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Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
« Reply #15 on: June 21, 2005, 03:55:08 AM »
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  • Don't wait for Friendship
      to come knocking on
    your door.

    Go knocking.

    Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

    dipika duggal
    साईं बाबा अपने पवित्र चरणकमल ही हमारी एकमात्र शरण रहने दो.ॐ साईं राम


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    Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
    « Reply #16 on: June 21, 2005, 03:58:35 AM »
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  • To have Friends,be a Friend.
    To be remembered,remember others.
    To be loved,be loving.

    Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

    dipika duggal
    साईं बाबा अपने पवित्र चरणकमल ही हमारी एकमात्र शरण रहने दो.ॐ साईं राम


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    Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
    « Reply #17 on: June 21, 2005, 04:28:18 AM »
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  • Om Sai Ram,
    Whenever I think of Friends I only recall having being cheated and misled. I have never had true friends. Now Baba YOU are my Friend. You please stay with me always.
    Jai Sai Ram
    Sanjiv
     

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    Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
    « Reply #18 on: June 21, 2005, 05:35:53 AM »
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  • Friends accept each other as they are

    This is a fantastic part of the world of friendship. two friends in true friendship accept each other as they are... with the shortcomings and drawbacks. Equally well! They show you the path to correct yourself if you go wrong... but never do they dislike you for going wrong.

    Accepting each other with all the shortcomings is the most beautiful and out of the world part of friendship. No other relationship possess this capability. In all the relations, somewhere or the other you tend to dislike your companion for his/her shortcomings.

    Best is the friend who accept you with your shortcomings and true and loyal is the friend who tries to correct your mistakes!

    You can never go wrong if you have a true friend by your side. Even if you do... you will stand firm to face all the odds...holding your friend's hand!

    Thus -
    Thing that is impossible anywhere else, is the most common in true friendships. BLIND TRUST is what I call it. Accepting your friend with his shortcomings and drawbacks is possible for you... only if you are a TRUE FRIEND.

    अपना साँई प्यारा साँई सबसे न्यारा अपना साँई - रमेश रमनानी

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    Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
    « Reply #19 on: June 22, 2005, 12:25:48 AM »
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  • True Friendship not only,
    withstands adversity,
    it grows stronger for it.

    Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

    dipika duggal
    साईं बाबा अपने पवित्र चरणकमल ही हमारी एकमात्र शरण रहने दो.ॐ साईं राम


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    Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
    « Reply #20 on: June 25, 2005, 03:27:29 AM »
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  • Friendship does for people
    what the sun does for flowers.
    Pour it on and watch them
    blossom.

    Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

    dipika duggal
    साईं बाबा अपने पवित्र चरणकमल ही हमारी एकमात्र शरण रहने दो.ॐ साईं राम


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    Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
    « Reply #21 on: June 25, 2005, 10:57:00 AM »
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  • Keep your friend's secrets

    This is the very important rule of friendship… which is like an oath to be taken by every friend in true friendship.  

    As friendship consists of sharing, it consists of privacy also. This privacy involves privacy between the two friends and the world.

    Whatever goes between two friends should never leak out to the world.  

    As already mentioned, I feel that friendship of the kind I talk about here, can exist between 2 friends.

    I repeat the saying, "One should have two friends… one to talk to and another to talk about." This is general kind of friendship. Do not misunderstand me when I say that I do not believe in such friendships. For me, friendship is one-to-one relationship!

    If your friend comes and tells you his/her most embarrassing moment, secrets, it is your duty not to share it with someone else if you are in true friendship with that person!

    Thus
    Friends…before they call themselves as a friend should learn to keep the secrets of their friends.

    अपना साँई प्यारा साँई सबसे न्यारा अपना साँई - रमेश रमनानी

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    Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
    « Reply #22 on: June 25, 2005, 11:20:42 PM »
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  • To have friends,be a friend.
    To be remembered ,remember others.
    To be loved,be loving.

    Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

    dipika duggal
    साईं बाबा अपने पवित्र चरणकमल ही हमारी एकमात्र शरण रहने दो.ॐ साईं राम


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    Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
    « Reply #23 on: June 26, 2005, 12:26:06 AM »
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  • Baseline of friendship is mutual understanding

    Earlier, I have continuously stressed on friendship between two friends. I have also mentioned that friendship cannot exist between more than two friends. I would like to clarify my statement for those people who do not agree to my statement.

    DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA? The given topic is not only to express my views but also make others realize the value of friendship, so that this earth becomes a better place to live.

    Friendship, what I am talking about, here, is not friendship, which exists between any two individuals who have same choices. Two people liking vada sambaar cannot be called friends, but they think in this manner.

    "I like vada-sambaar, you like it too. I like watching movies, you like it too. You like my company I like yours. We have so much in common! We are friends."

    This is the general way in which people make friends these days. The meaning of 10 alphabetical words is deteriorating.

    The above example is not an example of friendship; it is actually joining hands with a person whose ideas and favorites match with yours.

    Friendship consists of accepting a person wholly in your life in spite of any differences that you may have. Your friend need not like what you like and vice versa.

    If this is the baseline (vada-sambaar) of friendship then you may have thousands of friends! Go to the south and you will find one for every step you walk.

    But! The baseline of friendship is mutual understanding. You ought to understand as to what your friend's viewpoint is before asking him/her. You must learn to listen to his/her views even if they do not match yours.

    This is the beginning of a better decision. You may realize it soon that because of difference in thought or rather opinion, about a particular topic, with your friend, you reach a perfect conclusion, because of friendly discussion with your friend.

    You know that there is no square root solution to 26 or 23.
    But add them together.
    26 + 23 = 49
    49 have a square root!
    Your views are 26
    Your friend's views are 23 ( or vice-versa )
    And 49 is your joint view.
    And 7 is the solution to your problem.

    Thus, "Baseline of friendship is mutual understanding."
    अपना साँई प्यारा साँई सबसे न्यारा अपना साँई - रमेश रमनानी

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    Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
    « Reply #24 on: June 29, 2005, 05:09:03 AM »
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  • A Friend Should be
    Radical, Fanatical,
    and Most of All, Mathematical…

    A Friend should be Radical;

    They should love you when you’re unlovable,
    Hug you when you’re unhuggable,
    And bear you when you’re unbearable.
    A Friend should be Fanatical;

    They should cheer when the whole world boos,
    Dance when you get good news,
    And cry when you cry too.
    But most of all, a Friend should be Mathematical;

    They should multiply the joy, divide the sorrow,
    Subtract the past, and add to tomorrow,
    Calculate the need deep in your heart,
    And always be bigger than the sum of all their parts.

    Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


    dipika duggal
    साईं बाबा अपने पवित्र चरणकमल ही हमारी एकमात्र शरण रहने दो.ॐ साईं राम


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    « Reply #25 on: June 29, 2005, 08:16:55 AM »
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  • Who finds a faithful friend, finds a treasure. -- Jewish Saying

    Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow.
    Don't walk behind me, I may not lead.
    Just walk beside me and be my friend.-- Albert Camus

    Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some stay for awhile and leave footprints on our hearts. And we are never, ever the same.-- Anonymous

    "Friends are the sunshine of life."
    Plant a seed of friendship; reap a bouquet of happiness. -- Lois L. Kaufman

    A friend loves at all times."
    -- The Bible: Proverbs 17, 17.

    "However rare true love may be, it is less so than true friendship."


    Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
    Count your age with friends but not with years - Anonymous

    dipika duggal
    साईं बाबा अपने पवित्र चरणकमल ही हमारी एकमात्र शरण रहने दो.ॐ साईं राम


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    « Reply #26 on: June 29, 2005, 08:20:24 AM »
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  • Written with a pen

    Sealed with a kiss

    If you are my friend,

    Please answer this:

    Are we friends or are we not?

    You told me once, but I forgot.

    So tell me now and tell me true,

    So I can say, I am here for you.

    Of all the friends I've ever met,

    You're the one I won't forget.

    And if I die before you do,

    I'll go to Heaven

    And wait for you.

     

    Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

    dipika duggal
    साईं बाबा अपने पवित्र चरणकमल ही हमारी एकमात्र शरण रहने दो.ॐ साईं राम


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    « Reply #27 on: June 29, 2005, 08:27:20 AM »
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  • A friend will always
     strengthen you with his prayers
    bless you with his love
    and encourage you with his hope

    Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


    dipika duggal
    साईं बाबा अपने पवित्र चरणकमल ही हमारी एकमात्र शरण रहने दो.ॐ साईं राम


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    « Reply #28 on: June 30, 2005, 05:01:10 AM »
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  • JAI SAI RAM!!!

    You are still the one whom I love
    and will be the one whom forever I would love
    I cannot think of someone else in place of you
    Because no one is worth replacing you.
    You are always near shoving away my fear
    walking with me through all shades of life
    You are with me ... walking besides me
    holding my hand and inspiring my life.
    So what if they do not see you..
    I can see as well as feel you.
    Feel in the every breath I take
    and every move I make.

    OM SAI RAM!!!
    अपना साँई प्यारा साँई सबसे न्यारा अपना साँई - रमेश रमनानी

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    « Reply #29 on: July 01, 2005, 08:26:40 AM »
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  • True Friends

    A long time ago in China there were two friends, one who played the harp skilfully and one who listen skillfully.

    When the one played or sang about a mountain, the other would say: "I can see the mountain before us."

    When the one played about water, the listener would exclaim: "Here is the running stream!"

    But the listener fell sick and died. The first friend cut the strings of his harp and never played again. Since that time the cutting of harp strings has always been a sign of intimate friendship.

    Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

    dipika duggal
    साईं बाबा अपने पवित्र चरणकमल ही हमारी एकमात्र शरण रहने दो.ॐ साईं राम


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