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Title: how to be happy?
Post by: sonikaputtoo on May 24, 2007, 04:29:19 AM
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Title: Re: how to be happy?
Post by: OmSaiRamNowOn on May 24, 2007, 08:21:34 AM
HAre Krsna !Jai Sai Ram.

Simplest remedy which works so far as I have seen is - Maintain cleanliness, don't judge anyone, give always and most imp of all - Chant HariNaam if possible in company of devotees - Sankirtan !!
Hare Krsna Hare Krsna Krsna Krsna Hare Hare, Hare Ram Hare Ram, Ram Ram Hare Hare…!! You will be in bliss.
Title: Re: how to be happy?
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on May 24, 2007, 09:30:39 AM
JAI SAI RAM!!!

"Happiness is not about what is currently happening in your outer life... True happiness comes for knowing that BABA SAI has already blessed you and when your faith is connected to those blessings you will soon see them manifested into your life."

OM SAI RAM!!!
Title: Re: how to be happy?
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on May 29, 2007, 04:17:46 AM
JAI SAI RAM!!!

Being a good friend to yourself is not selfish.  It's essential.  Take any situation and ask," What would I do for a friend in my shoes?"  Would you do the same for yourself?
 
When you compare how you treat yourself to how you treat your friends, it's easy to see how to be your own friend,  Your happiness is based on how good a friend you are to yourself.  Your confidence relies on it.
 
Not only are you happier when you can trust yourself to be your friend, but it becomes easier to be a good friend to others and recognize when others are good friends to you.

You will never be happier than you expect. To change your happiness, change your expectation.
Realize that true happiness lies within you. Waste no time and effort searching for peace and contentment and joy in the world outside. Remember that there is no happiness in having or in getting, but only in giving. Reach out. Share. Smile. Hug. Happiness is a perfume you cannot pour on others without getting a few drops on yourself.

OM SAI RAM!!!
Title: Re: how to be happy?
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on May 29, 2007, 08:47:23 AM
JAI SAI RAM!!!

Happiness Is... taking in all the wonders of life -- its joys, its sorrows, its sunshine, its smiles -- learning from the experiences each one brings you, and then, from a caring heart, giving them all away again.

OM SAI RAM!!!
Title: Re: how to be happy?
Post by: Dipika on May 29, 2007, 08:54:51 AM
kya baat hai Ramesh ji. :)...Dil ke dil se raha nikal hi lete ho...jaldee call karongee.

Thanks for this beautiful msg...Sai baba dekh rahein ho apnee leela... :) :D ;)



Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: how to be happy?
Post by: Dipika on May 29, 2007, 08:57:47 AM

JAI SAI RAM!!!

"Happiness is not about what is currently happening in your outer life... True happiness comes for knowing that BABA SAI has already blessed you and when your faith is connected to those blessings you will soon see them manifested into your life."


kYA BAAT HAI RAMESH JI AAJ BAHUT SAHI JA RAHE HO....DI SE TAR JOD LIYA HAI....THANKYOU.

Sai baba let your holy lotus feet be our sole refuge.OMSAIRAM
Title: Re: how to be happy?
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on June 01, 2007, 09:16:32 AM
JAI SAI RAM!!!


Don't expect anything from life.......



Expectations hurt......



When you don't expect.....




Every moment is a surprise.....



& surprise brings happiness with it....!!


OM SAI RAM!!!
Title: Re: how to be happy?
Post by: tana on June 01, 2007, 11:06:09 PM
Om Sai Ram....

A SIMPLEWAY FOR HAPPY LIVING........
FORGET TWO THINGS IN LIFE.....
1)THE GOOD YOU DO FOR OTHERS.
2)THE BAD DONE BY OTHERS TO YOU.


JAI SAI RAM.......
Title: Re: how to be happy?
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on June 01, 2007, 11:34:22 PM
जय सांई राम

मुक्ति की चाह  
 
एक ऋषि पहाड़ पर घोर तप में लीन थे। तपस्या करते हुए वे सूखकर कांटा हो गए थे। संयोग से एक दिन वहां नारद मुनि आ पहुंचे। ऋषि उन्हें देखकर बड़े प्रसन्न हुए। ऋषि ने उन्हें अपनी साधना के बारे में बताया और पूछा, 'आप तो हर जगह जाते रहते हैं। कभी वैकुंठ जाएं तो जरा देखिएगा, वहां की सूची में मेरा नाम है या नहीं।' नारद चले गए। कुछ दिनों बाद लौटकर आए तो उन्होंने ऋषि को बताया कि वैकुंठ की सूची में उनका नाम नहीं है। इस पर ऋषि क्रोधित हो गए। उन्होंने कहा, 'मैंने इतनी कठोर तपस्या की है फिर भी अभी तक मेरा नाम नहीं आया। जरूर वहां कोई गलती हुई है।' इस पर नारद ने कहा, 'ऋषिवर, मुझे तो लगता है कि कमी आप में ही है।' इससे ऋषि दुखी हो गए। उन्होंने फिर घोर तपस्या शुरू कर दी। वे अपने दुर्गुणों को दूर करने में भी लग गए। कुछदिनों बाद फिर नारद जी आए। एक बार पुन: ऋषि ने वही प्रश्न किया। इस पर नारद ने यही दोहराया कि उनका नाम अभी तक उस सूची में नहीं आया है। ऋषि के लिए यह बड़ा आघात था। अब वह अपने आप से पूरी तरह उदासीन हो गए। उन्होंने तय कर लिया कि अब उन्हें मुक्ति नहीं चाहिए। कुछ दिनों बाद नारद जी प्रकट हुए और बोले, 'मैं वैकुंठ जा रहा हूं। कोई काम हो तो बताइए।'

इस पर ऋषि ने जवाब दिया, 'अब वैकुंठ से क्या लेना-देना, वहां जाने की कोई चाह भी नहीं रही। अब मैं अपने आप से तटस्थ हो गया हूं। मुझे मुक्ति नहीं चाहिए। मेरा वैकुंठ यहीं मौजूद है।'

नारद ने कहा, 'अब आपकी साधना सफल हुई। वास्तव में मुक्ति की प्रबल इच्छा भी बंधन है। अब आप इससे भी ऊपर उठ गए। आपसे ज्यादा वैकुंठ जाने का अधिकारी और कौन होगा।' लौटकर नारद ने ऋषि को बताया कि उनका नाम वैकुंठ की सूची में सबसे ऊपर है। 

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: how to be happy?
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on June 02, 2007, 08:24:14 AM
JAI SAI RAM!!!

A very important point on the subject of happiness is whether or not you feel that you "deserve" to be happy.  Accept the notion that you deserve all the happiness you can honestly attain through the application of your talents and abilities. The more you like and respect yourself, the more deserving you will feel of the good things in life. And the more deserving you feel, the more likely you will attain and hold on to the happiness you are working toward.

Make Happiness Your Key Measure

You should make happiness the organizing principle of your life. Compare every possible action and decision you make against your standard of happiness to see whether that action would make you happier or unhappier. Soon, you will discover that almost all of the problems in your life come from choices that you have made - or are currently making - that do not contribute to your happiness.

OM SAI RAM!!!
Title: Re: how to be happy?
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on June 03, 2007, 12:45:46 AM
जय सांई राम

बहुत सी खुशियों में छिपी
अनदेखी, अनजानी सी खुशी जब
अचानक मिल जाती है
तब हर जगह हर पल
बस खुशी ही खुशी नज़र आती है...

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।
Title: Re: how to be happy?
Post by: tana on June 03, 2007, 01:14:47 AM
Om Sai Ram....

" Is the glass half full or half empty?
Neither; I just keep filling it up. Be happy. Think positive.
Life is a great experience for all to enjoy.
When the glass loses water, it's up to you to fill it up.
Put some flavor in there and enjoy the taste. It's FANTASTIC~~~

Jai Sai Ram...
Title: Re: how to be happy?
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on June 03, 2007, 05:50:55 AM
JAI SAI RAM!!!

To get the full value of joy you must have someone to divide it with.  Who else there to share with than OUR BABA SAI.  Isn't?

OM SAI RAM!!!
Title: Re: how to be happy?
Post by: tana on June 14, 2007, 01:34:31 AM
Om Sai Ram...

Remember the five simple rules to be HAPPY :)~~~ :)


1. Free your heart from hatred~~~ :)
2. Free your mind from worries~~~ :)
3 . Live simply~~~ :)
4.  Give more~~~ :)
5. Expect less~~~ :)

Jai Sai Ram...
Title: Re: how to be happy?
Post by: Ramesh Ramnani on June 18, 2007, 09:26:52 AM
जय सांई राम

परिक्ष्रम  स्वयं  में   ही   एक  पुरुस्कार  है।

अपना सांई प्यारा सांई सबसे न्यारा अपना सांई


ॐ सांई राम।।।