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Parenting Blunders
« on: May 15, 2016, 07:29:41 AM »
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  • We are not perfect
    At some pt. Of life we all do some silly mistakes that may infuse inappropriate thought in children, observing us.
    What happened is few weeks back  is i was with a family,
    The television was on so
    I tuned into aastha channel. It was narayan sewa sansthaan being aired at that time, then the girl there , (aged 8 ) asked me 'ye baba dhongi hai'
    I was shocked and got offended because her mother says she's a devotee(disciple of a living sikh guru) and i wondered these kind of things are being taught to these little children, well! it was needed to scold her so that she don't rebuke any saint in further life,  So i told her about him a little strictly.

    Parents apne bachho k aage logo ki chugli karte hai
    Aur haan kitne bhi bde bhkt bano , parenting mai adarsh maine aajtak koi nahi dekha vaha bhakti aur shastra kahaan chale jaate hai.
    Bade bade gyaan ki baate karne vaale parenting mai apni aasakti aur मूढ़ता k kaaran apne bachho ki life se khelte hai .
    KISI Ne kaha agar mere bachhe ko bhakti di to ye ghar chhod kar babaji ban jaayega sanyaas le lega  ...hadd hai tumhaari baato m hi iska uttar hai
    Phli baat itna vairaagya bhut kripa se milta hai to tumhaare jaise bevkoof logo ki aulaade itna vairaagya kahaa se paayegi
    Aur
    Doosri baat
    Bhkti karne se bhagwaan sambhaalta hai vo aapka ghar chalaayega, kya ग्रहस्थ m sant nahi hue???
    गृहस्थी तो bhakti se aur bhi khoobsoorati se chalti hai ...
    w/o wasting any more time let's have a look at the parenting blunders that aastik people too , commit


    1.beta sojaa nahi to baba ji lejaayega

    Baba ji ko ye hi kaam ye tera bachha lekar jaayega
    Haan jaroor....
    Aise faaltu baate apne maasoom bachho ko bhoolkar bhi na bole
    Im lucky mere parents ne aise kbhi nhi daraya .....

    2. Beta mandir se door raho tum gadbad
    kardoge
    Prembhushan ji maharaj says aise ghar k pooja ghar se bachho ko door na bhaagaaye
    Mera manna hai ki bachhe agar koi पापात्मा नही हैं तो उन्हें सहज ही भगवद आकर्षण रहता हैं
    Yes its my personal experience bachho ko aarti karne ghanti bajaane baba ko sajaane aur baba ko jhoola jhulaane m bada achaa lagta hai isiliy jab bachhe milte hai mera ye hi unse karvaana kaam rhta hai
    Unhe apne phone mai photos dikhaakar sbkaa naam poochta hu tab vo sabka jaldi jaldi naam bataate hai aise kar kar ke kamse kam tin chaar maalaa poori ho jaati hai naam jaap ki bachho ki.paapiyo k ghar k bachhe bhi badi utsukta se naam bataate hai bhagwaan ki pictures dekhkar parantu keval ram krishna mata hi btaa paate hain.
    Duttatrey vitthal srinivaas kartikey vgrh nahi btaa paate to unhe btaaye aur sb yaad karvaade....
    Kids love it....


    3. Apki buddhi to gaane sun sunkar bhrasht bhale hi ho chuki ko kaam se parantu bachhe bht nirmal hote hain.
    Mene ek bachhe ko bola
    Tu hai aasmaan mai
    Teri ye zamin hai
    Tu jo hai to sab kuch hai
    Na koi kami hai.
    Tab mene bachhe se poocha
    Ki aasmaan m kaun hai?
    Bachha bta nahi paya
    Fir mene us ek ek line ka answe sai bol use samjhaaya to vo asaani se samajh gya aur fir mene pucha
    Tumhaare dil mai kaun hai???
    Usne bola sai baba aur shiv ji...

    I was happy with the answer...

    4. Ghar to maine aise bhi dekhe jahaa chhotebachhe ko tease karne k liy bolte h ki teri girlfriend nahi aayi aaj etc.
    Aise faaltu mazaako se kisi ka bhalaa nahi honaa hai ....
    Mazaak karo to uska level achha ho...


    5. गलत संगत से बच्चो को बचाए
    You never know what your children talk about with their friends, bad company can make your children pervert.
    Jo aapke saamne bhut sweet bante hai vo  bhi akele m lejaa kar bachho ko ulti sidhi baate sikhaate hai Don't think that you have that sixth sense to know those things...
    And iske chakkar mai apne bachhe ko khelne bhi na jaane de to ye bhi bht galat hoga.
    Aap apne bachhe k maalik nahi hai.ap khud apne malik nahi hai ,bhai.
    Apne bachho ka apni ichhaye thopne k chakkar mai jivan na kharab kare
    Unhe prem discipline se rkhe aur sai ki sewa karvaaye taaki unka mann sai m lage...
    Jaha tak dosto ki baat hai to apne bachho ko sanskaar aise de ki use koi galat raste par na le jaa ske...संस्कार देने के लिय खुद में भी तो संस्कार होने चाहिए।
    संस्कार को समझने के लिय कथा सुने।bachho ko filmo ki kahaani nahi shastro ki kahaaniya sunaaye
    Prehlaad ki to kahaani sb sunaa dete hai par uska asli मर्म रहस्य जो की हैं निष्काम भक्ति और ईश्वर की सर्वव्यापकता होते हुए भी भक्ति भाव से प्रकट होना, वह logo ko ptaa nahi hoti...
    Vahi to us प्रसंग का असली सौदर्य हैं।
    One more thing
    Sansaari logo se parenting ki advice naa le vo khud nark jaate hai aur unki aulaade bhi
    Jo bhakti gyaan nahi paata veh doosro k jivan m kya sudhaar karega jiski khud ki gati narak hai...
    Isiliy counselor bhi vahi achhe hai jo bhakt ho.


    6. Humara bachha bada bhola hai jhuth bhi nahi bol paata

    Haan ek family aayi apne bachhe ko lekar Child psychologist k paas ki hmaari bachhi jhoot hi nahi bol paati
    Mai kehti hu ki bolde apni dost ki mummy ko ki ghar par nahi to bolti h ki mummy keh rhi h ki mummy ghar par nahi....
    Ab bhai is par kya टिप्पणी ki jaaye...


    7. Aajkal bachho ko bachpan se pepsi cola biscuits chips khilaakar bada karte to usme 5 kilo वजन uthaana baski hota nahi fir rote ho ki roti nahi khataa...
    Ek family m lady badi pareshaan ki uske bachhe roti nhi khaate aur ye rona rote hue apne chhote ek saal k bachhe ko fanta bhi pila rahi...
    Sach ,mera koi bhi दृष्टांत काल्पनिक नहीं हैं , sache hai.
    Aisi bhi families hai jaha bachho ko bachpan se hi in chizo se door rkhkar healthy chize khilaayi jaati hai par bhakti se koso door...
    Isiliy vivek to har situation m logo ki jarurat hai...
    Sirf sharir ka nutrition पोषण hi nhi blki bhagwad bhaav bhi ho


    8.Your kid needs care but aap uske saath kya har vakt rh skte hain???? Use btaaye ki sai baba hmesha uske sath hai ....sab baba k haath mai hai ki apke bachhe ko unki anmol bhakti mile yaa nahi parantu unke alaawa aur kisi ka sahaara nahi hai...
    Unki ichha ho to tisri manzil se girkar bhi aadmi ko chot na lage aur kismat m ho to sar par jara chot se bhi aadmi mar jaaye...
    Jo apne ko kuch raksha karne layak maanta hai veh भ्रम में हैं।



    Jai sai raam
    Baaki fir kabhi
    Koi baat buri lgi ho to apne hisaab se uska अर्थ लगा लेना क्यू की ये ही तो आजतक दुनिया ने किया हैं, शास्त्र सम्मत बातो का भी अनर्थ...
    जिस कर्म से भगवद प्रेम और भक्ति बढ़े वही सार्थक उद्योग हैं।
    ॐ साईं राम

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