When You Ask Baba To Return Your Love, Remember This....

[gunj]

Om sai ram drashta ji

i have read ur post .and i know how painful; it is to wait for some one for so many years,and u r rite jo bhi baba karte hai humari bhalae k lia karte hai aur hume unse aisa kuch bhi nahi maag lena chahiye jo baba k will k khilafa ho.jo humare saath hota hai wo ya toh humare karam ki wajah se hota hai,ya sai humein jivan mein kuch sikhana chahte ki kya humare lia sahi hai aur kya galat hai, mere saath bhi aisa hua hai n horaha hai mere past relation mein jo galtiya ki main wo dohrana nahi chati  thi bt mujhe aise manzil me aake chod dia hai ki same thng get rep[eated with me ,sai mujhe maaf kkarna baba and kripa karna baba,jo sahi hai baba aap wohi karege but fir kyu ye taklif milti hai humein jab koi jhumare lia sahi nahi hota kyu wo life me aata hai n sapne dikhata hai   

[Sonu2310]

om sai ram,

Happy deepawali to one and all.. wishing this year brings loads of luck & happiness..

[chweetujaanu]

drashta ji really great u have waited for 10years n baba bought him back to u.. i hope that baba blesses u with loads of happiness with ur love..

omsairam

[drashta]

Om Sai Ram.

Dear Sonu ji, Shanu ji, Gunj ji, Chweetujaanu ji, thank you for your kind responses. As you say, only Baba knows what is best for us. Attachment indeed brings suffering. By releasing the mental and emotional grip on someone we lose, we regain our happiness and peace. I remember a saying that you may know, and I share: "If you love someone, let the person go. If he returns, he is yours. If he does not, he never was." Let go off the person you love, and let Baba Sai decide your future. That is my humble request to those who are suffering because they lost their love.

I wish all my brothers and sisters a very happy and prosperous Diwali. May Baba light up your lives with plenty of joy and peace. 

Om Sai Ram.

[Kirti1]

OM SAI RAM

Hi, Drashta,
I have been reading the string to your post and felt like saying something
these are just my opinions and my perceptions

From what little I know about Baba, the very fact that he called you to shirdi and gave you the mind enough to ask for your love is miracle enough. He could have called you for any other reason too
This shows you are a special child to him
May be Baba had planned, that the nut does not realize what is right for him, and he needed time to teach this guy some sense. Considering he has gone through professional, personal/financial loss, Baba didnt want you  to face the same. Or may be the guy was just paying off his past karmas

We will never know

But now that he is back, in whatever way, this is a sign from Baba to tell you  not to give up
I have come to believe, everything happens at its pre-determined time
Nobody can alter it. My  mom says, somebody can rob what;s in your hands (material things) but no one can rob your destiny
What is yours, will come to you, sooner or later
you would say, later means how late??
My answer is, when you  truly truly love someone, time, ego, etc. does not matter
Baba will give you when it's time

Remember his 11 vows? one says, he who comes to me will not go empty handed
Believe in that.

I really appreciate the patience you have shown. It will pay off
Self may be re-born 100times and not know "surrender", but if you have surrendered completely to Baba,
I am sure he would have communicated to you what  he wants you to do

He not only listens, but speaks to anyone who wants to listen to him
Onus is on us to pay attention to his speech
He may speak through any medium, not necessarily words. we know he loves us, does he come to us and literally speak in our ears? Not always, he uses other mediums
Similarly, there are some people, who can freely express their feelings, others dont
We need to adjust ourselves accordingly

I guess all the waiting has made you tired
I got this sms from my friend:
There is always a HOPE and and END
You can make it "ENDLESS HOPE" or HOPELESS END"

I will stick to former

Lastly, your post has only made me stronger in my quest and determined to keep going

Keep praying!!!

[gomisuchi]

kirti ji,

dat was a very good post indeed.. and quite true.. atleast i completely agree with u.. baba aslo said in one of his sayings " nobody comes to me, i choose and call my devotees"... he calls u to shirdi only at a time when he wants to give u something.. he called me when gowtham was taken away from me... 23 yrs of my he didnt bother.. same aplies to drashta too.. faith and love are timeless.. as i said earlier.. the longer the wait.. the sweeter the fruit.

Ppl ask urselves one question.. even if our loved ones are not in destiny... is our destiny greater than these four things... OUR LOVE, OUR FAITH, OUR PRAYERS, THE ONE WHO WROTE OUR DESTINY??... if yes, then living in this world is pointless.. i would never want to bring children into a world where the producer cannot alter the script... and if the answer is no.. then why worry at all... just keep praying.. OM SAI RAM

[Well-wisher]

I pray Drashtaji... that Baba, God blesses you with the one thats best for you. The one who floods your life with love & happiness... someone who loves you enough to have the capacity to wait endlessly in hope & stay endlessly in love with you...

Om Sai Ram

[sunidhividhi]

jai sai ram
well said kirti and suchi,
suchi i agree with you, i think our prayer and honest love, faith are more strong then destiny, and we have to prove that,  sai baba will definitely change our destiny, i wish... day will come soon when we celebrate our victory of love, faith and prayers.
sai sai sai sai sai sai sai sia

[shanu jain]

om sai ram drashta ji.............

i m khush ki u had got dat meaning wich i was tryin to say.................. so thanx sai ji.................... god bles u..............

[drashta]

Om Sai Ram.

Dear all, thanks for your responses and wishes. This is my last message on this topic. I'll not respond to any brother or sister who writes under this thread now. Before I close this topic, a few humble words from me:

Recently, I parted ways with that guy for good. We realized that much water has flowed down the bridge since we parted ways. He told me that he has a relationship with some other girl. And, I realized that I don't have the same feelings for him any more. So, we have decided to move on with our lives. We will snap all contacts and will not remember each other now onwards. I'm not in love with him now, therefore do not regret this carefully thought out decision.

For those devotees who got hope of getting back their love after reading my story, I have a few words borne out of my own experience: Please do not waste your life waiting for someone who left you. Learn to let go off your attachment for the one who did not value you or your love. Life is unpredictable, and at times cruel. We don't always get what we want from life. As a matter of fact, nobody in this world is indispensable. When I lost my love I thought I won't be able to love anyone again. But, I know that I can love the right guy, the one chosen by Baba, with equal sincerity and intensity now. Baba knows the best, and has our best interest in mind. I'm indebted to Him for saving my life from a wrong guy. Over these years, I evolved as a person. So, I do not regret anything today.

I've a friend, a staunch devotee of Baba, who lost her love last year. They were in a relationship for nine years. I hear that he is all set to marry someone else. So, dear devotees, bear with the outcome of your karma of past lives happily, and let go off people who leave you. Baba will send the right partners to you in His right time. Wait patiently for the previous Karma to get resolved. And, accept His decision happily.

Kindly forgive me if my posts gave anyone false hopes. My intention was to help you get away from such attachments, not to further entangle you in them. Forgive me Baba, if this thread added to your woes of unreasonable demands from your children.

I close this topic now. No discussion from my side now on. May Baba bless everyone with the power of discrimination, and courage to accept life as it comes.

Om Sai Ram.

[venkatarjun]

I dont know what to say, my trust in baba was really very strong and not that i distrust HIM now, but somewhere something has snapped inside me.  I am the only earning memeber of my family & my husband is not employed and we live in a foreign country and he does not have valid documents from the last 10 years and to make his stay legal we have to spend almost 3 lakhs of rupees, i wanted to take my husband out of this mess. I got a job with a bank here and not that the salary was great but i was trying to save money and living very carefully, I have a son 12 years old and spending on his school and rent and other things i managed to save about 2 lakhs and i still needed 1 lakh, at every step, every moment every second, even in sleep i have been thanking BABA, but i lost my job with the bank in just 3 days time, neither can i go back nor stay here  leaving him,w hat do i do?? where to go, to find another job is very difficult here and just suriving... from last 6 months. doing small temporary jobs. now what has BABA ins tore for me. why did he do this to me... if i was to lose this job, atleast had he solved my husband's visa problems then we could simply return back to india, now i spent all the money i saved for his visa for our stay since lst 6 months.... please can someone analyse this situation...

[drashta]

Om Sai Ram.

Venkatarjun ji, you put me in a dilemma by writing your problem under this thread. I did not mean to shake anyone's faith in Baba by my posts. The intention was to give a perspective to devotees who are waiting for their lost love to return to them. Please hold on to your faith strongly and patiently.

I'm sorry to say this, but your husband must rethink his karma. One, he has shunned his family responsibilities by not working anywhere. Second, he has lived illegally in a foreign country for so long. Both these are not the marks of a right conduct. Baba helps those who try to stay on the right path. Kindly make your husband see this point. Also, do a saptah parayan of Shri Sai Satcharitra. And, chant Baba's name constantly. Often, He helps at the last moment. Pray strongly. Baba will definitely show you a way out of your problems. We will also pray for you.

Om Sai Ram.

[saicharandhool]

Drashtaji..Salute to your love and patience..I wish mere paas utna time hota I cant tell you but I am in a situation where if she doesnt come soon than my love will loose.

[DurgaMadhuri[Sai Beti]]

so you are alone now in life...without any mental distruct? then that's great...I would always love to be in BAba's shadow rather than taking some commitments in life but things happened in my life and I am not happy...what would Baba Say?

[lms]

pyari bahana..

baba is with u...at last baba nae usae wapaz diya hae na..mem suchi kae sath humm...agar bab nae usae apki lifemem anae nahi chahthae tho wapaz kyom bheja? sochloo....mere ghayal sae  agar 10 years kae pahale tum dono shadi karthae thoo zaroor..problem hoga...( aap mere bare mem janthi hoo? agar woh shadi hone ke bath mere tharah..hogaya hae thoo app kithana....thadapayega..?)baba sab janthae isliyae...donomko...alag diya dha....ab samay aa chuki hae..baba usae...theri...true love ki...sach ko..usae ...dighavoonga...mem bhi is dekhnekeliyae...wait kar rahi hum...samashta loka sughinoo bhavanthu.......sai ram