AM
jai sai ram hi chweetu'wellwisher,aqua,bhavna,rahinancy,rajiv ji.,ganesh ji...im leaving for mumbai tom wil be back on 14th..cya all soon..jai sai ram..baba be with us all.. jai sai ram
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Post by: chweetujaanu on July 06, 2009, 01:52:12 AM
ave a nice time akansha..takecare
omsairam
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: gunj on July 06, 2009, 02:25:49 AM
Dear Akansha ji
how r u,hope everything is back to normal.r u in mumbai,me too from mumbai. so how is ur bf,and wot about other gal,usne kuch galat toh nahi kia na,apka frnd kaise hai,kya unhone us ladki ko bata dia hai ki wo unhe chod rahe hai,agar koi baat buri lagi ho toh uske lia maaf karna mujhe
om sai ram :)
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Post by: Well-wisher on July 06, 2009, 06:08:56 AM
:) Hope u have a great time in Mumbai Akansha. Hope Sai brings to you loads of happiness during and after this trip.
Om Sai Ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on July 06, 2009, 06:58:00 AM
ji sai ram i missed my train..wil go tom i guess..iske peeche bhi kuch bhala hoga..baba jo karte hain ache k liye karte hain apne bacho k..watever prob baba kept me away frm..i thnk baba for that..love u baba.. how are u bhavna,wellwisher,aqua?? gunj ji sab kuch waisa hi hai..me bas wait kar rahi hun have no other option..left all on baba. jai sai ram
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Post by: Well-wisher on July 06, 2009, 08:14:04 AM
:) Tomorrow is Guru Purnima Akansha. Its a nice day. All will be fine. Am fine. You take care. Forget all else and enjoy to the fullest all the time you have out here. God bless you with all the happiness, love & light.
Om Sai Ram
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Post by: gunj on July 07, 2009, 12:41:54 AM
today is gurupurinima 7th july ,how r u akansha ji,aap kaha se mumbai jarahe ho,aaj apne train li hai kya.sab thik hoga sai pe bharosa rakhe.
om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on July 10, 2009, 02:02:05 AM
jai sai ram hi everyone missing u al..im enjoying here ..feelin realy good,hi wellwisher n gunj ji how are u both..gunj ji im in lokhndwala rite now..nice place this is n its raining very heavily..where are u frm???? baba always be with all of us..love u.. jai sai ram
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Post by: chweetujaanu on July 10, 2009, 03:32:09 AM
hii akansha ,
enjoy well dont worry as soon as you return you will receive some or the other good news something positive.. baba will make your life happier with the guy you wanted..
baba please bless her..
omsairam
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Post by: Well-wisher on July 10, 2009, 06:42:42 AM
:) Akansha, hope u enjoying... Chweetu keep the faith strong... Gunj ji... God bless u and make all ur wishes come true...
Om Sai Ram
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Post by: chweetujaanu on July 15, 2009, 02:45:59 AM
akansha how are you?
howz your trip going on..hope you are enjoying.. takecare.
omsairam
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on July 15, 2009, 03:03:09 AM
jai sai ram hi all..how are u all..im back...how are u all wellwisher,aqua,nancy,rajiv ji,gajnan ji,chweetu,gunj ji... enjoyed a lot.. may baba bless us all.. jai sai ram
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Post by: Well-wisher on July 15, 2009, 03:47:06 AM
Am good Akansha... Nancy, Bhavna, Aqua, Rajiv where are you. No posts off late.
Om Sai Ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: chweetujaanu on July 15, 2009, 10:13:50 AM
hii akansha,
any changes your side..?
omsairam
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: rajiv800 on July 15, 2009, 01:37:10 PM
hi all i read everything but dont feel like replying aise hi i m fine i read ur post too dont want to discuss about it well wisher ji i hope you are fine om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: chweetujaanu on July 16, 2009, 02:08:07 AM
how are you akansha?
omsairam
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on July 16, 2009, 02:31:03 AM
jai sai ram hi chweetu things are same my side...wat abt u??talked to bharat??any changes??just let me knw..n dont worry all wil be fine..watever baba does..does for our good. im not talkin or behaving sam eway with my bf nd he is feelin bad abt it n telling me this way things wil only get worse,but i dont c any other way out,he thinks abt her feelings,lik if he wil do certain thngs she may feel bad n all..this has hurted me badly n om broken now,dont knw wat to do,if i dont cal for two days even then at the end its me who is sufeering coz of it. baba plz help me out i need u baba plz help me,plz make me stronger. jai sai ram
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Post by: chweetujaanu on July 16, 2009, 02:57:00 AM
i can understand that pain of thinking of ur person with someone else it kills us akansha really u are great baba is with u he will give u the strength to fight for ur love.... its our pastdeeds we are suffering but now we are at baba's feet all our sins will be washed away by baba he will make our lives happy soon..
takecare of urself.. what about nancy there's no reply from her..
omsairam
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Post by: Well-wisher on July 16, 2009, 03:48:22 AM
Akansha, Chweetu... come on... BE STRONG! Nothing will go wrong. Everything thats happening is as per Gods plan. N He will do the best He can for you.
Rajiv, take care. Please take care and be strong. I know u are. N trust me, you'll get the best and nothing less than that. God will bring her to you from every corner of the world. This is just a waiting period. So take care. Maybe this is the time God wants us all to just love Him. When the time is right all will fall in place. :)
Om Sai Ram
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Post by: chweetujaanu on July 16, 2009, 04:07:07 AM
wellwisher ji thanks alot...
hope baba comes to our rescue soon..
omsairam
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: gunj on July 16, 2009, 04:52:33 AM
OM SAI RAM
AKANSHA JI
HOW R U,HOW WAS UR TRIP,WHERE U STAY.AND WHAT IS HAPPENING IN U LIFE,NE CHANGES
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on July 16, 2009, 06:20:50 AM
jai sai ram thanx chweetu n wellwisher i hope baba comes to help m eout soon gunj ji my trip was realy good,i stayed in lokhandwala.ur frm mumbai too na??where do u stay in mumbhow are u aqua n bhavna?? jai sai ram
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Post by: Well-wisher on July 16, 2009, 06:31:42 AM
Baba will help you. But you need to help urself. Keep ur eyes and ears open. N try and understand what going on.
Om Sai Ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on July 17, 2009, 12:56:11 AM
jai sai ram wellwisher i knw wats goin on but i dont want to realise it myself im just lying to myself..but ive stoped callin him much n not behaving properly so he is quite disturbed over it..but still he doesnt leave her..i cant leave him too.im in a big mess..baba plz help :-[
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Post by: saisan on July 17, 2009, 01:05:46 AM
Om sai ram Akanksha, don't leave him and but just be away from him, ur going away only to make him realize ur worth. few days just a matter of few days. if u want him permanently come to u then u need to take this step. rest let baba guide u....
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Post by: Well-wisher on July 17, 2009, 05:23:54 AM
Take care Akansha. God bless you with all the happiness on earth. Saisanji you too. :) Om Sai Ram
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Post by: saisan on July 17, 2009, 05:29:57 AM
thanks well-wisher ji
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Post by: chweetujaanu on July 17, 2009, 10:11:02 AM
akansha dont worry baba will guide you..takecare of urself..
omsairam
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Post by: akansha on July 17, 2009, 10:45:02 AM
jai sai ram thanx wellwisher saisan ji n chweetu..may baba bless u too.. my reslult is out cleared all..thanx baba jai sai ram
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Post by: chweetujaanu on July 17, 2009, 12:03:22 PM
congrats.. akansha
takecare baba is with u..
omsairam
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on July 18, 2009, 12:41:24 AM
jai sai ram baba me toot chuki hun..aap jante ho na mene kabhi ksi ka itna dil nhi dukhaya k mujhe itna dukh mile,baba kya paap kiya mene aisa k ye saza mil rahi hai,kya aap dekh nhi rahe baba kya ho raha hai kitne dukh me hain apke bhakt,baba kyo chup chap baith k bas dekh rahe ho hume rote hue,im waiting for u baba n i knw ul come soon. jai sai ram
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Post by: Well-wisher on July 18, 2009, 02:30:00 AM
You have not sinned Akansha. Ure only problem is U ARE WILLINGLY LETTING HIM HURT YOU! The day you take away that right from him, you will be happy! Trust me... and I wish you soon do.
Congratulations buddy! All the best for the future... God bless...
Om Sai Ram
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Post by: chweetujaanu on July 18, 2009, 07:09:42 AM
akansha baba will come to us soon i have that faith keep praying baba is seeing everything..
omsairam
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Post by: Well-wisher on July 20, 2009, 01:35:47 AM
Akansha.... be strong. Ure an independent, intelligent girl with a mind of your own. U have a lot that not many have. Value yourself. Ure worth much more. I pray he realizes your worth and comes back. But BE STRONG.
The day U are strong... he will come running back to you. Ur happiness is not dependant on him.
Om Sai Ram
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Post by: saisan on July 20, 2009, 02:14:59 AM
thanks Akanksha for the wishes, Be strong ...come out of it ...u will get peace and then then pray to baba ..leave everything to baba he will tk care and make sure u will be more happy god bless u soon
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Post by: chweetujaanu on July 20, 2009, 09:43:00 PM
akansha how are u?
takecare of urself.. baba is always with u keep praying
omsairam
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on July 21, 2009, 12:39:11 AM
jai sai ram chweetu all is still the same..im dying everyday..baba kab aoge? jai sai ram
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Post by: Well-wisher on July 21, 2009, 03:05:28 AM
Akansha... life is full of choices. And this is a choice you are making for yourself. If you choose to keep bearing for life and win pity... pity is all you will get. The day you choose to be strong and walk out of this... love, happiness and respect will follow you! No man respects a woman who tolerates so much. Am sorry to say that buddy. N the first step in love is respect. The man will never respect you until you respect yourself & whom a man cannot respect, he cannot love.
Om Sai Ram
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Post by: saisan on July 21, 2009, 03:12:44 AM
om sai ram akaksha i agree with well-wisher, ur scared like if u leave him u will not get him back.but being with him u will only get his support.if you leave him now for few days he will realize ur value and be ur life partner.sorry if i hurt you......but you can try and then if it doesn't work ant day u can go back....atleast you will know how much he loves u.
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Post by: Well-wisher on July 21, 2009, 03:22:15 AM
AKANSHA... PLEASE LEARN TO RESPECT YOURSELF.
U keep wondering why this is happening. This is happening Akansha coz God wants u to learn a few lessons and grow stronger. N until u learn ure gonna keep suffering like this n no one will be able to help.
LEARN TO RESPECT YOURSELF & YOUR LOVE!
I you don't no one will. Only u can help urself. Externally no one can help. No kind words, no advise. Sit and think who you are & what you desire from life. Is earning that guy's pity your destination???? The only goal of your life...?? Or is there more to it.
I don't mean to be harsh Aku... but you are just not doing justice to yourself (one of God's most beautiful creation), to the other girl, to love... & to your faith in God.
If you really believe in God... then keep the faith that with or without him you'll be fine, you are fine and that you accept HIS will as perfect!
Baba please bless her. Take away her pain. However way... Om Sai Ram
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Post by: akansha on July 23, 2009, 02:14:04 AM
jai sai ram thanx chweetu,wellwisher n saisan ji. im kindoff ignoring him n he is very upset,i can c him realising my worth but he loves that other gal too.. life is such a mess but its goin on just coz of baba...there wer times i cried day n nite,wasnt able to sleep eat drink..life was finished... i asked baba many things n asked for some strength..n thats the gretest things he has given me today..only strength he has given me keeps me goin n i thank baba for it.. im not complaing that y he hasnt given me my love back yet..i knw coz baba is there must be some good behind it.. baba thanx a lot n i love u. jai sai ram
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Post by: saisan on July 23, 2009, 02:26:37 AM
om sai ram akanksha, Good to know u r becoming strong, let him realize. but i can't understand how anybody can love 2 people. imagine ur self will u be able to love 2 guys at a time ..... its beyond my thinking. anyways baba is there to guide u...he will give u the best om sai ram ... keep praying
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Post by: Well-wisher on July 23, 2009, 02:27:18 AM
Om Sai Ram Akansha. Thats the spirit. May Baba always be with you. Give you HIS strength, HIS courage & HIS wisdom!
Om Sai Ram
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Post by: chweetujaanu on July 23, 2009, 08:11:14 PM
akansha he will soon come back to you realising your worth.. be strong baba will soon bless you with your love..
omsairam
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Post by: akansha on July 23, 2009, 11:50:51 PM
jai sai ram thanx chweetu...hows all ur side??u talked to bharat?? how are u wellwisher??n wat abt u saisan ji?? baba is very much with m end i can feel him with me...life is going thru a bad phase not only in context of love life but lik bad luck follows me wherever i go...but in the end all things fal into thier places,,n thats all coz of baba.thanx baba..plz keep me going.. baba plz bless wellwisher,saisanji,saicharnadhool,aqua,bhavna,rahinancy,chweetu,rajiv ji,ganeshhariharan ji,nd all sai bhakts...may baba bless u all with hapiness nd health. jai sai ram
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Post by: saisan on July 24, 2009, 12:14:34 AM
om sai ram akansha, i am ok, waiting :-( how r u? when baba is there with u nothing can go wrong no bad luck will follow u. he will take care of us and bless us for sure keep praying baba plz bless akansha,wellwisher,saicharnadhool,aqua,bhavna,rahinancy,chweetu,rajiv ji,ganeshhariharan ji,...may baba bless u with what u wish for. om sai ram
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Post by: Well-wisher on July 24, 2009, 02:53:48 AM
:) Thats so sweet of both of you Akanshaji & Saisanji... May God bless each of you and all out here and our loved ones with all thats best for them. Baba give us the strength, the faith, the hope we need to reach our destinations.
Om Sai Ram
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Post by: chweetujaanu on July 25, 2009, 06:22:51 AM
akansha i am ok.. life is stuck up there bharat has not yet started coming to college that too hez doing it wantedly but i just left it to baba and i am waiting some or the other day he has to come to college he has to face or i have to face him baba will bring that day soon..
but this 27th is our anniversary i feel low.. hope baba brings him to college that day..
how abt u? any response from ur guy? takecare everything will be fine..
saisan ji.. keep praying baba will bring him back to you..
baba please bless all those longing for their loved ones.. please listen to everyones prayers baba.. please forgive our deeds and guide us baba..
omsairam
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Post by: akansha on July 25, 2009, 11:20:55 AM
jai sai ram chweetu all stil the same myside..u be strong baba is with us. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: r_ahul on July 25, 2009, 01:30:24 PM
Dear Akansha ji,
Om Sai Ram
I can only assume how it feels when your love betrays you. But I pray to Sainath to bless you with peace, love and happiness.
From few recent posts, I've understood that you have tried to maintain some distance with him. This is good, because if he's genuine...he'll do the right thing. Said that, please do ask yourself few questions:
1) If you had betrayed him for someone, would he forgive you? Would he make efforts to have you back or will he move on? 2) If you are most important in his life, why cant he let go the other girl immediately? 3) What is the guarantee that ,in the time that he has been asking from you, he will sort things and be back with you? What if in this time he decides to move ahead with the other girl instead?? 4) He says that if he leaves the other girl immediately, she can resort to doing something to herself. Is he just buying time to do whatever he likes?
Akansha ji, my questions might sound rude, but my intention is not to hurt or cause further confusion. I am not doubting your partner, but I hope he is not two-timing. True love survives on the food of loyalty, caring, respect and forgiveness. You have been consistent with all these qualities. It is important that your partner does the same.
One suggestion is that you get in touch with the other girl (preferably without your partner knowing about it). It is important to know whether she knows about your courtship of 5 years. She may be in love, but doesn't it matters to her that the guy she has fallen for loves somebody else as well.
I pray to Sai that he blesses you with the happiness you deserve. You have truly loved with your heart, mind and soul...may Sai bless you with the same love in return..
Om Sai Ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on July 25, 2009, 03:47:29 PM
Akansha, take care. God show you & him the light. Om Sai Ram
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Post by: akansha on July 25, 2009, 10:45:39 PM
jai sai ram thanx rahul ji n wellwisher..i realy thnk u for so wonderful words.. i realy dont get wat is he upto,i hopw baba shows be the way soon.. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on July 26, 2009, 11:25:26 AM
jai sai ram baba plz help karo,ye kya ho raha hai,im so badly stuck baba,one side lies the love of 5 years,n other way lies betrayal..plz baba help me jai sai ram
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Post by: Sonu2310 on July 26, 2009, 08:17:23 PM
Hi akansha, How r u ? Hope u doing good. read all your posts. Everything is just a part of life. Some things cant be restricted or undone. I am very happy to see that you have taken so much courage and moved on in life. I request you to keep the same attitude and move on. Just wait for his indications. He is wit u always. try not to cry and hurt urself. take care. om sai ram.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on July 28, 2009, 01:58:29 PM
jai sai ram baba i love u i knw ur with me. baba plz bless us all jai sai ram
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Post by: gajanan bhakt on July 28, 2009, 08:20:36 PM
hi akansha. how r u . hows life.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on July 28, 2009, 11:55:03 PM
jai sai ram hi gajanan ji im fine..thngs are stil the same my side,just paryaing to baba. wat abt u gajanan ji,wats up your side??n how are ur studies goin on?? lemme knw soon.may baba bless u jai sai ram
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Post by: pragya0786 on July 29, 2009, 12:25:14 AM
Dear Akansha, dont worry things will be alright...i have faith in u and baba is watching all this.i can understand ur pain well...its hard to say but one only knows jis per beet ti hai....but still i can understand...........be urself never loose ur confidence be strong enough. u r really a sweet person because u loved a person for 5yrs n still u r doing it after knowinf each n everything......remember this is all ur paitience which is definitely accountable........need not to worry because u r right....trust its a phase which will go.....
om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on July 29, 2009, 02:55:08 AM
sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: chweetujaanu on July 31, 2009, 08:14:28 AM
akansha how are you?
dont worry baba will help u soon..
omsairam
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on July 31, 2009, 09:01:47 AM
sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai
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Post by: Sonu2310 on July 31, 2009, 11:23:32 AM
Hi Akansha, How r u ? U are really a great person and hats off to ur patience. Dont worry everything will be fine. take care. just keep praying, only that can save us all :)
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on August 01, 2009, 11:26:13 PM
jai sai ram things are stil the same mt side..though he wants to make efforts to get things stronger between us but nenevr talks abt leaving her ..ive tried almost all..but no avail..dont knw wat to do,ive left all on baba n sonu ji thanx for callin me gr8 but im no gr8 its baba who is gr8 n is who keeps me goin thru all this..baba i love u n realy need u,plz help me get my love back soon baba... how are u sonu ji wellwisher n aqua??lemme knw soon..may baba bless us all. i love u baba jai sai ram
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Post by: Sonu2310 on August 02, 2009, 12:19:42 AM
0m sai ram, Things wont work when they are not destined or the right time has not yet come. Dont worry, ur patience and faith will be rewarded by Baba. I am fine ty, akansha. just waiting for Baba to give an indication thats all i can do. keep posting. take care :)
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Post by: chweetujaanu on August 02, 2009, 08:43:04 AM
akansha how are you?
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on August 02, 2009, 10:26:31 PM
jai sai ram today im very sad chweetu :( things are still the same..baba kyo chup chap dekh rahe ho sab??kyo nhi realise hota use that he is doing??im broken,i miss those old happy days wen i had all..dont knw wat bad i did that im getting this punishment,even if i hd commited a mistake,baba is this not a punishment enuf for me,y these bad days are not coming to an end??baba u knw na how it feels to see ur love loving someone else,i always tend to think for others first,always try to help poor the best way i can,try not to hurt anyone,then y am i getting so much hurt n pain??wen wil this pain go away baba??wil this ever go away??wil things get better or is there more of hurt n pain instore for me??baba uve always told ur bhakts to have faith n paitence,i have full faith on u n im having paitence since 5 months now..how much more do i need to wait baba?? baba plz reham karo..reham karo baba..apke bache apke age ro rahe hain..i knw u can see me baba ..plz come to my rescue baba..im here waitng for u baba..im waiting since 5 months baba..atleast tel me kab aa rahe ho..plz itna hi bata do wen il get my life back...bbbbbaaaaabbbbbbaaaaaaaa........can u hear me crying out ur name baba..?
jai sai ram
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Post by: saisan on August 02, 2009, 11:31:52 PM
om sai ram akansha, don't worry baba is hearing us for sure but he is waiting for right time keep praying and wait he will bless u soon...keep praying he will come for sure om sai ram baba bless her soon, see her pain give her some relief om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on August 03, 2009, 12:26:47 AM
jai sai ram thanx saisan ji..i hope baba comes soon..baba i love u. jai sai ram
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Post by: Kirti1 on August 03, 2009, 06:13:30 AM
Om Sai Ram,
Hi Akansha,
You are doing a good job Continue praying Baba. But at the same time, keep your eyes and ears open, if you lift your spiritual awareness, you will find that Baba is answering question of yours. He answers everybody questions. For eg., if you dont remember where you have kept your wallet, just ask Baba, he will tell you
The problem with us is....we are so deeply involved within ourselves that we fail to see that Baba is answering our prayers, daily prayers too!
Thank Baba for small things he has allowed you in this test, like a small talk with him, a glimpse of him, a small meet with him, etc. and then you will see your faith in Baba will just grow Check yourself when you start asking more....control that urge. take it 1 at a time
As for the time....Baba & Love are infinite, timeless
At work, in 1 of the discussions with my colleague and also at a discourse yesterday,, there was this subject: "Beggars are not Choosers" we are begging to Baba, but can we really be specific, with regards to time, place etc.? We only ask what we feel we deserve, Baba gives only what we need
Appreciate the small things/favors Baba showers on you...help a person in distress.....make a charity.......these will lighten your guilt and depression
Oh, by the way, does he still want to marry you?? If yes, then I guess, that is where your answer is Cause if it wasn't that, then Baba would have let you know, trust me
Finally, in pursuit of reaching destination, we forget to enjoy the journey!! Enjoy it.....good or bad....cause this is the best journey you can have with Baba around!!
Keep praying!!
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Post by: saisan on August 03, 2009, 07:00:04 AM
om sai ram kirti ji , nice post of urs but baba makes me meet him, make him calls me.... but he said he can't marry what shud i feel what baba's answer is
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Post by: akansha on August 03, 2009, 08:36:46 AM
jai sai ram thanx kriti..he says he wants to be with me forever n wants to marry but not now sometime later..but if this is baba's answer y he is not leavning the other gal n how can he love someone else..these quetions just keep comin n goin in my mind..just dont knw wat to think of the whole situation..hope baba gets us out of this mess soon.. saisan ji maybe for now thats wats baba thinks ..u c things cud be changed by him..u just dont worry n keep praying..may u have the best in life n may baba leads ur life to the way thats the best for u..just keep praying saisan ji..n have a strong faith that baba is with u n watever is happneing is happening with baba's will..keep paitence all wil get fin e soon..baba plz give sai san her love back.. jai sai ram
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Post by: shraddhasai on August 03, 2009, 12:00:45 PM
akansha ji,i have like everybody else gone through my share of heart breaks,but in the end i had an arranged marriage with a guy who is the most wonderful person and much better than anybody else.so if you believe and put things in our babas hands you will a find a most wonderful partner and that is what matters.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Kirti1 on August 04, 2009, 02:27:12 AM
Om Sai Ram
Dear Akansha n Saisan
I guess the answer to questions like "will he, wont he" is taking it as it comes I'm going through the same thought process, I go into depression whenever I think his family has got him married to some1 else Then I feel, Baba speaking: "Beta....you dont trust me yet, what more do you want, I have given you signals enough to know your prayers shall be answered......but as I tell every1, each of you have to pay for their karmas, here itself. Take this period to be your paying time for your karmas......I shall see you past this too...."
And then I feel better, and then somehow the ice breaks b/w me n him
All this time that I am waiting, I have realized how to let go After a period of time, you will yourself realize that, there is no point holding on too tight You will yourself loosen the grip, however, that does not mean giving up It only means, you have now actually started trusting Baba and have realized that there is nothing you can do beyond this Baba is waiting for that kind of surrender
I feel edgy at times when I think he's married to some1 else But as I said Baba let's me know that is not the case I dont know what the future holds, and whether or not we will get married But now I know one thing for sure, Baba will do what is right
In the meantime, Akansha and Saisan, do what your heart says.....that is where Baba stays If you feel like calling him, do that, dont worry, be little selfish in love, it's fine The call may not go as you want, but you will get a new breath of life
Let me know if I can help you more, cause we are sailing in the same boat till then.....
Keep praying!!
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Post by: saisan on August 04, 2009, 03:35:59 AM
om sai ram kirti ji, i am also facing the same thoughts like u , like even i feel so much insecure that he might be talking to some proposals gals and his marriage will be fixed ..but as of now nothing happned since 2 yrs. but i have told myself..if baba rokna chahenge tho he can do anything. i don't know how to take it ..its been 2 yrs neither uska fix hota hai na mera...
mera mann bilkul nahin kartha usko call karne ka ...as i will nt get peace and can't concentrate, it pains a lot when i see him without love towards me and also if he speaks abt other gals....so if i meet accidently i will pray baba negative nahin .. even i will scared till death when he calls me ...so that i dn't receive bad news... i pray
now i am feeling drained and abhi lagtha hai baba nahin dena chathe and i am keep asking him to me. i don't know from which angle i shud think that i will get him, he is not loving me anymore, neither he is thinking marrying me, he is little possesive but will never think abt marrying me.
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Post by: Kirti1 on August 04, 2009, 09:56:11 PM
OM Sai Ram,
Dear Saisan,
You are doing fine, it's nice that you have controlled your mind not to call him You are going on the right path to let Baba decide
Only thing......... now that you have left it on Baba, you should feel light and calm After surrendering to Baba, you should not think of anything about it Remember when you went to school, as a kid, your parents would come to pick you up and immediately on seeing them, you would hand over your heavy School bag to them. You would feel so light that the burden is off you
The same applies here. Your love, marriage,etc. you have left it on Baba. So feel light and easy. Tell Baba, " I dont have control over my mind. Please come and take control. I am not worried about my marriage, because you are my father, and father's are more worried about daughter's marriage"
Above is on spiritual level, on day to day basis, we need to keep ourselves absolutely busy Everyday, chalk out a plan to stuff with lot of activity so that at night when you hit the bed you should be totally drained You should not have a spare moment That is the key to overcoming the day to day anxieties
And yes, dont forget to.....
Keep praying!!
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Post by: Sonu2310 on August 04, 2009, 10:09:19 PM
nice post Kirti ji, we cant do anything beyond this. I know faith wavers sometimes, thats where u start crying and keep on asking Baba. I too have done it many times before. But now its left to him , i have told him all my problems. Its only Baba who has stopped this and if he wishes, then its only Him who can change everything and allow us to marry. Akansha dont worry, ur prayers will never go in vain. We have to definitely think about the other gal who is with ur beloved. Even though we are deprived of love, we cant let it happen to others, i was thinking whether the other female knows abt u and his intentions. I am confused who is being targeted by him, is it u or the other gal. Sorry for using such harsh words. Just try to know such things if possible. Then how r u ? Take care dear
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Post by: saisan on August 04, 2009, 10:43:19 PM
om sai ram thanks so much for the post kirti ji, it was very nice iam feeling better Yes i am praying and left everything to baba, but there are few things for which i will worried. my parents r very much tensed regd my marriage, they are seeing proposals for me and i have to go thru all the process seeing a guy then talking etc i don't like and i feel the pain....but baba kuch nahin karthe.i also like to see him my guy,talk to him and be with him ...but he is nt calling me since 2 months.
i feel bad all my freinds r getting married and im waiting endlessly.... i will be busy though out the day...but at the end of the day ur alone emotionally and miss those days when we r together. this kills and i get fed up of waiting ... and lagtha hai baba has decided not to bless me and give me some peace. i did all sorts of pooja's to impress baba ..lekin nahin he just decided to not to think abt me ..aisa lagtha hai. today only i got a call from my parents abt proposal...... it pains baba :-(((((((((((((((((((((((((((
sab kuch messy messy hogaya hai ...ek taraf parents,proposals,freinds,n loniness.... i can do only one think pray .......whether he is listening to me or not
Kirti ji and sonu ji u both keep praying , i will also pray for u may be baba will bless u both soon ..... baba plz give them happiness om sair am
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Post by: chweetujaanu on August 04, 2009, 11:40:19 PM
akansha how are you?
how are things gng on ur side..?
omsairam
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on August 05, 2009, 10:13:10 AM
Akansha... how are you? Any progress? Don't feel weak. Be a strong girl.
Om Sai Ram
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Post by: Sonu2310 on August 05, 2009, 12:52:54 PM
Hello Akansha ji, How r u ? How are things going on ??
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on August 07, 2009, 09:32:06 AM
jai sai ram
things are still the same wellwisher sonuji n chweetu...he knws im broken n tels me not to worry but does nothin..just asks me to wait...how much more baba??how much more wil i have to wait??plz baba help me...its feels realy bad n i get badly hurted wen his fone goes busy for long(he talkes to her)...on the other hand he tels me u are my life n ur everything n im gonna marry just u n thats a promise..i knw he is not lying abt it..i knw he loves me madly n i knw he feels realy bad wen i cry n keep sad..but dont knw y he doesnt do anything to make things better...baba im badly hurted n im just waiting n waiting as he tels me...but baba actually this wait is for u..im waiting for u to make things better..its only u who wil get me out of all this.. baba plz help baba plz meri pukaar suno.. wat abt u chweetu??hows all?? how are u wellwisher?? n hows all sonu ji..do keep me updated...may baba bless us all n take our all sorrows away..
i love u baba jai sai ram
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Post by: akansha on August 08, 2009, 10:36:32 AM
jai sai ram baba plz help me..im badly hurt..plz baba..kab tak wait karna hoga? jai sai ram
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Post by: Sonu2310 on August 08, 2009, 12:07:14 PM
Hi akansha ji, How r u ? me fine, ty.. life is just going on. Waiting for Baba's words. Dont feel bad, baba will definitely help u, the countdown has just started. so any improvement , any positive change ?We all there to make you feel better, so dont feel bad, just remember we have to wait, no matter how many days, months or years but until the time comes. Do be strong, we can only do one thing pray, pray and pray !!
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Post by: Well-wisher on August 10, 2009, 04:30:43 AM
Akansha... nothing will happen unless u take a firm step. Been telling you for a long time. Baba will only help if you take action. If ure willing let that man take advantage of your love & giving him the signal... "its ok to cheat me openly"... why would Baba help???
Baba can only help once you take action. U are sitting there, giving the guy opposite signals & then expecting Baba to do a complete reverse of it???
THINK... WHAT SIGNAL ARE YOU SENDING ACROSS????
You're openly telling the guy...
"Hello... I'm a door-mat. Please come, make a fool out of me, my emotions, use me emotionally & mentally whenever you wish to. If you don't wanna use me... I'll still wait. If you play with my emotions & those of a million other girls its ok. Its the right thing to do. Thats what we girls are meant for. We have absolutely no self-worth or self-esteem. & We love you for doing this to us! "
Akansha, if you continue to do this & allow this... this is what you're going to get in return. He will have fun with a million women not decide until he's 80! I'm sorry to be so harsh... but please... take some step! Try and get the point. Love = Loyalty!
The guy is fooling two women at a time, shelling out crocodile tears & having fun at the expense of your emotions. Stop being an EMOTIONAL FOOL. Stop it! For heavens sake, for your own good learn to ignore his tears & be blunt.
"Its me or her" Make it clear. If ure so sure he loves you, do it. He'll come back. & If ure too scared to even try it, maybe you know deep within that he doesn't! Tell him if he loves you, now its his turn to show it. Love also needs to be expressed.
You cant slap a person & say... but I love you na... Then punch the person & say... but I said I love you... Then kick hard & say... I'm crying & saying I really, really love you... Then stab the person and say... please bear with me, this is my way of expressing love. I love you, look I have tears in my eyes...
Is that love? If you did that to anyone and even swore on God saying you loved the person, would anyone believe you???
If your answer is no... then please think. I wish I could come there & shake you up Akansha. With all due respect to your love, the guy is a cheat who doesn't even deserve a single woman in his life! Please open your eyes & see. Stop being an emotional idiot & letting people take advantage of you. Stop encouraging this non-sense.
I'm sorry, but I really feel you need to work on your self-esteem. You really believe you deserve this crap & I'm sorry to say ure doing nothing to stop it. Rather inviting it. If u invite pain and trouble with open arms, thats what ure going to get. Even Baba won't be able to help.
If u really seek His help, ask Him to give you the strength to stop all communication until he comes back ONLY to you!
May Baba bless you... I'm sorry about my harsh words. But I'm just mad at the guy and the way both of u (other girl included) are allowing this to happen.
Thats not love Akansha. Please, learn to respect your own love for him in the first place. If you don't respect it yourself, how do you expect him to? Why should he when he gets to have fun at two palces openly by just shedding a few tears. Waao... its so simple and easy... just cry a lil here and there & you can have all the fun you want! Its ridiculous! Please stop allowing this...
I hope Baba blesses you with the wisdom & courage to do so. If u really love him, gather the strength to test his love and the strength of your relationship too.
Om Sai Ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on August 10, 2009, 11:43:01 PM
jai sai ram wellwisher thanx a lot for so meaningful words..i knw im commiting a blunder..my heart says something else n mind something else n i tend to listen to my heart..im just simply being stupid..very stupid!!..baba plz give me the strengh to take a step..help me baba im confused..plz help me.. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on August 11, 2009, 02:48:45 AM
Akansha, I appologize for being harsh yesterday. I didn't mean to hurt you in anyway. But you need to understand too... if you continue to let this happen, it will keep on happening forever. The guy has nothing to loose. If he were even the least emotionally attached (in reality) to any of you, he would have made his choice long back & relieved both of you.
I know its very difficult Akansha. At this time ure attached to him and fear loosing him. Ur love is willing to cover up, over-look & ignore every flaw of his and accept him lovingly. & I know you will continue to do so as long as forever... cause I can exactly understand what ure feeling.
Ur fear of loss is so huge, that ure willing to compromise to whatever extent. But you know what Akansha... try and face the fear... Kill it before it kills you. You are only harming yourself. Please don't do that for a man who doesn't care. Its very easy for someone to cry and say please don't go away, I love you. I need you. I'll be with you. Its very, very, very easy for people to cry. Just cause someone cries while saying something, doesn't always mean, he or she genuinely means it. If one genuinely means what one says, it also shows in his or her actions.
Please put your foot down & request him to show it in action... He may leave you for now. But if he truly loves you he will come back the moment he realizes your worth and understands his own feelings for you. He will learn to respect you Akansha. Teach him to respect u by respecting yourself.
Trust ur love, your faith in God Akansha & do it. You don't need to be rude. Be nice, be polite. Yet firm. Sooner or later he has to choose. Then why not now? Why does he need to continue cheating and hurting both of you for so long. He has to do it someday. So let it be now. At least it will save both of you or one of you the prolonged hurt & pain.
Please take care Akansha. Please, please please take care of yourself.
Baba, please stop testing her. We all appologize for our sins Baba. Please help us all now. Show her & the guy YOUR light. Let their love win Baba... Please...
Om Sai Ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on August 12, 2009, 01:02:16 AM
jai sai ram wellwisher its just olrite plz dont say sorry,i knw how stupid am i being n for it i rather need a good bash up..ur lik my elder sis even if u slap me on this i wont mind..baba uve got me into few more complications,but baba either get me out of them or plz show a way out..help me baba..i cant aford to have more of a mess ,u knw na baba??plz help me baba pleeeeezz...i love u babaji jai sai ram
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Post by: pragya0786 on August 12, 2009, 01:42:09 AM
Dear Akansha and wwji both of you are right.wwji is right bcz he does not want akansaha to die day by day.and akansha is right bcz she is in intense love with a guy.dis is reallu pure love without any conditions and i believe that akansha will truly get good results for this. But Akansha,wwji is right as you know if you respect yourself then the world will respect you more.
Have you heared the small prayer"Hum ko mann ki shakti dena,mann vijay kerein DOOSERO KI JAY SE PEHLE KHUDH KI JAY KERIN" got the point even the prayers has said that first think about yourself. love=loyalty love=firmness love=stabitlity in feelings love never says to hurt the person to whom you love.
Plz Ask yourself that will you be able to do the same with him?if you say no this means u love him a lot n respect his feelings but what he is doing?..........................we dont have n answer
Akansha i dont say this stop loving him,but love your self equally too.you are not meant to take the pain,tears,hurt etc.
you are the person who deserves happiness,loyalty,true feelings of love and care.
Baba is wid u.......have faith and keep praying to him but stop making initiative from your side dont call him so as if u will not call him u wont get his mobile busy and u wont get hurt. stop running let him run after you easy availability of the person makes it loose the worth.
and u r worth deserving child of Baba.
om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on August 13, 2009, 12:52:32 AM
:) Pragyaji, I know Akansha's love is unconditional. I understand her, her pain. & can sense the guy is a cheat. I just hope you stop hurting Akansha and open your eyes to reality. Its very difficult, I'm struggling with my own set of life realities too. Take care.
Om Sai Ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: pragya0786 on August 13, 2009, 01:52:35 AM
i cna very well understans dis wwji really evn i dont want that wat all we have seen she should not suffer wid this.....
om sai ram
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Post by: Well-wisher on August 13, 2009, 04:02:01 AM
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on August 14, 2009, 09:32:48 AM
jai sai ram baba help me plz.. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Sonu2310 on August 14, 2009, 12:21:32 PM
hello Akansha ji, How r u ? WWji is right, talk to him. forget what will happen. its better to talk now rather repenting for a life time. Have faith in Baba. I wont say ur guy is cheating u, his destiny is like that, i just wanna say dont suffer even after knowing things. How can u tolerate such things. Think abt yourself, Baba is with u , our prayers are with you, go & talk. its the right time to make a step i feel. Baba please help her. Dont test her anymore. Om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on August 15, 2009, 10:16:48 AM
jai sai ram i knw sonu ji..dont knw wat to do...im lost n stuck..only baba can show me the way..help me baba my mind is blocked.. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on August 16, 2009, 10:22:35 AM
jai sai ram baba plz jaldi kuch jawab do koi rasta dikhaao..plz show m ethe way baba ..either give me some guts to take a step..wellwisher i knw all that u say is 100% corect but im nto able to get that into practice..i hope baba gives me some courage soon..help me baba.. jai sai ram
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Post by: pragya0786 on August 17, 2009, 02:16:53 AM
hi akansha ny new development?jus be brave n hit the bully
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on August 18, 2009, 05:25:39 AM
jai sai ram no new development pragaya ji..all is getting worse..last nite had a fight with him n he told me that the otha gal loves him madly n he is very happy with her nd wil not leave her..that gal got his name tatooed on herself n he asked me do u have the gutz to do the same??..its a big thing for a gal to get somebdys name tattoed on herslef..i tried to xplain him but he wasnt ready to listen..now he is saying he wont ever talk to me coz he has seen my true color n my love is just fake as i dont have the guts to get his name tattoed..baba u knw na how much have i loves him.loved him so madly for 5 years..how cud he tel me that..he realy feels i dont love him n never did??baba u knw all na..plz help me baba..i knw im being stupid but i want him in my life.plz baba im helpless..baba plz take this pain away.. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: rajiv800 on August 18, 2009, 06:14:58 AM
Akankshaji,
Om sai ram.
You really still feel he loves you, I know it is hard to accept it but please i think deep within ur heart, even you know he does not. Do you really think that tatooing the name of a person on hand means everything, i feel it should be more on heart than elsewhere, this is all drama that the other girl is doing, you have to understand you have to be yourself, you dont have to go to him proving your love for him, he is no one to compare you with her or vice versa, love is not about comparisions akanksha, its just unconditional love, no matter what or who you are if he loves you he loves you he should and will never compare you with anyone if he truly loves you and tell him that he is saying that your love was fake, ask him to prove his love's worth by coming back to you if he wants to but you know what akanksha, baba is showing you clear indications of what he is, its upto you to understand them and act as per your wishes and will, baba is trying to get you out of trouble but you want to get into it, just think about this, what if he had done this after the marriage, what if he left you for someone else. You are just not worth his love, as you are worth much more, please now when he has himself said this that he does not want to love you anymore, i really feel baba has got you out of trouble, you concentrate on your life and carrer. can you mail me on rajivcool80@hotmail.co.uk when you get time, i really want to say a few things and cant say it here. just hate it when people do this way. I am sorry if you felt bad about anything.
May sai bless you always
Om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Sonu2310 on August 18, 2009, 10:55:52 PM
Om sai ram ji, Rajiv ji is right. Baba has answered your prayers. Why are u still in a dilemma ? U are very precious, do u really think he would be the right person for you. Sorry in case me being harsh. Life should be led with such a person with whom you can happy even when u are far away & still u feel the same when he is near. Everybody do make mistakes, dont blame him, but Baba wants you to know that he is not ur MR. PERFECT, some one else is waiting to appreciate ur true love. Please think about it and take a decision. take care
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on August 19, 2009, 02:05:41 AM
Akansha, he's already decided ure out of his life. He's just finding excuses to get out of the relationship. He doesnt want to put himself in a situation where he is guilty for cheating two women. & is very smartly pushing all the guilt onto you.
I can see it thru & thru Akansha. The man has made his decision. He will keep finding excuses till you yourself get fed up & break the relationship OR will keep pushing guilt onto you until its justified to the world that he's done the right thing by making the choice of leaving you. He's a spineless, insecure, losser who wants to prove himself innocent to the world & come out clean out of this pushing all the guilt onto you. & yes, let me tell you he has already succeeded.
Please... GET OUT OF IT! Thats the only choice. Trust me, I have been thru what ure about to go thru. & its very painful. Just stop it Akansha... before its too late. Throw the man out of your life. Walk upto him and ask him to stay out of your life. Tell him he's not worth any woman. Just see how his ego goes for a toss & the way he reacts to it... Am sure you'll get to see his true colours. Its best you ask him to leave before he pushes you to an extent where you have to under a guilt trap. He's closed the chapter Akansha & is just prolonging it so that he can come out clean out of this. He's not even a true man Akansha... what are you begging for? Cant you see????
Please God, please, please dont make her go thru this. I can see it so clearly God. Please please please dont make her go thru this mess. Please bless her with the best. Stop it God before she looses every bit of her identity & wish to live. Dont even do that to an enemy God. U know how painful it is. Drag her out of this guilt trap & give her the strength to throw the man out of her life completely, harshly so that he never dares to do the same with any woman ever.
God I don't wish pain for anyone including the guy. But please at least make such people realise the impact of their actions on the lives of others. Do not give them pain back God. But at least make them see how much it hurts. So that they stop doing this.
Akansha be strong. We're all with you. But this is a closed chapter. I dont wish to hurt you Akansha. But please stop further pain from entering your life. The man is not worth your pure love. U deserve much better.
Baba please help. In my case I didnt believe in You when my life was getting messed up. She does. She's come to You with complete faith Baba. She's a pure soul. Don't let this happen to her Baba. Please... I beg of You. God please stop this God... its not fair to anyone. Not even to the worst of people.
Om Sai Ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Poons on August 19, 2009, 03:11:43 AM
Akansha, WWji, Rajiv are absolutely right in guiding you. I know even you understand it, but it is difficult to implement. When we love someone genuinely, we can forget and forgive the biggest mistakes of our loved one. A person who can ask you to justify your love by tatooing can never know what true love is. I really pity such people. Please dear, have faith in Baba, at this moment it may seem very tough to forget him. You should pass this test and when you come out of it, you'll be very happy with your decision and your life. Akansha, as I said by wellwisher, I am also of the idea that you should throw him out of your life. Confront him for the very last time by keeping your cool. And let him know that you have realized that he is not in your life in any way. Dear, I know its going to be bit painful, mark my words, Baba will bless with a wonderful life and a true loving partner. I dont know what are you doing currently, I mean in college or working, I would suggest focus on a goal like career, hobby completely. When your true love comes in your life, things change in fraction of a second. This is my experience.
Many times in life, we think and face situations which are so unfair. And they do have a deep impact on our lives. We tend to think we'll never be able to love anyone. God always always has a better plan for us, and only by His Grace you'll also love and enjoy your life.
Be very strong right now, exercise everyday, read a bit, dress up well, eat well. Its your life and you should live it well. May Sai always bless with strength, determination, love and happiness.
Om Sai Nathay Namah !!
Take very good care of yourself. We are all there for you always.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: VinitBhushan on August 19, 2009, 04:51:02 AM
Dear akansha ji,
Instead of reacting on somebody's act, you need to be proactive. Think twice before you take any decision and act.
Sometimes in life, situations come when we, with all our actions and prayers are not able to confront them. Super-natural events over-power us and all our acts. So it's better so step aside and watch the moments as they come. Move with the bounty of the universe, even if the direction which seems to you as opposite, and you may still get back what all you desired. Silence is necessary, along with accepting all which life gives; with same faith and patience as this phase passes by.
I still pray for you and your happiness, and somewhere in my heart it's still there that your sincere wishes come true and you get back your love. And remember that sai baba will also be not happy if some of your dreams break.
Have faith in sai baba.
Baba bless all.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on August 19, 2009, 08:29:25 AM
jai sai ram thanx a lot vinit ji poons sonu ji n wellwisher..he called up said he loves me n said all in anger...again asked me to wait n promised to marry me..cried n shouted that he loves me n wil die without me..how can i explain wats that feelin that..YES,HE IS STIL MINE..HE SAYS HE WIL BE BACK..n i end up behaving normal..n get so so happy just jump around having a belief that yes he WIL be back..HE WIL BE!!!!..ALL WIL BE FINE..ALL WILL BE!!!..BABA IS DOIN THIS COZ HE WANTS US TO BE TOGETHER...i try to see al good hope for the best just coz i have baba...i ignore all bad...i knw this happiness is fake but i keep happy just COZ I TRUST BABA.. wellwisher,rajiv ji all that u told me n all that other wellwishers of mine tell me my mind knws n goes with u guys but heart goes opposite just coz of baba...im sure baba wil have pity on me soon. i realy thank u all by heart..have never seen u guys dont knw u yet u all are with me.. wellwisher i love u...i owe a lot to u..may baba bless u all with a u desire in life.. baba il keep hanging onto u forever baba..FOREVER..COZ I LOVE U BABA
JAI SAI RAM
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: VinitBhushan on August 19, 2009, 08:42:06 AM
Dear akansha ji,
Your post made me feel a bit relaxed. I was a bit tensed for you. And my fingers are still crossed. Just have faith in sai baba and let him do what he wants, as he is indebted to you by your prayers and sacrifice, and will never go against your wishes. Keep praying in whatever ways you can.
Baba bless all.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: chweetujaanu on August 19, 2009, 09:19:02 AM
akansha feel so happy listening that u are fine and feeling good..baba is with u soon ur dreams will come true...keeppraying we all will pray for u..
omsairam
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: ankurjain on August 19, 2009, 10:30:35 AM
Akansha I am very happy to see your post. Thank you saibaba for showing something postive.Thank you baba :-). Om Sai Ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Poons on August 19, 2009, 11:29:02 AM
Dear Akansha, I am so happy for you. Keep faith, patience and prayers. Baba is always with you. I can understand what you are feeling right now. I pray that things turn out the way you wish, however always stay strong, whatever happens will be Baba's wish and He will get you out of all the problems.
Om Sai Ram.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Sonu2310 on August 19, 2009, 11:37:34 AM
Hey akansha , i am so very happy after reading ur post. Be happy. Thank you Baba. keep posting. take care :)
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on August 19, 2009, 03:17:05 PM
:) Am happy for you Akansha. But take care. You don't owe a thing to be buddy. Ure like a lil sis to me. I can feel your pain. I understand where every word, every feeling of urs is coming from. But yes, you do owe Akansha... to yourself & to God who gave you such a precious life. You're a nice, pure, loving soul. Do not ever let hurt or pain break you down Akansha. U have so much of pure love within you. Give it to someone who values it & really needs it. I hope & pray you do. N hope & pray even more that that someone is the one you love. Baba, whatever his problem is... if he really loves her, please get him out of it & get the two of them together. & if he's not stuck in any problem, please help him realize Akansha's worth. Please Baba... do not gv pain to anyone Baba, but at least make them understand and realize how much pain the opposite person is in... so that they stop adding to it.
Om Sai Ram.
Thank You Baba... Don't break her heart... Om Sai Ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on August 20, 2009, 10:02:00 PM
jai sai ram i thank all of u by heart for being so happy for me..i hope baba bless u all with all the hapiness in the world.help all baba..we all love u. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: saisan on August 20, 2009, 10:52:14 PM
om sai ram dear akansha, its really good news and i can imagine the happiness when we get what we want. baba will guide u throught ur life in taking decisions, have faith and keep praying baba will bless u very soon ur almost near. om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: pragya0786 on August 21, 2009, 02:08:34 AM
Dearest Akansha, ur post really made my tears come out......m so happy for u.....i m relaxed really...it seems a burden in heart has gone.....but u are not going to run now....be silent observer to the things......Baba is with u.......
om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on August 22, 2009, 12:27:59 AM
jai sai ram thanx a lot pragaya ji for being so so happy for me..but one thing i want all to knw..this thing that he loves n he wants to marry me n wil marry me..he says that frm long..he says that everyday..but is not leaving the other gal..one day he fights with me.next day he comes running to me n says all this. yesterday i met him..while parting with him i hugged him n wept badly..i was very low..he pushed me away n said get out of the car..i dont want to see u cry n all this sad stuff...that gal she is also living with the fact that i have u in my life..this is a truth wich ul have to bear for now..n said plz change urself..u dont understand me..in fact u shud just keep calm n shud be hapy with the fact im with u..wats there to cry..i meet u..we talk on fone..this is the max i can do for u..wat more do u want??..u got a sick mind..plz change it..I FELT REALY REALY BAD..I CANT EVEN CRY BEFORE HIM..N HE IS SITL NOT GETTING MY PAIN..HE WANTS ME TO BE OK WITH THE FACT THAT HE HAS ONE MORE GAL IN HS LIFE..HOW CAN I EXPLAIN HIM HOW BAD IT HURS..HOW IT PAINS..i hope someday he understands my pain.. i never tel him anything just keep quite for his hapiness..just cry silently..n he says ur not making any efforts... baba wat efforts he exepcts frm me?? wat more can i do for him?? is there realy more to be done from my side??
baba if somewhere im lacking something im ready to make up for it..but baba y he doesnt think abt the effort he has to make..baba u knw na how my heart pains??wen wil u set all rite..im waiting baba..n im not waiting as he tells me to wait..im waiting coz i have shardha n saburi..i have faith in u...plz baba mera vishwas na todna...plz mujhe mera dheeraj wapis dedo baba..plz baba. n baba bless all my frnds out here who care so much for me..thank u all..may baba bless u.
jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Lakshmi Narasimhan on August 22, 2009, 01:59:59 AM
Sri Sai Baba,
My Namaskarams to you I am having confussed now regarding my job decision. Please help me to show clear path to me.
Jai Sai Ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on August 23, 2009, 01:17:10 AM
jai sai ram lakshmi ji baba wil help u out soon..keep praying..baba plz help lakshmi ji.
baba im feelin very low today,plz help baba,y is he doin all this to me?? im broken baba plz take this sorrow away,im waiting for u baba. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: chweetujaanu on August 23, 2009, 07:20:31 AM
akansha keep praying and wait baba will surely do something....
i know how u feel thinking about the other gal but may be even she would have been in the same its ur guy who has to realise takecare baba will surely change him for ur true love ..
baba please listen to her and get her out of this pain saiii....
omsairam
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on August 24, 2009, 01:23:38 PM
jai sai ram baba i need u jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: ankurjain on August 24, 2009, 08:02:10 PM
Saibaba please Bless us all.We need you.Om Sai Ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Sonu2310 on August 25, 2009, 10:21:13 AM
Akansha, Dont worry, sometimes we worry too much about others & forget ourselves. Leave all your worries to baba, he will take care of it. Baba dont test her more, she needs him in her her life. Bless her soon. akansha start the chain as saisan & me have posted, Baba will definitely listen to all of us. Lets pray together for everyone. Take care. dont get tensed. U are a sweet gal.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on August 25, 2009, 06:42:41 PM
Hey Kiddo,
how r u? long time..sorry for not msging...hope u r doing good..hope ur other prob got solved....i am not connected to tat email anymore...so can post only in forum..take care aqua
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on August 26, 2009, 01:29:58 AM
jai sai ram hi aqua,things are still the same my side..just waiiting for baba to show some miracle..hows all ur side?? baba plz bless us all. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on August 26, 2009, 07:54:21 AM
jai sai ram baba ye dard kab jayega?baba i knw that u knw well wat all am i goin thru,im waiting since past 6 months now,how much more do i need to wait..baba im helpless plz show some mercy,the person ive loved so much isnt doin anything,im just alive on the trust i have in u,baba plz give me an answer...plz baba..PLZ ASWER ME.. ARE U HERE WITH ME? WILL ALL BE FINE? WEN WIL THIS PAIN GO AWAY? WEN WIL HAPPY DAYS BE BACK? im waiting baba,plz come soon,baba,im feelin very low baba..im totally broken frm inside..wen wil he realise how wrong is he doin to me..plz baba give my dheeraj back to me baba plz..i realy love him n cant live without him..im not able to bear this pain baba..how much more time wil i have to wait??plz baba tomorrow is thursday..plz show some miracle baba..il wait for a miracle tommorw baba..plz show some way..il wait for that hint tommorow.i need u baba plz be with me. jai sai ram
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Post by: ankurjain on August 26, 2009, 08:07:09 AM
Akansha you have been praying for so long that too with complete faith.baba will definitely answer your prayers.Please dont feel low.everything will be fine.have faith in saibaba he is just waiting for the right time to bless you. Saibaba plz bless Akansha, Saisan, Bhaarti,manish,Chweetu,aquafish,sonu,Sona raj, Vineetji ,me and all others who are waiting for some miracle.Saibaba aap kuch bhi kar sakte ho and you are our only hope.Please help us.Om sai ram.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: chweetujaanu on August 26, 2009, 09:04:12 AM
akansha everything will be fine soon please dont worry..keep praying..
baba please help her saii..
omsairam
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on August 26, 2009, 09:39:14 AM
Akansha,
hang in there kid!! u r strong and faithful!1 baba will see u through!! he is just testng u..the real sinners r ppl like me and trust me nothing will happen to u..he will take care of u...
I have started chairtha for all of u...
Om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Sonu2310 on August 26, 2009, 09:48:50 AM
Akansha, Dont worry, Leave all your worries to baba, he will take care of it. Baba dont test her more, she needs him in her her life. Bless her soon. akansha start the chain as saisan & me have posted, Baba will definitely listen to all of us. Lets pray together for everyone. Take care. dont get tensed. U are a sweet gal. U dint reply to my post :( just kidding. keep smiling. Baba will bless u soon
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Post by: akansha on August 27, 2009, 02:11:52 AM
jai sai ram sonu ji,aquafish,chweetujanu,ankur ji thanx a loooottt...for being with me..may baba bless u all soon.. sonu ji wat kind of chain are u talkin abt i din get it..plz tel me.. aaj mene vrat rakha hai..il pray for all of us.. baba plz plz plz baba come soon..im waiting baba..im waiting for u..plz baba this pain is unbearable now..i knw u can see me crying n wreathing n pain ..then y do u just sit n watch me..??..wen wil u come n take my hand in urs n get me thru all this..plz give me my love back baba plzzz...plz take these bad days away frm my life..
jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: nbinod1974 on August 27, 2009, 08:42:41 AM
Dear Aakansha,
i have just entered as a member of this forum. i have seen all of your messages. you have started this in the month of March, 2009 and today is August, 27, 2009. till this time you have to understand the blessings of BABA on you. he has already shown you the path. he wants you to be liberal and independent. he has already shown you the path that forget about past and leave in your present.
now you decide what is your present. don't see any dream and except the truth. BABA has already shown you the way but you are not in a position to see it. BABA has already provided you the way to sail through/ where are you? wake up and forget about past and try to leave in present with friends like us.
BABA KI MEHARBANI SUB PAR BANI RAHE.
sorry i have writtenwhat i understood to be better for you.
my email id is : nbinod1974@rediffmail.com
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on August 27, 2009, 09:45:36 AM
Akansha,
i have started fasting too..sab teek hoga bachha..dont worry...how r things with ur friends? hanging out with them? please enjoy ur life..u r still young!! what will happen will happen..dont hang on to stuff tat wont help u ...stay strong..
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Sonu2310 on August 27, 2009, 12:06:03 PM
dont worry akansha, things will get better soon. just pray & leave everything to Baba. We need to have that unshaken faith in order to see Baba. Lets all pray together for everyone. baba please listen to all of us. Let each and everyone's wish be fulfilled.
om sai ram baba bless Anamika,Ankur,Akanksha,Aquafish,Bharti ,Chweetu,Gunj,Nancy,Pragya,Ramajaya,Saisan,Suhani,Saicharandhool ji,Vinit ji,well-wisher, javed ji & myself and all present here...
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Post by: ankurjain on August 27, 2009, 06:26:49 PM
Akansha you have been praying for so long.Abhi stop this crying just stay calm, pray and have faith in baba .Dekhna when your BF will see you happy he will start feeling ki tumhare saath vo bhi khush rahega.baba will never leave your prayers unanswerred.He will bless you with your love just give it some time.Please baba bless Akansha, bharti, sonu, Vinit,chweetu, aquafish,nancy,saisan,manish,Chweetu,anamika, me and all others who are praying to get their love back.Saibaba we wont leave you .You have to answer our prayers sooner or later.Om Sai Ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: pragya0786 on August 28, 2009, 12:38:14 AM
hi akansha hws life and hw are r5things going on at ur end?hope u being alright?dont feel low everythoing will be alright
om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on August 28, 2009, 12:57:21 AM
jai sai ram i thank all of u fr being with me..thanx a lot.. pragaya ji things are still the same my side..dont knw wat to do.. aqua i dont feel lik hanging out with frnds or anyone..im just too depprressd for it..hows all ur side?? baba see all are telling me u may not get him..but stil i have a hope n keep praying coz i trust u..baba mera vishwas na tutne dena..i beg u baba plz help me..baba u tel u bhakts that u cal me once by heart n il be there with u..ive called u so many times by heart...but things are still the same..nd baba there are still few things that are very good n positive lik he loves me lot,he tells me he cant live without me..he says he wil marry me..n i thanku by heart for it..but baba y doesnt he leave the other gal??im badly hurted baba..plz help him baba if he is in a stuck situation..plz bless us baba. nd baba plz help all members of ths forum who are waiting for u to answr their prayers..baba plz bless bharti, sonu, Vinit,chweetu, aquafish,nancy,saisan,manish,Chweetu,anamika, me and all others. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: chweetujaanu on August 28, 2009, 09:58:07 AM
akansha baba will surely listen to ur heartfelt prayers but it may take time but the result and success will be on ur side.. please dont lose hope let anyone tell anything let them even laugh but u dont care about them baba is with u he will surely bring ur guy back...
baba please baba all are waiting for ur answer sai they trust u. u are the only hope for all of us baba please help...
omsairam
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on August 28, 2009, 10:03:06 AM
akansha,
sab teek hoga..ave faith in baba...om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on August 28, 2009, 03:18:50 PM
Akansha... do japa... as an elder sis... its my humble request... Are you doing your affirmations, japa, self-develpment??? Do it... & keep praying. All will be good
vitalaffirmations.com
Go to this link daily as a rule & spend 5 mins. Do ur daily japa. Ask God to be with you. Be a strong girl. Tell God, with You within, I can never be weak. Make me a strong girl God...
Om Sai Ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Sonu2310 on August 28, 2009, 09:38:33 PM
Akansha ji, How r u? why worrying dear ?? Keep ur faith firm . Baba will bless us soon. baba plzz bless Anamika,Ankur, Akanksha,Aquafish, bharti ,chweetu, gunj, Nancy, Pragya, Ramajaya, Saisan, Suhani, Saicharandhool ji, Vinit ji, well-wisher, javeedji, saikrupakaro ji, suchi ji, binod ji & myself.. We all need u.. We are waiting for u ...
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on August 29, 2009, 09:37:17 AM
JAI SAI RAM IM DYING BABA JAI SAI RAM
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: chweetujaanu on August 29, 2009, 10:37:09 AM
akansha wat happened?
dont lose hope akansha baba will surely help u..
omsairam
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on August 30, 2009, 12:49:20 PM
Akansha... snap out of this now. Enough is enough. Do not waste your beautiful life over someone who DOESN'T LOVE you. Please try and understand Akansha.... saying and proving in action are two different things. If you keep too much hope this is bound to happen. I know no matter what I say you will. Cause I know we are all that way. Its good to have hope Akansha. Its great to have faith. But one should not let life stop at that. Please try and open your eyes and understand realistically... Get out of the victim position Akansha! Its never helped anyone. Go out, see other people's lives, their pain. Thank God that you are no where close to it! Go out & do your bit to make a difference. Thats what God sent you out here for... not for crying over people who cheat you.
You must understand Akansha. Whether he is with uou or not... the guy is cheating on at least one woman (out of the two of you). N always remember... a guy who can cheat someone else can cheat you too... PLEASE DO NOT WASTE UR LIFE OVER AN UNWORTHY MAN.
You deserve better. I would have never said this if he would have even shown one sign of loyalty & love Akansha. Its very easy to cry buckets in front of someone & say I love you. Its very difficult to in reality love and conitinue to love, to give, to be there in every way. Where there is love, there is loyalty Akansha. Where on earth is the love if he speaks so mcuh about it. The man doesnt deserve even a single look from you Akansha. Stop looking at him... at that road in life. Am sure you will find a million times better... & I hope & I pray you do.
Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram
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Post by: Sonu2310 on August 30, 2009, 10:46:13 PM
Om sai ram , Dont worry akansha, everything will be fine soon. Please dont lose patience now, the testing phase will end very soon.
baba plz bless Anamika, Ankur, Akanksha,Aquafish, bharti , chweetu, gunj, Nancy, Pragya, Ramajaya, Saisan, Suhani, Suchi,Saicharandhool ji, Vinit ji, well-wisher, javeed, starter ji and myself.. We all need ur mercy
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Post by: Well-wisher on August 31, 2009, 01:52:32 AM
:) Thank you Sonuji for your best wishes.
Akansha, there is something I have just told SaiShriRamji on Gajanan Bhaktji's post on fear. Requesting you to read it with a calm mind. Please do go to Gajananji's post (Sai Baba Help me section) & read it patiently.
My prayers and wishes are with you. Do not worry. I am channeling Reiki to you. All is going to be fine, your guy included.
Om Sai Ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on August 31, 2009, 01:55:03 AM
jai sai ram wellwisher he says he loves me n shows his love everyway exept for leaving her..at my one cry he comes running,between us all is almost the same as before expept for the other gal,he is not leaving her dont knw y..but on the other hand he is very upset about me eing in pain..but still not leaving her..wen he shows his loving gestures lik hugs me wipes my tears says sorry asks me to wait i get swayed away... but not im kindoff ignoring him,baba plz give me some strenth n patence to do so n show him that im going so that he may take a step..plz give me some strength i hope i get better results coz im the most important to him n i knw he loves me..yesterday he told me no matter wat i wont let u go faar away frm me i wont let u leave n im in a stuck situation ,he actually does things that dont let me tke a hard step...but baba this time u do it all..ive left all onto u only u knw how wil i manage..i love u baba n i knw ure there..i thanku all for being there for me.. baba plz help all craving for thier loved ones..plz baba dont see us in pain lik this ..its hard baba its realy hard..plz help Anamika, Ankur,Aquafish, bharti , chweetu, gunj, Nancy, Pragya, Ramajaya, Saisan, Suhani, Suchi,Saicharandhool ji, Vinit ji, well-wisher, javeed, starter ji n me...i beg u baba help us.
jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on August 31, 2009, 01:58:38 AM
JAI SAI RAM SAI BABA JI TOMMORROW IS MY BDAY..I HOPE U RMBR..THIS IS JUST A REMINDER BUT IL ASK FOR MY GIFT TOMMORROW...I HOPE UL NOT REFUSE IT TO ME ON MY BDAY...LIKE I ASK MY LOVED ONES MY PARENTS,MY BRO MY SIS FOR THE GIFTS I WANT THE SAME WAY IL ASK U FOR IT COZ UR MY ALL MY DAD MOM BRO SIS GRANDMA GRANDAD EVERYTHING..BABA I LOVE U N I KNW U LOVE ME TOO. JAI SAI RAM
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Post by: saisan on August 31, 2009, 02:35:07 AM
Dear Akansha, Many Many Happy Returns of the day May baba bless you with all happiess today and life through
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Post by: Poons on August 31, 2009, 03:29:47 AM
Dear Akansha, Many happy returns of the day !! May God bless you with loads of happiness, strength and peace !
Take good care of yourself.
Om Sai Ram !!
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: ankurjain on August 31, 2009, 05:36:17 AM
Dear Akansha, Wish you a Very Happy BirthDay. May all your wishes come true :-) Enjoy your day. Om Sai Ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: gomisuchi on August 31, 2009, 06:13:21 AM
hello akansha.. happy bday... listen dear... i knw its going to be hard.. but i have a solution to ur problem.. u might have some frnd of urs.. a male frnd who is like a brother... talk to him and plan up something.. make ur guy jealous... trust me it will work in ur case. 100%... we humans are like dat.. when we tyake something for granted we dont value it.. he knws ur madly in love wid him.. so he is taking u for a joy ride... the day he feeels u might go wid someone else.. he will get serious and leave that other girl... show him tons of attitude... and try making him jealous.. remember its not wrong.. just doing something to get back ur love... have a gr8 day.. god bless u
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Post by: Well-wisher on August 31, 2009, 06:21:32 AM
:) Aku... many many many many happy returns of the day! God bless you with TRUE LOVE... & TRUE LOYALTY... & LOADS & LOADS & LOADS & LOADS of happiness, love, life, peace, success & wisdom in life.
What gift do u need Aku... U have the world at your feet. You have God Himself living & loving within.... beyond God what can ever be???
Love you lots... will always be there & pray for you as an elder sis. Wish the best for you :) God bless...
Om Sai Ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on August 31, 2009, 11:02:51 AM
jai sai ram thank u alllllll for wishing me...hehe im realy happy to see u all wishing me so by heart..love u all..may baba bless u all n take away all ur pains n agonies...thanx again. wellwisher ur rite..i have baba with me in me near me everywhere wat more shud i ask as a gift..i wont ask that way...just baba be with me all my life..dheeraj my famiily n all my frnds over here...baba help us all. jai sai ram
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Post by: chweetujaanu on August 31, 2009, 11:08:01 AM
akansha many many happy returns of the day..keep smiling and enjoy ur life..with baba by ur side..
takecare hope baba gives u a happy and peaceful life..
omsairam
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Parul.aradhana on August 31, 2009, 04:25:58 PM
Count your life by smiles, not tears. Count your age by friends, not years. Many-2 happy returns of the Day! May Baba keep you happy always.
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Post by: Sonu2310 on August 31, 2009, 09:05:36 PM
Hey akansha , Many many returns of the day !!! May God bless u with all the things u love & need. Keep smiling. Take care....
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Post by: Sonu2310 on August 31, 2009, 09:09:27 PM
baba plz bless Anamika, Ankur, Akanksha,Aquafish, bharti , chweetu, gunj, Nancy, Pragya, Ramajaya, Saisan, Suhani, Suchi,Saicharandhool ji, Vinit ji, well-wisher, javeed, starter ji and myself.. We all need ur mercy.. akansha u forgot my name :(.. Anyways enjoy ur day to the max. baba wil definitely fulfill all ur wishes.. :)
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Post by: VinitBhushan on August 31, 2009, 09:14:55 PM
Dear akansha ji,
Wish you a joy and happiness life ahead. Take care and have faith in sai baba, you will be experiencing all the best gifts from sai baba in coming years of your life.
Baba bless all.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on August 31, 2009, 11:09:26 PM
jai sai ram thank u all soo much..:) sonu ji im realy sorry for the mistake... baba plz help sonu ji get all one needs n desires...plz bless sonu ji...have mercy baba.i love u baba im goin to meet him today..im sure the day wil go well..but i want him to say something good to me..which i will take as an answer from urside plz baba.i love u. jai sai ram
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Post by: saisan on August 31, 2009, 11:21:07 PM
Dear Akansha,
You forgot my name also, i sent u greeting,may be u din't like i think, :-( Dear just enjoy ur day,have fun and take baba's blessings everything will be fine
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Post by: pragya0786 on September 01, 2009, 02:14:24 AM
Dear Dearest akansha Belated happy birthday to u ...m not too late the party must go on n on dear..may all ur wishes come true and u get everything in ur life wat u desire... tel me hws life ny improvement?wat u hv planned or thinking..... jus rock babay life has many things to do n blast
Luv u lots....Baba bless us all
om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on September 01, 2009, 08:39:28 AM
jai sai ram saisan ji im realy sorry...may baba bless u n take all ur sorrows away..thanx uuu sooooo much..i realy really liked that greeting u sent me...thanx a lot.. pragaya my bday is today its not belated yet lollzz...i celebrated with my frnds...went out with him..was a wonderful day..i told baba to just show me some positive signs today wich i may take as his answer..my bf made my day..he told me several times that all he wants is to be with me..loved cared a lot n treated me lik a princess...moreover i got mba call today for admission for i was waiting since 2 months..i knw baba wil do good...baba wil show the way..thanx baba. wellwisher i read that article on fear..it was very very good..i learnt a lot..plz tel further. saisan im sorry again ...may baba bless u all with all the best in life...love u all..i wish u wer all here with me today. jai sai ram
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Post by: Sonu2310 on September 01, 2009, 09:10:50 PM
Dear akansha, Godd to hear ur that day went well, and congrats for the call(MBA Admission) . Baba will definitely do good to all of us. Baba thank you so much for making her day..
Baba plzzzzzzzz bless soon Anamika, Ankur, Akanksha, Aquafish, bharti , chweetu, gunj, Nancy, Pragya, Ramajaya, Saisan, Suhani, Saicharandhool ji, Suchi, Vinit ji, well-wisher, javeed, pari ji and myself
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Post by: saisan on September 01, 2009, 10:55:47 PM
om sai ram Deat Akansha,Good to know u have wonderful day, i know how much happiness you get when u be with bf and that too on b'day and it happens what all we expected, baba keep her happy like this forever.
Baba plzzzzzzzz bless soon Anamika,Ankur, Akanksha,Aquafish, bharti ,chweetu,gunj,Nancy,Pragya,Ramajaya,Sonu,Suhani,Saicharandhool ji,Suchi,Vinit ji,well-wisher and myself
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Post by: pragya0786 on September 02, 2009, 12:09:11 AM
Akansha,i m realy very very happy for u.Gud to know that u were the "Princess"i pray to Baba that each day of urs is jus like wat u spent wid him. Upon all this u got ur call for mba.....now my dear ur real life starts now atleast u got the way on which u hv to work on and trust me this will boost up ur confidence and then world is al urs... He wiil surely come to u.as u will be Akansha different from the one.Now no more tears...u r right at ur place so do right to urself also and make urself more strong. Baba please make her wishes come true......... om sai ram
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Post by: akansha on September 02, 2009, 10:58:20 AM
jai sai ram thanx a lot pragaya ...may baba bless u too. baba im very depressd..have many paths i cant choose any..plz help me baba..i rely on only u..help me baba..plz baba aaj aa jao..im waiting baba... jai sai ram
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Post by: ved123 on September 02, 2009, 12:02:13 PM
Jai Sai Ram. May Baba Bless you.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Sonu2310 on September 02, 2009, 09:31:18 PM
Om sai ram akansha, Dont worry baba will definitely show u some way, dont get depressed. He is bringing you near the goal... Baba plzzzzzzzz bless soon Anamika,Ankur, Akanksha, Aquafish, bharti , chweetu, gunj, Nancy, Pragya, Ramajaya, Saisan, Suhani, Saicharandhool ji, Suchi, Vinit ji, well-wisher, javeed, pari ji and myself.. we need ur mercy...
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on September 03, 2009, 03:43:29 AM
jai sai ram baba its been long since im praying for my love,u say have shardha n i have full faith..u say have
saburi...n im keepin patience since 6 months now..baba as u lik i always feel for poor..try to do my best
for them,never think bad about anyone ,always try not to hurt sombody's feelings, i try to do all i can
on his part too,he tells me to keep mum about the whole thing,i try my best,try to ignore n be with him
but baba how can i tolerate all that is going on the other side,he tels me be satisfied with all that you
have n dont think just about yourself think about that other gal too,she is sad too but she loves me n is
with me,u 2 be with me,baba u knw na how i had all how he loved me n what kind of happy days have i
seen in life,moreover wen that gal came to his life,she knew about me alredy but for me is it that easy
baba??to know his fone is goin busy n he mite be tellin her how much he loves her n needs her..or she
mite be crying n he mite be tellin her plz dont worry iam with u n i love u,baba he got feelings for her
he loves her,but he loves me too,he treats her the same way lik he treats me,it hurts me badly to even
imagine how he meets her,roams with her,hands in hands all those places he been with me,when he
is angry he tells me that she is very good n he realy needs her n she loves him more than me,n tels me
that u shud be thankful that inspite of her being so good im still with you.baba shud i really be happy
that he is with me or shud i cry that he loves some1 else too the way he loved me,though u tell alll ur
bhakts to be happy n satisfied with all they have ,,but baba u knw well na how it feels to see ur love
in somebdy else's arms.baba i was all of 15 wen i met him,loved him wth the most pure heart n all of
my innocence,i saw god in him,baba he too loved me n stil loves me madly i knw..n he wants to be with
me all his life n says he wil marry me,but he cant live without the other gal too,wat should i do baba??
should i realy leave him n make him come back the harsh way or shud i keep mum for his happiness
coz he wants both of us,am i really being selfish to think he should choose one out of us both(ive nvr
asked him to choose me,ive always told him if u want her u go with her i wont mind,though il die)..
baba im breaking day by day and he knows abt it ..if i try to say something unpleasent about the
other gal he asks me to keep my mouth shut coz he cant hear bad about her(same goes for me too).
baba u knw it all what im going through,i cant live without him ,n if i try to leave him he tells me was this
ur love??u cant wait for sometime n he never tells too how mch time he wants me to wait..but for now
he cant imagine to leave her,nor me...i still rmbr baba how he cried at the very thot of her moving to
some other city,he cried before me,n i had to control my tears n had to tell him u dont worry she wont
go,il try to talk to her n wil ask her to stay with u.baba its very very painfull to see ur love crying in ur
arms for some1 else,n i knw u knw it very well,then y baba y is this happneing,y dont u do something,
baba plz give me my love back,im waiting since long baba,plz show some miracle,y are u seeing me cry
quietly?? y are u not comming baba..wen wil u come baba??? baba plz help all the peolpe who are
crying for their love,plz dont sit so quietly,plz baba,we all ur bhakts,all we have is u,we all rely on u
baba one stanza in sai kasht nivaran says :- ACHA CHALO EK BAAT BATA DO, KYA NAHI TUMHARE PAAS BATADO? JO NHI DENA HAI INKAAR KARDO KHATAM YE APAS KI TAKRAR KARDO..
baba u have it all,u can give my all back,y dont u give it then,when wil the rite time come??
im waiting baba plz come soon. today il light a diya in ur wait,baba plz let the light of diya spead into the lives of all the peole who are crying for their love or other reasons.
IM WAITING BABA:(
JAI SAI RAM
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Sonu2310 on September 03, 2009, 09:18:57 PM
Dear akansha, I feel you should rethink about the decision you have taken.. Baba plzzz help her come out of this soon... Let the other gal be happy also..
Baba plzzzzzzzz bless soon Anamika,Ankur, Akanksha, Aquafish, bharti , chweetu, gunj, Nancy, Pragya, Ramajaya, Saisan, Suhani, Saicharandhool ji, Suchi, Vinit ji, well-wisher, javeed, pari ji and myself.. we need ur mercy...
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Post by: pragya0786 on September 04, 2009, 01:53:09 AM
Dear Dearest Akansha, the more i read about you the more i get the feeling of respect for you and angry feeling for him but this is also a true fact which you are facing and i really hatts off to ur paitience and courage but i agree to this also ki if we wont complain or say ti Baba then to whom?
Akansha i have been waiting for 7 yearts and to show this time Baba gave me the courage....and you know what m still waiting for the rite time.,......as of now i really even dont know whats the situation is other side..,.atleast u r lucky enough that you are talking to him but i have not talk to him since so many months its really painful but slowly n steadily m out of this as Baba knows when the rite time has to come...and trust me things will go accordingly.......
i jus wanna u to be happy now as what u saw in life i hv been through....we all are in BABA kka darbar and this is the only place where we can share our joys and sorrows with truness,no manipulations....
Baba we need you please help us soon
om sai ram
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Post by: Well-wisher on September 04, 2009, 08:07:57 AM
Pragyaji, Aku... please start a "Sai" naam japa. Start with 11,000 times. Its an advise as a lil or elder sis.
Baba, bless all with their love... and love & light to all...
Aku, one lil request. Stop waiting, stop complaining, stop crying... just focus on your japa. Baba ka naam lo... right here at this post, resolve not to crib, cry or ask Baba how long. Tell Baba,
"Am at Your feet Baba. You have to accept me, hold me. Just be with me. I am not going to cry now. Everytime I feel like crying I will come here and type Your name endlessly...until I complete my japa, until You hear my prayers, until You show me the light. I will not shed tears Baba, my tears are for You to wipe. & with everytime I take Your name, I consider it done."
Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram
Wipe away all her tears Baba, like You wiped mine. Love is always there & it grows deeper with every passing day. But let not the love make us feel weak. Make it our strength Baba, like You did to me.
For me Aku, my love is alive... & successful & has won today... cause I know he is happy... & I want him to be happy always. If he is happy, I am happy & have nothing to ask for. My love is strong, it can stand the test of time. If our soul has to meet, it will whenever it has to meet.
Love is not about physically being together with each other all thru life. Love is being together in thought & spirit... when I pray I send love, when I channel Reiki I send love... when I think of him I send love... with the belief that Sai is making it reach him. If he hasnt called me, it means he is happy... n his happiness is the sole purpose of love... My love has helped me grow... & as I grow the love grows...
May Baba show you the light & help you make love your strength Aku... not a weakness...
If you trust me, have even the slightest faith in me... start your japa here itself... I will add to it whenever I can... Tell Baba, I am not leaving You, Your feet until You help me out. Hold my hand and drag me out of this or hold his hand and show him the right path. But I'm not moving until You do something!!! You have to... & I know You will...
Om Sai Ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on September 04, 2009, 09:02:42 AM
jai sai ram pragaya i can understand wat uve been through..n im realy fortunate that atleast im talkin to him..atlest he tells me he loves me, today i met him n he said he wil leave her soon nd is trying for it,next moment he yelled in anger that he wil not leave any one of us,if any of us has a prob that peron may leave,but i knw he doesnt want me to go,he told me he wil marry me,wants to be with me.nd my mba scene is also almost cancelled,before i cud get admissions seats got almost full but final il come to knw in a day or two,seems lik everythig is crashing down but yeah i do tel baba that i wont leave ur feet no matter wat..il stick to u even more if i get more bad in life,.. im here baba,ur here too..u asked me to have shardha n saaburi n im keeping it..i knw ul soon do something, i felt realy happy wen he told me to have "SAABURI" though he is not a firm beliver in baba but he knws i belive a lot in him n i keep tellin myself shardha n saaburi...so wen he said that felt lik baba is saying it through him,baba he wants me to chnage few things in me,plz give me strength to do my best n plz make him realise that im trying as ahrd as i can,bless him baba he is sad too,plz take his pains away,plz baba. wellwisher i wanted to ask u something..as u told me to start japa..i did it in a dairy n i write as mch as i wish too..is that fine??or i should do it here??nd in how much time do i need to comeplete 11000?? nd how mcuh times should i write at a time.plz let me knw soon..thanx a lot for showing such a wonderfull way.
sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sai
jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on September 05, 2009, 05:14:23 PM
jai sai ram baba i need u..tommorrow i have to go for mba admission..plz help me baba to get through it,else il be broken,im leaving all upto u baba,plz help me.love u baba.plz give me my old happy days back baba. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: gomisuchi on September 06, 2009, 12:05:51 AM
hey akansha... u will definitely get what u want... i am sure... we all are praying for u...
remember these lines
" kar do ishara to baat ban jaye jo nahi kismat mein woh bhi mil jaye"
keep faith... u will get all ur hapiness soon... god bless
OM SAI RAM
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Sonu2310 on September 07, 2009, 10:15:21 PM
baba plzz help akansha , dont disappoint her ..... Dont worry dear everything will be fine...
Baba plzzzzzzzz bless soon Anamika,Ankur, Akanksha, Aquafish, bharti , chweetu, gunj, Nancy, Pragya, Ramajaya, ramoo ji, Saisan, Suhani, Saicharandhool ji, Suchi, Vinit ji, well-wisher, javeed, pari ji and myself.. we need ur mercy...
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on September 07, 2009, 11:37:52 PM
jai sai ram baba plz help all who are craving for thier love..we need u baba plz help us. plz baba we love u. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on September 08, 2009, 01:14:30 AM
Aku, no rules for japa. Japa is talking to God, letting your emotions & negativities flow out, reaching out to God, asking Him to hold you, asking Him to help you feel Him, His strength, His love, His light within.
Do it in your dairy, or wherever... as much as you like. Try focussing only on japa everytime you feel like crying... you may cry but simultaneously do naam jap... verbally, written, mentally... however... Try completing 11,000... in as much time as you wish to... there is no rule, but once you do 11,000 or a high number... you will feel the difference. The more you do it, the more negativity & such situations flow out of your life. Let your life, your heart be so full of positivity & love that it automatically repels such situations or people who may harm you in any way. May His light be with you, Pragyaji...all those in love & all in pain out here & over the world.
Be the love, Be the light Aku... let the love shine so bright... it burns all negativity...
Om Sai Ram... Baba, help us all.... heal us all... bless us all...
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Sonu2310 on September 09, 2009, 08:55:44 PM
om sai ram akansha, How r u ? what happened ?? Baba plzz dont disapoint this gal... baba plzz help her...
Baba plzzzzzzzz bless soon Anamika,Ankur, Akanksha, Aquafish, bharti , chweetu, gunj, Nancy, Pragya, Ramajaya, Saisan, Suhani, Saicharandhool ji, Suchi, Vinit ji, well-wisher, javeed, pari ji and myself.. we need ur mercy...
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: ankurjain on September 09, 2009, 09:48:43 PM
Saibaba plz bless anamika, akansha, bharti, aqua, saisan, snitu, sonu, vinit, pragya, manish, suchi, pari, chweetu, me and all others who are waiting for you to shower your blessings on us.om Sai Ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on September 10, 2009, 12:11:01 AM
om sai ram baba im goin for an interveiw,plz baba get me this job,u knw na baba how am i managing all the things,plz baba help all who are waiting for u. om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: chweetujaanu on September 10, 2009, 04:53:39 AM
akansha dont worry baba will surely help u..
baba pls help her fair well in the interview saii..
omsairam
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: saisan on September 10, 2009, 05:49:34 AM
om sai ram dear akansha, have udi with u while attending the interview, u will succeed.
om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on September 10, 2009, 07:32:15 AM
jai sai ram thanx chweetu n saisan ji for ur wishes..my first round went good..hope i get thur tom too..may baba bless u both..chweetu hows al?? n how abt u saisan? let me knw soon. may baba be with us all. jai sai ram
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Post by: chweetujaanu on September 10, 2009, 08:15:08 AM
nothing new from my side akansha howz everything going on ur side? dont worry very soon all ur worries will end keep praying..
omsairam
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Sonu2310 on September 10, 2009, 08:21:46 PM
Om sai ram, Hey congrats for the first round.. U wil clear next round also.. Dont worry.. Baba plzz help her.. We all are counting on you..
Baba plzzzzzzzz bless soon Anamika,Ankur, Akanksha, Aquafish, bharti , chweetu, gunj, Nancy, Pragya, Ramajaya, Saisan, Suhani, Saicharandhool ji, Suchi, Vinit ji, well-wisher, javeed, pari ji and myself.. we need ur mercy.. We all are waiting for u. DOnt disappoint any one also.. Please Baba...
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: ankurjain on September 10, 2009, 08:44:24 PM
Baba Plz help us all.We need you.Om Sai Ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: saisan on September 10, 2009, 11:35:22 PM
om sai ram Dear Akansha, I am good, How r u? Congrats for clearing the 1st round, you will succeed , baba is there with u.Keep praying baba will bless us soon,
Baba plzzzzzzzz bless soon Anamika,Ankur, Akanksha,Aquafish, bharti ,chweetu,gunj,Nancy,Pragya,Ramajaya,Sonu,Suhani,Saicharandhool ji,Suchi,Vinit ji,well-wisher and myself
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Sonu2310 on September 11, 2009, 08:48:15 PM
Om sai ram akansha, Howz u ? what happened to the next round ?
Baba plzzzzzzzz bless soon Anamika,Ankur, Akanksha, Aquafish, bharti , chweetu, gunj, Nancy, Pragya, Ramajaya, Saisan, Suhani, Saicharandhool ji, Suchi, Vinit ji, well-wisher, javeed, pari ji and myself.. we need ur mercy... We wont leave your feet...
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: ankurjain on September 11, 2009, 08:57:29 PM
Saibaba plz bless Akansha, aquafish, anamika, bharti, saisan, sonu, Manish, Vinit, chweetu, nancy, pari, pragya, me and all others who are waiting for your blessings.Om Sai Ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on September 12, 2009, 11:37:30 AM
jai sai ram baba plz be with me,plz take all this pain away,plz get me a good job. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: chweetujaanu on September 13, 2009, 09:09:59 AM
akansha how are u?
dont worry baba will help u out soon.. have some patience n keep praying..
baba please help her saii dont test her any more..
omsairam
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Sonu2310 on September 13, 2009, 08:47:10 PM
Om sai ram akansha ji,
howz u ? Baba is definitely with all of us.. Baba plzz answer to us.. Dont test her anymore.. We need u baba... Baba plzzzzzzzz bless soon Anamika,Ankur, Akanksha, Aquafish, bharti , chweetu, gunj, Nancy, Pragya, Ramajaya, Saisan, Suhani, Saicharandhool ji, Suchi, Vinit ji, well-wisher, javeed, pari ji and myself..
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on September 13, 2009, 11:50:41 PM
jai sai ram all is same chweetu,baba plz cme soon else i wil die,i cant take this more baba,im in peices,plz help me baba,i need u baba,kab aaoge? jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: saisan on September 14, 2009, 12:05:35 AM
om sai ram Dear Akansha, how r u?did u had 2nd round interview? don't worry baba is known for showing miracles, he wil bless us all what we want for. lets keep praying...
Baba plzzzzzzzz bless soon Anamika,Ankur,Akanksha,Aquafish,Bharti ,chweetu,gunj,Nancy,Pragya,Ramajaya,Sonu,Suhani,Saicharandhool ji,Suchi,Vinit ji,well-wisher and myself with thier loved once and happy married life.we r waiting plz bless us soon
om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: pragya0786 on September 14, 2009, 12:18:07 AM
Dear Aku, hw r u n hw r things going on at ur side? m worried do tel me n keep on praying to Baba will surely help u out.
Om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: chweetujaanu on September 14, 2009, 04:49:02 AM
akansha how are u dear? keep praying nothing will go wrong things look bad but they turn out good when the correct time comes for it to happen i have full faith that ur guy will realize it very soon..
omsairam
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Sonu2310 on September 14, 2009, 08:26:48 PM
Om sai ram akansha,
Dont worry .. when baba is with us, then no need to worry.. He will definitely bless all of us one day or the other... Please dont shatter into pieces.. baba plzz come to our help... We all need u...
Baba bless all of us with their loved ones... we all need u.. we wont leave ur feet.. Baba plzzzzzzzz bless soon Anamika,Ankur, Akanksha, Aquafish, bharti , chweetu, gunj, Nancy, Pragya, Ramajaya, Saisan, Suhani, Saicharandhool ji, Suchi, Vinit ji, well-wisher, javeed, pari ji and myself..
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on September 16, 2009, 01:18:16 AM
jai sai ram pragaya,chweetu all is getting bad n bad,he is saying he wil never leave her,n if im not comfortable with the idea of him having 2 gals in his life i may backout,though he cant see me goin faar frm him but he says this in anger,but the truth is he realy is not goin to leave her neither me,n i love him lot n im nt able to leave him,he claims he is in a mess coz of all this he is stuck between 2 gals n all n he is also goin thru a very bad phase,baba plz tel me wat shud i do,im not able to handle this situation,baba plz give me my dheeraj back baba plz. pragaya do u have any yahoo id??i just wish to talk to some1..feelin low. baba plz have mercy. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: pragya0786 on September 16, 2009, 01:24:33 AM
write dwn my id its pragya0786@gmail.com we can chat right now on this do u hv ny gmail id do let me know.even i wanna talk.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: gomisuchi on September 16, 2009, 03:25:50 AM
Akansha..
take two slips of papers.. write yes in one and no in the other...goto a sai baba temple... put both the chits in front of him... pray from ur heart.. then ask him to choose.. whether u will marry dheeraj or not.. or whether u should stay with him or not.. whchevr question.. and pick up one chit... take that as babas final answer and accept it.. if it comes yes... then just have patience and keep praying.. if its negative.. then baba wants u to get out of this.. muct be for ur good only then... but its high time u make a choice.. or rather i shud say let baba make a choice.. and choose any one path... ur have suffered sooo much... whatever answer baba gives will be for ur good only...
go today itself if possible.. as tomo is thursday and temples will be crowded and u wont be able t o pray properly...
OM SAI RAM.. baba pls bless her.. and show her the right way...
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on September 16, 2009, 07:07:15 AM
jai sai ram pragaya ive sent u a request frm sachdeve.chandni8@gmail.com..accpet it n let me knw. gomsuchi..this is reallly a good way but im too afaid to do it,wat if answer is no..il break even more,but yeah c if u cud do. baba mom is going to shirdi i wana come too..plz arrange something for me baba. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: gomisuchi on September 16, 2009, 07:33:14 AM
akansha
I prayed to baba, and picked up one chit.. i asked should she stay with dheeraj.. the answer came yes... so this is a positive answer... akansha rememebr one thing.. fear is not going to help.. u have to fight it.. one day it will hurt u more else...
i have done it wholeheartedly... and baba wants u to stay wid dheeraj right now.. pls goto a temple tomo.. and thank baba for the answer and ask him for a sign to confirm my answer.. he will surely give u one... may god bless u...
dont worry... hum baba ke charano mein aaye hain.. hamare saath bura ho hi nahi sakta... yeh vishwas rakho... OM SAI RAM
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: chweetujaanu on September 16, 2009, 09:30:09 AM
akansha dont worry dear see baba's answer is yes and baba will never lie so dont worry have patience keep praying..
baba please bless her saii help her out baba dont test her more..
omsairam
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on September 16, 2009, 10:38:22 AM
jai sai ram gomsuchi thanx a lot,u made my day..im really happy,thank u so much may baba bless u. thanx chnweetu may baba bless u too...im very happy to knw this.thanx baba jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Sonu2310 on September 16, 2009, 08:57:45 PM
Om sai ram akansha,
Isnt it a lovely answer given by baba, baba listens to all of us.. Dont worry he will get us united soon.. baba bless all of us..
Baba bless all of us with their loved ones... we all need u.. we wont leave ur feet.. Baba plzzzzzzzz bless soon Anamika,Ankur, Akanksha, Aquafish, bharti , chweetu, gunj, Nancy, Pragya, Ramajaya, Saisan, Suhani, Saicharandhool ji, Suchi, Vinit ji, well-wisher, javeed, pari ji and myself..
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: pragya0786 on September 17, 2009, 02:12:44 AM
akku dont worry everything will be alright.......i didnt get ur request but i m sending u a mail read it.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Sonu2310 on September 17, 2009, 09:10:37 PM
Om sai ram akansha,
How r u ? dont worry all our worries will end very soon.. i strongly feel one by one all our worries being taken by baba.. lets have complete faith in him and wait for our D-Day..
Baba plzzz bless all of us with their loved ones... we all need u.. we wont leave ur feet.. Baba plzzzzzzzz bless soon Anamika,Ankur, Akanksha, Aquafish, bharti , chweetu, gunj, Nancy, Pragya, Ramajaya, Saisan, Suhani, Saicharandhool ji, Suchi, Vinit ji, well-wisher, javeed, pari ji and myself..
Baba plzz listen to all of us soon..
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on September 17, 2009, 11:15:16 PM
jai sai ram thank u all for ur support,baba plz help we need u. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: pragya0786 on September 18, 2009, 01:06:06 AM
akku the gmail accnt u gv me i send the mail but failure report came u send me the mail on my accnt.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on September 18, 2009, 10:03:51 AM
Akansha..kaisi ho? take care
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: chweetujaanu on September 18, 2009, 10:36:08 AM
akansha how are u?how are things ur side.. keep praying dear every thing will go on well..
omsairam
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on September 18, 2009, 10:55:03 AM
jai sai ram hi aqua im fine..wat about u..hows all ur side..do tel me soon.. yeah chweetu im praying..hows al ur side.. pragaya id is sachdeva.chandni8@gmail.com... jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on September 18, 2009, 11:01:22 AM
same ..nothing changed akansha..still waiting for baba to bless me tats all:)..doing my prayers and keeping my hopes...what else can we do?,,:)
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Sonu2310 on September 18, 2009, 08:21:53 PM
Om sai akansha ji,
How r u ? dont worry, baba will take care of everything.. baba wil bless all of us soon..
@aquafish ji, how r u ? dont worry everything wil be fine very soon..
Baba bless all of us with their loved ones... we all need u.. we wont leave ur feet.. Baba plzzzzzzzz bless soon Anamika,Ankur, Akanksha, Aquafish, bharti , chweetu, gunj, Nancy, Pragya, Ramajaya, Saisan, Suhani, Saicharandhool ji, Suchi, Vinit ji, well-wisher, javeed, pari ji and myself..
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on September 19, 2009, 01:02:11 AM
jai sai ram thanx sonuji may baba bless u too.. baba plz cal me to shirdi,mom is goin to shirdi n my tickets is not confirmed,plz call me baba. aquafish i can understand,plz keep praying,baba plz help her dont see ur childern crying this way. plz help us baba. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: pragya0786 on September 19, 2009, 01:10:12 AM
fine will do that now tel me hws life ny improvement at ur side?
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on September 19, 2009, 08:59:09 AM
jai sai ram no improvements he says he wont leave either of us..im just relying on baba. but yeah one thing im happy abt is ive got a job :) thank u baba. wat abt u?let me knw soon. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Sonu2310 on September 19, 2009, 09:35:47 PM
om sai ram,
Thats a wonderful news akansha.. See baba showed us his presence.. baba wants u to visit shirdi with him, thats why he is not calling u now.. that might be his plan..
dont worry things will happen slowly.. u just be happy and enjoy ur job.. Good luck..
Baba plzzz bless all of us with their loved ones... we all need u.. we wont leave ur feet.. Baba plzzzzzzzz bless soon Anamika,Ankur, Akanksha, Aquafish, bharti , chweetu, gunj, Nancy, Pragya, Ramajaya, Saisan, sasiravi, Suhani, Saicharandhool ji, Suchi, Vinit ji, well-wisher, javeed, pari ji and myself..
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on September 20, 2009, 09:38:36 AM
jai sai ram yeah i knw baba is there sonu ji but dont knw y is he not listening to my prayers or maybe im able to talk to him thats the max he can do for me,but baba ur knwn for miracles plz show a miracle n give me my dheeraj back baba,it pains a lot baba,plz help baba,plz help all who are waiting for ur love,moreover baba plz call me to shirdi,plz baba i wana come to shirdi plz call me baba. jai sai ram i wait for u baba
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on September 20, 2009, 11:16:43 AM
Dont worry Akansha,
as Sonu said...time will come soon..dont worry..one thing at a time:)...
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Sonu2310 on September 20, 2009, 09:12:01 PM
Om sai ram akansha,
baba can do many things, there is no limit for this blessings.. but the problem is our karmas should get washed away soon.. everythin is ready but right time has not yet come.. so lets wait until our D-day.. baba will come to our rescue..
Baba please bless all of us with their loved ones... we all need u.. we wont leave ur feet.. Baba plzzzzzzzz bless soon Anamika,Ankur, Akanksha, Aquafish, bharti , chweetu, gunj, Nancy, Pragya, Ramajaya, Saisan, sasiravi, Suhani, Saicharandhool ji, Suchi, Vinit ji, well-wisher, javeed, pari ji and myself..
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: ekgadha on September 21, 2009, 12:05:46 AM
To all of you here replying to this thread.
For one who did or doing wrong, God gives chance to change life, God gives us chance to redemption and forgive our mistake also. If one doesn't take chance, than he will keep giving pain and same time will have to bear it too.
For the one who is on receiving end like Akansha, God gives signs when one needs to see, not always have to be what one WANTS to see but god gives what's best for his follower. May be god shows that its better now than later to correct mistake she made.
She has this going on for almost year. In this year, how many positive changes she saw and how many chances and signs she got to correct mistake of being with this guy she got?
Can someone ask her?
God gives signs. She had plenty, having plenty, and god will always give. God Shows, We as a Followers, only have to Follow.
She asked god to show her path. She asked god to make decision for her, to show her sign of what is right thing to do. She got many signs on what she should do, what is best for her future.
But Ignorance doesn't help when you just want to keep making mistake for wish of better result, and ask god to show you right path. God showed you path, and you not accepting. He gave you chance, to move on for better future, and plenty signs you got. You Ignored and want to ignore still.
God shows path only, but its us who have to follow. If you can't follow, than your belief in god, is same as one who doesn't believe.
And yeah I am that gadha who been telling you this for while now.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: pragya0786 on September 21, 2009, 01:52:55 AM
Dear Akku hearties congrats to u for ur job now new life is waiting ahead for u.boost ur confidence and i m sure u will be more stronger....i always wonder the questions u have u urself have the answer for it even...as u said our karmas should be washed away .....hmmm i really can see the positive changes in u.
Baba please help us we are waiting for u to come soon.
Om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Sonu2310 on September 21, 2009, 08:20:57 PM
Om sai ram,
Baba please bless all of us with their loved ones... we all need u.. we wont leave ur feet..
Baba plzzzzzzzz bless soon Anamika,Ankur, Akanksha, Aquafish, bharti , chweetu, gunj, Nancy, Pragya, Ramajaya, Saisan, sasiravi, Suhani, Saicharandhool ji, Suchi, Vinit ji, well-wisher, javeed, pari ji and myself..
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on September 21, 2009, 11:21:27 PM
jai sai ram thanx pragaya n sonu..may baba bless u too. baba wont say much..u knw all..plz help baba plz do something. im waiting. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: chweetujaanu on September 22, 2009, 01:33:07 AM
congrats akansha hope u have a bit of avagation by working..keep praying baba will help u out soon..
omsairam
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Sonu2310 on September 22, 2009, 08:33:18 PM
Om sai ram,
how r u ? baba will definitely help all of us.. just enjoy ur work..
Baba plzzzzzzzz bless soon Anamika,Ankur, Akanksha, Aquafish, bharti , chweetu, gunj, Nancy, Pragya, Ramajaya, Saisan, sasiravi, Suhani, Saicharandhool ji, Suchi, Vinit ji, well-wisher, javeed, pari ji and myself.. we all are waiting to receive ur blessings...
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on September 24, 2009, 06:12:21 AM
jai sai ram baba plz help soon,plz some to rescue frm this pain n suffering,i cant bear it anymore,its just that i have faith on u im here waiting for him to be back,but im shattering day by day,y dotn u come,y do u see me cry n dont say a word,how long baba how long do i need to wait..i cant imagine my life without him ,plz give him back to me,plz help baba pplleeeezzzzz..im waitng. jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on September 25, 2009, 08:27:36 AM
jai sai ram baba i guess u love to see me this way crying n wreathing in pain..wat should i tell u??wat should i say?? :(:( waiting for u..
jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Well-wisher on September 25, 2009, 09:25:11 AM
Aku, hold on. This too shall pass... bright light at the end of every dark tunnel. This too shall pass. You will come out stronger.
Baba, please bless her with YOUR LOVE... YOUR STRENGTH... YOUR COURAGE... YOUR WISDOM... Help her feel YOU within.
Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Sonu2310 on September 25, 2009, 09:48:41 AM
Om sai ram akansha,
Lets wait now, especially when we are on the verge of receiving Baba's blessings.. baba plzz listen to all of us and shower ur blessings..
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on September 25, 2009, 11:40:47 PM
jai sai ram thanx sonu wellwisher n aqua.. hows all at ur end..?? take care..may baba bless u..
baba waiting for u... jai sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: pragya0786 on September 26, 2009, 12:44:53 AM
Akku kya hua why are u so upset...hmm. be courageous do not waste ur energy in crying instead have faith and keep on praying. Akku crying wont help its only ur prayers who will help u out do u get that now no more tears...why tears and fears wen Baba is here.
Om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Sonu2310 on September 26, 2009, 09:52:11 PM
Om sai ram akansha,
how r u ? me absolutely fine, ty.. everything is same .. but will wait for baba's words & blessings... dont lose courage when everything is about to end in our favor..
baba we need ur blessings. please listen to our prayers .. we know u are working on our problems . we would love to see each other happy now ... please bless us soon.
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: Sonu2310 on September 27, 2009, 09:16:21 PM
om sai ram,
Baba please bless " anamika, akansha, akshatha, bharti ,bhavna, rajiv, monika, gunj, gomisuchi, nancy, mansa, nitin, pragya, ramajaya, sangeetha, sasiravi, suhani, saicharandhool, suchi, Shruti, vikas, well-wisher, javeed, pari, nitu ,vinit " baba we need ur blessings. please listen to our prayers ..
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: aquafish on September 28, 2009, 09:30:22 AM
Akansha.....hope everything is fine..u have my email...emal kar dena..take care....om sai ram
Title: Re: sai baba plz help me i have been betrayed
Post by: akansha on September 28, 2009, 12:41:23 PM
jai sai ram
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Post by: Sonu2310 on September 28, 2009, 09:05:32 PM
baba we all will wait for ur mercy.. please bless us...
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Post by: Well-wisher on September 29, 2009, 05:31:38 AM
Om Sai Ram... how are you aku? Baba bless u with all thats best for you & everyone in the list above... Om Sai Ram... Baba please heal all, please bless all, please love all... Om Sai Ram
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Post by: Well-wisher on September 29, 2009, 05:39:30 AM
Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram
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Post by: Sonu2310 on September 29, 2009, 09:33:39 PM
Om sai ram akansha,
how r u ? howz work ??
Baba please bless " anamika, akansha, akshatha, bharti ,bhavna, rajiv, monika, gunj, gomisuchi, nancy, mansa, nitin, pragya, ramajaya, sangeetha, sasiravi, suhani, saicharandhool, suchi, Shruti, vikas, well-wisher, javeed, pari, nitu ,vinit " baba we all will wait for ur mercy.. please bless us...
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Post by: Well-wisher on September 30, 2009, 02:02:24 AM
Om Sai Ram... Baba bless Aku, bless all...
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Post by: akansha on September 30, 2009, 04:36:43 PM
jai sai ram may baba bless u all too..im fine welwisher..waiting for all to be fine. jai sai ram
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Post by: Sonu2310 on September 30, 2009, 09:11:02 PM
baba plzz bless all of us soon.. all need ur blessings.. we all are waiting for ur mercy.. Please help us achieve our goals and get married to our beloved ones with ur grace.. without u nothing can be done and for u nothing is impossible.. please baba listen to all of us soon..
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Post by: Well-wisher on October 01, 2009, 12:21:47 AM
Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram, Om Sai Ram
When ure fine Aku... everything around you will change too. Om Sai Ram
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Post by: akansha on October 01, 2009, 03:09:00 AM
jai sai ram hope so wellwisher..may baba bless u.. baba plz takethis pain away frm me. jai sai ram
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Post by: Sonu2310 on October 01, 2009, 10:07:26 PM
om sai ram akansha,
dont worry baba will definitely take away all pain form u soon...
baba plzz bless all of us soon.. all need ur blessings.. we all are waiting for ur mercy.. Please help us achieve our goals and get married to our beloved ones with ur grace.. without u nothing can be done and for u nothing is impossible.. please baba listen to all of us soon..
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Post by: akansha on October 02, 2009, 05:42:57 PM
jai sai ram plz help baba jai sai ram
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Post by: Sonu2310 on October 02, 2009, 09:44:34 PM
baba plzz bless all of us soon.. all need ur blessings.. we all are waiting for ur mercy.. Please help us achieve our goals and get married to our beloved ones with ur grace.. without u nothing can be done and for u nothing is impossible.. please baba listen to all of us soon..
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Post by: pragya0786 on October 03, 2009, 12:45:37 AM
baba plzz bless all of us soon.. all need ur blessings.. we all are waiting for ur mercy.. Please help us achieve our goals and get married to our beloved ones with ur grace.. without u nothing can be done and for u nothing is impossible.. please baba listen to all of us soon..
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Post by: akansha on October 04, 2009, 11:08:15 AM
jai sai ram baba plz help..only u knw how upset i am..n ive left all upto u..nthing seems good baba ,nthing makes me feel happy...n while i was writing this my grandma said for no reason "baba sab theek kar denge"..dont knw y she said that..n she doesnt belive in baba that much..hehe im very happy to hear it,maybe u gave me a msg baba..i trust in u n hope all gets fine with ur grace,plz always be with me.i love u baba. jai sai ram
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Post by: aquafish on October 04, 2009, 12:37:29 PM
Akansha,
please dont lose faith...baba will help u soon...
take care
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Post by: Sonu2310 on October 04, 2009, 09:07:01 PM
om sai ram akansha,
dont worry baba wil help all of us soon.. so how r u ?
baba plzz bless all of us soon.. all need ur blessings.. we all are waiting for ur mercy.. Please help us achieve our goals and get married to our beloved ones with ur grace.. without u nothing can be done and for u nothing is impossible.. please baba listen to all of us soon..
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Post by: pragya0786 on October 05, 2009, 02:09:54 AM
Akku, always keep this thing in mind that wen we are more stressed Baba alwys gives us the indication of his presence dont worry everything will be alright jus keep on praying and make ur faith still on Baba.
om sai ram
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Post by: Sonu2310 on October 05, 2009, 09:18:35 PM
baba plzz bless all of us soon.. all need ur blessings.. we all are waiting for ur mercy.. Please help us achieve our goals and get married to our beloved ones with ur grace.. without u nothing can be done and for u nothing is impossible.. please baba listen to all of us soon..
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Post by: Sonu2310 on October 06, 2009, 07:18:44 PM
om sai ram akansha ji,
how r u? howz work ?? dont worry everything will be fine soon...
baba plzz bless all of us soon.. all need ur blessings.. we all are waiting for ur mercy.. Please help us achieve our goals and get married to our beloved ones with ur grace.. without u nothing can be done and for u nothing is impossible.. please baba listen to all of us soon..
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Post by: akansha on October 07, 2009, 11:34:36 PM
jai sai ram im fine pragaya n sonu..all is same ive got a job n im quite busy with it .. wat abt u pragaya n sonu..hows all ur side??may baba bless u both. baba i wont write much now u knw it all..all i wana say is plz help me,plz baba have mercy plz take away this pain plz ive me some strength plz help him baba..plz help baba plz..i knw u can see me. jai sai ram
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Post by: chweetujaanu on October 08, 2009, 07:57:14 AM
akansha how are u?
dont worry everything will be fine very soon keep praying..
omsairam
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Post by: akansha on October 08, 2009, 11:12:39 AM
jai sai ram chweetu all same my side wat abt u?? baba first dheeraj did this to me n i kindoff lost all of mine..now my best frnd is gone..wat is this hapneing baba?? y is this hapneing..plz baba help me n all:( jai sai ram
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Post by: chweetujaanu on October 09, 2009, 03:56:10 AM
akansha y worry baba hain na..
he will set all things on the right path.. keep praying and wait..
omsairam
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Post by: Well-wisher on October 09, 2009, 05:36:56 AM
Akansha... have u ever tried reading books? Do stories interest you?
herez a short para...
The first time I saw Catherine she was wearing a vivid crimson dress and was nervously leafing through a magazine in my waiting room. She was visibly out of breath. For the previous twenty minutes she had been pacing the corridor outside the Department of Psychiatry offices, trying to convince herself to keep her appointment with me and not run away.
I went out to the waiting room to greet her, and we shook hands. I noticed that hers were cold and damp, confirming her anxiety. Actually, it had taken her two months of courage gathering to make an appointment to see me even though she had been strongly advised to seek my help by two staff physicians, both of whom she trusted. Finally, she was here.
Catherine is an extraordinarily attractive woman, with medium-length blond hair and hazel eyes. At that time, she worked as a laboratory technician in the hospital where I was Chief of Psychiatry, and she earned extra money modeling swimwear.
I ushered her into my office, past the couch and to a large leather chair. We sat across from each other, my semicircular desk separating us. Catherine leaned back in her chair, silent, not knowing where to begin. I waited, preferring that she choose the opening, but after a few minutes I began inquiring about her past. On that first visit we began to unravel who she was and why she had come to see me.
In answer to my questions, Catherine revealed the story, of her life. She was the middle child, reared in a conservative Catholic family in a small Massachusetts town. Her brother, born three years earlier than she, was very athletic, and he enjoyed a freedom that she was never allowed. Her younger sister was the favorite of both parents.
When we started to talk about her symptoms, she became noticeably more tense and nervous. Her speech was rapid, and she leaned forward, resting her elbows on the desk. Her life had always been burdened with fears. She feared water, feared choking to the extent that she could not swallow pills, feared airplanes, feared the dark, and she was terrified of dying. In the recent past, her fears had begun to worsen. In order to feel safe, she often slept in the walk-in closet in her apartment. She suffered two to three hours of insomnia before being able to fall alseep. Once asleep, she would sleep lightly and fitfully, awakening frequently. The nightmares and sleepwalking episodes that had plagued her childhood were returning. As her fears and symptoms increasingly paralyzed her, she became more and more depressed.
As Catherine continued to talk, I could sense how deeply she was suffering. Over the years I had helped many patients like Catherine through the agonies of their fears, and I felt confident that I could help her, too. I decided we would begin by delving into her childhood, looking for the original sources of her problems. Usually this kind of insight helps to alleviate anxiety. If necessary, and if she could manage to swallow pills, I would offer her some mild anti-anxiety medications to make her more comfortable. This was standard textbook treatment for Catherine's symptoms, and I never hesitated to use tranquilizers, or even antidepressant medicines, to treat chronic, severe fears and anxieties. Now I use these medicines much more sparingly and only temporarily, if at all. No medicine can reach the real roots of these symptoms. My experiences with Catherine and others like her have proved this to me. Now I know there can be cures, not just the suppression or covering-over of symptoms.
During the first session, I kept trying to gently nudge her back to her childhood. Because Catherine remembered amazingly few events from her early years, I made a mental note to consider hypnotherapy as a possible shortcut to overcome this repression. She could not remember any particularly traumatic moments in her childhood that would explain the epidemic of fears in her life.
As she strained and stretched her mind to remember, isolated memory fragments emerged. When she was about five years old, she had panicked when someone had pushed her off a diving board into a swimming pool. She said that even before that incident, however, she had never felt comfortable in water. When Catherine was eleven, her mother had become severely depressed. Her mother's strange withdrawal from the family necessitated visits to a psychiatrist with ensuing electroshock treatments. These treatments had made it difficult for her mother to remember things. This experience with her mother frightened Catherine, but, as her mother improved and became "herself" again, Catherine said that her fears dissipated. Her father had a long-standing history of alcohol abuse, and sometimes Catherine's brother had to retrieve their father from the local bar. Her father's increasing alcohol consumption led to his having frequent fights with her mother, who would then become moody and withdrawn. However, Catherine viewed this as an accepted family pattern.
Things were better outside the home. She dated in high school and mixed in easily with her friends, most of whom she had known for many years. However, she found it difficult to trust people, especially those outside her small circle of friends.
Her religion was simple and unquestioned. She was raised to believe in traditional Catholic ideology and practices, and she had never really doubted the truthfulness and validity of her faith. She believed that if you were a good Catholic and lived properly by observing the faith and its rituals, you would be rewarded by going to heaven; if not, you would experience purgatory or hell. A patriarchal God and his Son made these final decisions. I later learned that Catherine did not believe in reincarnation; in fact, she knew very little about the concept, although she had read sparingly about the Hindus. Reincarnation was an idea contrary to her upbringing and understanding. She had never read any metaphysical or occult literature, having had no interest in it. She was secure in her beliefs.
After high school, Catherine completed a two-year technical program, emerging as a laboratory technician. Armed with a profession and encouraged by her brother's move to Tampa, Catherine landed a job in Miami at a large teaching hospital affiliated with the University of Miami School of Medicine. She moved to Miami in the spring of 1974, at the age of twenty-one.
Catherine's life in a small town had been easier than her life in Miami turned out to be, yet she was glad she had fled her family problems.
During her first year in Miami, Catherine met Stuart. Married, Jewish, and with two children, he was totally different from any other man she had ever dated. He was a successful physician, strong and aggressive. There was an irresistible chemistry between them, but their affair was rocky and tempestuous. Something about him drew out her passions and awakened her, as if she were charmed by him. At the time Catherine started therapy, her affair with Stuart was in its sixth year and very much alive, if not well. Catherine could not resist Stuart although he treated her poorly, and she was furious at his lies, broken promises, and manipulations.
Several months prior to her appointment with me, Catherine had required vocal cord surgery for a benign nodule. She had been anxious prior to the surgery but was absolutely terrified upon awakening in the recovery room. It took hours for the nursing staff to calm her. After her recovery in the hospital, she sought out Dr. Edward Poole. Ed was a kindly pediatrician whom Catherine had met while working in the hospital. They had both felt an instant rapport and had developed a close friendship. Catherine talked freely to Ed, telling him of her fears, her relationship with Stuart, and that she felt she was losing control over her life. He insisted that she make an appointment with me and only me, not with any of my associate psychiatrists. When Ed called to tell me about his referral, he explained that, for some reason, he thought only I could truly understand Catherine, even though the other psychiatrists also had excellent credentials and were skilled therapists. Catherine did not call me, however.
Eight weeks passed. In the crunch of my busy practice as head of the Department of Psychiatry, I had forgotten about Ed's call. Catherine's fears and phobias worsened. Dr. Frank Acker, Chief of Surgery, had known Catherine casually for years, and they often bantered good-naturedly when he visited the laboratory where she worked. He had noticed her recent unhappiness and sensed her tension. Several times he had meant to say something to her but had hesitated. One afternoon, Frank was driving to a smaller, out-of-the way hospital to give a lecture. On the way, he saw Catherine driving to her home, which was close to that hospital, and impulsively waved her to the side of the road. "I want you to see Dr. Weiss now," he yelled through the window. "No delays." Although surgeons often act impulsively, even Frank was surprised at how emphatic he was.
Catherine's panic attacks and anxiety were increasing in frequency and duration. She began having two recurrent nightmares. In one, a bridge collapsed while she was driving across it. Her car plunged into the water below, and she was trapped and drowning. In the second dream, she was trapped in a pitch-black room, stumbling and falling over things, unable to find a way out. Finally, she came to see me.
At the time of my first session with Catherine, I had no idea that my life was about to turn upside down, that the frightened, confused woman across the desk from me would be the catalyst, and that I would never be the same again.
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Post by: Well-wisher on October 09, 2009, 06:18:35 AM
If u didnt like it... ignore it. If u want to know further, read this book called "Many Lives Many Masters"
Will give u an amazing insight into life... Its on my to do list too... maybe u can read it before I do & give me more inputs... :)
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Post by: akansha on October 10, 2009, 10:57:12 PM
jai sai ram this is realy nice wellwisher il c where i can get this book. baba plz help me. :( jai sai ram
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Post by: chweetujaanu on October 11, 2009, 03:18:42 AM
akansha dont worry baba will help u dear ..
baba please help her sai..
omsairam
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Post by: akansha on October 11, 2009, 08:02:04 PM
jai sai ram
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Post by: Sonu2310 on October 14, 2009, 10:23:32 PM
baba plzz bless all of us soon.. all need ur blessings.. we all are waiting for ur mercy.. Please help us achieve our goals and get married to our beloved ones with ur grace.. without u nothing can be done and for u nothing is impossible.. please baba listen to all of us soon..
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Post by: Sonu2310 on October 15, 2009, 08:50:12 PM
baba plzz bless all of us soon.. all need ur blessings.. we all are waiting for ur mercy.. Please help us achieve our goals and get married to our beloved ones with ur grace.. without u nothing can be done and for u nothing is impossible.. please baba listen to all of us soon.. baba please come to our rescue soon as possible..
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Post by: akansha on October 18, 2009, 12:48:52 AM
jai sai ram help baba jai sai ram
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Post by: akansha on October 24, 2009, 11:23:40 PM
jai sai ram baba im waiting since so long but cant see any goood ahppening..all i can see is that at times im able to control my emotions n dont feel that sad n im very thankful for it but baba apart frm few very very small things i cant see any change,wen wil the right time come baba?? i knw baba u are able to see n hear all,then y am i stil in a mess,im keep shradha n saaburi as u tell u bhakts but wen wil then waiting come to an end baba??..no matter wat baba i am n i wil wait for u as long as i can. help all bhakts who have been craving for their love as u only love baba how bad it pains to wait for ur love wen its not there with u. baba plz help priyanka to recover very soon,she is very ill,help her baba plz be with her. jai sai ram
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Post by: chweetujaanu on October 25, 2009, 03:10:58 AM
akansha h r u? howz work gng on?
dont worryy everything will be fine soon.. this mess will surely clear off from our lives.. keep praying..
baba please come to our rescue soon saii..
omsairam
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Post by: akansha on October 29, 2009, 09:12:19 AM
jai sai ram hi chweetu all is sam emy side n wrk is goin fine too..u tel hows all with u n ur bf??had a word with him? baba plz help al of us. jai sai ram
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Post by: aquafish on October 29, 2009, 09:32:25 AM
Hey beleive it or not..i was thinking of u and saw ur msg...how have u been..take care...
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Post by: lms on October 29, 2009, 10:17:09 PM
dear akansha sai ram..
apni life kae baremem sochkar ro math..sab baba ko chod dhoo...when u feel fedup ur life try to read..all prayers in this parayer section...u know much I have suffered...plese read my prayer...after that tumae malum hoga there dukh kuch bhi nahi hae...woh ladki ko....there friend chodnae kae bath..woh thadapayega... lekhin...mereliyae..woh tumae wapaz milni cahhiyae..our mem baba sae prayer karoongii..ki baba woh ladki ko..apni apko sambhalnae keliyae ek man.bhi...dena.. sai ram...
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Post by: Well-wisher on October 30, 2009, 12:24:05 AM
:) Om Sai Ram. God bless...
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Post by: akansha on November 04, 2009, 09:09:21 AM
jai sai ram baba plz help,i love u baba. jai sai ram
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Post by: aquafish on November 04, 2009, 10:55:03 AM
hey kaisi ho? hope everything is fien...
om sai ram
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Post by: Sonu2310 on November 04, 2009, 08:05:15 PM
om sai ram akansha,
how r u ? long time ?? busy with office is it ? dont worry everything will be fine very very soon.. take care. keep smiling ...
@aqua, how r u ? long time, no post ..
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Post by: chweetujaanu on November 05, 2009, 09:01:44 AM
akansha how r u?
how r things ur side? nothing has changed in my situation..
omsairam
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Post by: akansha on November 07, 2009, 02:29:03 AM
jai sai ram chweetu al is same my side too..dont worry baba wil help us for sure..baba plz bless us all. jai sai ram
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Post by: akansha on November 13, 2009, 07:01:20 PM
jai sai ram baba after many days im felt lik writing something to u over here..baba u knw na all thats been goin on..plz help me baba i knw uve already done a lot but i just cant handle this situauion.u knw na baba how muhc this job means to me..n i think i dont wana be with him anymore then y he bothers me this way baba,now he wants me to leave my job,plz baba help m eout with this baba,plz give him some understaing of things which he shud nt do,baba only u knw wat i infact al my frnds went thru last nite,im broken baba i just need ur help coz ur the only one who can help m eout with this,plz baba be with me plz baba show me the way,im broken baba im shattered badly,plz baba i hope today ul be just by my side whole day long lik everyday but just hold my hands too..relying only on u baba,i knw ul help me out,il leave all upto u..u have have to now c baba how wil u set things rite. jai sai ram
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Post by: Well-wisher on November 15, 2009, 02:22:02 PM
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Post by: ankurjain on November 17, 2009, 12:57:40 PM
Baba please bless her. Dont keep us waiting for so long. Om Sai Ram
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Post by: aquafish on November 17, 2009, 02:30:07 PM
Akansha....please email me yaar...u know my address:....lets talk...i am here if u need to talk...
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Post by: Well-wisher on November 18, 2009, 12:54:27 AM
Aqua, Akansha... I hope you guys are fine. Have faith. I know things will only change for the better. Have faith... You will get the best in life. Have faith... Baba will do all it takes to keep you happy and smiling always. Just have faith.
Om Sai Ram
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Post by: akansha on November 18, 2009, 09:16:31 AM
jai sai ram hi wellwisher nd aqua its grt to c u guys here after so long..how are things ur side..plz let me knw..yeah aqua il mail u for sure..now i guess im kindoff over him as in we still talk but i dont feel the urge to get him back into my life..but i hope abba is doin this all for me to make me feel happy n settle things i hope its not a phase lik always..baba is helping out i can see..but few things are yet to be sorted out..baba i thank u for all..plz dont leave my hand..n plz be with me throughout..just do thats good for him..give him all the happiness of the world..i really love him baba even today..i still love him madly..n i love u too baba..plz help us all..plz help all ur bhakts to get out of pains n sorrows..jai sai ram jai sai ram
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Post by: ankurjain on November 18, 2009, 09:27:09 AM
Dear Akansha
Baba must be having something very good in store for you.
Om Sai Ram
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Post by: aquafish on November 18, 2009, 09:29:57 AM
Akansha,
gud to c u back..take care...baba does everything for our good...i have to accept ta...take care
Wellwisher... how have u been? howz ur mom? well things are status quo here...take care
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Post by: ch on November 19, 2009, 05:01:13 AM
om sai nath baba help her
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Post by: Well-wisher on November 19, 2009, 10:53:28 AM
Akansha, be strong... We are all trying to. :) So am I...take care.. Om Sai Ram
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Post by: akansha on November 22, 2009, 10:54:33 PM
jai sai ram how are u aqua n wellwisher?? hows things goin on with u aqua..?? thanx a lot ch n ankur..may baba bless u all.. jai sai ram
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Post by: Sonu2310 on November 23, 2009, 08:02:30 AM
om sai ram akansha,
how r u dear ? how is everything at your end ? i had been to shirdi & ashtavinayak, i had a lovely darshan there. all due to their blessings. baba please bless all of us soon.. take care...
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Post by: Well-wisher on November 24, 2009, 11:34:55 AM
Am good Aku... :) Be the light...
Om Sai Ram
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Post by: akansha on December 02, 2009, 01:58:41 AM
om sai ram
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Post by: Sanka1970 on December 02, 2009, 03:45:30 AM
Dear Sister,
I'm sorry I am not hindi so I don't understand some. Sorry to hear about what your going through!
Sister let us take word by word what is betrayal? betrayal is something that you had and you loved and now you don't. Wow! that's a lot of words.
Sister I can advice you one thing, first wipe your tires and look at the track behind you, maybe you've come along way but try and understand the past. Should there have been mistakes correct them now don't wait for tomorrow.
Surrender your self to Bagawan. It's not easy but after doing it you will see many doors opening.
Why so much of hurt for you to cry?
I 'll pray for you.
Om! Sri Sai Ram,
Sanka.
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Post by: chweetujaanu on December 03, 2009, 12:11:58 AM
akansha how r u? how r things ur side..
omsairam
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Post by: akansha on December 18, 2009, 03:15:14 AM
jai sai ram hi chweetu how are u..hows all ur side. i dont knw wats up my side ..i mean nthing to look forward to..no hope..no happiness no sadnes..life is as simple n plain as is can be...but im hapy atleast im not goin thru that kind of bad days liked i used to..things are quite changed..i have a new job a new set of frnds,a new routine everything is new but few old ones whom i love by heart n really want by my side i guess have left me..i wish i cud make few ppl understand wat i feel n cud get 'em back.. baba plz help my family n all my frnds out here..im sure he wil find a way out for all of u guy..plz help all baba,plz take care of all..i miss u rax :( jai sai ram
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Post by: chweetujaanu on December 18, 2009, 07:54:54 AM
akansha.. nothing improved my side.. hope it improves for u takecare and have fun with ur job..
hope baba blesses u..
omsairam
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Post by: Sonu2310 on December 20, 2009, 02:34:03 AM
om sai ram akansha,
how r u? how is job going on ?? dont worry baba will set right everything for u one by one.. u take care and keep praying...
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Post by: bhavna on December 21, 2009, 04:50:01 AM
om sai ram akanksha things may not look very happy now bur dont stop prayin pray as if dre is no tomorrrow sai will ferry us thru dis "aa sahayeta le bharpoor jo manga woh nahi hai door"
om sai ram bhavna
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Post by: chweetujaanu on December 22, 2009, 07:45:50 AM
akansha how r u dear
omsairam
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Post by: Sonu2310 on January 02, 2010, 06:38:35 AM
om sai ram akansha,
wishing u a very happy and a prosperous new year.. may all ur dreams turn true soon... take care...
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Post by: akansha on January 04, 2010, 10:18:35 AM
jai sai ram happy new year to all n to sai baba...how are u all..how are u bhavna? welwisher? aqua? sonu?chweetu? im fine job is goin good too..at times i feel sad but all is fine due to baba's grace..i really rmbr the old times ive spent with dheeraj n it really hurts a lot.. chweetu u talked to him? n aqua hows all?? is he back? baba im very sorry due to my job n busy schedule im not able to pray much..plz baba forgive me..i stil rmbr u a lot..plz be with me always..love u all. jai sai ram
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Post by: Well-wisher on January 04, 2010, 11:18:39 PM
Akansha, Chweetu, Aqua... everyone... how are you? Om Sai Ram
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Post by: vani2727 on January 05, 2010, 02:39:25 AM
hey akanksha i read your posts and believe me iam suffering from the same prob as u do the only diff is that my relation is past 2 yrs old and the gal who entered in between is from past three months and he himself committed that he has done something wrong...i dont know how to over come this trauma and the most shocking thing thing is that sai baba is also quite,,he is not helping me to getting out of it, the more i try to 4gt him, the more he comes to my mind...i dont know y sai baba is behaving like this,,y he is not helping us its good that u have tried to change your routine a bit but i know how difficult is this....... so carry on n have courage....the only thing we can do is just pray pray n pray!! take care!!
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Post by: Well-wisher on January 06, 2010, 12:01:26 AM
Vaniji... You just need to decide you want him out of your system and it will be done. Or you decide you continue to love and pray him from a distance for as long as you can or until the day you're married or in genuine love with someone else. Trust me, whatever you choose, all you need to do is accept this and decide.
It took me 2 and a half years. But I did. I did decide to love him through my prayers until a day when with Baba's grace I naturally fall out of love. The day may or may not come. I may or may not get married. But irrespective, the decision to move on with normal life, to live and love and to keep every ray of hope or expectation of being with him is made.
Its tough. Very. But thats the only way out. The sooner you do it, the better for you.
And I also realized one thing. No matter who it is that life brings me across as my life partner. It cant be that bad. Cause in every human there is God and where there is God there is love. We just need to allow it to blossom.
My thought process is a bit altered. I think I would like to live and love and serve someone who needs me and values me. And I know when I do it with all my heart and loyalty... love will be reciprocated. It may not be the way I've always wanted it. But will still be love... and love with an element of respect.
Om Sai Ram
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Post by: vani2727 on January 06, 2010, 03:43:22 AM
dear well wisher it seems that u have such a gr8 n a nice heart!! believe me although iam not in a position to take any decision rite now as iam still unable to make myself normal but again if i listen to my heart,,it only gives me one statement that i want to be with that person only as long as i live and dont know y but somewhere i feel quite confident that sai baba will definitely help me in getting him backin my life and i do feel that sai also wants to see us together!! pls pray for me and guide me where you think iam wrong.....ill be really happy
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Post by: Well-wisher on January 07, 2010, 03:54:16 AM
Vaniji... Baba will help if its meant to be. So keep praying. But also one little suggestion. Life gives us choices. And all of us have an option. To have faith in either scarcity or abundance.
So long as we choose scarcity... scarcity and craving is all we get. The day we choose abundance... abundant love is all we get. Choice is ours... and has always been. How fast we choose abundance... thats what future depends on.
I do not say dont ask God for your wishes. Ask with all your heart. But be prepared for His decision too. As soon as we ask... our job is done. Rest is for Him to decide. Just as love and other feelings cannot be forced onto humans... our likes or dislikes cannot be forced onto God. We must be prepared to accept HIS choices too... and choose to at least try to be happy with them. Then whether we get happiness after making that attempt or not is in HIS hands. But at least we tried... :)
Akansha... LET GO... This new year... just let go of the expectation that the opposite person also HAS TO RECIPROCATE love. His soul is not obligated to. If it were, it would have. And if its destined to, it will. YOUR HAPPINESS is YOUR CHOICE. Choose abundance... Please... Its my request to all of you.
CHOOSE LOVE, CHOOSE ABUNDANCE, CHOOSE TRUST & FAITH that all in the universe is fine, just perfect!
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Post by: akansha on January 08, 2010, 10:53:25 AM
jai sai ram hi wellwisher how are u??hows all goin on.. how are u aqua n chweetu..?? vani i can understand wat u mite be goin thru..ive too seen very bad times ,have waited waited n waited as he told me to n have prayed to baba too but he never came back to me and that was coz baba thot that is the best for me..trust n leave all on baba,n dont lose hope..keep praying im sure baba wil think the best for u too..n just go n ask ur bf wats his wish..wat does he want..baba wil let u knw all.keep praying..jai sai ram jai sai ram
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Post by: pritisha on January 09, 2010, 01:09:22 AM
If that guy loved u than he wouldnt have done this to u. Your tears and life are precious , please dont waste it on such a cruel person. but when we are in pain , we cant see our way but God sends good wishers who guides us in pain. if he really loved u than he wouldnt have done this to u, he cant see that girl in pain but can see u in tears. Oh thats great. U love a guy who doesnt really cares for u. Life is precious my dear sister. Hum jite ek baar hain. Life is a train and their are many stations,commuters will enter and leave. but u have to reach at your destiny.
If he has the audacity to hurt u, than go ahead and break his head. u leave him, SAI will take care of you. dont worry, i will include you in my prayer. Being a member of this forum itself says u are precious to sai. Leave him, dont give him chance. The one who betrays you can anytime ditch u.
It is painful i knw, but i have been through trauma. so i m saying u. u will be much relaxed once u get out of this. and smile, sail will take care of u.
bcos GOD IS WITH ONE WHO HIMSELF IS TRUE AT HEART.
sai ram
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Post by: akansha on January 15, 2010, 10:39:58 AM
jai sai ram add me on akanshamalhotra88@ymail.com jai sai ram
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Post by: Sonu2310 on January 15, 2010, 07:24:50 PM
om sai ram akansha,
how r u dear ? how is job goin on ?? how was ur new year ? hope u had a wonderful bash this year.. how is dheeraj ? any chance u spoke to him??
@well-wisher ji, how r u ? hope everything is fine at ur end .. take care..
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Post by: chweetujaanu on January 16, 2010, 05:35:07 AM
akansha how are u? howz everything on ur side?
omsairam
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Post by: Well-wisher on January 16, 2010, 01:51:10 PM
Akansha, Chweetu... am fine. All good. Believe in abundance.
Love is in abundance. The purpose of life is love. The purpose of God is love. God is love. Hence love is everywhere. Being everywhere is abundace... I believe in abundance. I believe in love... Love is for me... within me, around me, all over me... I will allow love to blossom... without asking a question Baba, just help me do that...
Om Sai Ram Om Sai Ram Om Sai Ram
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Post by: Well-wisher on January 16, 2010, 02:05:54 PM
Aku, Chweetu... always remember.
"I am a part of God. I am the light of God. I am a soul. And the soul doesnt feel pain. The soul only learns, experiences, grows. Whatever happens is a process of my soul's growth. I am pure light. And the light of God is not affected by pain"
Think about it. Don reply. Just think.
:) Be a happy soul...
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Post by: gajanan bhakt on March 14, 2010, 10:47:07 AM
jai sai ram everyone. sorry i was gone for long. how r u akansha well wisher .hope u people remember me. by gods grace i am fine .
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Post by: Sonu2310 on March 15, 2010, 03:54:50 AM
om sai ram akansha, chweetu, well wisher ji,
how r u all ? long time no post only ... hope everything is fine at ur end.. do keep posting :) take care. dont worry baba will clear everything soon...
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Post by: Well-wisher on March 18, 2010, 04:54:44 AM
Gajananji... am glad you are back and fine. Yes we do remember you and I always have everyone at this forum in my prayers. Just that I havent been getting the time to be that active at this forum. But yes, mentally and verbally my prayers are always with all out here including you.
Hows life treating you... rather how have you been treating life is my question :)
Sonuji... I am fine... :) much better and stronger. Trying to focus on a very important aspect of my life - dance. I do my prayers and Reiki too. It keeps me connected to all out here.
I have learnt one more thing. The only reason for so much pain with regards to relationships is somewhere a lack of purpose in life... the moment one has a purpose... all else seems to be dealable.
I would request each one out here to find their dream, their purpose... that one thing they'd put their life on line for...
God bless...
Om Sai Ram
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Post by: akansha on March 18, 2010, 10:11:01 AM
jai sai ram hi wellwisher,sonuji,gajnan bhakt,auqa..how are u all??hows all ur side..im happy to knw gajnan ji that ur fine.. im good too,im enjoying my job too..live is very simple n happy..ive explored wat it means to have such a wonderfull family ,n such a nice life..evrything around me seems so beautifull now,ive become more giving..i feel the happiness..yes,at times few things n past memories do bother me...but for sure...baba has given me a new life n i thank him for it...i hope baba takes care of dheeraj..he has left that gal n wants me back..but somehow now i dont feel like it..now i feel nothing matters more than my simple sober life...may baba bless all of u..thanks baba. thanks a lot.
jai sai ram
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Post by: Well-wisher on March 19, 2010, 02:52:24 AM
Akansha... very happy for you...
Om Sai Ram
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Post by: upasana on March 19, 2010, 05:59:06 AM
om sai ram om sai ram om sai ram
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Post by: @pari@ on March 19, 2010, 06:27:17 AM
om sai ram wel wisher ji, kaise hain ap? hope baba is taking care of u
om sai ram akansha, nice ti hear from u ki sab acha ho raha bus bus 2mhe u hi hamesha khush rakhe
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Post by: akansha on March 21, 2010, 10:08:32 AM
jai sia ram hi wellwisher how are u doing..n aqua how are u? thanx a lot pari n upasana...may baba bless all of us.
jai sai ram
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Post by: aquafish on March 21, 2010, 11:19:12 AM
hi akansha, i am doing fine.glad to hear ur doing good..
take care
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Post by: saisan on March 21, 2010, 11:15:42 PM
dear Akanhsha, God to know ur doing good and enjoying the simple life.baba made u stronger ...initally u will find it difficult but time is the big healer and baba's blessings ..everything will be fine...good to know ur enjoying the new job too..im happy for u ... baba bless u with happiness always .. om sai ram
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Post by: jubs on March 23, 2010, 04:32:38 AM
hello akanksha......om sai ram............i don't know whether u r aware of this or not ki one of our sai devotee anny(anisha)(go to sai naap n jaap main) is going to shiridi on 25th march so she wants to take all our prayers to the lotus feet of our baba.......its our gud luck that baba wants to heared once again our prayers thru anisha just after one day of ram navami.its really a very aspicios day.i thut to inform u ppl so that ur prayers can reach to lotus feet of baba.............may baba wiped off all the sin of ours if we hav anything left n fulfill our wishes soon.................om sai ram.......om sai ram
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Post by: Well-wisher on March 24, 2010, 02:00:58 AM
Om Sai Ram everyone...
:) I am doing good. Baba is with me, taking care of me... holding me at every step. Its my faith He'll always be.
My friend Farhin always says... Happiness is submission to God alone... Its so very true...
God bless all... be strong, stay strong... God is within fighting all battles... all we need to do is not interfere and let HIM do HIS job... He knows best...
Om Sai Ram
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Post by: Sonu2310 on March 30, 2010, 12:58:35 AM
om sai ram akansha & well wisher ji,
how r u both ? good to hear that baba is taking care of u at each and every step.. baba will bless everyone in one form or the other. thank you so much for ur prayers :)