Love but don’t try to possess
To possess - To Hold, To Acquire, To Have
I know, and fully agree that if you love someone, you have strong feeling to marry that person, but sometimes destiny might be something else…
To love someone is one thing. To get marry is different thing, because there is something “destiny” – our past life’s karma and relationship ("Runanubandha", we cannot know who is connected with what. ONLY BABA knows it) comes in the pictures. So surrender to him. HE will give you your true life partner. If the person you love now is him/her be rest assured BABA will do the needful. No matter what the circumstances. Dont loose faith in BABA. He knows who is your true life partner and BABA will give him/her to you. If this girl/boy is your life partner BABA will definitely give him/her to you.
It can happen that one can’t marry to the person to whom he/she loves. Don’t think/believe, it as failure – Bad Luck – doubt in your love. I would say it is
DESTINY. The most important thing is…… we see that person happy – not in pain in his/her life all time. Person must stay happy, wherever he/she is… our prayers will be with him/her all times.
One more thing is…our vision is really too limited vision, when baba knows all Head and tail of the each and every soul (Which will only remain after death – so it has concern with our past – present – future life). Because of our limited vision we feel that things are going wrong OR worst, but same time please remember
“Geeta Sar”.
It is not only positive thinking attitude, but naked fact-truth which sometimes very very difficult for us (human) to digest.
• Why do you worry without cause? Whom do you fear without reason? Who can kill you? The soul is neither born, nor does it die.
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whatever happened, happened for the good; whatever is happening, is happening for the good; whatever will happen, will also happen for the good only. You need not have any regrets for the past. You need not worry for the future. The present is happening... • What did you lose that you cry about? What did you bring with you, which you think you have lost? What did you produce, which you think got destroyed? You did not bring anything - whatever you have, you received from here. Whatever you have given, you have given only here. Whatever you took, you took from God. Whatever you gave, you gave to him. You came empty handed, you will leave empty handed. What is yours today, belonged to someone else yesterday, and will belong to someone else the day after tomorrow. You are mistakenly enjoying the thought that this is yours. It is this false happiness that is the cause of your sorrows.
• Change is the law of the universe. What you think of as death, is indeed life. In one instance you can be a millionaire, and in the other instance you can be steeped in poverty. Yours and mine, big and small - erase these ideas from your mind. Then everything is yours and you belong to everyone.
• This body is not yours, neither are you of the body. The body is made of fire, water, air, earth and ether, and will disappear into these elements. But the soul is permanent - so who are you?
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Dedicate your being to God. He is the one to be ultimately relied upon. Those who know of his support are forever free from fear, worry and sorrow. • Whatever you do, do it as a dedication to God. This will bring you the tremendous experience of joy and life-freedom forever.
Quotes from Swami Vivekananda about LOVE:• True love can never react so as to cause pain either to the lover or to the beloved. Suppose a man loves a woman; he wishes to have her all to himself and feels extremely jealous about her every movement; he wants her to sit near him, to stand near him, and to eat and move at his bidding. He is a slave to her and wishes to have her as his slave. That is not love; it is a kind of morbid affection of the slave, insinuating itself as love. It cannot be love, because it is painful; if she does not do what he wants, it brings him pain. With love there is no painful reaction. Love only brings a reaction of bliss. If it does not, it is not love. It is mistaking something else for love.When you have succeeded in loving your husband, your wife, your children, the whole world, the universe, in such a manner that there is no painful reaction of pain or jealousy, no selfish feeling, then you are in a fit state to be unattached.
• The word "love" is very difficult to understand. Love never comes until there is freedom. There is no true love possible in the slave. If you buy a slave and tie him down in chains and make him work for you, he will work like a drudge, but there will be no love in him. So when we ourselves work for the things of the world as slaves, there can be no love in us, and our work is not true work. ... Selfish work is slave's work.
Sunate hai ki mil jati hai har cheez dua se...
Ek roz tumhe bhi mang ke Dekhenge khuda(SAI) se....
Duniya bhi mili hai, Gam-e-duniya bhi mila hai...
ek woh hi nahi milata, jinhe manga hai SAI se....
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dil naa ummiid to nahii, naakaam hii to hai
lambii hai gam kii shaam, magar shaam hii to hai
ye safar bahut hai kathin magar
na udaas ho mere hamasafar......
ye sitam kii raat hai Dhalane ko
hai andheraa gam kaa pighalane ko
zaraa der is me lage agar, na udaas .....
nahii rahanevaalii ye mushkile
ye hai agale mod pe manzile
merii baat kaa tuu yakiin kar, na udaas ...
kabhii Dhundh legaa ye kaaravaan
vo nayee zamiin nayaa aasamaan
jise Dhundhtii hai terii najar, na udaas ...
This is my point of view – my thinking. I don’t know you agree or not on this. Please
SORRY if it hurts you or anyone else.
I wish and pray that baba bless you with your loved one.
Jaisairam
Take care.
Best Regards,
Vikram
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