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Hwo important is it  for a girl to get marrried?

life  with partner is it a hell?
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we have mny women leading life hapli wthot marriage hw far is it true?
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Offline seema aj

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« on: October 17, 2007, 02:56:02 AM »
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    • I girl of XXyrs old who is not willing to get married, But my parents and friends are forcing me to get married,Kindly help me out they say a life with out a life partner is not that easy to lead specially girls...... .
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    Offline rema warrier

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    Re: Marriage
    « Reply #1 on: October 17, 2007, 04:10:53 AM »
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    • First of all let me welcome you to this amazing world of online Mandir where people share their feeling to each other.

    Seemaji,
    I can understand your feelings as well as your parent's!
    On your part you are correct. you want to lead a bachelor life......
    But please think on your parent's part, they have brought you up and they feel you will be settled only if you get married.......  They won't be there with you for your whole life.... and after some years when you feel you have lost something then there wouldn't be any solution.....

    My suggestion is you take 2 to 3 years and think well. Ask your parents a time for 3 years........

    Let Sai Show the Best way for you..........

    Om Sai Nathaya Namaha

    Rema
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    Offline saibhakti

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    Re: Marriage
    « Reply #2 on: October 17, 2007, 05:26:37 AM »
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    • Om Sai Ram

    Dear Seema ji,

    No parents would like to see their daughter remain single...It's not a matter of a girl or boy having single status...It is that the  parents can never allow their son or daughter to remain single forever. There's nothing wrong in what your parents are doing. Every parent does that.To be single is tough for both, be it a Guy or a girl.
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    Life is a hell with partner.

    This is only ur perception...every person takes his own decisions & gets the result good or bad. This depends on our Karmas whether we get a good married life or not. Marriage alone won't make ur life hell.....It is only our past deeds which decide the hell & heaven.

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    we have mny women leading life hapli wthot marriage hw far is it true?
    Yes, we may have such women but who can guarentee whether they are really happy. Don't go by the statistics...make up ur own mind whether you really don't  need a companion or otherwise.

    If you have made up your mind for this decision then you should talk to ur parents & tell them how you want to lead ur life. If not then give yourself some time & think abt it. Marriage is an institution , in our society such decisions are difficult to be accepted that's why first be sure what u want in ur life then make ur parents understand ur decision.

    May Saima be with you all the time.

    Om Sai Ram

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    ॐ शिरडी वासाय विद्माहे सच्चिदानंदाय .
    धीमहि तन्नो साई प्रचोदयात . 

    Baba !  "Let my faith be strong & patience be unshaken"

    -kshama

    Offline mainhoonsaibeti

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    Re: Marriage
    « Reply #3 on: October 17, 2007, 11:50:14 PM »
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    • Marriage - Yes - for the plain simple reason that everyone needs a companion thats how God has made it to be. Maybe in youth you scoff and think i dont need anyone but later in mid life you realize that you really do need a soul mate.

    Of course there are marriages that fail but then there are business that fail, accidents that happen and Sai has said in one of the chapter if the whole tree were to bear fruit what a crop it would be, same way in life everyone does not get everything.

    I always pray to Sai that all the girls get good husbands.
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    Re: Marriage
    « Reply #4 on: October 18, 2007, 12:07:36 AM »
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    • Quote from: mainhoonsaibeti on October 17, 2007, 11:50:14 PM
    Marriage - Yes - for the plain simple reason that everyone needs a companion thats how God has made it to be. Maybe in youth you scoff and think i dont need anyone but later in mid life you realize that you really do need a soul mate.

    Of course there are marriages that fail but then there are business that fail, accidents that happen and Sai has said in one of the chapter if the whole tree were to bear fruit what a crop it would be, same way in life everyone does not get everything.

    I always pray to Sai that all the girls get good husbands.

    ॐ सांई राम~~~

    मोतीचूर का लड्डू~~~

    जय सांई राम~~~
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    ॐ शन्तिः शन्तिः शन्तिः"

    " Loka Samasta Sukino Bhavantu
    Aum ShantiH ShantiH ShantiH"~~~

    May all the worlds be happy. May all the beings be happy.
    May none suffer from grief or sorrow. May peace be to all~~~

    Offline saibhakti

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    Re: Marriage
    « Reply #5 on: October 18, 2007, 01:04:43 AM »
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    ॐ सांई राम~~~

    मोतीचूर का लड्डू~~~

    जय सांई राम~~~

    Ha ha  :D

    Good one Annu di.  :D  :P

    May Sai bless all the girls with their मोतीचूर का लड्डू.  very soon. :D ;D  :-*

    Om Sai Ram!
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    ॐ शिरडी वासाय विद्माहे सच्चिदानंदाय .
    धीमहि तन्नो साई प्रचोदयात . 

    Baba !  "Let my faith be strong & patience be unshaken"

    -kshama

    Offline r_s_simha

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    Re: Marriage
    « Reply #6 on: October 18, 2007, 03:37:07 AM »
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    • Hi Seema ji...
      May be in your way ur right... but now we feel we r happy without marriage and we can lead life like this.But one day u feel like u need one companion to share your feelings,ur happiness,ur sorrows.that time u really feel very lonely.Life is so beautiful after marriage. someone will be there to care u so much ..love u more than anybody .. he is just living in this world because for u.. he will do anything for u.. scold u when u r wrong.give his shoulders when you r blue.. :-).. my experience is this.. think manytimes before taking any decision.
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    Offline JR

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    Re: Marriage
    « Reply #7 on: October 18, 2007, 04:02:32 AM »
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    • Jai Sai Ram Seema Ji,

    Mere Khyal se to marriage hona bahut hi jaroori hai ku ki aap abhi to reh sakti hai akele.........but future me ek lifepartner ki bahut hi jaroorat hoti hai..........aur ye to ek different feeling hoti hai shadi ki.  Aapke parents bilkul thik kehte hai.......Ku ki abhi to aapke parents aapka dhyan rakhte hai but baad me ek time aisa bhi aayega jab wo aapka dhyan nahi rakh sakte so pls aap ek baar apna mann bana kar to dekhe............thoda sa apne partner ke bare me soche to aapko bahut hi achcha lagega.........partner ke bina life adhuri hai........

    Partner wo hota hai jisse hum apne sare ehsaas, saari baatein khul kar keh sakte hai aur wahi ek insaan aisa hota hai jo har pal hamare saath hota hai.............so i think marriage ek bahut hi khubsoorat ehsaas hai and aapko bhi iske bare me sochna chahiye......

    aap thoda time lekar hi koi decision le........but mere hisaab se to aapko bhi shadi karni chahiye.

    Jai Sai Ram.
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    Offline saloni

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    Re: Marriage
    « Reply #8 on: October 19, 2007, 03:19:29 AM »
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    • Dear Sis

    sabse pehle to mein ye kahungi ki babaji jo chahege wo hoga aur vaise hi phir apka bhi dimag chalne lagega its all depend n our karmas, wo kehte hai na kismat ko koi nahi badel sakta

    i understand ur feelings but pls apne parents ki taraf se unke ye bhavna bhi samjne ki koshih kero

    May baba u get the best

    Saloni
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    Offline SaiRangdaughter

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    Re: Marriage
    « Reply #9 on: October 19, 2007, 03:54:00 AM »
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    •  :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D

    So funny...& very true





    Quote from: tana on October 18, 2007, 12:07:36 AM
    Quote from: mainhoonsaibeti on October 17, 2007, 11:50:14 PM
    Marriage - Yes - for the plain simple reason that everyone needs a companion thats how God has made it to be. Maybe in youth you scoff and think i dont need anyone but later in mid life you realize that you really do need a soul mate.

    Of course there are marriages that fail but then there are business that fail, accidents that happen and Sai has said in one of the chapter if the whole tree were to bear fruit what a crop it would be, same way in life everyone does not get everything.

    I always pray to Sai that all the girls get good husbands.

    ॐ सांई राम~~~

    मोतीचूर का लड्डू~~~

    जय सांई राम~~~
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    Offline mainhoonsaibeti

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    Re: Marriage
    « Reply #10 on: October 21, 2007, 10:37:43 PM »
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    • what is so funny and so true.

    Sorry my computer does not show me hindi so please translate that i may also enjoy the joke. :)
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    Whatever you do, wherever you may be, always bear this in mind: I am always aware of everything you do.
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    Offline SaiRangdaughter

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    Re: Marriage
    « Reply #11 on: October 21, 2007, 10:51:39 PM »
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    • Om sai ma,,

    Tana ji is saying Marriage is like -- MOTICHOOR KA LADOO,,

    JO KHAYE PACHTAYE,,AUR JO NA KHAYE WO BHI PACHTAYE...SO ITS FUNNY & TRUE.....[/b]     :) :) :)

    OM SAI MA

    Quote from: mainhoonsaibeti on October 21, 2007, 10:37:43 PM
    what is so funny and so true.

    Sorry my computer does not show me hindi so please translate that i may also enjoy the joke. :)
    « Last Edit: October 21, 2007, 10:55:03 PM by SaiRangdaughter »
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    Offline tana

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    Re: Marriage
    « Reply #12 on: October 21, 2007, 11:17:39 PM »
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    • Quote from: SaiRangdaughter on October 21, 2007, 10:51:39 PM
    Om sai ma,,

    Tana ji is saying Marriage is like -- MOTICHOOR KA LADOO,,

    JO KHAYE PACHTAYE,,AUR JO NA KHAYE WO BHI PACHTAYE...SO ITS FUNNY & TRUE.....[/b]     :) :) :)

    OM SAI MA

    Quote from: mainhoonsaibeti on October 21, 2007, 10:37:43 PM
    what is so funny and so true.

    Sorry my computer does not show me hindi so please translate that i may also enjoy the joke. :)

    Om Sai Ram~~~

    Thanx SaiRangdaughter ...

    Its Very True... JO KHAYE VO BHI PACHTAYE , AUR NA KHAYE VO BHI~~~~

    Better hai Ki Kha he lo....

    Jai Sai Ram~~~

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    "लोका समस्ता सुखिनो भवन्तुः
    ॐ शन्तिः शन्तिः शन्तिः"

    " Loka Samasta Sukino Bhavantu
    Aum ShantiH ShantiH ShantiH"~~~

    May all the worlds be happy. May all the beings be happy.
    May none suffer from grief or sorrow. May peace be to all~~~

    Offline SaiRangdaughter

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    Re: Marriage
    « Reply #13 on: October 22, 2007, 02:50:20 AM »
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    •  :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :D :D :D :D :D :D :D

    Quote from: tana on October 21, 2007, 11:17:39 PM
    Quote from: SaiRangdaughter on October 21, 2007, 10:51:39 PM
    Om sai ma,,

    Tana ji is saying Marriage is like -- MOTICHOOR KA LADOO,,

    JO KHAYE PACHTAYE,,AUR JO NA KHAYE WO BHI PACHTAYE...SO ITS FUNNY & TRUE.....[/b]     :) :) :)

    OM SAI MA

    Quote from: mainhoonsaibeti on October 21, 2007, 10:37:43 PM
    what is so funny and so true.

    Sorry my computer does not show me hindi so please translate that i may also enjoy the joke. :)

    Om Sai Ram~~~

    Thanx SaiRangdaughter ...

    Its Very True... JO KHAYE VO BHI PACHTAYE , AUR NA KHAYE VO BHI~~~~

    Better hai Ki Kha he lo....

    Jai Sai Ram~~~


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    Offline mainhoonsaibeti

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    Re: Marriage
    « Reply #14 on: October 22, 2007, 09:58:52 PM »
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    •  ;D very true and thanks
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    Whatever you do, wherever you may be, always bear this in mind: I am always aware of everything you do.
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