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Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
« Reply #585 on: August 23, 2008, 11:23:54 AM »
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  • "Friendship always benefits; love sometimes injures... :(

    "Friendship is full of dregs."
    By: William Shakespeare


    "Life is to be fortified by many friendships. To love, and to be loved, is the greatest happiness of existence."
    By: Sydney Smith, Of Friendship--Lady Holland's Memoir

    "Friendship is the greatest honesty and ingenuity in the world."
    By: Jeremy Taylor


    ALLAH MALIK!

    Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
    साईं बाबा अपने पवित्र चरणकमल ही हमारी एकमात्र शरण रहने दो.ॐ साईं राम


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    « Reply #586 on: August 23, 2008, 11:33:14 AM »
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  • A friend is not a true friend unless he protects his brother in three situations: in his misfortune, in his absense, and at his death. 
    Friends are like books should be few and choose the best one. 
    A friendship that can end, never really began. 
    A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart. 
    True friendship comes when silence between two people is comfortable. 
    A boyfriend stabs you in the heart, a stranger stabs you in the front, a friend stabs you in the back, but best friends don't carry knives. 
    There will be many people who will walk in and out of your life but only true friends will leave footprints behind. 
    Friendship is like the relation between hands and eyes. It's like when the hand gets hurt, the eye cries, and when the eye cries the hand wipes its tears. 
    Friendship improves happiness and abates misery, by the doubling of our joy and the dividing of our grief. 
    Count your life by smiles not tears, count your age by friends not years.

    ALLAH MALIK!

    Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
    साईं बाबा अपने पवित्र चरणकमल ही हमारी एकमात्र शरण रहने दो.ॐ साईं राम


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    Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
    « Reply #587 on: August 23, 2008, 11:43:55 AM »
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  • OMSAIRAM! :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D

       May God bless you,with bright stars in the sky when the way seems dark.

       when the smiles to cheer you when the road seems long.

       with Sunshine to warm you,when the world seems cold.
     
        with love to greet you when each day is gone.


    ALLAH MALIK!

    Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
    साईं बाबा अपने पवित्र चरणकमल ही हमारी एकमात्र शरण रहने दो.ॐ साईं राम


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    Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
    « Reply #588 on: October 03, 2008, 06:33:14 AM »
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  • जय सांई राम।।।

    एक रिश्ता है ऐसा
    बिल्कुल अनोखा हो जैसा,
    स्वार्थ से अछूता,
    समन्दर से गहरा हैं 'वो'

    जाति पाँति के बन्धनों से परे
    धर्मों के आडम्बरों से दूर है जो
    कहते हैं जिसे हम मित्रता,
    क्या विश्वास है और
    कितनी भरी है इसमें मधुरता

    सुख मे भले ना
    वो दिखलाये,
    पर दुःख में हमेशा,
    'वो' दोस्त काम आये

    औपचारिकता से
    परे है जो,
    दिल के कितने करीब है 'वो'

    कह ना सके जो
    बात किसी से,
    उस दोस्त से कह जाते हैं
    कितनी सहजता से

    भरोसे का अटूट
    आधार है जो,
    मुसीबतों में खडा
    चट्टान है 'वो'

    जिसकी देतें हैं
    लोग मिसालें,
    दोस्ती और दोस्त ही हैं
    'बाबा सांई'  मेरे यार,
    जो मेरे जीवन रुपी
    चित्रपट में
    अदा करते हैं,
    एक महत्वपूर्ण किरदार
    वो भी दोस्तों!
    एक नहीं अनेकों बार

    अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई

    ॐ सांई राम।।।
    अपना साँई प्यारा साँई सबसे न्यारा अपना साँई - रमेश रमनानी

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    Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
    « Reply #589 on: November 11, 2008, 06:46:50 AM »
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  • जय सांई राम।।।

    दोस्त वो होना चाहिये जिसके साथ हम अपने सारे रिश्ते जी सकें...वो माँ बनकर हमपर अपनी ममता लुटाये....वो बाप की तरह हमे डांट पिलाये....वो भाई की तरह हमे सताये....वो छोटी बहन की तरह हमसे दिल की सारी बातें शेयर करे....वो दुश्मन की तरह हमे हर बार हराने की कोशिश करे तांकि हम और मज़बूत बन सकें....वो एक प्रेमी की तरह दिलो जान से प्यार भी करे....हर एक रिश्ता, हर एक रिश्ता जिससे हम शेयर करें....ऐसा होना चाहिये दोस्त...

    साथियो और वो दोस्त है मेरा....मेरा प्यारा सबसे न्यारा साई.....अपना सांई बाबा...क्यों सही है ना?
     
    अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई

    ॐ सांई राम।।।
    अपना साँई प्यारा साँई सबसे न्यारा अपना साँई - रमेश रमनानी

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    Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
    « Reply #590 on: November 12, 2008, 03:35:58 AM »
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  • TRUE FRIENDS ARE GOD's ANGELS...........  :)             

    Thankyou My Angels.........

    Thankyou BABA jaani for being my Angel friend..........       


    ALLAH MALIK!

    Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
    साईं बाबा अपने पवित्र चरणकमल ही हमारी एकमात्र शरण रहने दो.ॐ साईं राम


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    Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
    « Reply #591 on: November 14, 2008, 08:55:31 AM »
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  • जय सांई राम।।।

    जिंदगी का सच.....जो मुश्किल से मिले वो है पैसा, जो आसानी से मिले वो यार कैसा? जो हर किसी को मिले वो है गम और जो किस्मत वालों को मिले वो है...सांई....सांई बाबा मेरा
     
    अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई
    ॐ सांई राम।।।
    अपना साँई प्यारा साँई सबसे न्यारा अपना साँई - रमेश रमनानी

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    Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
    « Reply #592 on: December 20, 2008, 10:42:05 PM »
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  • Sukha Ke Sangi Swarthi
    Dukh Me Rahate Door
    Kahe Kabir Parmarathi
    Dukh Sukh Sada Hujoor


    The fair weather friends stay away when we face the rough weather. Those who understand the truth are with us at all times.

    Kabir ji.

    ALLAH MALIK!

    Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
    साईं बाबा अपने पवित्र चरणकमल ही हमारी एकमात्र शरण रहने दो.ॐ साईं राम


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    Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
    « Reply #593 on: December 21, 2008, 06:56:10 AM »
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  • जय सांई राम।।।

    शायद नशा ये "तुझसे" मोहब्बत करने का सर मेरे चढ़ के बोला है
    खता कहो मगर खुदा से भी मैने सिर्फ "तुझको" ही मांगा है
    रब माफ़ करे या करे जहन्नुम मेरे नसीब
    मैने तो रूख ज़िन्दगी का "तेरे"  ही नाम कर दिया है.....

    हम सबको ऐसा दोस्त चाहिए जो हमे अपना मान सके, जो हमारे दिल को जान सके, चल रहे हों हम तेज़ बारिश मे, फिर भी पानी मे से आँसुओ को पहचान सके। ख़ुश्बू की तरह हमारी सांसो मे रहे लहू बनके और नस-नस मे बहे। दोस्ती होती है रिश्तों का अनमोल गहना इसलिये बाबा की दोस्ती को कभी अलविदा ना कहना। याद आए अपने बाबा की तो बस सिर्फ आँखें बंद करना। बाबा की दोस्ती का एहसास कभी कम मत करना।.....एक बात और....दोस्ती उनसे करो जो निभाना जानते हो।  नफ़रत उन से करना जो भूलना जानते हो.....ग़ुस्सा उन से करना जो मानना जानते हो.....प्यार उनसे करना जो दिल लुटाना जानते हों.........बहते अश्को की ज़ुबान नही होती, लफ़्ज़ों मे मोहब्बत बयां नही होती, मिले जो प्यार तो कदर करना, किस्मत हर किसी पर मेहरबान नही होती। ज़िन्दगी सिर्फ गमो का पुलिंदा ही नही माना कि ख़ुशियाँ आज कल चुनिंदा है।  बस हमेशा याद रखना अपने सांई...सांई  बाबा को

    अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई
    ॐ सांई राम।।।
    अपना साँई प्यारा साँई सबसे न्यारा अपना साँई - रमेश रमनानी

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    Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
    « Reply #594 on: December 24, 2008, 07:30:10 AM »
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  • Sudama was from a poor Brahmin family, while Krishna was from the royal family. But this difference in social status did not come in the way of their friendship. They lost contact over the years and while Krishna became a military leader and King of great repute at Dwaraka, while Sudama stayed as a humble, and somewhat impoverished Brahmin living in a village .

    Some time later when Sudama was going through some bad times, not even having enough money to feed his children, his wife reminded him of his friendship with Krishna.

    Though initially reluctant to go to his friend for help, Sudama finally agrees to go. He leaves with nothing but some beaten rice tied in a cloth as a present. He remembers that beaten rice (powa/poha in Hindi) is Krishna's favorite and decided to give this as a gift to the Lord.

    Krishna is greatly pleased to see his old friend. He treats him royally and with much love. Overwhelmed by all this Sudama forgets to ask for what he actually came to ask. But the Lord realises what His friend needs, and the lord's consort Rukmini incarnation of Lakshmi, gifts him with his desires. On his return journey, Sudama ponders his circumstances and is thankful for the great friend he has in Lord Krishna. When Sudama finally returns to his home, he finds a palatial mansion instead of the hut he had left. He also finds his family dressed in extremely nice garb and waiting for him. He lives an austere life after that, always thankful to the Lord.

    This story is told to illustrate that the Lord does not differentiate between people based on their finances and that he will reward devotion always. Another moral taught by this story is to never expect anything free in life; God will provide for your good deeds. Another moral is not to trade bhakti for anything in return. Sudama did not ask Krishna for anything. Despite being poor Sudama had given Krishna everything he had (poha) hence in return the Lord gave Sudama everything he needed.

    Krishna never forgot His friend and treated Sudama with utmost respect. By His example, Krishna is teaching us about how to treat one another.

    Another important lesson learnt here is about how Krishna rewards true Brahmins. Krishna did not reward Sudama just because he was a friend. Sudama spent all of his time and effort in cultural efforts befitting a true Brahmin which explained why he was financially not well off. This included teaching religion, moral duties, and spreading spirituality through society. It is for this effort that Krishna rewards Sudama's family with wealth so that Sudama may continue to do that work.

    Did Sudama himself lead an autere life after returning from Krishna ? It is said that Sudama continued to lead the life of a hermit while his family enjoyed the generous gifts of wealth from Krishna...........

    DOST.........................

    ALLAH MALIK!

    Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM



    साईं बाबा अपने पवित्र चरणकमल ही हमारी एकमात्र शरण रहने दो.ॐ साईं राम


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    Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
    « Reply #595 on: December 24, 2008, 08:10:32 AM »
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  • One day Ananda, who had been thinking deeply about things for a while, turned to the Buddha and exclaimed:
    "Lord, I've been thinking- spiritual friendship is at least half of the spiritual life!"
    The Buddha replied: "Say not so, Ananda, say not so. Spiritual friendship is the whole of the spiritual life!"
    Samyutta Nikaya, Verse 2

    In Aryans' Discipline, to build a friendship is to build wealth,
    To maintain a friendship is to maintain wealth and
    To end a friendship is to end wealth.
    Cakkavatti Sutta, Patika Vagga, Dighanikaya

    One should follow a man of wisdom who rebukes one for one's faults, as one would follow a guide to some buried treasure.
    To one who follows such a wise man, it will be an advantage and not a disadvantage.
    Dhammapada 76

    ALLAH MALIK!

    Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
    साईं बाबा अपने पवित्र चरणकमल ही हमारी एकमात्र शरण रहने दो.ॐ साईं राम


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    Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
    « Reply #596 on: January 17, 2009, 08:56:46 PM »
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  • Do not reveal to friends all the secrets you possess; they may one day become enemies. Do not inflict on enemies every injury in your power; they may one day become friends.


    -Sadi, "Gulistan


    ALLAH MALIK!

    Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
    साईं बाबा अपने पवित्र चरणकमल ही हमारी एकमात्र शरण रहने दो.ॐ साईं राम


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    Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
    « Reply #597 on: February 14, 2009, 09:16:54 AM »
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  • To attract good fortune, spend a new coin on an old friend, share an old pleasure with a new friend, and lift up the heart of a true friend by writing his name on the wings of a dragon.

    Chinese Proverb


    Be slow in choosing a friend, but slower in changing him.

    Scottish Proverb


    The road to a friend's house is never long

    Danish Proverb

    Those who wish to sing, always find a song.

    Swedish proverb


    A friend is one to whom one can pour out all the contents of one's heart, chaff and grain together, knowing that the gentlest of hands will take and sift it, keeping what is worth keeping, and, with the breath of kindness, blow the rest away.

    Arabian Proverb

    ALLAH MALIK!

    Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
    साईं बाबा अपने पवित्र चरणकमल ही हमारी एकमात्र शरण रहने दो.ॐ साईं राम


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    Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
    « Reply #598 on: April 25, 2009, 12:44:32 AM »
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  • Jai Sai Ram!!!!!!!!!!
    If I Think about True friendship then always a word comes in my mind which touch all the feelings of my heart & dat is
    Sai se Dosti yeah its true in dis big world many people we knw but no 1 cn understand us;;
    samtym v thnk all r vd us but it 4 a short tym
    The true frnd is only sai baba who r always  vd u every tym ,, every moment whenever u need u feel him with u;;
    Trust on BABA & go ahead;;
    OMM SAI RAM 
    Jai Sai Ram
    Sai teri "Kami" bhi hai, tera "Ehsaas" bhi hai....

    Sai tu "Door" bhi hai mujhse par "Paas" bhi hai......

    Khuda ne yun nwaza hai teri "Bhakti" se mujhko.....

    Kii.............

    Khuda ka "Shukr" bhi hai aur khud pe "Naaz" bhi hai..

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    Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
    « Reply #599 on: May 15, 2009, 11:15:25 PM »
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  • OMSAIRAM!Some friends are friends with us in their adversity but leave us when gud times come to them..Truly great friends are hard to find..

    Sai baba has said choose friends who stay with u in thick and thin.

    Our Sai baba is our True friend.

    METTA TO ALL.....Let all beings be happy and free from suffering,whatever beings be there.


    ALLAH MALIK!


    Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

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