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Title: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on April 08, 2005, 01:41:47 PM
Choose friends who will stick to you till the end, through thick and thin   

Sai baba   


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM



dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: sainaa on April 08, 2005, 02:51:14 PM
Baba if i have any flaws please remove them and make me as such a friends and please bless with such friends

My abode is in your heart and I am within you. Always worship Me, Who is seated in your heart, as well as, in the hearts of all beings. Blessed and fortunate, indeed, is he who knows Me thus
--Baba
LUV U BABA,
Sainaa.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: sainaa on April 08, 2005, 02:51:44 PM
Baba if i have any flaws please remove them and make me as such a friends and please bless with such friends

My abode is in your heart and I am within you. Always worship Me, Who is seated in your heart, as well as, in the hearts of all beings. Blessed and fortunate, indeed, is he who knows Me thus
--Baba
LUV U BABA,
Sainaa.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on April 11, 2005, 02:31:55 PM
OMSAIRAM Sai baba u have reestablished faith in friends for me .Ruchi has send mail from Paris after months.OMSAIRAM

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on May 02, 2005, 12:15:44 PM
OM SAI RAM TO ALL THOSE WHO WANTS TO KNOW ABOUT "DOST KAISE HO".

When one make SAI as his best DOST then only one understand the real meaning of dosti.  In my opinion "Asli Dost to woh hai jo tumhare kabhi bhi kam na aye lakin tumahare sare kam uske ho jaen".  The day I came to know of MY BABA's million-million janmo ki dosti all became my friends and I became everybody's dost.  You know MY BABA first introduced me to me because prior to that I was doing all those things to me which were not in my interest.  MY BABA taught me how to be friendly and loveable to the self only then I could understand the sachi dosti of MY BABA.

BABA BLESS ALL THOSE WHO ARE FRIENDS TO THEMESELVES FIRST.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: sainaa on May 02, 2005, 12:53:43 PM
WOW WHAT A GOOD DISCRIPTION OF FRIEND RAMESHJI VERY NICE TO READ YOUR OPINION ABOUT FRIENDS YAA ITS VERY CORRECTLY SAID FIRST ONE SHOULD KNOW ABOUT THEM SELVES AND BE GOOD FRIENDS WITH THEMSELVES
BABA PLEASE HELP ALL OF US IN THIS ASPECT

My abode is in your heart and I am within you. Always worship Me, Who is seated in your heart, as well as, in the hearts of all beings. Blessed and fortunate, indeed, is he who knows Me thus
--Baba
LUV U BABA,
Sainaa.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on May 05, 2005, 10:57:50 AM
True Friend Is A Lamp

Dipam means a light, a lamp. Be a lamp unto yourself. those are the last words of Gautama the Buddha but they contain the whole message of all the masters. Listen, learn, watch, but always remember that each decision is your responsibility. Never shirk any responsibility. It is easier and more comfortable to throw the responsibility on others, but it is very costly, because in throwing the responsibility on others you are throwing opportunities for integration, for individuation.

 'Be a light unto yourself' does not mean egoism, because when the light is there, there is no ego ever found. 'Be a light unto yourself' does not mean that you have to close yourself to existence and that you are not to learn from anywhere else. Learn from each and everything: from trees, from birds, animals, rivers, mountains. Learn from everywhere, keep yourself open to all the dimensions of life. Let existence pour its wisdom into you, from every nook and corner. But the final decision has to be yours; never allow anybody else to decide for you.

The people who want to decide for you are not your real friends. The real friends are those who will give their whole heart to you, who will make everything available to you, whatsoever they have known and learned, but who will also insist that you decide on your own. They will not help you to lean upon them.

In fact sometimes real friends look very hard because when you wanted to lean too much they simply denied you. When you wanted to just follow them, they didn't help; they wanted you to be on your own. But finally one comes to know that those were the people who really loved you. They gave all that they could but they never took away your basic right to decide, to choose, to be.

That is the message in this simple word 'dipam': be a light unto yourself.

JAI SAI RAM - BABA BLESS ALL THOSE WHO WOULD BE LIGHT UNTO THEMSELVES.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: ANKITA on May 06, 2005, 12:22:39 AM
Sairam Rameshji

Luvely thoughts. !! Thanks for sharing such good thoughts !!

Sai be with all of us !!

Sairam
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: sainaa on May 09, 2005, 02:12:28 PM
Omsairam,
Baba you know about me you know about my friends too ...baba is it that iam misunderstanding them or is it that they dont care enough for me and not reciprocating properely babaa please saimaaa please help in balancing my self please dont make me broke out on them by loosing control please help in being diplomatic and matured enough in dealing these relations ...iam really tired saimaa u know that please help me baba please i beg you omsairam

My abode is in your heart and I am within you. Always worship Me, Who is seated in your heart, as well as, in the hearts of all beings. Blessed and fortunate, indeed, is he who knows Me thus
--Baba
LUV U BABA,
Sainaa.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on May 09, 2005, 09:28:04 PM
JAI SAI RAM Dear Sister sainaa

I will only say in short that make MY BABA as your friend then you will see how diplomat he makes you.  Just wait. You have no flaw as such but if you think you have; just watch them and don't fight with them, just watch them.  You will see all your flaws goes like they came. Your flaws are, if any, are only your thoughts. Next time I will suggest you some more way to make BABA as your best friend like I have made him as my BEST FRIEND.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on May 09, 2005, 09:35:08 PM
Anatomy of a True Friend


   
Eyes:
Will always see you for the way you really are, your true self.
   
Ears:
Will always have them open to listen.
   
 
Mouth:
To always tell you the truth and give their opinions, tell you when you mess up or do something good.
   
Shoulders:
Will offer when you need one to cry on and will be your strength when you find it hard to carry yourself. Will always let you lean on them.
   
Heart:
To love you for who you are and not judge. Will always have a place there for you.
   
Hands:
To hold yours when you need a little guidance, to lend when you need help, and to help you up when you may fall.
   
 
Arms:
Will always make you feel comfortable in them and to offer hugs when you need one. Will try to warm when you are cold.
   
Feet:
To walk with you throughout your life and be the best friend they can be.  
 
 
You're a True Friend! Yourself!!!!
 

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: sainaa on May 09, 2005, 10:57:56 PM
omsairam Ramesh ji,
WHat an AWESOME wonderfull fantastic discription of a FRIEND ...you are very correct ...A human being may escape from being a good friend when you need them but i know Baba will be a good friend please give me more thoughts and tips to make my self close to baba omsairam and moreover after joining this forum iam not thinking much about my friends as that space was filled by the good company from all the members of the forum ...rameshji please guide us always like this may baba bless you n your family omsairam

My abode is in your heart and I am within you. Always worship Me, Who is seated in your heart, as well as, in the hearts of all beings. Blessed and fortunate, indeed, is he who knows Me thus
--Baba
LUV U BABA,
Sainaa.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: ANKITA on May 10, 2005, 12:31:36 AM
Sairam Rameshji

Amazing description of a True Friend to yourself !!

Great explanation !!  Thanks for making us know this.

Om Sri sairam
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on May 20, 2005, 06:09:37 AM
TWO IS A COMPANY, THREE IS CROWD

We should have two friends, One to talk to and one to talk about!
'Friendship', a single, simple word of ten alphabets is more than what you can imagine. These ten alphabets are joined to each other by immense bond of trust and love.

Friendship means not only ship of friends but it means sharing, sharing joy and sharing sorrow.

Two friends woven together by threads of friendship never feel embarrassed to share their drawbacks! They count themselves and their friend as one. Though miles apart, two friends still hold each other's hands, they can find joy also when the sky is gloomy.

I feel, personally, that friendship can be of true nature between 2 friends.

Friendship between more than two friends cannot be personal. Such people are not friends but are together called as friendly group. In such groups also, you often find two friends closely related. So! Friendship can also exist between 2 people of friendly group. But! Finally it's only between 2 friends.

One to one relating can never exist between friendly groups because; 1+1 is always 2 and not 3 or 4.

There is a quoting, which is as follows :

"We should have two friends, one to talk to and one to talk about!"
In such friendships also, often 1 person (friend) is closer than the other.

This I say out of experience.

Thus,Friendship is 1+1 relationship, not to be shared with more than one friend.

Two is company, three is crowd.

Have many acquaintances, but only one close friend.

Friendship between three ( more than two ) friends can never be well balanced.

This can give rise to many doubts and many more disagreements. Feel free to contact me and I will try my level best to explain to you what I, actually want to convey.)

OM SAI RAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on June 12, 2005, 10:58:31 AM
OMSAIRAM SAI BABA THANKYOU FOR GETTING ME IN TOUCH WITH MY BEST FRIEND AFTER 10 YEARS.
Sai baba bless our Friendship.
Meraa saare purane dost waapis aa jayee.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on June 21, 2005, 03:55:08 AM
Don't wait for Friendship
  to come knocking on
your door.

Go knocking.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on June 21, 2005, 03:58:35 AM
To have Friends,be a Friend.
To be remembered,remember others.
To be loved,be loving.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: san2004 on June 21, 2005, 04:28:18 AM
Om Sai Ram,
Whenever I think of Friends I only recall having being cheated and misled. I have never had true friends. Now Baba YOU are my Friend. You please stay with me always.
Jai Sai Ram
Sanjiv
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on June 21, 2005, 05:35:53 AM
Friends accept each other as they are

This is a fantastic part of the world of friendship. two friends in true friendship accept each other as they are... with the shortcomings and drawbacks. Equally well! They show you the path to correct yourself if you go wrong... but never do they dislike you for going wrong.

Accepting each other with all the shortcomings is the most beautiful and out of the world part of friendship. No other relationship possess this capability. In all the relations, somewhere or the other you tend to dislike your companion for his/her shortcomings.

Best is the friend who accept you with your shortcomings and true and loyal is the friend who tries to correct your mistakes!

You can never go wrong if you have a true friend by your side. Even if you do... you will stand firm to face all the odds...holding your friend's hand!

Thus -
Thing that is impossible anywhere else, is the most common in true friendships. BLIND TRUST is what I call it. Accepting your friend with his shortcomings and drawbacks is possible for you... only if you are a TRUE FRIEND.

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on June 22, 2005, 12:25:48 AM
True Friendship not only,
withstands adversity,
it grows stronger for it.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on June 25, 2005, 03:27:29 AM
Friendship does for people
what the sun does for flowers.
Pour it on and watch them
blossom.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on June 25, 2005, 10:57:00 AM
Keep your friend's secrets

This is the very important rule of friendship… which is like an oath to be taken by every friend in true friendship.  

As friendship consists of sharing, it consists of privacy also. This privacy involves privacy between the two friends and the world.

Whatever goes between two friends should never leak out to the world.  

As already mentioned, I feel that friendship of the kind I talk about here, can exist between 2 friends.

I repeat the saying, "One should have two friends… one to talk to and another to talk about." This is general kind of friendship. Do not misunderstand me when I say that I do not believe in such friendships. For me, friendship is one-to-one relationship!

If your friend comes and tells you his/her most embarrassing moment, secrets, it is your duty not to share it with someone else if you are in true friendship with that person!

Thus
Friends…before they call themselves as a friend should learn to keep the secrets of their friends.

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on June 25, 2005, 11:20:42 PM
To have friends,be a friend.
To be remembered ,remember others.
To be loved,be loving.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on June 26, 2005, 12:26:06 AM
Baseline of friendship is mutual understanding

Earlier, I have continuously stressed on friendship between two friends. I have also mentioned that friendship cannot exist between more than two friends. I would like to clarify my statement for those people who do not agree to my statement.

DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA? The given topic is not only to express my views but also make others realize the value of friendship, so that this earth becomes a better place to live.

Friendship, what I am talking about, here, is not friendship, which exists between any two individuals who have same choices. Two people liking vada sambaar cannot be called friends, but they think in this manner.

"I like vada-sambaar, you like it too. I like watching movies, you like it too. You like my company I like yours. We have so much in common! We are friends."

This is the general way in which people make friends these days. The meaning of 10 alphabetical words is deteriorating.

The above example is not an example of friendship; it is actually joining hands with a person whose ideas and favorites match with yours.

Friendship consists of accepting a person wholly in your life in spite of any differences that you may have. Your friend need not like what you like and vice versa.

If this is the baseline (vada-sambaar) of friendship then you may have thousands of friends! Go to the south and you will find one for every step you walk.

But! The baseline of friendship is mutual understanding. You ought to understand as to what your friend's viewpoint is before asking him/her. You must learn to listen to his/her views even if they do not match yours.

This is the beginning of a better decision. You may realize it soon that because of difference in thought or rather opinion, about a particular topic, with your friend, you reach a perfect conclusion, because of friendly discussion with your friend.

You know that there is no square root solution to 26 or 23.
But add them together.
26 + 23 = 49
49 have a square root!
Your views are 26
Your friend's views are 23 ( or vice-versa )
And 49 is your joint view.
And 7 is the solution to your problem.

Thus, "Baseline of friendship is mutual understanding."
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on June 29, 2005, 05:09:03 AM
A Friend Should be
Radical, Fanatical,
and Most of All, Mathematical…

A Friend should be Radical;

They should love you when you’re unlovable,
Hug you when you’re unhuggable,
And bear you when you’re unbearable.
A Friend should be Fanatical;

They should cheer when the whole world boos,
Dance when you get good news,
And cry when you cry too.
But most of all, a Friend should be Mathematical;

They should multiply the joy, divide the sorrow,
Subtract the past, and add to tomorrow,
Calculate the need deep in your heart,
And always be bigger than the sum of all their parts.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on June 29, 2005, 08:16:55 AM
Who finds a faithful friend, finds a treasure. -- Jewish Saying

Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow.
Don't walk behind me, I may not lead.
Just walk beside me and be my friend.-- Albert Camus

Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some stay for awhile and leave footprints on our hearts. And we are never, ever the same.-- Anonymous

"Friends are the sunshine of life."
Plant a seed of friendship; reap a bouquet of happiness. -- Lois L. Kaufman

A friend loves at all times."
-- The Bible: Proverbs 17, 17.

"However rare true love may be, it is less so than true friendship."


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Count your age with friends but not with years - Anonymous

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on June 29, 2005, 08:20:24 AM
Written with a pen

Sealed with a kiss

If you are my friend,

Please answer this:

Are we friends or are we not?

You told me once, but I forgot.

So tell me now and tell me true,

So I can say, I am here for you.

Of all the friends I've ever met,

You're the one I won't forget.

And if I die before you do,

I'll go to Heaven

And wait for you.

 

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on June 29, 2005, 08:27:20 AM
A friend will always
 strengthen you with his prayers
bless you with his love
and encourage you with his hope

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on June 30, 2005, 05:01:10 AM
JAI SAI RAM!!!

You are still the one whom I love
and will be the one whom forever I would love
I cannot think of someone else in place of you
Because no one is worth replacing you.
You are always near shoving away my fear
walking with me through all shades of life
You are with me ... walking besides me
holding my hand and inspiring my life.
So what if they do not see you..
I can see as well as feel you.
Feel in the every breath I take
and every move I make.

OM SAI RAM!!!
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on July 01, 2005, 08:26:40 AM
True Friends

A long time ago in China there were two friends, one who played the harp skilfully and one who listen skillfully.

When the one played or sang about a mountain, the other would say: "I can see the mountain before us."

When the one played about water, the listener would exclaim: "Here is the running stream!"

But the listener fell sick and died. The first friend cut the strings of his harp and never played again. Since that time the cutting of harp strings has always been a sign of intimate friendship.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on July 01, 2005, 11:08:37 AM
The glory of friendship is not in the outstretched hand, nor the kindly smile, nor the joy of companionship; it is in the spiritual inspiration that comes to one when he discovers that someone else believes in him and is willing to trust him."

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM




dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Devki on July 10, 2005, 07:39:33 AM
SAI RAM....

A friend is someone who walks in when the whole world walks out. Our friends are equity shares we earn in life. We continue to reap dividends on them throughout our lives. Yet today how many of us have shoulders to lean on outside our immediate familial relationships?

In a highly competitive and result oriented world, we seem to be drifting away from each other all the time. This is not to say that the world is short of amiable individuals, but rather that we have forgotten the art of maintaining positive camaraderie. In a mad rush to keep up with the fast changing pace of urban living, we fail to nurture and care for basic ties of love and warmth that binds us all together.

Tips for Better Friendships:

1. Being Fully Committed
2. Taking Personal Responsibility
3. Taking Care of Yourself
4. Being honest, and
5. Doing Your Work — will allow you to experience the love, happiness, joy, and quality of life that you deserve, and is worth your best effort!    

OM SAI...
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on July 12, 2005, 10:18:30 AM
OMSAIRAM!

Books and friends should be few but good."

"A friend in need is a friend indeed."


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
- Latin Proverb



dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on July 12, 2005, 10:19:33 AM
May there always be work for your hands to do, may your purse always hold a coin or two. May the sun always shine on your windowpane, may a rainbow be certain to follow each rain. May the hand of a friend always be near you, may God fill your heart with gladness to cheer you."
- Irish Blessing

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on July 12, 2005, 10:20:36 AM
"THERE ARE MANY TYPES OF SHIPS. THERE ARE WOODEN SHIPS ,PLASTIC SHIPS, AND METAL SHIPS. BUT THE BEST AND MOST IMPORTAINT TYPES OF SHIPS ARE FRIENDSHIPS."


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM




dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on July 12, 2005, 10:21:51 AM
"You've got troubles, I've got 'em too. There isn't anything I wouldn't do for you. We'll stick together to see it through cause you've got a friend in me."


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on July 12, 2005, 12:20:00 PM
JAI SAI RAM!!!

You and me, we used to be together
Even though there was distance,
We were always mentally connected,
Every day, Every Moment, Every Second,
And now in a month’s time
I really feel that I’m losing my best friend
I can’t believe that this could be the end.

It looks as though you’re letting go,
And if it’s real, well I don’t want to know.
Don’t speak; I know just what you’re thinking,
So please don’t explain me; don’t tell me ‘cos it hurts.
It really hurts me, my love.

It has been more than a year.
We have been together,
For it was a true love.

I will live with the memories,
Memories of few hours we had been together.
It’s enough for my life time to be with...
I wish you Happiness and Success in Life
Keep Smiling I will always be with You!

BABA BLESS ALL WHO HAVE SWEET MEMORIES OF FRIENDS...

OM SAI RAM!!!
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on July 13, 2005, 10:25:47 AM
OMSAIRAM!

Remember, the greatest gift is not found in a store nor under a tree, but in the hearts of true friends.

A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.

Friends are like melons; shall I tell you why? To find one good you must one hundred try.

"Friendship multiplies the good of life and divides the evil."

Plant a seed of friendship; reap a bouquet of happiness.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on July 13, 2005, 10:26:42 AM
OMSAIRAM!

The most beautiful discovery that true friends can make is that
they can grow separately without growing apart."

"Friends are the angels who lift us to our feet
when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly."


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on July 13, 2005, 10:31:09 AM
OMSAIRAM !

"A best friend is a sister that destiny forgot to give you."
(This quote is especially for Dearest Shammi ji)

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on July 13, 2005, 10:32:17 AM
OMSAIRAM !

"Best friends are like diamonds, precious and rare
False friends are like leaves, found everywhere."

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM



dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on July 13, 2005, 11:20:34 AM
JAI SAI RAM!!!

MAKING FRIENDS WITH YOURSELF

Many say they are lonely, even with a partner at their side. This is simply because they have not yet made friends with themselves. Once they make friends with themselves and are able to be who they are, it is impossible to be lonely any more. Make friends with yourself. Spend time noticing who you are. Accept all parts of yourself. Stop judging and rejecting what is going on inside. Be still and look within.

Pay attention to your breath and just notice what is going on. Let it be. Accept it, and return to the breathing. Understand that breath by breath, underneath the clamor, you are perfect just as you are. Can you choose to be this natural self in relationships? Can you choose to have relationships with those who want and appreciate just what you are?

OM SAI RAM!!!

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Post by: Dipika on August 01, 2005, 02:26:58 AM
"Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they are meant to be there; they serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or help you figure out who you are."

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on August 01, 2005, 02:28:13 AM
"All the world's a stage, and all the men and women mearly players."
-Sir William Shakespeare


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on August 01, 2005, 02:29:30 AM
"May there always be work for your hands to do, may your purse always hold a coin or two. May the sun always shine on your windowpane, may a rainbow be certain to follow each rain. May the hand of a friend always be near you, may God fill your heart with gladness to cheer you."
- Irish Blessing

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM




dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on August 01, 2005, 02:34:42 AM
"Depth of friendship does not depend on length of acquaintance."

Rabindranath Tagore

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on August 01, 2005, 02:38:01 AM
Friends are God's way of taking care of us.



Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM



dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on August 01, 2005, 02:39:04 AM
Many people will walk in
and out of your life,
but only true friends will leave
footprints in your heart.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM



dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 01, 2005, 02:40:26 AM
A friend is someone who walks in
when the whole world has walked out.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM




dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on August 01, 2005, 02:52:51 AM
JAI SAI RAM!!!

Deva means Divine, Mitta means Friend -- a Divine Friend.

Man is being conditioned continuously for ambition. Down the ages all the societies and all the education systems have been poisoning humanity and the basis of their poisoning is: create ambition.

Now, once you create ambition in a person he becomes inimical to everybody; he is always in conflict. All are competitors; he has to fight his way. On the surface he may show friendship but deep down that friendship remains political, diplomatic. Deep down he is fighting; he is alone against the whole world because all are competitors. If you are after money then all are competitors. Either you will succeed or they will succeed. You both can't succeed, you all can't succeed.

This has created a subtle enmity, the whole earth lives in that enmity. It creates wars, it creates all kind. of violence. It creates a state of lovelessness in the world, and without love there is misery. It creates hate, and with hate there is hell.
 
Sannyas means dropping ambition. Jesus says 'Those who are the last will be the first in my kingdom of god, and those who are the first will be the last in my kingdom of god.' He is giving the secret of non-ambition: be the last and you will be the first, and you are the first. Be the last, just be a nobody, and you have arrived. And out of that nobodiness love flows, friendship flows, because now there is no question: you are not fighting with anybody, you are not coming in anybody's way; you have renounced fight, conflict, ambition.

This is true sannyas, true renunciation: you don't renounce the world but you renounce competitiveness.

You don't renounce the family but you renounce domination. You don't renounce your husband, your wife, your children, but you renounce all kinds of possessiveness. And then suddenly there is a great transformation. One is at home, and one becomes then a friend, a divine friend, to all!
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Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on August 02, 2005, 03:13:42 AM
JAI SAI RAM!!!

A friend is someone we turn to
when our spirits need a lift,
A friend is someone we treasure
for our friendship is a gift.
A friend is someone who fills our lives
with beauty, joy, and grace
And makes the whole world we live in
a better and happier place.

OM SAI RAM!!!

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Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on August 09, 2005, 02:16:05 AM
JAI SAI RAM!!!

Bliss is the friend. It is only through bliss that one arrives home. It is by being blissful that we start feeling the presence of God in existence.

Ordinarily people think they will be blissful when they have found God... that is not true, because unless you are blissful you cannot find God. Certainly you will be immensely blissful when you have found God, but that is the end of the story; and first we have to think of the beginning, not of the end. One has to learn to be blissful for God to arrive. It is only through the blissful state of consciousness that God can penetrate us.

Misery is your enemy; bliss is your friend -- and remember it... don't become too associated with misery. Don't befriend misery, disconnect yourself with misery. Never get identified with anything that brings misery, and drown yourself each moment more and more in bliss. Be drunk with bliss, be a drunkard, and in bliss you will find the greatest friend.

OM SAI RAM!!!
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Post by: Dipika on August 15, 2005, 06:31:10 AM
When we hurt each other we should write it down in the sand, so the winds of forgiveness can make it go away for good. When we help each other we should chisel it in stone, lest we never forget the love of a friend.


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on August 21, 2005, 02:28:17 AM
True friends are those who, When you make a fool of yourself, Don't believe that this condition is permanent.

Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on August 21, 2005, 02:29:45 AM
In the sweetness of friendship let there be laughter, for in the dew of little things the heart finds its morning and is refreshed


A true friend sticks with you through thick and thin no matter what.

A road to a friend's house is never long

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM



dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on August 21, 2005, 02:31:27 AM
A friend is someone who can sing you the song of your heart when you've forgotten it.


In prosperity, our friends know us; in adversity, we know our friends.

True friendship is seen through the heart not through the eyes

Friends are the siblings, God never gave us.

True friendship is like sound health, the value of it is seldom known until it be lost

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on August 21, 2005, 02:35:14 AM
“Laughter is the shortest distance between two friends.”


Surround yourself only with people who are going to lift you higher

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM



dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 21, 2005, 02:37:49 AM
In everyone's life, at some time, our inner fire goes out. It is then burst into flame by an encounter with another human being. We should all be thankful for those people who rekindle the inner spirit.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on August 21, 2005, 02:39:13 AM
With true friends...even water drunk together is sweet enough


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM



dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on August 21, 2005, 02:41:02 AM
We call that person who has lost his father, an orphan; and a widower that man who has lost his wife. But that man who has known the immense unhappiness of losing a friend, by what name do we call him? Here every language is silent and holds its peace in impotence


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on August 21, 2005, 02:42:21 AM
A friend is one who walks in when others walk out

One friend in a lifetime is much; two are many; three are hardly possible.


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on August 21, 2005, 02:44:06 AM
Choose your friends carefully. Your enemies will choose you.

In poverty and other misfortunes of life, true friends are a sure refuge. The young they keep out of mischief; to the old they are a comfort and aid in their weakness, and those in the prime of life they incite to noble deeds.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on August 21, 2005, 02:45:32 AM
Christmas gift suggestions:
 To your enemy, forgiveness.
 To an opponent, tolerance.
To a friend, your heart.
To a customer, service.
 To all, charity.
To every child, a good example.
To yourself, respect.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on August 21, 2005, 03:34:19 AM
JAI SAI RAM!!!

'Friendship', a single, simple word of ten alphabets is more than what you can imagine. These ten alphabets are joined to each other by immense bond of trust and love.

OM SAI RAM!!!
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Post by: Dipika on August 21, 2005, 03:37:19 AM
You should know that the relationships with the relatives and
friendship with friends are like passing clouds in the sky and like
floating logs in the river. They some times meet and some times they
disperse. A wise person will not bother for the good and bad happenings
with friends and relatives

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on August 21, 2005, 03:43:55 AM
"Friendship is a knot tied by angels' hands"

"No love, no friendship can cross the path of our destiny without leaving some mark on it forever."

      "Friendship is a sheltering tree."

      "Plant the garden of your life with friendship's lovely flowers"

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on August 21, 2005, 03:45:43 AM
"Friendship redoubleth joys, and cutteth griefs in half"

      "The greatest sweetener of human life is friendship. To raise this to the highest pitch of enjoyment, is a secret which but few discover."


      "Life's truest happiness is found in friendships we make along the way."

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 21, 2005, 03:48:11 AM
"A tree is known by its fruit; a man by his deeds. A good deed is never lost; he who sows courtesy reaps friendship, and he who plants kindness gathers love."


      "Real friendship is shown in times of trouble; prosperity is full of friends"

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM



dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 21, 2005, 03:49:24 AM
Old friends pass away, new friends appear. It is just like the days. An old day passes, a new day arrives. The important thing is to make it meaningful: a meaningful friend -- or a meaningful day.
Dalai Lama 1935-, Tibet Religious Leader Resides In India

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM



dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 21, 2005, 03:50:35 AM
Do not have evil-doers for friends, do not have low people for friends: have virtuous people for friends, have for friends the best of men.
Dhammapada BC 300-, Buddhist Collection of Moral Aphorism


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 21, 2005, 03:51:42 AM
A good friend who points out mistakes and imperfections and rebukes evil is to be respected as if he reveals a secret of hidden treasure.
Buddha 568-488 BC, Founder of Buddhism

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 21, 2005, 03:52:54 AM
The rule of friendship means there should be mutual sympathy between them, each supplying what the other lacks and trying to benefit the other, always using friendly and sincere words.
Buddha

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on August 21, 2005, 03:54:48 AM
Friendship, of itself a holy tie, is made more sacred by adversity.

Be more prompt to go to a friend in adversity than in prosperity.

Treat your friends as you do your pictures, and place them in their best light.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on August 21, 2005, 05:27:04 AM
"True friendship is a plant of slow growth,& must undergo
 & withstsnd the shocks of adversity before it is entitled to
the appellation."

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on August 21, 2005, 05:32:42 AM
For the friendship of two, the patience of one is required.


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM




dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on August 21, 2005, 05:35:11 AM
"There is some self-interest behind every friendship. There is no friendship without self-interests. This is a bitter truth." Chanakya quotes

"Never make friends with people who are above or below you in status. Such friendships will never give you any happiness." Chanakya quotes

"Treat your kid like a darling for the first five years. For the next five years, scold them. By the time they turn sixteen, treat them like a friend. Your grown up children are your best friends." Chanakya quotes

"Education is the best friend. An educated person is respected everywhere. Education beats the beauty and the youth." Chanakya quotes (Indian politician, strategist and writer, 350 BC-275 BC)

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on August 21, 2005, 05:41:02 AM
The test of friendship is assistance in adversity, and that too, unconditional assistance. Co-operation which needs consideration is a commercial contract and not friendship. Conditional co-operation is like adulterated cement which does not bind.
Mohandas Gandhi


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM



dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 21, 2005, 05:45:28 AM
"One loyal friend is worth ten thousand relatives."

Two may talk together under the same roof for many years, yet never really meet; and two others at first speech are old friends."

Sai baba let your holy loyus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 21, 2005, 05:47:51 AM
A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother.


Sai baba let your holy loyus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM



dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on August 21, 2005, 09:21:34 AM
JAI SAI RAM!!!

Friendship is a heartily relation
It surpasses all definition
Hi and bye is today's trend
True friend is a Godsend
A superficial friend is an electromagnet
Whose feelings vanishes as the need end
True friend is a permanent magnet
Whose bond continues till our lives end
Ups are the times when new friends flock
During downs old and trust worthy stands like a rock
Prosperity brings them in large numbers
Hard times display their true colors
Love is blind but friendship has eyes
So a true love can be short-lived but friendship never dies
Sacrificing and selfless nature
Makes a person a great friend of another
If you fail in love, you can at least be a friend
That is consolation we should seek from the opposite end

OM SAI RAM!!!
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Post by: Dipika on August 23, 2005, 11:03:08 PM
"How rare and wonderful is that flash of a moment when we realize we have discovered a friend."

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 23, 2005, 11:04:44 PM
"No distance of place or lapse of time can lessen the friendship of those who are thoroughly persuaded of each other's worth."

      "Friendship often ends in love; but love in friendship - never."

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 23, 2005, 11:05:52 PM
"The most I can do for my friend is simply to be his friend. I have no wealth to bestow on him. If he knows that I am happy in loving him, he will want no other reward. Is not friendship divine in this?"

    "Some people go to priests; others to poetry; I to my friends."

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 23, 2005, 11:10:20 PM
Dear friend, I owe a debt to you today,
A debt my hand nor heart can e'er repay;
A debt not paid in gold, were gold in store,
Can but be paid in love by loving more...

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 23, 2005, 11:11:21 PM
Dear friend, I pray thee, if thou wouldst be proving
Thy strong regard for me,
Make me no vows. Lip-service is not loving;
Let thy faith speak for thee...

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 23, 2005, 11:12:44 PM
How strange is the lot of us mortals! Each of us is here for a brief sojourn; for what purpose we know not, though sometimes sense it. But we know from daily life that we exist for other people first of all for whose smiles and well-being our own happiness depends.


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM



dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 23, 2005, 11:13:55 PM
Time goes by so fast, people go in and out of your life. You must never miss the opportunity to tell these people how much they mean to you

Instead of loving your enemies -- treat your friends a little better.

Truth and tears clear the way to a deep and lasting friendship.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM




dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 23, 2005, 11:16:05 PM
An honest answer is the sign of true friendship

All the treasure in the world is worthless, unless you have someone to share it with.

Everyone leaves footprints in your memory, but the ones that leave footprints in your heart are the ones you will truely remember.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 24, 2005, 12:37:27 PM
Help thy brother's boat across, and lo! Thine own has reached the shore

Fate chooses our relatives, we choose our friends.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 24, 2005, 12:39:59 PM
Friends are one of God's way  
of taking care of us

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 24, 2005, 12:41:00 PM
Everyone hears what you say.
Friends listen to what you say.
 Best friends listen  
to what you don't say.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 24, 2005, 12:43:05 PM
Truly great friends are hard to find
difficult to leave,
and impossible to forget.


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 24, 2005, 12:44:44 PM
"A faithful friend is the
medicine of life"


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 24, 2005, 12:47:28 PM
Friendship is the only cement that will ever hold
the world together!


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 24, 2005, 12:48:47 PM
Wherever you are
it is your friends who
make your world.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 24, 2005, 12:49:58 PM
The road to a
friend's house is
is never long

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 24, 2005, 12:50:58 PM
True wealth can not be found in your bank account. It can only be found in those you call friend. Those with whom you share your deepest feelings. And those who accept you for who you really are.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM



dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 24, 2005, 12:52:09 PM
True friends want nothing from you except the joy of your presence. No matter what you do, they will always be your friend.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM




dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 24, 2005, 12:54:37 PM
The glory of friendship is not in the outstretched hand, nor the kindly smile, nor the joy of companionship; it is in the spiritual inspiration that comes to one when he discovers that someone else believes in him and is willing to trust him.


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 24, 2005, 12:55:47 PM
I do then with my friends as I do with my books. I would have them where I can find them, but I seldom use them.


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 24, 2005, 12:57:15 PM

Friends are like windows through which you see out into the world and back into yourself... If you don't have friends you see much less than you otherwise might.


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 24, 2005, 10:49:07 PM
Easy is keep the friendship with words

 Difficult is to keep it with meanings.



Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 26, 2005, 09:15:44 AM
The best way to destroy an enemy is to make him a friend.


-- Abraham Lincoln



Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 26, 2005, 09:17:07 AM
"There can be no Friendship where there is no Freedom."

Let there be no purpose in friendship save the deepening of the spirit."


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 26, 2005, 09:18:51 AM
He who has a thousand friends has not a friend to spare.

 But he who has an enemy will meet him everywhere.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on August 26, 2005, 09:22:42 AM
"The only reward of virtue is virtue; the only way to have a friend is to be one."


"Associate yourself with men of good quality if you esteem your own reputation; for 'tis better to be alone than in bad company."

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on August 26, 2005, 09:23:53 AM
"Be slow to fall into friendship; but when thou art in, continue firm and constant."

"Friendship is the only cement that will ever hold the world together"


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM




dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on August 27, 2005, 10:33:11 PM
Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born.

True friendship consists not in the multitude of friends, but in their worth and value.


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on August 27, 2005, 10:35:14 PM
A faithful friend is a strong defense: and he that hath found such an one hath found a treasure.


Friendship marks a life even more deeply than love. Love risks degenerating into obsession, friendship is never anything but sharing.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on August 27, 2005, 10:36:53 PM
It is not so much our friends' help that helps us as the confident knowledge that they will help us.

3rd century BCE

Perhaps the most delightful friendships are those in which there is much agreement, much disputation, and yet more personal liking.


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on August 30, 2005, 12:42:19 AM
One day Ananda, who had been thinking deeply about things for a while, turned to the Buddha and exclaimed:
"Lord, I've been thinking- spiritual friendship is at least half of the spiritual life!"
The Buddha replied: "Say not so, Ananda, say not so. Spiritual friendship is the whole of the spiritual life!"
Samyutta Nikaya, Verse 2

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM



dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on August 30, 2005, 12:48:36 AM
Take small account of might, wealth and fame, for they soon pass and are forgotten. Instead, nurture love within you and and strive to be a friend to all. Truly, compassion is a balm for many wounds.


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on September 13, 2005, 04:20:53 AM
An insincere and evil friend is more to be feared than a wild beast; a wild beast may wound your body, but an evil friend will wound your mind.
Buddha


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on September 13, 2005, 04:31:30 AM
Buddha said: "Friendship is the only cure for hatred, the only guarantee..." and:
      "Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned."


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


dipika duggal
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Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on September 15, 2005, 02:14:00 AM
JAI SAI RAM!!!

Friendship is a bond that makes every man a brother.
A never ending bond that binds us to each other.
Friendship is so firm, it will always last.
Nothing can break a friendship, because a friendship is so fast.

Friendship is so great, make everyone your friend,
And you will find a peace of mind, that will never never end.
Friendship is the love, that pours out from your heart.
No-one can break a friendship, because it will never part.

If you should try and break a friendship, then you will never win.
Because the Lord would make you pay, as it would be a sin.
Friendship is made for you, so you a friendship make.
Why not be the nicest friend, for someone else to take.

The world is short of friendship, people do not care.
Until they want a friend, and can't find one anywhere.
People do need people, its an open fact,
So come on "everybody" make your friendship act.

OM SAI RAM!!!

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Post by: Dipika on September 15, 2005, 10:53:12 PM
"In good times, in bad times I'll be on your side forever more, that's what friends are for."
- "That's what friends are for"

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on September 15, 2005, 10:55:22 PM
"If you have two friends in your lifetime, you're lucky. If you have one good friend, you're more than lucky."

"A friend is a person who know what you are saying, even if you're not talking."

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on September 15, 2005, 10:58:14 PM
"We all take different paths in life, but no matter where we go, we take a little of each other everyhwere."

"Some friends come and go like a season. Others are arranged in our lives for good reason."

"Sometimes in life, you find a special friend. Someone who changes your life just by being a part of it. Someone who makes you laugh until you can't stop. Someone who makes you believe that there really is good in the world. Someone who convinces you that there really is an unlocked door just waiting for you to open it. This is forever friendship. When you're down and the world seems dark and empty, your forever friend lifts you up in spirit and makes that dark and empty world suddenly seem bright and full. Your forever friend gets you through the hard times, the sad times and the confused times. If you turn and walk away, your forever friend follows. If you lose your way, your forever friend guides you and cheers you on. Your forever friend holds your hand and tells you that everything is going to be okay. And if you find such a friend, you feel happy and complete because you need not worry. You have a forever friend, and forever has no end."


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on September 16, 2005, 03:58:08 AM
"While everybody else shakes my hand, you hold it."

"Friends are the most important part of your life. Treasure the tears, treasure the laughter, but most importantly, treasure the memories."

"I believe that friends are quiet angels who sit on our shoulders and lift our wings when we forget how to fly."

"Like branches of a tree we grow in different directions, yet our roots remain as one. Each of our lives will always be a special part of the other's."

"A true friend is someone you can disagree with and still remain friends. For if not, they weren't true friends in the first place."


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on September 16, 2005, 04:00:05 AM
"When you look around and your world is crumbling, and when you think no one loves you, your best friend is the one to run to."

"The best part of life is when your family becomes your friends, and your friends become your family."

"If I could reach up and hold a star for every time you made me smile, the entire evening sky would be in the palm of my hand."

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on September 16, 2005, 04:04:11 AM
"In the End, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends."

 "Truly great friends are hard to find, difficult to leave, and impossible to forget."


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on September 16, 2005, 04:07:42 AM
Friendship increases in visiting friends, but in visiting them seldom.

The rule of friendship means there should be mutual sympathy between them, each supplying what the other lacks and trying to benefit the other, always using friendly and sincere words.

Rare as is true love, true friendship is rarer.

Friendship multiplies the good of life and divides the evil.


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on September 16, 2005, 04:11:43 AM
But friendship is precious, not only in the shade, but in the sunshine of life, and thanks to a benevolent arrangement the greater part of life is sunshine.

Plant a seed of friendship; reap a bouquet of happiness.

Friendship is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.

A quarrel between friends, when made up, adds a new tie to friendship.

No distance of place or lapse of time can lessen the friendship of those who are throughout persuaded of each other's worth.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on September 16, 2005, 04:13:52 AM
The loss of a friend is like that of a limb; time may heal the anguish of the wound, but the loss cannot be repaired.

The ideal friendship is to feel as one while remaining two.

Friendship is a plant of slow growth and must undergo and withstand the shocks of adversity before it is entitled to the appellation.

Friendship's the wine of life: but friendship new... is neither strong nor pure.


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on September 30, 2005, 02:22:20 AM
A friend is one who knows us, but loves us anyway.

Remember, the greatest gift is not found in a store nor under a tree, but in the hearts of true friends

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on September 30, 2005, 02:25:32 AM
Who finds a faithful friend, finds a treasure. [:)][;)]


"Friends are the sunshine of life."


Friendship is the golden thread that ties the heart of all the world


Count your age with friends but not with years

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on September 30, 2005, 11:10:15 PM
Good friends are hard to find, harder to leave, and impossible to forget.


When it hurts to look back, and you're scared to look ahead, you can look beside you and your best friend will be there

True friendship never ends.

Friends are forever.

Good friends are like stars....You don't always see them, but you know they are always there.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on September 30, 2005, 11:13:37 PM
Most people walk in and out of you life. But only friends leave footprints in your heart. [:)][:)]


"There is nothing worth the wear of winning, but laughter and the love of friends."

"Wishing to be friends is quick work, but friendship is a slow-ripening fruit."

"Friendship is essentially a partnership."

"A companion loves some agreeable qualities which a man may possess, but a friend loves the man himself."

"A friend loves at all times."
-- The Bible: Proverbs 17, 17.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on October 01, 2005, 07:22:14 AM
A true friendship is like sound health, the value of it is seldom known until lost.
~ Chinese Proverb


Am I not destroying my enemies when I make friends of them?
~ Abraham Lincoln


Your friends will know you better in the first minute you meet than your acquaintances will know you in a thousand years.
~ Richard Bach, "Illusions?


When a friend is in trouble, don't annoy him by asking if there is anything you can do. Think up something appropriate and do it.
~ Edgar Watson Howe

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on October 01, 2005, 07:25:39 AM
The real friend is, as it were, another self.

A friendship is one soul living in two bodies.

Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that this world is born.

Real friends reserve nothing.

Love is the only force capable of transforming an enemy into a friend.

Science and technology has made the world a neighborhood, but it will take love to make the world a brotherhood, a sisterhood, a community of peace with justice.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on October 01, 2005, 07:30:57 AM
It's much easier to turn a friendship into love, than love into friendship.


I keep my friends as misers do their treasure, because, of all the things granted us by wisdom, none is greater or better than friendship.

A tree is known by its fruit; a man by his deeds. A good deed is never lost; he who sows courtesy reaps friendship, and he who plants kindness gathers love.
Saint Basil the Great

There is no friendship, no love, like that of the parent for the child.

There is no distance too far between friends, for friendship gives wings to the heart.


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on October 01, 2005, 07:33:33 AM
Friendship is like money, easier made than kept.


Two persons cannot long be friends if they cannot forgive each other's little failings.

A good friend who points out mistakes and imperfections and rebukes evil is to be respected as if he reveals a secret of hidden treasure.
Buddha 568-488 BC, Founder of Buddhism

The rule of friendship means there should be mutual sympathy between them, each supplying what the other lacks and trying to benefit the other, always using friendly and sincere words.
Buddha



Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on October 01, 2005, 07:38:39 AM
And what a delight it is to make friends with someone you have despised.

Friendship is a sheltering tree.

Give me one friend, just one, who meets The needs of all my varying moods.

Be more prompt to go to a friend in adversity than in prosperity.

What sweetness is left in life, if you take away friendship? Robbing life of friendship is like robbing the world of the sun. A true friend is more to be esteemed than kinsfolk.

Friends are proved by adversity.

Perhaps the most delightful friendships are those in which there is much agreement, much disputation, and yet more personal liking.


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on October 01, 2005, 07:42:16 AM
Do not have evil-doers for friends, do not have low people for friends: have virtuous people for friends, have for friends the best of men.
Dhammapada BC 300-, Buddhist Collection of Moral Aphorism

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on October 01, 2005, 07:47:58 AM
"An ounce of blood is worth more than a pound of friendship."
-Spanish Proverb

"Friends are born, not made."
-Henry Adams

"A friend may well be reckoned the masterpiece of nature."
-Ralph Waldo Emerson

"My father always used to say that when you die, if you've got five real friends, then you've had a great life."
-Lee Iacocca

"Hold a true friend with both your hands."
-Nigerian Proverb

"Sometimes our light goes out but is blown into flame by another human being. Each of us owes deepest thanks to those who have rekindled this light."
-Albert Schweitzer

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on October 02, 2005, 01:37:50 AM
Wonderful story... just takes two minutes to read.

A little mouse living on a farm was looking through a crack in the wall one day and saw the farmer and his wife opening a package.

The mouse was intrigued by what food the package may contain. He was aghast to discover that it was a mouse trap.The mouse ran to the farmyard warning everyone  "there is a mouse trap in the house, there is a mouse trap in the house."The chicken raised his head and said  "Mr. Mouse, I can tell you this trap is a grave concern to you, but it has no consequence to me and I cannot be bothered with it.

"The mouse turned to the pig  "I am so very sorry Mr. Mouse, but the trap is no concern of mine either." !The mouse then turned to the bull,  "sounds like you have a problem Mr.Mouse, but not one that concerns me."

The mouse returned to the house, head down and dejected that no one would help him or was concerned about his dilemma.

He knew he had to face the trap on his own. That night the sound of a trap catching its prey was heard throughout the house.

The farmer's wife rushed to see what was caught. In the darkness she could not see that it was a venomous snake who's tail the trap had caught.

The snake bit the farmers wife.

The wife caught a bad fever and the farmer knew the best way to treat a fever was with chicken soup. The farmer took his hatchet to the farmyard to get the soups ! ; main ingredient.
     
The wife got sicker and friends and neighbors came  by to take turns sitting with her round the clock.

The farmer knew he had to feed them, so he butchered the pig.    

The farmer wife did not get better, in fact she died and so many friends. And family came to her funeral that the farmer had to slaughter the bull to Feed all of them.

So the next time we hear that one of our team mates is facing a problem and think it does not concern or effect us, let us remember that when anyone of us is in trouble, we are all at risk.

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Post by: Dipika on October 04, 2005, 05:45:19 AM
OMSAIRAM!Sai baba dost ho to form jaise!
When one is in need ,all of us pray for that Friend.
WHEN ONE FEELS THAT HE MAY BE WRONG,HE SEES APOLOGIES.

DOST HO TO AISE SAI BABA .
Thankyou Sai baba!

[:)][;)]



Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on October 06, 2005, 11:33:39 AM
JAI SAI RAM!!!

::::::::::FRIENDSHIP MEAN?:::::::::::::::::::

FRIENDSHIP MEAN   BEAUTY OF A HUMAN

FRIENDSHIP MEAN   LIKE GOLD

FRIENDSHIP MEAN   FRESH FLOWER

FRIENDSHIP MEAN   FEELING

FRIENDSHIP MEAN   HAPPINESS

FRIENDSHIP MEAN   PLEASED

FRIENDSHIP MEAN   SHARING

FRIENDSHIP MEAN   THINKING

FRIENDSHIP MEAN   SUGGESTION

FRIENDSHIP MEAN   CONNECTION

FRIENDSHIP MEAN   WASTING TIME

FRIENDSHIP MEAN   KILLER OF LIFE

FRIENDSHIP MEAN   TEASING

FRIENDSHIP MEAN   JOKING

FRIENDSHIP MEAN   GOOD RELATIONSHIP

FRIENDSHIP MEAN   GOOD PARTNER

FRIENDSHIP MEAN   CALLING IN A SAVIOR CONDITION

FRIENDSHIP MEAN   LEAVING IN A SAVIOR CONDITION

FRIENDSHIP MEAN   LIVING IN A GOOD CONDITION

FRIENDSHIP MEAN   TIME PASS

FRIENDSHIP MEAN   INVESTIGATE

FRIENDSHIP MEANS   A PART OF LIFE

FRIENDSHIP MEANS   A NICE THING

FRIENDSHIP MEANS   A RIVER

FRIENDSHIP MEAN    WINDS

FRIENDSHIP MEAN    VERY SENSITIVE RELATION

FRIENDSHIP MEAN    TREES OF FOOD

FRIENDSHIP MEAN    TASTE THAN SUGAR

FRIENDSHIP MEAN    CONSIDERATION

FRIENDSHIP MEAN    INVITATION

FRIENDSHIP MEAN    UNDER PAR

FRIENDSHIP MEAN    WELLNESS

FRIENDSHIP MEAN    UNTRACEABLE THING

FRIENDSHIP MEAN    TEAR DROPS

FRIENDSHIP MEAN    A HOPEFUL SMILEY

FRIENDSHIP MEAN    ????????????????????????????????????????????

OM SAI RAM!!!

             
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Post by: Dipika on October 11, 2005, 07:40:21 AM
"When I'm with you I feel like I could die and that would be alright, alright."


"Don't be dismayed at goodbyes. A farewell is before you can meet again. And meeting again after a moment or a lifetime is certain for those who are friends."

"Best friends just won't leave your side"

"We've gone our own ways and I know its for the best, but sometimes I wonder will I ever have a friend like you again?"

"Let's make a resolution. I'll drink to that. Let's always stay friends. Friendship is thicker than blood...That depends...Depents on trust. Depends on true devotion. Depends on love. Depends on not denying emotion..."

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on October 11, 2005, 07:43:37 AM
Friendship is the comfort, the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words, but pouring all right out just as they are, chaff and grain together, certain that a faithful friendly hand will take and sift them, keep what is worth keeping and, with a breath of comfort, blow the rest away.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on October 11, 2005, 07:46:51 AM
The greatest love a person can have for his friends is to give his life for them. - John 15:13


Anybody can sympathise with the sufferings of a friend, but it requires a very fine nature to sympathise with a friend's success. - Oscar Wilde

Misfortune shows those who are not really friends. - Aristotle
I no doubt deserved my enemies, but I don't believe I deserved my friends. - Walt Whitman

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on October 11, 2005, 07:48:20 AM
You have made known to me the path of life; you will fill me with joy in your presence. - Psalms 16: 11

Never forget the days I spent with you. Continue to be my friend, as you will always find me yours. - Ludwig Van Beethoven

 
I believe in angels, the kind Heaven sends. I am surrounded by angels, but I call them my best friends.

A simple friend thinks the friendship over when you have an argument. A real friend knows that it's not a friendship until after you've had a fight.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on October 11, 2005, 07:51:09 AM
"A friend is someone who will walk the long way when you don't want to hop the fence."

 "No distance of place or lapse of time can lessen the friendship of those who are thoroughly persuaded of each other's worth."

 "Money and power only last the hour, but friendship and love withstand the sky above."

"If I was blind, you would make me see. If I was deaf, you would make me hear; and if I was dumb, a word would come out of the boundaries of my lips."

"Though miles may lie between us, we're never far apart, for friendship doesn't count the miles, it's measured by the heart."

"Stars are like friends; there's always some around, you just need to find your favorite one."

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on October 11, 2005, 07:53:37 AM
"The Mile: People come into our lives and walk with us a mile, and then because of circumstance they only stay a while. They serve a need within the days that move so quickly by, and then are gone beyond our reach, we often wonder why. God only knows the reason that we meet and share a smile, why people come into our lives and walk with us a mile."

"May your friends be as many as the promises that you keep."


"A special friend is a blessing that you should treasure with all your heart."

 "An acquaintance is a jewel; a true friend is a treasure."

"You have done it
Without a touch,
without a word,
Without a sign.
You have done it
By being yourself.
Perhaps that is what
Being a friend means
After all."


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on October 11, 2005, 07:57:54 AM
"Friends are like stars, you can't always see them but you know that they're there."

"Friendship is not how long you've been together. It isn't how much you've given or recieved; nor how many times you've helped each other, but it's how you value one another."

"Friends are angels that come from above. Sent down from God for you to love. So if you are sad, and don't know what to do. Just remember that I care for you!"

"In the cookies of life, your friends are the chocolate chips."

"If I could give you one thing I would wish for you, the ability to see yourself as others see you, then you would realize what a truly special person you are!!"


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on October 11, 2005, 07:59:45 AM
"The lamp of friendship always burn with the oil of love."

"I believe in angels, but I call them my best friends."


 "I asked God for a flower, and He gave me a garden. I asked Him for a tree amd He gave me a forest. I asked Him for a river and He gave me an ocean. I asked God for a friend and He gave me...YOU."

"Finding a true friend is like panning for gold. You have to sift through the fakes to find the real ones."

"When the world gets dark, friends are the batteries in your flashlight."

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 14, 2005, 01:41:07 PM
"True friends are the people that are there for you unconditionally. They are the people that never question you and support you no matter what the circumstances are. They are the people worth living for."

“Side by side or miles apart, dear friends are always close to the heart.”

**"A friend is someone who can see the truth and pain in you even when you are fooling everyone else."

"The road to a friend's house is never long." -Danish proverb

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 14, 2005, 01:48:21 PM
A circle is round, it has no end,
That's how long I want to be your friend.


Wishing to be friends is quick work,
but friendship is a slow ripening fruit.
Aristotle


Hold a true friend with both your hands.
Nigerian Proverb

"Friendship is constant in all other things save in the office and affairs of love . . ."

"If you could say, with truth, to your own solitary heart, to-night, 'I have secured to myself the love and attachment, the gratitude or respect, of no human creature; I have won myself a tender place in no regard; I have done nothing good or serviceable to be remembered by!' your seventy-eight years would be seventy-eight heavy curses; would they not?"
Charles Dickens

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: SS91 on October 14, 2005, 01:49:05 PM
"Friendship is the hardest thing in the world to explain.

It's not something you learn in school.

But if you haven't learned the meaning of friendship,

you really haven't learned anything."

OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!

JAISAIRAM!!!!

subhasrini
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!
Let us pray at the feet of Sai Baba who is the incarnation of all gods and protector of all, to show mercy on us, and increase our devotion towards him.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 14, 2005, 01:53:33 PM
Friendship is like a sunbeam

Friendship is like pages of a book

Friend is like a shady tree  

Like a good wine  

Friendship knows no hesitation

Friendship is like a flower

Friendship is not one way

Friendship is a spoken promise

Friendship never fades

Friendship is like a garden.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM



dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 14, 2005, 01:57:26 PM
Make new friends
But keep the old
One is sliver and the other gold !

Friends care, Friends share, We need friends Everywhere!

Why GOD Gave Us Friends

GOD knew that everyone needs
Companionship and cheer,
He knew that people need someone
Whose thoughts are always near.

He knew they need someone kind
To lend a helping hand.
Someone to gladly take the time
To care and understand.

GOD knew that we all need someone
To share each happy day,
To be a source of courage
When troubles come our way.

Someone to be true to us,
Whether near or far apart.
Someone whose love we'll always
Hold and treasure in our hearts.

That's Why GOD Gave Us Friends!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

 



dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 14, 2005, 02:00:40 PM
SOME LIKE WOODEN SHIP, SOME LIKE SILVER SHIP.

                                          SOME LIKE GOLD SHIP,  BUT I  ONLY LIKE YOUR FRIENDSHIP.  

                                                PLEASE DON'T GO AWAY,  IN THE STORM OF LIFE, YOU HAVE BEEN MY SHIP

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 14, 2005, 02:02:20 PM
A FRIEND FROM ABOVE....

I prayed for you before we met,
Not knowing who you'd be.
I asked the Lord to send a friend.
One chosen just for me.

I asked that they'd be Godly,
With wisdom of His ways.
A friend to help and guide me
I the troubles of these days.
 
So often in life, we need someone
To listen while we talk.
Someone who will not condemn or judge,
But encourage us as we walk.
 
The narrow road we choose to follow
May sometimes make us stumble.
But to have a friend to catch our fall,
Teaches us to be humble.

When I asked the Lord to send a friend,
Though many came and went.
He gave much more than I ever asked,
For you are the friend He sent.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: SS91 on October 14, 2005, 02:02:49 PM
It looks my friend is still awake.

Dipika take care.

Sai is always grace and bless you dear.

have a good weekend.

Jaisairam!!!!

subhasrini
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!
Let us pray at the feet of Sai Baba who is the incarnation of all gods and protector of all, to show mercy on us, and increase our devotion towards him.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 14, 2005, 02:03:21 PM
Why God Made Friends
   


God made the world with a heart full of love,
Then He looked down from Heaven above,

And saw that we all need a helping hand,
Someone to share with, who'll understand.

He made special people to see us through
The glad times and the sad times, too;

A person on whom we can always depend,
Someone we can call a friend.

God made friends so we'll carry a part
Of His perfect love in all our hearts

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 14, 2005, 02:04:29 PM
Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.

Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion, and the romance in a relationship and find out you still care for that person.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 14, 2005, 02:05:41 PM
A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go.

When the door of happiness closes, another opens but oftentimes we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us.

The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.

It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: SS91 on October 14, 2005, 02:06:49 PM
Life is sweet because of the friends we have made

And the things which in common we share;

We want to live on, not because of ourselves,

But because of the ones who would care.

It's living and doing for somebody else

On that all of life's splendor depends,

And the joy of it all, when we count it all up,

Is found in the making of friends....

JAISAIRAM!!!

subhasrini
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!
Let us pray at the feet of Sai Baba who is the incarnation of all gods and protector of all, to show mercy on us, and increase our devotion towards him.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 14, 2005, 02:10:10 PM
Flowers need sunshine, violets need dew, all angels in heaven know I need u. years may fly, tears may dry, but my friendship with u will never die.

 

One day u will ask me: What is more important to you, me or your life? I will say: my life… You will walk away from me without knowing that U R MY LIFE!!!

 

Feel good when somebody Miss u. Feel better when somebody Loves u. But feel best when somebody never forgets u.

A friend is sweet when its new….but it is sweeter when its TRUE! But u know what?  Its sweetest when its you.

 

A friend gives hope when life is low, a friend is a place when you have nowhere to go, a friend is honest, a friend is true. A friend is precious a friend is u.

 

If kisses were water, I will give u sea. If hugs were leaves, I will give u a tree.If u luv a planet, I will give u a galaxy, if friendship is life I will give u mine.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 14, 2005, 02:12:43 PM
You cannot buy friendship, you can earn it. If someone comes for help, be a true friend !

A friend is always welcome ... Early in the morning or late at night. Time is of no importance ... When it concerns real friendship!!

Friendship is a wonderful word, it might be the most beautiful one on earth. Friendship is something powerful, a gift of great value!

No gold or precious stones ... give us happiness and peace, friendship and its warmth ... will bring it to us

There is a big difference between friendship and a rose... Roses last only a while ... but friendship is for ever

I asked God 4 a flower, he gave me a garden. Asked 4 a tree, he gave me a forest. Asked 4 a river, he gave me an ocean. Asked 4 a friend, he gave me you

Friends are like stars... you don't see them all the time, but you know they're there!


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 14, 2005, 02:16:18 PM
When friendship is deeply rooted, it is a plant that cannot even be uprooted by a storm....


Friend: someone who tells you things while you are alive, things that others tell after you die

You can eat and drink together, talk and laugh together, enjoy life together, but you are only real friends when you also cried together.

Wherever you go, whatever you do, may god's angels watch over you.

Not the lack of love, but the lack of friendship makes marriages unhappy.

A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.

If friends were flowers I would not pick you! I'll let you grow in the garden & cultivate you with love and care so I can keep you as a friend 4ever!!

True friends are like Diamonds... they are real and rare. False friends are like leaves... they are scattered everywhere.

I believe in angels, the kind that heaven sends. I'm surrounded by angels but I call them my best friends.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 14, 2005, 02:18:13 PM
There r many stars but the moon is u, there are many friends but the best is u,, To forget me that’s up to u,,, To forget u I will never ever do.

U may be out of my sight, but not out of my heart, U may be out of my reach but not out of my  mind.I may mean nothing to u but u will always be special to me!!

Knowing a friend like u has made me happy in a million ways And if Ever I Have to Let you go………..I would Find a million reasons to make u stay!!!!

 

 If I m in hell & u in heaven, I always look up & be proud of u. but if I were In heaven & u in hell, I beg God 2 send me down coz heaven wont be heaven without u.

 

Life is 4 u, death is 4 me, being happy is 4 u, being sad is 4 me, being together is 4 u, being lonely is 4 me, everything 4 u but u r 4 me.

 

If I could pull down the rainbow I would write ur name with it & put it back in the sky to let everybody know how colorful my life is with a friend like u!!

 
Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 14, 2005, 02:23:16 PM
"Among Life's precious jewels,  
Genuine and rare,  
The one that we call friendship  
Has worth beyond compare."

"A friend loves at all times..."  Proverbs 17:17
Real friendship is a rare and precious gift, strong,  
stable, yet fragile, and never to be taken for granted.

"Friendship is the only cement  
that will ever hold the world together"

"Treat your friends as you do your pictures,  
and place them in their best light."

"Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art...  
It has no survival value; rather it is one of those things  
that give value to survival."

"In the End, we will remember not the words of our enemies,  
but the silence of our friends."

"The glory of friendship is not the outstretched hand,
nor the kindly smile nor the joy of companionship;
it is the spiritual inspiration that comes to one when
he discovers that someone else believes in him  
and is willing to trust him."

"Friendship is neither a formality nor a mode:  
it is rather a life."

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 14, 2005, 02:24:39 PM
Remember

Remember that a little love goes a long way.  
Remember that a lot... goes forever.  
Remember that friendship is a wise investment.  
Life's treasures are people... together.  
Realize that it's never too late.  
Do ordinary things in an extraordinary way.  
Have health and hope and happiness.  
Take the time to wish upon a star.
And don't ever forget... for even a day...  
How very special you are.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 14, 2005, 02:28:55 PM
There is nought better to be  
With noble souls of company:  
There is nought dearer than to wend  
With good friends faithful to the end.  
This is the love whose fruit is sweet;  
Therefore to abide within is meet.
 ~Mahabharata (B.C.400)
 
Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 14, 2005, 02:30:05 PM
Everyone Needs Someone  

People need people and friends need friends  
And we all need love for a full life depends  
Not on vast riches or great acclaim,  
Not on success or on worldly fame,  
But just in knowing that someone cares  
And holds us close in their thoughts and prayers-  
For only the knowledge that we're understood  
Makes everyday living feel wonderfully good,  
And we rob ourselves of life's greatest need  
When we "lock up our hearts" and fail to heed  
The outstretched hand reaching to find  
A kindred spirit whose heart and mind
Are lonely and longing to somehow share  
Our joys and sorrows and to make us aware  
That life's completeness and richness depends  
On the things we share with our loved ones and friends.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 14, 2005, 02:31:32 PM
Friendship  

There's a miracle of Friendship
that dwells within the heart,  
And you don't know how it happens  
or where it gets its start...  
But the happiness it brings you
always gives a special lift,  
And you realize that Friendship  
Is God's most perfect gift.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 14, 2005, 02:32:57 PM
Thank You Friend

I never came to you, my friend,  
and went away without  
some new enrichment of the heart;  
More faith and less of doubt,  
more courage in the days ahead.  
And often in great need coming to you,  
I went away comforted indeed.  
How can I find the shining word,
the glowing phrase that tells all that  
your love has meant to me,  
all that your friendship spells?  
There is no word, no phrase for  
you on whom I so depend.  
All I can say to you is this,  
God bless you precious friend.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 14, 2005, 02:34:10 PM
Friends Without Faces

We sit and we type and we stare at our screens,
We can't help but wonder what all of this means.  
With mouse in hand ...we roam through this maze,
On an infinite search...lost in a daze.

We chat with each other, we type all our woes
At times we'll band together to gang up on our foes.
We wait for somebody, to type out our name
We want recognition, but it is always the same.

Soon friendships are formed - but - why we don't know,
But some of these friendships, will flourish and grow.
We give kisses and hugs, and sometimes we'll flirt,
In IMs we chat deeply, and reveal why we hurt.

Why is it on screen, we are so easily bold,
Telling our secrets, that have never been told.
The answer is simple, it is as clear as a bell,
We all have our problems, and need someone to tell.

We can't tell real people, but tell someone we must
So we turn to our 'puters ...and to those we can trust.
Even though it sounds crazy...the truth still remains,  
Most of my "friends" have no faces...and odd little names.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 15, 2005, 06:36:38 AM
"To know someone here or there with whom you can feel there is understanding in spite of distances or thoughts expressed ~ That can make life a garden."

"Silence is the true friend that never betrays."

"But friendship is precious, not only in the shade, but in the sunshine of life; and thanks to a benevolent arrangement of things, the greater part of life is sunshine."

"An ounce of blood is worth more than a pound of friendship."
-Spanish Proverb

"Friends are born, not made."

"A friend may well be reckoned the masterpiece of nature."

"Hold a true friend with both your hands."
-Nigerian Proverb

"There comes that mysterious meeting in life when someone acknowledges who we are and what we can be, igniting the circuits of our highest potential."

"A friend is a gift you give yourself."


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 15, 2005, 06:40:07 AM
"It is the friends that you can call at 4 A.M. that matter."


"In times of prosperity friends will be plenty; in time of adversity not one in twenty." -- English Proverb

"My best friend is the one that brings out the best in me." -- Henry Ford

"Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born."

"God save me from my friends - I can protect myself from my enemies." -- Proverb

"Life withougt a friend is death without a witness." -- Spanish Proverb

"We are all travelers in the wilderness of this world, and the best we can find in our travels is an honest friend"

"Friends are God's way of apologizing to us for our families."

"A friend can tell you things you don't want to tell yourself."

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 15, 2005, 06:45:05 AM
Friends are born, not made.

Forsake not an old friend, for a new one does not compare with him.
* Apocrypha -- Ecclesiasticus 9:10

My best friend is the man who in wishing me well wishes it for my sake.
* Aristotle

This communicating of a man's self to his friend works two contrary effects; for it redoubleth joys, and cutteth griefs in half.

Friendship is a strong and habitual inclination in two persons to promote the good and happiness of one another.

A friend may well be reckoned the masterpiece of nature.

It is one of the blessings of old friends that you can afford to be stupid with them.


Real friendship is shown in times of trouble;
prosperity is full of friends.

A true friend is the greatest of all blessings, and that which we take the least care of all to acquire.

To me, fair friend, you never can be old
For as you were when first your eye I eyed,
Such seems your beauty still.
* William Shakespeare

Friendship is constant in all other things
Save in the office and affairs of love.
* William Shakespeare

The proper office of a friend is to side with you when you are in the wrong. Nearly anybody will side with you when you are in the right.
* Mark Twain

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 16, 2005, 05:42:56 AM
A man should choose a friend who is better than himself. There are plenty of acquaintances in the world; but very few real friends. - Proverb, Chinese

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 02, 2005, 12:06:50 PM
True friendship consists not in the multitude of friends, but in their worth and value.


Silence is the true friend that never betrays.

Truth springs from argument amongst friends.

Those truly linked don't need correspondence. When they meet again after many years apart, Their friendship is as true as ever.


You have been my friend. That in itself is a tremendous thing. I wove my webs for you because I liked you. After all, what's a life, anyway? We're born, we live a little while, we die. A spider's life can't help being something of a mess, with all this trapping and eating flies. By helping you, perhaps I was trying to lift up my life a trifle. Heaven knows anyone's life can stand a little of that.

It is difficult to say who do you the most mischief: enemies with the worst intentions or friends with the best.

A faithful friend is a strong defense: and he that hath found such an one hath found a treasure.

Friendship with oneself is all important because without it one cannot be friends with anybody else in the world.

Friendship marks a life even more deeply than love. Love risks degenerating into obsession, friendship is never anything but sharing.


All love that has not friendship for its base,
Is like a mansion built upon the sand.


It is not so much our friends' help that helps us as the confident knowledge that they will help us.


3rd century BCE


It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.


Perhaps the most delightful friendships are those in which there is much agreement, much disputation, and yet more personal liking.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 02, 2005, 12:09:20 PM
Friendship is a plant of slow growth and must undergo and withstand the shocks of adversity before it is entitled to the appellation.


True friendship can afford true knowledge. It does not depend on darkness and ignorance.

It is one of the severest tests of friendship to tell your friend his faults. So to love a man that you cannot bear to see a stain upon him, and to speak painful truth through loving words, that is friendship.

Friendship is the finest balm for the pangs of despised love.


Writing is a solitary occupation. Family, friends, and society are the natural enemies of the writer. He must be alone, uninterrupted, and slightly savage if he is to sustain and complete an undertaking.


Writing is a solitary occupation. Family, friends, and society are the natural enemies of the writer. He must be alone, uninterrupted, and slightly savage if he is to sustain and complete an undertaking.


Writing is a solitary occupation. Family, friends, and society are the natural enemies of the writer. He must be alone, uninterrupted, and slightly savage if he is to sustain and complete an undertaking.


I always felt that the great high privilege, relief and comfort of friendship was that one had to explain nothing.


A true friend is the most precious of all possessions and the one we take the least thought about acquiring.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 02, 2005, 12:11:41 PM
"Stay" is a charming word in a friend's vocabulary.[:)][:)][:)][;)]



Let us be grateful to people who make us happy; they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.[:)][:)][:)][:)][:)][;)][;)][;)]



[W]e all need friends with whom we can speak of our deepest concerns, and who do not fear to speak the truth in love to us.[:)][;)]


The holy passion of friendship is of so sweet and steady and loyal and enduring a nature that it will last through a whole lifetime, if not asked to lend money.[;)][;)]


Good friends, good books and a sleepy conscience: this is the ideal life.[:)][:)][:)][;)]


Love is the only force capable of transforming an enemy into friend.


It's the friends you can call up at 4 a.m. that matter.


Though friendship is not quick to burn,
It is explosive stuff.


It is easy enough to be friendly to one's friends. But to befriend the one who regards himself as your enemy is the quintessence of true religion. The other is mere business.(Mohandas K. Gandhi)


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: SS91 on November 02, 2005, 01:54:08 PM
A True Friend

We met upon
the internet,
My heart you did
not have yet.

I sit and wait each day,
for the song my
heart will soon play.

Of laughter, love and tears,
You have washed away
all my fears.

To be my friend
and see so deep,
I now know why
I don't get
much sleep.

I have waited
through all these
years,
To find something
to hold so dear.

And now I know
I'll never be
Blue,
For I have found
a true friend
in you.  


JAISAIRAM!!!!!!!!!!!

subhasrini
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!
Let us pray at the feet of Sai Baba who is the incarnation of all gods and protector of all, to show mercy on us, and increase our devotion towards him.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 03, 2005, 10:10:32 AM
Without friends no one would choose to live, though he had all other goods.
Aristotle (384 BC - 322 BC)

The shifts of Fortune test the reliability of friends.


Do not protect yourself by a fence, but rather by your friends.
Czech Proverb


When the character of a man is not clear to you, look at his friends

In prosperity our friends know us; in adversity we know our friends

Adversity does teach who your real friends are

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 03, 2005, 10:15:47 AM
But friendship is precious, not only in the shade, but in the sunshine of life, and thanks to a benevolent arrangement the greater part of life is sunshine.


A friend is the only person you will let into the house when you are Turning Out Drawers.


Friendship... is not something you learn in school. But if you haven't learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven't learned anything.

There is nothing on this earth more to be prized than true friendship.
Saint Thomas Aquinas


An insincere and evil friend is more to be feared than a wild beast; a wild beast may wound your body, but an evil friend will wound your mind.
Buddha


True friends stab you in the front.

The language of friendship is not words but meanings.'

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM




dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: SS91 on November 03, 2005, 11:14:35 AM
"Friends. A simple word isn't it? It's uttered everyday to almost every person imaginable. Who are your friends? I used to think that friends were the people that you could laugh and talk to. Now I know that friends aren't that, they're the people that touch ur heart. You could spend hours with them doing nothing at all and it can be the best time of your life, just becuase it was with them. They're the people you can
share your secrets with, cry with, laugh with, and just have fun with. They don't judge you or make you change. They accept you exactly as you are. They look at you and they see a great person, one they love spending time with. You all share something in common and are tied together by memories, tears, laughs and smiles. You're tied together by love for the other. Friendship is the strangest but greatest thing in the world. I find my time with my friends, the best times of my life. My friends are my heart, my soul, my fun, my laughter, tears, love and my life." -Kate Tierney

"Friendship is the hardest thing in the world to explain. It's not something you learn in school. But if you haven't learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven't learned anything." -Muhammad Ali



subhasrini
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!
Let us pray at the feet of Sai Baba who is the incarnation of all gods and protector of all, to show mercy on us, and increase our devotion towards him.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: SS91 on November 03, 2005, 11:15:55 AM
We are not the same persons this year as last; nor are those we love. It is a happy chance if we, changing, continue to love a changed person.”- Maugham

"Truly great friends are hard to find, difficult to leave, and impossible to forget." -G. Randolf

"True friends are the people that are there for you unconditionally. They are the people that never question you and support you no matter what the circumstances are. They are the people worth living for." -unknown

"Never explain yourself. Your friends don’t need it and your enemies won’t believe it." -Belgicia Howell

“A real friend is someone who you can sit in complete silence with and still walk away feeling like you just had the best conversation of your life.”

“True friendship is when two friends can walk in opposite directions, yet remain side by side.”

“Side by side or miles apart, dear friends are always close to the heart.”

"We will be friends until forever, just you wait see." - Pooh Bear


subhasrini
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!
Let us pray at the feet of Sai Baba who is the incarnation of all gods and protector of all, to show mercy on us, and increase our devotion towards him.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 04, 2005, 11:20:32 AM
FRIENDS ~

As we walk our path of life,
We meet people everyday.
Most are simply met by chance.
But, some are sent our way.
 
These become special friends
Whose bond we can't explain;
The ones who understand us
And share our joy and pain.

Their love contains no boundaries.
So, even we are apart.
Their presence enhances us
With a warmth felt in the heart.

This love becomes a passageway,
When even the miles disappear.
And so, these friends, God sends our way,
Remain forever near.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 04, 2005, 11:22:29 AM
You're...
My Friend,
my companion,
through good times and bad
my friend, my buddy,
through happy and sad,
beside me you stand,
beside me you walk,
you're there to listen,
you're there to talk,
with happiness, with smiles,
with pain and tears,
I know you'll be there,
throughout the years!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 04, 2005, 11:24:31 AM
"It takes years to build up trust, and just seconds to destroy it."

“Friends are those rare people who ask how you are and then wait to hear the answer”

"It is by chance we met . . .
By choice we became friends."

"A true friend is someone who knows there's something wrong even when you have the biggest smile on your face."

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 04, 2005, 11:29:37 AM
Friends are God's way of taking care of us

A friend walks in when the rest of the world walkes out

Anybody can sympathise with the sufferings of a friend, but it requires a very fine nature to sympathise with a friend's success.

I believe in angels, the kind Heaven sends. I am surrounded by angels, but I call them my best friends.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 07, 2005, 11:03:33 AM
"Silence is the true friend that never betrays."
-Confucious

"Friends are born, not made."
-Henry Adams

"A friend may well be reckoned the masterpiece of nature."
-Ralph Waldo Emerson

"My father always used to say that when you die, if you've got five real friends, then you've had a great life."
-Lee Iacocca

"Hold a true friend with both your hands."
-Nigerian Proverb

"Sometimes our light goes out but is blown into flame by another human being. Each of us owes deepest thanks to those who have rekindled this light."
-Albert Schweitzer

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 07, 2005, 11:05:36 AM
"Remember friends as you pass by,
As you are now so once was I.
As low as I you once must be,
Prepare yourself and follow me."
-Gravestone from the 1800s


"I do not want a friend
Who smiles when I smile
Who weeps when I weep
For my shadow in the pool
Can do better than that."
-Confucious


"There are no such things as strangers, only friends we haven't met yet."

"Odd how much it hurts when a friend moves away - and leaves behind only silence."

"You can hardly make a friend in a year, but you can easily offend one in an hour." -- Chinese Proverb

"In times of prosperity friends will be plenty; in time of adversity not one in twenty." -- English Proverb

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 07, 2005, 11:09:09 AM
One friend in a lifetime is much; two are many; three are hardly possible. Friendship needs a certain parallelism of life, a community of thought, a rivalry of aim.
Henry Brooks Adams

 

The greatest sweetener of human life is Friendship. To raise this to the highest pitch of enjoyment, is a secret which but few discover.
Joseph Addison

 

Friendships, in general, are suddenly contracted; and therefore it is no wonder they are easily dissolved.
Joseph Addison

 

Friendship improves happiness, and abates misery, by doubling our joy, and dividing our grief.
Joseph Addison

 

The friendships of the world are oft confederacies in vice, or leagues of pleasures.
Joseph Addison




My best friend is the man who in wishing me well wishes it for my sake.
Aristotle



Friendship is a single soul dwelling in two bodies.
Aristotle



This communicating of a man's self to his friend works two contrary effects; for it redoubleth joys, and cutteth griefs in half.
Francis Bacon



Friendship is a strong and habitual inclination in two persons to promote the good and happiness of one another.

Eustace Budgell



Don't believe your friends when they ask you to be honest with them. All they really want is to be maintained in the good opinion they have of themselves.
Albert Camus



How can sincerity be a condition of friendship? A taste for truth at any cost is a passion which spares nothing.
Albert Camus



Friendship often ends in love; but love in friendship--never.
Charles Caleb Colton



What a wretched lot of old shrivelled creatures we shall be by-and-by. Never mind--the uglier we get in the eyes of others, the lovelier we shall be to each other; that has always been my firm faith about friendship.
George Eliot



A friend may well be reckoned the masterpiece of nature.
Ralph Waldo Emerson



It is one of the blessings of old friends that you can afford to be stupid with them.
Ralph Waldo Emerson



The only way to have a friend is to be one.
Ralph Waldo Emerson



Real friendship is shown in times of trouble;
prosperity is full of friends.
Euripedes



It is in the thirties that we want friends. In the forties we know they won't save us any more than love did.
F. Scott Fitzgerald



No man can be happy without a friend, nor be sure of his friend till he is unhappy.
Thomas Fuller



Your friend is the man who knows all about you, and still likes you.
Elbert Hubbard



My father always used to say that when you die, if you've got five real friends, you've had a great life.
Lee Iacocca



A true friend is the greatest of all blessings, and that which we take the least care of all to acquire.
François Duc de La Rochefoucauld



However rare true love may be, it is less so than true friendship.
François Duc de La Rochefoucauld



The most deadly fruit is borne by the hatred which one grafts on an extinguished friendship.
Gotthold Ephraim Lessing



It's no good trying to keep up old friendships. It's painful for both sides. The fact is, one grows out of people, and the only thing is to face it.
W. Somerset Maugham



We know our friends by their defects rather than by their merits.
W. Somerset Maugham



If a man should importune me to give a reason why I loved him, I find it could no otherwise be expressed, than by making answer: because it was he, because it was I.
Michel de Montaigne



Love demands infinitely less than friendship.
George Jean Nathan



Women can form a friendship with a man very well; but to preserve it--to that end a slight physical antipathy must probably help.
Friedrich Nietzsche



Hold a true friend with both your hands.
Nigerian Proverb



To me, fair friend, you never can be old
For as you were when first your eye I eyed,
Such seems your beauty still.
William Shakespeare



Friendship is constant in all other things
Save in the office and affairs of love.
William Shakespeare



The proper office of a friend is to side with you when you are in the wrong. Nearly anybody will side with you when you are in the right.
Mark Twain



Friendship is the marriage of the soul, and this marriage is liable to divorce.
Voltaire


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 07, 2005, 11:12:57 AM
A faithful friend is the medicine of life.
The Bible, Ecclesiasticus 6. 16

A friend loveth at all times.
The Bible, Proverbs 17. 17

A single rose can be my garden... a single friend, my world.
Leo Buscaglia

Friendship is the only cement that will ever hold the world together.
Woodrow Wilson

Life is to be fortified by many friendships. To love and to be loved is the greatest happiness of existence.
Sydney Smith

It is that my friends have made the story of my life. In a thousand ways they have turned my limitations into beautiful privileges, and enabled me to walk serene and happy in the shadow cast by my deprivation.
Helen Keller

Love is like the wild rose-briar;
Friendship like the holly-tree.
The holly is dark when the rose-briar blooms,
But which will bloom most constantly?
Emily Bronte

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: SS91 on November 07, 2005, 11:31:23 AM
A friend is one who knows us, but loves us anyway."
- Jerome Cummings

"Only your real friends tell you when your face is dirty."
- Sicilian Proverb

"What is a friend? I will tell you...it is someone with whom
you dare to be yourself."
- Frank Crane

"A good friend remembers what we were and sees what we can be."
- Unknown

"Don't be dismayed at good-byes. A farewell is necessary before you can
meet again. And meeting again, after moments or lifetimes,
is certain for those who are friends."
- Richard Bach

"A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out."
- Walter Winchell

"The only way to have a friend is to be one."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson

"A friend is someone who is there for you when he'd rather be somewhere else."
- Unknown

"All love that has not friendship for its base,
is like a mansion built upon the sand."
- Ella Wheeler Wilcox

"A mirror reflects a man's face, but what he is really like
is shown by the kind of friends he chooses."
- Proverbs 27:19

"In a friend you find a second self."
- Isabelle Norton

"The better you know someone, the less there is to say.
Or maybe, there's less that needs to be said."
- Unknown

"A friend loveth at all times."
- Proverbs 17:17

"Your friends will know you better in the first minute they meet you
than your acquaintances will know you in a thousand years."
- Richard Bach

"Every gift from a friend is a wish for your happiness..."
- Richard Bach

"Can miles truly separate us from friends?
If we want to be with someone we love, aren't we already there?"
- Richard Bach

"Never shall I forget the days I spent with you. Continue to be my friend,
as you will always find me yours."
- Ludwig van Beethoven

"A friend hears the song in my heart and sings it to me when my memory fails."
- Unknown

"A part of you has grown in me. And so you see, it's you and me
together forever and never apart, maybe in distance, but never in heart."
- Unknown

"Friendship doubles your joys, and divides your sorrows."
- Unknown

"Friends are those rare people who ask how you are
and then wait to hear the answer."
- Unknown

"The most beautiful discovery that true friends can make is that
they can grow separately without growing apart."
- Unknown

"A friend is someone who reaches out for your hand...and touches your heart."
- Unknown

"How lucky I am to have known someone who was so hard to say goodbye to."
- Unknown

"Some people come into our lives,
leave footprints on our hearts,
and we are never the same."
- Unknown

"I don't remember how we happened to meet each other.
I don't remember who got along with whom first.
All I can remember is all of us together...always."
- Unknown

"Love is temporary...but friends are forever."
- Kelly Wheeler

"Walking with a friend in the dark is better than walking alone in the light."
- Helen Keller

"You only meet your once in a lifetime friend... once in a lifetime."
- Little Rascals

"...no man is useless
while he has a friend."
- Robert Louis Stevenson

"The friendship that can cease has never been real."
- Saint Jerome

"Without friends no one would choose to live, though he had all other goods."
- Artistotle

"Friends are born, not made."
- Henry Adams

"Well, it seems to me that the best relationships--the ones that last--
are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship.
You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more
than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere.
And the person who was just a friend is...suddenly
the only person you can ever imagine yourself with."
- Dana Scully (The X-Files)

"Each friend represents a world in us,
a world possibly not born until they arrive,
and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born."
- Anaïs Nin

"A circle is round it has no end,
that's how long I want to be your friend!"
- Anonymous

"To the world you may be just one person,
but to one person you may be the world."
- Unknown

"A friend is like an oreo,
its not always that great,
but it always gets better!"
- Erin Westbrook

"A best friend is a sister that destiny forgot to give you."
- Unknown

"It takes years to build up trust,
and just seconds to destroy it."
- Unknown

"No love, no friendship can cross the path of our destiny
without leaving some kind of mark on it forever."
- Unknown

"Friends are the bacon bits in the salad bowl of life."
- Uknown

"When a friend's in trouble,
don't insult him by asking what you can do,
think for yourself and start doing it."
- Unknown


subhasrini
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!
Let us pray at the feet of Sai Baba who is the incarnation of all gods and protector of all, to show mercy on us, and increase our devotion towards him.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: SS91 on November 07, 2005, 11:32:53 AM
A friend in need is a friend indeed.-

"To know someone here or there
with whom you can feel
there is understanding
in spite of distances or
thoughts expressed
That can make life a garden."
-Goethe

"Silence is the true friend that never betrays."
-Confucius

"Love is blind, but friendship closes its eyes."
-unknown

"Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow ~ Don't walk behind me, I may not lead ~ Just walk beside me and be my friend."
-unknown
Building a friendship is like planting a quote.
-unknown

"An ounce of blood is worth more than a pound of friendship."
-Spanish Proverb

"Friends are born, not made."
-Henry Adams

"A friend may well be reckoned the masterpiece of nature."
-Ralph Waldo Emerson

"My father always used to say that when you die, if you've got five real friends, then you've had a great life."
-Lee Iacocca

"Hold a true friend with both your hands."
-Nigerian Proverb

"Sometimes our light goes out but is blown into flame by another human being. Each of us owes deepest thanks to those who have rekindled this light."
-Albert Schweitzer


Send these Quotes to friend now!

"There comes that mysterious meeting in life when someone acknowledges who we are and what we can be, igniting the circuits of our highest potential."
-Rusty Berkus

"Am I not destroying my enemies when I make friends of them?"
-Abraham Lincoln

"You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you."
-Dale Carnegie

"Remember friends as you pass by,
As you are now so once was I.
As low as I you once must be,
Prepare yourself and follow me."
-Gravestone from the 1800s


"A brother is not always a friend,
but a friend is always a brother."
- Unknown

"Never hurt your friends, not even in a joke."
- Unknown

"A friendship that stops existing,
was actually never there."
- Unknown

"One loyal friend is better than ten thousand family members."
- Unknown

"Hold on to your friend with both hands."
- Unknown

"He who searches for friends without faults,
will never have a friend."
- Unknown

"You will never have a perfect friendship,
but you must strive for one."
- Unknown

"A person who has no friends,
lives only half way."
- Unknown

"Be careful of what you say,
friendship can end in one minute
because of a stupid word."
- Unknown

"Friends are the chocolate chips in the cookie of life."
- Unknown

"Friends are the angels who lift us to our feet
when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly."
- Unknown

"Wherever you may be it is your friends who make your world."
- Unknown

"I always knew looking back on the tears would make me laugh.
But I never knew looking back on the laughs would make me cry."
- Unknown

"He who has a thousand friends has not a friend to spare,
And he who has one enemy will meet him everywhere."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson


"To be your friend was all I ever wanted;
to be your lover was all I ever dreamed."
- Valerie Lombardo

"If all my friends were to jump off a bridge, I would not follow,
I would be at the bottom to catch them when they fall."
- Unknown

"A friend in need is a friend indeed."
- Latin Proverb

"A good friend is my nearest relation."

"A hedge between keeps friendship green."

"God defend me from my friends; from my enemies I can defend myself."

"Love is blind; friendship closes its eyes."

"The best of friends must part."

"The death of a friend is equivalent to the loss of a limb."
- German Proverb

"Life without a friend is like death without a witness."
- Spanish Proverb

"The best mirror is an old friend."

"Life is partly what we make it, and partly what is made by the friends whom we choose."
- Tehyi Hsieh

"There is no hope of joy except in human relations."
- Antoine de Sainte-Exupery

"The making of friends, who are real friends, is the best token we have of a man's success in life."
- Edward Everett Hale

"Except in cases of necessity, which are rare, leave your friend to learn unpleasant things from his enemies; they are ready enough to tell them."
- Oliver Wendell Holmes

"The most I can do for my friend is simply to be his friend. I have no wealth to bestow on him. If he knows that I am happy in loving him, he will want no other reward. Is not friendship divine in this?"
- Henry David Thoreau

"Friendship that flows from the heart cannot be frozen by adversity, as the water that flows from the spring cannot congeal in winter."
- James Fennimore Cooper

"Friendship without self interest is one of the rare and beautiful things in life."
- James Francis Byrnes

"Best friends are like diamonds, precious and rare
False friends are like leaves, found everywhere."
 
 

 


subhasrini
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!
Let us pray at the feet of Sai Baba who is the incarnation of all gods and protector of all, to show mercy on us, and increase our devotion towards him.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: SS91 on November 07, 2005, 11:34:15 AM
A Friend is a Treasure

A friend is someone we turn to,

when our spirits need a lift.

A friend is someone we treasure,

for our friendship is a gift.

A friend is someone who fills our lives,

with beauty, joy and grace.

And make the world we live in,

a better and happier place.

JAISAIRAM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


subhasrini
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!
Let us pray at the feet of Sai Baba who is the incarnation of all gods and protector of all, to show mercy on us, and increase our devotion towards him.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: SS91 on November 07, 2005, 11:35:47 AM
A BEST FRIEND


A best friend
is always there,
whether you need advice,
or a pep talk,
or even a shoulder to cry on.


A best friend
listens with her heart
and is always honest with you,
even though the truth
may not be
what you want to hear.


A best friend
knows all your secrets,
understands your fears
shares your dreams.


A best friend
never stops believing in you
even if you give up
on yourself.
you are
that kind of friend
to me.

And no matter what happens,
you always will be.
You are my best friend....
my forever friend.


subhasrini
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!
Let us pray at the feet of Sai Baba who is the incarnation of all gods and protector of all, to show mercy on us, and increase our devotion towards him.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: SS91 on November 07, 2005, 04:16:42 PM
A friend can be like a Teddy Bear
to hug and hold when the world
has given you all you can bear.

A hug of friendship
is an incredible feeling
which can mean a lot more
if it's given with meaning.


When the world isn't being all that nice,
and you feel like nobody could ever care..
they'll be right here to hug and hold..
and forever be your teddy bear..

There's this thing
I like to call friendship pride
this simply means never
leaving your friend's side.

Sharing your thoughts,
ideas, and goals..
while getting deep into their
hearts and souls..

Friends never make
you feel insecure
they always support
and make you feel right and pure.


Friendship is not a game;
if it is, it's a game of chance,
that many times
may lead to romance..

When it's raining outside
and there's a storm and it's cold
it's always nice to have a warm
teddy bear to hold.

Friends always think about each other,
sometimes maybe even twentyfour/seven,
then sometimes you encounter those
friends you think were sent from Heaven.

So the next time you are feeling
like you need someone to hold,
come to a true friend
with a heart of Gold..

JAISAIRAM!!!!!!!!!!!



subhasrini
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!
Let us pray at the feet of Sai Baba who is the incarnation of all gods and protector of all, to show mercy on us, and increase our devotion towards him.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 08, 2005, 08:27:29 AM
Every friend is to the other a sun, and a sunflower also. He attracts and follows. - Richter, Jean Paul - 1763-1825, German Novelist


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Astrid on November 08, 2005, 09:32:05 AM
Sai Ram

thank you, dearest Dipika, for the quote. What a synchronicity: I was sitting on the balcony enjoying the warm rays of the beautuful autumn sun for a few minutes and thanked SAI for the experience of having more than 1000 of the most wonderful brothers and sisters anyone can have on earth and on coming back saw your post ...
[:)][:)][:)]
May we all be a sunflower to each other with SAI as our sun shining the warm rays of HIS love on us always.

Om Sai Ram

Astrid

Restless was my heart till it found rest in THEE
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: OmSaiRamNowOn on November 08, 2005, 03:09:01 PM
Thannk you Sai baba, for bringing me to this Mandir to all these loving and blessing friends, brothers and sisters!
-Anju

OM SAI RAM !
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI !!
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 10, 2005, 02:33:16 AM
Three things of life that are most valuable -
Love, self-confidence & friends.

To the world you may be just one person,
but to one person you may be the world.

"To know someone here or there with whom you can feel there is understanding in spite of distances or thoughts expressed ~ That can make life a garden."

The best time to make friends is before you need them.

In the sweetness of friendship let there be laughter, for in the dew of little things the heart finds its morning and is refreshed.

A road to a friend's house is never long.

Similarities create friendship's while differences hold them together.

To lose a friend is hardship, but to forget them is as if you died too.

Could we see when and where we are to meet again, we would be more tender when we bid our friends good-bye. .

True friendship is seen through the heart not through the eyes.

Friendship without self-interest is one of the rare and beautiful things of life.

If a man does not make new acquaintances as he advances through life, he will soon find himself left alone; one should keep his friendships in constant repair.

The happiest business in all the world is that of making friends,
And no investment on the street pays larger dividends,
For life is more than stocks and bonds, and love than rate percent,

Friendships are fragile things, and require as much handling as any other fragile and precious thing.

True friendship is like sound health, the value of it is seldom known until it be lost.

True friendship comes when silence between two people is comfortable.

Friends are the siblings, God never gave us.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 11, 2005, 12:41:25 PM
"Truly great friends are hard to find, difficult to leave, and impossible to forget." -G. Randolf

"True friends are the people that are there for you unconditionally. They are the people that never question you and support you no matter what the circumstances are. They are the people worth living for."

“Side by side or miles apart, dear friends are always close to the heart.”

"My friend, if I could give you one thing, I would wish for you the ability to see yourself as others see you. Then you would realize what a truly special person you are."

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole rfuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 13, 2005, 09:47:04 AM
"There are those who pass like ships in the night, who meet for a moment, then sail out of sight with never a backward glance of regret; folks we know briefly then quickly forget. Then there are friends who sail together, through quiet waters and stormy weather, helping eachother though joy and through strife. And they are the kind who give meaning to life."

      "A true friend laughs at your stories even when they're not so good, and sympathizes with your troubles even when they're not so bad"

      "Friends are flowers in the garden of life"

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 13, 2005, 09:49:26 AM
"This is my wish for you: Comfort on difficult days, smiles when sadness intrudes, rainbows to follow the clouds, laughter to kiss your lips, sunsets to warm your heart, hugs when spirits sag, beauty for your eyes to see, friendships to brighten your being, faith so that you can believe, confidence for when you doubt, courage to know yourself, patience to accept the truth, Love to complete your life."

      "Meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was a choice, but falling in love with you I had no control over."

      "What is Friendship when complete?
'Tis to share all joy and grief;
'Tis to lend all due relief
From the tongue, the heart, the hand;
'Tis to mortgage house and land;
For a friend be sold a slave;
'Tis to die upon a grave,
If a friend therein do lie."

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 13, 2005, 09:51:45 AM
"The most beautiful discovery true friends make is that they can grow separately without growing apart."

"You can gain a friend in a year but lose a friend in a minute."

      "We're born alone, we live alone, we die alone. Only through our love and friendship can we create the illusion for the moment that we're not alone."

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 16, 2005, 12:07:16 AM
Similarities create friendship's while differences hold them together.

To lose a friend is hardship, but to forget them is as if you died too.

Could we see when and where we are to meet again, we would be more tender when we bid our friends good-bye. .

When a friend is in trouble, don't annoy him by asking if there is anything you can do. Think up something appropriate and do it.

Thy friendship oft has made my heart to ache; do be my enemy — for friendship's sake.

Never do a wrong thing to make a friend or to keep one.

Friendship without self-interest is one of the rare and beautiful things of life.

Friendships are fragile things, and require as much handling as any other fragile and precious thing.

True friendship comes when silence between two people is comfortable.

True friendship is seen through the heart not through the eyes.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 16, 2005, 12:11:15 AM
For prayer is nothing else than being on terms of friendship with God.
Author: Saint Teresa of Avila

Friends are like windows through which you see out into the world and back into yourself... If you don't have friends you see much less than you otherwise might.
Author: Merle Shain

Friends are relatives you make for yourself.
Author: Eustache Deschamps

Friends are thieves of time.
Author: Francis Bacon

In everyone's life, at some time, our inner fire goes out. It is then burst into flame by an encounter with another human being. We should all be thankful for those people who rekindle the inner spirit.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 16, 2005, 11:37:00 AM
"Fate chooses your relations, you choose your friends."
- Jacques Delille (1738 - 1813) French poet.

"A friend is a person with whom I may be sincere. Before him I may think aloud."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson

"The only reward of virtue is virtue; the only way to have a friend is to be one."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson

"It is one of the blessings of old friends that you can afford to be stupid with them."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson

"True happiness consists not in the multitude of friends, but in their worth and choice."
- Samuel Johnston,


It is more shameful to distrust one's friends than to be deceived by them."
- Duc de la Rochefoucauld (1613 - 1680) French writer.

"Associate yourself with men of good quality if you esteem your own reputation; for 'tis better to be alone than in bad company."
- George Washington (1732 - 1799) US Statesman.

"True friendship is a plant of slow growth, and must undergo and withstand the shocks of adversity before it is entitled to the appellation."
- George Washington

"It is not so much our friends' help that helps us as the confident knowledge that they will help us."
- Epicurus (341 - 270 BC) Greek philosopher.

One loyal friend is worth ten thousand relatives."
- Euripides, Greek playwrite

My friends are my estate."
- Emily Dickinson

A friend might well be reckoned the masterpiece of nature.
-- Ralph Waldo Emerson

The only way to have a friend is to be one.
-- Ralph Waldo Emerson

Happiness is a byproduct of an effort to make someone else happy.
-- Gretta Brooker Palmer

The best way to cheer yourself up is to try to cheer somebody else up.
-- Mark Twain

Treat people as if they were what they ought to be and you help them to become what they are capable of being.
-- Goethe

The glory of friendship is not the outstretched hand, nor the kindly smile, nor the joy of companionship; it is the spiritual inspiration that comes to one when they discover that someone else believes in them and is willing to trust them with their friendship.
-- Ralph Waldo Emerson

Friendship improves happiness, and abates misery, by doubling our joys, and dividing our grief.
-- Joseph Addison

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 19, 2005, 11:38:15 AM
A Friend is someone who drives away the clouds & brings a smile to our lives

 "The best way to destroy an enemy is to make him a friend."
 Abraham Lincoln

"Without friends no one would choose to live, though he had all other goods."
 Aristotle

 "The moon is a friend for the lonesome to talk to."
 Carl Sandburg

"For not many men, the proverb saith, can love a friend whom fortune prospereth unenvying."
 Eschylus

 "The bird a nest, the spider a web, man friendship."
 William Blake

"A faithful friend is a strong defense: and he that hath found such an one hath found a treasure." Ecc. 6:14

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 19, 2005, 11:40:58 AM
"With true friends...even water drunk together is sweet enough."
 Chinese Proverb

"Books, like friends, should be few and well chosen."

"Friendship is almost always the union of a part of one mind with a part of another: people are friends in spots."
 George Santayana

"If you are successful, you may win false friends and true enemies. Succeed anyway."
 Mother Teresa

 "The holy passion of friendship is so sweet and steady and loyal and enduring in nature that it will last through a whole lifetime, if not asked to lend money."

"It takes your enemy and your friend, working together, to hurt you to the heart: the one to slander you and the other to get the news to you."
 Mark Twain

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 19, 2005, 11:43:48 AM
"A friend will know you better in the first minute they see you, than your acquaintance will in a thousand years."

"A friend is someone who dances with you in the sunlight, And walks with you in the shadows."

"A friend is one who believes in you when you have ceased to believe in yourself."

"A best friend it like a four leaf clover - Hard to find, and lucky to have."

"He was a true friend, he stabbed me in the front."

"A friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out."
 Walter Winchell

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 19, 2005, 11:46:01 AM
"A true friend is somebody who can make us do what we can."

"Better to be a nettle in the side of your friend than his echo."

 "Never injure a friend, even in jest."

"Go often to the house of thy friend, for weeds choke the unused path."

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 19, 2005, 11:50:31 AM
"The glory of friendship is not the outstretched hand, nor the kindly smile, nor the joy of companionship; it is the spiritual inspiration that comes to one when you discover that someone else believes in you and is willing to trust you with a friendship."
 Ralph Waldo Emerson

"I awoke with devout thanksgiving for my friends."

"We cannot tell the precise moment when friendship formed. As in filling a vessel drop by drop, there is at last a drop which makes it run over; so in a series of kindness there is at last one which makes the heart run over."
 Dr Samuel Johnson

"Be true to your work, your word, and your friend."
 Henry David Thoreau

"Faint heart never won true friend. O my friend, may it come to pass, once, that when you are my friend I may be yours."
 Henry David Thoreau

"The language of friendship is not words, but meanings. It is an intelligence about language."
 Henry David Thoreau

"The most I can do for my friend is simply be his friend."
 Henry David Thoreau

"How often we find ourselves turning our backs on our actual friends, that we may go and meet their ideal cousins."
 Henry David Thoreau

"A friend is what the heart needs all the time."
 Henry Van Dyke

"Humility must always be the portion of any man who receives acclaim earned in the blood of his followers and the sacrifices of his friends."
 Dwight David Eisenhower

"In the End, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends."
 Martin Luther King

"Silence is a friend who will never betray."
 Confucius

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: SS91 on November 21, 2005, 09:52:07 AM

Feel good when somebody Miss u.

Feel better when somebody Loves u.

But feel best when somebody never forgets u.

JAISAIRAM!!!!!!!!

subhasrini
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!
Let us pray at the feet of Sai Baba who is the incarnation of all gods and protector of all, to show mercy on us, and increase our devotion towards him.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: SS91 on November 21, 2005, 09:53:18 AM
A friend is sweet when its new….

But it is sweeter when its TRUE! But u know what?  

Its sweetest when its you.


JAISAIRAM!!!!!!!!!



subhasrini
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!
Let us pray at the feet of Sai Baba who is the incarnation of all gods and protector of all, to show mercy on us, and increase our devotion towards him.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: SS91 on November 21, 2005, 09:54:30 AM
Flowers need sunshine, violets need dew, all angels in heaven know I need u.

Years may fly, tears may dry, but my friendship with u will never die.

JAISAIRAM!!!!!!!!!



subhasrini
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!
Let us pray at the feet of Sai Baba who is the incarnation of all gods and protector of all, to show mercy on us, and increase our devotion towards him.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: SS91 on November 21, 2005, 09:55:42 AM
One day u will ask me:

What is more important to you, me or your life?

I will say: my life… You will walk away from me without knowing that U R MY LIFE!!!


JAISAIRAM!!!!!!!!!!!



subhasrini
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!
Let us pray at the feet of Sai Baba who is the incarnation of all gods and protector of all, to show mercy on us, and increase our devotion towards him.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: SS91 on November 21, 2005, 09:57:22 AM
A friend gives hope when life is low,

a friend is a place when you have nowhere to go,

a friend is honest, a friend is true.

A friend is precious a friend is u.

JAISAIRAM!!!!!!!!!!!



subhasrini
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!
Let us pray at the feet of Sai Baba who is the incarnation of all gods and protector of all, to show mercy on us, and increase our devotion towards him.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: SS91 on November 21, 2005, 09:58:26 AM
If kisses were water, I will give u sea.

If hugs were leaves, I will give u a tree.

If u luv a planet, I will give u a galaxy, if friendship is life I will give u mine.


JAISAIRAM!!!!!!!!!!!



subhasrini
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!
Let us pray at the feet of Sai Baba who is the incarnation of all gods and protector of all, to show mercy on us, and increase our devotion towards him.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: SS91 on November 21, 2005, 09:59:35 AM
People live

People die

People Laugh

People Cry

Some give up

Some will try

Some say hi

Some say bye

Others may forget YOU

but never will I.

JAISAIRAM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



subhasrini
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!
Let us pray at the feet of Sai Baba who is the incarnation of all gods and protector of all, to show mercy on us, and increase our devotion towards him.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: SS91 on November 21, 2005, 10:01:01 AM
If u r a chocolate ur the sweetest,

if u r a Teddy Bear u r the most huggable,

If u are a Star u r the Brightest,

and since u r my "FRIEND" u r the "BEST"!!!!!!!!!


JAISAIRAM!!!!!!!!!!!



subhasrini
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!
Let us pray at the feet of Sai Baba who is the incarnation of all gods and protector of all, to show mercy on us, and increase our devotion towards him.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: SS91 on November 21, 2005, 10:02:12 AM
A special friend is rare indeed,

it beems to be special breed,

yes,perfect friends r very few,

so lucky I m for having you.


JAISAIRAM!!!!!!!!!



subhasrini
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!
Let us pray at the feet of Sai Baba who is the incarnation of all gods and protector of all, to show mercy on us, and increase our devotion towards him.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: SS91 on November 21, 2005, 10:03:23 AM
They say it takes a minute 2 fine a special person,

an hour 2 appreciate them,

a day 2 love them,

but then an entire life 2 forget them.

JAISAIRAM!!!!!



subhasrini
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!
Let us pray at the feet of Sai Baba who is the incarnation of all gods and protector of all, to show mercy on us, and increase our devotion towards him.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: SS91 on November 21, 2005, 10:04:39 AM
When God opened the window of the Heaven He asked me:

What is your  wish for today? "I said :

please take special care of the person reading this!!!!!!!"


JAISAIRAM!!!!!!



subhasrini
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!
Let us pray at the feet of Sai Baba who is the incarnation of all gods and protector of all, to show mercy on us, and increase our devotion towards him.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: SS91 on November 21, 2005, 10:06:13 AM
Time might lead me to nowhere and faith might break into pieces but I will always be

THANKFUL that once in my life's journey we became FRIENDS!


JAISAIRAM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



subhasrini
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!
Let us pray at the feet of Sai Baba who is the incarnation of all gods and protector of all, to show mercy on us, and increase our devotion towards him.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: SS91 on November 21, 2005, 10:07:14 AM
It takes half our life to find true friends  & half of it keeping them.

I am lucky to have spent less than half my life finding you &

wish to spend the rest keeping you.


JAISAIRAM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



subhasrini
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!
Let us pray at the feet of Sai Baba who is the incarnation of all gods and protector of all, to show mercy on us, and increase our devotion towards him.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: SS91 on November 21, 2005, 10:08:45 AM
In my life I learned how… 2 love 2 smile 2 be happy 2 be strong 2 work hard 2 be honest

2 be faithful 2 forgive but I couldn't learn how.. 2 stop rembering u.


JAISAIRAM!!!!!!!!!!!!



subhasrini
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!
Let us pray at the feet of Sai Baba who is the incarnation of all gods and protector of all, to show mercy on us, and increase our devotion towards him.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: SS91 on November 21, 2005, 10:09:55 AM
I have seen angels in the sky…

I have seen snowfall in july…

I have seen things u only imAgine to see…  

But I haven't seen anything sweeter than u.


JAISAIRAM!!!!!!!!!!!!



subhasrini
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!
Let us pray at the feet of Sai Baba who is the incarnation of all gods and protector of all, to show mercy on us, and increase our devotion towards him.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 24, 2005, 04:00:08 AM
"A brief time spent in association with 'friends of truth' is better than years spent in solitary dedication."

-- adapted from Idries Shah _The Way of the Sufi_ 11/6/00

 
Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 25, 2005, 03:36:50 AM
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you."

"Friends are God's way of taking care of us."


"If you should die before me, ask if you could bring a friend." ---Stone Temple Pilots

"If all my friends were to jump off a bridge,I wouldn't jump with them, I'd be at the bottom to catch them."


"Everyone hears what you say. Friends listen to what you say. Best friends listen to what you don't say."


"We all take different paths in life, but no matter where we go, we take a little of each other everywhere." --- Tim McGraw


"My father always used to say that when you die, if you've got five real friends, then you've had a great life." ---Lee Iacocca

A friend loves at all times; And a brother is born for adversity. - Proverbs 17:17


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 25, 2005, 03:40:20 AM
The glory of friendship is not in the outstretched hand, nor the kindly smile, nor the joy of companionship; it is in the spiritual inspiration that comes to one when he discovers that someone else believes in him and is willing to trust him.

Ralph Waldo Emerson

A friend is one that knows you as you are, understands where you have been, accepts what you have become, and still, gently allows you to grow.

A friend is one that knows you as you are, understands where you have been, accepts what you have become, and still, gently allows you to grow.

William Shakespeare

The worst solitude is to have no real friendships.

Francis Bacon

To the query, ''What is a friend?'' his reply was ''A single soul dwelling in two bodies.''

Aristotle

In poverty and other misfortunes of life, true friends are a sure refuge. The young they keep out of mischief; to the old they are a comfort and aid in their weakness, and those in the prime of life they incite to noble deeds.

Aristotle

Wishing to be friends is quick work, but friendship is a slow-ripening fruit.

Aristotle

Without friends no one would choose to live.

Aristotle

True friendship is like sound health, the value of it is seldom known until it be lost.

Charles Caleb Colton

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 25, 2005, 03:45:23 AM
It is easy enough to be friendly to one's friends. But to befriend the one who regards himself as your enemy is the quintessence of true religion. The other is mere business.

Mahatma Gandhi

There is a scarcity of friendship, but not of friends.

A true friend is the greatest of all blessings, and that which we take the least care to acquire.

François de La Rochefoucauld

As the yellow gold is tried in fire, so the faith of friendship must be seen in adversity.

Ovid

Suspicion is the cancer of friendship.

Francesco Petrarch

Short judgments make long friends.

Proverb

Be slow in choosing a friend, but slower in changing him.

Proverb

A friend is someone who doesn't like the same people you do.

Proverb
Broken friendships can be soldered, but never sound.

Proverb

It is prosperity that gives us friends, adversity that proves them.

Proverb

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 25, 2005, 03:49:11 AM
The time to make friends is before you need them.

Proverb
A man should choose a friend who is better than himself. There are plenty of acquaintances in the world; but very few real friends.

Chinese Proverb

With true friends... even water drunk together is sweet enough.

Chinese Proverb
You may poke a man's fire after you've known him for seven years.

English proverb

Friends are like fiddle strings, they must not be screwed too tight.

English proverb

A friend you have to buy; enemies you get for nothing.

Jewish Proverb
The good fellow to everyone is a good friend to no one.

Jewish Proverb
An ounce of blood is worth more than a pound of friendship.

Spanish proverb

Who seeks a faultless friend remains friendless.

Turkish proverb

Friendship with oneself is all-important, because without it one cannot be friends with anyone else in the world.

Eleanor Roosevelt

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 30, 2005, 03:26:20 AM
Life is to be fortified by many friendships. To love and to be loved is the greatest happiness of existence. - Smith, Sydney - 1771-1845, British Writer


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 30, 2005, 03:30:44 AM
The language of friendship is not words but meanings. Henry David Thoreau

Friendship is like money, easier made than kept. Samuel Butler


Our friends show us what we can do, our enemies teach us what we must do. Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

It is well, when judging a friend, to remember that he is judging you with the same godlike and superior impartiality. Arnold Bennett

There are three great friends: an old wife, an old dog, and ready money. Benjamin Franklin

The better part of one's life consists of his friendships. Abraham Lincoln

In poverty and other misfortunes of life, true friends are a sure refuge. The young they keep out of mischief; to the old they are a comfort and aid in their weakness, and those in the prime of life they incite to noble deeds. Aristotle

Friendship is the shadow of the evening, which strengthens with the setting sun of life. Jean de La Fontaine

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 30, 2005, 03:32:58 AM
The loss of a friend is like that of a limb; time may heal the anguish of the wound, but the loss cannot be repaired. Robert Southey

Friendship is one of the sweetest joys of life. Many might have failed beneath the bitterness of their trial had they not found a friend. Charles H. Spurgeon

Friendships are discovered rather than made. Harriet Beecher Stowe

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 30, 2005, 12:26:34 PM
The greatest sweetener of human life is friendship. To raise this to the highest pitch of enjoyment, is a secret which but few discover.

There are only two people who can tell you the truth about yourself - an enemy who has lost his temper and a friend who loves you dearly.

Friendship is a plant which must be often watered

When friendships are real, they are not glass threads, or frostwork, but the solidest things we know. A friend is the first person who come in when the whole world has gone out

Friendship is the source of the greatest pleasures, and without friends even the most agreeable pursuits become tedious. -
Saint Thomas Aquinas

If we would build on a sure foundation in friendship, we must love friends for their sake rather than for our own.
Charlotte Bronte

If you want an accounting of your worth, count your friends. - Merry Browne

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM



dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 30, 2005, 12:28:58 PM
Oh the comfort, the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person, having neither to weigh thoughts or measure words, but pouring them all out, just as they are, chaff and grain together, certain that a faithful hand will take and sift them, keep what is worth keeping, and with a breath of kindness blow the rest away.

I awoke this morning with devout thanksgiving for my friends, the old and the new

Trouble is a sieve through which we sift our acquaintances. Those too big to pass through are our friends.

A friend who is far away is sometimes much nearer than one who is at hand. Is not the mountain far more awe-inspiring and more clearly visible to one passing through the valley than to those who inhabit the mountain?

The world is so empty if one thinks only of mountains, rivers and cities; but to know someone who thinks and feels with us, and who, though distant, is close to us in spirit, this makes the earth for us an inhabited garden.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 30, 2005, 12:31:24 PM
Friends...they cherish one another's hopes. they are kind to one another's dreams."
Henry David Thoreau


Nothing makes the earth seem so spacious as to have friends at a distance; they make the latitudes and longitudes

Confidence is the only bond of friendship

We are all travelers in the wilderness of this world, and the best we can find in our travels is an honest friend

Life without a friend is death without a witness. - Spanish proverb

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 30, 2005, 12:34:02 PM
Friendship is like a flower
that blossoms in sun and shade
A friend who knows its value
will never let it fade

Life's truest happiness is found in the friendship we make along the way

A friend will always
 strengthen you with his prayers
bless you with his love
and encourage you with his hope

Friendship is like playing violin.
Its music may stop every now and then
But the melody goes on forever

Friendship is a precious thread refining, enriching and strengthening the fabric of our lives

Friend shares the memories of yesterday, the joys of today and the hopes of tomorrow

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 30, 2005, 12:45:35 PM
A true friend unbosoms freely, advises justly, assists readily, adventures boldly,
takes all patiently, defends courageously, and continues a friend unchangeably. ~William Penn

Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born
until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born. ~Anais Nin

People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.  

When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are. They are there for a reason you need them to be.  

Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.

 
When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person; and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. Someone also said that the best way to keep friendships from breaking is not to drop them


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on December 08, 2005, 11:51:06 AM
For when two beings who are not friends are near each other there is no meeting, and when friends are far apart there is no separation.

Rare as is true love, true friendship is rarer.

JISKE SIR UPAR TU SAI WOH DUKH KAISA PAAYE!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on December 13, 2005, 06:36:31 AM
"May we be fearless... from friends and enemies...from known and unknown ... from night and day...May all the directions be our allies."


 Atharva Veda



 
Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on December 17, 2005, 11:36:01 AM
The Best of Friends
© Jill Wolf, sent by Wendy Hinson

The best of friends,
Can change a frown,
Into a smile,
when you feel down.

The best of friends,
Will understand,
Your little trials,
And lend a hand.

The best of friends,
Will always share,
Your secret dreams,
Because they care.

The best of friends,
Worth more than gold,
Give all the love,
A heart can hold.

JISKE SIR UPAR TU SAI WOH DUKH KAISA PAAYE!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on December 17, 2005, 11:39:12 AM
"Friends always show their love. What are brothers for if not to share troubles?"- Proverbs 17:17
"Some friendships do not last, but some friends are more loyal than brothers."
- Proverbs 18:24

"Forsake not an old friend; for the new is not comparable to him: a new friend is as new wine; when it is old, thou shall drink it with pleasure."
- Sirach 9:10

"An honest answer is the sign of true friendship."
- Proverbs 24:26

"A friend means well, even when he hurts you. But when an enemy puts his hand round your shoulder - watch out!"
- Proverbs 27:6

"Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up."
- Bible: Ecclesiastes

"My friends are my estate. Forgive me then the avarice to hoard them. They tell me those who were poor early have different views of gold. I don't know how that is. God is not so wary as we, else He would give us no friends, lest we forget Him."
- Emily Dickinson

"The greatest love a person can have for his friends is to give his life for them."
- John 15:13

"A friend is one who strengthens you with prayers, blesses you with love and encourages you with hope."
- sent by Chris

""A faithful friend is a sturdy shelter; he who finds one finds a treasure."
- Sirach 6:14

JISKE SIR UPAR TU SAI WOH DUKH KAISA PAAYE!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on December 17, 2005, 11:41:41 AM
"Cherish your friend, keep faith in him"
- Sirach 27:17 ( sent by Melanie Eilers)

"Those who live in the Lord never see each other for the last time."

" Faithful friends are beyond price: No amount can balance their worth
- Bible ( Old Testament ) Sirach 6:15

"A mirror reflects a man's face, but what he is really like is shown by the kind of friends he chooses."
- Proverbs 27:19
NB: Brendan Johnston notes that this passage usually reads: "As water reflects a face, so a man's heart reflects the man."

"A friend loveth at all times."
- Proverbs 17:17

"Does it make me a stranger that my best friend was born in a manger?"
-dcTalk's song 'Jesus Freak'

"Iron sharpens iron; so a man sharpens his friend's countenance."
-Proverbs 27:17 -Sent in by Frankie

"Friends in Christ are friends forever"
-Sent in by Haley

"Friends are friends forever, if the Lord is the Lord of them
And a friend will not say never, cause the welcome will not end
Though it's hard to let you go
In the Father's hands I know
That a lifetime's not too long... to live as friends."
-Michael W Smith - Sent in by Kellene
 
JISKE SIR UPAR TU SAI WOH DUKH KAISA PAAYE!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on December 17, 2005, 11:01:51 PM
"Thy friendship oft has made my heart to ache: do be my enemy for friendship's sake."
- William Blake, sent in by Lauren
"Tell me what company thou keepst, and I'll tell thee what thou art."
- Miguel de Cervantes (1547 - 1616) Spanish novelist.

"Have no friends not equal to yourself."
- Confucious (551 - 497 BC) Chinese philosopher.

"Fate chooses your relations, you choose your friends."
- Jacques Delille (1738 - 1813) French poet.

"A Friend may well be reckoned the masterpiece of Nature."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803 - 1882) US poet & essayist.

"Keep your friendships in repair."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson (as above)

"A friend is a person with whom I may be sincere. Before him I may think aloud."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson

"The only reward of virtue is virtue; the only way to have a friend is to be one."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson

"It is one of the blessings of old friends that you can afford to be stupid with them."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson

"If a man does not make new acquaintance as he advances through life, he will soon find himself left alone. A man, Sir, should keep his friendship in constant repair."
- Samuel Johnson (1709 - 1784) British lexiographer.

JISKE SIR UPAR TU SAI WOH DUKH KAISA PAAYE!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on December 17, 2005, 11:03:34 PM
"True happiness consists not in the multitude of friends, but in their worth and choice."
- Samuel Johnston, (as above)

"It is more shameful to distrust one's friends than to be deceived by them."
- Duc de la Rochefoucauld (1613 - 1680) French writer.

"If it is abuse - why one is always sure to here of it from one damned good-natured friend or other!"
- Richard Brinsley Sheridan (1751 - 1816) British dramatist.

"Associate yourself with men of good quality if you esteem your own reputation; for 'tis better to be alone than in bad company."
- George Washington (1732 - 1799) US Statesman.

"True friendship is a plant of slow growth, and must undergo and withstand the shocks of adversity before it is entitled to the appellation."
- George Washington, (as above)

"I can never think of promoting my convenience at the expense of a friend's interest and inclination."
- George Washington, (as above)

"Should auld aquaintance be forgot, And never brought to min'?"
- Robert Burns (1759 - 1796) Scottish poet.

"It is not so much our friends' help that helps us as the confident knowledge that they will help us."
- Epicurus (341 - 270 BC) Greek philosopher.

"It is not so much our friends' help that helps us as the confident knowledge that they will help us."
- Epicurus (as above)

"These are called the pious frauds of friendship."
- Henry Fielding (1707 - 1754) British novelist.

"Always, Sir, set a high value on spontaneous kindness. he whose inclination prompts him to cultivate your friendship of his own accord, will love you more than one whom you have been at pains to attach to you."
- Samuel Johnston (1709 - 1784) British lexicographer.

"Sir, I look upon every day to be lost, in which I do not make a new acquantaince."
- Samuel Johnston, (as above)

"To like and dislike the same things, that is indeed true friendship."
- Sallust (86 - 334 BC) Roman historian

"One loyal friend is worth ten thousand relatives."
- Euripides, Greek playwrite

"My friends are my estate."
- Emily Dickinson

JISKE SIR UPAR TU SAI WOH DUKH KAISA PAAYE!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on December 17, 2005, 11:05:26 PM
"Be slow to fall into friendship; but when thou art in, continue firm and constant."
- Socrates, Greek Philosopher

"Friendship is the only cement that will ever hold the world together"
- Woodrow Wilson

"Anybody can sympathise with the sufferings of a friend, but it requires a very fine nature to sympathise with a friend's success."
- Oscar Wilde

"Those friends thou hast, and their adoption tried,
Grapple them to thy soul with hoops of steel;
But do not dull thy palm with entertainment
Of each new-hatch'd, unfledg'd comrade."
- William Shakespeare

"Friendship with oneself is all-important because without it one cannot be friends with anyone else in the world."
- Eleanor Roosevelt

"If you judge people, you have no time to love them."
- Mother Teresa

"I will speak ill of no man, and speak all the good I know of everybody."
- Benjamin Franklin

"Misfortune shows those who are not really friends."
- Aristotle

"The bird a nest,
the spider a web,
man friendship."
- William Blake

"Friendship is love without his wings"
- Lord Byron

"Friendship is love with wings."

"Never injure a friend, even in jest."
- Cicero

"When true friends meet in adverse hour;
'Tis like a sunbeam through a shower.
A watery way an instant seen,
The darkly closing clouds between."
- Sir Walter Scott

"... no man is useless
while he has a friend."
- Robert Louis Stevenson

"A true friend stabs you in the front."
- Oscar Wilde

"Think where man's glory most begins and ends,
And say my glory was I had such friends."
- William Yeats

"Grief can take care of itself, but to get the full value of joy you must have somebody to divide it with."
- Mark Twain

"Thus nature has no love for solitude, and always leans, as it were, on some support; and the sweetest support is found in the most intimate friendship."
- Cicero

"Advice is like snow; the softer it falls, the longer it dwells upon, and the deeper it sinks into the mind."
- Samuel Taylor Coleridge

"The best mirror is an old friend."
- George Herbert

"With every friend I love who has been taken into the brown bosom of the earth a part of me has been buried there; but their contribution to my being of happiness, strength and understanding remains to sustain me in an altered world."
- Helen Keller

"What is a friend? A single soul in two bodies."
- Aristotle

"The friendship that can cease has never been real."
- Saint Jerome

"I count myselt in nothing else so happy
As in a soul rememb'ring my good friends."
- William Shakespeare

"I find friendship to be like wine, raw when new, ripened with age, the true old man's milk and restorative cordial."
- Thomas Jefferson


JISKE SIR UPAR TU SAI WOH DUKH KAISA PAAYE!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on December 17, 2005, 11:06:56 PM
Sir, more than kisses, letters, mingle souls;
For, thus friends absent speak."
- John Donne

"Too late we learn, a man must hold his friend
Unjudged, accepted, trusted to the end."
- John Boyle O'Reilly

"Friends have all things in common."
- Plato

"Without friends no one would choose to live, though he had all other goods."
- Artistotle

"My best friend is the one who brings out the best in me."
- Henry Ford

"The making of friends, who are real friends, is the best token we have of a man's success in life."
- Edward Everett Hale

"Except in cases of necessity, which are rare, leave your friend to learn unpleasant things from his enemies; they are ready enough to tell them."
- Oliver Wendell Holmes

"The most I can do for my friend is simply to be his friend. I have no wealth to bestow on him. If he knows that I am happy in loving him, he will want no other reward. Is not friendship divine in this?"
- Henry David Thoreau

"Friendship that flows from the heart cannot be frozen by adversity, as the water that flows from the spring cannogt congeal in winter."
- James Fenimore Cooper

"Those that want friends to open themselves unto are cannibals of their own hearts."
- Fracis Bacon

"Friendship without self interest is one of the rare and beautiful things in life."
- James Francis Byrnes

"Friendship is the only thing in the world concerning the usefulness of which all mankind are agreed."
- Cicero

"I do not wish to treat friendships daintily, but with the roughest courage. When they are real, they are not glass threads or frost-work, but the solidest thing we know."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson

"Do not save your loving speeches
For your friends till they are dead;
Do not write them on their tombstones,
Speak them rather now instead.
- Anna Cummins

 
JISKE SIR UPAR TU SAI WOH DUKH KAISA PAAYE!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on December 17, 2005, 11:08:13 PM
"True friendship's laws are by this rule express'd,
Welcome the coming, speed the parting guest."
- Alexander Pope

"A friend is, as it were, a second self.
- Cicero (Sent by Nigar Baimova)

"The most beautiful thing we can experience is the mysterious, it is the true sourse of art, science, and friendship."
- Albert Einstien (Sent by Brandon Merenda)

"But friendship is precious, not only in the shade, but in the sunshine of life; and thanks to a benevolent arrangement of things, the greater part of life is sunshine."
- Thomas Jefferson (Sent by Shawn)

"The world would be so lonely, in sunny hours or gray. Without the gift of friendship, to help us every day."
- Hilda Brett Farr

"All love that has not friendship for its base, is like a mansion built upon the sand."
- Ella Wheeler Wilcox

"In a friend you find a second self."
- Isabelle Norton

"Never shall I forget the days I spent with you. Continue to be my friend, as you will always find me yours."
- Ludwig van Beethoven

"Walking with a friend in the dark is better than walking alone in the light."
- Helen Keller

"Happiness is time spent with a friend and looking foward to sharing time with them again."
- Lee Wilkinson

"Ah, how good it feels...the hand of an old friend"
- Mary Englebright

"A friend should be a master at guessing and keeping still."
- Friedrich Nietzsche

"Friendship is a single soul dwellings in two bodies."
- Aristotle

"A friend to all is a friend to none."
- Aristotle

"Little do men percieve what solitue is, and how far it extendeth. For a crowd is not company, and faces are but a gallery of pictures, and talk but a tinkling cymbal, where there is no love."
- Francis Bacon

"Friendship is the only thing in the world concerning the usefulness of which all mankind are agreed."
- Cicero

"I do not wish to treat friendships daintily, but with the roughest courage. When they are real, they are not glass threads or frost-work, but the solidest thing we know."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson

JISKE SIR UPAR TU SAI WOH DUKH KAISA PAAYE!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on December 17, 2005, 11:09:14 PM
"The only thing to do is to hug one's friends tight and do one's job."
- Edith Wharton

"Never injure a friend, even in jest."
- Cicero

"When true friends meet in adverse hour;
'Tis like a sunbeam through a shower.
A watery way an instant seen,
The darkly closing clouds between."
- Sir Walter Scott

"... no man is useless
while he has a friend."
- Robert Louis Stevenson


"Never shall i forget the days i spent with you . continue to be my friend, as you will always find me yours."
-Ludwig Van Beethoven

"Be slow in choosing your friends; slower in changing."
-Benjamin Franklin -Sent in by André

The following five quotes were sent in by Handan
"Go often to the house of thy friend, for weeds choke the unused path."
-Ralph Waldo Emerson, American writer and philosopher (1803-1882)

"Be slow in choosing a friend, slower in changing."
-Benjamin Franklin

" 'Stay' is a charming word in a friends vocabulary."
-Louisa Mary Alcott [1832-1888], American writer, reformist

"Good communication is as stimulating as black coffee, and just as hard to sleep after."
-Anne Morrow Lindbergh

"When we seek to discover the best in others, we somehow bring out the best in ourselves."
-William Arthur Ward

"Friendship? Yes Please."
-Charles Dickens - Sent in by Steffi

"In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends."
- Martin Luther King Jr.

JISKE SIR UPAR TU SAI WOH DUKH KAISA PAAYE!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on December 24, 2005, 10:21:26 PM
Good dishes taste flat if there be no company of friends and relations to partake of the dishes with us, but when they join us, the dishes acquire additional flavour. The same is the case with the Sai Leelamrit - the nectar in the form of Sai's leelas. This nectar we cannot partake alone. Friends and brothers have to join us - the more the better.


JISKE SIR UPAR TU SAI WOH DUKH KAISA PAAYE!


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on December 24, 2005, 10:54:00 PM
There's more, much more, to Christmas Than candlelight and cheer; It's the spirit of sweet friendship That brightens all year. It's thoughtfulness and kindness, It's hope reborn again, For peace, for understanding, And for goodwill to men!"


JISKE SIR UPAR TU SAI WOH DUKH KAISA PAAYE!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on December 25, 2005, 01:17:35 AM
JAI SAI RAM!!!

I live by the dictate; Jisko Jiska. That’s why I accept whatever comes my way as a gift from above. What keeps me going through this mundane existence is my philosophy in life: Life is a great leveller. When things don’t go as planned, it’s comforting to think that a better day is around the corner.

OM SAI RAM!!!
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on January 02, 2006, 07:11:13 AM
JAI SAI RAM!!!

Deva means divine, ajijo means friend -- a divine friend. This has to become the very centre of your life: overflow with friendliness towards each person -- man, woman -- animal, bird, tree. The whole existence is full of soul, full of god. It is a very vital existence, life is dancing all around, but one can see this life only when one falls into a deep intimacy with existence. That intimacy I call friendship.

The scientific training has taught human beings to be inimical to nature; that has been one of the most harmful things that has ever happened. Science has taught people that we are to fight with nature, as if nature is there to destroy us; we have to conquer it. That stupid attitude has made man utterly disoriented from nature, cut away; he has lost his roots. And that is the only problem we are facing now.

People are searching for meditation, prayer, new ways of being, but the deeper search and the more basic search is how to get rooted in existence again. Call it meditation, call it prayer, or whatever you will, but the essential thing is how to get rooted in existence again. We have become trees which are uprooted, and nobody else is responsible except us with our own stupid idea of conquering nature. We are part of it; how can the part conquer the whole?

Befriend it, love it, trust it, and slowly slowly in that friendship, in that love, in that trust, intimacy arises; you come closer. Nature comes closer to you and nature starts revealing its secrets. Its ultimate secret is god. It is revealed only to those who are really friends of existence.

OM SAI RAM!!!
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Post by: SS91 on January 04, 2006, 04:35:08 PM
om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai
om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai
om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai
om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai
om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai
om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai
om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai
om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai

BABA SAI I AM REALLY VERY EAGER TO GET THE GOOD NEWS FROM MY FRIEND.

KINDLY HEAR TO MY PRAYERS BABA SAI.

SAI BLESS US ALL.

JAISAIRAM!!!!!!!!!!

subhasrini
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!
Let us pray at the feet of Sai Baba who is the incarnation of all gods and protector of all, to show mercy on us, and increase our devotion towards him.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on January 05, 2006, 04:44:58 AM
JAI SAI RAM!!!

To love without condition....To talk without intention.....To give without reason.....
To care without expectation.....

Is the heart of a true friend.....

OM SAI RAM!!!
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on January 15, 2006, 06:39:24 AM
Your friends will know you better in the first minute they meet you than your acquaintances will know you in a thousand years. - Bach, Richard - 1936-, American Author


JISKE SIR UPAR TU SAI WOH DUKH KAISA PAAYE!


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on February 23, 2006, 04:35:48 AM
JAI SAI RAM!!!

Horror gripped the heart of a World War  soldier, as he saw his lifelong friend fell in battle. Caught in a trench with continuous gunfire whizzing over his head, the soldier asked his Lieutenant if he could go out into the "no man's land" between the trenches to bring his fallen comrade back.
 
"You can go," said the Lieutenant, "but I don't think it will be worth it. Your friend is probably dead and you may throw your life away." The Lieutenant's words didn't matter, and the soldier went anyway.
 
Miraculously, he managed to reach his fiend, hoisted him onto his shoulder and brought him back to their company's trench. As the two of them tumbled in together to the bottom of the trench, the officer checked the wounded soldier, and then looked kindly at his friend. "I told you it wouldn't be worth it," he said. "Your friend is dead and you are mortally wounded.
 
"It was worth it, Sir," said the soldier.

"What do you mean by worth it ?" responded the Lieutenant. "Your friend is dead."

"Yes Sir," the private answered, "but it was worth it because when I got to him, he was still alive and I got the chance to hear him say....."JIM........... I KNEW YOU'D COME."
 
Many times in life, whether a thing is worth doing or not, really depends on how you look at it. Take up all your courage and do something your heart tells you to do, so that you may not regret not doing it later in your life....
 
"A true friend is one who walks in, when the rest of the world walks out"

OM SAI RAM!!!
 

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on March 06, 2006, 04:05:59 AM
Eleanor Roosevelt: Quotes: Friendship
He who loses money, loses much; He who loses a friend, loses much more; He who loses faith, loses all.
St. Basil, Greek religious leader: Quotes: Friendship
He who sows courtesy reaps friendship, and he who plants kindness gathers love.

Lord Byron: Quotes: Friendship
Hearts will break - yet brokenly, live on.

Nigerian Proverb: Quotes: Friendship
Hold a true friend with both your hands.

Oscar Wilde: Quotes: Friendship
I always like to know everything about my new friends, and nothing about my old ones.

Charles R. Swindoll: Quotes: Friendship
I cannot even imagine where I would be today were it not for that handful of friends who have given me a heart full of joy. Let's face it, friends make life a lot more fun.

Ralph Waldo Emerson: Quotes: Friendship
I do not wish to treat friendships daintily, but with the roughest courage.

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Eleanor Roosevelt: Quotes: Friendship
He who loses money, loses much; He who loses a friend, loses much more; He who loses faith, loses all.
St. Basil, Greek religious leader: Quotes: Friendship
He who sows courtesy reaps friendship, and he who plants kindness gathers love.

Lord Byron: Quotes: Friendship
Hearts will break - yet brokenly, live on.

Nigerian Proverb: Quotes: Friendship
Hold a true friend with both your hands.

Oscar Wilde: Quotes: Friendship
I always like to know everything about my new friends, and nothing about my old ones.

Charles R. Swindoll: Quotes: Friendship
I cannot even imagine where I would be today were it not for that handful of friends who have given me a heart full of joy. Let's face it, friends make life a lot more fun.

Ralph Waldo Emerson: Quotes: Friendship
I do not wish to treat friendships daintily, but with the roughest courage.



Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on March 06, 2006, 04:10:11 AM
Japanese proverb: Friend Quotations
When the character of a man is not clear to you, look at his friends.
Christian H. Godefroy: Friend Quotations
When we hurt each other we should write it down in the sand, so the winds of forgiveness can make it go away for good. When we help each other we should chisel it in stone, lest we never forget the love of a friend.

W. Somerset Maugham: Friend Quotations
When you choose your friends, don't be short-changed by choosing personality over character.

Wayne Dyer: Friend Quotations
When you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself.

Timothy Bentley: Friend Quotations
Whenever you're in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it.

That factor is attitude.
Titus Muccius Plautus: Friend Quotations
Where there are friends, there is wealth.

Art Buchwald: Friend Quotations
Whether it's the best of times or the worst of times, it's the only time we've got.

Babe Didrikson Zaharias: Friend Quotations
Winning has always meant much to me, but winning friends has meant the most.

Aristotle: Friend Quotations
Without friends, no one would want to live, even if he had all other goods.

Dale Carnegie: Friend Quotations
You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on March 31, 2006, 11:17:47 AM
Give me one friend, just one, who meets The needs of all my varying moods. - Clark, Esther M. - American Poet


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on April 01, 2006, 08:09:42 AM
JAI SAI RAM!!!

Its HE....Its HE.....and Its HIM.  Once we learn to make HIM our best friend.....then we don't need anything but HIS friendship always....

MAY BABA SAI BLESS EACH ONE OF US TO UNDERSTAND HIS FRIENDSHIP....

OM SAI RAM!!!
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on April 01, 2006, 09:23:13 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Ramesh Ramnani

JAI SAI RAM!!!

Its HE....Its HE.....and Its HIM.  Once we learn to make HIM our best friend.....then we don't need anything but HIS friendship always....

MAY BABA SAI BLESS EACH ONE OF US TO UNDERSTAND HIS FRIENDSHIP....

OM SAI RAM!!!



Remember only God is your true friend

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on April 03, 2006, 12:34:44 AM
TRUE FRIENDSHIP NOT ONLY WITHSTANDS ADVERSITY,
IT GROWS STRONGER FOR IT.


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on April 07, 2006, 08:43:34 AM
Friendship, of itself a holy tie, is made more sacred by adversity. - Colton, Charles Caleb - 1780-1832, British Sportsman Writer

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: SS91 on April 12, 2006, 04:26:56 PM
Divine is ideal friendship

 

From the time that the journey of his life begins, man likes not to be lonely. His loneliness frightens him. He is afraid to look into it. Crushing is the burden of solitude. Heavy is the load of life that weighs down his spirit, if all alone he has to bear it. Often is the firmament overcast and the clouds gather over his head. Dreary darkness falls upon him and weariness of spirit takes possession of him. Ever in search is he of some one who shares the unbearable burden of life and sustains him in his direst straits.

In living together with his kith and kin, man finds courage and comfort. When they work in unison, they become stronger and better able to go through rough times. Light becomes the burden and easy the yoke of life. Then does life take a brilliant color. They find safety to sail the sea of life in one and the same boat. Mutual love and common interest bind them together. The bond between them is the closest.

Next in worth to man's love to his relatives, is his attachment to his friends. Friendly love knits them together. Relatives are born; friends are made. Man's acquaintance begins with those who come across his path. From acquaintance is born familiarity between persons actuated by same motives and from familiarity grows friendship that ardently seeks alliance based on mutual trust.

A friend is a staff upon whom one can lean. He is a tower of strength in one's weakness, a solace in sorrow, a reliable counsel and a priceless asset at all times.

Let me face life with my friend with joint fervor and wisdom. Let us two bear each other's joys and sorrows and give help and receive help. Let us trust and confide in each other. Let us open our minds and open our hearts to each other.

Let us be everything to each other. With close intimacy of friendship, let our two hearts grow into one. United in the bond of friendship, let us two act as one. Let us make each other's interests and concerns our own. Adversity is the touchstone of friendship. In prosperity and in adversity, whether good or ill betide, let us not forsake each other unto our dying day. Let us be inseparable in weal or woe.

Let us bear with each other's infirmities and forgive each other's failings. Let us never fail to give each other his due. Let us each give his heart to gain the heart of the other. Let us live like brothers. Let us believe that in the death of his friend, he that remains behind loses his other self. Happy is the land where abundance of congenial friendship is found. True friendship is the Lord God's delicious boon.

Thou art he, Ahura Mazda, whom Zarathushtra, when friendless and forlorn, implored to help him as a friend would help his friend. When his kith and kin disowned him and his wavering followers forsook him, thou, his ever true friend stood by his side and helped him.

We seek thee, as Zarathushtra sought thee. We lift up our hands unto thee in invocation seeking thy friendship. Everything works for the best, when we have thee for our friend. Be thou our friend this day and all the days of our life,  never-failing Friend of ours.


Jaisairam.

 



subhasrini
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!
Let us pray at the feet of Sai Baba who is the incarnation of all gods and protector of all, to show mercy on us, and increase our devotion towards him.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on April 21, 2006, 09:30:40 PM
Do not have evil-doers for friends, do not have low people for friends: have virtuous people for friends, have for friends the best of men. - Dhammapada, - BC 300-, Buddhist Collection of Moral Aphorism



Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on April 23, 2006, 04:45:48 AM
JAI SAI RAM!!!

Listen to your heart

Horror gripped the heart of a World War I soldier, as he saw his lifelong friend fell in battle. Caught in a trench with continuous gunfire whizzing over his head, the soldier asked his Lieutenant if he could go out into the no man's land between the trenches to bring his fallen comrade back.

You can go, said the Lieutenant, but I don't think it will be worth it. Your friend is probably dead and you may throw your life away. The Lieutenant's words didn't matter, and the soldier went anyway.

Miraculously, he managed to reach his fiend, hoisted him onto his shoulder and brought him back to their company's trench. As the two of them tumbled in together to the bottom of the trench, the officer checked the wounded soldier, and then looked kindly at his friend. I told you it wouldn't be worth it, he said. Your friend is dead and you are mortally wounded.

It was worth it, Sir, said the soldier.

What do you mean by worth it? responded the Lieutenant. Your friend is dead.
 
Yes Sir, the private answered, but it was worth it because when I got to him, he was still alive and I got the chance to let him say..JIM.. I KNEW YOU'D COME.?

Many times in life, whether a thing is worth doing or not, really depends on how you look at it. Take up all your courage and do something your heart tells you to do, so that you may not regret not doing it later in your life?.

A true friend is one who walks in, when the rest of the world walks out?

OM SAI RAM!!!
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on April 27, 2006, 01:22:15 PM
OMSAIRAM!SAI BABA THANKYOU FOR MAKING MY FRIEND SUBHADRA SO HAPPY ON YOUR DAY GURUWAAR BABA.

BABA THANKYOU FOR YOUR DARSHAN.


Baba Sai I am so happy.

As I thanked our beloved Dipika for the gift I just

Received a call from a very true friend after 15 years.

I am so happy to hear from her.

thankyou for making me so happy today on your BABA SAI.

I am very happy.Thankyou BABA SAI.

BLESS US ALL ALWAYS.

JAISAIRAM.

subhasrini
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!
Let us pray at the feet of Sai Baba who is the incarnation of all gods and protector of all, to show mercy on us, and increase our devotion towards him.


Sai baba bless my friend always.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on May 03, 2006, 06:05:04 AM
Friends Of Allah


We are drowned in sins. Those who disobey Allah, cannot be His Friends whilst committing sins and living a sinful life. We should make a firm resolution, now, here from today we want to become the Friends of Allah and we want to remain the Friends of Allah until our departure from this world. Allah is the best friend, because His Friendship will be beneficial, not only in this world but also in the Hereafter.
How can one become the Friend of Allah Ta’aalaa? Who is the Friend of Allah? 1 urge you to listen carefully to what Allah says in the Glorious Qur'aan


Behold! Verily on the Friends of Allah there will be no fear, nor will they grieve. (They are) those who accept Imaan and adopt Taqwaa. (10:62-63)

Indeed, the Friends of Allah Ta’aalaa, will neither fear nor grieve. They will remain in peace and contentment. Who are they? They are those who accept Imaan and after accepting Imaan, adopt Taqwaa.
The way and the method of becoming a Friend of Allah Ta’aalaa is to accept Imaan, i.e. to believe in everything that was brought to us by our Beloved Rasool sallallahu alayhi wasallam without a shadow of doubt
Only those are true Believers who believe in Allah and His Messenger and thereafter they do not doubt. (49:15)

Thus the Friends of Allah Ta’aalaa are those who accept Imaan in what was sent by Allah through His Beloved Rasool sallallahu alayhi wasallam, and after accepting Imaan they adopt Taqwaa.

http://www.islaam.org/Taqwaa/taqwaa.html

Sai baba let your holy ltous feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on May 03, 2006, 06:14:48 AM
The Highest Form of Friendship
"When a friendship has the service of God for its object"


Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength
and with all your mind"; and, "Love your neighbor as yourself." (Luke 10:27 NIV)

True friends look at each other through the eyes of God. This means that we must first be IN God so that we have HIS eyes. The friendship must glorify God, serve God, enjoy God, bring us closer to God.

"The devil sets many snares here which are hardly detected by those who are content to serve God in a superficial way." (St. Teresa of Avila)

True friends look at each other through the eyes of God. This means that we must first be IN God so that we have HIS eyes. The friendship must glorify God, serve God, enjoy God, bring us closer to God.

"The devil sets many snares here which are hardly detected by those who are content to serve God in a superficial way." (St. Teresa of Avila)

True friends look at each other through the eyes of God. This means that we must first be IN God so that we have HIS eyes. The friendship must glorify God, serve God, enjoy God, bring us closer to God.

"The devil sets many snares here which are hardly detected by those who are content to serve God in a superficial way." (St. Teresa of Avila)

From the wisdom of St. Teresa, we are reminded that when a friendship has been ensnared by the devil (in other words, belongs more to this world than to the service of God) "it prevents her from loving all others equally, makes her resent any injury done to her friend, causes her to wish she had something to give her favorite, to seek for opportunities to talk with her often, to tell her how much she loves her and other nonsense of the sort, rather than of how much she loves God. These friendships rarely serve to forward the love of God." (from The Way of Perfection, Chap. IV,5)

A true friend first loves God.
A true friendship puts God in its center.
A friendship that reaches its highest form
is one that reaches out to others
and spreads the love of God far and wide.

http://wordbytes.org/SpirGrowth/friendship.htm

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM




dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on May 03, 2006, 06:32:06 AM
OM SAI RAM.  It was sheer love and devotion, you may call it friendship with Baba that I decided to develop a website on Baba. With whatever resources I had started developing this site, though it took lot of time but it is in front of you, I knew one thing with Baba with Me nothing could stop me. Lots of time out of frustration and when I go weak thoughts of making this website commercial do come into my mind, but then I go to HIM and look towards him and automatically the world changes, How ? I don't know. I have reached this far and I know WE(BABA and me)  will go lot further. Because HE is with me.

In developing this site we had gathered information from various sources. Knowingly or Unknowingly if we have infringed with any rights or may have hurt any body's feeling, do forgive us. We never intended to do so, and hurting anybody's feelings and thoughts never.

We intend to bring out and serve the people with the nectar that purifies you soul. SAI.

Soon We are coming out with a channel on Sai Thoughts. Material contained in this channel are thoughts of various Sai Devotees around the world and should not be taken as advice or teachings of the site (SHIRDI.ORG)

OM SAI RAM - Scheinky
 
http://www.shirdi.org/disclaimer_shirdiorg.htm

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on May 03, 2006, 06:41:34 AM
Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe unto him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up."


-- The Bible: Ecclesiastes 4:9-10.


"A friend loves at all times."

~ The Bible: Proverbs 17, 17.



"A companion loves some agreeable qualities which a man may possess, but a friend loves the man himself."

~ James Boswell (1763)





Words begin with ABC. Numbers begin with 123. Music begins with do, re, mi. And friendship begins with you and me!

~ Unknown.


"There is nothing worth the wear of winning, but laughter and the love of friends."

-- Hillaire Belloc.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on May 20, 2006, 03:35:09 AM
One loyal friend is worth ten thousand relatives. - Epicurus, - c.341-270 BC, Greek Philosopher



Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on May 20, 2006, 03:40:38 AM
“A good friend who points out mistakes and imperfections and rebukes evil is to be respected as if he reveals a secret of hidden treasure.”


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on May 20, 2006, 03:50:55 AM
"Friendship is a knot tied by angels' hands"


      "Life is nothing without friendship."


      "No distance of place or lapse of time can lessen the friendship of those who are thoroughly persuaded of each other's worth."
Robert Southey quotes (English poet and writer of prose. 1774-1843)

      "True friendship is seen through the heart, not through the eyes."

      "No love, no friendship can cross the path of our destiny without leaving some mark on it forever."

"Friendship is a sheltering tree."

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on May 28, 2006, 06:35:30 AM
Quote of the day !
There are three faithful friends, an old wife, an old dog, and ready money. - Franklin, Benjamin - 1706-1790, American Scientist



Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on June 05, 2006, 07:05:01 AM
Friendship does for people
what the sun does for flowers.
Pour it on and watch them blossom..[;)][;)]...



Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on June 07, 2006, 05:53:21 AM
It is easy enough to be friendly to one's friends. But to befriend the one who regards himself as your enemy is the quintessence of true religion. The other is mere business. - Gandhi, Mahatma - 1869-1948, Indian Political

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on June 11, 2006, 11:20:48 PM
Let your best be for your friend... - Gibran, Kahlil - 1883-1931, Lebanese Poet


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on June 11, 2006, 11:23:01 PM
The Master - A True Friend

Once a Master takes upon Himself immense load of responsibility and
He tells the disciple that he is neither body nor mind nor
intellect, but something more glorious - soul or spirit, Jiva
realises that he is no longer a slave of his senses engaged in
sensual pursuits, but finds an inner satisfaction, peace and
serenity which keeps him engrossed all the time at the seat of the
very Self. All this is the work of the Master, and much more
besides. To wash clean a jiva from the impurities of the world is no
mean task, but it is absolutely necessary for a spiritual life.

He has to be pulled up from his senses, mind and intellect, and this
no one but a Master can achieve. To stop the course of the mighty
rush of sensory currents flowing headlong into the world, and to
hold them at one center, is a gigantic task in itself. After the
preliminary cleansing process, He pulls scales from the inner eye
and gives it vision and Light; and He breaks the seal on the inner
ear, making the jiva hear the inner music of the soul. By His
individual attention and care He makes an adept out of trash and
scrap - capable of understanding and enjoying the unspoken language
and unwritten law of God, and of doing actions without the aid of
outer organs and faculties.

He always saves His disciples, no matter how dangerous a situation
they may be in. His protecting arms serve as a shield and buckler,
and the disciple leads a charmed life, as it were. The Master does
all this simply because He has taken charge of a jiva; there is no
obligation on the disciple's part, nor does he necessarily know
about it. Again, the Master takes upon himself the burden of his
disciples' sins and iniquities.

Sadguru is the real friend of the disciple. He saves him from tense
and hopeless situations. He comes to his aid when he has despaired
of all hope and relief, and is surrounded by seemingly powerful
forces arrayed against him, From time to time the disciple feels the
overpowering influence of the Master working for his good. At times
He works in ways that are difficult for the disciple to understand.
just as a mother waits in the early morning hours for her sleeping
child to awaken, in the same way, even more anxiously, the Master
looks forward wistfully to the time when His disciple, steeped in
deep ignorance born of matter and mind, will raise his head, look
toward Him and gladden His heart.

The loving care of the Master becomes more manifest at the time of
the disciple's final leave-taking from the world. The Luminous Form
of the Master appears to take charge of the departing spirit and
guide it to the new world, to the judgment seat of God.

After that, He takes it to whatever region He thinks best, for
further discipline and advancement on the path.

Last but not least, the Master feeds the jiva with the Bread of Life
and quenches his thirst with the Water of Life (Naam) until he grows
into spiritual adolescence and is capable of a certain amount of
self-reliance. The touch of the spark of Naam God-in-Action or the
controlling power of God) burns out the storehouse of unfructified
karma of ages upon ages, thus rendering them incapable of
germinating in the future.

Jai Sai Ram.

"saisubhasrini" <saisubhasri@hotmail.com>

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on June 15, 2006, 03:11:42 AM
Let there be no purpose in friendship save the deepening of the spirit. - Gibran, Kahlil - 1883-1931, Lebanese Poet


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on June 20, 2006, 11:51:32 PM
People abuse their own friends and family, but it is only after performing many meritorious acts that one gets a human birth. Why then come to Shirdi and slander people?

Sai baba


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on June 20, 2006, 11:53:22 PM
Choose friends who will stick to you till the end, through thick and thin.

Sai baba



Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: SS91 on June 21, 2006, 08:21:40 PM
Those who think that Baba is only in Shirdi have totally failed

to know me

Without my grace, not even a leaf can move



Shirdi Sai

subhasrini
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!
Let us pray at the feet of Sai Baba who is the incarnation of all gods and protector of all, to show mercy on us, and increase our devotion towards him.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on June 27, 2006, 03:35:15 AM
Think where man's glory most begins and ends, And say my glory was I had such friends. - Yeats, William Butler - 1865-1939, Irish Poet



Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: SS91 on July 06, 2006, 02:54:04 AM
Power of Friendship  

  Whenever a person is depressed he/she usually

wants to be with a true friend or atleast talk with him/her.
 


subhasrini
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!
Let us pray at the feet of Sai Baba who is the incarnation of all gods and protector of all, to show mercy on us, and increase our devotion towards him.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: SS91 on October 12, 2006, 08:37:42 PM
True friendship isn't seen with the eyes, it is felt with the heart, when there is trust, understanding, loyalty, and sharing.  True friendship is a rare feeling, but when it is found it has a profound impact on our well-being, strength, and character.


True friendship does not need elaborate gifts
or spectacular events in order to be valuable or valued.

To ensure long-lasting quality and satisfaction,
true friendship only needs a few key ingredients:

undying loyalty, unmatched understanding, unsurpassed trust, deep and soulful secrets, and endless sharing.

These ingredients, mixed with personality and a sense of humor, can make a friendship last a lifetime!

JAISAIRAM.





subhasrini
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!
Let us pray at the feet of Sai Baba who is the incarnation of all gods and protector of all, to show mercy on us, and increase our devotion towards him.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: SS91 on October 12, 2006, 08:38:42 PM
) "Make new friends and keep the old, one is silver and the other gold"

2) "Make new friends, both young and old, one in Silver, the other Gold."

3) "Make new friends but keep the old, some are silver and others are Gold"


4}"I have a hand, and you have another; put them together and we have each other."


"Strangers are just friends waiting to happen."


- (sent by Steve Klaka)



subhasrini
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!
Let us pray at the feet of Sai Baba who is the incarnation of all gods and protector of all, to show mercy on us, and increase our devotion towards him.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on October 13, 2006, 11:40:31 AM
JAI SAI RAM!!!

This is a fantastic part of the world of friendship. two friends in true friendship accept each other as they are... with the shortcomings and drawbacks. Equally well! They show you the path to correct yourself if you go wrong... but never do they dislike you for going wrong.

Accepting each other with all the shortcomings is the most beautiful and out of the world part of friendship. No other relationship possess this capability. In all the relations, somewhere or the other you tend to dislike your companion for his/her shortcomings.

Best is the friend who accept you with your shortcomings and true and loyal is the friend who tries to correct your mistakes!

You can never go wrong if you have a true friend by your side. Even if you do... you will stand firm to face all the odds...holding your friend's hand!

Thus - Thing that is impossible anywhere else, is the most common in true friendships. BLIND TRUST is what I call it. Accepting your friend with his shortcomings and drawbacks is possible for you... only if you are a TRUE FRIEND.

OM SAI RAM!!!
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Post by: Dipika on December 02, 2006, 10:43:04 PM
Through the relationship we change. The Gurbani (Sri Guru Granth Sahib, SGGS) reveals to us that friendship with the fool — the false, corrupt, Manmukh (self-willed, a person in worldly consciousness etc.), wicked, pompous (proud or arrogant), unrighteous, untruthful, greedy, unfaithful and so on — is founded on false foundation, therefore, lasts "for only a few short days" and "never works out right". The implication is that if we have friends with good qualities or virtues, our nature will change accordingly. However, on the other hand, if we make friends with someone who has bad qualities, he (or she) will be a bad influence on us for such "friendship leads to corruption". Accordingly, the Great Souls tell us that one can tell who you are by the company you keep! Thus goes the proverbial expression "you are the company you keep".

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on December 02, 2006, 10:45:05 PM
Then, what's the enduring friendship? If we want to move in life in Nanak-like consciousness, the Gurbani's instruction is to make friends with God. The goal of any relationship is to get to know the other better. But that’s a little tricky with God, since we can’t just go out for a cup of tea with Him and chat about every little thing (although He is always with us!). That’s why, to learn about Him and to know Him the best way, we are advised by the Gurbani to hang out with His Gurmukhs (Enlightened Beings) more often and become the Gurmukhs ourselves. God reveals Himself to the Gurmukhs. Also, the Gurbani urges to focus "consciousness on the Satguru".

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
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Post by: Dipika on December 02, 2006, 10:50:25 PM
"May there always be work for your hands to do, may your purse always hold a coin or two. May the sun always shine on your windowpane, may a rainbow be certain to follow each rain. May the hand of a friend always be near you, may God fill your heart with gladness to cheer you."
- Irish Blessing

"A cheerful friend is like asunny day spreading brightness all around."
- John Lubcock ( English Astronomer )

"A cheerful friend is like asunny day spreading brightness all around."
- John Lubcock ( English Astronomer )

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on December 02, 2006, 10:53:15 PM
"An honest answer is the sign of true friendship."
- Proverbs 24:26

"A friend means well, even when he hurts you. But when an enemy puts his hand round your shoulder - watch out!"
- Proverbs 27:6

"Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up."
- Bible: Ecclesiastes

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on December 06, 2006, 11:03:18 PM
He who loses money, loses much; He who loses a friend, loses much more; He who loses faith, loses all.

He who sows courtesy reaps friendship, and he who plants kindness gathers love


I do not wish to treat friendships daintily, but with the roughest courage. When they are real, they are not glass threads or frost-work, but the solidest thing we know.

"Choose your friends like your books, few but choice."
-- American Proverb

"My best friend is the man who in wishing me well wishes it for my sake.
-- Aristotle

"Misfortune shows those who are not really friends."
-- Aristotle

"What is a friend? A single soul in two bodies."
-- Aristotle

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: SS91 on December 07, 2006, 03:54:13 AM
"I count myselt in nothing else so happy
As in a soul rememb'ring my good friends."

- William Shakespeare



subhasrini
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!
Let us pray at the feet of Sai Baba who is the incarnation of all gods and protector of all, to show mercy on us, and increase our devotion towards him.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on December 12, 2006, 10:51:45 AM
Choose friends who will stick to you till the end, through thick and thin.

Sai baba


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on December 12, 2006, 10:54:23 AM
"Friends are God's way of taking care of us"

"Fate chooses your relations, you choose your friends"

"Love is blind; friendship closes its eyes"
---Proverb

"Do not use a hatchet to remove a fly from your friend's forehead"
---Chinese Proverb



The best mirror is an old friend"
---Proverb



"An honest answer is the seighn of true friendship"
---Proverbs 24:26



The greatest love a person can have for his friends is to give his life for them"
---John 15:13


"If you judge people,you have no time to love them"
---Mother Teresa



"I will speak ill of no man, and speak all the good I know of everybody."
----Ben Franklin



"What is a friend? A single soul in two bodies"
---Aristotle

"My best friend is the one who brings out the best in me"


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on December 12, 2006, 10:58:23 AM
There are 49 verses with the word "FRIEND" in the Bible

"A friend loveth at all times,
and a brother is born
for adversity."
~Proverbs 17:17~
 

"Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend."
~Proverbs 27:17~

"Faithful are the wounds of a friend; but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful."
~Proverbs 27:6~

"Ointment and perfume rejoice the heart: so doth the sweetness of a man's friend by hearty counsel."
~Proverbs 27:9~

"A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly:
and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother."
~Proverbs 18:24~

"And the LORD spake unto Moses face to face,
as a man speaketh unto his friend."
~Exodus 33:11~
 

 
Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
 




dipika duggal
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Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on January 04, 2007, 09:48:54 PM
JAI SAI RAM!!!

We should have two friends, One to talk to and one to talk about!

'Friendship', a single, simple word of ten alphabets is more than what you can imagine. These ten alphabets are joined to each other by immense bond of trust and love.

Friendship means not only ship of friends but it means sharing, sharing joy and sharing sorrow.

Two friends woven together by threads of friendship never feel embarrassed to share their drawbacks! They count themselves and their friend as one. Though miles apart, two friends still hold each other's hands, they can find joy also when the sky is gloomy.

Since the beginning, I have been stressing on friendship between 2 friends, because I feel, personally, that friendship can be of true nature between 2 friends.

Friendship between more than two friends cannot be personal. Such people are not friends but are together called as friendly group. In such groups also, you often find two friends closely related. So! Friendship can also exist between 2 people of friendly group. But! Finally it's only between 2 friends.

One to one relating can never exist between friendly groups because; 1+1 is always 2 and not 3 or 4.

There is a quoting, which is as follows :

"We should have two friends, one to talk to and one to talk about!"

In such friendships also, often 1 person (friend) is closer than the other.

This I say out of experience.  Friendship is 1+1 relationship, not to be shared with more than one friend.

Two is company, three is crowd.

Have many acquaintances, but only one close friend.

Friendship between three ( more than two ) friends can never be well balanced.

OM SAI RAM!!!

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: OmSaiRamNowOn on January 04, 2007, 10:57:13 PM
Jai Sai Ram.

Being one's own best friend is being God's best friend !!

Aum Sai Ram !
SAI SAI SAI SAI SAI
SAI SAI SAI SAI
SAI SAI

-Anju
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on January 05, 2007, 02:30:05 PM
JAI SAI RAM!!!

Yehi Toh!  Without being friend to oneself no one can become a friend of others.  First to Love your 'self' and make friend of that then only u know to love HIM and befriend HIM.  Very true Anju dear.

MAY BABA SAI BLESS EACH ONE OF 'THAT' FRIENDLINESS...Through which one become friend of 'self' then of HIM.

OM SAI RAM!!!
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on January 09, 2007, 11:36:20 AM
JAI SAI RAM!!!

Sometimes in life, you find a special friend,
Someone who changes your life just by being part of it,
Someone who makes you laugh until you can't stop,
Someone who makes you believes that,
thre really is good in the world.
Someone who convinces you that
there really is an unlocked door
just waiting for you to open it.

This is Forever Friendship.

MAY BABA SAI BLESS EACH ONE WITH KIND OF FOREVER FRIENDSHIP...OF HIS

OM SAI RAM!!!
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: SS91 on January 10, 2007, 09:03:18 PM
A simple friend has never seen you cry.
 A real friend has shoulders soggy from your tears.

 A simple friend doesn't know your parents' first names.
 A real friend has their phone numbers in his address book.

 A simple friend brings a bottle of wine to your party.
 A real friend comes early to help you cook and stays late to help you clean.

 A simple friend hates it when you call after he has gone to bed.
 A real friend asks you why you took so long to call.

 A simple friend seeks to talk with you about your problems.
 A real friend seeks to help you with your problems.

 A simple friend wonders about your romantic history.
 A real friend could blackmail you with it.

 A simple friend, when visiting, acts like a guest.
 A real friend opens your refrigerator and helps himself.

 A simple friend thinks the friendship is over when you have an argument.
 A real friend knows that it's not a friendship until after you've had a fight.

 A simple friend expects you to always be there for them.
 A real friend expects to always be there for you!

 A simple friend will read and throw this note away.
 A real friend will send it back to you until he's sure it's been received.

BABA SAI all  I ask is whom ever I have as friends should stay with me ever even when they  are miles away.

JAI SAI RAM!

subhasrini
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!
Let us pray at the feet of Sai Baba who is the incarnation of all gods and protector of all, to show mercy on us, and increase our devotion towards him.
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Post by: SS91 on January 10, 2007, 09:04:41 PM
THE ABC OF FRIENDSHIP


(A)ccepts you as you are
 (B)elieves in "you"
 (C)alls you just to say "HI"
 (D)oesn't give up on you
 (E)nvisions the whole of you (even the unfinished parts)
 (F)orgives your mistakes
 (G)ives unconditionally
 (H)elps you
 (I)nvites you over
 (J)ust "be" with you
 (K)eeps you close at heart
 (L)oves you for who you are
 (M)akes a difference in your life
 (N)ever Judges
 (O)ffers support
 (P)icks you up
 (Q)uiets your fears
 (R)aises your spirits
 (S)ays nice things about you
 (T)ells you the truth when you need to hear it
 (U)nderstands you
 (V)alues you
 (W)alks beside you
 (X)-plain things you don't understand
 (Y)ells when you won't listen and
 (Z)aps you back to reality.

JAI SAI RAM!

subhasrini
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!
Let us pray at the feet of Sai Baba who is the incarnation of all gods and protector of all, to show mercy on us, and increase our devotion towards him.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on January 12, 2007, 05:35:31 PM
"True happiness consists not in the multitude of friends, but in their worth and choice."
- Samuel Johnston, (as above)

"It is more shameful to distrust one's friends than to be deceived by them."
- Duc de la Rochefoucauld (1613 - 1680) French writer.


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on January 12, 2007, 05:37:59 PM
"Friends always show their love. What are brothers for if not to share troubles?"- Proverbs 17:17
"Some friendships do not last, but some friends are more loyal than brothers."
- Proverbs 18:24
"Forsake not an old friend; for the new is not comparable to him: a new friend is as new wine; when it is old, thou shall drink it with pleasure."
- Sirach 9:10

"An honest answer is the sign of true friendship."
- Proverbs 24:26

"A friend means well, even when he hurts you. But when an enemy puts his hand round your shoulder - watch out!"
- Proverbs 27:6

"Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up."
- Bible: Ecclesiastes

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on January 12, 2007, 05:44:57 PM
“The road to a friend’s house is never too long.” Danish Proverb


“Surround yourself only with people who are going to lift you higher.” Oprah Winfrey

“Laughter is the shortest distance between two friends.” Victor Borge

"Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born."
~ Anais Nin ~
The Diary of Anias Nin, vol. 2, page 4


"Never Explain--your Friends do not need it and your Enemies will not believe you anyway."
~ Elbert Hubbard ~


"In the End, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends."
~ Martin Luther King Jr. ~


"Treat your friends as you do your pictures, and place them in their best light."
~ Jennie Jerome Churchill ~


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on January 12, 2007, 05:46:15 PM
A friend knows the song of my heart and sings it to me when my memory fails."
~ Author Unknown ~
quote submitted by Diane.


"A friend is someone who sees through you and still enjoys the view."
~ Wilma Askinas ~


"The glory of friendship is not the outstretched hand, nor the kindly smile nor the joy of companionship; it is the spiritual inspiration that comes to one when he discovers that someone else believes in him and is willing to trust him."
~ Ralph Waldo Emerson ~


"Friends are angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly."
~ Author Unknown ~
quote submitted by Diane.


Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some people move our souls to dance. They awaken us to a new understanding with the passing whisper of their wisdom. Some people make the sky more beautiful to gaze upon. They stay in our lives for awhile, leave footprints on our hearts, and we are never, ever the same.
~ Flavia Weedn ~


"What is a friend? A single soul dwelling in two bodies."
~ Aristotle ~


"Truly great friends are hard to find, difficult to leave, and impossible to forget."
~ G. Randolf ~


"A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out."
~ Walter Winchell ~

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: rajiv uppal on January 12, 2007, 06:23:33 PM
jai sai ram deepika ji

main to yehi kehna chahoonga ki dost ho to mere SAI jaisa.jo har ek ke dukh sukh ka saathi ho.


SAI REHAM NAZAR KARNA BACCHON KA PAALAN KARNA
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on January 12, 2007, 08:38:24 PM
JAI SAI RAM Rajiv bhai,
    Aapne bilkul sahi kahaa.Sai baba to hamhare yug yug ke dost hai.
BABA ne yh bhi bola hai..

Choose friends who will stick to you till the end, through thick and thin.

Sai baba


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


dipika duggal
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on January 22, 2007, 02:38:10 PM
JAI SAI RAM!!!

The most wonderful of all things in life, I believe, is the discovery of another human being with whom one's relationship has a glowing depth, beauty, and joy as the years increase. This inner progressiveness of love between two human beings is a most marvelous thing, it cannot be found by looking for it or by passionately wishing for it. It is a sort of Divine accident. That is Divine Union...Divine Friendship...

OM SAI RAM!!!
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: SaiServant on January 22, 2007, 05:17:44 PM
Jai Sai Ram!

Divine friendship endures. It survives time and space. A union, truly forever. To such a friendship, my Namaskaar!

Om Sai Ram!
OM Sai Ram!
[:)]

Sunita Raina
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on February 12, 2007, 04:18:10 AM
जय साँई राम।।।

ए दोस्त दोस्ती मुझसे ऐसी निभाना कि,
देखने वाले भी दंग रह जाऐं,
बाबा भी आके तुमसे पूछे कि,
"क्या हम भी तुम्हारे दोस्त बन जाऐं"।



मेरा साँई प्यारा साँई सबसे न्यारा मेरा साँई


ॐ साँई राम।।।

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on February 24, 2007, 01:05:40 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

बाबा से प्रेम मानो आग के दरिया में डूबना........डूबना है?  

मित्रता एक मीठी जिम्मेदारी है, यह अवसरवादी नहीं हो सकती। वह मित्र किस काम का, जिसे तुम केवल वक्त काटने के लिए तलाशो, उसे हमेशा अपने वक्त को पूरी तरह जीने के लिए तलाश करो।

मित्रता तुम्हारी जरूरत को पूरा करने के लिए है, तुम्हारे खालीपन को भरने के लिए नहीं। मित्रता की मिठास में अपनी खिलखिलाहटों को शामिल होने दो, अपनी खुशियां बांटो, क्योंकि इन्हीं छोटी-छोटी खुशियों के ओस-कणों में हृदय को अपना प्रभात मिल जाता है।

इसलिये जब भी बाबा की  मित्रता तुम्हें पुकारे,  उसके पीछे चल पड़ो,  याद रखना उसके रास्ते बीहड़ हैं,  उसमें छिपी हुई तलवार तुम्हें घायल करती हो तो करे। जब वो तुमसे कुछ कहें तो उन पर यकीन करना। संभव है कि उनकी वाणी तुम्हारे स्वप्नों को चूर-चूर भी कर दे, जैसे उत्तर की बर्फीली हवा पूरे उपवन को उजाड़ देती है। क्योंकि प्रेम यदि तुम्हें सिंहासन पर चढ़ा सकता है तो सलीब पर भी लटका सकता है, वह यदि तुम्हें विस्तार देतें है तो तराश भी सकते है। तुम्हारा काम है सिर्फ सर्मपण, बाबा मे समर्पित हो जाओ!


मेरा साँई प्यारा साँई सबसे न्यारा मेरा साँई


ॐ साँई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on March 09, 2007, 03:12:43 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

How Friendship Break ?
Both Friends will think the other is busy and
will not contact thinking it may b disturbing.
As time passes both will
think let the other contact.
After that each will think why should I
contact first. Here ur love will be converted to Hate.
Finally without
contact the memory becomes weak.
They forget each other. One fine Day they
will meet n blame one another.
So Keep in touch with all your Friends.
N Pass this to all your friends...
I don't want to be one of this
kind.. so here i am to say u Hi,,,,
Take care keep in touch n send this to
ur friends before its too late!!!!!

फिर न कहना सांई ने हमें बुलाया नही।
 
अपना सांई सबसे प्यारा, सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on March 09, 2007, 10:34:54 AM
Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down.
Oprah Winfrey


True friends stab you in the front.
Oscar Wilde


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: OmSaiRamNowOn on March 09, 2007, 10:54:36 AM
Jai Sai Ram.

Aye dost teri dosti hi humko bhati hai,
tere peeche teri bematlab se kami humko satati hai,
Yun to hain sabhi hasane aur rulane ke liye,
lakin teri dosti he aankhion main aansu khusi ke laati hai !!
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on March 10, 2007, 10:47:54 AM
"A faithful friend is the medicine of life."
-- Apocrypha

Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some stay for awhile and leave footprints on our hearts. And we are never, ever the same.-- Anonymous

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on March 11, 2007, 10:16:10 PM
om sai ram...

DOST....FRIEND....SAATHI....


SAATHI SRIF WOH NAHI HOTA JO JEEWAN BHAR SAATH NABHAYE....
SAATHI TOH WOH HAI JO JEEWAN K KUCH PALOON MAIN BHI JEEWAN BHAR KA SAATH DE JAAYE....


JAI SAI RAM...
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on March 11, 2007, 10:44:55 PM
जय सांई राम।।।

बहुत खूब।  सही कहा।  सही मायने मे तो मै दोस्त उसको मानता हूँ जो तुम्हारे फिक्र को धुऐं की तरह उड़ाना सिखाये और तुम्हे हलका करे ना कि अपने फिक्र से तुम्हारे फिक्र को दुगना करके तुम्हे बोझिल बनाये।


अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Kavitaparna on March 11, 2007, 11:43:55 PM
OM SRI SAI RAM

A TRUE FRIEND POINTS OUT YOUR MISTAKES

BEFORE YOU ARE POINTED OUT BY OTHERS

TO AVOID YOU BEING POINTED OUT BY OTHERS

JAI SAI RAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on March 12, 2007, 04:38:34 AM
<font size="3">jai sai ram deepika ji

main to yehi kehna chahoonga ki dost ho to mere SAI jaisa.jo har ek ke dukh sukh ka saathi ho.</font id="size3">

SAI REHAM NAZAR KARNA BACCHON KA PAALAN KARNA


om sai ram...


गुप्त बतावे दोष जो ,जन में गुणगण गाय...
मधुर मित्र वह मानिये ,काम कष्ट में आय...


राजीव भाई जल्दी से आ जा मन्दिर बाबा बूला रहे है...

 जय सांई राम...
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: shambi_me on March 12, 2007, 05:12:40 AM
Om Sri Sai Ram.

our TRUE FRIEND IS
                           "SAI BABA"
no matter what we do ,no matter the times we forget Him,no matter the times we fight with Him,
He is always there with us.He always loves us,and suffers for us,and shows us the right way!

Om my dearest Sai, You are our true friend.

Om Sai Sri Sai Jai Jai Sai
shambhavi.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on March 12, 2007, 10:09:09 PM
JAI SAI RAM!!!

When HE is our friend then why should we make HIM suffer?????????Why to fight with HIM?????  Only those who has fights inside them can dare to thinks of fighting with HIM.


अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


OM SAI RAM!!!
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: shambi_me on March 13, 2007, 05:44:38 AM
Om Sri Sai Ram.

dear Rameshji

we go to Him with all our pains,in Satcharitra when people went to Him ,he took over their pains,sometimes back pains, bubo...He freed us from our troubles...that is what i inferred from satcharitra...He took over others sufferings..
o yes i do fight with Him all the time,fight not in the literal sense,its like Baba why this why that,i argue "Baba You better stop this,see they are struggling,BabaYou better give me the strength to do this"...
Whom else can you talk so freely with!becoz He alone knows what exactly we mean when we say something!
He alone understands how exactly we feel...
See, this is exactly what i mean,we misunderstand a lot of things of this world ,it is tough to put our thoughts and feelings fully in to words,only a few can do it well...
but it is not so with our Sai,there is no need of any language or any right words to express ourselves,
the only language that is needed is of LOVE!

Om Sai Sri Sai Jai Jai Sai
shambhavi.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Kavitaparna on March 13, 2007, 08:57:35 AM
JAI SAI RAM!!!

When HE is our friend then why should we make HIM suffer?????????Why to fight with HIM?????  Only those who has fights inside them can dare to thinks of fighting with HIM.


अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


OM SAI RAM!!!

OM SRI SAI RAM

Ramesh Bhai, Sai Ram

There is an excellent truth in what U said.

Only those who has fights inside them can dare to thinks of fighting with HIM.
That is, Baba is very much in me that's why I dare fight with him as I fight with my self.

As it is said and believed, fights make us together....more and ...more like never before... and infact Baba ( he himself is the creator of these sweet fights )takes it a chance to make him more clear to me ( thus, coming more closer to me).

How sweet it would be after we become one after those "Silly fights and  Judaii of few days/hours/minutes/seconds".

(Baba! please dont read all this and make me fight with you).

Jai Sai Ram

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: shambi_me on March 14, 2007, 05:50:38 AM
Om Sri Sai Ram..
dear kavithaji...

what a beautiful inference...your thoughts..and words are like that ripe mango...which, how much ever we devour...one keeps asking for more!

hey Baba i am so thankful to you for making me a part of this great family
Baba i love You.

Om Sai Sri Sai Jai Jai Sai
shambhavi.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on March 14, 2007, 07:55:01 AM
JAI SAI RAM!!!

When HE is our friend then why should we make HIM suffer?????????Why to fight with HIM?????  Only those who has fights inside them can dare to thinks of fighting with HIM.


अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


OM SAI RAM!!!

OM SRI SAI RAM

Ramesh Bhai, Sai Ram

There is an excellent truth in what U said.

Only those who has fights inside them can dare to thinks of fighting with HIM.
That is, Baba is very much in me that's why I dare fight with him as I fight with my self.

As it is said and believed, fights make us together....more and ...more like never before... and infact Baba ( he himself is the creator of these sweet fights )takes it a chance to make him more clear to me ( thus, coming more closer to me).

How sweet it would be after we become one after those "Silly fights and  Judaii of few days/hours/minutes/seconds".

(Baba! please dont read all this and make me fight with you).

Jai Sai Ram



सांई राम।।।

अन्नत से झगड़ा? Fight with Infinite?  नज़रिया सबका अपना अपना। इसमें तो कोई झगड़ा हो ही नही सकता। हाँ अबोघ बच्चा अपने दादा से किसी खिलौने के लिये करे तो चलता है। भक्त भी अगर बाबा से थक हार कर अज्ञानवश करे तो वो भी चलता है, लेकिन इक ज्ञानी भक्त। चलाने को तो वो भी चलेगा। हाँ कहते है ना जंग और प्यार मे सब ज़ायज होता है। Everything is fair in love and war. लेकिन मुझे जब जो चीज़ प्यार में मिल जाए उसके लिये मैं लड़ाई का रास्ता क्यों चुनूं। मेरे बाबा तो प्यार के सागर है प्यार से इक बार पुकार कर तो देखो Sweet Sweet Fight भी भूल जाओगे। May be it is for short duration of Day/Hour/Second or Nano Second.  कविता कम से कम तुम तो नही।  Atleast I don't expect a sweet fight from my sweet sweet sisters. I am tired of these sweet/sour fights.  What we will gain out of it?  I don't think we can move an centimeter towards our SAI, if we dare of.......

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Kavitaparna on March 14, 2007, 09:11:25 AM
OM SRI SAI RAM

Ramesh Bhai, Sai Ram

I am very happy to see Ur reply ! Firstly, Thanks a lot from my heart.

Y U know?

I am really seeing an elder brother more so today in you, for me. I really miss ur presence in Chennai , in our home , today for the first time.

Ok. what for these fights?

When I put a flower on my cute little Baba, immediately, he pushes it down. Again I go and keep it, he repeats it, testing my patience, then I please him, kiss him, hug him and again place it, still he pushes it down.

Now comes the actual scene. I shout at him " what is this? Y R U making me mad. with such a difficulty i keep the flowers, and u throw them? ...." it continues and i warn Baba.. like a child...what not...then... the flower would not fall at all till the next day  morning. In between I chk .. and find the flowers intact. Simialry, when i want to make a garland of flowers, the same mischief ... What all this little one does you know...I get tired in fighting...

I thank you very much for treating me a sweet sister.  But these silly fights are becoming inevitavle sometimes but, they are all very sweet because, they are not real fights in true sense..

BABA! BE WITH ME MY LITTLE ONE! Make me your slave mere Huzoor! Dont make me run around  pls! Already i am a tired one Kanna!

SAI RAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on March 21, 2007, 12:20:33 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

दोस्ती नाम है सुख दुख की कहानी का,
दोस्ती राज़ है सदा मुस्कराने का,
ये कोई पल दो पल की पहचान नही,
दोस्ती तो फर्ज़ है उम्र भर निभाने का।

किसी ना किसी को किसी ना किसी पे एतबार हो जाता है
अजनबी सा कोई सख्श खास हो जाता है,
खूबियों से ही नही होती मोहब्बत सदा
कभी-कभी कमियों से भी प्यार हो जाता है।

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on March 21, 2007, 02:05:53 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

दोस्ती नाम है सुख दुख की कहानी का,
दोस्ती राज़ है सदा मुस्कराने का,
ये कोई पल दो पल की पहचान नही,
दोस्ती तो फर्ज़ है उम्र भर निभाने का।

किसी ना किसी को किसी ना किसी पे एतबार हो जाता है
अजनबी सा कोई सख्श खास हो जाता है,
खूबियों से ही नही होती मोहब्बत सदा
कभी-कभी कमियों से भी प्यार हो जाता है।

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
 


OM SAI RAM !!!

Ramesh bhai,
sai ram...

bahut sunder likha hai aap nae...

bahut pyarri hai aap ki dosti ki paribhasha....

JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on March 24, 2007, 01:16:21 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

दोस्ती का नाम है प्रेम.....केवल प्रेम
और कुछ नहीं
जीवन का
यह पहलू
प्रभुसमर्पित......बाबा सांई के चरणों मे

अल्लाह सांई बोलो मौल्ला सांई बोलो
सांई बाबा बोलो
सांई गोविन्द बोलो
नानक सांई बोलो
मेरे प्यारे बोलो
मेरे सांई बोलो

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


 ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: sureshsarat on March 24, 2007, 01:35:39 AM
Om Sri Sainathaya Namaha
Om Sri Sainathaya Namaha
Om Sri Sainathaya Namaha

Dear all Sairam
I am most happy to see such postings of wisdom. I am enlightened on each reading. Baba I thank you for this blessing.

Dost ho to Sai jaisa.
He Gives happiness
Takes our sorrows
Gives knowledge
Taking away our ignorance
Sai is the supreme friend. So why dont we ape him ?
Suresh
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on March 24, 2007, 09:45:23 PM
जय सांई राम।।।

Man ask to BABA what is love?

BABA said-go to the garden & get the most beautiful flower. Man returned empty handed & told I did found the most beautiful flower but I kept walking in hope of a better one. And then I realized I ignored the best one. I went back but could not find it there.  BABA said-this is love. You don't value it when you have it but repent when you lost it. So never let you love go!

सबकी जिन्दगी में खुशियाँ देने वाले ए बाबा दोस्त,
मेरी ख्वाहिश है कि किसी की जिन्दगी में कोई ग़म ना हो,
सब को आपके जैसे दोस्त मिलते रहें
जब तक दुनियां में उनका असतित्व हो।

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Kavitaparna on March 28, 2007, 08:50:12 AM
OM SRI SAI RAM

This is from my own recent experience.

One person of high status - financial and supposed to be spiritually too - offered to be my friend.

For a fortnight several mails / messages transmitted from both ends. On that fine day, as matter of conversation, I gave a hazy pic of my present financial position to one of the querries made by my prospective friend.

Thats all. Subsequently, no response to the 2-3 enquiries of mine. The friendship came to an end, I understood.

It took me 2 - 3 weeks to recollect the fact that could have made the so called friend abruptly stop all the friendship.
 
TELL UR PROSPECTIVE FRIEND
YOUR PRESENT FINANCIAL POSITION
VANISHES THE NEXT MOMENT
THE ONE WHO IS NOT A FRIEND INDEED

Thank God a lot for the excellent oppurtunity that was created by himself owing to which I got rid of this time pass friendship ; saving a lot of my time and energy.

Baba bless us all
Baba be with us

Jai Sai Ram
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on April 14, 2007, 10:36:14 AM
JAI SAI RAM!!!

If you love somebody, let them go, for if they return, they were always yours. And if they don't, they never were.

OM SAI RAM!!!
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: saibetino1 on April 14, 2007, 10:41:21 AM
OM SAI RAM

         PYAAR UDANE KI AJADI DETA HAI BANDHATA NAHIN HAI ,JO BANDHE VO PYAAR NAHIN ,BANDHAN HAI .

          PYAAR KO UDANE DOO ,JITANA UDEGA UTANA PYAAR FELEGA ,BADHANE PAR TAU SIKUD JAYEGA.

sai sai sai
neelam
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Kavitaparna on April 14, 2007, 11:15:53 AM
JAI SAI RAM!!!

If you love somebody, let them go, for if they return, they were always yours. And if they don't, they never were.

OM SAI RAM!!!


OM SRI SAI RAM

Ramesh Bhai, Sai Ram

Well said and Wonderfully said!

Baba be with us all
Baba only will be with us all and forever.

Jai Sai Ram
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on April 14, 2007, 02:04:49 PM
OM SAI RAM

         PYAAR UDANE KI AJADI DETA HAI BANDHATA NAHIN HAI ,JO BANDHE VO PYAAR NAHIN ,BANDHAN HAI .

          PYAAR KO UDANE DOO ,JITANA UDEGA UTANA PYAAR FELEGA ,BADHANE PAR TAU SIKUD JAYEGA.

sai sai sai
neelam

om sai ram...

Neelam ji...
sairam...

very nice...welllllll said...
itssssss soooooooo wonderful....

LOVE IS GOD & GOD IS LOVE....


jai sai ram...
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on April 18, 2007, 01:22:55 AM
om sai ram...

A SIMPLE FRIEND THINKS THE FRIENDSHIP OVER WHEN YOU HAVE AN ARGUMENT...

A REAL FRIEND KNOWS THAT IT'S NOT A FRIENDSHIP UNTIL AFTER YOU'VE  HAD A FIGHT....

jai sai ram...
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on April 24, 2007, 02:02:38 AM
ॐ सांई राम !~!

कुछ रिश्ते ऊपरवाला बनाता हैं ,कुछ रिश्ते लोग बनाते हैं...
पर कुछ लोग बिना कोई रिश्ते के ही रिश्तें निभाते हैं....
शायद वो ही दोस्त कहलाते हैं...

जय सांई राम!~!
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on April 24, 2007, 03:20:22 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

एक दिन प्यार और दोस्ती मिले
प्यार ने कहा
मेरे होते हुए तुम्हारा क्या काम
दोस्ती बोली
"मै उन होठों पे मुस्कान लाती हूँ"।
तुम जिन आँखों में आँसू छोड़ जाते हो।

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on April 26, 2007, 06:29:06 AM
ॐ सांई राम !~!

बोले वो दोस्ती, चुप रहे वो प्यार,
मिलाये वो दोस्ती ,ज़ुदा करे वो प्यार,
हंसाएँ वो दोस्ती ,रुलाएँ वो प्यार..
फिर भी लोग दोस्ती छोङकर क्यों करते है प्यार....

जय सांई राम !~!
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: saibetino1 on April 26, 2007, 06:46:35 AM
ॐ सांई राम !~!

बोले वो दोस्ती, चुप रहे वो प्यार,
मिलाये वो दोस्ती ,ज़ुदा करे वो प्यार,
हंसाएँ वो दोस्ती ,रुलाएँ वो प्यार..
फिर भी लोग दोस्ती छोङकर क्यों करते है प्यार....

जय सांई राम !~!
  So beautiful ...
OM SAIRAM,

    LOG PYAAR KARTE HAI
    AYE DOST TERE LIYE ,
    JAISE GULAB MEIN BASI KHUSBHOO  ||

   Khusboo ke bina  FOOL nahin
   Pyaar nahin Tau DOST bhi nahin,
   Pyaar dhadkan hai Dosti ki ,
   ISke Bina Tau Jeewan hi nahin ||
   
   Tum  Aye Dost Dosto se Pucho
    kha hai Unka Thikana ,
   Tau khaega Har koi
    Dil ke alwa tau koi 
    unki jagah Hi nahin  ||

 PYAAR KE HAZARO RANG
 KUCH NE KHAO DOST SE HUM PYAAR HUA
TAU  KUCH NE MEHBOOB KA NAAM LIYA ||

 BADE NASAMJH HAI VO
JO ITANA CHOTA KARTE HAI  PYAAR KO
 PYAAR TAU SAB KE DILO MEIN HAI
MUJHE JAGAH DOO TAU PHELE JAGAH DOO PYAAR KO||  
sai sai sai
neelam
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on April 26, 2007, 06:53:58 AM
ॐ सांई राम !~!

बोले वो दोस्ती, चुप रहे वो प्यार,
मिलाये वो दोस्ती ,ज़ुदा करे वो प्यार,
हंसाएँ वो दोस्ती ,रुलाएँ वो प्यार..
फिर भी लोग दोस्ती छोङकर क्यों करते है प्यार....

जय सांई राम !~!
  So beautiful ...
OM SAIRAM,

    LOG PYAAR KARTE HAI
    AYE DOST TERE LIYE ,
    JAISE GULAB MEIN BASI KHUSBHOO  ||

   Khusboo ke bina  FOOL nahin
   Pyaar nahin Tau DOST bhi nahin,
   Pyaar dhadkan hai Dosti ki ,
   ISke Bina Tau Jeewan hi nahin ||
   
   Tum  Aye Dost Dosto se Pucho
    kha hai Unka Thikana ,
   Tau khaega Har koi
    Dil ke alwa tau koi 
    unki jagah Hi nahin  ||

 PYAAR KE HAZARO RANG
 KUCH NE KHAO DOST SE HUM PYAAR HUA
TAU  KUCH NE MEHBOOB KA NAAM LIYA ||

 BADE NASAMJH HAI VO
JO ITANA CHOTA KARTE HAI  PYAAR KO
 PYAAR TAU SAB KE DILO MEIN HAI
MUJHE JAGAH DOO TAU PHELE JAGAH DOO PYAAR KO||  
sai sai sai
neelam

OM SAI RAM...

VERY NICE NEELAM....

MILTA HAI
SAB KUCH
ZINDAGI MAIN
EK DIN MAGAR
JO
HASIL HOTA HAI
WOH APNA NAHI HOTA
HOTA HAI
PYAAR SAPNO MAIN
HAR BAAR
MAGAR
JO
DARD MILTA HAI
WOH APNA NAHI HOTA.....

मिलता है
सब कुछ मगर
ज़िन्दगी मै
एक दिन मगर
जो
हासिल होता है
वो अपना नहीं होता
होता है
प्यार सपनों मै
हर बार
मगर
जो
दर्द मिलता है
वो अपना नहीं होता...


JAI SAI RAM...
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on April 27, 2007, 10:58:54 AM
JAI SAI RAM!!!

Friendship is a relationship. You can be in relationship with a few people. Friendliness is a quality not a relationship. It has nothing to do with anybody else; it is basically your inner quality. You can be friendly even when you are alone. You cannot be in friendship when you are alone - the other is needed - but friendliness is a kind of fragrance. A flower opens in the jungle; nobody passes by - still it is fragrant. It does not matter whether anybody comes to know of it or not, it is its quality. Nobody may ever come to know about it, but that does not matter. The flower is rejoicing.

Friendship can exist only between one man and another man or at the most between a man and an animal - a horse, a dog. But friendliness can exist even with a rock, with a river, with a mountain, with a cloud, with a far-away star. Friendliness is unlimited because it is not dependent on the other; it is absolutely your own flowering.

So, be friendly, just friendly to all that exists. And in that friendliness you will find all that is worth finding. In friendliness you will find the ultimate friend.

OM SAI RAM!!!
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on May 03, 2007, 10:28:45 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

क्या खबर तुम को दोस्ती क्या है?

ये रोशनी भी है अन्धेरा भी है,
ख्वाहिशों से भरा ज़ज़ीरा भी है,
बहुत अनमोल इक हीरा भी है,
दोस्ती एक हसीन ख्वाब भी है,
पास से देखो तो शराब भी है,
दुख मिलने पे यह आज़ाब भी है,
और ये प्यार का जवाब भी है.
दोस्ती यूँ तो मायाजाल भी है,
एक हकीकत भी है ख्याल भी है,
कभी फुरकत कभी विशाल भी है,
कभी ज़मीन कभी फलक भी है,
दोस्ती झूठ भी है सच भी है
दिल में रह जाये तो कसक भी है,
कभी ये हार कभी जीत भी है
दोस्ती साज़ भी संगीत भी है
शेर भी नज़म भी गीत भी है
वफा क्या है वफा भी दोस्ती है
दिल से निकली दुआ भी दोस्ती है,
बस इतना समझ लो तुम
प्यार की इन्तिहा भी दोस्ती है!

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on May 05, 2007, 12:12:22 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

To Share What Is Difficult,
                To Heal What Is Hurting,
                  To Think What Is Not Possible,
                     To Understand Without Even Talking....
                        Is The Miracle Called FRIENDSHIP!"


अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on May 06, 2007, 07:42:59 PM
Choose friends who will stick to you till the end, through thick and thin.

Sai baba

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on May 10, 2007, 03:51:10 AM


जय सांई राम।।।

दोस्ती और प्यार में फर्क क्या है?

प्यार ज़िन्दगी को आबाद और बरबाद कर सकता है,
पर दोस्त सिर्फ आबाद ही करता है,
प्यार जब दुख पंहुचाये तो दोस्त हमेशा मरहम़ लगाने का काम करता है।
प्यार जब आंखों मे आंसू लाये, उन्हें दोस्त चुपके से पोंछ जाता है
प्यार जब जीने के सारे रास्ते बन्द कर दे, तब दोस्त रास्ता दिखालाता है।
प्यार जब हदें तोड़े तब,  दोस्त सरहदे पार करा देता है
प्यार मे जब आप टूटें, तब दोस्त चलना सिखाता है
प्यार जब ठुकराये, बदनाम करे, तकलीफ दे,
तब दोस्त आकर खुशियाँ ही खुशियाँ बिखेर जाता है
अब बताओ लोग फिर भी प्यार क्यों करते है।
और अपने बाबा जैसे दोस्त से दूर क्यों रहते है।

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on May 10, 2007, 11:51:00 PM
ॐ सांई राम...

दोस्ती ज़िंदगी का हिस्सा है ,
दोस्ती के बगैर अधूरा रिश्ता है ।
अच्छे दोस्त कभी साथ नहीं छोङते ,
वह अपने दोस्तों से कभी मुंह नहीं मोङते ।
सच्चा दोस्त ही तो आता है मुसीबत में काम ,
बिना दोस्त के किसी को नहीं आराम ।
तन्हा नहीं जी सकता कोई ,
यह तो सभी जानते हैं,
दोस्त अगर दिल से सच्चा हो , तो ...

उसे भगवान से ज्यादा मानते हैं...


जय सांई राम....
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on May 15, 2007, 09:00:25 AM
 जय सांई राम

मिञता मीन और नीर जैसी होनी चाहियॆ। दूध और जल जैसी नहीं होनी चाहियॆ। दूध पर विपति् आयी और वह जलनॆ लगा तो पानी अपना एक तरफ को किनारा कर आया और भाप बनकर भाग गया।

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई

 ॐ सांई राम।।। 
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: nimmi_sai on May 21, 2007, 04:18:42 AM
SAI RAM !!!!!!!1111
DUNIA MAIN 2 TEREHH KE DOSTT HOTEYY HAIN !!!!!!1
EKK WOO JOO APP KI AANKHOO SEE AANSOO PAUCHTEYY HAIIII ANDD DOOSREYY WO JOO APPKI AANKHOO MAIN AANSOO  DEE JAATEYY hai .....ANDD I PERSONALYYYY FEEL THATTT
 its a Worst thing in life,  Someone has tears in eyes because of U...
so we shoulddd tryyy ki kabhiii aisa na hooooo........
godd bless everone ...

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: saideep on May 21, 2007, 04:30:35 AM
baba,

dost hote hai... par kya aap humein unse bichad ne ke liye milate ho ?
sach mein baba bohat takleef hoti hai ... kyun ki dost are people who restore faith in life...
we can be our selves wth tehm, share so many light n heavy moments wth them... but baba when they act differently .. bohat takleef hoti hai... when they frget teh moments and have no tiem to say hi... it hurts.... kyun baba.... is it karm playing the role again ?

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on May 21, 2007, 05:43:29 AM
baba,

dost hote hai... par kya aap humein unse bichad ne ke liye milate ho ?
sach mein baba bohat takleef hoti hai ... kyun ki dost are people who restore faith in life...
we can be our selves wth tehm, share so many light n heavy moments wth them... but baba when they act differently .. bohat takleef hoti hai... when they frget teh moments and have no tiem to say hi... it hurts.... kyun baba.... is it karm playing the role again ?



Om Sai Ram...

100% True.....Deepak....



EVERY RELATIONSHIP HAS AN EXPIRY DATE......

But only for Humans......NOT FOR OUR BABA......


TABHI TOH BOLTE HAI DOST HO TOH BAS BABA JAISA......HAR PAL TUMHRE SAATH REHNE WALA........KHUSHIYON MAIN , GAM MAIN....TUMHE SAMAJHNE WALA TUMHARA SAB SE ACCHA DOST......TUMHARE HAR BAAT SUN KAR TUMHE SAHI RAH DIKHANE WALA TUMHARA SAB SE ACCHA SAATHI......BAS SAI SAI SAI.....

DOST HO TOH BAS BABA JAISA.....

Jai Sai Ram...
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on May 21, 2007, 08:18:31 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

क्या खबर तुम को दोस्ती क्या है?

एक रिश्ता है ऐसा
बिल्कुल अनोखा हो जैसा,
स्वार्थ से अछूता,
समन्दर से गहरा हैं वो

जाति पाँति के बन्धनों से परे
धर्मों के आडम्बरों से दूर है जो
कहते हैं जिसे हम मित्रता,
क्या विश्वास है और
कितनी भरी है इसमें मधुरता

सुख मे भले ना
वो दिखलाये,
पर दुःख में हमेशा,
दोस्त काम आये

औपचारिकता से
परे है जो,
दिल के कितने करीब है वो

कह ना सके जो
बात किसी से,
दोस्तों से कह जाते हैं
कितनी सहजता से उसे

भरोसे का अटूट
आधार है जो,
मुसीबतों में खडा
चट्टान है वो

जिसकी देतें हैं
लोग मिसालें,
दोस्ती और दोस्त ही हैं
'राज'  है मेरा कनाडा वाला यार,
जो मेरे जीवन रुपी
नाटक में
अदा करता हैं,
एक महत्वपूर्ण किरदार
वो भी दोस्तों!
एक नहीं अनेकों बार।
एक बार फिर उस यार से
मिलने जायेगा "यारों के यार" का रमेश यार।

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on May 23, 2007, 05:42:25 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

क्या खबर तुम को दोस्ती क्या है?

दिल ना लगाना किसी से, दर्द ही पाओगे,
बीती बातों को याद करके, रोते ही नज़र आओगे,
करनी है तो सिर्फ करो दोस्ती 'उससे' ,
हमेशा उमीद से कई हज़ार गुना पाओगे।

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on May 25, 2007, 01:04:08 AM
JAI SAI RAM!!!

Medicines and friendships can cure problems....the only difference is that medicines have expiry dates,
friendships don't because they can last a lifetime....

OM SAI RAM!!!

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on May 25, 2007, 01:12:41 AM
Om Sai Ram....

The Recipe Of Friendship :

1 Cup Of Sharing ,

2 Cups Of Caring ,

1 Cup Of Forgiveness & Hugs Of Tenderness....

Mix All These Together.......
TO MAKE FRIENDS FOREVER~~~~~~~~

Jai Sai Ram...
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on May 26, 2007, 06:48:03 AM
DOST HO TO SAI BABA JAISA.
HUM BABA KO BHOOL SAKTEY HAI,PAR BABA HUMEY NAHIN BHOOLTEY.

SAB KA MALIK EK!


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on May 26, 2007, 11:43:17 PM
जय सांई राम।।।

जिस सुबह दिल में 'उसकी'  याद ना आये
बाबा करे ऐसी सुबह ना आये
मुमकिन ही नही कि अफसाना लिखूं दोस्ती का
और उसमे "उसका" नाम ना आये।

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: sai ram every one there( anil here)
Post by: tipsykool on May 31, 2007, 02:44:15 AM
sai ram
god bless u all.
Title: Re: sai ram every one there( anil here)
Post by: Admin on May 31, 2007, 02:51:32 AM
Sai Ram Anil

How are you. Its long since . I hope everything is fine.

Take care.

Jai Sai Ram


sai ram
god bless u all.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on May 31, 2007, 02:55:08 AM
ॐ सांई राम.....


तन्हा सी थी इस भीङ में,
सोचा कोई अपना है तकदीर में,

एक दिन ऐसा हुआ,
कि....
आप ने हमें अपना दोस्त माना ,
फिर लगा कुछ खास ही था मेरे 'हाथों की लकीरों में'....


जय सांई राम....
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on June 08, 2007, 05:26:23 AM
I can't give solutions to all of life's problems, doubts, or fears.
But I can listen to you and together we will search for answers.
I can't change your past with all its heartache and pain,
Nor the future with its untold stories.
But I can be there now when you need me to care.
I can't keep your feet from stumbling.
I can only offer my hand that you may grasp it and not fall.
Your joys, triumphs, success, and happiness are not mine;
Yet I can share in your laughter.
Your decisions in life are not mine to make, nor to judge;
I can only support you, encourage you, and help you when you ask.
I can't prevent you from falling away from friendship, from your values, from me.
I can only pray for you, talk to you, and wait for you.
I can't give you boundaries which I have determined for you,
But I can give you the room to change, room to grow, room to be yourself.
I can't keep your heart from breaking and hurting,
But I can cry with you and help you pick up the pieces and put them back in place.
I can't tell you who you are.
I can only be your friend

FROM SHIVA

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on June 14, 2007, 01:24:32 AM
Om Sai Ram...

Hold your hand during trying time~~~

Don't talk about you behind your back~~~

Encourage you to keep trying to reach your goals~~~

Tell you what you need to hear not necessairely what you want to hear~~~

Laugh with you , not at you ~~~

Understand your pain ~~~

Give you a part of themselves~~~

Ask for nothing in return~~~

Help you see the light~~~

Don't walk out when trouble walks in~~~~

Jai Sai Ram...
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on June 15, 2007, 10:55:54 AM
जय सांई राम

मित्रों का संबंध    

ग्रीक के प्रख्यात गणितज्ञ पाइथागोरस से एक व्यक्ति ने प्रश्न किया कि दो मित्रों में कैसा संबंध होना चाहिए। उन्होंने कहा, 'वैसा ही संबंध होना चाहिए जैसा 220 और 284 की संख्याओं में होता है।'

यह अजीबोगरीब उत्तर उस व्यक्ति को समझ में नहीं आया। उसने कहा,' मैं कुछ समझा नहीं।' पाइथागोरस ने समझाते हुए कहा,' संख्या 220 ऐसी है जो एक, दो, चार, पांच, दस, ग्यारह, बीस, बाइस, चवालीस, पचपन और एक सौ दस से शेष रहित विभाजित हो जाती है। इन समस्त संख्याओं का योग 284 होता है। इसी तरह 284 संख्या ऐसी है जो एक, दो, चार, इकहत्तर और एक सौ बयालीस से विभाजित हो जाती है और शेष कुछ भी नहीं बचता है। और इन सभी को जोडे़ तो इनका योग 220 ही आता है। इस तरह यह साबित होता है कि 220 संख्या 284 के लिए और 284 संख्या 220 के लिए ही बनी हैं। दो दोस्तों के बीच भी ऐसा ही संबंध हो कि वे कितने भी घटें या बढें लेकिन एक दूजे के लिए हों।'

प्रश्न पूछने वाला पाइथागोरस की इस अद्भुत व्याख्या से चमत्कृत रह गया।
               
अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on June 18, 2007, 03:34:30 AM
Chak jigar ke si lete hain,
Jaise bhi ho ji lete hain.

Dard mile to sah lete hain,
Ashq mile to pi lete hain.

Aap kahen to mar jayenge,
Aap kahen to ji lete hain.

Bezari ke aandhiyere mein,
Jine wale ji lete hain.

Hum to hain un fulon jaise,
jo kaanto me ji lete hain

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on June 18, 2007, 03:35:53 AM
Tamannaon Ke Bahlave Mein Aksar Aa Hi Jaate Hain
Kabhi Hum Chot Khaate Hain Kabhi Hum Muskuraate Hain

Ham Aksar Doston Ki Bewafee Seh To Lete Hain
Magar Hum Jaante Hain Dil Hamaare Toot Jaate Hain

Kisi Ke Saath Jab Beete Huye Lamhon Ki Yaad Aayee
Thaki Aakhon Mein Askhon Ke Sitaare Jhilmilaate Hain

Ye Kaisa Istheyaaki Deed Aur Kaisi Majboori
Kisi Ki Bazm Tak Hum Kyoon Jaa Jaa Ke Laut Aate Hain..

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on June 18, 2007, 09:10:13 PM
JAI SAI RAM!!!

A faithful friend is worth more than all the gold in the world.......Making a million friends is not a miracle, the miracle is to make a friend who will stand by you when a millions are against you."

OM SAI RAM!!!
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on June 21, 2007, 03:23:30 AM
JAI SAI RAM!!!

LISTEN  and  SILENT
are two words with
same alphabets ,

But are very important
for friendship ,

Because only a
true friend
LISTEN to you
when you are SILENT!!

OM SAI RAM!!!
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on June 22, 2007, 01:21:15 AM
Problems and difficulties are our real spiritual friends.And when we pray to God, He sends us to spiritual Sadhakas and through them to Saints for relief. We are indeed fortunate to be attracted and attached to Sai's feet. If ever, we tend to forget, Sai Himself reminds us so that our vision doesn't get clouded for long.

http://living.oneindia.in/yoga-spirituality/anecdotes/sai-sat-charitra13-partii.html

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on June 26, 2007, 06:01:04 AM
Friends Can Be Deceiving

When you find a friend you say wow
'cause you think this friendship will never end.
You go places with them, talk on the phone.
You think you got your own little zone.
Until the day comes those friends can be deceiving.
They find friends that to them are most pleasing.
They leave you alone thrown like a dirty bone.
That's why you should pick your friends carefully
or you'll be thrown carelessly



Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on July 06, 2007, 08:50:03 PM
JAI SAI RAM!!!

The Friend Who Can Be Silent,
          With Us In a Moment Of Despair,
              Or Confusion, Who Can Stay,
                 With Us In An Hour Of Grief,
                    And Bereavement,
                      Who Can Tolerate Not Knowing,
                         Not Curing, Not Healing And Face,
                           With Us The Reality ,
                             Of Our Powerlessness,
                               That Is A Friend Who Cares.

OM SAI RAM!!!
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on July 10, 2007, 12:51:54 AM
Om Sai Ram...

 FAithful
A friend is always faithful to you, even during the bad times.
 

 REliable
A friend is reliable..you can count on them to always be there.

 IN touch
A friend stays in touch, even though it may not be as often as you'd like!

 ENduring
A true friendship is enduring, lasting even when friends lose touch for a while.

  NEeded
A friend is always there for you when you need someone to hug.

 DEvoted
A friend is devoted to your friendship and will never do anything to destroy it.


   
In this world you might be one person but for someone you may be the world....

Jai Sai Ram...
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on August 01, 2007, 11:18:00 PM
Om Sai Ram~~~

ONE LOYAL FRIEND IS WORTH TEN THOUSAND RELATIVES~~~

Jai Sai Ram ~~~
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on August 03, 2007, 12:07:19 AM
Om Sai Ram ~~~

  :)  A friend is someone we turn to when our spirits need a lift ~~~

  :) A friend is someone we treasure for our friendship is a gift ~~~

  :) A friend is someone who fills our lives with beauty, joy, and grace
      And makes the world we live in a better and happier place ~~~

  :) There is a miracle called friendship, that dwells in the heart.
   You do not know how it happens or when it gets it's start ~~~
 
  :) But you know the special lift it always brings.
    You realize that friendship is the world's most precious gift!!!!!

Jai Sai Ram ~~~
 
 
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 03, 2007, 01:41:05 AM
“Even though we've changed and we're all finding our own place in the world, we all know that when the tears fall or the smile spreads across our face, we'll come to each other because no matter where this crazy world takes us, nothing will ever change so much to the point where we're not all still friends.”

“A friend is someone who understands your past, believes in your future, and accepts you just the way you are.”

      “Truly great friends are hard to find, difficult to leave, and impossible to forget.”

“A friend is someone who, upon seeing another friend in immense pain, would rather be the one experiencing the pain than to have to watch their friend suffer.”

      “True friends stab you in the front.”

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 03, 2007, 01:46:20 AM
Friends are born, not made.
* Henry Adams

Forsake not an old friend, for a new one does not compare with him.
* Apocrypha -- Ecclesiasticus 9:10

My best friend is the man who in wishing me well wishes it for my sake.
* Aristotle

Friendship is a single soul dwelling in two bodies.
* Aristotle

This communicating of a man's self to his friend works two contrary effects; for it redoubleth joys, and cutteth griefs in half.
* Francis Bacon

Friendship is a strong and habitual inclination in two persons to promote the good and happiness of one another.
* Eustace Budgell

Don't believe your friends when they ask you to be honest with them. All they really want is to be maintained in the good opinion they have of themselves.
* Albert Camus

How can sincerity be a condition of friendship? A taste for truth at any cost is a passion which spares nothing.
* Albert Camus

Real friendship is shown in times of trouble;
prosperity is full of friends.
* Euripedes

My father always used to say that when you die, if you've got five real friends, you've had a great life.
* Lee Iacocca

A true friend is the greatest of all blessings, and that which we take the least care of all to acquire.
* François Duc de La Rochefoucauld

However rare true love may be, it is less so than true friendship.
* François Duc de La Rochefoucauld

The most deadly fruit is borne by the hatred which one grafts on an extinguished friendship.
* Gotthold Ephraim Lessing

It's no good trying to keep up old friendships. It's painful for both sides. The fact is, one grows out of people, and the only thing is to face it.
* W. Somerset Maugham

We know our friends by their defects rather than by their merits.
* W. Somerset Maugham

If a man should importune me to give a reason why I loved him, I find it could no otherwise be expressed, than by making answer: because it was he, because it was I.
* Michel de Montaigne

Love demands infinitely less than friendship.
* George Jean Nathan

Hold a true friend with both your hands.
* Nigerian Proverb

To me, fair friend, you never can be old
For as you were when first your eye I eyed,
Such seems your beauty still.
* William Shakespeare

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 08, 2007, 09:18:13 PM
THE MOST IMPORTANT PART OF OUR BODY

"My mother used to ask me what the most important part of the body is.  Through the years I would take a guess at what I thought was the correct.   

Do you known what was the  Answer ? if you want to know  go on reading ......
 
When I was younger, I thought sound was very important to us as humans, so I said, "My ears, Mommy."
 
She said, "No. Many people are deaf. But you keep thinking about it and I will ask you again soon."
 
Several years passed before she asked me again. Since making my first attempt, I had contemplated the correct answer.
 
So this time I told her, "Mommy, sight is very important to everybody, so it must be our eyes."
 
She looked at me and told me, "You are learning fast, but the answer is not correct because there are many people who are blind."
 
Stumped again, I continued my quest for knowledge and over the years, Mother asked me a couple more times and always her answer was, "No. But you are getting smarter every year, my child."
 
Then one year, my grandfather died. Everybody was hurt. Everybody was crying. Even my father cried. I remember that especially because it was only the second time I saw him cry.
 
My Mom looked at me when it was our turn to say our final good-bye to my Grandfather. She asked me, "Do you know the most important body part yet, my dear?" I was shocked when she asked me this now. I always thought this was a game between her and me. She saw the confusion on my face and told me, "This question is very important. It shows that you have really lived in your life. For every body part you gave me in the past, I have told you were wrong and I have given you an example why.
 
But today is the day you need to learn this important lesson."
 
She looked down at me as only a mother can. I saw her eyes well up with tears. She said, "My dear, the most important body part is your shoulder."
 
I asked, "Is it because it holds up my head?"
 
She replied, "No, it is because it can hold the head of a friend or a loved one when they cry. Everybody needs a shoulder to cry on sometime in life, my dear. I only hope that you have enough love and friends that you will always have a shoulder to cry on when you need it."
 
Then and there I knew the most important body part is not a selfish one. It is made for others and not for yourself. It is sympathetic to the pain of others.
 
People will forget what you said. People will forget what you did. But people will NEVER forget how you made them feel.
 
The origination of this letter is unknown, but it brings a blessing to everyone who passes it on.  Good friends are like stars...You don't  always see them, but you always know they are there.
 
Share this with a friend, I just did. 
 
Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: saideep on August 13, 2007, 06:51:46 PM
oom sai ram,

dipika ji....
this is so wonderful... its just too good... and has so much of truth and learning ....

in fact i am in korea now... but after reading ... i really started thinking abt my best friend.....
and started missing him.. and i am praying baba ko help me finish teh project soon.. so that i can get back to my parents and my best friend......

thanks a lot ....

saideep
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 17, 2007, 09:20:07 AM
A faithful friend is the medicine of life… -- The Bible, Ecclesiasticus
A friend loveth at all times… -- The Bible, Proverbs
A friend may well be reckoned the masterpiece of nature… -- Ralph Waldo Emerson
A joy shared is a joy doubled… -- Goethe
A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world… -- Walter Winchell
A single rose can be my garden... a single friend, my world… -- Leo Buscaglia
A true friend is one who overlooks your failures and tolerates your… -- Doug Larson
A true friend unbosoms freely, advises justly, assists readily … -- William Penn
Ah, how good it feels! The hand of an old friend… -- Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
And a youth said, Speak to us of Friendship And he answered… -- Kahlil Gibran
But if the while I think on thee, dear friend, All losses are… -- William Shakespeare
Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow. Don't walk behind… -- Albert Camus
Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born… -- Anäis Nin
Friends are the sunshine of life… -- John Hay
Friends do not live in harmony merely, as some say, but … -- Henry David Thoreau
Friends, companions, lovers, are those who treat us in… -- Henry Alonzo Myers.
Friendship is not diminished by distance or time, by imprisonment… -- Pam Brown
Friendship is the only cement that will ever hold the world… -- Woodrow Wilson
Friendship is the golden thread that ties the heart of all the world… -- John Evelyn
Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art… -- C. S. Lewis
Friendship makes prosperity more brilliant, and lightens adversity… -- Cicero
Friendship on the other hand, serves a great host of different purposes… -- Cicero
Friendship's the wine of life… -- Edward Young
Grief can take care of itself, but to get the full value of a joy you… -- Mark Twain
Hold a true friend with both your hands… -- Nigerian Proverb
I keep my friends as misers do their treasure, because, of all the… -- Pietro Aretino
I love you not only for who you are, but for what you are when I am… -- Roy Croft
I shot an arrow into the air, It fell to earth, I knew not where… -- Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
I want someone to laugh with me, someone to be grave with me… -- Robert Burns
I want to be your friend For ever and ever without break or decay… -- Chinese 1st century AD
It is that my friends have made the story of my life. In a thousand ways… -- Helen Keller
It's the friends you can call up at 4:00 a.m. that really matter… -- Marlene Dietrich
Life is nothing without friendship… -- Cicero
Life is to be fortified by many friendships. To love and to be loved… -- Sydney Smith
Love is like the wild rose-briar; Friendship like the holly-tree… -- Emily Bronte
Love is rarer than genius itself. And friendship is rarer than love… -- Peguy
Make new friends, but keep the old; Those are silver, these are gold… -- Joseph Parry
No man is useless while he has a friend… -- Robert Louis Stevenson
Oh, the comfort, the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a… -- George Eliot
One loyal friend is worth ten thousand relatives… -- Euripides
One who looks for a friend without faults will have none… -- Hasidic Saying
Only your real friends will tell you when your face is dirty… -- Sicilian Proverb
Some people go to priests; others to poetry; I to my friends… -- Virginia Woolf
The bird a nest, the spider a web, man friendship… -- William Blake
The proper office of a friend is to side with you when you are wrong… -- Mark Twain
There can be no Friendship where there is no Freedom. Friendship… -- William Penn
There is nothing worth the wear of winning, but laughter and the… -- Hillaire Belloc
There's nothing more precious in this world than the feeling of… -- Diana Dors.
True friends stab you in the front… -- Oscar Wilde
Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labor… -- The Bible
What do we live for, if it is not to make life less difficult for each other… -- George Eliot
Whatever you are it is your own friends who make your world… -- William James
What is a friend? A single soul dwelling in two bodies… -- Aristotle
When your friend speaks his mind you fear not the 'nay' in your… -- Kahlil Gibran
Your friend is the man who knows all about you, and still likes you… -- Elbert Hubbard

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on August 23, 2007, 11:50:54 PM
ॐ सांई राम~~~


एक बार दो दोस्त- जूसी और लिएंडर, एक जंगल से गुजर रहे थे। अचानक नदी के किनारे पहुंचते ही उन दोनों में किसी बात पर झगडा हो गया। बातों-बातों में झगडा इतना बढ गया कि जूसी ने गुस्से में आकर लिएंडर को एक तमाचा जड दिया, पर लिएंडर ने पलट कर उससे कुछ जरूर नहीं कहा, लेकिन बस उसने नदी किनारे पडी मिट्टी पर यह लिख दिया कि आज मेरे सबसे अच्छे दोस्त ने मुझे बेइज्जत किया। इस घटना के बाद दोनों काफी देर तक नदी के किनारे बैठे रहे। और फिर शाम होते ही नदी में तैरने के लिए कूद पडे। दोनों नदी में तैर ही रहे थे कि लिएंडर गहरे पानी में पहुंच गया। अचानक न जाने कहां से मगरमच्छ उसके सामने आ गया! मगरमच्छ को देखते ही उसने बचाओ-बचाओ चिल्लाना शुरू कर दिया। उसकी आवाज सुनकर जूसी अपनी जान की परवाह किए बिना ही मगरमच्छ से टक्कर लेने पहुंच गया। उसने सीधे मगरमच्छ की आंख पर अपनी कोहनी मार दी। मगरमच्छ बिलबिला उठा और लिएंडर को छोडकर जूसी की ओर आ लपका, लेकिन चूंकि जूसी पहले से ही अलॅर्ट था, इसलिए वह तेजी से तैर कर किनारे पर पहुंच गया। किनारे पर आकर मगरमच्छ उतनी फुर्ती नहीं दिखा सका। इस प्रकार दोनों दोस्तों की जानें बच गई।

इस घटना के बाद लिएंडर ने नदी किनारे की चट्टान पर यह लिखा कि आज मेरे सबसे प्यारे दोस्त ने मेरे जीवन की रक्षा की। यह देखकर जूसी ने पूछा कि पहले तुमने मिट्टी पर लिखा था और अब चट्टान पर, ऐसा क्यों? इस पर लिएंडर ने जवाब दियकि दोस्त जब आपको दुख पहुंचाए, तो इसे रेत पर लिख देना चाहिए, ताकि जब हवा चले, ये शब्द खुद-ब-खुद रेत के साथ उड जाएं और जब दोस्त दोस्ती निभाए, तो उसे चट्टान पर लिख दो, ताकि वह जीवन भर के लिए अमिट हो जाए|

जय सांई राम~~~
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on August 24, 2007, 03:48:06 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

दोस्त कैसा हो?  दोस्त हो तो.....दोस्त अपने सांई जैसा हो। खूबसूरत, दयालु,  दयावान, नाथों का नाथ, शंहनशाओं का शंहनशाह। तभी तो मै कहता हूँ। अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई।

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on August 31, 2007, 05:57:37 AM
Om Sai Ram~~~

THE COLOR OF FRIENDSHID~~~

Once upon a time the colors of the world started to quarrel. All claimed that they were the best. The most important. The most useful. The favorite.

Green said:
"Clearly I am the most important. I am the sign of life and of hope. I was chosen for grass, trees and leaves. Without me, all animals would die. Look over the countryside and you will see that I am in the majority."

Blue interrupted:
"You only think about the earth, but consider the sky and the sea. It is the water that is the basis of life and drawn up by the clouds from the deep sea. The sky gives space and peace and serenity. Without my peace, you would all be nothing."

Yellow chuckled:
"You are all so serious. I bring laughter, gaiety, and warmth into the world. The sun is yellow, the moon is yellow, the stars are yellow. Every time you look at a sunflower, the whole world starts to smile. Without me there would be no fun."

Orange started next to blow her trumpet:
"I am the color of health and strength. I may be scarce, but I am precious for I serve the needs of human life. I carry the most important vitamins. Think of carrots, pumpkins, oranges, mangoes, and papayas. I don't hang around all the time, but when I fill the sky at sunrise or sunset, my beauty is so striking that no one gives another thought to any of you."

Red could stand it no longer he shouted out:
"I am the ruler of all of you. I am blood - life's blood! I am the color of danger and of bravery. I am willing to fight for a cause. I bring fire into the blood. Without me, the earth would be as empty as the moon. I am the color of passion and of love, the red rose, the poinsettia and the poppy."

Purple rose up to his full height:
He was very tall and spoke with great pomp: "I am the color of royalty and power. Kings, chiefs, and bishops have always chosen me for I am the sign of authority and wisdom. People do not question me! They listen and obey."

Finally Indigo spoke, much more quietly than all the others, but with just as much determination:
"Think of me. I am the color of silence. You hardly notice me, but without me you all become superficial. I represent thought and reflection, twilight and deep water. You need me for balance and contrast, for prayer and inner peace."

And so the colors went on boasting, each convinced of his or her own superiority. Their quarreling became louder and louder. Suddenly there was a startling flash of bright lightening thunder rolled and boomed. Rain started to pour down relentlessly. The colors crouched down in fear, drawing close to one another for comfort.

In the midst of the clamor, rain began to speak:
"You foolish colors, fighting amongst yourselves, each trying to dominate the rest. Don't you know that you were each made for a special purpose, unique and different? Join hands with one another and come to me."

Doing as they were told, the colors united and joined hands.

The rain continued:
"From now on, when it rains, each of you will stretch across the sky in a great bow of color as a reminder that you can all live in peace. The Rainbow is a sign of hope for tomorrow."

And so, whenever a good rain washes the world, and a Rainbow appears in the sky, let us remember to appreciate one another.
 
Jai Sai Ram~~~
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on September 06, 2007, 11:02:49 PM
Om Sai Ram~~~

Friends in your life are like the pillars on your porch. Sometimes they hold you up, and sometimes they lean on you. sometimes it's just enough to know they're standing by~~~

Jai Sai Ram~~~
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Kavitaparna on September 11, 2007, 02:11:19 AM
OM SRI SAI RAM

Dost !

Dost !!

Dost !!! Aise he ho jaise Dost Ho!

The soothing words of my friends make me forget my world of sorrow for a moment...hours....days.....weeks and then months and ....then enlighten me to transform my sorrow into happiness...thus strenghthen me....shape me too into a good friend.

Thanks is a very small word my dear friends....for everything you have done to me I can express my gratitude by being a very good friend.

Jai Sri Sai Ram




Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on September 22, 2007, 07:12:01 AM
Om Sai Ram~~~

DOST...............

D-Dastak bi na de
O-Or apna bana le
S-sanso me base jo
T-Taqder jo sawar de
Aise hi shaks ko kehte hai "DOST"~~~~~

JAISE MERE SAI~~~~~~~~

BABA~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Jai Sai Ram~~~
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on September 26, 2007, 12:34:02 AM
Om Sai Ram~~~

" BABA is the only friend in the entire universe who will accept and maintain your friendship with the only valuable thing in you - Trust in Him, not only for the entire life but also for all your lives. Offer friendship to BABA and make BABA your best friend and He will never break your friendship."~~~  :)

I trust in BABA so much and when none of my friends supported me when I required them, BABA held my hands and we became best friends gradually and HE has totally changed my life~~~  :)

LOVE U BABA~~~~ALWAYS BE WITH ME~~~~THANK YOU SAI~~~~  :)

Jai Sai Ram~~~
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 04, 2007, 11:08:27 PM
As I am awakened swiftly
From a deep and peaceful sleep
My heart is racing wildly
Like a million little feet.

The panic that I used to feel
Has turned to something new
A feeling of strength and power
That I have somehow learned from you.

You have empowered me
To take a look within
And find the love of a friend
Where fear had always been.

So, now I reach into the dark
And feel the ray of light
From the love a friend sends to me
Shinning bright into the night.
 
 
 
Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 06, 2007, 11:32:24 AM
Anytime You Need A Friend


If you're lonely
And need a friend
And troubles seem like
They never end,
Just remember to keep the Faith,
And Love will be there to Light the Way

Anytime you need a friend,
I will be here.
You'll never be alone again,
So don't you fear.
Even if you're miles away,
I'm by your side.
So don't you ever be lonely.
Love will make it alright.


When the shadows are closing in
And your Spirit deminishing,
Just remember you're not alone,
And Love will be there
To Guide you Home.


If you just believe in me,
I will Love you endlessly.
Take my hand.
Take me into your Heart.
I'll be there forever, baby.
I won't let go.
I'll never let go.

Anytime you need a friend,
I will be here.
You'll never be alone again,
So don't you fear.
Even if your miles away,
I'm by your side.
So don't you ever be lonely.
It's alright.
It's alright

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 06, 2007, 11:33:52 AM
Well if you're ever lonely you can call on me
and I'll be here for you all you've got to do is call
said I'm always waiting here for you all you've got to do
is keep on trying till your call gets through


And for so many years I have been your friend
we've been through everything time and time again
but I want you to know that I still believe in you
all you've got to do is keep on trying till your call gets through


Well if you're ever lonely you can call on me
and I'll be here for you all you've got to do is call
said I'm always waiting here for you all you've got to do
is keep on trying till your call gets through


You got to keep trying even though the road gets hard
you got to keep going on even though he broke your heart
and if you ever need a friend I will be here for you
all you've got to do is keep on trying till your call gets through


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 06, 2007, 11:39:16 AM
Count on me  through thick and thin
A friendship that will never end
When you are weak
I will be strong
Helping you to carry on
Call on me, I will be there
Don't be afraid
Please believe me when I say
Count on...


I can see it's hurting you
I can feel your pain
It's hard to see the sunshine through the rain
I know sometimes it seems as if
It's never gonna end
But you'll get through it
Just don't give in cuz you can

Count on me (mm) through thick and thin
A friendship that will never end (ah)
When you are weak
I will be strong
Helping you to carry on
Call on me, I will be there
Don't be afraid
Please believe me when I say
Count on...
You can count on meOh yes you can (ah)


Oo, I know sometimes it seems as if
We're standing all alone
But we'll get through it
Cuz love won't let us fall

Count on me (count on me, i'll be there) through thick and thin
A friendship that will never end
When you are weak
I will be strong (I'll be strong)
Helping you to carry on (yes, you know)
Call on me, I will be thereDon't be afraid
Please believe me when I say
Count on...
Count on...


There's a place inside all of us
Where our faith in love begins
You should reach to find the truth in love
The answers' there within, oh
I know that life can make you feel
It's much harder than it really is
But we'll get through it (we'll get through it)
(Just) Just (don't) don't give in (oh)


Count on me (count on me) through thick and thin
A friendship that will never end (it'll never end)
When you are weak (you)
I will be strong (I will be strong)
Helping you to carry on
Call on me, I will be there
Don't be afraid (don't be afraid now)
Please believe me when I say
Count on
Count on
Count on
Count on
Count on
Count on meOh yes you can
I know I can
Yes you can
Well
So glad I can, count on me  

U CAN ALWAYS COUNT ON ME :(


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 06, 2007, 11:41:38 AM
So no one told you life was gonna be this way
Your jobs a joke, you're broke, your love life's D.O.A.

It's like you're always stuck in second gear
And it hasn't been your day, your week, your month, or even your year
but..

I'll be there for you
When the rain starts to pour
I'll be there for you
Like I've been there before
I'll be there for you
'Cuz you're there for me too...

You're still in bed at ten
And work began at eight
You've burned your breakfast
So far... things are goin' great

Your mother warned you there'd be days like these
Oh but she didn't tell you when the world has brought
You down to your knees that...

I'll be there for you
When the rain starts to pour
I'll be there for you
Like I've been there before
I'll be there for you
'Cuz you're there for me too...

No one could ever know me
Seems you're the only one who knows
What it's like to be me
Someone to face the day with
Make it through all the rest with
Someone I'll always laugh with
Even at my worst I'm best with you, yeah

It's like you're always stuck in second gear
And it hasn't been your day, your week, your month, or even your year...

I'll be there for you
When the rain starts to pour
I'll be there for you
Like I've been there before
I'll be there for you
'Cuz you're there for me too...

I'll be there for you
I'll be there for you
I'll be there for you
'Cuz you're there for me too...

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 06, 2007, 11:43:13 AM
When you have no light to guide you
And no one to walk beside you
I will come to you
Oh, I will come to you
When the night is dark and stormy
You won't have to reach out for me
I will come to you
Oh, I will come to you
Sometimes when all your dreams may have seen better days
And you don't know how or why, but you've lost your way
Have no fear when your tears are falling
I will hear your spirit callin'
And I swear that I'll be there come what may


When you have no light to guide you
And no one to walk beside you
I will come to you
Oh, I will come to you
When the night is dark and stormy
You won't have to reach out for me
I will come to you
Oh, I will come to you
Sometimes when all your dreams may have seen better days
And you don't know how or why, but you've lost your way
Have no fear when your tears are falling
I will hear your spirit callin'
And I swear that I'll be there come what may


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 06, 2007, 11:45:53 AM
Sometimes in our lives we all have pain
We all have sorrow
But if we are wise
We know that there's always tomorrow

Lean on me, when you're not strong
And I'll be your friend
I'll help you carry on
For it won't be long
'Til I'm gonna need
Somebody to lean on.

Please swallow your pride
If I have things you need to borrow
For no one can fill those of your needs
That you don't let show

Lean on me, when you're not strong
And I'll be your friend
I'll help you carry on
For it won't be long
'Til I'm gonna need
Somebody to lean on

If there is a load you have to bear
That you can't carry
I'm right up the road I'll share your load
If you just call me

So just call on me Friend, when you need a hand
We all need somebody to lean on
I just might have a problem that you'd understand
We all need somebody to lean on

Lean on me when you're not strong
And I'll be your friend I'll help you carry on
For it won't be long
Till I'm gonna need
Somebody to lean on
Lean on me...

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 06, 2007, 11:47:58 AM
Oh, why you look so sad? Tears are in your eyes
Come on and come to me now.
Don't be ashamed to cry, let me see you through
Cause I've seen the dark side too.
When the night falls on you, you don't know what to do,
Nothing you confess could make me love you less
I'll stand by you, I'll stand by you, won't let nobody hurt you,
I'll stand by you.

So, if you're mad get mad, don't hold it all inside,
Come on and talk to me now.
And hey, what you got to hide? I get angry too
But I'm alot like you.
When you're standing at the crossroads, don't know which path to choose,
Let me come along, cause even if your wrong
I'll stand by you, I'll stand by you, won't let nobody hurt you,
I'll stand by you.
Take me into your darkest hour, and I'll never desert you.
I'll stand by you.

And when, when the night falls on you baby, you're feeling all alone,
You won't be on your own, I'll stand by you. I'll stand by you
I'll stand by you, won't let nobody hurt you. I'll stand by you
Take me in into your darkest hour and I'll never desert you
I'll stand by you.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 06, 2007, 11:49:39 AM
Oh, why you look so sad? Tears are in your eyes
Come on and come to me now.
Don't be ashamed to cry, let me see you through
Cause I've seen the dark side too.
When the night falls on you, you don't know what to do,
Nothing you confess could make me love you less
I'll stand by you, I'll stand by you, won't let nobody hurt you,
I'll stand by you.

So, if you're mad get mad, don't hold it all inside,
Come on and talk to me now.
And hey, what you got to hide? I get angry too
But I'm alot like you.
When you're standing at the crossroads, don't know which path to choose,
Let me come along, cause even if your wrong
I'll stand by you, I'll stand by you, won't let nobody hurt you,
I'll stand by you.
Take me into your darkest hour, and I'll never desert you.
I'll stand by you.

And when, when the night falls on you baby, you're feeling all alone,
You won't be on your own, I'll stand by you. I'll stand by you
I'll stand by you, won't let nobody hurt you. I'll stand by you
Take me in into your darkest hour and I'll never desert you
I'll stand by you.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 06, 2007, 11:54:11 AM
When the daylight's gone and you're on your own And you need a friend just to be around
I will comfort you, I will take your hand
And I'll pull you through, I will understand


And you know that
I'll be at your side, there's no need to worry
Together we'll survive through the haste and hurry
I'll be at your side
If you feel like you're alone, and you've nowhere to turn
I'll be at your side


If life's standing still and your soul's confused
And you cannot find what road to choose
If you make mistakes (make mistakes)
You can't let me down (let me down)
I will still believe (still believe)
I will turn around


And you know that
I'll be at your side, there's no need to worry
Together we'll survive through the haste and hurry
I'll be at your side
If you feel like you're alone, and you've nowhere to turn
I'll be at your side


I'll be at your side
I'll be at your side
You know that


I'll be at your side, there's no need to worry
Together we'll survive through the haste and hurry
I'll be at your side
If you feel like you're alone, you've got somewhere to go,
'Cos I'm right there
I'll be at your side, I'll be right there for you
(Together we'll survive) through the haste and hurry
I'll be at your side
If you feel like you're alone, you've got somewhere to go,
'Cos I'm at your side


I'll be right there for you
I'll be right there for you, yeah
I'm right at your side


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 06, 2007, 11:56:38 AM
What are friends,
I've often wondered.
Friends have come,
And Friends have gone.
Seldom do I hear their voices,
Like old forgotten songs.
I've walked a thousand lonely miles,
And often wondered, "What went wrong?"
But I've got to make you see;
A friend to you I'll always be.
A friend to you I'll always be

A friend is not a thing to trade,
Not to bo bought, nor to be sold;
Not the ring upon your fingers.
It's not the bills which you fold,
Not the coins your pocket holds.
A friend is young, A friend is old.
And I've got to make you see,
A friend is true, a friend is free;
A friend to you I'll always be.
A friend to you I'll always be.

A friend is not the fancy car,
In which you ride around.
A friend is not the little pill,
That makes you head spin round and round.
A friend is not the needle,
That creates the clouds,
On which you fly.
It's not the smoke that makes you high,
But a hand that's always by,
To wipe the tears from your eyes,
Should the world make you cry.
And I've got to make you see,
Our friendship grows like a tree;
A friend to you I'll always be.
A friend to you I'll always be.

What are friends,
I've often wondered,
Now you've disappeared,
Fading into the collection,
Of songs I seldom hear,
I'll walk another lonely mile,
And let the tears fall like the rain,
â?~Till another calls me friend,
Then I'll say these words again;
A friend to you, I'll always be.
A friend to you I'll always be.


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 07, 2007, 12:04:47 PM
Medicines & Friendship cure our problems,Only difference is that Friendships dont have an expiry date...


Dosti me har waqt aajmaish hoti hai,Is dil mein har waqt milne ki khawaish hoti hai... Mana ki tumhe hum yaad nahi karte,Yaad woh aate hai jinko bhulne ki gunjaish hoti hai...


Zindagi Udas Hone Ka Naam Nahi,Dosti Sirf Paas Hone Ka Naam Nahi.Agar Tum Door rehkar Bhi Hume Yaad Rakho,Is Se Bada Hamare Liye Koi Inaam Nahi!!!....


Aakho ke saamne hardam aapko paya hai... Dil mein bhi aapko hi basaya hai... Aapke bina hum jiyenge kaise... Dost Bina bhi koi jee paya hai....


Aakho ke saamne hardam aapko paya hai... Dil mein bhi aapko hi basaya hai... Aapke bina hum jiyenge kaise... Dost Bina bhi koi jee paya hai....


Zindagi ka raz ,Raz rehne dijiye,Jo bhi ho aitraz,Aitraz rehne dijiye... Par jab yeh dil dil se milna chahe,Dost yeh mat kehna ki aaj rehne dijiye...

Fursat kise hain Jakhmo pe malham lagane ki.Neegahe badal gayee apano aur baigano ki.Tum na chhodna dosti ka haath kabhi.Warana tamanna na rahegi naye dost banae ki.


Yuhi aankho se aansoo behte nahi,Kisi aur ko hum apna kehte nahi... Ek tum hi ho jo zindagi mein ruk se gaye ho dost,Warna rukne ke liye hum kisi ko kehte nahi


Dost har kisi ko banaya na karo,Dosti har kisi se jataya na karo.... Dosti mein aksar log dhoka de jaate hain,Zindagi aise dost ke naam karo jiske bina tum muskara na sako....


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: my_sai on October 07, 2007, 12:27:34 PM
dipika ji ,
SACHA DOST WO HAI JO AAP KE BINA JEE NA PAAYE MAGER AISA HAKIKET MAIN NAHI HOTA , DOST AAJ KAL AISE CHOD JAATE HAIN JAISE SAANP APNI KENCHULI CHOD DETEY HAI ,
SAI MA ALWAYS BLESS YOU
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 07, 2007, 11:23:47 PM
Friends should be the ones listening to your secrets, not the ones that hurt your feelings without knowing. Friends should be the ones that keep all your secrets, not those who spread it all around

May your friends be as many as the promises that you keep.


I've been searching for that someone, to show me the way, to take my hand and tell me that everything will be okay; I've been searching for that someone, and now I know it's true, I've found that special someone, I've found that someone in you.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 08, 2007, 10:51:12 AM
I'LL BE THERE FOR YOU


So no one ever told you life was going to be this way?

Your job's a joke, you're broke, your love life's DOA

It's like your always stuck in second gear

When it hasn't been your day, your week, your month or even your year


I'll be there for you, when the rain starts to fall

I'll be ther for you, cause I've been there before

I'll be there for you, cause you're there for me too


Your in bed by ten, you work again at a eight

You burned your breakfast so far, things are going great

Your mother warned you there be days like these

That she didn't tell you is when you are down on your knees


I'll be there for you, when the rain starts to fall

I'll be ther for you, cause I've been there before

I'll be there for you, cause you're there for me too..............

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 08, 2007, 10:55:59 AM
For all those times you stood by me
For all the truth that you made me see
For all the joy you brought to my life
For all the wrong that you made right
For every dream you made come true
For all the love I found in you
I'll be forever thankful baby
You're the one who held me up
Never let me fall
You're the one who saw me through through it all


You were my strength when I was weak
You were my voice when I couldn't speak
You were my eyes when I couldn't see
You saw the best there was in me
Lifted me up when I couldn't reach
You gave me faith 'coz you believed
I'm everything I am
Because you loved me


You gave me wings and made me fly
You touched my hand I could touch the sky
I lost my faith, you gave it back to me
You said no star was out of reach
You stood by me and I stood tall
I had your love I had it all
I'm grateful for each day you gave me
Maybe I don't know that much
But I know this much is true
I was blessed because I was loved by you


You were my strength when I was weak
You were my voice when I couldn't speak
You were my eyes when I couldn't see
You saw the best there was in me
Lifted me up when I couldn't reach
You gave me faith 'coz you believed
I'm everything I am
Because you loved me


You were always there for me
The tender wind that carried me
A light in the dark shining your love into my life
You've been my inspiration
Through the lies you were the truth
My world is a better place because of you


You were my strength when I was weak
You were my voice when I couldn't speak
You were my eyes when I couldn't see
You saw the best there was in me
Lifted me up when I couldn't reach
You gave me faith 'coz you believed
I'm everything I am
Because you loved me


I'm everything I am
Because you loved me. 



Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on October 14, 2007, 08:57:45 AM
Om Sai Ram~~~

The Friend~~~


The true friend: He is the friend that when you are with, if is as if you are alone, meaning he is the person who you consider to be on the same level as yourself

The true friend: He is the one who accepts your excuses and forgives you if your, and defends you in your absense.

The true friend: He is the one who assumes of you the best assumptions.
And if you err in truth, he seeks an excuse and says to himself, perhaps it was not indended.

The true friend: He is the one who cares for your wealth, and your family, and your offspirng, and your honour.

The True Friend: He is the one who is with you using ease, and hardship, and in happiness, and in sadness, and openness and in constrait.


The true friend: He is the one who prefers you over hisself and wishes for you good always.

The true friend: He is the one who advices you if he sees your faults and encourages you if he sees good in you and helps you adhere to good deeds


The true friend: He is the one who makes room for you in a seating, and hurries to greet you with peace if he meets you, and hurries to help you if you are in need of help.

The true friend: He is the one who prays for you, without you knowing, without you asking for it.


The true friend: He is the one who loves you for the sake of SAI, and not for the benefit of material goods or support.


The true friend: He is the one who benefits you with his actions, and excellence, and morals and manners.

The true friend: He is the one who raised your esteem between the people and boasts his friendship and is not embarrased with his friendship and his walking with you.

The true friend: He is the one who is happy if you need him, and rushes you serve you, not wanting anything in return.


The true friend: He is the one who wishes for you what he wishes for himself.

Jai Sai Ram~~~
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 18, 2007, 09:25:13 AM
A Just Friend says..hi,..hello,..bye,...and walks away...
A Best friend always stop by your side & asks how r u doing ??

A Just Friend has never seen you cry.
A Best friend has shoulders soggy from your tears.


A Just Friend thinks the friendship is over, when you have an argument.
A Best friend knows that it's not a friendship, until after you've had a fight.


A Just Friend hates it when you call, after he has gone to bed.
A Best friend asks you.... why you took so long to call.

A Just Friend, when visiting, acts like a guest.
A Best friend opens your refrigerator and helps himself.

A Just Friend jealous about your romantic history.
A Best friend wonders of your love story.....


A Just Friend expects you to be always there for any help.
A Best friend is always there, wherever you require any help.

A Just Friend doesn't have time in his/her busy schedule,
A Best friend always have time for you in his/her busy schedules....

A Just Friend doesnt have anything to talk to you on phone,
A Best friend doesnt know...what all to finish...

I am not the best,
but I am not like the rest

--


             Ankush

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 18, 2007, 11:29:49 PM
Sai baba you are OUR BEST FRIEND..............................ALLAH MALIK HAI!

Others may leave us ,but BABA we can always count on UUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU... :D :D


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 21, 2007, 08:45:44 AM
A lot of people saw this incident and feel very touched




http://www.lovebeats.org/forums/index.php?topic=578.0





Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 21, 2007, 08:49:33 AM
A true friendship is built on trust and honesty, is able to withstand
the test of time, and possesses the capacity of forgiveness.

 
 
1. Foundation.

A friendship is built on a solid foundation, which enables it to
withstand adversity and conflict. For example, a true friend will
understand your underlying feelings in spite of your outward actions.

2. Respect.

Respect is the key to any successful relationship; and without it,
there can be no true friendship. For example, a true friend may
disagree and share a different opinion in a caring and thoughtful
way, not in a scornful and disdainful manner.

 
3. Intimacy.

A friendship involves the sharing of personal and intimate
information, which is safely held between friends. For example, a
true friend will hold a confidence no matter the burden.

 
4. Enrichment.

A friendship provides a richness to each friend by giving each a
sense of value and importance. For example, a true friend is able to
give love, compassion, attention, and compliments unselfishly.

5. Nourishment.

A friendship nourishes the soul and makes the heart sing. For
example, a true friend knows how to plant seeds and empower in an
honest and loving way.
 
6. Dance.

A friendship resembles a perfectly choreographed and perfectly
synchronized dance between two partners. For example, a true friend
knows what step you are going to take before you take it.

 
7. Support.

A friendship provides support during times of need. For example, when
you are walking a difficult path, a true friend is there to quietly
walk beside you and to give you whatever is needed no matter the
circumstances.

 
8. Harmony.

A friendship is a harmonious bond between human beings where
different ideas and thoughts may be freely shared with each friend
having the capacity to fully understand. For example, a true
friendship involves an honest exchange of ideas without chaos or
conflict.

 
9. Inspiration.

A friendship serves to inspire. For example, a true friend possesses
unconditional kindness and love, which inspires others to exemplify
the same traits.

 
10. Partnership.

A friendship is a partnership with both friends working together to
create a synergy. For example, an obstacle is more easily and
effortlessly overcome with the help of a friend.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on October 26, 2007, 02:19:05 AM
ॐ सांई राम~~~

साथी सिर्फ वो नहीं होता जो जीवन भर साथ निभाए~~~
साथी तो वो होता है जो जीवन के कुछ पलों में भी जीवन भर का साथ दे जाए~~~

जय सांई राम~~~
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: JR on October 26, 2007, 02:22:43 AM
Jai Sai Ram Annu Ji,

Kya baat hai................Kya kahi hai............Koi jawab nahi hai iska to.

thanks.

Jai Sai Ram.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: saideep on October 30, 2007, 04:11:41 AM
oom sai ram annu.. di

kya khoob kaha hai...
16 ana sach..... :-)

sai sai sai
sai sai sai
sai sai sai

saideep
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on November 02, 2007, 09:20:03 PM
Om Sai Ram~~~

" Friends and lighthouses share the same purpose; they wait quietly on the shore while you return from your journeys, their lights guide you home safely and the strength upon which they're built lets you know they'll still be there in all types of weather"~~~

Thanks Jyoti & Saideep~~~  :)

Jai Sai Ram~~~
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on November 03, 2007, 08:36:50 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

दोस्ती से आज ज़माना शर्माया है
'तेरी' चाहत ने कुछ ऐसा ग़ज़ब दिखाया है
खुदा से क्या 'तुझे' मांगूं बाबा
वो तो आज खुद मुझसे आप जैसा दोस्त मांगने आया है।

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on November 12, 2007, 07:22:56 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

किसी ने शेख शादी से पूछा
"दोस्त" और "भाई" में क्या फर्क है?
तो आपने फरमाया
"भाई" हीरा है
और
"दोस्त" सोना  है
 
उस पर आदी ने कहा,
"आप ने दोस्त को कम कीमत
और
भाई को कीमती च़ीज़ से क्यों तसबीह दी?
तो आप ने फरमाया,
"सोने में अगर द़रार आ गई तो उस को पिगला कर बिल्कुल पहले जैसा बनाया जा सकता है, जबकि हीरे में एक दरार आ गई तो वो कभी भी पहले जैसा नही बन सकता"

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on November 14, 2007, 10:52:49 PM
ॐ सांई राम~~~

मित्रता पूजा सम है , मित्र प्रभु का रूप ,
जो निभावे मित्रता , बन जाए प्रभु का स्वरूप~~~

जय सांई राम~~~
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on November 17, 2007, 07:55:29 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

A friend like BABA is like Diyas on Diwali.....Driving away darkness and spreading brightness all around.  I am lucky to have found such a treasured friend in MY BABA SAI....

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 18, 2007, 09:19:33 AM
OMSAIRAM!Our True Friend is BABA SAI,WHO ALWAYS COMES RUNNING TO OUR AID.

ALLAH MALIK!



 :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :)



Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 18, 2007, 09:58:03 AM
OMSAIRAM!A true Friend is one who Lights your life.............. :D :D :D :D :D.


Thankyou Sai baba.

ALLAH MALIK!


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on November 19, 2007, 09:29:15 PM
ॐ सांई राम~~~

अम्रत मय महा मधुर , मोहक मन का धाम,
मित्र दो अक्षर प्रेम मय ,परम प्रभु का दान...
मित्र में सारा जग बसे,मित्रता पूजा रूप,

सुख दुख में दे साथ जो,कभी न खोले भेद,
छल छिद्र से रहे परे,सदा हरे सब खेद~~~~

जय सांई राम~~~
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 19, 2007, 11:14:33 PM
A True Friend always Stands with you,never accuses u,knows u in nd out..........

OUR TRUE FRIEND IS BABA SAI.

nd also All my friends who know how I am.

Thankyou Nimmi..........Love U.

ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: priyanka_goel on November 19, 2007, 11:15:39 PM
om shri sai nathay namah
om shri sai nathay namah
om shri sai nathay namah
om shri sai nathay namah
om shri sai nathay namah
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on November 20, 2007, 03:02:04 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

मित्रता प्रेम ही है, परन्तु पंखविहीन। 

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on November 21, 2007, 11:13:26 PM
Om Sai Ram~~~

She makes me forget my worries
She supports me when all leave me alone
She corrects me in times of wrong
She smiles at my mistake
Encourages, seeing my capacity
Discourages my wrong ways
She fills life to my life
Fills smiles to my thoughts
Fills air to my breath
Hers are the sweet memories
Never fails, cherishes my life,
Helps to recall my youth.
She is none other than my close friend,
Trustworthy friend whom I depend on~~~

Jai Sai Ram~~~
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on November 22, 2007, 11:00:19 PM
Om Sai Ram~~~

Don't judge your FRIENDS by the way they SPEAK ,
Judge them by the way they CARE~~~

Because CARE is outcome of a TRUE BOND in FRIENDSHIP~~~~

Jai Sai Ram~~~
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 23, 2007, 03:47:23 AM
 Some One Very Special I Found


There is always someone on this planet willing to love you for who you are

Who wants to love



Take care of you



Give themselves and everything they have to you



Protect you



Never judge you



Every person has a special someone that they are destined to meet



Keep your eyes open



Because they are on their way



If you have not met them already



So open your heart



Let the love pour in



Because that special someone is on their way.

http://deepblueocean.rediffiland.com/scripts/xanadu_diary_view.php

ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 23, 2007, 09:10:24 AM
Choose friends who will stick to you till the end, through thick and thin   

Sai baba  

ALLAH MALIK!


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on November 26, 2007, 08:57:11 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

Tips for strong bond of friendship

1. किसी से भी दोस्ती के लिए खुद पहल करें।

2. दोस्ती में छोटे-छोटे सैक्रिफाइस करने के लिए हमेशा तैयार रहें।

3. दोस्ती एक रिश्ता है, जिसे आप खुद संजोते हैं, इसलिए अपने दोस्तों पर पूरा विश्वास रखें।

4. दोस्तों के साथ अपनी बातें शेयर करने में हिचकिचाए नहीं।

5. कभी भी अपने दोस्त की बुराई किसी अन्य से न करें।

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on November 27, 2007, 02:10:11 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

Tips for strong bond of friendship

1. किसी से भी दोस्ती के लिए खुद पहल करें।

2. दोस्ती में छोटे-छोटे सैक्रिफाइस करने के लिए हमेशा तैयार रहें।

3. दोस्ती एक रिश्ता है, जिसे आप खुद संजोते हैं, इसलिए अपने दोस्तों पर पूरा विश्वास रखें।

4. दोस्तों के साथ अपनी बातें शेयर करने में हिचकिचाए नहीं।

5. कभी भी अपने दोस्त की बुराई किसी अन्य से न करें।

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।

Om Sai Ram~~~

Wowwwwwww~~~~~gr8 bha ji~~~

Jai Sai Ram~~~
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on November 27, 2007, 02:12:28 AM
Om Sai Ram~~~

A Friend Is~~~
 
Anyone can stand by you when you are right,
But a Friend will stand by you even when you are wrong.

A simple friend identifies himself when he calls.
A real friend doesn't have to.

A simple friend opens a conversation
With a full news bulletin on his life.
A real friend says, "What's new with you?"

A simple friend thinks the problems you whine about are recent.
A real friend says,
"You've been whining about the same thing for 14 years.
Get off your duff and do something about it."

A simple friend has never seen you cry.
A real friend has shoulders soggy from your tears.

A simple friend doesn't know your parents' first names.
A real friend has their phone numbers in his address book.

A simple friend brings a bottle of wine to your party.
A real friend comes early to help you cook
And stays late to help you clean.

A simple friend hates it when you call after he has gone to bed.
A real friend asks you why you took so long to call.

A simple friend seeks to talk with you about your problems.
A real friend seeks to help you with your problems.

A simple friend wonders about your romantic history.
A real friend could blackmail you with it.

A simple friend, when visiting, acts like a guest.
A real friend opens your refrigerator and helps himself.

A simple friend thinks the friendship is over
When you have an argument.
A real friend knows that it's not a friendship until after
You've had a fight.

A simple friend expects you to always be there for them.
A real friend expects to always be there for you!


Jai Sai Ram~~~
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on November 27, 2007, 09:06:11 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

बाबा की दोस्ती ग़ज़ल है गुनगुनाने के लिये....
बाबा की दोस्ती नगमा है सुनाने के लिये....
ये वो ज़ज़्बा है जो सबको मिलता नहीं....
क्योंकि श्रद्धा सबूरी का हौसला चाहिये बाबा की दोस्ती को निभाने के लिये....

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on December 04, 2007, 08:56:54 PM
Om Sai Ram~~~

" A friend is a person who cradles your soul, when life makes it too heavy to carry on your own"~~~

Jai Sai Ram~~~
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on December 06, 2007, 08:05:48 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

माना कि प्यार का मतलब "प" के बिना अधूरा है....
लेकिन "प" को अगर प्यार से निकाल दिया जाये तो सिर्फ "यार" रह जाता है...
और तुम्हारे जैसा "यार" हो तो ज़िन्दगी से भी प्यार हो जाता है...

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on December 09, 2007, 12:20:54 AM
ॐ सांई राम~~~


एक बार दो दोस्त- जूसी और लिएंडर, एक जंगल से गुजर रहे थे। अचानक नदी के किनारे पहुंचते ही उन दोनों में किसी बात पर झगडा हो गया। बातों-बातों में झगडा इतना बढ गया कि जूसी ने गुस्से में आकर लिएंडर को एक तमाचा जड दिया, पर लिएंडर ने पलट कर उससे कुछ जरूर नहीं कहा, लेकिन बस उसने नदी किनारे पडी मिट्टी पर यह लिख दिया कि आज मेरे सबसे अच्छे दोस्त ने मुझे बेइज्जत किया। इस घटना के बाद दोनों काफी देर तक नदी के किनारे बैठे रहे। और फिर शाम होते ही नदी में तैरने के लिए कूद पडे। दोनों नदी में तैर ही रहे थे कि लिएंडर गहरे पानी में पहुंच गया। अचानक न जाने कहां से मगरमच्छ उसके सामने आ गया! मगरमच्छ को देखते ही उसने बचाओ-बचाओ चिल्लाना शुरू कर दिया। उसकी आवाज सुनकर जूसी अपनी जान की परवाह किए बिना ही मगरमच्छ से टक्कर लेने पहुंच गया। उसने सीधे मगरमच्छ की आंख पर अपनी कोहनी मार दी। मगरमच्छ बिलबिला उठा और लिएंडर को छोडकर जूसी की ओर आ लपका, लेकिन चूंकि जूसी पहले से ही अलॅर्ट था, इसलिए वह तेजी से तैर कर किनारे पर पहुंच गया। किनारे पर आकर मगरमच्छ उतनी फुर्ती नहीं दिखा सका। इस प्रकार दोनों दोस्तों की जानें बच गई।

इस घटना के बाद लिएंडर ने नदी किनारे की चट्टान पर यह लिखा कि आज मेरे सबसे प्यारे दोस्त ने मेरे जीवन की रक्षा की। यह देखकर जूसी ने पूछा कि पहले तुमने मिट्टी पर लिखा था और अब चट्टान पर, ऐसा क्यों? इस पर लिएंडर ने जवाब दियकि दोस्त जब आपको दुख पहुंचाए, तो इसे रेत पर लिख देना चाहिए, ताकि जब हवा चले, ये शब्द खुद-ब-खुद रेत के साथ उड जाएं और जब दोस्त दोस्ती निभाए, तो उसे चट्टान पर लिख दो, ताकि वह जीवन भर के लिए अमिट हो जाए|

जय सांई राम~~~
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on December 09, 2007, 11:30:24 PM
OMSAIRAM!Beware of false friends....friends who use u in there time of need....and dump u like dustbin later. :D :D :D :D :(

ALLAH MALIK!



Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on December 10, 2007, 12:19:07 AM
ॐ सांई राम~~~

How to recognize true friend~~~

सच्ची दोस्ती के लिए कोई वेरिफाइड फॉर्मूला नहीं होता है। बस, आप अपने एक्सपीरिएंस के आधार पर जान पाते हैं कि कौन आपका सच्चा दोस्त है! जब आप किसी मुसीबत में होते हैं और उस समय जो दोस्त आपकी हरसंभव मदद करता है, वही आपका सच्चा दोस्त होता है। याद रखिए कि friend in need is a friend indeed.

Alphabet`s Says

F - Faithful

R - Reliable

I - In touch

E - Enduring

N - Needed

D - Devoted

जय सांई राम~~~
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on December 10, 2007, 09:57:08 PM
OMSAIRAM!Beware of false friends....friends who use u in there time of need....and dump u like dustbin later. :D :D :D :D :(

ALLAH MALIK!



Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

Om Sai Ram~~~

Cultivate a friendship ~~~

Cultivate a friendship,
As you do a garden bed;
Nourish, feed and watch it grow,
With help and nice things said.

Smile, it's like the sunshine
Needed for the flowers,
Loving hands to tend and care,
Soft rains and sun-filled hours.

Little hurts are like weeds,
That come between the rows;
Pull and cast them out before
The beautiful friendship goes.

Be proud of your well tended garden,
And proud of a good friend too,
All the work you put into them
Will come straight back to you.

Don't neglect your garden,
Or the good friends that you know,
Don't let a single day go by,
Keep trying, both will grow.


Jai Sai Ram~~~
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on December 11, 2007, 04:07:54 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

"दुनिया में अच्छे दोस्त बहुत कम मिलेंगे,
जीवन में सुख कम, दुःख ज्यादा मिलेंगे
जिस मोड़ पे दुनिया आपका साथ छोड़ देगी
उसी मोड़ पर आपको 'साई नाथ' मिलेंगे"

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई

ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on December 11, 2007, 04:09:08 AM
OMSAIRAM!Beware of false friends....friends who use u in there time of need....and dump u like dustbin later. :D :D :D :D :(

ALLAH MALIK!



Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

जय सांई राम।।।

"दुनिया में अच्छे दोस्त बहुत कम मिलेंगे,
जीवन में सुख कम, दुःख ज्यादा मिलेंगे
जिस मोड़ पे दुनिया आपका साथ छोड़ देगी
उसी मोड़ पर आपको 'साई नाथ' मिलेंगे"

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई

ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on December 21, 2007, 05:44:08 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

A faithful friend is worth more than all the gold in the world......Making a million friends is not a miracle, the miracle is to make a friend who will stand by you when millions are against you."

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई

ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on December 23, 2007, 10:23:26 PM
OMSAIRAM!

THANKYOU SAI BABA.

IF YOU LOOK TO ME,I LOOK TO U.

ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on December 26, 2007, 04:03:16 AM
JAI SAI RAM!!!

"Words are not needed in love, eyes speak to each other."

"Neither words nor eyes are needed in friendship. Hearts speak to each other. "For two people in friendship there is no need for words or gestures, you often understand your friend and his/her unspoken statement.  Brains of two friends are interlinked so much so that friends can exactly think at the same level as his/her friend. Can call friends as "Two bodies same soul".  You often tend to know what's going on in your friend's mind.

True friendship consists of putting yourself in your friend's place. Know that your friend is as emotional as you. The thinking level of two friends lies at the same level as if in the same brain! You can know when your friend is thinking of you and your friend knows that you are thinking of him.

The difference in love and friendship is that in love, lovers miss each other when they think of each other. Friends never miss each other when they think of each other. Please do not misunderstand my statement. I do not say that friends do not miss each other, because I, myself, have given 'Miss you' cards to my friend. What I want to say is that when two friends think of each other it so happens that the other calls up the one who is thinking of his/her friend.  I, personally feel that friendship, in all ways, is more powerful than love!

If ever you think of your friend and she/he calls up, do not mistake it as coincidence.  It is the power (magnetism) of friendship

OM SAI RAM!!!
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on January 01, 2008, 04:22:30 AM
JAI SAI RAM!!! 

Look My Friends And You Will See,
I Am Here, Looking Over Thee......

I May Not Speak Words To Hear,
But If You Listen Closely,
You Will Feel ME Near.
I Am Your Goodness, I Am your Love So Pure
I Am Your Soulmate, I Love You so Dear.

I'm With You Daily, Following You Closely
Your Deepest Thoughts,
Your Saddest Woes.
I Love You Unconditionally through
Your Heart I See,

So Whenever In Need,
Please Call On ME.

I Am Your..........Yours Faithfully....BABA SAI

OM SAI RAM!!!
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on January 01, 2008, 06:11:42 PM
Why fear when we have Sai baba as our Friend.............  :D :D :D :D :D :D

ALLAH MALIK!

Mitr pyare nu hal murida da kehna...........tujh bin rog rajaiyan da oddan...........


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on January 02, 2008, 12:11:08 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

मथत मथत माखन रही, दही मही बिलगाव
रहिमन सोई मीत हैं, भीर परे ठहराय

कविवर रहीम कहते हैं कि जब दही को लगातार माथा जाता है तो उसमें से मक्खन अलग हो जाता है और दही मट्ठे में विलीन होकर मक्खन को अपने ऊपर आश्रय देती है, इसी प्रकार सच्चा मित्र वही होता है जो विपत्ति आने पर भी साथ नहीं छोड़ता।

भावार्थ- सच्चा दोस्त वक्त पर ही परखा जाता है जिस प्रकार दही मट्ठे में परिवर्तित होकर मक्खन को अपने ऊपर आश्रय देती है वैसे ही सच्चा मित्र विपति में अपने मित्र को बचाने के लिए अपना अस्तित्व समाप्त कर देता है।

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on January 02, 2008, 04:27:41 AM
Om Sai Ram~~~

"Friendship is a very beautiful gift to have,
but unless a person is friends with himself,
friends will be hard to find - yet harder to keep "~~~

Jai Sai Ram~~~
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on January 03, 2008, 08:15:12 AM
The following incidents that the devotees who left Shirdi without
Baba's permission had to pay for their deed.

Once, a religious story-teller, Nanasaheb Chandorkar and two other
gentlemen went for Darshan of Sai. After Darshan, the story-teller
was eager to leave early; as he had a story-telling program in
Ahmednagar the next day. When Nanasaheb asked Baba's permission,
Baba said, "Have your lunch and go!" Nanasaheb requested the story-
teller to stay; but he would not agree and left with his friends to
reach the station.

Sai then commented to Nanasaheb, "See how selfish people can be!
When the time comes they leave their friends and stick to their own
vested interests. That is why one should choose a friend, who will
never ever leave one's side."

Who else, but a Sadguru can be such a life-long friend! So, one
should be devoted to a Sadguru only. You may love all living things;
and only the company of a Sadguru will bring real happiness.

As per Sai's wish, Nanasaheb and his friends took leave only after
having lunch. Sai said, "There is still some time for the train."

When they reached the station, they found that the train was late
and the story-teller and his friends were waiting with sour faces
for the train. Nanasaheb asked, "Did you miss the train?" The story-
teller replied, "No, the train is three hours late. You did well to
listen to Sai Maharaj. We did not and had to go hungry." Later, the
train arrived and everyone left for Ahmednagar.


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on January 04, 2008, 05:21:27 AM
ॐ सांई राम~~~

साथी सिर्फ वो नहीं होता जो जीवन भर साथ निभाए~~~
साथी तो वो होता है जो जीवन के कुछ पलों में भी जीवन भर का साथ दे जाए~~~

जय सांई राम~~~



ॐ सांई राम~~~

साथी वो नहीं जो आंसुओं को पोछता है~~
साथी तो वो होता है जो आंसुओं को गिरने से रोकता है~~~

जय सांई राम~~~
 
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on January 05, 2008, 03:21:04 AM
ॐ सांई राम~~~

साथी सिर्फ वो नहीं होता जो जीवन भर साथ निभाए~~~
साथी तो वो होता है जो जीवन के कुछ पलों में भी जीवन भर का साथ दे जाए~~~

जय सांई राम~~~



ॐ सांई राम~~~

साथी वो नहीं जो आंसुओं को पोछता है~~
साथी तो वो होता है जो आंसुओं को गिरने से रोकता है~~~

जय सांई राम~~~
 

ॐ सांई राम~~~

साथी सच्चा मिल जाए,तो मेरे सांई की कृपा है~~
वरना इस जीवन में हर पल दगा ही दगा है~~~

जय सांई राम~~~

       
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on January 07, 2008, 11:11:07 PM
जय सांई राम।।।

दोस्ती सच्ची हो तो वक्त रुक जाता है
आसमाँ लाख उंचा हो मगर झुक जाता है
दोस्ती में दुनिया लाख बने रुकावट
अगर दोस्त सच्चा हो तो खुदा भी झुक जाता है

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on January 08, 2008, 08:02:11 AM
Friendship Forever!



Two inseparable friends, Sam and Jason, met with an accident on their way to Boston City. The following morning, Jason woke up blind and Sam was still unconscious. Dr. Berkeley was standing at his bedside looking at his health chart and medications with a thoughtful expression on his face. When he saw Sam awake, he beamed at him and asked." How are you feeling today Sam?" Sam tried to put up a brave face and smiled back saying, "absolutely wonderful Doctor. I am very grateful for all that you have done for me. "Dr Berkeley was moved at Sam's deed. All that he could say was, "You are a very brave man Sam and God will make it up to you in one way or another". While he was moving on to the next patient, Sam called back at him almost pleading, "promise me you won't tell Jason anything".

"You know I won't do that. Trust me." and walked away.

"Thank you " whispered Sam. He smiled and looked up in prayer " I hope I live up to your ideas...please give me the strength to be able to go through this..Amen"

Months later when Jason had recuperated considerably, he stopped hanging around with Sam. He felt discouraged and embarrassed to spend time with a disabled person like Sam.

Sam was lonely and disheartened ,since he didn't have any body else other than Jason to count on. Things went from bad to worse. And one day Sam died in despair. When Jason was called on his burial, he found a letter waiting for him. Dr Berkeley gave it to him with an expressionless face and said" This is for you Jason. Sam had asked me to give it to you when he was gone".

In the letter he had said: " Dear Jason, I have kept my promise in the end to lend you my eyes if anything had happened to them. Now there is nothing more that I can ask from God, than the fact ,that will see the world through my eyes. You will always be my best friend........Sam".

When he had finished reading Dr. Berkeley said " I had promised Sam to keep his sacrifice he made a secret from you. But now I wish I didn't stick it Because I don't think It was worthy it" .

All that was left for Jason while he stood there was tears of regret and memories of Sam for the rest of his life .

Lesson of the story: No matter what If we make a friend, we should stick by him till the end. Life is meaningless without a friend.    

ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on January 08, 2008, 10:45:44 PM
जय सांई राम।।।

दोस्ती सच्ची हो तो वक्त रुक जाता है
आसमाँ लाख उंचा हो मगर झुक जाता है
दोस्ती में दुनिया लाख बने रुकावट
अगर दोस्त सच्चा हो तो खुदा भी झुक जाता है

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।

ॐ सांई राम~~~

जब दिल बहुत घबराता है,
इक पल भी चैन न आता है,
उस वक्त जो कोई सहला दे,
थोङा सा कोई साथ जो दे,
दुःख कम न करे पर बाँट तो ले,
वो ऱब सा नज़र आता है,
वो स्वयं भी नहीं जानता,
कि वो कितना पुन्य कमाता है~~~

जय सांई राम~~~
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on January 12, 2008, 10:00:54 PM
Sai baba apney bhakton ke rup mein aatey hain dost bankar.....aur apnee leela dekhatey hai.


ALLAH MALIK!



Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on January 20, 2008, 09:20:49 AM
OMSAIRAM!

Arjun chose Krishna, though Krishna had vowed to lay down his arms on the battlefield ...
... Krishna asked: "Why did you pick me, knowing I would not fight?"
"I can handle the soldiers myself, O Krishna, if I have your presence to give me moral support. Some of your glory will surely rub off on me."
-Mahabharata, Book Five: War Preparations(P.Lal)

"There is nought better than to be with noble souls in company."
--Mahabharata (Indian Epic Poem)     

ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on January 21, 2008, 08:31:11 AM
OM SRI SAI RAM

Dost !

Dost !!

Dost !!! Aise he ho jaise Dost Ho!

The soothing words of my friends make me forget my world of sorrow for a moment...hours....days.....weeks and then months and ....then enlighten me to transform my sorrow into happiness...thus strenghthen me....shape me too into a good friend.

Thanks is a very small word my dear friends....for everything you have done to me I can express my gratitude by being a very good friend.

Jai Sri Sai Ram





जय सांई राम।।।

बुरे लोग दोस्त किसी के नहीं होते
पर भले भी नहीं होते
दोस्त सिर्फ दोस्त जैसे होते हैं
जो सत्य सामने रखे
झूठी तारीफों के पुल न बांधे
भलाई करे पर
उसे सुनाये नहीं
हमारे लिए जो फिक्र दिल में है
उसे दुनियां को सुनाये नहीं
भले या बुरे लोगों से क्या
जब अपने साथ दोस्त होते हैं

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।


Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on January 22, 2008, 05:44:51 AM


Sai then commented to Nanasaheb, "See how selfish people can be!
When the time comes they leave their friends and stick to their own
(Marriage,job,children)vested interests. That is why one should choose a friend, who will
never ever leave one's side."


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on January 24, 2008, 10:59:01 PM
जय सांई राम।।।

दोस्त बन के मिटा डाला मेरे सांई ने मुझे....
मैं भी चुप रह कर मिटता रहा उसकी मदहोशी में....

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on January 27, 2008, 12:22:00 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

क्या मांगू खुदा से "तुम्हें" पाने के बाद
किसका करूं इन्तज़ार ज़िन्दगी मे "तेरे" आने के बाद
क्यों दोस्तों पर जान तक लुटा देते हैं लोग
मुझे मालूम हुआ "तुम्हें" दोस्त बनाने के बाद।

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on January 27, 2008, 07:05:12 AM
TRUE FRIENDSHIP IS A KNOT

THAT ANGEL HANDS HAVE TIED.. :D :D


ALLAH MALIK!


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on January 27, 2008, 07:06:55 AM
Simple Friends and Real Friends

Anyone can stand by you when you are right,
but a Friend will stand by you even when you are wrong.

A simple friend identifies himself when he calls.
A real friend doesn't have to.

A simple friend opens a conversation
with a full news bulletin on his life.
A real friend says, "What's new with you?"

A simple friend thinks the problems you whine about are recent.
A real friend says, "You've been whining about the same thing
for 14 years. Get off your duff and do something about it."

A simple friend has never seen you cry.
A real friend has shoulders soggy from your tears.

A simple friend doesn't know your parents' first names.
A real friend has their phone numbers in his/her address book.

A simple friend hates it when you call after she has gone to bed.
A real friend asks you why you took so long to call.

A simple friend seeks to talk with you about your problems.
A real friend seeks to help you with your problems.

A simple friend, when visiting, acts like a guest.
A real friend opens your refrigerator and helps himself.

A simple friend thinks the friendship is over
when you have an argument.
A real friend knows that it's not a friendship
until after you've had a fight.

A simple friend expects you to always be there for him/her.
A real friend expects to always be there for you!

Thank you for being a REAL FRIEND!

ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on January 27, 2008, 07:08:57 AM
The Friend Who Stands By You

When troubles come your soul to try,
You love the friend who just stands by.
Perhaps there's nothing she can do,
The thing is strictly up to you.

For there are troubles all your own,
And paths the soul must tread alone.
Times when love can't smooth the road,
Nor friendship lift the heavy load.
 

But just to feel you have a friend,
Who will stand by until the end.
Whose sympathy through all endures,
Whose warm hand clasp is always yours.

It helps somehow to pull you through,
Although there's nothing he can do.
And so with fervent heart we cry,
God Bless the friend who just stands by.


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on January 27, 2008, 08:21:05 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on January 28, 2008, 07:19:31 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

बाबा के नाम सब कुरबान करता हूँ....

दोस्ती शायद ज़िन्दगी होती है,
जो हर दिल में बसी होती है,
वैसे तो जी लेते हैं सभी अकेले मगर
फिर भी ज़रूरत 'इनकी' हर किसी को होती है

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई

ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on January 29, 2008, 11:35:49 PM
ॐ साईं राम~~~


सच्चे दोस्त की पहचान~~~

1~सच्चा दोस्त सपनों को साकार करने के संदर्भ में आपको लगातार प्रेरित करता है,पर जहां आप गलत होते हैं,वहां आप को आगाह भी करते है।
2~जिंदगी के उतार-चढ़ाव में साथ देते है और आपकी खुशियों और उपलब्धियों में आप का साथ देते है।
3~वह आत्मविश्वास के साथ आपको परामर्श देते है कि आपके लिए क्या गलत होगा और क्या सही होगा।यदि आप कभी कोई अतार्किक कदम उठाते है,तो वह ऐसा न करने की सलाह देते है।
4~वह आपकी निजी बातों को दूसरे के सक्षम प्रकट नहीं करते।
5~यदि किसी कारणों से उसके साथ संवाद स्थापित नहीं होता,तो वह इस बात का बुरा नहीं मानते।

जय साईं राम~~~
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on February 04, 2008, 03:12:32 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

किसी ने पूछा दोस्त क्या है?
मैने कांटों पर चलकर बता दिया....
कितना प्यार करोगे दोस्त को?
मैने पूरा आसमां दिखा दिया....
कैसे रखोगे दोस्त को?
मैने हल्के से फूलों को सहला दिया....
किसी की नज़र लग गई तो?
मैनें पलकों में छुपा लिया....
जान से भी प्यारा दोस्त किसे कहते हो?
मैने बाबा....आपका नाम बता दिया....
ठीक कहा ना बाबा मैने?

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on February 05, 2008, 03:47:25 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

True Friendship Isn't Seen ,
      With the Eyes,
         It Is Felt with the Heart.
           When There Is Trust,
             Understanding,
              Loyalty, and Sharing.
               True Friendship Is
                 A Rare Feeling,
                  But when It Is Found
                   It Has profound Impact
                    On Our Well-Being,
                     Strength, and Character.
   
True Friendship does Not
       Need elaborate Gifts
          Or Spectacular events In Order
            To be Valuable Or Valued.
               To EnsureLong-Lasting
                 Quality and Satisfaction,
                   True Friendship Only Needs
                      A Few key Ingredients:
                        Undying Loyalty, Unmatched
     
Understanding,
         Unsurpassed Trust,
           Deep and Soulful Secrets,
              And endless Sharing.
               These Ingredients, Mixed
                  With Personality
                    And a Sense Of Humor,
                      Can Make a Friendship
                        Last a Lifetime!

                         
This Is Just a Thank You BABA - My Best Friend, For All The Wonderful and Colorful Special Ingredients YOU've Brought to My Life!


अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on February 08, 2008, 04:28:59 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

मित्रता  एक  गुण  है।  जिस  समाज  और  राष्ट्र  के  मनुष्यों  के  ह्रदय  में  इस  गुण  का  विकास  होता  है,  वह  समाज  और  देश  शीघ्र  ही  उन्नति  के  मार्ग  पर  अग्रसर  हो  जाते  हैं।  मानव  जीवन  में  मित्रता  की  बहुत  ही  उपयोगिता  है,  जिसके  अभाव  में  जीवन  नीरस  और दुखमय  बन  जाता  है।मित्रता  मनुष्य  के  ह्रदय  को  जोड़ती  है।  प्राणों  के  तार  मिलाती  है।  मित्र  के  समान  समाज  में  सुख़  और  आन्नद  देने  वाला  दूसरा  कोई  नहीं  है।  दुख  के  दिनों  में  मित्र  को  देखते  ही  ह्रदय  में  शक्ति  आ  जाती  है।  अधीरता  प्राणों  के  भीतर  से  भाग  जाती  है।  परन्तु  आज  के  युग  में  मित्र  के  चुनाव  में  बड़ी  सतर्कता  बरतनी  चाहिये।  मित्र  बनाने  से  पूर्व   उसके  आचरण  पर  अवश्य  दृष्टि  डाल  लेनी  चाहिये  जिससे  बाद  में  पछताना  न  पड़े।  अच्छा  मित्र  अपने  मित्र  को  पाप  से  दूर  रख़ता  है। हमारा  देश  आदर्श  मित्रता  के  लिये  विश्व  के  प्राचीन  इतिहास  में  अपना  अद्वितिय  स्थान  रखता  है।  हमारे  देश  के  महापुरुष  भगवान  श्रीकृष्ण  ने  सुदामा जी  के  साथ  जो  आदर्श  मित्रता  स्थापित  की  थी  वैसा  दृष्टान्त  अन्य  किसी  देश  में  नहीं  मिलता  है।  श्रीराम  और  सुग्रीव  की  मित्रता  भी  स्मरणीय  है।

वह  मनुष्य  बहुत  ही  भाग्यशाली  है  जिसका  सच्चा  मित्र  है।  वास्तव  में  सच्चा  एवं  अच्छा  मित्र  बड़े  ही  पुण्य  करने  से  मिलता  है।


अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on February 10, 2008, 06:12:42 AM
Dost hotey hain jo humey maaf kar detey hai humharee galteeyon ke liye...

ALLAH MALIK!




Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on February 17, 2008, 04:32:46 AM
Om Sai Ram~~~

"Build A Box Of Friendship" ~~~

Into a box of friendship

To insure that it is strong

First a layer of respect

On the bottom does belong

Then to the sides attach

In the corners where they meet

Several anchors full of trust

Devoid of all deceit

The height of friendship can be measured

By the sides of four

So make them all a larger cut

And the box will hold much more

Now fill it up with courtesy

Honor and esteem

Understanding, sympathy

And passion for a dream

Add to that your honesty

Emotions joy and love

And since they're so important

Place them up above

But leave the box wide open

So all can see inside

To learn what makes a friendship work

From the box you built with pride~~~

Jai Sai Ram~~~
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on February 17, 2008, 08:22:07 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

कुछ दोस्त ऐसे होते हैं,
जो दिल मैं बस जाते हैं.
जो ज़िंदगी की राहों में,
हम से बिछड़ जाते हैं,
कुछ दोस्त ऐसे होते हैं,
जो रात में याद आते हैं.
और रातों की तन्हाई मे रुलाते हैं,
कुछ दोस्त ऐसे होते हैं,
जो फूलों की तरह होते हैं,
जो ख़ुद टूट जाते हैं,
पर अपनी महक छोड़ जाते हैं,
कुछ दोस्त ऐसे होते हैं,
जो ज़िंदगी तोड़ देते हैं,
पर ज़िंदगी की राहों मे तन्हा छोड़ देते हैं,
कुछ दोस्त ऐसे होते हैं,
जो चाँद की तरह होते हैं,
जो दाग तो बहुत रखते हैं पर....
खूबसूरत नज़र आते हैं.
कुछ दोस्त ऐसे होते हैं,
जो पत्थर का दिल रखते हैं,
जो शीशा-ऐ-दिल तोड़ जाते है,
लेकिन बाबा जैसे दोस्त......
आप...इन सब में अनमोल है,
वो हैं,
जो दिल में गर बस जाऐ....
एक बार तो
ज़िंदगी की राहों को,
जश्ने बहार बना जाते है....

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on February 19, 2008, 01:59:34 AM
ॐ साईं राम~~~

"कहते हैं हर बात किसी को कही नहीं जाती...
अपनों को भी बताई नहीं जाती...

पर दोस्त तो दिल का आइना होता हैं....
और आइने से सूरत छुपाई नहीं जाती"~~~

जय साईं राम~~~
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on February 19, 2008, 10:07:52 AM
"Friends always show their love. What are brothers for if not to share troubles?"- Proverbs 17:17
"Some friendships do not last, but some friends are more loyal than brothers."
- Proverbs 18:24

"Forsake not an old friend; for the new is not comparable to him: a new friend is as new wine; when it is old, thou shall drink it with pleasure."
- Sirach 9:10

"An honest answer is the sign of true friendship."
- Proverbs 24:26

"A friend means well, even when he hurts you. But when an enemy puts his hand round your shoulder - watch out!"
- Proverbs 27:6

"Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up."
- Bible: Ecclesiastes

"My friends are my estate. Forgive me then the avarice to hoard them. They tell me those who were poor early have different views of gold. I don't know how that is. God is not so wary as we, else He would give us no friends, lest we forget Him."
- Emily Dickinson

"The greatest love a person can have for his friends is to give his life for them."
- John 15:13

"A friend is one who strengthens you with prayers, blesses you with love and encourages you with hope."
- sent by Chris

""A faithful friend is a sturdy shelter; he who finds one finds a treasure."
- Sirach 6:14

"Cherish your friend, keep faith in him"
- Sirach 27:17 ( sent by Melanie Eilers)

"Those who live in the Lord never see each other for the last time."

" Faithful friends are beyond price: No amount can balance their worth
- Bible ( Old Testament ) Sirach 6:15

"A mirror reflects a man's face, but what he is really like is shown by the kind of friends he chooses."
- Proverbs 27:19
NB: Brendan Johnston notes that this passage usually reads: "As water reflects a face, so a man's heart reflects the man."

"A friend loveth at all times."
- Proverbs 17:17

"Does it make me a stranger that my best friend was born in a manger?"
-dcTalk's song 'Jesus Freak'

"Iron sharpens iron; so a man sharpens his friend's countenance."
-Proverbs 27:17 -Sent in by Frankie

"Friends in Christ are friends forever"
-Sent in by Haley

"Friends are friends forever, if the Lord is the Lord of them
And a friend will not say never, cause the welcome will not end
Though it's hard to let you go
In the Father's hands I know
That a lifetime's not too long... to live as friends."
-Michael W Smith - Sent in by Kellene

ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on February 23, 2008, 07:14:08 AM

जय सांई राम।।।

दर्द को दर्द से न देखो,
दर्द को भी दर्द होता है,
दर्द को ज़रूरत है दोस्त की,
आखिर बाबा सांई जैसा दोस्त
ही दर्द में अपना हमदर्द होता है

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई

ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: POOJA LOHANI on February 26, 2008, 12:30:55 PM
Ramesh ji
            beautiful words...the poem you have written on friends...just too good...very enlightning...thanks
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: meghadeep on February 28, 2008, 12:38:19 AM
mere sai mere sai
teri surat rahe man main.
yahi vardaan main paaun,
rahe tu hi sumiran main.
mere sai........... mere sai
teri surat rahe man main.

baba ji koi bhi rishta is sansar men mujhe attut nahi lagta...........kabhi hum saath chod detei hain ,our kabhi log hame chod kar chale jate hai.

kitna bhi yaad karo koi jawab nahi aata hai.

per mere baba mujhe aap ke ,mere saath hone ka hamesha anubhaw raha hai.jab kabhi maine aap ko yaad kiya ,aapne kisi na kisi roop mai meri help ki hai.
meri to jindgi hi aap ke sahare guzar rahi hai.aap sab jante ho kya sahi hai ,kya galat hai,kya khona hai, kya paana hai.

bas ek hi prarthna hai aapse man mai shanti rakhna baba.our mere saath hone ka anubhav mujhse kabhi door mat karna.chahe mera sab kuchch le lena.

bas jivan ke antim palo main mujhe aapne saath le jana,jab is dunya men aane ka path pura ho jayega ...............tab is sansaar ke janmo se mukti de dena baba.

baba please mujhe dobara is duniya main koi bhi janm mat dena...........bahot mushkil hota hai aapno se door hona
saari jindgi saza ban jaati hai.

mama,papa ke jaane ka dard aaj bhi dil main vaisa hi hai jaisa l pehle tha.

unke baad aapne hi mujhe sambhala hai mere perents bankar our mere sab se achche dost bankar.

baba mere ek  tamnna hai tum mere samne ho jab mai is duniya alvida kahongi.

sab se sachcha rishta hai mera tumse...........mere baba hamesha mere saath rehna.




Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on February 28, 2008, 01:58:29 AM
ॐ साईं राम~~~

बङा सुन्दर अनुभव है बाबा का....मेघादीप बाबा हमेश साथ है ....हर रूप में हमरे साथ है...
माँ,पापा,भाई,बहन,दोस्त,प्रेम,प्यार...
हर रिश्ता साईं से ही जुङा हुआ है....हर रूप में बस साईं ही साईं नज़र आते है~~~
 
ये मेरा एहसास है~~~
       
मेरे बाबा, वह मेरे साथ चलते है,
मेरे साईं,मेरे साथ बातें करते है,
मेरे बाबा,मुझे बताते है कि मैं उनकी हूँ,
मेरे साईं,मुझे बताते है कि वो हर पल मेरे साथ है,

आँखे खुली हो या बंद हो~~~
उठते,बैठते,सोते,जगते,चलते,फिरते बस बाबा ही बाबा~~~

जब ये एहसास होता है मुझे,
तो सच मानों~~~
हम दोनों,मेरे बाबा और मैं बहुत ही खुश होते है~~~

बस मेरे बाबा हमेशा मेरे पास होते है~~~

जय सांई राम~~~
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Praveen P V S on March 01, 2008, 07:58:31 PM
Some one great said this once, which I believe is true to the core. Our Baba said this many times in different ways.

There is nothing noble is being superior to some one else. The true nobility lies in being superior to your former self.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on March 20, 2008, 10:29:34 PM
ॐ सांई राम~~~

दोस्ती ज़िंदगी का हिस्सा है ,
दोस्ती के बगैर अधूरा रिश्ता है ।
अच्छे दोस्त कभी साथ नहीं छोङते ,
वह अपने दोस्तों से कभी मुंह नहीं मोङते ।
सच्चा दोस्त ही तो आता है मुसीबत में काम ,
बिना दोस्त के किसी को नहीं आराम ।
तन्हा नहीं जी सकता कोई ,
यह तो सभी जानते हैं,
दोस्त अगर दिल से सच्चा हो , तो~~

उसे भगवान से ज्यादा मानते हैं~~~


जय सांई राम~~~
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on March 29, 2008, 01:27:41 AM
A Ship in harbor is safe,but that is not what ships are made for.
I am not a Titanic.

I am grateful to all my friends who stood by me when i faced Tornadoes... :(

LOVE U ALL. :D :D

GOD BLESS U!

ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on March 29, 2008, 01:40:54 AM
“"A ship in harbour is safe, but that is not what ships are built for."”


“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.”

ALLAH MALIK!


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on March 29, 2008, 03:10:04 AM
Om Sai Ram~~~


Friends n Friendship !!~~!!
To do for your friend's, and ask nothing in return is fine! But to receive nothing in return once too often, brings you to question........
Who are your friend's?

Jai Sai Ram~~~
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on March 29, 2008, 05:34:51 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

लोग कहते है कि इतनी दोस्ती मत करो कि दोस्त दिल पर सवार हो जाये.....हम कहते हैं दोस्ती इतनी करो कि दुश्मन को भी तुमसे प्यार हो जाये.....कैसी कही दोस्तो????

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on March 29, 2008, 08:21:45 AM
JAISAIRAM!RAMESH BHAI KYA KAHEE........................हम कहते हैं दोस्ती इतनी करो कि दुश्मन को भी तुमसे प्यार हो जाये.....कैसी कही दोस्तो?WOWWWWWWWW..........

 :D :D :D :D :D :D ;)


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on March 29, 2008, 10:20:27 PM
जय सांई राम।।।

हर रात को चान्द का श्रृंगार नही मिलता, हर बाग को फूलों का दुलार नही मिलता, मैने भी दुनियां देखी है दोस्तों, हर इन्सान को बाबा जैसे यार का सौभाग्य नही मिलता।

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on March 31, 2008, 06:00:40 AM
JAISAIRAM!

Koi dost hai na raqeeb hai,
tera sehar kitna ajeeb hai.

Woh jo ishq tha woh junoon tha,
yeah jo hijre hai ye naseeb hai.

Yahan kiska chehra padha karoon,
yahan kaun itna kareeb hai.

Main kise kahoon mere saath chal,
yahan sab ke sar pe saleeb hai.

Raqeeb = enemy
Saleeb  = cross

ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on April 01, 2008, 09:07:10 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

बाबा की दोस्ती दिल है,  दिमाग नही
बाबा की दोस्ती सोच है,  आवाज़ नही
कोई आंखों से नही देख सकता इस दोस्ती के ज़ज़बे को
क्योंकि बाबा की दोस्ती अहसास है, अंदाज़ नही
ये सफर दोस्ती का कभी खत्म ना होगा
बाबा जैसे दोस्त से प्यार कभी कम ना होगा
दूर रहकर भी जब रहती है महक इनकी
इस दोस्ती के कभी बिछड़ने का कोई सवाल ही नही होगा

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Vikram_Rana on April 02, 2008, 07:20:56 AM
Jay Sai Ram....

e khuda, teri adalat me meri zamanat rakhana...
me rahu na rahu....mere sai - dosto ko salamat rakhana...

Regards...
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on April 03, 2008, 07:57:04 AM
OMSAIRAM!There is only one friend for me ...who stood bY me during my times of trials and tribulations..........SAI BABA.

THANKYOU SAI BABA ....I LOVE U BABA .. :D :D

ALLAH MALIK!


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on April 09, 2008, 10:30:35 AM
["O Deva, just as a father forgives his son, a friend tolerates a friend, or a lover excuses his
beloved, please forgive all my offences." (Gita 11.44)]


Sai baba Please forgive dipika.......... :D :D :D ;) ;)

ALLAH MALIK!


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on April 14, 2008, 05:42:21 AM
"Friendship with the upright, with the truthful and with the well informed is beneficial. Friendship with those who flatter, with those who are meek and who compromise with principles, and with those who talk cleverly is harmful." Confucius


ALLAH MALIK!


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be oru sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on April 14, 2008, 10:55:12 AM
Friends are the people that add color and excitement to our lives. Unfortunately, it is in times of sorrow or need that most friendships are severely tested.


True friends give us the nurturing when we need to grow and the courage when it's best to stay the same

THANKS TO ALL MY FRIENDS WHO HAVE BEEN MY PILLAR............... :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :P ;)


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be oru sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Vikram_Rana on April 15, 2008, 07:46:44 AM

Making a million friends is not a miracle, the miracle is to find a friend who will stand by U when a million are against U !!!
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Vikram_Rana on April 16, 2008, 04:04:35 AM

Many people will walk in and out or your life,
But only true friends will leave footprints in your heart.
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on April 23, 2008, 12:32:51 AM
ॐ सांई राम~~~

कुछ रिश्ते ऊपरवाला बनाता हैं ,कुछ रिश्ते लोग बनाते हैं~
पर कुछ लोग बिना कोई रिश्ते के ही रिश्तें निभाते हैं~~
शायद वो ही दोस्त कहलाते हैं~~~

जय सांई राम~~~
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on April 26, 2008, 08:14:55 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

Good Friends are like Quilt....It never looses its warmth....BABA thanks for always being there for me...


अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on April 28, 2008, 08:06:54 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

अजीब सा अहसास है बाबा से दोस्ती
दो दिलों का साथ है दोस्ती
खुदा की खुदाई है दोस्ती
ज़िन्दगी की सच्चाई है ज़िन्दगी
नसीब वाले है हम जो
बाबा जैसे दोस्त से पाई है दोस्ती

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on April 30, 2008, 12:15:31 AM
Om Sai Ram~~~

A Friend~~~
 
(A)ccepts you as you are~
(B)elieves in "you"~
(C)alls you just to say "HI"~
(D)oesn't give up on you~
(E)nvisions the whole of you (even the unfinished parts)~
(F)orgives your mistakes~
(G)ives unconditionally~
(H)elps you~
(I)nvites you over~
(J)ust "be" with you~
(K)eeps you close at heart~
(L)oves you for who you are~
(M)akes a difference in your life~
(N)ever Judges~
(O)ffer support~
(P)icks you up~
(Q)uiets your fears~
(R)aises your spirits~
(S)ays nice things about you~
(T)ells you the truth when you need to hear it~
(U)nderstands you~
(V)alues you~
(W)alks beside you~
(X)-plains thing you don't understand~
(Y)ells when you won't listen and~
(Z)aps you back to reality~
 

Jai Sai Ram~~~
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on May 02, 2008, 10:52:16 PM
Om Sai Ram~~~

What Makes a Great Friend??

1. Someone who knows what you need before you say it.
2. Someone who knows when to laugh and when to cry.
3. Someone who truly listens when you have something to say.
4. Someone that's there for you during the good and bad times.
5. Someone who is caring .
6. Someone who loves you with all their heart and soul.
7. Someone who is interested in reality and not as a fashion display.
8. Someone who is honest.
9. Someone you can trust them like a sibling, confide in like a friend but most
of all, love as the great lover they are.
10. Someone who is open and responsive.
11. Someone who is never critical and ill-tempered in respect to your needs.
12. Someone who knows when things have to be compromised in the relationship.
13. Someone who understands listening is a key, but using what is heard is even more important.
14. Someone who's there for you no matter what.
15. Someone who is trustful.
16. Someone who is a friend.
17. Someone who gives a shoulder to cry on.
18. Someone with a great sense of humor.
19. Someone who has things in common with you.
20. Someone who takes time to listen and enjoy you for who you are and tries not to make you something else.
21. Someone with a constant open ear, open heart, and open mind to accept and love people for who the really are.
22. Someone who will always be there to support your ideas without argument and love you for everything that you are.
23. Someone that can get a point across without yelling.
24. Someone that remembers all the cute stupid stuff you love.
25. Someone that has a personality with qualities you don't have yourself, but
admire greatly in them.
26. Someone who realizes you're two separate people, and appreciates the differences.
27. Someone who can sense a mood problem, and not take it personally.
28. Someone who understands the difference between PMS, and a real problem.
29. Someone who can make you happy when your sad.
30. Someone who tells you the truth even if you don't want to hear it.
31. Someone who will not hurt you intentionally.
32. Someone who is a sweet, romantic person who cherishes you no matter what.
33. Someone that you can laugh with.
34. Someone who you can feel comfortable with and that you don't care what kind of weird stuff they see you do because you know they will still love you no matter what.
35. Someone who will love you in spite of your little idiosyncrasies.
36. Someone that would do anything to show how much they care.
37. Someone who allows you to be yourself around them.
38. Someone who will respect you.
39. Someone who cherishes your hopes and is kind to your dreams.
40. Someone who knows you're not perfect, but treats you as though you are.

Jai Sai Ram~~~
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on May 06, 2008, 11:42:45 PM
जय सांई राम।।।

दोस्ती से आज प्यार शर्माया है,
बाबा की चाहत का कुछ ऐसा गज़ब जादू सा छाया है,
खुदा से बाबा क्या मांगें हम?
वो तो खुद आज मुझसे "तेरे" जैसा दोस्त मांगने आया

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on May 07, 2008, 05:34:05 PM
Om Sai Ram~~~

" BABA is the only friend in the entire universe who will accept and maintain your friendship with the only valuable thing in you - Trust in Him, not only for the entire life but also for all your lives. Offer friendship to BABA and make BABA your best friend and He will never break your friendship"~~~

Jai Sai Ram~~~
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on May 08, 2008, 07:04:00 AM
The following incidents that the devotees who left Shirdi without
Baba's permission had to pay for their deed.

Once, a religious story-teller, Nanasaheb Chandorkar and two other
gentlemen went for Darshan of Sai. After Darshan, the story-teller
was eager to leave early; as he had a story-telling program in
Ahmednagar the next day. When Nanasaheb asked Baba's permission,
Baba said, "Have your lunch and go!" Nanasaheb requested the story-
teller to stay; but he would not agree and left with his friends to
reach the station.

Sai then commented to Nanasaheb, "See how selfish people can be!
When the time comes they leave their friends and stick to their own
vested interests. That is why one should choose a friend, who will
never ever leave one's side."

Who else, but a Sadguru can be such a life-long friend! So, one
should be devoted to a Sadguru only. You may love all living things;
and only the company of a Sadguru will bring real happiness.

As per Sai's wish, Nanasaheb and his friends took leave only after
having lunch. Sai said, "There is still some time for the train."

When they reached the station, they found that the train was late
and the story-teller and his friends were waiting with sour faces
for the train. Nanasaheb asked, "Did you miss the train?" The story-
teller replied, "No, the train is three hours late. You did well to
listen to Sai Maharaj. We did not and had to go hungry." Later, the
train arrived and everyone left for Ahmednagar.


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Vikram_Rana on May 09, 2008, 02:21:30 PM
G r8: m oral.......

 

Do you know the relationship between two eyes..? They blink together,

They move together, they cry together, they see things together and

They sleep together BUT THEY NEVER SEE EACH OTHER .. that's what's friendship 

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on May 11, 2008, 08:36:36 AM
OMSAIRAM!My BABA jaani says Dostee ek Dua hai.........dostee is love......... :D :D :D :D :D :D ;) ;)


ALLAH MALIK!


Dostee khushee hai...aur Dostee vishwas hai.


SAB KA MALIK EK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Vikram_Rana on May 15, 2008, 11:33:07 PM

“A brother is a friend God gave you; a friend is a brother your heart chose for you.”

 --Proverb
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on May 18, 2008, 12:16:36 AM
Dostee ek Dua hai..........it's a blessing.

Dostee is love... :D :D :D :D :D :D :-* :-* :D :D :D :)


ALLAH MALIK!


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on May 18, 2008, 10:15:39 PM
"Don't be dismayed at good-byes. A farewell is necessary before you can
meet again. And meeting again, after moments or lifetimes,
is certain for those who are friends."


"My father always used to say that when you die, if you've got five real friends, then you've had a great life."


"Sometimes our light goes out but is blown into flame by another human being. Each of us owes deepest thanks to those who have rekindled this light."



"A friend loveth at all times."


"Friends are those rare people who ask how you are
and then wait to hear the answer."


"Friends are the angels who lift us to our feet
when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly."


Thankyou all my Angels who have helped me to Fly.

ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on May 18, 2008, 10:35:12 PM
"Friendship that flows from the heart cannot be frozen by adversity, as the water that flows from the spring cannot congeal in winter."
 

"Friendship without self interest is one of the rare and beautiful things in life."
 
"Best friends are like diamonds, precious and rare
False friends are like leaves, found everywhere."


"When a friend's in trouble,
don't insult him by asking what you can do,
think for yourself and start doing it."


"No love, no friendship can cross the path of our destiny
without leaving some kind of mark on it forever."


"To the world you may be just one person,
but to one person you may be the world."


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on May 19, 2008, 12:44:01 AM
Sai baba .....ALLAH MALIK  :D :D :D :D :D :D :)


ALLAH MALIK!


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on May 22, 2008, 12:45:05 AM
"Sometimes our light goes out but is blown into flame by another human being. Each of us owes deepest thanks to those who have rekindled this light."



"A friend loveth at all times."


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be oru sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on May 22, 2008, 04:21:45 AM
Why fear when we have Sai baba as our Friend.............  :D :D :D :D :D :D

ALLAH MALIK!

Mitr pyare nu hal murida da kehna...........tujh bin rog rajaiyan da oddan...........


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on May 23, 2008, 01:21:38 AM
"Sometimes our light goes out but is blown into flame by another human being. Each of us owes deepest thanks to those who have rekindled this light."


Thankyou........... :D :D :D :D :)


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on May 24, 2008, 10:06:14 AM
It's All Good 

I heard the story told recently about a king in Africa who had a close friend that he grew up with. The friend had a habit of looking at every situation that ever occurred in his life (positive or negative) and remarking, "This is good!" 

One day the king and his friend were out on a hunting expedition. The friend would load and prepare the guns for the king. The friend had apparently done something wrong in preparing one of the guns, for after taking the gun from his friend, the king fired it and his thumb was blown off. Examining the situation the friend remarked as usual, "This is good!". To which the king replied, "No, this is NOT good!" and proceeded to send his friend to jail. 

About a year later, the king was hunting in an area that he should have known to stay clear of. Cannibals captured him and took them to their village. They tied his hands, stacked some wood, set up a stake and bound him to the stake. 

As they came near to set fire to the wood, they noticed that the king was missing a thumb. Being superstitious, they never ate anyone that was less than whole. So untying the king they sent him on his way. 

As he returned home, he was reminded of the event that had taken his thumb and felt remorse for his treatment of his friend. He went immediately to the jail to speak with his friend. "You were right" he said, "it was good that my thumb was blown off." And he proceeded to tell the friend all that had just happened. "And so I am very sorry for sending you to jail for so long. It was bad for me to do this."

"No," his friend replied, "this is good!" 

"What do you mean, 'this is good'! How could it be good that I sent my friend to jail for a year." 

"If I had NOT been in jail, I would have been with you." 

ALLAH MALIK!


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: ashokjain on May 24, 2008, 10:16:51 AM
Sai whether i call you Shirdi Sai or Sathya Sai, you are one and the same.

Your name has been the biggest assurance in life. You are the infinite ocean of positivism and i am fortunate enough when you allow me to charge my thoughts with it.

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on May 24, 2008, 11:19:14 AM
A Christmas Story

In the very early 1800's, a young boy about 14 years old named John lived in an orphanage in Old England along with several other children. Orphanages were dreaded. Orphan meant unwanted and unloved. The orphanage was administered by a master and his wife who were results of meager backgrounds themselves and were short on love but high on discipline. No childlike play, no expression of compassion, no understanding. 

Every day of the year was spent working. They worked in gardens, cleaned, sewed, and cooked sometimes for wealthy children. They were up at dawn and worked until dark and usually received only one meal a day. However, they were very grateful because they were taught to be hard workers. John had absolutely nothing to call his own. None of the children did. 

Christmas was the one day of the year when the children did not work and received a gift. A gift for each child - something to call their own. This special gift was an orange. John had been in the orphanage long enough to look forward with delight and anticipation of this special day of Christmas and to the orange he would receive. In Old England, and to John and his orphan companions, an orange was a rare and special gift. It had an unusual aroma of something they smelled only at Christmas. The children prized it so much that they kept it for several days, weeks, and even months - protecting it, smelling it, touching it and loving it.  Usually they tried to savor and preserve it for so long that it often rotted before they ever peeled it to enjoy the sweet juice. 

Many thought were expressed this year as Christmas time approached.  The children would say, "I will keep mine the longest." They always talked about how big their last orange was and how long they had kept it. 

John usually slept with his next to his pillow. He would put it right by his nose and smell of its goodness, holding it tenderly and carefully as not to bruise it. He would dream of children all over the world smelling the sweet aroma of oranges. It gave him security and a sense of well being, hope and dreams of a future filled with good food and a life different from this meager existence. 

This year John was overjoyed by the Christmas season. He was becoming a man. He knew he was becoming stronger and soon he would be old enough to leave. He was excited by this anticipation and excited about Christmas. He would save his orange until his birthday in July. If he preserved it very carefully, kept it cool and did not drop it, he might be able to eat it on his birthday. 

Christmas day finally came. The children were so excited as they entered the big dining hall. John could smell the unusual aroma of meat. In his excitement and because of his oversized feet, he tripped, causing a disturbance. Immediately the master roared, "John, leave the hall and there will be no orange for you this year." John's heart broke violently wide open. He began to cry. He turned and went swiftly back to the cold room and his corner so the small children would not see his anguish. 

Then he heard the door open and each of the children entered. Little Elizabeth with her hair falling over her shoulders, a smile on her face, and tears in her eyes held out a piece of rag to John. "Here John," she said, "this is for you." John was touched by her youth and innocence as he reached for the bulge in her hand. As he lifted back the edges of the rag he saw a big juicy orange all peeled and quartered. . . and then he realized what they had done. Each had sacrificed their own orange by sharing a quarter and had created a big, beautiful orange for John. 

John never forgot the sharing, love and personal sacrifice his friends had shown him that Christmas day. John's beginning was a meager existence, however, his growth to manhood was rewarded by wealth and success.   


In memory of that day every year he would send oranges all over the world to children everywhere. His desire was that no child would ever spend Christmas without a special Christmas fruit! 


Dost................ :D :D :D :D :D :D :D

ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on May 25, 2008, 10:26:27 PM
"Friendship always benefits; love sometimes injures."

"The greatest healing therapy is friendship and love"



ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on May 28, 2008, 12:16:45 PM
OMSAIRAM!BABA ur our only true Friend.

Others may leave us,but BABA jaani ur always there for us.. :D :D :D :P ;)


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on May 28, 2008, 12:31:56 PM
Good friends are those who make you a better person for having known them.. :D :D :D :D :P


ALLAH MALIK!


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on May 28, 2008, 12:33:59 PM
Thank You For Being My Friend
 
Thank you for believing in me when I found it difficult to believe in myself...

for saying what I've needed to hear sometimes, instead of what I've wanted to hear....

for siding with me....

and for giving me another side to consider.

Thank you for opening yourself up to me....

for trusting me with your thoughts and disappointments and dreams....

for knowing you can depend on me and for asking my help when you've needed it.

Thank you for putting so much thought and care and imagination into our friendship...

for sharing so many nice times and making so many special memories with me.

Thank you for always being honest with me...

being kind to me...

being there for me.

Thank you for being a friend to me in so many meaningful ways.
 

I LOVE YOU

Sai baba I LOVE U.......... :D :D :D :D :D :) ;)

 
ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on May 28, 2008, 12:37:19 PM
"We secure our friends not by accepting favors but by doing them."


A simple friend has never seen you cry.
A real friend has shoulders soggy from your tears.

A simple friend doesn't know your parents' first names.
A real friend has their phone numbers in his address book.

A simple friend brings a bottle of wine to your party.
A real friend comes early to help you cook and stays late to help you clean.

A simple friend hates it when you call after he has gone to bed.
A real friend asks you why you took so long to call.

A simple friend seeks to talk with you about your problems.
A real friend seeks to help you with your problems.

A simple friend wonders about your romantic history.
A real friend could blackmail you with it.

A simple friend, when visiting, acts like a guest.
A real friend opens your refrigerator and helps himself.

A simple friend thinks the friendship is over when you have an argument.
A real friend knows that it's not a friendship until after you've had a fight.

A simple friend expects you to always be there for them.
A real friend expects to always be there for you!

 




ALLAH MALIK!


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on May 28, 2008, 12:44:56 PM
A true friend is the greatest of all blessings, and that which we take the least care to acquire.


Truth springs from argument amongst friends.


A single rose can be my garden... a single friend, my world.


It's the ones you can call up at 4:00 a.m. that really matter.


A true friend is someone who is there for you when he'd rather be somewhere else.


Good friends are like stars....You don't always see them, but you know they are always there.


Most people walk in and out of you life. But only friends leave footprints in your heart.


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on May 28, 2008, 12:48:07 PM
The most beautiful discovery that true friends can make is that they can grow separately without growing apart


Faithful are the wounds of a friend; but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.


An honest answer is the sign of true friendship.

You just call out my name,
And you know whereever I am
I’ll come running,
To see you again.
Winter, spring, summer, or fall,
All you have to do is call
And I’ll be there.
You’ve got a friend.

It is better to be in chains with friends, than to be in a garden with strangers


Nations will rise and fall. Wars will be lost and won. Lives will begin and end, but a true friend is eternal.


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on May 28, 2008, 12:53:50 PM
We cannot tell the precise moment when friendship is formed. As in filling a vessel drop by drop, there is at last a drop which makes it run over; so in a series of kindnesses there is at last one which makes the heart run over.


Friendship is always a sweet responsibilty, never an opportunity.


In the sweetness of friendship let there be laughter, and sharing of pleasures.


When the character of a man is not clear to you, look at his friends.


My friend is he who will tell me my faults in private.


One loyal friend is worth ten thousand relatives.


Let us learn to show our friendship for a man when he is alive and not after he is dead.


ALLAH MALIK!


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM




Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on May 28, 2008, 12:57:08 PM
We do not so much need the help of our friends as the confidence of their help in need.


True friendship is like sound health; the value of it is seldom known until it be lost.


Friendship is Love without his wings!


Plant a seed of friendship; reap a bouquet of happiness.


Count your age with friends but not with years.


Friendship is the golden thread that ties the heart of all the world.


A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.


Friendship marks a life even more deeply than love. Love risks degenerating into obsession, friendship is never anything but sharing.


ALLAH MALIK!


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on May 29, 2008, 04:49:20 AM
"Friendship always benefits; love sometimes injures."

"The greatest healing therapy is friendship and love"



ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on June 03, 2008, 08:56:56 AM
"Sometimes our light goes out but is blown into flame by another human being. Each of us owes deepest thanks to those who have rekindled this light."


Thankyou........... :D :D :D :D :)


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on June 04, 2008, 09:24:18 AM
Thank You For Being My Friend
 
Thank you for believing in me when I found it difficult to believe in myself...

for saying what I've needed to hear sometimes, instead of what I've wanted to hear....

for siding with me....

and for giving me another side to consider.

Thank you for opening yourself up to me....

for trusting me with your thoughts and disappointments and dreams....

for knowing you can depend on me and for asking my help when you've needed it.

Thank you for putting so much thought and care and imagination into our friendship...

for sharing so many nice times and making so many special memories with me.

Thank you for always being honest with me...

being kind to me...

being there for me.

Thank you for being a friend to me in so many meaningful ways.
 

I LOVE YOU DOST....


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on June 04, 2008, 10:18:22 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

'उन' तन्हाईयों में बाबा का साथ मैने पाया
बाबा के साथ ने मुझे तन्हाईयों से लड़ना सिखाया
बाबा के प्यार में मैने एक दोस्त की झलक देखी है
बाबा की दोस्ती से प्यार का अहसास मैने पाया है
कभी मैने खुद मे बाबा,  कभी बाबा में खुद को पाया है

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई

ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on June 05, 2008, 09:23:47 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

"When you have no light to guide you and no one to walk beside you, I will come to you.  When the night is dark and stormy, you won't have to reach out for me, I will come to you"

I know BABA I will always be able to get through the dark times in life, as long as a friend like you is waiting for me in the light....

Thank You BABA...Thank You So much BABA....Thanks!


अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई

ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on June 08, 2008, 09:04:51 PM
OMSAIRAM!Thankyou Sai baba for always being there for me... :D :D :D :D :D :D :D


I love you BABA jaani............. :D :D :D :D :D :P


ALLAH MALIK!


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on June 11, 2008, 02:07:50 AM
dostee is love............. :-* :-* :D :D :D :D :D :D


Thankyou BABA jaani....for your unconditional love and friendship.


ALLAH MALIK!


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on June 11, 2008, 09:41:39 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

'उन' तन्हाईयों में बाबा का साथ मैने पाया
बाबा के साथ ने मुझे तन्हाईयों से लड़ना सिखाया
बाबा के प्यार में मैने एक दोस्त की झलक देखी है
बाबा की दोस्ती से प्यार का अहसास मैने पाया है
कभी मैने खुद मे बाबा,  कभी बाबा में खुद को पाया है

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई

ॐ सांई राम।।।

ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on June 12, 2008, 05:02:41 AM
OMSAIRAM!Sai baba forgive me for hurting a friend. :(

ALLAH MALIK!


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on June 15, 2008, 10:18:30 AM
Sai baba what to do when a friend says Please eliminate my existense from your wish list........hehehehehhehehehehh :P


BABA a friend loveth at all times. :D :D


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on June 15, 2008, 10:25:15 AM
Sai baba what to do when a friend says Please eliminate my existense from your wish list........hehehehehhehehehehh :P


BABA a friend loveth at all times. :D :D

"Good friends are like stars ... you don't always see them, but you know they're always there."




ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on June 21, 2008, 12:57:19 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

'उन' तन्हाईयों में बाबा का साथ मैने पाया
बाबा के साथ ने मुझे तन्हाईयों से लड़ना सिखाया
बाबा के प्यार में मैने एक दोस्त की झलक देखी है
बाबा की दोस्ती से प्यार का अहसास मैने पाया है
कभी मैने खुद मे बाबा,  कभी बाबा में खुद को पाया है

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई

ॐ सांई राम।।।

Thankyou BABA jaani for your blessings.

ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on June 26, 2008, 07:42:37 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

"When you have no light to guide you and no one to walk beside you, I will come to you.  When the night is dark and stormy, you won't have to reach out for me, I will come to you"

I know BABA I will always be able to get through the dark times in life, as long as a friend like you is waiting for me in the light....

Thank You BABA...Thank You So much BABA....Thanks!


अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई

ॐ सांई राम।।।

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on July 04, 2008, 05:41:01 AM
Tere dar par Dost chaley aaye.........


Tu na aaya to hum chale aaye
Chale aaye, chale aaye


Tere dar par Sai chale aaye
Tu na aaya to hum chale aaye


Bin tere koi aas bhi na rahi
Itne tarse ke pyaas bhi na rahi


Oh, bin tere koi aas bhi na rahi
Itne tarse ke pyaas bhi na rahi


Ladkhadaaye kadam, chale aaye Chale aaye, chale aaye
Tere dar par Sai chale aaye
Tu na aaya to hum chale aaye


Dost ho to Sai baba jaisey.........


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on July 09, 2008, 10:28:56 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

True friends are like mornings....
You can't have them the whole day....
But You can be sure....
They will be there when You wake up tomorrow,
Everyday.....and Forever......

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on July 10, 2008, 04:04:03 AM
hi!A very happy Sai baba'day.


ALLAH MALIK HAI!

to a friend who has not spoken for quite sometime...


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on July 12, 2008, 08:58:50 AM
Dostee imtihaan latee hai........... :(

Rishton ki ye duniye hai niraali, Sab riston se pyaari hai dosti ............... :P


Thankyou Sai baba for always being there for me.


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on July 14, 2008, 10:13:50 AM
Humney Diyaay se roshan ke apnee dostee,dost tum apne diya jalaye rakhna..............


Dost ho to Sai baba jaisey jo paani se diyaay jalateyein hai aur man ka andhera dur kartey hai.


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on July 14, 2008, 11:07:51 PM
Kabar ki mitti utha ke le gaya koi,
Isi bahane humein choo kar chala gaya koi,
Tanhayi aur andhere mein khush they hum,
Lekin phir se intezaar karne ki wajah de gaya koi.
Mere haathon se gir gayi lakeeren kahin,
bhool aaye hum apni takdeeren kahin.
Agar mile tumko kahin to utha lena,
mere hisse ki har khushi apne haathon pe saja lena....


posted by ek ajnabee........


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on July 15, 2008, 12:35:33 AM

Kabar ki mitti utha ke le gaya koi,
Isi bahane humein choo kar chala gaya koi,
Tanhayi aur andhere mein khush they hum,
Lekin phir se intezaar karne ki wajah de gaya koi.
Mere haathon se gir gayi lakeeren kahin,
bhool aaye hum apni takdeeren kahin.
Agar mile tumko kahin to utha lena,
mere hisse ki har khushi apne haathon pe saja lena....


posted by ek ajnabee........


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


जय सांई राम।।।

यंहा कौन है तेरा मुसाफिर जायेगा कंहा। दम लेले घड़ी भर जायेगा कंहा?????  फिर कौन है अजनबी यंहा.....अन्जान सी राहों पर सफर में हमसफर सभी तो अपने हैं.....

कभी जब आंख छलके तो
कभी जो दिल ना संभले तो
मुझे आवाज़ दे लेना

कभी जब दूर हो कोई
बहुत मजबूर हो कोई
कोई आवाज़ ना दे तो
मुझे आवाज़ दे लेना

कोई आंसू ना पोंछे तो
कोई हंसने से रोके तो
कोई तुमको सताये तो
मुझे आवाज़ दे लेना

कभी जब दिन ना गुज़रे तो
कभी जब रात पड़ जाये
जब दिन में अंधेरा हो
मुझे आवाज़ दे लेना

मैं तेरे साथ रहता हूँ
मगर फिर भी गुज़ारिश है
कभी जब दिल रुलाये तो
मुझे आवाज़ दे लेना

फिर देखना कैसे दौड़ा चला आता हूँ।

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on July 15, 2008, 10:33:02 PM
TWO FRIENDS WERE WALKING
THROUGH THE DESERT .
DURING SOME POINT OF THE
JOURNEY, THEY HAD AN
ARGUMENT; AND ONE FRIEND
SLAPPED THE OTHER ONE
IN THE FACE


THE ONE WHO GOT SLAPPED
WAS HURT, BUT WITHOUT
SAYING ANYTHING,
WROTE IN THE SAND ,

TODAY MY BEST FRIEND
SLAPPED ME IN THE FACE ..

THEY KEPT ON WALKING,
UNTIL THEY FOUND AN OASIS,
WHERE THEY DECIDED
TO TAKE A BATH .

THE ONE WHO HAD BEEN
SLAPPED GOT STUCK IN THE
MIRE AND STARTED DROWNING,
BUT THE FRIEND SAVED HIM.

AFTER HE RECOVERED FROM
THE NEAR DROWNING,
HE WROTE ON A STONE:

"TODAY MY BEST FRIEND
SAVED MY LIFE"

THE FRIEND WHO HAD SLAPPED
AND SAVED HIS BEST FRIEND
ASKED HIM, "AFTER I HURT YOU,
YOU WROTE IN THE SAND AND NOW,
YOU WRITE ON A STONE, WHY?"

THE FRIEND REPLIED
"WHEN SOMEONE HURTS US
WE SHOULD WRITE IT DOWN
IN SAND, WHERE WINDS OF
FORGIVENESS CAN ERASE IT AWAY.

BUT, WHEN SOMEONE DOES
SOMETHING GOOD FOR US,
WE M UST ENGRAVE IT IN STONE
WHERE NO WIND
CAN EVER ERASE IT"

LEARN TO WRITE
YOUR HURTS IN
THE SAND AND TO
CARVE YOUR
BENEFITS IN STONE.

THEY SAY IT TAKES A
MINUTE TO FIND A SPECIAL
PERSON,
AN HOUR TO
APPRECIATE THEM,
A DAY
TO LOVE THEM,
BUT THEN ,

AN ENTIRE LIFE
TO FORGET THEM.

SEND THIS TO
THE PEOPLE YOU'LL NEVER
FORGET.
I JUST DID.


IF YOU DON'T
SEND IT TO ANYONE,
IT MEANS YOU'RE IN A
HURRY AND THAT YOU'VE
FORGOTTEN YOUR FRIENDS.


TAKE THE TIME TO LIVE!

DO NOT VALUE THE THINGS
YOU HAVE IN YOUR LIFE, BUT VALUE
WHO YOU HAVE IN YOUR LIFE!

AND IF I HAPPEN TO GET IT BACK,
THEN I KNOW MY PLACE IN YOUR LIFE

"Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle."


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on July 16, 2008, 11:45:24 PM
"Have friends that will stick to you till the end. I will never leave anyone in the middle".-Shri Sai Baba


ALLAH MALIK!


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on July 17, 2008, 03:42:33 AM

"Have friends that will stick to you till the end. I will never leave anyone in the middle".-Shri Sai Baba

ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

जय सांई राम।।।

जिन्दगी का सफर न मालूम किस मोड़ पर ख़त्म हो जाये और ना जाने कितने रिश्ते टूट जाए यह सफर का अंत सिर्फ एक खामोशी के साथ पूरा हो जायेगा। वो खामोशी आपकी यादो का एक हिस्सा बन जायेगी उनके पास जो आप से जुडे हुए थे।  दोस्तो हम सब कुछ - कुछ समय के लिए इन पात्रो को जीने के लिये आये है व अपने अपने विचारो, संभाव, वाणी, छवि, से एक दूसरे के दिलो मे समाज मे अपना अपना पर्तिबिम्ब बनाते है। हमारी यादे हमारे बाद भी उनके दिलो मे बनी रहेगी.....

तो दोस्तो दोस्त वो बनाओ
जो आप को भीड़ मे से पहचान ले
दोस्त वो बंनाओ जो दुःख मे आप के साथ खड़ा हो
दोस्त वो बनाओ जो आप को अपने आप मे पाता हो
दोस्त वो बनाओ जो आप के सभी रिश्तो की कदर करता हो
दोस्त वो बनाओ जो आप को सही मार्ग दिखाये

दोस्ती का रिश्ता विश्वास के बल पर होना चाहिये विश्वास ही दोस्ती की कड़ी है। किसकी बातो पर ना विश्वास कर पहले खुद के दोस्त बने फिर दूसरे के दोस्त बने और फिर इस अनमोल रिश्ते कि गरिमा को बनाए॥

और आप जानते है यह सब खूबिया किस में है? जानते हैं आप?  जानना चाहते है उसका पता? 

देखा मिल गया ना उसका पता आपको।  तभी तो आप यंहा दौड़े दौड़े चले आते है।
 
लफ्जो मे ना सिमट जाये कंही जिन्दगी~~~
यह लम्हा आज है फिर न मिल पायेगा
तो देर किस बात की जल्दी से पकडो अपने बाबा को

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on July 19, 2008, 01:42:59 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

I think the most precious thing in life is Friends.  All other relationships are based on self-interests.  The moment interests clash; all love, affection vanish.  Not so in friendship Friendship is not related to age, sex, status, terms or conditions.  No logic, no motive, no plans, no ends.  Just an acceptance of, an admiration for, a best wish for other human - being, plant or pet.  I firmly believe that - One can not be a good parent, a good child, a good spouse,  a good worker or manager, a good teacher, a good pupil,  name any relationship, without being able to be First a Good Friend !!  In life nothing is more joy than company of good friends.  And nothing is more strength than true friends on your side THATS WHAT I THINK GOOD FRIENDS ARE AND WHAT FRIENDSHIP IS  AND I HAVE FOUND A VERY GOOD FRIEND....YOU KNOW WHO HE IS ?

SHOULD I HAVE TO TELL AGAIN????  ITS HIM....MY BABA SAI

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on July 19, 2008, 02:02:08 AM
Love and Death are two uninvited guests,
When they will come nobody knows.
But both do the same work,
One takes the heart and one takes its beats.... ;) ;) ;) :P



Dost ho to apney BABA jaani jaisey...........Y FEAR WHEN I AM HERE.


ALLAH MALIK!


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on July 20, 2008, 09:30:36 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

What is A Friend
 
Friends are never far away
Although they may be miles apart,
It may be months before they speak
But they are always near the heart.

Friends aren't always right next door
Or even in the next town,
They may seldom phone or visit
But you know they are around.

A friend you can count on
Whether you are happy or blue,
A friend seems to know your need
Or give a different point of view,

A friend does not judge
But tries to understand,
Instead of finding fault
Will lend a helping hand.

BABA SAI have all these qualities
A better friend than HIM I could never find,
BABA Thanks for being a BEST friend of mine.

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on July 20, 2008, 11:38:53 PM
OMSAIRAM!FRIEND...........

Remember, the greatest gift is not found in a store nor under a tree, but in the hearts of true friends. -- Cindy Lew

Who finds a faithful friend, finds a treasure. -- Jewish Saying

"Your friend is the man who knows all about you, and still likes you."
-- Elbert Hubbard

Hold a true friend with both your hands. -- Nigerian Proverb

ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on July 20, 2008, 11:43:01 PM
OMSAIRAM!.............

"Don't be dismayed by good-byes. A farewell is necessary before you can meet again. And meeting again, after moments or lifetimes, is certain for those who are friends." Richard Bach

"Take the time today to tell your friends the difference they have made in your life." Catherine Pulsifer

"Your friends will know you better in the first minute you meet than your acquaintances will know you in a thousand years." Richard Bach

"The best looking-glass is the eyes of a friend." Irish Proverb

ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on July 21, 2008, 05:08:47 AM
OMSAIRAM!Friends who always stand by us.........is the one and only..Sai baba.

THANKYOU SAI BABA FOR SHOWING ME COLORS OF DIFFERENT PEOPLE.

"WILL TRY"............. ;) :D :D :D :D :D


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on July 22, 2008, 04:22:21 AM
Listen to your heart

Horror gripped the heart of a World War I soldier, as he saw his lifelong friend fell in battle. Caught in a trench with continuous gunfire whizzing over his head, the soldier asked his Lieutenant if he could go out into the ?no man?s land? between the trenches to bring his fallen comrade back.

?You can go,? said the Lieutenant, ?but I don?t think it will be worth it. Your friend is probably dead and you may throw your life away.? The Lieutenant?s words didn?t matter, and the soldier went anyway.

Miraculously, he managed to reach his friend, hoisted him onto his shoulder and brought him back to their company?s trench. As the two of them tumbled in together to the bottom of the trench, the officer checked the wounded soldier, and then looked kindly at his friend. ?I told you it wouldn?t be worth it,? he said. ?You friend is dead and you are mortally wounded.
?It was worth it, Sir,? said the soldier.
?What do you mean by worth it ?? responded the Lieutenant. ?You friend is dead.?
?Yes Sir,? the private answered, ?but it was worth it because when I got to him, he was still alive and I got the chance to hear him say?..?JIM???.. I KNEW YOU?D COME.?


Many times in life, whether a thing is worth doing or not, really depends on how you look at it. Take up all your courage and do something your heart tells you to do, so that you may not regret not doing it later in your life?.

?A true friend is one who walks in, when the rest of the world walks out?


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on July 24, 2008, 10:29:30 AM
Har qadam pe imtehan laiti hai zindagi

Har waqt sadmay daiti hai zindagi

Hum zindagi se shikwa kaisey karein

                            KYON KI

Aap jaisey  dost bhi deti hai zindagi
 
 
Thankyou BABA jaani for your love and friendship.

ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on July 24, 2008, 10:38:19 AM
Dosti har Rishte se Badi hoti hai..... ALLAH MALIK...................

Thankyou Sai baba for your dostee.. :D

Sai baba says Y fear when i am here.

ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM 
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on July 31, 2008, 10:27:27 AM
Three Friends


Importance of Good Deeds (Aamal ul Saleh)


Do good, and leave behind you a monument of virtue that the storms of time can never destroy. Write your name in kindness, love, and mercy on the hearts of thousands you come in contact with year by year, and you will never be forgotten. Your name and your good deeds will shine as the stars of heaven.



Once the Prophet of God, Hazrat Muhammed (p.b.u.h) was sitting amidst his Sahaba (companions) in the mosque when all of a sudden he said "Today I shall narrate a story to you all which will reveal three riddles for all of you to solve". This hushed the crowd and they all listened to what the Prophet had to
say.

Hazrat Mohammed (p.b.u.h) continued by saying that once a man got to know that the days in his life was numbered and very soon he would be confronted with death. With this knowledge he feared his loneliness in the grave and went
searching for true friends who would help and accompany him.

He knocked on the door of his first friend and asked whether he would help. To this the friend said, "of course, what are we here for." But then the man went on to say that he had very few days to live after which he required help. As
soon as he uttered this statement, the friend said "I am sorry but when death does us apart, there is nothing we can do for you but buy you a place in the graveyard and some cloth (Kafan) to cover your dead body." Grieved but looking
forward to his next friend, the man moved on.

On the second door, when he came face to face with his friend, and after narrating the entire story of his death and asked for help, the same answer was his fate again. The second friend said "I have been there with you all your life
and can help you here. But there's nothing I can do for you after you die except take your corpse to the graveyard and bury you."

Lost in agony and despair, he headed for the third friend, very sure that he would receive the same answer but there was a tinge of hope left. When he confronted the third friend, and told him that he required help, the friend
eagerly volunteered to help. But the man continued to say that I need help after I die. To which the third friend replied, "Do not worry, my dear friend!

I shall accompany you to the grave, be there with you in the grave, even when the angels arrive for questioning (Munkar-o-Nakeer), then assist you on the Pul-e-Sirat (bridge) and then lead you to heaven. "To this the man heaved a sigh of relief and then passed away in peace."

The Prophet (p.b.u.h) then turned and asked his companions if anybody could identify the three friends and the man. When the prevailing silence didn't dissolve, the Prophet continued to say, "The man in the anecdote is any other
human being." The first friend is "money/wealth", things that help us only in life and not after we die.

The second family/friend were the "children/sons and daughters", we strive for them all our life and all they give us is a shoulder to the grave.

And the third and most important friend is "Aamal (deeds)". Who accompany us all the way through.

Moral: Do not strive for materialistic values that will give you nothing and help you in no way in your eternal life. But work and pray and ask forgiveness from God for only the good deeds assist mankind where every other thing loses
value in the life hereafter!

posted by Fatima ji.

ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on July 31, 2008, 10:40:20 AM
A best friend shares the good times and help you out by listening during the bad times.


A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walk out.


Best friend is someone who knows all about you and loves you anyway.


Never explain yourself. Your friends don’t need it and your enemies won’t believe it.


One, who finds a faithful friend, finds a treasure.


One's best friend is oneself.


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
 

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on August 02, 2008, 02:46:12 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

Someone turned to me and asked
"How many friends have you?"
Why 10 or 20 friends I believe
And began to named a few...
 
A blessed one you are
To have so many friends
But think of what you're saying...
A friend is just not someone
To whom you say "Hello"
 
A friend is a tender shoulder
On which to softly cry
A well to pour your troubles down
And raise your spirits high
 
A friend is a hand to pull you up
From darkness and despair...
When all your other "so called" friends
Have helped to put you there
 
A true friend is an ally
Who can't be moved or bought
A voice to keep your name alive
When others have forgot
 
But most of all a friend has a true heart
For from the hearts of friends
There comes the greatest love of all!
 
So think about all this
For every word is true
And once again answer please...
How many friends have you?
 
After much thought I answered
I really only have just ONE
"It's HE!"
 
A BABA Like Friend Is Always Special
Because HE Love You
Just Because You're You!

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 03, 2008, 12:15:06 AM
OMSAIRAM!And the third and most important friend is "Aamal (deeds)". Who accompany us all the way through.............Also our BABA jaani......... :D :D :D :D :D :D :D


Thanks Sai baba for your unconditional love.............

You know BABA ..........baijaa mere kol tenu takdee rawaan........Saiyaan mere kol....


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on August 06, 2008, 04:44:54 AM
OMSAIRAM!And the third and most important friend is "Aamal (deeds)". Who accompany us all the way through.............Also our BABA jaani......... :D :D :D :D :D :D :D

Thanks Sai baba for your unconditional love.............

You know BABA ..........baijaa mere kol tenu takdee rawaan........Saiyaan mere kol....

ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


जय सांई राम।।।

दोस्त हो ऐसा
जिसे कहो कुछ नहीं
समझ जाए

लिखो कुछ नहीं
पढ़ ले

आवाज़ दो
उसके पहले सुन ले

मुझे गुण-दोष सहित
स्वीकार करे

ग़र चोट लगे उसे
दर्द हो मुझे

कमाल मैं करूँ
गर्व हो उसे

अवसाद से उबार दे
स्नेह दे, सत्कार दे
आलोचना का अधिकार दे
रिश्तों को विस्तार दे

दु:ख में पीछे खड़ा नज़र आए
सुख का सारथी बन जाए

सिर्फ़ एक दिन फ़्रेंड न रहे
दिन-रात प्रति पल
धड़कता रहे सीने में बाबा जैसे
हैसियत और प्रतिष्ठा से सोचे हटकर
वही मित्र लगे मेरे बाबा को प्रियकर.

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 07, 2008, 08:52:43 AM
Never listen to one friend in private accusing another. ~ Swami Vivekananda

Be not forgetful to entertain strangers,
for thereby some have entertained angels unawares.
~ The Bible, Hebrews 13:2

ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on August 10, 2008, 08:56:41 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

दोस्ती अच्छी हो तो रंग लाती है
दोस्ती गहरी हो तो सबको भाती है
दोस्ती नादान हो तो टूट जाती है
पर अगर दोस्ती बाबा जैसे दोस्त से हो
तो इतिहास बनाती है

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 11, 2008, 09:01:40 AM
OMSAIRAM!Only True friends stand by you during times of trials and tribulations.

"Do not save your loving speeches
For your friends till they are dead;
Do not write them on their tombstones,
Speak them rather now instead.
- Anna Cummins

Thankyou Sai baba... :D :D :D :D :D :D :D

ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 12, 2008, 05:24:48 AM
Dosti har Rishte se Badi hoti hai..... ALLAH MALIK...................

Thankyou Sai baba for your dostee.. :D

Sai baba says Y fear when i am here.

ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM 

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on August 13, 2008, 08:16:56 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

स्थायी मित्रता की इच्छा रखने वाले मुष्य को तीन बातें कभी भी नहीं करनी चाहियें (Three things to be avoided for prolonged friendship)

इछेच्चेद्विपुलां मैत्रीं त्रीणी तत्र न कारयेत् ।
वाग्वादमर्थसम्बंधं तत्पत्नीपरिभाषणम ।।

स्थायी मित्रता की इच्छा रखने वाले मनुष्य को तीन बातें कभी भी नहीं करनी चाहियें। व्यर्थ का वाद-विवाद, धन से सम्बंधित कार्यों में आपसी व्यवहार,  तथा मित्र की पत्नी से अधिक बातचीत।

Those desirous of having a prolonged friendship should always avoid three things. Unnecessary arguments, dealings in matters related to wealth or money and conversations with the wife of the friend.

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 13, 2008, 10:31:31 PM
A man who has friends must himself be friendly, But there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.
Proverb 18:24

A friend loves at all times, And a brother is born for adversity.
Proverb 17:17

He who loves purity of heart and has grace on his lips, the king will be his friend.
Proverb 22:11

As in the best tradition of the Christian community, death can bring a renewed sense of life. That is the case here. There is a renewed sense of respect and honor for each other, a renewed sense of honesty and friendship.
Rev. Gary Uhlenkott

Do you not know that friendship with the world is enmity with God? Whoever therefore wants to be a friend of the world makes himself an enemy of God.
James 4:4b

You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven; for He makes His sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust. For if you love those who love you, what reward have you? Do not even the tax collectors do the same?
Matthew 5:43-46

A loyal friend laughs at your jokes when they're not so good, and sympathizes with your problems when they're not so bad.
Arnold Glasgow

If you want to make peace, you don't talk to your friends. You talk to your enemies.
Moshe Dayan

You can make more friends in a month by being interested in them than in ten years by trying to get them interested in you.
Charles Allen

In the New Year, may your right hand always be stretched out in friendship, never in want.
Irish Proverb

ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 13, 2008, 10:34:58 PM
A True Friend
- Socrates


In ancient Greece, Socrates was reputed to hold knowledge in high esteem. One day one fellow met the great philosopher and said, "Do you know what I just heard about your friend?". "Hold on a minute," Socrates replied. "Before telling me anything I'd like you to pass a little test. It's called the Triple Filter Test.". "Triple filter?". "That's right," Socrates continued. "Before you talk to me about my friend, it might be a good idea to take a moment and filter what you're going to say. That's why I call it the triple filter test. The first filter is Truth. Have you made absolutely sure that what you are about to tell me is true?" "No," the man said, "actually I just heard about it and...". "All right," said Socrates. "So you don't know if it's true or not. Now let's try the second filter, the filter of Goodness. Is what you are about to tell me about my friend something good?" . "No, on the contrary...". "So," Socrates continued, "you want to tell me something bad about him, but you're not certain it's true. You may still pass the test though, because there's one filter left: the filter of Usefulness. Is what you want to tell me about my friend going to be useful to me?" "No, not really." "Well," concluded Socrates, "if what you want to tell me is neither true nor good nor even useful, why tell it to me at all?"

Lesson:
Well we can always participate in loose talks to curb our boredom. But when it comes to you friends its not worth it. Always avoid talking behind the back about your near and dear friends.


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 13, 2008, 10:36:48 PM
Two Frogs

A group of frogs were traveling through the woods, and two of them fell into a deep pit. When the other frogs saw how deep the pit was, they told the two frogs that they were as good as dead. The two frogs ignored the comments and tried to jump up out of the pit with all their might. The other frogs kept telling them to stop, that they were as good as dead. Finally, one of the frogs took heed to what the other frogs were saying and gave up. He fell down and died.

The other frog continued to jump as hard as he could. Once again, the crowd of frogs yelled at him to stop the pain and just die. He jumped even harder and finally made it out. When he got out, the other frogs said, "Did you not hear us?" The frog explained to them that he was deaf. He thought they were encouraging him the entire time.

Lessons of the story:

There is power of life and death in the tongue. An encouraging word to someone who is down can lift them up and help them make it through the day. So be careful of what you say. Speak life to those who cross your path. The power of words... it is sometimes hard to understand
that an encouraging word can go such a long way.


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 13, 2008, 10:38:59 PM
Friendship Forever

Two inseparable friends, Sam and Jason, met with an accident on their way to Boston City. The following morning, Jason woke up blind and Sam was still unconscious. Dr. Berkeley was standing at his bedside looking at his health chart and medications with a thoughtful expression on his face. When he saw Sam awake, he beamed at him and asked." How are you feeling today Sam?" Sam tried to put up a brave face and smiled back saying, "absolutely wonderful Doctor. I am very grateful for all that you have done for me. "Dr Berkeley was moved at Sam's deed. All that he could say was, "You are a very brave man Sam and God will make it up to you in one way or another". While he was moving on to the next patient, Sam called back at him almost pleading, "promise me you won't tell Jason anything".
"You know I won't do that. Trust me." and walked away.
"Thank you " whispered Sam. He smiled and looked up in prayer " I hope I live up to your ideas...please give me the strength to be able to go through this..Amen"

Months later when Jason had recuperated considerably, he stopped hanging around with Sam. He felt discouraged and embarrassed to spend time with a disabled person like Sam.
Sam was lonely and disheartened ,since he didn't have any body else other than Jason to count on. Things went from bad to worse. And one day Sam died in despair. When Jason was called on his burial, he found a letter waiting for him. Dr Berkeley gave it to him with an expressionless face and said" This is for you Jason. Sam had asked me to give it to you when he was gone".

In the letter he had said: " Dear Jason, I have kept my promise in the end to lend you my eyes if anything had happened to them. Now there is nothing more that I can ask from God, than the fact ,that will see the world through my eyes. You will always be my best friend........Sam".
When he had finished reading Dr. Berkeley said " I had promised Sam to keep his sacrifice he made a secret from you. But now I wish I didn't stick it Because I don't think It was worthy it" .
All that was left for Jason while he stood there was tears of regret and memories of Sam for the rest of his life .

Lesson of the story: No matter what If we make a friend, we should stick by him till the end. Life is meaningless without a friend.


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 13, 2008, 10:45:14 PM
Aesop's Fable - The Hare With Many Friends

A Hare was very popular with the other animals in the jungle who all claimed to be her friends. One day she heard the hounds approaching her and hoped to escape them by the aid of her Friends. So, she went to the horse, and asked him to carry her away from the hounds on his back. But he declined, stating that he had important work to do for his master. "He felt sure," he said, "that all her other friends would come to her assistance." She then applied to the bull, and hoped that he would repel the hounds with his horns. The bull replied: "I am very sorry, but I have an appointment with a lady; but I feel sure that our friend the goat will do what you want." The goat, however, feared that his back might do her some harm if he took her upon it. The ram, he felt sure, was the proper friend to ask for help. So she went to the ram and told him the case. The ram replied: "Another time, my dear friend. I do not like to interfere on the present occasion, as hounds have been known to eat sheep as well as hares." The Hare then applied, as a last hope, to the calf, who regretted that he was unable to help her, as he did not like to take the responsibility upon himself, as so many older persons than himself had declined the task. By this time the hounds were quite near, and the Hare took to her heels and luckily escaped.

Moral of the story :
He that has many friends, has no friends.


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be oru sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 13, 2008, 10:47:30 PM
AN IRISH FRIENDSHIP WISH

May there always be work for your hands to do;

May your purse always hold a coin or two;

May the sun always shine on your window pane;

May a rainbow be certain to follow each rain;

May the hand of a friend always be near you;

May God fill your heart with gladness to cheer you..... :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D

ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on August 13, 2008, 11:21:37 PM
Om Sai Ram~~~

A faithful friend is the medicine of life~~~

Jai Sai Ram~~~
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on August 14, 2008, 03:24:41 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

सज्जन मनुष्य का साथ (The company of a generous goodhearted person)

सज्जन मनुष्य का साथ, यदि अकस्मात संयोग से भी कभी प्राप्त हो जाता है, तो वह आजन्म मित्रता के रूप में अमर हो जाता है । वह पुनर्मिलन या आवागमन की अपेक्षा नहीं रखता है ।

The company of a generous goodhearted person, even if it is coincidental, becomes a lifelong everlasting friendhip. Such friendship does not expects one to meet again or to visit one another's place again.

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 16, 2008, 08:08:50 AM
Dosti har Rishte se Badi hoti hai..... ALLAH MALIK...................

Thankyou Sai baba for your dostee.. :D

Sai baba says Y fear when i am here.

ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM 


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 16, 2008, 08:20:49 AM
OMSAIRAM!Dosti imtihaan leti hai
Dosti imtihaan leti hai
Doston ki jaan, doston ki jaan, doston ki jaan leti hai



Kyon BABA bolo?

ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 17, 2008, 11:10:08 AM
OMSAIRAM!I value the friend who for me finds time on his calendar, but I cherish the friend who for me does not consult his calendar.

 "Do not save your loving speeches for your friends till they are dead. Do not write them on their tombstones, speak them rather now instead. "  

ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 17, 2008, 11:22:52 AM
OMSAIRAM!BABA jaani thanks for your Friendship and love. :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D

Danish proverb
A road to a friend's house is never long.

To lose a friend is hardship, but to forget them is as if you died too.

True friendship is seen through the heart not through the eyes.

Friendships are fragile things, and require as much handling as any other fragile and precious thing.

Never Explain — your Friends do not need it and your Enemies will not believe
you anyway.

A true friend sticks with you through thick and thin no matter what.

ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on August 17, 2008, 11:28:10 PM
जय सांई राम।।।

दोस्ती।

कहो तो दो लब्ज़
मानो तो बन्दगी
सोचो तो गहरा सागर
डूबो तो ज़िन्दगी
कहो तो आसान
निभाओ तो मुश्किल
बिखरे तो सारा ज़माना
सिमटे तो सिर्फ
और सिर्फ मेरे बाबा सांई तक

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on August 18, 2008, 11:51:13 PM
Om Sai Ram~~~

" When a person can find sorrow behind your smile,
words behind your silence and love behind your anger,
you can believe that you have found your Best Buddy"~~~

Jai Sai Ram~~~
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: tana on August 21, 2008, 06:21:45 AM
ॐ सांई राम~~~

साथी सिर्फ वो नहीं होता जो जीवन भर साथ निभाए~~
साथी तो वो होता है जो जीवन के कुछ पलों में भी जीवन भर का साथ दे जाए~~~

साथी वो नहीं जो आंसुओं को पोछता है~~
साथी तो वो होता है जो आंसुओं को गिरने से रोकता है~~~

जय सांई राम~~~
 
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 21, 2008, 11:25:53 PM
TRUE FRIENDS ARE GOD's ANGELS........... :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :P :P ;) ;)

Thankyou My Angels......... :D

Thankyou BABA jaani for being my Angel friend.......... :D :D :D :D :D :D :D


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 21, 2008, 11:27:23 PM
Why are friends so special? Byron, while dedicating the fourth canto of Childe Harold's Pilgrimage to his friend, John Hobhouse, wrote: "To one whom I have known long, and accompanied far, whom I have found wakeful over my sickness and kind in my sorrow, glad in my prosperity and firm in my adversity, true in counsel and trusted in peril - to a friend often tried and never found wanting."

ALLAH MALIK!


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
 

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 22, 2008, 06:03:40 AM
Once a holy man, while passing through a crowded street, accidentally trod upon the toe of a wicked person. The wicked man, furious with rage, beat the Sâdhu mercilessly, till he fell to the ground in a faint. His disciples took great pains and adopted various measures to bring him back to consciousness, and when they saw that he had recovered a little, one of them asked, 'Sir, do you recognise who is attending upon you?' The Sâdhu replied, 'He who beat me.' A true Sâdhu finds no distinction between a friend and a foe

Shri Ramakrishna.

ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 23, 2008, 11:18:08 AM
"Sometimes our light goes out but is blown into flame by another human being. Each of us owes deepest thanks to those who have rekindled this light."


Thankyou...........  :)   


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 23, 2008, 11:23:54 AM
"Friendship always benefits; love sometimes injures... :(

"Friendship is full of dregs."
By: William Shakespeare


"Life is to be fortified by many friendships. To love, and to be loved, is the greatest happiness of existence."
By: Sydney Smith, Of Friendship--Lady Holland's Memoir

"Friendship is the greatest honesty and ingenuity in the world."
By: Jeremy Taylor


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 23, 2008, 11:33:14 AM
A friend is not a true friend unless he protects his brother in three situations: in his misfortune, in his absense, and at his death. 
Friends are like books should be few and choose the best one. 
A friendship that can end, never really began. 
A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart. 
True friendship comes when silence between two people is comfortable. 
A boyfriend stabs you in the heart, a stranger stabs you in the front, a friend stabs you in the back, but best friends don't carry knives. 
There will be many people who will walk in and out of your life but only true friends will leave footprints behind. 
Friendship is like the relation between hands and eyes. It's like when the hand gets hurt, the eye cries, and when the eye cries the hand wipes its tears. 
Friendship improves happiness and abates misery, by the doubling of our joy and the dividing of our grief. 
Count your life by smiles not tears, count your age by friends not years.

ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 23, 2008, 11:43:55 AM
OMSAIRAM! :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D

   May God bless you,with bright stars in the sky when the way seems dark.

   when the smiles to cheer you when the road seems long.

   with Sunshine to warm you,when the world seems cold.
 
    with love to greet you when each day is gone.


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on October 03, 2008, 06:33:14 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

एक रिश्ता है ऐसा
बिल्कुल अनोखा हो जैसा,
स्वार्थ से अछूता,
समन्दर से गहरा हैं 'वो'

जाति पाँति के बन्धनों से परे
धर्मों के आडम्बरों से दूर है जो
कहते हैं जिसे हम मित्रता,
क्या विश्वास है और
कितनी भरी है इसमें मधुरता

सुख मे भले ना
वो दिखलाये,
पर दुःख में हमेशा,
'वो' दोस्त काम आये

औपचारिकता से
परे है जो,
दिल के कितने करीब है 'वो'

कह ना सके जो
बात किसी से,
उस दोस्त से कह जाते हैं
कितनी सहजता से

भरोसे का अटूट
आधार है जो,
मुसीबतों में खडा
चट्टान है 'वो'

जिसकी देतें हैं
लोग मिसालें,
दोस्ती और दोस्त ही हैं
'बाबा सांई'  मेरे यार,
जो मेरे जीवन रुपी
चित्रपट में
अदा करते हैं,
एक महत्वपूर्ण किरदार
वो भी दोस्तों!
एक नहीं अनेकों बार

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on November 11, 2008, 06:46:50 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

दोस्त वो होना चाहिये जिसके साथ हम अपने सारे रिश्ते जी सकें...वो माँ बनकर हमपर अपनी ममता लुटाये....वो बाप की तरह हमे डांट पिलाये....वो भाई की तरह हमे सताये....वो छोटी बहन की तरह हमसे दिल की सारी बातें शेयर करे....वो दुश्मन की तरह हमे हर बार हराने की कोशिश करे तांकि हम और मज़बूत बन सकें....वो एक प्रेमी की तरह दिलो जान से प्यार भी करे....हर एक रिश्ता, हर एक रिश्ता जिससे हम शेयर करें....ऐसा होना चाहिये दोस्त...

साथियो और वो दोस्त है मेरा....मेरा प्यारा सबसे न्यारा साई.....अपना सांई बाबा...क्यों सही है ना?
 
अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 12, 2008, 03:35:58 AM
TRUE FRIENDS ARE GOD's ANGELS...........  :)             

Thankyou My Angels.........

Thankyou BABA jaani for being my Angel friend..........       


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on November 14, 2008, 08:55:31 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

जिंदगी का सच.....जो मुश्किल से मिले वो है पैसा, जो आसानी से मिले वो यार कैसा? जो हर किसी को मिले वो है गम और जो किस्मत वालों को मिले वो है...सांई....सांई बाबा मेरा
 
अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई

ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on December 20, 2008, 10:42:05 PM
Sukha Ke Sangi Swarthi
Dukh Me Rahate Door
Kahe Kabir Parmarathi
Dukh Sukh Sada Hujoor


The fair weather friends stay away when we face the rough weather. Those who understand the truth are with us at all times.

Kabir ji.

ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on December 21, 2008, 06:56:10 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

शायद नशा ये "तुझसे" मोहब्बत करने का सर मेरे चढ़ के बोला है
खता कहो मगर खुदा से भी मैने सिर्फ "तुझको" ही मांगा है
रब माफ़ करे या करे जहन्नुम मेरे नसीब
मैने तो रूख ज़िन्दगी का "तेरे"  ही नाम कर दिया है.....

हम सबको ऐसा दोस्त चाहिए जो हमे अपना मान सके, जो हमारे दिल को जान सके, चल रहे हों हम तेज़ बारिश मे, फिर भी पानी मे से आँसुओ को पहचान सके। ख़ुश्बू की तरह हमारी सांसो मे रहे लहू बनके और नस-नस मे बहे। दोस्ती होती है रिश्तों का अनमोल गहना इसलिये बाबा की दोस्ती को कभी अलविदा ना कहना। याद आए अपने बाबा की तो बस सिर्फ आँखें बंद करना। बाबा की दोस्ती का एहसास कभी कम मत करना।.....एक बात और....दोस्ती उनसे करो जो निभाना जानते हो।  नफ़रत उन से करना जो भूलना जानते हो.....ग़ुस्सा उन से करना जो मानना जानते हो.....प्यार उनसे करना जो दिल लुटाना जानते हों.........बहते अश्को की ज़ुबान नही होती, लफ़्ज़ों मे मोहब्बत बयां नही होती, मिले जो प्यार तो कदर करना, किस्मत हर किसी पर मेहरबान नही होती। ज़िन्दगी सिर्फ गमो का पुलिंदा ही नही माना कि ख़ुशियाँ आज कल चुनिंदा है।  बस हमेशा याद रखना अपने सांई...सांई  बाबा को

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई

ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on December 24, 2008, 07:30:10 AM
Sudama was from a poor Brahmin family, while Krishna was from the royal family. But this difference in social status did not come in the way of their friendship. They lost contact over the years and while Krishna became a military leader and King of great repute at Dwaraka, while Sudama stayed as a humble, and somewhat impoverished Brahmin living in a village .

Some time later when Sudama was going through some bad times, not even having enough money to feed his children, his wife reminded him of his friendship with Krishna.

Though initially reluctant to go to his friend for help, Sudama finally agrees to go. He leaves with nothing but some beaten rice tied in a cloth as a present. He remembers that beaten rice (powa/poha in Hindi) is Krishna's favorite and decided to give this as a gift to the Lord.

Krishna is greatly pleased to see his old friend. He treats him royally and with much love. Overwhelmed by all this Sudama forgets to ask for what he actually came to ask. But the Lord realises what His friend needs, and the lord's consort Rukmini incarnation of Lakshmi, gifts him with his desires. On his return journey, Sudama ponders his circumstances and is thankful for the great friend he has in Lord Krishna. When Sudama finally returns to his home, he finds a palatial mansion instead of the hut he had left. He also finds his family dressed in extremely nice garb and waiting for him. He lives an austere life after that, always thankful to the Lord.

This story is told to illustrate that the Lord does not differentiate between people based on their finances and that he will reward devotion always. Another moral taught by this story is to never expect anything free in life; God will provide for your good deeds. Another moral is not to trade bhakti for anything in return. Sudama did not ask Krishna for anything. Despite being poor Sudama had given Krishna everything he had (poha) hence in return the Lord gave Sudama everything he needed.

Krishna never forgot His friend and treated Sudama with utmost respect. By His example, Krishna is teaching us about how to treat one another.

Another important lesson learnt here is about how Krishna rewards true Brahmins. Krishna did not reward Sudama just because he was a friend. Sudama spent all of his time and effort in cultural efforts befitting a true Brahmin which explained why he was financially not well off. This included teaching religion, moral duties, and spreading spirituality through society. It is for this effort that Krishna rewards Sudama's family with wealth so that Sudama may continue to do that work.

Did Sudama himself lead an autere life after returning from Krishna ? It is said that Sudama continued to lead the life of a hermit while his family enjoyed the generous gifts of wealth from Krishna...........

DOST.........................

ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM



Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on December 24, 2008, 08:10:32 AM
One day Ananda, who had been thinking deeply about things for a while, turned to the Buddha and exclaimed:
"Lord, I've been thinking- spiritual friendship is at least half of the spiritual life!"
The Buddha replied: "Say not so, Ananda, say not so. Spiritual friendship is the whole of the spiritual life!"
Samyutta Nikaya, Verse 2

In Aryans' Discipline, to build a friendship is to build wealth,
To maintain a friendship is to maintain wealth and
To end a friendship is to end wealth.
Cakkavatti Sutta, Patika Vagga, Dighanikaya

One should follow a man of wisdom who rebukes one for one's faults, as one would follow a guide to some buried treasure.
To one who follows such a wise man, it will be an advantage and not a disadvantage.
Dhammapada 76

ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on January 17, 2009, 08:56:46 PM
Do not reveal to friends all the secrets you possess; they may one day become enemies. Do not inflict on enemies every injury in your power; they may one day become friends.


-Sadi, "Gulistan


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on February 14, 2009, 09:16:54 AM
To attract good fortune, spend a new coin on an old friend, share an old pleasure with a new friend, and lift up the heart of a true friend by writing his name on the wings of a dragon.

Chinese Proverb


Be slow in choosing a friend, but slower in changing him.

Scottish Proverb


The road to a friend's house is never long

Danish Proverb

Those who wish to sing, always find a song.

Swedish proverb


A friend is one to whom one can pour out all the contents of one's heart, chaff and grain together, knowing that the gentlest of hands will take and sift it, keeping what is worth keeping, and, with the breath of kindness, blow the rest away.

Arabian Proverb

ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: saikripa.dimple on April 25, 2009, 12:44:32 AM
Jai Sai Ram!!!!!!!!!!
If I Think about True friendship then always a word comes in my mind which touch all the feelings of my heart & dat is
Sai se Dosti yeah its true in dis big world many people we knw but no 1 cn understand us;;
samtym v thnk all r vd us but it 4 a short tym
The true frnd is only sai baba who r always  vd u every tym ,, every moment whenever u need u feel him with u;;
Trust on BABA & go ahead;;
OMM SAI RAM 
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on May 15, 2009, 11:15:25 PM
OMSAIRAM!Some friends are friends with us in their adversity but leave us when gud times come to them..Truly great friends are hard to find..

Sai baba has said choose friends who stay with u in thick and thin.

Our Sai baba is our True friend.

METTA TO ALL.....Let all beings be happy and free from suffering,whatever beings be there.


ALLAH MALIK!


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: rr_sai_bhakt on May 16, 2009, 02:48:16 AM
Dipika ji,

what is the meaning of "Metta" ?

Om Sai Ram
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on May 17, 2009, 09:04:05 PM
OMSAIRAM!rr_sai_bhakt JI..Metta means loving kindness...METTA ....is a prayer.."May all beings be happy, may all beings besecure, may all beings be happy minded and may their hearts be wholesome...


JAISAIRAM JI KI!


ALLAH MALIK!


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: rr_sai_bhakt on May 17, 2009, 09:58:13 PM
Thank you Dipika ji ...

I was going to ask you a few more questions, but thought of googling on Metta and surprisingly found a lot of info.  :)

For the sake of those who would like to know more on Metta, well, not surprisingly wikipedia has some detailed info on this too -

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mettā (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mettā)


Om Sai Ram ...
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on May 17, 2009, 11:56:03 PM
Dipika ji thank you for starting this topic i never saw this topic before. Today after a longtime i went to my friends house and quite upset feel like crying, i love my friends, because of some misunderstandings we are not close anymore just like "i know them". i was asking baba what happend? why we are not friends anymore? what went wrong? so many......logged on the fourms thinking that and here comes baba's message. Thank you baba. Thank you Dipika ji. Love you baba.

Om sri sainathaya Namaha!!

I am very glad Sainetra ji that i started this topic and it is helping Sai devotees......


JAISAIRAM JI KI!

METTA TO ALL........http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mett%C4%81


http://www.accesstoinsight.org/lib/authors/buddharakkhita/wheel365.html


A cheerful friend is like asunny day spreading brightness all around.

ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
 
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on May 29, 2009, 09:59:46 PM
OMSAIRAm!Sometimes in tragedy we find our REAL FRIENDS WHO STAND BY US.


Adversity teaches us who are real friends are.

Truly real friends are hard to find.


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet eb our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on May 31, 2009, 07:02:09 AM
OMSAIRAM!It is prosperity that gives us friends, adversity that proves them..

      “False friends are worse than open enemies”


"prosperity gains friends, Adversity tries them..........Thanks Sai baba for Always being their for me.


Our True Friend is Sai baba.

Friends are those Angels who BELIEVE in us.

ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet eb our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on May 31, 2009, 07:06:26 AM
OMSAIRAM!A true friend is tested in Adversity

by Quintus Ennius


Friends who behave as they don't know us,leave us in our times of Trials and Tribulations.


Sai baba says Forgive your friends...


ALLAH MALIK


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on June 06, 2009, 04:47:18 AM
OMSAIRAM!One friend who ALWAYS stood by me during my times of trials and tribulations..

who else but the one and the only Sai baba ji.


Thankyou Sai baba for your unconditional support and blessings.

DOST HO TO BABA SAI JAISEY.... ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D

ALLAH MALIK HAI!


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on June 22, 2009, 11:03:49 AM
OMSAIRAM!UNDOUBTEDLY DOST HO TO SAI BABA JAISEY... ;D

क्यों बाबा Aaap के साथ बहत्तर जन्म का रिश्ता है


 ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D


साई महाराज की जय!!

अल्लाह मलिक है!


साई बाबा अपने पवित्र कमल पैर हमारी एकमात्र शरण रहने दो.ओम साई राम




 


Title: A Friendships Prayer
Post by: SS91 on July 20, 2009, 07:19:00 AM
A  Friendships Prayer

 

God, I Come To Your Throne For Prayer

Knowing That You Are Always Near

You Always Know What's On My Mind

For You Are Always Right On Time.

 

I Have So Many Dear Loving

Friends

Some In Need, Others Hurt So Much

Would You Please Just Stop By Today

To Let Them Feel Your Loving Touch

 

I Just Leave Them In Your Loving Care

As I Kneel Before You,

I Leave A Prayer

That You Will Supply Each Need Today

They Will Know You Are Not

Far Away.

 

I Leave Them In Your Strong

Arms

Knowing God Your Will Be Done

All Things Happen It Is Your Plan

Someday In Glory We Will

Understand.

 

Friends Stand By When We're In

Need

How Nice To Feel Friends Gentle Breeze

I Give God Thanks For Each

One So Dear

Friends Are Special

God Answers Prayer.

 

Have A Bless Day

OM SAI RAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: sunita.pahuja on July 21, 2009, 03:40:54 AM
mera bhi friend hai jo mujhse baat nahi karta, mein sai baba se har pal har shan yahi prathna kari hu ki mein use bhol jayo, bas apki bhagti karo, lekin mein apne aap ko smjha nahi pa rahi yu, mera man bar bar usse baat karne ko karta hai, mein kya karo baba Pls help me
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: monabhardwaj on July 21, 2009, 04:44:26 AM
sai ram sunita ji,,
baba will surely help u out from your sorrow,,try to convince ur frnd,, dont leave him or her,,,,if u give up with ur frnship,, may be u hv to regret whole ur life for ur unsuccessful bond or relationship.....frnds are precious.

be happy
shri satchidanand sadguru sai nath maharaj ji ki jai
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on July 21, 2009, 05:25:44 AM
OMSAIRAM!Sai baba says choose friends who will stick with you in thick and thin.


"A good friend is my nearest relation."


Bow to Sri Sai!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on August 04, 2009, 09:14:07 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

You may meet a person and instantly know that you will be best friends forever. Other friendships develop over an extended period of time. In some friendships you may feel a sense of equality, while in others there may be a clear sense that one is giving more to the friendship then the other. There are no rules about how a friendship has to be. If you are able to share your life with another human being, by all means go right ahead. All friendships are unique and special in their own way. Each one is valuable.

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 04, 2009, 05:37:22 PM
OMSAIRAM!Friendship is a TRUST that someone or somebody will be our side always..Friends forever.


 A friend is someone who may often encourage us for our betterment, he stands with us when we are happi and in momments of sorrow.


Bow to Sri Sai!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 17, 2009, 08:24:11 AM
Fair Weather Friends Aren't Worth Much

Other ways of saying it:
Someone who only helps you when it's easy isn't much of a friend.


Bow to Sri Sai!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on August 17, 2009, 08:59:52 AM
जय सांई राम।।।

दोस्तो दिल चीर के देख लो मेरा
तस्वीर उसमे उसकी ही होगी
कभी हिले इस दिल के दरवाज़े
तो आहट उसकी ही होगी
             
अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on August 17, 2009, 09:58:55 PM
Sakhya rasa:

Shri Krishna has defined friendship a sacred bond of life by depicting his friendship with his childhood friend Sudama. During the days of gurukul Shri Krishna and Sudama had become good friends and with time sudamaji went to Mathura and settled their as a Brahman. Sudamaji worshipped Shri Krishna as his deity and his family survived on the charity he got from the villagers; his poverty increased with time thus his wife advised him to go to his friend Shri Krishna and ask for help for he had become the king of Dwarka. Sudamaji didn’t agree but seeing his family’s miserable life he agreed to it. His wife gave him a tiny bag of rice she had just begged it from her neighbor. When Sudamaji arrived to Dwarka his state was too bad, for he walked from Mathura to Dwarka his feet got swollen covered with mud pricked with blades of grass, clothes clad and feeble body. On the gates of Dwarka’s palace he told the guards to inform Shri Krishna that his childhood friend Sudama had come to meet him, though guards didn’t believe but they still informed Shri Krishna of his arrival. As Krishna heard this message he ran towards the gates of palace bare feet and hugged Sudama. On seeing his friend in that pitiful state Shri Krishna’s tears rolled out. He welcomed Sudama with full respect and requested him to spend some time in Dwarka with him. Shri Krishna gave a special treatment to Sudama and respected him in every manner. Shri Krishna knew that Sudama hid the bag of rice his wife gave as a gesture for Krishna in order to avoid humiliation of being poor. Shri Krishna snatched it from Sudama and accepted it with pleasure. Sudama left for Mathura, but regretted for he couldn’t ask Krishna for help. On reaching Mathura he was astonished to know that Shri Krishna had blessed with tons of wealth without even him not asking for it. Shri Krishna depicted it clearly that wealth and status never decides the fate of a relation. Friendship when done should be carried out with love, care and respect. He even proved the proverb; “A friend in need is a friend indeed”. Sudamaji is an example of sakhya rasa because he had entrusted himself to Shri Krishna with full love though his friend was rich he didn’t demand for help, but maintained his self respect and showed that friendship is a mutual understanding not a relation of demands.

Dost ho to Sai Krishna jaisey  ;D

Bow to Sri Sai!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on September 05, 2009, 09:24:02 AM
Build bridges instead of walls and you will have a friend.


Tell me who’s your friend and I’ll tell you who you are.



Bow to Sri Sai!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on September 09, 2009, 08:47:25 AM
Misfortune shows those who are not really friends. -- Aristotle

Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.


There can be no friendship without confidence, and no confidence without integrity


Silence is the true friend that never betrays.---Confucious

Bow to Sri Sai!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on September 26, 2009, 03:38:55 AM
Other people’s acts will affect just them. It is only your own deeds that will affect you.


Choose friends who will stick to you till the end, through thick and thin.



Bow to Sri Sai!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on September 27, 2009, 09:25:50 PM
William Arthur Ward wrote, "A true friend knows your weaknesses but shows you your strengths; feels your fears but fortifies your faith; sees your anxieties but frees your spirit; recognizes your disabilities but emphasizes your possibilities."


Thanks to all my friends ...........Shammi,Nimo,Ravi,Tana,Rajiv Uppal,Venkat Anna,Sushmakomundar,Subhasrini,Sasiravi,Sanjiv bhai,Ramesh bhai,Manisha and all members of Sai Forums for helping me in my journey..

I pray to BABA to bless all of u.

Thanks

Bow to Sri Sai!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on October 05, 2009, 09:46:14 AM
God doesn't give you the people you want, He gives you the people you NEED. ?To help you, to hurt you, to leave you, to love you and to make you into the person you were meant to be.


Thanks Sai baba and all my friends ...............

Thanks

Bow to Sri Sai!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM


Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 17, 2009, 06:02:31 AM
Fair Weather Friends Aren't Worth Much

Other ways of saying it:
Someone who only helps you when it's easy isn't much of a friend.


Bow to Sri Sai!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 21, 2009, 11:14:25 PM
OMSAIRAM!True friends are Forever...like our Sai baba :-)


Bow to Sri Sai!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on November 22, 2009, 06:28:09 AM
      “True friendship is like sound health; the value of it is seldom known until it is lost.”


“No distance of place or lapse of time can lessen the friendship of those who are thoroughly persuaded of each other's worth.”


      “Life is nothing without friendship.”


Bow to Sri Sai!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on December 23, 2009, 09:31:49 AM
ॐ सांई राम~~~

साथी सिर्फ वो नहीं होता जो जीवन भर साथ निभाए~~
साथी तो वो होता है जो जीवन के कुछ पलों में भी जीवन भर का साथ दे जाए~~~

साथी वो नहीं जो आंसुओं को पोछता है~~
साथी तो वो होता है जो आंसुओं को गिरने से रोकता है~~~

जय सांई राम~~~
 


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on December 23, 2009, 09:36:09 AM
Om Sai Ram~~~

A faithful friend is the medicine of life~~~

Jai Sai Ram~~~



Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on December 23, 2009, 08:04:31 PM
OMSAIRAM!And the third and most important friend is "Aamal (deeds)". Who accompany us all the way through.............Also our BABA jaani......... :D :D :D :D :D :D :D


Thanks Sai baba for your unconditional love.............

You know BABA ..........baijaa mere kol tenu takdee rawaan........Saiyaan mere kol....


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on December 28, 2009, 01:59:36 AM
OMSAIRAM!“I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.” - Roy Croft


Thankyou Sai baba for being my friend and Guide  ;D


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on December 28, 2009, 10:46:19 AM
Hadith of Prophet Muhammad (pbuh):

"There are three friends of Human being - Wealth, Family and His Aamal".

"Whoever rectifies his hereafter affairs, Allah (SWT) will rectify his worldly affairs and whoever rectifies what is between him and Allah (SWT), Allah (SWT) will rectify what is between him and [the] people."

  "At the moment when the coffin of a person is being lifted and carried, the concerning soul follows its corpse and regretfully calls: 'O you my children and my relatives! Beware that the world does not cheat you as it did me. I gathered wealth regardless of it being lawful or unlawful and left all of it for others. Now I am left with its burden upon me while they enjoy the fruit of it; therefore, avoid that which is similar to what happened to me'."

http://www.ezsoftech.com/stories/prophet.muhammad2.asp


ALLAH MALIK!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on April 06, 2010, 08:09:03 PM
 A real Sai friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out


Bow to Sri Sai!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on April 06, 2010, 08:11:19 PM
SAI FRIENDSHIP

Dear devotees,
Thank you for sending me the Sai newsletter. It is a pleasure to read about Baba. I would like to share a wonderful experience with all Sai devotees, which I had actually witnessed in 1996. I had a friend who was polio stricken from birth. In 1994, she met me for the first time and I was deeply saddened to see a young and beautiful girl dragging herself to the computer class. One day I mustered courage to ask her about her condition. She said she was always like that. Next day, I gave her a locket of Saibaba of Shirdi whom I absolutely revered, I asked her to wear it and I remember telling her that He will cure you. I lost all touch with her, once the computer course was over. One day, in JULY 1996, I heard from her and she broke the news that she could walk, run do anything with her legs. I was stunned, I have yet to see such a miracle happen, Baba inspired a doctor in Vellore, circumstances so happened that she went to visit her uncle in UP, India and she ran into this God-sent doctor. The doctor said he would like to operate on her, if the surgery is successful, you'll be able to walk again, otherwise I will amputate your affected leg and replace it with an artificial leg. She agreed and Sai spared her leg, the surgeon straightened her leg, all this may sound unbelievable but I have seen it with my own eyes. She is married now and what I feel is that all these years prior to wearing the locket, why no Doctor had ever suggested or even tried saving her leg? As far as I am concerned , it remains a sheer miracle of modern times. Sai Ram to all, I wanted to share this with all esteemed Bhakts' of OUR LORD SAI BABA OF SHIRDI. Thanks for reading this and please publish it in your next newsletter because it will be read by scores of devotees. Thank You.

Babita Lakhanpal

http://www.saibaba.org/newsletter10.html

Bow to Sri Sai!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on April 11, 2010, 12:17:30 PM
“False friends are worse than open enemies”


Bow to Sri Sai!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on April 12, 2010, 04:58:15 AM
OMSAIRAM!My best friends BABA and Veena Maa  ;D  ;D

Thankyou BABA and Veena Maa for being my Guide  ;D


Bow to Sri Sai!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on April 15, 2010, 09:41:16 AM
Sai baba Thanks for being my friend and Guide.




Bow to Sri Sai!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on April 16, 2010, 07:34:22 AM
OMSAIRAM!Sai baba ..............................a True friend...


God doesn't give you the people you want, He gives you the people you NEED. ?To help you, to hurt you, to leave you, to love you and to make you into the person you were meant to be.


Bow to Sri Sai!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on April 17, 2010, 02:04:21 AM
OMSAIRAM!FRIENDS WILL HELP OR BABA WILL HELP?????


"Baba will provide" is all that is required?

Can you help, Sir?

Is it necessary to go searching everyone for help when keeping faith that "Baba will provide" is all that is required? Belittling unsolicited help or suspecting situations favorable during the hour of need is perhaps limiting Baba' omniscience because Baba manifests himself in several ways and in several situations to help the distressed. At the same time, raising unnecessary outcry over every hurdle big and small is not a hallmark of a faithful Sai devotee. Let us examine the following incident in the life of eminent Sai devotee Kakasaheb Dixit, as narrated by Pujya Sri B.V. Narasimhaswami ji.

As for Dixit's own financial position, there was, for a long time, a period of depression, but there was no positive distress. Contentment was ingrained in Dixit', and he was always saying to himself, "Tevile Anante, Tase Rahave", which is the same as "Alla Rakhega Vysa Rahena", "Maula Rakhega Vysa Rahena". This means, 'We must be content with the lot assigned to us by God.' So, he was generally contented and retained his mental peace in the midst of lack of funds and income. However, special occasions arose and his faith in Baba was tested and confirmed.

Some time after Baba passed away, Kaka had to meet a heavy obligation of Rs. 30,000 to be paid to a Marwadi. The day for payment was drawing near, and Kaka could not see how to get funds for meeting this large demand. One night, as he was sleeping, he had a dream, and in his dream, his creditor was pressing him for payment. In the dream, he assured the creditor, "Oh, don't you fear. I have my friend Sir Chunnilal, Sir Chimanlal etc., all of them knights, and they will provide the money". Suddenly, he woke up and remembering the dream, he bitterly repented his stupid folly in relying upon 'Sir' this and 'Sir' that who are just persons who will fail to help at the crucial moment.

He felt that the only person on whom he could rely for getting help was Baba, and cursed his folly in relying upon such useless human help. He resolved not to think of these 'Sirs' at all, and to rely confidently and boldly upon Sai Baba alone to furnish him with funds and that too in time. He sat up in his office room on a chair and was waiting and waiting until the actual date of payment came. Until the last moment, no money was forthcoming. However, at the last moment, a young man, the son of a rich friend of his, came asking for his advice. He said that after his father's death, he was managing his property, and had to find an investment for his money. He said, just then he had brought with him Rs. 30,000/- and wanted to know from Dixit what would be best investment. Kaka, after explaining the pros and cons of other investments, finally told him that he was in urgent need of Rs. 30,000/- and he would be glad to have it on any reasonable terms, but that it was his duty to explain to the lender that his practice had gone down, that his income was very low, though his properties in the shape of bungalows were there, and that it was his duty to point out the danger and disadvantage of lending to such person. The young man, however, made up his mind to lend the money to him on account of his being his father's friend, and thus the creditor of Dixit was paid in time.

(Contributed by Saibaba.org Team)

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on April 29, 2011, 07:06:11 AM
 ;)


God doesn't give you the people you want, He gives you the people you NEED. ?To help you, to hurt you, to leave you, to love you and to make you into the person you were meant to be.

 ;D

Bow to Sri Sai!

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on January 04, 2012, 10:20:04 PM
There was a theft in my house. A thirty year's friend of mine stole my wife's jewel-box, including her auspicious Nathi (nose-ring). I wept before Baba's photo. The next day, the man returned the jewel-box and prayed for pardon.

Damu Anna

Bow to Shri Sai - Peace be to all

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: SS91 on March 20, 2012, 07:18:10 AM


Friendship is like a bunch of flowers tied together,
Happiness and solitude for some auspicious moments rather.
Friendship bears the sorrows and happiness of two souls,
It also bears misfortunes and disasters in various moulds.
Life is like a mystery to be thought,
Friendship is essential for it to be solved.
Friendship is like a sand castle which often breaks,
Friendship should not be made just for the sake.
Friendship is a sweet thread of love and affection
Life without friendship is like a boat without a rudder,
Friendship and kindness, cheerfulness gaiety mark the border.
A caring concern and a friendship that's true
Makes it heavenly to be with you.
Your warm understanding is a special gift.
That always gives my spirit a sudden lift.



Thanks dipika for this wonderful thread of friendship... ;)


JaisaiRam ;D

Title: Re: DOST KAISE HO SAI BABA?HOW SHOULD FRIENDS BE SAI..
Post by: Dipika on March 23, 2012, 07:28:13 AM
OMSAIRAM!Jab bhi yeh dil udaas hota hai mera Lodhi Sai wala Baba mere aas pass hota hai


my BABA jaani my true Friend


 ;D


Bow to Shri Sai - Peace be to all


Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM