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A love–hate relationship
« on: June 10, 2013, 01:42:34 AM »
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  • A love–hate relationship

    A love–hate relationship is an attachment between two people or between
    a person and a thing, based on the love and hate feelings simultaneously
    or interchangeably.

    People who are in this relationship will be deeply attached internally,
    but fluctuating between these two emotions externally. The beauty in
    this relationship lies in this fluctuation.



    Generally we always try to change the unique nature of this relationship
    either completely to the love or completely to the hate directions. Sometimes
    we struggle more than enough to change and start getting frustrated which
    leads to completely loose intimacy in the relationship. But instead of deep
    passion, inside which is not identified or ignored, we may get feelings like
    "duty" or "commitment" towards the relationship and totally turns up its
    nature into lifelessness.  

    Let us consider a player who enjoys the play when there is a win and lose in
    the game. We can know the value of happiness when there is sadness. Similarly
    the recipe which comes out of the love and hate ingredients always adds up spice
    to the relationship. The enjoyment always lies in accepting the twin nature of it.

    Once we understand this fact and start accepting this relationship as it is, it will
    be the most amazing relationships ever. We can really enjoy the play of this
    awesome relationship.

    Usually we find this beautiful relationship between the lovers, husband and wife,
    mother-in-law, daughter-in-law, in son and mother, son and father, daughter and mother,
    daughter and father and even siblings etc.,



    These kind of relationships are very much interesting because of its unique 'love-hate' spice.
    They always like to love sometimes and hate sometimes, but the fact is they do not feel
    complete and also cannot live without each other. The prettiness of the enjoyment
    between their relationship is what more than this.


    BE BLESSED!
    LOVE & LIGHT!!
    OM SAI RAM!!!  :D


    (found on the net ....interesting ...... sharing)
    « Last Edit: June 10, 2013, 01:46:11 AM by ShAivI »

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