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What is Sanskar?
It is very difficult to define 'Sanskar' in a few words. The word 'Sanskar' has its origin in the Sanskrit language. There is no word in other languages comparable to 'Sanskar'. So several main languages of the world have adopted the 'Sanskar' word in their vocabulary or have included this word in their dictionary. The surfacial meaning of the word 'Sanskar' is to purify, to refine, to supplement, to brighten, to adorn the inner conscience. However, its meaning in wider sense is as deep as the depth of the ocean and as vast as the spread of the sky.
'Sanskar' is a process, which transforms a person into an ideal & outstanding personality by eradicating/controlling the negative mental tendencies existing in him and by inculcating human values & qualities to make him more dynamic, discreet, duty conscious and responsible towards himself as well as family and the society.
'Sanskar' is like plantation of a seed of human values into the subconscious of a person during his childhood so that adherence of these values becomes part of his nature and keeps on guiding him throughout his life. A person acts according to the ideals which exist in his subconscious without being aware of them. Thus his decisions, his reactions to actions of others and the quality of his actions depend upon the values existing in his subconscious. Conduct and behaviour of a person are always according to his inner values.
'Sanskar' purifies feelings, thoughts and actions/deeds and adds momentum of life.
'Sanskar' purifies inner conscious of the person and makes life meaningful.
'Sanskar' adds good conduct, good thoughts and human qualities to a man's personality and sublimates his mind.
'Sanskar' forms a culture and develops social values. The Conduct & Behaviour and Sanskar are integrated to each other.
The Process of Sanskar:
Basically the process of 'Sanskar' has three components, namely:
Purification (Doshapanayan) - To purify a person physically, vitally mentally and to eradicate/ weed out the negative mental thoughts and tendencies, which may exist in a person at the time of his birth and/or which he may have acquired from his family and surrounding environment.
Making up Deficiency (Heenangpoorti) - To make up the deficiency of human values which he lacks.
Value Enrichment (Gunaadhaan) - To inculcate qualities and transform him into an ideal, compassionate, responsible, dutiful and outstanding human who follows his duties diligently towards himself, his family, the society and the universe.
Example:
We know about diamonds, which reach us after undergoing many processes. A raw diamond stone when extracted from mines looks like an ordinary stone. In the first place dust and other foreign materials are removed by cleaning. Then the process of refinement, cutting, polishing etc. is carried out to transform it into a finished diamond. Then only that diamond is made into an ornament so that it becomes more beautiful, useful and valuable. The process of transforming the raw diamond stone into a finished diamond is the 'Sanskar' of raw diamond. The act of cleaning, removing dust and other foreign material is purification, the act of refinement, cutting, finishing, polishing is 'making up the deficiency' and the act of making it into an ornament is 'value enrichment'.
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