When You Ask Baba To Return Your Love, Remember This....

[saib]

Please do not waste your life waiting for someone who left you. Learn to let go off your attachment for the one who did not value you or your love.
Very Very Difficult to understand what to say about follow. People start treating other one as own existence. Lost own personality in his or her shadow. Want to enjoy pleasure in pain. Forget to live own life, Cut from relatives, friends and even from Self. Don’t care Self Respect. Keep on begging in the name of Love. Hurting the feeling of Parents, Siblings, Friends for one whom even don’t know will accept us or not.

Life is unpredictable, and at times cruel. We don't always get what we want from life.
Yes, But our EGO don’t want let the matter go with ease. We waste years in the hope of a miracle! Perhaps one day cells of his or brain will react in different manner and He or She will accept us as part of his existence!

As a matter of fact, nobody in this world is indispensable.
Yes, Except Lord Himself, But again Ego and expectations won’t let realize  this truth!

When I lost my love I thought I won't be able to love anyone again. But, I know that I can love the right guy, the one chosen by Baba, with equal sincerity and intensity now. Baba knows the best, and has our best interest in mind.
No Doubt, Mind is just matter of conditioning and who can think better than Baba to take care of his beloved devotees.  But, We in our EGO keep on pressuring Baba to reward us our Love (in most of the cases one sided affair!!), Negotiating with Baba, Offering him various deeds Reading, Listening, Chanting, Fasting or eating certain things ………….!

I'm indebted to Him for saving my life from a wrong guy. Over these years, I evolved as a person. So, I do not regret anything today.
I do not regret anything today. This is not an ordinary thing to rise above from the level of ordinary human. It is to win the toughest battle of life over own mind! But, You know in most of the cases still at corner of heart desire (secret) to meet one exist. The Day when one gets free from this desire, In real words the door of Sai opens for him or her.

You have lots of blessings Drashta and now with all these events you would have understood till now, How essential this experience was to get the path of life changed. As Baba Said, nothing in irrelevant in your life. Everything has a purpose. If you gets lesson Ok, Otherwise it will be a series of events till you be able to come on right path!

May Sai Bless You with all the happiness and eternal peace!

om sri sai ram!

[alkaru]

SAI BABA PLS HELP ME IN GETTING ME MARRIED TO MY LOVE ARUN.ITS MORE THEN 6YRS WE R FIGHTING 4 IT N NOW HE IS FORCED 2 MARRY SUM1 ELSE WITHIN A MONTH AS PLANNED BY HIS FAMILY.PLS DO SUM MIRACLE N GET ME MARRIED TO ARUN.PLS DO SUM MIRACLE UNTIL IT 'LL GET TOO LATE.AND M SURE U'LL GET ME MARRIED TO MY ARUN ALSO INSPITE OF THESE ALL THINGS I KNW U DO SUM MIRACLE N GET ME MARRIED TO ARUN.PLS DO IT FAST SAI NATH M VRY VRY VRY VRY MUCH UPSET ITS HARDLY MONTH LEFT. OM SAI RAM

[Kirti1]

OM SAI RAM

Friends,
This is in general and not meant to pin-point anyone in particular

I just read some few posts, and saw that even as Saibhakts we are still blaming Him for things or events which dont happen as per our wish
Please guys, stop blaming Him It really hurts me to see such posts
Just goes to show, though we worship him, we dont really trust him and we dont have patience enough
We are angry with our loved ones, our circumstances, everything, and also with our God.
Are we left with such feelings like anger, resentment, etc.??
If we dont have it in us to stand to Baba's tests of Shraddha, Saburi, why cant we just give up without blaming him for our failures??

He does not fail us, we fail his tests
Our thoughts, needs, wants, etc. are limited
He is beyond our imagination, thoughts, intelligence

we know right from wrong and he also guides us
But we are so blinded by our ego, selfishness,etc. that we just cant hear what he is saying
We want to keep following on our path and still expect Him to bail out
Why? Is he our slave? Shall we seek our parents help if we have robbed somebody?

Let us all learn to first accept our mistakes with all our heart, confess to him that we are wrong, and then most importantly be prepared to walk on his path, however, testing, it may be

Preparation of accumulating a lot of Shraddha and Saburi
That will come by as we keep chanting his name, without crying out/blaming him

Just to repeat, the above is in general and am sorry in case it has hurt anyone/their feeling

[gomisuchi]

punyabhoomi ji,

most of what u have written here is directed at me.. hence i felt it my duty to reply to it. i can see where the negativity stems from.. u have had a love failure and im very sorry about it. all i can say in reply to ur post is, what happens to one doesnt necessarily happen to all. i hope not to share the same fate as urs. as for fasting, fighting with god, hurting parents, etc... i fasted because i wanted to wipe off my sins and my shastras tell me dat a 9 day fast helps do dat.. ill send u a copy of guru gita which states it ( said so by lord shiva himself).

as for hurting my parents, i care for them and hold them higher than any other human and have not hrut them, they are fine and accept all dat i do and understand me quite well.

as for fighting with baba. i share a different relationship with my god, and baba himself states in the sai satcharitra dat every devotee of his should be allowed to treat him the way they want to, its upto baba to accept it or not, shama who was one of his biggest devotees fought most with him. and my way to show love to baba is well understood by him.

as for pining for someone and ruining my life, etc, its very nice of u to care and advice me and the rest, but let me assure u dat im completely at peace with myself,, and have no regrets with anything im doing... it is completely by choice.

and one moe thing... each devotee here is doing what makes him/her feel better... whatever u tell them wont change their minds.. certain things have to be experienced to be understood. even if our attempts are futile.. let us suffer and learn,... as its the best way to learn... life was never meant to be easy.


its is a great effort u took here,... and is well appreciated.. and i know u just dont want us all to suffer hence the advice. but trust me.. let us just test our fates and learn. may baba bless u. om sai ram.

[VinitBhushan]

Dear all,

Do not forget that in life, nothing remains unchanged and everything evolves through transformation.
We must learn how to evaluate every situation with the correct amount of modesty.
If we are living a moment of success, then re-dimension your enthusiasm and energy;
If on the other hand we are waiting for a development to happen, after complete surrender then be patient; everything turns and re-news itself.

If you have faith in Sai baba anything and everything in this world and beyond it can be yours forever.
Have patience for the faith to help you in the best possible way.

Baba bless all.

[gomisuchi]

iron maiden ji,

i earn a certain amount every month. am into business and quite well off.. and have enough money at my disposal. i have fed almost 500 ppl in the last one year personally... and donated almost 200 kgs of rice in old age homes... i donate food worth 2000 bucks every month.. and clothes for the needy.. etc. .. every penny i earmt in the last 5 months has gone for donations... i spent rs 800 on myself.. dat too to buy my own bday gift...

and yes.. fasting does not erase sins.. but atleast it makes u feel better.. u MADE AN EFFORT in order to erase ur sins. god appreciates dat. and at no point have i blackmailed baba... loved him unconditionally.. i have just reminded him.. dat his daughter needs him.. nothing more.. nothing less.

as for crying for someone who doesnt deserve it.. i ruined his life... gowtham suffered more cuz of my mistakes dan the other way around.. i know dis fact.. and hence repent. none of what happened was his fault... i insulted his parents and did a lotta wrong which led all dis to happen... he tolerated more than most men would.. hats off to himf or dat. baba gave gowtham abck to me once... i didnt value it.. baba took it back to teach me to value it. im just trying to convince my god dat i have learnt my lesson.. and the day he is convinced.. he will answer my prayers.

MY FAITH AND LOVE IS UNCONDITIONAL... * NO CONDITIONS APPLY

[gomisuchi]

thank u for ur wishes.. means a lot.. may the lord bless u in ur endeavours too... all the best for life. peace

[gomisuchi]

well actually.. ur right... i went to shirdi 3 months back.. carried my wallet with me inside.. it has 5400rs... i was planning to put about rs500 in the hundi.. but when i saw baba i put every penny inside and didnt have any money left. when i came back to chennai... i earnt a profit of 30000 in a day in shares. dis is babas way of paying back.

as for the the foodgrains... there is this old age home called mercy home near my place.. and 200 old ppl live there. i donate 50kgs every 2-3 weeks.. and also sugar sometimes. and feed 10 ppl every thursday as per their wish. i.e whatever they wish to eat,,,... chocolates for the kids.. some sweets.. some food... gives me more happiness than imaginable.. when those kids look at me with big black eyes dat ask " has god sent u to us?"

once i was distributing sarees to old women on the road... bought 9 of them.. and identified ones who needed it most... one woman.. almost 85 yrs old asked me if god sent me to her... cuz she had asked god the previous night for help... must have done good last birth.. dat im priviledged enuf dis birth to help these ppl..

[gomisuchi]

thank u punyabhoomi ji,

appreciate ur wishes... and wish the same for u. OM SAI RAM

[Well-wisher]

Gomisuchiji... God bless you. I am in awe of the way you think. God bless you with all the happiness, love, life & abundance... Om Sai Ram

[gomisuchi]

thank u well wisher ji,

god bless u with all the happiness too. om sai ram

[Kirti1]

OM SAI RAM!!

Dear Gomisuchi and Poonya,

I have been reading your conversation
Poonya,
I am very small follower of Baba, and what you have written is all fine, love parents, help the needy and hungry, etc...
I totally agree with you
But this is also true that every1 in this world is here for a reason, congratulations to you,  that you know you are here for the welfare of the mankind
Bill Gates and Warren Buffet spend more than we can ever imagine, but I dont feel it matters at all
There are millions of people in Africa, and so many other places, hungry, needy, etc....have you ever asked yourself a question..."why are they poor", "why are children born to beggars"
No one can answer that
This inequality is god's way of running the world, let's not interfere with that, yes but you can sure help some1 get through 1 day of their life..nothing wrong with that...and trust me that is all what our donation money does...survival for the day....you cannot eliminate poverty from across the face of the earth.Periiod

Unfortunately mortal souls like myself, Gomisuchi and others here, feel we are born to help ourselves and our loved one, basically our "love"
We feel we might as well concentrate on 1 individual and give it all, rather than give bits and pieces to so many

Watsay Gomisuchi!?

By the way, it is not about the "guy" or "girl", it is about the soul of the "person", a spark about that "person"
As for parents, please understand, they are God-like, not God, they are at the end, human beings, who can make mistakes
I dont feel any1 on this platform is here to hurt their parents in anyway, but not always parents are justified in their stance towards love-marriage. Nobody is here to wage a war against the parents
they are only looking out for a little divine intervention or help to be with a person, whom they feel is their life partner
nothing wrong with that, and in so doing, sometimes, they do get depressed, so they come here to look for a push, that what they are doing is right
History, will tell you stories of people who died for each other, those are not fables, they were real people with real  sagas of pain, love, etc...they had parents too!!
We dont fall in that category,, but we are at least giving it a shot, before we give it up completely

Finally, only that will happen, what Baba decides, nobody can beat that

That goes for the poor, needy, hungry, etc...

We cannot do everything for every1, so might as well do everything for some1

Keep praying!!

[gomisuchi]

kirti ji,

ur right in a way.. as for ur views on love i completely agree with u... true love links 2 souls.. if it were so easy to move on there would be nothing called pain in this world... secondly.. as for donations.. we are all very selfish humans.. we can say whatever we want but the fact remains dat even donations made by us are for a selfish reason.

it could be to get in par with our karmas... or self satisfaction.. or remove guilt or pain from our hearts... but the end result is a good deed hence appreciated by god. there is no harm in lighting up someones life.. even for a moment. this is what even our sai baba teaches us.