our future our children

[saloni]

dear all

aj ek baat man mein ayee hai bein a 'NRI hume to bahut mushqile aati hai baccho ko teek se barra kerne mein, india mein log ye jyada acche se ker paat hai

pls put your suggestion and comments


Jai Sai

Social topics r always good to discuss

one can leran abt....................

[mainhoonsaibeti]

you are right it is because of the culture that is prevailing all around the kids, in western countries the children have to struggle to be accepted by the kids around them be it their neighbourhood, school, playground etc and to be like them they adapt their behaviour and habits initially it is the pressure of being accepted that they change and one fine day they become big and we realize that our kids are completely different and not at all like we would have wanted our children to be.

i dont know in this situation who is to be blamed ---the parents for not controlling them or just the situation. the new generation does not like control too. parents are in a fix from every side.

[saloni]

Dear all

pls apne suggestion deejiye

om sai

[saloni]

dear brothers and sisters

i hope aap sub ke liye bhi ye topic utna hi important hai jitna duniya ke her maa baap ke liye

i m eagerly waiting for ur comments and tips

Baba bless all

[gaurav_dctm]

Om Jai Sri Sai Ram..

Dear Saloni Ji,

I can completely understand your concern and fear.
I am currently working in Australia (have been married approx 2 years) and don't have any kids. My cousin (sister) has been living with her husband and 3 kids (2 of them are girls and are in their late teens) here for the past 9 years or so.

When I meet their kids I feel so happy...they are so 'Indian'...their kids (though born and brought up in Australia) are more Indian than many of us. My cousin and her husband have given them such a beautiful upbringing and such wonderful values...it's amazing. They all (including kids) regularly do 'hawans' and poojas at home. I showed my cousin Sri Sai Satcharitra a few days ago and they asked their kids to touch the book with their forehead as a mark of respect and they all did it. They all regularly go to temples, eat Indian food at home etc...The kids do go out on parties, wear western dresses, but they know their limits. They call up and let my cosuin know when they expect to be late. The kids call their friends (girls and guys) and make them meet my cousin and her husband.

Touchwood...they are an ideal family. They have dinner together..go out and have fun..they have a big social circle too.
So, in a nutshell - if you teach and exhibit good values in front of kids, they do learn it...it has to be done since day one. Even though my cousin is working, but she has taken an easy job with small work hours. She picks up and drops the children from their school/college..she spends a lot of time with them on their studies, they watch Indian movies (DVDs) together etc.

My cousin does not keep her career in front of her family...to her the family comes first and then her career...

Hope this helps..rest have full faith in Baba Ji and tell Baba Ji's stories, narrate incidents from Baba Ji's life to kids, ask them to read Sri Sai Satcharitra etc...let ur kids be aware of God and inculcate faith in them for God.

May Baba Ji always be with you and your family..

God bless everyone
Gaurav

[saloni]

bahu bahut dhanaywad Gauravji

really nice tips

Saloni

[R.K]

Saloni
Mujhe lagta hain ki hame videsh mai rehate hui bhi koshish karni chihiye ki ham spne bacho ko apne cuture se jorne ki koshish kare.
Bacho ko apne bhartdesh ki bataye bataye unhe apne desh ke mahan logo ki jivaniya kahani ke rup mai sunane. Aur jaha tak ho sake to ghar par puja jarur kare aue apne bacho ko sath jarur puja ke waqt bithaye.
Bese bhi dekha jaye to bache apne ghar apne mata pita se bahut kuch sikhte hain to koshish kare ki apne bacho ke liye ek adarsh mata pita bane.

Mere bache bhi raat ko sone se pehle gaytri mantra aur Sai babaji ka naam jarur lete hain. Jitna so sake apne bacho ke liye samye jarur nikale. kehate hain ki jaruri nahi aap kitna samaye kisi ke sath bitate hain jaruri hain ki aap kitna acha samye kisi ke sath bitate hain.