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Title: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on June 18, 2013, 05:52:19 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

Never let a bad day make you feel like you have a bad life.
Just because today is painful doesn’t mean tomorrow won’t be great.
You just got to get there.
The best things usually happen when you least expect it.

So try to smile in the mean time.
And Have hope and not give up.
Not because life has been easy, perfect, or exactly as you had anticipated,
but because you choose to be happy and grateful for all the good things you do have
and all the problems you know you don’t have.

Good things are coming down the road.
The best days of your Life are still ahead.
Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on June 19, 2013, 03:38:31 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

Keep love and faith of "BABA" in your HEART, MIND and SOUL......
A life without "BABA" is like a garden when the flowers are DEAD..........
The consciousness of loving "BABA"
and being loved by "BABA" brings a warmth and richness to your life.... that nothing else can bring.......

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on June 21, 2013, 02:43:08 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

Many times we express our prayers to GOD, say all our heart and sometime
we got the result instantly and sometime we do not, and then we feel god
is not listening.....but truth is beyond this....truth is when we express and believe
that now GOD will take care of our worries and no doubt comes in our mind after
this conversation we got the positive result, but many times due to our fear
we got doubt and nothing happens good and we start complaining....whom
you believe just believe, think positive like think and focus on what do
you want not what you do not want......many times we think more on what
we do not want and this happens again and again...focus on what you want..
say yourself good affirmation with feelings like we have already got what we want,
visualize it by keeping your eyes closed everyday for few minutes.....and whenever
any negative feeling will come in your mind say to GOD......GOD please take all these
thoughts and fill me with positive thoughts like love, care, respect, faith, honesty,
forgiveness etc and practice it all the time..GOD is not only in temples, mosque,
dargah, church, gurudwara or any religious and spiritual place, he is everywhere,
feel he is always present with you.....talk to him all the time.....and express
gratitude every time...

For example, just imagine from your heart that you are in "DWARKAMAI" and
seeing BABA's such a DIVINE SWAROOP .............. I am 100% sure you will feel our
BABA's DIVINE BLESSINGS, which is coming from BABA's DIVINE SWAROOP and
BABA is talking with you and removing all your difficulties and sorrows, BUT yes,
try to see our BELOVED BABA's DIVINE SWAROOP WITH STRONG FAITH IN HIM
and feel HIS energy and relax your mind & FEEL HIS DIVINE BLESSINGS :)

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on June 24, 2013, 05:00:12 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

Learn to listen to your inner guidance. Your inner guidance will lead you to
what you are manifesting in the quickest, simplest way. Inner guidance comes
from your higher-self and speaks to you in the form of feelings, insights, and inner
knowing. As your thoughts about what you want go out into the universe,
your higher-self looks over past, present, and future events; it views the connections
and the situations that will need to be created for you to have what you ask for.
It then finds the best way to bring them to you. It begins drawing to you certain people,
opportunities, and events. It creates opportunities for you to meet people who might assist
you and will also benefit from knowing you, for the universe works for the greater good.
Your willingness to be spontaneous, follow inner urges and hunches, and listen to
strong feelings and act upon them will lead you to your goals.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on June 28, 2013, 04:18:37 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

PRAY AT THE HOLY FEET OF "BABA" TO BE STRONGER.....
DO NOT PRAY FOR TASKS EQUAL TO YOUR POWERS........
PRAY FOR POWERS EQUAL TO YOUR TASKS......
THEN THE DOING OF YOUR WORK SHALL BE NO MIRACLE....
BUT YOU SHALL BE A MIRACLE.....L

FAITH & PRAYERS ARE INVISIBLE BUT THEY MAKE IMPOSSIBLE THINGS POSSIBLE............
ALWAYS HAVE A VERY VERY STRONG FAITH IN "BABA"
BECAUSE, IT'S "SAI'S" PART TO DO WONDERS.....
OURS IS THE SIMPLEST PART TO TRUST & PRAY.......SAI IS GREATTTTTTTTTT :)

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 01, 2013, 01:35:47 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

As you grow and evolve, the words you speak and the thoughts
you have about others will have an increasing power to affect you.
Your positive thoughts and visions of people will lift you higher.
Your criticism will depress your energy and hold them back.
Every thought and spoken word produces strong effects,
so it is important to learn to communicate in loving ways :)

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 01, 2013, 02:00:42 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

Why we get worried? BABA will take care of all our worries, problems, and pains.
Let us surrender to HIM completely, and then we don’t need to worry any more
for anything. Leave all fears and discouragement with a blind faith on BABA.

To surrender means: To turn our thoughts away from troubles, to turn them
away from difficulties you meet and from all our problems. Leave everything
at the LOTUS FEET OF BABA and say: "BABA I thank YOU. YOU have taken
everything in YOUR hands and YOU will resolve this."

Once we surrender we should never think, how is this is going to end?...
What is going to happen? That means we express that we do not trust BABA.
If we want BABA to deal with it, then we must stop being worried for the same! 
BABA will guide us only if we completely surrender to HIM and HE would lead us
into a different path carrying us in HIS loving arms.

Sometimes we feel that disasters increase instead of reduce. We should not
get disturbed. When you are pain and in sad circumstances sit peacefully
with complete faith in BABA, close your eyes and speak with HIM and let HIM
know that you trust HIM totally and you pray to BABA and say,
“BABA I trust YOU and thank YOU for this problem, I pray YOU to place the
things as YOU please for this worldly life. BABA, you know very well
what is best for me.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 01, 2013, 06:47:45 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

The basic principles of satya, karm, prem – truth, karm and love -- there is one more
principle that one needs to follow daily and that is ‘light’. These are the four pillars on
which you can lead your life. This is the gist of all the ancient scriptures, wisdom of the
gurus and swamis, great masters ever since.

Fill yourself with light, so that no negativity enters your being. If someone gives out
negative thoughts, they will strike against the prakash in you and retreat, not affecting
you at all. Prakash means guarding against indulging in hypocrisy, ‘andhkar katna,' not
be a part to that darkness or ignorance.

From Shri Krishn to Shri Aurobindo, whatever they have taught humans is meant to bring
us to these four pillars  -- of satya, karm, prem aur prakash. Krishn taught us about light –
he said, “Bigger than Me is my name – bigger than Hari is Hari’s naam'… All the saints and
gurus have wanted to bring you to the point of truth, being truthful, being loveful,
take for instance Sant Kabir.....

Always  start your day with these four principles. Forget every thing, all the scriptures,
granths, Veds and upanishads, only remember these four principles. Light is direct
Supreme source. When you fill yourself with light, no negativity will enter your body.
This is what you must do in spiritual terms, in worldly terms it means that you don’t
indulge in hypocrisy, are never be a part to gossip, never participate in any ritual which
is not right, never indulge in corruption  by way of bribing or accepting bribe.

Light is the biggest strength. When you are filled with light and you are chanting the mantra
which connects you to Supreme or your ‘ishta dev’, no 'infection' will enter you. This means
that you will not indulge in any undesirable thing…anything which hampers your growth.
If people are gossiping about someone, you don’t participate in that conversation… taken
to a higher level means never participating in any meaningless ritual or rituals without bhav
or hypocrisy. You can fill yourself with light by not being a part of anything that’s done for
formality sake or to show off.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 02, 2013, 01:04:43 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

Never give room to ego, pride & jealousy in your heart.
Because BABA  will never share a room with them.
IF you want BABA  to be in your heart, leave these 3 things.:)

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 03, 2013, 06:10:09 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

It is important to notice when people do not speak to you from
their higher selves. Respond to them with compassion, as you
would respond to a small child who did not know any better.
People cannot hurt you; only you can choose to hurt yourself
by your response to them. This gives you the ultimate power
to control the world you experience. If you are able to choose
your responses, you can choose to feel joy and peace,
and thus change your world.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: saibabakibeti on July 04, 2013, 06:01:30 AM
Thank You Shaivi didi for posting such nice and inspirational thoughts.
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 04, 2013, 06:38:57 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

Wake up in the morning and hold your higher purpose in your hands as a symbol.
Imagine that you are holding in your hands the highest purpose you came to
create in this lifetime. Bring it into your heart. Pour light into it; ask for guidance
and assistance from the higher forces. Feel your energy going upward and
let go of it so that it may come back to you. Holding that purpose in your heart,
you refine your physical body, raise your thoughts upward, and bring peace to
your emotions. How would it feel if every cell in your body acknowledged and
was in touch with your higher purpose?

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 04, 2013, 06:40:55 AM
Thank You Shaivi didi for posting such nice and inspirational thoughts.

THANKS, SAIBABKIBETI JI,

BE BLESSED!
LOVE & LIGHT !!
OM SAI RAM !!!
:D
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 05, 2013, 04:37:07 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

The more precise you can be about your experience, the more quickly you will gain clarity.
Take any area of vague discomfort, of fogginess, and focus upon it to the exclusion of
all other thoughts. Pin down precisely what the uncomfortable feeling is. If you were
to focus upon that vagueness, putting words into it, trying out different thoughts about it,
you would finally find a viewpoint that clicked. Once you find that viewpoint, you have clarity.
Clarity comes from seeking and finding the information you need, from having the patience
to seek out the light of wisdom that will assist in making the higher choice.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 05, 2013, 05:42:47 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

One question always wanders my mind that 'Why are we born with previous lives karmas,
when my this births physical body has no role in it. Why should i suffer for something
i have not done voluntarily.'

Actually life is a series of examinations..... In fact our each and every moment,
every thought, every Act is tested and recorded. We have to give various never ending
examinations for e.g.. Our test papers are: - our Behaviour and duty towards  parents,
siblings, husband, wife, son, daughter, colleagues, friends etc..

We are not born with a perfect life, but if we excel in living a good life, giving
happiness to others then we can Create a Heaven for us.

All the people with whom we are associated right from our birth, All are BABA
sent to us for a reason. If we are not able to stay with them happily, always finding
faults in them, then We are pointing fingers to BABA.

Yes Life is Difficult, lots of adjustment, compromises at every step....
But isn't an Examination supposed to be difficult.

Imagine the Happiness of the person when he excels in his results after struggling,
honestly studying hard in his tests. We should also do our duties, accept whatever
given to us by BABA and perform the best. After all there are easy questions also.

So we do have our moments of Pleasure too. All our day to day thoughts and activities
are converted into our karmic accounts and accordingly we are punished or Rewarded.
Some accounts are Settled in this birth and some are carried forward.

I love this "Principal" known as BABA, He gives us so many repeat chances to change
our self for the better, but we foolishly blind people do not understand.

So start Living your Life as if you are only living for BABA and BABA alone.
Perform your 'kartavya' without thinking of any good or bad result and just leave it to our Master.
Trust me, this Master does not have any Partial or favourite students,
here it is genuine and honest results..:)

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 08, 2013, 01:53:35 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

Finding your deepest truth means looking within. It means not blaming other people,
not playing the victim, and not spending time feeling sorry for yourself. When you look
more deeply at any situation, you can always see that you set it up for your growth.
In any situation you feel you were a victim you always had an inkling of what was going on,
and ignored opportunities to change things.

Being alone, sitting quietly, allowing yourself to rest physically, emotionally, and mentally
will give you an increasingly clear sense of self. In those still times you are not playing out
any role or any identity, and your soul can speak to you more clearly. You have the clearest
sense of your own energy when you are alone.
 
Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 08, 2013, 02:10:14 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

CONVERSATION WITH OUR BELOVED BABA :)

me: I’m too tired
BABA: I will give you rest

me: Nobody really loves me
BABA: I love you

me: I can’t go on
BABA: My grace is sufficient

me: I can’t figure things out
BABA: I will direct your steps

me: I can’t do it
BABA: You can do all things

me: It’s impossible
BABA: All things are possible

me: I’m not able
BABA: I am able

me: It’s not worth it
BABA: It will be worth it

me: I can’t forgive myself
BABA: I FORGIVE YOU

me: I can’t manage
BABA: I will supply all your needs

me: I’m afraid
BABA: I have not given you a spirit of fear

me: I’m always worried and frustrated
BABA: Cast all your cares on ME

me: I don’t have enough faith
BABA: I’ve given everyone a measure of faith

me: I’m not smart enough
BABA: I give you wisdom

me: I feel all alone
BABA: I will never leave you or forsake you..

me: SAI MAA, what to do when someone insults me? How should I react?
BABA : All you got to do is keep SMILING and thank them.

me: BABA How can I smile when someone insults me? Why should I even thank them?
BABA : Before I answer that, Now tell me how do you clean your dress if it becomes dirty?

me: I will use soap and water and take off that dirt.
BABA : Ah! Exactly, In the same way the one who is Insulting you is also cleaning you.
The reason why you and everyone are here is because of Karma.
So the one who insults you is taking your karmas, your pains onto him.
So ALWAYS BE PATIENT AND NEVER GET ANGRY EVEN IF SOMEONE INSULTS YOU. I WILL TAKE CARE
 
me: BABA how to control my anger when someone irritates me?
BABA : What is anger?

me: It is a feeling
BABA : What is Affection?

me: It is also a feeling
BABA : Where do I live?

me: Oh SAI MAA you are the Supreme God and you live everywhere
BABA : Can you see me in your mother?

me: Yes SAI MAA
BABA : Can you see me in your Father?

me: Indeed! You are my mother and father SAINATH!
BABA : Can you see me in your Friend?

me: Yes. I do deva
BABA : You said I live everywhere then am I not living in that person who irritates you?

me: But...
BABA : Look my child, NEVER GET ANGRY and always have PATIENCE.
Even if someone irritates you just be patient.
I WILL TAKE CARE
BLESSED IS HE WHO SEES ME IN ALL CREATURES

me: Love you SAI MAA

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 09, 2013, 01:02:04 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

If there is heaven, it is here only.

Power of positivity makes life a heaven.

We are all quite creative. suffering is our negative creativity
and its' enjoyment is our positive creativity.
Laugh and make others laugh :)
 
Living stress free is the master key, that will unlock all the locks.
 
All problems arise within us and all solutions also lie within us only.
 
Humans have endless power, all humans have same power.

Stop asking so many things to GOD, they are all withing your reach.
 
If you know yourself, you will know the world.
 
if you have conquered yourself, you will conquer the world.
 
Give what God wants, he will give you all what you want before you even ask.
 
Problems do not exist, our minds create them.
 
If you can observe good and bad thoughts arising in you, you are on THE best path.
 
Khudaa aur khud me fark kitna ? ek "AA" ka ? Khudaa ko paane ke liye khud me AA :)

खुदा और खुद में फर्क कितना?? एक "आ" का? खुदा को पाने के लिए "खुद में आ" :)
 
you are the actor, producer,director of the your own film called,' MY LIFE '.
DON'T BLAME SITUATION,OTHERS OR GOD FOR THAT.
 
you are your best friend and best guru, you are also your best enemy.
Both, devil and devta reside in you. what you bring out is your choice.
 
Learn from every situation, thing and person as they all teach you something every moment.
They are all  your guru.
 
RADHEY KRISHNA ? RAH DEY KRISHNA ! Rah dikhanewale krishna.

राधे कृष्णा? राह दे कृष्णा :)
राह दिखानेवाला कृष्णा :)

 
Languages, regions and religions (the way politicians practice these days)
are the biggest walls dividing the human beings, otherwise,
how friendly the world would have been.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!

Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 10, 2013, 12:08:01 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

Once in a workshop, I was listening a lecture about loving self
and one gentleman started arguing.
He said, uptil now we have been taught that we should never love ourselves
and we should devote our lives to the service of others.
Correct - we should live in service of others but the big question is,
can you give something to someone, which you do not have yourself?
When you are deprived of something, you would keep asking for yourself and
when you are asking for yourself all the time, then how can you give it to others?
 
Whatever problems you see in others, whatever good things you see in others,
actually are a reflection of the things you find in yourself.
Whatever love you have been feeling for yourself reflects in love you feel for others.
A mother also gives love to the child, because this is how she has been feeling.
She feels it's my child.

A person who loves himself or herself unconditionally can only love others
without expectations and unconditionally.
A person who has not accepted himself completely can never accept others
and this world completely.
Whatever faults he would find in himself, he would find in others too.
A person who does not feel good about himself, would also look at the world in same mirror.
For him the world also would be a bad place.
 
Its a very noble intention to desire to give love to everyone you meet.
However, that can only happen, if you have been loved enough.
However, if you depend on others you would always be insecure
and you would never be satisfied.
It has to come from within you to satisfy you.
Spend time alone, ask yourself what factors I do not like about myself,
if there are some why they are there, do they matter.

How can I accept myself unconditionally.
What are the things I like in myself and how can I give them as a gift to the world.
How do i love myself more.
More you spend time with yourself and look inside, more you
would know how vast you are.
How limitless you are. You would realise there has never been a reason
to judge yourself or evaluate yourself.
You have always been complete and perfect.
When you will be able to see your completeness,
then you will be able to see completeness in the others and in this world
 
Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 10, 2013, 08:49:41 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

Any difficult problem or suffering can be solved with faith.
If your faith becomes weak, then suffering will turn into complain
& criticism, & you will destroy the source of benefit in your life.
Faith gives rise to a life of the highest value & greatest satisfaction.
Never forget the importance of the word "faith" as you build a life
of total fulfillment which is overflowing with benefit.
 
Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 11, 2013, 01:28:55 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

Only BABA knows what you are going through & what you are feel in and out.
HE knows how many times your heart has been broken.
HE knows all your fears that are unspoken.
BABA knows all the tears you've withheld & are falling inside you.
BABA knows all the words & all the actions of all the people that have hurt you.
No matter how deep the hurts, BABA will take your pain away
and bless you with a peaceful life
BUT for that you need to put all your Faith
and wait for the right time.... Shraddha (Faith) & Saburi (Patience)....
 
Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 21, 2013, 03:00:32 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

To become lighter, to create happier events in your life,
it is important to use higher words and thoughts
when you speak to yourself or others. Your thoughts create reality;
they go out into the world and affect other people.
As you begin thinking purer, kinder, and move loving thoughts,
you will begin to change the magnetism of your body
and resonate with the higher planes of the universe.
 
Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 21, 2013, 03:17:34 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

If you are carrying other people's burdens, put them down.
Your soul knows that taking responsibility for themselves
and their lives is one of the most important ways people
can grow and become strong. It knows that people have
worked hard to bring about their current circumstances,
no matter how difficult or unpleasant, so they can learn
and grow. Experiencing the consequences of their actions
provides people with the motivation to make changes in
their lives. Saving people makes them weaker rather
than stronger.
 
Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 21, 2013, 03:24:16 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

Asking for a guide brings one to you. If you request a guide to assist you,
one will begin to work with you. At this stage the connection to a guide
may occur most often in your dream states or in spontaneous
or unexpected moments.

Guides may point people in the right direction, give many broad hints
about what they could do that would bring them joy, but will almost never
say, "Do this particular thing or that." They will often, however, give you
steps to take to discover for yourself what you are here to do. We let you
discover the form. They are here to lead you to a greater connection to
your soul. They will help you shine more light on the situation and empower
you, but with the concern that you discover for yourself your truth and path
and the particular situation which suits you best.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 22, 2013, 05:21:38 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

Relationships are a very important area to evolve as a part of your path
to enlightenment and to living as a soul. They offer you a place to practice
opening your heart and expressing soul love. They give you feedback and
mirror for you the qualities you are developing in yourself. Relationships
provide you with opportunities to love others as your soul does. They can
show you all the places where you are still working to gain the peace, love,
and joy of your soul. Every choice you make to offer love rather than to
close your heart brings you closer to your soul.

A very important principle of relationships is that you cannot change another
person; you can only transform yourself. You cannot force people to act in
certain ways. Punishing, withdrawing, or trying to make people do what you
want only strengthens their resistance. It turns your power over to others,
making them the source of meeting your needs rather than yourself. You
cannot make people change; however you can modify your reaction to their
behavior. You can awaken your heart centers and shift your perceptions,
beliefs, and thoughts. You can release needing others to alter their behavior,
and love and accept them instead.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 22, 2013, 05:35:42 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

When we enjoy ups and downs in life we will develop more patience
and achieve in our set goal in life, if we have happy life all the time
we will not know the value of life. Suffering makes us strong to face
the hurdles of life, if choice of easy going life is given to children and
youth they can not understand the hardship in life and end their life.
Disciplined hard work, time management, cleanliness of body and mind,
good house keeping, prayer, little charity, social work, helping others,
contributing at least one percent of income for poor are all prescribed for
human beings which we are forgetting and seek happiness always
without struggle.

In Mahabharata when Krishna ask Kunti for a boon she says she wants
sorrow and misery always so that she will remember Krishna always,
otherwise she will forget Krishna. So welcome ups and down of life.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 22, 2013, 05:38:07 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

No matter how much pain you have inside, there is always enough reason to
survive and move forward in your life’s journey because there is always a
beautiful tomorrow with a beautiful promise waiting for us. No matter how much
pain you are going through, the real test is when you feel that others pain are
more important to you than your own and you try to heal them before thinking
about yourself. Selfless help is the purest form of help. That is the way we can
be close to God and humanity. When you help someone, you should never think
about any conditions, any reasons. Be pure in everything that you do in your life.
Please be compassionate towards each other. A few words of kindness could
go a very long way.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!

Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 23, 2013, 04:38:11 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

Think of someone important in your life. Identify an area
where you have put up a wall between you, thinking that
you would not be loved if you were to reveal your true self
in this area. You may be protecting yourself, or trying to live
out an image that you think will make you seem more worthy
or lovable. See yourself becoming soft and vulnerable, with
nothing to defend. Picture letting down your defenses,
and being willing to be seen for who you are. Create a
statement you can repeat to yourself that reflects this decision.
You might say, "I offer you love that is trusting, open, and vulnerable.
I am willing for you to see me as I really am."

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 23, 2013, 04:43:31 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

To increase your connection to your guide, you can consciously
think of your guide or your guide's name. You need not do more
than this to bring your guide's light and love to you. You can also
learn to call in your guide for brief moments by closing your eyes
and asking for guidance and getting simple yes or no impressions
instantly. You can do this whether you are standing in the grocery
store line, driving your car, or walking down the street. You can
bring the essence of your connection with your guide through
at any given time for however long you want - be it thirty
seconds or three minutes. This type of connection does not
need to be a lengthy process.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 24, 2013, 05:50:33 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

No one is “all right”

Whatever one may desire, the ultimate end is happiness.
Nobody can deny this. But if a diseased fellow thinks,
"I am happy," that is false happiness. A diseased man
cannot be happy unless the disease is cured. Sometimes
we go to a diseased person and ask, "How are you?"
"Yes, I am all right." If he is all right, why is he lying down?
He is not all right. He is artificially saying that "I am all right.
" What is this "all right"? Similarly, people are thinking,
"I am happy." What is their happiness? A learned man always
sees, "What is the value of this happiness? I will have to die,
I will have to accept old age, I will have to suffer from disease.
And as soon as I die, again I will have to enter into the womb
of a particular mother to take birth again." So where is the
happiness? Ignorantly if we accept something as happiness,
that is not happiness. Full of anxieties always: "What will
happen next?'' They're suffering, but they are accepting,
"I am all right.'' So this is called maya. Real happiness is when
you are free from birth, death, old age, disease. Otherwise,
where is your happiness? But if you think that "Although I am
dying, I am happy," that is another thing, a fool's paradise.
Bhagavata says, “Purify your existence, and you'll get perpetual,
eternal happiness.” So everyone is working hard for happiness,
but how happiness can be attained in diseased condition?
So cure the disease. If you go when there is ailment, if you go
to a physician, "Sir, cure me." "Why?" because it is impediment to
happiness. Similarly, the real disease is birth, death, old age,
disease. You cure this, then you get real happiness.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: spiritualpreeti on July 25, 2013, 07:44:35 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

If there is heaven, it is here only.

Power of positivity makes life a heaven.

We are all quite creative. suffering is our negative creativity
and its' enjoyment is our positive creativity.
Laugh and make others laugh :)
 
Living stress free is the master key, that will unlock all the locks.
 
All problems arise within us and all solutions also lie within us only.
 
Humans have endless power, all humans have same power.

Stop asking so many things to GOD, they are all withing your reach.
 
If you know yourself, you will know the world.
 
if you have conquered yourself, you will conquer the world.
 
Give what God wants, he will give you all what you want before you even ask.
 
Problems do not exist, our minds create them.
 
If you can observe good and bad thoughts arising in you, you are on THE best path.
 
Khudaa aur khud me fark kitna ? ek "AA" ka ? Khudaa ko paane ke liye khud me AA :)

खुदा और खुद में फर्क कितना?? एक "आ" का? खुदा को पाने के लिए "खुद में आ" :)
 
you are the actor, producer,director of the your own film called,' MY LIFE '.
DON'T BLAME SITUATION,OTHERS OR GOD FOR THAT.
 
you are your best friend and best guru, you are also your best enemy.
Both, devil and devta reside in you. what you bring out is your choice.
 
Learn from every situation, thing and person as they all teach you something every moment.
They are all  your guru.
 
RADHEY KRISHNA ? RAH DEY KRISHNA ! Rah dikhanewale krishna.

राधे कृष्णा? राह दे कृष्णा :)
राह दिखानेवाला कृष्णा :)

 
Languages, regions and religions (the way politicians practice these days)
are the biggest walls dividing the human beings, otherwise,
how friendly the world would have been.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!


Very Well Said !! Brought tears from my eyes
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 26, 2013, 03:25:58 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

Look clearly at your expectations of yourself, especially those
you constantly fail to meet. They can be indicators of areas
in which who you want to be is not fitting with your true needs.
The pain you feel at the difference, the feelings of heaviness,
guilt, fear, or darkness, only exist because you are trying to
"wear" energy that does not belong to you.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 26, 2013, 03:27:04 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

The more you think about serving others, the greater
and more fulfilling your work will be. As you focus on
how your work could give light and joy to other people,
you will find that it brings light and joy to you as well.
Service is giving others the best you know how to give.
It means that you are efficient, considerate, and conscious
when you go about your work. It means you work with
an attitude of joy, harmony, and cooperation with those
about you. Service will always come back to you many
times over as increased prosperity.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 27, 2013, 04:20:54 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

अपने हृदय की क्षमाशीलता जानने के लिए अपने आप को माफ़ करना सीखो।
यदि आप अपने किसी कार्य या कथन से दुखी और व्याकुल है तो खुद को दिल से माफ़ करे।
स्वयं को क्षमा करने से आप अपनी आत्मा से प्रवाहित सकारात्मक एहसास और उर्जा को महसूस करेंगे।
स्वयं को क्षमादान करे तथा अपने अंतरात्मा की आवाज़ सुने ||


Experience your soul's forgiveness by forgiving yourself.
As you feel yourself as your soul, forgive yourself for something
you did in the past that you still feel badly about. Let your soul's soft,
consistent, and forgiving love flow into you. Receive your soul's love
for you as you forgive yourself.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 28, 2013, 05:06:22 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

In order to improve your life, first believe that something better exists.
Many people think that what they have now is the best they can create
and fear making any changes. Start by at least believing that circumstances
could be better, that you can have what you want, that it is all right to do
what you love with your life. There is always a way that your circumstances
can be changed. Take a moment to think of at least three reasons
why you CAN have what you want.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 29, 2013, 04:44:45 AM


OM SAI RAM!!!

How you will realize that your life is imbalance?
and how to make it balance like nature is balanced always...

When you feel you are doing something by pushing yourself
more in that situation,and not feeling any happiness..
then its purely against nature..in that moment just calm yourself
and think how to go with nature...
you will find your way of happiness...

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 29, 2013, 04:51:39 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

Forgiveness is a part of unconditional love.
Forgive yourself throughout the day for all the moments
when you are not high, not loving, and not wise.
Forgive others for all the moments they are not high,
loving, and wise. As you forgive, you make it easier
to become those things you want to be,
and you make it easier for others to become them also.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 30, 2013, 05:58:35 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

You can create a new personal history for yourself,
focusing on all the times you were successful and
did have a measure of abundance. Let go of stories
of your past that do not support the new picture of
success and abundance you are creating. The images
you hold of the past often put limits on the future
you can imagine for yourself, and thus keep you from
manifesting your greater potential..

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 30, 2013, 06:00:21 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

Since your thoughts create your reality, you can create an even better life
for yourself by learning to think in bigger and unlimited ways. Unlimited
thinking increases creativity, expands your possibilities, draws opportunities
to you, and allows you to have more. Unlimited thinking lets you experience
in advance the feelings you will have when you have received the abundance
you want, and these feelings are the vehicle that brings abundance to you.
Use these visions to open your mind to greater possibilities.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on December 05, 2013, 02:55:29 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

Self-love involves humility, which is self-expression from the heart
and not from the ego. Humility says, "I am open. I am willing to listen.
I may not have all the answers." Humility is one of the qualities
that will allow you to receive more, for humility implies openness.
It does not imply a lack of self-confidence, but a great amount of faith
and trust in yourself. Act with humility today.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on December 09, 2013, 12:23:10 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

It is a challenge to love rather than dislike what you are leaving.
If you focus on what you want, what you would love to have,
and go toward it, you will have it.
The more you dislike something,
the more you may be stuck with it.
The more you dislike some circumstance, the longer you may be in it.
One of the principles of the universe is
that every situation in your life is teaching you how to love.
You cannot leave something until you love it.
You are tied to things you do not like.
If you hate something, you will be drawn to it again and again
(even though the person or form may change)
until you love it. Once you love it, you are free from it.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on December 26, 2013, 04:37:32 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

There are many ways to bring up your energy.
Start by becoming aware of what you say to people.
Are you building them up?
Are you holding an ennobling vision of them?
Whatever you point a finger at will grow
- if you focus on people's weakness, emphasizing in your mind what is wrong with them, it will grow.
If you have any situations in your life that are not working,
the more you picture them as not working,
the more you create it as so.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on February 25, 2014, 01:18:06 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

HOW CAN WE BE HAPPY ?

Once a group of 50 people was attending a seminar.
Suddenly the speaker stopped and decided to do a group activity.
He started giving each one a balloon. Each one was asked to write
his/her name on it using a marker pen. Then all the balloons were
collected and put in another room.

Now these delegates were let in that room and asked to find the
balloon which had their name written, within 5 minutes. Everyone
was frantically searching for their name, colliding with each other,
pushing around others and there was utter chaos.

At the end of 5 minutes no one could find their own balloon.
Now each one was asked to randomly collect a balloon and give
it to the person whose name was written on it.
Within minutes everyone had their own balloon.

The speaker began— exactly this is happening in our lives. Everyone
is frantically looking for happiness all around, not knowing where it is.

Our happiness lies in the happiness of other people.
Give them their happiness; you will get your own happiness.

And this is the purpose of human life.

Is this not what you are looking for?

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Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: Gauri21 on February 25, 2014, 04:28:26 AM
Nice.om sai ram.
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on February 27, 2014, 05:06:37 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

A very important principle of relationships is that you cannot change
another person; you can only transform yourself. You cannot force
people to act in certain ways. Punishing, withdrawing, or trying to
make people do what you want only strengthens their resistance.
It turns your power over to others, making them the source of meeting
your needs rather than yourself. You cannot make people change;
however you can modify your reaction to their behavior. You can awaken
your heart centers and shift your perceptions, beliefs, and thoughts.
You can release needing others to alter their behavior, and love
and accept them instead.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on February 27, 2014, 05:10:07 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

When someone does something you do not like, open your heart before
you speak. If you choose to make a statement, state what you feel
about the situation, rather than blame for something they did to you.
You can say, "I feel hurt," rather than "YOU hurt me." A powerful way
to state it is, "I am CHOOSING to feel hurt,” for every feeling you have
is one you have chosen.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on March 05, 2014, 04:06:37 AM


OM SAI RAM!!!

Some people honor other people all the time and feel they do not
get back what they give. In this case, often they do not feel they
deserve to be treated well and they allow people to take them for
granted. It is easy to respect yourself when others respect you.
The challenge is to respect yourself when those around you do not.
First, forgive them, and then let go of any need for them to validate
you. When you need other people to validate, appreciate, or
understand you to feel good about yourself, you give away
your power.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!

Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on March 05, 2014, 04:07:56 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

There is always a way for both people to win. If it still appears to you
that for one of you to win the other has to lose, you have not arrived
at the higher solution yet. The higher solution will always be a win for
both people, with both their higher goals being met. To find this higher
solution, first ask yourself, "What are the real issues? What is really
important for me to have?" Question yourself honestly about what
you need to meet your goals. Often you are fighting about one thing
when the issue is something else entirely. Then, work together
to find a solution.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!

Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on March 13, 2014, 05:38:18 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

Self-respect at the highest levels comes from honoring your soul.
This means speaking and acting from a level of integrity and honesty
that reflects your higher self. It means standing by what you believe in
(you does not, however, have to convince others to believe in it), and
acting in a way that reflects your values. Self-respect means acting on
your values and what you say you believe in.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!

Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on March 13, 2014, 05:39:11 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

You do not need to convince people you are right, for that only draws you
into power struggles with them. Nor do you need to be convinced that
they are right. Being positive does not mean being blind. It means being
willing to see the good in others and to turn the focus away from
what is different or wrong (to you).

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!

Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on March 20, 2014, 07:41:29 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

There is no energy more powerful than love.
Love creates miracles, heals all wounds, and purifies all lower energies.
You cannot give love away, for the more you give, the more you will receive in return.
When you choose love you bring about the highest good for yourself and others.
Offering love is always the right choice.
With love you can transform or be transparent to people's emotions and thoughts,
neutralize "negative" energy, and harmonize with all life in the universe.
All energy in the universe responds positively to love..

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!

Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on March 20, 2014, 07:43:32 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

Honoring your deepest truth is a great gift to you and to the other person.
This does not mean that truth should be expressed by making the other person wrong.
Your deepest truth will be spoken with love for yourself and for the other person.
If what you say is damaging or harmful to the other person,
then you have not come from your deepest truth, which is always loving.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!

Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on March 20, 2014, 10:54:50 PM

OM SAI RAM!!!

You can have a life that works perfectly.
You don't need to accept problems and crisis as a way of life.
Let go of the worries, struggles, and problems in your life.
Simply allow them to leave.
Give them permission to go.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on March 20, 2014, 10:56:28 PM

OM SAI RAM!!!

Appreciation is a doorway into the heart.
It opens your heart and allows you to experience more love in your life.
Today and in the following days, when you remember to do so,
appreciate each person you come in contact with or think about.
If it is your friend or a loved one, a stranger or coworker,
see if you can send him or her gratitude and thanks.
Appreciate something about that person from your heart.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on March 25, 2014, 05:50:11 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

Forgiving others does not mean that you need to do anything or take any action.
It is an attitude of love that does not judge or condemn.
Forgiving others does not mean condoning or approving of their behavior,
nor does it mean that you feel superior.
Forgiving others releases the negative energy within you,
and frees you to love as your soul.
Every time you choose love, you are the winner.
As you forgive others, your body grows healthier,
you feel better about yourself,
and you have more energy to put into yourself and your life

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on March 25, 2014, 05:50:28 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

Being clear means taking the time to think out issues in your life.
It is more important to think them out than to act them out.
Many of you want to take action, to see results.
Finding right action is quite easy if you are willing to spend the time to think,
to connect with your higher, innermost self, and to receive inner guidance.
Clarity comes from a state of mental concentration,
of focusing the thoughts, and paying attention.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on March 26, 2014, 02:05:10 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

How do you recognize a high-level guide?
High guides come to light your path.
Their only wish is for your higher good.
They are there to help you with such things as remembering who you are,
letting go of fear, and learning to love yourself and others.
They come to add to your joy and to assist you
with your personal growth and your work here on earth.
High-level guides neither frighten you nor build up your ego.
They do not flatter, although they will applaud your progress.
They create a sense of expanded awareness and greater inner vision.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on March 26, 2014, 02:08:59 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

How do you recognize a high-level guide?
High level guides will show you your lessons, if you ask,
and speak to you of what you are here to learn,
yet they will allow you to continue in a situation if you choose.
They are careful not to take away your lessons.
If you are headed towards something that will teach you a valuable,
but difficult lesson, they may show you more joyful ways to learn the same thing.
However, if you persist in your original way they will not stop you.
It is up to you to choose joy, but if you learn best through pain and struggle
high guides will not take away your lessons.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on March 27, 2014, 02:27:01 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

Everyone has a personal guide (guru) who is with them for a lifetime,
often referred to as a "guardian". Sometimes there are several
guides (guru) helping you, particularly if you are at a major turning point in your life.
They are here to help you follow your chosen destiny and to help oversee
specific issues, and they will work with you whether or not you stick to
your highest path or are even aware of them. Part of their purpose is to
help you accomplish what you came here to do. Your personal guide (guru) is
always with you, loving, supporting, and helping you grow.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on March 27, 2014, 02:29:32 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

Guides (GURU) may point people in the right direction, give many broad hints about
what they could do that would bring them joy, but will almost never say,
"Do this particular thing or that." They will often, however, give you steps
to take to discover for yourself what you are here to do. They let you
discover the form. They are here to lead you to a greater connection to
your soul. They will help you shine more light on the situation and
empower you, but with the concern that you discover for yourself your truth
and path and the particular situation which suits you best.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on March 28, 2014, 03:03:01 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

If you have a decision to make about something you consider important,
do not rush into it. As you allow yourself time to think about it, you live out
many probable futures in your mind, and you begin to see the consequences
of certain actions. One of the gifts of your world is that it is a place of action
and reaction. Whenever you take an action, you set ripples into motion,
like the ripples on a pond when you throw in a stone. Every action affects
probable futures and makes changes in your life path. The more you can
anticipate what things will be affected by your actions and take action from
that perspective of greater wisdom, the more you will create joy and balance
in your future.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on March 31, 2014, 02:41:31 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

When things seem uncomfortable and dark, do not think you are off your path,
for you are always reaching upward. Sometimes it may seem difficult and the
path may feel steep. Other times you will find places where you are running,
dancing, and traveling with ease. Suspend judgment and make each stage
of your growth easier by accepting what comes. Allow yourself to love the
bumpy road as well as the smooth, and constantly thank yourself for your
courage in reaching upward, in trying to go for the best and the
highest that you know

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on March 31, 2014, 02:53:58 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

You have the ability to lift people's energy with your encouragement
and the ability to dampen people's energy by criticizing them. If you
find something in people to criticize, realize that this is the very area
you could empower them in. If you catch yourself criticizing people,
take the area you are criticizing them for and imagine them growing
and evolving in that area.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!

Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on April 01, 2014, 04:41:41 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

When people are causing you pain, or are getting angry with you,
realize that what they want from you is for you to love and accept
them just as they are. Do not take it personally. They do not want
you to withdraw, get angry, feel hurt, or defend yourself. In truth,
the issue rarely even matters to them. They are experiencing their
own pain and it has nothing to do with you. Although they may blame
it on you or tell you it is your fault, any pain they blame on you comes
from a pain within them.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on April 01, 2014, 04:48:24 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

Recognize all the ways people are giving you the essence of love,
perhaps in ways that you might not have noticed or acknowledged.
Thank people for every gift of love they offer you. Do not rely on
gestures or outer appearances as an indication of the love that
people have for you. Rely instead on the feeling of love that
exists between you.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on April 03, 2014, 02:54:23 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

It is important to experience compassion rather than sympathy.
Sympathy is feeling sorry for others, seeing that what is
happening to them is negative or bad. Compassion is seeing
that what is happening to them is for their growth, and assisting
them in seeing that also. Compassion reframes an experience they
may perceive as unfortunate or bad into something they can understand.


Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on April 03, 2014, 02:56:12 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

You never do anything that is not in some way an attempt to bring more
light into your life. You can go back to any crisis and see that a new self,
a new part of you was born. It is a stronger and clearer part, a part that
is more committed to your life, your truth, and your growth.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on April 05, 2014, 01:01:21 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

Why follow your Intuition?

Your intuition guides you to do new things, to be in the flow,
to experience more grace and ease, to follow your heart,
and guides you to be in the right place at the right time.
It is the voice of your soul and higher self communicating
with you to show you how to follow your higher path
and to live your higher purpose.

Following your intuition leads you to taking good care of yourself,
your health, and your emotions, and to having improved
relationships with people. It can make your career, creative
endeavors, and work life better, more enjoyable, and even
effortless. Following your intuition can increase the flow of
money and prosperity in your life, for as your internal guide
and teacher, it is always showing you what to do to increase
the flow of energy. Money is one symbol of energy flow in your life,
and as you act upon your intuitive guidance, you can experience
more aliveness and flow in all areas.

When you follow your intuition, you have more energy moving
through you - you are in the flow, you feel alive! When you don't
follow your intuition, life can become a struggle, like swimming against
the tide. You can train your intellect to listen to your intuitive knowingness,
and learn not to ignore, discount, or contradict the intuitive feelings
you are getting. You can trust your own inner knowingness, and make
yourself the authority of what is right for you.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on April 05, 2014, 01:06:24 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

You can love someone for their qualities and not have a sense of intimacy.
This type of love gives rise to competition and jealousy.

If love is based on the qualities of a person, that love is not stable.
After some time the qualities change and the love becomes shaky.

However, if you love someone because they belong to you,
then that love remains for lifetimes. Loving someone because they
belong to you, great or otherwise, is unconditional love.
Love that is centered becomes bliss.

And when there is so much love you take total responsibility for any
misunderstanding. For a moment you may express dismay on the surface.
But when you do not feel the dismay in your heart, you arrive at a perfect understanding.
You are in a state where all problems and all differences slide away and only love shines through.


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Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on April 07, 2014, 04:39:54 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

Your beliefs create your reality.
Beliefs are assumptions about the nature of reality,
and because you create what you believe in,
you will have many "proofs" that reality operates the way you think it does.
For instance, a person who believes that the universe is abundant will act
in such a way that he or she experiences abundance,
and a person who believes that money comes only from working hard
will receive money only from hard work.
You can change what you believe and thus change what you experience.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on April 08, 2014, 05:52:59 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

The first way to free yourself from being affected emotionally
by others is to wake up in the morning and sense your energy;
then monitor it constantly throughout the day. After a while
you will get used to checking your emotional states and thoughts.
At least once when you are with someone, pay attention to
how you feel. Do you feel better or worse? Do you suddenly feel
more troubled, anxious, or happier? Return to the feelings
you had when you first woke up.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on April 09, 2014, 03:20:21 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

If you want to grow spiritually, examine your beliefs about growth.
Do you believe that growth is a struggle, that it comes out of pain and crisis,
that it takes a long time, or that it will probably take more than this lifetime for
you to become your Higher Self? By choosing to hold positive thoughts about
growth you can expand your potential for evolution. Growth can come instantaneously,
you can grow with joy, and you can reach enlightenment in this lifetime.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on April 09, 2014, 03:24:14 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

If something is going well and you find yourself saying,
"Things are too good to be true - I wonder how long this will last,
" STOP!
Instead, challenge yourself to imagine things getting even better.
Think of something that is working well in your life right now.
Make a mental picture of it becoming even better.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on April 10, 2014, 03:23:23 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

Purity of heart is essential for God realization.
There is no point in making a number of pilgrimages
to temples or mosques unless you achieve purity of heart..

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on April 10, 2014, 03:40:15 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

You deserve to have a wonderful life filled with love, abundance,
excellent health. Your Higher Self is completely abundant,
and as you open to your higher good you are aligning with your
Higher Self. Start by believing that a good life is naturally yours,
not something you have to earn or pay for. It is the
higher plan of the universe for all beings to have lives of beauty,
harmony, and abundance.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on April 15, 2014, 03:37:55 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

"The pure Spirit within us is the reflection of God Almighty – Sadashiva.
It’s like the sun that falls on the water and gives a clear reflection"

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on April 15, 2014, 03:39:28 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

When you speak to yourself, use words that indicate present tense.
Instead of saying, "Someday I will;" say, "I am now."
The mind interprets what you say to yourself literally.
If you say, "I will be happy," your mind takes that literally
and creates what you want not as an event you experience now,
but as something that will happen in the future.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on April 25, 2014, 02:43:31 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

When you understand the Law of Attraction,
you will understand you cannot avoid contrasting, or unwanted, situations.
In fact, you will learn to welcome them, as strange that might seem at first.

Your appreciation of 'unwanted' will grow, as you deepen your awareness of life,
because you will become ever more aware of the powerful dynamic of this Universe.

You will remember: Unwanted gives rise to Wanted. Contraction leads to Expansion.
Contrast births Clarity.

By greater understanding of yourself as a vibrational being, you can learn to become
a master of your personal reality.

You can learn to consciously and deliberately create more wanted, joyful experiences
from all of the contrasting situations in your life right now.

Use the energy of 'what is' to create the energy of 'what will be'.

The more you can clean up your unwanted thoughts, feelings and emotions,
which ultimately create your perception and thus your experience of reality,
the more delicious and joyful your life will be..

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on April 25, 2014, 02:46:46 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

Your true knowledge comes from your own life experience.
And while you will be a constant gatherer of experience and knowledge,
your life is not only about that-it is about FULFILLMENT, SATISFACTION, AND JOY.

Your life is about the CONTINUING EXPRESSION of who you truly are.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on May 05, 2014, 04:39:35 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

Dear Child,

I see your loneliness and fears, your guilt and frustrations.
I see your endless search for love and fulfillment.
All this must be, in order for you to come to the end of your
own understanding--then you can hear My voice.
Listen carefully amid the noise of the world and you will hear...

I love you, I shed my tears for you to make you clean.
Give yourself completely to Me.
I created you to be just as you are, and you are lovely in My eyes.
Do not criticize yourself or become depressed for not being perfect in your own eyes.
In Me you have been made perfect.
I want you to trust Me one step, one day, one second at a time.
Dwell in My power and My love and be free, be yourself.
Don't allow other people to control you.
I will guide you, if you let Me, but be aware of My presence in everything.

I give to you patience, love, joy, and peace.
Look to Me for answers for I am your Father and will lead you.
Follow Me only! Do not ever forget this! Listen and I will tell you My will.

Let My love flow from you and spill over to all you touch.
Be not concerned with yourself - you are My responsibility.
I will change you without your ever knowing it.
You are to love yourself and others, simply because I love you.

Take your eyes off yourself, look only to Me, I lead, I change,
I create, but only when you are not striving. You are mine...
Let Me have the joy of making you like Lord.

Your only command is to look to Me, and Me only...
never to yourself and never to others. Do not struggle, but relax in My love.
I know what is best and will do it in you. Stop trying to become,
and let Me make you what I want.

My will is perfect; My love is sufficient.
I will supply all your needs...
only look to Me.

I Love You,

Your Father (Baba)

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on May 06, 2014, 03:37:43 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

If someone insults you, knowingly, you can only thank them.
This is because they have had the courage to give you
their piece of mind, what you needed, otherwise why would they do it?
Why would anyone want to hurt you at their own cost?
Nobody wants to risk their relationship.
What should your attitude be? ‘
Thank you! You did something good to me, it has made me strong.

You know, the coconut is a symbol of human life.
It is a shock absorber and that is how we should be in our lives, shock absorbing.
A coconut falls from such a height but it does not break because it absorbs the shock.
Our behavior should be like shock absorbers in the society,
so that nobody can hurt our mind or emotions.
Our body needs to be hard like the shell of a coconut
and the mind should be like the kernel inside, soft and pure white
and bringing feelings like the sweet water inside.
So this is why they break a coconut in the temple and they keep it to signify,
 ‘Dear Lord, may my life be like a coconut, body firm and mind soft, pure and clear.'

If it is the other way around, body is weak and mind is hard like a stone
then you are in trouble.

So, Give happiness and you will receive happiness.
Give peace and you will feel peaceful.
Give sorrow and you will get sorrow in return.

Create thoughts and words that give only peace and happiness.
The world is filled with worry and sorrow.
Do something different.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on May 12, 2014, 10:45:07 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

Your soul's will to love endures throughout time.
Your soul is committed to love;
its love is persistent and persevering.
It never gives up on loving people.
Feel how your soul has always loved you,
and how it will continue to love you.
Think of the sun. It is always there, even if it is hidden by clouds
or shining on the other side of the earth.
Its presence is constant, steady, and enduring.
Your soul's love is constant, steady, and eternal, like the sun.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!

Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on May 21, 2014, 04:58:03 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

I'm going to be happy.
I'm going to skip.
I'm going to be glad.
I'm going to smile a lot.
I'm going to be easy.
I'm going to count my blessings.
I'm going to look for reasons to feel good.
I'm going to dig up positive things from the past.
I'm going to look for positive things where I stand.
I'm going to look for positive things in the future.
It is my natural state to be a happy person.
It's natural for me to love and to laugh.
This is what is most natural for me.
I am a happy person!.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: srivi on May 30, 2014, 03:22:29 AM
om sairam

A single positive thought in the morning can change ur whole day..
Radiating positive vibes is the greatest charity..


jai saibaba
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on June 12, 2014, 05:42:52 AM

ॐ साई राम!!!

इस बात का ध्यान रखो कि तुम्हारे मन में क्या जा रहा है।
लोग बेखबर हैं; वे सब कुछ और कुछ भी पढ़े चले जाते हैं,
टी वी पर कोई भी मूर्खतापूण बात देखे चले जाते हैं,
सोसियल नेटवर्क पर सारा दिन गुजारते हैं
और कोई भी मूर्खतापूर्ण बात किए चले जाते हैं
और एक-दूसरे के सिर में कचरा डाले चले जाते हैं।

ऐसी परिस्थिति को टालो जिसमें तुम
बेवजह के कचरे से भर दिए जाते हो।
तुम्हारे पास पहले ही बहुत सारा है।
तुम्हें उससे हल्का होने की जरूरत है!

सिर्फ आवश्यक बातें सुनो और करो,
और धीरे-धीरे तुम शुद्धता की एक सफाई देखोगे,
ऐसे जैसे कि तुमने अभी-अभी स्नान लिया है,
तुम्हारे भीतर संकल्प पैदा होने लगेगा।
वह ध्यान के विकसित होने के लिए आवश्यक मिट्टी बनेगा।
यदि तुम अपने मन में कुछ अंतराल खाली छोड़ देते हो,
वे चेतना के खाली क्षण ध्यान की झलकें बन जाएंगे,
उस पार की पहली झलक, अमन की पहली चमक।


खुश रहो, सकारात्मक रहो और मजबूत रहो !!

विश्वास, धैर्य और दृढ़ता रखो !!!

ॐ साई राम, श्री साई राम, जय जय साई राम !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on June 24, 2014, 03:47:03 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

Pain is the greatest gift God could gave His child,
because the pains that opens the door to compassion
and love and it is only compassion and love for all creation
that opens the door of paradise and God consciousness.

If you have been in pain, you understand and sympathize
the pains of others . The pain makes you more closer to
all beings and God Himself. ...

All have our own pains in life.

That is our karma. .. why you should be angry on Me? ?
Did I give this pains to you! ..I never ever give pain to My child's
as I really protect and guides all well. .But as your karma that is
written in your mothers womb, you need to feel the pain
at least little life time. ..But My Dear Child, Do not worry and fear.

I ,Myself will carry all my Child s pains, hurdles and calamities...
I was begging for alms in Shirdi...That is for my Children that suffers
from their karma.

I won't left them all in middle and let them suffers. .
But, whoever call Me with love and true devotion,
I Myself will help and guide them forever. .This is My promise even
I am not more ..My Tomb will speaks and I Myself will protect my Children
that thinks Me every time. . I am everywhere . .Call Me once....

You can call Me with whatever name you wish, Baba, Sai,
or Sai Maa, I will come to My devotees whom call me.... (Baba)

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Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 02, 2014, 03:08:13 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

Why Should we Fear the Future?

The reason to fear about the future lies in our feeling of insecurity.
There is no need for fear if we completely rely on Baba.
God would look after our 'tomorrow', once we cast the responsibility on Him.
In right spirit we can take anything we receive today, be it pleasure or pain.
Likewise, God might avert our troubles of tomorrow or
might as well provide the mental stamina to face them.
It would be foolish to worry about them much in advance,
because, it is the very God who writes every chapter
in the book of life from the prologue to epilogue.
Hence, every page is meaningful.
It would be enough to trust His feet.
When we have unflinching faith in Baba,
He would protect us much like a father who shields His children.
He even teaches us the essence of life as a father would to his children.

An astrologer predicted that Tendulkar's son would fail in his
examinations as foretold in his horoscope. But his wife went to Shirdi and
implored Baba for His Grace. Baba said 'with trust in Me, let him write the exam'.
Tendulkar's son wrote the exam with faith in Baba and came out in flying colors.

We too can ignore a matter once we leave it to Baba saying,
'Baba! It's upto You as to how You will solve the problem'..

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 14, 2014, 05:58:29 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

Having inner peace means committing to letting go of self-criticism and self-doubt.
Everything other people say to you about yourself is a reflection of a voice within you.
If you find people critical, first ask, is there a part of you that is criticizing yourself?
As you let go of that self-criticism, you will experience less criticism from others. |

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 15, 2014, 02:57:45 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

Ego and Self from a Different Angle

Ego is that something, which has two aspects – the positive and the negative.
The creativity in you – are the results of ego. At the same time, when you break
down communication, when you isolate yourself, when you’re in tears, when you’re
stressed – that is also ego. We do not know about the ego, and so we don’t pay
much attention to it. But just 2-3 facts, awareness of how ego works!

The self – the basis of life! You can call it the spirit, the soul, consciousness,
the source of the mind – anything. It is that something, which doesn’t change
in one’s whole life. After discovering about all these levels, what is left is the Self.

Everything is changing, isn’t it? Do you notice this?

Just look at yourself in the mirror and then look at your picture taken a few months
or a few years ago.

Isn’t there a big difference?

Your body is changing, your thoughts are changing, the mind is changing, emotions
are changing, situations are changing… But still you feel there is something in me
which is not changing. So that something which is the basis of all change, that
something through which you notice the change is the self – the atma, the spirit.
It is the most amazing aspect of our lives. Just a glimpse of it, a dip into your spirit
energizes our whole system – and that is what meditation is.

Spirituality is the skill of nurturing, purifying and blossoming one’s all levels of existence.

source: My Guru Strongest

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 21, 2014, 04:04:03 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

It is never late to ask yourself “Am I ready to change my life,
am I ready to change myself?”. However old we are, whatever
we went through, it is always possible to reborn. If each day is a
copy of the last one, what a pity! Every breath is a chance to reborn.
But to reborn into a new life, you have to die before dying.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!

Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 21, 2014, 04:08:00 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

There are 3 types of souls:

1) Those who create obstacles
2) Those who become afraid of obstacles
3) Those who destroy obstacles

Let no aspect of anyone's nature disturb or affect you - and vice versa.
Make sure no part of your nature affects others.
See everyone's virtues and you will soon stop seeing defects.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 23, 2014, 11:41:53 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

हमारा किसी भी व्यक्ति से कोई भी रिश्ता हो पर जिसे हमारा मन एक बार अपना मान लेता है,
फिर हमें उस व्यक्ति में कोई कमी दिखाई नही देती... उसके सारे अवगुण भी हमें गुणों जैसे
लगने लगते है... परन्तु जब कोई हमारा अपना किसी स्वार्थ के चलते पराया हो जाता है, तो हमें
उसमें कमीयां ही कमीयां दिखाई देने लगती है...पर कभी तो बात एकदम छोटी सी होती है गलती
किसी की नहीं होती और ग़लतफ़हमी वश दूरी हो जाती है ..और हम उसे पराया मान खुद को उससे
बहुत दूर कर लेते है ...इस वक्त हमारा अहम् या आगे वाले का अहम् बात फिर से सुरु करने ही नहीं देता ...
पर वो हमारा अपना है ..हमने जिन्दगी की सुखद पल उसके साथ बिताए है ..तो वह बार बार याद आता है ..
एक कमी सी रह जाती है जीवन में . मन बहुत दुखी होता है, हर आहट पर उनका लौट कर आने का
इंतजार रहता है…

जिसे हम अपना मानते है, हमें उससे यह उम्मीद होती है कि वो हमारे हर सुख-दुख में सदा
हमारें साथ रहेगा । लेकिन मुसीबत में वो साथ दे नहीं पाता तो हमें बुरा लगता है और फिर इसी
बातको जीवन भर हम याद रखते है, लेकिन जो कुछ हम किसी के साथ करते है उसे अपने मन के
आईने में देखने से कतराते है। सारी दुनियां से चाहें हम कुछ भी छिपा ले, लेकिन हमारा मन एक
ऐसा दर्पण है, जिससे कोई बात नही छुपती। हमारे हर अच्छे बुरे कर्म को हमारा मन हर समय देखता
रहता है। दूसरों को बुरा भला कहना और उनमें कमियां निकालने से पहले जरूरत होती है तो केवल अपने
मन की आंखे खोलने की और जब आँख खुल जाती है तो फिर उनकी मजबूरी भी समझमे आने लग जाती है।
पर कभी कभी समय चला जाता है और अपनों के बीच दूरिया इतनी बढ़ जाती है कि फिर कभी दिल मिल ही
नहीं पाते तो कितना अच्छा हो दूसरो के प्रति कोई राय बनाने से पहले उसकी जगह खुद को रख कर देखो
फिर कभी ये दूरी आ ही नहीं सकती।|



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HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 26, 2014, 01:55:15 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

5 Secrets to Happiness

Once a wise man drew a line on a board and told his student to make the
line shorter without touching or erasing it. How would you do it?

You have to shorten a line without touching it. The intelligent one
(referring to the student) then drew a much longer line underneath
that line. So, the line automatically became shorter.

The lesson here is that if your difficulties appear to be very big,
lift your eyes because you are only focused on yourself. If you lift
your eyes up and look at those who are in a worse condition than you,
you will suddenly feel that your burden is not as bad as you thought it was.

If you think you have some big problem, look at people who have a greater
problem. Suddenly, you will get a confidence that my problem is much smaller,
and I can manage it.

So, the first point on how to be happy is to see the world where there
are greater and bigger problems. Then, your problems will appear smaller.

The moment your problems appear smaller, you will get the energy and
confidence to deal with it or solve it. In simple words, serve those
who are in greater need.

Second, look at your own life. In the past, you had many problems.
They have all come and gone. Know that even this will go and you do
have the energy and power to overcome it. You will get self-confidence
by understanding and looking at your own past.

Third, and most important, do some breathing exercise and relaxation.

Fourth, do you know, in anger we say, ‘I give up’. Without frustration
or anger say, ‘I give this problem up, I cannot solve it, let the Divine help me.
’ And know that you will always be helped. Have the confidence that you
will be helped; a power in the universe is going to help you.

The fifth one – what do you think is the fifth one? I leave it to you.
You think about the fifth one. I can go on up to twenty-five or thirty (points),
but I would like you to come up with it. We are always looking for solutions
from someone. We forget that if we turn our mind inward, we can get some
idea, some solution. This is the fifth one. Spontaneity! Be spontaneous. Spontaneity
will come when you take a few minutes to go deep within yourself. There is nothing
great in smiling when everything is normal, and when everything is going the way
you want. But if you awaken the valor inside of you, and say, ‘Come what may,
I am going to keep smiling’, you will notice tremendous energy, just rise from
within you. And the problem is like nothing; it just comes and disappears.

By: Sri Sri

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!

Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on August 16, 2014, 06:46:57 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

A fool is one who goes on trusting; a fool is one who goes on trusting
against all his experience. You deceive him, and he trusts you;
and you deceive him again, and he trusts you; and you deceive him again,
and he trusts you. Then you will say that he is a fool, he does not learn.
His trust is tremendous; his trust is so pure that nobody can corrupt it.

Be a fool in the Taoist sense, in the Zen sense. Don´t try to create a
wall of knowledge around you. Whatsoever experience comes to you,
let it happen, and then go on dropping it. Go on cleaning your mind
continuously; go on dying to the past so you remain in the present,
herenow, as if just born, just a babe.

In the beginning it is going to be very difficult. The world will start taking
advantage of you...let them. They are poor fellows. Even if you are cheated
and deceived and robbed, let it happen, because that which is really
yours cannot be robbed from you, that which is really yours nobody
can steal from you.

And each time you don´t allow situations to corrupt you, that opportunity
will become an integration inside. Your soul will become more crystallized.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on August 16, 2014, 06:48:25 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

"Anger is always a sign of weakness.
Just plainly and simply put the whole thing;
perhaps the other person may find that
you are right and may be thankful to you.
Or perhaps the other person may have better reasons than you;
then you will be thankful to the other person
because he helps to raise your consciousness"

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!

Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on August 19, 2014, 09:21:53 PM
OM SAI RAM!!!

Be CLEAR on your intent. What do you intend to do with your life?
To grow? To be loving? To be joyful? To serve; to heal?
The higher your level of clarity around this, the more that
clear energy will flow out into every area of your life.
Your life purpose is the most important thing you can get clear on.
Clarity of purpose will direct clear energy into every other area of your life.
You may say, “What is life purpose, in essence?” It is the deepest desires
within you, that which gives you the most joy, that which you think of
and fantasize about all the time. It is that deep soul-level urge,
that motivation; it is the dream that you hold within you.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!

Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on August 19, 2014, 11:15:01 PM
OM SAI RAM!!!

Mistakes have caused pain and that is good.
Pain has given you depth and that is good.
You have learnt from the mistakes and
now you don't want to commit the same mistakes again.
That is also good.
So it is useless to sit and worry about the past.
Just move on!
Every moment there is sparkling, scintillating energy within you,
so move with that!

- Sri Sri Ravi Shankar

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on August 25, 2014, 03:24:39 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

To surrender to love n affection, you will need to pay attention to any of
your own emotions, moods, or thoughts that might lead you to act in
less than loving ways. You may need to surrender pride, a sense of
self-importance, the need to have your way, to feel superior to, or
to have power over others. You will want to let go of those emotions
 that make you feel less than, inferior, or doubtful of your worth.
You will want to train yourself to think about others in positive ways,
even if you feel they have hurt you. You will want to bring about
harmonious conditions through your speech, actions, and thoughts.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!

Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on August 25, 2014, 03:27:51 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

What if every time you found fault with others, or thought of something
they could do better you asked instead, "How does my criticism of other
people apply to me?" Even if you think there is no way your observations
of others apply to you or your life, be willing to explore how they might.
Think of the other person as representing an aspect of yourself.
Ask, "Is there anywhere I am doing what I am criticizing the other person for?"
Examine your life carefully. The essence of what you criticize another for is
usually a quality you are working on developing in yourself.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!

Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on August 28, 2014, 06:10:26 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

You feel a lot of love for someone and they do not take it.

What do you do?

-   Get Frustrated
-   Turn the love into hatred and wish for revenge.
-   Again and again remind them how much you love them and how little they love you.
-   Become fussy and cranky
-   Throw tantrums
-   Feel humiliated and try to protect your respect.
-   Resolve never to love again.
-   Feel hurt and mistreated
-   Try to be aloof and indifferent

… and you have seen that none of these work! They only make it worse.

What is the way out of this?
How can you maintain your lovingness?

-  Have patience.
-  Be centered and limit your expression of love. Sometimes over expression of love puts people off.
-  Change your expression of love.
-  Take it for granted that they love you and accept their style of expression
-  Genuinely acknowledge their love for you.
   This will turn your demand into gratefulness.
   The more grateful you are in life, more love comes your way.
-  Know that hurt is part of love and take responsibility for it.
-  Realize that when you move away from your center,
   you will feel miserable and that the nature of worldliness is misery.

- By Sri Sri

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on September 02, 2014, 06:52:15 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

When you think of others and yourself, have thoughts of riches, prosperity,
success, and goodness. Having such thoughts helps make them come true.
Let your thoughts about everyone be of their increased good. Picture everyone
as successful. Sometimes people bring financial hardship to themselves by
dwelling on other people's financial difficulties, for what you focus on is what you
draw to yourself. Rather than talking about how hard life is for people, send them
compassion and light; see them getting out of their difficult situations and experiencing
abundance. The positive pictures and love you send out will come back to you many
times over.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!

Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on September 02, 2014, 06:54:56 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

Be CLEAR on your intent. What do you intend to do with your life?
To grow? To be loving? To be joyful? To serve; to heal?

The higher your level of clarity around this, the more that clear energy
will flow out into every area of your life. Your life purpose is the most
important thing you can get clear on. Clarity of purpose will direct
clear energy into every other area of your life. You may say,
“What is life purpose, in essence?” It is the deepest desires within you,
that which gives you the most joy, that which you think of and fantasize
about all the time. It is that deep soul-level urge, that motivation;
it is the dream that you hold within you.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!


Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on September 03, 2014, 05:02:09 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

Pain is a given, but suffering is a choice. Everyone faces obstacles in life.
They are part of life. You can choose to be victim or victor, succumb to
setbacks or rise above them. Life is like a game. Some times you win,
at other times you lose. You have to be able to take it in your stride.

If you depend on the constantly changing, unpredictable world you
will get crushed by it. Learn to be self-reliant. The world will bow to you.
Spiritual development is inversely proportional to your dependence on
the world. The more you lean on it, the less you get. The less you need
the more you get! Vedanta helps you become independent of the world
and enables you to gain more from it.

An enlightened master is totally independent, yet has the world at his feet!
There are three states of balance ­ restless, fragile and steady. The lowest
is when you are like a cone on its apex, totally dependent on external factors.

The intermediate state is when you are like a cone on its side ­ calm by
yourself but the slightest fluctuation creates long spells of mental agitation.
Be like a cone resting on its base. Nothing will topple or overwhelm you.
You will be constantly at peace irrespective of what the world offers.

Every challenge is an opportunity to grow. The way out is to build inner
reserves. Gain knowledge of your real worth. Fluctuations of the world
will no longer traumatise you. They will only amuse and entertain you.
Assess people and situations what they are, not what you would like
them to be. Then you will not have un realistic expectations and
disappointments. Defer decisions if your mind is clouded. Consult
a clear thinker who will throw fresh light on the matter. Get a sense
of humour! The spiritual path does not demand change of lifestyle,
wardrobe or location.

You do not have to move away from family , friends or career.
It only calls for a change of attitude. Move from the mindset of taking,
to that of giving. The law is ­ give, you gain; grab, you lose. Base your
life on serving, adding value to others, offering your talent to a larger
cause. See the miraculous results it brings.

When you have conflict with the people you love most you tend to blame
them. Look within. It is your selfishness that is the cause. You expect people
to dance to your tune; you make demands and impose restrictions on them.
This makes them want to break free. Love people for what they are. Accept
them with their faults and idiosyncrasies. Learn to be self-sufficient. You will
enjoy their presence and not miss them when they are gone. They will love
you dearly.

Objectivity is the secret of enjoyment.

You are able to `enjoy' tragedy , even murder, and horror on screen,
because you know you are apart from it. Similarly you are an actor on the
stage of life. Play your role to the best of your ability , wholeheartedly .
Exit when the time comes. You are your Self.

You have nothing to do with the roles you play . You seem to have lost
your identity . Understand who you are. The world will lose its sting.
You will enjoy the roles and retreat into an oasis of Bliss when your
part is over.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on September 05, 2014, 03:13:48 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

Don't demand that people need to recognize you.
So what if everyone doesn't recognize you,
or if everyone recognizes you, so what?
Let the whole world recognize you, so what?
And if nobody recognizes you, so what?
There are flowers in the garden, there are flowers in the forest.
Do they say, '' Oh, nobody saw me, I have blossomed?''
Does it matter to the rose whether someone looks at it or not?
In fact, if people look at it, they may pluck it!
It is better nobody sees them - they are happy.

This urge for recognition from somebody is what kills you.
You do your job and that's it! What has to come to you.
Why do we need to crave for other's recognition?
That brings ego - ''Me, me, me, I did it.''
So many lives like this you have existed on this planet and
they have all gone - so many mosquitoes like you.

You know that story of an elephant and the fly on it's leg?
A fly was living on the leg of an elephant.
Once the fly got so angry at the elephant, it said, ''I'm leaving you today!
Finished! Enough is enough! I'm done with you.'' It got so angry, it left.
At that moment, just by accident, the elephant moved it's leg and some dust arose.
But the fly thought that the storm has come because it is leaving the elephant.
It told the elephant, ''Yes, you see, the storm has come?
I'm leaving you - you suffer from the storm.''
The elephant didn't even know that the fly was sitting on it's leg!

And that is how nobody really cares what you are, what you do,
what you don't do. And all impact gets wiped out by the flood of time.
Time comes and just floods you, wipes you out, wipes all the memory out of this planet.
This me, me, me can only dissolve and you serve.
He becomes free from this identity of ego, identity of the smallness.
Identifying yourself with the smallness, because this smallness is the cause of misery.
 ''I was not recognized.
Nobody looked at me, nobody loves me.
'' Come on, wake up. You are love! Love is in giving, not in demanding.

- An extract from 'Narada Bhakti Sutra' by Sri Sri Ravi Shankar

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on September 08, 2014, 05:22:10 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

4 Powerful Ways to Deal with Judgement:

1. Release your own judgement.

When you prematurely judge someone, you miss the opportunity to
get to know who they are and what makes them unique.  You allow
your limited perspective to cloud your vision from seeing the good in them.
If they’re close to you, you miss the opportunity to love them more.

Releasing judgement also means releasing judgement of yourself.
We can tend to be our own worst critic. When we release judgement
of ourselves, we allow for more room to love ourselves. Areas that
we were seeking to find improvement can gradually get better because
we have switched our focus from a positive loving perspective rather than
a negative, critical one.

As you slowly begin to release judgement, you find you will experience
less judgement from others.  Your vibration will be lifted and you will rise
above. It doesn’t mean people aren’t doing it, but you won’t experience
it in front of you.

2. Switch your focus to the positive.

Tip #1 is a gradual process and it’s something that doesn’t happen overnight.
In the meantime, practicing to switch your focus to the good of others and
the good of yourself works well.

Next time you find yourself being heavily judged and feeling down,
switch your focus on everything you have achieved.  You have come
a long way and have had great accomplishments. You are doing the best
you can and you know that. In fact, the better you do the more nay-sayers
there will be. So, by creating the habit to switch your focus and draw from
that inner confidence will allow you to positively deal with judgement.

The highest spiritual practice is self-observation without judgement. –Swami Kripalu

3. Don’t take personal offense.

If someone is being critical of you, remind yourself that their opinion is coming
from their limited perspective. They aren’t you and they haven’t lived a day in
your shoes. Therefore, their opinion truly doesn’t matter. In fact, sometimes
when someone is (on some level) jealous of you, they will purposely try to pick
you apart. It makes them feel better.

Learning not to take offense of judgement can be tough, especially if it’s coming
from someone you love. You may feel like you have to take offense and reply
on the defense to protect yourself. But, the better choice is just to shrug it off.

It takes strength to shrug it off. That strength comes from an inner confidence
of knowing you do the best you can. If you find it hard to do, ask yourself if there
is some truth (even a little) in what they are saying. Sometimes compassionate
judgement can help us improve and grow.

4. Leave the situation.

So, if you have tried all of the above tips and you are still receiving destructive
judgement (not compassionate, loving feedback) that you cannot handle
it’s best to leave the situation and create limits .  Negative environments,
especially with people you really care about, can quickly effect your personal
happiness and self growth. You need to thrive in this world and there are enough
outside influences that we have to overcome.

We need to surround ourselves with loving, positive people who care about
our well being and think about our highest good.

People are going to judge you, but the best defense is knowing who you truly are,
what you want and where you are going.

Maybe someday there will come a time when judgement no longer exists. 
There’s a beautiful freedom in allowing each of us to be ourselves. 
Together, let’s create a brighter future with compassion, and freedom for all!

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Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on September 12, 2014, 03:21:10 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

During my Vipassana meditation , we were told a very interesting thing
about four categories of people. There are following four categories of people.

1) Walking from Darkness to light :
Some people face very difficult situations in life. Their life is full of miseries.
They go through very harsh times but they feel they have been going through
all this because of what ever they did in the past. They understand that there
will be no good if they keep on doing wrong things . They realize that
“As you sow ,so shall you reap” so  they become good people and so
become their deeds.

2) Walking in the light :
Some people have  great lives. They have most things they want from life.
They don’t become proud of such a life.They understand that to be able
to lead such a life,  they should continue doing good deeds.  Such people
are grateful of such great lives and they keep on moving in the light.

3)  Walking from light to darkness :
Some people have great lives. They have money, fame and lot of other
things they ask for. They become too proud and too harsh. Instead of
feeling grateful for such a life, they think that its their birthright. They
forget that they have such a life because of their good deeds in the past.
They become unconscious in their wealth and happiness and start doing
wrong things and hence start walking towards the dark.

4) Walking in the dark :
This is similar to first category of people with their lives full of miseries
but they think that there is nothing good in their lives why should they
let others live in peace. These people are full of rage.They continue to
do bad things for everyone around them and themselves. They feel life
is unfair to them. They have lot of negativity in their nature. Most of the
terrorists fall in this category. It is very natural for the person who goes
through so many miseries to behave like this but if at all he understands
that there is nothing better that would happen by doing  so and he is only
making things worse for him, he would start sowing good seeds of his
deeds. He is already in the dark and he continues to walk in the dark.

All of us fall in one of the above categories. If not our whole life then phases
or moments of our life fall in one of the above categories.

As long as we are in category 1 or 2, we are good but if we are in category
3 or 4 then remember each moment we are sowing new seeds for your future.
If you sow bittergourd then you will never reap mangoes and if you sow mangoes
then you will reap mangoes. Each moment you are creating your future. Its never
ever too late to wake up and create a better future.

Irrespective of where you are coming from but from this moment on you can start
walking towards the light, towards better future.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on September 12, 2014, 03:26:46 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

People come into your life for a REASON, a SEASON, or a LIFETIME . . .
. . . When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.

When someone is into your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need
you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you
through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you
physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and
they are. They are there for the reason, you need them to be. Then, without
any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say
or do something to bring the relationship to an end.

Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take
a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled;
their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time
to move on.

When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your
turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience
of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never
done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real!
But, only for a season!

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; those things you must
build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept
the lesson, love the person/people (any way); and put what you have learned
to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is
blind but relationship is clairvoyant.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on September 13, 2014, 01:03:37 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

Actually we people are scared of a troubled life. No one wants to be in a situation
where he or she has to face grievous troubles, failures and physical and mental
hardships. Yet problems create a web around us and we enter into a mess. But then
at that moment think what is the state of your mind? When you are helpless, no one
comes to your aid, family members, friends, near and dear ones cannot do anything etc etc
you think I am totally gone. But is it true. Before anyone else was with you were you
alone. Think of it and you shall plunge deep into the depths of your memory and say
actually I wasn't really alone. There was an energy that was taking care of me.
Yes you have named it. GOD. Again when you leave this earth no one shall be with you.
Only one power will be there GOD. All the temptations in the world shall lure you
from GOD but HE is more tempting than any earthly temptation. And you shall only
know HIM once you become close to HIM and becoming close to HIM does not mean by
name only, but by your heart really accepting him as your friend. If you deeply seek HIM
you shall never be unhappy and you shall find HIM the greatest happiness.

HE wants to share your inner turmoil and that’s why HE knocks at every heart.
It is man who does not allow HIM to enter His heart and then blame everything
else possible on the earth for his miseries. Try calling HIM and see the result.

Krishna says “If one realizes that this world is a false and only Spirit is real, though
it may be in the last moment before death, he will enter a better world after earth exit.”

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on September 15, 2014, 05:50:01 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

Finding Joy in Spirituality

The important thing is that while we live, we shall be happy and
have fun in all that we do.

While man is alive, he usually gets entangled in thinking,
'Oh, what will happen to me? What if there are some difficulties tomorrow?
How will I be happy?'. This urges him to acquire wealth for a sense of security.
The main aim of life is to be happy and comfortable with what we have,
but often the path one takes brings misery instead of happiness.

This is utter foolishness.

So what does an intelligent person do? An intelligent person knows for sure
that God is with them, God loves them and belongs to them, so they don’t
need to worry about anything. This feeling of deep faith gives them confidence.
This is the secret of confidence. So they are able to do and achieve
what they want.

See, if you are in the driving seat then you can turn the car in whichever
direction you want, and spirituality gives you that strength to go where
you want to. Hasn’t this happened for you? How many of you here have
experienced that whatever you wish for starts happening?

This is the magic of being in knowledge, of having tasted the nectar of
the spiritual path.

What is the use of behaving like a beggar all the time?
There is a saying, 'Ram jharoke baith sabka mujra le'
(Meaning: Repose in the faith of the Divine and see everything as a passing event).

So when the connection with the Divine happens, no matter where you are,
you can achieve and get what you wish for.
Whatever blessing you give
starts to manifest. Many of you have had this experience.
This is the great wealth of spiritual knowledge.

We have such great knowledge with us in this country but many people
are not even aware of it.
People go to the temple, just break a coconut,
give money to the priest to perform Aarti (act of rotating the sacred
lamp before the deity) and keep wondering on how to improve their life.
They come back home and get stuck again in craving and aversion,
criticizing others, belittling others, and getting entangled in feelings of jealousy
and greed. They spend their whole life like that.

To improve your life you should find joy in spirituality. Once you find this joy,
do not run away from your family responsibilities; stay at home and attend
to your family responsibilities also.
Balance both so that your spiritual life
as well as your family life improves.

This is such beautiful knowledge and this is what we must practice also.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on September 17, 2014, 05:45:20 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

I am Not Happy

Your past is like the hardened clay. You can't reshape it without breaking it.
Your present is like the soft clay.

Someone emailed me the following question.
I get asked this frequently, in fact.

"I need some advice about reducing my inner turmoil.
I am in my fifties but feel no peace in life. I'm sick and tired of the rat race,
of fighting to survive in a job and to meet the demands of family.
I have become a slave to pay my bills."

At first, Buddha’s view that everything is suffering seems a little pessimistic
but upon deeper examination it’s not too far off the truth most experience in
their lives. While I meet many happy people, mostly though, I meet stressed
out and sad ones. It almost feels that suffering comes on its own but happiness
is something you’ve to work hard towards.

The truth is, happiness is our natural state but, more often than not, most people
feel they have to have certain things in their life to be happy, to be at peace. It’s
not entirely their fault; we are programmed to believe that happiness depends
on our success, on bank balance, on others’ approval of us, on the volume of our
material possessions. There’s absolutely no doubt that a degree of material richness
can make living a worthwhile experience, but, at the same time, it’s absence doesn't
 mean we can’t be at peace, or be happy.

Our world is full of people who go to bed hungry, who can’t afford medication,
who don’t have a roof over their heads, who can’t clothe themselves properly.
And then there are millions who have all of the above and more, yet they are not
happy. They have a family, they have friends, they have some savings (perhaps debt too),
they are in good health yet they are restless.

The golden mantra of finding inner peace starts with acceptance. It begins by
accepting the responsibility of the choices we’ve made. They are not necessarily
about right-wrong or good-bad, but, each choice we make has an outcome. We can’t
possibly hope for some God to descend and undo our past choices, or grant us inner
peace, because, everyone is already blessed with it. Only that we cover it with our
desires and emotions.

I’ve realized that there’s no struggle in being at peace. The struggle is to be at ease
with what you have and who you are — both of which can be hard to accept sometimes.
Your past is like the baked clay pot. It’s already been through the fire, it’s hard, its shape
is set. We can’t re-mold it. Any attempt to do so will break it. Whereas the present is
like the soft clay, you can shape it however you like. How one casts it varies from one
person to another.

Let’s assume there’ll always be bills to pay, there’ll always be a family to feed, there’ll
always be struggle, the world will remain competitive. Let’s say, our soft clay is made
of bills, struggle, and needs. Agreed. Now what? Should we allow it to rob our inner
peace or should we stop kneading (brooding) now and start building it?

Paying bills, feeding a family or the challenges at work are not the real problems. The
real issue is our expectations from life. We have a perception of how life ought to be,
but it’s not turning out that way. The entire struggle is shaping it into what we want it
to be like. In fact, no matter what the circumstances, there’s no struggle in acceptance.
The only struggle is in resistance.

The way to redefine, reshape yourself, your present, and consequently your future,
is to first take complete responsibility of your choices and your actions. This will help
you to becomfortable with yourself. The second step is to prioritize between things you
have to do and things you want to do. Third is to invest some of your time in what really
matters to you, your passion. And, if you don’t have any passion, purpose or a constructive
pastime, well then, ideally, one of your top priorities should be to discover one.

Mulla Nasrudin joined a passing caravan and befriended two rich people who had horses,
camels and gold whereas Mulla only had a donkey and a ragged bag. They stopped for lunch
and unpacked their food.

The first one boasted, “I only eat dry fruits. Roasted and salted. For dessert, I only take
pitted dates.”

“During my travels, I only eat puffed rice mixed with pistachios and cashews with falafel.
I alternate between baklava and dates for sweet,” said the other.

Nasrudin opened his lunch. He only had a piece of salted bread and a small piece of gur,
solid sweet cane sugar. Holding up his food and looking at it admiringly, he said,
“Well, I only eat wheat, ground up and carefully mixed with water, yeast, and salt,
and then baked at the proper temperature for the proper time. Oh, and after my meal,
I prefer to have fresh and filtered sugarcane juice, boiled and concentrated until it turns
into a delicious lump of sweetness.”

How you see life makes all the difference between life feeling like a breeze or a brawl.
It’s neither, if you ask me. Life is simply a colony of countless moments, a painting of
myriad strokes. Focus on each moment, each stroke, work on the part and the whole
becomes beautiful on its own.

By Acharya P Bhargava

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on September 18, 2014, 06:51:25 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!


We humans spend much of our time trying to control
every aspect of our lives.

Unfortunately, too often we try and control things that are simply
beyond our control.

The list of what we can control is quite short, but once you know these
10 things you will be able to take control of your own life.

1.What you do: Your actions are yours alone. 
You choose to make them or not make them and you are
responsible for the effects of those actions.

2.What you say: Likewise, the words you speak (or write)
are also consciously chosen.  Like actions, they have an impact
on your life and the lives of those you contact.

3.What you think: Yes, there are some subconscious thoughts
that you can’t control.  But the things that you really think about,
your beliefs, your ideals, etc. are concepts you have chosen
to accept and believe in.

4.Your work: Many people like to overlook this one, it being much
easier to say, “Oh, I’m! trapped in my job because I don’t have
a degree, experience, etc.”  That’s simple a way of denying one’s
responsibility in having chosen the job in the first place.  It’s your job
and you chose it.  If you stay (or go), that’s a choice as well.

5.The people you associate with: There’s a famous T-shirt that states:
“It’s hard to soar like an eagle when you’re surrounded by turkeys.” 
Colloquial is very often correct!  Your friends can either lift you up
or bring you down.  You make the decision which type of friends
you wish to have.

6.Your basic physical health. Much about our health is a factor of genetics,
environment, and exposure.  Much more of our health is simply a matter
of the decisions we make about our health, such as: diet, exercise,
drugs, sleep, routine physicals, check-ups, etc.

7.The environment you live in: Your house, the condition of your home,
the town you live in, the amenities available to you are all things you
can control, although some to a lesser degree (i.e., you decide to
tolerate them or move someplace else).

8.Your fiscal situation: Having or not having enough money is a factor of
what you make versus what you spend.

9.Your time: You choose how to “spend” your time and how much of your
time to give to various activities. You’ll never get more time than the
24 hours your given each day.

10.Your legacy: All your actions, words, and knowledge that you share
while you are living become the gift that you leave when you are gone.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!

Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on September 18, 2014, 06:53:46 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

Facing the World Takes Faith

Mankind is passing through difficult times. With rising stress levels,
terror attacks, environmental pollution, there are dangers lurking
in every corner.

When times get difficult, we need to renew our faith. It’s faith that
pulls one through difficult times. It brings out the hidden courage
and potential in more ways than one.

Another thing you need to have in order to sail through difficult times
is a calm mind. When the mind is calm and you are centred, it’s much
easier to face any situation. For this, you need to train the mind a little
to live in the present moment and drop the stress. This can be done
by attending to your breath.

Combine the inner calm with your faith, and then you have a formula to
face any situation. Having faith is to realise that God’s protection is there
for you. This much faith is enough to move ahead in life. During the time
of reaping the harvest, the farmer holds a broad sieve and puts all the
grains into it and stands on an elevated platform and shakes the sieve.
If it is mere husk, it just flies away in the air and is lost.

If grain is present, then it falls to the ground and stays. If your faith shakes
very quickly, then you are akin to being like the husk.

If your faith shakes quickly when difficulty strikes, you will not be able to
face it with your smile intact. If you have faith, you will be able to find
ground. And when you have faith that everything will be all right,
everything will settle down.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!

Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on September 19, 2014, 06:10:35 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

Energy And The Law Of Attraction

In her phenomenally successful book, The Secret, Rhonda Byrne explains
the Law of Attraction. The Law of Attraction deals with you and your desired
object. The law states that if you visualise and strongly think of any object or
opportunity, then that object, and the opportunity will both come to you. Whatever
thoughts you put out, will be returned to you in kind. It is a belief that likes
attract likes.

This belief is based on the idea that people and their thoughts are both
made of pure energy and that energy attracts energy.Ancient truth In the Bhagwad Gita,
Sri Krishna declares that “whatever form a devotee seeks to pursue with shraddha,
strong thought, I make that thought of his unswerving“ (7:21). So, it is not a “secret“
but merely the ancient truth which is already stated in the Gita, where Krishna advises
Arjuna in order to restore his confidence in the face of a daunting challenge ­ with
armies of friends and relatives arrayed on either side of the battlefield at Kurukshetra.

Here we are talking about sending out positive thoughts with good intentions.
However, there are those who act out of selfish motives and so have taken this
idea to an extreme level or should we say , a ridiculous level. They are using this
idea for selfish purposes, thereby making a mockery of it. The Law of Attraction should
not be used for attaining petty objects. Some people are using strong thought for
getting small things like parking, or even cinema tickets.

This is not the purpose of this idea. People say but the law does work. Of course,
it will work, but that is not the purpose of this law. It is like someone using a 1,000-rupee
currency note as a napkin. A 1,000-rupee note is not meant for that use, it has a
larger purpose. Therefore, the Law of Attraction has a larger connotation. The moment
you continuously think a thought, the thought becomes the reality .

Nature's ways Thoughts are like seeds. Some seeds give fruit within weeks and some,
after several years. The moment you entertain a strong thought, nature starts its work.
When totality is working to fulfil that thought, we change that thought and create a
new thought. Thereafter, totality again starts working on new thoughts.

If you keep on changing your thoughts, there will be total chaos in the plans of nature.
A half-baked understanding of this law will be harmful rather than being benevolent.
Therefore, before you entertain a thought, please filter it through your intellect and
then pursue your desire.

Confusing signals In the beginning of the computer age, when we had old-style computers,
the system used to take its own time. When we tried to open any window, it would be slow.
But because of our impatience, we would delete that window and open a new window.
Again the computer would go slow and ultimately hang. Similarly, when you entertain a
strong thought, nature starts its function. But because of our impatience, when we
discard that and entertain a new thought, again, totality starts functioning according to
our new thought.

Practise patience If you keep on entertaining different types of thoughts,
the whole system will hang.

Therefore, understand that thoughts are like seeds, they will take their own time to
germinate, sprout and produce fruit.

Don't be impatient.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: srivi on September 24, 2014, 08:30:42 PM
very inspiring
om sairam...
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on September 27, 2014, 04:13:05 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

If you meet God, what would you ask for?

Couple of days back I had this dream where I saw that I meet God and
he asks me “What is the one thing you would like to ask for”. I knew in
my dream that it surely wasn’t a million dollar as I have always heard in
stories. I told God in my dream that I need some time to think about it.
All I remember after that is that I woke up and I don’t know what I asked
for if  at all I asked for :) However this serious question bothered me the
whole day “Jokes apart, what would I ask for if I am given one wish”.

After a lot of thinking I knew what would that thing be. Are you curious
to know? Think about yours before you read about mine :)

Here were couple of options all of us might think -  Loads of Money,
fame, career, getting married, getting the love of your life,   good life
partner,  having children, big house, car, luxuries, food to eat, successful
business , admission in a good school/college,  good education for  your kids ,
good children, good parents, nice boss,  good job, pain free life,  debt free life,
obstacle free life, happiness for your children, freedom from a disease like
cancer, disease free life, poverty free life,  healthy body, comfortable old age,
wish to ask for wish again :) etc..

I thought that none of the above will ever give me happiness and satisfaction
for long. I wanted to ask God for one thing and i.e “Fill me with Love and wisdom”.
Sounds so philosophical. Right? But do think about it.

I  have experienced  those magical moments 2-3 times in my life where
everything was so beautiful . Nothing had changed around me in those moments.
My problems were same as before but the only difference  was that my heart
was filled with love. One of those moments was my last day at “10  days
Vipassana meditation“. I felt that it would be foolish to ask God for other stuff
as that wont last long.  Whenever we are in a difficult situation, we  pray for
situation to change but it might not be right to ask God to change the situation
we are in because that might be the best situation for our growth.

“Some flowers grow best in the Sun while others do well in Shade.
Remember, we are put where we grow the best and accordingly we get
people and situations to grow with”.


If we have love and wisdom, we wont resist any situation instead see
the blessing in it and with our wisdom do the right thing in that situation
whether its loss of job, deal, house or a loved one.

When our heart is filled with love, nothing seems like a problem. Things
are just happening and  with our wisdom, we just know how to  react to it.
When our heart is filled with love, we can see  God’s love in every small thing
on this earth. It is love and wisdom that  empowered simple people to do really
big things.

“Problems have nothing to do with situations, but with one’s reaction
to them. What’s happening is merely what’s happening. How you feel about
it is another matter.”


It also made me realize why “Gayatri Mantra” is considered the most powerful
mantra in Hindu philosophy. This Mantra doesn't ask for any material riches,
freedom from pain or poverty but ONLY ONE THING and i.e wisdom. This is my
favorite mantra and I HIGHLY RECOMMEND  chanting/listening to it couple of times
every day. I can tell you from experience, its indeed very powerful and magical.
However when you do it, do it with faith and contemplate on its meaning.

I am eagerly waiting for God to come in my dream again and I wont take
long this time :) Please don’t complaint that instead of one thing I asked for
two things “Love and wisdom”.

I guess God will be this much liberal with me.:)

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: PiyaSoni on October 06, 2014, 01:07:55 AM
OM SAI RAM !!!

We are all gifted with a unique set of skills and abilities.
With those abilities we can make extra-ordinary things happen in the
world around us, or not. It is completely up to you whether you want
your life to make a difference and what difference you want your life.
How often have you been living life, happy and content, and then
suddenly life slaps you in the face with something unexpected?
We all have problems, and the truth of the matter is that problems
will never go away. They will just change form. A positive mind
anticipates happiness, joy, health and a successful outcome of
every situation and action.

Be Happy, Be Positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: PiyaSoni on October 10, 2014, 05:40:10 AM
OM SAI RAM !!!

Today is the day I quit worrying about what I don't
have and start being grateful for all the wonderful things SAI has
already given me. I'll remember that to worry is just a waste of
time because my faith in SAI and his Divine Plan ensures
everything will be just fine.

Be Happy, Be Positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: PiyaSoni on October 14, 2014, 12:55:08 AM
OM SAI RAM !!!

To  Improve the standard of Thoughts:

a) Avoid thinking about unnecessary things specially related to
    others. Mind your own business. Posses a focused mind.

b) Stop comparing yourself to others. It's an insult to yourself.
    You are a unique soul and you are independent on your living,
    your decisions and your destiny.

c) Don't think of monetary gains too much. Excessive love for
    money and assets is the root of most of stresses.

d) Develop the habit of forgiving and letting things go off. If you
    are keeping the grudge in your mind for longer duration, you 
    are killing yourself. Stress is a slow poison which deepens its 
    roots your brain and destroy your physical and mental health.

e) Read quality quotes or articles on positivity and try to absorb
    the message. This will kill the germs of negativity.

f) Practice the habit of gratitude. Stop complaining, criticizing and
   blaming. When a negative thought comes in, convert it to positive
   by looking at the positive side of the issue.

g) Instead of thinking about your 'wants' too much, think about your
    needs. This will reduce the magnitude of your focus because usually 
    needs are limited but wants are too many. Adapt simple life style as
    it reduces unnecessary socio-economical issues.

Be Happy, Be Positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on December 22, 2014, 06:04:41 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

To become lighter, to create happier events in your life, it is important to use
higher words and thoughts when you speak to yourself or others. Your thoughts
create reality; they go out into the world and affect other people. As you begin
thinking purer, kinder, and move loving thoughts, you will begin to change the
magnetism of your body and resonate with the higher planes of the universe.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on December 22, 2014, 06:06:27 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

As you grow and evolve, the words you speak and the thoughts you have about
others will have an increasing power to affect people. Your positive thoughts and
visions of people will lift them higher. Your criticism will depress their energy and
hold them back. Every thought and spoken word produces strong effects,
so it is important to learn to communicate in loving ways.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on December 23, 2014, 03:40:25 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

चाहतों के बीज ......

मैं शांत और पवित्र आत्मा हूँ।

मुझ पर इश्वर और गुरु की असीम कृपा है।

मेरे जीवन का उदेश्य स्पष्ट और शुद्ध है।

हर रोज मेरे भीतर शांति समभाव और समन्वय बढ़ रहा है।

मैं इश्वर के हाथों की एक श्रेष्ट रचना हूँ और मेरा उदेश्य अपनी रचनात्मक शक्तियों का विकास है।

मैं सेहत और दौलत को अपनी ओर खींचने वाला एक आध्यात्मिक चुम्बक हूँ।

अंदरूनी जगत से बाहय जगत का निर्माण होता है ...मेरे भीतर शांति और सुख है। मेरे चारों ओर सद्भाव और सुविधाएँ हैं।

मेरा उदेश्य शरीर और मन पर आत्मा का वर्चस्व स्थापित करना है।

मैं प्रेम पूर्ण और प्रचुरता के सिद्धांत पर यकीं करता हूँ।

मैं जीवन की हर घटना की जिम्मेदारी लेता हूँ और अब परिवर्तन के लिए वचन वद्ध हूँ।

मैं आरोग्यता को पैदा कर सकता हूँ क्यूंकि मैं हर घटना पर सकारात्मक प्रतिक्रिया करता हूँ।

मैं अपने भाग्य का निर्माता हूँ । मैं अपनी सोच बदल कर अपने बेहतरीन भविष्य को बना रहा हूँ।

मैंने जो चाहा उसे प्राप्त किया है और मैं जो भी अपने सम्पूर्ण अस्तित्व से चाहूँगा उसे प्राप्त कर लूँगा।

मैं शांत पवित्र समर्थ और योग्य हूँ।

जीवन की अनेकता में एकता को महसूस करना मेरा प्रयास है।

मैं स्थान देश और काल के प्रभाव से मुक्त हूँ।

सभी दिशाएं और ग्रह मेरे अनुकूल हैं।

मेरा जीवन प्राकृतिक और सौन्दर्य से भरपूर है।

मेरे जीवन का दर्शन है ---ईमानदारी सबसे बढ़िया नीति है।

मेरा पसंदीदा वाक्य है " जिओ और जीनो दो"

मैं विनम्रता को प्राण उर्जा मानता हूँ। हर रोज मेरी प्राण उर्जा बढ़ रही है।

सिद्ध गुरुओं की संजीवनी मेरे रोम रोम में बह रही है। मैं जीवन को पूर्णता के साथ जी रहा हूँ।

हर रोज मैं पहले से बेहतर हो रहा हूँ।

मैं चेतना के विकास की अंतिम अवस्था को प्राप्त करना चाहता हूँ।

मैं अनेकता में एकता को महसूस करना चाहता हूँ।

मैं मुक्त हूँ।

मैं बेहद भाग्य शाली हूँ

मैं स्वयं को प्रेम करता हूँ और खुद को पूरी तरह से स्वीकार करता हूँ।

मैं अतीत की तमाम स्मृतियों से मुक्त हूँ।

मैं भविष्य की हर चिंता से मुक्त हूँ।

मैं हर घटना का कारण हूँ और हर कारण से मेरी उन्नति हो रही है।

मेरे जीवन के हर क्षेत्र में ईश्वरीय कृपा बरस रही है।

मेरे पास वाकई एक अद्भुत मस्तिष्क है।

पवित्र ह्रदय और शांत चित है।

मैं हर कार्य का कारण हूँ इसलिए हर कार्य में मुझे सफलता प्राप्त होती है।

मैं एक विशाल ह्रदय का स्वामी हूँ

मेरी सोच व्यापक है।

मेरा भाव शुद्ध और मन निर्मल है।

मैं हर हाल में ख़ुशी को आदर्स शुत्र मानता हूँ।

मैं समभाव की ओर अग्रसर हूँ

मैं अनंत हूँ
अनंत का हूँ
अनंत को महसूस करना चाहता हूँ।

मेरी परम्परा मेरी देख रेख करती है।

मैं अभय की अवस्था में हूँ

मैं वर्तमान में हूँ ।मैं काल के प्रभाव से मुक्त हूँ।

मैं निष्काम प्रेम हूँ। मैं शाश्वत और अविनाशी हूँ।

सेवा मेरा चरित्र है

गुरु मेरी पूजा है और प्रेम मेरा जीवन

समर्पण मेरा आचरण है

मैं अद्वैत का अनुयायी हूँ।

मैं परम आनंद से भरपूर हूँ और प्रेम से छलक रहा हूँ

मैं अपने आदर्श स्वरुप में स्थित हूँ

मैं वाकई काफी खुबसूरत सा हूँ।



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Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on December 23, 2014, 03:41:04 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

How do you overcome guilt?

ANSWER:

Guilt is a powerful tool when we are willing to truly "SEE" ourselves.
It shows us how we don't want to behave anymore.
When we simply face our darkness, or the things we have done that have created harm,
and we choose to transcend those behaviors we are in a state of empowerment.
For we can not heal what we can not "SEE".

Denial keeps us in the pattern of recreation.
Once the lesson is learned, and we move beyond "reacting" and
start responding with a loving grounded energy, we will never have to
repeat the lesson again. In addition, accepting our selves right where
we are and deciding to LOVE our selves, and all of our imperfections,
will help us transcend them.

For when we love the self we are able to give love to everyone else.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!

Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: Gauri21 on December 23, 2014, 06:53:52 AM
ऊॅ साईं राम
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on December 24, 2014, 08:20:43 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

To discover more about the higher purposes of any relationship, ask yourself such questions as:

What have we come together to learn, to create, and to bring to the world?
What is this relationship teaching us?
What soul qualities are we developing(love,forgiveness,trust,acceptance)?
How is this relationship assisting us in growing stronger, more whole and complete within?

Ask your soul to show you what contribution you are making to this person's soul.
What are the most important gifts you are giving this person?
What are you teaching this person?
What are you learning from this person?
These are the reasons you are together from your soul's perspective.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on December 25, 2014, 03:00:15 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

Learn To Love Every Human Being and They Will Love You !!!

Have you ever thought in your life about movies as to make a movie
you need good light and to show that movie to people you need darkness.

Isn’t it amazing and funny?

When the movie shoot was going on, the cameraman simply asks for
better light and if the light is dim than he simply say that I can’t take picture.
But when they want to present movie in front of people they want pure darkness
in the theater, they turn off the lights. So what is most important for a movie?

Both darkness and light is important.

If you look on the coin, there are also two sides of the coin but
we love the coin because it helps to fulfill our needs on daily basis.

There are always two aspects in the life positive and negative,
it depends on us how we take things in our life. There is nothing bad
or negative in this life. And when you start loving every aspect of life
you will start enjoying things. Try to accept the people the way they are,
never ever force them to change the way you want them to see.

Set one thing in your mind forever if you want yourself to be loved by everyone.
Try to accept things the way they come in your life. Don’t be demanding
most of the times. Do not put conditions in front of people if you will do this
thing than I will do this thing for you. You will find different kind of people
some are with good values and some are with bad values. You cannot tell them
that I like this thing and I do not like this thing in you because some might like those
things in him/her, which you may not like.

So follow one mantra in your life to accept every human being the way they are.

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Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on December 26, 2014, 03:37:51 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

Sometime love just isn't enough. Sometimes we have to let go of something
that once meant the world to us. Not because we want to, but because
we have to. But life will keep going with or without them. Life doesn't stop for you,
or for anyone else. Life is life. It’s hard but there are those amazing moments
that make you who you are. Don’t sit around crying when you let someone go.
Someday you’ll be okay again.  Be strong.

Don’t make your life miserable by thinking about problems. Instead, always think
that in every problem there’s a solution and everything will be okay. Do what you
think is right. Take risks, try new things, laugh and live as if there’s no tomorrow.
For the next years of your life you’ll have no choice but to be more responsible.

Just when you feel like you cannot go on and all you want is to give up, fight a little
longer, hold on a little more hang on. you'll be fine, you're strong, you are brave!..
everything is going to be okay.

“God knows your value; He sees your potential. You may not understand everything
you are going through right now. But hold your head up high, knowing that God is
in control and he has a great plan and purpose for your life. No matter what you
go through in life, no matter how many disappointments you suffer, your value in
God’s eyes always remains the same. You will always be the apple of His eye.
He will never give up on you, so don’t give up on yourself.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!

Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on January 01, 2015, 04:58:10 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

You do not need to change other people; you can change your reaction to them.
When you choose to feel good you are not dependent on other people acting
in certain ways to make you feel good. Before you can attract people who will
support, appreciate, and acknowledge you, you must choose to do that
for yourself.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!

Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on January 01, 2015, 04:59:30 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

To create abundance, it is important to think in positive ways.
Positive emotions and thoughts draw what you want to you.
Negative emotions do not bring what you want; they bring only
what you don't want. Spend quiet, reflective time thinking positively
about what you want. When you do not think in higher ways,
dwelling on things such as problems, you repel abundance

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on January 02, 2015, 04:39:00 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

You are a worthy individual, no matter what your past, no matter
what your thoughts, no matter who believes in you. You are life itself,
growing and expanding and reaching upward. All people are valuable,
beautiful and unique. Every experience you have is meant to teach
 you more about creating love in your life.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!

Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on January 02, 2015, 04:40:22 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

Forgiving others does not mean that you need to do anything or
take any action. It is an attitude of love that does not judge or condemn.
Forgiving others does not mean condoning or approving of their behavior,
nor does it mean that you feel superior. Forgiving others releases the
negative energy within you, and frees you to love as your soul. Every time
you choose love, you are the winner. As you forgive others, your body grows
healthier, you feel better about yourself, and you have more energy
to put into yourself and your life.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!

Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on January 04, 2015, 04:44:28 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

Having inner peace means committing to letting go of self-criticism and self-doubt.
Everything other people say to you about yourself is a reflection of a voice within you.
 If you find people critical, first ask, is there a part of you that is criticizing yourself?
As you let go of that self-criticism, you will experience less criticism from others .

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!

Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on January 05, 2015, 03:43:50 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

People who serve others to the best of their ability have lives filled with
abundance and joy. Service means putting yourself in other people's shoes
and giving them the best you can, be they clients, employers, co-workers,
friends, or loved ones. When you show your best face to the world and come
from your highest level of integrity, you are serving others. You do not need
to be a leader or world famous, or to accomplish great deeds to make an
important contribution to humanity. If your work is done with intention,
consciousness, and love, you are giving the most valuable contribution
of all — you are adding light to the world.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!

Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on January 07, 2015, 04:39:20 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

How To Live & Die

I’ve often thought about what it is that makes people happy
what one has to do in order to achieve happiness.

1- First and foremost is good health.
If you do not enjoy good health, you can never be happy.
Any ailment, however trivial, will deduct something from your happiness.

2- Second, a healthy bank balance.
It need not run into crores, but it should be enough to provide for comforts,
and there should be something to spare for recreation—eating out,
going to the movies, travel and holidays in the hills or by the sea.
Shortage of money can be demoralising. Living on credit or borrowing
is demeaning and lowers one in one’s own eyes.

3- Third, your own home. Rented places can never give you the comfort
or security of a home that is yours for keeps. If it has garden space,
all the better. Plant your own trees and flowers, see them grow and
blossom, and cultivate a sense of kinship with them.

4- Fourth, an understanding companion, be it your spouse or a friend.
If you have too many misunderstandings, it robs you of your peace of
mind. It is better to be divorced than to be quarrelling all the time.

5- Fifth, stop envying those who have done better than you in life—risen
higher, made more money, or earned more fame. Envy can be corroding;
avoid comparing yourself with others.

6- Sixth, do not allow people to descend on you for gossip. By the time
you get rid of them, you will feel exhausted and poisoned by their gossip-mongering.

7- Seventh, cultivate a hobby or two that will fulfill you—gardening, reading,
writing, painting, playing or listening to music. Going to clubs or parties to
get free drinks, or to meet celebrities, is a criminal waste of time. It’s important
to concentrate on something that keeps you occupied meaningfully.

8- Eighth, every morning and evening devote 15 minutes to introspection.
In the mornings, 10 minutes should be spent in keeping the mind absolutely
still, and five listing the things you have to do that day. In the evenings,
five minutes should be set aside to keep the mind still and 10 to go over the
tasks you had intended to do.

9- Ninth, don’t lose your temper. Try not to be short-tempered, or vengeful.
Even when a friend has been rude, just move on.

10- Above all, when the time comes to go, one should go like a Person without
any regret or grievance against anyone.

Source: article by Late Khushwant Singh

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on January 10, 2015, 07:18:21 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

Do not worry at all about negative thoughts,
and do not try to control them.
All you have to do is begin to think
good thoughts each day.
Plant as many good thoughts
as you can in each day.
As you begin to think good thoughts
you will attract more good thoughts,
and eventually the good thoughts
will wipe out the negative thoughts altogether.

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HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on January 10, 2015, 07:21:46 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

No fear means emptiness

As long as there is a created personality, there will be fear at different levels.

Fear of what?

Fear of death.
Fear of losing a job,
Fear of losing a “loved one,”
Fear to be dismissed by the religious group,
Fear to be left alone,
Fear of people,
Fear of saying what is in your heart,
Fear of the system,
Fear of the tradition,
Fear of God,
Fear of the Devil,
Fear of life,
Fear of darkness,
Fear of ourselves…

All of those fears have the common denominator of our idea
of “losing something.”

As we “work” (realize/understand) with all of our fears,
then the possibility to discover emptiness appears;
and with that emptiness of personality comes the wholesomeness of life.

Fear free.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!


Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on January 17, 2015, 03:55:17 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

An outburst of anger is not the same as experiencing it.
It is not uncommon for people to not yell or scream yet hold a lot of anger within.
Sometimes, you feel so angry and frustrated that you don’t even want to lash out
for you know it won’t solve any purpose. You’ve tried it in the past and it didn’t help,
the other person did not change. For your own sanity, you don’t want to get mad
at someone or feel angry within. The toxic anger — the anger you keep within.

Toxic anger could be the result of past incidents or something you experience
in any relationship.

There are three ways, coping mechanisms if you will, to preserve your peace and
rid yourself of the pain and burden anger often brings. There may or may not be
philosophical or empirical truth to these methods. But, you can treat them as
affirmations to keep your calm. As follows:

1. I owe you

This is the most powerful of the three methods. Think of yourself as a customer
of a bank. You’ve taken out a personal loan and you are paying the installments.
The manager may change, the branch may relocate, the bank may be acquired
but the repayments will stand. You are expected to make payments till your final
breath or the final payment, whichever comes first.

The bottom line is: you must pay what you owe.

The person who is your partner today, could easily have been your parent,
sibling, friend, or even an enemy in your past life. They may have a different name
now, a new relationship or a different body, but there are some outstanding transactions.
In this affirmation, you simply have to think that you have some unfinished business
with this person. He or she is your creditor. In the process, you may cultivate detachment
and dispassion, you may emerge more spiritual, you may develop compassion or
you may even build a stronger personal relationship with your god. At any rate,
you will grow and evolve.

Someone I knew was quite sick. He was diagnosed with a terminal condition,
in fact. When everyone around him was panicking and crying, he said,
“Don’t worry. I must spend time in this hospital. I’ve unfinished business with the
doctor here from my previous life.”

Everyone became calm almost instantly.

2. I forgive you

This method requires great inner strength because it’s not easy to forgive.
People often say that I’ve forgiven the other person but they still keep anger in their hearts.
How do you know if you’ve truly forgiven them? Well, when their sight or their memories,
good or bad, trigger no sadness, anger or restlessness in you, it means you’ve completely
forgiven them. Saying I forgive you is not enough, we must feel it. And, a good way to
forgive is to remember that, one, you must pay back your loans, and two, you are bigger
 than their mistakes.

This leads me to the crux of this method:

Remind yourself that you are forgiving the other person because their conduct,
attitude or mistakes are not bigger than your existence. That you consciously choose
to emerge larger than their neglect. Say: “I forgive you because I want to free myself.
This is the only way I can close my account otherwise the books will remain open and
our pending transactions will be carried forward into the next life. I do not wish to
repay your loans. I set you free from making any more payments. I forgive you.”

3. I am the owner

This method is about incorporating the first two approaches in our way of life.
It is always remembering that we are responsible for the choices we make.
We are the owners of our life, our minds, our emotions.

A beautiful Buddhist sutra states:
“When you are annoyed with a person, concentrate on the ownership of deeds like this:
 ‘This good person is the owner of his deeds, his deeds are the womb from which
 he is born, his deeds are his kin for whom he is responsible, his deeds are his refuge,
he is heir to his deeds, be they good or bad.’ ”

It becomes easier to practice the first two methods when we see the other person
in the light above, independent of us. You are a customer and so is he. They are the
owners and inheritors of their deeds, we ours.

Mulla Nasrudin was having frequent episodes of anxiety attacks and became
a patient of hypertension as a result.

“The reports are fine,” the doctor said, “you should probably see a psychiatrist.”

“Psychiatrist?”

“Yes. Maybe you have a business or a family problem that’s causing these panic attacks.
Just a few weeks ago, I had a similar case. The patient was worried about
a $20,000 loan and had a nervous breakdown.”

“How did you cure him?” Mulla asked.

“I told him to declare bankruptcy and that life was too short to be wasted over a loan,”
 the doctor said. “He’s enjoying perfect health now and has completely stopped worrying.”

“I know,” Mulla said. “He has not only stopped worrying, he has also stopped picking
up his phone. I’m the man whom he owes the 20,000.”

Life is a seesaw, you know. Sometimes you are at the receiving end and other times
giving. You go through your ups and downs, highs and lows, but, either way,
to come off the swing, without hurting yourself or the other person,
you have to bring it in the balanced position.

We must repay our loans. Everyone owes someone.
If you want to close the books,
relieve them from their debts and set them free.
Nature will write off your borrowings too in return.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on January 18, 2015, 07:10:42 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

If you go through the Buddhist Teachings that says if you want to live than
you should experience suffering in your life. Throughout the whole life
you must have to pass through various processes like illness, sickness, injury,
tiredness, accidents and old age. These all are outer sufferings there are
some kind of internal sufferings such as loneliness, fear, embarrassment,
doubt, anger and jealousy, but these sufferings are difficult to accept.
When we are not happy and feeling upset than we get impatient and want
to get rid of these kind of unpleasant things in the life.

Many personal problems arise when we want something in our life from very
deep of our heart and we get something else, which is not of our choice.
When such things happen in our life than we get frustrated. Similarly, in the
case of expectations when we expect something from our parents, siblings,
friends or from our loved ones and those expectations does not get met than
we feel let down and disappointed. In this way there are so many things
we face in our life, which keep on suffering us from within.

The biggest reason behind all this is that we always think about the things
happened in the past and about our  future. Past we cannot change and
Future we cannot expect to be like that only? So what we have right now is
present and we should live in present moment if life, we should enjoy every
moment in the current time period rather than thinking about past and future.

So the mantra behind this is that we should live our life focusing on what
we have right now with us rather than focusing on what we do not have in
our life. In this way you will get satisfaction and happiness in your life and
you will not look for something different.

(found on the net ................. sharing )

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on January 19, 2015, 12:31:15 PM
OM SAI RAM!!!

How to be connected to the faith?

Trying to connect to the faith is trying to connect to the air around you.
‘I want to be connected to the air.’ 
you can’t be but! You are already connected.
Relax.
Why do you try to connect to air?
Are you getting what I am saying?
Doubt as much as you can.
I would say, you should doubt as much as you can.
A point comes when you no longer can doubt, the truth will stand up.
Truth can never be destroyed by doubt.
Truth will stand.
Doubt can cover it, delay it for some time, drag on for some time,
but it can never destroy the truth.
Therefore, when people have doubts,
I say, ‘doubt as much as you can.
One day those doubts will fall off.’
If you are lucky, it will fall off immediately the way it comes.
Unlucky ones hang on to it for a little longer time.
That’s all.
Unlucky ones will carry the garbage on their back for some long distance.
Lucky ones know that they carry garbage and throw it right there.
Two steps, and they drop their garbage.

(found on the net ................. sharing )

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!

Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on January 20, 2015, 11:04:28 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

What is Life?

Often when you are happy you feel life is a dream because
you do not believe in the reality of it.

When there is misery you feel life as a burden.

And we take trivial things very seriously.

But one who has really gone through the pleasure realizes
that pleasure is a burden.

And if you have undergone misery thoroughly
you will realize that life is a dream.

In every miserable condition you have been walked or carried
through and you realize life is a dream. When you see life is dream
a burden or a joke only then can you be centered.

And when you have really gone through misery you have
really seen life as a dream. And in between the pain and
pleasure life is all a joke.

Life is very uncertain. Before it takes you away, realize it is
a dream, a burden or a joke.

Someone asked: What about life is a joke?

Answer: A joke you do not question. If you question a joke,
it is no longer a joke. Do not question a burden either.
It is a waste of time to question life and its events.

The burden makes you go deep.
It gets you to the core of yourself.
Realization of a dream wakes you up.
And seeing life as a joke makes you light.

The only certainty is that life is a dream, a burden or a joke
and only when you realize this can you be centered.

(found on the net ................. sharing )

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on January 30, 2015, 04:02:13 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

You must deal with the world the way it is,
not the way you wish it was.
Think positive.
Life is good.
Too many people miss the silver lining because they’re expecting pure gold.
Positive thinking isn't about expecting the best to always happen,
but accepting that whatever happens is the best for the moment.
So keep smiling and keep following your heart.
Someday, life will get tired of upsetting you.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!

Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on January 30, 2015, 04:21:51 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

Human life is built on trust.

Whether it is the relationship between parents and child, man
and woman, friends or relatives or thy neighbors, he who trusts
others lives a peaceful life because, if you do not place trust on others,
your life will be in trouble.

Basically, you should trust your own self and it takes years to build up a
trust but just one second to destroy it. Trusting a person and then becoming
suspicious of it, is like throwing stones while staying in glass house.

Trust is like a kind of mirror and once you feel a scar in it, it will never be
the same again. So, trust is essential in any kind of relationship.

Distrust is like a drop of ink in a blotting paper. The majority of white color
will not be visible; only the drop of ink will be visible.

So, think not twice, but many times before you sow the seed of distrust.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on February 09, 2015, 05:06:32 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

If you are feeling sad, disappointed, frustrated, or any negative feeling,
then you are looking at the world through that feeling field, and the world
will look sad, disappointing, or frustrating to you. You cannot see anything
good through a field of bad feelings. Change your feelings and the outside
circumstances will change!

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!

Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on February 09, 2015, 05:07:31 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

As you defend against something in your life,
you are bringing the very thing you don't want to you.
Defending is focusing on the problem,
and defending attracts more defending.
Instead, be creative and focus all your energy on the outcome you want.
Creating is focusing on the solutions

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!

Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on February 10, 2015, 07:26:25 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

Forgive yourself, you are a human

“To err is human, to forgive divine.” You might as well insert the word “yourself”
into this all-so-true observation about being human.

Let’s face it. We are human, and to be human means you’re going to make errors,
at least some of the time. You’re going to make plenty of mistakes, mess up from
time to time, lose your way, forget things, lose your temper, say things
you shouldn’t have, and all the rest.

I have never understood why this simple fact of life – our tendency to make
mistakes – is so surprising or disappointing to people.

To me, one of the saddest mistakes we make is a lack of forgiveness, especially
to ourselves. We constantly remind ourselves of our flaws and previous mistakes.
We anticipate future mistakes. We’re highly critical of ourselves, frequently
disappointed, and ruthless in our self-judgment. We blame ourselves,
and often we’re our own worst enemy.

It seems to me that to be unforgiving of yourself is foolish and ridiculous.
Most of us are doing the best that we can – really. But we’re not perfect.
The truth is, we’re a work-in-progress.

We should learn from our mistakes and from stumbling and
keep moving ahead in life.

Sharing is caring!

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!

Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on February 10, 2015, 07:32:09 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

What we value ?

A nice example and great moral.

Let us apply this principle and cherish.

“I had known a friend of mine who used to say that he misplaces and
loses his pen very often. He will use only very cheap pens so that
he need not worry about losing them.

He was worried about carelessness habit.

I suggested to him to buy the costliest pen he could afford
and see what happens.

He did that and purchased a 22 carat Cross pen.

After nearly six months I met him and asked him if he continues to misplace his pen.

He said that he is very careful about his costly pen
and he is surprised how he has changed!

I explained to him that the value of the pen made the difference
and there was nothing wrong with him as a person!

This is what happens in our life.

We are careful with things which we value most.

* If we value our health, we will be careful about what and how we eat;

* If we value our friends, we will treat them with respect;

* If we value money, we will be careful while spending;

* If we value our time, we will not waste it.

* If we value relationship we will not break it.

Carefulness is a basic trait all of us have, we know when to be careful!

Carelessness only shows what we don't value......”

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!


Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on February 24, 2015, 04:29:05 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

याद रखें ये बातें, जिंदगी में नहीं आएगी गम की छाया :

जीवन को खुशनुमा बनाने के लिए सकारात्मक सोच होना बेहद जरूरी है।
सकारात्मक सोच के साथ अगर सकारात्मक प्रतिज्ञाओं को भी हम अपनी
दिनचर्या का हिस्सा बना लें तो जीवन में सुखद परिवर्तन संभव है।
कोई भी दो-तीन सकारात्मक प्रतिज्ञाओं को लगातार कम से कम तीन सप्ताह
तक दोहराएं तो इसका चमत्कार खुद ही महसूस होने लगेगा।
ध्यान रखें कि इन्हें दोहराते समय मन में कोई भी नकारात्मक सोच नहीं होनी चाहिए
और मन पूरी तरह से रिलेक्स भी होना चाहिए। इन्हें दोहराते समय इस बात का
भी पूरा विश्वास रखें कि एक दिन मेरी प्रतिज्ञाएं जरूर सच होंगी।

- मैंने जीवन में आगे बढऩे का मजबूत निश्चय किया है,
  मुझे आगे बढऩे से कोई नहीं रोक सकता है।
  अन्य लोगों की विशेषताओं एवं सफलता से मुझे अपने जीवन में
  और अच्छा करने की प्रेरणा मिलती है।

- मैं अपनी चिंताओं और कमियों को दूर रखने का सामथ्र्य रखता हूं।
  मैं हमेशा सकारात्मक एवं साहस पूर्ण जीवन जीना चाहता हूं।
  मैं अपनी आत्मा की आवाज सुनकर ही अपना काम करता हूं।

- मैं अपने जीवन में बहुत खुश हूं, मेरा हर दिन बेहतर से बेहतर होता जा रहा है।
  मेरा मन बहुत शांत है, मैं प्रतिदिन ध्यान (मेडीटेशन) करता हूं।
  मेडीटेशन करने से मेरा मन और भी शांत हो जाता है।

- मेरे विचार और मेरी भावनाएं मेरे नियंत्रण में रहते हंै।
  मेरे मन में केवल सकारात्मक विचार ही आते हैं।
  मैं हर व्यक्ति में उनके सकारात्मक पक्ष को ही देखता हूं,
  वे जैसे हैं उन्हें उसी रूप में स्वीकार भी करता हूं।

- मैं अपने गुस्से का सकारात्मक प्रयोग करता हूं।
  मेरे मन के सभी विकार सकारात्मकता में बदलते जा रहे हैं।
  मेरे अंदर जीवन का हर दुख सहने की अपार क्षमता है।

- ईश्वर की बनाई हुई प्रकृति बहुत खूबसूरत है।
  इससे मुझे हर परिस्थिति में कुछ न कुछ सीखने को मिलता है।

- मुझे परमपिता परमात्मा पर पूरा विश्वास है और मैं मानता हूं कि
  मेरे साथ जो भी होता है वह मेरे अच्छे के लिए ही होता है।

- मेरी आंतरिक शक्तियां एवं आत्मविश्वास मुझे मेरी हर समस्या को
  सुलझाने की शक्ति प्रदान करती है। कठिन परिस्थितियों में मेरा धैर्य और बढ़ जाता है।

- हर परिस्थिति मेरे लिए एक चुनौती है और इसका सामना करना मुझे बहुत पसंद है।
  मैं परिस्थितियों को गहराई से समझ कर अपनी कार्ययोजना बनाकर कार्य
  एवं कर्तव्य का निष्पादन करता हूं।

- मैं न तो कभी किसी से कोई अपेक्षा रखता हूं और न ही किसी की उपेक्षा करता हूं।
  मैं रोज व्यायाम करता हूं, जिससे खुद को तरोताजा अनुभव करता हूं।

- खाली समय मैं मित्रों और परिवार के साथ व्यतीत करता हूं।
  मैं प्यार बांटने और प्यार पाने में विश्वास रखता हूं।

- मैं अपनी पुरानी गलतियों से सीखता हूं, उनके लिए खुद को माफ कर चुका हूं।

- खुशी मेरा जन्म सिद्ध अधिकार है और जीवन के प्रति बहुत आशावादी हूं।
  मैं अपने जीवन में जो भी करता हूं, योग्यता अनुसार सर्वश्रेष्ठ ही करता हूं।


Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!


Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on February 27, 2015, 06:02:18 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!


Nice article in Hinglish (Hindi+English)  :) worth reading  found on the net, so, sharing....

The 7 Habits of Happy People
खुश रहने वाले लोगों की 7 आदतें

Friends, खुश रहना मनुष्य का जन्मजात स्वाभाव होता है .
आखिर एक छोटा बच्चा अक्सर खुश क्यों रहता है ?
क्यों हम कहते हैं कि childhood days life के best days होते हैं ?
क्योंकि हम पैदाईशी HAPPY होते हैं ;
पर जैसे -जैसे हम बड़े होते हैं हमारा environment,
हमरा समाज हमारे अन्दर impurity घोलना शुरू कर देता है ….
और धीरे -धीरे impurity का level इतना बढ़ जाता है कि
happiness का natural state sadness के
natural state में बदलने लगता है .

Habit 1: खुश रहने वाले अच्छाई खोजते हैं बुराई नहीं :

Human beings की natural tendency होती है कि वो negativity को जल्दी
catch करते हैं . Psychologists इस tendency को “Negativity bias” कहते हैं .
अधिकतर लोग दूसरों में जो कमी होती है उसे जल्दी देख लेते हैं और अच्छाई की तरफ उतना
ध्यान नहीं देते पर खुश रहने वाले तो हर एक चीज में , हर एक situation में अच्छाई खोजते हैं ,
वो ये मानते हैं कि जो होता है अच्छा होता है . किसी भी व्यक्ति में अच्छाई देखना बहुत आसान है ,
बस आपको खुद से एक प्रश्न करना है , कि , “ आखिर क्यों यह व्यक्ति अच्छा है ?” , और यकीन
जानिये आपका मस्तिष्क आपको ऐसी कई अनुभव और बातें गिना देगा की आप
उस व्यक्ति में अच्छाई दिखने लगेगी .

एक बात और , आपको अच्छाई सिर्फ लोगों में ही नहीं खोजनी है , बल्कि हर एक situation में
आपको positive रहना है और उसमे क्या अच्छा है ये देखना है . For example ,
अगर आप किसी job interview में select नहीं हुए तो आपको ये सोचना चाहिए कि शायद
भागवान ने आपके लिए उससे भी अच्छी job रखी है जो आपको देर-सबेर मिलेगी, और
आप किसी अनुभवी व्यक्ति से पूछ भी सकते हैं, वो भी आपको यही बताएगा .

Habit 2: खुश रहने वाले माफ़ करना जानते हैं और माफ़ी माँगना भी :

हर किसी का अपना -अपना ego होता है , जो जाने -अनजाने औरों द्वारा hurt हो सकता है .
पर खुश रहने वाले छोटी -मोती बातों को दिल से नहीं लगाते वो माफ़ करना जानते हैं ,
सिर्फ दूसरों को नहीं बल्कि खुद को भी .

और इसके उलट यदि ऐसे लोगों से कोई गलती हो जाती है , तो वो माफ़ी मांगने से भी नहीं कतराते .
वो जानते हैं कि व्यर्थ का ego उनकी life को complex बनाएगा इसलिए वो “Sorry”
बोलने में कभी कंजूसी नहीं करते . मुझसे भी जब गलती होती है तो मैं कभी उसे सही ठहराने की
कोशिश नहीं करता और उसे स्वीकार कर के क्षमा मांग लेता हूँ .

माफ़ करना और माफ़ी माँगना आपके दिमाग को हल्का करता है , आपको बेकार की उलझन
और परेशान करने वाली thoughts से बचाता है , और as a result आप खुश रहते हैं .

Habit 3: खुश रहने वाले लोग अपने चारो तरफ एक strong support
system develop करते हैं :

ये support system दो pillars पे टिका होता है Family and Friends( F&F).
 ज़िन्दगी में खुश रहने के लिए F&F का बहुत बड़ा योगदान होता है . भले आपके पास
दुनिया भर की दौलत हो , शोहरत हो लेकिन अगर F&F नहीं है तो आप ज्यादा समय
तक खुश नहीं रह पायेंगे .

हो सकता है ये आपको बड़ी obvious सी बात लगे , ये लगे की आपके पास भी बड़े अच्छे दोस्त हैं
और बहुत प्यार करने वाला परिवार है , लेकिन इस पर थोडा गंभीरता से सोचिये . आपके पास
ऐसे कितने friends हैं , जिन्हें आप बिना किसी झिझक के रात के 3 बजे भी phone कर के
उठा सकें या कभी भी financial help ले सकें?

Family and friends को कभी भी for granted नहीं लेना चाहिए , एक strong
relationship बनाने के लिए आपको अपने हितों से ऊपर उठ कर देखना होता है . , दूसरे की
care करनी होती है , और उन्हें genuinely like करना होता है . जितना हो सके अपने
रिश्तों को बेहतर बनाएं , छोटी -छोटी चीजें जैसे कि Birthday wish करना, बधाई देना ,
सच्ची प्रशंशा करना , मुस्कुराते हुए मिलना , गर्मजोशी से हाथ मिलाना , गले लगना आपके
संबंधों को प्रगाढ़ बनता है . और जब आप ऐसा करते हैं तो बदले में आपको भी वही मिलता है
और आपकी ज़िन्दगी को खुशहाल बनाता है .

Habit 4: खुश रहने वाले अपने मन का काम करते हैं या जो काम
करते हैं उसमे मन लगाते हैं :

यदि आप अपने interest का, अपने मन का काम करते हैं तो definitely वो आपके
Happiness Quotient को बढ़ाएगा , लेकिन ज्यादातर लोग इतने lucky नहीं होते ,
उन्हें ऐसी job या business में लगना पड़ता है जो उनके interest के हिसाब से नहीं होतीं .
पर खुश रहने वाले लोग जो काम करते हैं उसी में अपना मन लगा लेते हैं , भले ही parallely
वो अपना पसंदीदा काम पाने का प्रयास करते रहे .

मैंने कई बार लोगों को जहाँ job करते हैं उस company की बुराई करते सुना है ,
अपने काम को दुनिया का सबसे बेकार काम कहते सुना है , ऐसा करना आपकी life को
और भी difficult बनता है . खुश रहने वाले अपने काम की बुराई नहीं करते , वो उसके सकारात्मक
पहलुओं पर focus करते हैं और उसे enjoy करते हैं .

मगर , यहाँ मैं यह ज़रूर कहना चाहूँगा कि यदि हम दुनिया के सबसे खुशहाल लोगों को देखें
तो वो वही लोग होंगे जो अपने मन का काम करते हैं , इसलिए यदि आप जो कर रहे हैं उसे
enjoy करना , उससे सीखना अच्छी बात है पर Steve Jobs की कही बात भी याद रखिये:
“आपका काम आपकी जिंदगी का एक बड़ा हिस्सा होगा, और truly-satisfied होने का
एक ही तरीका है की आप वो करें जिसे आप सच-मुच एक बड़ा काम समझते हों…और
बड़ा काम करने का एक ही तरीका है की आप वो करें जो करना आप enjoy करते हों.”

Habit 5: खुश रहने वाले हर उस बात पर यकीन नहीं करते
जो उनके दिमाग में आती हैं :

Scientists के अनुसार हमारा brain हर रोज़ 60,000 thoughts produce करता है ,
और एक आम आदमी के case में इनमे से अधिकतर thoughts negative होती हैं .
अगर आप daily अपने brain को हज़ारों negative thoughts से feed करेंगे तो खुश रहना
तो मुश्किल होगा ही . इसलिए खुश रहने वाले व्यक्ति दिमाग में आ रहे बुरे विचारों को अधिक देर
तक पनपने नहीं देते . वो benefit of doubt देना जानते हैं , वो जानते हैं कि हो सकता है
जो वो सोच रहे हैं वो गलत हो , जिसे वो बुरा समझ रहे हैं वो अच्छा हो . ऐसा कर के इंसान relax
हो जाता है , दरअसल हमारी सोच के हिसाब से brain में ऐसे chemical release होते हैं
जो हमारे मूड को खुश या दुखी करते हैं .

जब आप नकारात्मक विचारों को सच मान लेते हैं तो आप का blood pressure बढ़ने लगता है
और आप tensionize हो जाते हैं , वहीँ दूसरी तरफ जब आप उस पर doubt कर देते हैं तो
आप अनजाने में ही brain को relaxed रहने का signal दे देते हैं .

Habit 6: खुश रहने वाले व्यक्ति अपने जीवन या काम को किसी बड़े
उद्देश्य से जोड़ कर देखते हैं :-

एक बार एक बूढी औरत कहीं से आ रही थी कि तभी उसने तीन मजदूरों को कोई ईमारत बनाते देखा .
उसने पहले मजदूर से पूछा ,” तुम क्या कर रहे हो ?”, “ देखती नहीं मैं ईंटे ढो रहा हूँ .” उसने जवाब दिया .

फिर वो दुसरे मजदूर के पास गयी और उससे भी वही प्रश्न किया ,” तुम क्या कर रहे हो ?” ,
” मैं अपने परिवार का पेट पालने के लिए मेहनत – मजदूरी कर रहा हूँ ?’ उत्तर आया .

फिर वह तीसरे मजदूर के पास गयी और पुनः वही प्रश्न किया ,” तुम क्या कर रहे हो ?,
उस व्यक्ति ने उत्साह के साथ उत्तर दिया , “ मैं इस शहर का सबसे भव्य मंदिर बना रहा हूँ ”

आप अंदाजा लगा सकते हैं कि इन तीनों में से कौन सबसे अधिक खुश होगा!
दोस्तों, इस मजदूर की तरह ही खुश रहने वाले व्यक्ति अपने काम को किसी बड़े
उद्देश्य से जोड़ कर देखते हैं

Habit 7: खुश रहने वाले व्यक्ति अपनी life में होने वाली चीजों के
लिए खुद को जिम्मेदार मानते हैं :

खुश रहने वाले व्यक्ति responsibility लेना जानते हैं . अगर उनके साथ कुछ बुरा होता है तो वो इसका
blame दूसरों पर नहीं लगाते , बल्कि खुद को इसके लिए जिम्मेदार मानते हैं .For example:
अगर वो office के लिए late होते हैं तो traffic jam को नहीं कोसते बल्कि ये सोचते हैं कि
थोडा पहले निकलना चाहिए था .

अपनी success का credit दूसरों को भले दे दें लेकिन अपनी failure के लिए खुद को ही जिम्मेदार मानें .
जब आप अपने साथ होने वाली बुरी चीजों के लिए दूसरों को दोष देते हैं तो आपके अन्दर क्रोध आता है ,
पर जब आप खुद को जिम्मेदार मान लेते हैं तो आप थोडा disappoint होते हैं और फिर चीजों को
सही करने के प्रयास में जुट जाते हैं . मैं खुद भी अपनी life में होने वाली हर एक अच्छी – बुरी चीज
के लिए खुद को जिम्मेदार मानता हूँ . ऐसा करने से मेरी energy दूसरों में fault खोजने की
जगह खुद को improve करने में लगती है , और ultimately मेरी happiness को बढाती है .

Friends, हो सकता है आप इनमे से कुछ बातों को already follow करते हों partially या
शायद पूरी तरह से . पर यदि किसी भी Habit में खुद को थोडा सा भी improve करेंगे तो वो
definitely आपकी happiness को बढ़ाएगा . Personally मुझे Habit 2 में माफ़ करने वाले
part को improve करना है . तो चलिए हम सब साथ -साथ अपने Happiness Quotient को
बढ़ाते हैं और एक खुशहाल जीवन जीने का प्रयास करते हैं .

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Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on March 01, 2015, 06:08:34 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

Purity in Heart and Clarity in Mind

When the mind is not clear and the heart is full of hatred,
then your actions lead you to disaster. We need to maintain
a pure heart; the way nature made us. If you maintain purity
in the heart, then clarity in the mind comes, and actions
 become more harmonious, pleasant, and constructive,
and you spread happiness.

Now, how to purify the heart? Purity comes through breathing
practices and meditation. With this, all the tension goes away
and our heart gets back to the original state, that it came to
this world with. With pranayama and meditation, then the
mind also becomes clear. We have all experienced clarity in
our mind at some time or the other, where you know exactly
what you want, and what to do, isn't it?

Here again, there are two types of people:

One type are very sensitive, and the other are very sensible.
People who are very sensible, very logical, very clear in their
 mind, they cannot stand imperfections. They get angry
very fast. But in life, sensibility alone will not do. You need
to be sensitive as well.

People who are very sensitive, they start crying at the drop
of a hat. They get hurt very fast. They cannot stand criticism,
and they cannot stand anything that they don’t like also;
they get thrown off balance. They get into an emotional mess,
and create a mess for everybody.

So in life, both are needed. A balance between sensitivity
and sensibility; value of the heart and value of the mind.

So, when mistakes happens, see it as a happening.
Through whom it happened is secondary. If you adopt this
approach, it makes you very centered, and you feel connected
with everybody. The mind becomes free from anger, jealousy,
greed, and all these negative imperfections.


Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on March 03, 2015, 11:09:54 AM
OM SAI RAM!!!

Your Breath Comes .. To Go.
Your Thoughts Come .. To Go.
Your Words Come .. To Go.
Your Actions Come .. To Go.
Your Feelings Come .. To Go.
Your  Illnesses Come .. To Go.
Your  Phases Come .. To Go.
Your Seasons Come ..To Go.
Your Have Come .. To Go.

Then Why Do We Hold our Guilt, Anger,
Un-forgiveness, Hatred So So So Tightly,
When It Too Has Come .. To Go.

L E T............. I T.............  G O.............


Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on April 06, 2015, 03:37:40 PM

OM SAI RAM!!!

Everything in life happens for a reason!

Everything in life happens for a reason.
Nothing happens by chance or by means of good or bad luck.

Sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible, painful,
and unfairat first, but in reflection you find that without overcoming
those obstacles you would have never realised your potential, strength,
willpower, or heart.

Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness, and sheer stupidity
all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests,
whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight,
flat road to nowhere. It would be safe and comfortable, but dull and
utterly pointless.

The people you meet who affect your life, and the success and downfalls
you experience, help to create who you are and who you become.

Even the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact, they are probably
the most poignant and important ones.

If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them,
for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious
when you open your heart.

If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they
love you, but because in a way, they are teaching you to love and how to
open your heart and eyes to things.

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were
meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or to
help you figure out who you are or who you want to become.

You never know who these people may be, your neighbour, your co- worker,
a long lost friend, or a complete stranger. When you lock eyes with them, you
know at that very moment they will affect your life in some profound way.

Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from those moments
everything that you possibly can for you may never be able to experience it
again. Talk to people that you have never talked to before, and actually
listen.

Allow yourself to laugh, play, dance, sing; and set your sights high. Hold
your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great
individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, it
will be hard for others to believe in you.

If you love someone tell him or her, for you never know what tomorrow may
have in store. Learn a lesson in life each day that you live.

Most importantly give a prayer of thanks daily to our beloved SAI for
His never ending Love & Grace.

With Him by our sides, we can make anythingof our lives as we wish.
So let us create our lives and then go out and live it with absolutely no regrets.

That's the Story of Life.


Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on April 27, 2015, 10:26:48 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

I have learned in life to be happy regardless of life circumstances

I have learned in life to be humble in greatness

I have learned in life to respect everyone and not to look down upon others

I have learned in life that time changes;
the weak can be strong and the strong can be the weak

I have learned in life that a single day to wake up
after a night sleep in good strength is the richest day in life

I have learned in life that words can be a blessing and a curse

I have learned in life to be content but not to be a mediocre

I have learned in life to take my time but be poised to dare

I have learned in life that the river we use is the river that can use us

I have learned in life that the rich are rich because the poor are poor

I have learned in life that regardless of how rich you are,
you need free air to live freely

I have learned in life that taking the lead doesn't
mean being the champion

I have learned in life that every one is a prey to someone

I have learned in life that we all do answer the same life questions

I have learned in life that when you skip one life question,
you will answer another life question

I have learned in life that the old can be the young
and the young can be the old

I have learned in life that what you spend is what someone receives

I have learned in life that problems are there
because people have created them

I have learned in life that the seeds we sow are the fruits we eat

I have learned in life that the same things that amuses us are
the same things that can annoy us

I have learned in life that today is tomorrow and tomorrow is today

I have learned in life to be simple but complex

I have learned in life that hard work without wisdom is
an effort in futility

I have learned in life that the tongues that hail are the
tongues that abuse

I have learned in life that prayer and faith can work greatly
without great works

I have learned in life that the end is much more
important than the beginning
 
I have learned in life to ponder to wonder


Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on April 28, 2015, 06:24:12 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

Surrender means silence, in-depth complete silence- one who has surrendered,
does not question anything, as such person realizes that life is happening
as per MIGHTY WILL.

So such person does not even pray for anything-Not even to change ONESELF
according to time & situation. Time & situation looses relevance for such person.

The best way is out to praying to BABA- Babaji please make us surrender
at your mighty will, Once such surrender happens, everything else will disappear.
No stress, No ambiguity, No rat race- Just calmness, serenity, watchful silence.

Now if we look at- Do we have much control on our lives?

A person who have got the grace of SAI & surrender happened ( Surrender can
happen only by HIS GRACE), such person is living like swimming in the direction of
flowing water current. Blissful, Sat-Chit-Ananad.

People like us who are still striving for HIS Grace- we live like swimming opposite
the direction of flow of water- tired, out of breath. We know complaining wont
change things, but we still complain.

Karma is very strong- Ever thought who was this mighty person who was the reason
for Krishna's death, the person who shot Krishna with an arrow thinking of a deer?

This was Bali to whom Shri Ram (last incarnation of Divine) shot in disguise. Now if Krishna,
the avatar had to pay off karma, who we are to oppose our OWN DOING?

Let us pray together to SAI, Please make us surrender at your lotus feet, if we continuously
pray we will strong enough to bear our own karmic actions. SAI grace can also lessen
the severity of karmas.


Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on May 19, 2015, 06:13:22 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

You can't stop negative thoughts by wishing they would go away,
pushing against them, or feeling bad about having negative thoughts.
Any focus on negative thoughts gives energy to them and increases
them! Your mind has to be set on positive thoughts and good thoughts
because then you're giving energy to that. It's just a matter of practice
and determination so that if you find negative thoughts creeping into
your mind, immediately turn your focus to positive and good thoughts.
And deliberately think them until you feel better!


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Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on June 09, 2015, 05:07:42 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

PRINCIPLES OF KARMA 

There was once a man who got lost in the desert. The water in his canteen ran out
two days ago, and he was on his last legs. He knew that if he didn't get some
water soon, he would surely perish. The man saw a shack ahead of him. He thought
it might be a mirage or hallucination, but having no other option, he moved toward it.
As he got closer he realized it was quite real, so he dragged his weary body to the
door with the last of his strength.
 
The shack was not occupied and seemed like it had been abandoned for quite
some time. The man gained entrance, hoping against hope that he might find
water inside.
   
His heart skipped a beat when he saw what was in the shack: a water pump..
It had a pipe going down through the floor, perhaps tapping a source of water
deep under-ground.
 
He began working the pump, but no water came out. He kept at it and still
nothing happened. Finally he gave up from exhaustion and frustration. He threw
up his hands in despair. It looked as if he was going to die after all.
 
Then the man noticed a bottle in one corner of the shack. It was filled with water
and corked up to prevent evaporation.
 
He uncorked the bottle and was about to gulp down the sweet life-giving water
when he noticed a piece of paper attached to it. Handwriting on the paper read:
"Use this water to start the pump. Don't forget to fill the bottle when you're done."
 
He had a dilemma. He could follow the instruction and pour the water into the pump,
or he could ignore it and just drink the water.
 
What to do?
If he let the water go into the pump, what assurance did he have that it would work?
What if the pump malfunctioned?
What if the pipe had a leak?
What if the underground reservoir had long dried up?
 
But then...

maybe the instruction was correct. Should he risk it?
If it turned out to be false, he would be throwing away the last water he would ever see.
 
Hands trembling, he poured the water into the pump. Then he closed his eyes,
said a prayer, and started working the pump.
 
He heard a gurgling sound, and then water came gushing out, more than he
could possibly use. He luxuriated in the cool and refreshing stream.
He was going to live!
 
After drinking his fill and feeling much better, he looked around the shack.
He found a pencil and a map of the region. The map showed that he was still far
away from civilization, but at least now he knew where he was and which
direction to go.
 
He filled his canteen for the journey ahead. He also filled the bottle and put the
cork back in. Before leaving the shack, he added his own writing below the instruction:
 "Believe me, it works!"
 
This story is all about life. It teaches us that we must give before we can receive
abundantly. More importantly, it also teaches that faith plays an important role in giving.
The man did not know if his action would be rewarded, but he proceeded regardless.
Without knowing what to expect, he made a leap of faith.
 
Water in this story represents the good things in life. Think of it as positive energy,
or something that brings a smile to your face. It can be material objects or intangible
qualities. It can represent money, love, friendship, happiness, respect, or any number
of other things you value. Whatever it is that you would like to get out of life,
that's water.
 
The water pump represents the workings of the karmic mechanism. Give it some
water to work with, and it will return far more than you put in. This mechanism
traces a great circle, an unbroken path that eventually comes back  to its point of
origin. The energy of this circulation gathers power as it moves along, so that
when it finally returns, it is greatly amplified.
 
Perhaps you have done a good deed that no one knows about, so you assume
there will not be an effect associated with this particular cause. In reality, you have
but initiated the karmic mechanism in the spiritual realm. You cannot see it, but
it is there all the same, and it begins gathering energy and seeking its way back
to you immediately.
 
As we have already noted from the story, the man filled the pump without knowing
if his effort would be rewarded. In the same way, when we emulate and nurture others,
we also act without expecting rewards of any sort.
 
This principle applies to everything, not just money. For instance, in order to win the
respect of others, one must start by giving others the appropriate respect without
quibbles or qualms.
 
Would you like more recognition for the work that you do? If so, then start by recognizing
the achievements of everyone around you. When you truly accept that others are deserving
of recognition, their esteem for you will increase as if by magic.
 
Would you like to have more friendship in your life? If so, then start by being friendly.
Do not expect anything in return, and you'll be pleasantly surprised by the flood of goodwill
and friendliness that comes your way.
 
Would you like people to see beauty in you? If so, then start noticing beauty in others.
It's easy to see when you pay attention. Everyone around you has an intrinsic beauty
that goes well beyond the physical. When you can see this and start to appreciate it
and marvel at it, a transformation takes place: You become truly beautiful yourself.
 
In general, whatever goodness you want from life, give it to others first. Give it
cheerfully and willingly, without calculating your gain versus loss as if you are working
a balance sheet. Initiate the circular exchange and relax in the certain knowledge that
no one ever gets short changed.
 
Think of planting flower seeds in a garden as a metaphor for the karmic mechanism.
Each seed you plant is a process you have set into motion. You understand the principles
that govern the growth of plants and you know the soil is fertile, so you know that
you will see results in the fullness of time. You do not know exactly when or how
the flowers will bloom, and that's perfectly fine.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on July 27, 2015, 04:27:38 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

The cockroach theory for self development 

At a restaurant, a cockroach suddenly flew from somewhere and  sat on a lady.
She started screaming out of fear. With a panic stricken face and trembling voice,
she started jumping, with both her hands desperately trying to get rid of the
cockroach. Her reaction was contagious, as everyone in her group also got panicky.
The lady finally managed to push the cockroach away but ...it landed on another
lady in the group. Now, it was the turn of the other lady in the group to continue
the drama. The waiter rushed forward to their rescue. In the relay of throwing,
the cockroach next fell upon the waiter. The waiter stood firm, composed himself
and observed the behavior of the cockroach on his shirt. When he was confident
enough, he grabbed it with his fingers and threw it out of the restaurant.

Sipping my coffee and watching the amusement, the antenna of my mind picked up
a few thoughts and started wondering, was the cockroach  responsible for their
histrionic behavior?

If so, then why was the waiter not disturbed?
He handled it near to perfection, without any chaos.
It is not the cockroach, but the inability of those people to handle the disturbance
caused by the cockroach, that disturbed the ladies.

I realized that, it is not the shouting of my father or my boss or my wife
that disturbs me, but it's my inability to handle the disturbances caused by
their shouting that disturbs me.

It's not the traffic jams on the road that disturbs me, but my inability to handle
the disturbance caused by the traffic jam that disturbs me.

More than the problem, it's my reaction to the problem that creates chaos in my life.

Lessons learnt from the story:
I understood, I should not react in life. I should always respond.
The women reacted, whereas the waiter responded.
Reactions are always instinctive whereas responses are always well thought of.
A beautiful way to understand............LIFE.
Person who is HAPPY is not because Everything is RIGHT in his Life..
He is HAPPY because his Attitude towards Everything in his Life is Right..!!

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!

Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on September 19, 2015, 09:10:29 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

Who Am I? 

Keep asking yourself this question again and again – “Who am I?”
This itself paves the way for going deeper into meditation.
Just keep aside whatever you think of yourself or what you feel you are.
This question cannot be answered through words.
One who answers it through words does not truly know.
This question is very important.
So keep asking this question to yourself again and
again – be it a hundred or a thousand times, over and over.

Then ask yourself, “Why am I?”
I would say first you should know who you really are.
Then think over why you are, and also why you are not.
Think whether there is anyone for whom you are not (in existence).
You are not here to be troubled, you are not here to disturb others either.
You are not here to simply eat, drink and sleep from one day to another.
You are not here to gossip. So when you think deeply in this manner,
you will slowly begin to understand why you are here.
Start making a list of all the things you are not.
Go on negating one (identity or label) thing after another that you are not.
Then you will know why you are here, and that you are here to be useful
and be of help to others around you, and for yourself as well.
When a few people get comfort and relief because of you, then the happiness
and contentment that you get cannot be expressed in words at all.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on November 15, 2015, 04:45:21 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

BUDDHA WAS WALKING through a forest.
The woodcutters who were cutting wood nearby ran to him and said,
Stop, please stop! There is a terrible demon in the forest.
He is a cannibal who eats human flesh! After eating a person,
he cuts of the thumb and keeps it safe.

In this way, he has so far collected 999 thumbs.
He needs just one more to make it 1000.
His plan is, once the final thumb is collected,
to string them all up and wear them around his neck!
So please do not go into the forest.
If you go, it would be a big problem for you!

To that, Buddha replied, `I would get no better opportunity than this!’
and entered deep into the forest.

As expected, the demon felled a huge branch of a banyan tree
and appeared in front of Buddha in a cloud of dust.

But Buddha did not run away like others in fright.
He stood strong, firm and said, `if killing gives you pleasure,
you please do so! I accept the fact that you are really strong.

But one thing….Though you have the strength to break the branch
of a banyan tree, you can never attach it back to that tree.
It is very easy to destroy…but difficult to join!’

`You know the art of destroying; I know the art of joining!’
Buddha replied. More than his words, the truth and compassion
touched the demon deeply.

After that, he became the disciple of Buddha.
He was Anguli Mala.

The truth of the tale is very simple.
The demon was not a `problem’ for Buddha; instead it was
an opportunity to protect the villagers from further misery.
That is all!

Life is not something that happens according to a planned agenda.
It is a procession of unexpected opportunities!
In fact each problem is an opportunity for us.

For some, even small matters appear to be giant problems.
There are many who view even a small matter through a
magnifying glass and get terrified.

A woman approached a Monk and said, ` My son refuses to listen
anything that I say. If this continues, he may not even marry the girl
I choose for him!’

He asked the woman to bring her son next day and as asked the son
was brought. That little boy was refusing to eat… he was drawing pictures
when asked to write A…B…C.’ her question was, as he was not obeying her
in such trivial matters presently, how could she expect him to listen her
words when he grew up into adulthood?

The farsighted fear was her problem! There are also other types of people…
those who do not stop at viewing the problem with fear; but also magnify
it out of proportion. It is like a monkey which, when bruised, does not leave
the bruise alone. It continues to scratch till the bruise turns into a big wound;
some even die from such wounds.

It is true we may face problems at times, in our lives, unlike the aforesaid
examples. During such moments, there are two possible ways out for us.
One, catch the bull by the horn and directly confront a problem.
We may come over the problem or the problem could overcome us!

View the problem as it is. Don’t inflate it by your fear thoughts.
Do not consider the problem as a punishment.
You will definitely suffer.
Take it as a challenge.
You will be energized!.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!

Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on November 20, 2015, 01:16:49 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

12 THINGS TO LEAD A POSITIVE LIFE

01. BREATH IN THE FUTURE, BREATHE OUT THE PAST.

02. LIFE CAN BE SIMPLE AGAIN

03. LET OTHERS TAKE YOU AS YOU ARE, OR NOT AT ALL.

04. YOU ARE NOT WHO YOU USED TO BE, AND THAT'S OK.

05. EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENS HELPS YOU GROW, EVEN IF IT'S HARD TO SEE RIGHT NOW.

06. DO NOT EDUCATE YOURSELF TO BE RICH, EDUCATE YOURSELF TO BE HAPPY.

07. BE DETERMINED TO BE POSITIVE.

08. PAY CLOSE ATTENTION TO THOSE YOU CARE ABOUT.

09. SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO LET A PERSON GO SO THEY CAN GROW.

10. SOMETIMES GETTING THE RESULTS YOU CRAVE MEANS
      STRIPPING YOURSELF OF PEOPLE THAT DON'T SERVE YOUR BEST INTERESTS.

11. IT'S BETTER TO LOOK BACK ON LIFE AND SAY, "I CAN'T BELIEVE I DID THAT,"
      THAN TO LOOK BACK AND SAY, "I WISH I DID THAT."

12. IF YOU'RE LOOKING FOR A HAPPY ENDING AND CAN'T SEEM TO FINE ONE,
      MAYBE IT'S TIME TO START LOOKING FOR A NEW BEGINNING.

Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!

Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on January 16, 2016, 04:06:03 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

Too much pain changes you. It either breaks you down,
or it makes you much stronger than before.
So never give up before a fight.
Face the problems that come your way.
Never hide your pain from those who love you and care for you.
They are the only ones who can help you fight and never let your soul break.
Their love can help you see things clearly as to
what you want and what you’re fighting for.
Open your heart before them; scream and cry as much as you want.
Don’t hold your tears, let them flow and everything
will become clearer, and you can think about things you want.
You will be able to face a new day.
Never let the problems of yesterday keep you from moving forward.
Let them go through your eyes with tears.


Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!

Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on January 26, 2016, 07:35:57 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

Attitude differs....

When somebody tells me that he has failed in his exams,
my question is, "Is it a law that you will pass every time?"

When someone tells me that my boyfriend broke up with me,
my question is, "Is it a rule that you will have successful relationship everywhere?"

When somebody asks me why am I in depression,
my question is, "Is it compulsory to have confidence at all the time?"

When someone cries to me about his huge business loss
due to his wrong decision,
my question is, "Is it possible that you take all right decisions?"

The fact is our expectation that life has to be perfect/permanent
is the biggest reason of our unhappiness. One has to understand
the law of impermanence of nature.

After each sunny day, there has to be a dark night, after each
birth there have to be certain deaths, for full moon to come again
it has to pass through no moon. In this imperfection of nature,
there is perfection.

So stop taking your failures and bad part of your life soooo
personally or intensely, even God does not like to give you pain
but its the cycle through which you have to pass. Prepare yourself
for one more fight after each fall because even failures cannot
be permanent...!

"If you cannot find the brighter side of life then polish the darker side".
Adjustment of attitude is the only instrument to live a life.

Silently as I read ..sitting by myself I realized…
In life, we all have -
An unspeakable secret,
An irreversible regret,
An un-kept promise,
An unheard request,
An irreplaceable loss,
An unreachable dream,
An unforgettable person we love.

Still, life is about being happy anyhow…
Because, everything in life can be summed up in just three words…

“Life Goes On!”

Have faith and patience,
love truly laugh heartily and cry softly...
move with the ebb and flow of life,


Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
Title: Re: BE POSITIVE :)
Post by: ShAivI on March 10, 2016, 04:47:37 AM

OM SAI RAM!!!

Self Manage....

There is a huge hole in the heart of all our educations.
It is where the skills and abilities of self-management should be.

No one teaches us how to manage our thoughts, feelings, attitudes
and behaviour, so we find it hard to manage the four Rs – relationships,
roles, responsibilities and resources.

So let’s get started.

Consciously choose the quality of your thoughts today –
accentuate the positive,
eliminate the negative
and
clean up the waste.

Everything, which means everything in your life, begins with your thoughts.

A Free and Open Mind

A free mind is a mind that is open to everything and attached to nothing.

Most people spend much of their time looking for reasons
to be offended. An open mind is never offended because it is free of
any attachments.

It is never the self that is offended but always the illusion that the
self has of itself that is affected by insult!

If you can really understand this, deeply grasp it's truth, live it each day,
then pain will be no more.

Next time you 'feel' offended look closely within yourself at yourself
and ask yourself what was offended?

If you remain aware you will see that it was only an image of yourself
which you had become attached to, and that image did not resonate
with the image contained in the insult.

If you weren't attached, if you didn't identify with the wrong image
of yourself then there would be no offense taken. You would then
remain free and therefore happy.


Be Happy, Be positive and Be Strong!

HAVE FAITH, PATIENCE & PERSEVERANCE !!!

OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!