Jitender ji,
Just a small clarification , Sister Astrid is our beloved Sister not a brother.
We really don't want to say that this is the best group..... because the only aim in this life is to be one with our Beloved Sai........We all are His children then where comes the concept of group.......
And as far as the the "Attachment" you are talking ........ Every group is not attached to the group members they are attached to our "Beloved Sai" they are spreading the word of Sai .........
You said , "not to get attached to even your own family(parents,wife,children etc.),it does not mean that you shy away from you responsibilities" ......... Do not see it in terms of "responsibility" alone .......... see it in terms of love.......... when you love a person even though due to our past Karma we may face difficulties but it is "LOVE" that makes everything look simple........where there is LOVE there is SAI.......
You said , "There are much bigger and older groups than this one,but these gropus are not competing with each other,so,i just told Mr. Ramesh that considering this group as best and get attached to it showed his tendency to get attached to worldly things which are an ILLUSSION,even these groups are." ......... Please do not say anything like that about Ramesh bhai that he is attached to worldly things........ Sai is the one to judge him, not you or me........ one thing we must learn is "Do not judge anyone" .........
Ramesh Bhai see's "SAI" in this forum ........... thats what made him say "Is there any better forum or group than this?".....
Sister Astrid said , "we've become family by BABA's grace " and you have said , "Sai is the Doer"........ so Sai has brought us here........
If Sai wants , He will join us to the other groups too........nothing is limited in this world......... see things beyond this Existence........
Sushma.